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METALivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen08/12/22 04:59 PM
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LivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen25/03/22 05:26 PM
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THEORYLivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 09:07 PM
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THEORYLivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen11/09/21 10:00 PM
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THEORYLivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen14/09/23 04:50 AM
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THEORYLivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 06:56 PM
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THEORYLivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen21/09/21 08:19 PM
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LivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 10:58 PM
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THEORYLivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen17/09/21 07:11 PM
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THEORYLivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen26/09/21 08:11 PM
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THEORYLivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen13/09/21 09:38 PM
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LIFESTYLELivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen10/12/21 10:21 PM
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FIELD REPORTLivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen24/09/21 01:21 AM
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DISCUSSIONLivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen01/12/21 08:27 PM
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LivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen31/12/21 07:53 PM
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THEORYLivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen14/09/21 10:18 PM
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LivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen13/01/22 08:52 PM
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THEORYLivelyLychee/r/RedPillWomen08/09/22 09:07 PM
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Hi RPW: Please remember that “leave him” is never the first option, especially for LTRs of multiple years. There are nuanced comments that have taken to explain why OP’s situation is not healthy or sustainable, and there are others that have highlighted OP’s boyfriend’s faults but also taken time to suggest actionable advice for her to move forward. These have been left up, but any low-effort comments that just suggest OP lose her long-term partner and her current place of residence just because…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 01:16 AM
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Personal preference is not actionable advice. Please see the moderator note. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/24 01:01 AM
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Thank you, he has been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/24 09:52 PM
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Done! Congrats u/Amillibee, keep up the good work! 💫
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/24 08:21 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. If you cannot act like an adult and behave, your comments and posts will be removed from the sub. We are not here to babysit you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/24 12:15 AM
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Hi OP, addiction is an incredibly difficult issue that is beyond the scope of RPW because is very difficult to resolve via advice from online strangers who cannot maintain a physical or continued presence in your lives. Please seek help with in-person professionals. I’d be happy to help you find resources privately if you’d like. Post is locked.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/23 09:29 PM
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This man has been shown the door since he clearly does not know how to manage his resentment for women and has no real experience with successful relationships. Please do not give much thought to what he said.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 09:41 PM
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Advice must actually benefit women. Telling OP she should avoid marriage because she had a gasp dead average number of sexual partners is not actionable RP advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 09:39 PM
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Rule 10: no moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 06:49 AM
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I can see this current post so you aren’t shadow-banned by reddit or anything. Can you try again, and if it doesn’t work, try from a different desktop?
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 05:17 PM
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Advice must benefit the woman. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 05:10 PM
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The rudeness is warranted: all attempts to politely but truthfully tell OP how her behavior is problematic and unproductive have been met with snark and pettiness. Just because one extreme of a problem is exists (post-partum sexlessness) does not mean that the reverse (sexual entitlement and manipulation) is justified or okay,
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 08:04 AM
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Alright. Since it seems like you cannot stop being defensive from truthful advice that YOU asked for, there’s no point in keeping this post or you around here. Take a break.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 07:55 AM
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You are ignoring the point from an EC, who understands the male perspective, that just because you wanted sex as your form of physical intimacy doesn’t entitle you to get it. You do not own his body, and his “lack of testosterone” as you insist the problem is seems like much less of an issue than your entitlement and lack of boundaries. He is not being rude, you just do not want to listen.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 07:50 AM
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OP, you are clearly not willing to listen to people’s advice and seem like you are only here for validation and what you want to hear. Clearly, that isn’t working very well for you since you are so dissatisfied with your sex life. Unless you stop snarking against people’s valid points, your post will be removed. Edit: OP refuses to cut the snark and is clearly here to waste everyone’s time because she refuses to address any potential mistakes, faults, or weaknesses on her end. Post is locked.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 08:11 PM
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OP, you must participate on your post or it will be locked. There are relevant questions people are asking, and it will help guide the advice you get.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 05:29 AM
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OP messaged the mods directly and sent us her real account, which has been active for over 3 years on reddit. She created a throwaway for anonymity purposes.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 07:19 PM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 07:11 PM
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OP, please edit your post and add line breaks. It is difficult to read a wall of text and you will receive less responses.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/23 03:46 AM
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RPW is not your personal dating app or matchmaking service, and the only men who are qualified to participate are older, married, and TRP experts. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/23 07:26 PM
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Rule 4: advice must come from a red pilled perspective. RP has always acknowledged the importance of attractiveness men place on their women. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 09:26 PM
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Thank you OP!
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 09:23 PM
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OP, please edit your post to add line breaks. It is incredibly difficult to read a wall of text and you will receive less responses.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 09:15 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 06:20 PM
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Advice must be from a red-pilled perspective. This bitterness has no place on RPW. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 08:17 PM
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Your personal preference is not actionable advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/23 04:31 PM
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Do not insult OP’s husband. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 04:10 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 10:10 PM
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Removed. See pinned moderator note.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 10:10 PM
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Removed. See pinned moderator note.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 10:09 PM
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Removed. See pinned moderator note.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 07:05 PM
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Removed. See pinned moderator note.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 07:05 PM
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Hi RPW: I am honestly a bit appalled by the amount of women telling OP that she should be expecting what is essentially payment for the price of her virginity. Not only is that an obvious covert contract, but it’s also transactionalizing what is meant to be an emotional point of connection in a relationship. These expectations reek of entitlement, and is no different than the wives who weaponize sex to get what they want from their husbands. I am not sure when RPW became so fixated on finding “p…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 06:03 PM
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I agree. u/fearless_room_1970, I appreciate the transparency! I would recommend you add this to the body of your post as I think it helps to paint a more in-depth picture.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 01:57 AM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 12:14 AM
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I didnt realise RPW was only for virgin saints It definitely isn’t, and the comment has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 07:28 PM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. Men are allowed to participate if they are older and married, and if they have RP insights that result in beneficial advice for OP, which he does. “Degeneracy” is irrelevant here, because Tradcon is RPW, but RPW is not Tradcon. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 07:28 PM
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Do not insult OP’s SO. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 02:57 AM
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We have a guide on how to navigate the first time you choose to sleep with a new partner in our sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 12:27 AM
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This is quite the jump to conclusions. Advice must be red pilled and beneficial to OP, which this is glaringly not. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/23 06:32 AM
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I definitely preferred a faster message-to-meeting timeframe than what Phantom suggested while I was still single and online dating. Like you said, I found it best to screen for in-person chemistry immediately, because I became invested in a few “penpals” that I had matched early on in my dating days, only to discover that we were absolutely awkward around each other in person after weeks, if not a month, of chit-chatting daily. To meet in person fast but with a regard for safety, I only agreed …
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/23 07:50 AM
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Ccing u/chamomilemist! Would love to hear your thoughts on this!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/23 08:56 PM
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You are jumping to a lot of unnecessary conclusions about her husband and their sex life based off of ONE comment. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 05:34 AM
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Do not encourage the community to post pictures of themselves and risk doxxing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 05:32 AM
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Yawn. If you won’t bother to read the rules of the sub, no one else needs to read your spiels. Goodbye.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 06:24 PM
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Rule 10: no moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 06:21 PM
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breaking a rule, I know Then why do it? Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 05:56 AM
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Advice must come from an RP perspective. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 06:49 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 06:12 AM
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Agreed. She will be shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 07:43 PM
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Ok. You’re done. We don’t condone racism here and you seem like an abhorrent person. Goodbye.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 07:41 PM
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We think you’re a troll because just two hours ago you posted about how RP men are insecure. Not too much of a stretch that you came here to make a satirical post to mock. Even if you aren’t a troll, what exactly do you want us to help you with? All you did is list a bunch of things you are doing. You are going to have to be more specific.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 07:17 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. I don’t see anyone crossing the line here but you. Take a break.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 11:21 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. OP is not a “parasite” for entering into a mutually consensual relationship with a man who agreed to the terms from the get-go. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 03:58 AM
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Advice must actually benefit the woman, and suggesting that she should just engage in casual sex to win him back clearly does not. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 06:19 PM
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Rule 9: Men must be older, married, and TRP experts to participate here. As a self-proclaimed “virgin teenaged 18 year old boy”, you are in no place to be giving advice to the women here. Your responses have not really provided any actionable advice or insights for OP, and just seems like an excuse to dig at men who are more sexually active than you. Removed. Please stick to r/theredpill.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 03:41 PM
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Rule 10: no moralizing. It is not actionable advice to just call people degenerates and offer no advice on how to navigate that. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 12:18 AM
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Rule 0: Stay on topic. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 07:24 PM
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Rule 4: Advice must come from a red-pilled perspective AND must benefit the woman. Encouraging her to date someone significantly below her league does not make for a healthy long-term relationship. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/23 09:34 PM
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I personally don’t believe they were a troll. They’ve been participating in the community for months, and was a reasonable and active participant in other threads. I think this was a real person who has some things to work through, and Oleander’s critiques were valid, but after modding for over a year, they don’t give off the same red flags that we usually get for trolls.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 06:12 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/147qew8/how_to_stop_being_perceived_as_hook_up_material/jo1kil5/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 11:11 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/147qew8/how_to_stop_being_perceived_as_hook_up_material/jo1kil5/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 11:06 PM
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OP, I’m locking your post. You are claiming you are a virgin, but your very recently deleted post (which our automod has logs of here shows that you are not only not a virgin but you also were the mistress to your much older married teacher. If you are going to falsify and withhold information, you are not going to receive effective advice and you are also wasting everybody’s time.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 11:02 PM
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The women here are allowed to have whatever goals they want - if you do not intend to help them, and instead just want a punching bag because you do not qualify for the women you want, then your feedback is not necessary here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 07:29 PM
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Personal preferences are not advice. Plenty of RPW have proper LTRs and marriages with engineers. Your attitude is not very productive. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 06:36 PM
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Rule 2: Advice must actually benefit the woman, especially when coming from a man. You are on a bright pink sub for women - telling her to just “do a Frozen, and let it go” does not solve this very real issue. The snark is unnecessary and makes you seem particularly defensive for this topic. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/23 09:24 PM
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Don’t worry, he has been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 08:00 PM
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A man who goes on an emotional rant on a bright pink forum for women is not a man who is qualified to participate here. Goodbye.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 08:00 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 07:57 PM
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OP, please edit your post and add line breaks. It is very difficult to read a wall of text and you will get less feedback because less people will get through all of it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 07:30 AM
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Your comment has some good insights, but for the love of god, please don’t apologize on behalf of all men. It’s cringy and takes away from the things you are saying that are worth listening to. It’s also toeing the line between violating rule 9, which I recommend you brush up on.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 06:31 PM
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I got my partner’s mom some silk scarves before and she loved them! Although I had an idea of her style and that’s definitely something up her alley.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 09:16 PM
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We show them the door for trying to spit “mad red pill truths” at the women having tea time!
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/23 10:31 AM
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There are a good handful or two of men here who are not only not banned but endorsed by the community as contributors to heed and listen to. We have a high standard for the men who are allowed to participate here, and most men fail to meet that, whether by lack of experience/wisdom or by failure of truly being able to grasp RP theory AND being able to communicate it to women in a way that’s palatable to them. You know, because this is a bright pink sub made for women, after all. These rules and …
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/23 11:48 PM
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Please refrain from announcing that you are a man as it violates Rule 9.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/23 07:07 PM
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Congrats, keep up the good work u/dehydrated_jellyfish! ✨
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/23 11:34 PM
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This level of abuse is VERY much beyond what we can do for you here at RPW. This is beyond the scope of RPW because we are not professionals and we also cannot provide you with the physical presence/intervention and ongoing involvement that you need. Please seek the help of a professional. I’m locking this post, but if you need any resources, please feel free to reach out via modmail and we can help you with that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/23 06:53 PM
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What physical abuse happened and is it ongoing? Any issues with abuse means that this scenario is beyond the scope of RPW and that you need to seek help with a professional, not internet strangers.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/23 06:39 PM
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Hi RPW: Just a reminder that here at RPW, we must first give actionable advice to save a marriage. Any lazy one-liners like “run” are unproductive. So is simply offering validation instead of actionable advice. Edit: OP has revealed that there has been violence and physical abuse in her relationship. This problem is very much beyond the scope of RPW. I’m locking the post but will provide resources to OP privately if she needs them.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/23 06:35 PM
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Your submission was removed due to Rule 7: Links or videos require a brief summary of the content in the BODY of the post. Tie it into RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/23 04:54 PM
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Do not insult the community. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/23 07:37 PM
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OP, please edit your post. You need to break your post into paragraphs. This wall of text is incomprehensible. You also need to participate on your post. It’s unfair to ask the community for their help and not respond to their questions. Post will be removed otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/23 07:04 PM
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+1 star! Thank you for taking the time and effort to thoroughly address OP’s issue and what she can recognize and address on her end instead of completely focusing on why her SO should change (something OP has no control over). Lots of valuable RPW theory in here, folks!
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/23 05:07 PM
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Thank you so much! u/ArdentBandicoot really did great cleaning up most of this thread!!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 04:17 PM
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if a woman is valuable enough a man will play her games of with holding sex. I think she should have higher standards before sex for the future. So you’re telling her to play games… got it. I don’t think you’ve really thought this through. How exactly will that change said men from having the same reaction as her current partner did once they find out her n-count is over 20? A reminder: all advice must be actionable, and all men who wish to advise women here must be older, married, and TRP exper…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 04:12 PM
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Advice must come from a red-pilled perspective. Telling a woman to waste her prime years and wait until her 30s to date is certainly not RP advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 11:47 AM
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No crossposting. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 04:33 PM
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Advice must be from an RPW perspective, and this most certainly is not. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/23 04:00 PM
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Done! Congrats u/diaryofalostgirl! Keep up the good work ✨
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 06:56 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed, and men must be older, married, and TRP experts to participate. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 06:15 PM
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No snarking. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/23 07:32 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Men’s questions are not allowed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/23 02:47 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 08:40 PM
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Hi RPW, Although I understand where everyone is coming from, and it is perfectly reasonable to acknowledge that OP’s boyfriend has problematic behavior, a lot of the advice here isn’t actionable at all for OP. A reminder from the guidelines for giving RPW advice: Validation is not advice: If your first impulse is to say "oh you poor dear, he's a bad bad man" -- stop. Take a breath and maybe take a step back from the post. Anyone on RPW should understand that men and women want to care for and co…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 06:54 PM
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“Leave him” is never the first option. It is VERY easy for you, an internet stranger who will see no consequence of your words, to tell OP to leave her soon-to-be fiancé that she’s been with for 3 YEARS. Will you be there to pick up the pieces for OP when she is single at 31 with unresolved baggage? Comment is removed. Please familiarize yourself with the sidebar and rules.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 09:01 PM
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A reminder: all advice must be actionable. It’s all well and good to say what her spouse should be doing, but how exactly does that help OP improve her relationship? What solutions do you have besides telling her how her husband, let alone ALL of society, should behave like? See the guidelines for giving advice for RPW: In addition to avoiding validation, avoid telling OPs what their SOs should be doing, without giving the OP actionable advice on how exactly to make that happen. He isn’t the one…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 08:51 PM
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Your submission was removed due to Rule 7: Links or videos require a brief summary of the content in the BODY of the post. Tie it into RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 03:46 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Men’s rants are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/23 06:21 PM
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Rule 9: your personal preference, esp. as a man, is not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 12:43 AM
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Rule 10: no moralizing, and do not insult the community. See this thread from u/ardentbandicoot for guidance.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 12:39 AM
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Rule 10: no moralizing. Removed. See this thread for guidance from u/ardentbandicoot.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 12:38 AM
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I’m leaving this up because you provide some amoral advice from the perspective of why it doesn’t work, but this is toeing the line of Rule 10 - no moralizing. Telling OP that it’s “appalling” or asking her about how guilty she will feel is a bit loaded. Please see this thread with guidance from our mod u/ArdentBandicoot.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 12:36 AM
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This is just not true. Where are you getting your information that a woman in her early twenties is not attractive to most men?
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 12:19 AM
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I like both of your comments. We encourage truth even if it is tough to hear, and compassion for the people who find themselves here. You managed to do both. Have a star!
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 11:58 PM
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I cannot understand why women on this sub are so fixated on it. I’m going to give you the benefit of the doubt and ignore any potential condescension from that, but the fact of the matter is that there are A LOT of men who do care about N-count, many of whom are normal men and not insecure incels. There certainly are men who don’t care too, but to pretend that only weirdos care is a disservice to the single women here who need to understand their dating pool. There is a lot of RPW theory in the …
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 11:50 PM
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Rule 10: no moralizing. Men are allowed to want partners with less experience. It does not make them insecure or incels. Removed. Please familiarize yourself with our sidebar. A lot of what you are saying doesn’t follow a red-pilled perspective, and if that doesn’t align with your beliefs, this may not be the best community for you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 11:38 PM
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No crossposting. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 05:04 PM
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Rule 9: Men’s questions are not allowed. Please use askTRP.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/23 07:33 AM
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Rule 9: Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 10:37 AM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. Men’s questions are not allowed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 07:02 PM
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RPW is not your personal dating app. Goodbye.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 07:05 PM
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Your submission was removed due to Rule 7: Links or videos require a brief summary of the content in the BODY of the post. Tie it into RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 11:32 AM
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Your experience is anecdotal, and you are again ignoring the part that ALL ELSE HELD EQUAL, men would prefer the childless women. If those single moms have improved themselves to bring something to the table that makes themselves worthwhile partners, great. But to ignore the fact that being a single mom has very real obstacles because “trust me bro I’ve seen it” is irresponsible advice. A reminder: a warning from a mod is not an invitation to argue and debate. Temp/permanent bans will be issued …
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 08:53 PM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 08:23 PM
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Rule 10: no moralizing. OP should be doing whatever it takes to better her life, no matter her past circumstances. The snark is unnecessary. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 08:20 PM
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Advice must come from a red-pilled perspective. Any single mother’s dating pool is absolutely lower and smaller than a childfree woman’s, all other factors held equal. You are doing a disservice to OP by telling her otherwise. You seem defensive about this. Please take a break and read the sidebar. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 08:18 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 08:07 PM
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No link dropping. Especially if you can’t even check that the link is even THERE. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 08:06 PM
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No need to apologize, but I appreciate your understanding! Thanks for compromising :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 05:25 PM
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Cc u/princess_mothra The post has been removed. Please be patient as we are all located in different parts of the world and are not always online. We have a newer mod team, and the post does fall into a gray area that kind of skirts along the line between applicable advice for everyone (i.e. be slim and fit for the best results) and personal preference (my bf loves my flat tummy therefore all men do as well). I am aware there are other preferences out there, but generally speaking, the average m…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 05:08 PM
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OP, personal preferences are not advice. We generally are quite aware that it’s in women’s best interest to be slim and fit here, but your experience with ONE man you just started dating isn’t enough to be advice for everyone. This would have been okay as a field report about your experience but it is unnecessary otherwise. Post is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/23 04:48 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with it on its own and tradcon women are certainly welcome here. The problem arises when moralizing happens. A lot of the time, tradcons are the ones to say that you should do something because it’s the right thing to do, or that _____ is wrong/evil/bad simply because it goes against tradition/religion. The problem is that this type of “advice” does not offer any actual incentive and instead relies on shame, which isn’t a productive or sustainable motivator. “Should” just m…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 10:39 PM
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Rule 9: Do not pet the unicorns. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 07:42 PM
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Rule 10: men’s questions are not allowed. You can try asktrp.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 06:49 PM
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“Should” just means “I want”. It’s all fine and well that you want a man who tends to his woman’s needs because it’s second nature to him, but how exactly are you going to make this happen for OP? What actionable advice do you have? A reminder: it is less productive to fixate on how to change OP’s partner (because we are not him nor are we talking to him) than to focus on what WE can do, because at the end of the day, that is the only person we have full control over.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 01:46 AM
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This isn’t a dating app or match-making service. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/23 07:18 AM
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Hi there! That sounds like a great idea! I can add those two into the wiki as soon as I hop on my computer and not mobile! We are definitely planning on revamping the wiki soon, and would greatly appreciate your help and input :) We will probably reach out to you in the near future to collaborate! Thank you so much for your help and your contributions 💓
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 01:30 AM
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Great field report! It’s the little things like this that are the building blocks of a healthy and satisfying relationship. +1 star! Keep up the good work 💫
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/23 02:52 AM
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Cut the snark. OP was sharing about her current situation and does not need warnings for something that doesn’t even apply to her. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/23 02:08 AM
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Your submission was removed due to Rule 7: Links or videos require a brief summary of the content in the BODY of the post. Tie it into RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/23 05:22 PM
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I’ve veen around here for quite a while. I’m aware, which is why you were just hit with a warning instead of being outright banned for this. A reminder to our standards of conduct: When a moderator gives you instructions, that is not an invitation to argue the matter. If you just stated this: men will pursue women they desire and you’ll have no question Your comment would have been fine. It was when you started implying that as a man, you would drive thousands of miles and leave your friends and…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 05:43 PM
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Your personal preferences, especially as a man, are not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 05:28 PM
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Your personal preference is not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/23 05:09 PM
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Knock it off. The snark is unhelpful and unnecessary. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 08:00 PM
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Leave him is never the first option. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 07:57 PM
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Your submission was removed due to Rule 7: Links or videos require a brief summary of the content in the BODY of the post. Tie it into RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 05:08 PM
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Rule 0: Stay on topic. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/23 12:55 AM
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No moralizing and no feminism. OP was sharing his experience which relates to a larger sentiment that many men feel, answering OP’s question. There’s no need for the snark. Comment is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/23 05:06 PM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. There is no 1 perfect RPW way of being “feminine” and unless you have more to offer than a one-liner, this isn’t actual advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/23 07:07 PM
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Mod here. You were indeed petting the unicorns, and Rule 9 states that the men who participate here must be older, married/in an LTR, and TRP experts to contribute. Since you are none of these things, your feedback isn’t necessary. Please stick to r/theredpill.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 08:15 PM
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Rule 0: stay on topic. This isn’t r/PurplePillDebate and this is a low effort post. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 07:28 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed, and neither are asking questions on someone else’s behalf. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 07:27 PM
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This was removed due to rule 9: If you are a man and you are here. We are not here to help you find a girlfriend. Please stick to r/theredpill
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/23 07:21 PM
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OP: if you aren’t willing to listen to the advice or opinions you asked for without arguing or pushing back, the post will be removed. We are not here to give you validation and make you feel good. However, as of now u/ArdentBandicoot and I have decided to leave the post up because the community feedback is productive, and provides useful criticism that OP and women like her could benefit from. In the future, please feel free to use the report button if you think something needs moderation.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 04:15 AM
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Please report any posts you find questionable to the mods, and we will use our own discretion. We do our best but we also have our own lives and cannot immediately take down every questionable post or comment as soon as they go live. Thanks for your patience.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 04:06 AM
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Rule 9: Men need to be older, married, and TRP experts to participate here. An 18 year old’s opinion on abuse is useless to us. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 07:38 PM
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It’s showing as auto-removed for me as well.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 02:00 AM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. Just because someone’s life trajectory doesn’t look like yours does not mean you get to insult them. The snark is unnecessary.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 01:59 AM
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Men’s questions and rants are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 11:36 PM
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OP, we are unable to properly help you in this situation because as unprofessional internet strangers, we do not have the means to offer you continued physical presence and intervention in your life, which is vital for remedying abusive situations. Please seek professional help. If you need me to help you find resources in your area, please don’t hesitate to let me know or DM the mods and I am more than happy to do so. Post is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/23 08:40 PM
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OP: you are not listening to anyone’s advice or feedback and instead are insisting on “making peace” with a situation that the vast majority of reasonable women, let alone the women in this sub, will NEVER be okay with. If you are unwilling to take advice, this sub is not for you. Post is locked.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/23 08:53 AM
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👋
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/23 06:27 PM
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Your actions are what is making people call you crazy. This whole contract you are making is a crazy idea. The way you wrote it is another crazy idea. You thinking that going on dates with other men to spite him is a crazy idea. If you cannot fathom WHY people are being harsh with you, you need to work on your self-awareness because clearly, it is landing you in these situations. If you aren’t willing to listen to people’s advice without getting defensive, then this really isn’t the right commun…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/23 06:23 PM
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You are extremely defensive, not just here but in ALL of the threads you’ve been posting. RPW is about giving truthful advice, no matter how uncomfortable it may be. Do not lash out at the people here for trying to help you. If you cannot take the criticism, then your posts will be removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/23 06:14 PM
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This is uncalled for. OP is celebrating a victory. There is no need to sow seeds of doubt for no reason. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 11:36 PM
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Again, you need to read the sidebar and sit this one out. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 08:05 PM
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You are jumping to A LOT of conclusions without much proof. Please sit this one out and read the sidebar. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 07:47 PM
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It is explicitly against our rules and a waste of space on our sub. This will never be tolerated here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 04:29 PM
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Thank you, he’s been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 04:28 PM
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Thank you, he’s been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 04:28 PM
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This is not a dating app for single men. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/23 04:28 PM
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Removed. We are not a zoo for you to observe and survey.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/23 02:05 PM
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No link dropping. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 11:41 PM
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He’s been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 11:40 PM
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Does that mean I don’t get to speak? Yes it does. The rules, made by the male founders of the red pill, are that men have to be older, married, and TRP experts (aka Endorsed Contributors) to participate here. You are not, and we do not value your input. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 11:40 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 11:38 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 11:37 PM
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Knock it off. I understand what u/VasiliyZaitzev is saying and it’s a valid point. You are being intentionally obtuse and abrasive. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/23 12:39 AM
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Rule 10: no moralizing. Everyone is allowed to grow and no one is unredeemable here. This attitude is condescending and defeatist. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/23 02:31 AM
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Men must be older, married, and TRP experts to participate here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/23 11:26 AM
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No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 05:46 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 05:30 PM
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He’s been shown the door. Please be patient with us in the upcoming month or so as we are transitioning after one of our lovely mods retired! A bit understaffed, but hopefully the issue will be resolved soon.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 08:56 AM
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Growing a pair and talking to women is one of the core things TRP suggests young men do. I suggest you spend more time there instead, because if you are too scared to talk to women without getting sued, you have no place giving advice here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/23 08:50 AM
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Rule 9: men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/23 08:35 AM
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You do know that everyone is here voluntarily because they want to right? There’s no big bad holding a gun to anyone’s head. We don’t want the other options. That’s why we’re here on our own accord. But since you seem intent on arguing with all the women in the community that they couldn’t possibly choose what is best for them and that they have to follow your way instead, I think it’s time we show you the door.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 10:51 PM
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The only thing the women in this sub have in common is that they all want MALE-LED relationships. If you do not like this, you are welcome to leave. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 09:07 PM
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No advertising allowed. Also, we have a rule against posting pictures and doxxing yourself so this just doesn’t align with our sub. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 07:53 PM
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No they cannot. This is a women’s sub for women, not for men to come and pick our brains for their own benefit. Isn’t the red pill all men? Yes. When you need advice on how to fish, do you ask the fish for advice or other fishermen? We don’t have the experience necessary to give you good advice. Other men do.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 04:01 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed because we as women do not share the same life experiences as you. Please go to r/theredpill or askTRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 02:28 PM
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Rule 0: Stay on topic. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/23 02:29 AM
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Your personal preferences are not advice. Removed. Stick to r/theredpill.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/23 05:21 PM
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Crossposting is not allowed. We have already communicated this to you once and this is the second warning you have received. The next one will result in a permanent ban. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/23 01:54 PM
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Advice must actually benefit the woman. This advice may be beneficial for men, but does not take into account the risks that come with it for women. RPW is not plate school. Removed. Stick to r/theredpill.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/23 01:47 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 03:37 AM
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Rule 0: advice must be given to actually benefit the woman. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 03:35 AM
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You do not know how to communicate to women in a way that they will actually listen. Please stick to r/theredpill and the other male subs.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 03:30 AM
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Be polite or be quiet. u/WhatIsThisAccountFor asked you a valid question, because the sentiment behind what you said is worth questioning. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 03:22 AM
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You do not know how to interact with the women here in a productive way where they want to listen to you. Please spend your time on r/theredpill instead.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/23 11:07 AM
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One of our rules here is Rule 10: no moralizing. All RP advice is meant to be given from an amoral perspective, because that is what is most broadly effective here. Your insults are unnecessary and out of line in this situation. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/23 11:05 AM
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Rule 10: no moralizing and Rule 0: stay on topic. Women are allowed to want marriage, and remember that all advice here is supposed to be in the best interest of women, which is almost always gained by securing commitment. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/23 11:02 AM
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We don’t allow using pop culture as a basis for advice or as “proof” of RP theory (along with fiction, movies, etc) because we have no idea what their relationship is ACTUALLY like, as people who are not participants in those relationships ourselves. We don’t know what is concealed, what is lied about, and what is sensationalized for entertainment/PR/marketing purposes. It is unconfirmed gossip at best, which isn’t really helpful for real-world application If you are willing to edit your post to…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/23 12:00 AM
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Sigh. Men must be older, married, and TRP experts to participate here. You post on r/teenagers. So run along now.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 06:41 PM
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It’s still available on The Red Archive. A lot of his stuff is still in the sidebar too. What I miss and don’t think we can find are all of his comments. He really went into depth for a lot of people, and I don’t really know how to trace those.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 06:03 PM
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We love you Pearl! You guys have no idea how much dedication it takes to be the main moderator around here. Pearl’s work under this account and her other alts have literally changed my life, and I am SO grateful. I hope for all the best for you and I’m glad to have met a great friend like you! Forever thankful and you will be SO missed 😭💓 I agree that something shifted when the youtubers, podcasters, and tiktokers started diluting the message with watered down or straight up incorrect “RP” conte…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 04:42 PM
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No link dropping. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 06:40 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed and RPW is not a match-making service for lonely men. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/23 06:45 PM
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No cross-posting. We also do not allow promoting other subs. If you want to talk about these topics here, then write an individual post for it. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 10:46 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 06:35 PM
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RPW is not a zoo for you to study the behavior of women who think differently from you. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/23 10:44 PM
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No polls. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/23 10:41 PM
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No, I just find you to be bratty and entitled and see no reason why we need to waste our time with you 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/23 06:21 AM
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And why is it our responsibility to make you like us? To make you feel better and hold your hand through your personal crisis while you insult us? You are free to feel however you choose, and also free to choose whatever life you want to live. No one here will ever stop you from doing that. Save the woe is me act for somewhere else. Rants aren’t allowed here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/23 06:11 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. r/theredpill is our counterpart sub, and men must be long-time and endorsed contributors there, along with being older and married, to contribute here. If you find that TRP is not for you, RPW is not either. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 07:35 PM
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👋
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 05:56 PM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 05:47 PM
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Rule 10: no moralizing. This is not a religious subreddit and there is very little in the red-pill praxeology that is “inherently wrong and sinful”. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 05:36 PM
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You are being respectful so I see no need to remove your comments, but keep in mind that TradCon is RPW but RPW is not TradCon. Women do not need to self-censor here just because the majority is traditional. OP asked for people’s opinions, and u/buttermiIk gave hers. She is not giving people unconventional advice they don’t want to follow - she is just sharing her thoughts and personal beliefs.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 05:14 PM
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Rule 0: advice must actually benefit the woman. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/22 04:56 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/22 08:26 PM
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Done, thanks u/Euphoric-Chain-5155 and u/CountTheBees! Congrats u/youllknowwhenitstime, keep up the good work 💫
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/22 10:07 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed and belong on r/theredpill. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 03:19 PM
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If your wife isn’t the one to come here herself, any advice we give you is likely to feel like it’s being force-fed to her. You are welcome to send your wife our way and she can ask whatever questions she wants. what advice a man can give to another man about his wife who is insecure and needs help. You don’t ask the fish how to do a good job at fishing. You ask other fishermen. You cannot expect us to change your wife for you, because you cannot change the world - you can only change yourself. …
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 11:28 AM
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No posts on the behalf of another person. All men’s questions belong on r/theredpill. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 10:27 AM
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Removed. You know why.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 02:41 AM
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They’ve been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 02:40 AM
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Thank you for looking into it. They’ve been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/22 02:40 AM
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No link dropping. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/22 11:54 PM
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This sounds very intriguing! Would love to see you write this!
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/22 07:11 PM
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I don’t see what the issue is. This is a pretty common and accepted red pill theory that women have more options than the typical man, and that they will prepare their options, who are usually people they know already, when they think their relationship might fail. Most of us have seen this happen in real life.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 09:39 PM
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RPW focuses on heterosexual and male-led relationships, so the people here don’t have the tools to help you with your situation. Post is removed as it is off-topic for the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/22 10:55 AM
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No link dropping. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/22 01:09 AM
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Men’s questions belong on Ask TRP and are not allowed here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/22 12:05 PM
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No link dropping. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/22 03:13 AM
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OP, please see Rule 2: Requests must be made with the intent of receiving useful advice, not sympathy, and advice must be given with the intent of helping the person requesting it. Asking questions like “Am I being unreasonable here?” or “Am I right to be stubborn about this?”, followed by a description of a situation only from one point of view, ultimately does not request any actual actionable advice. See below for more of the rule: The obvious intent of such "questions" is to elicit an outpou…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/22 08:38 PM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. Men are allowed to have preferences, including about body count. This alone does not make him a misogynist. Rule 4: Advice must come from a red-pill perspective. It is a common red-pill-women idea that you have to be careful (not militant or conservative, but careful) with who you have sex with, for a plethora of reasons that do not have to do with what men think, although that can be taken into consideration as well. Encouraging women to get sexual experience for experie…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/22 11:37 PM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. Men are allowed to have preferences, including about body count. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/22 11:31 PM
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OP, thank you for sharing. This is an excellent, vulnerable, and thoughtful field report that can be very helpful to the women or this community. I would love to see more posts from you if you ever find the inspiration to write. +1 star! PS: I don’t think you are dunking on your mom. A lot of the language that we have surrounding our family, especially when you are close, is a lot more unfiltered than the way we typically speak of others that we hold at arm’s length and have less complex relatio…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/22 05:01 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/22 08:26 AM
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🤦‍♀️ your comment didn’t get removed for telling someone to wear what feels comfortable to them. Your comment got removed because we have a specific rule against men talking about their personal preferences as if it were good advice. You also keep conveniently leaving out that you went on and on about how much of a turn on it is for you to see women’s belly buttons 🤨. If you don’t realize why that’s creepy, perhaps you aren’t qualified to be here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/22 01:29 AM
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Yes, because it made you seem creepy and thirsty and no one want advice from someone they think is creepy. 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 08:40 PM
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This person has been shown the door. Any behavior like theirs is completely unacceptable.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 08:36 PM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/22 08:35 PM
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No link dropping. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/22 07:31 AM
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No link dropping. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/22 10:20 AM
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Do not pet the unicorns. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 08:15 PM
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Doesn’t seem snarky at all. So there are two answers to this: Laura Doyle is ONE reference that we give our readers. There is no such thing as an ABSOLUTE RPW BIBLE, because all of the theory and strategies we follow is written by several individual women who will always have differences in opinion and belief. RPW has always been an antifeminist sub, but that doesn’t mean that Doyle’s writing isn’t useful to us, a group of women who want male-led relationships, regardless of her beliefs. It’s al…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/22 06:53 AM
1

“Just be yourself!” may sound nice, but a lot of us here have realized that it’s a sweet platitude that doesn’t actually get us what we want in life. Some relevant excerpts of that post: Well what is “yourself” really? By “being yourself” do you mean sitting around in dirty sweatpants waving a glass of wine, waving your cat around at neighborhood kids, swearing? People get so caught up in “just be yourself” that they think they can just display the worst posts of their behavior and personality b…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/22 09:26 AM
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I was going to give you a star for this, and then I saw that you’re actually TRP Endorsed. Welcome! We get a LOT of shitty drive-by comments from men who think they are red pill, but have little understanding of the nuances and don’t bother to include any actionable advice for the women at all. It is SO rare that we get comments from men who not only fully grasp the core theory, but also know how to communicate it to women in a way that they will actually listen. It’s comments like these that sh…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 08:24 AM
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Removed. This is not actionable advice and pretty useless input.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/22 02:24 AM
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https://reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/yqxs1j/_/ivsaynf/?context=1
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 08:38 AM
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OP has privately verified her actual account to us and she has been a participant of the sub for over 3 months. Trolls usually attack as soon as they find us. Unless further evidence comes up, I don’t suspect that this post is trolling. That being said, u/bluelagoonbaby you need to participate on your post within 24 hours or it will be removed. If you just drop a controversial post without engaging, I’m more compelled to think that u/dexede is right.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 06:18 AM
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If you are a man and you feel compelled to comment here, remember: Your personal preferences are not advice. We do not care what you would or would not tolerate in your relationship because none of us, especially not OP, are dating you. As u/pearlsandstilletos just mentioned earlier today: RPW =/= purity culture. We recognize the benefits of having a low n-count for women, but we do not default to “virginity at all costs” and women who have past partners are not considered “unsalvagable”. There …
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 06:12 AM
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Your personal preferences are not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 05:52 AM
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That user has been shown the door, but keep in mind that r/RedPillWomen is explicitly an antifeminist community. If that bothers you, then perhaps this is not the right community for you either.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 05:47 AM
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Your personal preference is not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 05:44 AM
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Your personal preference is not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 05:43 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/22 03:24 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/22 08:50 AM
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Rule 2: You cannot ask questions on behalf of others. Post removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/22 08:48 AM
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Rule 9: Men must be older, married, and TRP experts (aka years of participation on the TRP sub and preferably endorsed) to participate here. Yes. Women are hypergamous, just like water is wet. It’s been this way since pre-civilization. How does this: My advice to women would be to lower their standards and go for things that actually matter ( personality, caring, love ) actually benefit women? What incentive do women have to do that? It sounds like the the main reason you want women to lower the…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/22 02:00 AM
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Done! Congrats u/Teacup000!!
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 04:59 PM
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Lol nope. Have never been cheated on in my life. But if that makes you feel better then you can believe whatever you want.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 06:13 AM
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It is easy to suggest to a stranger who you will never encounter again to blow up her entire life so you can feel justified. It will not be easy for said stranger to deal with the repercussions of divorcing her HUSBAND of 7 years that she has multiple children with. Will you be there for her to pick up the pieces and support her financially and emotionally the aftermath? You are allowed to discuss nuclear options as a future or last resort, granted that you gave advice on what OP can do before t…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 08:07 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 07:21 PM
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Leave him is never the first option. OP has mentioned her goal is to try to make the relationship work. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 07:21 PM
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Leave him is never the first option. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/22 07:20 PM
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No snarking. I don’t see what’s so problematic for u/mistressusa to suggest that there were differences between the culture of the 70s vs. the 2000s. There’s no need to insult her or her parenting skills. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/22 04:34 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed and belong on asktrp. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/22 03:54 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed and belong on asktrp. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/22 06:45 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed. You can find askTRP on forums.red/i/asktrp.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/22 09:24 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/22 09:57 PM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/22 09:47 PM
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This is not actionable advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 10:48 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/22 07:26 AM
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Red Pill Women concern themselves with commitment and relationships, not casual sex. Unlike the experience of men, casual sex is so easy for women to achieve that it requires no strategy. The Red Pill calls women in this position plates, and it is off-topic and against the rules of this sub accordingly.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 04:12 PM
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Off topic and men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/22 03:48 AM
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See note in the beginning: Remember that u/pearlsandstilettos and I did not write these posts. We will talk to you about them from our perspective as mods and members but they aren’t our original thoughts. We are bringing you content that we think is a guide to the RPW toolbox and will bring some old ideas back to the top.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 03:13 PM
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Yes absolutely. I think men “go beta” not out of malice, but out of ignorance, laziness, resignation, or insecurity. They THINK that it’ll be the safest choice with the least possible effort. I tend to agree with you that for the most part, when women are in charge of “too much” in the household besides him bringing home the bacon, it does skew the dynamics between her and her partner a lot. Although I’m sure low dominance threshold women can be comfortable with it, most others just won’t feel s…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 02:13 AM
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I never quite connected the dots that way about why typical shit tests are so, well, shitty! It’s because of that “he has to just get it” assumption that’s a bit unfair and unproductive. But when he knows what you want, it makes it a pretty actionable request that he can step up to!
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 02:10 AM
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I cackled at that line too 😂 But yes such a solid set of posts!!
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 02:07 AM
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I think about gratitude. Throughout the years, my SO has done SOOOO much for me. Remind yourself of all the little and large sacrifices he’s made for your comfort, protection, and happiness. A man like that DESERVES respect, submission, and love, even if things are stagnant in the present. Back to what Pearl said, also think about the man you decided to get with. What attracted you to him? Why did he stand out compared to other men? What gave you butterflies back in the day? What physical things…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 10:50 PM
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On top of what Pearl said, I think it’s also important that we examine our own behavior. Sometimes it’s the act of being resentful, eyerolling, nagging etc, that beta-tizes a normally masculine man. If you want to see a change, you have to remember that you cannot change the world. You can only change yourself. There are many ways that you might want him to be different, but ultimately sitting around and waiting for that to happen is unproductive and dare I say entitled. Instead, if you REALLY w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 09:12 PM
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No moralizing. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 07:14 PM
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No problem! When I came across this post I definitely felt like I had come across a hidden gem. So glad to hear that you’ve learned to change for the better in the span of a year! Relinquishing control is definitely a difficult step, but it certainly gives our men the room they need to step up!
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 05:37 AM
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Thanks for letting me know! Try the link now.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/22 05:32 AM
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🤦‍♀️ at her blocking you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 06:12 PM
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Removed. No link dropping.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 03:59 AM
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No snarking. u/stripe_throwaway gave you perfectly reasonable advice and is asking you perfectly reasonable questions. A reminder: r/redpillwomen is about truthful, which often means un-sugarcoated, advice that is actionable and productive. If something as harmless as this comment makes you defensive, I question whether our community is right for you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 03:57 AM
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Rule 10: men’s questions are not allowed. You can access the new askTRP forums at forums.red/i/asktrp.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/22 06:22 AM
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😂 I messed up my sleep schedule with that all nighter SO bad
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 06:19 PM
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No ads or soliciting. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 10:58 AM
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TradCon is RPW, but RPW is not TradCon. The conservative and religious women here may want tradcons, but there are plenty of members of our community who aren’t and don’t go for TradCon men.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 05:23 AM
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We have just posted about this for our Back to Basics series here. These are the main takeaways: RP women are not trying to specifically date ‘RP aware’ men. Many naturally masculine men will display certain red pill characteristics, but have no familiarity with the actual term ‘red pill.’ Some men that read and participate on RP subs may make good leaders and are in fact already leading relationships of their own. Some men that read and participate on RP subs are textbook examples of what RP wo…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 05:21 AM
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Everyone’s post history is fair game here, especially when YOU were the one who went looking in OP’s post history first in your original comment. You are moving the goal posts and from a mod perspective, you absolutely not responding to u/stripe_throwaway in good faith. Please familiarize yourself with our sidebar before you come here to pick fights with members of the community.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 10:37 AM
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Yawn. Why don’t you ask one of the founders of the red pill like u/redpillschool why HE decided to create this forum for us. Now hush.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 10:28 AM
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But I don’t necessarily think all men are fit to lead. Not all men are capable of real commitment. I don’t think ANYONE here thinks all men are fit to lead. That’s why we place so much emphasis on vetting, because at the end of the day our goal is to find a good leader and captain. I also suspect it’s why most women are only attracted to the top 20% of men. Studies have shown… When you zoom out of that study, you’ll find that a solid 80% of men still remain with their partner if they get cancer.…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/22 02:07 AM
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Tagging u/neuro_mancy because she just made a post about this the other day!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/22 10:35 PM
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This is not actionable advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/22 10:18 PM
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No worries at all! Take all the time you need, we have all September haha! Definitely looking forward to your updates!
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/22 09:47 PM
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If you don’t mind because I know it’s a deleted post, would you be okay with this being part of our upcoming “Back to Basics” September series where we repost excellent examples and and RPW fundamentals? I’ve been eying this post because of how good it is but I wanted to check in with you first.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/22 07:11 PM
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Check u/LateralThinker13 and u/stripe_throwaway ’s responses for accurate definitions. It is not “basically being mean to someone”. It’s a pretty standard RP theory.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/22 06:53 PM
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There was no “like” anywhere in your comment. Either way, all comments must be made from a red pill perspective, and yours wasn’t because shit-testing is a pretty standard concept here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/22 06:43 PM
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Shit-testing is a well-known and accepted phenomenon in RP theory. You cannot infer someone’s husband has a personality disorder from ONE interaction that she highlighted. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/22 06:36 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 04:59 PM
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OP, if you can please add line breaks as it’s pretty difficult for most people to get through a wall of text. If you cannot it is fine because it seems like this is a pressing matter. Also keep in mind: All posts must be made to look for actual advice, rather than just asking, “Am I being unreasonable here?” or “AITA?” This is because often the intent of these questions is to receive an outpouring of sympathy, reassurance, or support while painting any other party as crazy, inconsiderate, or dow…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 07:57 PM
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OP, you need to edit your post and add line breaks. It’s very inconvenient to read a wall of text.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 06:40 AM
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Don’t take it personally. This troll has been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 07:12 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 07:09 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/22 04:45 PM
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You are going on a tirade. Advice must actually serve to benefit women. The RPW sidebar has plenty of examples of what standards, beyond “no abuse”, women should have. Please refer to the sidebar before namecalling the other women here for being much more reasonable than you are. Comments removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/22 11:28 AM
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No link dropping. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/22 07:01 AM
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This person has been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/22 06:58 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 05:09 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/22 09:19 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/22 03:03 AM
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Done! Keep up the good work, u/sunglasses90 💫
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/22 01:41 AM
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I didn’t know that responding to calls and making time to see someone during the early dating days is being at “his beck and call”. Playing games to make it seem like you are hard to get is a bad strategy, not because you’re playing games (because we don’t moralize here) but because it doesn’t work (ask me how I know) - if a man is desirable enough to have options, he wouldn’t entertain someone who wasn’t reciprocating his level of interest. He would just find an equally attractive girl who was.…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/22 07:18 AM
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Be polite or be quiet. There’s no need to name-call.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 05:10 AM
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Be polite or be quiet. There’s no need to assume OP is lying when she’s just sharing her opinion and experiences, and wondering if anyone else feels the same way. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 04:46 AM
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No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/22 04:42 AM
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Rule 9: men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 11:28 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 07:07 PM
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Yes some people are very willing to blow up a stranger’s life just to make themselves feel powerful. You can definitely solve things with this occasionally stinky man 😂 the advice that focused on communication definitely is solid!
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 04:51 PM
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“Dump him” is never the first option, especially when we are talking about someone’s fiancé here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 10:19 AM
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You are missing the meat of the advice, which I suspect is because you have a vendetta against male participation here, which I’ve already had to remove your comments on before. His point, regardless of what he does in his personal life, is generally true in most hetero relationships: men (at least the desirable ones) will not put up with hard to get. It is common RPW knowledge that being cheerful, cooperative, and happy to see our men are what attract men to us. Even our more amoral (but still …
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 10:00 AM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. u/VasiliyZaitzev is welcome here not only by the female mods but also by many of our ECs because he is an long-time expert at RP theory, having written a large chunk of it himself, and has an understanding of it few men OR women achieve. These insights are incredibly valuable for our community. He has tempered his advice here to be suitable for our audience, and is not the typical anger-phase TRP kid who comes here to yell at the women. Frankly, nothing he said is wrong a…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 09:22 AM
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If you find it, please let me know. I’m giving OP the benefit of the doubt because we don’t have any proof, but I agree there is some cause for pause.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 08:15 AM
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If this is how you feel about the sub, you are welcome to leave. But no need to spread misinformation: the majority of the users here are women. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 07:54 AM
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No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/22 07:53 AM
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OP, please edit your post - when you ask “am I being unreasonable here?” or “is this normal?” followed by a one-sided description of your situation, you are not going to get much actionable advice. Instead, you will usually get an outpouring of sympathy, moral support, and reassurance, which is great for validation, but ultimately does nothing to help you resolve this issue. If anything, it just builds more resentment without giving you any of the tools to address this situation. Posts like thes…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/22 08:28 PM
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Please add line breaks. It’s very difficult to get through a wall of text.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/22 06:48 AM
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This advice is fine, but you are missing the intention of the post. OP was in a tricky situation that a lot of RPWs, especially new moms, face, and she navigated it in that moment using the RPW toolbox. I believe that’s why u/Teacup000 wanted to share, and I’m glad she did! Field reports are incredibly helpful here but very few women take the time to write them out. There’s no reason to be curt with her.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/22 07:19 PM
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OP, please add line breaks. It is extremely difficult to read this wall of text.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/22 05:41 PM
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Rule 9: men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/22 04:12 AM
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Rule 9: men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/22 04:11 AM
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Physical and emotional abuse are beyond the scope of RPW. This is not simply a matter of “we’re not qualified professionals”… indeed some of us may be. But the major qualification to do intervention in a profoundly unhealthy relationship is physical presence and ongoing involvement… neither of which we are able to provide you. Physical abuse - While the stereotype of unilateral evil-man-beats-innocent-angelic-woman is not the typical abuse situation, any type of relationship violence is a severe…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 06:27 PM
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Your question is perfectly fine and the community is more than happy to help you! The note is more towards the commenters. It just needs some extra reinforcement because A LOT of people get riled up at this subject matter and might advise you to do things you might regret, at no consequence to their own lives. They also tend to go full force with validation and platitudes instead of actual actionable advice. We have those rules in place for that very reason - so that we can help you to the best …
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 03:30 AM
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Validation is not actionable advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 03:26 AM
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Hi RPW: This is a tricky subject matter that is almost certainly going to be controversial here. That being said, a reminder that “leave him”, “run”, “drop him guuuurl,” “don’t look back,” or whatever other low-effort one-liner is never supposed to be the first option here. This is OP’s fiancé and her relationship at stake. A quippy little line, especially from an internet stranger who has no real consequences for what happens to OP if she does “run”, ultimately isn’t actionable or good advice f…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 03:24 AM
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To be honest with you, men who are here because it’s a “nicer” version of TRP or because we’re “not like other girls” on typical female-based subs are a bit misguided. It’s fine to lurk for that reason, but men who come here with that mindset often end up giving advice that’s antithetical to RP theory. Just because we have a pretty pink banner and polite ladies doesn’t mean we’re here to be a for a “softer” experience for men. Not speaking to you specifically since you’ve been around for a while…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 05:59 AM
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I think the main issue is with women coming there and saying something along the lines of, “hi, woman here! Answer my question that benefits me because I’m entitled to your services and your male space!!!” It’s the same reason why we remove question from men who do the same, and expect special treatment here just because they’re men. If you really wanna ask a question on TRP, don’t bring attention to your gender or your role/story as a gf/wife/plate/whatever. That’s just asking to get trolled by…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 02:50 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. And because you decided to get snarky at the person who told you this, you don’t get privileges to participate here at all. Goodbye.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 04:20 AM
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No, men’s questions are not allowed here. CCing u/redpillschool - correct me if I’m wrong here, but I believe you can ask certain questions on r/theredpill again according to this post, but it seems like they do have to be of a certain quality. You can also find the actual askTRP thread on forums.red, or here. OP, this is your best bet if you want the askTRP experience. I’m leaving this post up for all the other men who want to post questions here. Unless you are an Endorsed Contributor on r/the…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/22 06:24 AM
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Do not pet the unicorns. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/22 06:01 AM
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That’s fair, but suggesting that the first consideration is to leave the relationship goes against our rules because our goal here is to cultivate and maintain relationships first and foremost, or provide those strategies to OP first. And it was a bit of a shaming tactic, which may have contributed to OP deleting the post.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 07:51 PM
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“Leave him” is never the first option and Rule 0: advice must serve to help women and OP first and foremost, not her partner. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 07:30 PM
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Don’t pet the unicorns. Post is removed. You are free to lurk here, but keep in mind that men must be 1) older, 2) married, and 3) long-time participants of TRP to contribute here. Which brings me to my next point: but if any of you ladies have any suggestions of subs that are exactly the same as this but for men, please comment or dm me! This is the sister sub of r/theredpill. We use the same theory, but TRP is geared towards men and towards the male imperative. That would be a better fit for y…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 07:16 PM
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This isn’t r/purplepilldebate. Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 02:07 AM
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“Leave him”, especially when he is her husband and partner of 6 years is never the first option. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/22 01:23 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/22 05:29 PM
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I appreciate your apology and it shows that you really didn’t have bad intentions! There’s just a lot of unnecessary bad blood between new RPW members and what they think TRP is like, which I wanted to dispel. I don’t think you wanted to imply he was one of them but the misinformation about TRP in general was the reason why it was removed. I meant to say that suggesting RPW start in a pool where those men (TRP men that have goals that don’t line up with RPW and use amoral tactics to get them) ar…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/22 03:30 AM
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Rule 2: All posts and comments must be in good faith and Rule 10: No moralizing. While it’s well-known around these parts that RPWs are not specifically trying to date RP men because we often have different goals, it’s also clearly stated in the sidebar that RP men are not “bad” for wanting sex, or pursuing their goals in amoral ways. Keep in mind that this is still an RP subreddit, and this kind of smear campaign and overall antagonistic attitude about TRP being “incels with a gun because their…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 11:14 PM
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Men’s questions (esp. about OP’s personal info) are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 06:26 PM
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No moralizing. Attraction cannot be negotiated, so if OP (and plenty of women who are like her) don’t find male feminist types attractive, then she’s free to look for something else.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 08:12 AM
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Don’t pet the unicorns. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 08:10 AM
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Why exactly are you probing her for what physical type she’s attracted to? Men’s questions are not allowed here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/22 11:21 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removes.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/22 05:10 PM
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I don’t think u/anonymous_fiend crossed the line at all. Her comment wasn’t removed because she didn’t come at it from a moralizing perspective, but she did highlight some very real potential problems/issues that are absolutely worth considering. That doesn’t make it judgmental or filled with attitude.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/22 09:32 PM
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Your personal preferences are not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/22 10:32 AM
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No moralizing. It is not up to you whether her relationship is “sacred” or not. RPW has welcomed women in non-monogamous relationships in the past, and we will continue to do so. While you are free to explain the potential downsides of her situation or reasoning, you have to keep in mind that your personal preferences are not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/22 10:12 AM
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Advice must come from a red-pilled perspective. Suggesting to weaponize a marriage so that it’s more of a hassle to separate and to use dread on men are both awful ideas for RPWs looking for healthy long-term relationships. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/22 12:28 AM
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😂😂😂 I honestly don’t understand how their thought processes work sometimes
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/22 04:28 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/22 10:42 PM
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Yes, but you didn’t say that - you were snarky and laughed at her. Keep in mind that our goal here is to help the women who come here. Poking fun or being too callous usually scares them away and they usually just delete the post and disappear.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/22 08:16 AM
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No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/22 08:07 AM
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OP, what is the point of this post? Rants are not allowed. Unless you edit the post so that it asks for actionable advice, the post is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/22 05:17 PM
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…You do realize this strategic subreddit was built for us by the creators of r/theredpill, another strategic subreddit? Funny that you say you’ve been red-pilled for years and yet you need a soapbox and a fainting couch when the women dare to apply RP principles to their lives too. Stick to the male side of things - your whining is useless here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/22 09:43 PM
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Yes, it is quite possible. Again, comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 09:57 PM
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If you are not able to help OP, then don’t comment. The fact of the matter is that there are plenty of women who were sexually abused as children and have to deal with these issues as adults. Orgasms are physiological responses that cannot be controlled, regardless of whether or not it was consensual and regardless of the age of the victim. As a moderator, I’ve checked OP’s post and profile and there isn’t any of the typical signs that it’s a troll post or a troll profile. You needn’t cast doubt…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 09:54 PM
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No moralizing. Remember that both TRP and RPW are amoral, and arguably all of our strategies are “manipulation” in some form or another. You are free to tell her why hiding your past from your partner may lead to trouble for her down the line like the founder of TRP did here, but calling it narcissism and manipulation is unnecessary. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 09:40 PM
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Keep in mind that examples from fiction, music, and pop culture are not allowed here. We don’t know anything about what really happened because we aren’t a part of their relationship, and we don’t know what’s been sensationalized or completely fabricated by the artist or the media for the sake of art or entertainment. We only allow people making posts about their own personal relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/22 08:59 PM
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Examples from pop culture are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/22 05:39 PM
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This user has been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/22 04:06 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/22 02:58 PM
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Your personal preferences are not advice. Please refer to the Guide for Giving RPW Advice. Comment removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 06:06 PM
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Men’s questions aren’t allowed. Removed
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/22 07:45 AM
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TradCon is RPW, but RPW isn’t TradCon.. You can be as untraditional you want and still use this subreddit and be a RPW. No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 06:32 AM
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Do not pet the unicorns. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 05:34 AM
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No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 05:28 AM
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I will reapprove the post this time, but please refrain from posting in this manner without much context in the future. If in doubt, contact the mod team. Most people here don’t know anything about Allison’s work or ideas, and the mods have no idea the extent to which it falls in line with RPW theory. It would be much more helpful if you did a summary and discussion of Allison’s work as the main post and included all of the things about the webinar as a side-note for those who are interested in …
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/22 11:32 PM
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Only Endorsed Contributors are allowed to advertise on the sub, AFTER they have reached out to the mod team first.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/22 08:09 PM
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Only Endorsed Contributors are allowed to advertise on the sub, AFTER they consulted with the mod team first.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/22 08:05 PM
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Do not pet the unicorns. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 08:54 AM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. This is a sub for women. The only sub we are affiliated with and endorse is r/theredpill. Post is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/22 08:24 AM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/22 12:29 AM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/22 01:42 AM
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“Leave him” is never the first option. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/22 03:30 AM
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Please refer to the Guide for Giving RPW Advice. When you keep on talking about what her partner should do without any advice on how exactly to make it happen, you fail to give actionable RPW advice that is productive for OP. Good riddance to him. Telling OP to leave her husband over a callous comment is also strictly against RPW rules: “Leave him” is never the first option. Comment is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/22 12:16 AM
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There is quite a bit of advice in here that isn’t at all RP. Please review the sidebar and wiki. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/22 03:28 PM
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We actually have a rule against this: “Leave him” is never the first option. We remove them when we see them but we don’t always catch everything. If you see one, definitely report it to us and we will take care of it. Repeat offenders have been banned for this.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 03:55 PM
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Do not pet the unicorns. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/22 07:45 AM
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Do not dox yourself. Pictures of yourself are not allowed. Post is removed. If you remove the picture and comment to let me know, I can reapprove the post for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 04:51 AM
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Rule 3: Do not insult someone’s SO. It makes them defensive and isn’t productive to actually making them want to hear you out. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/22 02:50 AM
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Don’t pet the unicorns. Stick to r/theredpill. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 10:09 AM
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No moralizing. Men are allowed to want different things from women without it being labeled as “gross”. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 03:20 AM
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No moralizing. Just because a man wants something different from you does not make it “gross”. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 03:19 AM
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Men’s questions belong on r/askTRP. This sub is for women.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/22 03:18 AM
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Rule 0: Stay on topic. It doesn’t serve you or anyone else here to gossip about someone else’s wedding and marriage. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/22 07:31 AM
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Physical violence and abuse is a problem that is beyond the scope of RPW. We are not able to give you the help that you need as unprofessional internet strangers. Any advice we give you cannot be fully effective, because quality intervention in issues like these requires both physical presence in your life and ongoing involvement, both of which no one here can provide for you. Please seek help in person with professionals who are equipped to handle an issue this serious. If you need help finding…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/22 08:58 AM
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Will definitely add it in!
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/22 11:10 PM
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What a pointless post. Stick to r/theredpill. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/22 08:58 AM
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OP, please add multiple line breaks to your post. No one is going to be able to get through your giant wall of text.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/22 08:53 PM
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Congrats u/SeveredTreeStump! Keep up the good work 💫
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/22 06:14 AM
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But at 70-80 ueaes old I’m not sure men are even capable of reproducing. Their fertility certainly declines, but some men are still able to father children at those ages, whereas it is physically impossible for women to become pregnant after menopause. I just don’t see why there would be concern for her when she gets to be 50-60 like the women she was speaking about on the beach. Are most men even sexually active at 70-80? I agree with you there. This is perfectly fine to mention and was not the…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 09:54 PM
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Rule 10: no moralizing. It’s a well-known and accepted theory in RP that men generally are more physically attracted younger women because they are more fertile. It is not “creepy” - it’s the general evolutionary reality. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 09:20 PM
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Rule 4: Strategies must be from a red-pilled perspective. Just because OP’s husband is older than her does not mean that when she gets “too old they’re going to cheat on you with a baby 18 year old who still has baby fat.” You’re jumping to a lot of conclusions. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/22 09:16 PM
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Keep in mind that examples from fiction, music, and pop culture are not allowed here. We don’t know anything about what really happened because we aren’t a part of their relationship, and we don’t know what’s been sensationalized or completely fabricated by the artist or the media for the sake of art or entertainment. I’m keeping this post up because it raises an interesting question, but next time please refrain from using entertainment as a basis for these posts.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 09:50 PM
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Your personal preference is not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 09:47 PM
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Take a break. You have consistently been making contributions that are antithetical to RPW. What u/sneeuwkapelletje is straight out of Laura Doyle’s Empowered Wife and out of Fascinating Womanhood. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 09:06 PM
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Rule 4: Advice must be from a red pill perspective. Men are not “wrong” or “bad” for wanting an unpromiscuous woman.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 08:41 PM
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Please read the sidebar and the Rules for Giving Advice before giving advice. None of what you are saying is RP and is unproductive here.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 08:40 PM
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No moralizing. She was talking about her standards for herself, not for all women.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 08:36 PM
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Done! Congrats u/Ordinary-Object7260! Keep up the good work 💫
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 07:48 AM
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Rule 3: do not insult OP’s SO. Calling him names and belittling him is unproductive and is not going to make her want to hear you out. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 07:44 AM
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Rule 3: Do not insult OP’s SO. It is unproductive and does nothing to make her want to hear you out. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 12:57 AM
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Rule 3: Do not insult OP’s SO. It is incredibly unproductive and does not help her want to hear your case. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 12:05 AM
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Again, please refer to the Rules for Giving Advice and also the sidebar, because this is not RP advice.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 06:11 PM
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Please refer to the Rules for Giving Advice. Your personal preferences are not advice, and “i would just dump him” is never the first option. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 06:09 PM
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No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 06:00 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 08:24 AM
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Be civil. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/22 03:32 AM
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You don’t have to listen to them. This person has been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 11:40 PM
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No moralizing. There have been quite a few RPWs here throughout the years who are doctors. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/22 11:39 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. You are not a fortune teller. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 02:04 AM
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Please refer to the Rules for Giving Advice. Your personal preferences are not advice, and doesn’t really help OP who is already married to her husband. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 12:11 AM
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Men’s posts belong on r/TheRedPill. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/22 12:08 AM
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Going tit for tat is immature and terrible advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 07:36 PM
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Rule 7: examples and scenarios from fiction are not allowed. Too often, they say more about the writer and what they want their audience to think, than what is actually reflected in reality. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 01:05 AM
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Do not pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/22 09:24 AM
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Hi RPW- A reminder that abuse is a problem that is very beyond the scope of RPW. We are not qualified as unprofessional internet strangers to help someone navigate abusive circumstances safely, effectively, or productively, because to do proper intervention requires physical presence and ongoing involvement, neither of which we are able to provide. Because of this, telling an OP to just “leave him girl” is inappropriate advice. Instead, please refer OP to seek professional intervention if you th…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/22 10:28 PM
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“Leave him” is never the first option. Please review the rules for giving RPW advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/22 06:52 PM
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A real man Stop. We don’t do that here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/22 06:15 PM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/22 10:20 AM
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OP, it will be difficult to properly and effectively help you if you are being vague. It will be helpful if you elaborated on what you think you did wrong, and what your boyfriend is actually upset about.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/22 10:33 AM
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Please refer to our Guide for Giving Advice. There isn’t much in your comment that was actionable advice that helps OP resolve her conflict. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/22 10:30 AM
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Do not pet the unicorns. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 09:58 PM
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Please refer to our Rules for Giving Advice. It’s not very productive or actionable RPW advice to say what the man she’s seeing “should” do. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 01:34 AM
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Be polite or be quiet. Resorting to physical insults is petty and immature. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 11:16 PM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 07:49 PM
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“Leave him” is never the first option. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/22 06:23 PM
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Rule 3: Do not insult the community or its members. Rule 9: Men must be long-time participants of TRP, older, AND married or in an LTR to contribute here. Since you are none of these things, please focus your time on r/TheRedPill.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 11:16 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. You are free to disagree with other people here, but insulting them isn’t okay.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 10:17 PM
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It wasn’t the message behind what you said that was problematic, it was the way you said it. Telling OP to “get a life” was mean-spirited and uncalled for. Insulting people right off the bat isn’t really a productive strategy to get them to want to hear what you have to say.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 04:31 AM
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Be polite or be quiet. This is the second comment of yours we had to remove this week alone. Please reread our rules and sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/22 03:21 AM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/22 09:33 PM
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Done! Congrats u/pieorstrudel5! Keep up the good work 💫
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/22 05:13 AM
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No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 01:56 AM
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No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 12:58 AM
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No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 12:58 AM
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Do not jump to conclusions. A man who has a desire for a SAHW and would prefer a partner not to work is not automatically a “future abuser”. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/22 12:56 AM
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He’s a loser who has nothing going on with his life, so that spamming a women’s sub is the highlight of his day. Thanks for reporting everything! He’s been shown the door.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 06:02 AM
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Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/22 05:56 AM
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OP has a brand new account and personally requested us to approve it for her to get around the auto-moderator filters. I don’t think there’s any cause for pause from her lack of post history - she was very sincere in modmail and I have no reason to be suspicious!
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 09:38 PM
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Do not advertise your services here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 07:00 AM
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Men’s questions belong on askTRP or r/purplepilldebate. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/22 01:06 AM
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Done! Congrats u/saddensgirl! Keep up the good work 💫
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/22 10:40 PM
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OP, is this not the same ex that slapped you, kicked you, tried to cover your mouth when you tried to scream? You are not giving us the full picture. Physical and emotional abuse is beyond the scope of RPW. You also don’t seem to want to listen to our advice back when you posted about his abuse and infidelity in the past, so I’m not sure if we can be much help to you. He is not holding you against your will. He has said that you are free to leave. Please talk to a professional/expert instead of …
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/22 06:58 PM
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You are not ready to be giving people advice here and moralizing if you are still in high school. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/22 06:36 PM
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Men’s questions belong on askTRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/22 01:20 PM
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+1! Congrats u/swimmingindaisies! Keep up the good work 💫
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/22 09:35 PM
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A lot of people really hate your culture, not just find it uninteresting, but hate it. That will never change unless I’m gonna stop you there. We do not care if other people hate our culture and have no intention of changing it, but you clearly do not understand this. We are not here to convert ANYONE. This sub exists for women who read our material and realize that it fits what they want in life. Whether or not other people hate us means nothing to us, because those aren’t the people who will b…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 10:49 PM
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Men’s questions belong on askTRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/22 06:03 AM
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OP, please participate on your own post or we will remove it. You do not have to respond to everything because this post got a lot of traction, but it would be helpful for you to answer the questions you got or to clarify more about your situation.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/22 10:49 AM
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OP, if you’re not here to listen to the advice you requested and you’re just here to rant or troll, then we will remove the post.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 09:20 PM
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No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 08:47 PM
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No moralizing. We are not a political sub, and this is very politicized rhetoric that is contrary to OP’s own beliefs (which she stated in her post). Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 08:46 PM
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No moralizing. You are in fact pushing a certain view onto OP by saying she doesn’t have the right to take a very legal option available to her. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 08:44 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/22 08:31 AM
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This is not helpful advice to OP, who is already married. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/22 02:11 PM
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Sigh. This post is pinned for a reason. This is not the place for you to talk about what your standards are, or assert to us just how high value of a man you are, because we don’t care. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/22 01:11 PM
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No moralizing. You asked for a discussion, so do not be rude when you get people with different opinions than yours. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 02:39 AM
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Anyone from the LGBT community is free to read and implement TRP and RPW strategies into their own lives, but lesbian relationships are off-topic here because we simply don’t know enough (or anything, really) about the romantic woman-woman dynamic to be able to advise you, help you, or relate to you in a meaningful way. Keep in mind that one of the only things connecting RPWs is the desire for a male-led relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 09:02 AM
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Using the possibility of a divorce settlement and child support as leverage to keep a man from “kicking you to the curb” is about as anti-RP as it gets. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/22 10:42 AM
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No proselytizing and no moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/22 02:02 PM
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Rule 9: men’s questions are not allowed and belong on askTRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 04:24 AM
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A redpill woman would be a woman who’s family oriented and feminine and these comment replies aren’t really showing that. Wrong. r/redpillwomen is simply a community focused on romantic/sexual strategy made for women who want male-led relationships. This is directly stated in our sidebar: We come from all different walks of life, so on RPW you will find harmonious and productive discussions between very religious traditional conservative women and hardcore BDSM submissives and everyone in betwee…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/22 02:19 AM
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If you want to become a better fisherman, do you ask the fish for guidance, or other fishermen? Rule 9: Men’s questions belong on askTRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/22 05:03 AM
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Again, no moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 12:50 AM
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Rule 10: no moralizing. You can come to us for help with communication with your boyfriend on your differing views, but we do not need you to tell other women what is “wrong” and “right”. Comment is removed. This is starting to sound less like a request for actionable advice because you are just arguing with the feedback you are getting, and more like an excuse to rant, which goes against our sub’s purposes and rules. Please adjust accordingly, or we will lock the post.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/22 12:48 AM
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“Leave him” is never the first option.. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 04:06 AM
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Rule 0: Stay on topic. RPW is for sexual strategy to help women. Your frustrations with how men are loved are irrelevant, and the way you voiced them are inappropriate and concerning. Please seek professional help if you are struggling with mental health. If you would like some resources, I can find them for you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 09:14 PM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/22 07:17 PM
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They usually want extra sugar with their medicine so they’ll ask the ladies instead!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 08:28 PM
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Men’s questions belong on askTRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 11:01 AM
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Rule 2: RPW is not a zoo. RPW is here for like-minded women to discuss topics from a red-pill perspective. It is not for uninterested people who want to study the behaviors of women who think differently from themselves. If you want to find out what the sub is about, check the sub wiki. If you want to ask discussion questions, go to r/purplepilldebate. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 09:53 AM
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Rule 2: you cannot ask for advice on behalf of others. We cannot advise you how to convert your sister, mother, best friend, girlfriend, aunt, niece or second cousin twice-removed to an RPW mindset. No matter how close you are to a woman, you cannot know what is going on in her mind or her relationship. It is a waste of time to try to change someone who is unwilling. We are an open forum, you can send these women to us and we will welcome and advise them, but we will no longer allow posts on som…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/22 05:40 PM
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You seem entirely unwilling to address your own hand in your own misery. Since you are clearly not listening to anyone’s points without resorting to low blows, insulting the community that you came to for help, and being bratty and immature, the thread is locked.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/22 06:32 AM
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Rule 0: Advice must serve to actually benefit the woman posting. Almost comment you’ve left here has been intended to benefit men, not the OPs. Stick to the male subs. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 11:59 PM
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No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 11:53 PM
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Rule 9: Men must be older, married, and TRP experts to participate here. This seems like a rant about promiscuous women above all else. Please focus your time on r/theredpill. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 01:59 AM
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Rule 9: Men’s questions are not allowed and belong on askTRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 02:16 AM
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I see you are lacking in both reading comprehension and emotional stability. Your contributions are not necessary here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 05:01 AM
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If it disgusts you for a man to ask what a woman brings to the table, this is probably not the right sub for you. The first Official Axiom of RPW is: The belief that if you want to have a good partner, you have to be a good partner. This means having some understanding of what men want in a partner, and in particular, what your man wants in a partner, and then using that information to become the best version of yourself you can be. For this reason, self-improvement and self-awareness are fundam…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 06:03 AM
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This seems to be more of a rant against women and traditionalism than actual actionable advice. We are not here to be punching bags for your frustration against gender roles and women in general. A lot of you "traditional" women have also complained about your man not contributing to house chores so you basically say you want him to be a provider and do your housekeeping roles so basically the man has to do everything because you actually get bitter and vindictive about having to do chores even …
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 05:44 AM
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“Leave him” is never the first option. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 05:38 AM
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Do not solicit our users for “side action.” Removed and banned.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/22 10:08 PM
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Rule 0: Stay on topic. It is not “abuse” for OP’s SO to follow other women, like their pictures, or discuss it with his friends. It may be unpleasant and may need to be discussed or addressed in their relationship, but to label it as abuse is misleading and invalidating of real abuse. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 07:09 PM
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This is not actionable advice. you are low value in my eyes Your personal preference (especially as an 18 year old male) is not advice. Rule 9: men must be older, married, and long-time participants of TRP to participate here. Since you are none of these things, please focus your time on TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 06:55 AM
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A real man will Stop. We don’t do that here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/22 06:19 AM
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I can add it to our sidebar, as soon as I figure out how to xD
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 02:24 AM
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This user has been shown the door. Her understanding of RP theory is much more limited than she believes, and her “advice” served no purpose other than to belittle you and the milestones you achieved in your relationship. Pay her no mind and keep doing what you know works for you!
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 02:14 AM
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Advice must come from a red-pilled perspective and actually be actionable. While women often have placeholder beta orbiters, men do not work like that. Do not make sweeping condescending generalizations about relationships you do not know. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 02:04 AM
1

This is not actionable advice and does nothing to help OP. Do not insult members of the community. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 06:23 AM
1

This is not actionable advice and does nothing to help OP. Do not insult members of the community. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 06:23 AM
1

This feels more like a rant than actual actionable RP advice, theory, or strategy. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/22 09:45 AM
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Questions from men are not allowed here and belong on askTRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/22 09:32 PM
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A reminder: male participants should focus their time on TRP instead of RPW, unless they are older, married, and TRP experts. This is part of our rules for male participation. This comment is very all-or-nothing and theoretical, and we get enough SAHWs and SAHMs here with husbands who wanted them to work and contribute to the finances to know that it’s not as black and white as this: Yeah. No way around it. You have to choose. Can’t have it all. All men would choose to earn enough for a SAHM
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/22 08:50 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/22 05:13 AM
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Men’s questions belong on askTRP.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/22 08:26 AM
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Do not insult members of the community. Do not moralize. This was mean and vindictive and offered no actionable advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/22 11:13 PM
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Your personal preference is not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/22 08:21 PM
1

Judging from the fact that you made a post as a woman asking about getting over her boyfriend just a few days prior, your life must be pretty sad to try to LARP as a male rapist. Removed and good riddance.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 11:18 AM
3

Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/22 11:05 PM
1

Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/22 10:03 AM
1

Men’s questions are not allowed here. If you have been banned from r/asktrp, that isn’t our problem and doesn’t make you an exception to our rules. If you’re referring to the subreddit being locked, asktrp is available on forums.red .
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/22 09:55 AM
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Rule 2: You cannot ask questions on behalf of others. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/22 10:50 AM
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Rule 3: Do not insult members of the community. More than 3 of your contributions today had to be removed. Read and follow the sub rules before participating, or you will be banned.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/22 09:41 AM
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Rule 0: RPW is not a zoo for you to study the behaviors of women who think differently from you. We have an entire sidebar and wiki explaining what the sub is about and why it is a red pill sub. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/22 09:37 AM
1

Everything you said was about how your own preferences in that situation, instead of giving OP actionable advice to help her move forward from her issue.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/22 02:56 AM
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Your personal preferences are not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/22 02:00 AM
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I don’t see how any of this is actionable advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/21 01:34 AM
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I feel like this was tongue-in-cheek, but remember Rule 0: Advice must be given to actually benefit the woman/OP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/21 10:50 PM
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I’m gonna agree with the other commenter that this sub doesn’t seem like a great match for you. Goodbye.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/21 10:33 PM
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I HAVE, however, met many many many men who sleepwalk through life until they find someone who makes them feel like they always wanted to, after which they declare they’re actually gay, or trans, or have been cheating the entire time. ...you have an incredibly warped view of men and an even worse understanding of staying on topic. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/21 10:32 PM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. It is one thing to address OP’s problematic way of thinking, but RPW is a toolbox that any woman can use, including escorts. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/21 12:47 PM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/21 08:02 PM
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OP, it seems like you are struggling with your mental health and trauma. We are unqualified, as strangers and amateurs on the internet, to effectively help you with these things. Please seek professional help or guidance. If you need resources, feel free to PM me and I will send you some.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/21 01:10 AM
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RPW is not for you to project your fantasy of how your wife should be treating you. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/21 03:57 AM
2

Much better! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/21 02:47 AM
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OP, congratulations!! Please add some line breaks and make smaller paragraphs so it’s a bit easier to read. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/21 12:23 AM
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“Leave him” is never the first option. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/21 10:43 PM
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OP, posts that ask if your situation is “fair or unfair” or “if you are being unreasonable” are against Rule 2. You need to ask for actionable advice instead of seeking reassurance for your stance. Please review the rule and edit your post accordingly. Let me know when you have, and I will unlock your post.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/21 10:15 PM
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Rule 9: questions from men are not allowed, and Rule 0: stay on topic. This is completely irrelevant for a women’s sub. Take this to r/purplepilldebate, because it’s unnecessary here.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/21 11:47 PM
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Rule 3: Do not badmouth OP’s partner.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/21 09:32 PM
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Rule 0: Stay on topic. This has nothing to do with OP.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/21 10:11 PM
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Rule 3: Do not insult members of the community. If you cannot communicate politely and appropriately, do not bother to at all. The comment was off-base and has been removed, but she was not unnecessarily rude like you are here.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 02:08 AM
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I’m not sure if this is sarcastic or not. Either way, it is irrelevant and OP was using the phrase as a figure of speech. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 02:06 AM
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Rule 9: Questions from men belong on askTRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/21 10:37 AM
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Rule 10: Do not concern troll. Childlike vs. Childish has been one of our top strategy posts of all time and is referenced countlessly by our RPW members, Endorsed Contributors, and mods alike. You don’t have to jump to such dire conclusions so fast.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/21 11:54 PM
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We’re gonna be posting our homemaking monthly thread a little later in the week! Keep an eye out for that ;)
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/21 11:59 PM
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Pointlessly threatened? It’s against our sub rules to insult members of the community and say things in bad faith. I’m not sure any context justifies asking someone if he f*cks his dog as polite and civil conversation. If you can’t realize that on your own then I’m glad you’re showing yourself the door.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/21 12:42 AM
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Rule 3: Be polite or be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/21 12:35 AM
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Rule 0: Advice must actually serve to benefit women and the OP. I’m sensing a backhanded tone to this instead of an actual intent to help. Please familiarize yourself with the rules for male contributions here, as many of your comments have broken them.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/21 06:37 AM
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Do not advertise your sub here. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/21 04:08 AM
1

Rule 10: no moralizing. TRP and RPW have used the words “alpha” and “beta” extensively in our theory. It is not that far of a stretch for OP to use those terms to voice her thoughts, and she is allowed to do so here. Other people have highlighted the unhealthy implications of her tone/ideas much more productively than you did. Rule 3: do not insult the community or its members. If you really think that calling someone names is an effective way to help them, you’re either terrible at giving advic…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 11:08 AM
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Rule 4: Advice must come from a red pilled perspective. This advice is pretty much the opposite of what leads to happy, committed, male-led relationships. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/21 12:00 AM
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Hi RPW. This post has gotten a lot of traction, and has gotten some responses that are not in line with what RPW stands for. Firstly, no one is irredeemable. We are not here to tell the women who seek help from us that they should be ashamed or that they cannot be trusted. That is moralizing and strictly against our rules. It is not productive or helpful. The goal of RPW is to give actionable advice to all women, including those who have made some mistakes or have some regrets. Please focus on t…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/21 12:54 AM
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Rule 3: Do not insult members of our community. This is not actionable advice and does nothing to help OP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/21 07:53 PM
2

Rule 10: No moralizing. It is fine to share how religion helped you through your breakup personally, but it is not okay to speak for us as a group or to try to evangelize OP and our community. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 08:16 PM
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“Leave him girllllllllll” is never the first option, especially when it’s over an issue as trivial as a gifted pair of trousers. Rule 3: Do not insult other people’s SOs. If you cannot be polite, you need to be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/21 09:15 PM
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Rule 9: Men’s questions aren’t allowed. Your questions belong on asktrp.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/21 10:41 PM
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Rule 2: You cannot ask questions on someone else’s behalf.. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/21 04:06 AM
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This is not actionable advice and was not made in good faith. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/21 12:14 AM
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Rule 0: Stay on topic. RPW is a toolbox, not a lifestyle. There is no one true way to be a RPW - anyone, no matter what their career (or lack thereof) or lifestyle is, is welcome to use the RPW toolbox. It is condescending and moralizing for you to say that some women are not feminine just because they don’t share your life goals and values. Please refrain from gatekeeping in this manner, especially if you are new around here and don’t know exactly what our community is about yet.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 04:01 AM
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Sigh. Again, Rule 2: you need to actually give actionable advice to OP, not just tell her that her husband shouldn’t have committed to her. She cannot control him or his actions, only herself and her own behavior. You’re gonna take a little break since you can’t seem to grasp this rule.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 06:50 AM
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Rule 3: Do not insult OP’s husband, and Rule 2: Advice should be actionable for OP, not just platitudes on why her husband is “disgusting” and needs to change. We can only offer advice on how to change ourselves. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 02:32 AM
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Thanks for being a good sport. Approved!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 12:28 AM
2

Rule 3: Do not badmouth and insult OP’s SO. If you cannot say it constructively and productively, do not say it at all.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/21 10:07 PM
1

Rule 10: No moralizing. Calling someone a scammer, user, and narcissist is not productive nor is it useful, actionable advice.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/21 08:08 PM
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Rule 9: Men’s questions belong on askTRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/21 06:39 AM
1

Men’s questions belong on askTRP.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 08:43 PM
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Rule Zero: advice must actually serve to help women. “You don’t need to be happy what’s important is that he is happy” is the most laughable violation of this rule I’ve seen. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 02:16 AM
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Women talk about their personal relationship problems and successes here, but we also discuss good strategies for the best ways to have healthy relationships or to attract good partners. The latter type of posts are my favorite and have been quite useful in many of our personal lives.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 02:14 AM
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...No. This is not and was not ever a “male dominated subreddit for males to talk about females.” We even have extensive rules for male participation here (detailed in Rule 9 of our subreddit rules) and only a select few men pass the criteria to participate here. RPW, at its core, is for women to discuss women’s romantic and sexual strategy. Content must serve to help women, and are focused on long-term relationships, marriage, and building families. Again, all this information is in the wiki.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 11:45 PM
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All of the information about r/redpillwomen can be found in our wiki.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 10:49 PM
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Do not give advice for something you have no experience on, especially when it is not actionable advice for OP. OP, don’t worry and don’t give so much credence to advice given from the freshman (quite literally in this case) from the back of the class.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/21 02:03 AM
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No problem!
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/21 06:30 AM
1

All of the information about r/redpillwomen can be found in our wiki.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/21 09:30 PM
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Men’s questions are not allowed and belong on r/asktrp. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/21 09:27 PM
1

Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/21 08:54 AM
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No link dropping. You have to summarize and explain what the video is about. If you edit this with the included additional info, I can approve it. Otherwise, it’s staying removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 07:04 AM
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Do not pet the unicorns. We are also not a dating or matchmaking service, so don’t solicit our users to date you. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 03:30 AM
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Rule 9: Men’s questions belong on askTRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 02:55 AM
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If you cannot frame your point without insulting someone unprovoked, then you do not have to say it at all. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 10:24 PM
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Men’s questions belong on TRP and askTRP. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 02:56 AM
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Do not snark or insult members of the community. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 02:22 AM
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You are more than welcome to share your thoughts and struggles with us! While seeking professional help is certainly something to consider, please don’t let this commenter make you feel as if you can’t share with us here.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 08:19 PM
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You fail to understand how women communicate with each other. We find solace, insight, and healing from the act of sharing what’s troubling us. It is not bad advice to suggest that OP find help from a professional, but those professionals will also tell her to find a supportive circle who can hear her thoughts, no matter how dark. She is more than welcome to do so here. Removed for concern trolling.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 08:17 PM
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OP, your post is generating a lot of outrage, and I suspect it’s because you have not followed or answered many of our guidelines for posting: What is the problem, and what do you think is the root of the issue? How have you contributed/attempted to mitigate the problem? What is your current relationship status and length of time you’ve been together? How old are both of you? You must stick around and engage with your post to provide more context and information. And most relevant, requests must…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 10:15 PM
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Rule 0: Stay on topic. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 02:26 AM
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Rule 4: Strategies must come from a red-pilled perspective. No one, man or woman, is “enough” as is. We all have to work to achieve our goals. This is not actionable advice - just a useless platitude. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/21 03:10 AM
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Your hamster is running. You’re jumping to a lot of conclusions based on a sentence-long description of people you haven’t seen for yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/21 12:03 AM
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No problem! While RPW is dedicated to harsh truths over sweet platitudes (and a lot of new users get their feathers ruffled once they realize this), we have a very strict policy against moralizing and gatekeeping because it’s unproductive and ultimately isn’t actionable advice. Welcome to the sub :) Hope this place is as useful to you as it is to me!
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/21 12:01 PM
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Your hamster is going at 90 miles an hour. Please do not jump to conclusions, especially with accusations of abuse, over something as minor as not liking presents. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/21 11:52 AM
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This is definitely a safe place for all women who want male-led relationships, no matter what their lifestyle is. I hope this misinformed user hasn’t jaded your time here, and I hope you know you are just as welcome here as everyone else.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/21 11:39 AM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. Again, TradCon is RPW, but RPW is not TradCon. This comes directly from our wiki/sidebar. I suggest you familiarize yourself with it before you try to gatekeep our community: We come from all different walks of life, so on RPW you will find harmonious and productive discussions between very religious traditional conservative women and hardcore BDSM submissives and everyone in between. What we all share is not a lifestyle, a set of values, or a worldview, but a way of rela…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/21 11:36 AM
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As far as I’m concerned, it’s a non-issue too. RPW is not a checklist or a lifestyle, just a toolbox for us to use to relate and interact with men. There is no issue if both of you decided you want to cohabitate.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/21 02:26 AM
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TradCon is RPW, but RPW is not Tradcon. RPW is a toolbox of how to interact with men, not a checklist of things to do or a lifestyle. It is not anti-RPW to cohabitate before marriage. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/21 02:24 AM
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Rule 0: Advice must actually serve women. Do not advocate for women to go after ‘nice guys’ who are too young to know better just because you would have liked to not have been burnt back in the day. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 06:00 PM
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Rule 2: RPW is not a zoo for you to poke and prod at women who *gasp* have different opinions than you. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/21 09:48 AM
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OP, you have asked us some variation of this same question multiple times. We have already given you advice on how to handle this situation. Please do not continue to post questions to seek validation instead of using the actionable advice we have already given you. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/21 12:19 AM
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No problem. Thanks for being a good sport. Just let me know when you’re done editing and I’ll approve it for you!
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 11:31 PM
1

Rule 2: Posts with the intent of asking whether or not you are being unreasonable is against the rules, because you are seeking sympathy and reassurance, not advice. I’ve removed the post for this reason. If you are willing to edit the post, remove the requests for reassurance and sympathy, and actually ask us for advice for what to do with this, then I can approve the post and we can help you. Otherwise, the post is staying locked.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 11:27 PM
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Hi RPW. This post seems to have become the subject of a lot of vitriol here. A reminder: First, if you are here, it’s because on some level, you understand that our world has a very skewed view of men, masculinity and gender dynamics. Culturally, we are constantly bombarded with messages about “toxic masculinity” and have silenced a lot of men in the process. And as a sub, we are, at our core, for women to learn about female strategy for dealing with men in a way that isn’t adversarial. The uniq…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 02:26 AM
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No moralizing and stay on topic.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/21 06:15 AM
1

+1 for u/jonmarli! Keep up the good work 💫
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 09:54 PM
1

because it’s unofficial and not promoted on any thread You are promoting it in this thread. Again, we do not allow for any outside services or subs to be advertised here.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 05:43 AM
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We do not allow for outside services or subs to be advertised here. You knew this from before and yet you continue to mention it. Please follow our sub rules in good faith if you want to be a part of our community.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 05:41 AM
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We do not allow outside services like discord or different communities to be advertised here.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 05:40 AM
1

Rule 0: Stay on topic.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/21 05:37 AM
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One of the first things you see in the RPW sidebar/wiki is this post explaining the differences between TRP and RPW. All of your issues have already been addressed in this post. I suggest everyone else reading this also read that incredibly fundamental part of RPW. Part of understanding RP theory is also understanding that while men and women can have shared goals, they can also have vastly different goals from each other. Just as we don’t moralize against women here for wanting to fulfill their…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/21 01:52 AM
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Again, you are not being attacked. Stop victimizing yourself. You are on an internet forum and people are discussing. It’s not that serious. No one is going on a rant but you. The person you told to calm down communicated with you in a concise and blunt (but honest) way. Because you didn’t like what you heard, you’re victimizing yourself as “just a 17 year old girl”. You are old enough to be told the truth, especially when you are the one coming here for answers. Perhaps you need a break.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 07:42 PM
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You are not being “attacked”, people are just pointing out to you the flaws in the way you behaved and the mindset that you brought here. So save the self-victimization. You came to a red-pilled sub, where our main goal is to give people the truth, no matter how difficult they are. If you can’t handle the heat, then why are you in the kitchen?
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 07:10 PM
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You are not behaving in good faith here, and you are disrespecting a very valued contributor of our community who has been around for YEARS. He does not need to calm down - you need to get a grip. Being 17 is not an excuse to whine and complain and act like a child, while refusing to listen to the valid points he is making. That attitude of yours is not what we advocate here, so adjust yourself accordingly.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 06:59 PM
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Again, stop concern trolling. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 06:55 PM
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Do not concern troll. u/girlwithasidecar is nowhere close to being out of line. She is administering a much needed reality check to a young woman, who is certainly old enough to consider her faults and weaknesses in her attitude. The main takeaway of RPW isn’t to be some grinning, coddling Stepford Wife without enough of a backbone to recognize and address flippant attitudes and immaturity. It’s to accept uncomfortable truths and to be willing to take hard-to-swallow pills. We don’t need you to …
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 06:49 PM
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Rule 9: RPW is not for men’s questions.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/21 04:08 AM
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Rule 2: RPW is not a zoo. It is not for uninterested people who want to study the behaviors of women who think differently from themselves. Do not encourage this by making an AMA.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 04:11 PM
1

Sorry, we do not allow for surveys of the community.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 08:49 PM
1

Rule Zero: Stay on topic. RPW is for women to discuss sexual strategy. Deviations from this are off-topic.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 07:57 AM
1

The link works just fine for me. You can find that same link in Rule 9 of our sidebar. It’s a hyperlink to “personal preference is not advice.”
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 02:35 AM
1

It’s literally in the post.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 02:21 AM
2

This is a rule specifically for male participation written by the male TRP founder for us YEARS ago. Do you want to take it up with him?
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 02:13 AM
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I(M) don’t mind Your personal preference is not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/21 09:35 PM
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Rule Zero: Stay on topic. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/21 09:28 PM
4

there are a lot of men, like myself, Your personal preference is not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/21 08:58 PM
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Do not pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/21 03:04 AM
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Hi RPW. There are a lot of strong feelings about this post. After a discussion with the mod team, we’ve come to a consensus on how to address this: 1) Advice should come from parents with actual parenting experience, not single, childless people who thought their parents were mean to them. “My parents screwed me up” is not advice and not the starting point of good advice. 2) However, if you have science-based evidence for us, feel free to share it. 3) The most RPW-based advice here was to be a u…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/21 05:09 AM
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Do not pet the unicorns, especially when they are 15 YEARS OLD. You’re done here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/21 02:19 AM
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+1! Keep up the good work, Blackhawk!
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 09:50 PM
2

Rule 9: Your personal preference is not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 05:31 PM
1

Do not insult members of the community. You’re done here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 11:50 PM
3

No concern trolling. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/21 11:49 PM
1

It’s re-approved and opened!
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/21 06:47 AM
5

No problem. Thanks for being a good sport.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/21 06:10 AM
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Rule 2: Posts with the intent of asking whether or not you are being unreasonable is against the rules, because you are seeking sympathy and reassurance, not advice. I’ve removed the post for this reason. If you are willing to edit the post, remove the requests for reassurance and sympathy, and actually ask us for advice for what to do with this, then I can approve the post and we can help you. Otherwise, the post is staying locked.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/21 06:08 AM
1

Rule 9: Men’s questions are not permitted here. Do not encourage this by entertaining them.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/21 02:34 AM
2

Rule 9: Men’s questions are not permitted here. Removed. Use asktrp.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/21 02:33 AM
1

Rule 9: Men’s questions belong on asktrp. We are not here for you to learn about women. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/21 09:18 PM
1

Rule 9: Men’s questions are not allowed here and belong on asktrp. Do not encourage this by entertaining them.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/21 09:10 PM
2

Rule 9: Men’s questions are not allowed. This belongs on asktrp, which you can now find on trp.red. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/21 09:09 PM
1

Your personal preference is not advice. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/21 10:24 PM
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No moralizing and do not insult the community. We literally have a no feminism rule. Being anti-feminist does not mean that we are “biblical nut cases who don’t want women to be allowed to vote.” Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/21 10:09 AM
8

A real man doesn’t... Stop. We don’t do that here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 03:20 AM
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STFU is just an RPW aphorism that encourages the feminine virtue of agreeableness. Basically, it just says to take the time to think and cool down before you speak, as quoted below: STFU is you actively and consciously removing yourself from a situation to better assess it. For those who are more practiced, it could very well be only keeping your mouth closed. However, for most of us self proclaimed strong willed bull headed women we may have to smile and say “ok my love” and walk away. These th…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 03:11 AM
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u/sister-goose : this may help you with your issue of being very defensive towards all male criticism from your recent post. Granted, you do not have to submit to ANYONE that isn’t your partner, but I find that STFU is productive in most other relationships you have, whether they’re friendships, work-based, or family. It helps you to listen to the other person and cool down so you can actually react from a rational, not a defensive state of mind. Then you can address the issue in a productive an…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 10:12 PM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. The Red Pill AND Red Pill Women are both explicitly amoral. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 08:02 PM
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The Back to Basics September post we have lined up for today addresses this issue pretty well. Keep on the lookout :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 06:57 PM
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It’s okay, just wanted you to understand that even lighthearted jabs of disrespect are unproductive in any relationship, especially times of disagreement like the one you’re having right now. Best not to form those bad habits.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 06:43 PM
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Rule 3: Do NOT bash your own SO. If you think he’s a little bit of an idiot, you are also a little bit of an idiot for choosing to be with him. If you realize that you’re not an idiot, then understand why undermining your SO and your Captain reflects negatively on you. If you cannot explain your issue and problems with your situation/him without resorting to disrespect, you need to work on your girl game.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 06:33 PM
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Rule 3: Do not insult people’s SOs. If you cannot explain WHY they are being foolish without resorting to insults, then you need to be quiet. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 06:33 PM
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Rule 4: Advice must come from a red pill perspective. If you hate the red pill, then do not come here, a red pill sub, to complain about it. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 06:27 PM
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Advice must be from a red pill perspective. Weight is absolutely an important factor for women to get under control when it comes to her attractiveness. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/21 01:31 AM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/21 06:38 PM
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No link dropping. If you want people to discuss this document, you need to explain what the document is about.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/21 07:57 PM
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This post was written by FleetingWish, who’s been hanging around RPW for nearly a decade. She knows what’s up. Feel free to check her previous posts for more awesome RPW theory, as well as the wiki page that have compiled posts like this one for just about every RPW subject.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/21 08:06 AM
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Do not pet the unicorns. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/21 02:29 AM
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Sorry, but we do not allow for surveys of our users.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/21 10:18 PM
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I found some examples in the field reports tab. Here are some noteworthy ones: Trusting her SO to take care of her, rather than demanding it, resulted in him giving her the attention and affection she so badly wanted Rather than demanding her SO to bring her on a camping trip, she brought him her problem, not her solution, and let him address it in his own way to great success By choosing to be complementary to her SO, she encourages him to continue treating her so well Used RPW and submissive b…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 11:06 PM
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This isn’t a petting zoo. Try asktrp.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/21 03:37 AM
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Jealousy and the Secret Weapon Against the Forbidden Fruit: Honey. This highly pertains to your current situation.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/21 09:05 PM
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Check out our recent Back to Basics post on Education, Profession, and the RP Woman.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/21 07:55 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/iudeid/new_rule_leave_him_is_never_the_1st_option/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf . Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 03:04 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/iudeid/new_rule_leave_him_is_never_the_1st_option/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/21 07:13 PM
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She was awesome. Look forward to seeing more of her posts this month :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/21 11:05 PM
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There is! So far, most if not all of these posts came from our wiki/sidebar. Edit: Here‘s a link for those who are looking for it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/21 09:42 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Goodbye.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/21 09:24 PM
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We can definitely try to find a post about Briffault’s Law and post it sometime this month! It’s hard for any one post to capture ALL RP tenets and still be cohesive and comprehensible. That’s why we’re dedicating an entire month to this: to focus on all the tenets individually and give them the attention they deserve.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/21 09:04 PM
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...I thought becoming a wife with a wonderful husband and being a plate were mutually exclusive. Looks like “plate school” got her exactly what she wanted: long-term commitment from a quality man.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/21 05:20 AM
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First of all, this is a repost from an older EC, not me. Second of all, did you somehow miss the part where she said these strategies helped her find a wonderful husband, along with a better job, healthier body, and healthier mind?
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/21 06:56 PM
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No link dropping. If you want to discuss this, you need to do a write-up for it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/21 01:33 AM
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Hm, I see what you’re saying. What I think the OP was getting at wasn’t that ALL men are inherently good beings just because they’re men, because anyone with half a brain already knows that’s not true and RPW is explicitly amoral anyways. My interpretation was that masculinity is good in the sense that it’s something we need and strive to find, not only in the context of our relationships and families, but also within society as a whole. Men have been browbeaten into thinking that masculinity is…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/21 01:02 AM
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Rule 10: No moralizing.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/21 08:30 PM
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Rule 9: Men’s questions are not allowed here. Use asktrp.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/21 08:49 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. This is not your first time failing to use an appropriate tone to communicate your thoughts. If you cannot explain yourself without resorting to insults and condescension, we do not need your contributions here. Final warning.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/21 08:18 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Also, your personal preference is not advice.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/21 05:51 AM
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This comment, however, was so off-base that I removed it. See the stickied comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/ph6cuw/why_do_men_prefer_younger_women/hbilbj8/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 01:30 AM
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I’m leaving this comment up for the sake of discussion, but you are no longer following RP theory. Modern women’s fertility is much worse off at 25 than our grandmothers’ at 35. While men’s fertility is somewhat effective as they age, they still produce millions of sperm everyday until they die. Women have a VERY limited number of eggs, eggs that decline in quality due to DNA damage over time. Our eggs in our 30s are much more prone to genetic abnormalities than in our twenties. Once we run out …
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 01:27 AM
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There’s a lot of non-RP information being passed around here. Let me remind you that men and women are different and are attracted to different things in their partners. So comments with sentiments along the lines of: men who like younger women are categorically psychologically unhealthy or emotionally immature TRP is fiction, evil, immoral, or whatever else and has no relevancy to male-female gender dynamics EVERY high-powered, attractive, successful man is married to someone within 5 years of …
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 01:04 AM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/21 08:51 PM
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Has it ever occurred to you that the men you want may not want you because of how bitter and angry you are? Time for a break.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/21 08:27 PM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/21 07:35 PM
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Rule 9: Men’s questions are not allowed. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/21 03:46 AM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. Plastic surgery is not lying, trickery, or deceit, especially if she decides to be honest about it. Even the male TRP founders have talked about how plastic surgery can contribute to radical self improvement for women if necessary. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/21 02:08 AM
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Rule 2: All comments must be made in good faith. Your hamster wheel is going over the speed limit here and you are jumping to WAY too many conclusions. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/21 12:10 AM
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Do not pet the unicorns.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 08:54 PM
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RPW is not for men’s questions. Post is removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 09:12 AM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 09:11 AM
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Removed. Male questions are not allowed. Use asktrp.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/21 04:57 AM
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Thanks for letting us know!
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/21 01:36 AM
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We do not allow male questions here, so your post has been removed. Male questions belong on askTRP. The RPW perspective is much less useful to you as a man than the TRP perspective, radical or not. Keep in mind that RPW and TRP are built upon the same framework, so any advice I give to you would probably be just as “radical” as TRP advice would be.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 09:54 PM
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Rule 3: Do not insult the RP community. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/21 11:41 AM
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You’ve been awarded a star by u/SunshineSundress. Keep up the good work!
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/21 12:04 AM
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You’re not, but you need a reminder that RPW is not TRP. Directly from the guide for male posters: RPW is a female space; we don’t seek a Fight Club environment when we share ideas and advice. While Red Pill Truths are often tough to hear, our delivery methods emphasize compassion and empathy, without becoming overly harsh, stern, or scolding. Mind your language. While we are not prudes, women using swear words or crude phrases is vanishingly rare here. 90% of the time, they are posted by men, w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 05:52 AM
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OP, it seems like you posted this not to listen to advice to address your problems or to get other perspectives, but to virtue signal and rant about not being well off. I’m locking this post.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 02:40 AM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet. Don’t bother commenting if you can’t get your point across without resorting to insults.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 12:39 AM
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Anyone can be an Red Pill Woman, simply because RPW isn’t a lifestyle. RPW is just a toolbox, or a set of strategies, that all women can use to improve their love lives. While some women may be inherently better or worse off because of the life choices they made, it doesn’t mean that if you’re not a pristine virgin then RPW is useless for you. While understanding RPW theory means that we accept most men prefer virgins and un-promiscuous women, among other things, it doesn’t mean that those who a…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 08:44 PM
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You’re in a tricky situation, but I think you’ve gotten some good advice here and if you take the time to read RP theory, educate yourself on male-female dynamics, and work to improve and have realistic expectations, you absolutely have a shot of finding happiness in your love life.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 12:20 PM
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Rule 4: Strategies must come from a red pill perspective. Men aren’t “insecure” for not wanting to date a sex worker. There is definitely room for OP here at RPW, and she can absolutely use RP strategies to better her love life. However, telling her that “there WILL be someone who will absolutely love and appreciate you exactly how you are” is a sweet nothing. If OP wants to use RPW, she will definitely have to put in work and change/improve.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 12:10 PM
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Rule 4: Strategies should be from a red-pilled perspective, not this BS about what a “true man” is.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 06:50 AM
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Rule 3: Do not insult the community or its members.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 08:00 PM
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Rule 0 and Rule 9: Stay on topic and stop projecting your own fears of women cheating on you onto OP.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 08:00 PM
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Rule 10: No moralizing. You are free to disagree with her and explain to her why you think she’s wrong or at fault, but RPW is a toolbox for EVERYONE to use and learn from, even if you disagree with them.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 09:01 AM
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No one is trying to tell her to blame herself. Please note that your other comment was totally acceptable and wasn’t removed because you were actually being reasonable and giving advice in good faith. But coming up with all of these worst-case scenarios as if her boyfriend is the devil himself for not sleeping with her more than 2 times a week does no good besides encourage other people to follow the same faulty reasoning. A man who has sex with his girlfriend weekly or more is not gay by defini…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 08:22 AM
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Guy has sex with his girlfriend twice a week. Gay and using you as a “beard”, porn addicted, seeing or thinking about someone else, drug or pharmaceutical problem... ...Your hamster is going at 90 miles an hour. Stop jumping to conclusions without proof.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 01:01 AM
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Guy has sex with his girlfriend twice a week. Dude is gay or something. ...Uh, what? Do not bad mouth other people’s SOs just because.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/21 12:57 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/iudeid/new_rule_leave_him_is_never_the_1st_option/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Quippy little one liners does nothing to help OP consider her options.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 06:58 PM
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Rule 9: Remove the “guy here” bit and I’ll approve the comment.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 01:51 AM
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Removed. Advice must come from a red pill perspective, not this “a REAL man doesn’t care about how promiscuous his woman is” nonsense.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 10:11 PM
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Removed. Advice must come from a red pill perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 10:09 PM
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Rule 9. So many Rule 9 violations in this crusade you went on. Knock it off and enough with the rants.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 04:12 AM
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Rule 9: remove the “male here” and I’ll approve this comment.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 01:48 AM
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