http://www.seattlepi.com/lifestyle/advice/article/Carolyn-Hax-Two-words-on-my-wedding-night-ruined-6314608.php

I love reading these articles because it's always, woe is me. I wish I could ask her a dozen questions, but that's all we have.

A few years ago, I was in a very intense relationship with "Rick." When it ended, I swore I wouldn't become so intimately involved with someone unless it was for life.

Alpha Widowed. Swore off sex.

I met "Tom" shortly afterward, and knew he was "the one."

Ugh. Only thing worse if she said, prince or fairy tale.

I shared with him my views on premarital sex but didn't explain what happened or why. He completely supported me.

Such Blue Pill... sure hon, you been CC all this time, but I'll wait for marriage, cause your shiz is the shiz.

We just married and had a beautiful reception, spending the night at a hotel near the airport because we were going to Europe for our honeymoon.

Looks like it's Beta's lucky night!

As things heated up between us, I accidentally said, "Oh, Rick."

They never forget that alpha cock.

I realized my mistake immediately, and the look of horror on my face was met by the look of hatred on his.

If only I was a fly on the wall. Dude's been waiting all this time for this moment.

"Who's Rick?!? Why are you thinking about Rick when you just married me?!?" It got really vicious.

I wonder what her idea of vicious is? I could imagine his tone.

He called his parents and told them to set up a divorce attorney when he returned. Then he called my parents and introduced himself as "your future ex-son-in-law." He asked them who Rick was and why I was moaning about him!

Gulp. oooh, what's that bitter taste? Ah yes... the Red Pill.

I pleaded with him for a chance to set things straight, but he quickly got dressed and took his suitcase and my passport with him, and told me not to follow him to Europe.

He paid for the Honeymoon, I hope he finally got laid.

The airlines couldn't help because I didn't have my passport, and when they tried to page him, he refused to talk to me.

BP no more.

He's not answering my calls,

I'd call that a hard NEXT!

and the only text he answered was one where I suggested couples' counseling. He said he's not the one fantasizing about an old flame on our wedding night.

Lol. I thought of being a paid counselor for couples at once time. Aside from not wanting to 'own' all their negativity... I just could not bring myself to take money from people in that position.

Good news for the former BP husband... no sex = annulment!