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So she finishes herself off exclusively on her clit? What is her technique like and how does it differ from yours?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 03:25 PM
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"I'm getting too sensitive" and squirms, literally pulling away. She then finishes herself off How does she finish herself off, assuming it was her clit which becomes too sensitive and squirming away?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 03:00 PM
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If she is not constantly attached to your dick, meaning she doesn't just put her head on your crotch and starts playing with it randomly while you are watching tv or a movie or playing a game and ignoring her. That woman is not experiencing genuine attraction. I know this is all true, but trp also teaches that the man should initiate and escalate whenever he wants. Also, where do women fall in who don't initiate, but are always open to your advances?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 02:06 PM
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How to proceed?
/r/askTRP01/07/16 08:01 PM
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How do I go about things now?
/r/askTRP01/07/16 08:01 PM
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Trust a woman's actions, never her words. She can tell you you're the love of her life and she couldn't ever cheat on you, then 3 hours later she's spread eagle on Chad's bed begging for him.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:41 AM
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She was in bed. When I noticed she had walked outside, I was thinking "I'm making you come out for nothing". Fuck this is making me cringe. Also, jacket is closer to $200.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 10:23 PM
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Possibly, I honestly felt like being mean (making her walk out and leaving her there), because I was angry at the fact she felt she had any right to be angry (slamming the door). As I said, I broke frame badly and this is all very embarrassing.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 09:54 PM
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We used her car, was really hot that day and didn't feel like carrying it around.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 09:11 PM
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I'd seen this posted before and it seems to imply in front of others and is delivered in a humorous way. I'm talking strictly in private how is a man to deal with too many struggles getting to him.
/r/askTRP21/06/16 03:36 AM
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Is it still a shit test and how do you respond, when someone is genuinely making them uncomfortable?
/r/askTRP20/06/16 08:31 PM
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Thank you for this. I needed to be reminded.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 03:36 AM
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"I'm always in your heart bby"
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:57 PM
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Thanks for this. So my absolute disdain will send the message that I do not approve of her partaking either? And if I wanted to try something for myself, would it be seen as approving of the behavior or could I somehow play it into a one-time thing only?
/r/askTRP16/06/16 09:46 PM
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No LTR, but girls in general will bring up these type of things (not so much the twerking).
/r/askTRP16/06/16 08:34 PM
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Ok, but enough with the twerking. How about for the other examples in general?
/r/askTRP16/06/16 08:30 PM
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More asking if I'll record her so she can post it.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 06:30 PM
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That's the thing, I never pay for girls on the regular. I never set things up that way. This girl I've actually taken out once as a reward and payed for everything. Still I'm making changes in my life and I have doubts about her being ready for those changes, so I may just end up leaving her.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 03:59 AM
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I tried something like this. Told her I basically needed time for myself and didn't want to spend our time with her just complaining. She got real quiet then completely changed to being super affectionate and happy.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 03:49 AM
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It did feel petty and if she was strictly a friend I would've given it to her. I remember reading somewhere that you can't ever help girls financially the way you can guys, because they'll take it differently and causes a loss in attraction. She's a great girl, I just wish she managed her money better for her future and I'd hate to set it up like she can just come to me when she needs money.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 08:49 PM
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My question is is saying "no" when girls ask to borrow money a good move? I elaborated on not remembering owing her, which she didn't bring up until a few minutes later and is only part of my second question.
/r/askTRP14/06/16 08:53 PM
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Could you provide link to this "cheater's guide"?
/r/askTRP11/06/16 12:24 AM
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Potential LTR, she is not my GF, but she wants to be and has been pushing for commitment going out of her way to do things for me. Knows we are officially just "dating", knows this means I'm not exclusive with her but hopes I will be "when" we become bf-gf.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 10:34 PM
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This I can do. What about my reaction in person? I can hold frame pretty well, but I want to demonstrate with my actions that I am not ok with this.
/r/askTRP10/06/16 08:52 PM
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It depends on how you do it and your perspective of the situation. You can be her sub on your knees trying to please her for her pleasure. You can also be the dominant alpha, forcing her back and spreading her legs to devour her pussy to satisfy your lust, grabbing her by the hair, running your strong hands over her delicate body to her throat as you tease and gorge on her. Try immersing yourself in the moment. Realize how sexy she is, what you like about her sexually, take in her scent, her tas…
/r/askTRP05/06/16 08:37 PM
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Edited to clarify.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 02:30 AM
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This is what I thought and I've done this after soft nexting, it's easier as they don't tend to bring it up. However when it's in person I'm not sure when to return to normal game.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 02:56 AM
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Tried to clear the family friend bit in my reply. I completely agree with your implications of fallout, which is why I had debated this. Ultimately I decided to go for it, seeing as if not then she'll always seem to be there waiting or I could just flat out tell her I'm not interested?
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:40 AM
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I'm still set to pick her up. Ill be using advice provided by /u/nicethingyoucanthave but am open if you have better suggestions.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:31 AM
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I'd like to think there is partial foundation, if you read my reply to him. I was going off of this assumed foundation, but can see if it's the wrong foundation or I need to start from scratch due to lack of contact. Still I appreciate your advice. I had only considered this being a from point A to B drive, maybe a point C to eat.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:11 AM
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Our families used to be very close which is how we became friends. She was initially too young and I was not attracted to her, but still she'd follow me around. As she got older (post secondary school), we hung out exclusively a couple of times after she initiated. Me out of boredom and being friendly, her (I later found out) hoping for a relationship. The last of these we were at a park and she kept making excuses to be close to me, holding my arm, hand, cuddling up to me. I kissed her and we m…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:02 AM
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What about when you're not running game (when you don't have a chance to talk with them), maybe she's on the other side of a window, or with a BF, etc, do you still look openly? Do you act differently towards tits?
/r/askTRP03/05/16 11:36 AM
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Girls are always seeking attention/validation, but they also dress up to compete with each other. As I said, attractive women know they are attractive, but I'm more concerned with the pros and cons of the approach. What do you do?
/r/askTRP03/05/16 11:28 AM
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This is what I'm looking for. I have a friend who is a natural, his entire game is overtly sexual and he'll even pull girls by stopping them and saying things like "thanks for wearing those yoga pants" with a huge shit eating grin. Are you always looking?
/r/askTRP03/05/16 11:20 AM
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I left out low SMV guys for the obvious. I'm more curious as to how this works for or against Chad?
/r/askTRP03/05/16 04:09 AM
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Start faking laughter when you're telling the truth. Soon people won't know when you're lying or not. Work on maintaining frame and don't be so obnoxious in your feminist class. Try to fly under the radar in class.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 09:55 AM
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She's gaming you. Guy game = acquire sex, withhold commitment Girl game = withhold sex, acquire commitment/resources/agenda Personally I wouldn't bother with her. Not only is this all in her frame and when she gives it up in her mind she has already "won", but getting over your "ego" you'd realize you're wasting time, resources and energy when you could have been slaying 3 other girls.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 01:10 AM
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Yes. Just because divorce laws wouldn't favor women, would not mean women would magically become faithfully devoted and unconditionally loving creatures. I believe a majority of guys would like to settle down at some point, but knowing women's nature (through TRP) we know that's a silly ideal. The divorce laws are just there to kick you when you're already down.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 12:46 AM
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That's not dread. To be frank, I don't know what that is aside from inexperience. You don't bring up other girls you're hooking up with and mention you're hooking up with them ever. Even if you're plating a girl or in an open relationship, do you want her to bring up how Chaderino, Chadbert and Chadson fucked her brains out the last few days and how great it was? Not to mention girl's not in LTR's appreciate discretion. Change her mood. Tell her you hate her too, and you want a divorce and you'r…
/r/askTRP13/04/16 04:00 AM
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You think your dad is punishing your mom and thus indirectly punishing you? Debatable. But you are outright punishing your sisters for no fault of their own. Oh, right, you feel you should punish them because you feel your father left you for them? Grow up! These little girls were brought into this world through no choice of theirs into a family where they have a mommy a daddy and they know they have a big brother somewhere, but he for some reason hates them and doesn't want them. Guess what tha…
/r/askTRP13/04/16 03:35 AM
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Drop her. Withdraw all emotion. She may try to reconnect verbally, ignore it all. She may then try to reconnect with sex, do as you please, but don't reward (indifferent sex/like a whore giving you a drunk bj). "This isn't working for me" if you need last words, no explanations. Ghost. To the exgf, "I'd like to take you to dinner to express my gratitude. Also, you can relate and it'd be nice to have someone to talk with." Game.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 11:54 PM
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I been keeping frame saying I didn't say shit about us No. That is not keeping frame. You never kept frame from the beginning. You are buying into her frame every time you engage her in an argument. Keeping frame is not being affected and disregarding anything she feels/says. Steer the conversation and her emotions to your benefit not her will.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 11:37 PM
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It's always been self evident just as an elusive obvious. It wasn't until I came across TRP which it was all brought together and explained. Like knowing the pill is staring you in the face or even swallowing the pill, but just not knowing what it is you swallowed or what the pill you're looking at is.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 11:14 PM
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She broke your agreement. It doesn't matter how the relationship started out, the fact remains she made a choice inconsiderate of you and will perceive your continued commitment as a sign of weakness on your part and her ability to walk all over you. Get some damn self respect. If you want to find an open relationship on your terms do that. But if you want to allow disrespect from your women, be their spineless bitch and hamster away their inappropriate behavior, then TRP is not for you.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 11:01 PM
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Enjoy your emotions. Just don't allow them to compromise your frame. Always responsible and in control. Think of it like alcohol, you can drink, just don't get so shit faced you make an ass out of yourself.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 11:31 PM
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Love Spacey's character. Perfect example of blue pill to red pill. His entire character turns into nearly ideal alpha with frame and idgaf attitude, looking out for his best interests. Near the end he begins showing leader qualities as well.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 11:24 PM
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The white women will avoid him, because he's short, looks Indian and doesn't have game.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 11:04 PM
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You have time to write a novel, you have time to read. Start with the sidebar primer. You have oneitis Get some self respect Build your frame Abundance mentality She is just another girl. You think she is special because you have oneitis. You demonstrated how much of a pussy you are by willingly taking her back and communicating how available you will always be to her. Do you think a woman wants to be with a pussy? If you had other girls you wouldn't still be focusing on this one.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 10:24 PM
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No one coasts on looks alone. Could see him doing well with Indian and Paki girls in their respective countries.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 07:12 AM
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It's not what you do it's where it's coming from. If it's coming from a position of power, such as a leader and caretaker of a group you wouldn't worry about what others think. In a lot of cases it's also just manners. I'll always hold doors open for people in my group, the elderly, children or people carrying things. If you hold the door open for someone you "shouldn't need to", and their not polite about it, you also have the option of throwing in a "you're welcome".
/r/askTRP11/04/16 04:16 AM
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You should start by reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 12:52 AM
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Start paying attention to your appearance. The current "in" styles at your school. From haircuts, to clothing (proper fit and silhouette!), to shoes. Start writing, focus on descriptions. From poetry, a journal, or fiction. This will improve the way you think and articulate your thoughts. This in turn is what will manifest in "interesting" conversation/stories. Work on your confidence. At your age girls are discovering their sexual power over the average boy, while being insecure themselves and …
/r/askTRP10/04/16 06:57 AM
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So, since she reacted so emotionally, does that mean I have a chance of manipulating the situation to fuck her? I like you, friend. You have balls. I'd soft next her and only address her when required professionally. If she ever brings up this incident, consider it a shit-test and ignore it. If her friends bring this up, tell them they should be the ones apologizing for creating drama and so much pain out of a harmless jest.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 06:44 AM
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It is if you can top from the bottom. OP, Try anything you're comfortable with. It's important to be firm with your decisions. If you enjoy sloppy oral which extends to the balls, you may also enjoy getting rimmed. Personally I'd steer clear from anal play, but this chick is willing to probe inside you and you don't seem certain of a decision, so it's your call.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 06:33 AM
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Only if you enjoy wallowing in misery. Hit up /fit/. Just remember no homo.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 06:05 AM
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Depends on SMV. High SMV man cheats, woman is more likely to stay with him. Low SMV man is cheated on, he is more likely to stay with her.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 10:55 PM
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Women want to be seduced. Unless you're paying or she's already horny af and looking to jump on the most attractive dick available.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 02:11 AM
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"looks is all that matters" False. "only the true genetic alpha males will get to reproduce/enjoy sex" Inaccurate on multiple levels. Failing to define "true genetic alpha male" human. Falsely implying that the "true genetic alpha males" are the only members of any species reproducing. Is this it for men? No. Are women telling us something? Doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 06:30 AM
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His problem was blaming the world and failing to take responsibility. Your problem is assuming attraction is a choice.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 05:50 AM
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Set up a date. Escalate.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 05:33 AM
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Yes. Change the topic immediately. Never talk about politics with anyone outside your close friends, maybe not even outside family. You need to be leading the conversation and not entering her frame.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 10:59 PM
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Who made you the authority on normality? What you need to get through your thick skull is that the world does not revolve around you and the laws and culture taught to you. Attempting to impose your values and morals on others is as arrogant as it is foolish. Throwing a temper tantrum is not how a man addresses a difference in opinion. I advise you to work on your frame before you give yourself a stroke.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 10:44 PM
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Female bonds =/= male bonds Plenty of women would leave their friends for the man they desire.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 10:40 PM
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This. Girls do it all the time, ask any guy with a phone.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 10:35 PM
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Humor me. Take a step back, clear your mind and imagine everything I said is absolutely true. How would you act around him and all the things he says does around you?
/r/askTRP02/04/16 10:31 PM
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What makes you think you need to explain anything to her? See her as much as you find beneficial. Just remember if you wish to stay with her she requires a certain amount of attention.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 10:24 PM
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Call your few friends and group up, at the least maybe they have a sister willing to go. Place an ad on craigslist seeking a date, the experience alone may be compensation enough. Ask your mom for cab money, sit her down and explain the repercussions of her taking you to prom. If all else fails. Find alcohol, get a little tipsy and arrive late. Walk in like you give no shits. Find the highest SMV single girl (maybe group of singles) walk up to her and ask if she's single tonight. If her response…
/r/askTRP02/04/16 10:12 PM
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I'd expect a self proclaimed comedian to know better.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 09:28 PM
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I assure you I am completely relaxed. You asked a question, I gave an answer. Don't expect to be coddled, work on your frame and confidence.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 09:25 PM
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Having a backbone or being alpha is not synonymous with being mean or rude. Not sure where you got that idea from, but it is not what TRP teaches. As for OP, The girl was not into you, it's as simple as that. Her excuse for not giving you her number was just that, an excuse. Maybe you came across as needy, or arrogant or there was a lack of congruence in how you presented yourself, whatever it was your game was off. The short answer to your question is, yes. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 09:17 PM
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He likes you. His awareness of your nonexistent attraction for him and his own shame and anger at his inability to accept his homosexuality manifests itself in resentment towards you. He is so enamored with you, the only way for him to cope with the reality of never having you passionately embrace him post coitus is to attempt making your life difficult for his perceived rejection. Use amused mastery when addressing his comments and refer to him as sugar, princess, or sweetheart. It will drive h…
/r/askTRP02/04/16 07:01 PM
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You are not alone.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 06:21 PM
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You: Guys, I want to watch this grenade explode in my hand, how do I go about it? TRP: Don't do it. At the very least you'll lose an arm and half of your face. You: No, that won't happen to me. Tell me a way I can watch it in my hand as opposed to from a distance. TRP: You're being idiotic. You: Y U so mean 2 me? ;_; You're not a special snowflake. You can't change a woman's nature. Read the sidebar and stop asking for TRP advice before even having a TRP mindset. You are not a special snowflake.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 06:14 PM
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Does it turn her on? If she's an emotional masochist and you're interested in the lifestyle, you may have found yourself a gem considering your sadistic tendencies. If you're looking to "improve" her, first work on yourself so you're not such a "dick". If she's "broken",she'll follow your dominant leadership, but will always crave the abuse.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 12:30 AM
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Listen to this man. I'll point out a few of your mistakes/failed shit tests. Her: How tall are you? Me: 9 foot 3, how much do you weigh? (wry smile) Measuring up is always viewed as insecure in height. Respond with 5'2" if you're trying for mystery. Never ask a girl's weight in retort, yes, it may be putting her in her place, but it screams of insecurity. If you want subtly say "I'm 5'2", 350, how about you?" Her: Why won't you tell me? Me: Why won't you tell me how much you weigh? Reverting to …
/r/askTRP31/03/16 10:38 PM
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I'll put it to you this way to get you to understand; your looks don't mean shit. You need to get over the fact that you place more value on appearance than women do. Yes, looks open doors and grant you more opportunities. However, even if women are at first glance more attracted to a guy with better looks than a guy with higher status, guess whose commitment is more valuable to her and who she wants to go home with? Work on your frame. Your insecurity is painfully portrayed in each of your post…
/r/askTRP31/03/16 08:33 PM
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Funny you should ask, usually you next them. You are the captain of your ship, anyone who does not submit gets thrown overboard. When dread game and passing shit tests isn't getting you results, you next them because frankly if you value yourself you don't have time for that noise.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 10:54 AM
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This. Why are you still ok with him taking you out when you know he needs to watch his finances?
/r/askTRP31/03/16 10:34 AM
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The problem was cuddling with her. You rewarded her with affection for coming over and taking up your time? If you're that opposed to shower sex, then her getting you off would be appropriate.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 10:27 AM
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Being on top has nothing to do with being dominant. If you think spanking and hair pulling are radical actions, I'd strongly suggest exploring your sexuality. I'm not going to bother giving you the shit-test talk or the being in your frame and doing you, someone else will likely do that. Instead I'll tell you a few things I really believe you should explore, because you seem like you need it. First, get accustomed to the idea that women like being used, especially in the bedroom. Second, dominan…
/r/askTRP31/03/16 10:11 AM
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She called you a bitch? That's pretty funny.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 04:30 AM
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You need to address this idea of spending time out with plates. Time with you should be a reward and she didn't seem excited about spending time with you. You make plans for yourself and follow through. You invite her, if she declines you reschedule or ignore her for a few days. When you're ready to leave you don't ask her for permission or negotiate. You tell her what you intend to do and follow through. All of this coming from a place of abundance and you'll be frosty.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 12:10 AM
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"In the eyes of a woman, once a beta always a beta". There's also the saying of not going back to something which didn't work the first time. You are aware of her natural tendencies (i.e. letting herself go). Getting back together with her she'd begin regressing to how things were when you split. You'd have to train her to fit your needs and she'd fight you every step being aware what she got away with in the past. Even if it did work temporarily any time you did slip the relationship would begi…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 11:57 PM
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If she's a plate/LTR just ask her. She'll likely be curious and you can tell her "so I know when to be more aggressively dominant and rough with you". She'll tell you.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 11:29 PM
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You don't need to plan for anything if you've hard nexted. She's out of your life and you don't owe her anything including explanations. Giving her explanations, excuses or addressing her inquiries will place you in her frame and lead to drama. She says "hi", you say "hi". She tries to make small talk you excuse yourself. "What did you do with the tickets?", "used them" or ignore her. You don't have to answer anything you don't want to. If your friends ask questions for her or make comments abou…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 11:17 PM
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Sounds like you're actively seeking out drama or at least planning for it. Read the sidebar. Develop yourself and your frame. Hard next. Being in your circle of friend this means being polite to her, but not engaging her on a personal level.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 10:44 PM
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Completely agree. She's basically a kid enjoying the situation (you) for now. Some TRPers abide by the "if you catch feels, next them" principle. Anyone fully ingrained in TRP philosophy will not consider these feelings a threat. Do what you feel is best for you at this point.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 09:14 PM
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coward [kou-erd] noun 1. a person who lacks courage in facing danger, difficulty, opposition, pain, etc.; a timid or easily intimidated person. Words are wind. They have as much power as you give them.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 08:48 PM
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1: The guy was being successful and you think your responses are better? 2: What you say doesn't matter, it's how you say it. Owen is portraying a fun, comfortable, confident, playful vibe. The girl notices his warmth, buys into his frame and feels comfortable engaging him on that level. Your responses all come across as very try-hard and faux-alpha. Mainly due to the fact that you have to think about "the right thing to say" as opposed to having a frame and allowing your responses to flow natur…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 08:09 PM
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Adults are talking, princess. Mind your manners.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 10:39 AM
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Treat everyone like an adult. This means a basic level of respect, no kissing up. If the group setting is friendlier, note who most of the members orient their body towards. If the familiarity is to the point where jibes are directed and exchanged within the group, consider finding another group. Grown ass men don't need to engage in "cleverly" disguised insecure banter. However, if you insist or for some reason find yourself in this situation, adopt an air of smug disinterest. Amused mastery an…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 10:31 AM
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So much wrong here. love you can get for a girl just by looking at her. If you really think you feel love just by looking at a girl, I'd strongly suggest talking to more women and being in a romantic relationship with one. 23 year old is always going to be straight up inferior to an 18 year old in terms of appearance, you can't deny that. Oh, sweet summer child. This obsession you have with age is not healthy. Focus on improving yourself, your frame and confidence, then see how you feel.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 09:48 AM
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Where did you get the idea that you needed to text her with an intention to explain your actions? You don't owe her anything. Unless she contacts you this plate isn't worth pursuing. As has been stated, you want her because she's putting up a challenge.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:43 AM
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Tell them you're a black lesbian nymphomaniac trapped in a man's body and enjoy indulging in your sexual freedoms as a woman. If they disagree with anything you say, call them out on being close-minded, patriarchy drones and to check their privilege.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 03:29 AM
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Read the sidebar. The way you're going on now is coming from a perspective expecting to fail and making excuses to why you won't succeed.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 09:58 PM
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Agreed. You are measured by your actions which you are responsible for, not by the actions or influence of others. Improve yourself to be independent and self assured in your SMV for internal confidence. Improve your posture, body language and voice tonality to portray confidence. You didn't include a question.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 09:51 PM
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Work on yourself, raise your SMV, apply dread and read Sex God Method. These will increase her sexual desire for you. However, do not expect a sexually inexperienced girl to initiate. That is your duty as a man. You want sex, man up and initiate. Her apprehension may be attributed to mirroring your own clumsiness and insecurities with sex. It will be your job to teach her to explore her sexuality. Once you've completed this, you will know just how "asexual" she is and you can go from there. With…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 10:09 AM
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This. Could be crazy, could be a SJW. Who complains to their boss on their first day of work? Sounds like a typical case of entitlement and sensitivities you don't want to deal with.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 08:33 PM
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Welcome to askTRP and The Red Pill. You still have a solid decade (more if you take care of yourself) of high SMV (social market value). Your wife's SMV was highest in her teens and early 20's (when yours was at it's lowest). Now that her SMV has been noticeably decreasing since her 30's she wants to monopolize your sexuality? How would she react if you deprived her of all the sexual encounters she enjoyed during her 20's? That's essentially what she's doing to you. Don't change for anyone. Do w…
/r/askTRP25/03/16 08:07 PM
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Scientific method? Oh, you mean that thing scientists use to test what their capable of understanding? Do you really believe if there is a God he abides by your scientific methods, laws of humans and perceived laws of nature? The point I tried to make is that if God exists humans can't comprehend it. You can talk about evidence, theories and observations all day long, they will still be grounded on the human capacity for understanding.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:28 PM
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The thing is scientific evidence can be wrong. Our theories work when they are tested with the methods currently available to us. Whose to say new methods, scientific discoveries, god, nature, or other intelligent life can't show up and disprove all that shit? Theories have been disproved before. How does evolution disprove God? You mean in the way the bible depicts God as a human with super knowledge and superpowers? Whose to say evolution isn't God? Or that God is sentience, or a force like li…
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:04 PM
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No. We're all feminists here and are helping empower independent women by spreading their wings and their legs.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 03:34 PM
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Income: Bank. Appearance: Height - Genetic lottery Physique - Lift for muscular (dominant) build, cardio for health. Style - Groom for cleanliness, delve into fashion or consult a personal stylist. Social: Frame - Read the sidebar, develop your reality and frame (very weak as is). Interactions - Read How to Win Friends and Influence People, as well as books on comedy writing, story telling, and game (books in the sidebar cover a lot of this). Plastic surgery won't address where you actually need…
/r/askTRP25/03/16 03:02 PM
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I disagree. There's always room for possibilities including God. Just usually not in the way where it goes against scientific evidence.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 01:15 PM
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So much this. Expanding a bit, if you're unsure then use romance only as a reward. When you have your shit together, then you can also use it as spontaneity. Also, best not to be used with plates.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:36 PM
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This is the only option if you are genuinely ready to move on. I doubt your resolve considering you still refer to her as your fiancé.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 05:35 PM
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I'm not sure how to adopt this attitude/frame... Any tips/advice/examples on this? You just had a fight and broke up with your gf 4 days ago. Accept this. Collect all your ex's belongings in a box and write down (if) any of your belongings you'd like returned (best to let them go). You are newly single and can now focus all your energy on improving yourself. You can also now flirt, have fun and pursue other women whose shit you don't have to put up with. It is likely your ex will contact you, ig…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 05:21 PM
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Teach valuable life lessons. Guideline to being a moral human being. Gives hope and peace of mind. Oh, wait, you said "bad". Anything taken to extremes can be harmful.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 12:32 PM
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When she's not laughing. Cocky-funny is you are high-value and teasing her, but you're both in on the joke. It is flirting and you know it's coming from a "happy place". Your intention is not to hurt the other person, sadism is damn creepy. Too much cocky and you seem arrogant. Too much funny and you're just a clown. If she's not laughing or playfully hitting you, you're doing it wrong. Knowing your intentions are light hearted will tend to keep your teasing from being genuinely offensive. On th…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 11:42 AM
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Short answer: Women do care. 1: A well dressed man is attractive (fit, silhouette, color scheme, theme, authenticity) 2: A man who dresses badly/like a slob is unattractive. 3: Physical attraction is subjective, also encompasses style/fashion 4: Brands can embody wealth and social awareness (or lack of) which can effect SMV 5: Don't concern yourself with what other people are wearing (unless you're that type of guy). Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 11:08 AM
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This. Emphasis on the trapping via pregnancy. What astounds me is her impudent stipulation for you to be her caretaker and submit your life and your priorities for her.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 09:27 PM
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Highly inaccurate. Success is respected whether from natural ability or hard work. Natural ability is admired as is hard work. Being incompetent or having to learn, not so much.
/r/askTRP23/03/16 03:17 AM
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Pressure flip: "Why aren't you studying game?" "Are you satisfied with your success with women? Don't think you could improve?" "Do you feel threatened?" (careful with this one, it hits at the truth) Amused Mastery: "That's cute." [more dismissive comments] "Jealous I'm not trying to pick you up?"-"I still love you bro, come here, let me give you a hug." This is only an issue, because you're ashamed of it. Frame. Shit-tests or shit-talk someone will always attempt to break you. Think about why a…
/r/askTRP23/03/16 03:06 AM
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You seem to be in a rut, maybe even mildly depressed. Know that this and the ability to have fun are all effects of the chemicals in your body and how they affect your brain. You can't force a broken leg to hold your weight, neither can you force a deprived mind to enjoy life. Don't beat yourself up for this, it's not your fault, and remember that things can be better. Make sure you're exercising regularly and don't be afraid to talk with a doctor about this. Being of healthy body and mind we ea…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 11:28 PM
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My method isn't exactly RP, but it works for me. Them: "You haven't texted me", "weren't you going to text me", "fine don't say hi", "do you even care about me", "why don't you ever text me", "why do I always have to text first", etc. Me: "Oh, hey, babe! What's up?" Most of the time (80-90%) their intention is just to get my attention, and will revert to their docile nature after my reply. The small number of times they're genuinely upset and will rephrase the accusation, my next reply will be "…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 10:36 AM
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You can be trained to hunt a tiger, but being face to face with it is entirely different. You can be trained in TRP philosophy, but experiencing the emotions of the moment is different. Recalling your training, identifying what you feel, how to manage those feelings and how to advance is prominent. Encountering this affection for the first time overwhelmed you. It won't be this difficult after 5, 10, 20 girls. You'll grow accustomed to the feeling and your training will become ingrained.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:37 PM
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It's how you're affected and handle the slight. Butthurt: Emotional outburst, passive aggressive behavior, becoming upset and inability to let it go. Alpha: Dismissive, amused or addressing the slight directly.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 05:16 PM
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Not understanding how physical attributes vary is the extent of a 10 year-old's knowledge. Why are you meeting 10 year olds?
/r/askTRP21/03/16 04:53 PM
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Scarcity mentality. More value placed on limited experiences. Also seems to have romantic and introvert tendencies. You can be trained for something, but facing it can be considerably different.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 04:46 PM
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They are not fake. These moments are painfully real, as you are experiencing. From a romantic perspective these moments are also sacred. Consider the greatness of time and space, yet at this moment, on this planet with near 7,000,000,000 others, you two found each other, experienced each other and bonded. This was real. What you need to understand is that these moments are not rare. They happen all the time. Millions of them going on right now. Learn to appreciate them when they happen to you, b…
/r/askTRP21/03/16 04:19 PM
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Love The word: A word used to describe a subjective feeling of attachment. The feeling: Feelings attributed to a person derived from the way in which chemicals effect your brain when experiencing that person.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 04:00 PM
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Plausible deniability or she's really a he. Can't feel his erection prodding your thigh when there's a pillow for cover.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 10:14 AM
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Allowing a woman to destabilize you is strong beta behavior. You whine, complain, get butthurt and argue with her. There is no frame. The only positive here (some will disagree) are the strong emotions from her. Emotions show when someone cares and can be manipulated. As has been mentioned, develop yourself, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 09:26 AM
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No, I don't believe you did. Words are used when their definition is required. Don't use words incorrectly as it does make you look like a "dumbass".
/r/askTRP20/03/16 06:33 PM
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Could you guys elaborate on this? When it comes to girls who are "BFFs", in my limited experience, one will withdraw when you've hooked up with her friend.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 05:40 PM
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This. Women online are flooded with attention and validation which makes them jaded and distorts their real world SMV. When anyone is being bombarded with options, do they settle or do they select the highest quality option? Proof: Make a female profile on any dating site with a few pictures of an attractive female. See how often you get contacted. It's different in the real world, more balanced. Your attractiveness is perceived by your aura, body language, appearance and how you speak as oppose…
/r/askTRP20/03/16 05:25 PM
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No. Expand your vocabulary, this is embarassing. Looks are purely physical. Charisma is a character trait. A combination of charm, strength and mystery which causes people to want to know more about, be around, and follow you.
/r/askTRP20/03/16 05:02 PM
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This. If not, then try "mute paraplegics, that way they can't run away or scream for help". If you're going to fail, do it right.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 06:20 PM
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Always in social situations. Search for books, videos, even posts on how to flirt. Body language, voice tonality are most important. Push-pull, sexual innuendo, role playing, etc. Always assume they're attracted. This sets up your frame for interacting. The strongest frame in an interaction gets adopted. Practice. Again, body language and voice tonality. You can say the most rude and crude things, but if your vibe is playful and flirty, how do you think it will be interpreted? Edit: grammar
/r/askTRP18/03/16 09:19 PM
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1: Think about what you want to say. 2: Cut out rhetoric. 3: Cut out explanations. 4: Condense the sentence. 5: Say it/post it.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 08:51 PM
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Accidentally fucking up: Yes Intentionally fucking up: Yes It comes down to frame. Unless you can pull off an intentional ruse, it's best to not fuck up. Mistakes happen, it's how you handle the situations which matter. Example: Last week I arrived late to the cinema. As I made my way to available seats I accidentally kicked a girl's popcorn bag she'd set on the floor. I was unaware until my friend mentioned it as we sat down. I leaned over and asked "did I kick your popcorn". "Yeah", she answer…
/r/askTRP18/03/16 08:27 PM
1

Not sure if this is oneitis or just your need to save people. Either way, you've been told what you need to do, your determination to add conflict to your life is your choice. No one here will enable your unhealthy mindset. Can't help the unwilling.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:53 PM
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If being AMOGed means having some guy fetch you shots, I need to get in on this. You handled this very well considering your responses. You could also have pointed out his obvious fixation with you. It would have been best if you didn't acknowledge his comments when addressing you, smiling at him sheepishly, patting him on the back and calling him a good friend/buddy, then continuing your conversation.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 07:07 PM
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Quality post. Not following this will be leaving the door open for ensuing unnecessary drama which will escalate.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 06:46 PM
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Remember she's only a plate. Her opinions and emotions have no effect on you. You are completely unfazed by her powerless behavior. In fact, you find it cute. You are calm, collected and in control. You can use amused mastery or AA. "I'm 24 years old, I enjoy rock climbing and waxing turtles, my favorite color is grey, I pay my taxes and have a good relationship with my mother." Give her Patrick Bateman's routine for all it matters (it doesn't).
/r/askTRP18/03/16 06:38 PM
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My opinion on you and your sexual history is irrelevant. You want some type of validation or scolding, find it elsewhere. You need to ask yourself a few questions. Do not answer them here it will only result in dishonesty attempting to come across as a "good" person. 1: If the only way you could have and keep this man was to lie to him about your sexual history, would you do it? 2: Would you sleep/do anything sexual with him if you two were not officially in a relationship? 3: What would you do …
/r/askTRP15/03/16 10:02 AM
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Agreed. She is not a LTR, there is no breakup to discuss. Are you trying to create unnecessary drama?
/r/askTRP15/03/16 02:06 AM
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Recall reading about how during intercourse and orgasm the male and female bodies are releasing chemicals which are absorbed by the partner. Also, simply being physically around an attractive girl boosts testosterone (or was it another chemical?) The point is there is a lot more happening biologically when you are with another person whether it's sexual or not. So, of course being sexual with a partner has additional benefits than you being by yourself. (Testosterone, dopamine, norepinephrine, a…
/r/askTRP15/03/16 01:54 AM
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No one ever said being alpha meant being emotionless. Being stoic means keeping your emotions in check and not allowing them to dictate your actions. The spectrum of human emotion is part of what makes life worth living, attempting to rid yourself of them is unhealthy and can likely lead to depression. Enjoy your emotions, but be sure to be in control and find healthy sources (not depending entirely on women) to obtain them from.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 09:25 PM
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They also cause angry, moody sentiments to be expressed in sarcasm. There are no magic words or potion. Your insecure behavior put you in that situation, your reactions and responses molded by it. You want someone to hold your hand, dissect your rambling, pinpoint the failed shit tests and prescribe responses for each instance? That doesn't solve the issue. Read the sidebar, work on yourself, gain the frame required to be unfazed and have attractive responses in any situation, six-pack or no six…
/r/askTRP07/02/16 04:38 AM
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This. Also, work on your insecurity issues. They not only cause you to ramble, but also to come from a defensive, inferior position.
/r/askTRP07/02/16 03:24 AM
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Girls don't like being alone on Valentine's. ;)
/r/askTRP07/02/16 02:40 AM
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I have to agree with the last comment. I often get "abused" by girls who I'm particularly harsh towards. Jokingly of course. The importance of playful hitting is subjective. If it's kino you're looking to establish there are other ways. Playful hitting comes with the territory in a playful relationship, it's a sign of comfort. It does not necessarily imply attraction. However, it's absence does not imply a lack of attraction. If playful hitting is something you're hung up on and wish to receive …
/r/askTRP07/02/16 02:16 AM
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You handled this well, but you forgot to tell him to check his privilege.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 08:43 PM
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It's not about being black or white, it's about being "alpha" vs "beta". It just so happens that a lot of black guys develop alpha traits (cocky, being the prize, assertive, etc) from their (sink or swim) environments, while a lot of white guys develop beta traits (being too polite/respectful, inoffensive, politically correct) from their (comfortable, safe as long as you play your role) environments. Swag is just a combination of confidence and charm. Lastly, doing you will get you the best resu…
/r/askTRP03/02/16 06:55 PM
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Any other tips on how to make other people talk? I find myself initiating conversations a good 70% of the time. When I don't initiate we'll just be in silence. I know certain body language helps, but I can't pinpoint it.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 01:15 PM
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I recall somewhere in the PUA community it was advised to engage the guy in a logical conversation as this will bore the girl and shut down the guy's game. A lot of "what do you do?/oh, that's cool". Once engaged you can direct the conversation back to you, demonstrate value to the group with interesting stories, and even make him qualify himself to you.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 05:49 AM
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Then what is the best course of action to take? Attempting to leave through a window seems weak and childish, standing there and listening to them seems like a form of validation or submissive acceptance, while physically forcing them out of the way could have drastic consequences. I'm at a loss for how to handle this.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 04:47 AM
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Am I misunderstanding your post? How do you run game with silence?
/r/askTRP19/08/15 07:01 AM
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Self hypnosis, patterns, learned/programmed behavior. You're accustomed to taking a specific role in specific circumstances. At home, at work, at school, around certain people. Breaking out of these is difficult once they've been established, even more so because outside sources may attempt to hinder your change. It is possible, though, your frame just needs to be stronger.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 11:16 PM
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These taunts are thrown when men are in groups. They're attempts to intimidate, devalue, and at times just plain threats used knowing their boys have their back. Know that any aggressive retort directly translates into your acceptance of a physical altercation. This is usually a losing battle as 1: it demonstrates they broke your frame 2: you're usually out-powered. On the off chance you're a BAMF who can establish physical dominance, you still may only win half the battle. The best way to handl…
/r/askTRP16/08/15 06:57 PM
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Initially this reads like some self-acceptance crap, but there is truth to it. Once you are in a place where you are content with your life, you can begin making decisions from a place of strength and confidence "my life is awesome, what can I do to make it even better?" What I don't completely agree with is that it suggest that everyone should be content with their life as it is now, when in reality a lot of people need to work on their life before they can claim to be content. Overall it's tel…
/r/askTRP15/08/15 09:51 PM
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It seems like you have a pretty good thing going, OP. No shit tests and frequent sex in a faithful(?) LTR. She seems like a 'strong independent woman' and you're (secretly) acting like the insecure boy. Nothing wrong as long as you maintain frame and learn to accept that she is as self-sufficient as you are and be fine with that. However, if her detached, emotionless personality is something you're not happy with. If you need to feel needed or like "the prize", then you may want to move on. You …
/r/askTRP15/08/15 09:34 PM
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It won't stop at the ass kissing and it will be up to you to decide how far the rabbit hole goes... Err. Anyways. Taking this route will only make you more dependent on him and furthermore put you at his mercy. This is not some Hollywood movie where you dramatically turn the tables on someone. He is already successful in this industry and I'm sure has influence to wreck your shit if he wishes. Lastly, I wouldn't consider your relationship thus far as him "taking advantage". It seems you've been …
/r/askTRP15/08/15 09:11 PM
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Refuses to elaborate, huh? Well, either way you've already positioned yourself in the submissive-guilty party by your actions. You should have dropped him off without saying a word and waited for him to contact you. If after a week or two (not sure how long is 'longer than normal for you two') he still hadn't initiated contact. Then you'd have a better idea of the situation and could've acted accordingly. On the chance he is romantically interested, why would you not want to be friends?
/r/askTRP15/08/15 09:04 PM
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Twice your age, millionaire in the oil industry, not married. Is it possible he is romantically interested in you? Did he elaborate on why you're a "horrible person"?
/r/askTRP15/08/15 07:18 PM
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You've complicated things. Nexting a girl is supposed to come from a dominant stance. Right now you're ignoring her, because you're upset she was basically laughing at you, and she knows this. You should have handled the situation with the "other guy".
/r/askTRP15/08/15 07:29 AM
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No. You guys are wrong. OP acted like a bitch. Would you allow someone to treat your child this way? Some of you may claim "that's not RP" or "lel whiteknight", but no. A man is supposed to protect what is his, his family, his children, his woman. It comes with the territory, no different than being the leader and being the one that makes the decisions. Story: As a kid I once went to the store with my best friend and his father. His father was the typical asshole dad with a natural tendency for …
/r/askTRP15/08/15 05:51 AM
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Those are not DD's. You sure complain a lot. Now I know why you think you give good head.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:16 AM
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I've actually seen quite a few black people with your type of nose; Michael Jackson, Janet, Latoya... Prince? No. Don't say "breasts" unless we're playing doctor. It sounds weird if I'm not getting ready to administer a healthy dose of Vitamin D to remedy the throbbing sensation you've been having. You do know that full lips =/= good head.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 06:10 AM
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WTF, you're black? Well, maybe they meant your lips are fat. They do look really fake. Then again so do your boobs. Perfect for guys who want "arm candy", though personally I'd prefer a natural girl with a fun personality.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 04:47 PM
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Is that question rhetorical or do you want an honest answer? Give guys more credit. We usually base the assumption off of other physical attributes, shoulders for one.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 06:11 AM
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You seem pretty defensive about being angry and fat for someone claiming not to be "angry nor fat". There's a general consensus on what universally high SMV is, that includes aspects such as success, health and desirability. Other than that your SMV is subject to the social marketplace. Consider what it means to have high SMV in Compton, West Hollywood and Wall Street.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 05:42 AM
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This. You may also try: Whip your head towards the person, stare daggers at them and say "do I look like I'm fucking joking?" Not looking at the person hold your head up and say "agree to disagree" with a victorious smirk. My two personal favorites: If one on one with a romantic interest grab her hand and dramatically say "oh, I'm SO sorry, darling. You are the light of my life, I can't go on without you, my magnificent (something their wearing) dove!" Cheese it up, this will typically break the…
/r/askTRP11/08/15 05:25 AM
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It's possible you have the wrong impression of what defines "alpha" as it's existence in nature is self evident. Intelligence, confidence and a good sense of humor are all traits which could be considered alpha. Beta traits and qualities are typically characterized by correlating to submissive behavior. This should not suggest that all beta behavior is "bad" or useless. Lastly, what one defines as "doing well with women" or "being successful with women" is completely subjective. If someone is tr…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 07:24 PM
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Cologne typically lasts well above 4 hours. Especially if you're indoors in the evening/night. Depending on how much you sweat, it may play on the evaporation process and overall longevity. The top notes you smell (after spraying) don't last longer than a few minutes. The base notes should remain with you all night. Remember you do become accustomed to the scent, so even if you can't smell it on you, doesn't mean others can't. Reapplying will simply reintroduce your sense to the top notes, which…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 08:33 AM
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