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Like when people have gigantic lifted diesel trucks that they have no need for Easy on the judgment, bro. You have no idea what people have a need for. Maybe he's hauling a big ass boat down to the river on weekends, or maybe he just enjoys the view from that cab. I always enjoyed listening to ignorant, jealous fucktards talk shit about my Hummer. I'd crawl out of the woods pulling a big ass trailer after a long weekend of 4x4ing, then run it through the car wash to get the mud off only to hear …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 02:21 PM
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I'm not sure if it was any easier, to be honest. Well, okay, from the standpoint that I didn't have to lose half my shit, yes it was far easier. Emotionally it still took every bit of strength I had and then some. This one hit the feels much harder. I had completely given up on ever having a healthy relationship with my crazy ex wife but this girl was different. She could have fixed this. Hell, she still could... but she won't. And that's okay. I am a serial monogamist. I don't know if spinning …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:02 PM
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I always wandered how she hamstered always letting me pay. She didn't have to. Feminism is not about equality, it is about special privileges for women. They want to eat their cake and have it, too.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:20 AM
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I'm not paying for all these women's coffee and drinks, simple as that. Well said. This ain't the fucking 1960s anymore. I think I'm going to toy with the idea of making her pay for the first date. Unashamedly so, with a promise to get the second. Three reasons: It will throw her off her game. Guaranteed she's used to guys paying her way. It sets up that cocky don't give a fuck frame. Odds of a second date should go up. Could also use this to downplay my SMV... get a few dates in to make sure sh…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 03:11 AM
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don't even realize they are slowly building an emotional affair This is exactly why I just dumped my LTR. She was spending way too much time these past several months seeking attention from her orbiter and I'll be damned if I'm going to be the chump still sticking around, head in the sand pretending that "just friends" line isn't total fucking bullshit. I don't have sleepovers with my friends. Onward and upward.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 11:33 PM
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Yes, I broke up with her. I told her I loved her and wanted to be with her but this behavior was a deal breaker for me. She wanted to talk and try to work it out, so we had some conversations over a few days but ultimately I had to walk away. She sees nothing wrong with her behavior and our conversations were not productive.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 03:16 PM
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Thanks man, I appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 01:08 AM
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Help me understand how you would know if your girl gets intimate with her orbiter when he's spending the night at her house while you're away? Seems to me there's ample opportunity for anything to happen and virtually no way for them to get caught. She's welcome to do whatever she wants with him and I told her that. I'm simply not going to stick around and remain a part of this bizarre love triangle any longer. She clearly gets off on teasing him and I really think she's playing the two of us of…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 11:47 PM
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You were scared this dude would take her off your hands Nope. They've been friends almost 20 years, if he were capable of bedding her it would have happened by now. The issue for me isn't fear of losing her - I can get other girls - but rather irritation with his presence and her refusal to set boundaries. Yours is the second response claiming a failed shit test. Would you be willing to elaborate on that and provide some feedback, maybe explain how you would have handled it? I absolutely conside…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 09:42 PM
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The vast majority of my housework is done stoned the fuck out of my mind and takes no appreciable time at all. Literally minutes here and there throughout the day. That shit is cake, my ex housewife had made. I wonder if she's conscious enough to realize working two jobs and struggling to pay rent is a bad trade compared to sitting on her ass all day, spending my six figure income. All she had to do was play with my cock from time to time and pretend to love me.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 06:30 AM
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Oh man, this post comes just in time: I broke up with my LTR yesterday (and may post a field report when I've had time to process). Everything you say is spot on. Especially the bits about infatuation behaviors inspiring contempt in women. They say they want a "good man", to be loved and doted on and so on, but the moment you pour your heart and soul into her she loses all respect and her interest in you quickly wanes. Ideally, men should learn to inspire infatuation in women. The few times wome…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 08:08 PM
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Someone dropped your comment down to 0; I bumped it back up. You're right. It's hard to hear and as a man who is in touch with his emotions and comfortable expressing them, I wish it weren't true. I long for a real, open, honest and loving relationship with a woman who supports me as I do her, who understands that men have feelings and needs, too. I don't want to put on a facade for her, but I realize I have no choice in the matter so I suck it up and do it anyway. I just think it's unfortunate …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 05:22 PM
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100% this. My view isn't going to be popular here, but fuck it: We have emotions, too. I am not a robot, I have feelings and I have cried when times got tough. Shit is really fucked up when a man who is hurting can't collapse into the arms of his woman and receive comfort and affection. We're all loving the superficial surfaces of one another, never getting deep into the depths of our partners' souls.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 03:08 PM
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They're all manipulative and they're all branch swingers. This girl hasn't done anything that every other girl wouldn't do given the same set of circumstances. AWALT. Whomever you replace her with will pull the same shit. LDRs are impossible to maintain and cheating is extremely common. Also, there are different degrees of evil when it comes to just about any transgression. I don't think this is nearly as bad as the girl who fucks around on a boyfriend who is just across town and she could go se…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 03:41 PM
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also the boyfriend isn't full on alpha in reality I don't think a full on alpha will ever have lasting success in a relationship with a modern, first world woman. You can't be all alpha all the time; you've got to sprinkle a little beta in here and there or she will have a hard time feeling loved and eventually bounce.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 03:15 PM
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This is generally a bad idea unless you are ready to end it. Disagree. If she asks directly, she deserves a straight answer. I agree with some of your other points, you can't rub it in and have to handle it tactfully, but I can't fathom anything other than a straight and honest response to such a question. I wouldn't want to dance around the question and give a half assed answer, or tell her it's none of her business. It absolutely is her business, especially when I'm putting my cock inside her.…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 04:15 PM
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I've thought about telling my buddies that if a girl I'm with ever hits on them, to go ahead and let it escalate however far she'll take it and then tell me what happened. That's fucking brilliant. I'm totally doing this.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 07:41 PM
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I hope that I'll get out of this hole soon enough You will. I guarantee it. This could last weeks or months, it depends on you. If you want to get this agony over sooner: Cut all contact! Every time you talk to her, read one of her texts, look at her Facebook page and so on, the clock resets. You can never heal if you're trying to be friends with her or hoping to fix things. Same thing goes for looking at pictures or things she gave you, laying around and crying while remembering all the fun tim…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:56 PM
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Bwahahahahaha. Bro, you can't even keep her loyal when you put her on a pedestal and treat her like a princess. You honestly think you can keep her loyal while you're fucking other girls? No, dude. Ain't gonna happen. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Do you enjoy the way you're feeling right now? Is this pleasant for you? Because you're going to feel it again very soon if you have anything at all to do with this girl. She didn't "make a mistake" and she's going to do it again and again and agai…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 02:44 PM
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I suddenly have the urge to write up a business plan whereby men who need a relationship refresh can order up an attractive woman to approach at a time & place his girl will notice.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 05:04 AM
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One thought I have about it is that women are trying to be like men and deep down they're not men and they're afraid because they don't know how to be men. And they don't have to be men, but they're told they should be. I think you're spot on. This is one of the truly unfortunate consequences that feminism has brought the modern woman. I support equal rights and opportunity for women and I'd like to imagine the early feminist movement had good intentions, but the result has been an unmitigated d…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 04:25 AM
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I can't tell if you're trying to convince us or yourself... Why do you feel the need to tell everyone how straight you are? That's very strange behavior, bro. Nobody cares either way, yet here you are carrying on about it in front of a huge audience. Why? That's a rhetorical question, by the way. I don't want an answer, rather, I'm hoping you will reflect on it and answer it for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:20 PM
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To expand on that, most people can't handle being alone. They put up with horrible relationships because they can't fathom the idea of their own company. One of the best things a man can do for himself is learn to embrace loneliness. When you don't fear being alone, you stop putting up with shitty people in your life.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:39 PM
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I wouldn't do it. Fuck the courts, fuck the judge, fuck the law and fuck that bitch. Try to take my paycheck, I'll quit my fucking job, claim unemployment/welfare and work for cash under the table. Try to put me in jail, I'll leave the fucking country and live/work somewhere outside the reach of U.S. law. I'll be god damned if I'm going to be enslaved by the state to provide for some bitch for the rest of my life. No fucking way. Also, because I don't think I used the word fuck enough to truly e…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:24 PM
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"Like millions of women, Laura Doyle wanted her marriage to be better. But when she tried to get her husband to be more romantic, helpful, and ambitious, he withdrew– and she was lonely and exhausted from controlling everything. Desperate to be in love with her man again, she decided to stop telling him what to do and how to do it. When Doyle surrendered control, something magical happened. The union she had always dreamed of appeared. The man who had wooed her was back. The underlying principle…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 05:04 PM
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She was given the agreement 6 weeks before the marriage. Likely one of the main reasons it was thrown out. Dude and his lawyer were fucking idiots for thinking that shit would fly. You have to take care of this much farther in advance of the wedding. Preferably it would be signed and sealed six months prior and before invitations are sent out. Which means you need to start hiring lawyers and drafting the contract a year in advance.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 07:02 AM
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For what it's worth, you can't pre-nup away child support. That clause would have never been upheld and could have put the whole contract at risk.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 06:55 AM
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It was blackmail pure and simple, I talked this over with my lawyer and I gave in on a few items that I didn't have to in order to save time and reduce risk. There's the rub: Even if you have an air-tight pre-nup, the divorce may still cost you a fuck ton of money if your ex insists on fighting over every little thing. Even if you "win" in the end, you still lose because you've got to pay the fucking lawyers. Pre-nup doesn't protect anyone from outrageous legal bills when you break up. My goddam…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 06:53 AM
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Does any prenup protect the half a million dollars you've saved since getting married? No, not that I am aware of. I've spoken with several attorneys on the matter and am told that you cannot pre-nup away asserts earned during the marriage. Another thing you can't pre-nup is child support and the more you make, the bigger that bill will be.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 06:39 AM
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I've seen cases where she leaves the cuck, moves in with the real father and the poor sucker she cucked still has to pay child support. ಠ_ಠ
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 05:19 AM
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Right? I enjoy practicing game on the whales and have no trouble entertaining them for a bro if I'm not trying to pick up. Just because I chat her up for a bit doesn't mean we're fucking later.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:08 PM
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5'7" checking in. It doesn't fucking matter at all. You have to let it go, inflate your confidence beyond reality and lift. I'm not even ripped, just fit, 12% body fat and I don't have trouble getting bitches. My LTR is the same height, but 6' in her heels, we go out and I feel like a fucking Mack daddy with her on my arm. I am the first guy under 6' she's dated, she says I fuck her better than anyone ever has. Been with her over 3 years now so I'm pretty sure she's sincere. If you're short, imp…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 06:08 PM
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I draw a lot, so I spend lots of time alone creating, meaning a girl has to compete with that I got myself a dog. If a girl can't bring more to the table than the dog, I'm not interested. Sadly, most of them can't... Oh, you watch Netflix, you like to eat and go for long walks? My dog does all that and fetches a ball. Next.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 05:49 PM
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I read one where she literally said to get with her, "You have to let me control your wallet." She went on and on about it, too. How she would carry your wallet and spend the money however the fuck she liked and you had to ask her for permission to buy anything for yourself (with your own money). Bitch was huge, too. 250-300# at least. Wish I would have saved the post, it was hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 05:41 PM
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I saw 50 shades. The girl was just a skinny nerd I watched this dumb shit with my LTR and couldn't believe the amount of shameless shit testing that basic bitch threw at the billionaire... And worse, he ate it all up. At one point I openly scoffed and said, "There's no fucking way he would put up with that dumb shit. He can have any woman he wants, if this were real life he'd be long gone." LTR was not amused, but whatever. That's what she gets for bringing this ridiculous crap over and insistin…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 05:35 PM
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Simple, if he didn't enjoy it, he's not gay. Being gay isn't something you "catch" by doing gay things. It's something you are. The guy had to take a Viagra to get hard, for crying out loud. Definitely not gay. Tried a gay thing once in hopes of getting some pussy, still not gay. If I talk my girlfriend into licking another girl's puss and she does it, not because she likes it but because she knows I like it and she wants to turn me on, is she now a lesbian?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 05:49 AM
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Choreplay is the bastion of unhappy house wives. They consider it a chore to fuck their husbands so they make him do chores in exchange. This does not actually turn them on, it's merely a means of control, a ploy to keep the sex less frequent or deny it outright when he doesn't measure up and to get a little something extra out of him when she inevitably has to give up the puss. My motto, a girl either fucks me because she wants to fuck me or she can get the fuck out and I'll find someone else t…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:03 PM
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It is state-by-state in the US and only nine states still have laws on the books. In most of those states you still can't "accidentally" wind up married, there are several hurdles, one of the most important being you actually have to hold yourselves out to be married. That would mean telling others you're married, her taking your last name, buying her a ring, calling one another husband and wife, buying a home together and so on. The more of these things to do, the higher the likelihood the cour…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 06:20 PM
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Marrying or living together isn't really any different legally The lies you tell... It's entirely different. Marrying involves a legal contract between the parties and the state. That contract gives your wife numerous rights and claims over your property, current and future income. You might as well have said, "Doing business on a handshake or with lawyers and legal contracts isn't really any different legally."
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:23 PM
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A refusal to marry does not necessarily imply mistrust. As I explained to my LTR, I trust her not to screw me in a divorce today. I don't believe for a second that she has some pre-planned agenda in this matter. However, five or ten years down the road, when she's decided I'm just another asshole like all the rest, absolutely she will exercise every clause in that contract that benefits her. That's the crux of the issue: It's a terribly one sided contract. In the business world it would be deeme…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 03:13 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean. If you're talking about common law marriage, it's only valid in a few US states. In most areas you can safely live with a woman forever and not wind up automatically married. What I'm suggesting is this: If a man is inclined to get married, he should play married instead. You can live and have and raise children together without a marriage contract and unless you're one of the unfortunate few in a common law jurisdiction, it's relatively safe.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 04:01 AM
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Fair enough, but you still have no legal control over the children at that point. Not true. As their father, you have just as much control as their mother, regardless of your marital status. The mother could take them away and get child support from you overnight if she wished She can do this whether you're married or not. Courts are doing a better job these days of granting shared/joint custody to fathers. It used to be women were effectively given full custody by default, but these days if you…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:27 PM
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First off, if you want children who--statistically speaking--turn out better you should get married. Bullshit. Children turn out better with a mother and father living under the same roof. A piece of paper issued by the state has nothing to do with this, and said piece of paper is worthless in terms of keeping families together. If anything, current family court laws and precedence encourages women to divorce their husbands, promising cash and prizes and a continuing income stream.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 09:23 PM
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Then when you try to explain it to them, you're the bad guy. Funny that.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 07:59 PM
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Makes me laugh, these dumb fucks go through all that trouble to track down and ban "teh evil redpillers"... Yet I can make a new account in all of 3 seconds.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 06:26 PM
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Text her all you want but understand that she's not yours, she is fucking other dudes, and you need to be spending your time pursuing other girls instead of trying to keep something going with ms. long distance.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:26 PM
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make sure you sit down when you pee Hah! My mother tried this with me when I was a boy. BB Dad even backed her up. Said he would do it, too. Even as a kid - I was in elementary school at the time - the entire time they were trying to convince me to do this, I remember thinking, "This shit is fucked up." I eventually lied and said I'd do it just to shut them up with zero intention of following through. Although I was much more careful not to get any pee on the seat so as not get busted ignoring t…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:10 PM
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I'm just trying to dispel this "they will get there's in the end" kind of thinking in myself Good. You should because you're absolutely right. They will not get what they deserve. They will have their cake and eat it, too. I've seen it time and time again. There's always another thirsty BB willing to provide for her. Even if she gets fat and ugly, there are countless dumbasses waiting in line to wife that shit up.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:36 PM
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It's true, but don't think for a second she isn't encouraging it. I guarantee she texts him lovey dovey shit, tells him all about her problems, unloads her feelings and emotions on him and so on. Men don't orbit on their own, it takes a woman's active influence to keep that gravitational pull going.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 05:55 PM
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My fucking ex wife would turn the AC way down in the summer, then open the windows when she got too cold. I got a $475 electric bill one July and lost my shit. Our heat pump burned up later that summer... Compressor overheated and seized. Cost me eight grand. What blew my mind was that no amount of discussion could fix this. She would listen to what I had to say, to my explanations of how this system worked and how much money it cost and so on. She would tell me she understood and would "do bett…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 03:30 AM
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it's obvious you have never done any child care Jesus that is stupid, please don't have children. Your going to suck at it if that's your attitude. You really need to learn to discuss and share ideas like an adult, without acting like a condescending little shit. Consider that you have no idea who you're talking to on the Internet, don't make assumptions and don't write something you wouldn't say to someone's face. Don't think for a second that you are superman and can solo it Except for the fac…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 04:17 AM
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If you've taken care of kids you know it is work, boring as all hell for the most part, but definitely work. And you get "paid" for that work through the joy and fulfillment of your children. Really, I cannot fucking believe you or anyone else is asinine enough to suggest with a straight face we pay women to sit at home and take care of their kids. That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard. Hey, I want to sit at home and hang out with my dog, work on the old car I'm restoring, etc... How about we …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 10:53 PM
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Being so legit that a woman doesn't divorce-rape you even though she knows she can Even if she doesn't, the simple fact that she can changes the interpersonal dynamics between the couple, and not for the better. She knows she has him by the balls and even if she's a good, loving and decent woman, this fact gives her liberties she might otherwise not explore. For example, withholding sex or using it as a bargaining tool. If she decides she doesn't feel like fucking anymore - and most wives do at …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 05:48 PM
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Nah; in the real world we still have this little thing called the Constitution. None of this shit would fly in an actual court of law, which is why these dumb ho's won't go to the police with their lies. My first rule of rape accusations: If she won't file a police report, she's a fucking liar and it didn't happen the way she claims.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 04:45 PM
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Basically, nothing she says or does after the supposed rape counts, period. What a way to run a fucking system of "justice." This shit is whack.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:15 AM
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Easy to screw up that bad when you're a dumb, super basic bitch. What astounds me is that any of this nonsense was believable by the supposed adults running that college. They're so fucking enamored with these precious little snowflakes and their progressive, feminist ideologies they are literally blind to the truth.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:12 AM
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Aren't there already of number of lawsuits against universities for just such things? There are. Several men have brought lawsuits against their universities under similar circumstances. I'd love to see the government step in and start nailing these universities to the wall, but I can't see that happening when our very own president is repeating the "one in five" bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 09:49 PM
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She says during this time she told him "what if E.K. shows up, we should stop." He ignores her. She then explicitly tells him "no" but he refuses and they continue until he ejaculates. It was unclear to me whether they fucked or she just gave him head. If the latter is true, then how in the hell does a guy "refuse to stop" when she's the one sucking the dick? She didn't claim he used force or threatened her in any way. It sounds like she sucked his cock a bit, said "No, we should stop", then wen…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 09:44 PM
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The other two replies already nailed it. Excellent examples of holding frame. Basically, you don't get away from their shaming. You just learn not to give a fuck. Why do I care what an old maid says about me? I'm not interested in her. She has nothing I want and I don't need her validation. Let her talk shit, it makes no difference to me. I have to admit, it was a little hard hearing my own mother talk shit, though. I just smiled and said, "There's nothing disgusting about that body. Fine piece …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 10:31 PM
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This is an issue with society in general, not just on reddit. Men who get with younger women are scorned by older women. Not by men, though... when the hens aren't around to listen, the guys will high five one another. I once fucked around briefly with a 19 year old in my early thirties. My mother said I was "disgusting." Dad said nothing, waited until Mom left the room, then told me he was proud of me. Thing is, I didn't creep on this bitch. I didn't brainwash her, trick her or manipulate her. …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:34 PM
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But men need to be aware of the potential that any women possesses. Even if she doesn't divorce rape you, cheat on you, use sex as a weapon and so on, the potential alone will serve to fuck you over once you're fully entangled in the relationship and certainly, certainly once you're married. A married woman knows she can walk at any time and win cash and prizes. She has the power, backed by the State, to completely and totally fuck you over on a whim, for any reason or no reason at all. Do you t…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:54 PM
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We're worse than racists in the eyes of the typical SJW. We're men who have disregarded the feminist imperative. We've taken these bitches off their pedestals, picked up our balls and said, "We're done here." This is about control, plain and simple. Bitches want to wear the pants, to keep men under their thumbs and doing their bidding and this shit doesn't work on us. We're a small but rapidly growing group and we scare the piss out of them. Women's stranglehold on men is weak as fuck, all we ha…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 06:04 AM
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I'm trying really hard to get my life together, but it sounds like you're telling me it's only going to lead to not getting laid as often. Not necessarily. You can be both the alpha fucks and the beta bucks. That's a great strategy for LTR game and one that I practice daily. You've already got the bad boy side figured out, which girls typically love. Now temper it with a healthy dose of stability and good decision making and you can be the best of both worlds. The only way this results in gettin…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 05:25 PM
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Why people marry people they are not strongly attracted to sexually is beyond me. That's easy. Girls get their panties wettest from irresponsible shit lords, tatted up felons full of aggression and attitude. I've seen it time and time again. Unfortunately, these guys don't make good husbands, hell they don't even make good boyfriends. They're unstable, can't hold down a job, routinely make stupid decisions and so on. Eventually a girl realizes she wants kids and a family and a white picket fence…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 10:05 PM
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Embrace rejection, rejection is your friend. An idea I once read and loved, but haven't put into practice because I've been in an LTR, is to make a game out of it. Aim to get rejected x times in x days. Flirt with women you have no chance with, be bold and unashamed. Try to get rejected for your own amusement if nothing else. This takes the ego out of it. You assume she's going to say no going into it so you don't have the typical worries or concerns and you don't take the rejection so personall…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 09:15 PM
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Women eat that shit up. Look at any women's magazine, they're full of lame games and surveys that teenagers would play. Yet adult women buy these magazines every day. There's a reason we call women "the most responsible teenagers in the house."
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 08:27 PM
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you will always have the memories of all those times you fucked that fucking rockstar Guess which memories she's reliving when her sweet, loving husband is getting his weekly obligation fuck? I'd rather be single than LTR'd up with some bitch who fantasizes about all the Chads she used to fuck. Far too many relationships consist of women settling for men. Usually the fool guy is in love and giving her his all, while she's reluctantly going along with it because she needs a BB. This type of relat…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 03:23 PM
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They aren't her millions. They're daddy's millions. You can't take them just because you married and/or divorced his daughter.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 06:46 AM
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(you can't tell when they'll have their 3rd mushroom experience, and see that they should run off and sell the business tomorrow) Bwahahahahah!! Holy fuck, you're so right. That's exactly the kind of shit people do when they're love-drunk out of their mind.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 05:58 AM
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He's not wrong, though. I've also found that long term relationships with women tend to be heavily lopsided in her favor. They're very good at playing the innocent helpless girl game (while simultaneously declaring themselves strong, empowered feminists better than any man, lol) and extracting all sorts of favors and privileges and commitments against my free time.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 07:47 PM
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I'll tell him that we need to make a realistic plan about finances and since he's getting married, have to separate things out in the business. Don't wait until Christmas to do this. Give him another month tops, then break the news.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 10:25 PM
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You've really got to get over this. You're effectively saying, "I don't have the balls to look out for my own best interests. I can't handle difficult conversations in relationships, I can't assert myself and I can't deal with the possibility of a little girl breaking down and crying and throwing a shit fit over this." I'm not judging you. Hell, I used to be exactly like you, maybe worse. I walked on glass around girls, doing everything I could to not offend or upset them in hopes they would see…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 10:07 PM
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getting her divorce rape on is something she isn't thinking about now either. My LTR asked me during a discussion about why I'm not going to marry her, "Do you really think I want to take take half of your assets?" My response: "Right now? No, of course not. I trust that you love me and wouldn't intentionally hurt me... today. However, some number of years down the road when you're sick and tired of me and I've become just another asshole to you, absolutely you will. Without question." She wasn'…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 09:45 PM
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A man who has already committed to signing a marriage contract has no chance of unplugging, no matter what you do, say, or show to him. Man, ain't that the truth. My best friend from childhood, best man at my wedding, was engaged to a girl who turned out to be a nasty bitch. I was to be his best man. Six months before the wedding, he confides in me that he doesn't want to marry her. Says, "She's a total bitch. She treats me like shit and she's getting fat. I don't want to do it, bro." Naturally,…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 09:27 PM
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That's a great point. Giving a child up for adoption is perfectly legal, even celebrated, and the mother has zero rights or responsibilities to the child after this is done. Why can't a man decide to give his child up for adoption to its mother, thereby relinquishing his rights and responsibilities? That's effectively what happened here. Guy said "I don't want it", girl kept it anyway, now 15 years later the kid he's never met is pissed and everyone is up in arms, calling him a worthless deadbea…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 09:06 PM
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We don't disagree on the big picture. "Society benefits" rings true; it is better if everyone has the opportunity to get a college education, buy a car and so on. However, I find "make the dad pay for it" far too socialist for my tastes. Child support is one thing, assuming the mother can demonstrate a need I support that. I have kids, I pay my child support on time every time and while I have strong opinions on the amount of support mandated and total lack of accountability as to how it gets sp…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 07:02 AM
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So if she gets a scholarship and an actually poor Johnny doesn't get one, you think that's fair? No, it's not fair, but life isn't fair. There are many children who will never attend college due to unfortunate circumstances in their lives. Some of us are more privileged than others. That's life, man. I don't think forcing bio-dads to foot the college tuition bill is okay. What's next, he has to buy her a car, too? (when I saw your comment, the score was 0. I felt you expressed your position poli…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 04:56 AM
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Get the fuck out of here with your "fucktard" bullshit. That's not how you talk to people and I won't engage you in a discussion if you're going to resort to insults.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 12:11 AM
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because this guy isn't paying for his own actions What about the mother? She chose to have the child and lied about giving it up for adoption. She is every bit as responsible for this mess, if not more so. Why the hell is she having and raising children she can't afford? Where's your outrage for her actions? the money he spends on a Mercedes could have been invested in this child's education Education is "free" in this country, unless you're suggesting he has an obligation to fund a college educ…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 11:52 PM
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In some states you have to pay for the "child's" college education, too. That can put you on the hook for huge money until the "child" is 24. It's called "post secondary educational support" and it ought to be illegal.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 11:36 PM
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If the child really is his seed, then he has permanent obligations to her. No, he doesn't. Especially not the way she's acting. This girl is almost a legal adult. She reached out to him in the shittiest way possible. Her mother has likely spent the entirety of her 15 years running this man down and blaming him for all of their problems. Whatever relationship they may have been able to cultivate is permanently broken, poisoned from the moment that child was born. The girl will never respect him a…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 11:29 PM
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there are also extremely ugly desperate guys who have no standard. With enough money to buy a house for a girl he isn't exclusive with and only fucks on occasion? I doubt it. Any guy who can drop that kind of coin on a bitch can do better than a 3. Even if he's ugly as hell, if he can write six figure checks then he's not desperate. He can fuck eights. That kind of money guarantees access to plenty of hot girls. Sure, they're all gonna be gold digging whores, but he won't have to settle for an u…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 10:57 PM
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That's pretty cold-hearted to not give a fuck about mass-shootings. That's not what I got out of his comment. I read it as mass-shootings are so uncommon and account for so few deaths that they simply aren't worth concerning yourself with. I agree. Just to use one example, over 41,000 people committed suicide in 2013 alone; 79% were men. If you're going to worry about deaths to the point that you attempt to do something about it, this would be a far more effective area of concern to target your …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 06:38 AM
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This means the bottom 1-10% are 1s, 11-20% are 2s, etc until you get to the top 91-100% being the 10s. No, it doesn't work like that. At all. 10% of women are not tens. The real number is likely less than 1%. A dime piece is a perfect body in every way. These women are extremely rare. The number in the rating has nothing to do with the % of women who fit that number. There is simply no correlation. Notice how nobody uses the % symbol when talking about this? Nobody says, "Damn, girl is in the to…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 06:16 AM
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I'm sure they either know it or don't They do. I guarantee it. They've all shared stories with one another about fucking you.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:46 AM
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I had a serious crush on a girl in high school. She rejected me, but whatever. I moved on. We reconnected on Facebook in our thirties and hung out a few times as friends. She was very interested in me and hinted that we should consider a relationship. Sure, sweetie... Now that you're 40lbs overweight with a debilitating disease that will eventually leave you crippled, and now that I'm a six figga nigga with a big ass house in a gated community, now you want me. Thanks but no thanks.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:43 AM
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you'll eventually be able to tell girls who are "like that" vs one's that aren't. They're all like that these days. AWALT. The rare exceptions tend to be the ultra religious nuts and trust me, you don't want anything to do with those crazy bitches.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:20 AM
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I think the better analogy is "we won't hire you now, but we will after you do 10 years worth of unpaid internships." ...also, we'll be on the verge of failure, our stock price will be shit and the outstanding benefits we're currently offering will be reduced to virtually nothing - and even then you'll only get them when we feel guilty after weeks of listening to you beg for scraps and doing extra work around the office.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 05:15 AM
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God damnit, bro. STOP TEXTING HER. You're only prolonging your agony. Look, every time she gets a text from you she's showing that shit to her friends and/or the new guy she's fucking and telling them how lame you are. You will never get back together with her. It's over. MOVE ON. Delete her number from your phone and block it while you're at it so she can't text or call you. When she doesn't hear from you for awhile, she may reach out just so she can string you along awhile longer, make you an …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 04:46 AM
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A friend of mine was that guy. Married a nurse with $90k in student loan debt... but she had a $90k a year job and plans to pay it off, so okay, right? Soon after they married, she convinced him to refinance his house (that he owned before he met her) to pay off all of her student loans. Rationalization? Mortgage interest rate was lower. So he did it. A couple of years later the bitch fell off the wagon. Got caught shooting up drugs she stole from the hospital she worked at, lost her job, starte…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 09:53 PM
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There was a couple living across the street from me many years ago. We knew they had cats, but didn't know how many until home boy got caught touching some underage neighborhood girls. He went to jail and his cat lady wife lost the house to foreclosure shortly thereafter. When the bank's realtor came in to prep the house for resale, there was so much cat shit in the garage they had to bring in a tractor with a bucket to scoop it all out. These people had over a hundred cats. There were some dead…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 08:27 PM
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How much do you know about this beta? Any idea what he does for a living or how much money he actually has/earns? For all we know your sister is just one of a dozen plates he keeps on rotation. If he can afford to house up some bitches in exchange for easy ongoing access to their pussies, more power to him. He might be alpha as fuck. More money than sense, clearly - I'd pay top tier escorts on an hourly basis long before I dropped a hundred plus grand on some basic bitch - but to each his own. I…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 08:14 PM
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Ain't nobody buying a house for a fucking three, bro. She's got to be above average to get that kind of pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 08:02 PM
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She's still a tenant whether she pays or not... unless the dumb ass BB put the house in her name. Who knows, maybe he's rich as fuck and just wrote a check for the place. Some people can buy houses as easily as the rest of us might buy a bouquet of roses or a nice dinner at a fancy restaurant. If your investments make you a hundred grand every night while you sleep, who cares? If I were going to put a bitch up in a house, though, regardless of how much money I had it would be my house and we'd h…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 07:58 PM
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In old times we married them off and knocked them up at 12.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 02:30 PM
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I'd trade my 8 who thinks she's queen shit for a 6 who worships the ground I walk upon and loves me to a fault. Looks aren't everything.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 05:01 AM
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I've got half a mind to code up a hot new fuck buddy site right now. I wonder how much money the hacks at Ashley Madison made off that little venture...
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 04:53 AM
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I'll chime in just to give you another data point. Got mine done in my late twenties, after my second child was born. I'd been considering it for years, my wife at the time refused any sort of birth control so family planning was 100% on me. She lost her shit when I did it, claimed I was robbing her of her future children even though I was very up front before we ever started dating that I only wanted ONE kid. She agreed to marry me anyway and I gave her twice the number of children I promised, …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:51 AM
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I actually made an Ashley Madison account years ago when I was trapped in my miserable marriage. I never paid them a dime nor gave them my real information, and here's why: The entire experience was scammy as fuck. I got several unsolicited messages from extremely attractive "women" straight up. AM wanted to charge me a fee to reply to these women and since I was only testing the waters, I declined to do so. They also wanted me to pay to send the "girls" some "gifts" - digital flowers and stuffe…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:19 AM
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It's not a police surveillance state if you control your own cameras... I have cameras up around my home. The video feed is on a private subnet firewalled off from everything else, nobody can access them except me. No worries.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 03:10 PM
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Don't call the cops. You made the right choice in this matter. Every day you don't have to talk to a cop is a good day. As you said below, there's really nothing for you to gain by doing so. I'm fucking blown away by the fact this bitch thought she could just change the locks and effectively steal your house. I mean, really? What the fuck was she thinking, you're just gonna come home and go, "oh well, looks like I'm locked out" and leave and continue paying the mortgage and utility bills? Lol. B…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 05:21 PM
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Do yourself a favor and start squirreling money away now. Nothing that will raise suspicions. Take a couple hundred cash back when you deposit your paycheck, get an extra fifty back at the grocery and so on. Stash it all away somewhere safe and tell nobody. You'll thank me when the divorce is over and you have a little fund to kick start your new life. If you have any substantial assets start dwindling them down. A grand here, a grand there, if you're ever asked it was just spending money. Eatin…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 06:21 AM
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The proper answer is whatever the speed limit is, or a number slightly less than that. Most people who get caught speeding will lie in an attempt to minimize the damage. If the limit is 50 and you were doing 65, you might tell the cop "55." Congratulations, you've just admitted to speeding. Even if you said 51, you've admitted guilt and you're going to get a ticket. Either he knows how fast you were going and it doesn't matter what you say, or he doesn't and he's hoping you'll incriminate yourse…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 06:08 AM
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Arguing on the Internet is like running in the special Olympics. Even if you win, you're still retarded.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 05:25 AM
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Can you imagine if they gathered together to promote male interests? We do it right here every day and look at how they respond. We're labeled a fucking hate group, for crying out loud. We are, apparently, more evil than subs that openly promote racism and hatred, post pictures of dead babies, etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 10:35 PM
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My money says this is a troll. I've seen a lot of this shit lately, to be honest, and it makes me wonder if the SJWs are intentionally infiltrating this sub to post outrageous bullshit like this so they can then point at us and say, "SEE?!?!! Those crazy terpers must be stopped!!!!"
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:16 AM
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What if I have a propensity to fall in love? Congratulations, you're a man. We've all been there. When I was younger I'd fall for girls crazy fast. Now that I'm in my thirties, I've learned to control it better, mostly due to the abundance mentality I've cultivated. There ought to be some info in the sidebar on this, if not, do some searching.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 04:00 AM
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I work with a guy who does firefighting on the weekends. He has bitched for years about the same thing. His team has a 110lb woman on it who failed all of the physical tests yet still passed. He's treated like a misogynist asshole because he stood up and said hell no he wouldn't go into a burning building with her ever, period. "What happens if I get hurt? One of the requirements to pass certification is you have to be able to drag your partner out if he gets hurt or loses consciousness. I'm 220…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 07:27 PM
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calories out > calories in It's so fucking simple. How can they not get it? I've never had a problem managing my weight. If I want to trim up a bit, I cut my food intake. Yes, I get hungry. Big fucking deal, drink a glass of water and keep going. I ate 500 calories today and lost another half pound. I'll eat like a bird for a couple more weeks and be right back to my target weight in no time. This shit is cake, I do it about once a year, usually in the spring I'll shed the 5-10lbs I gained over …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 06:03 AM
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A million times this. Every goddamn time these posts pop up the bro knights come out of the interwebs on their big gay stallions to save some random dude. Except home boy doesn't need saving and if you tell him you fucked his wife, he's likely to come after you looking for vengeance. His sweet little cupcake is going to deny it or outright cry rape and guess what, he's going to believe her. Nothing good can come of this and you're taking a fuck load of risk, up to and including your freedom and …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 05:34 AM
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LOL!! Yeah, that's why she lied to him instead of saying, "Hey I'm married but it's just for the kid, we have an open relationship." Hell even when they say that it turns out to be a lie 9 out of 10 times. She's just a cheating whore. I admire your rose colored glasses, though.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 05:27 AM
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That's about right. My ex wife got about 2/3rds. People think it's 50/50 but that's bullshit, 50/50 is merely the starting point for negotiation. Women can and usually do get much more and the lawyers take a hefty chunk off the top.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 05:16 AM
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It's depressing as fuck bro. I'm shocked at the number of people who don't give a fuck about the Snowden revelations. Even worse, a great many of them think he's a traitor. ಠ_ಠ I tried an experiment a couple of years back. I'd noticed my Facebook posts linking stories about the massive constitutional and civil liberties violations our government has been pulling lately received virtually no interest. So I posted a couple of things back to back: A recent news story about parallel construction, a …
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 05:13 AM
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Trying to run a business in the U.S. sucks. I've run several and there are so many laws and regulations I'm pretty sure we're all constantly in violation of some law or another. Everybody wants their goddamn hands in the pie. City, county, state, federal and they've all got countless divisions with assholes claiming authority over you in one way or another. 90% of my business ideas have never gotten off the ground due to all of the regulation. Every time I start putting something together, I run…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 04:40 AM
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Hell no. I was married and lived that "stable" lifestyle for a decade and a half, hated it. When I decided I wanted out many friends and family gave me that "grass is always greener" bullshit. They insisted single life in my thirties would not be as epic as I imagined and swore I'd just remarry in no time. One buddy even bet me a grand I'd be married again within 5 years. Ex wife has been gone 3 years and all those motherfuckers were wrong. The grass really is greener. Fuck marriage, I'm not goi…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 08:14 AM
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We currently split the apartment rent, however I made sure that I could afford the apartment if she were to ever get kicked out or leave. Smart. If I were renting I'd split it too. Interestingly enough, my older brother just got married and his wife is paying for their new house. He was confused why she wouldn't let him help pay for it. Sweet deal. I'd let her keep paying for it and stash away as much cash as I could just in case. They're married so if they split up the house is half his anyway.…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:59 PM
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If she's not putting out early she's either a prude or a chick hunting a BB Or a decent girl looking for a decent guy. it's not a given since post-wall CC-riders do the same thing. Need to vet further. Agreed, that's why I said: It could also be a sign she isn't into you and/or just wants another orbiter, and there are certainly a lot of other things you'll want to know about her before you take the LTR plunge We're on the same page, just using different words to express our points.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:38 PM
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Even if it all goes to hell in a hand basket, he's done this right by keeping his assets separate and not marrying. Assuming he continues with this clear separation of assets and does not wind up in a common law marriage, if it crashes and burns he'll be in a perfect position to get back up and move on with his life without lawsuits, theft of assets and so on. She takes her shit, he keeps his and you both walk away. The real problems occur when you start mixing assets. Joint bank accounts are go…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:00 PM
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Another 6 months down the road, we had gone on a few dates, made out, and every single time I tried to seal the deal, I was met with a "sorry, I have a no bullshit policy. I do not fuck unless I am in a relationship". This chick was firm on her stance. Time and time again I have seen men on this sub stating that if she doesn't put out in two or three dates, next her. I think that's a bunch of fucking bullshit. We sit here and bitch about how difficult it is to find a good girl who isn't a dirty …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 06:33 PM
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I see the newbs are out in full force this morning. All of the popularity has not been good for this sub if you ask me. Nice FR, bro. I enjoyed reading it and think you did fine. The chick learned you have other options and two can play at this game. Either she'll come crawling back or not, either way who gives a fuck? I LOL'd at the asshats giving you shit because "now you don't have anyone to fuck." There are several billion women on this planet and OP just gave himself a big shot of abundance…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:30 PM
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If you aren't worried about STDs, real lambskin condoms are the best. They protect against pregnancy just fine, but don't stop STDs so these are more suited to men in LTRs. It's as close to bareback as I've ever had. Really, really great. Used them all the time with my ex wife who refused to take birth control. Expensive but worth it.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 12:33 AM
1

You're both right. I'm constantly doing home improvement projects and have a hundred more I'd like to get done. I've stayed home with children before, a couple of days here and there, and that shit is cake at any age. So much free time. I don't get how women bitch and moan about it. They way they complain you'd think they were doing real, actual work.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 02:53 PM
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Dude you sure that's a thing, like actually doing half the work? Absolutely, it is incredibly common. I know plenty of married men who have a never ending list of honey-do's. The stay at home mother's motto is, "I take care of this house and these kids all day long. When you get home, it's your turn. I need a break." No consideration for the fact that he works all day to pay for everything. One of my coworkers is up all night with their baby. He comes to work tired and stressed out. I ask him wh…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 03:39 AM
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They don't want to be in control. It's a shit test. She only wants to know if she can control you. If the answer is yes, then you're no longer a suitable mate. Think about it: How are you supposed to protect and provide for her if you're so easily manipulated? If she's got you under her thumb then she fancies herself better than you and if that's the case, what the hell does she need you for? Not a goddamn thing. Women throw away perfectly good husbands every day because they've lost all respect…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 05:16 AM
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Or liked the version of her inside my mind. Remember this well and don't fall into that particular trap again. We create idealized versions of people in our minds and stay with them longer than we should because of the fantasy. It isn't real and we do ourselves a terrible disservice by playing this game. When we let go of the fantasy we start to see people for who they really are and can subsequently act accordingly to protect our own interests. Which is exactly how it should be.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 03:11 PM
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I was labelled misogynist by people close to me You're not a misogynist. A true misogynist hates women. I don't believe there are more than a small handful of actual misogynists in this sub. Most of us are here to better ourselves and learn more about how women work so we can build functional relationships with them. If we hated them, we wouldn't be here learning how to bed them. People use that word to shame you back into the box society wants you in. Don't let it get to you. I wear it with pri…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 03:03 PM
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This is so common it's not even funny. My ex wife got into Christianity shortly after we married and I followed suit. For awhile I really believed it. Read my bible, went to church, did bible studies with other Christians and so on. Most of them have no idea what their own holy book really has to say. Most don't bother to read it, or if they do they read passages out of context and come up with their own interpretations (that just so happen to fit whatever narrative they've been pushing). I saw …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 02:49 PM
7

This. A lot of teenage girls are taking it up the ass these days so they can still pretend to be virgins.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 04:28 PM
1

I am 31, well out of college, and life has only in the last 3-4 years begun to become completely amazing, and I'm nowhere near peaking. Seconded. Life really started going great for me in my thirties as well. My investments began to mature, I became one of the more senior staff at my company, salary finally hit six figures... Basically the foundation I worked my ass off to lay in my twenties began to bear fruit, and lots of it. I expect my forties will be even better. Still a few years to go bef…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 07:19 PM
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A man might intentionally run it into the ground if there was a healthy profit to be made from doing so. At least that I could respect.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 06:44 PM
2

For real? Planes practically fly themselves and this was a little Cessna with only the two of them aboard. I've flown them myself, there's not much to do once you're in the air at cruising altitude. Fucking would be far easier flying a plane than it would driving a car.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 04:59 PM
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He isn't and she knows it, but she's young, dumb and in love and hoping she can change his mind. That's on her. It is not his responsibility to turn down sex or push her away for her own good. My LTR wants to get married. I told her from the very beginning it wasn't an option. My actual words were, "Fuck marriage, I'm never doing this stupid shit again." She laughed and agreed. "Yeah I never want to get married either!" Six months late guess who wants to get married? Now she's bitter because I w…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 04:46 PM
1

Happened to me too, bro. Welcome to the rest of your life! Make it better this time.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 04:14 PM
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That's the only acceptable response. The last time a girl broke up with me, I gave her the "ok" and an hour later she sends back, "That's it? You aren't even going to fight for me?" I ignored. More texts came, I ignored them, too. Another hour goes by and she's had a change of heart. "Maybe I acted too rashly. Can we talk?" I invited her over and we did a lot of fucking. Not much talking.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 05:57 AM
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The shit they pull on trying to change orders or cancel them is astounding. It's because society has fully conditioned them that this type of behavior is acceptable. There are so many people worshipping the ground these princesses walk upon they think they can get away with anything. Sadly, in so many cases they absolutely can. There will always be another white knight ready to fall on his sword for her. I once had a girl show up to speak with me about a problem with something she bought. She ha…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 05:48 AM
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She just seems very naive and taken advantage of at a young age. "This poor girl. Everything that has happened to her is someone else's fault." she just wants love so bad "I want love so bad. Surely this must be what women want, too. I could show this poor broken girl what real love is." a real man would accept that and take it slow with her "Every hole on her body has been thoroughly abused, but a real man, a good upstanding nice guy like me, I'd take things slow with her and show this poor cum…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 02:24 AM
6

Good, any girl who asks how much you make right after meeting you is a gold digging whore. You're better off having missed the opportunity to let her sink her claws into you.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:36 PM
10

I wonder who gave the ex boyfriend the idea that OP was a fuckface who needed his ass kicked? You think he came up with that all on his own? My money says she bitched about OP to the ex. I've seen it a thousand times. I'd dump her ass for maintaining a friendship with an ex, talking about me to the ex and continuing their friendship after he disrespected me like that.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:31 PM
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It's not intended to fix a marriage. It's intended to get you out of a deep, soul destroying rut. The marriage will either implode or improve, either way you will likely wind up happier and better off. You have to be willing to walk away. The more committed you are to that, the harder reality will slap her in the face. Either she will wake up and start being the wife you expect or she'll call your bluff and things will end.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 06:54 AM
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I care SO MUCH MORE about helping dudes improve themselves than I do about getting laid its not even funny. 100% agreed. It pisses me off to watch women walk all over the men who love and provide for them. If every man were RP aware, women wouldn't be able to get away with their dumb bullshit and society would change for the better. I smile every time I see another man swallow the pill. The fewer beta suckers out there kowtowing to women, the better life will be for all of us.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 10:15 PM
1

I'd force them to fire me, then sue their asses for wrongful termination.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 10:04 PM
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Depends on the person. Each of us will have a different answer to that question. For some, the risk of a break up and child support payments are worth it. For others, they may not be. It also depends on the woman you choose to be the mother of your children. While my wife was decidedly crazy, I got lucky in that she's a decent mother who loves her children and knows they need their father too. As a result we didn't fight over them at all. We split custody 50/50 and there have been no arguments o…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 09:56 PM
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You don't. I lost about 2/3rds. Entire 401k plus many other assets in exchange for the equity in the home, which she had no hope of ever making the payments on anyway. She tried to demand the home. I said, "Great! You can have it. I'll take the 401k and the other assets. In six months when the bank forecloses because you can't make the payments, I'll buy it at the foreclosure auction for half its value. Please, please, please take the home." (Really, I wanted it and was willing to buy her out of…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 07:56 PM
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She wanted me to move out…I told her to go fuck herself. She wanted to sleep in the main bedroom...it was her room. I told her to go fuck herself… Her car broke down, she called me…I told her to go fuck herself and call “Dave”. Bravo!! This is how it's done. I was married for 15 years. My ex never worked a day, I paid for everything. She treated me like shit, rarely fucked me, didn't respect me, didn't appreciate me and just like you, I reached my breaking point and quit giving a fuck. As the ma…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 06:01 PM
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Can I third? Always dreamed of owning a small club.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 04:01 AM
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I told her we can figure it out real easy There are only two acceptable answers: Exactly what you said or the always appropriate Agree & Amplify. So many responses below trying to figure out a way to say "no" and they all fail miserably. It doesn't matter how you say no, you're buying into her frame. She knows you're not gay, she just said it to get a rise out of you and put you on the defensive. Most guys will immediately try to prove how straight they are and no matter how witty your comeback,…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 03:31 AM
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Man the fuck up and lay down some expectations: You and mama are calling the police. Now. Her husband is physically abusive and he's stolen your identification. This is a crime. Involve the authorities yesterday. You and mama are filing a restraining order. Now. He will no longer be allowed near you, her, your siblings, your home or your places of employment. This will be easy to get. If he comes near any of you after the restraining order has been granted, call the police and insist on his arre…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 10:09 PM
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I just dont care about bitches enough, it is easier to just next 'em than invest a ton of energy into SPYING on them To each his own, but I do care about my woman. She's cool as fuck most of the time. It took less than a minute to scroll through her texts, I did it real quick while she went for a piss, so I'm not sure where this "invest a ton of energy" idea comes from. I've already invested a few years of my life into this relationship, why would I throw that all away on a hunch without taking …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 06:00 PM
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you shouldn't care where she has bin and who she is fucking. bro she is spending time with you. you should just be happy at that. You must be new here. You should probably stop commenting until you've read the resources in the sidebar and internalized some key concepts.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 03:47 PM
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If you have to ask yourself if she's cheating, she is. Not necessarily. My LTR was acting sketch awhile back so I went through her shit. Turns out she was planning something really nice for me and wanted it to be a surprise. If I followed your advice I'd have dumped a great girl over nothing.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 03:42 PM
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Her cheating isn't going to kill you It might. You've never heard of STDs bro?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 03:39 PM
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So it's the man's fault his girl is acting sketch and raising suspicions? He fucked up by LTRing her? There are plenty of girls who appear good and LTR worthy, then decide to fuck around on you one day. If a bitch is cheating, that shit is her fault, period. Trust but verify. I've gone through LTR's phones a few times. I'm not going to risk an STD or continue to financially provide for a cheater and a quick search through her phone is the fastest and easiest way to confirm. Fuck baiting her into…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 03:37 PM
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Even if he finds out he's fucked. The courts will continue to hold him accountable as if he's the real father. He will still pay child support and no repercussions will come down on his cheating whore of a wife. This has happened before and will happen again, once you've been playing dad for a little while you're the de facto dad whether you like it or not. Welcome to America. Test the little fuckers the day they're born if not before.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 11:25 PM
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You're right, but who gives a fuck what they expect. I've seen bitches bragging about using guys off dating sites for free dinners. A hot girl just pulls out her phone, picks from any of the hundreds of dudes who have matched with her that day and boom, a nice meal or round of drinks is paid for. I won't participate in that and I encourage other guys not to as well. I'll pay for mine, she's paying for hers and that's it. If she doesn't like it, too fucking bad. She can keep looking for her sugar…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:12 PM
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It's especially silly considering most hot Asian women in the U.S. seem to date white guys exclusively. But the men are the ones with the "fetish." Right.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 06:05 PM
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Their use of the word "fetish" is just over the top ridiculous anyway. Having a preference for certain body types or ethnicities isn't a fetish. That's just normal human behavior.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 05:31 PM
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This "yellow fever" is a bunch of horse shit, anyway. What's wrong with being attracted to Asians? How is that in any way racist? "I find your women hot and I want to fuck them" = shameful and racist? lol. I like skinny blondes with big tits, I must have "barbie fever." Everyone has their preferences. Nothing wrong with it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 04:40 PM
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It's called "common law marriage" and no, it's not coming to the U.S. soon. It used to be very prevalent here but most states dropped it long ago. It's only valid in nine states now and even in those states there are ways to get around it. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common-law_marriage
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 06:16 PM
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Say you have a $500k home. You owe $300k, so there's $200k in equity. Now you split up. That $200k belongs equally to both husband and wife. If you want to keep the house, you will have to pay her the $100k she's entitled to. This is "buying her out." You're buying her share of the house from her. Most people can't afford to do this, so divorce usually forces the sale of the home and each partner walks with their share.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 06:05 PM
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i am actually saving about 5-6 hundred dollars a month because she was SOOO expensive to keep unhappy. I love how you phrased this. So much truth here. My ex was spending me out of house and home and it still wasn't enough to make her happy. I thought the child support would leave me broke and unable to make the house payments. Turns out, after all was added up, she was far more expensive when she was living with me. I now have plenty of money left over at the end of the month, more than I've ev…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 05:56 PM
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My sister works in an industry dominated by women. There are several hundred employees in her building, only about a dozen of them are men. The bosses are women and the women run the show. If the stories she's told me are any indication, the entire thing is a complete fucking shit show. The unprofessional behaviors and outright incompetence blow my mind. Lying, backstabbing, emotional manipulation, crying, fucked up head games... Woman are ruthless with one another. A man will talk some shit dur…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 05:42 PM
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...and a woman who doesn't respect her man won't stay with him. She will treat him like shit, fuck around on him and, one day, take him for all he's worth in divorce court.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 04:13 PM
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Haha! That's hilarious. My mediator was a former judge, well respected in the community. He told her dumb ass shark lawyer, right in front of her, that his case was incredibly weak. Her lawyer actually lost his shit, swore, yelled and tried to have the mediator thrown out of his office. Mediator said, "I've worked with him for over a decade and have never seen him behave like that." He was visibly shocked. It was a lot of stupid drama. They had played all kinds of games with the numbers, artific…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 05:08 AM
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Agreed. I'm troubled by all of these "murder the bitch" comments. Fuck that, I'd liquidate everything and retire to a beach somewhere in the tropics outside of the reach of the U.S. family court system. Bitch would never hear from me again and would never see a single cent.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:25 PM
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Right, and if you don't find out in time because she doesn't bother to tell you, you're fucked. You'll pay CS for 18-22+ years even if a DNA test proves you aren't the father. You missed the deadline and it doesn't matter why. You're just fucked. In some states that deadline is only six months. This is the kind of shit that would cause a man like me to leave the country.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 10:17 PM
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Essentially, she thought divorce meant I should just disappear from her life with ZERO changes Exactly this. It's what they all want. They can't seem to understand that a man's resources comes with that man attached. You can't just dump him and expect continued access to his wealth. Unfortunately, our supposed "justice" system gives them exactly that, which is why I'll never marry again. If my girlfriend and I break up, I keep what's mine and she keeps what's hers. The cushy upper middle class l…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:57 PM
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That minecraft comment thread pissed me the fuck off. Bunch of bitches claiming there must be a good reason, surely the father is verbally abusing the child or talking shit about the mother and on and on. Except he still had partial custody of his boy and can say whatever the fuck he wants in person while they're together with no record of it. So tell me again how the minecraft ban is about protecting the boy from his father? There's absolutely no logic in that thought process. You're not protec…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:43 PM
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The state says child support is for the children. You can't opt out of it. Not even if both parents agree. At least that's what my divorce attorney told me. While I suppose there's nothing stopping the ex wife from giving the money right back to her ex husband, in practice I doubt this has ever happened.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:30 PM
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Came here to say this. I'd like to say I was completely shocked by "Carolyn's" response, but this shit just doesn't surprise me anymore. The bitch fucks up big time, but it's still all the man's fault and he must be shamed for his (completely understandable) response. Homeboy just dodged a bullet.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 12:03 AM
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A man's commitment is incredibly valuable. We try to get pussy from chicks, they try to get commitment from us. Don't give your commitment up for free and for god's sake don't let a bitch guilt you into committing if you don't want to. If you want to commit to a girl, make her work for it. Make her earn it. Practice saying no. Phrase it however you want. "I'm not looking to settle down just yet." ... "I just got out of a long term relationship and am not ready to get back into one now." ... "I'm…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 04:40 PM
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Took care of that several years ago.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 04:05 PM
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For some reason it never really occurred to me I could be making extra money via side jobs. Oh man, find something you're passionate about or otherwise good at and get to it! I did a lot of buying & selling. eBay, craigslist, Amazon. I'd hit up local auctions and buy things I knew were underpriced then turn a profit moving them online. I was always into cars and I'm a good negotiator, so I'd find cool cars, buy them for less than their value, fix them up a bit and sell them for a profit. Often m…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 06:30 PM
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We will have to agree to disagree. I refuse to provide financial and emotional resources (commitment) to a woman who spends a bunch of one on one time with other dudes. I know what happens when a man and a woman are emotionally close enough to spend this time together without their significant others. Especially if they're traveling long distances to do it. Quickest way to see the truth is to say, "Sounds like fun, when do we leave?" Watch that hamster try to rationalize a hundred reasons why yo…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 06:18 PM
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How much more successful people in general are when they don't have to deal with married life. It depends on the person. Some men are content to sit on their asses and play video games, watch tv and so on for hours every day. For those men, a wife and child may be the push they need to go make something of themselves. If you've already got drive and ambition, though, most women are only going to hold you back. With me as the only income earner, my family lived paycheck to paycheck for years at f…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 05:37 PM
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He can't dump her for having suspicions just yet. Like hell he can't. What sort of world do you live in where you're stuck with someone you don't like because you don't yet have a "good enough reason" to leave her? You can divorce a bitch for any reason or no reason at all. Who gives a damn what he gets labeled? It doesn't matter what you do, somebody is going to label you. I got labeled all sorts of nasty things when I dumped my wife. Lost an entire social circle of friends, but you know what, …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 10:00 AM
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No amount of reality could rain down hard enough to break that little solipsistic bubble. Sure it can. The guy is probably a typical beta bucks, which means he's bringing home the majority of the bacon if not all of it. The best way to humble a bitch is to cut her off. This is a long play and you have to be very patient with the process. First you set your finances up for divorce. Have a plan for every possible scenario and a little cash stashed away to hold you over. Then you drop that hammer l…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 09:26 AM
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Husband is a fucking pussy. If your woman goes on a trip to see a guy, she's fucking him. Period. Next that bitch. Run that male hamster and pretend she's not cheating if you want, but next her anyway on the grounds that a good wife doesn't spend a bunch of time hanging with other dudes. Oh, she'll call you jealous and insecure and attempt every shaming tactic she knows, but who cares? She'd rather hang with surfer dude than her man. That's fucked up. Why the fuck any man would work to put a roo…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 04:00 AM
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you gotta give the lady some benefit of the doubt and call it something other than consensual sex No, we sure as fuck do not. Look, I'm sympathetic to their plight. Really, I am. But if a girl goes along with what's happening without resistance, never says no and appears to be into it, that shit is consensual. Period. I can't read her fucking mind. It's her job to say no. If she's been brutally traumatized to the point where she can't do that, she has no business going out in public on her own. …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 03:40 PM
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Great submission and analysis. When I was married, a friend of mine setup a small home gym and started doing p90x. He was talking about it constantly and I found it intriguing, so I did a couple of workouts with him. Loved it, picked myself up some weights and the DVDs and started it myself. Ex wife's hamster went wild with accusations of cheating. "I'm supposed to believe that out of nowhere you want to lift weights?!" Crazy fucking bitch. Dread the shit out of them. Once she's convinced you're…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 03:12 PM
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Depends on the state, but yes, this is a thing. Some states also force you to pay for college. I don't know how this is legal... The kid is a fucking adult and I still have to pay? What the fuck?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 04:52 AM
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Why are you still together? Honest question. My ex wife didn't want me as her husband. She treated me like shit, friend zoned me for months at a time and so on. Eventually I'd had enough and turned her loose. When she realized I was leaving her she did everything in her power to try and change my mind. It wasn't me she wanted... She only loved the financial security I provided. Well, I'm older and wiser now and that shit comes with a price. You want to be with me, I have some fucking expectation…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 04:32 AM
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I dated a girl for 4 years and could never get an answer as to why she was doing various things, or what her goal was. In all likelihood, she honestly doesn't know. Most people don't have goals and don't understand their own behavior. This is especially true with women. They operate on emotion. They do whatever feels good in the moment. I think that's fucked up. As someone who plans for the future and analyzes my own decisions to estimate and quantify their impact on my long term goals, I find i…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 05:30 PM
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most feminist thinkers do not merely push for equal opportunity, but pure equality in all senses This. They demand equality but refuse to earn it. It's simply the princess syndrome masquerading as equality. "Give me free shit because I'm a special snowflake" is what it amounts to. or even superiority of women They already believe themselves superior and are pushing it everywhere they can... and they're winning. Look at the countless cases of men being asked to move on flights because airlines wo…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 02:16 PM
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A Red Pill man should never do counseling. Ever. Here's how it works: You pay $150-250 per hour to listen to your woman bitch to a complete stranger about everything that is wrong in the relationship. Then you continue paying by the hour while you listen to the counselor explain how it's all your fault and give you a list of things you need to be doing to make things work. It is designed to shame you into obedience and compliance with whatever whims your woman may have. If your relationship "nee…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 08:09 PM
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The Social Justice campaign to demand compliance from everyone ...is a fucking joke. I get off on offending people. I really do. If you show me you're offended by my words, I'm only going to amp that shit up harder. Why, because fuck you that's why. These pussies have no power except that which you give them. Oh, you're going to shame me? And if I refuse to be shamed into compliance, then what? They got nothing. They talk tolerance and acceptance continuously, yet shame the piss out of men for b…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 06:33 PM
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You're feeling anxiety. That's not the feeling we're talking about. When someone mentions a "gut feeling", it isn't a sense of worry or concern. It isn't a dread or a fear, nor a feeling that you shouldn't be doing this or shouldn't be here. It does not trigger a fight or flight response like the anxiety you've dealt with. It's more of a curiosity, a keen and present feeling that "something isn't right here." Good for you on learning to control your anxiety, though.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 03:27 PM
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this is a business strategy in attempt to bring reddit profit That's not the entire picture. It can't be. It would be trivial to simply not advertise on subs like fatpeoplehate, or even allow advertisers to select subs they want (or don't want) their ads to appear on. This is not rocket science. There may be business owners who might actually be interested in advertising to the likes of fat haters, so if anything reddit is reducing its potential income by reducing the size of its audience. This …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 09:44 PM
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There are worse things than a pregnancy prank. My friend's girlfriend actually was pregnant but, knowing he would want an abortion (because they'd talked about it previously and he said he didn't want kids), she waited to tell him until she started showing and it was too late. She then claimed she "didn't know" she was pregnant. Now they're married with two kids...
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 03:37 PM
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Women in every field cry at work. I have personally witnessed it on several occasions. One time I asked this girl three times to do something. All three times she said she had done it. All three times she lied. After the third time she realized (I didn't even have to say it) that she completely and totally fucked up and just broke down in tears. Our male boss decided this was my fault. Now I'm not the type to tattle so he didn't know the history, but while he was in mid freak out I got in his fa…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 03:26 PM
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She'll play the part of the innocent princess, too. A "good girl" who "doesn't do those things" he wants in the bedroom even though she's done all that and more with others before. Funny how the guy who pays the biggest price (marriage, loyalty, financial support and professing his eternal love) gets the least out of her.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:32 PM
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I'll chime in, too. Ex wife was crazy jealous. Always accusing me of affairs, caught her going through my phone (and lying about it) several times and so on. I never cheated on her, but she was accusing me on the regular. During the divorce the truth came out, bitch had an affair with my best friend.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:29 PM
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They don't cook, they don't clean, they hardly fuck.... What the fuck are they good for, then? Companionship? My fucking dog is a better companion. If a woman can't bring more to the table than her, I have no interest.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:28 AM
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Half of what shit? Dude is still a pup. Any of you young boys worried about half your dumb shit need to let it go now. If he stays with her, she's still going to get half his shit some day. Only it will be half his 30-something year old self's shit and that's going to be a shit load more shit than the poor fucker has now. In the meantime she's going to spend another decade fucking Chads behind his back and spending most of his money on herself and her bastard child all while giving him little mo…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:15 AM
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Yep, works the same way in many (most?) US states. If you're married, the law says it's yours. You can challenge paternity but the time period to do so is short and varies by state.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:59 AM
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If someone in TRP got "cheated" on, we'd next her and move on no feelings hurt. Next her and move on, yes, but no feelings hurt? No way bro. I'd be torn up if I caught my girl cheating. There might even be tears... alone, with nobody else around and after the anger wore off. I'm pretty sure most of us are still human.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/15 10:50 PM
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You haven't moved on. The next time she wants to come visit, tell her no.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/15 03:51 PM
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Why the fuck is a no-fault divorce even possible? Simple, family courts got sick and fucking tired of all the arguing, lying, he said/she said and so on. There are so many divorces going on there's just no time to listen to a couple bicker about every little detail, review all their evidence against one another's infidelities and so on. So the courts basically threw their hands up and said, "You know what, fuck it. We don't care who did what. The marriage is broken, you want out, we don't care w…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 06:26 AM
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We're going to levy a fine and bankrupt your business if you refuse to bake a cake for a gay couple's wedding! Look, here's the deal: We have set some standards that business owners must meet. One of those standards is a fairly blanket non-discrimination clause. It happens to be a standard I support. You can't run a business in this country and just refuse to serve people based on the color of their skin, for example. You can't refuse to serve disabled people and so on. Homosexuality has been ad…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 08:27 PM
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I don't blame people for the emulation. It's natural to see something you want to become and slowly, through practice, change your behavior to fit that ideal. I was a whipped, married, beta bitch for many years. I had to start standing up to my wife one little step at a time. That emulation is their first step. The problem is they don't have a fucking backbone and aren't prepared to adequately defend their position nor face the consequences. I had to reach my breaking point where I was ready and…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 04:58 AM
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Great analogy! Gave me a good laugh, thank you. I just don't give a fuck anymore. I've been doing this for so long that I've mastered abundance mentality. I'm not worried about ever being alone. There are countless bitches who would kill to have a guy like me, so I don't let their shit get to me anymore. I laugh it off and do my thing.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 04:37 AM
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This right here. My friends' wives also don't like me and for years I couldn't figure it out. Eventually I was able to put it together: I can't be controlled. I do what I want. This either infuriates women or makes their panties wet. Sometimes both. Apparently after hanging out with me, certain friends would go back home and attempt to emulate some of my behaviors until their wives put them back in their place. This was considered my fault. They came home from my place "with a bad attitude." Poo…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 03:17 PM
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wonder why you bothered them about something they did not really do. Haha! Ain't that the fucking truth. I can't even count the number of times I've watched a woman do something with my own eyes and when called out, she completely denies it. A girl I used to live with was notorious for that. I don't get it, does this actually work on anyone? If I saw it happen there's nothing you can do or say to convince me otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 03:12 PM
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18-23. Some states mandate child support through college now. Google "post-secondary educational support."
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 03:00 PM
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if you tell people to draw a picture of scientist, 95% of them are going to draw a man That's because most scientists are men. Tell her, you want to be a scientist, honey? Go to college, get a degree in a relevant field and go be a scientist. Not only is there nothing stopping her, colleges will throw free money at her - there are countless scholarships available only to women. Not that this response will help. With women, it's all feels before reals. Whatever she feels becomes her reality and t…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 06:46 PM
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Gender discrimination is illegal and has been for decades. Point this out, ask her who is breaking federal law and why hasn't she turned them in to the EEOC? Ask her, "Is your company paying you less because you're a woman?" If she says yes and can prove it, she has the basis for a very lucrative lawsuit under title 7 of the Civil Rights Act and the Federal Equal Pay Act. In my experience, they can't answer this question because the truth doesn't fit their perceived victim status. Or they'll jus…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 06:33 PM
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Not so. You can do plenty of body weight exercises in your home. You can get a cheap set of free weights off craigslist for the cost of one month's gym membership. Being fit does not require a gym or even a lot of equipment. I have a pull up bar and free weights, takes up very little room.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 07:45 PM
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I was all for equality I still am. 100%. Women need to be held accountable exactly as men are. No more special favors, preferential treatments and so on. They should be sentenced just as harshly in criminal cases. They should work as hard as we do. Bitches want equality, let's fucking give it to them. My LTR is a self-proclaimed feminist. She loves the equality so I make her pay her half of everything even though it pisses her off and likely contributes to the inevitable death of our relationshi…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 06:07 PM
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Several of my colleagues worked under her at HP. They were not impressed.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:56 PM
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If you do this, it is very important to have separate assets. Any assets you pay for, such as a house, should be in your name only (unless she's paying for half). 100% of expenses toward that asset should be paid from an account in your name only that your paycheck is deposited into. Never co-mingle funds. Never accept money from her for deposit into that account. Never let her contribute money toward the asset if you want to keep it and the equity after a breakup. If you let the money mix toget…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 08:40 PM
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I'm at the point in my life where I've learned to treat every relationship as temporary. Especially when it comes to women. She isn't mine, I just get to enjoy her at this particular moment in time. She's fucked others before and will fuck others again. Plan for this shit, expect it to happen and you'll be far better off in the long run. How do you keep a woman faithful? You don't. Either she is or she isn't and most aren't. It doesn't matter if you're Chad Thundercock or Billy Betabucks. Doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 08:00 PM
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How many women teachers talk with pride about how, especially at the beginning of their career, they would go home and cry every night? Can confirm. My sister is a teacher. She cries over situations at work at least once a week. I'm talking actual full on tears running down her face crying. She does it at work sometimes, too. For years I thought she had some kind of emotional problem but it seems this happens to a lot of them. Can you imagine a man breaking down and crying at work in a meeting f…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:04 PM
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Not if you leave the country upon seeing the test results.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 03:28 PM
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What I wrote wasn't an ultimatum. It seems people are having difficulty understanding the difference between an ultimatum and a boundary. From your own link: An ultimatum is "a direct threat to get someone to do what you want them to." My example was the opposite, it was a demand to not do something. Telling someone what you're going to do if they act a fool is not an ultimatum. Demanding they "do x or else" is. "Tell me the truth right now or we're through." Ultimatum. I'm attempting to coerce …
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 03:19 PM
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In my experience, ultimatums are a bad move Agreed, but I'm not sure where you're seeing the ultimatum in my response. An ultimatum involves a demand the other party do something. It's a threat to coerce action. Setting a boundary or otherwise drawing a line in the sand is not an ultimatum. Explaining that you have no tolerance for lying and will not continue a relationship with a liar is not an ultimatum.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 02:59 PM
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I'd address it. I would calmly let her know I don't have any problem with her borrowing my shit, but she needs to ask first. I would have a polite discussion about it and when she thinks it's all cool and resolved, I'd stern up my voice and add, "One more thing, darling: If I ever catch you lying to me again, you and I are through. If I can't trust your word over a $5 pair of headphones, how the fuck am I supposed to trust you when it matters?" The headphones are a non-issue, it's the lying that…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 05:45 AM
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It's like you have to write the terms of everything down and then refer to it later to make sure she hasn't pulled one over on you. Yeah, I used to think this way, too. Here's the thing: They fucking know. Those bitches are crafty and smart as hell, they know the deal. She hasn't forgotten. She's just playing you, hoping you've changed your mind or relaxed your position or completely forgotten yourself where you drew that line in the sand. I don't play their games anymore. I don't have to prove …
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 06:50 AM
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I don't really think it's a grand conspiracy to have both men and women featured prominently and smartly in material. If there are ample real life examples available of both men and women in the situation being taught, then I'd agree with you. I have no problem giving women glory when it is earned and due. I take issue with the laborious steps one must take to stretch and distort reality when this is not the case. If, for example, we are dealing with a subject that is 95% male dominated, why sho…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/15 11:08 PM
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"I'm not real happy because of this and this and it seriously makes me doubt my employment here if you aren't respecting my value to this company. These are the things that need to be done for me to feel happy with my employment here..." Thank you for making my point. What you just wrote is not an ultimatum. An ultimatum carries with it a demand and a threat. Your words carry neither. They are an expression of your position, a sharing of your frustration and a list of things that might help ease…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 05:59 AM
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The key is not to be a dick about it Giving an ultimatum is being a dick. You tell them what you want and if you don't get it, then you do what you have to do. There's no need to threaten somebody with "if you don't, I'm going to." I was once passed over for a promotion. I thanked them for considering me and started looking for a new job. I'd take a few hours of vacation time for morning interviews, then show up to work in a suit and tie to finish the remainder of my day. They figured it out on …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:42 PM
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I don't really know if ultimatums work. I consider an ultimatum both a threat and an attempt to manipulate and control me. As a result I have a policy of calling that shit every time. "If you don't x, I'm going to y." Do it then, you pussy. You may have been able to persuade me using reasonable negotiation tactics but now I'm going to do everything in my power to ensure x doesn't happen. If you let someone force your hand with an ultimatum, he will do it again and again.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:34 PM
4

Truthfully, they scoff at the moon because they think they can do better.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 04:53 AM
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rape advocates claim that rape victims often act in ways towards their rapist that may seem irrational to observers Of course they do. When their stories don't add up, they make up more nonsense to explain it away. Listen, there is nothing magical about being raped that causes victims to behave irrationally. Rape victims don't text their rapists cutesie shit about missing them and wanting to hang out. Little girls pretending to be raped for attention and/or vengeance do.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 04:14 AM
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Shit, my first grader writes better than that bitch.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 04:08 AM
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You can't prenup away assets acquired during marriage. Any increased equity is up for grabs. Say your little business is worth $100k. You've poured your heart and soul into it but it's still a tiny little shoestring operation. You get married and prenup the business. 5 years later it's worth $10M. You divorce. She gets half the $10M less the $100k it was worth when you married. Although that's not really accurate either. More likely scenario is her lawyer successfully manipulates the numbers and…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 01:05 PM
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I once gave a ride to a stranger. A girl, maybe 18-19 years old. Cute, too. Needed a shower, but would have cleaned up nice. I agreed to take her where she wanted to go. During the ride, she offered to fuck me in exchange for a shower and a warm place to sleep that night. I declined her offer for a variety of reasons, one of those being that at the moment I bumped into her I was on my way home from my long term girlfriend's house. She had just finished draining my balls with her delightful tongu…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 06:15 AM
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I can tell that a couple of their feelings would be hurt if they knew I was actually seeing others. Really? How can you know what someone would do given information they don't have yet unless you've seen them handle that situation before or they've outright told you? I understand picking up on social cues, but have you considered that you may be projecting your own feelings onto them? Women are extremely malleable. They will generally go along with whatever you're into if they're into you. If yo…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 05:19 PM
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Then become a man other women want.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 01:31 AM
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That's when you trade her to another team and go hunting for a replacement.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 01:28 AM
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now I don't have a gf because she walked out, her reason being, I was becoming cold and distant Tell me, why did you try this "cool trick" to begin with? Were you happy in your relationship? I'm going out on a limb and assuming the answer is no. If everything was going great you wouldn't be fucking around with the Red Pill. Men don't come here to learn how to fuck up their perfect relationships, they come here because whatever they've been doing isn't working for them. So your girl (that you wer…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 01:17 AM
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You've got to plow a 4 to appreciate a 9.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 05:12 PM
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We have thrown money at women to get them into STEM fields for years. It doesn't work. Most of them can't do the job, their brains simply aren't logical enough to write linear code. There are definitely exceptions. I've worked with some very talented female programmers and admins but they are few and far between and usually look like men, likely high T. One of my acquaintances is married to a big fat ugly beached whale feminist SJW. She believes the reason women don't do STEM is because all of t…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 05:10 PM
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How fat is too fat? If I can't put her on the tail of my crotch rocket, she's too fat. Generally speaking, 110-130lbs on a 5'0-5'7 girl is my preference. That said, every man is different. I have several friends who are big guys and love fat women. More power to 'em.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 04:38 PM
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So I'm late to the party and will probably get shit on for this, but: Who here really cares if you're banned? I mean, really. You can make another account in seconds. I have a Red Pill account and another for everything else. On my everything else account, they welcome me with open arms. Even agree with a lot of what I have to say, which is no different than what I say here with the exception that I clean up my language and talk like a gentleman. They love Red Pill truths when you feed them with…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 03:40 AM
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A man should never give up something he loves just to get a girl. Your happiness is more important than access to some judgmental pussy. There are plenty of girls out there who share your interests or at the very least will be happy to occupy herself in some other pursuit while you do you.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 02:55 PM
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I bang anything that looks good. I don't give a fuck about her age as long as it's at least 18.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:16 AM
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Apple Watch has all the hardware you might need including a fairly decent mic from what I hear (mine hasn't shipped yet). I bet an app could be written quite easily.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 07:41 PM
2

You're wrong. I also live in an "at-will" state. You still have protections. What your employer did was illegal, it's likely you could have won a lawsuit. If this happened recently, you should find yourself a good shark lawyer who will take the case on contingency and pursue.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 07:39 PM
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...but it's true love! He's loved her forever and she finally sees it! See, being an 8 year orbiter works! You just have to wait long enough, always be there for her and eventually you will get occasional access to her pussy in exchange for raising and supporting her bastard child. I can't wait to read the update a couple of years from now where she's no longer haaaaaappy, makes him move out and pay alimony and child support and, oh yes, moves the real baby daddy in. While still taking his child…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 07:20 PM
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Forget the flat feet, I wouldn't do it just because. Court martial me if you like, but fuck you I won't do what you tell me. I decided in my teens that I had too much attitude to ever be successful in the military.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 03:05 PM
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I typically ascribe such stupidity to booze and that female's lack of familiarity with the damage even a single well-aimed punch or kick or throw can do to the human body. Booze, yes, but women know what men are capable of. They start shit because they know they can get away with it. They know if he lays a hand on her a million white knights will show up to defend mi'lady's honor, cops will drag him off to jail and she'll get half his shit, or if not married, at the very least a fresh new victim…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 02:58 PM
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Some states actually do revoke your passport. I can't understand how this is legal. We've brought back debtor's prison for so called "deadbeat dads" and now we're effectively locking them in the country? Makes me so angry. I'm with you, I'd find my way into another country one way or another.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 03:01 AM
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It's not a theory, it's a fact. Women get cash and prizes when they divorce, by and large. Current laws practically incentivize them.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 06:37 AM
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Well, it was relevant to me... I wanted to fuck my wife on our wedding day. She wasn't into it that day nor the following decade and a half. Funny, because before the wedding, when we were dating, we fucked like rabbits. I assumed getting married and living together would mean more sex. Boy, was I ever wrong.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 06:32 AM
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My question is how can she be on my health insurance plan while she's pregnant if we're not legally married? She can't. My state has "civil unions" which would allow this without a marriage. Unfortunately they're only for gay people. I looked into it and they won't issue a civil union to a straight couple. Sounds like discrimination to me.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 06:14 PM
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Giving women the ability to declare divorce without consequence Oh, it's worse than that. Not only are there no consequences, she gets cash and prizes. The state practically incentivizes women to divorce.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 06:12 PM
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permanent spousal support (alimony) payment be increased from $800 to $1000 per month for the rest of her life or until she remarries. Fuck. That. I would quit my job, move to another state or leave the country. No joke. Fuck that shit. Bitch is making six figures and he still has to pay her $12k a year for life? Nope, nope and more nope.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 06:09 PM
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It blows my mind that the last name thing is so fucking controversial. So I'm a total shit lord pig for insisting my wife take my family name? Fuck that nonsense. Not taking my name is a deal breaker for marriage. Actually, wanting to get married at all is a deal breaker for me... I'm done with that stupidity. When my ex wife and I announced our engagement, my father turned to her and said, in front of everyone, "Are you going to take our family name, or are you going to do that hyphen bullshit?…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 07:56 PM
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she doesn't have to want to fuck them That's the entire fucking point, Sherlock. Women don't want to fuck shy, sensitive guys. Any man who listens to what they say ("Be yourself! Be a feminist! Be sensitive! Share your feelings!") will quickly find himself masturbating all alone with tears streaming down his sensitive pussy face while his oneitis gets plowed by a Chad who is the exact opposite of everything that bitch said she wanted him to be.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:42 PM
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how exactly you aren't financially hurting if you were skimmed for a proportion of what you were worth? My ex took six figures from me. It was about 2/3rds of my assets at the time, plus a substantial monthly child support check. It's been about 3 years now and I've replaced almost all of it. I simply vowed to get on the other side of the situation as fast as possible, so I buckled down and worked my ass off to make it happen. To think that I stayed with her all those extra years because I was a…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 09:38 PM
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he will genuinely strive to make you happy Hah! This nonsense never fails to elicit a laugh. Nobody can "make you happy." Happiness has to come from within. Men who don't understand this pedestalize and worship women who don't understand this, then wonder why everyone in this situation is miserable. We're all looking to find happiness in one another and that doesn't work long term.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 09:12 PM
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but throw out options or say "we go here" and she loves it. Not always. Often they reject every spot you come up with. "I don't care where we go, pick something." Great, we're going to x. "I don't feel like x tonight. Pick something else." Bitch, I'm about to pick a new dinner partner for the evening if you keep this shit up. This is more of a problem with LTRs. A girl you just met who is into you will follow you anywhere. They're much less compliant once they get comfortable in the relationship…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 08:31 PM
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If that means I live single, so be it. Don't care. But I am not going to be used again. This is the right attitude. Stick by it and you will never go wrong.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:34 AM
1

Work/life balance is going to be specific to each individual. What works for you may not work for me. I work more than most and this does not leave much free time for playing. I'm ok with that as I get immense satisfaction out of my job and my projects. Others may need more free time in their lives. Money isn't everything, if you're working your nuts off but you aren't happy, what's the point? I'd rather be broke and happy than rich and miserable. Do what works for you. If you're happy with the …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 03:16 AM
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It's not the body that's the problem, it's the mind. It's like they don't know how to have fun anymore.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 05:00 PM
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they feel entitled to the absolute best of everything Crazy, isn't it? The entitlement blows my fucking mind. What's really funny is after pushing men away in droves, they reach the conclusion that all men are assholes. It never occurs to them that they might be the problem.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 04:56 PM
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None whatsoever. They can spend it on anything they want as long as the kid gets fed and has some variety of roof over his head.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 06:45 AM
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and cutting drug addicts off from welfare While I agree with you, there's a problem with implementation: Every state that has tried this has lost money in the process. It turns out there really aren't that many welfare recipients using drugs. The numbers are far lower than the general population (those of us who work for a living), likely because welfare recipients are broke as fuck and can't afford drugs. Duh. The end result is the government spends more of our money drug testing these people t…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 06:17 AM
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It actually gives the woman the power to walk away with out consequences cash and prizes. There we go. That's more accurate. Women are incentivized to divorce by the family court system. Is it any wonder they initiate over 2/3rds of the time?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 05:53 AM
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Sounds like you have a decision to make. We aren't going to make it for you. If you stay with her, you'll have to accept her just the way she is. This isn't something she can fix at the gym. You might find it easier to relate to her by pretending she's a small child and interacting on that level. You know she's dumb, so instead of getting frustrated, just laugh it off and let it go.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 06:57 PM
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Oh, I know you weren't defending it. My comment was directed at the women who believe this and the family courts that support them.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 01:54 PM
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refinanced with both parties agreeing to the loan. Friend of mine got screwed that way. His wife came with a bunch of student loan debt. Convinced him to refi his house (that he had before they married) to pay it off because the interest rate was lower. He thought that was a wise financial decision. A year or two later she up and left and never came back.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:37 AM
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I don't understand. The bitch cheated on you and you still hang out with her? Still have feelings for her? Why do you put up with that kind of emotional abuse from someone and still have them in your life at all? She fucking cheated on you! She isn't your friend. She's a cold hearted lying cheating tramp whore bitch cunt. Stop seeing her. Stop talking to her. Block her number so you don't have to read her texts. When she catches up to you in real life and asks WTF, you say, "Yeah, I've thought a…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:53 AM
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his experience mirrors mine so closely that it's eerie Also mine. Wife was not pleasant to be around, wouldn't fuck me and so on until I reached my breaking point. As soon as I had one foot out the door, she suddenly changed her tune. It was too little, too late. By that point I knew I could do better, so I did. Bitch should have treated beta-me better, she'd still have me.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:26 AM
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Invested at a paltry 2% rate of return and you could completely blow $20M a year and never touch the principal. $1.6M every fucking month to piss away on whatever you want, next month another $1.6M will be there waiting for you. I can't even imagine such a lifestyle. It's almost unfathomable. Things like vehicles and houses that most of us work our asses off for years to afford become token impulse purchases.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:18 AM
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I'm so tired of this "lifestyle she's accustomed to" horse shit. That lifestyle comes with a man attached to it. He made the money, that's his lifestyle. Lose the man, you should lose the lifestyle. Don't wife (or knock) them up and these things play out much more logically.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:10 AM
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If it's easy then they're doing it wrong. I have to disagree. Yes, it's a full time job, but it's the easiest full time job I've ever seen. I've been a single father for a few years now and this shit is cake. I feed my son, play with him, do our laundry, clean our home, take him to & from activities, keep him on task with chores and homework, help with said homework, talk to him, teach him things and so on. I also work a full time job, run a small business and do everything else a man has to do …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 12:15 AM
2

I'm straight and I'd for sure fuck a dude for a million dollars. No shame.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 05:49 PM
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Unfortunately, I don't think many stay at home mothers are happy these days. I know quite a few - my ex wife was a "full time mommy" and hung out with a lot of women in the same boat. A full half of my coworkers have stay at home wives. I don't see much appreciation for the easy life their husbands provide for them. The ones I've met are bitchy and moody. They dump the kids on hubby as soon as he walks in the door because they "deserve some time off." No consideration for the long day he just pu…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 05:09 PM
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Courts in most states don't care. See: No-fault divorce laws.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 06:27 AM
2

It's not just you, bro. The Disney stuff is the worst - I just about gagged when princess whatsherface and beta sled boy had that weird moment at the end of Frozen. He's bumbling all over himself while she basically toys with him. So lame. I want to see the Real Life version where she cock teases him relentlessly, makes him do her a bunch of favors, gives him a mountain of false hope and then fucks his best friend. The worst one I watched recently: 50 Shades. I never read the books, but based on…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 05:48 AM
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(outside of limiting one of their phones to just parents and grandparents as punishment that I agreed with) Yeah, this isn't as bad. I did this with my daughter until she was 18. If she didn't do her chores, parental controls came on.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 05:44 PM
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My ex used to play games with our son's phone. She was quite fond of taking it away from him on trumped up charges so he couldn't text me while he was with her. I resolved it by buying him a phone on my dime and adding a line to my account. Then told her she was not under any circumstances to touch that phone and told him if she tried to take it, not to hand it over. Had to deal with a barrage of projection where she accused me of undermining her parenting, as if keeping him from talking to his …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 06:01 AM
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Word to the wise: Start squirreling assets away now. Drop the electronic deposit from your paycheck. Hand carry it to the bank and deposit it less whatever cash you need for "spending." Get cash back on debit purchases, hit the atm occasionally and so on. A little here, a little there, nothing unreasonable. Have any stuff around the house that might be worth something and you could live without? Craigslist that shit, turn it in to untraceable cash. Hide the money somewhere safe and don't tell a …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 05:49 AM
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So she goes to a party in revealing clothing and drinks herself silly... without her boyfriend? Then she flirts with other guys, winds up fucking one of them... and none of this is her fault? I want to hear the story she told the boyfriend before she went out that evening, what she was supposedly doing and why he couldn't come. No, wait, I've heard that shit before. "Girls night out. Just a low key thing with some girls from work. We're all going to crash at Tiffany's apartment later so don't wa…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 05:01 AM
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Its just a bit ridiculous to assume that every rape claim is false. Until she files a police report and produces enough compelling evidence that a real investigation is opened, she's full of shit. A good number of "rape victims" never file police reports nor follow through to seek any sort of justice against their supposed rapist. Why do you think that is? Radfems will hamster that it's just too emotionally devastating and seeking justice would force her to "relive the rape over and over again."…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 02:19 PM
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A woman... cannot be relied upon to take a pill consistently at the same time every day without interruption. FTFY. None of them take their birth control pills seriously. The entire idea is ludicrous, I really don't know why they even bother with the damn things. Always assume she's as fertile as a tropical island unless you go to the doctor with her and watch them give her that depo shot. Even then there are no guarantees. Or just take birth control into your own hands: I got a vasectomy so I d…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 04:05 AM
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Counselors are much more than completely worthless. They're downright fucking dangerous. Ex wife dragged me to various counselors for years. She was prone to firing them on a whim and making excuses as to why, though I eventually realized it was the moment they said anything positive about me or suggested there were areas she could work on, too. She was basically shopping for someone to tell her what she wanted to hear and she eventually found it in a male white knight religious "counselor" (wit…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:38 PM
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Either that or she's the world's greatest deceiver. She has a pussy. She's the world's greatest deceiver. They're automatically enrolled in Feminine Wiles 101 at a very young age. I have seen behind the veil on a few occasions and I have been shocked.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:35 AM
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I'd imagine MtF conversions hamster just the same as a natural born woman given the amount of estrogen they take to make these things happen. I can appreciate your desire for a woman who isn't a such a pain in the ass. They do exist - I've worked with talented female STEM graduates who were just cool, level headed, logical girls. They tend to max out around a 4 on the looks scale.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:08 AM
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Honest question: What's gay about fucking a person with tits and a pussy?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:55 AM
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I've seen photos of trannies that were perfect 10s and I don't throw that number around lightly. Insanely hot. Almost better than a real woman. Most were Thai. I'd probably fuck one if the opportunity presented itself. No shame.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:52 AM
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I'd imagine there was one itty bitty little reason anti_erection_man ran away from that threesome.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:19 AM
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Brother, if you have time for a full post on your philosophy, how you live, how you got there and so on, I'd love to read it. What I've seen from you so far has been outstanding and I think others could benefit. If you do it, PM me so I don't miss out.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:03 AM
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If she works at McDonald's making 25k a year, that's all she gets per year in child support. You're being far too generous. Why should she get a fucking dime? I have to go to work every day to feed my son and put a roof over his head. She can't do the same? I reject the "lifestyle we're accustomed to" argument. If a bitch leaves leave a six figure guy and the best she can do is minimum wage, that's her new lifestyle. It baffles my mind how we let society get to the point where a bitch can whore …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:24 PM
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and the thing with the husband getting a "man cave" It's because married men in this country have little to no say about what goes on in the homes they are by and large paying for. The women move in and decide exactly how it's going to be decorated, how the furniture will be arranged and so on. They're also quick to isolate him from his friends, usually by being so bitchy and brooding that nobody wants to hang out when she's around. Enter the man cave. Usually it's the garage or an unused room i…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 10:12 PM
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OP's girl is implying he should shape up and behave as she expects. That's exactly right. I know where this is coming from: I've been running a lot of dread lately. I used to do a lot of those cute boyfriend things girls love so much, but that was back when she used to charm me. She's become complacent over the past several months and has been demanding more and more of me while simultaneously giving less, so I've taken a big step back. I know I can do better. Hotter, younger girls hit on me fre…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 07:36 PM
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Yet, if she truly 'has her shit together', no doubt she's snagged some dude working an equally hard, more likely an even harder job. Exactly my point. I work far more hours than she does in a significantly more demanding position and make twice the money. She thinks she has it hard and needs me to do all this extra pampering? Bitch please. Don't get me wrong, I think my girl is a catch. She does work hard. She pays her own bills. All the fancy clothes and shoes and jewelry and bags that she rock…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 07:20 PM
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I was 16 the first time my mom tried to hit me. I don't even remember what she was pissed about, but she came into my room angry at something and during a heated discussion she took a swing at me. I saw it coming a mile away and grabbed her wrist mid-swing, she came at me with the other hand wide open for a slap. Caught that wrist too, then held on to both while she briefly struggled to break free. We were standing right in front of my bed, so I shoved her backwards. Bitch went flying. Landed on…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:52 PM
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Attractive her wife is Dude, her face is fucking wrecked. Unless the rest of her body is bangin' hot, she's a 5 at best. Her tits look great in this pic because they're engorged with milk. Nursing women usually have big firm titties.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:34 PM
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Calling the cops first can give you a good advantage. It worked here, but this is not the norm. Many jurisdictions in the US have policies that require someone to go to jail on a domestic violence call. Women often turn on the cops when their boyfriend/husband is about to be taken to jail and decide they don't really want to press charges after all. This is a huge waste of police resources, so they create policies such as this in an attempt to dissuade unnecessary calls. The vast majority of the…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:29 PM
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If your girlfriend is the cop calling type, drop her ass like a hot potato. If you involve the cops in my life in any way, shape or form, we're completely fucking done. DONE. GTFO out my life forever.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:21 PM
1

half your shit Two thirds is more accurate based on my experience. The lawyers take a substantial portion, too.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 09:28 AM
3

this shit is so irritating for short dudes. Don't let it irritate you. Bitches with unreasonable demands aren't worthy of your irritation. She can hold out for her magical perfect Adonis if she wants to. Wish her the best and be on your way. There are plenty of short girls who would be happy to date you.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 09:00 AM
1

The NSA is building a data center in Utah capable of storing several exabytes of data at a minimum (the actual number is classified). This shit is obscene.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 06:14 AM
2

You can effectively do the same thing with a VM. Boot it, use it, shut it down and never save state. Or use any bootable Linux distro. I'm about ready to give my old man a copy of Knoppix with strict instructions to boot that when he wants to browse porn. He always manages to get himself suckered into installing some lame ass malware.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 06:00 AM
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Those should be the first words out of every man's mouth when a bitch says, "I'm pregnant." We should teach this to our brothers and our sons, practice it frequently and truly embed it into the culture to the point where it's just automatic. Say it with me: "I want a paternity test." "I want a paternity test." "I want a paternity test." "Bitch, I ain't signing shit til I see the results of that mother fucking paternity test."
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 04:55 AM
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I'd say: False rape accusation Cuckolding, making you raise Chad Thundercock's kid by saying it's yours. Lying about being pregnant / other pregnancy games We've got to find room in this list for aborting your child without your consent, intentionally and systematically sabotaging your relationships with friends & family, isolating you from your support network, fucking your best friend and so on.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 04:49 AM
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She should have just said, "Hey, I need some help with my homework and you need your dick sucked. Come over." That shit would have worked on me.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 04:40 AM
2

Actually, they do. http://www.fox23.com/news/news/local/tulsa-bartender-arrested-over-serving-alcohol/nkQQd/#__federated=1 Many states have similar laws.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:15 AM
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And if the men were all drunk, too, then what? Who raped who? Who do we blame? It's only rape if the girl is passed the fuck out drunk and unable to consent. If she's alert enough to willingly open her legs and get her fuck on, that shit is consensual.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:10 AM
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These idiots are in every thread. I'm getting sick and fucking tired of seeing them. Maybe it happened, maybe it didn't, we'll never know and who really gives a fuck anyway? Even if it's pure bullshit, I still enjoyed the read and we can all learn a thing or two by discussing it. Maybe I'm too trusting, but I don't find this all that hard to believe. Young bitches ask that stupid question all the time. My ex wife did it on several occasions until I just started responding with "Yep" even if she …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:00 AM
1

Do you think children "shit test", or something similar where they subconsciously test boundaries to see if you'll hold them up? Those are the same thing if you ask me. Whether you call it a shit test, fitness test, testing boundaries, etc, it's simply someone trying to see what they can get away with. Everyone does it, though women and children seem to be particularly proficient.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:42 AM
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To be fair, she's not a plate. This is a clear LTR, they've been together two years. You absolutely have to mix a little beta in a long term deal. You can't be cocky and dismissive all the time, it makes you too distant. From his response it's clear this isn't the first time she's pulled this particular shit test. I'll bet he's already diffused it like you suggest on several occasions. She clearly didn't get the hint, so it was time to be more direct.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:37 AM
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Bull fucking shit. Violence requires the use of physical force. You jackasses keep trying to redefine words to fit your victim mentality - words are now "violence", consensual sex is now "rape" if the bitch had a drink or later changed her mind and so on. Keep it up and keep wondering why more and more men are pushing back harder than ever. You people created this subreddit. Your twisted new culture of shaming man into compliance with your feminist drivel is directly responsible for all of this.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 08:07 PM
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If a premarital asset, e.g., stock portfolio, is effectively kept as SEPARATE PROPERTY, it no longer falls under the purview of a martial asset , a.k.a. community property. Only the initial $100k. All of the interest & dividends occurred during the marriage and therefore count as marital assets. You can't prenup that stuff away. IANAL either, but I've talked to more than one and this is what they told me. In this particular case the man would keep his $100k and the rest would be split 50/50. Wel…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 05:25 AM
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they have you pegged in the first few minutes. This is not particularly a bad thing. I generally know within the first few seconds whether I'd fuck a girl or not. Usually long before she even opens her mouth. Once we begin to interact with one another, her behavior and mannerisms can change my position, though usually only in one direction: From a yes to a no. It is extremely rare for a no to change into a yes. It's all about attraction. Either she has what I'm looking for or she doesn't. Women …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 04:46 AM
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Women blow everything way the fuck out of proportion, especially if it means they get to play the victim. They love to be victims. It gets them sympathy as well as a free pass on shitty behavior. Look at how this chump is making excuses for her all because she's (supposedly) been victimized in the past. More often than not when I've actually had the opportunity to look into a woman's claims of victim hood I've found them way overblown if not outright fabricated. Hell, I've even seen it directed …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 10:32 PM
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Similar, used to have a wing woman I'd go out with. She had no interest in me until I started hooking up with someone else, then she got jealous and tried to sabotage things. Not worth it. Although damn that bitch was good for social proof. She'd find the hottest girls and bring them back to our table.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 07:19 PM
1

My understanding is that you aren't supposed to use steel wool on cast iron.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 07:15 PM
4

When I was a kid, my mom tried to make a new rule that I had to sit down to pee. Apparently there was a dribble or two on the seat one too many times (I was little, cut me some slack) and she'd had enough. Beta Dad went along with it, said he would do the same thing. I ignored her and continued to pee standing up. Even as a young boy I knew that was some dumb girly bullshit and there was no way I was going along with it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 03:46 PM
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Talk to an attorney in your state, but generally, no. Especially if you live in a community property state. Everything acquired during the marriage is split. Asset appreciation counts. What's worse, even the prenup'd assets can be "tainted" if you aren't very, very careful about how you handle them. I've heard of guys playing games with trusts and such so they don't really own their assets (on paper), but I've no idea if it works or how to do it. I'd imagine it's one of those things that the fil…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 02:22 AM
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I would still argue that people are generally better with a prenup than without one. You're absolutely right and I completely agree. If I were stupid enough to enter into another marriage, I wouldn't do it without a solid prenup and exit plan. What no woman has been able to explain to me yet is, what do I get out of it? That marriage contract carries a hell of a lot of legal and financial liability. Where is the incentive to sign it? What's the benefit to me? "You get me!" is the best they can c…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:53 PM
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No such thing. A prenup has to be customized for your situation. You both need separate lawyers. Every detail must be included. If you forget about an asset it can invalidate the whole thing. This shit is expensive.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:10 PM
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My LTR wants to get married and proposed a prenup. I said no and here's why: A prenup cannot cover assets acquired during the marriage. Therefore, every penny I save, every business transaction that goes well for me, anything I earn due to my own hard work and so on would all be up for grabs. Worse, the increased equity in my existing assets will also be up for grabs. My home, business and other investments. My 401k and pension and so on. I watched my ex wife's lawyer lie through his fucking tee…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:04 PM
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My rule of thumb: If she won't/didn't report it to the police, then it didn't happen. I don't buy into the feminist bullshit about how victims are too traumatized and just can't bear to "relive the experience over and over again." Fuck you. If you were honest to God raped and don't seek justice, you're a piece of shit who is putting every other woman in your community at risk by letting some psycho go free. Bitches think they're just as capable as men, then man the fuck up and do what needs to b…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 05:27 PM
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You don't have to prove shit bro. There are people in damn near every thread calling BS, "I don't believe you", "that happened" and so on. Honestly it gets old. Just ignore them.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 05:16 PM
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I think this is smart. It would be easy to bait her into admitting it over text. "Why did you lie about being raped?" Follow up questions should make it very clear, too: "You weren't raped, why did you lie and say that you were? That's fucked up." Hamster will happily provide you with a full written confession, which you save forever. Great insurance if the bitch decides to turn the tables and accuse you.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 05:14 PM
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any increase in your life success is going to cause a commensurate increase in loneliness. This is true. I found out who my real friends were when I started doing well financially. Out of the dozen or so guys I grew up with and spent most of my time with, only one remains a friend today. It really hit home one evening at a poker game, something we all used to do weekly but I'd been finding my invites coming less and less frequently. There was drinking involved, as usual, but this time it got out…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 08:19 AM
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I got the exact same speech on my honeymoon. No sex at all. Infuriating.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:44 AM
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Anyone here ever been on both sides of the AA/BB fence with the same girl? Yep, only the other way around. I was a beta bitch when I married my wife. She was a "good girl" who didn't do "those things" but I didn't care, I was just so happy to have any sort of female attention. She didn't suck dick and didn't like me eating her out, said it was dirty. A year after we married she got into religion and turned even more prude than she already was. I stuck it out because I thought I loved her and we …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 06:41 AM
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Every guy will handle this differently and there are many good ways to go about it. Personally, I wouldn't get upset and hard next her. I'd pull her close, give her a passionate kiss and while I ran my hand down her face, neck, and shoulder, I'd shame her: "That's too bad. I'm really not into the good girls." I'd finish my statement right as my hand touched her breast and I'd give it a solid squeeze. Then I'd either fuck her or show her out, depending on her reaction.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 05:44 AM
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Shit is outrageous Agreed. I've seen it myself. It's hard to stomach how a broke bitch can be so completely entitled. I think the Disney upbringing has a lot to do with it; they all think they're fucking princesses. The other side of the coin I've seen are bitches who are impressed with my success but don't want to do their part. They love the lifestyle and want to be in it, but still expect me to do fucking everything for them while giving me nothing in return. I'm sick and tired of one way rel…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:23 PM
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The only way this is remotely acceptable is if she's a virgin. I'd bet you any amount of money she's not. Ask him if she's a virgin. If she isn't, ask him why the fuck some other guy gets the goods but he has to wait? She'll hamster it away as "I made a mistake" or some nonsense, so prepare him for that. Christians are often some of the dirtiest freakiest girls out there. Virtually none of them wait until marriage anymore. She's not that into him, unfortunately. Either that or she's sexually rep…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:43 PM
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It's so true. All my ex wife had to do was treat me decent, help around the house and play with my cock a couple times a week. She couldn't do it. Now she's slumming it in a tiny apartment struggling to pay rent while I enjoy my six figure income and half million dollar home (that buys a lot where I'm from, average house here is about 2000sqft and $200k). Feminism has convinced several generations of women that they don't need a man. That submitting to a man is beneath them and they can do every…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 05:41 AM
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Don't feel bad for that idiot. He's making his own bed there. A real man would have walked away a long time ago.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 04:54 AM
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Not all of us. There are plenty of guys like me in their thirties on up who have seen both sides of the coin. I did the family thing, was married 15 years, raised two kids (still raising one, the other is an adult now). Now I'm a bachelor. Thus far my new life has been a huge improvement over the old one. To be fair, I don't know how I'd feel if I'd never had a wife and kids. Maybe I would have regrets. It's hard to say.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 04:50 AM
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If I had try to "talk" to her about it, no matter how rational it would have escalated to a Shit storm Truth. You can't have a rational, logical conversation with a woman. This is especially true when she's trying to control, manipulate or otherwise gain the upper hand. Anything you say will be twisted into a stupid argument that nobody wins. Even if you're completely right and have all the facts and proof in the world to back you up, a bitch only cares about how she feels regardless of the real…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 04:42 AM
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Use it, brother. Use the shit out of it. I'm late thirties now, but thanks to a white collar career working indoors my whole life I can still pass for twenty something easy. Somebody recently mistook me for a local college student, I was super stoked. Take care of your body, lift, stay in shape and you'll still be fucking young girls in your fifties.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 04:25 AM
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I spent some time with a 19 year old a few years back in my early thirties. The looks I got from older women around town, holy fuck. Even had a few choice comments thrown my way. My own mother said it was "disgusting." (I told her, "That body is a work of art, I'm shocked you don't see it.") I was surprised to find that I got off on all of the negative attention. Nothing but a bunch of old, wrinkled up jealous bitches hating because their time has passed and they fucking know it. I learned to sm…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:46 PM
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I fucking love it when a girl gives me a hard time and acts super bitchy. That's the whole fun in gaming them. To each his own, but I'm personally not into it. The last thing I want is an entitled bitch who thinks she's queen shit. There are plenty of hot girls who haven't let it go to their heads and can act decent. I know, I've fucked them. The fattest was 130lbs at 5'6".
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:31 PM
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Absolutely. This is a numbers game, just like anything else. The more women you interact with, the better your odds of finding one that clicks. If she isn't into you, move on and stop wasting your time.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:26 PM
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My ex mother in law drove with one foot on the brake and one on the gas. She would mash them both, often at the same time. I rode with her once. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 02:29 PM
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This. Or if you want your own DNA, then pay a woman to have your baby and give up all legal rights. Just make sure you've got at least one decent woman in your life who is willing to put in a lot of quality time with the kid. Your mother, perhaps, if she was a good mother to you. Kids really do best with solid male and female role models.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 02:38 PM
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do you want to know how many of my guy friends are in unhappy marriages, or divorced and just fucking completely spiralled downhill? All of them. I shit you not, every married buddy of mine is miserable as fuck. Most who divorced have remarried into a fresh new pit of misery and despair even worse than the last. The one friend who is still single is so lonely and heartbroken that he rarely leaves the house - a fucking decade after his divorce, no less. I know only one man who seems happy with hi…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:16 AM
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Problem is when you rescue a damsel in distress, you wind up with a distressed damsel. It seems there's no winning. My ex wife never worked and was incapable of doing much of anything for herself. I took great care of her, gave her a nice six figure life on a silver platter and was rewarded with disdain and disrespect. Now I've got an LTR with a smart, sophisticated career woman, but she shit tests constantly and fancies herself a feminist. I swear if this relationship falls apart it will be my …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 12:34 AM
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Wasted years and a shit load of money. Wives are expensive as fuck and his is apparently wearing a nice car on her left hand. I guarantee that bitch burned through thousands every month on things she "needed" to be haaaaappy.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 12:21 AM
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Agreed, the way he weaved the post-analysis and internal dialog into this was masterful. I enjoyed every moment of this one. Felt like I was there with him. I particularly like field reports that educate. Any chump can brag about fucking some random bitch. OP took us through the process, showed us how he did it, what worked, what didn't and so on. This was both entertaining and educational.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 05:38 AM
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Oh look, another party pooper. You asshats are in every thread. If you don't believe something, just shake your head and move the fuck on. Is that so hard? Nobody cares that you're not convinced.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 05:28 AM
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the ass clowns behind me would make it impossible for her to do so. Right. "Impossible." Women are so strong and empowered and yet can't work in an environment where colleagues make lame, nerdy sexual jokes. Sack the fuck up. I hear all kinds of shit all day long I don't agree with. I ignore it. It's super easy to do, give that shit a try. Or just admit that you're still a little girl who can't handle real life, not the strong independent woman you claim to be.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:18 PM
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The dudes are fucking idiots for admitting it when confronted. I'd have denied that my comments were sexual in any way, shape or form and shamed her for overreacting. "We were talking about forking the code base on a project. What is her problem? I can't say 'Forking' now, are you kidding me? She is clearly just trying to stir up trouble." Then it would have been simply a case of "he said she said."
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 09:13 PM
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I'd never say "trust me." Rather, I'd deflect her questions with, "Don't worry about it. I got this." I don't play the million questions game. She's just going to use my answers to question, overanalyze and undermine everything I say, so why bother? If she insists on playing the game and won't accept "Don't worry about it", I'll show irritation and interrupt her with, "Do you want me to do it or not?" When she says yes, "Then stop interrogating me. I said I'll make it work." The only way to win …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 08:55 PM
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AWALT. I see what you're saying, but I think you're hamstering. My LTR has a similar friend, but he doesn't live here so she rarely sees him. However, despite her saying they never fucked, I have my suspicions and I'm keeping a close eye on the situation. I know for a fact he would fuck her silly if given the chance. He's a major long term orbiter. As such he is not my friend, he's my enemy. The betas who orbit have zero respect for you. They will undermine your relationship every chance they ge…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:15 PM
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When I looked into it several years ago the closest place near me wanted like $1200 for the initial storage and a few hundred a year thereafter. I decided not to do it. I already have two kids.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 02:53 PM
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Next time walk the fuck away. You don't share a bed with a girl you aren't fucking. Period.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 04:16 AM
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Man you gotta google this shit, come on. Info is super easy to find. Your balls still work like normal. The tubes carrying the sperm are cut, so instead of traveling out your cock they are released into and absorbed by the body. Yeah you still cum, actual sperm are only a very small portion of the total volume. They say the size of your load is reduced slightly but I haven't noticed that. Looks the same to me.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:42 AM
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Yes, it takes awhile to take effect. You have to go in after one month and test to make sure you're shooting blanks. It took me three months (three tests) before they came back negative. Most vasectomy "failures" are within the first few months and they aren't really failures. Doc said the majority of men never submit their post-vasectomy sperm sample and don't wait long enough to clear the pipes out. Once you've tested negative for the presence of sperm, you're good. There's no need to ever go …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:38 AM
2

there are much better protection options out there Yeah, vasectomy and don't fucking marry!
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 07:39 PM
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This right here. If I found out my prude wife who had been denying me any sort of sexual adventure in the bedroom had a past history of giving it up easily and doing crazy shit for others, I'd throw her ass out, too. Why the hell does your husband have to jump through hoops for sexual scraps?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 06:07 PM
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When we split, on her mothers advice, they both went to the bank and drained the accounts while I was at work leaving me with absolutely nothing. This is very, very common and women are rarely held accountable to it. My buddy's wife waited until he went to work, packed her shit, drained their accounts, re-opened a previously closed home equity line of credit (on his house that she was moving out of that day) and withdrew the entire credit line as cash. The bank's response: There was a "feature" …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:56 PM
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That actually happened to me, though they didn't have to doxx me. In the nineties and early 2000s I used my real name online. I had nothing to hide, so why not? Until someone printed out my entire Slashdot comment history and anonymously dropped it in my boss's inbox. Unfortunately for them, the boss and I were bros. Used to wakeboard with the guy every weekend. He handed it right over to me with a warning, "Somebody is out to get you. I don't know who or why. Be careful." I never did find out w…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:42 PM
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I apologize for the late reply. I don't understand this "I need to check in with you" business. Who is checking in with who? Surely you have not asked her to check in with you? It sounds to me like she wants you to check in with her, like you're a child and she's still trying to parent you. Is that the case? If so, she is intentionally twisting her words to manipulate you. This is crazy people stuff. You need to understand that. Normal people don't do this. My mom, who I love dearly, has been em…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 05:25 AM
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Good for you, brother. I admire your tenacity. You know your limits now and you're not afraid to make the big decisions. If she's changed her behavior and is now giving you more pleasure than she is pain, why not keep her, your intact family and all your money too? You'd be a damn fool not to. My ex became the perfect little fuck toy when I was on my way out, just what I always wanted. I was too bitter from the hell she put me through, I needed the split and I have no regrets, but boy... If I ha…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:07 AM
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You will never be the best option she'll always have Speak for yourself. I'm a fucking catch and getting better every day. Every bitch who has ever left me has regretted it. This is the attitude every RP man should have. If you aren't king shit, you'd better be doing what it takes to become him. Yeah, there's always someone taller, richer, better looking, but he can't do her like I do her (and I don't just mean sex). He hasn't spent the time with her that I have. Some parts will be better, some …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:42 AM
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it's good to plan for this and control the situation so it does not happen Also to be prepared and ready to take action if it does. I don't think my girl will cheat on me, but I'm not ignorant of the ebbs and flows of a woman's heart. I will pay attention to the signs instead of blindly ignoring them and if I do catch her cheating, I won't lose myself in an emotional breakdown and listen to her hamster why it was really my fault. I'll throw the bitch out on her ass, get plastered with my boys an…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:04 AM
1

That was spot on. Thank you for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 05:54 AM
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That depends. Do you still live with your mom, or is she paying your rent, helping with college or otherwise supporting you? If the answer is yes, the only acceptable response is some variation of, "Yes, absolutely. How can I help?" I have kids, my oldest is 18 and there is nothing more frustrating to a parent than a kid who won't pitch in and help. Some seem to think they deserve things just because they breathe air. I've had to remind mine on more than one occasion that they don't "deserve" sh…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 05:47 AM
1

You're 17, brother? You write better than most adults. With your communication skills, you should go far in this world.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 03:15 PM
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Step 3 is my favorite. Sometimes people jump right to it. I appreciate skipping the laborious first two steps and getting straight to the good part where I find out just how badly they want it and how willing they are to work for it. I often make little bets with myself, usually not in their favor. People rarely disappoint. I'm also fond of tailoring what I ask of them depending on the person, the request, how willing I am to help and so on. I usually assign them the shit tasks I don't want to d…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 04:52 AM
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I'm fond of, "There, there...". Stroke her head while you say it for extra effect. Makes my LTR feel like a silly little girl, which she is, and gets the point across that "I care about you even though you're being ridiculous right now."
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 03:19 AM
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really its like watching a documentary on hyenas. Hahaha! I actually laughed out loud, that was fucking hilarious. I like to sit back occasionally and try to view human behavior from the eyes of an outside observer. We really are just animals. We exhibit many of the instinctual behaviors of other mammals. A lot of the stupid shit people pull makes a lot more sense in that light. Thanks for contributing. If you're ever bored enough to write a story or two about your bouncer days, I bet people wou…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 03:05 AM
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What she meant and what most women mean when they say, "Will you help me?", is "Will you do it for me?" My answer is always no. No, I will not just do it all for you. Yes, I will help, but we're doing it together. Here's the piece I'm willing to do. Here's the piece you're going to do. Get your piece started first. Usually they find someone else to help do it all for them or it doesn't get done at all. That's fine by me.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 12:28 AM
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people are not interested in becoming better This is so true. I had to learn this the hard way myself. The other thing I learned is most people, women especially, are not interested in helping themselves, nor will they appreciate any help you give them. Most just want to bitch about whatever situation they find themselves in. I have changed my behavior to smile and nod while they run their mouths and only offer advice when asked. When it comes to actual help, I don't offer it unless asked and I …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 06:14 PM
2

It's guilt. I stayed with my awful wife for far too long because I knew she couldn't fend for herself and I felt immense guilt for throwing her out. It's hard for us former nice guys to learn to embrace our inner asshole. Unfortunately that's just what has to happen, otherwise women will stomp all over us.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 05:00 AM
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Don't take her back! Stick to your guns, brother. I've been there, done that only it my case I made the mistake of wifing her up. Sure as shit, the moment we were married and living together all of the awesome girlfriend perks dried up right along with her vagina. When I finally had enough - 15 years and two kids later - she suddenly turned super sweet and submissive, too. Fuck. That. I almost fell for it, but I fucking hated her after that. 15 years of no blow jobs and suddenly the bitch couldn…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 04:50 AM
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somewhere out there there's a betabucks who will surely step up and save her saggy ass. Sadly, for all of his efforts, he will be "rewarded" with disdain, emotional abuse, manipulation and head games, occasional pity sex and eventual heartbreak. Source: Was betabucks. Rescued damsel in distress. Ended up with distressed damsel who despised me for loving her unconditionally and taking care of her every need. ಠ_ಠ
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 04:02 PM
1

However, the fact remains that NO high-quality woman is going to reproduce with you without marriage. Depends on your definition of "high quality." 41% of all births in the US in 2013 were out of wedlock. They can't all be low quality trash whores. A significant number of them are living with the child's father.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 04:58 AM
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Funny, I've re-read my replies and nowhere did I state anything about how common this may or may not be. I'm not sure where you're getting the idea that I made such a statement. At any rate, my position is relationships are essentially business transactions, especially when they involve cohabitation, and a smart man should treat them as such. That means getting things in writing. I wouldn't advise whipping out a lease at the last moment. Rather, the couple ought to have an adult conversation abo…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 04:36 AM
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I've been down voted for saying the same thing in this sub. Regardless, it's a great idea. Ignore the people who say otherwise. Put the money away somewhere safe and don't tell a soul and you won't get caught. The courts are going to screw you and hand most of your assets over to her anyway. Might as well save what little you can. Yeah, it's not legal, but I have no problem justifying it morally. Women clean bank accounts out all the damn time and are rarely held accountable, divorce settlements…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 02:57 AM
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Just be up front about it. If you aren't snipped, you should also talk to her about what happens if there's an accident. You can't force her to honor any agreement regarding this, but it's still good to have the conversation in advance. She may decide she wants children more than she wants you and you two will part ways. That's ok. Far better than giving in and having a baby you don't want just to placate her.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 02:33 AM
1

If it flies, floats or fucks, it's cheaper to rent.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 02:26 AM
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Until she hires a lawyer and claims she's been making half the house payments and is therefore just as entitled to it as you are. I'm not saying this would necessarily be successful for her, but it's another expensive potential complication that is easily avoided by simply having her sign a lease.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 02:10 AM
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Can you be liable for assets pre marriage in the USA now? No, but if she's not a tenant with a signed lease then it's just as much her house as it is his. That doesn't mean she can get any money out of it (directly). As long as he has always paid for the place and all bills out of his own non-joint account, he's safe there. The problem comes when it's time for her to leave. If she refuses to go on her own, he will have to go through an eviction process which could be lengthy and expensive. I've …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 11:52 PM
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My best friend and I built new homes right next to each other many years ago. My wife did all the same shit your buddy's girlfriend is doing. I'll never forget the time she screamed, "You're never here! I'm raising two kids all by myself!" I hadn't gone anywhere. I was in my own garage and had been there all day, but my friend had joined me to help with a vehicle repair. In her mind that meant I was choosing him over her (personally I just wanted to get to work the next morning so I could buy gr…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 11:30 PM
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My problem is that I would only marry to have children and I cannot even imagine having them ripped out of my life. There's little to nothing you can do about it. In most first world countries, if the mother wants out, she's out and the kids go with her. This is the world we live in, unfortunately. Your only other options are adoption, if you can find an agency willing to even consider a single father, or pay a woman to carry your child and give up all rights at birth.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 03:59 AM
4

There's already basic implementation with toy vaginas. Have you checked out the Venus 2000? Completely hands-free sex machine, it does all the work while you just sit back and enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 10:25 PM
0

This may be silly, but have you tried touching her back every time she touches you? I'd make a game of it. She touches your arm, you touch hers. She playfully slaps your ass, you slap hers, or escalate and briefly grab a handful. Personally, I'd find that a hell of a lot more fun than having an awkward conversation about boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 03:00 PM
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My buddy's wife gained over 80lbs when she had their baby. She still has the weight plus some. She still blames it on the pregnancy. The baby is now 12 years old. I asked that girl out in high school when she was 110lbs. She wasn't into me, so I introduced her to my friend and the rest is history. Bullet: Dodged. Also, high school me was apparently a really shitty wingman.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:47 AM
0

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Qh9ZZgDqzAg
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 05:20 AM
2

Lots of people piling on to you, but I wanted to thank you for your post. It absolutely is possible to keep a marriage together forever. Yes, your odds are shit and it's a lot of hard fucking work, but for those who succeed the rewards are often immeasurable. Mad respect for the couples who can pull it off.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 05:16 AM
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Financial stability is the reason men should NOT get married. Ain't that the fucking truth. When I divorced, the courts gave her a significant portion of my income in child support. About the same as my house payment. Sucks, right? I was pissed until I sat down, did the math and realized it was a good thousand bucks less than she was consistently spending out of the joint account every month. The joke here is when you're divorced she only has access to half your paycheck. Wives are so insanely f…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 05:00 AM
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How many times has this been successful for you? I'm genuinely curious.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:54 AM
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The thing is, it's only negative if you make it negative. Who doesn't like giraffes? They are cute as fuck. There is a difference between teasing and negging. I don't do negs, I just don't think they're effective, but I will tease the piss out of a girl with a goofy grin on my face all day long. They eat that shit up. If she's laughing and having a good time, what's the problem?
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:46 AM
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No one would go hunting if the deer walked infront of your gun and pulled the trigger for you. I had fresh deer steak for dinner last night and you're wrong. They are fucking delicious. Seriously, great response to an outstanding post. OP, I hope you keep writing. You have a talent and I'd love to read more.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 12:38 AM
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Exactly this. I have seen so many dumb, basic bitches who think they're worth their weight in diamonds. It's enough to make a guy sick. I do well financially. Six figures and the perks that come with it. Yet, for some reason, bitches want more. They see the house and car and lifestyle and they're giddy with joy, but quickly become disappointed when they realize I'm not going to buy them diamonds, there's no yacht or private jet and I'm not taking them to the mall for a $50k shopping spree "just …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 04:21 PM
2

Well, look on the bright side: If there ever is a food shortage such that we stare into the very eyes of starvation, there will be plenty of bipedal cattle to round up.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 01:50 AM
1

100% agreed. There should be no room in a man's soul for bitterness. You take your rejection like a man and move on. Making your intentions known early helps, as it leaves no time for the sort of long term orbital investments that foster that bitter taste.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 06:06 PM
2

It was very unsettling seeing the person that was supposed to be my reference so emotionally weak and unstable. This is exactly how women feel when men cry and show emotion. It triggers the same instinct in them: "This guy is supposed to be my protector and provider. His crying makes me doubt his ability to do that." They can't vocalize that, but it's there.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 10:28 PM
1

As a man, you always have the choice to walk away. Okay, I'll bite. I chose to walk away from my wife of 15 years. It cost me six figures in cash and a substantial chunk of my paycheck for the foreseeable future. So, yes, while you always have the option to walk away from a marriage, it is a decision that carries extremely harsh consequences. Married men put up with way more shit than they should because of this fact. If I walk away from my girlfriend tomorrow, it costs me nothing. My freedom to…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 10:20 PM
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I was driving through my neighborhood recently and saw what appeared to be a hot young thing power walking in her yoga pants. I actually slowed my car down so I could get a longer look at 'dat ass and I enjoyed every second of it. When I passed her, I saw her face. She had to be at least 80. I shit you not, this great grandmother had the body of a 20 year old and was still working it. I couldn't believe it. Total mind fuck.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 09:09 PM
15

the Wall impact was a NASA-level crash for them. I orbited a 9 in high school. She was super fine and every guy I knew wanted to fuck her. I loved that girl to death, would have done anything for her, but we never hooked up because she only considered me a friend. She never used me for favors, though, nor did she ever lead me on - she was very up front about only wanting to be friends when I asked - so because she treated me well, I still consider her a friend today over 20 years later. Here's t…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 08:34 PM
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I don't get the hate, either. If my woman cheats on me, that shit is on her. She's the one in the relationship, it's her responsibility to say no. I've seen how women behave when they cheat. She will talk all kinds of shit about her man so both she and the guy she wants to fuck can easily rationalize it away, and that's assuming she even bothers to tell him she's in a relationship. Any time this happens, I figure he probably doesn't even know you exist and if he does, he only knows what she tell…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 08:21 PM
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Is he 100% it's even his? Of course not. People like this don't paternity test their babies. That would be insulting to his woman and we all know he wouldn't dare insult the woman who carries his balls in her purse.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 08:07 PM
2

It honestly baffles my mind that anyone can have a problem with this. Women prefer wealthy men who act like men. Well, duh. How the fuck is that controversial? See, that's the funny thing about these radfems. All they do is push, but they don't know when to stop. They've taken things too far and now more and more men are waking up and seeing this ridiculousness for what it is. These bitches are out there screaming bloody murder all the goddamn time, getting offended over nothing, tone policing a…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 06:13 AM
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She also says she is filing the complaint because she was so "devastated she cried for a day" and doesn't want this to happen to anyone else. This is all the proof you need to know she's mentally unstable. Who cries for a day over a seat at a restaurant? I'd hazard a guess her tears had little to do with the restaurant asking her to sit at the bar and everything to do with the fact that her own fucking husband wouldn't join her for dinner on Valentine's Day. She's heartbroken and wants somebody …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 07:27 AM
1

That's exactly how I found this place. Some thread with women losing their tits over it. I just wanted to see what all the fuss was about. Turned out it was full of cool ass motherfuckers who thought exactly like me!
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 06:37 AM
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The "fuck you" wasn't necessary. I did watch your video, you're wrong and here's why: That cab driver drove those girls across town. They were in his vehicle for a reasonable period of time. OP had these girls in his car for, what, a minute at most? He didn't even drive them anywhere, just finished parallel parking. Look at this from the prosecution's standpoint and you'll realize there is no case here whatsoever. He wasn't alone with them long enough for them to claim jack shit and have it stan…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:02 PM
1

He didn't drive them away and dump them in a dark spot, though. He was in the process of parking when they jumped in his car. He finished parking. They couldn't have been in his car more than a minute or two. This is not a foundation for a rape claim.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 03:53 PM
1

Not really. Keep your finances separate, don't pretend to be married and you should be fine. Definitely talk to an attorney if you do live in a common law state, but as I understand it there are a few simple, easy things you can do to still live with a woman and have a healthy LTR without falling into the common law trap.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:26 AM
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"No." It really is that easy. I think you're looking for a response or scheme that will allow you to keep her around without directly confronting the issue. That's not the way of a man. You must hold true to what you believe regardless of the consequences. If you're afraid to tell it like it is, your relationship has already failed. She may very well leave you. For many women, marriage is the end game and if that isn't on the table, they'll walk. This is fair and reasonable and should not be a p…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 05:22 AM
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There are a lot of misconceptions about common law marriage. Very few states still have it and you generally have to do a hell of a lot more than simply live together. If you are unfortunate enough to live in such a state, talk to a lawyer before you live with a woman. It will be easy to avoid common law status, you just have to be smart about it.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:45 AM
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if you are considering a flat screen tv or New PlayStation console and don't have the cash for it FTFY. I buy all of my large purchases on my Amex because the card offers additional protections and extended warranties. If something goes wrong with the deal and the seller or manufacturer decides to be a dick and not take it back or honor their warranty, Amex will refund my money. It's happened before and saved my ass. I do wait until I have cash in the bank, then pay the card off when the stateme…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:52 PM
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I never get mistaken for a taxi. Neither did OP. This girl knew damn well he wasn't an Uber driver. That was just her bullshit line that she's probably used successfully on a hundred different guys by now. Proof? They walked away and went elsewhere after he declined to drive them home. If they were actually waiting for a cab, they would have stayed in the place where the cab was supposed to be coming.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:41 PM
1

Patrick Waring Apples and oranges. Patrick Waring went through hell in part because he lied to the police. From a news report on the case: While Patrick had initially denied ever meeting the girl, this was a lie. He had met her, on the day of the attack, when he had briefly chatted to her outside the cinema. Patrick and the girl exchanged phone numbers, and Patrick had attempted to call her, but that was as far as it went. Swept up in a crime he did not commit, Patrick panicked, and denied ever …
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:34 PM
1

Better be safe than sorry. Safe how, exactly? What would you have done in this situation? Drive the girls home because you're afraid of a false rape accusation if you don't comply? Help me understand how else one might deal with this, other than simply kicking them out of your car like OP did?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 08:36 PM
1

It won't go anywhere. Her attorney says the dead boy has family working in the prosecutor's office and that's why they've brought charges. While this is rather horrific, I highly doubt they can win a conviction.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:20 PM
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Jesus fuck, will you people stop with this nonsense? A woman you don't even know and haven't talked to for more than 30 seconds isn't going to get anywhere with a false rape report. You act like you're afraid to assert yourself because the bitch might cry rape. That's stupid. It's nonsense. It's not going to happen and even if by some crazy remote chance it did, she would have absolutely nothing to go on and no prosecutor would bring charges. Sorry to unload on you specifically, man. I'm just ge…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:09 PM
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said she wanted to go a week with no contact "Great idea, babe. Let's make it a month."
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:08 PM
3

That's the first thing I thought, too. Nobody here contributed to this. We would have told him to lift, get ripped, learn some game and get a girl. He's picking and choosing what he wants to hear so he can justify a course of action he was already planning. If you're reading this, short fat ugly scarred guy, man the fuck up and turn yourself into the best version of an alpha male you can. You don't have to be a loser anymore, bro. It's your choice. I didn't hit the genetic lottery either. I was …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 11:10 PM
7

Stop planning and start doing. You should have had a rental agreement signed before she moved in. Get one now. Make it month-to-month and have her re-sign on the first of each month. In this way, when she needs to go (notice I did not say "if") you should be able to have her out within 30 days. You're on the fast track to a life of hell, you know it, and yet you're such a dumb fuck nice guy you're just going to sit back and let it all happen to you. Come on. You're smarter than that. I get why y…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 11:37 PM
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Yes. This. I love my old man, but he wasn't really into being a parent. He was always around, went to work every day, came home to his family and I appreciate that, but we never really did much together. Being married to my mother was hard on him. He's been whipped his entire life and still is. She earned most of the money, bossed him around and basically raised me on her own. I turned out a lot like her and I know that was hard on him, too. I grew up a "nice guy" with little masculine influence…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 11:18 PM
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If you ask a girl if she wants to fuck, and she says, "I'm not sure." By the love of God Do not have sex with her. I agree. Look, I understand LMR and ASD but quite frankly I don't have the patience for that shit. If a girl is lukewarm on fucking me and needs a bunch of convincing, I'm out. I'll find someone else who is DTF. The girls who know what they want and aren't afraid of it are a lot more fun, anyway. Although, to be fair, I wouldn't ask a girl I was hooking up with for the first time, "…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 11:03 PM
2

I've never been with a tranny (that I know of) but I've seen pics and videos. There was a reddit thread a few years ago from one who had finished transitioning at like 19. He (she?) posted lots of close up pics of everything. I couldn't fucking tell the difference, looked like any other pussy I've ever seen. Dude (chick?) was hot as fuck, too. Easy 9. Said she'd been with a bunch of guys post-op, didn't tell them shit and none were the wiser.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:54 PM
2

I worked hard to give her a beautiful life and it was thrown away for a twice divorced, fugly, bald, skinny piece of trash that lives two states away. Man, I just don't get it. My coworker's wife left him in a similar manner. He's a great guy, excellent father with a six figure income, would never cheat on or abuse his wife. Classic nice guy. She left him for a loser in his late twenties with a fast food job and no driver's license. Over a decade of marriage and two kids, poof.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 11:25 PM
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This is really, really common. Women want commitment. As a man, you have a choice whether to commit to her or not. Let me repeat that: You have a choice. I really think most men don't get this. They reluctantly fall into a relationship with the first woman who will have them, then spend the rest of their lives miserable and wondering, "What if?" Don't be that guy. Your commitment is most of the power you have in a relationship. If you don't want an LTR, don't agree to one. If you aren't sure, th…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 11:09 PM
1

I think I only had to come a couple hundred bucks out of pocket for mine. Money well spent.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 08:22 PM
1

how would you play it off if you we're about to eat her out and there was a foul stench down there? You just have to offend her. Nothing you say will be taken well, so just nope the fuck out of the situation. "There's no polite way to say this, so I'm just gonna say it: You've got something funky going on down there."
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 08:19 PM
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truly thought I was going to have to get married in my mid-twenties News flash: You do NOT have to marry a bitch just because you knock her up. This is a terrible reason to get married. You're taking one fuck up with long lasting consequences and making it into a much more expensive fuck up with even more long lasting consequences. You can still be in your child's life without marrying the mother. If you want to give a long term relationship a go for the sake of the child, move her in with you (…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 08:14 PM
1

I like your approach, although I hesitate to call it that. It's far easier to hook up with a girl who is already interested. She's more invested in the situation and will give you more to work with. She's likely to enter your frame easily and be more submissive, exactly how I like my girls. The real test will be whether you're able to turn these IOIs into sex. I'd love to read a field report from you several months from now about your success rate, detailing what worked, what didn't and so on.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:59 PM
2

We humbly omit from consideration the arrangement where the man is fucking the woman and she gets nothing in the end, since that's just naughty. Well, to be fair, she's still getting some (hopefully decent) sex. Women enjoy sex, too. The whole notion that a man is somehow taking something from her and needs to pay for that is silly to me. "I had sex with you, you should buy me something." Bitch, I just pleasured you for hours. Show some appreciation or it won't happen again.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:37 PM
7

Yes, she knew what she was doing and you let yourself get played. No more dinner dates with bitches unless you're actively fucking them. Practice saying "No."
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 07:27 PM
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He's taking pictures of his environment and other people just happen to be sharing that environment with him. If you come across someone taking pictures, it's unlikely you're being singled out. There is no expectation of privacy when you're in public. People are going to take your picture and they aren't morally obligated to ask.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 06:40 PM
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People are presumptuous assholes when it comes to this sort of thing. My daughter and I grabbed a bite to eat at a little cafe a few years ago, I think she was about 15 at the time, and the waitress was a surly bitch. Glaring at me, acting snotty. I almost asked her what the fuck her problem was, it was really starting to piss me off. Toward the end of our meal, when she came by to ask if we wanted dessert, my daughter said, "Daddy, can I get x?" Waitress' entire demeanor changed instantly. Sudd…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 06:09 PM
4

I've been using the word "partner" lately to refer to my girlfriend. I actually get a little kick out of seeing the expression on people's faces when she walks in the room and they see a drop dead gorgeous woman where they expected a dude.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:54 PM
1

Great post! I just bought a Screamer sex swing after reading it. Told my girl it was coming and she'd soon be strapped in and doing the same. She can't wait. That Tantra chair looks cool as hell, too. Do people generally know what it is, or do they tend to be oblivious until they're told? Thinking of putting one in my living room.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:22 PM
7

a new young woman younger than the previous meaningful conversations She hit most of the shaming points. Typical. The idea that young women have nothing to offer other than their bodies is bullshit, anyway. Their personalities are better; they are usually much more eager to please and shit test less. They bring a fresh, energetic vibe to the table and contrary to everything a post-wall bitch will tell you, being in her twenties does not mean she's a dumb bimbo. Several years ago, near the end of…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 11:14 PM
2

A woman just the other day told me I looked like a college student. I'm 37. Feels good man.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 10:20 PM
12

I haven't seen her, but I'll offer up a hearty "Hell no." She's straining the income of a 6 figure man, it doesn't matter what she looks like, the bitch ain't worth it. "The lifestyle she demands," indeed. There are younger, hotter girls available with none of her demands.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 10:18 PM
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They absolutely know, but lie about it to themselves so they don't have to deal with rejecting him and risk losing that free, no strings attached emotional validation.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 10:05 PM
2

"How would you feel if after a night of clubbing I crashed at (insert name of male friend she's known since high school)'s place because he lives near the club?" "Absolutely not. Call me, I'll either pick you up or send a cab and you can crash at my place instead." Would have been my response. If she's looking for an excuse to fuck the guy, she will find a thousand reasons why it's better if she just crashes there. If she tries to force you into it, dump her ass. Also, not sure why your girl is …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:40 AM
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My money says he's already fucked her. People cheat. Spend enough voluntary alone time with a member of the opposite sex and feelings often develop. They clearly get along well and have much in common or they wouldn't have this weird bestie thing going on. While Joe Orbiter may not have had a chance early on, the long game can be fruitful for him. All relationships have their ups and downs and I guarantee he has been damn sure to "be there for her" during the downs. Even if that means only actin…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 05:13 AM
1

Either that or he desperately wants to. He's not in it for a platonic friendship.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:52 AM
0

It takes zero effort for a woman to keep a beta around. It's just free benefits for her. These idiots fall all over themselves for the smallest scrap of attention.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:51 AM
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You nailed it. Orbiters are the worst. Those assholes will fuck your girl at the drop of a hat if given the chance. They have no respect for you, every word out of their mouths is intended to undermine your relationship.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:44 AM
1

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=herpes+transmission
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 06:01 PM
6

I agree and feel similarly, however, you must understand the consequences of this course of action. The police will eventually find and arrest you. Chasing you down won't be a high priority, but eventually you'll be pulled over or contacted by police for another reason and they may decide to take you into custody then. Resist arrest and you will be tased and beaten at a minimum. Often, those who resist the police are simply executed in the streets with no repercussions. This is the world we live…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 05:39 PM
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There's virtually nothing you can do about it. Once a judge makes a ruling, you're fucked unless you have time and money to appeal (assuming your case has any rights to appeal, many do not). You either shut the fuck up and take it up the ass like a man, or you go to jail (and potentially take it up the ass literally). Those are the options the system gives you.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 05:32 PM
3

It was always suggested by her. We're dating the same girl, bro. I don't even have Netflix! It's always on at her place. I'm to the point where I'm done asking, "You want to do x?", instead going with, "I'm doing x, you want to come? No? Ok, maybe I'll see you later then."
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 05:02 AM
6

She'll be gobbling his cock again at the first sign of trouble with her "true love."
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 02:27 AM
12

You're right, I am an idiot. I got married once, many years ago, probably when I was about your age. I did it under similar assumptions. "This shit is going to be my way or the highway! I'll do what I want, when I want!" 15 years of marriage turned me into a wiser, older idiot. You won't be doing whatever you damn well please whenever you damn well please it and expect to stay married for long. Marriage is all about compromise, which is part of the reason it sucks ass. Don't compromise and she w…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:24 AM
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You're an idiot if you think you can get married and stick to any of those three points. You can't. I don't care what she says now, when that ring is on her finger and the ink is dry on your marriage contract, everything is going to change. You're setting yourself up for a quick divorce. This will likely be one of the most expensive life lessons you learn. My guess is you're stubborn enough that you're going to do it all, anyway. I wish you the very best of luck... you're going to need it.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 09:59 PM
7

"and if you keep acting up it'll stay that way" Women love to shame men and then impose penalties. They're great at redefining "acting up" to fit whatever mood they happen to be in at the time. This is particularly damaging to a relationship when you allow her to get results from this behavior. Most men double down on the love and affection and honey-do's, then wonder why she's a moody, brooding bitch all the goddamn time. It's your own fault for rewarding her shitty behavior! You've given her e…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 09:53 PM
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Watch out for those sunk costs. There comes a point where you're just needlessly pouring resources into a sinking ship that simply cannot be salvaged. The resources you've already put into it are unrecoverable and should never be used as a basis for continued investment. If I'd had the backbone to leave my wife five years earlier when I really wanted to, by my estimates I'd be a quarter million dollars richer at a minimum.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 09:32 PM
6

i realized that if our relationship doesn't work out then I'll likely never be in a committed long term relationship again I'm in the same boat. I think a lot of men are these days. If my LTR fails, I plan to spin plates for the foreseeable future, if not the rest of my days. I will not be looking to settle back down into another committed relationship. The opportunity cost of a relationship is incredibly high. My time is valuable and there have already been countless occasions where we're sitti…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 09:27 PM
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You've received some tough love in this thread already, so I'm not going to get in to the details of what went wrong here. I just want to say this: Get up, dust yourself off and do it again. You'll fuck the next one up too, I promise. Don't worry about it, you're learning. Do it again, then again and again. This shit is a numbers game, the more you do it, the better you get, the more people you meet and the higher the likelihood you'll click with someone. Do not let this get you down. It doesn't…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 06:54 PM
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If you just need to fuck someone, I'd imagine there's a former plate of yours with herpes who would probably still be down. Just sayin'.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 03:32 PM
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That paragraph is entirely contradictory. Either his married friends are happy or they're telling him how lucky he is to be single. It can't be both. Nobody who is happily married says, "Bro, you're so fucking lucky you don't have a wife."
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 05:44 AM
1

RO systems filter out fluoride, don't they? All of my drinking water is RO. System wasn't even expensive, about $150.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 11:28 PM
1

Absolutely. Each of us has to make this decision for ourselves on a case by case basis. To me, it all comes down to the overall value a person is providing to my life. Minor mistakes here and there are perfectly acceptable so long as the positives vastly outweigh the negatives. I'm very patient and forgiving, so everybody gets at least one chance to fuck up. It depends on the seriousness of the transgression, of course, but generally speaking I'm going to be quick to forgive. Make a habit out of…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:43 AM
5

18 years, 18 years and on the 18th birthday found out it wasn't his!
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 07:56 PM
4

They stink, they fuck your house up, they require a lot of time and a fair amount of money... I love dogs, but there are plenty of reasons to not want one.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 08:43 PM
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It shouldn't take a month, or even a day. This can start happening in five minutes. Just go out and start taking to people. You're going to get rejected, far more often than not. Make a game out of it. It's a numbers thing, if you're decent looking maybe 1 in 10 women will say yes. If you're an ugly slob, maybe only 1 in 100 will. Doesn't matter, plow through those rejections until you get to the one who is into you. Each rejection is a stepping stone on the path to success. You have to fail rep…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 06:02 PM
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I mean I drive a porche panamara and don't even think twice about it. You should, your car is nicer than the vast majority of the population's. Women who see it may be attracted to you solely based on your perceived financial status. Men with a little money need to learn to pick these bitches out of the herd and handle them accordingly, lest they wind up some gold digger's next beta bucks.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 04:54 PM
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Bunch of goddamn babies and nice guys. Bitch was obviously a gold digger who had let herself go. I've seen plenty of them, fives and sixes who still think they're nines with attitude for days. Who has time for that bullshit? Somebody has to start putting these bitches in their place. I'm also getting tired of the "No TRUE alpha" arguments. Goddamn newbs show up here and after a month on TRP think they have it all figured out. ಠ_ಠ
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 04:51 PM
2

I know about passion parties. They're like Pampered Chef, only with sex toys. I'm pretty sure they don't actually use the sex toys at the party. You buy them and take them home.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 04:30 PM
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That's funny. I don't know any man who would remember that unless it was a big, popular, famous beach. I've been on more than a dozen different beaches in the past two years, some in tropical paradises, and I couldn't tell you the name of a single one of them. I never bothered to look and, quite frankly, even if I had I wouldn't remember because I really don't give a damn. My girlfriend was with me and probably remembers them all. She probably knows how many grains of fucking sand were on them a…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 06:31 PM
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If you have kids with her, remember this: They will always be her kids. She has the means to take them away from you on a whim. When she does decide to take them away from you, she's going to fuck your financial world up to the point of bankruptcy and leave you in debt to her for a very long time. This is true of most women, but especially true in your case.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:11 PM
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She had a "come to Jesus moment" during the divorce and confessed to an affair with my best friend. I actually remember him mentioning off hand a few years earlier that "my wife is crazy, she thinks I'm having an affair with your wife." We laughed about it because the entire idea seemed so ridiculous to me, but looking back, this was a huge red flag I should have taken seriously and investigated. I was really plugged in and had my head in the sand at that point in my life. I did ask him about it…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 03:03 PM
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Eventually, relationships seem to degrade to the point where no matter what you do, no matter what you say, she's always pissy with you. Always looking for an excuse to be upset with you. When a relationship gets to that point, I apply heavy dread and if that doesn't snap her out of it, I'm done. Fuck living my life under some bitch's pissy little microscope. I'd rather be alone.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 02:48 PM
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I was going to tell you to next the bitch, but it looks like you took care of that on your own. Kudos. When I didn't want to respond to something, she took that as proof of my guilt and treated me accordingly. She's projecting. She's a big fat liar and she just can't fathom that other people aren't exactly the same. Women do this all the time. The other shit they pull is the "lie of omission" nonsense. "You didn't tell me x, therefore you lied." If you ever hear that, put her in her place immedi…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 10:29 PM
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She's exactly the same person she was before. She hasn't changed, this I can assure you. She's probably lonely and misses you, but she'll go right back to her old ways real quick if you have anything to do with her. I once had an old friend email me after several years of non-communication. I was the one who initially terminated that friendship. His email seemed sincere and I made the mistake of replying and engaging him in conversation. By his second or third reply, he was right back to his old…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 08:52 PM
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I hate condoms too, bro. That's just one of the many reasons I prefer an LTR over spinning plates. My girl is faithful to me and I to her, it's nice to be able to fuck whenever, wherever, cum inside of her and not worry. I have a vasectomy, so no baby worries. If I didn't have a vasectomy, though, I would never trust any woman with birth control unless I went to the doctor with her and saw them give her the shot every time. Women are notorious for "forgetting" to take their pills. They will get …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 04:34 PM
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You're both right. I'm in my thirties. There are plenty of hot thirty something women around. A lot of them like to fuck. They say a woman's sexuality peaks in her thirties... There's a reason they call it the "dirty thirties." That said, they can be a pain in the ass. Most of them have kids and their kids come first. They've been burned a bunch of times and carry a lot of baggage, mistrust, etc. Many of them are trying to lock down a provider so they want to move in, get married and so on and t…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 05:52 AM
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Oh, man. Better than ever. Should have left her years earlier.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:03 PM
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Next. Why the fuck would anyone commit to being sexually exclusive with someone they haven't had sex with? I test drive every car before I hand over money and my cock is way more important to me than my ride.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 07:42 AM
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a female masturbation gathering Wait, what? When is the next one? I need to study this... For science...
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 07:38 AM
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Tone policing is a banable offense in this sub. Don't fucking come in here and tell other members how to talk.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 07:29 AM
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No, it's purely anecdotal. The girl in question is a close friend of my daughter so she's been over to visit a bunch of times. Nice girl. I don't think there's any feminist anything behind it, but she wants T. Says a couple of her friends (also girls) are dosing. She was bitching because her mom was freaking out, accusing her of being a lesbian. She went on for awhile about "not every girl who takes T is a lesbian", "some of us just want to be bigger and stronger" and so on. She believes it will…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 06:31 AM
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Your earlier posts are some of the first I found when I stumbled across this sub after my divorce. I was seeking answers and your words were some of the most powerful. Thank you for taking the time to share what you've learned with the rest of us.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:49 AM
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It's already happening. My 18yo daughter has a 17yo friend who has been hounding her mom to let her dose T. Apparently it's a thing amongst some of these high school girls now.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 02:33 AM
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keep a very close eye on any shared accounts. I disagree. Empty any shared accounts. Move everything into an account in your name only. This does not absolve you from sharing that money with her in a divorce, but it does mean the money will be divided by the courts in a legal settlement as opposed to simply taken and pissed away on whatever random shit she thinks she needs. If she empties the accounts and blows it all, I promise you there will be no retribution for her. You will never see anothe…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 11:33 PM
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or else she will leave me and take the kids. Call her bluff. I never let someone get away with an ultimatum. I will call that shit every time. Either she follows through and leaves or she backs off and stops threatening you. Either way, you win. You don't need that shit in your life. Many U.S. States are getting better about shared custody. Depending on where you live, it may not be as easy to simply take your kids away from you as it used to be. If you're taking care of them all day while she w…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 11:25 PM
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So, "Pretend to fit in to make others happy" is your motto? If I don't want a piece of cake I'm not fucking taking it. I would never tell the others they are fat asses, just politely decline. If they infer something from this - "oh you think you're better than us? You think we're fat?" - that's their fucking problem. Same with church. I'm not going. A polite "no thank you." Assert yourself. Don't follow along to please others. That should be Red Pill 101.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 05:57 PM
2

Having is not nearly as satisfying as wanting.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/15 05:52 PM
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I used to be a Christian. I read my Bible and shit didn't add up. A lot of what was being taught in the church and the "expected behavior" of Christians seemed to have no biblical basis and in many cases was the opposite of what the bible actually said. I've been to at least a dozen different Christian churches and spent time in the company of hundreds of Christians, been to bible retreats, youth groups and so on. From what I saw, very few Christians read their bible at all. Those who do often t…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 05:12 PM
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Marriage counseling is a suckers bet. These counselors are mostly women and exist to shame the male into compliance with the female's irrational demands. I spent years in marriage counseling. Lots of money pissed away for nothing. Never again. If a future relationship ever suggests any kind of couples counseling, I'm going to end it right there, cut my losses and walk away.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 07:11 PM
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You and me both, 15 years on my end. Stay strong, brother.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 06:09 AM
2

I saw this during the Super Bowl and it bothered me, too. Nobody else in the room seemed to notice or care, but to me it was just more of the feminist degradation of men that has been going on for awhile.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 05:57 AM
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The guy across the street from me burned his house right the fuck down. No shit. Spent some time in jail for arson. Says it was worth it.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 02:59 AM
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They'll ban it "for their own protection." I've seen posts by SJWs claiming RP women need rescuing from RP men who have abused and brainwashed them.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 06:26 PM
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Lol. He won't back out of the marriage. She's "the one." His "soulmate." The past is the past! Poor fucker...
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 05:13 AM
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The only way to win is to not play. Indeed. I was married to a borderline for 15 years. There's nothing you can do to stop the metaphorical painting. They either love you or hate you and this can change from moment to moment regardless of anything you may or may not do. These women (and sometimes men) are entirely unpredictable. They see and hear what they want to, rewrite their own version of events in their head and that becomes absolute truth to them no matter the facts of the situation. For …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 04:52 AM
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More than covering up the unhappiness, when we do this we're rewarding shitty behavior. I know I was guilty of it during my 15 year marriage. Wife was unhappy, bitchy, moody, and how did I respond? I doted on her even more! Surely if I keep doing nice things for her, she'll start treating me right? Right?? ... What a fool I was. I gave her every incentive to be a bitch. Is it any wonder she went straight to bitch mode on the regular? I basically taught her that's how she gets the princess treatm…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 10:07 PM
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It's not emotional manipulation. It's simple reward response on a social level. Absolutely. This sort of thing is almost automatic for me any more, and it's not manipulation. I do all those nice little things for my girl when I'm feeling close to her, loved and appreciated by her and so on. When she doesn't feel like fucking, I don't feel like doting on her. Simple as that. Surprise, bitches. Men have feelings too.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 04:08 PM
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It's a shit test. She's saying, "Look, I'm flirting with your friend. Whatcha gonna do about it?"
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 02:48 AM
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When my LTR says no, I don't make a big deal out of it. When she says no twice in a row, I quit asking. I also stop showing interest. I stop playfully slapping her ass as she walks by. I stop rubbing against her tits when she hugs me. I stop complimenting her appearance. Oh, you got a hair cut? I didn't notice. I stop texting her all that lovey dovey shit she likes. I don't pay attention to her work drama or whatever dumb story she has to tell me. I spend less time with her and more time improvi…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 02:33 AM
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I'm calling bullshit on his claim to innocence. If I were his girl, I'd dump his ass yesterday. Can you imagine catching your girlfriend exchanging messages and making plans to get coffee with other dudes on Tinder? If any guy posted this here, we would tell him to next the cheating slut. "Just tinkering around", my ass. OP is hamstering this so hard, his hamster's got a hamster. It's fucking hamsterception up in this bitch. Bro, if you want to fuck other girls, next the one you're with first or…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 06:22 AM
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prohibit filming with a hidden camera Hidden camera. Mine are in plain sight. Anyway, I'll record whatever I fucking like in my own home.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 01:52 AM
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Thank you for the well thought out explanation. I mostly agree, however: If OP and his girlfriend break up 7 years from now, she will be pretty severely disadvantaged being a (mid-30s?) woman with no job experience and a huge hole in her resume where she has no employment. Most employers won't hire people like that at all, or if they do, it will be for some menial shit tasks. A few thoughts on this: As soon as the youngest enters Kindergarten, she can go to work. She can work from home now. Ther…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 06:59 PM
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Because if you make substantially more than her she can still legally take that money from you How? They aren't married and don't live in a common law state. She can't touch his money. The only thing she's going to get is child support and I don't think you can sign that away via contract (officially speaking it's for the kids, not her) though it would depend on the state & judge.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 06:21 PM
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Why would anyone commit to something like that? You're just giving her incentive to leave. If she leaves before the kids are grown, the state will force him to pay her ample child support anyway. She doesn't need more of his money on top of that. It's 2015, she can put her big girl panties on and take care of her own financial needs.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 11:53 PM
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What I am really wondering is there a situation that any LTRs have done that does this right. Trust Accounts, LLCs, things of that nature. Funded by whom? You? Why should you have to put money into an account every month for her? Is she a whore that you're renting? Clearly not. You are not obligated to provide her with the financial security she seeks. She is. You're giving her an outstanding package already, happily taking care of her and the kids. This is more than most men would do and should…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 11:51 PM
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According to her it prevents her from feeling completely free be with me. This is a complete and total shit test. She's trying to manipulate you into signing away your life. A woman's feelings change with the winds. Don't get caught up in them. They're essentially meaningless. she stays at home to raise the kids and is worried about her long term financial security if we were to separate Fair enough, but what about your long term financial security? Why should she have access to your assets and …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 11:44 PM
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taking them out with you for the sake of displaying preselection isn't always a bad idea I don't know what this guy is on about. You're exactly right. A few years ago when I was going out regularly, I often brought a couple of hotties with me. These girls would pick up other girls and bring them to our table like clockwork. Outings that would have otherwise been a sausage fest with my bros quickly morphed into parties with two girls for every guy. One of my buddies is still in an LTR with a girl…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:41 PM
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I guarantee he wants to have sex more than once a month. She's denying it to him because he doesn't do it for her, then bitching to you about how hard up she is for sex as if he's the bad guy. That poor fucker, I actually feel sorry for him.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:28 PM
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since I stuck him on the poison drip. This is gold. I'm totally stealing it the next time a toxic bitch comes up in conversation.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:27 PM
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I don't know a single man who is happily married. Wait, I take that back. My neighbors are in their late eighties, have been married forever and the old guy seems happy as a clam. Interestingly, his wife is sweet and submissive to him still. Funny, that. Modern women don't know how to do this anymore. I can only assume it's because their baby boomer mothers didn't model appropriate feminine behavior. I know mine didn't; she was too busy out-earning my Dad and busting his balls for the most trivi…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:19 PM
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It's not, really. The first group are still in the anger phase. They feel dismissed by women and/or society or they've been recently burned by a woman (that's what led me here) and they're upset. Eventually, most of these guys will grow out of that. It takes time.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 08:44 PM
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Dude 5'7" isn't that bad. Get your ass to the gym and get ripped. You'll do fine.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 08:11 PM
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we both got off Damn straight. Bitches always be acting like sex is some kind of favor. I like to turn that shit around on them. "Well, my services are $250 an hour, honey."
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:44 PM
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"I don't always remember to take my pill, lol..." None of them do. Never, ever trust a woman who says she's on the pill. My daughter was born because my girlfriend told me she couldn't get pregnant. Had a whole story about medical issues, how the doctor said she would never be able to have a child, even cried about it and expressed worry I would break up with her. I didn't care because I wasn't trying to have a kid. So we didn't use condoms and she got pregnant right away. The OB/GYN told her sh…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:33 PM
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Where I live in California if your wife gets pregnant the kid is yours. End of story. Same in my state. In fact I think a lot of states have implied paternity laws for married couples these days. Just another reason to never marry.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:19 PM
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The maximum penalty for carrying out secret paternity testing is one year in prison and a €15,000 fine Still worth it compared to raising someone else's demon spawn (18 years to life and hundreds of thousands).
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:12 PM
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Fuck that dude, bro. Pizzafucker doesn't know what the fuck he's talking about. Your FR was great, the parts he complained about were some of my favorites. I hope you stick around and keep posting.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 08:10 PM
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Fuck you, that was hilarious. Concern trolling used to result in a ban. Pity the mods are spread so thin these days.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 07:30 PM
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I disagree that it's his fault. He's been lied to his entire life just like the rest of us. He dotes on her and puts up with her lack of interest because he's been told that's what a good husband does. He's trying to be a good man for her. These bitches need to start recognizing when they have a good man and treat him right. If they did that, this sub wouldn't exist.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 07:22 PM
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Get the lube is a clear indicator that you have not put any effort into getting her warmed up. Can you imagine being with that bitch? Next she's going to tell you that "sex starts in the kitchen" bullshit where she claims to get horny watching you do chores. "I'm not warmed up. You should try mopping the floor, that might do it."
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 07:18 PM
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assuming it's a joint account, since entitled cunts rarely have jobs She has the hardest job in the world. She's a mommy. /s Everything you said is spot on. He doesn't seem to think he can do better, even though he has in the past. His previous girlfriend was a little sweetheart and far better looking. Does anyone have theories on why some men put up with that crap? You know I asked him this one day back when we were still hanging out. He was going on one of his usual rants about what a bitch hi…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:08 PM
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Agreed. There's a reason he's my former friend. I got tired of hearing him constantly bitching and complaining about his situation while refusing to do a damn thing to help himself.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 06:56 PM
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What the fuck? You better be making $25k a week if you're dropping that kind of cash on a fucking crib. What a bitch. One of my former best friends married a similar entitled cunt. I didn't buy them shit for their wedding because the cheapest thing on her gift registry was a goddamn $300 crystal butter tray, and she had been clear that other gifts would not be welcome. She also demanded a $5k ring from him, a janitor who made $8 an hour. The dumb shit financed it at 23% on the mall jeweler's cre…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 02:46 AM
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Makes him wonder? For real?! "I'm tired" is the most obvious excuse in the book. She's tired, all right - tired of her doting beta who says, "oh, okay then. No sex again this week. Would you at least let me rub your back? Pretty please?"
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 02:37 AM
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My experience says you're right. My ex walked with six figures and pissed most of it away in the first year living large and not working.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 04:18 PM
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In reality, that is one of the five stages, anger, of swallowing the pill. Let's face it, most men are already angry prior to finding TRP. Usually they've been recently fucked over by a woman or had their hearts broken. Their anger is what leads them here in the first place. That's exactly how it was for me and countless others I've traded stories with here. So I'm not convinced that swallowing TRP is the cause of the anger. I think the anger was already there. TRP just helps identify it and bri…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 06:06 AM
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I laughed my ass off when dad told me the story of wringing its neck. I'd already shooed them off on multiple occasions months prior for chasing my son while he was trying to ride his bike. They'd stand in the middle of the damn road and honk and harass anyone who dared try to pass. There were 7 or 8 of them, big ornery fuckers. It was kind of hilarious when they first showed up, but their presence got old really fast.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 05:48 AM
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I hope you're right. To be fair, he's still young and just bought the house a year or two ago. You're practically obligated to party through your twenties, especially if you have your own house, so I really shouldn't fault him for that. I do wish he'd give his neighbors a little more consideration...
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 05:43 AM
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I grew up two houses down from a nice family with four kids. Unfortunately, things went south, they divorced and the "mother" (I use that term loosely) got full custody along with the house and God knows what else. The oldest kid, a girl, was about 10 at the time of the divorce (4th grader, I think). As the responsible neighborhood teenager, I was invited to babysit the kids regularly while their mother went out and got her freak on with whatever random guy she found that week. I did this for aw…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 11:17 PM
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This is true. Bitches gonna bitch. My ex wife was famous for changing her expectations after the fact. I'd do exactly what she wanted, she'd get pissed, I'd remind her, "You said x and I did x" and she would say, "Well, that's not what I meant." I used to get frustrated because it seemed women expect men to read their minds. Now I realize that's not it at all. They know damn well we can't read their minds. They just need something to bitch about, some means of knocking you down a notch so she ca…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:27 PM
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That isn't always true. I have two kids, same mother (was married to her for 15 years), both raised with the same values (mine) and so on. My son is respectful and courteous and listens very well, works hard, does what is expected of him most of the time. My daughter, on the other hand, thinks the world owes her everything. She's a stubborn brat who lies her fool head off, doesn't take responsibility for her actions and won't do a damn thing that is asked of her without a fight and/or under thre…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:13 PM
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I once had dinner with my daughter - I think she was 14 at the time but already had a full set of D tits - and I couldn't for the life of me figure out why the waitress was being such a fucking bitch. Giving me dirty looks, acting snotty and so on. When we were almost done eating, she brought the dessert menu and my daughter said, "Daddy, can we get dessert?" Waitresses demeanor changed instantly. It's like a light switch was flipped in her head and it was then that I realized: She thought I was…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 02:58 AM
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Probably my ass, I can guarantee it. I had to part with six figures in my divorce. Dividing that sum by the 2 to 3 times a month duty sex I got from my 6/10 wife reveals a figure I don't care to admit. That's not even counting how much it cost to keep her "haaaappy" during the marriage, nor the substantial child support payments I got stuck with. All told, I could have had a 10/10 top notch whore once a week for less money. Edit: Come to think of it, I could have also hired a housekeeper the ent…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 02:50 AM
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after the breakup, she is fine As you, too, should be. When a girl breaks up with me, my go-to response is: "Okay." Then I get on with my life. Show that you don't give a fuck and you have options, even if you're dying inside. The last time this happened it was less than two hours before she was back, crying and explaining how she didn't really want to break up, she acted too harshly and can we please stay together?
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 04:22 PM
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Sadly, the father and the kid will be the ones who pay the price. Dad is likely to be forced out of the picture and made to pay child support. Kid will grow up with a crazy, bitter and aging single mom.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 10:38 PM
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I'm shocked his wife seems to think she can do better. It takes a special kind of crazy bitch to fuck around on a guy at his level. I've got money that says the guy she's cheating with is broke as fuck and she'll never land another man as high status as the one whose heart she just ripped out.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 06:53 PM
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Brother: I have been there. I understand. It sucks. Let me give you some advice: Your self esteem is shit. I don't think you like, let alone love yourself. I think your love tank is empty and you're desperately looking to your wife to fill it up but she's not doing that. This is very common. Most men look for love in women and are devastated to find it doesn't exist. Yes, a woman can love you, but she can never love you the way you need it. Only you can do that. You need to learn to love yoursel…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 06:28 AM
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I had a woman in her mid fifties come on to me strong a couple of years back. I was in my early thirties at the time, this woman was almost my moms age. She was alright looking for her age, a decent milf, was maybe a 6.5 now but definitely a 9 in her younger years. So I let her suck my cock. When she finished, she was so happy and proud of herself and couldn't stop talking about how great we were going to be together and how she can't wait to introduce me to her son (who was only 4 years younger…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:07 PM
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If this woman had higher SMV, than the mediocre man would no longer suffice. He already doesn't suffice. Women are fucking miserable these days. The men they can realistically hope to land are rarely the men they really want.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 05:57 PM
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Separate accounts do not afford any protection. Not true. Yes, she will be entitled to any money added to that account. However, you will pay her that money on your terms, only after a judge orders it so. She cannot touch it until then. What's the first thing a smart woman does when she's done with her marriage? She cleans out the joint accounts. It's happened to a bunch of my friends & coworkers. One guy's wife re-opened a HELOC (home equity line of credit) that he had paid off and closed month…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 05:29 PM
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What rewards? What do you get out of a wife that you can't out of a long term girlfriend? I've asked many people this question and nobody can give me a straight answer. Please, do tell, what are the benefits of marriage to the man?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 05:19 PM
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I live in a community property state and she still got 2/3rds out the door. Your largest assets (property, businesses) are ripe for negotiation as to their true value and you can bet your ass her lawyers will overvalue them to the point of ridiculousness. She'll get half of a number that's far higher than you could ever sell it all for.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 05:17 PM
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It's basically indentured servitude.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 05:12 PM
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You can't really have kids with a woman and be unattached financially. Broke people do it all the time. They knock a bitch up and then peace out and there are few if any repercussions. I know a fool who pays $25 a month in child support out of his part time fast food job. You can't get blood from a turnip. At least get a prenup and keep your finances separate.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 05:08 PM
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You can't. Once the lawyers enter the scene, it's game over. They pit the couple against one another for fun and profit. I knew this going into my divorce and convinced my wife that it would be smarter to do it ourselves and keep our money instead of wasting it on lawyers. She agreed and we did an amicable 50/50 split. She took her half and moved out. Six months later a judge signed the final papers. An hour after that, a lawyer showed up, claimed she was forced to sign the settlement under dure…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 04:59 PM
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"I have to pay off my loan" will become her cry A friend of mine married a nurse with tens of thousands in student loan debt. A year or so into the marriage he refinanced his house (that he'd owned for years prior to meeting her) and paid those loans off, taking a sub prime mortgage with a high interest rate at 120% of the property's value. A year or so later she split and left him with the bill, plus over $50k in credit card debt she had opened in his name while they were married. Don't let thi…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:03 AM
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I lost a friendship over this. The guy was always whining about money and could never afford to do shit. He was a childhood friend from way back, though, and a really likable guy. So for awhile a bunch of us would always pitch in a few bucks so he could come to movies with us, etc. It got old, though, and we all started to resent him... Especially when he would go and do stupid shit like the time he borrowed over $3k on a Home Depot card to build a life sized dollhouse for his daughter, then com…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:55 AM
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Outstanding post. Only one nitpick: 50/50 is only the starting point for negotiation. Women can and do get more, often much more. My ex got about 2/3rds. Even if you do get 50/50, it's more like 30/30/40 with the lawyers taking the 40%. The value of assets is not always easy to calculate. Consider my home, worth about half a million on paper but realistically I'd be lucky to get $350k in this market. I wanted it, I kept it, but I had to buy it out of the marriage at full price. Lesson learned: D…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 01:01 AM
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Those of you with experience, do you have any ideas or examples for new TRP converts on how to engage a girl on assessing your bedroom performance. Yeah. Don't. No girl wants to be asked how you did. It reeks of insecurity. You'll know you did a good job if she comes back for more. If not, oh well. Find another one to practice on and repeat until you get it right. If you must communicate, do it during sex in the form of dirty talk. "You like that, baby? Yeah you do, you dirty girl." If she's moa…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 06:43 AM
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Outstanding. I put off divorce for years because I didn't want to go through that particular hell. Now that I've done it - and yes, it was pure hell, a nightmare I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy - the end result was absolutely worth it. I should have left her years earlier. The freedom is the best part. There is nobody around to tell me no. I don't have to negotiate or argue with a woman about everything I want to do. I just do it. There is no whining, no drama, no compromising. I don't have to…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:35 PM
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While the women they were with had this disgustingly smug look about them. They led their men around like dogs. They keep us as pets. Look how the proverbial American male is portrayed in popular culture: A dumb baffoon, useful for buying shit and honey-do's although he always manages to botch those up. The women are portrayed as the smart ones who always know how everything should be done. She rules the roost, tells him what to do and how to do it and the dumbass complies because he doesn't thi…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:36 AM
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I'd say this is accurate. My ex wife and some of her friends used to call me a misogynist long before I found this sub. I never understood what the fuck their problem was. Refusing to entertain her silly attempts to control and manipulate me meant I hated women? Now I know it was just shaming language designed to put the beta back in his box. Fortunately for me, it didn't work. Years later I found this sub full of like minded men and it all started making sense.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 06:49 AM
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I don't think she just wanted to see him cry. I think she's unhappy, has been for awhile and wants him to divorce her because she doesn't have the strength to walk away herself. Consider she already broke up with him once in the past and told him she understands if he divorces her over this. She wants out. She just can't say it.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 12:00 AM
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They might as well say, "OP, please for the love of God continue being a doormat for women." People love the status quo. The last thing they want is yet another guy shaking things up. The fact is when men find this sub, women like OP's wife and the losers who support those women lose one more source of beta bucks and emotional dumping grounds. I have never been happier since finding this place. So many questions answered, so many missing blanks in my life filled in. I am finally in control of my…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 09:12 PM
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Unfortunately, when you're married it's her house too. The courts and police will not allow you to kick her out. They will, however, allow her to kick you out. All she has to say is she's afraid of you and you're gone. You will be forcibly removed from your home and slapped with a restraining order against going anywhere near it, her, or her place of employment. Typically you will also be ordered to continue making the house payment and paying all utilities, and they often order you transfer a c…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 09:00 PM
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The only issue for 30 year old men is everyone tries to cockblock them if they want to date 22 year olds. I find it especially entertaining, personally. I got a lot of sneers from people a few years back when I was hanging out with a 19yo (I'm in my thirties). I just smiled, laughed to myself and didn't give a single fuck. My own mother used the word "disgusting." Still no fucks to give. Haters gonna hate. (Dad quietly praised me after mom left the room, said he hoped I was "tapping that.")
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 07:16 AM
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The most cited reason among the women who bring most divorces is "irreconcilable differences". In many states, no-fault divorce laws make any other reason irrelevant. The courts don't have the time to chase down accusations and deal with all of the he-said she-said nonsense so they just did away with it.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 06:55 AM
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I would say a lot do. If we can pretend for a minute that all the marriage 2.0 be didn't exist and that you could be reasonably sure the marriage would last etc. Damn right. I'd love to marry my girl but the entire fucking deck is stacked against me. What we need is a wedding and legal separation on the same day. Then you can't take each other's shit when things go south. People let themselves go when they get married, too. Men and women alike. I don't want to be stuck with someone who has decid…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 06:31 AM
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No, I suppose not. I read "forex" but my mind said "stock."
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:51 AM
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One thing to watch that I'm sure you know, but I'll say it just in case: Make sure you understand how your actual transactions will affect the market. I did virtual day trading for a few months and made a lot of money on paper, so I put some real money into it. Unfortunately I failed to consider the effect of my trades on the market. The penny stocks I played with didn't have a lot of volume so my trades had actual impact. Lost thousands of dollars in a few seconds when similar trades on paper a…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:42 PM
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I just want to back this up. Most of my hobbies either make me money or break even. As a result, I have a lot more disposable income than my coworkers. Even though we all have comparable salaries, they spend their free time playing video games and building bigger and better gaming rigs. I buy & sell things that interest me, build stuff in my shop to sell, design web sites on the side and so on.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:36 PM
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I would hand her the phone and insist she call the police, file a report, get examined by a doctor and so on. I wouldn't kill a guy and spend the rest of my life in jail.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:29 PM
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Again, not that I fully support this sub .... Please stop saying this. Nobody cares. Either you have something good to say or you don't. In this case, you did - boys education is a huge issue - but your need to qualify yourself tainted the message in my mind. I don't think anyone supports everything that everyone in any sub says. Very few really drink the proverbial kool-aid of any major social movement in its entirety. We all take bits and pieces to identify with.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 08:25 AM
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That's ok. We'll get there on our own, eventually, as men begin to wise up and take these women off their pedestals. I already have the benefit of mandatory paternity testing (self imposed, I won't sign a birth certificate nor accept any responsibility for the child without proof). Others will follow. When a man swallows trp, he begins to understand the incredible power he holds - and that he's had it the whole fucking time. That realization blooms into an unstoppable force of a man. A man who s…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 08:05 AM
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Risky in terms of what? I would never count on a woman of any age following through with an abortion in the event of an accident. Always control access to your sperm and never trust her with birth control. They "forget" all the goddamn time. She'll eventually get baby fever and want one. She may or may not tell you when that happens. "I'm pregnant" is their ultimate weapon for locking a man down. The only other factor you have to consider is drama. As long as you can hold frame and are willing t…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 02:38 AM
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giving her cervical cancer essentially. Most HPV strains don't contribute to cervical cancer. Even the strains that can usually don't.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:29 PM
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man pussy is great "Let's eat Grandma." "Let's eat, Grandma." Commas save lives.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:26 PM
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and then she's screwed, turning a decent girl tainted HPV isn't herpes. It's incredibly common, most people have had it at some point in their lives and it does go away.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:25 PM
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YMMV. I skipped college and went right into the work force. After 4 years, when my peers were just graduating with little to no real life work experience, I already had a solid resume with a great list of accomplishments and positive feedback from my employer. I used that to get into a higher paying job with a tuition benefit, then went back to college on the company's dime. Finished my BS in 3 years and the entire $50k+ bill for my education was paid by my employer. Downside, I pulled 90+ hour …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 09:12 PM
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No matter what happens i will always have this house. Not quite. The government still demands you pay property taxes. If you don't or can't, they'll take your home, the bastards.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:58 PM
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Often they're so irrationally angry they want to completely ruin the man no matter the cost. I know a guy who lost a six figure job and spent some time in jail when his ex ratted him out for dealing drugs during the divorce. Dumb bitch bragged that she was going to ruin him and "take everything." The cops seized most of his assets, so she didn't get shit. He's now an unemployable felon, so her child support and alimony dreams are gone. She's a single welfare mom and since she also lied about him…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:34 PM
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What if the girl clearly doesn't want kids? I don't think these exist. My LTR was very adamant from the beginning about never wanting kids nor marriage. She's in her early thirties, no kids, never married, not into it. As a divorced man with two kids and a vasectomy, I agreed to LTR her up in large part because her position on these matters fit like a glove with mine. Every woman I spoke with told me, "It doesn't matter what she says. She wants kids and a marriage. Just wait, it will come out." …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 08:17 PM
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If she still cares for you however, which is sounds like she does, you're obviously leading her on and misrepresenting your intentions. What the fuck is this shit? "Leading her on and misrepresenting (his) intentions" is only true if he's giving her hope that she can go back to an exclusive relationship with him. Simply fucking a girl does not imply anything of the sort. So what if she still cares for him? That's for her to deal with. A man has no responsibility for her feelings and emotions. He…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:51 PM
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Great FR. One of the most important takeaways from this post is something I haven't seen discussed a lot here: Building rapport with staff at local spots. When you're a regular, you feel more comfortable there (makes approaching easier) and if you've treated the staff well, they'll offer you little perks that make you look like a Big Deal to outsiders. For guys sitting at home not sure what their first step should be, who aren't good at picking up women yet, I say set it aside for a minute and g…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 08:29 AM
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Another girl I knew from high school got suspended for having a threesome on campus with one of the football players. I wonder if she told her chubby lawyer husband about this. I guarantee she didn't. As far as he knows, she's not that kind of girl. He's one of those typical married men who has to jump through hoops to score points he may later be allowed to exchange for sex, unless she moves the target (again). The hamster will say that just because she did it in the past or with another doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 07:05 AM
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I had one and used to do this all the time. Actually lived it in for awhile prior to divorce. After the divorce, I got to thinking and it kind of pissed me off that I needed a man cave. Why the fuck couldn't my buddies come hang out in the big beautiful house that I alone paid for? Why did I ever let myself be relegated to the pool house? Wife was a temperamental brat who threw fits, I should have just said, "Too bad, we're playing poker in the dining room, it's my fucking dining room too, deal …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 07:48 PM
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What is there to deny? Love is a very real emotion. To claim it doesn't exist would be foolish. If you're asking about your one true love, soulmate, etc, that's just a bunch of Disney nonsense. There is no "the one." Nobody is going to love you unconditionally, except perhaps your parents and only then if you're really lucky. The entire concept of falling in love and living happily ever after is a fairy tale. A bit more substance to your post would be helpful. Maybe write a paragraph with some m…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 08:29 PM
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That's the way of the fatty, though. Bitch and complain and point their fat fingers at others.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 07:04 PM
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I don't have a wife. Did that shit once, never again. I have a solid LTR with a younger girl. If she cheats, no worries, I'll replace her with another. Women are a dime a dozen.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 06:39 PM
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Jesus, bro. That was deep. It really moved me. I went through those exact emotions with both of my kids. You'd think I would have been more into the second one, having gone through it before, but it was the same thing: No bond to speak of until the birth. We need more posts like this around here.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 10:44 AM
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I like to think of an LTR as choosing to own an exotic pet like a tiger or an alligator. I've always said that a woman is the most challenging animal a man can learn to keep.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:56 AM
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I had a bad marriage and ended it a couple of years ago, but I learned some things in the process. First, keep your money separate. Never, ever put her on your bank account. If she insists on a joint account, open a new one together but keep your old one. Your paycheck goes into yours. You then transfer $x into the joint account each month for shared expenses. What's left is for you to do with as you please. Many states are community property and that money in your account is still up for grabs …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:41 AM
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That's up to you, bro. What do you want? Personally, I'm fine with a boring, basic bitch as long as she's down for whatever I find interesting at the moment.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 07:18 PM
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It's more likely he will raise her next oopsie and lovingly provide for both it and the mother as if it were his own.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 07:27 PM
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Nope. Nothing will happen to her. There are basically no repercussions for bitches who cry rape.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 06:26 PM
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A lot of others will read this and want to try it with their plates. Not every comment is directed toward the OP. Some, like this, are for everyone. It's great fucking advice. I'm actively recording most areas of my home now and have a dash cam in my vehicle that has already saved me thousands of dollars.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 08:13 AM
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They ain't getting shit back, bro. Whatever is left in any cash accounts is likely all they'll be able to touch. After 5 years I bet there's very little left, and I'm sure this little bitch and her family cleaned it the fuck out as soon as this started going down.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 07:53 AM
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I divorced her and yes, I got screwed. She got about 2/3rds in the end on top of the boatload I had to pay my attorney, plus a substantial monthly child support check.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 09:52 PM
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This. My ex has BPD, she truly believes her own shit and she's incredibly convincing. She can look you in the eye and tell you a story with complete conviction. When challenged - "No, it didn't happen that way" - she digs her heels in hard and flat out demands that yes, it did happen that way. Again, because she is so firm in her conviction and truly believes what she's saying is true, she doesn't trigger your bullshit detector like someone who is knowingly lying. Even after being presented with…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 09:49 PM
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Yeah, two kids and a 15 year marriage. So glad it's over. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 09:28 PM
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My ex wife gaslighted me for years. She always had her own version of how events happened that never jived with my own memory of the incident. Naturally, in the alternate reality she painted, I was always the bad guy and she was the poor helpless victim. There were a few times during the marriage where she had me doubting my own sanity. However, I started to notice patterns in her behavior, so I began keeping a digital diary on my iPhone. Every time she would have a freak out or levy a fresh acc…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 07:46 PM
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The vast majority of married men I know are in this. My father is one as are several of my friends. Their wives take their paychecks and dole them back out an allowance. Dad said when I was growing up she would give him $20 a month and then get pissy at him if he spent it on something she didn't think was necessary.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:57 PM
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Near the end of our marriage my ex hired a goddamn Christian marriage counselor who told me I was being financially abusive and basically demanded I let her spend spend spend. It came about because the bitch wanted a pony (no shit), but we had just bought a new house and couldn't afford it. She tried to demand I get a second job because my 60 hour a week six figure income wasn't enough, I told her how about you get a first job instead, if you want a damned pony pay for it yourself. Boom, marriag…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:52 PM
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Even then, you need to be very careful what you say. "Do you know why I pulled you over" and "Do you know how fast you were going" are fishing expeditions to trick you into incriminating yourself. Maybe he pulled you because your tabs were expired but you mouth off about your illegal tint and now you're fucked. "No, Officer, why did you pull me over?" is the only acceptable response. Often the cop has no goddamn idea how fast you were going. Most people will try to minimize it: They know damn we…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 05:46 AM
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You're full of shit. Your balls still produce sperm after a vasectomy, doing the same job they've always done, and do not shrink. The sperm is released into the body and re-absorbed instead of being sent down the pipes.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:57 AM
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If by some chance you meet a worthy woman later you can get the vasectomy reversed. The success rate on reversals is not very high and goes down each year post-vasectomy. A vasectomy should be considered a permanent and irreversible procedure and any doctor worth a shit will tell you this. "Just get it reversed if" should never be in any kind of long term plan. I have a vasectomy and I love it. It's so nice to be able to fuck my girl anytime, finish inside her and never worry about a baby scare.…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:50 AM
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A paternity test is $79 at full retail cost. It's probably half that in a bulk, ongoing contract. 4 million babies born each year in the US would be about $160M for testing. The 2015 federal budget is 3.9 trillion, so mandated paternity testing would be 0.00004% of that. It's not even a drop in the proverbial bucket. The men who have to pay for babies that aren't theirs are usually spending 20-50% of their paycheck on that shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:32 AM
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Nothing is 100% safe. There is risk in everything you do, especially medical procedures.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:14 AM
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Was this in anyway a fair trade? Do you think it was? This was your time you invested. Was it worth what you got out of it? Your opinion is the only one that matters here.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 06:27 AM
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Seems like the tall thin guys often wind up with big girls. My buddy is about 6' and maybe 130lbs, his wife's ass weighs more than he does. Both of my ex's brothers are the same, tall and thin with fat, loud wives. If you're fat, at least be nice and cook well. Exactly. I know some big girls who are sweet as pie (and can whip up a damn delicious pie, too). I've also heard fat girls give outstanding head. They're making up for their shortcomings in other ways and I respect that. These big ugly lo…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 06:15 AM
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Leaving him will free you up to find the man of your dreams, the one who can make your toes curl and take your breath away. Such a pretty lie. I've seen a lot of divorced women leave their beta bucks providers to find that alpha cock who "can make her toes curl." It almost always ends badly for them. A close friend's ex become a heroin addict and lost rights to their child. His brother's ex is a stressed out 45yo gold digger hopping from one man to the next trying to find riches and getting pump…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 05:13 AM
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When you rescue a damsel in distress, you just wind up with a distressed damsel.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:47 AM
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I long for the good old days of gentlemen's clubs, and I'm not talking about titty bars. I'm talking big leather chairs, scotch and cigars, no women allowed men's clubs. My grandfather enjoyed them back in his day, but by the time I reached adolescence in the nineties they were pretty much gone. I read an article not too long ago where one of the last remaining clubs in NYC was forced by a lawsuit to admit women on the grounds that a lot of business deals and connections happen in these clubs.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:45 AM
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One of my closest childhood friends wifed up a straight wildebeest. Not only is she fat as fuck, she's got an ugly face and is a terrible bitch. Treats him like shit and doesn't allow him to see his friends. She's got 3 of his kids now, he's trapped good, the poor bastard. I don't get it. This guys must have very low self esteem...
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:34 AM
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We call these girls "alpha widows." There's a bunch of 'em out there.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 04:13 AM
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He might just need to find a girl who is more like him. I know half a dozen nerdy girls who just sit in front of their computer screens all day, too. They're not very pretty... But they exist.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 03:41 AM
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I partially disagree. Some of us already had high social value, we just didn't realize it and/or want to hone our skills. I didn't come here to learn to get women. I don't have any trouble attracting them on my own. I'm here to learn some tips on how to deal with them and to enjoy good conversation with like minded men.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 11:07 PM
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'm always skeptical when a woman says she doesn't want to get married or doesn't want kids As you should be. Women who say this are liars. My LTR told me the same. I was just a few months on the other side of a divorce when we met and I was very vocal about never getting married again and being done having children. She was all about it. Said she never wants to marry either, never dreamed of her wedding day like most girls, doesn't want kids of her own, etc. A year in and she changed her mind. N…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 06:11 PM
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He may have been looking for an excuse to leave. Hell yes he was. Do you think this is the first time this bitch has gone crazy on him? I highly doubt it. I know what I put up with before I finally had enough. Most men are inclined to stick around and try to work shit out, even when they shouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 08:33 AM
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Not to mention, men convicted of domestic violence lose their right to possess firearms in many states. So some bitch makes up a lie about me and the state takes away one of my most important constitutional rights? That's really fucking great.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 08:26 AM
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Men who are in happy relationships don't come to TRP seeking to change things up. If your woman treats you great and you're happy with her and everything is wonderful, why would you be on the Internet researching techniques for dealing with her? When a woman says her man went RP and ruined their relationship, what she means is he ruined the super sweet deal that bitch had going on at his expense. This is why they're pissed off. This is why they hate us more than subs with pics of dead babies. We…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 08:19 AM
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I don't think you can "take the red pill" in a month. Really internalizing these concepts takes a lot longer than that. You've only just begun, young Padawan. Don't get ahead of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 08:53 PM
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If you get someone pregnant, just man up and take responsibility for what you did. That shit works both ways.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:05 PM
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Men have to concede that it's a woman's choice to keep the child, but it should be our choice to leave if we want nothing to do with that child. I can't upvote this enough. It's frustrating that a pregnant woman literally holds my child's life in her hands, while figuratively holding my own and I have absolutely no say in the matter. She can choose to keep it and force me to provide both her and the child with a decent standard of living, or she can kill it and there's not a damn thing I can do.…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 07:01 PM
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I really like this one. It's similar to "Fake it until you make it." I've found that if you force yourself to behave a certain way, the awkwardness will eventually fade as you begin to truly embody the traits of the type of person you want to be. At first you're just practicing, but like anything else you get better and better at it until it becomes natural and a part of who you are. Your internal frame rubs off on others. If you see yourself as a loser, don't be surprised when others see you in…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 06:49 PM
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This is why I think op should have called out the guy the very moment he made the joke. It sounds like his girl was all about it. It was a great test of their new relationship and that bitch failed. If she'd been clearly offended by the suggestion and wanted no part of it, that would have been the appropriate time to call the guy out for disrespecting him and his girl. However, since she was OK with it, I think he played his hand real well.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 06:19 PM
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This is outstanding. Not that she got what was coming to her; that part is a little depressing. I can't celebrate the situation that poor bitch has found herself in. It's too bad she couldn't be a decent girlfriend and treat her man right. I want to think that maybe this will be her wake up call, but we all know it probably won't. In fact, if you clear your mind and listen real close, I'll bet you can hear her spinning this story to the next guy at this very moment. What I find outstanding about…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 05:17 AM
1

This just sounds very petty to me. If a girl I was seeing demanded I cut ties with any of my friends I'd tell her to take a fucking hike. Look, there are plenty of good reasons to be suspicious about your girl hanging out with her ex. The guys who have a hard-line stance on this aren't wrong, per se, but you have to use your head about it. Facebook friends? Who cares. They talk or text occasionally? Who cares. They're "besties" who trade messages all day long, hang out together one-on-one and ge…
/r/askTRP16/12/14 11:15 PM
2

Look, you just need to have a conversation with the girl. It's not going to be fun or comfortable, but it is what it is. Just be up front: "Would you be interested in spending the rest of your life with me even if we never get married?" She's going to want to know where all of this is coming from, I'd tell her, "I've just been thinking about it lately and it looks like a whole lot of liability with very little benefit." Be prepared to reassure her of your love and commitment. This might be a dea…
/r/askTRP16/12/14 10:39 PM
10

Okay, I'll bite. I knocked up my high school sweetheart at 18. Married her at 19. Spent the entirety of my twenties working my ass off to feed my family and keep a roof over our heads while my buddies partied and fucked random hotties. My wife barely fucked me at all during this time. It sucked hard. I completely missed out on all of the fun my friends had in their twenties. How do I cope? Simple, I have money and a rock solid career while most of these guys don't. All that working I did is now …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 10:12 PM
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This is all so hilarious to me. They are all the fucking same! I spent 15 years married to a "good religious girl" who didn't give me head until year 14. I'd bumped into a 19 year old cutie pie on a flight and she took a liking to my 30-something self. She constantly wanted to hang out and she was cool as hell so I let her. Wife lost her goddamn mind. Demanded I cut all contact or she was divorcing me. I said "peace out, baby" and went to bed. She cried all night, then turned into a total sex fr…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 07:49 AM
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Absolutely. I'm not saying it's right if I walk my lily white ass into the hood, start some shit with some brothers and get my ass shot... but I understand and sure as shit share at least some of the blame for my predicament.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 12:21 AM
49

Sometimes women are seriously fucking children. Sometimes they actually fuck children, too, but it's not rape because he probably wanted it. /s
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 12:15 AM
1

We have to change it one child at a time. I can't control what other parents do, but I can control myself and my son will never, ever be on such medication. Period. I would take him and leave the country before I would allow this to happen to him.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 11:17 PM
2

In most states you have "be known to the community as husband and wife." Basically, you have to play like you're married. Simply living together is not enough to enter into a common law marriage in most of the nine states that still allow it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common-law_marriage_in_the_United_States
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 10:53 PM
4

No one is safe. Don't get married. In the wake of my divorce, I've talked with a lot of older guys about their lives. Coworkers, friends, acquaintances and most recently, contractors working on the remodel of my home. Most of these guys have been divorced and remarried. Every single one of them has expressed profound regrets. The guy running my roofing crew. The guy who owns the stucco company. My concrete guy, his business partner and two of his employees all sat around and shot the shit with m…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 09:57 PM
1

No. Unless your buddy is a woman and you've been playing husband and wife together.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:30 PM
1

Never add her to any of your accounts, period.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:24 PM
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Me 6. Ex wife got all of the liquid assets including 401k and daughter's college fund. Walked with six figures cash two years ago. Daughter is now 18 and wants to go to college, her mom "can't afford to help." It took me 15 years to save that money. She pissed through most of it within a year.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:23 PM
1

I'm not sure how taxes work on "child support" In the US, child support is not taxed as income to the receiving parent: The person paying the support has already paid taxes on it and it is not tax deductible. So this $52k a year is tax free. Roughly equivalent to a $65k/year job.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:15 PM
3

If you must marry, stay far away from materialistic whores like that guy's exwife. They're all materialistic whores when it comes time to split up. As soon as it's clear to her that the relationship is over, women become incredibly vengeful and will do everything they can to ruin you out of spite. This usually involves as much financial ruin as she can rain down on you because, let's face it, most men are incredibly attached to their financial success to the point where it defines who they are. …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 08:10 PM
8

It would matter, actually. No jury is going to convict when there is a video of the girl bouncing up and down on his cock screaming "Fuck me daddy!"
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 09:47 PM
3

I had a friend who caught herpes from a side fling, then gave it to his girlfriend who he eventually married. Some six or seven years later he invited me to a threesome with him and his wife. Apparently he had completely forgotten I knew they both had an incurable std. Nope'd the fuck out of that.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 04:15 PM
2

Once you're labelled as a misogynist it's very hard to change that reputation. Yeah, I don't even give a fuck anymore. The only people who give a shit are white knight faggots and fat hamplanets, neither of which I care to have in my life. Now, I just agree & amplify when someone pulls the misogynist card. "You know it, sweet tits. Get me another beer." This behavior has not put any kind of a damper on my sex life. If anything, the "bad boy" reputation I've inadvertently fostered has been entire…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 11:34 PM
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I was married to one for 15 years. She would twist everything I did or said to make herself a victim. She often insisted I did or said things that never happened, or the opposite, swear up and down that something didn't happen when I know it did. She was so good at this that she had me doubting my own sanity for years. In hindsight, I think she was so completely fucking crazy that she fully believed her lies, which made them all the more convincing. I got my head on straight during the last year…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 10:32 PM
3

If she goes without you and gets drunk once a week or more that is a bad sign. FTFY. I don't have any problem with partying, drinking or guy friends, but here's the deal: I'm to be invited. Every time. If drinking and partying is going on and your woman doesn't want you there, there's a reason for it. Next that bitch.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 10:16 PM
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Agreed. If your woman cheats on you, she is solely to blame. Often the other man doesn't even know you exist. When he does, I guarantee he has been told countless lies about how awful you treat her, how you don't satisfy her in bed and so on. Lastly, he doesn't have any kind of a commitment to you. She does, and she's the one breaking that, not him.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 10:07 PM
1

My LTR booty-calls me from time to time. A few months ago I was on my way home from her place after, stopped to get some groceries and was approached by a hottie who said she needed a ride. I agreed to take her where she wanted to go. She was in my car less than a minute when she asked me if I had any place she could shower. Then she asked if I had a place she could sleep tonight. When I said no, she offered that I could have my way with her in exchange for a shower and a warm bed. I declined in…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 07:25 PM
2

Lastly, understand that this is all practice and putting yourself in the right situations. You didn't just pick up a guitar and start playing, you practiced. So much this. You have to fail (and fail and fail and fail some more) before you succeed. This is true for practically everything in life. I can't tell you how many failed business ideas I had before I found a formula that worked. Each rejection is one step closer to success. So get out there, approach people and get rejected. The more you …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 06:34 AM
8

Agreed. I grew up similarly. My mother owned my father and still does. I'm pretty sure she keeps his balls in her hope chest. He exists for her amusement, to do work around the house for her, to bring home a paycheck and so on. She "takes care of him" (read: treats him like a child) and, often, he acts like one. I reject it all and refuse to live that way. I will not be owned by anyone and sure as hell won't be controlled by a pussy. Pussy is cheap. I can buy it for a couple hundred bucks or a f…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 05:57 AM
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They seem to hold all the power and we have absolutely no say. I cant see any power men have. You're kidding, right? They do what they want I think I see where this is coming from. You hold no power over women and this bothers you. So flip the script. Don't let them hold any power over you. You know I've found it easiest to get pussy when I give the least amount of figurative fucks. When I just don't give a damn because I've got more important things to do than fuck around with some silly bitch,…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 02:24 AM
19

Jesus, bro. I had a wife for 15 miserable years. No idea why anyone would want two of them.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 02:07 AM
15

In a statement, University of Virginia President Teresa Sullivan said: "Over the past two weeks, our community has been more focused than ever on one of the most difficult and critical issues facing higher education today: sexual violence on college campuses. Today's news must not alter this focus." In other words, "We don't care that this probably didn't happen. We're still going after the men who are responsible. If they don't exist, we'll dig and dig until we have at least one man to pin this…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 01:42 AM
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They want truly superior men Right, and what's the first thing they do when they catch one? Try to break him down, shit test him into oblivion and turn him into a beta. If she succeeds, she looses all attraction to him and finds a new alpha to fuck. The takeaway is nothing we don't already know: Hold your motherfucking frame, dread, abundance mentality and never acquiesce. Be the rock. Be unmovable. Be willing to walk away and let her go at any time, knowing to the very depth of your soul that y…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 08:02 PM
3

You provide her with more value than other men. This is the definitive answer and most of the responses here repeat it in one form or another. This means you have to be more valuable than other men, which isn't hard to do given the average man is perfectly mediocre. My LTR has shared a few stories about past boyfriends and I can safely say I'm the best she's ever had. She has fought hard to keep me on more than one occasion so I know I'm the prize. The other part is dread and abundance mentality…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 06:41 PM
5

Hey, more power to you, bro. If you want to spend countless hours of your time earning fake money, armor and other trinkets, go for it. I prefer to spend my time earning money in real life. It is infinitely more rewarding than fake shit in a fake world. I love games. I used to game every night for hours and had frequent LAN parties that lasted for days straight. One day I sat down and did some mental calculations and realized the time I spent playing games could have been put to much better use.…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 08:45 PM
2

My ex is one of those women. If she had a million dollars, she wouldn't have enough money. Mine too. I think most women are like this when they're spending money they didn't earn. I also put mine on a strict budget toward the end, she resented me deeply for it. Threw regular fits, asked me to get a second job (bitch, how about you get a first job?), even got her church counselor to drag me into a session and chastised me for not letting her spend (he said, and I quote, "What's wrong with a littl…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 06:13 PM
2

It's even easier than you stated: Oh you don't wanna go down on me. Next. No need to ask more questions or have a discussion. There are plenty of women out there willing to suck my dick. I'll go play with them instead.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 07:00 AM
2

Fuck, bro. Other than all the cheating I could have wrote this. 15 years married, 2 kids, joint custody, no alimony and she's still getting $1400/mo out of me. Before I found this place, it hit me. She needs me. I do not need her. Totally this. I went through the exact thing before I found TRP. She was constantly threatening me with divorce so I just called her bluff one day. Wouldn't you know it that bitch wasn't serious at all. As soon as I had the papers drawn up she was begging and pleading …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 06:35 AM
3

Exactly! It's really become a game for me at this point. I almost enjoy it.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 12:17 AM
4

Doesn't matter if he's a loser. Bitch was wrong to cheat on him. If he's not doing it for her, she should dump him first. We all know how often that actually happens... AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 06:51 AM
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A buddy and I were on business travel together awhile back. His old high school girlfriend from 20 years ago lived in the city we were staying with her long term boyfriend and she offered to show us around the city. We had a good time and the next night, she threw a big party for us at their house. I met her boyfriend. Rich as fuck, CEO of a nice little corporation. I sat in his million dollar home, ate his prime rib and drank several hundred dollars worth of his single malt scotch. He was a sup…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 06:49 AM
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My desire to go back into the matrix is an unending struggle. I hear you, bro. There have been times when I inadvertently reverted to blue pill, beta bucks behavior with my LTR. I get too comfortable with this woman who I love dearly and the next thing I know she thinks she owns me. I always know I've been too sweet for too long when she drops a big old nasty shit test. At least the stench wakes me up, now that I've learned to recognize and handle them.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 06:10 AM
4

If a parent dies, the other parent gets the kids so long as his parental rights have not been taken away previously. Marriage has fuck all to do with this.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:10 PM
5

Why on Earth would a worthwhile man who knows he has options marry a woman and in doing so assume all risks in the partnership? Staying single and keeping separate finances & assets is the most equitable partnership I can imagine. Each partner keeps and is entitled to only the fruits of their own labor. If the relationship goes south, neither partner can fleece the other.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:07 PM
5

It's not necessarily a bad thing. Depends on what you like. Personally, I love a woman with long hair. I think it's very feminine. Women with short hair take on a masculine look to me. Some can rock it, but most just look like dudes. Turns me off.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 07:29 AM
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Welcome to married life. My ex used to lose her shit about everything. Movies, music, books, web pages... "I can't believe you're watching that. Why would you watch something like that? You need to turn that off. That is totally inappropriate. It really says something about you that you enjoy crap like that. What is wrong with you? Do you think that's cool? It's not. It's not funny, it's not ok, it is completely unacceptable. Married men don't behave this way. That's not how you talk to a woman.…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 07:21 PM
2

I do know about BPD. My ex wasn't diagnosed because she refused to see a real doctor who could make such a diagnosis, but I'm positive that's what was wrong with her. I found an online forum for people in relationships with borderlines and their stories matched my own. Spent about a year there and it really helped me understand and deal with her near the end. Funny thing, after the separation but before the divorce, she begged for me back. I told her I would consider taking her back if she went …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 06:58 PM
-2

I don't care about your comfort. I care about mine. If you can't handle bumping legs with someone else on a crowded train, don't ride on a crowded train.
/r/MensRights21/11/14 05:34 PM
1

They can, but that doesn't mean they do it well. Single mothers barely scrape by most of the time.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 04:57 PM
2

Unless you legitimately fucked up and feel remorse for your actions. Then you really should apologize.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:03 AM
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I don't think most men understand their true value. Why else would a guy go to work every day to provide for a woman who treats him like shit? Men often fail to consider what they bring to the table. I think if most of us sat down and did the math, we'd find that we really are the prize. Her quality of life is often wholly dependent on the fruits of his labor, from the paycheck he brings home to the manual labor he performs fixing and maintaining things. How do you let a woman control you, make …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 06:00 AM
2

I'd just assume that that was an invitation to join that club. Exactly this. "I'm glad you think I'm special, babe. Let's see if your head is good enough to make me cum this time."
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 05:12 AM
-2

I totally don't mind that. "You're gonna let me do what to you? And all I have to do is take the garbage out? Sold!"
/r/TheRedPill21/11/14 05:03 AM
1

Here's my two cents: Laugh it off and keep fucking her. If she tries to force you to make a commitment anytime soon and you want to throw it in her face, you can do it then, but why cock block yourself and call her out now? I would just smile and nod while making a mental note that she has a history of cheating. Let this knowledge guide your future decisions with regard to her role in your life.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 07:10 AM
1

50% or more of your assets, gone in a heartbeat. No, they'll prolong the pain and agony of taking most of what you've ever earned for much longer than a heartbeat. At an average 70 beats per minute, I spent some 40 million heartbeats not knowing if I was going to be completely bankrupt when it was all over. God, I'm so glad to be out from under that rain cloud. Marriage. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 06:56 AM
18

the va-jay-jay was in dessert mode Mmmm, dessert mode. That's the best time! (I know you meant desert. I just think I'm funny tonight. I'll show myself out...)
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 02:49 AM
2

When backed into a corner confronted with her lies (on my recorder) she would go to nuclear personal attacks or claim to me that I doctored the recordings. Or just stick to the lie. They're fucking crazy, bro. Mine did the exact same thing. How they stick to their bullshit after being confronted with proof is absolute insanity. A woman's capacity for lies, manipulation, gaslighting and general cuntsackery is limitless. They're all like that, too, some worse than others. I love my teenage daughte…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 10:03 PM
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As usual, every woman who has ever fucked around with him (and probably some who haven't) is now coming out of the woodwork. "Yeah, he raped me too!" Really? Why didn't you go to an ER and get checked out immediately after it happened? Why didn't you file a police report? Why did you wait decades to come forward? Simple, these bitches weren't raped. They were simply disappointed when gold and diamonds and cash didn't shoot out of his cock like they expected. A man like Bill Cosby doesn't need to…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:23 PM
4

What things have worked for you? I kept a digital diary the last couple of years of my marriage. (Password protected diary apps are a dime a dozen.) I started it because I kept having deja-vu during arguments. She would be losing her shit again and I would be thinking, "Didn't we just fucking go through this? This all seems oddly familiar." So I began documenting her emotional breakdowns. Most of the entries were short, often only a few words or a couple of sentences, just enough to put a mark o…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:39 PM
1

How do you set these boundaries without literally setting them? You decide what you are not willing to tolerate for yourself. When and if she crosses the line (or makes her intention to do so known), you inform her at that time. I prefer to use "I" words. For example, "I don't appreciate that" or "I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who acts like that." I'm policing and controlling my own behavior, not hers. I can make all of the demands I want upon her ("You are not to do x", "You…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:05 PM
1

I don't give a fuck what anyone or any study says... This right here is all I need to know about you. Someone who doesn't give a fuck about scientific evidence and prefers to form his conclusions based on little more than anecdotes from his personal life is just willfully ignorant. How can you not care what science has to say on the matter? Correlation does not imply causation. Consider the possibility that the problems you see with users may not necessarily be a result of the weed. To simplify:…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 06:37 PM
2

I don't know where you've been, but welcome back. I've missed your insight.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 05:53 AM
18

Oh man, you totally nailed it. I realized this about myself when I was in the process of divorcing my wife of 15 years. The girl I loved and longed for did not exist. She was an imaginary construct of my mind, a conglomeration of memories from the good times I'd had with my wife in the past, the few positive character traits she had and, this is key, the things I so desperately wanted her to be and hoped she would one day become. I loved that girl more than anything, but she wasn't real. Separat…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 05:43 AM
18

Anyway, she's a respectable bank manager now and a born again virgin I bet she's a super "good girl" now, too. A sweet little prude who doesn't "do those things" in the bedroom ("those things" being all of the fun shit her beta bucks husband wants that she happily doled out to countless men before).
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 05:27 AM
1

Agreed on the sugar daddy part. If that's the angle a guy is going for, $80k isn't going to cut it. I would never play that role. Might as well admit you have nothing to offer a woman except money at that point. I won't hesitate to use my financial status for social proof, but I'm not going to shower a bitch with expensive gifts so she'll hang out with me. Fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:53 PM
6

But protecting her from unwanted advances, sure that makes sense. She's been protecting herself from unwanted advances since she was 12. Women are pros at this. The only situation in which her man's help will be appreciated is if she's really being harassed by someone who won't take no for an answer. In that case, she will make it very obvious that you need to step in if she doesn't just say so outright. The simple answer to your dilemma, therefore, is to let her do her thing unless she asks for…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:39 PM
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That's silly and unnecessary. High value women get hit on constantly. They know how to reject men. They don't need you to do it for them. A man can't be around his woman all of the time. She's going to be out in the world without him on a regular basis, whether working at her job, shopping, running errands, etc. I have neither the time nor inclination to follow her around everywhere and AMOG the fuck out of every man who looks in her general direction. Shutting down other men is her job, not min…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 09:25 PM
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I don't believe in mate guarding. It strikes me as being weak, needy, controlling/possessive and lacking in abundance mentality. Nobody likes a scared, possessive little man. If you have to control and manipulate your woman to keep her around, you're doing something wrong. Instead, become a better man so she'll desire to please you on her own. Certainly, there are boundaries that must be set and these will be different for every man, but when I set those boundaries they aren't for her. They're f…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 07:31 PM
1

You're wrong. $80k is substantially above average. Most women are going to have a hard time finding a man who makes more than $40k. At $80k, you can provide a very stable household and high quality of living in most areas of the United States. Steak on the dinner table, couple of nice cars, decent house, occasional vacations and so on. That's very attractive to women and far more than most men can do on their own.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 06:08 PM
2

I still got divorce raped. Cost me 2/3rds of everything I owned and a substantial monthly child support check that I'm still paying. Here's the thing though: When she was here and had access to my (our, at the time) checking account, she spent and spent and spent. Even my six figure income wasn't enough for her, she asked me to get a second job so she could have more. (I told that bitch "How about you get a first job instead?") After the divorce, my paycheck became all mine except for the child …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 04:48 PM
1

Also checking in at 5'7" here. If I'm being honest, 5'6.5". It has simply not been an issue, ever. When I met my LTR she was standing just a hair under 6' tall in heels and was into me right away.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:40 PM
7

Married guys are the worst. As soon as I got divorced, most of the wives placed me off-limits. I lost a bunch of male friendships because they let their wives choose their friends. Pussies.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:32 PM
2

I'm a single guy in my mid thirties. I'm decent looking, college educated and have a high standard of living for my area - six figure income when the average is $40k. I'm fit, but I'm not ripped. No six pack, but I don't have a gut, either. About 12% body fat. Here's what I know: Young girls (early 20s) are attracted to me. I get a lot of flirting from them. A couple of years ago I met a 19yo who literally threw herself at me, sent me dirty pics and so on. I was married at the time so I didn't f…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 11:27 PM
2

I remember when I quit my first job. I was 16 and working at a fast food place. Our manager got promoted to oversee several restaurants and a new guy was hired to replace him. Jamie was a fucking prick, probably butthurt about having a girl's name and taking it out on the world. Called the girls his "counter bitches" and berated the rest of us on the regular. One day I arrived for my noon shift at 11:55am. Early, as always, wearing my uniform and ready to go. I clocked in and that shithead said,…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 07:19 AM
2

Actually, it is. With plates there is no "relationship." You're all just fuck buddies. In the context of sexual strategy, a relationship implies something more. It carries with it a certain commitment to one another that you don't give a plate.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/14 06:44 AM
3

You do know a verbal agreement is completely meaningless, right? At least get a rock solid prenup. Drop a grand or two on a lawyer now and save yourself a hundred grand in ten years. Today your woman is a unicorn, you're her everything and she would never screw your over. Some time down the road you may well be just another asshole as far as she's concerned and she absolutely will fuck that guy out of everything he's got.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 07:10 AM
5

I own my own business (over 20 years) while he is a cashier at a Kroger. What is it with women? Are they that fucking stupid? A friend of mine (good father, religious, makes six figures) divorced a few years back. His wife left him for a guy who rides the bus to his job at a local fast food joint and can't afford a car. These people are in their forties for crying out loud. I mean, bitch went from a nice house and cars and stay at home motherhood to working a shitty part time job while strugglin…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 06:45 AM
2

No, a man should never leave his home. Doing so increases the likelihood of the court giving it to the wife. Her lawyer will say you left and abandoned her and the kids. Stay in your house and hold your fucking ground. It's your goddamn castle.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 05:39 PM
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I think the right lawyer could win this for him, Nope. Most U.S. states are no-fault divorce. It doesn't matter if she had an orgy with a dozen men on national television, she's still going to walk with cash and prizes. The judge will award her the house and the kids and a substantial monthly stipend from her husband's paycheck straight up. This bitch is a stay at home mother, for God's sake, her husband doesn't have a fucking chance. Cheating is incredibly common and just another day in divorce…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 07:40 AM
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All due respect, that's the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Having a child while in a committed, loving relationship is not "being a sperm donor" and buying a piece of paper from the state has nothing to do with whether you're a "family" or your ability to raise a successful, happy and healthy child together. As for your comments that a marriage will keep a woman around, that's just not statistically accurate. Depending on the source you believe, women initiate up to 70% of divorces. If anythin…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 12:16 AM
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You're right, but just barely. 40% of births in the US are out of wedlock. If you're black, native American or Hispanic, it's 72%, 67% and 53%, respectively. Whites alone are 29%. It's very easy to have a family without a wife and it's getting easier every day. Also, with divorce so easy and prevalent these days, I'd argue that a marriage offers no real security to a woman. Well, I take that back: It offers her the security of taking half my shit when she's through with me, which is something I'…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:07 PM
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Do you know what divorce courts do to men when the woman doesn't have a job? Hint: It's not pretty. If the marriage is rocky your first priority is to secure your assets. Your second is to make damn sure she has a job. The more she makes, the less you'll pay.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:55 PM
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My ex used to pull the "I want a divorce" card on the regular. Every time, I called her bluff and told her, "Go for it." She never did. Eventually I got sick and fucking tired of hearing it so I said, "I'm sick and fucking tired of hearing this. The next time you ask for a divorce, you better be prepared to file because if you don't, I will." That put an end to it. Still wound up divorcing her (and she fought it to the bitter end).
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:53 PM
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It's maddening. My ex was (and still is) like that. She hates it when I'm right and would go to great lengths to not do things the way I asked, even to her own detriment. Doesn't matter if it's good for her and she needs to do it and knows that. Like dealing with an insubordinate little girl. In hindsight, maybe I should have put her over my knee and paddled her butt when she disobeyed...
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:47 PM
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Sure, assuming you're planning on coming back. If you're leaving the country and not coming back you don't even have to blow the money. Just stay gone forever and don't tell her where you're going. I don't recommend this if you have kids, though... Would fuck up their lives to lose their daddy like this.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:22 PM
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Did you seriously just say men who don't marry are immature?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 04:13 PM
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You would like to believe that 50/50 is right, but sadly it isn't. As someone who has been through this and watched countless other men go through it, I can tell you with confidence that 50/50 is merely the starting point for negotiation. A man will lose much more ground by the time it's done. Here's how it goes: A woman will get 50% of whatever her attorney can convince a judge you're worth. That number is often higher than reality. They'll shoot for the moon and overvalue the fuck out of every…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 06:09 AM
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my advice for men is to still engage in marriage (as it benefits us) Benefits us how? What does a wife do for me that a live in girlfriend can't?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 05:27 AM
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Regular chicks? They almost never demand a condom. I was shocked - shocked - to discover this when I got back in the game after a 15 year marriage. Went to dinner with a girl I considered a friend and found myself hooking up on her couch an hour later. I was unprepared and didn't have a condom. I asked if she had one and she said, "Nope, but I'm not worried about it. Let's do this."
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 09:27 PM
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Feed me, fuck me, shut the fuck up. A basic recipe for long lasting success. Such a simple thing, but modern women have been taught by feminist culture that it's wrong to please their men like this. Cooking for her man is some old fashioned misogynistic nonsense that her grandmother was forced to do because patriarchy and they're often quick to shame us for desiring sex. Instead, they expect us to wine and dine them while receiving little to nothing in return. How many of your plates can cook a …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 04:46 PM
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There are plenty of women who will enjoy experiencing life with you even if you don't marry them. You probably aren't going to have one single life long partner. This is true whether you marry or not, by the way. A lot of girls will split if you don't get married after a period of time. No worries, find another. That early honeymoon period in a relationship is the best part, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 04:20 PM
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There is some kind of confirmation bias going on here What a load of bullshit. More than half of marriages end in divorce. Would you bet half your assets and a sizable portion of your future income with those odds? Confirmation bias my ass.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 04:13 PM
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Nope. The sperm accounts for a very small percent of the total. It's unnoticeable.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 04:09 PM
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Yeah, don't try to fuck 'em if you don't get hard during the foreplay. It's nothing to be ashamed about, everyone deals with a little performance anxiety from time to time. Don't give off the vibe that you're going to fuck her for sure, just play with her and see where it goes. If you're not hard by the time she's unbuttoning your pants, stop her. "I don't fuck girls I just met" or "I don't fuck on the first date" both work. Drag out the foreplay and savor every moment. It builds comfort and may…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 07:23 AM
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No affect at all as far as I can tell. Seems exactly the same as before.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:34 AM
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My career took off after my divorce. I have so much more time and energy to put into work now that I'm not dealing with this crazy bitch every day. All of my bosses and coworkers are married, but they admire and respect me (one upper executive friend of mine said he enjoys "living vicariously through me") and I've received a couple of nice fat promotions. Being single is very freeing. I highly recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 05:51 PM
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Married game involves careful, frequent application of dread. You almost have to keep the stank of fresh pussy on you at all times to keep your woman interested. My ex wife fucked like a prissy virgin until I started lifting and partying with hotter, younger girls. Then she was all about that D.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 05:35 PM
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"They are great for meeting women" = If a girl sees you frienzoned, she will never set you up with her friends. There's a difference between being friend zoned and having female friends. If you're not pining after her like a thirsty beta, she can be great social proof and absolutely will set you up with her friends. I used to party a lot with this girl I know. She was super fine and attracted other women wherever we went. We could walk into a club and she would make friends and bring them to our…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 05:25 PM
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For that matter, to enjoy the sights and sounds of children playing. Some of us fathers actually enjoy children. Is that a fucking crime now? (I'm playing devil's advocate here. I personally can't stand most children. I love my own, but yours probably suck.)
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 06:33 AM
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Amen, brother. Do you know why married men die first? It's because they want to.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 06:27 AM
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It's all good. Look, you're right, I really ought to have full custody. It's just not realistic in today's family court system. Anyway, as much of a flake as their mother is, she really loves these kids. She could have taken them from me during the divorce and didn't. If I have to do the work and pay the damn child support for a few more years, so be it. It could be worse.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 12:14 AM
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I had a similar problem after my marriage ended. Started dating my current LTR and when it came time to fuck, my dick didn't work. Freaked me out. Even went and saw my doctor, got a prescription for Cialis which didn't help at all ($40 a dose, too... ouch). However, I'd still wake up with morning wood and could still get hard thinking about my ex (even though I wanted nothing to do with the crazy bitch and didn't feel any attraction to her anymore), so there was nothing physically wrong. It was …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 10:49 PM
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"Yes" was a great answer and all you needed to say.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 10:03 PM
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He has the worst anger issues I have ever encountered, living with him can be hell Weed doesn't do that to people. Something else is wrong with your uncle.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:47 PM
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Now the only men who aren't pussified are the ones who are naturally alpha or who stumble upon TRP. & most of those men don't want to get married.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:31 PM
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Bro, I lived that life for years. First, my wife said I was not allowed to have a Facebook account. I made one anyway. Then I was grilled on every hot female friend. Then I was told I was "not allowed" to have friends who were women "because married men don't do that." Then she demanded my passwords so she could keep tabs on me. When a good friend of mine and his girl broke up, she tried to axe him from my life. "Married men don't hang out with single guys." Right, whatever. I heard so much "Mar…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:25 PM
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I have one, it feels great, problem is I usually fap at night before bed (helps me sleep) and when I'm done all I want to do is roll over and pass out. I can do that with my hand and a sock. Fleshlight requires lube which means both it and my junk need to be cleaned up after, so it doesn't get used often. Cleanup isn't that bad, though. Run some warm water through it, let it dry and put a little corn starch on it to keep it feeling silky smooth. It's a great toy for a lazy afternoon. Just not a …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 08:15 PM
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I could give a shit if a girl I banged was a CEO or worked at Taco Bell as long as she was hot, sucked me, fucked me, and shut her fuckin mouth. Right, and the CEO is never going to be that girl. She's wealthy and powerful and isn't going to submit to men like that. That may well be another reason dating life is difficult for her.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 04:24 PM
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They treat them like the employees they order around. I've seen this too many times to count. My parents have this exact relationship. Dad works hard and always has but Mom makes more money and wears the pants. She barks orders at him on the daily. They have separate bedrooms and split the bills 50/50 now. Basically just roommates. Nobody wants that shit.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 04:19 PM
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'dat rationalization hamster. You get it.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 06:02 PM
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Nope. You're the prize. She should be trying to win you back. If she isn't, make yourself into a better man so the next one will.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 05:56 PM
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You sound just like my girlfriend. Here's the thing: I could sue for full custody. It would cost me tens of thousands of dollars and I would lose. I've talked to multiple attorneys about this, they all laughed at me. It is very difficult for a man to get custody. Getting custody from a woman who spent 15 years as a stay at home mother is virtually impossible. Don't look at it like she's getting a free ride. Look at it as my son getting the best childhood I can give him. This is the only way I ca…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 05:39 PM
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I'm surprised I haven't seen the response I'm about to write yet in this thread. Maybe I missed it. There are like 80k people subbed here now. Everyone has differing opinions on things like this, there is no consensus just like there's no consensus on the best sexual position, or sexiest body style, etc. TRP can't tell you what to do because it's different for each of us. I don't personally use this (in and of itself) as an indicator of relationship quality. I certainly don't make major relation…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 08:51 AM
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I completely agree with this. That said, there's nothing wrong with asking the guy, "So what's the deal with your sister? Seems like she's into me. Is she seeing anyone? No? Would you mind?" Friend of mine was fucking a married girl once. One night at a club she starts grinding on me, so I just straight up told him what was up. He laughed, said "yeah that sounds about right." I said, "do you mind?" and he said "go for it bro." Done & done. Honor the bro code and be straight with your boys.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 08:16 AM
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Nah man, you're assuming the entire 3 hours are constant pounding. That's probably not the case. I've had sex for several hours straight on many occasions. Start out with some rubbing, licking, sucking. Do some oral, fuck her titties, finger her, pull her hair, spank her ass. 69 for awhile, cum in her mouth, then spend half an hour with my head between her legs while big Jim recovers... There's an easy hour plus right there and I haven't even busted out the box of toys yet. After that first nut …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:34 AM
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I was married for 15 years to a bitch who didn't put my dick in her mouth once in the first 14 years. I was so blue pill I might as well have been a goddamn smurf. She was a "good Christian girl" who "didn't do those things." I bought it hook, line and sinker. When I told her I wanted a divorce she decided to tempt me to stay with constant sex and BJs. Didn't work, in fact it pissed me off even more (you fucking held out on me for half of my life?!). I did extract 14 years worth of oral from her…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 07:05 AM
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I don't think there is any such incentive. I've never heard of it and I've been through the family court system. I'd have to see a source before I bought into this.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:34 AM
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It's not the court that takes the money in WA. There's a separate state agency that handles it. They do take a fee and use that money to go after "deadbeat dads." Pretty sure the parent making the payment (almost always the father) has to pay the fee, too. You don't have to use them, however. If you can provide a valid justification you can just pay the other parent directly. I did and am. The "downside" is the state won't go after you right away if you stop paying since they aren't getting thei…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:32 AM
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Doesn't take long to pay that $50k back with a $2200/mo raise. I did something similar. My state doesn't have alimony but she could have pushed for the next best thing, "Spousal maintenance." Probably would have landed $1000-$2000/mo for 4ish years on top of the $1400/mo child support. I offered her an extra $15k cash to settle out of court, as my attorney advised the judge would be very likely to order maintenance if it went to trial. She took it.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:22 AM
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I certainly agree. However, I make six figures and she works part time when she feels like it - she made eight grand last year. The courts looked at that and quickly gave her a portion of my paycheck because she can't afford to put a roof over his head otherwise. They did, thankfully, admonish her for not working and imputed her income as if she had a full time job, which reduced the transfer amount slightly. In a perfect world I would have full custody because I'm willing to work to obtain the …
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:17 AM
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If your the father in the situation here is how you play the game. I'm raising a son and this shit is easy. We started out with 50/50 custody (I demanded it and she didn't argue), which we still have on paper, but the reality is I've now got him 6 days a week. It was simple to get here: She couldn't pick him up after school on her days, so I started taking him instead of letting her send him to a babysitter. She was happy because it was saving her money, he was happy because he got to spend more…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 11:02 PM
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Yeah, you lose your capital, but not your source of income. Not true. The court forces me to transfer the equivalent of a nice house payment to my ex wife every month.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 09:19 PM
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Not only is it a good idea, it's almost mandatory if you want a rock solid prenup. My ex and I did our legal separation amicably without a lawyer. She lied and said she was coerced when it came time to make it a real divorce. Since she didn't have legal representation during the separation, they threw it out and we had to start from scratch. It sucked and cost me an extra $30-40k by the time it was done.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 09:12 PM
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If she asks about my day at work, she gets only positive information. Bingo. I've been using this with my LTR lately and it has worked wonders on her respect and admiration for me. You're her rock. If that rock is unstable, a good woman will help you prop it up temporarily, but her attraction will fade. Leave it unstable for too long and she's going to abandon it for something more solid. Your woman needs you to have everything figured out. If you don't, fake it until you do. No matter what they…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 09:02 PM
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I vape pure cannabis oil extracted in a laboratory using supercritical CO2. There is almost no smell and it's much better on the lungs. My vape pen is the same thing tobacco smokers use, I've taken it through airport security without even a second glance. Nobody has any idea what kind of oil is in it.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:44 PM
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Agreed. I'm exactly the same way. I burn a Sativa down and I just want to go-go-go and get shit done. Got home from work today, vaped and then shoveled rocks for 4 hours on a landscaping project I'm working on. Couple more sessions like this and I'll be done.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:31 AM
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There is. I'm one of them. I vape morning, noon and night. I get a lot accomplished and am always on top of my game, the stereotype of "lazy pot smoker" has simply not been true for me or the people I smoke with. Most of my best work has been done while high. I use Sativas during the day for motivation and focus, Indicas at night to relax, unwind and sleep. Not enough to be a crazy red-eyed fuckwit. Just a touch, one or two light hits to take the edge off and I'm good. You'd be surprised at the …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:23 AM
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I'm surprised he hasn't filed a lawsuit. Men should not allow these things to happen. We tend to shrug our shoulders when we're used and abused by women. "Meh, that's just how it is." No. It doesn't have to be this way. We have legal recourse. Find a lawyer willing to take the case and sue the fuck out of the university. They think they can cozy up next to the feminists and deny us due process? Fuck them. Hit 'em with all you've got. When a woman fucks with you, she should expect to get the same…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 05:55 AM
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I care because it gives me verbal ammunition when one of my bro's feminist nut job girlfriends brings it up. Having a solid understanding of the situation allows me to say, "No, actually, here's what really happened."
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:18 PM
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"We're challenging the status quo of gaming as a male-dominated space." No you aren't. You're infiltrating yet another boy's club and demanding they "tone it down" - repress their natural male desires - to accommodate you. Fuck off with that. Honey, you're welcome to play our games but we're not going to change them to suit you. If you don't like Grand Theft Auto, don't fucking play it. Make your own version where everything is rainbows and unicorns and no naked titties and play that.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 06:23 AM
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Spreads disease? A proper whore always practices safe sex and gets tested regularly. That's a lot more than I can say for the local neighborhood slut.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 04:24 AM
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You're not working enough. $7.25/hr times 40 hours a week is $290. You're making half that at best, which tells me you're working part time. What are you doing with the rest of your time? Are you going to college or a trade school, learning a new skill so you can increase your salary? Are you looking for a better job that will give you more hours and better pay? Or are you fucking off, smoking pot, playing video games, sleeping until noon and wasting your life? Monk mode should be a temporary re…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 11:06 PM
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She'll try "communicating" her request to you in 4 stages It's crazy, isn't it? I've debated multiple approaches to handling this and in the end I wound up with a combination of amused mastery and accountability: I hold my girls accountable to tell me what they want. If they can't or won't have a basic conversation with me they must not want whatever-it-is bad enough. Why should I put forth considerable effort of my own to make something happen if she can't even be bothered to say, "Hey, I'd rea…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 10:47 PM
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Fuck that. "No thank you. Not interested." You don't have to go into detail. If she pushes me for a reason, "You're not my type. Sorry." Pushes again? "Get over yourself, chica. I'm not interested. Back the fuck off my shit."
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:35 PM
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I was afraid too. I did it anyway, it was no big deal at all. DO take it easy for a couple of weeks. I ignored that advice because I felt fine a few days after the procedure, so I hopped on my crotch rocket and went for a ride. Bad idea, hurt like hell the next morning and had lingering pain for a month. You have to clear out the tubes after the procedure. I still had viable swimmers for 3 months. Do not ignore this step. Keep using condoms and submit a sperm sample every month until you're clea…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 04:29 PM
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All it takes is one out of millions and millions of your little buddies and your red pill days are over. Nonsense. You don't have to wife up a bitch just because you knocked her up. You should be a decent man and take care of that child, and God knows you're gonna be paying her a child support check for at least 18 years, but that doesn't mean your life is over or that you have to settle down with her.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 09:38 PM
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Fuck the other people. Don't compare yourself to them. Compare yourself to you. Be better tomorrow than you are today. There will always be someone bigger, better, faster, stronger, etc.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 10:12 PM
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Some states make you pay support until the child graduates college. Oh and you have to pay for the college too. Washington calls it "post-secondary educational support" and it is mandated by default.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 11:24 PM
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I feed my son dinner six days a week. We have equal/joint custody, but I take him far more than she does, and yet I'm still stuck paying the full child support amount as if I had no custody at all. Whatever; I love having him and would take him full time and still pay child support if I had to. I'd do anything to ensure he grows up to be successful like his father instead of whatever-it-is that's wrong with his mother.
/r/MensRights28/10/14 08:58 PM
3

You'd be surprised. I see a lot of hot acquaintances on Facebook dating complete bums who are barely holding down part time jobs.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 07:39 PM
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This actually happened to me. Wife accused me of cheating on her with my cousin. I shot back, "You have got to be fucking kidding me. Did you forget she's my COUSIN?!" She backed off but then hamstered that I must want to leave her for someone that's like my cousin because "you two get along so well." Bitch accused me of cheating for years. I never did, true to my word I was faithful to her even though I had every reason to not be. When I finally sent her packing the truth came out, she confesse…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 12:21 AM
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I might stick a ring on that bitch Yes. You're fucking up. Drop this stupid nonsense - you don't wife up a cheating whore, dumbass - and the rest of your post is fine. Get your fuck on, nothing more.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 07:43 PM
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even a famous actor like Leonardo DiCaprio could not compete with a college athlet You mean the Leo who starred in all those movies? The Leo immortalized in the form of posters hung on the bedroom walls of countless teenage girls? The Leo these girls dreamed about, masturbated to and are still holding every man she meets up to that standard? Leonardo DiCaprio would have his veritable pick of the fucking litter, my friend.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 05:28 AM
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We're animals. Oh, we like to imagine ourselves special because we're the top of the food chain, but at our core we're just animals running on instinct. I find it easier to handle a woman's shit when I picture her in that light. She's just doing what she does. It's not personal. Either you do the mating dance with her or you don't. If you don't want to, that's cool, but you can't then sit in the corner and sulk because women don't want you. How can you be angry at a kitten for clawing your furni…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 04:57 AM
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He can get more accounts of the situation, just ask Sean. Exactly. I don't get this guy's irrational anger. If she were my wife, first thing we're doing is filing a police report. If she wouldn't do that, my suspicions would be raised and I'd be on the phone with Sean. "Look, apparently some shit went down. I want to hear your side of the story."
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 04:21 AM
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I always followed the same pattern The sequence wasn't always the same ಠ_ಠ Sometimes penetration was first which means I'll have to spend more time dining at the Y, which means it'll take longer to reach MY favorite step: penetration. Yeah. Okay. You're inconsistent as fuck, bro.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 03:43 AM
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beta consolation prizes when it comes to LTR material, but they sadly never realize it. That's the saddest thing about it. There are hoards of completely average betas out there who would love that bitch forever. Any one of them would put her and her children on pedestals, take care of their financial needs and treat them all like royalty - to his own detriment, even. He would sacrifice his life for her. All she has to do is be nice to the guy, treat him like she loves him and throw him a pity f…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 08:55 PM
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I don't think people understand the difference between "bad boy" and "asshole". People don't understand the difference between a confident man who sets boundaries and an asshole. That was the point of my response, really. As soon as you stop bending to the will of others, bitches be calling you an asshole. You won't buy me a drink? Asshole. You're hitting on my friend instead of me? Asshole. So you just do whatever you want? Asshole. You have better things to do on a Saturday than bring your pic…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 03:30 PM
1

The security and bouncers are what makes the bar safe.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 05:11 PM
1

:) No control given. LTR game requires some give and take, you have to mix in a little beta. You can't be "my way or the highway" all the time. I offered her the chance to choose where we went that night. She had nothing, so I took her where I wanted to go... and teased her for not knowing what she wants.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/14 03:10 AM
1

It's ok to occasionally fail even when you're winning. It's mandatory. We learn to succeed by failing repeatedly until we get it right.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 07:36 PM
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This is how I do it, too. "I'm doing x. You want to come?" That's how a date works. You plan something and invite her. My LTR bitched recently, "We only ever do the things you want to do, we always eat at the restaurants you want to eat it, waaahhhh...". I said, "OK. What do you want to do tonight? Where do you want to eat?" Her response: "I don't know." ಠ_ಠ
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 07:20 PM
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I don't see a lot of financial advice in here. $50k in savings is a lot. Do you really need that much? Sit down and analyze how big of an emergency fund you ought to have. Most people do six months of expenses. Maybe you are more comfortable with a year, that's up to you, but here's my point: Put your money to work for you. If it's sitting in savings, it's depreciating every year and thus dwindling away. Whatever pittance in interest they're paying you will be eaten up and then some by inflation…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 05:05 AM
1

Are you high? STEM jobs are in demand and pay big money. That enough basis for you?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:39 PM
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in reality they are the indicators of a self-actualized man Much like being called an "asshole", often used to describe men who don't worship the very ground a woman walks upon. When you give in to societal pressure to put women on pedestals and serve their every whim, you become a beta chump, little more than a tool for them to exploit. When you live for yourself, draw clear boundaries and treat women the same as you would any random man, suddenly you're a "bad boy" or "asshole" - and they love…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 07:17 PM
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as if young guys having fun with their friends without girls is such a horrible thing. It is if you're a woman hoping for a good provider for your daughter or wanting your son to "be a real man" and provide some lucky girl a free ride. I wonder how they reconcile their "strong, capable woman" narrative with their need to lock down a male provider for every member of their species?
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:33 AM
-1

How about not fucking around with a girl who says she has a boyfriend? Either she does or she doesn't. Either way she's not interested in you. This isn't a shit test to get around. When a woman tells me she has a boyfriend I thank her for her time and quit wasting mine trying to get with her.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:20 AM
1

Check out the Venus 2000, then. Blow job machine made by Sybian.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 09:11 PM
1

I disagree. You're trying to make men and women look equally capable because that's the politically correct thing to do. In some areas, women are naturally better than men. In others, they just aren't. You can't just choose to make your mind comprehend this stuff. Either it's in your blood and you love it and get it or you don't. Most women can't do this. To say, oh, they can, they just don't want to, I find that quite disingenuous. It's a pretty cover for an ugly truth. My girlfriend is an educ…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:54 AM
5

It has nothing to do with what they like and everything to do with what they're capable of. Emotion and logic do not coexist well. Women are much more emotional creatures, whereas men are much more logical. Ergo, women dominate fields such as nursing and teaching while men dominate fields such as science and engineering. It's just how we're wired. There's nothing wrong with this. I have some 20 years of professional IT experience. I've worked with at least a hundred men. Maybe three women and on…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:21 AM
2

Not only that, shit could go downhill fast. My father once told me a story of a guy he used to hang with. Big mean fucker, didn't take shit from anybody. They were in a bar, drinking with their buddies and someone started some shit. Dad's friend got up and knocked the guy right the fuck out. Great big uppercut. One punch, just plastered this drunk fuck. The guy he knocked out hit his head going down. He was taken to the hospital where he died from severe brain hemorrhaging 3 days later. Dad's fr…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 05:47 AM
3

It must be exhausting being so afraid of the world. She has all of these ridiculous tricks for avoiding conversations with men when all she needs is a goddamn backbone. If you don't want to talk to someone don't fucking talk to them. Say, "No thank you."
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 02:55 AM
2

I, too, agree. I'd leave the country and stop paying her shit. I would call, write, etc, my kids on the regular and I'd save up a nice sum for them so when they turned 18 they would have a college fund.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 08:38 PM
1

I doubt failure to pay alimony/child support is an extraditable offense. Would definitely make damn sure before deciding which country to call home.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 08:36 PM
5

I read a decision once where a higher court decided even proven personal production and use (example, growing just enough cannabis for your own needs and it never leaves your home) still falls under the jurisdiction of the Feds. How is this possible? The court found that by producing your own you aren't buying from others and are therefore affecting interstate commerce by not engaging in it. That's some crazy, twisted shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 03:51 PM
1

What the fuck am I reading here?!! It takes a special kind of fucked up to burn someone's face with acid. Jesus Christ. If a woman does you wrong, deprive her of your company forever. If you're a good, upstanding man, she'll realize what she lost and have to deal with that pain. You can still rejoice that she is hurting without turning into a goddamn monster. That said, I personally never recommend rejoicing in someone else's pain. I think a person's need to do that says something about him and …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 08:10 AM
2

"I'm going to be straightforward, I find you very attractive and was wondering if I could have your number" Pure gold. The entire thing, really. Introducing yourself to her friend was the right thing to do. I flirt with the ugly ducklings, too. You can't ignore them. They crave attention and if they like you, you have a better shot with their friends.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:36 AM
5

I have a boyfriend "No problem." Then change the subject and go right back to being friendly/flirty. If you brush this off like it doesn't even matter, you win. Go right back into the conversation like it never even happened and you might wind up in her panties one day after all. On more than one occasion I've found a "taken" woman suddenly becoming available after hanging out with me a few times.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:27 AM
3

You totally can bro. FLIRT. It's real easy for a married man to train to pick up women. Assuming you're not a cheater, you are completely and totally outcome independent. You're not even trying to get her number, let alone a date or a fuck. You're just being friendly. Charm them. Smile, "How's your day", etc. Make small talk. It's cliche but it really works. When I started getting good at it, it became habit and I found myself doing it right in front of my (now ex) wife. Talk about dread game, i…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 06:18 AM
7

pretend you are in slow motion This is brilliant and I've been trying to remember to do it myself. It feels really slow and weird when you're doing it, but that's because your perception of time and space is altered by the chemicals your body is releasing. From the outsider's perspective you're taking normally. As a bonus you get precious extra nanoseconds to come up with better things to say and you look less awkward. I read where someone videotaped themselves doing this, then played it back to…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 05:45 AM
3

No man ever got out of child support by proving the mother was living off of it. Exactly. My ex wife is milking the piss out of me in child support. Working "kind of sort of" part time when she feels like it, but living it up in an expensive rental, taking lots of little trips and vacations and so on. I complained to my attorney that none of the money was going to my son. He laughed at me. Said the courts don't care and there's nothing that can be done about it.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 11:03 PM
3

Not only that, at the end of the day it's still going to come down to "he said she said" in court. Nothing has changed. Any man educated about this law will simply respond, "I asked her, she said yes. Several times."
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 02:58 PM
1

Here's what you can do: Improve yourself. Let him see the results. Let him come to you. If he asks you for advice, then you tell him. He still may not accept it, but at least he will be ready to listen. His heart will eventually be stomped all over one too many times, making him ready to move forward. Until then there's little to nothing you can do to help him.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 11:34 PM
3

Worse, it's likely the fucker will attempt to drown you out of spite.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 11:30 PM
2

My LTR was giving me shit about my business the other day: "I know that work will always take priority over me and that makes me sad." She wanted me to watch Netflix on her couch all day. I drove across the state and closed a business deal instead. Made $15k that day. Money > Bitches
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 10:38 PM
1

A blowjob for an otherwise-free ride home says something about how she values herself, and it isn't good. It is if you like receiving blow jobs for very little effort. I, for one, approve.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 10:32 PM
11

Beta providers don't sign pre-nups and they are usually miserable in their marriages. Their wives own them because they're irrationally devoted to her, put her on a pedestal and hand over all of their power. Beta providers are usually treated like children with the wife playing the role of mommy. She'll give him plenty of chores and rules and nonsense to abide by and he'll do it because he wants her to be happy. He won't get laid for long because no woman is attracted to a man she can wrap aroun…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 09:23 PM
6

How can I explain my unwillingness to settle down You're 32 years old. You don't owe an explanation to anyone, least of all a 17 year old little girl who thinks she has everything figured out.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 09:00 PM
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Don't sweat it. I get the same. Only from women and white knights, though, and who gives a shit what they think? I do what I want attitude This is your "problem." People fear you because they can't control you. They use shaming language to force your compliance and wind up confused and frustrated when it doesn't work. Fuck 'em. I've always done whatever the fuck I want and make no apologies for it. I've lost friends when their wives "put their foot down" and "prohibited" them from hanging out wi…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 08:49 PM
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I love tits but I don't want d cups. Your loss. I buried my face in a pair of completely natural double G's last night. It was glorious.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:57 PM
-1

let's just suppose that my girlfriend of 2.5 years really doesn't want to share the words she'd use to describe me because they're that awful. Sounds to me like it's a relationship that needs to be put down. Absolutely. Teasing or not, she was being a bitch and you handled it well. I've no idea how this white knighting is being upvoted. My girl pulls shit like this, too, and one of these days it's going to result in the end of our relationship. It's not fun or cute to trash the person you suppos…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 07:50 PM
3

Better yet, since she makes so much more than him, there's a possibility she would have to pay him child support. I wouldn't put up with her shit. I didn't; I divorced mine and am happier than I've ever been.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 07:57 PM
3

This. Good managers delegate well. They pick the right people for the job, set the necessary expectations and the job gets done. People who are effective at delegating naturally get promoted into management positions.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 03:58 PM
2

I absolutely agree. It's disgusting. That said, I'm not about to cut my income to the bone over it. If the choice is rich and pay a lot of tax vs. poor and pay very little tax, I'm still choosing rich. Quality of life is far better despite what they steal from me.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 05:03 PM
2

They call me an asshole You must be doing something right.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 05:52 AM
24

Exactly. I'd hazard a guess that most men dropping $5k for a hooker are rich as fuck. His investments likely made him several times that while he was fucking her. It's like $20 for us normal folk. If I made several million dollars a year, I might fuck expensive escorts exclusively. Why not buy your perfect fantasy girlfriend who does exactly what you want with a happy smile on her face? No shit tests, no mind games, no trying to get her wife hooks into me? And I can have as many of them as I wan…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 05:18 AM
6

We will have an entire society of men only motivated to make just enough money No, we won't. I'm not married and I work my ass off. Six figure job plus a side business that more than doubles it. I could support myself just fine on a helluva lot less, but I love what I do and I love the status it all affords me. So I keep doing it, keep investing, keep hustling, keep pulling 70-90 hour weeks. Making money in real life is a lot more exciting than mining fake money in a game, or sitting on my ass i…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 05:02 AM
3

This. If she crosses a line and tries to escalate physically, stop her then and say, "Sorry, but I don't mess around with married women." Otherwise continue on. Flirting and being close with women is fun. You can game on married chicks all day. Look at her as someone to hone your alpha skills on. A practice piece. Just don't get physically involved and you're good.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:49 AM
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In the hospital the day after my daughter was born. We're teenagers, engaged now because of this baby business. Doctor offers up birth control options to fiancé, she says, "No thank you. We're not going to have sex anymore." I'm stunned and upset, but I don't want to make waves so I say nothing. I married her anyway because that's what I was supposed to do. Didn't get fucked on my honeymoon. So lame. Wish I'd had TRP at 16.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 01:38 AM
3

I was also done and had my son done because "that's what you're supposed to do." I also wish I hadn't done it to him. I feel bad for it, in fact.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 06:29 PM
1

You don't get to call dibs on random women. Especially if you don't have the balls to go talk to them. I'd give him 5 minutes to engage her in conversation and not a second more. If he can't put himself into position to be actively hitting on her in that period of time, then it's game on for me.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 04:18 AM
0

I wish her all the best but its not my responsibility to take care of everyone else's problems "Fuck you! You don't even care about me or my family! You're such an asshole! My parents are hungry and you won't even help!" I was married to a poor girl. Caught her giving our food away to her parents on numerous occasions. Not rice and beans, either. Steak and bacon and roasts right out of our deep freezer. Our fucking grocery bill was up to $800 a month and we still never had enough food around, I …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 04:09 AM
1

LASIK. I get way more attention from women now that I'm not wearing glasses.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:53 AM
1

A friend of mine believes we will turn to a matriarchal society. His long term nightmare is that men will become more like pets or slaves to women (I think we're starting to see this now) and eventually need to be licensed as dangerous animals. High status women will keep the best breeding stock around, etc. My belief: The splinter between alpha and beta, red pill and blue, will continue to widen. Some men will continue to worship women for what little scrap of attention they can get and in effe…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:35 AM
0

Pausing would be your last resort. I disagree. A man who is slow to speak and uses fewer words in doing so may appear very wise to others. He has taken a moment to consider what he has to say. I've found that more people will listen to you when you aren't talking all the time. I often use words and body language to slow down the conversation. I'll lean back and smile, or smirk. I'll use a word like, "Really?" And let it sink in for a moment. It works very well for me.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 01:36 AM
1

This is important. I'm 5'7". I don't try to hook up with tall women. The little 5'0 - 5'5 girls are tons of fun and my height (or lack thereof) has never been an issue with them.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 11:05 PM
2

Your text messages saved you. Verbal agreements don't tend to hold up in court. :)
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:03 AM
3

You would lose that lawsuit. There is no case against her. None. The contract she signed is between her and the landlord and it obligates her to pay 100% of the rent. You are also obligated to that same contract. There is no legal contract obligating each party to half the rent. You're equally obligated to it all, but that does not mean 50/50 in a court of law. No landlord or judge would accept your claim.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:30 PM
1

Yeah but there's a catch here: They're both on the lease. That means the landlord has equal opportunity to go over either or both of them to recover the money. I'd pack my shit, move out and refuse to pay a dime. Would try to get off the lease, but if it didn't work, fuck it. Let her figure out how to pay rent & penalties. If the landlord moved forward with collections against me, there are ways to deal with that.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:25 PM
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Why would you "shank" him? It's not the other man's fault when a woman cheats. She did this, not him. Put yourself in his shoes, I'm sure that "talking all night" included a lot of shit talk about her boyfriend. Women will make their man out to be a worthless asshole because it makes it easier for her to justify her behavior. The man she's cheating with is all to eager to oblige, and can you blame him after all the bullshit she talked about her current guy? If it wasn't him it would have been so…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:14 PM
3

Point taken but these two were not in a relationship. Sounded more like a fuck buddy arrangement to me.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:32 AM
5

That stay at home dad bit is pure fucking genius. Completely kills any hope of beta bucks, puts a heavy burden of responsibility onto the woman and makes you look like an outstanding, committed father. I bet she was positively seething inside. I love it. Completely and totally. She wants to wear the big girl pants and make big girl decisions about the life and death of your child? Great! She gets complete financial responsibility to go with her new big girl outfit.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 05:30 AM
2

Our forefathers who built this country were the real men. My office job is fucking kush as hell by comparison. I don't have to get on a horse at 4am in the dead of winter and spend all day hunting in the bitter cold, then come home and gut, clean and cook my kills to keep my family from starving to death. I just sit at my desk and fuck around with a computer for a couple of hours and I've got grocery money for a week. All men should be so lucky. We're living in the downfall of a society, gentlem…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:46 AM
6

Thank you for your hard work and dedication to this sub. I don't think you guys hear it enough, so I'm taking this opportunity to tell you.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:00 AM
1

how often did your female partners fulfill this responsibility? None of them, not once, ever. There's this underlying assumption that if someone doesn't want to fuck, he or she will say so at some point prior to commencement of the act. I think that's a perfectly reasonable assumption and have no goddamn idea how we got so far down this rabbit hole. Am I supposed to believe these strong, empowered women are so weak and have such little agency or control over themselves that they can't be expecte…
/r/MensRights30/09/14 01:20 AM
2

GTFO. Go white knight somewhere else.
/r/MensRights30/09/14 01:11 AM
-2

To us, he fingerbanged one of our friend's high school sweetheart he still had feelings for after being specifically told she was off limits. Yeah, this doesn't count for shit. You don't get to call a woman off limits unless you're actively in a relationship with her.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:32 AM
3

It's not just you. Sometimes when my LTR throws sex at me, it's hard to get into the mood.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 10:01 PM
2

In my head it's like 'I'm making sense - why doesn't she understand.. Am I not making sense?' Women are not typically logical beings. They think via feelings and emotion, which logic and reason cannot override. "If someone doesn't value evidence, what evidence are you going to provide to prove that they should value it? If someone doesn’t value logic, what logical argument could you provide to show the importance of logic?" -Sam Harris You cannot reason with a woman most of the time. This is esp…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:54 PM
5

Was calling once, and saying hi once on facebook a bad idea? Yep. As others have said, forget them both. If there is any interest, believe me, they'll find you. Practice talking straight with women for next time. Example: Her: "You kissed me, and now you're with her like this?" You: "Yeah, I tried to talk to you again twice, you walked away both times so I moved on. Deal with it." She was playing hard to get with you. She wanted you to chase her down and shower her with attention so she could pl…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:40 PM
6

It's just a get-out-of-jail free card. Sounds more like a put-him-in-jail free card to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:09 PM
6

There's no reason to assume this chick was there to have sex with him The fact that she was his girlfriend and she climbed into bed with him might lead a reasonable person to conclude otherwise. Every girlfriend I've ever had who has climbed into bed with me has gotten fucked in that bed. Kind of comes with the territory.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:08 PM
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she successfully kept her "rapist" out of jail. She says he isn't a rapist, though. Just an "insensitive jerk" who raped her, but not a rapist. ಠ_ಠ Can we have our cake and eat it, too? Yes, we can!
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:00 PM
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"If someone doesn't value evidence, what evidence are you going to provide to prove that they should value it? If someone doesn’t value logic, what logical argument could you provide to show the importance of logic?" -Sam Harris
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:15 PM
4

BE DAMN SURE YOU PICKED THE RIGHT GIRL It doesn't matter. The right girl today may be the wrong girl tomorrow. People change. I am not the same man I was ten years ago. Taking a vow that you will love and be together with someone for life "or else" is awfully presumptuous. My ex wife was wonderful when we were dating. After we married, she slowly got crazier and crazier. The woman I divorced was completely different from the one I married 15 year earlier.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:11 PM
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It's easy: With the apostrophe, it's is a contraction of "it is." So when you read "it's", mentally say "it is" and see if the sentence makes sense. Otherwise, you're probably using the possessive form (the hamster's wheel = its wheel) and therefore no apostrophe is called for.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 07:57 PM
3

Exactly. All she has to say is, "I didn't say that." Or, "I had a few beers and don't remember saying yes."
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:17 PM
7

This is really, really bad. To be convicted of a crime in the US, the state has to prove guilt beyond a reasonable doubt. This has been the law of the land for nearly as long as we've been a country. Now, on college campuses, they've lowered the bar dramatically. You can now be charged with a very serious crime based on the same wording they use when they find you guilty of a simple civil infraction such as speeding or jaywalking. This law is clearly unconstitutional. If I were a college aged ma…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:16 PM
1

This is hilarious. If a woman ever hit me hard enough to really hurt, then told me to man up and stop being a bitch when I voiced my displeasure, I'd drop that cunt with an uppercut to the jaw and ask her, "Man enough for you, baby?" I've never hit a woman, but if there ever was an appropriate time to do so, this would be it.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:49 AM
3

Not typically, no. If women got extra child support based on their own personal debt, baby mamas everywhere would be rolling in Cadillacs and forcing daddy to make extra child support payments to cover it. It doesn't work that way. Most people pay a fixed amount based on the incomes of both parents as determined by a fixed formula codified in state law. If one parent is voluntarily unemployed or underemployed, the court will impute income to that parent. My ex tried to argue for more support bec…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 09:49 PM
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Agreed, but as someone who is currently paying child support and has discussed the intricacies of the law with several attorneys, I can tell you that debt and assets have very little (in my case nothing) to do with it. Most states calculate based on income alone. A judge can deviate up or down based on individual circumstances, but her massive student loans aren't likely to change that. She took on that debt willingly and it is solely hers. YMMV, but I think the concern is so small as to not be …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:35 PM
0

No, that's not true. Her student loan debt doesn't become his responsibility just because they have a child together. You don't have to marry a girl just because you knock her up.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 07:08 PM
3

Well, let me provide you with a different perspective. Are you planning on marrying her? If not, what's the problem? I don't give a shit about my girlfriend's financial status. Marriage is off the table, anyway, so what does it matter if she has some debt? It's not my debt, and I'm never going to write a check to help her with any of it. So who cares? I assume she has a nice degree. If she uses that to get a good job, then I would call it a good investment. Now, if you're looking for marriage an…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 06:27 PM
9

They don't like marriage but they sure do love the shit out of a wedding.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 11:09 PM
0

It's not that I consider myself a loser by anymeans. I actually feel like I have a lot to bring to the table. Hell yes, brother. You're on the right track already. This is precisely the thought process that motivated me to end my miserable marriage. I realized one day that I am a fucking catch and I shouldn't have to put up with her emotional abuse. I'm smart, I'm fit, I'm great in bed, great conversationalist, decent looking and I make 6 figures, amongst other good qualities. Men like us, who k…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 05:43 PM
3

This, 100%. My ex wife said the same thing, that she didn't want anything. Then when d-day finally came, she showed up with an attorney and demanded everything and then some. No exaggeration, her attorney's written demand was for roughly three times my entire net worth. As if I just had all of this money hidden away somewhere. Cost me almost $10k in attorney's fees alone to defend myself and she walked with six figures cash in the end. Marriage. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:23 PM
7

Same for me. We fucked like rabbits until we married. Then it was all over. Wives have huge leverage against their husbands. She doesn't have to keep you happy anymore because the worst case for her is cash and prizes and a nice fat alimony check for the foreseeable future. There are absolutely no downsides to divorce for a woman these days.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:08 PM
22

If I were OP, the next time she wanted to fuck, I'd go through all the foreplay, get her nice and ready and then flip her over, tell her to spread her legs and prepare to enter her from behind. If she resisted or said no, I'd say, "okay." Then I'd put my clothes back on and get on with my day. Women can't take being rejected for sex. Her hamster will go into overdrive. When pressed for a conversation, I'd simply tell her, "You're boring in bed. I'm tired of plain, missionary sex." And leave it a…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:03 PM
15

Precisely. I got a kick out of her statement: if your SO isn't having sex with you, then you should withdraw emotionally or leave them. Seriously, fuck this kind of thinking. There are two reasons to have a woman: Companionship (and love and all that) Sex I can get the first one anywhere. Friends, coworkers... Hell, a dog can fill this role just fine. That leaves sex. It's the one fucking thing a woman has to offer me that I can't get elsewhere. So, yes, honey, if you have withdrawn your sex, th…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:37 PM
2

It's almost as if there are tens of thousands of different people here with their own opinions. Funny, that.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:50 AM
5

The guy doesn't do it for her. Simple as that. He's probably super respectful and submissive in bed, so she plays the good girl role for him. It may not be what he really wants, but if it's all he's able to command it's all he's going to get. This is typical, women will do all kinds of nasty shit for the right guy. He isn't the right guy. He needs to next this bitch ASAP. Actually, if I were in his shoes, I'd demand some freaky sex yesterday. Let her put out or get out. I don't settle for a woma…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:33 AM
5

Police have limited resources. They cannot possibly investigate nor prosecute every alleged crime. If you show up with a claim that is completely meritless based on the available evidence, they're not going to waste their time with you. What could you possibly expect them to do? They can't have her examined by a doctor two years after the fact to collect semen or other evidence. There are no recordings or other evidence available. The college already cleared the guy of any wrongdoing. What's lef…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:16 AM
14

"Just literally" two years ago and she can't remember the relevant details. Do you know why the police were grilling her? Let me spell it out for you: “Well, it’s supposed to be uncomfortable,” the officer responded. “If it goes to trial, this is what’s going to happen … You think that was bad? Nah.” The second that bitch gets put on the stand, the lawyer for the man she accused of rape is going to tear her the fuck up. The police need to ask the hard questions to determine whether they have any…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:05 AM
23

Whatever happened to "It's better to let 10 guilty men walk free than imprison one innocent man?" Only men believe that. As far as the modern feminist is concerned, we are completely disposable. In fact, in their eyes the world would be better off without us altogether.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 05:45 AM
2

Don't play into her frame! Stare her down with a shit eating grin. Say, "Hey baby." It's good fun, give it a try. A woman avoiding eye contact with you is not necessarily indicative of a negative opinion. Maybe she thinks you're cute, but she's shy. Maybe she's feeling very insecure. Maybe she's afraid of men she doesn't know. I've turned many of these encounters into smiles with a quick opener. They don't always stop to talk, but they usually look over and give some kind of positive reaction.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:04 PM
1

I'm half an inch shorter than you, man, and I don't have any problems. My current girl is the same height as me. She was 6' in heels when I picked her up. Your height is only a handicap if you let it bother you.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 06:53 PM
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Yes, god forbid you have your own money. My ex had spending problems. When we married she came with a lot of credit card debt. I tried the joint account thing, she wrote more checks than there was money (like, a lot more... Bounced half a dozen checks within a few weeks). So I took over complete control of the family finances, canceled her credit cards and forced her to live on a monthly budget. As a result we were able to actually save money and prosper financially. I must be the king of domest…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 05:31 PM
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Men also need a coming of age rite, which western society lacks. When I turned 21, my dad and his best friend took me to a strip club, got me drunk and paid pretty girls money to put their titties in my face all night. Does that count?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 09:43 PM
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Don't do this. It is not your place to tell somebody what they ought to feel. It is absolutely possible to enjoy being raped or sexually assaulted. In fact, it's one of the most popular sexual fantasies for women.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 08:10 PM
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Or worse, those who actually are pregnant but lie about it being yours.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 07:51 PM
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I got married at 19. For the first couple years of the marriage, we (mostly I) gamed constantly. It was good fun but one day I sat down and analyzed how many hours I'd put into this and realized I could have accomplished some damn cool shit had I put that time into something else. Thousands and thousands of hours with nothing to show for it... It was depressing. I quit gaming and found other hobbies and projects I enjoyed just as much but that produced a tangible result. Today I pour most of my …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:55 AM
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Personally, if I start comparing myself to other people I very quickly fall into a pit of despair and wallow for hours or even days. Let me add: Don't compare yourself to others. Look, there will always be someone better than you. Period. That's just life. I'm a decent looking guy, I make great money, I have class, I have style. I'm happy with all of that. I'm never going to have the sex appeal of a man like Johnny Depp, nor the money of Elon Musk, nor the general prestige of the countless elite…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:45 AM
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Agreed. I enjoy the show. I watch it with my kids and we take notes. My daughter has decided (with a little prompting from daddy) that Bernadette is an awful bitch to her husband and she doesn't want to treat a man that way.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:07 AM
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While you may believe your beloved wife will wipe your butt when you're old and crippled, you're probably wrong. More likely, she will put you in a nursing home and move on with her life.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 02:42 PM
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I don't even know what a bracket is. I assume it's some sports thing? Neither I nor most of the men in my social group follow sports. Just never been into it.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 11:34 PM
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Parents don't get upset when children give credit to Santa for all the nice presents. My grandfather did. He'd say, "I worked my ass off all year to afford these gifts for my kids, I'll be damned if I'm gonna say some fat fucker just dropped 'em off!"
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 05:08 AM
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There's a doubting Thomas in every good TRP thread. Don't sweat it. You don't have to prove shit to some anonymous asshole on the Internet. Personally, I don't know why anyone feels the need to post "nuh uh!" Waste of fucking bandwidth.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 05:00 AM
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I have a dash cam in my car recording audio and video. I'd have pulled over immediately and kicked that bitch out the fucking car. Drive home and make a few copies of the SD card for safe keeping just in case she follows through.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 11:56 AM
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Preferably his name wouldn't have appeared at all to begin with.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 11:46 AM
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The Hispanic community in particular has clung to what made America great. I'd be lying if I said I haven't given serious thought to finding myself a hot little señorita. They cook, they clean, they fuck, what's not to love?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 10:48 AM
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Nobody gives you shit? I'm surprised. When I was about 33, I brought a cute little 19 year old around a few times. She was tons of fun and absolutely adored me. My own mother called me "sick" and "disgusting" - and I wasn't even fucking this girl.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 10:35 AM
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Let me back this up with my personal experience. I was married to a cruel bitch. I wanted to cheat. I had opportunity to cheat. I partied a lot with young girls in my early thirties, one sexy little 19 year old in particular wanted me bad, texted me risqué pics, etc. I couldn't do it. Had to force myself to divorce my wife first. What can I say, I took those vows seriously. Fucking loyal to the end. Can't say the same for her, she fucked around with my (no longer) best friend.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 05:30 AM
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Who fucking cares what the response would be if men did the same? We need to stop giving a fuck about these double standards and just blow them out of the water. Guess what, if a bitch is overweight I'm out. I'm not ashamed to openly state it and I refuse to feel shame for it. Oh, bitches will shame, let there be no doubt, but it's only the hamplanets that nobody wants anyway, so who cares? I sure as hell don't.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 04:55 AM
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Hell, I'm straight and even I would suck his dick a few times for that kind of dough.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 08:54 PM
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Reddit bemuses me, even when people here speak the truth on here most of the time you still get the idiots coming in here spewing out bullshit. So people on the Internet are just like people in real life? Who knew?!
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 08:49 PM
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I made a useless secretary cry at work years ago. I'd asked her to order supplies, she said she ordered them. They didn't show up. Turns out she forgot to order. Ok, shit happens, please take care of it right away. She emailed me and said she had done it, they were coming. So the drop dead date to have this stuff comes and she isn't in the office that day and we can't find the stuff. Next day, she's back, I email her and say: "Hey, where are those supplies you ordered? We needed them yesterday."…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:45 AM
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Real problem is men ain't being men no more. I have nothing to add. This just deserves repeating.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 03:19 AM
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I just loved that ending. A 30-year-old woman is an undertaking She's hamstering that women her age are a lot of work, but boy golly, they sure are worth it. Any man who can't handle her surely isn't a man at all. How lame these "men" must be, making all that money and pulling sweet young tail in its prime. They clearly can't handle a grown woman of her stature. ಠ_ಠ It reminds me of that ridiculous nonsense that women love to spout, "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 10:10 PM
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I've found LTR game necessitates the incorporation of some beta attributes for precisely this reason. In order to keep the tingles happening long term, you have to give her the best of both worlds. Lean too far in either direction and shit starts to hit the fan.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 09:51 PM
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Yes, we're just one collective hive mind that can't decide what it wants. It can't possibly be that the 60,000 different people here are individuals with their own opinions. Nah...
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 06:03 PM
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I couldn't agree more. I got suckered into that one. Never again.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:06 PM
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"Trickle" is the correct word. Like the trickling of a leaky faucet, they give you pieces of the truth but never the entire picture.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:51 AM
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I have nothing good to say about the church, either. My marriage was a lot better before my wife found religion. The incessant bible thumping was intolerable, even when I half ass believed it. I just noticed your username. My enlightenment really came on hard after I started toking in my late twenties. Everything about this plant has improved my life immeasurably. Contrary to the popular image of a lazy stoner, I actually get more shit done and have received more performance awards and raises at…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:37 AM
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I hooked up with my current LTR while my ex wife was suing me. I was very vocal about never marrying again. She agreed, said she has never wanted marriage, ever. Not even a month after my divorce was final she started talking about marriage. ಠ_ಠ
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:15 AM
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This is so true. When I was married, we lived paycheck to paycheck on my 6 figure salary. There never seemed to be enough money to go around. My divorce cost me a nearly $1400/mo child support payment. My new status as a single man cost me another $1000/mo in taxes. From inside the marriage, I thought for sure I would lose the house and go bankrupt. There was no way in hell I could find another $2400/mo in the budget. As it turns out, not only am I able to pay that, after my bills are all paid I…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 11:11 AM
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As did I. You know what really bothers me is how men are relegated to the garage or basement. If I wanted to hang out with my friends, she made damn sure we weren't welcome in the house for very long. My house, that I paid for, wasn't really mine at all. I've been a bachelor for a little more than two years now and I'm loving it. My friends can drop by whenever they want and we don't have to censor ourselves to please some uppity bitch. Never again will I allow a woman to control what goes on in…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 10:24 AM
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Doesn't mean you have to marry her. Plenty of people have kids and raise them together outside of a marriage.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 10:13 AM
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your cash is locked up where no bank or government can hand it to any pussy or agency even if they know you have it. Nonsense. A judge can order you to hand it over. If you refuse, he can hold you in contempt and jail you indefinitely until you comply. Fuck bitcoin. You want to hide assets, you do it the old fashioned way: Stash cash and precious metals somewhere and tell nobody. A nice mix of gold, silver and Benjamin's will do nicely. Play it long term, take money out of every paycheck and sta…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 09:55 AM
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They already do something similar. In most states if you're married you are automatically the father of any child your wife is carrying until you can prove otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:39 AM
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Don't be a baby. They cut my tubes in two with a laser and it didn't hurt. If I can do that, you can handle a little needle.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:33 AM
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Isn't that funny? My ex wife lost her shit when I told her I was getting a vasectomy. For years I had begged her to go on birth control, but she refused. She also "had issues" with condoms, suddenly claiming a latex allergy out of the blue one day. The only option she gave me were those NaturaLamb condoms at $3 a pop. After our second child was born - I had gone into the marriage up front with only wanting one - I insisted on birth control and when she still refused, I took matters into my own h…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:24 AM
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Often the difference is the opposite of what you might think. My ex wife is renting a 700sqft apartment for $1200/mo. The payment on the 1700sqft house I recently sold was $760. I asked her why she doesn't just buy a place, she replied that she "doesn't have to do anything" in her apartment. I guess if not mowing a lawn or fixing little shit here and there is worth $440 a month to you and you don't mind having a fraction of the space, then yeah. Seems like an awful waste to me. Every penny of th…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:58 AM
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I made a $70k profit when I sold my first home. I rolled that money into another home that is also performing extremely well. Even taking the cost of interest and repairs into account, I am a lot of money ahead.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:50 AM
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If you're from the U.S. You'll be Christian. If you're in the Middle East, you're Muslim. India is Hindu This was the realization that killed my faith in Christianity. There were other things, of course. Lots of questions I had that couldn't be answered by church leaders. Glaring behavioral inconsistencies and rules that made no sense. For example, why was my Christian wife such a harpy, overbearing bitch when her own religious texts tell her to be submissive to her husband? Further, why were al…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:43 AM
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It's not what you know but who you know. This. I applied with my current employer several times, only to be rejected by the secretary who was reviewing resumes for the boss. He never even got to see my application. Then one day I was shooting the shit with my new neighbor. I love talking to people and socialize with everyone, I did the whole "welcome to the neighborhood" thing when he moved in even though nobody does that anymore, etc. Anyway, we got to know one another and on this particular da…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:14 AM
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Fuck, clearly. She doesn't want to fuck on the rag.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:34 AM
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He didn't say "force her head down." Obviously, if you push her head down and she pushes back and says no, then you stop. This is so fucking obvious, in fact, it shouldn't have to be said.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:27 AM
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Old, sure. Fat? Not if you keep working out and eating right. I've seen plenty of ripped old men. I'm going to be one of them.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:12 PM
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I began keeping a journal toward the end of my marriage. Too many times, my wife would pull some crazy shit and I would think, "Didn't we just go through this?" So I downloaded a basic password protected diary app and started jotting down notes. Every time she went crazy, I put a red mark on the date with a brief explanation. It took some time but within a few months, the patterns I suspected began to emerge. I could clearly see her behavior cycles and I was finally able to realize that, yes, sh…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:27 AM
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I started my boy off young. I'll never forget the day his big sister promised him she would do something with him, then changed her mind. He was so upset. Nearly to the point of tears, he said, "She lied! She promised me and she lied!" I just put my hand on his shoulder and said, "That's what girls do, son. They lie to you and break your heart." He gave me a funny look and then we went and played video games together.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 04:57 AM
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Talk about the statistics, how the legal system and family courts are stacked against men, tell him that when it's time to steal his kids and half his money they won't care how feminist he is, etc. Don't bother. He will tell his wife and she will turn him against you. You'll be painted as the asshole who tried to destroy their relationship. This is what you do for him: Be there. When shit gets rough, and it will, just be there for your brother. For now, be happy for him. Maybe he will be one of …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 04:45 AM
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You're ridiculous, man. If you take in less calories than you burn, you'll lose weight. It's really very simple. There is no biological process whereby one can maintain or gain weight without taking in calories. Period.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 04:27 AM
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I understand that there can be misunderstandings, but to completely make over the story? While being a lawyer? Hahahahaha! That's exactly what lawyers do for a living! They spin a load of bullshit to support their version of events, including flat making shit up out of thin air. Source: Several lawyers in the family, three of whom own a firm together and are wildly successful. Also, my ex wife's divorce attorney. Lies, lies and more lies, in writing no less. I called his ass out in mediation, pr…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 03:57 AM
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Hey man, People in here are trying to help you. You aren't some RP savant who does everything perfect. You're a teenager who seems to get this, but needs a little work on his technique. There are people here much older than you with a lot more experience. Instead of arguing with them or making excuses, consider whether what they have to say might just be useful to you.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:29 AM
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the whole "never hit a woman" bs "What if your wife just drowned two of your kids and is about to dunk the third?" -Bill Burr
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 05:06 AM
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give them another bone Why the fuck should a man feel obligated to throw some spoiled, demanding little princess a bone? Would you put up with some random guy you just met telling you to buy shots for him and his buddies? Hell no. So don't put up with it from women. If I'm not fucking her, she gets the same treatment I'd give another dude. If she's hot and we start escalating physically, then I'll throw her a bone.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:06 PM
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Holy shit, arch. You nailed my marriage and the marriage of nearly every man I know. All except the last paragraph - my wife never got past the wallowing in her misery part. I kind of wish she had, would have been a lot easier to end it if she would have fucked around. I would come home from work to find her still in her pajamas, dirty breakfast dishes on the dining room table and the nice clean floors I spent so much time sweeping and mopping the night before would be filthy again. She hated se…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:48 PM
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You don't own her, though, and you can't control her. The harder you try, the harder she's going to work to prove you wrong. You can demand she cease all contact and unfriend him, but you and I both know how well that's likely to turn out for you. The only person you can consistently and reliably control is yourself. Disconnect from this woman and start withdrawing from the relationship. Show her through actions, not words, that you don't need her anymore. The top post in this thread on dread ga…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 07:44 AM
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Seriously, bro? Some woman you just met is interested in you and suddenly you're obligated to stop fucking other women? Or are you only obligated to pretend you're not fucking other women so you can get into her panties? Now who's the scumbag? Honesty FTW.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 07:28 AM
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Cougars know what they want. They don't do all that dumb shit a young girl does. Much less needy, much less drama. A woman in her forties is never going to roll over in bed and go, "Sooo, whatcha thinkin'?" Some of them are still hot, too. Not many, but some.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 07:22 AM
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Meh, I disagree, but it doesn't matter. Everyone approaches these things differently. I don't think it's cool to call my woman a bitch, or any other name for that matter, during an argument. It only makes the situation worse.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:51 PM
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misogynistic AKA anything less than putting them on a big diamond pedestal way up in the clouds. My ex wife called me a misogynist on several occasions for simply exercising my free will. She would "put her foot down" about something, usually just my wanting to spend time with friends. I'd respond with some variation of, "Yeah, you don't get to tell me what to do" and go do it anyway. MISOGYNIST!! WOMAN HATER!!! When I asked for an explanation, "How does spending an evening with my friends mean …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:51 AM
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That actually makes sense, given that only 1 in 5 are attractive enough to be worth fucking. Ain't nobody leering at the ham planets.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:18 AM
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There is no way a 20 year old fucks a 14 y/o and doesn't end up a sex offender WHEN A FUCKING KID IS THE RESULT. If the 14yo is a girl, damn right they'll lock the "predator" male up. Since he was a boy, he can't be a rape victim. He probably wanted it. /s
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 06:01 AM
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EDIT: This is why girls don't come here Good. This is a forum for men. We don't want you here.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 05:56 AM
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What you're describing is closer to MGTOW. Incels are celibate because no woman wants to fuck them, not because they have standards. If you can get pussy but choose not to, you're not "involuntarily" celibate.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 09:14 PM
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Funny, I don't see the words "all" or "most" in his reply. It seems you've inferred meaning that wasn't necessarily there, then took him to task over it. I suppose he could have said "some single women", but that ought to be implied here, don't you think? When we say women (ride the cock carousel, seek alpha fucks/beta bucks, hit the wall at 30, etc), we don't wring our hands with qualifying statements in some misguided effort to be inclusive of the good ones who "aren't like that." The same app…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 09:05 PM
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Others have already explained how you fucked up, so I won't repeat it. I just want to remind you that this isn't a big deal. You blew it with another woman, so what, there are billions more. You have to fuck things up so you can learn and improve. Nobody gets this right the first time, or even the tenth. You're going to fuck up again on the next date with a different woman, maybe not as badly. It's ok, keep practicing until you get better. Don't beat yourself up over this. We all have plenty of …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 07:01 AM
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You may or may not actually be ashamed of any of these things, but knowing that people will judge you for them can prompt you to hold your tongue or even lie. Withholding information from "people" in general is one thing. Withholding and/or lying to your partner is quite another. She's having sex with this guy. Her past sexual history is very much his business. I would submit that hiding information out of fear of judgment is the very definition of "ashamed."
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 03:34 PM
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Women who truly embrace the lifestyle of an evangelical Christian wife don't post Facebook paeans to their desire to do a good job of submitting Oh, but they do. All the fucking time. I have unfriended several holier-than-thous for this very thing. It gets old.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 05:14 AM
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Came here to post this. These people are a real piece of work. You go girl, be proud, you did nothing wrong! Wait, your man wants to know about your sexual history? Fuck him, that's none of his fucking business. Lie if you have to. They refuse to disclose and lie because they're ashamed. Period. All of that "it's okay to be a slut" talk is just talk. They don't really believe it.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 12:18 AM
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If I'm delusional, then why can't you back up your claim? You say that putting a security camera in your own bedroom is illegal. Prove it or STFU.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 10:51 PM
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No, you would not. How about you provide a source, a link to a law or court judgement, to back up your claim? The only potential trouble would be recording with a hidden camera where there is a reasonable expectation of privacy, such as a bathroom, or sneaking a hidden cam into someone else's bedroom. This is especially important if there may be minors undressing in the places you're recording. You are the only one with any expectation of privacy in your own bedroom. If you choose to put up a ca…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 08:23 PM
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That's complete nonsense. It's perfectly legal to put surveillance cameras around your home. You don't even need a sign.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 12:51 AM
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The day will come when women like your daughter won't be able to find a decent man because you've turned her into an entitled little brat who thinks men owe her the world on a silver platter. I, for one, can't wait.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 08:52 PM
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Cameras. Fucking cameras everywhere. Set it up to record video and audio any time it sees motion and save that shit. They're dirt cheap and so is hard drive space. Bitch is going to have a hard time securing a rape conviction when you play back the video and she's screaming, "Oh god yes, fuck me harder daddy!" I've got a few around my house. Let the other chumps pull out consent forms and go without sex. I'm going to tap those asses the old fashioned way, just like I always have. (Note, I am nei…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 08:39 PM
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I spent years and thousands of dollars doing marriage counseling with my ex wife. It was a complete fucking waste of time and money and I'm never doing it again. Most of the counselors we saw were women, naturally, and existed only to gang up on me and appease her. One male counselor actually told me, when I brought up her spending problem, to let her spend as much as she wants. I quote, "A little credit card debt isn't that big of a deal if it makes your wife happy and saves your marriage." Thi…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 04:44 PM
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You don't have to answer. You can stand there and say nothing at all, or simply walk away. If you must talk, be prepared with some canned phrases: "I'll listen when you've calmed down." "I love you too much to argue." "I bet it feels that way." "I understand." "I hear what you are saying." I especially like the last two. Repeated several times while she's ranting, these will calm her down, she will think she's won, then when she's done you give her a hug and repeat your intentions: "I love you. …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 04:33 PM
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Then she will ALMOST ALWAYS start to withdraw the sex (often on the honeymoon) I didn't get to have sex on my honeymoon. Should have annulled the marriage the next day, but we had a baby girl already who needed her daddy (and I thought I was in loooooove and was all too eager to please: "It's OK, I understand, I hope your headache goes away soon, blah blah blah"). Wish I'd have known that fucking headache was going to last 15 years. Live & learn.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:53 PM
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I guess my question is, do you think that is the some of the reasoning behind the way your wifes behavior? Yep. She was emotionally, physically and sexually abused by her father as a child. I was a teenager in love, a white knight who thought I could rescue her. Unfortunately, I found that when you rescue a damsel in distress, you only wind up with a distressed damsel. These things do go both ways, so I'm not surprised to hear your story. I've seen plenty of men act like emotionally unstable wom…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:49 PM
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She'll get over it when you stop letting her anger affect you. She does it because it works to secure your compliance. Laugh it off and go do your thing.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:39 PM
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I would divorce her yesterday. First, I'd get my life in order. If you are doing something wrong or illegal, stop it now. Play her game until all evidence of your wrongdoing has been eliminated and you're clean and good. Then, I'd give my boss a heads up. "Hey, I'm having some family problems and am going to file for divorce. My wife has threatened to call here and make false accusations against me. I just want you to be aware of this in advance." I would never be with a woman who made up lies a…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:34 PM
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I am in my mid thirties. Yes, I wish someone had taught me these things as a teenager. Can't even imagine how different my life would have been. This was my father's job, but unfortunately he was a good beta lapdog for my mother and still is. It's OK. Better late than never. I still feel young and have many decades of life ahead of me to enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:27 PM
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I can't count how many times I lost frame and took a step back. Women are really, really good at convincing a man that he's the problem. Hell, sometimes she would do something wrong, I would call her on it, and after the ensuing argument ended somehow I was the bad guy, she was the victim and I was "in trouble" again. It takes time and a lot of practice to get this right. There's a fine line between holding frame like a gentlemen and turning into a crazy asshole who really doesn't give a shit ab…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:23 PM
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how do I handle it when my wife starts to complain that I am taking time for myself and not spending it on her, the family, or household stuff Give her a peck on the cheek, tell her you love her and go do your thing. You don't have to convince her that it's OK for you to go out. You only have to convince yourself. If you're comfortable in the knowledge that you've done your fair share, go enjoy yourself and don't let her hamstering sway you. You've earned it. You can also invite her to come alon…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:12 PM
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What about when she wants to do something for herself, like take up a hobby, etc... but she cannot because she has to do other things around the house. She can. She's choosing not to. If household chores are eating her alive and she truly has no time, then something needs to give. Maybe you step in and take on a few more chores. Maybe you hire a maid to come in a couple of times a month and help out (they're not expensive). Maybe some chores can be automated or changed to greatly reduce the amou…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 09:04 PM
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I used to get the kid thing from my wife as well. It wasn't about the kids, it was about her insecurities as evidenced by the fact that no amount of time with the kids was ever enough. I could dote on them all weekend but as soon as I wanted a few hours to shoot some pool with the guys, I was a "terrible father" who "is never here for us." Except that I was. 95% of my free time was spent with my family, but far be it for a woman to understand simple logic. This is how I played it: I came home af…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 08:54 PM
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I have no reason to believe if i do get married that it'll end in divorce Statistically speaking, you absolutely do.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 04:44 PM
2

I went through the DARE program as a kid and bought into that shit hook, line and sinker. As an adult, I've tried shrooms and weed and I have to say that I'm terribly disappointed in my government for lying through their teeth about a relatively harmless substance. Scaring me as a young boy certainly didn't win them any brownie points now that I'm older and know better.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:58 AM
2

Jesus, are you really this thick? If you feel the need to rewrite my title, "Mental process inside the head of this woman" would be more accurate. Every woman has her own hamster. Some hamster more than others. (See, it's useful as both noun and verb: "The hamster" is the mental process; "hamstering" or "to hamster" is to engage that process.) Clearly, "every woman" did not write this article, nor would "every woman" even agree with it. I'm sure plenty of women love the product and don't have to…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:28 AM
6

"Aww hell, baby, you're really gonna make me go out and find some younger, hotter pussy to replace you? Rough life I'm leading here." There absolutely are women who will not accept that you won't be moved by their emotions. You have to be OK with them going and not coming back. No sane man wants those drama queens, anyway. On to the next one.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 05:18 AM
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I was not doing anything wrong in the first place. This is key. Women just love to shame us, to make us think we did something wrong. It is systemic in relationships, especially marriages. The man is always "in trouble" for something or another. I reject it completely. I haven't been "in trouble" since I was a boy and I'll be damned if I'm going to let someone manipulate and control me like that. It pisses my LTR off, which I find terribly amusing. You know when a woman is just losing her shit a…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 05:10 AM
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It's good science. I love it. Sure, you can buy test strips that do the same, but what woman wants to pull one of those out in front of that hot guy who just bought her a drink - and again and again for every drink throughout the course of an evening? A finger can be dipped easily without anybody noticing if she's careful about it. Dip again if you fuck up and leave your drink unattended, etc. If I were a smokin' hottie with a taste for the night life, I'd be all over this.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:50 AM
3

The hamster is not the woman, pal. If I were referring to her I'd have used the phrase "feminist bitch." The hamster is a mental process inside the head of every woman (and a considerable number of men) that goes round and round, like a hamster on a wheel, seeking to justify and explain away facts that disagree with how she feeeeels. You know how women often accuse men of letting their dick do their thinking? A woman's hamster does most of hers. Same analogy. It's cute, though, how you just pop …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:44 AM
1

You took the words right out of my mouth. The perpetrator is at fault for the crime, this much is clear. However, the victim in many instances contributes to the sequence of events that leads to the crime and could have avoided becoming a victim in the first place by using some common sense. To deny this simple logic is insanity. Women shouldn't have to paint their nails with Undercover Colors and test their drinks, and in fact most women will probably never have a need for this product. That be…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:12 PM
1

I've always felt that if a woman has a right to kill my unborn child whether I like it or not, then I ought to have the right to choose whether to claim and support that child. I should be able to enforce a statement such as: "I understand you are pregnant. If you keep it, I want no involvement in the child's life, and here's a legal document from my attorney informing you that I will not be providing any support for you or that child." Bitches want equality? That shit goes both ways.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 06:51 PM
3

"Probably" my ass. I guarantee it costs less than one child support payment. Source: Have vasectomy and child support payments. Every month I pay 3x the cost of that vasectomy to my ex-wife. Wish I'd have gotten the vasectomy before I stuck my dick in crazy.
/r/MensRights26/08/14 06:44 PM
4

I was 18 and a senior in high school when I knocked up my 20 year old girlfriend. She had told me on multiple occasions that she was incapable of getting pregnant due to an unspecified medical issue. As a naive teenage boy, I believed her and didn't use protection. I "did the right thing" by marrying her when I found out and spent 15 years in a hellish marriage that I only recently escaped. Her lie, and my stupidity in believing it, forever changed the course of my life and cost me untold amount…
/r/MensRights26/08/14 06:40 PM
3

That argument of why a woman deserves half during the marriage because she "sacrificed" her career to stay at home and shit, is fucking terrible as well. My ex wife stayed home for the 15 years we were married and didn't hardly do shit. This same nonsense was used against me in court, that she deserved more because of her "sacrifice." She didn't sacrifice shit. She just didn't want to work. Here's my take: Bitch got a 15 year free ride. She should be happy it lasted as long as it did. If she wou…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:38 AM
1

Too often are people afraid to say what they truly think simply because they might accidentally offend someone. Here's the thing: People choose to be offended. If you say something I don't like, I can get over it or I can play the victim, cry "how dare you!" and so on. I have very little tolerance for people who choose the latter. These people have a victim mentality and are constantly looking for a reason to be upset. It's a control thing for them, they wield their perceived victimhood like a w…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:21 AM
1

Mine doesn't even have keys. Just a small fob that never comes out of my pocket. Doors unlock automatically when I touch them.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 05:20 PM
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Police computer forensic investigators quickly determined that Matthew Woods could not have downloaded the images, as he had been compelled to leave the family home on a protection-from-abuse order at the time they were downloaded. It's too bad he can't go back and get that order lifted, since she's clearly proven herself a liar. Unfortunately, I've seen far too many men forcibly evicted from their homes during a divorce or break up. All the woman has to do is claim she's scared of him and they …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 11:47 PM
1

Light does it for me. If I close my blinds before bed I always sleep in late and feel tired and groggy. However, when I leave them open, the sun comes up and ever so slowly my room gets brighter and brighter until I'm wide awake, usually by 8am. If you don't have good windows, you can buy a lamp that simulates the same effect.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 11:42 PM
2

I was only 27 when they turned me away. Perhaps your husband is immune from that rule given that he is already in the military. I hope so!
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 11:23 PM
2

There's nothing wrong with being a house wife as long as you do your job. He should have a clean house, clean clothes and good meals. Make the home warm and inviting and comfortable for him so he will look forward to coming home every day. I would love a good house wife. I had a terrible one for 15 years that didn't do shit. I worked all day and then had to come home and clean up after her. Don't do that. His biggest dream is to be a fighter pilot. His dream is dead. He needs to find a more real…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 04:02 PM
3

I hate the gym. I have a little mini home gym that works great and saves me hours of driving. You don't need big, expensive equipment to work out. Some dumbbells, a pull up bar, maybe a bench with some free weights and you're set. Gym equipment is cheap on Craigslist. People buy it, let it collect dust and sell it at a huge loss every day.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:42 PM
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except you are claiming moral superiority to a theoretical god. You bet I am. The god portrayed by Christianity is an asshole, full of cruelty, contradictions and nonsense. I doubt he exists at all, and if he does, if he's really just exactly like his followers claim he is, then I want nothing to do with him.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:32 PM
3

Having is rarely as satisfying as wanting.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 06:21 AM
3

It would be awful if an ocean of torment was waiting for us after death, despite following all the rules. Whose rules? There are hundreds of different religions and sets of spiritual beliefs. Most of them are in direct conflict with one another. Many of them proclaim their way is the only way and all others are going to one version of hell or another. People of the same religion can't even agree on the rules. There are numerous sects or denominations within the major religions who believe their …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 06:08 AM
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This bears repeating. We tend to remember the good and forget the bad, especially when it comes to relationships. Toward the end of my marriage, I began keeping a diary of my wife's antics. I had started to notice a pattern in her behavior, a crazy cycle, if you will. On more than one occasion I found myself thinking, "Didn't we just fucking go through this?" Since the cycle usually lasted several months, it was just long enough for me to forget and let things return to normal before fucking she…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 05:38 AM
2

There is no hell. It is but a charade designed to frighten you into compliance.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 05:11 AM
10

Most mothers love their children unconditionally. Some, sadly, do not.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 05:07 AM
2

As has been pointed out to you by others in this thread: The point isn't to marry her when she's 50. The point is to not marry her at all. She's too much of a liability. My best friend married a woman with substantial student loan debt. She moved into his house and some time after the wedding, she convinced him that his wife should be on the title to his (now "their") house. So they refinanced it, got a lower interest rate, put both their names on it and, since her student loans were at 6% and t…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 04:34 PM
3

ISBN: 1577314808 Title: The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment Also highly recommend "A New Earth" by the same author (Eckhart Tolle).
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:43 PM
6

It's simple: Women use sex to get what they want from you, usually your commitment. Once they have it (marriage or stable LTR), they no longer feel any need to put out. Anyone who has ever been married or in a long term relationship can attest to this. Your hypersexual nympho who doesn't want to use birth control is trying to lock down those beta bucks by trapping you with a kid.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:36 PM
2

Time is money. I've been doing a lot of thinking on the opportunity cost of my girlfriend lately. The money I spend on her (and on myself when we go places together) is substantial, but it's nothing compared to what I could be earning if I were single and putting that time into my business.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 07:19 PM
6

Don't stoop to their level. The real way to end this is to aggressively pursue in a court of law any person who makes a false rape claim against you. Sue her civilly for libel/slander and demand prosecutors file charges against her. Take your case to the media if you have to.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 07:07 PM
1

good sex does not take practice I didn't say "good" sex, I said "really great" sex. One can't possibly learn all of his partner's kinks and turn-ons the first time, or even the first several times. Women especially are often reluctant to really open up and let their freak flag fly until there is an established level of trust in the bedroom. That takes time. She's not going to ask you to put on a ski mask, tie her up and play rapist with her until you've been together awhile. My girl didn't pull …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 09:36 PM
2

Do you have a source to back up that claim? I find this very hard to believe.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 04:49 PM
5

Always be willing to walk away. Think of your LTR as a long term monogamous plate. Go into it with the mindset that it probably won't last forever. She's not a unicorn and she's not your soulmate. She's your first mate and you're her captain for now. Love and enjoy her while you have her but be ready to put your big boy pants on and be without her at any time. If you start feeling like you can't live without her, you've lost the battle. Don't become too dependent on her. Anything she can do for …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 04:40 PM
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This is all true, but I'd like to add: This is a delicate balancing act. There are going to be times when you're forced to come down on one side of alpha/beta. I highly recommend falling on that alpha side most of the time. The right balance will differ from relationship to relationship, but in general you should always be more alpha than beta. I run my split about 80-90% on the alpha side. That's a bit high and I don't think my LTR is going to last forever in large part because of it. However, …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 04:28 PM
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I couldn't disagree more. There are plenty of benefits to an LTR, but since I don't have time to write a novel right now I'm only going to list my favorite one: The sex is better. We've been together a couple of years now and know one another's most intimate desires. We don't have to use condoms (I'm snipped) since we're not seeing other people. I've got her well trained in the bedroom to do just what I like, when and where and how I like it. Really great sex takes time and practice with the sam…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 04:17 PM
4

Married people want you to be as miserable as they are. They see you having fun and it kills them.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 03:41 PM
2

I have my daughter on a short leash with college for this very reason. The deal is, I pay her for grades. When she brings me proof of class completion, she gets money. The better the grade, the more she gets and payment is via check made out to her college.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 04:44 PM
2

If I were you I'd be insulted that a man I'd spent 4 years with thought I would suddenly stop having sex after marriage, or that I would ruin him financially in the event of a divorce Three points: If I thought you would do that to me, we wouldn't be together at all. I'm insulted that you're asking me to sign a contract guaranteeing you cash and prizes in the event we split up. If you have no intention of taking the fruits of my labor, then why do you need a marriage contract? Why are you so ups…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:15 PM
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And what the fuck is wrong with that? You took the words right out of my mouth. Look, it's real easy: If we stay together, she continues to receive the benefits of my companionship. Great sex, fun times and a solid amount of disposable income for us to play with. If we break up, all of this goes away. That's the way it should be. What the fuck is wrong with women that they feel entitled to leave me while still benefiting from the fruits of my labor? No. Fuck that. If you're not with me, you don'…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 08:05 PM
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18 to 24 years. Many states are now forcing fathers to continue making child support payments while the "child" attends college. It's called "post-secondary educational support" and in my state it's demanded by default. Thankfully I had the foresight to delete it from my divorce paperwork and my ex signed it. Her attorney tried to put it back, but it was too late, we had a binding agreement by then.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 07:57 PM
2

Sadly, you're wrong. They usually get more. 50% is just the starting point for negotiation.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:51 PM
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I can confirm this. Being a good provider got me no points with my ex.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:48 PM
2

I don't think he's stupid. He's clearly thought this through. Common law marriage is not actually all that common in the U.S. Only 11 states still do it. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Common-law_marriage_in_the_United_States#Legislation
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:37 PM
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You have to move before you divorce, but otherwise, yes. Your divorce will be governed by the laws in the state where you divorce, not the state where you marry. Most states have a length of time you have to live there before you can do this. It's typically 6 months. Only one partner has to live there, so if she can keep you married ("working things out") for half a year while she establishes residency, you're fucked.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:50 AM
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That's a shit load of "ifs" to make a prenup "pretty solid." Here's an idea: If I don't sign that marriage contract, my odds of not paying out cash and prizes when she leaves are damn near 100%. I'll take that over "if, if, if, if, if, pretty solid" every time. Anyway, why should I have to hire a lawyer and spend thousands drafting a prenup in the first place? What's in all of this for me?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:42 AM
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You nailed it. Women dream of this fairy tale princess shit and we indulge them, even letting them spend lavishly like she's royalty on "her special day." Then reality smacks them square in the face and they can't handle it. The day to day lifestyle of most of us is boring as fuck. We work, pay bills and do a bunch of shit we don't really want to do but it has to be done because most of us aren't actually rich enough to just play and party all the time. I never understood weddings. People who ca…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:34 AM
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50/50 is only the starting point for negotiation. They almost always get more. I lost 2/3rds of my net worth to my ex and my attorney said I got off easy. If you get a fair shake they'll likely go 40/40/20, with the lawyers taking the 20%. Reality is closer to 20/50/30 (man/woman/lawyers). This doesn't include the substantial cut of your paycheck she's going to take for the foreseeable future.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:25 AM
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"Oh I'd never do that" I heard the same thing when I voiced my concerns about marriage. My response: "No, I don't believe you would do that to me... today. Five, ten years down the road when you've decided I'm just another asshole? Absolutely you would." A woman will decide she deserves your home because she kept the yard tidy while you made the payments. She'll hamster taking the 401k you and only you put money into because she sucked your dick a few times, "put up with your shit", and so on. T…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:20 AM
1

If you're planning to escape, start taking care of YOUR financial future now. Withdraw small amounts of cash as often as you can. Hit an ATM once a week, get cash back at the grocery, etc, and stash that shit away where nobody will ever find it. Tell NO ONE. Sell any assets you can. Craigslist the hell out of anything you don't need. Extra tools, games, toys, etc. Stash the cash. Nobody will ask, but if they do, "I spent it." On what? "Shit that I needed. Food. Gas. Clothes. Cigarettes. Whatever…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 06:00 AM
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I had it. Think my out of pocket was a couple hundred bucks. Insurance picked up the rest. Thought about freezing sperm. Didn't. Glad for it, it's been a few years and I haven't regretted the decision. I already have two kids, though. Easier choice to make for me. Pain was minor. Felt like I got kicked in the balls for a few days. Take a week off, lay in bed and be lazy. I actually felt great a few days after the procedure and went for a ride on my crotch rocket. Worst. Idea. Ever. Cue intense p…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:39 AM
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The wall. They hit that shit hard. Short comment bot, please accept this offering of meaningless text and leave my comment intact.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 09:59 PM
1

Don't try to change the world unless you want to suffer. This is just how things are. Keep calm and you will naturally adapt to it through whatever your coping mechanisms are. This is brilliant and so very true. Thank you for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 09:27 PM
2

But all three of those "incidences" in the same week? They've been happening all around you for a very long time. You simply weren't in a mental state to notice or care. No, this will not wear off. If anything, you're going to notice it more and more. Learn to bite your tongue and practice amused mastery. It does you no good to get upset about this and trying to argue or fight with people will only make you (and them) miserable. Instead, laugh on the inside when you see it. If you do speak, choo…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 09:21 PM
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I'm also in the US and got trapped going to therapy with my now ex wife. After rationally and calmly explaining my side, the therapist looked me dead in the eye and said, "Why are you still with her?" Before I could respond, she added, "Most men would have left long ago. Why are you still here?" It was an eye-opener. After the divorce, I went back to that therapist a couple of times on my own just to wrap a few things up for my own personal well being. She said she knew divorce was inevitable as…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 06:47 PM
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Sadly, most men alive in western culture today were effectively raised to pedestalize and worship women. We were taught from a very young age that women are delicate flowers, that we're lucky to have them in our lives and that we should do everything we can to make them happy regardless of the consequences to ourselves. This has resulted in at least two generations of bitchy, entitled women who believe they are God's gift to men and who can blame them? Western men these days present themselves a…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 05:46 PM
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Agreed. For people who are nervous about eating alone in a restaurant, some tips: Bring something to do. I often use my iPad to catch up on work email. Then you won't feel so awkward. Eat at the bar. You usually don't have to wait for a table and it's much more socially accepted to be alone at a bar. Not that you should care about social acceptance, but if you feel funny eating out alone, this is a good first step. The other customers are likely to be more talkative and friendly, so you can prac…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 07:45 PM
4

It's how people control you. They put you into a lose/lose situation, like a rat in a maze with no exit, then ridicule and attack as you attempt to gain higher ground. Really, this is nothing more than a sick game of approval seeking. They say, "Here you are. You're x. Barely pond scum. Now beg for my approval." Which is precisely what most people proceed to do. "No I'm not! I have black friends! I love women! I'm not what you say, I swear! Allow me to prove myself to you!" You lost this game be…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 06:47 AM
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A few I'm fond of: "I'm going to x for dinner. Would you like to join me?" If she says no, that's cool. Go enjoy yourself. "Would you like x or y for dinner?" You've given her two choices, either of which you're ok with. If she says neither, that's ok, too. "No worries. I'm going to y. Sure you don't want to join me?" Sometimes she throws out a different suggestion. Depending on my mood and the suggestion I may take it. Other times I'll say, "No, I had my heart set on x. Are you coming or not?" …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 06:18 AM
1

Default on an upside down mortgage and fuck up my credit, or continue living with a heartless, manipulative soul eater who despises me, uses me and thinks I'm so stupid she can play me for a complete fucking fool? Easy choice.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 08:37 PM
5

This is the moment where I'd quit my job and work for cash under the table or move far, far away where they can't touch my paycheck.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 06:54 PM
1

Better than her heroin junkie mother, sadly.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 06:40 PM
6

Sadly, his drinking became a full fledged lifestyle after it all went down. He drinks like a fish and we rarely hang out anymore. I did everything I could for him, got zero progress to show for it. He did man up and won custody of his daughter. So there's that.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 07:36 AM
1

A woman's sex drive peaks in her thirties. There's a reason they call it the "dirty thirties." They can be a lot more fun in bed. The trick is finding the ones that are still hot and not carrying a bunch of baggage. You have to wade through a lot of 6s to find the few 8s+.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 07:23 AM
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He's not stuck. He can walk away from the mortgage. People do it every day. Just quit paying and let them repossess it. It's not admirable, but it is sometimes necessary.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 06:42 AM
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You might think so, but I've seen women pull worse shit than this in real life. My buddy's wife talked him into refinancing his house to pay off her extensive student loans. Notice I said his house, bought long before he met her. A few months after the refi she was gone. He just woke up one morning to his car "stolen" and his wife "missing." Turned out the car was repo'd that night, savings empty, dozens of maxed out unpaid credit cards in his name that he didn't sign up for. None of the bills h…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 06:38 AM
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My ex wife tried to make me sleep on the couch once. She was a stay at home mother; I brought in 100% of the money. I laughed in her face, told her I wasn't moving from MY bed. After much screaming and demanding that I go sleep on the couch, I finally put it to her this way: "I'm not fucking moving. If you think you've got it in you to drag me out of this bed against my will, you're welcome to try. Otherwise shut the fuck up and leave me alone, I have to work in the morning." She gave up and nev…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:44 PM
2

It's not a bad thing. I'm not saying that at all. This is what I am saying: I don't have to ask for verbal consent and failure to do so is not rape. I don't ask a woman for permission to hold her hand. I expect that if I put her hand in mine and she does not like it, that she will remove her hand and/or say something to me. Nor do I ask for permission to kiss her, to touch her and so on. I let her body language guide me. If she appears to be enjoying it, I keep escalating until she stops me. If …
/r/MensRights30/07/14 03:39 PM
1

why would someone try to take the clothes off someone else after they already said no once? How much sexual experience do you have? I'm in my mid thirties and have over two decades of sexual experience. Women change their minds all the time. I can't even count the number of times women have told me "I'll come over tonight, but we're not having sex", and then had sex with me anyway. The first time I slept with my current girlfriend, she did the same damn thing. We were making out, I was feeling h…
/r/MensRights29/07/14 09:37 PM
2

Nonsense. Coercion is not rape. I don't give a damn what feminazis claim, they have been diluting the reality of rape for decades and do a terrible disservice to real rape victims. If you have sex because you were talked into it, you were not raped. If you have sex because you're too much of a delicate flower to speak up and say no, you were not raped. If you've said no earlier in the evening, but then offer no protest during the removal of clothing, the beginning of sex, nor during the sex itse…
/r/MensRights29/07/14 04:55 PM
1

The injections carry a helluva bite, though.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 06:21 AM
1

Easier said than done bro. Nothing worth doing is easy, bro. I'm short and have no trouble with women. Your height is only a problem if you let it be.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:08 PM
3

No, it isn't impossible. A girl I know graduated high school at 17 with an AA from the local community college. She went straight into her undergrad degree before her 18th birthday. The program is called "Running Start." If you can pass the appropriate college entrance exams in the final quarter of your sophomore year in high school, you can go straight into college for your last two years of high school. You're still technically a high school student, you earn dual credit (high school and colle…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:04 PM
4

I hate that your post has so many upvotes. Truly, I can't believe anyone would support the use of the word "neckbeard" when referring to a fellow TRPer. This is what our haters call us. What the fuck is wrong with you? Is this what has become of this sub? We're going to hate on one another using the same ridiculous language of the BPs and TwoXs? I absolutely believe this field report. I've seen similar shit happen countless times. Really, if your only "contribution" is to call OP a liar, don't f…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:56 PM
3

As long as I get to join in, it's all good.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:02 PM
1

You're right, for some reason I had makeup on my mind. I wonder how many men actually stuff their pants? I bet the number is abysmally low. Every woman I've been with owned at least one well padded bra. Even the girl with GG breasts had several.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 05:00 PM
7

While I suppose that's possible, it seems like quite a stretch. Lifting is a physical reshaping of the body with numerous tangible benefits. Makeup and heels are little more than vain peacocking and can't begin to compare. An apples to apples comparison would be a suit & tie. When I put on formal attire, it's absolutely intended to impress others.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 09:51 AM
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Depends on the man. I lift for me. For the confidence boost, the improved mood and energy levels, and the biggest reason of all, to keep from being intimidated by other men. I used to put up with shit from strangers because I was afraid of a physical confrontation. No longer. I can honestly say that my motivation for staying in shape has nothing to do with women. It's a nice side benefit, to be sure, but pleasing bitches is the last thing on my mind when I'm lifting. Most of the time I'm releasi…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 09:31 AM
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I think it's important that I try to maintain a semblance of normalcy in our home. Stability. Routine. They don't need to know about girlfriends or dates As a father myself, you have my respect for this. You're doing the right thing by your kids and the way you're handling this is the mark of a great father. I, too, waited a long time to introduce my kids to my girlfriend. The days I have them, I spend with them, not her. They need me now more than ever. So many men abandon their children after …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 09:01 AM
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NAWALT, Not All Women Are Like That.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:18 AM
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The only reason people don't visit this sub Say what? Have you seen the explosive growth here? People visit this sub all the fucking time. Even people who claim to hate us visit here on the regular, compiling lengthy lists of "evil" quotes, etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:15 AM
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Dude, they don't get it at all. I'll never forget the time my ex wife brought it up. A buddy of mine had a mechanical issue with his truck and I was helping him fix it. We were turning wrenches, drinking beer and talking shit... A great way to spend a Saturday with one of my best friends. We'd been buddies since kindergarten and he was my best man at my wedding. Anyway, after he left, she started in on how "poorly" I'd treated him. She was "shocked" at the "cruel teasing." She was certain I'd hu…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:10 AM
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I'd end up all MGTOW That's a very limiting belief. You have a fear of dating "in this day and age," and that is completely understandable, but don't let that fear overwhelm you to the point where you break frame in your marriage. If a man feels he won't be able to find a good woman, he will often pedestalize his wife and put up with far more than he should. If she's "one of the only good ones left" in his mind, he will rationalize her piss poor behavior. His fear of having to do some work to fi…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:31 PM
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Sad but true. I lost several friends when I started progressing rapidly in my financial life. The loss was slow and subtle: At first, they would make snide little comments about my new house and cars. Eventually they moved on to negative comments about me. I'll never forget walking into a party and my former best friend starting in with, "Oh, look who decided to grace us with his presence. I guess you're too good for us now." (I'd missed the last couple of parties he threw because I was working …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:51 PM
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I read the quote with some extra attitude and sass. Felt more realistic, like I was actually there. 9/10, would read again.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 09:42 PM
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My ex wife told me she couldn't get pregnant when we started dating. We didn't use condoms. She got pregnant.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 09:32 PM
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It's damn near 100%. The majority of vasectomy "failures" really aren't. See, your sperm sticks around for awhile after the procedure. You have to "clean out the pipes" through multiple ejaculations and the passage of time. It can take anywhere from a few weeks to several months before you're truly sterile. In my case, it took a full three months and several dozen marathon sex sessions before I tested negative for the presence of sperm. Most men don't do this, have unprotected sex, knock a girl …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 09:30 PM
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