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Do not reply, for the sole reason that it won't make anything better. If she threatens to commit suicide, tell her you will call 911. If she does it again, actually call 911. They don't take it lightly.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 05:02 AM
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First of all jealousy is insecurity and is always bad and never sexually attractive. If you weren't married, you'd just have let her go and broken up with her some days/weeks after because you don't want to be with someone who goes on dates with other people just to gouge your reaction. Unfortunately you are married though, so what you could have done is say "sure, whatever" and then make plans to go on a date with a woman you know. If you can't do that say you catch up with an old childhood fri…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 04:17 AM
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Maybe her friends are just jealous? Or maybe the girl in question is less attractive meaning she'll think the guy is relatively more attractive (this is a thing). Either ways seems like a bunch of immaturity and caring too much all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 03:45 AM
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MGTOW cool in principle but for a group claiming to not care about women they seem to spend a lot of their time discussing how horrible women are. MRA not sure how I feel about them. On one side they are right that legally, if you are a man you are fucked. On the other hand you're also equipped with bigger guns to deal with stuff. Never heard of omegasphere but it sounds counterproductive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 03:41 AM
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The Pareto principle says 20% of this causes 80% of that. For example 20% of the time you spend working/developing/socializing causes 80% of the desired results. Never heard of the Zipf mistery but it seems to be a statistical thing?
/r/askTRP13/10/15 03:37 AM
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Without statistical backup, it might be closer to 90/10 or even 95/5. You might say "hey, in my BP days I got laid a handful of times", but you have no idea how much the top 5% are having. Before they are 30 they'll have easily crossed the triple digit mark.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 03:35 AM
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A lot, really, but the biggest problem right now is that people read the material, and then start making posts full of theoretical rambling or even made-up stories. And I can understand why. If you read the material the first time, you feel like you've truly seen the light. And in a way you have, but that doesn't make you Jesus. So a lot of guys spend more and more time reading more material, stories, fake stories, feminist blogs, news articles etc. and turn that into more content, which snowbal…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 09:13 AM
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Men have "hamsters" too, and those guys have already made the decision to get married. Because this decision is obviously not based on logic, they use TRP to spout BS that feeds their cognitive dissonance. (Often with vague arguments like "muh nuclear family, muh stable environment for kids")
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 05:26 AM
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I feel like this is also mostly a US thing. In Europe I've only seen a divorce rape happen once in my life. Still wouldn't get married to, don't get me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 05:23 AM
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What does this even have to do with RP/BP? Also, what the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 05:21 AM
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That makes no sense at all. First of all, love isn't anything quantifiable. It's just another word for a bond you feel after being around someone for a long time. It's either scarce to no one or everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 05:19 AM
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It's in the sidebar (with the current state of TRP the only part worth reading), men are the secret romantics and women the secret rationalists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/15 05:18 AM
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It seems to have a mostly "bbw" userbase
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 09:12 AM
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How about he shut his mouth and no one would ever have known? On the other hand, he did uncover that she was a gold digger. In her replies she literally says "I'm not a gold digger", after quite literally dumping someone for not buying her gold.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 12:06 PM
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That must have been really hard for you to admit.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 12:03 PM
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Like the other poster said, you came into contact the the hardest kind of sluts a lot You were impulsive and "fun" Social skills go through the roof on alcohol and amphetamines
/r/askTRP10/10/15 12:02 PM
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If you do it right, prostitutes aren't cheaper. If you are solely in it for sex it's not gonna be worth it either way.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 12:00 PM
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Some jobs that require a lot of masculine behavior, like finance or management. Though I've met some paramedics and police women who were kind of warm and open people, and I've met kindergarten teachers who where either nutjobs or cold and bitter.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 11:59 AM
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The comments are mostly reasonable. People are waking up to the fact that women settle for betas as a last resort, not because they "have changed".
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:41 AM
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When I was a kid I had a book named "the chicken that baked bread" or something. Basically it was about a chicken working all year to grow wheat, make flour, make bread etc. while other farm animals played outside, and in the winter everybody comes to the chicken for bread and the chicken tells them to fuck off and eats the bread alone. Must've been more than 20 years but that one always stuck with me.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:37 AM
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Relationships where you don't watch what you invest are like quicksand. The more you move the worse it gets.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 07:50 AM
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That's a point, but being sexually attracted to someone happens a lot quicker for men. The idea that you can't negotiate attraction goes both ways.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 07:45 AM
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Men never have it harder, they just have it harder getting casual sex. If you think that's what women want as well, it's easy to think being a man is hard mode. Being a man is easy mode. Not only do you have the ability to organize and coordinate your life in a logical way, you also can pick and choose relationships (although you have to date down attractiveness-wise). Men can get it hard for anything with a heartbeat that's not fat. As OP very correctly pointed out, women of all attractiveness …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 07:42 AM
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Wasn't this the result of an occupid data analysis or something? Where the men's attractiveness ratings were completely skewed with 80% being tested as below average?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/15 08:59 PM
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They are trying to convince themselves more than they are trying to convince you
/r/askTRP27/09/15 08:58 PM
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I did it, and although I had some action between the breakup and becoming FWB with her I had basically no other immediate options at the time. I guess it held me back in the way that it made me lazy to try and find new girls. But I was also pretty busy at the time anyways. But do what you want, just hold hard on anticonceptives (condoms always, your own) and not doing couples stuff (no sleepovers, no staying for dinner)
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:27 PM
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I'm basically as red as it gets but wholeheartedly disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 09:24 PM
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Never. You never should let it get to the point where she is the one breaking up with you. Seems you missed/ignored some serious signs down the road...
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:22 PM
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Well what are you gonna do about it? Sex isn't part of the agreement. You've signed a contract saying you'll pay for the car but the contract doesn't say you get to ride it. Scam of the century
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 09:17 PM
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But what if someone's wife is never "in the mood" because she was never really attracted to him but he made such a great husband/father/cash cow. Does that make every interaction abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/15 09:14 PM
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Just semantics but I'm pretty sure that "sexual strategy" refers to the general dynamic more than little tips and tricks.
/r/askTRP20/09/15 09:28 PM
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Going unprotected with LTRs is stupid. Going unprotected with FWBs is insanity. Also remember condoms don't protect you from to herp. She's a sex worker bro lose the thirst
/r/askTRP20/09/15 09:27 PM
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I'm pretty sure no one in their right mind would get married after reading RP material. MRP is for men unplugged when they were already married, I'm sure virtually none of them would get married again. Still good that it exists for men who are unfortunate enough to be married to help each other, also good LTR advice in general
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 04:06 PM
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Only with girls I'm in a committed relationship with. Otherwise the risk to get the herp is simply not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/15 06:12 AM
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Honestly man your intro sounded like the first 20 of my life, minus the hooker. I was in LTRs with girls because I thought I had no other option. I liked them, but deep down I knew they weren't right for me. Some where very clingy, some crazy, others boring. A breaking point in this whole thing was shortly before I found TRP. I saw how my dad has lead a normal, boring life, never took any risk and I think he regrets it. I thought fuck it one day the sun will swallow the earth or we will nuke our…
/r/askTRP12/09/15 11:19 AM
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You can't be alpha but you can make the best of it.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 10:05 AM
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Things like this always get out of control. You'll be Alex to one girl and suddenly run into a girl who knows you by Dave and then you've wasted two girls in one go. What's wrong with them knowing your name?
/r/askTRP12/09/15 10:04 AM
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I've had a girlfriend who always managed to get free drinks while I was standing next to her. She'd tell the guy to get 3 drinks and then it hit him what was going on but too beta to back out lol.
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:48 PM
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I agree that inaccurate generalisation is something TRP suffers from. A lot of posts, like the one you referred to, use hyperboles and black&white thinking to get upvotes. Some posts even read like the author has a clear lack of real-life experiences and immerses himself in theoretical rambling, which is in turn upvoted by people without experience and suddenly you have an echo chamber. This criticism is valid and I think TRP has been struggling with this for a while. The second problem is that …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 11:02 AM
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How thirsty do you have to be to even consider this? And remember condoms don't fully protect you against the herp. Is one slut really worth a life with herpes?
/r/askTRP07/09/15 07:58 AM
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IIRC MRP isn't a part of the redpill network because it sometimes promotes marriage. Although the majority of people here realize it wasn't a good decisions and try to make the best of it, some people - like OP here - enter cognitive dissonance mode and employ typical shaming tacricts. (eg claiming marriage is for grown ups).
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/15 07:56 AM
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It really depends OP. Do you have a cuckold fetish? If so this could be the start of a wonderful relationship.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 06:48 PM
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Fuck, don't be a cuck
/r/askTRP04/09/15 06:47 PM
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Social media is porn for women
/r/askTRP04/09/15 06:43 PM
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Esther Vilar had that on paper as early as the 70's. I'm paraphrasing now but she said in her book something like "the only thing that matters to a woman is other women. Men are amateurs in the giving of compliments, they mean nothing to her. To a woman, making the heads of men turn isn't worth nearly as much as making that of another woman turn."
/r/askTRP04/09/15 06:43 PM
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Rather see the gym thing as a whole different entity, surely an interesting path to develop but not your main one. Maybe a good approach would have been something like "hey let's not get too caught up in all this fitness stuff, let's go for drinks this weekend!" or something idk. This way you could have developed a position from where escalating would be much more effective and standalone. But this is all hindsight of course an I'm not you. In the end it's acting and getting the experience that …
/r/askTRP04/09/15 06:37 PM
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IMO you waited waaaay too long to make any moves at all. You're setting up the whole gym thing and don't start gaming until after that. This makes no sense to me. Why would you do all this for a girl you haven't as much as made a move on? You've offered yourself as a friend before you brought up the possibility of a romantic/sexual interest. Girls don't friendzone, you friendzone yourself and she just delivered the message because you were obviously not getting it.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:46 AM
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If there's one thing TRP needs less it's guys using it as a blog to hamster about marriage.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:41 AM
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Although I'd agree with more LTR stuff, turning a plate into LTR is by definition bad because girls who let themselves become plated aren't LTR material to begin with.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 07:40 AM
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Works for everything where there is a bill to be split, restaurant, bar, music events etc. But yeah I was actually talking about the start of LTR, although I never do dinner dates unless I'm already in a relationship with the girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 04:24 PM
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A common problem here is setting a certain standard in the early dating. It's no big deal to just pay the first date but you'll have set a course. Personally I'll just ask to split on the first date and after that it feels much more natural. If she feels insulted or anything it wasn't a girl I wanted to date anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 12:57 PM
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Might have been Plato who said it. With Plato's works it's always hard to tell if he's quoting Socrates or using him as a talking head
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 12:52 PM
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Some really inexperienced girls will take some time because sex is very new to them and makes them very nervous or insecure. If you've ever had sex with a virgin you'll forever be able to tell the difference between a girl needing some time and a girl making you wait.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 12:48 PM
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Same with Eastern European girls. Unlike western women they at least know what men want in women, so they'll at least pretend to be that until they divorce rape your ass. Oh besides a guy in my city got killed by his Thai import wife with and axe in his sleep. Just thought that was worth pointing out.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 09:30 PM
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If you respond to thing posted on tumblr you've already lost. But then John Green seems like the kind of guy who would use tumblr himself.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 09:22 PM
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You need to think about your own sanity here. If everytime your current LTR girl goes to some new age inverse-triple-mindfulness-yoga class you think she's getting railed by Chad, it's going to drive you nuts. AWALT doesn't mean all women will cheat on you, it means they all have the capacity to do it if you bring forth enough beta behavior. So trust her but be willing to walk away, and always keep in mind she's not yours, it's just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 08:50 PM
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Be attractive Don't be unattractive
/r/askTRP27/08/15 09:23 AM
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Yeah so what? Idk personal preference for everyone of course but I find it more trouble than it's worth.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 06:36 AM
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Why you would want to live with a woman is beyond me. Just a nuisance and it dries her up really fast.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 05:52 PM
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Lol literally got the time-tested "what are we?" again this morning, never fails to crack me up.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 07:02 AM
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Can confirm. 6'3" and those extra 3 inches would have made all the difference
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 11:59 AM
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Thanks for this. I definitely suffer from this, and it's gotten worse. I check my email at least 4 times an hour, Facebook the same. I'm not even expecting anything, I just do it mindlessly. It's gotten so bad in fact that sometimes I open my mail, close it and immediately open it again. Same with my phone, I take it often for no reason. I used to be much more focussed, I think a problem is also working on the computer. When it comes to non-PC work I can work undistracted for hours. Anyways what…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 08:45 PM
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Have had this problem as well, I seem too focussed on what is going on and when push comes to shove realize I'm not hard enough. Happens sometimes, only during first time with new girl.
/r/askTRP17/08/15 07:22 PM
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Men are in power of commitment in their 20's as well
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 08:29 PM
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I think we are generally seeing, at least from the male perspective, a return to conservatism and a deviation from the feminist standard. With the rise of the internet and especially places like reddit or 4chan, a lot of people now at least vaguely understand AF/BB and ridiculous partner counts. Millions of young guys learned about the friendzone and about "nice guys", and were usually on the wrong side of it. Even a beta hates to be cucked, but it's much harder to accept it when the evidence is…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 08:25 PM
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Including the football team
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 08:20 PM
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Marriage is a topic where even in TRP we see a lot of hamstering about. Countless of times it is repeated that it's a high-risk zero return business, and still people come up with shit like "yeha but I want kids so I need a stable nuclear family and get married" or "it's TRP on hard mode". Sometimes I wish the automoderator would be programmed to permaban users who advocate marriage. It's also why marriedredpill isn't allowed on the sidebar, too many people where advocating for marriage or writi…
/r/askTRP16/08/15 08:17 PM
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That was an answer to LTR regret not marriage regret
/r/askTRP16/08/15 08:13 PM
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Look at the financial independence subreddit, they have a lot of good resources
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 04:11 PM
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It's like having kids, but without a financial agreement between the parents. Although I don't have kids, I see many people on this sub hamstering "yeah but if you want kids you need a stable family and marriage". Lol wat. A marriage contract means as much for stability as a few words in front of a man with a funny hat and an imaginary cloud bearded man. Stability is derived from the healthy relationship between the parents, not from made-up contracts. Kids learn through seeing how their parents…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 07:34 AM
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50k a year let's you retire at 35 or something. But society wants you to take on a wife and kids, a mortgage and three cars so your productivity can be maximized until the day you die.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 07:28 AM
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Are you sure she wants to fuck you all the time, or is just putting up a show because she senses you'll leave her otherwise? It's easy to just open your legs more often but it's not easy faking being into it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/15 08:00 AM
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"I think we all thought that in that moment, one way or another"
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 07:35 AM
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The more modest ones, where people end up what went wrong or how this could have been handled better. I completely ignore the many posts that are something like "and 5 minutes later she was sucking my cock in the bathroom"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/15 07:28 AM
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Although loans and medical bills are unfortunate for US citizens because of how fucked their system is, a mortgage is for a house to show off or because your wife "just fell in love with it" I can't link on TRP but search for the all time top posts on this sub, there's one called "to be a man is to be a slave" or something like that.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 07:20 AM
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He's just pandering to his audience. There's no deep motive behind this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 10:16 AM
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Personally during my development I grew naturally disinterested in passive entertainment except reading. I was never much of a gamer but I just don't see the appeal anymore. The general point however is that it shouldn't interfere with other things. Video games are fine but not when you are missing workouts because of it.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 10:04 AM
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I disagree on the pre-nup. Even if we assume it won't be thrown out, you're fixing a problem you created yourself. Saying you will marry with a pre-nup is like cutting yourself to the bone for no reason and saying it doesn't matter because you'll put a band aid on it. Don't marry, ever.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:02 AM
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Only buy what you need, 99% of Americans are in debt simply because they buy shit they can't afford to impress others. You can totally get away with driving a beater car if you hold frame. Women will shit test you to the end of the world for it because your car doesn't provide any value or status to them
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:00 AM
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Yes you're right that's the title!
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:46 AM
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Want to throw in Predictably Unpredictable Irrational by Dan Ariely. Focusses more on decision-making rather than the manipulation of consumers but it is very insightful
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:34 PM
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That's not necessarily true and you SHOULD care about what people think of you if you want to be successful in life. like you say, in business it can be necessary. When it comes to what society thinks of you however, you should ignore it completely because society is trying to shame you into a provider role. Not just for your wife, but for society as a whole (children, taxes, mortgages, cars, houses etc.). As you may have noticed, it worked on you, hence the defending. I also hope you better hav…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:16 PM
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[including unmarried co-habitating] but not excluding children born outside of any stable relationship between the parents whatsoever
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:18 AM
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I actually read property first. Propriety is essentially as vague as stability, except even more BP because it's about caring what others think of you.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:16 AM
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It's better than the plethora of "and 5 minutes later she blew me in the bathroom" posts
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:15 PM
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some people want to make a family. lovely idea. Still no reason to get married.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:06 PM
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There are logical reasons why someone would choose to get married. almost stopped reading Everything from propriety arranging all of these "benefits" costs you a total of 50 bucks and half an hour at a lawyers/notary. Including heirs, wills, medical rights and so on. to the desire for stability that is seriously fucking obscure. How did this work out for all the divorced people out there? Oh let me just put this band-aid made out of a wedding document on your shredded family
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:05 PM
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if you want children who--statistically speaking--turn out better you should get married Bro I am physically raging right now. Your kids don't care about a piece of paper. 50% of people get divorced and tear their family apart with the goddamn paper. What kids need is parent's who show them through their actions how a healthy relationship works. God damn I wish mods would simply ban people advocating for marriage. How can you possibly be this plugged in still?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:03 PM
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And even here on TRP there are people defending marriage in this fucking thread
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:01 PM
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Exactly. I would think this is insulting to women, who are thought of by others to be perpetual vitcims who's lives entirely depend on men's decisionmaking.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 06:07 PM
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its only due to her traditional beliefs. IDGAF about her traditional beliefs. I'll take what benefits me (low partner count, loyalty) and reject the bullshit (marriage). I am willing to budge a little for that kind of a girl Signing off your livelihood to the whims of a woman is more than budging a little. But yeah it's your funural.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 12:51 PM
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Some of the comments are gold Alpha OP: I have 0 desire to start a serious relationship with her. I would like to help her out with whatever she is going through but I don't want to give her the message that I want to be her boyfriend. Bluepill guy (whose name, ironically, is byebyebluepill): Unfortunately, there isn't always a middle ground. Jokes on you mister bluepill, there totally is. It's called fuckbuddy, FWB, plate, cumdumpster, town bicycle and the likes. The idea that you either need t…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 12:22 PM
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Don't hamster. I'm all for the conservative young virgin but there's still no reason to marry her. If she won't be with you without a marriage contract she was in it for the contract and not for you.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 12:09 PM
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This is the most hypocritical part about feminism and blue-pill thinking as a whole: the idea that women are capable of making their own decisions but never responsible for the consequences. She's an independent woman but when she gets tired and confused from all that spinning the guy in the OP is a shitlord for not picking up the shards of wasted opportunity. Although at the RP we say men and women aren't equal, we are more for equality egalitarian than BP is. The whole core of TRP is that you …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 12:08 PM
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It depends on how you want to define "benevolent". If you mean being a good person, sure you can. Just be clear about what you want, be respectful when telling her bad news and don't talk bad about her. That's really all there's to it. It doesn't mean however you should give in. Set your boundaries, be open about them and stick to them. What Kelly in the OP is doing was trying to make the alpha feel like he is mistreating her. Manipulation 101, and he saw right through it.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 12:02 PM
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The state will become desperate and will find ways to grab a big chunk of your savings. This could be trough direct taxation or with inflation rates way above intrest rates. That defninitely is the biggest risk, but my guess it that you'll miss out on the biggest cash grabs because you don't pay income tax anymore in the long term. Your savings already are taxed. However I do not believe any government will push it this far. France set a pretty good example of what will happen. All rich french p…
/r/askTRP08/08/15 11:54 AM
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I think Zyzz was in many ways like her. Yeah he was aesthetic but he was also deeply insecure about himself, and no amount of coke or roids or cumsluts could ever fill that for him. When I see videos of Zyzz I don't see an inspirational hero, what I see is a large man with an underdeveloped sense of self-worth taking it out in destructive behaviour leading to his death at age 22.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 07:31 AM
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the kindest, gentlest, most patient guy This is code speak for how much of a beta schlub who can't possibly turn her on he is. Every woman reading that article immediately understood this, and to most men the article doesn't make sense at all.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 07:27 AM
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Computer screens are so important! Especially because the light is kind of blue-ish which suppressed the sleep hormones. Not to mention you are stimulating your brain a lot by watching movies etc. It never occurs to people how unnatural it really is: watching a hyper-realistic battlefield, war, car crashes etc. and then simply tryig to fall asleep immediately afterwards. I'm also generally a big fan of doing menial stuff after sunset. I clean my apartment, do dishes and laundry etc. and any time…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 07:48 AM
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It depends on you really. You want a traditional SAHM? Then she's not the one. Don't want kids and become rich together? She's a good choice. Keep in mind that a traditional SAHM is a huge risk nowadays. Even without getting married, if you live together in this setup with children involved, you are in for a ride when she takes it to court. With a carreer-minded woman you at least have someone who knows what it's like to pull her own weight. I'd prefer this personally but then I don't want child…
/r/askTRP31/07/15 07:39 AM
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If this story is true, that is very sad for her. But after 4 months I'd just count my losses and whish her well with the legal persuasion of this case. She probably won't, though, and tell her you won't discuss the matter with her unless legal action takes place. Then break up gently somewhere in a few weeks. On a side note: I think women who are raped and don't press charges are absolute subhumans. They willingly expose other women to risk the same simply because muh feelings. Yeah sure it woul…
/r/askTRP31/07/15 07:25 AM
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So pump&dump means you're a sex offender right now? And I assume the judge also decided there is no way women could want casual sex?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 07:20 AM
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Don't marry anywhere that isn't a third world country. In Europe, marriage laws are more mild but there's still no benefit for men. Parental rights are in Europe seperated from being married, meaning if you write your name on the birth certificate you will have all the responsibilities and also rights of a father. In the US you practically have only the responsibilities and none of the rights. Not married? Pay up child support and never see your child. Married? She tells you're a drunk and prone…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 07:00 AM
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I baffles me that even on TRP I sometimes see guys advocating marriage. "But I want to lead a family and be a man and bla bla". The idea that you need to do this or that to be a man is core bluepill thinking!. Shaming you into "growing up" and providing them with a comfortable house and free income is exactly what women do. And if you do want children, you can do that without getting married. "but London-Bananas, muh nuclear family!". A piece of paper does NOTHING for the stabilty of your family…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 06:57 AM
3

Maybe she has something to hide, maybe she is cheating, or maybe she just values her privacy. It doesn't fucking matter. What matters is that you feel the need to snoop, and you feel it's your job to make sure you can trust her. And that's some giant ass bullshit. It's her job to make you trust her, and when you feel the need to snoop she's already causing too much stress to be worth the effort. So maybe she is cheating, maybe she isn't, drop her either way. Remember women should make your dick …
/r/askTRP29/07/15 03:52 PM
7

You can just have multiple accounts, everyone does it. FYI subs like / r /BDSM or / r /sex auto-shadowban everyone who is subscribed to TRP I believe.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:26 AM
31

"We're all gonna make the list brah" - Zyzz
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:23 AM
133

Or as Robert McNamara said after WWII (about the firebombings of Japan and Germany): "If we'd lost the war, we'd all have been prosecuted as war criminals."
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:20 AM
0

I like your gun analogy, but I always understood AWALT much differently. Not a black and white case of loaden/unloaded or with/without fangs. More like a certain treshold. Not every woman is going to take the first flight to Ibiza and suck 3 cocks in a stall bathroom when you slip up. Some women are more and some are less forgiving of beta behaviour, but none are completely immune. So that snowflake girl you've been dating for 3 years has a higher treshold, and Stacey who took her ex-bfs dick in…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:17 AM
21

Personally I believe women get off psychologically on big dicks as well. Physically it's actually not that great, a lot of girls often need to warm up and "stretch out" a bit, you can't go balls deep with doggy because you'll hit her cervix, anal takes 20 minutes to prepare etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 05:19 PM
17

What OP is essentially trying to tell the men is that they can stop trying to get her off by eating her out for hours, trying all these new things, extra clit stimulation etc. 90% of stimulation to women is purely psychological. If she doesn't have the tingles for you, there simply is no way you will get her off. It isn't some magic technical trick you need to learn, she simply wants to be dominated, trown around and fucked by an alpha.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 05:14 PM
1

Hey I went for it and she's coming over tomorrow!
/r/askTRP13/07/15 09:25 PM
1

Self-improvement and owning your life. You make the decisions and you are responsible for your own happiness.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 02:58 PM
1

I get that such a traumatic experience simply changes you as a person, but not even in the bluest of bluepill worlds would you just have to accept cheating (whilst getting none yourself because she can't handle sex yet). I honestly think OP is a good guy for sticking around and trying to move forward, but when she cheated he should have bailed.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:51 PM
2

An exclamation mark? that makes no sense and I don't think she would understand. what I was actually thinking was sending "hey was great fun yesterday, too bad we got interrupted. Want to pick up where we left next weekend?" or something.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 07:33 PM
8

Those people getting sued where probably men though
/r/askTRP12/07/15 02:25 PM
3

Very nice! What was the tuna analogy?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 02:24 PM
1

Nothing wrong with a good LTR but marrying adds nothing to that.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 06:53 AM
1

"Let's just be friends" means "I know we aren't fucking anymore, buy still give me attention and validation"
/r/askTRP10/07/15 04:10 PM
97

OPs dick was smarter than his brain
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 11:10 AM
5

He married a single mother of two. Textbook definition cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 10:10 AM
4

Alec is a cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/15 09:25 AM
2

adjusts monocle
/r/askTRP10/07/15 09:02 AM
7

I feel like most married guys with 2 kids don't get nearly 50 times sex a year. Maybe a tenth of that.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:24 PM
37

What makes you think she has to have sex with him? Maybe to lock him down yeah, but she'll push for living together within one year, set the faucet to trickle and when he comes begging for a little bit more sex she'll say something like "I'm anxious in this apartment with thin walls, why don't we get married and buy a house?" or some equivalent. Within 2 years she'll be beta-sex free and comfortably provisioned. Over those two years she'll have had 'sex' with him maybe 30-40 times. Great ROI if …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 06:36 PM
10

Look you can't plate a girl who lives across the Atlantic, no matter how you twist or turn it. The fact that you even believe this shows just how you are too invested in this girl.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 03:23 PM
2

Right now the opposite is happening. "She misses talking" = I know we're not fucking but still give me attention. So just ignore, she'll come with the offer to fuck by herself if you wait long enough.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 03:22 PM
2

You don't need to be some massive stud to be successful. Hell, the main idea of TRP is to reset, don't feel like you must do anything and think for yourself. That also means you don't need to follow RP advice, as long as you are true to yourself. Being frustrated with women is natural at this point but it'll go away. I don't hate women, I don't think they're stupid and evil. They just have their own ideas and motivations just like we have.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 11:25 AM
3

Stop trying to hamster your bad decisions of getting married. You've made the best of a bad situation, good for you, but you'd have always been better of not married. Remember this is a sub where we try to give men advice good as possible, not make posts justifying our own decisions. The are no benefits to getting married.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 08:47 AM
2

Go to bar with girl Give her my share of the money She orders everything Checkmate trans-pan omnisexualists
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 08:41 AM
24

Guy in the relationship sub. There was a problem with his plate and when he in passing mentioned that his plate had pushed for commitment once but he denied it, they tore him to shreds. Somewhere in the comments he said "guys aren't vending machines you put sex into and get relationships out of"
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:21 AM
1

It should be obvious without telling.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 03:35 PM
5

By reasoning and introspection. Say I was a 19 year old guy and wanted to meet the girl that was the one for me, for whatever reason. Even though I have little experience, it doesn't take more than common sense to realize that double D Stacey might not be the woman I want to raise children with. Yeah she's exciting, does drugs, suck cock like a semen demon but even 19 year old me would have recognized this wasn't a good idea. Maybe what you mean takes experience is impulse control? Like yeah Sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 02:53 PM
6

Like the other poster said, your mistake was a lack of wisdom and not a lack of experience. You don't need to become a sage of old age to realize dark past artsy types don't make great LTR material.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 07:40 AM
7

Don't marry, don't have kids. There, you can now live comfortably on under 1000 bucks a month, have 2-3K left to do whatever/save and retire by 45-50. Society wants you to marry, have kids and take out giant mortgages so you'll live in slavery until 70 with if you're lucky 5 years before you die left to go fishing. Fuck that shit I want to go fishing now. I fucking love fishing. One thing I can imagine is a LTR with a childfree woman, if I can find a suitable one. Never buy a house, always rent,…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 11:12 AM
21

Yeah OP obviously never dated Eastern European girls. They just hide it better.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 06:14 AM
1

Well then she doesn't go buy whatever, how is that your problem? Why do you care if you get a trashcan with weels or not?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/15 03:54 PM
1

Yeah I think that's different at least in most of Europe. If you have to pay you also have the rights of a father and visa versa.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 12:18 PM
6

If you marry you have lost either way. And I agree with the other poster, it's about how they value themselves rather than the actual number. A girl who's in her mid twenties and been in 1-2 LTRs can still be perfectly suited for an LTR. Sometimes things just don't work out and that adds to the count.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 09:05 AM
2

Oh I haven't heard anything about that on TRP. Either way it doesn't dictate what sexual preferences you should have, although I could see a cuckold fetish to be somewhat... conflicting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/15 09:02 AM
6

Which is why the routine says DL 1x5 and not 5x5...
/r/askTRP05/07/15 07:55 AM
1

Being in control is fine and all, but you being a committee of approval for shit you don't care about is annoying and unnecessary. Tell her she can spend X amount on it and that's all you want to do with it. It's called delegation and will make her feel like she's important.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/15 07:32 AM
1

The tentacle grape juice was a reference to 4chan. Because of their... unique.. content, they have always had much trouble finding good advertisers despite their large userbase. J-List, famous for the tentacle grape juice ads, has been their main advertiser for years now.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 10:12 PM
6

Maybe in situations where a BP guy doesn't get to have anal with his girl even though she was into it with another guy? I mean did you read it that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/15 01:03 PM
11

Seems impossible. If a woman just out of the blue tells you she cheated there's a good reason for that. Probably the other guy told her something like "you tell him or I tell him." Either way this whole thing would have broken down if she hadn't told anyways. Women don't know guilt.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 06:39 AM
2

Remember this OP: she isn't going to lose you as a provider. Married and a kid? That's free BB right there. Or maybe you have some five figure debt you'd like to split in the divorce?
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 06:34 AM
6

To be fair when you aporoach it is always clear you want to fuck them. You know, she knows, and you know she knows you know. Your job is to feed the hamster and make her say "it just happened"
/r/askTRP03/07/15 06:48 PM
7

The Odyssey is very RP though. Basically this guy goes to war, spends 10 years fucking goddesses, slaying cyclopses and conquering seas, only to come home to kill his wife's orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:25 PM
5

"For future reference, right handed men don't hold it with their left. Just one of those things. You're gonna miss your flight." Beautiful movie, and also very RP because the whole point is that even when put at a genetic disadvantage you can overcome them by hard work, dedication and perseverance.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:23 PM
22

Not saying Pao is doing a terrific job but there really is a large difference between being an admin and the CEO of a company
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:16 PM
22

In another thread there was a mod or admin (don't remember) who said Pao kicked Victoria to the curb because she didn't agree with radical (monetization) changes in the AmA style. This included doing video AmAs ($$$$$ + easier brigading). This is also in line with the banning of FPH. If you want to make serious bucks, you can't have hate against 30-40% of the population reaching your front page, or you might find yourself with tentacle grape juice advertisements.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 04:11 PM
5

They lock posts where the story doesn't line up with their general message (Disney fairytale and therapy solves everything) or when something is unfavorable for a woman.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 09:06 PM
3

The best thing of this thread was, aside from OP awakening the rage of a thousand shattered plates, that nobody assumed the FWB was actually benefiting the girl as well. They all assume that if BB isn't on the table, this whole arrangement is bad for her. OP said somewhere he wasn't harming her because there were no videos/pics of her and he told no one. So perfect casual sex arrangement for this girl.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 09:04 PM
15

That last comment was me. The whole thread was a total mess and because it wasn't telling a Disney love story mods quickly locked it down.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 08:51 PM
1

Which is womenspeak for fucking around. Bonus if she says travel and meet new people because that means she's gonna do it where nobody will find out
/r/askTRP02/07/15 05:06 PM
9

Says the sex with high heels, push-up brahs, false eyelashes, fake haircolor and a full on face mask
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/15 04:41 PM
1

Don't marry is obvious advice for men, but TRP isn't necessarily anti-LTR. Covering a good LTR with a bad contract doesn't do anything for you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 05:45 PM
12

It's almost like actual compatibility and loyalty are more important than a piece of paper
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 05:43 PM
2

A lot are married with kids so leaving will financially cripple them. Still a bad choice to stay, sanity/sex/happiness/self-respect >>> money. With the non-married ones it's just lack of willpower and sunk cost fallacy
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 09:39 AM
2

Oh god here we go again... You can't have weewee without both a peepee and a veevee
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/15 05:50 AM
11

Isn't that much more effective in college though? I mean it always seemed to me this was the main reason they "study" these bullshit courses anyways.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 07:13 PM
78

2 is actually legit and better than starting immediately racking up debt studying medieval literature or something. But on the other hand it's not debt if BB OP pays
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 05:17 PM
5

Source? Because sun is full of cancer
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 02:46 PM
3

Whether she has a new dick in mind or not, you where too invested in her either way. Try to reduce this in the future. It should be you who tells girls to slow down.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 02:32 PM
1

I've had quite a few of these breakups. Nice, big-hearted girls who were seriously into me. I would say directness is better than honesty sometimes. Meaning that if the real reason is "I want to bang many sluts and you are holding me back", obviously don't state the reason. Go for something that is strong but can't be answered by " but I promise to change!" and isn't cheesy. Something along the lines of "I'm not in love with you anymore, and stringing you along isn't good/honest to either of us"…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:40 AM
1

Remember these women have the choice of staying with you without commitment or leaving. You don't have to make the decision for them, and you don't need to keep them from making bad decisions (just like no girl ever told you she couldn't accept your friendship/attention because she wasn't interested).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/15 11:24 AM
1

Although I found TRP halfway through college, this was an astonishingly accurate description of my life through school.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 09:02 AM
1

The government doesn't care about feminism or justice or whatever. It's about money. Every single mom costs the government tens to hundreds of thousands.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 07:31 AM
25

I think this is best explained in the sense that you don't need to become a big law partner, but instead you want to become one. This requires you to fulfill certain qualifications.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 04:28 PM
3

Remember women are non-confrontational. Basically they'll stay in one relationship until an alternative one is already being built (eg branch swinging).
/r/askTRP27/06/15 04:54 PM
12

I think you're reading too far into this. Gaming was relatively nerdy until recently. With the introduction of social media and especially twitch gaming became yet another channel for women to receive attention and monetize their bodies.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 04:39 PM
7

Do you have a source for that? BTW Mark Rippletits said it does not equal source.
/r/askTRP27/06/15 04:35 PM
2

You should only use the transportation you need. If you need to get to different places a lot where limited public transportation is available, get a car. If you live in a European city and work in/around it, don't get a car. Women who say you need to grow up and get a car are simply trying to shame you into BB who will drive them around
/r/askTRP27/06/15 07:25 AM
0

I guess it could work for men who made the mistake of getting married. You'll still be a cuck, but at least she won't be fucking some dude behind your back. And you get to experience some other women whilst also installing obvious dread. But yeah it still sucks to whore out your woman. Thank god I found TRP before ever getting married.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 08:02 PM
2

I think he meant TRP doesn't care, not that they don't approve.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 07:39 PM
0

Lesbian couples have very high rates of domestic violence though. Not sure how it is with gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 07:38 PM
3

I think equal legal treatment for gays is good news for society as a whole. It doesn't particularly effect either BP or RP unless you plan on changing sexual preferences anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 07:38 PM
3

I have honestly never read anything on TRP that is even remotely homophobic. I'm sure I've seen some gays post even.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 07:36 PM
1

Red Pill is all for being able to make your own choices, even if they are bad choices. And aside from that it's ridiculous that gay people get treated differently legally in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 07:35 PM
12

Considering "Chad" won't commit to her he's probably way above her. A 5/10 guy would be glad to take over this woman. And yeah I guess the Chad Tundercock thing is just a hyperbole, imo it's pretty funny. I definitely chuckled when OP typed "let's call him Chad"
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 07:33 PM
6

"I suggest marriage counseling"
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 07:21 PM
3

Yeah single people aren't exactly welcome at swingers clubs. I believe it's pretty much required to come as a couple.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 07:20 PM
0

I find it hard to believe a short ugly dude has slept with thousands of women
/r/askTRP25/06/15 03:35 PM
2

Men lack the reason to not have sex every time it's offered to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 11:49 AM
6

But home ownership is an option and not a requirement
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 07:32 AM
9

Women understand. It's men who are clueless to respond when confronted with this statement
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 08:52 PM
1

If you look at the posts there's a fair amount of general life improvement as well. The thing is that you can learn a lot from TRP about women, social situations etc but when it comes to life improvement you will need to do the heavy lifting yourself.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 03:24 PM
2

From personal experience the majority of the RP readers are over 21 anyways. It takes a couple of years of experience to realize something is fucked up on such a fundamental level. Looking back, there was always that cookie crumbles trail, but the full realization takes time for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 08:29 PM
7

A kind, poor, very handsome and impulsive artist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 10:10 AM
6

AF ----> BB
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 09:42 AM
4

It's up to the girl to make that choice. I might limit myself by saying for LTRs I want only virgins, but that's really my problem then isn't it? If I can find a virgin who doesn't have a problem with my partner count, great. If not, my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 07:22 AM
1

Less in western Europe. But then western Europe doesn't have retarded family laws so there's that.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 07:16 AM
3

It can be trained. The more you overcome desires and focus the easier it will be. Also remove yourself from your home environment and leave your laptop+phone. Just take your book and calculator and go sit in the library. If you have sheets or something on your PC print them out.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 06:29 AM
8

The sequels are much better Episode IV: a new Chad Episode V: the Chad strikes back Episode VI: revenge of the Chad
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:04 AM
2

ALL ABOARD THE RAPE TRAIN CHOO CHOO
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:59 AM
1

My life is not an episode of Game of Thrones. I get that other people can enoy raising kids but giving up 20 years of your life for a specific sequence of acid-base pairs seems rather weak.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 07:19 PM
1

Equal drive but different sex. Guys produce little to no oxytocin during sex whereas it floods women. Essentially meaning sex is just sex for guys, but much more emotional for women. Which is also why male prostitutes aren't really a thing but instead you have one Chad who simply has 5 plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 09:20 AM
3

Exercise has become pretty much my nature. Until I didn't start lifting until a couple of months ago, I boxed for years before even before reading TRP. Anybody who exercises, whatever colours, will eventually start feeling like shit when they don't do it for more than a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 06:16 AM
14

For me personally, I always felt most comfortable being a timid, nice, sweet and caring guy. But then society shits all over you for being that so you adapt. Pavlov 101: you spray water on a dog that barks he'll eventually stop barking. And you might say it's a sad life to put on an act, but look at it like this: giving in to my "nature", I'd also much rather sit behind the TV eating Doritos watching a movie. But instead I go to the gym or I read or hike or whatever. Because even though eating D…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 08:47 PM
6

it's very easy to protect your interests Which you wouldn't need to do if you hadn't gotten married in the first place. There are no benefits
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:36 PM
12

What I'm saying is that it's fine to want and have kids, a long term/permanent woman and a white picket fence, but getting married will leave you with none of those because it means she can have them taken from you at gunpoint. A quality woman will stay with you for you, and although she may want to get married it will work out if you know what you're doing. If you have a wife who only wanted to stay with you under the condition of marriage it wasn't working anyways.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:28 PM
36

There's joy in a happy family life Absolutely, so don't get married. Because if you do, you will no longer have a family, a life, happiness or joy.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 08:14 PM
0

Not to blame men, but a beta is someone who incites this behavior. If the beta seeks in his woman the strength, confidence and security he shield be building in himself. His woman has to act like a man, becomes frustrated and can impossibly submit to such a weak man
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 02:31 PM
2

I had gfs in my beta days. Some girls are really insecure and trying to tiptoe around an alpha is exhausting for them.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 09:48 AM
5

It's not gonna be easier than this. Saliva is the easiest accessible fluid with DNA (urine doesn't and sperm only has half the genome). To make a comparison of DNA you need to do gel electrophoresis which isn't that hard, but too hard to do at home accurately. Science isn't magic
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 09:15 AM
5

Guys seriously read the fucking article...
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 08:46 AM
2

The current ones require you to swipe some saliva from your kid and yourself and send them to a company. (Illegal in Germany and France)
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 08:44 AM
4

No government, feminist or not, is going to make this happen. Even if you use unrealistically low numbers, say 1%, of children born are not their dad's, that would put the state at huge costs. Now the married slave-male works to provide for his wife, "his" kids and a big house to put them all in, eg maximizing his working potential. If a paternity test is done, 1 in 100 men will bail, leaving them with 70% of their income to spend on themselves (or worse, save) and the government will have to pa…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 08:43 AM
3

Maybe you should have read the actual article (also that picture they use is misleading). It's a gel injection in your sperm tube things, not a pill. They're talking about Vasalgel, which had been "just around the corner" for several year now. Just a year ago they were talking 2016-2017 and now it's 2018-2020. In 2020 it will be 2022. Remember this a billion dollar industry vs a small group of scientists, sadly.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 08:40 AM
2

That's not even the real issue. The real issues are court situations, divorce, decisions involving reproduction etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 08:34 AM
2

Laugh and joke it away "isn't that some kind of flower?"
/r/askTRP19/06/15 05:24 AM
2

Don't bring up the divorce thing or hkw LTRs are unnecessary when you love your life. Like the other poster said "I haven't met the right one yet" basically tells women to step up their game
/r/askTRP18/06/15 09:45 PM
26

In Germany it's brothels all around and in the less popular areas $30-40 bucks for half an hour. I mean you get what you pay for, but it ain't a bad deal. Oh yeah and there is a special organization that deals with abuse and trafficking in prostitution that visits all brothels regularly and has 1-on-1 conversation with the hookers. Women will literally throw other women in front of the bus, having them abused, trafficked, exploited and raped only to increase the price of their own pussy. Absolut…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 09:30 PM
7

OP tries to game his barber, no homo. In all seriousness though if you need something more important than your hair done, call around. "I'm looking for <service>, how much would that cost at your company?" They'll usually be reluctant to give you a number eg "it depends on <anything>". Respond with "OK because I'm calling around to see what companies are offering this service for what prices" At this point they'll usually give you a number or they'll call you back later. Saves a ton, but not rea…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 09:24 PM
2

Remember she doesn't have a lot of experience with anything so be more low key with the actual location. Walk in the park or a hike might be better than a bar, especially if she doesn't drink. Still escalate as normal.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 09:17 PM
2

A consulting firm would actually be an option for engineers. However they pay isn't necessarily better and you usually end up doing more exciting work directly for a company
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 09:16 PM
2

It's not your duty to do anything at all. If you want to sit in your basement all day and eat Doritos (and find a government willing to finance that), it's your right to do so. Personally I don't want kids because I don't like them, but I think I would even consider not having them if I wanted to. If you have kids as a man you are at the mercy of the whims of your wife who has the state at her side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 04:21 PM
7

No you can't. Some market are either saturated or have super high entry barriers. You can't just start an oil, automotive, telecommunications or energy company after having read entrepreneurship 101 and the 48 laws of power. You couldn't even do it with a team of experienced entrepreneurs.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 02:38 PM
14

I'm a mechanical engineer, and I can't just go and start my own automotive company.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 06:38 AM
1

I think that would be for everybody on his own to decide. If I say I will only LTR girls who are at least 6 feet tall, models, daughters of millionaires and virgin nymphomaniacs you might say that is delusional. But that's really my problem isn't it? The thing is we have come to expect so little of women we are expected to adore them for existing. If I want a woman who can cook, has some sort of passionate hobby and at least a mild interest in participating in sports, I'm suddenly hoping for too…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 06:15 AM
2

A good amount of people on TRP are. It's great fun if you don't forget it's just roleplay. Too bad /r/BDSM auto-bans everyone who posts in TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 06:13 AM
15

Well Europe is gonna take a hit next week when it will become obvious Greece has to leave the euro. Property is gonna crash big-time, more than last time. The wave of babyboomers is dying in 10-30 years, and there's not enough young people to buy those houses. They couldn't afford to if they wanted to. And everyone is renting anyways. Buy property in 20 years maybe, or see if you inherit some.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 09:23 PM
2

If you look at religious scriptures like the old testament or the Koran, they all say "don't seduce other women" or an equivalent. It doesn't tell women not to cheat, because back then AWALT was openly acknowledged (and still in Islamic cultures) It's very frustrating but you can't control a woman, because she cannot control herself.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 04:56 PM
2

How about pictures with ex gfs? Good idea or not?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 11:04 AM
3

About equally, maybe even below at the time. She was really insecure and she basically wanted to marry the first guy she ever got together with (beta me)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 09:45 AM
1

How do you expect to slowly next a woman you are married to and have kids with?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 06:59 AM
6

Another point is that for a lot of girls, the dating market is a very stressful experience. They don't have outcome independence. "What if he won't call back?", " what if he'll tell his friends we slept and we aren't exclusive?", "what if he's just using me for sex?", " am I not pretty enough?", "oh god why is he staring at that girl at the bar, is he gonna leave me for her?" For men it's much simpler and more fun. You either get laid or not, but the experience was fun or at the bare minimum edu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 06:32 AM
2

Makes a lot of sense. Back in my BP days, I was in an LTR when I was really poor and she had decent money. On top of that I didn't even spend a lot of time with her because I didn't have the time. Sex came in reasonable amounts but it wasn't explosive. Never realized why she stayed with me, guess she was really insecure. In the end I even had to break up with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 06:29 AM
2

I get that this makes for more structured and coherent posts, but doesn't it also make it more likely that people just skim instead of actually read the content?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 07:59 PM
2

Spend absolutely no time/attention on her. For the next two months, any message you send back is a win for her. You can't have sex through a phone, so don't interact with her. Don't even reply, just ignore until shortly she comes back send her a sexual message.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 04:47 PM
4

Short hair looks ridiculous but it's easy, low maintenance. You're not going anywhere so all that time arranging her long hair is wasted and could be spent playing candy crush instead.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 02:05 PM
1

You can't fuck a virgin anymore without breaking a law, even in Europe were the age of consent is 16.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 11:28 AM
1

Why do you think that?
/r/TRPOffTopic16/06/15 11:27 AM
3

You shouldn't even own a TV
/r/askTRP16/06/15 10:49 AM
3

A great way toward not caring is outcome Independence. Realize you are inexperienced, and that the experience itself is much more important than the actual outcome.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 07:29 AM
8

Not sure if satire. In case you're serious: attraction can't be negotiated
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 07:03 AM
1

I don't think a lot of people here are going to save society. Look at what society has done to you: it has lied to you, manipulated you, played a game of push and pull where it says one thing and gives you the other. It has or has tried to maximize your output in modern-day slavery. And when it all comes crashing down society will crawl on it's knees and ask you to sacrifice your personal freedom for it's own sake. Nope.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 06:04 AM
1

You break up and wait 3-4 week when she asks you to have sex
/r/askTRP16/06/15 05:11 AM
2

Just break up, your freedom is worth infinitely more worth than sex with a girl you only half care about. And you can always plate her. I have two exes who I still fuck from time to time. The key is to be good in bed and she'll just can resist. Girls are easy to convince to fuck their ex which is why it's one of the main red flags if she is still in contact with him.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 08:55 PM
6

No because the definition and sole purpose of marriage is providing BB to the woman and especially potential children. The government doesn't care about love, nor does the church. It's all about maximizing a man's recourses for society. If you live comfortably alone on 30% of your income you're of no use to anybody. But providing for a family means society will benefit from your slavery.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:03 PM
32

Grandparents always give RP advice
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 08:01 PM
17

Baby don't hurt me
/r/askTRP15/06/15 01:50 PM
3

Says the guy with the medieval literature degree
/r/askTRP15/06/15 01:49 PM
1

I box and lift, and if you really want to box competitively don't do it. Bigger muscles will tire you out much faster and your punches will be slower. I manage because I'm tall af and have a big reach advantage, and I have a lot of endurance.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 11:51 AM
7

You just go this of /fit/ didn't you? Anyways, as people in that thread pointed out, there's a lot of factors in there. LTRd guys often skip workouts more often ("why can't you just stay at home?", or if that doesn't work to lock him "I can be your exercise ;)") and eat shittier foods.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:27 PM
8

That's a strong point. I'm all for fucking low-SMV women, but don't do it in your social circle. If you fuck the uggo your SMV won't drop, but you'll ruin your chances with the HBs because they associate you with fucking uggos. They might still want to fuck you, but it will be catastrophic to their reputation. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:24 PM
1

On the other hand, trying to bench 80 kg on your first day at the gym is delusional and demotivating.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:20 PM
2

So being manipulative is being empathetic?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:11 PM
1

German shepherds are very nice and loyal dog, and easier to train making them good first time dogs even. Labrador is entry-level and makes a great dog as well. For the love of God don't get a husky if you don't have the experience of raising at least two other dogs. If you can handle one they make great companions though, it's arguably the thoughest breeds around
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 06:16 PM
1

I think there's a post that's literally in the all-time top 3 of the main sub named "How to recognize a slut? I married one" or something
/r/askTRP13/06/15 06:09 PM
3

This isn't even long-conning, this is going directly for the money shot
/r/askTRP13/06/15 06:08 PM
1

Not gonna protect you in court. Might have been forced to say that Might have retracted consent off camera Might be about different occasion Might be about fuck you if anybody is stupid enough to do this he deserves anything that follows
/r/askTRP13/06/15 06:07 PM
1

Hey I know other people have said don't it, but if you really want to still seriously don't do it.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 06:05 PM
2

I'd rather do something I enjoy than doing it to meet girls. For example I box, and although the male:female ratio is in the double digits I have the best times and the guys are really cool.
/r/askTRP13/06/15 06:04 PM
1

Local clubs you are interested in. Sports are always good, but debate or political clubs are fine too if you're interested in that. A local BDSM group, a running group, anything. Attend what interests you. These people don't necessarily need to become your friends, but simply surrounding yourself with them will make you more social and it will be good for your development. As for being social: it's hard to be social with girls if you've just spent 20 years avoiding conversation. So talk to peopl…
/r/askTRP13/06/15 05:57 PM
2

Not a shit test, but a smart woman. It doesn't matter how much of a straight up guy you are and how you triple encript them, once nudes of her exist they are out of her control. And once nudes of her become public her reputation is trashed forever. Oh and your reputation too, because you'll be the cuck who's married to a women who's out there for the whole world to enjoy. So for her and your best interest, don't have digital nudes of each other. Maybe polaroid is an option like the other poster …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/15 05:51 PM
60

A lot of times RP advice gets high scores on that sub, you just need to tell it PC
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 10:50 AM
7

But with two bullets instead of one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 06:49 PM
14

Hitler was widely popular, it's just easy to blame it all on one dead guy when the war is over and all the harm is done. You don't conquer Europe with soldiers who're forced to fight.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:03 PM
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Germany simply has a rock solid boner for engineering, especially mechanical engineering. It's a world leading country not only in cars but also firearms and large arms. Engineering jobs are in high demand and basically mean you will never ever be unemployed and the pay is good, eg perfect husband material to start a family on.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 04:17 PM
47

Berlin isn't Germany, ask any German. It's full of artsy hipster types with no career or future, which is why Germans have such mixed feelings about it.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 04:15 PM
2

White, 6'3". I attract a lot of shy girls and girls who want LTRs. Somehow the real sluts don't have it in for me. Oh well, could've been dealt worse cards than being a white tall male I guess
/r/askTRP12/06/15 02:32 PM
1

You can also ditch someone when you're married. And it doesn't necessarily give you a right to see your kids because all she has to do is say she feels threatened. Noe you have the financial obligations of a husband and a father but without sex and without children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 02:30 PM
1

There's more difference between those two than a question mark....
/r/askTRP12/06/15 02:28 PM
59

"The problem with socialism is that you eventually run out of other people's money"
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 02:19 PM
48

Can confirm, I live in Germany and to make it all worse I'm a mechanical engineer. In Germany being a mechanical engineer is like the super sayan BB profession. Above lawyers and doctors even. It is every family's dream to marry off their daughters to mechanical engineers here. Although I obviously have plates, the concept of non-LTR sex is not nearly as common as in the US, UK or Australia.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 02:17 PM
5

women were excluded from medical professions Not the best idea if you plan on starting a world war within the foreseeable future
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 02:13 PM
8

It's not only about getting commitment, it's also the certainty that he won't cheat. If she could lock down Chad, she'd still be walking on her toes every day to keep his commitment. With Dadbod Daniel she can relax, read books instead of suck dick, put on those extra pounds, drop her job to chill at home etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 09:46 PM
2

How do your kids benefit from marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 09:38 PM
1

Yeah it does. Although I like the premise of this sub it's only a handful of people who actually post.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 05:36 PM
1

We have these posts almost daily. A lot of people believe RP has a very twisted understanding of consent, when actually the only topic discussed on TRP (although in no way part of the sidebar/recommended reading) is false rape accusations in the media. So really it's just baiting for responses that can be interpret as rape apologist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 04:56 PM
1

Doesn't matter who thinks it's rape or not, consent isn't a topic where BP/RP are divided or not. Maybe some individuals are but it's not in any way a part of either BP or RP philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 04:43 PM
3

Alpha fucks, beta fucks? Some women really are just sluts
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 02:20 PM
1

Somewhere in between. I've lived in Germany for some time now but I'm planning to move every 3-4 years. I actually already planned my migration to the Netherlands.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 11:31 AM
1

It's almost like my username didn't betray the slightest info. Don't live in the UK anymore though
/r/askTRP11/06/15 11:07 AM
3

Fair enough. Where do you believe a RP relationship would divert from the ideal? Most RP-minded guys believe the "BP" situation you described would lead the woman to be frustrated having to make too much decisions and Sahara-level dry in the case of a guy crying in front of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 11:03 AM
1

Ah look, it's the daily "let's try to make RP look like rape apologists"-post. I've said this countless times before: consent isn't even remotely a BP/RP discussion topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/15 10:42 AM
2

Easy karma, feeling better because other people are doing worse, having nothing to do but read feminist articles in hope to find something rage inspiring. Most if it doesn't contribute to anything.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 10:38 AM
37

Eat the contents for extra gains.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 09:41 AM
17

1) not my plumbing 2) I'd rather pay a guy named Krygzstov from Poland 200 bucks rather than 1000 a month to Stacey for 18 years.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 09:40 AM
2

Reddit doesn't have some moral agenda to keep hate from spreading. They want to make money. And advertisers don't want to advertise on websites where fat people being made fun of is a part of the front page. Especially if a lot of advertisers target this audience (advertisers know EXACTLY) how fat reddit users are on average. 4chan had the same problem. Despite having millions and millions of users per day, they struggled to attract any advertisers at all. I think until recently DuckDuckGo start…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 08:59 PM
34

Or the men saw that marriage and fatherhood has made them empty shells of men.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 05:27 AM
-1

I cry myself to sleep every night
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/15 05:20 AM
2

Yes, I do. Men are the secret romantics pretending to be realists and women the secret realists pretending to be romantics. Do you realize that the majority of real work is done by men? (Eg research, construction, sanitation and garbage disposal, engineering etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 08:56 PM
10

women are capable of compassion and empathy Plugged in so deep whoever could pull you out would be crowned king Arthur
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/15 08:21 PM
1

work experience Yeah that's kind of backwards on this marketplace though
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:49 PM
3

Plus by the time you're getting a bit buzzed you're at 600-700 kcals
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 08:46 PM
0

I'm doing it right now. Hasn't escalated to anything dramatic. Aside from the obvious own condoms and that, make sure it stays purely sexual. Don't eat anything together, don't even shower together. Because you're already comfortable this might seems a lot more natural that with other girls so watch out for that. Other than that just watch your back and say no sometimes, just because it's sex only doesn't mean she has any business coming over twice a week.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 07:00 PM
11

Neither of those things are shocking. It wasn't a humiliation if you had just joked it away, eg "hope you don't start disclosing our sexual escapades otherwise we might not be welcome here anymore". Wink, grin and shit test destroyed. However, if you become grumpy and obviously offended everyone will think you handled it like a bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/15 09:22 AM
0

Don't get too anal about a questionmark. She simply wasn't interested anymore for god knows what reason. Just forget about it op. If a girl says she's busy and doesn't offer an alternative it's a dead end. Even the most BP guys know this.
/r/askTRP06/06/15 10:02 PM
4

Having children is probably the one topic I'm still kind of on the fence about. First I thought I "owed" my parents kids but that's BP thinking. I've thought about it a lot and though I would enjoy raising and having kids, I might enjoy the extra time, freedom and money more. Though decision. Another thing I'm not sure about is whether it's better to have a part-time mom or SAHM. Although a SAHM might take care of children and household better, I might end up resentful because she doesn't "pull …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 07:14 PM
2

From personal experience child free women (or people in general) tend to be more intelligent. Not saying that people who want kids are dumb, but the childfree group is already filtered because the dumb people just had kids without giving it thought.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 07:11 PM
16

Another point is that this beta isn't necessarily someone who is simply to weak to stand up for himself and tell a woman her place. He has been lied to, he believes he is doing the right thing and is left confused when it all backfires. Society plays push&pull: tell you to be nice to get rewarded and then shit all over you when you are. A lot of people here were like that before we woke up. We weren't necessarily beta, but mostly misinformed.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 09:35 AM
2

Because I don't care if they do. If they do, great, come along. If they don't, great, don't. Thinking you have to prove to women they should be spending time with you is step one to becoming BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/15 07:05 AM
3

I think I don't understand the logistics of this story. When you say "Okay, time to go.", where are you going exactly? Why are you going with her?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 07:38 PM
1

In Europe they are usually not separated by gender (although Germany has some remains of more traditional fraternities). Most of them are full of girls inciting drama day after day after day. If you can look past that it can be OK, it's having a social life without a lot of effort. Try not to rely on it too much though.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 04:37 PM
1

From personal experience women tend to be more forgiving than men, as long ad it's purely sexual. Another big part is the humiliation aspect, so as long as you banged some chick on holiday and didn't go around telling your social circle it's fine. I don't recommend cheating though, not worth the drama at all.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:57 PM
2

Talking about radical feminism here is not necessarily useless because the BP mindset stems from the predominantly feminist-influenced society a lot of people grew up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 07:01 PM
8

feminism is concerned with consent This is true, and it's also painfully ironic. Making consent a feminism issue automatically makes it an issue that would be different for men and women, how sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 06:47 PM
4

Sure I'm not defending rapists, here. I'm just saying that if you are with a partner who says yes, how are you to know she/he says yes out of fear? Fear might also be mistaken for nervousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 06:45 PM
9

The problem I have with the fear/coercion situation you state is that the "rapist" has no idea he might be inspiring fear. So if you don't want to have sex, say NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 04:37 PM
16

I've said this before: these questions have absolutely nothing to do with RP/BP perspectives and only hope to portray RP-minded posters as promoters of rape. Questions about consent do not belong on this sub, and are not a part of the RP sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 04:36 PM
2

Thank you for your input /r/relationships Maybe op and his Significant Other should try premarital couples counseling to talk about how this conversation made them feel.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 02:14 PM
4

"sorry, i'm so needy right now" Give me attention and validation "stop being needy and come over." you'll have to work for it "I can't, I'm busy :(" No You did fine, she just wanted free attention. Ignore her until she reaches out to you with a better offer than doing nothing in exchange for your time. She'll send you some texts and step up her game when you aren't responding. Situations like this run like clock work don't worry.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 02:12 PM
8

"Flexible working" eg showing up on Monday mornings sometimes and on Wednesdays between 12 and 14 when Venus and Jupiter line up. Yet still getting paid royally. Oh maternity leave is almost up? Better have another one quickly. "You need to pay the women who want to stay at home to do that" ah the classic pay-women-for-being-women argument.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 02:06 PM
3

For you yes, but for him it objectively added nothing and made everything unnecessarily shittier. Not arguing it is impossible for the both of you to be happy, but marriage simply adds nothing for a man and takes away a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 02:04 PM
1

Didn't even now BPP was married. We all slip up from time to time I guess.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 02:59 AM
6

"She's really sensitive" because you allowed this BS the entire relationship. Just tell her "I'm busy" JUST THAT and don't even look at your phone for 3 hours. Don't peek after 15 minutes because she'll have opened the drama valve as far as possible to get a response from you. Afterwards you'll see a range of emotions from confusion to anger to more anger to insecurity to guilt to affection. Remember women are inherently red pill, she'll respond well to you doing your shit. It's just going to be…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 05:56 PM
2

Great work man, keep it up. Shocking how you ever put up with 2-3 YEARS of no sex yet she continues to receive all the financial services marriage provides. It really is a sucker's deal. But let's also remember nobody is entitled to sex and your hard work paid off.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 04:10 PM
8

A car, house and half a life savings is beyond cash and prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 02:06 PM
1

Say a guy who owns a farm and it produces 300 kg of flour a year, and he has around 1000 kg stored. He marries, gets divorce raped and loses 500kg of the storage plus needs to give the ex 50 kg a year. Sucks pretty hard, but he still has a net gain of 250kg a year whereas the woman needs to live of what the states forces the farmer to give her at gunpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 02:04 PM
6

Except you can just leave when you want to
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:53 PM
2

Better: Practise it somewhere you don't live, otherwise you risk becoming "that guy" especially in smaller cities
/r/askTRP03/06/15 12:53 PM
3

Asking a stranger in public what TV show they've seen as an opener is just weird. Start by something that is happening in the place around you where the approach takes place.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 12:51 PM
1

After divorce you owe her $4k a month
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 12:31 PM
0

Can't go wrong with a deal that gives you status and financial security with and exit package of cash and prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/15 12:27 PM
1

In Germany and the Netherlands it's very common, you won't be looked at weird by either the waiter or your date if you split the bill. The waiter usually asks if it will be split. In eastern Europe however your date might not even have money on her.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 06:06 AM
-2

Please don't use the term Significant Other it reads like I'm on the relationship subreddit
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 06:00 AM
3

Note that they choose social media that are pretty much a one way street. Tumbler and especially Twitter have almost no framework to have any kind of debate. It's just shouting left and right.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 05:56 AM
11

There's a little bit of GayLubeOil in all of us.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 05:54 AM
3

"It is difficult to get a man to understand something, when his salary depends on his not understanding it." cough cough global warming cough
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 05:45 AM
1

I did use it for a time, just 5g a day no loading or crap like that. However, I stopped using it because there were some reports about hair loss. Honestly it just wasn't worth the risk for me, however small the risk on hair loss.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 06:59 PM
17

A good plate doesn't cost you money at all, sometimes they buy you stuff.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 05:22 PM
9

Problem is that it's self reported. And there's women who have sex 20 times in ten years, and then there's women who have sex 1000 times in 10 years. Not to mention she might be using condoms with one partner but getting some raw action on the side. Way too much parameters.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 05:20 PM
12

The exception goes for the black men from the West though. from personal experience I'd think that most of eastern europe and especially russia are extremely racist. I've spend some time with a friend in poland and racism wasn't even a controversial topic.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 01:33 PM
115

It's funny that the RP sexual strategy fails when women are aware of it. There was a recent FR of a guy in eastern Europe with the same problem. In western society women gladly whore themselves out, succumbing to their feels and tingles. But when women have these under control and have their eyes set on BB only, you might want to adapt. I've not personally been in these situations, but what I'd do is pretend to be BB, whilst making absolutely sure she can't lock you in any way: use condoms bough…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 11:42 AM
10

Alright OP, I've been there and I'm not a baby daddy. Long story short I was still sleeping with ex-gf without condom like before and she oopsie-doopsed me (my fault of course, what idiot fucks his ex without a condom). This was in my BB days but one of the most red things I did back then. Here's what I did: she wanted to use this kid as leverage to get me back. First I tried to talk her out of it by convincing logical arguements which, hold on to your hats, didn't work. So I'm in total panic at…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 05:55 AM
1

Length of an answer has nothing to do with the quality. Einstein:hey look what I found out, "E = m * c2" "Oh okay. I see you wrote a sentence. Welp, that settles that, I guess."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/15 05:45 AM
6

If TRP is right then isn't it one of the best outcome for women (from an objective point of view)? Yes, but only if it works out. More and more guys, even plugged-in guys, are waking up to the reality that women use them as a safety net. Even the navy blue guys don't like the feeling of being the safe option after years of wild rides.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 05:50 PM
3

the only reason people cheat is lack of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/15 09:19 AM
5

We are facing one and a massive drop afterwards. Watch the documentary "the demographic winter". It's 2 parts, kind of long, but it definitely worth it. It isn't RP-themed except when they start a bit about how men don't care anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 08:17 PM
12

/r/seduction is basically TRP with all the actual life improvement and truth seeking filtered out, leaving you with people trying to find a shortcut to sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 08:14 PM
5

It's always viewed as the women's liberation, but really it was men who profited most from it. Men get to have commitment free sex left and right, and women just get passed around until they fall of at the end of the ride with no one to pick them up. So no, I don't think it was a bad thing. It did make it harder to find a good LTR partner though, but since men have time it's not really a problem if you keep your eyes open.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 08:08 PM
1

Or maybe because you're married and there is no benefit to giving you a BJ. What are you gonna do, walk away? Here's a part from /r/sex from yesterday: the question was "Wives: if you stopped giving BJs after marriage, why?" here's the top comment: My wife answered this for me a few years ago. Simply, once we were married, she felt more comfortable expressing her boundaries. For her, full BJs to completion, we're not something she ever really liked doing. Quite honestly, before were were married…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 08:11 PM
2

I'd imagine a homosexual experience would at least require a second guy somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 04:31 PM
1

Just because you love your kids doesn't mean you will become a helicopter parent. Of course this might be giving advice about something I have little experience with (I don't have kids), but when people have kids because they just feel that's what will bring them to some undefined "next level" in life, it tends to make them bitter an resentful. No one's going to tell you to do X, Y, Z in order to respect yourself. You'll have to stand up for yourself, put your foot down and say "this is what I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 02:39 PM
2

How did you figure out what you love? That is a good question. First I thought a lot about what interests me. That's harder than it seems. I thought about what I liked to do as a kid, what I really enjoyed. Getting into fights with my brother, playing in a forest, setting things on fire (not in a forest). From here I just started trying a lot of things. I tried several martial arts and loved it, I started mountainbiking but didn't like it. I switched to hiking and that I really enjoyed. I added …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 02:31 PM
4

Do your future kids a favor: don't have them. You should have kids only if you are very sure you want them for yourself and nothing or no-one else. Because you want to raise them, take care of them. Not to score "good boy" points with your parents or society, that's what's been holding you back all your life already. Don't impose your bad decisions on kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 02:19 PM
4

If you've spent your life believing women are divine and their pussy is the holy grail, it might surprise you that they want to please a successful person. The reason this happens is because I don't really care about it, it just happens. If you chase her around the world she knows she's got you, and you'll do this and that before you get to pass through what you consider to be the Holy Gates. But if you're just living your life and doing what you love, this is her only way to get your attention,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 02:15 PM
18

A lot of people grow up with the idea that a wife, a mortgage, 2 kids and a white picket fence is "just how it works", it's "just the natural way of growing up". Men in their 30's and 40's who aren't married are told to grow up. It turns out that you can live a much more fulfilling life renting an apartment in the city alone, or having a small condo in the suburbs. But a man who lives solely for himself is not a situation society benefits from. Your parents want grandkids, your fuckbuddy wants t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 10:58 PM
26

Getting to the sexual point first: movies, mothers, girls and girlfriends always told men to be a loving, stable and considerate man. That's what they want, what they need. So you go out and try hard to be that. What they don't tell you is that they only need this after they've wasted their youth with drug addicts, criminals, dead-end musicians and the like. You find that out by yourself. A second point is society as a whole. Provide, have a stable job, spend 20 years in school, save for retirem…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 10:41 PM
3

Had the same realization, though after reading that post. Was a totally chill girl, but when I thought about it she had no qualities besides sexual ones so I broke up. Still sleep with her from time to time though
/r/askTRP11/05/15 08:10 PM
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That's interesting actually. Say you get married in the 60's on those term,the government just decides to change your contract 10 years later. So not only have you signed a chump's deal, you're also subject to the government changing it however they see fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 07:53 PM
2

There is a Norwegian series of documentaries about this, I'm on my phone now but will link it later. tl;dr mostly nature and to a lesser degree nurture Edit: this post has all the links /r/TheRedPill/comments/1vuho8/the_documentary_that_made_scandinavians_cut_all/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 05:44 PM
7

Well you get the guarantee that she will be with you forever... until she decides otherwise and runs away with half your stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 05:17 PM
2

I have absolutely no idea where you try to take this. Just make sure whatever you do is consensual bro, don't take it for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 05:16 PM
12

Prostitution had always been accepted since the dawn of civilization. It wasn't something flashy you wanted on your main street, but it was there and everyone knew where to find it when needed. It was accepted by women too, because it served a purpose: it gave men a way to let any sexual frustrations out instead of having them leak into the rest of society (rape, violence, war etc). A second benefit was that men who just wanted ONS sex could get that without possibly spoiling the reputation of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 04:10 PM
2

is there any responsibility to avoid suggestive situations if one party doesn't want to have sex? Not sure why this party would put themselves and the other person in this situation, but no need to avoid. You can shower together and sleep in the same bed without having sex. For example I play sport with a man who is gay, and we shower all together afterwards nobody is afraid of being raped when picking up the soap, if that's what you're getting at. Is there ever a responsibility to say "no" if o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 03:56 PM
2

What you seem to forget is that (1) people can't read minds, so the only options are to either "probe" for consent by taking small steps towards sexual intercourse or asking explicitly and (2) that nowhere in my comment I made a difference between men and women. As said before, "suggestive" does not equal consent, but it can motivate to physically escalate. This means probe by touching the other person or kissing (depends on what stage you are at). Doing this you avoid assuming the suggestion to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 03:13 PM
3

Not sure what this has to do with the BB/RP situation, but here we go. It's not so much about men vs women, but the one who is initiating more. So the person who is escalating the interaction physically is "asking" for consent, which can be given by responding positively or not given by pulling back or just saying no. Being unresponsive would fall under not giving consent to escalate further. Now, a situation like "let's shower together" is not necessarily consenting. Although there is a strong …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 02:42 PM
3

This is not constructive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 02:34 PM
1

The financial aspects of child support an alimony are pretty specific. Although it's up to a judge to determine the amounts, the fundament is there. Even more so in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 01:23 PM
2

This has nothing to do with either BP or RP
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 12:52 PM
3

I'm not saying it's a good deal, I'm just saying that the contract you signed does not include any sexual favors, in fact I don't even know if it includes mutual exclusivity. I get that men who get no sex in a marriage feel like fraud victims, but this is what they signed up for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 11:52 AM
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RP: Yes, you can rape someone within a marriage. Just because you signed a piece of paper doesn't suddenly mean you are now entitled to sex. And if you complain about your wife being entitled to your material possessions, you should have read the contract better. That is your signature on the dotted line.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 11:21 AM
1

Don't look for RP concepts in movies. Instead look at your own life, friends of your dad (or in rare cases your dad).
/r/askTRP11/05/15 10:58 AM
3

I know RP beliefs are not liked within the BDSM community, but you don't need to disclose them. I visit a local group with a partner every now and then, never had any problems. I really don't see how RP conflicts with BDSM, and especially with consent. RP is just a frame of ideas and beliefs that help you make out of your life what you want, and ignore remarks like "but you shouldn't".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 10:45 AM
3

You can be part of a BDSM community and still hold RP beliefs. BDSM is widely popular in the RP group not for reasons of abuse, but because it aligns with the preferred relationship dynamics. Normal rules like safety and consent are obviously not violated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 10:10 AM
1

There's a difference between loving sex and having sex with a lot of different people. A woman who has sex a thousand times with one man is valuable, and a woman who has sex one time with a thousand men has no value. Also I believe it's a majority that actually focuses on virgins. In fact number isn't even that important, but girls who have nothing to offer besides sex tend to have high partner counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 10:07 AM
2

The main idea is to improve yourself as much as you can, and getting laid is just a byproduct of that. Of course there are guys who try it the other way around, but I'm not sure if that works. A lot of people underestimate how free you become once you truly love your life on your own terms. Other people are still complementary but not necessary. As to the LTR question, I'm not sure I understand. In my "blue" days, LTRs where a lot of work, always fixing problems and arranging dates to go on, buy…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 08:49 AM
2

An expensive restaurant doesn't exactly set the mood for hit and quit
/r/askTRP11/05/15 08:31 AM
1

Don't confuse lack of strength to leave for loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 08:02 AM
1

Always avoid when you can, even if you think you would win. Aside from showing control over your emotions rather than coming off as a hothead, you also avoid risking serious injury to your face, eyes, teeth, hands and arms.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 06:37 PM
2

It's your own choice of course, but what I missed was simply the chance to sleep with other girls and a lot of time spent with some girl that could be spent with other guys or your own improvement.
/r/askTRP10/05/15 03:20 PM
1

A lot of colleges offer free/cheap sports and training. Doing sports besides lifting is fun, you meet new people and you learn something. For travel: what I personally like is camping. It costs some to get a basic set of gear, but after that you can go on almost free trips. All you pay is transport to a location/national park/whatever and some food you bring.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 02:27 PM
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At your age, an LTR is about the worst situation to be in. I was in LTR age 18-22 and deeply regret it. Another thing is that you just want to stay out of a relationship with a girl who doesn't now what she wants and pragmatically breaks up only to get back with you immediately. You don't need this drama in your life. Don't take her back, focus on yourself instead. The other poster suggested plating her but that would probably not work out because like you said, you are intending giving her the …
/r/askTRP10/05/15 02:23 PM
5

Moving in with a woman is a terrible idea, always. It's especially terrible after 4 months, what the fuck where you thinking? Aside from that, you should've held frame and told her no when she put the rabbit in your space. Besides rabbits do not need to be treated like children that's BS. Honestly your best course is to tell her living together isn't working for you and that you want to move out. (Yes it will be a hassle and money and blablabla) otherwise just break up with her it's only been 4 …
/r/askTRP10/05/15 01:30 PM
3

This documentary is worth your time people.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 08:39 PM
3

That's the two part documentary right? It's really good. Before watching it I'd always believed overpopulation was going to be a huge problem. But in reality virtually the entire western world has been having declining birth rates for over a decade.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 08:37 PM
2

I think you're on the wrong path with saying single mothers aren't considering the economical aspect of a child. It's a guarantee for more alimony/child support payments from daddy BB and government aid BB.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 08:31 PM
2

I think that also has to do with the fact that men are expected much more, even in today's BP society, to act like men. They are probably confronted with their sexuality more and might suffer more from deviating from the standard.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 07:11 PM
2

I used to be in a pretty long LTR, and a lot if things that applied to that are discussed here. Never lived together though.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 04:31 PM
3

I like to do household chores, I live alone. If I ever find myself for whatever bizarre reason living together with a woman, I'd like to continue that at least partially. There's a difference between keeping your living space clean and being a Good Boytm hoping to get sex
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 03:17 PM
0

Marriage is the event that will destroy your power to walk away. It's exactly that, it's its main purpose. Marriage is bad at any age, there isn't a single benefit.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 11:44 AM
6

it can be dealt with Why get yourself in a situation where you even have to deal with it? There are no advantages. Think about a great general like Julius Caesar. He won many battles against the Gauls with ease. He probably could have won them with his men fighting without shields and shoes. But why exactly would he do that?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 11:19 AM
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You don't need to get married to have kids or a nuclear family. A stable relationship with a good woman won't be broken by the absence of a slip of paper, like a bad relationship won't be held together by it. Reproduction is not necessary. Your own happiness is the only goal, if that includes having children by all means have them. Just make sure you aren't having them out of guilt or something.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 11:17 AM
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Is gender dysphoria actually a legit condition, or is it something new-age omnisexual trans-pan-hedonisits use to identify yet one of their many more genders? This is a serious question, and if you'd be stuck with a women brain in a male body that does sound pretty terrible.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 11:10 AM
2

Although I neither agree with NoFap nor with NoPorn, there is a seizable portion of the male population that has a porn addiction and it most certainly is holding people back from achieving things. Porn/masturbation is yet another of today's many quick dopamine fixes. That doesn't mean it's inherently bad and should be avoided completely. I like to go out and drink with friends. This isn't constructive towards my physical or financial situation, but it is enjoyable. What is a bad idea is drinkin…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:56 PM
1

It's not AWALT in the sense that they are looking to cheat. Tinder is but one of many more free validation apps, and they all want a piece of that.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:43 PM
1

Always worked well for me because I never date crazy. But yeah if you need to break up with a crazy do it in public or at her place.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 03:06 PM
2

Kill your hamster. No, next week it won't be easier. Yes this and that holiday is coming up. Who fucking cares. The sooner you'll do it the easier it will be. Tomorrow (or today, not sure about time diff.), tell her to come over because you want to talk to her. She'll get the feel, she'll ask if you are going to break up. Don't answer, just say come over and turn your phone off. When she comes she'll have the look on her face. Tell her you want to break up. Just that first. She'll cry and ask fo…
/r/askTRP07/05/15 09:43 PM
10

I think in my BP days, I had an idea of AF/BB in the back of my head. I knew how it worked but had no idea how to do anything about it. The solution, increasing your SMV, was so stunningly simple yet it just didn't occur to me at the time. I just tried being 'better' BB. If you had told me from 2 years ago that right now I'd have multiple FWB-relationships who I could call in the middle of the night to climb through my window, suck my dick and leave with my laundry, I wouldn't have believed it. …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 09:18 PM
1

OP is not responsible for BB being BB. You can't force feed TRP, and you certainly can't save the worlds beta population from becoming orbiters. It's their own choice to be orbiters. Saying that this is emotional abuse would also imply that having plates is emotional abuse. It's essentially the same thing. Just do what works for you and ignore the rest. Not saying it's wrong to have ethics, but unless someone is about to ruin their own lives I would just let it run it's course.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 09:14 PM
3

Stayed in a hopeless LTR for 4 years due to the sunk cost fallacy... Don't be me, guys. Then again, a lot of you lost more than me.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 05:28 PM
1

How about leaving pics of yourself with another girl on your page? Not sure if this will fall under dread or girls will think I have a gf (I don't)
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 11:39 AM
1

What about posting your runs or something on Facebook? I do that, is it too much? What I do allow however is tags of other people's pics because I didn't post it and it is no effort to me.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 11:38 AM
3

How's keto when not losing weight? I think the concept is very interesting, but I'm afraid I might lack power/energy for boxing sessions
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 10:34 AM
9

"Breakfast is the most important meal of the day!" Thanks mom
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 10:33 AM
1

eat often Wait what. I always thought intermittent fasting was better in order to maintain sensitivity towards insulin? I've been eating on an IF scheme for months now, and it feels pretty great. Saves time and caloric intake suddenly becomes easier to control.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 10:32 AM
4

I could use a girl hanging on me lime that during the Pacquiao Mayweather fight like I could use an extra large intestine in my nostril.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 04:52 PM
2

Meet her at some place that scares beta orbiters, eg bars, music events, basically anywhere after 9 pm lol. Or just walk up to her, ask for her number and arrange to meet later. If she doesn't give her number it wasn't gonna work anyways. Just like "hey I've seen you around, maybe we could get together sometime? I'm kinda busy right no so if you give me your number I'll call/text you"
/r/askTRP06/05/15 04:06 PM
3

"Let's cook, bitch!" Guaranteed success, though it might not work if your subject isn't a middle aged bald meth kingpin.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 03:45 PM
3

Lol what the hell. OP be honest with us: how thirsty are you that you even saw a chance in this situation?
/r/askTRP06/05/15 03:11 PM
3

Attention seeking due to lack of content in her own life, volatile and looking for arguments, generally generating drama out of a vacuum.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 12:55 PM
-3

Like most, northern European guys, I went there twice during high school. Of course this was just my experience but it aligns with a lot of people's experiences. By all means, let op go where he wants to. Might even pick up some 16 year old legally (or 14 if you are under 21). Just saying he might also be in for a very bad time. When I was there it was ridiculous but at least I went with other guys.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 12:05 PM
-6

What are you 16 lol? Anyways get ready to deal with the bullshit of 16 year olds and 14 year olds pretending to be 16 year olds. You will sit on the beach with a girl and get puked on. Guys who have hardly any pubic hair will start fights with you. Not sure why you are doing this, if you want serious party destinations for non-teenagers go to eastern Europe not Spain
/r/askTRP06/05/15 11:37 AM
1

Does it really matter though?
/r/askTRP06/05/15 11:34 AM
13

Frank might be a vegan but he roids like a bull
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 11:16 AM
0

Kind of looking for some advice here: I lifted for about a year, and then started boxing additionally. After about 6 months I realized how boring I actually found lifting and started boxing more and stopped lifting. I really really enjoy boxing. Since I stopped lifting, my physique has obviously stalled. Boxing is very good for your overall fitness and maintains your physique, but it doesn't make you huge. Recently I've been playing with the thought of staring lifting additionally. Would this be…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 11:14 AM
-1

Also don't get too excited after season one. Sadly, the main actor died of cancer when season two was being made. The show continued with a prequel that was pretty cool, and a sequel with a lookalike that was completely shit. Don't know if they made more, I stopped watching after they introduced the new guy. RIP Andy
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 11:10 AM
1

Look at their actions not words: if she is coming back just for sex even though you give zero shits about her and spend no time not having sex with her, that says something.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 11:03 AM
6

Yeah, kind off. Especially when a plate tries to initiate more sex when she is dating/LTRing some beta chump. I'll still do it though, unless I know that guy.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 10:50 AM
3

She's not going to text you and you shouldn't text her anymore. Some girls are just to weak to say no when you ask for their number and feel comfortable with rejecting you only over the safe distance of telecommunications. Just forget her and move on.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 08:28 AM
1

Bit off-topic: what made you switch from Krav M to BJJ?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 08:53 PM
4

The guy went on his knees and begged for this arrangement.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 08:48 PM
8

"Relationships are a lot of work" Classic BP advice. Everything should be shitty, and to avoid that you need to put in even more work. All the work I put in now is send a text and tell her to come and choke on my dick. 15 minutes later she's there doing what she does, and takes my laundry with her on the way out. How's that for putting in work?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 08:28 PM
6

It's very much like a Greek tragedy. This guy is emasculated and financially and socially undressed and it is celebrated with a giant party. It's a high point of cynicism in modern society. And afterwards the married men get together and laugh at jokes of how they never have sex, time, energy or money anymore. As if it were something inevitable, when in reality they went on their knees and begged for it.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 07:52 PM
2

Lol of course not it just was so similar because of the nicotine. This guy had her literally addicted to sex with him. (Or so he said, it's 4chan you know)
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 07:48 PM
1

Don't get serious with alpha widows. Don't marry. Most certainly don't marry alpha widows.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 05:15 PM
4

For me this is the most important aspect of TRP. It sounds petty and trivial next to all the life improvement, joy, sex etc. but BP-me thought becoming BB was just the natural way. My friends and I, all engineers or learning to be, even congratulated each other on how we'll eventually have the upper hand when the women are in their 30's. And the whole sexless marriage, marriage with all it's troubles, divorce rape etc. was either unavoidable or just bad luck. I cringe thinking back but I'm so gl…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 05:13 PM
3

Reminds me of the guy on 4chan who put nicotine patches on his plate while asleep after sex.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 05:08 PM
17

Girls just want to have fun
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 02:23 PM
1

How about whores? They're not annoying, leave after sex and cost a tenth of that.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 07:04 PM
7

It's funny how rape is only reported when there's something to win for her (eg hide cheating, get money, save reputation). But when it's the real deal, they suddenly don't do anything. I know two women who were genuinely assault raped on the street, and neither reported even anything. One I knew well and it was the classics "nothing will happen, too traumatized to go through it again, ashamed". It made me furious. Still does to this day. Not reporting this is willingly putting other women to ris…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 07:00 PM
2

What makes you think you won't do it again? I've been there, separated for a whole year and got back together. At first j thought it would be all better, everything felt better and I felt everything was fixed. Obviously it all went down the drain again. (This was pre-RP by the way) Maybe you can just plate her? But since you say you have feeling for her that might prove to be though.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 06:41 PM
3

I'm mid twenties now, and I'm planning on having as much fun as I'm having now until my later thirties or early forties. Then I'll find a considerably younger woman and see what sticks for a couple of years, eventually have children with her. I really think late thirties is ideal because there's no sign of SMV drop yet, and you have some years to find out who is quality material to make a mother. Don't marry though, that's for chumps.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:14 PM
1

I'm a tall guy (6'4") and one thing a lot of especially taller girls are happy about, is that they can wear high heels whilst still being visibily shorter than I am. Nobody wants to be the girl towering above her guy.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 03:09 PM
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wipes cum from mouth "so how do you feel about me now?" "I just realized I like you a lot better with your lips around my cock" Or something like that idk there's a million possibilities, including not answering at all. Just always make sure the message is you don't care about her unless she's doing what you want, lie of you have to.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 01:34 PM
1

If you hadn't revealed your true feelings to Kim and instead said something like "I'm over you, have had a lot of distractions ;)" kind of thing you would have banged her that night. Kim was out to see if she still got you (with your increased SMV), and instead of making her work for it you handed it to her on a silver plate. She would have gone all the way and dug for it, but you just barfed it up right there. Anyways it's too late to make a move on Kim. If you want to ignore her for a couple o…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 01:24 PM
2

Dale House, who also goes by lieutenant Cuck, almost gets the idea but completely misses on the execution. He is a traditional, strong, providing man who dates a single mother and pays for another man's child.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 11:02 AM
0

Oh look, it's the weekly marriage apologist post... Most successful men you know are married, simply because most men are married. Your boss or colleagues don't care, if anything it'll limit things because whilst you are making connections at dinners, all your wives hate each other. And just because you aren't married doesn't mean you need to take your plates to these events. You can have a LTR without marriage. It was the standard from aged 16 to 26 but after that you suddenly "grow up" and hav…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 09:50 AM
1

No, he's single. He doesn't have to limit himself jus because some guy can't keep his girl in check.
/r/askTRP04/05/15 06:22 AM
1

Oh dressing up is definitely something I will do. I tend to walk around in sweatpants and even go to the store lol.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 07:57 PM
3

If a girl tells you she can't believe you are dating her, that is a pretty solid reason to think something's up. She doesn't think this man would have to actually commit to her to have sex.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 08:12 AM
4

The funny thing is that the left part of that comment is the process and surge forward of a guy. And the right part is people trying to keep him down whatever he is doing. Ignore what anyone says and focus solely on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 06:42 PM
6

I meant a shift in my personal beliefs. And what you see is not a shift to the left but a polarization to more extreme left and right. It's just that there's generally a bit more left but countries like France, The Netherlands and Belgium have a serious right wing.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 04:31 PM
2

Status can also mean position in social group eg other guys look up to you.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 01:22 PM
26

A general thing I've personally experienced is a shift to the political right. Like a lot of Europeans, I used to be pretty left-winged. The more RP I became, the more I realized people just want to have no responsibility and be treated like children. Most people have the opportunity to make something out of their lives but piss it away for complacency and stability. I've also become a lot more US-positive. Although there's still some obvious problems that could be easily fixed, the US governmen…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 12:02 PM
8

There is a good documentary about this case. It's one of the all-time top posts at /r/documentaries
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 11:58 AM
5

I will bet my left testicle she looked terrible before as well. She's wearing close to a pound of make-up on the left. Her face is very asymmetrical. Taking away make-up the only real difference is probably the weight.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 11:56 AM
6

Tell her "whatever/never mind", ignore her and go do something else. It (1) defeats the shit test and (2) puts the concept out there that you will never get married. It's simple power play, however if you notice she really sees sex as a transaction and this occurs regularly just dump her ass.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 10:02 AM
2

Why do you spend time with your friends? Because you like being around them I guess.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 09:58 AM
3

Don't forget that whoever wrote this gives zero fucks about how his readers are doing with women. It's basically the male equivalent of Cosmo's "10 signs you are a powerful independent woman" articles. (where 1, 4 and 8 are something like 'you sometimes cry on the bathroom floor for no reason') Cosmo knows 99% of it's readers are basic bitches who couldn't tell up from down in their own life without a man. They don't care. They'll write whatever people want to believe. Same with this article. Th…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 08:47 AM
0

Let's not forget that a part of womens' attraction to guys is also psychological eg. through status/game/money. Physical attraction is still #1 but this plays a much larger role than it doesn with guys' attraction. My dick does not care at all about the shit waterfalls that come out of her mouth.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 08:40 AM
15

Not necessarily laziness. Our brain is simply wired to resist change. Once it finds that survival sweet spot of steady food, shelter and dumping semen in a tissue, it basically tells you to stay there. Everyone has this and it takes tremendous effort to actually make serious changes to your life.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 11:08 PM
51

This was a video by Veritasium right? The guy always amazes me. He has some really sweet physics videos but he'll always throw in a life lesson. Every now and then he'll make a whole video about it. His second channel, veritasium2, is also worth checking out.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 11:05 PM
1

Alright because I think I tried it about a year ago, but the "transition" made me absultely miserable. I remember day 3 where my body was screaming for carbs and I ended up eating sugar with a spoon lol. Might actually try it again this time
/r/askTRP30/04/15 09:01 PM
1

Intermittent fasting all the way. It's more convenient, it's easier to control your nutrient intake and you have way more energy. Do you recommend cutting carbs all the way down, like a keto diet?
/r/askTRP30/04/15 05:41 PM
2

That's also why it always goes "don't even go there! It's hostile and toxic!" instead of "it's just stupid and deluded, go see for yourself"
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 04:45 PM
3

Threats of cheating/leaving are only emotional abusive if they aren't true. You clearly aren't about to cheat. You couldn't even if you wanted to. Your wife smells this, you're giving away too much beta for someone making these claims. Focus on yourself, on your business. No woman gives enthusiastic BJs to a man who does nothing but feel sorry for himself and whine to his wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 01:45 PM
2

A) Chuckle and say something like "don't get mad now" and laugh it off B) audibly laugh and walk away (why did this bother you anyways?) Highschool is generally full of bullshit just don't take things so seriously.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 12:36 PM
1

I'm having this now. At the moment my life is so great I don't see the point in getting into a LTR. I get sex regularly enough so there's that. I swallowed TRP when in a relatively good LTR. Because I didn't care about this girl like I had about others before, I was naturally applying RP principles and it was the best relationship ever. However I realized she had no skills really, no goals no nothing. She was a slut, not in the sense that she had many partners but in the sense that she had nothi…
/r/askTRP30/04/15 12:31 PM
8

Can't get commitment? Hah jokes on you I never wanted it anyways.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 09:38 AM
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