For the past couple months, I've taken a bit of a break from sarging because I was dating a girl, and I knew that I don't do well with temptation, so I just avoided it completely. However, things ended and this week I decided to send out a random text. I met this woman twice or three times, but I hadn't seen her in at least a month and a half. On Wednesday, I just sent her a "hey, are you busy on Friday" text, and we set up a date. I told her she still owed me a beer for not making it to my birthday and she was down. We texted a bit more, and I was using some escalation to gauge my chances for getting laid -- talking about how I like bad girls and asking her to give me a massage, etc... and I thought I had a real high shot of taking the girl home.

We met up at 11 PM and went to a little hole in the wall. I made sure to sit next to her, rather than across the table, but I kept the kino fairly light. A little hand holding and leg touching under the table, but nothing too extreme. After about an hour, I suggested we go somewhere else, and when she asked where, I just said I had some wine at my place -- she mentioned she preferred wine to beer earlier in the night. She agreed, and even as we were walking back, she was talking about how she never goes home with guys. I had my arm around her waist, and I knew it was a done deal. We got back to my place, had a quick glass of wine, and it was murder she wrote.

We finished up and I said I was going to head back out to meet someone else at the bars, so she got dressed and went home. On her way out she asked me "one night stand?" so I just replied "Two night stand?" Probably going to see her again later this week.

Moral of the story: Even if you're unavailable for whatever reason, don't give up on sarging completely. Get those numbers, if nothing else, and you can revisit them whenever you're able.