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| 47 | Hookup culture is a scamProof #2452854723 why we should never deviate from the handbook. Bet he never considered considering you for dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 04:48 PM |
| 115 | Make sure you are his first option. Men can fake and pretend you’re his #1 because they’re lonely, when in fact you aren’t the one they want.Yeah, this is so disturbing and disgusting to me. Never in my life did I feel like the #1... Well, maybe once, to my LVX who did cocaine. Thank god we're not defined by the men in our lives, but when I was a pickme I felt like the lowest trash. Men would just "pump and dump" me and I couldn't understand why on Earth I wasn't special for ANYONE after being brought up on such a steady diet of Titanic-like romantic propaganda. The same men who treated me like a fleshlight waxed lyrical about some o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 12:21 AM |
| 8 | Men use going to the strip club as an excuse to openly cheat without actually labeling it as cheating. You are gaslit by society and men to accept this particular scenario of cheatingUgh strip clubs are gross. Never the cinema or the opera or a library... Trashy men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 04:00 PM |
| 15 | Two recent "dating" experiences.Free brothel is such a great way to put it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 11:19 PM |
| 31 | Two recent "dating" experiences.The questionnaire thing is too naive. They will obviously say whatever they think you want to hear, so on top of everything you'll also be attracting sneaky/manipulative types. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 11:17 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Check-InI was thinking that we could do some sort of glossary for different strokes of scrote. Photoscrote - The "boudoir erotic photographer" who gets inspired by the female form and ends up manipulating you to pose for nudes that he'll paster all over the internet. He also won't pay you, you'd have to pay him, in any case! Dogscrote - The guy who won't shut up about his lovely dog, who he uses for every single one of his profile pics on OLD. Then you find out that he abuses the poor creature, and he a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:25 PM |
| 3 | If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you.Not that bragging about "good" things sounds any better ("I'm a doctor", "I have a 140 IQ", etc), but bragging that you're an idiot or an asshole is another level of lame, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:11 PM |
| 19 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.Lmao what is wrong with their brainnnsssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 03:19 AM |
| 22 | If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you.Same when he jokingly says "I'm an idiot". He most certainly is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:29 PM |
| 9 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.Exactly! Glad other women feel the same as me! It's the biggest turn off to know how they feel about us. I spend a lot of time looking at sexual subs to see how male sexuality works and how they think and it's so screwed and skewed... It's just yuck. I wish they only cared about pleasure (not even love, just goddamn pleasure), but they have to make everything pervy and weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 07:09 AM |
| 6 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire."Costumes in bed" lmao, is he a furry? Dying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 10:14 PM |
| 51 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.Exactly! It's the same with my stance in regards to prostitution and pornography. I'm not "anti-sex"; they are! They attach humiliation, shame and violence to sex. I think this is the main difference between male and female sexuality; we are into the enjoyment of the act itself while they are into whatever they get out of it, such as footage, anecdotes for their bros, money, control... I think their penis is actually a minor factor in their relationship with women. That's what they have porn and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:54 PM |
| 198 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.To those who call us "prudes"... I still like the feeling of having a dick inside of me, theoretically. But then I remember how weird guys get after having sex. It's like they respect you less once their dick has been inside of you. (I would guess they have low self-esteem, lol). I got involved in most shitty, risky and abusive situations in my life because of my sex drive, which is fairly high (not in the porn-y sense of loving random blowjobs and anal sex, I just like intercourse). Because of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 05:38 PM |
| 14 | The straw that broke the camels back for me, and what has turned me angry and bitter against men is not only the abuse they've subjected me to, but the fact that I'm 28 years old and no man has never even gifted me a bouquet.I am your same age and I get the feeling that we're still extremely young. I see women around me meeting HVMs in their thirties and forties which is the same age at which men are more established. At this time I'd rather build up my career, figure myself out and avoid NVM like the plague. But I totally understand! That's why I stopped actively focusing on/seeking out men, since it's super frustrating. I know he'll come to me, whenever the time is right, in a healthy and HV environment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 06:32 AM |
| 2 | What part of leave me alone do LVM not get?Poor baby, waiting for you to fall in love with him since his words are so deep and thoughtful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:50 PM |
| 3 | What part of leave me alone do LVM not get?Lol, right on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:49 PM |
| 154 | So many times"I would pay to fuck you" "No thanks" "Ur FaT n DiSgUsTiNg" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:48 PM |
| 10 | Thoreau - the baby manLmaoo. Yeah keep these coming! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 20 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡Don't go looking for anything on tinder except comic relief. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:58 PM |
| 108 | Scrote is a disrespectful jerk on OLD. Gets praised and awarded for lowering the bar by other scrotesI don't even think he goes to the gym lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:56 PM |
| 24 | The most requested item at the Afghan refugee camps are condoms! As an Afghan American this disgusts me. So these men that already have 4+ kids while their wives are probably exhausted with no real home of their own and he’s just thinking about his penis. Not surprised.They disgust me so much. Only women and children should be accepted as refugees, imo. Men only bring violence, rape and disgrace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:54 PM |
| 13 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡I've dated several nationalities/ethnicities and it's all the same shit with different flavor, really. White guys just hide their misogyny at first and talk libfem nonsense to get into your pants, but is every bit a momma's boy as the desi man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 10 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡It took a Muslim Indian for me to find FDS, so I agree! True hypocrites with a Madonna/Whore complex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:31 AM |
| 8 | Why it Never Works When Forever Gf Finally Gets the RingSame thing happened with Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt. Married after 9 years together, with a bunch of kids, and separated after 2. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Ensuring you NEVER date or marry a porn-addict is DETRIMENTAL to your health, both mental and physical. This is why FDS considers pornography consumption in men an instant deal-breaker."Ableist puritan kinkshamers!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:58 AM |
| 11 | Channeling this energy today.Gen Z "cum on my face daddy" libfems will eventually come around. The smart ones will find real feminism and the dumb ones will blame it because SlUt ShaMiNg and I wonder why I can't get a job if my sex tape is plastered all over the internet?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 10:48 PM |
| 4 | Ensuring you NEVER date or marry a porn-addict is DETRIMENTAL to your health, both mental and physical. This is why FDS considers pornography consumption in men an instant deal-breaker.I can't believe how much my view of life changed since I knew FDS. It was like a second birth. I grew up thinking that a boyfriend and a soulmate were the meaning of life, and lost so many years to that line of thinking. Years I could have spent studying, learning new things. Now I'm like... Can I get those years back please!? I'm having the time of my life. No scrote is better company than my own. I'm so intelligent and cultured. But I never suspected it when scrotes were treating me like a pie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 10:40 PM |
| 28 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.Back when I used Tinder, two matches in the same day sent me (no introduction or context or anything that made me suspect this was coming) videos of themselves banging some other woman. Apparently this was to show me how they would fuck me. Did these women know? Probably not. They probably didn't even know they were being recorded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 03:23 AM |
| 26 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.There is even a subreddit called Rate My Wife, and many others dedicated to the same concept (Rate My Sister, Rate My Mom, etc.) They leak nudes that they find in their female relatives' phones. Granted, some must be fakes, but there's a big possibility that some are legit. It's extremely disturbing to go down the rabbit hole of male depravity but I HIGHLY recommend it, even if you do it only once in your life and need to vomit afterwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 03:20 AM |
| 38 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.You're not alone, god only knows how many scrotes have nudes of me from ever since I was a child. I want to go back and scream at her HEY! THERE'S A SITE THAT WILL EXIST SOMEDAY THAT IS CALLED FDS! AND THERE'S ALSO SOMETHING CALLED MALE DEPRAVITY! But it's okay: we've been there, done that, we know how it feels. Time to move on, and to wake up our sisters who are still asleep. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 03:17 AM |
| 18 | Men are becoming aware of women's anti pornography stances and are using it to manipulate women.Why do LVM behave exactly like viruses?! Mutating in function of their hosts and all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:05 AM |
| 61 | “My love language is PhYSiCal TouCh”Sometimes I look at NSFW subs like "jerkofftogether" just to read the comments and feel better about my life. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:57 AM |
| 5 | Cringeworthy :/"She smiled at me while pulling up my wheelchair so she definitely wants to fuck me! Hurr Durr!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 12:22 PM |
| 49 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.Yep this is what I thought too. She's also not his type and kinda dorky and awkward, he's more into model types. Was probably looking for a bangmaid who looked up to him since she's so fascinated by tech and sci fi, but I don't think he gives a damn about women's interests or personal ambitions. He was probably mad she wanted to stay in LA to work on her music. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 04:08 AM |
| 85 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.The worst part is he probably left her since she has zero self-esteem. He's so gross not supporting her (the mother of his child!) but giving free money to Amber Heard because she's blonde and hot. He also corrected Grimes on twitter in front of everybody because she made a typo after giving birth, and tweeted "pronouns suck" just to piss her off. Seriously fuck that guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 03:59 AM |
| 27 | Cringeworthy :/LOL so this is a thing! I'm dead 😂 "She's taking such a long shower, my seed is so thick and sticky Hurr Durr" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 03:46 AM |
| 45 | Cringeworthy :/Before FDS I let a scrote cum over my body, he told me to go to the bathroom and got really puzzled when I said "nah, I won't go wash off, this is nothing, and they say it's good for the skin!" I kind of hated him by that point and wanted him to feel that his semen was like watery meh. I actually felt like he had degraded himself by cumming over me like a ridiculous baby and thinking I'd make a whole scene of going to the bathroom to clean up, lmao. They are so insecure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:14 AM |
| 6 | Feeling humiliated and objectified *trigger warning*He's a total piece of trash! Even worse because he knew you had a crush on "him" (actually a fantasy). Something similar happened to me, it was so nasty. | /r/askFDS | 24/09/21 10:37 PM |
| 44 | "The fact real women have their own motivations IS A REAL TURNOFF"Lol. Not that those smart women with motivations would be attracted to this douchebag either way 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:34 PM |
| 240 | "The fact real women have their own motivations IS A REAL TURNOFF"I WaS BeInG FacEtiOuS You're so special and unique! Revolutionary! Groundbreaking! Nobody ever saw women as objects before you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:32 PM |
| 38 | Cringeworthy :/Maybe a scrote made this meme? Never in my life did I meet a woman who craved semen on her face. By the way, they DO think that's what we mean when we "thank" their shitty compliments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:25 PM |
| 4 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.They're either robots or have a grave mental disorder. Even autistic people or psychopaths have a mild idea of how society works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:19 PM |
| 34 | My current bf told me he uses asmr to j##k off. Is that weird??Ugh yeah, that's why I don't do selfies anymore and I feel so sad for my pickme friends/acquaintances when they upload their pouty faces. They're just masturbation fodder! | /r/askFDS | 24/09/21 07:21 PM |
| 45 | My current bf told me he uses asmr to j##k off. Is that weird??This. Why even believe what they say? | /r/askFDS | 24/09/21 07:12 PM |
| 53 | My current bf told me he uses asmr to j##k off. Is that weird??So he's masturbating to other women who are not even consenting. I looked them up and they do show their faces and bodies... | /r/askFDS | 24/09/21 07:09 PM |
| 6 | Feeling humiliated and objectified *trigger warning*I remember telling you to block and delete this douche a while ago, now I feel like maybe I should have been more emphatic? :( I still didn't expect him to turn out to be a rapist... I'm so sorry this happened. I'm here if you need anything. | /r/askFDS | 24/09/21 07:00 PM |
| 67 | My current bf told me he uses asmr to j##k off. Is that weird??I'm sorry to tell you this but he may be using "hypno sissy porn." I actually just found out about it yesterday, but I'm sure other ladies may be able to tell you more about it. You can search for the term in the main FDS sub. It's pretty dangerous from what I read. | /r/askFDS | 24/09/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???Yeah a total "nice guy"! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:48 PM |
| 8 | Dear Nanobot Scientists: Please don’t help lazy Sperm reach our valuable eggs. Signed, Women.WAT. No way I'd be giving informated consent for this though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:25 PM |
| 9 | Dear Nanobot Scientists: Please don’t help lazy Sperm reach our valuable eggs. Signed, Women.Jesus... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:21 PM |
| 12 | Dear Nanobot Scientists: Please don’t help lazy Sperm reach our valuable eggs. Signed, Women.Keep it to yourself and let them die mad about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Do not date recovering porn addicts, this post is another example of the misery and pain dealing with a pornsick man. So many scrotes defending him in the comments🤢Haven't you heard? FDS makes them suicidal and it's digital self-harm! :( lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:11 PM |
| 7 | Do not date recovering porn addicts, this post is another example of the misery and pain dealing with a pornsick man. So many scrotes defending him in the comments🤢"Your body your choice" lmfaooo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:08 PM |
| 36 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪Maybe she has an orgasm kink lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:01 PM |
| 13 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪They'd be like "what a pushy stalker! keep beating your dick to the porn stars bro, they are so much hotter than that fat ugly slog lmao!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:58 PM |
| 5 | anyone here ever just declared war with a man?🧡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:56 PM |
| 23 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪Yeah I'd rather have them jerk off and die off than go out and abuse real humans, but sadly they do both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:54 PM |
| 19 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪Ugh. I guess they don't try stand and carry that much because then they'd have to make an effort... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:53 PM |
| 13 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪...Damn. I still can't decide whether it's the depravity or the sheer stupidity. Maybe both? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:52 PM |
| 22 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪Ugh, so they believe fictional movies instead of the women who decide to sleep with them. OK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:46 PM |
| 37 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪Exactly. Hite's report would still be groundbreaking today. We are most likely to get off because of clitoral stimulation, but these selfish dickheads never got the memo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:47 PM |
| 45 | The entitlement to your partners body it’s probably why they don’t want to be intimate with you anymore. The total lack of awareness. 😪Just now I realize that's why they do it. I feel so gross now. Bless my heart for thinking they did it for any other reason... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:43 PM |
| 29 | Funny?? - women are treated worse than pets.Dog scrotes are dumb and evil. They like having the dog around as a weird power trip. Guess why I'm a cat lady? I love the fact that my cat comes around when she wants, because she feels like it, and purrs softly for as long as she wants. Dogs used to be independent too until scrotes domesticated them into submission, just like they tried to do with us, their fellow humans. Most dogs are sadly literally pickmes now and will StiCk ArOunD even when beat and abused. What they lack is the intelligen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:36 PM |
| 28 | Sex work is always coercion, there is never true consent."they LIKE that it's coercive/abusive." This is the whole point for me. Even if you try to cool girl it and "enjoy", they won't let you, because they hate you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:27 PM |
| 44 | Sex work is always coercion, there is never true consent."The non-consent is what gets these people off. The thought that they can force a woman who would otherwise not touch them to perform sexual acts with them to do it by giving her money is the whole thrill." And THIS is why they're rapists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 01:23 PM |
| 5 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?Haha yessss! 😂 No way I'm calling them photographers. Pornographers maybe! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:50 AM |
| 11 | I don’t believe it when men say they can’t understand women.Good point. It's also sexist as hell to say "I don't understand women" because it means they see us as a fucking hive mind. They can't connect on a personal level so they make all these stupid theories about what a woman is and what a woman is not. We're just people Kyle, not sex robots with heels and lipstick and different colored themes jfc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 07:30 PM |
| 25 | anyone here ever just declared war with a man?The approach here is "don't engage" and "block and delete" but yeah, I personally hold grudges for ages. It really sucks because I keep thinking about their shit and getting angry. Then I remember they are already miserable and pathetic and the best revenge is doing my best in my own life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 07:21 PM |
| 45 | Pick me cultureLibfems do it because THEY want to, ok??? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 07:06 PM |
| 15 | Pick me culture"pulling their puppet strings" I love you 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 07:03 PM |
| 19 | Pick me cultureSmh. Sounds like a pickme who wants to piss off stay at home moms by calling them "repressed" while they're probably being abused by a scrote with Madonna whore complex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 07:00 PM |
| 383 | Some scrotes actually think like this--can you even imagine the privilege to complain about this???"fat, ugly feminist" "the respect we deserve" GFY spineless little prick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 06:51 PM |
| 17 | Beware the hobosexual and other bumsHappy for you! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 06:13 PM |
| 28 | Newly-separated Scrote creeps on female FB friends, throws mantrum when they don't respondI remember when I called out a scrote as he tried to gaslight me, so he smirked and said "YoU'rE a SmArT GiRL :)". No shit you clown, I publish academic papers, teach at my college and I'm also 27 years old. The same idiot tried to fake that he read books when I told him I was a writer, but couldn't name a single one. 😂 It felt like a cockroach was looking down on me. Next time they call me girl, I'll call them boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:54 PM |
| 42 | Newly-separated Scrote creeps on female FB friends, throws mantrum when they don't respond"Shut up, hole!" 😂 You gals are the funniest. We should start a comedy show or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:45 PM |
| 55 | Beware the hobosexual and other bumsLol, not dating again yet but I feel sorry for the scrotes who may cross my path after FDS, they will get so owned 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:43 PM |
| 45 | Beware the hobosexual and other bumsI can't with these gamer/streamer/"erotic photographer" (pimp) breeds. Like, no job at all would be even more dignified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:40 PM |
| 72 | Beware the hobosexual and other bumsYessss I loved the show and the podcast! Perfect FDS case study. Debra was a HVW professionally but still a pickme romantically. And her daughters kick ass! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:36 PM |
| 1 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)They seriously think "latina/black/Slavic/x pussy" is a thing. Stupidity unbounded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:31 PM |
| 8 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?That's genius 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 04:00 AM |
| 16 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?Suicide Girls? I remember looking at that site in my teens but was way too young to join, thank God. It seemed so edgy and cool and it's so cringy now! I also remember Model Mayhem. Our brains were seriously not developed and do these guys take advantage of that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:56 AM |
| 8 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?Yeah, Philippe Servaty was also a "journalist professional" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philippe\_Servaty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:53 AM |
| 115 | Update: I posted here a few days ago about a longtime male (now ex) friend in his 30’s randomly sexualizing my 13 yo daughter (check my post history for more details). Many of you prophecized that he would say “it was just a joke”. And well, received this from a mutual friend tonight.Him saying it was a "fucked up joke" makes it even more infuriating. He was 100% trying to sound like he was giving you serious advice and now is trying to backpedal and gaslight his way back into your life. It is always the "DaRk HuMoR" defense with these idiots! Nobody needs your dumb perverted ass! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:47 AM |
| 26 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?Ugh. I did pose for nudes with a photoscrote who said he would upload them to his website against my will because it was his art (??) when I thought they were just for me. Blocked him afterwards. I was so naïve and brainwashed 😣 Underage pickmes usually fall prey to these guys because they want photoshoots of themselves to feel like celebrities. Now with OnlyFans there's a lot of photoscrotes who devote themselves entirely to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:23 AM |
| 16 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)He'd be fucking flabbergasted lmao. "I'd like an international football player with rock hard abs and a 7 inch dick who drives me on his private jet. (I was never a Stacey in high school, so I have to make up for it! How about that, mean girls!! 😠😡🤬) On the side, maybe an intellectual with a posh British accent. Hmm! Never tried that one! He would whisper whole Shakespeare monologues into my ear as foreplay and go down on me for three hours. After coming for the tenth time and eating his bangers… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:14 AM |
| 3 | If you want a revolution, don't appeal to men in the hopes of getting them to see our POV. Instead, open other women's eyes to the stark reality of dating and gender relations.Yep, that's also pathetic, but I was talking about punters. It's absolutely dehumanizing the way they talk about women. :S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 02:29 PM |
| 12 | LVM don't just hate women. They hate HVM too.They envy them yes, but they only despise us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 06:32 PM |
| 59 | If you want a revolution, don't appeal to men in the hopes of getting them to see our POV. Instead, open other women's eyes to the stark reality of dating and gender relations.I learned about their true nature while reading sex tourism message boards. It's a slap in the face, but necessary. They don't see us as human, full stop. What would they care about being "educated"? Not our duty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Check-inWipe their butt after we're done seducing and enthralling them like the gentle-women we are. Emasculated baby clowns with a faulty chromosome... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 06:13 PM |
| 8 | Women need to stop pathologizing themselves and start listening to their intuition with men1000000000% Earlier this year I went on a trip and used Tinder to meet people (pre-FDS of course). I met a seemingly chivalrous guy and for some reason I felt so uneasy around him I thought I was going to have a heart attack. He then degraded me sexually and verbally in the most terrible ways, which I sadly didn't consider assault at the moment (thank you, liberal feminism!). Thanks to this whole episode I found you, FDS, and my life changed forever. If not for men, I'd probably not suffer from … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:46 PM |
| 36 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksBest book ever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:32 PM |
| 31 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksOf course, she must have had it coming because of her "mental health" AKA abuse-induced anxiety AKA Your Own Freaking Gut Instinct!!! Jesus. The Gift of Fear should be mandatory reading. I can't even with this douchebag, his family and THE USELESS COPS with their "women are crazy" talk. Everybody failed her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:30 PM |
| 39 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksSadly we can't talk about biology on reddit. 🤫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:25 PM |
| 33 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksI think about this all the time and it's so disturbing. I love babies but my POS father was a baby once too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:23 PM |
| 28 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksBecause not all men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:22 PM |
| 43 | 22 year old Gabbie Petito’s remains have been found after being missing for weeksWoke mysoginistic crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-inYeah, and they expect US to chase THEM and carry the convos! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-inI have an OkCupid account I barely use and check intro messages once in a while just out of curiosity for the terrible state of affairs. MEN ARE SO AWFUL AT CONVERSATION. Not talking about the typical "hey" or "let's have fun ;)" scroteys. I mean the slightly "smarter" ones. Once I give them a chance at conversation given their slightly above average effort intro, they fizzle out. They think everything is given once they got my initial attention, and their subsequent messages get less and less e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:03 PM |
| 167 | Yes means YesSo damn relatable. I mainly had sex as a way of saying "thank you for considering me attractive!" or whatever lol. My self-esteem was as low as my bar (in hell). Never ever did I orgasm from the encounter itself - I always had to retort to some other fantasy I had in my mind. Dissociated everytime. Scrotes would never understand this, I think only a woman could know what it feels like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 12:37 AM |
| 31 | Green flag - thoughtful, non-sexual giftsI cringed so hard at the second paragraph omfg! I felt violated just by reading it lol. What a pornsick soulless bastard. Idk if regular non-sexual gifts are a green flag by themselves, they should be more like "the norm", but still glad that he seems like a normal person so far. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 12:31 AM |
| 6 | My Mom is a Pick Me. And I dont want her to pick me anymore.I'm so sorry you had to go through that! I think there comes a point in life where we have to become our own moms and dads. My mom went through hell and back (all the kinds of abuse you can imagine), and even she sometimes has the reflex of saying "NoT ALL MeN!" when I start ranting on about them. I always tell her to name ONE exception and she can never come up with anything lol. She's still not a pick me thank god, and gave me all the love I ever needed, but the social conditioning is strong. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:56 PM |
| 46 | FDS organizations?I'd also like to know. It's a shame that we can't get together in person. Here in Argentina it's full of pro-sex work, sex-pozzi, gender-enforcing kinkmeishas. They also claim to hate capitalism and imperialism btw! (even though these ideologies all come from US universities lol). I stopped going to feminist marches because the dick pandering just made me want to puke. Before FDS I couldn't put my finger on what bothered me and thought maybe I wasn't really a feminist or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:47 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone else feel let down by the nofap movement?Totally. They still just care about their dicks but in a different way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:41 PM |
| 70 | Black women are not protected, LVM plans to rob a woman and goes to her home pretending to want her number.Exactly, it's black women and children who bear the blunt of this infantilizing logic. Still, the world is seen as the struggle between white men and men of color and that's it, women are just the pawns. Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 01:23 AM |
| 136 | Black women are not protected, LVM plans to rob a woman and goes to her home pretending to want her number.Not to talk about the pick mes who tell you not to report black men to the police because god forbid they do something to him, even when your life is in danger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 10:00 PM |
| 9 | 19th century FDSAmazing! 💚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 07:22 PM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Check-in"It didn’t work, he says that condom is the problem." Glaring red flag. Low-key pressuring you into unprotected sex or otherwise his pee pee wouldn't FeEL or even get up. I'd suggest to go slow and be cautious and wait around 3 months. Also just because you're dating doesn't mean you automatically get to have unprotected sex. He should get tested and wear a condom until the results are due. If he's not willing to wear it he's probably got a sensitivity problem in his dick due to porn and excessi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 06:38 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: My Experience Implementing the 3 Month Rule of FDS. TDLR: For your own protection, wait EVEN LONGER than 3 months, preferably 6+. Men are sheep in wolf's clothing when they are trying to get a 50/50 roommate and after this, I will NEVER cohabitate with a man again until marriageAw! Thank you for appreciating my comment! I am sure you knew all of this already, but still felt like I had to say it, since sometimes we're so blinded by how we wish things were that we give scrotes the benefit of the doubt. That's why being so strict with FDS principles is the way to go. I'm glad you're living your best life now! That's seriously how I feel since I discovered FDS in April, and I can't wait to hit the year benchmark next February since I last had "sex" (more like he held me do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 03:47 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: My Experience Implementing the 3 Month Rule of FDS. TDLR: For your own protection, wait EVEN LONGER than 3 months, preferably 6+. Men are sheep in wolf's clothing when they are trying to get a 50/50 roommate and after this, I will NEVER cohabitate with a man again until marriageI'm glad you're safe now. I did notice some red flags when reading your original post, if it's useful: It seems like you met on OLD. As you may know, that's generally not endorsed by FDS. Men in OLD tend to be the bottom of the barrel. The fact that he became possessive even before you were a couple, asking you to delete your profile and asking if you were kissing other people. Way out of line. The fact that you "revealed" your strategy to him and how he seemed to purposefully mold himself to yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 03:09 PM |
| 3 | What are some of the reddest red flags you’ve ever seen on a date or during a relationship?Not even IRL, but when I was 16 I chatted with a 20 yo (🤡) who said he'd considered necrophilia once in the middle of Utah (???) like that was a fun anecdote. He now considers himself a feminist anarchist Bernie supporter on the absolute right side of history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣Jesus Christ, racist to boot. The "black man big dick" stereotype is so offensive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I hate how "similar" men on OLD platforms areThey're all apparently "laid back". Yawn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 04:02 PM |
| 5 | Does the cringe ever go away?Thank you! | /r/askFDS | 12/09/21 06:41 PM |
| 11 | Does the cringe ever go away?Thank you, I'll check them out! There are a lot of books I've been meaning to read, like The Body Keeps the Score, Feeling Good, Complex PTSD Surviving to Thriving, etc. So far I've read The Gift of Fear and totally recommend it if you haven't read it already! It's amazing for survival situations and managing stalkers. | /r/askFDS | 12/09/21 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal to feel severely depressed after casual sex? How do I stop feeling shameful and worthless?Yeah, he's definitely just looking for sex, and his ex is always going to serve him as an excuse not to commit to anyone. We women are usually all emotional and empathic, making up fantasies in our heads of what we wish they were, while they're just thinking about their dick. It really helps to de-romantize them in our heads and not see them as these tortured souls that we have to save... They literally just care about their weens, lmao. Celibacy and browsing FDS truly made me see the light and … | /r/askFDS | 10/09/21 06:26 PM |
| 7 | Being stalked and harassed by a scroteLol, he's probably living in a trailer or in his parents basement. | /r/askFDS | 10/09/21 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Guys, he has the sex tape!I fucking hate these violating wastes of space and how they take advantage of our vulnerable, traumatized pickme past selves. I hope they die a painful and lonely death. | /r/askFDS | 10/09/21 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal to feel severely depressed after casual sex? How do I stop feeling shameful and worthless?Girl, celibacy cured my depression! It started because of COVID but then I realized it was actually doing wonders for me. I was a mess for years, crying all the time, not focusing on my studies, etc. and now I'm more ambitious, calm and emotionally balanced. Save the sex for your future life partner and focus on your goals, you'll thank yourself later! As for this dude, just let the time pass and you'll totally forget about him, I promise. There are more interesting things. | /r/askFDS | 10/09/21 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Rant about my weird dateHe sounds like a real asshole. And don't feel obligated to kiss strangers in a first date, especially if you don't like them! | /r/askFDS | 10/09/21 04:33 PM |
| 10 | Being stalked and harassed by a scroteWow. That's seriously creepy! | /r/askFDS | 10/09/21 04:27 PM |
| 17 | Being stalked and harassed by a scroteThat's why you don't engage with scrotes. I had to start over several times, and found out it's less of a hassle to not be in social media at all. | /r/askFDS | 10/09/21 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Destroy the concept that your teen years are supposed to be fun and once you hit 25, you’re old and it’s over. Some of us had to heal from trauma during our teen years and our 20s (30s, 40s, 50s and so on) and would like to begin a good life without constantly being told it’s too late.I got serious about study/work, left my pickme habits, stopped using OLD/having random sex and became more confident just this year at 27. Mentally and socially speaking, I was still a child for most of my 20s, and spent ages 20-23 "dating" a much older scrote who almost derailed my life while I had constant panic attacks and insomnia. I would only go back IF I could go back with the knowledge and realizations I have today, so I could do things differently. Otherwise, hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 04:37 PM |
| 14 | Stop saying porn ruined men. It's a lieI wanna buy your book! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 03:48 AM |
| 38 | "In my head, girls are clean"😒Cut off those friendships. You have your whole 20s ahead of you, so make them count with high value people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:28 PM |
| 11 | Anybody share this benchmark? I'm getting over pickmeism and so happy!Thank you! Yes, it's wonderful. One less thing I have to worry about. | /r/askFDS | 23/07/21 11:57 PM |
| 15 | Anybody share this benchmark? I'm getting over pickmeism and so happy!Thank you! I typically went after mentally imbalanced fuckbois and my life was constant misery. This one seemed decent but we still didn't quite connect, and I was actually looking for a reason to block (as you say, never settle) until he wrote me this paragraph and I literally did not care AT ALL. It was like, whoa, is this really happening?! I'm super proud of me today haha. | /r/askFDS | 23/07/21 11:56 PM |
| 13 | 💕 Dear PickMe; Love, Maya 💕I'm totally fine, even less burdened now because I was seeing red flags but felt like blocking would be rude, he did me a favor lol. And no sex since I found this sub. You guys are my highlight of the year :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 09:29 PM |
| 40 | 💕 Dear PickMe; Love, Maya 💕I just wanted to thank you. For the first time a man I was vetting dumped me over text and I.DIDN'T.CARE! Years ago I would have cried, even self-harmed, definitely gone off to fuck random scrotes. I feel amazing and weightless. Thank you queens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 09:19 PM |
| 37 | Do I (42m) break up with my (25f) girlfriend now that I know this age discrepancy is not okay?I think yeah, you should. The very fact that you're asking that says volumes. | /r/askFDS | 23/07/21 09:15 PM |
| 7 | What to think about when masturbating?Summertime as a concept? | /r/askFDS | 10/07/21 03:29 AM |
| 6 | What to think about when masturbating?Lol! Will check it out! 😂 | /r/askFDS | 10/07/21 03:28 AM |
| 13 | What to think about when masturbating?Oh that sucks! Try to think of anything else then. Masturbation doesn't have to be sad and he doesn't deserve your tears or your orgasms. | /r/askFDS | 09/07/21 11:06 PM |
| 11 | What to think about when masturbating?Yes! I wish I could find a way to read women written stories only. I remember that my first times were to the Arabian Nights, that was before I had internet lol. Way more healthy. | /r/askFDS | 09/07/21 11:04 PM |
| 41 | (Tw) why did he do thisWhy? Because he's a psychopath POS. | /r/askFDS | 09/07/21 02:39 PM |
| 6 | A list of famous, hot and rich HVM to give the ladies hope and freak out the LVM lurkersYeah Harry is kind of a spoiled jerk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 06:07 PM |
| 27 | A list of famous, hot and rich HVM to give the ladies hope and freak out the LVM lurkersNah, Bowie ain't it, he raped teenage girls and made fetishist racial remarks about Iman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys lovebomb/ give false promises? the woman ends up falling for the projected fake personality, not truly love him for himSex. | /r/askFDS | 06/07/21 08:55 PM |
| 15 | Response to the “used goods GF” post 👻Yes! I'm from Argentina. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 07:10 PM |
| 30 | Reminder: LVM will pick at absolutely anything to make you feel less than. See it for what it is.The small dick energy is off the charts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:29 PM |
| 35 | Response to the “used goods GF” post 👻This gives me so many NVX flashbacks lol. I remember when he told me his dad took him to see prostitutes as a teen like it was no big deal and he couldn't understand why I was horrified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-InI have a question! Since the 50/50 issue was discussed this week, there's an ex (the only partner I had) who I sometimes remember longingly. However, the thread reminded me that once I started working (I made the bare minimum and was overworked, while he made much more and only went to his office for 3 hours a day since his dad put him there) he told me to "put both of our salaries together and divide it in half". I had a nervous breakdown and went back to being unemployed anyway, because I just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 06:45 PM |
| 3 | This is Lilith from the FDS Podcast. I'm deleting my Reddit account because I'm tired of misogyny and harassment on Reddit.I'm very active in ovarit and never ran across any man. Maybe you should try for yourself. I think it's very compatible with FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 06:33 AM |
| 7 | Dead bedroom? It's just biology at work, sweatyI could see my vagina caving in, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 03:39 PM |
| 26 | Dead bedroom? It's just biology at work, sweatyThey "cockblock" themselves by being such asshats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:24 AM |
| 52 | Dead bedroom? It's just biology at work, sweatyYep, a man not knowing how to fry an egg or not cleaning his feces from the toilet gets old real fast. That's the real reason why living together kills so many relationships. The solution is not living apart and only getting together to fuck and go on lame cheap "dates" to keep the excitement alive, the solution is that he behaves like a functioning adult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 11:05 PM |
| 61 | Dead bedroom? It's just biology at work, sweatySomething similar happened to me! My NVX didn't do a baby voice but he would just put on an annoying solo show that could last for hours where he would just do weird voices, say nonsensical things and not register my presence at all. He called it "trolling" and he even did it when I was dealing with serious stuff and needed to talk. I guess it was his way of stonewalling me. I would tell him to stop because I was either 1) super annoyed or 2) at the verge of crying, and he'd complain that I had … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 10:56 PM |
| 25 | I'm out of words. I was skeptical about "They won't even like you yet they will stay with you for s#x", but this has over thousand upvotes and no one judged him for this.Never tell them about your mental struggles. Learned this the hard way. They can, and will, use anything against you. You don't want to get PTSD on top of the issues you're already struggling with, so tread very carefully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 24 | At FDS, we are not SWERFS. In fact, our goal is to help as many women as possible escape the industry. Here's why.Exactly. They just manipulate language so they can distort reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Being an OF model/stripper/camgirl/sex worker is not empowering, here's what is empoweringThank god no but he totally would do that, I wish there was a way to catch these demons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 11:01 PM |
| 4 | Being an OF model/stripper/camgirl/sex worker is not empowering, here's what is empoweringThank you! Yes, and sometimes it's hard to think that they're not all the same. The goal of this sub is to believe that there are HVM but I don't even know if the end goal of my life is to have some guy bend down on one knee anymore. There's so much risk and so little reward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:59 PM |
| 7 | Being an OF model/stripper/camgirl/sex worker is not empowering, here's what is empoweringI'm 27! What made me come off as a child? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:30 PM |
| 92 | Being an OF model/stripper/camgirl/sex worker is not empowering, here's what is empoweringStorytime: During quarantine and after a lifetime of males abusing my trust, body and mental integrity I decided to date women exclusively even though I'm bisexual. I went into a lesbian chatroom with the excitement I had when I was 12. I started chatting with who I believed was a woman, and on their side of the webcam a clip of a porn actress started playing. "But that's a recording right?" I said. I had only shown my face and my breasts for a few seconds, because I was so excited at the prospe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:33 AM |
| 68 | My favorite TikTok doc 🩺 he has many videos making fun of trash men and advises women to do better ☺️Actually seeing those implants in front of me made me realize that it's just plastic. It sounds obvious but how ridiculous that these men are attracted to literal plastic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 04:50 PM |
| 6 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂He is the Ted Bundy type who tried to become a successful lawyer ONLY to spite his first girlfriend, who left him because he was a loser back then. This one may become a serial killer, just saying. And also... Let's SEE how successful he is at the still super young age of 28, lol. The twenties go by pretty fast, chances are he'll still be living with his parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:37 PM |
| 7 | Cheaters, STI’s and how dating apps aid low value men to sling their dick around. I think it’s time HVW boycotted them.This is all so true. Lockdown has me so bored that I've spent the past several days reading intros on OKC, and holy shit. Not one single decent person. "Hey", "You look naughty", "👌" as a response to one of my pictures, those are the best ones. Some ask stupid questions that are supposed to be thought-provoking like "What would you do if you had a time machine and why?". The profiles are near damn sociopathic. "No women with tattoos allowed", "Won't date you if you did drugs in the past", "I am … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 05:23 PM |
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