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Lojak/r/seduction16/11/10 01:09 AM
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I think there's some confirmation bias/"Baader-Meinhoff" going on here. If you've actually been around longer than a year, you'd know there used to be a lot more Roosh/Roissy posts prior to a year ago than there have been in the last year. /r/seduction was being pulled in the way you describe but luckily cooler heads prevailed and things are looking on the up and up. I notice a much more healthy approach to seduction now with an emphasis on living well and giving women as well as the world at la…
/r/seduction11/12/12 11:15 PM
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Because you both know it's true!
/r/seduction05/12/12 10:47 PM
2

So let me ask you, is there a reason for /r/fPUA?
/r/seduction05/12/12 04:57 PM
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I know I'm defending a hypothetical here, but a shy or introverted guy usually isn't necessarily a coward.
/r/seduction05/12/12 04:55 PM
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/r/fPUA We've steadily seen women ask your exact question here on seddit with more and more frequency. Hopefully, there will soon be enough subscribers for /r/fPUA to be a viable place for you girls to talk about attracting us guys. And I hope it does soon because I know the tips here are only so general. Plus, I'd love to be a fly on the wall in a place like that.
/r/seduction05/12/12 04:50 PM
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This is why women always casually mention they "just got out of the shower". And as a guy, I can say that shit works.
/r/seduction05/12/12 04:42 PM
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Always assume interest, imagine them riding your dick and loving it, there is no other way. Trust me, you are quite fuckable, you just need to put your best foot forward. Well put. I've hit a wall lately and definitely needed this frame. I know David Wygant says to imagine they are getting themselves off to the thought of you. Unfortunately, half the time it just makes me laugh so it doesn't work as well for me so I like yours and will try it. Much more believable since I've put girls in such si…
/r/seduction13/11/12 07:25 AM
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You can do a search for 'seduction' or 'PUA' in /r/TwoXChromosomes and /r/AskWomen for a few threads. The hipster douches at Metafilter also have lively discussion and integrate the topic into their traditional snark contests. But it's a mixed bag of women and white knights over there.
/r/seduction02/11/12 03:31 PM
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Good for you but this is a blog post.
/r/seduction31/10/12 06:46 PM
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And you say they didn't want to fuck you again? That runs counter to some but not all my experiences. My theory on the ONS's like this is that you just became an experience for her that was one of the best sexual experiences that she's has but still, an experience and memory- not something to consider for continued relations. No?
/r/seduction29/10/12 07:20 PM
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Saved saved saved. I especially like live-texting which I bet some guys either a. Intentionally avoid due to worrying about crafting the perfect text message or b. Following the maxim of waiting to text the same amount of time it takes her to text you. So I guess she needs to text you back right away to enter live text mode. Sending an emotional spike is usually going to get that started in my experience. Hopefully all this doesn't sound too systematic along with OP's post; but I think all of th…
/r/seduction29/10/12 06:16 PM
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Got mine!
/r/seduction29/10/12 04:50 AM
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This sounds like a beefed up version of the advice of acting like you already know someone when you meet them.
/r/seduction28/10/12 06:22 PM
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It's true that there is a success bias in the FR's posted here. No one goes to the casino talking about a big loss at the poker tables. It takes a real solid introspective person to post what they did along with their own analysis of what went wrong and get help from the group.
/r/seduction28/10/12 06:18 PM
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I remember this feeling after landing a successful close that I pursued instead of the other way around. Good luck and pay forward the knowledge you learn in your future travels here in seddit so others may follow the same success. /r/askseddit
/r/seduction28/10/12 06:12 PM
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Beta-texting! Good stuff. Worth a post.
/r/seduction28/10/12 06:05 PM
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This is my favorite and definitely the biggest for me. I still slip up on it though. Keep working on that inner game and yourselves, guys.
/r/seduction25/10/12 03:06 PM
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lol
/r/seduction25/10/12 03:05 PM
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This. Look at a lion. Think he gives a fuck?
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:57 PM
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I admit I had to laugh as I read your post. No, you don't come off as a douche exactly. But, I will say that frequenting the same bar isn't for everyone. That and there had better be a lot more to you if you want anything beyond a ONS with a girl, which is something being a regular at a bar belies because what time you spend up there you're not spending on more interesting interests and hobbies. I'm not talking about you specifically, OP (i.e. you may have an awesome, interesting job or have cul…
/r/seduction25/10/12 02:50 PM
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Edit: To avoid this just being a "cool story bro" post, here is what I did. Even after that it's still a cool story, bro.
/r/seduction25/10/12 04:46 AM
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I see what you did there.
/r/seduction24/10/12 06:51 PM
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a fun place, like an arkadia, circus, street circus A what?? Where do you live anyway?? Is that something an art show would fall under??
/r/seduction23/10/12 07:08 PM
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If you lurk around here long enough you'll see that the numbers are only one small aspect of it. Most of the emphasis is on inner game. The 'confidence' is something that arises from this, but is not the ends. Trying to act confident before you have a solid foundation in your life is like putting the cart before the horse.
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:02 PM
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Since you're a caller, what do you do when they don't answer?
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:35 PM
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You know most of the ideas in NLP are bwlow me, right?
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:33 PM
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Oooo Good question; I hate getting this. I think it's best not to talk into a box and comes off as needy. So skip the voicemail. If there's something with some immediacy to it like a show coming up to set up a date just send a text then. Otherwise, wait and send a text that's very outcome independent later on.
/r/seduction23/10/12 12:32 PM
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What the hell is a University DTF page? Maybe I should make one for ours.. seems like it has a high potential of sausage festivity though. Plus aren't people a little worried about anonymity for such a thing?
/r/seduction23/10/12 06:47 AM
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I am referring to Google contacts on Android phones of course. I'm sure iPhones let you do the same thing.
/r/seduction22/10/12 02:27 AM
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Which is why you need to have the self respect and drop it cold. Anyone that doesn't earn your respect doesn't deserve it. I guess you understand this and are more just appalled that there are people who do this. Yes there are shitty people out there- men and women both.
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:33 PM
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Guys on here are quick to delete numbers for some reason. You never know when you might get that random text from someone when their situation changes. So instead of deleting numbers I just zz people (put zz in front of their name- with a note of who they are and why you're doing it). Which to be sure, is kind of a mark of death for me, but if for some reason I get a random text later I want to know who it is even if I pretend to not know. I just like to have as much infomation as possible for m…
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:29 PM
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Yeah... It's always funny how you can spot guys who are getting into "pick up" especially when they are using crap from The Game something that has so very few fundamentals about inner game in it- or some other forum out there that's not this subreddit.
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:22 PM
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P.S: It was kinda embarassing and the girl laughed because I suck at kissing. Doesn't matter; had kiss.
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:19 AM
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ctranger did a good job describing the positive reasons you should be honest. I described the negative since in your original question you asked if we you should feel bad. We all make mistakes so take it as a learning experience and cultivate yourself into someone who gives to the world more than you take. Good luck.
/r/seduction14/10/12 07:34 PM
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Holy false pretenses. Why are you asking if we feel bad?? When you should feel bad. Just by posing the question like this and from the situation you've described it looks like you're not only being dishonest with other people, but you're being dishonest with yourself. Be honest with your intentions and what you want the same way you'd expect from someone else. Trying to take advantage and lying in this situation also tells me you're coming from a mentality of scarcity. If you were in a place whe…
/r/seduction14/10/12 07:08 PM
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Thank god he doesn't go by it anymore. I know it was a good book but it's way over used. That guy at zero hedge uses the same alias.
/r/seduction14/10/12 02:23 PM
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I get rejected! Badly! We're talking hand motion of go away kind. Great attitude and mindset. This is among the worst-case scenarios playing in the minds of guys with AA. As you can see, it actually playing out means nothing. In fact, it's funny as hell if you own it like OP. And this is a good post, OP. There's an overwhelming bias towards posting successful FR's and anecdotes in seddit since people in general don't tend to admit to failing. And it makes beginner AFC's really think they are doi…
/r/seduction14/10/12 02:11 PM
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"Tell me three interesting things about you" Not so sure. It seems kind of "interview-y" especially if it were out of the blue. I think the best comfort building questions stem from the conversation. Once you get better at it you can steer the flow of a conversation where you want if you're on your game and thinking two steps ahead in the conversation you're having. You can ask or say something just before a comfort building question which will naturally lead to it sometimes with her doing the a…
/r/seduction14/10/12 02:13 AM
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Because the original OP is the post linked to at the bottom.
/r/seduction13/10/12 04:13 AM
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Get the fuck out of your head The number one axiom of seduction if I had to list them. The problem is that for AFC's it's like trying to describe to a fish what it's like outside of water and that water is what they are swimming in.
/r/seduction08/10/12 07:06 AM
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I'm not here to judge but am just curious, do you mean you mess around on your wife or is she involved.. or do you just mean a lot of action with your wife? Maybe it all depends on what you mean by 'action'. Interest or sex?
/r/seduction08/10/12 07:04 AM
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I do think this stuff is hitting critical mass- especially in urban centers. And tons of guys are just plain doing it wrong and think it's a numbers game. (It's only part of it.) You're probably making the mistake of grabbing the number and going. Get to know her and see if she's even someone you want to hang out with again. The comfort level follows and you will be leonthepr0fessional instead of random-guy-I-met-on-the-street.
/r/seduction07/10/12 11:19 PM
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Okay so you're a guy in the so-called business. That pretty much says it all.
/r/seduction06/10/12 05:44 PM
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It's definitely a HUGE factor that's overlooked around here.
/r/seduction06/10/12 04:49 PM
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You haven't said anything of value in your post. Pretty sure this is just a promotion for your book. Please do it elsewhere.
/r/seduction06/10/12 04:44 PM
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Ouch I hadn't considered that. Well I did mention fantasies. So maybe fantasize about someone who is firmly in your past? If you can walk yourself through what you'd do in a hookup situation, too instead of just getting right to sex that might be okay, too as you may be better prepared when you are in the real situation. The problem with fapping is it goes straight to the reward and divorces you from the necessary steps involved to attain that 'reward'. Again, I am definitely not in agreeance wi…
/r/seduction04/10/12 05:19 PM
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Instead of porn, jerk off to the thought of someone you want to fuck but haven't yet fucked. I'm actually on the fence on this one. On one hand it might help you see yourself at that comfort level with them and you can see the result you want vividly so as to attain it. On the other, depending on the quality of your imagination, it might be too vivid and convince you it's close enough to the real thing that you don't need to try for the real thing. Maybe TMI, but I've played it safe and usually …
/r/seduction04/10/12 04:12 PM
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This whole subreddit is "creepy", haven't you noticed? Doing something that's timed well with a strong frame and spontaneous can be perfectly normal but may look "creepy" in plain words on a page.
/r/seduction01/10/12 01:56 PM
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I agree with you, lots of over-reaction to the entire article based on a few bad kernels within.
/r/seduction01/10/12 03:45 AM
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There are some things I don't agree with which everyone pointed out already with that justifying the entire article being bad. But actually, I think it is pretty good minus those few lines.
/r/seduction01/10/12 03:43 AM
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That actually sounds like a worthy goal. Got any insights and advice? As far as like vs. love, I really have no idea as I haven't thought of women on the whole in such terms.
/r/seduction01/10/12 02:56 AM
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If you're depressed, the last thing you should be worried about is your game, my friend.
/r/seduction24/09/12 07:20 PM
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They did a good job of making it look natural then. They should be actors.
/r/seduction26/05/12 05:25 PM
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Still heavy with the kino, and now we're holding hands and feeling around under the bar. I look at her and go in for the kiss. Denied. feelsbadman.jpg. We finish our drinks and she picks up the tab here, refused to let me pay. I thought the night was over, but I figured I'd give it one last shot. "So, you wanna come see my place?" Yes, yes I do. Score. This part was key and where many guys would have even dropped the ball but you handled it like a pro.
/r/seduction19/04/12 03:31 PM
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Thank you for this perspective. I think one reason for Ross Jefferies pioneering seduction theory was in part as a response to the changing landscape of dating.
/r/seduction16/04/12 05:45 AM
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Good post. It really gets to what this subreddit is about.
/r/seduction12/03/12 11:26 PM
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Yes it is kinda known but thanks for sharing man. I think my favorite part of your story was having an older woman help you out with women your own age. Pretty cool. :)
/r/seduction12/03/12 08:29 AM
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Interesting. But how do you save her number if you don't look at your phone?
/r/seduction30/11/11 12:29 PM
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Some are pretty cheesy and over the top, but if they work for you.. I've got some, too, I'll post in a bit.
/r/seduction05/10/11 01:42 AM
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“But look, you didn’t sign up for that. You may think you signed up for that. You may think that’s what you were getting into. But it’s not. You signed up for awkwardness. Lots and lots of awkwardness and uncomfortable social situations. That’s what this stuff really is. Love this. It's so true.
/r/seduction15/09/11 06:22 PM
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Celebs are only used as examples because we're all familiar with them. I can't use my friend Jim as an example of alpha behavior because you don't know him. We all know these actors and know they are Alpha themselves. But you're right, people who are not in the right frame can see a celeb not as a model, but as a limiting belief that they can't acheive that stature and alpha-ness. Of course that is compelte bullshit. You can even become better than these actors. God knows I know girls in real li…
/r/seduction02/09/11 11:05 PM
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Roosh apparently prefers solo game and started out as such. Just a hint for solo, talk to everyone and get social proof. Also, don't be self conscious that other people will be watching you closely as you approach everyone. 1) they don't care 2) even if they do see you, they don't know that you and the person you're engaging with don't know each other. By talking to someone like you already know and have rapport with them, they and others around will buy into that reality if you project it firml…
/r/seduction14/07/11 10:50 AM
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It's only a numbers game until you have enough experience to be a capable lover. Don't think because you meet someone who has slept with more people that you have to "catch up" whether it's a guy OR a girl. There will always be someone out there with more so just focus on what's right for yourself.
/r/seduction13/07/11 09:47 PM
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Not exactly the asian stereotype I see!
/r/seduction08/07/11 10:33 PM
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True but he's better off in the long run developing it organically. I can understand that some people are impatient, I just think he's doing himself a disservice by focusing that time and energy to fake proof than focusing on his internal weaknesses. In other words, if he didn't have weaknesses he wouldn't have to create an elaborate ruse like this. He'd be out meeting the next (real) girl instead.
/r/seduction05/07/11 05:26 AM
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I think you're better off developing the attitude of abundance and willingness to walk away for your inner game than pouring yourself into creating some hall of mirrors for social proof. If anything, maybe you can go from here with the genuine you.
/r/seduction05/07/11 05:02 AM
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As much flack as "The Game" gets, I think that Mystery explaining his cat string theory was very insightful, possibly because I came to the same realization before the book even came out. But if it helps you to use a squirrel analogy for the same concept, by all means do.
/r/seduction23/06/11 07:42 PM
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Truth. OP gets props. I am probably one of the ones that would have fucked it up at some point, too!
/r/seduction10/06/11 02:40 PM
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No- because 98% of the guys here don't approach women.
/r/seduction28/05/11 10:28 PM
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I wasn't singling you out. It's happened a good bit in the last week and sends the wrong message I think. If you (the general you) bagged a HB9 then we take your word for it that she's an HB9 and was previously unapproachable for you. Everyone has a different take on what an HB9 is anyway. I just wanted to do what I thought would keep the forum to a personal development mindset rather than a trophy-case-look-what-i-won mindset. Congrats to you by the way on the basis of the former.
/r/seduction11/01/11 04:54 PM
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Here's to the Seducer in Chief.
/r/seduction11/01/11 04:49 PM
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I disagree. If he's not your politics, that's something else entirely.
/r/seduction11/01/11 04:34 PM
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Let's not get in the habit of posting pics here. I think it's a bad precedent.
/r/seduction11/01/11 04:25 PM
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Wait are you serious? That's exactly part of what we help guys with here. What makes you think it's not the same for women?
/r/seduction06/01/11 03:02 PM
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I welcome this trend. Seduction is for both genders. Hopefully over time we can do better than the non-advice they dish out in women's magazines.
/r/seduction06/01/11 03:00 PM
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You might be confusing the means and the ends of negging here. The female form of negging is the shit test. It is the same thing in that it is a way of establishing a stronger frame of reality and state but different in that it acts as more of a filtering mechanism for women which is a completely different goal. But if you want to know what builds attraction for men, the ends, the means are going to be different. That is to say a girl should play coy and drop hints for him to take the lead. Also…
/r/seduction04/01/11 05:39 PM
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We had this talk about novelty accounts already. Take a hike buddy.
/r/seduction20/12/10 10:45 PM
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Just realized that negging and shit tests are exactly the same thing. These are tools used by men and women to come to agreement on a frame for their social interaction based on perceived value. Compliance by either party validates the frame of your interaction and thus concretes your relative value. You're welcome. It was just one of those epiphanies you know. This even does a good job explaining it.
/r/seduction19/12/10 12:58 AM
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The best podcast for improving your social lifestyle is the one you play as you're on your way to going out.
/r/seduction18/12/10 09:39 AM
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A girl negging is really just a shit test. So I guess now that I think about it, negging is a shit test for them.
/r/seduction17/12/10 07:03 PM
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I read that FR and my first thought was, 'Wow, that is straight out of The Game' But if it works, it works. However, to me, it's not a question of seeming sulking. I am trying to imagine myself doing that and it just seems so random and borderline rude. I know it's supposed to show willingness to walk away and that you don't give a flip if she's willing or not (abundance). But it's not even because of that. It could be a friend I am having over and if I suddenly took out my laptop and started em…
/r/seduction17/12/10 06:36 PM
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Ah I just reread it. You were talking about teasing. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/e5xxi/a_few_thoughts_on_getting_younger_women/
/r/seduction17/12/10 09:22 AM
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I thought you said in another post that bringing up age was not very helpful when interacting with someone that is.
/r/seduction16/12/10 09:34 PM
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The bratty sister thing always grates my nerves for some reason. Thank goodness you have a bunch of others to choose from.
/r/seduction16/12/10 09:32 PM
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I think music is a pretty personal thing. But I am always interested in what others listen to especially for this purpose even though it may not have the same affect on me.
/r/seduction15/12/10 10:32 PM
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No I wasn't procrastinating reading 3 mos old posts but was definitely procrastinating by reading the Conquer Your Campus ebook and then saw your post on the seddit frontpage. Guess I'm getting the jump on next semester. ;) And as for Wygant, it's the former and it's not pickup per se. He coaches women, too, remember so the show is open to everyone. I kinda wish I could convince my school event council to bring him in but then I'd be the guy that wants to have a dating seminar on campus! http://…
/r/seduction15/12/10 10:23 PM
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Eye contact should only be sparse I guess when you're in pull mode and to not display that you're seeking validation from her. Otherwise, eye contact should be pretty focused.
/r/seduction15/12/10 10:15 PM
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There are girls who I could and would get together with if they were in another college and nobody knew them/me. The reason I wouldn't in an environment where everybody knows me is that they might be annoying or hated by many for whatever reason; so it would damage my reputation or lower my value or people would mock me for getting with them. He addressed this in what I've read of it so far. He said (as you've deduced) to stay away from orbiters- the less attractive girls that move in and out of…
/r/seduction15/12/10 07:38 AM
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Ha! I just started reading this last night and I think it's pretty accurate and a necessarily distinguished subset of game. I'm a returning student myself and I kind of see this social dynamic from the outside now. The problem is, it's from the outside. You can't play it exactly to the script as an adult student, but you can still have fun. With most of the friends I've made there, I forget that there is even an age difference. Most of what I've taken from it is still espousing the importance of…
/r/seduction15/12/10 07:32 AM
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A neg is supposed to indicate disinterest and disqualifying yourself as a potential suitor to hear Mystery tell it.
/r/seduction14/12/10 06:41 PM
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But mostly, this is a defense of Style's methods, because I think he gets beat up too often around here. I think he does, too.
/r/seduction13/12/10 09:56 PM
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Not to be "that guy" but it's "Swinggcat" I think. Also, read your FR and hope to have the same success myself. Hope your good start continues and you post even more. I'm watching Flawless Natural right now. Will get into Blueprint after.
/r/seduction13/12/10 04:43 AM
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Memphis
/r/seduction11/12/10 10:47 PM
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It's a good quote. I still wonder about the veracity of that story and how much to take from it.
/r/seduction11/12/10 10:45 PM
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I'm a beginner just trying to help out where I can. I already asked the experienced guys to go behind me to correct me if I get something wrong. But yeah, that's where I'd go in your situation.
/r/seduction10/12/10 07:03 PM
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Don't apologize! Just act as if she was the one that asked for your number and continue. Since you asked about the date, yo could playfully flip that around as if it were her idea, too. But after the laughs, own it. Get to know the 8's and you can have a nice side effect of social proof and maybe even get tournament girl green-eyed. It's all about synergy.
/r/seduction10/12/10 06:06 PM
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Good idea. I'll try to make it a part of my keyboard jockey time allotment. I'm counting on the experienced sedditors to swoop in and correct me constructively if I advise someone the wrong way though!
/r/seduction09/12/10 11:56 PM
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Guess I need to expand my social circle and get invited to parties then. Also, I'd be conscious that in order to be the life of the party, I'd end up being some dancing monkey.
/r/seduction09/12/10 11:07 PM
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Obvious typo dude.
/r/seduction09/12/10 08:03 PM
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Did it ever occur to you that the lack of response might be from other guys' shills?
/r/seduction08/12/10 08:34 PM
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"If not me, who?" I very much like this. It seems like a corollary to the adage "Control your destiny, or someone else will."
/r/seduction07/12/10 11:25 AM
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I didn't look at anyone else's papers when answering this except to check the systems mentioned. ;) Pickup and seduction. Pickup to me means making through your own efforts an amorous connection with someone you just met cold. I think the classic implication of sleeping with that person within 24 hours of meeting still applies but I think that pickup can now include building enough attraction in the other person in which they desire YOU (and believe it's their idea) in an amorous way and providi…
/r/seduction04/12/10 02:48 PM
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The semester just started. Join us.
/r/seduction04/12/10 02:30 PM
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I like it but how do you segue into that without coming off like a creep?
/r/seduction03/12/10 04:48 PM
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Yeah this is terrible because then you come off as wanting to hold her hands. I was like okay I like where this is going until right up near the end.
/r/seduction01/12/10 06:27 PM
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I'm down for this or a seddit university offering from throwaway both.
/r/seduction29/11/10 10:49 AM
1

So many profound thoughts here but that is truly great!
/r/seduction28/11/10 12:42 PM
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Just to save you future embarrassment, his name (in the PUA realm, anyway) is David DeAngelo.
/r/seduction28/11/10 12:39 PM
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Good post! Tell me, is it good to talk about sex before escalating to physical intimacy or maybe after just a successful first date with plenty of kissing? If so, what conversation threads, questions, and general approach should be used? It just seems like a fine line between creep and alpha comfortable discussing the subject.
/r/seduction28/11/10 05:57 AM
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Sounds like a good methodology. I will give it a try!
/r/seduction28/11/10 04:49 AM
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Yes that was why I texted. Thanks for the advice. I'll try going at it differently next time.
/r/seduction16/11/10 03:58 PM
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Yeah man I read that. That's why I'm trying the direct approach. But yeah, I should follow the rest of the advice which is get it to voice or in person immediately. Thanks!
/r/seduction16/11/10 03:59 AM
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Well, I was thinking of trying to build attraction off campus. But clearly it's going to take some attraction building just to get her off campus. But to answer your question, if I get blown out it might be weird as I have classes with her and we have the same classmates. Plus, there's that pesky fact that she has a bf halfway across the country- now world- in which if I do get blown out I don't come off looking that great to everyone else since I am aware of this. I don't necessarily like it my…
/r/seduction16/11/10 03:57 AM
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You're probably right. She's a cool girl and I may just pivot off her later since she's got her own crowd anyway.
/r/seduction16/11/10 02:41 AM
1

Sorry if that wasn't clear. I got nothing back from my original text in the early afternoon. So at about 6:30 I actually asked her a question related to the test to make sure she was by her phone. I got an answer from her and I texted back that I was going to be a little late to kinda get some signal that she was coming or not. Then 5 min later she texts that she's not going to make it. I haven't responded yet. I don't know if she's necessarily a flake as she never actually agreed to it to begin…
/r/seduction16/11/10 02:30 AM
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In a duh moment it occurs to me that calling is appropriate here- but that would have needed to be a phone call the night before. Calling during the day while classes are going on is a pretty much direct to voicemail affair. But people generally text all the time in class and I know this girl does so maybe it wasn't as out of step as it looks.
/r/seduction16/11/10 01:21 AM
1

Good post. Thanks!
/r/seduction14/11/10 07:29 PM
2

Great post.
/r/seduction01/11/10 01:22 AM
1

Thank you. I'm definitely going to read it now.
/r/seduction29/10/10 08:59 AM
8

It's not just the acronyms. I've always hated the term 'sarging'.
/r/seduction25/10/10 02:18 AM
1

Go fuck ten other women. Then you won't care that she's right. FTFY ;)
/r/seduction24/10/10 09:09 PM
3

This is going to become my situation as well. I plan on using it as an opportunity to practice moving things over to her place. That's what I would do anyway..
/r/seduction23/10/10 07:57 PM
1

"Not my scene tonight, lets go to the dive bar around the corner" which is the least I should have done? Looks like you answered your own question. But I'm sure you just wanted some reassurance and feedback that your gut feedback is right. Well, you're right.
/r/seduction23/10/10 05:37 PM
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I came here to post something just like this. Actually I was going to suggest that a guy find a chick that he is clearly out of her league (or just make her qualify, or DHV) and sit back and watch from the other side to see what not to do and what they themselves as guys look like when they appear desperate to another person.
/r/seduction30/09/10 08:24 PM
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