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Posting something written a while back: That is rape. End of story. The woman does not want have to have sex, and through manipulation, coercion, and intimidation, you force her to have sex. Yeah, she doesn't want to have sex at first. There was once a time when I wasn't very physically active. I was walking by a gym and saw that there was a special promotion. I didn't want to go to the gym right then and there, but a fellow gym employee stopped me and asked me if I wanted to get healthy, and I …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 10:18 PM
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Complaining that the world is completely unfair to men and that their lack of success is due to feminism, that is the complaint on TRP that makes far less sense IMO Yes but if the guy also doesn't want to go through the experience of waiting for someone to develop further if a developed person is what they seek, then that's fine too. Complaining that the world is completely unfair to men and that their lack of success is due to feminism, that is the complaint on TRP that makes far less sense IMO…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 04:18 AM
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You've graduated therapy IMO Theoretically if a person gets on fine with their life and feels great, they don't need therapy. So if you can get to that point without therapy, I don't see any point for it for the following reason: Why not try a life coach or a personal trainer or a careers consultant or whatever it is you think you really need help for at that stage in your life? Or why not just spend some cash on yourself and wipe your tears of joy with the left over bills. The only therapy I ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 04:11 AM
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I think there is a certain level of respect and composure that needs to be maintained for any healthy interaction. Whether that be with colleagues, friends, or a main plate or gf if you chose to go that route, which I may add is only one part of your total pool of interactions throughout your life during a given time period. Why would you want someone who's ready to push the nuke button seemingly out of nowhere. It would be like having a job, walking into work, and getting fired with no warning.…
/r/askTRP02/06/18 07:26 PM
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I think that in general that's true, but in cases where you have very strong feelings for someone you might struggle to find someone who will give you the same degree of satisfaction. I think the is the cause of some unwillingness that people have to leave relationships where the mismatched libidos are starting to weigh on them; they have such strong feelings for their partner that they're scared even if they can find someone who matches their libido that they won't provide the same quality of r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 06:36 PM
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Just adding on. I don't see people falling over themselves trying to buy a mid range HUWAWEI phone, like they do the iPhone. Same concept for the mid range guys, they are just "meh". Where's the literal bang for the buck? Girls don't need more mediocre sex and time spending with overgrown children, they want value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 06:32 PM
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It's the same thing as ads trying to sell you everything under the sun. At the end of the day you will buy what you want. Let them whine and cry, while the guy gets his.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 06:28 PM
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What if you base it on those and add another extra filter to vet for sexuality on top of that. Then pick your "one true match" as they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 06:24 PM
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"jibe". thanks I was talking about the situation where a guy or girl is in a sex environment where they are not fulfilled, so they can choose to find someone who fulfills them in that way and keep the people that don't as friends assuming monogamous relationship is preferred. And hey, kudos to your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 06:23 PM
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Whether you'd be better staying friends with someone with a lower sex drive rather than dating them depends on how much you're compromising on with regard to sex and how much you like the person you're compromising with. agreed There's no easy answer regarding whether sex the main cornerstone of a monogamous relationship because the sexual and emotional aspects of relationships support each other so much. Separating them so the roles can be played by two people wouldn't be anywhere near as satis…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 06:20 PM
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> I don't see finding someone whose company you enjoy and who you have good sex with as a "the best of both worlds" kind of thing. Those two things are literally the foundation of most relationships. Your post is confusing. My point is, why not have that person who is good at the other things be your friend, then go and find someone who has that thing as well as the sex for your relationship partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 05:20 PM
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Move along now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 05:17 PM
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If I may ask, and I do agree with you, however would like to know what you deem to be the core reason behind why you wouldn't put up with a man moping around the house and not being active.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 04:04 PM
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different strokes for different folks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 04:00 PM
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Relevant video on the topic, tupac shares his thoughts on the source of male violence: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BzfNl0QxIwE
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 03:59 PM
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That is some of her competition. She has to find something in her that is valuable enough so the man she is after would choose her over options like the one you described and many more. Exactly. Same goes for the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 05:50 PM
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The problem with lots of money is you are heavily insulated, whoever you are you can stay, there are few external forces that can put you in a position of real desperation which, in my mind, is one of the most effective emotional vehicles for core personality/lifestyle change. Great line.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 05:38 PM
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Ok, I added: Are there things you think that people on TRP complain about which actually make sense, making the complaint null?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 05:32 PM
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If you want a high value man however you define it you need to answer a single question. Why in the everloving heavens will he choose you over a better option that for sure he can get since he is so high value? If you can't show a man a reason for him to say "Yeah, nailpolishremover2 is exactly the kind of person that will make my life so much better... I better put a ring on her before any other men takes her away from me" then you don't deserve that man. Better to keep someone who doesn't "wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 05:29 PM
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Traditional sex: "You should do this with me" Sex-Positive: "I want this kind of sex and want to find the right person for me, are you that person?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 07:11 PM
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When people play games with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 07:08 PM
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If he can get it, it allows him to better filter for what he wants. That's why some men are saying no to some women, and they are complacent, lazy, and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 07:08 PM
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To give you an example of 1 girl: The correlation is 1:1 with what you would expect from a self-interested girl maximizing for all the usual wants (car, house, money, token boyfriend/fiance/husband, looks, social value, I could go on but I won't) Her dreams are unattainable (nothing is good enough, always wanting more), chronic dissatisfaction, brings nothing of interest to the table. Imagine this from a guy's perspective. You meet this girl, she gives off very obvious non verbal signs that shes…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:24 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 12:59 AM
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agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 12:50 AM
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Replied here: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/7yrbyn/the_problem_with_no_means_no_is_men_always_think/dukx51n/ Also I have no issue with being pushed a little in bed on things I’m a bit unsure about - as long as I trust the guy I’m with to stop if I really don’t like it. But if I’ve said ‘do not ever do that to me, I’m not at all interested in even trying it’ then that’s a final no - and any guy who ignores that and goes ahead and does it anyway is a complete asshole and very …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 04:33 AM
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Do you guys know what it’s like to have a dick in your ass? It’s a lot more than a finger and requires lube and prep. Have you seriously stuck your dick in a girls ass with just one finger for prep and no warning? I agree with this, but I did it with no finger prep once, went dry for the first time. I guess there were probably fluids discharging down or I had them on me. It was her favorite anal experience. Obviously we had consent, a non-verbal kind. I could read her, she wanted it. No resistan…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 04:04 AM
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I'm going to say it straight out. You are intellectually dishonest and you don't phrase arguments well past the surface level. Indicating a young and immature sign of reasoning in my opinion. All you want to do is spit talk at people, but are otherwise uncaring to wards actually learning anything outside of your line of reasoning. Did you ask her if you could do that? See reference: The guy puts his dick in Note that I didn't say "me" or "I". Stop projecting Your latter arguments in that paragra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:02 AM
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Technically as per the OP's DOJ definition, which is cited, you were raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 04:56 AM
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Government officials can classify definitions anyway they want. They are trying to classify real behavior. Real behavior doesn't care about classifications. Classify sleep sex as rape and rational people don't care about that classification and none of them are knocking on court doors to put their loved one in prison. Understand that many people were taught that rape is "alleyway violent sexual assault". So you have to dispel that first or what you're doing is trying to push this definition of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 04:34 AM
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The typical arrogance of men; you think we won’t figure it out. We will. The only thing protecting you before was our inability fo do anything about it which is no longer an obstacle. You can certainly try. The obstacles haven't changed in 100s of years. I missed the part where all these women got windfall settlements falsely accusing innocent men? What a lucrative opportunity. Some are false, some are true. AKA, Rape. The severity only really influences the sentencing, not the determination of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:54 AM
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You have no ability to do that. Unless you want a giant lawsuit for sex discrimination. I've been doing it for a long time, so have many men before me, and men will continue to do an evolved version of this after I die. Those guys that I can't trust, I will not say anything to them. Those that I can, I will. And they won't tell a soul. Bro code. No lawsuit will ever have me in it's eyesight. Guilty men with a guilty conscience going full retard. Smart men protecting themselves from harpies that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:39 AM
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I was fine with her post for what it's worth. Even though it was kind of an obvious troll. It's still something that could have been discussed. Although I think those types of threads should be in third person. I think what she wanted is for guys to say "yes that was rape and we need to do more to educate men on rape and that's it". Meanwhile the solution is actually to make men and women better people so that they aren't so stupid. This would solve a lot of issues. She sounds like she's a 20s g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:22 AM
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It's probably good that you made it ambiguous because that resembles the grey area more than a perfectly clear situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:20 AM
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That was just "locker room talk". Every guy you've slept with has locker room talk. For your information, all I will do is group all those broads who want to punish men, like you do, into a pandoras box that I will neatly put away, far far away from my existence. I will also warn other men of these people. Then strategies will be discovered to filter women like this, and the broads will be filtered out based on who they are as a person, and not their likes/disinterests in sex. Kind of like that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:18 AM
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Sleep consent is a great area to think about. On the one hand sleep sex can be illegal, because the other person is unconscious to consent. But I know for a fact a lot of girls love that and it's their fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:08 AM
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again these are "young kids" in this situation, both inexperienced virgins. Most boys this age aren't red pilled to this point yet. and really the fact that the boy in the story is "begging" for sex is not hte issue. Guy cares deeply for this girl and wants to lose his virginity to her and she wants the asme thing, but shes not sure if its the "right time" etc etc. again the point of the story is to attempt illuminate certain issues people face in "gray areas" of life especially at a young age w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:05 AM
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I noticed you didn't reply to my long comment. Scared?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:03 AM
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I bet he stuck his finger in her ass while in doggy, and then thought this may be the right time to introduce her to anal and stuck his dick in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 02:02 AM
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Keyword propensity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 01:54 AM
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Guy makes the mistake of "begging" for the sex with what he's doing. Another strategy is to stop immediately and say that he doesn't want to do it, and make additional claims of "I'm not ready myself actually". At that point the fear of losing him to a girl who would fuck him would kick in and eventually he would get it in, or fuck another girl. All this other crap including this thread and that other thread with the girl completely sad because some guy took advantage of the situation and stuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 01:49 AM
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You're arguing from a tautology IMO. Well structured argument. Told him it was no go (although kick him out of bed isn't really cementing your hatred of it, next time say "I would leave you forever immediately") I did something to a girl that I specifically knew she wasn't into previously, and did not particularly want to do, and she said no to it in the past (but not very directly). The key is I know what I'm doing, I did it when I non-verbally thought she would want it and now she's loved it e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 01:37 AM
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In that sense n-count doesn't matter as much as skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 10:01 PM
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Damn, you are a serious survivor. 71% hahaha. Perseverance 10/10
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 10:17 PM
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If the guy wanted the kid, smart man. Why have remorse doing something like this? It's his kid and he got the kid. Fuck everyone else. Greatest argument for not restricting your opponent's speech. If it's wrong, let them talk. They're just putting on their dunce cap for everyone to see.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 10:11 PM
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I ask myself every time I come here. I'll probably stop coming here even though it was already rare to begin with. Reading things helps people process different ideas and test old ideas against new knowledge. Sometimes having your shit together is more important than getting your dick sucked. Alternatively you can have both same night. Today is just a refresher. I popped in a while back for a few days and checked out where everyone was with the arguments, was disappointed and left. Fuck it, toda…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 10:08 PM
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Black pill This is not a real answer
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 10:05 PM
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While your title may be true, a promiscuous man is bound to get more experience sexually and his numbers will also be indicative of his sexual ability, bringing his numbers up even more. If he wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 09:58 PM
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Living through life, you will find your calling. But you can't find it if you don't experience things. If you just focus on living your life and being open to things, you will find a lot to live for. Just be careful and don't jump into sinkholes while walking. A lot of things can still fuck you up, so process the risk, especially with girls. It will be a whirlwind of bullshit that will fuck you right up. So be careful and don't let that happen to you. And just experience things and something wil…
/r/askTRP16/07/17 03:54 PM
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live your life. Maybe she'll call you and come over and fuck. In the mean time you can go fuck whoever you want. Do what you want.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 03:20 PM
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They just like to read while they shave their legs.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 02:53 PM
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Shit man cmon. Let her have her non sex day. Then it's up to her to fuck you senseless some other time. Meanwhile, fuck someone who wants to fuck you.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 02:51 PM
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lol proposing sex. Don't propose anything. Take what you want. Make her want it and then give it to her.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 02:50 PM
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Women want real men who don't cry, get depressed, have issues, and all this other bullshit. They want a guy who owns his shit, has goals, and would be just fine without them. Edit: to the idiot who downvoted this. This is the excuse that girls use when they mate with someone with a high net worth. It's not about the "money" it's about his drive and who he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:48 PM
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Think house of cards. You can do it in a way where you are straight about your intentions. Or you can do everything with a positive perception. Which one is easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:44 PM
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It's the connotation, they prefer the word with a better connotation. Females is bland and a lot of women/females/vaginas have a negative perception of the word, the same way they will have a negative perception of that extra word I just stuck in there. They want to control the social rules and what people refer to them as. Personally I don't give two fucks about what people call me as long as I'm hitting my life targets and living good. But attention to those girls is everything. Just think abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:42 PM
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Commenting on anyone's appearance when it not solicited and off topic is rude, inappropriate, and a sign of poor social skills On the contrary. Knowing when to comment on someone's appearance in a professional setting demonstrates good social skills and high social value if executed correctly. Sucks for you if you can't do it. Single girl at work. Didn't solicit anything from you. You talk with her from time to time, she laughs. You clearly but also subtly complement her on her dress. The compli…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 02:35 PM
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the most successful men I've met in my life are not the best looking, they are fucking magnets and for good reason. Not their physical appearance, although it is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 12:58 AM
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The smokes one. It's just directed at women for who that is a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 12:56 AM
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Solid reply
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 12:51 AM
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You can create what you want with the right fundamental building blocks. Just like people say there are plenty of fish in the sea. There are plenty of girls who you can create a good life with. If not for life, at least for a few years. You can shape it to be what you want it to be. To do it well and have it be beneficial for both people is an interesting aspect. Maybe I go for submissive women mostly, or/and most women I have met were inherently submissive for me and standoffish to other men. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 12:49 AM
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Dating for men is essentially sales after all. And what's the best way for an aspiring salesman to get experience? That's actually the part I'm struggling with the most. I'm struggling on how to actually do that without any women in my life. It's boring doing stuff by myself or with only guys around. I also don't like hanging out with guys and their girlfriends. It's easy to be extremely fit for life. All you need to do is one thing, go to the gym for 6 hours every day for your entire life. Use …
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:41 PM
2

Teenager ends up disillusioned and with no idea on how to actually deal with women. Not necessarily. He got the first part. He fucked up the latter part. He will learn and improve over time. What's the core of TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 05:23 PM
3

pump and dump, or don't touch with a 10 foot pole.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:13 PM
2

And yet I received detailed answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 05:10 PM
2

Maybe your inner self isn't attractive. All the other stuff is attractive, but people don't actually like you, who you are, or w/e. I know a manlet like this. He could be attractive, but he doesn't know how to be. I'd have to reprogram his brain for him to understand how to be attractive. He could solve it if he tried. Think of it this way. Think of a girl that you know who is hot, but you do not like her at all. Or maybe an average girl who you do not like at all. It's the same thing, just dire…
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:09 PM
1

not
/r/askTRP03/07/17 04:55 PM
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What if the girl is the one looking for captain first/first mate? Is it wrong to talk about the women you work with? What about mentioning a mole on her ass? "girls are always trying to fuck and land the best guys" - said by many women, are the women being emotionally abusive and inherently unethical?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 04:25 PM
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Thank you for your comprehensive opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 04:01 PM
2

Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 03:36 PM
2

Nearly completely control another human being. Just read the title. The same way girls can cuck a guy and control him nearly completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 03:18 PM
1

What if you take their input into account and you do know better. Is it immoral?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 04:21 PM
1

What about when you cast doubt or undermine a person's over-inflated self worth? It is possible to manipulate through sweetness and kindness, but it's not nearly as effective. It's actually the most effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 04:19 PM
1

Teaching men that it's it's their fault that they aren't sexually successful is exactly what the doctor prescribed. Guiding men to fixing their problems is exactly what's going to cure the root cause of their symptoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 04:17 PM
3

amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 04:14 PM
3

1: Higher levels of dread. Purposely making your SO afraid and insecure to get more [insert behavior here] out of her breaks the golden rule. Living a life where your partner knows that if they don't respect your needs and wants, they will become a part of your history, is not bad. Hard dread is a hassle, there are tons of fish in the sea that don't need hard dread. Subtle dread does little harm in my experience and offers a reminder of value. 2: Amused mastery. Condescension is rude. Especially…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 04:12 PM
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It's immoral in application if the person using it chooses to use it immorally. Some of the descriptive theories are wrong but they aren't immoral. It's the prescriptive side which can be immoral but it depends on the individual's choice of how to apply it. Some of that shit is sort of sketchy but it's not immoral per se. TRP doesn't not encourage immorality though so let's not pretend they are just roses and kittens. blue pill response, wow, not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 03:46 PM
1

Works best if she's into you too and you just let it ride there at that sexual tension level. Well for me anyways.
/r/askTRP12/05/17 10:34 PM
1

Yes. I still think nervousness is the emotion that people feel. Sure from a third party point of view, you can see it as tension. But from a first person perspective, I don't see how it's tension. There's an speaker who will be speaking in front of 1000 people for the first time, you ask him "how are you feeling" and he responds "oh you know, a bit nervous". Can you imagine he responds "oh you know, a bit of tension" or "feeling a bit of tension".
/r/askTRP12/05/17 10:32 PM
1

So you can go for anyone, and you go for this? Fail. be more picky next time.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 08:08 PM
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you failed it. Because she keeps on doing it.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 08:07 PM
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It's positive body language. Read a body language book. Or do sales, you'll learn it.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 08:02 PM
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I wouldn't be exclusive with a person like that. It would be an immediate hard next into plate territory.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 08:01 PM
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You didn't post if you're looking for a committed relationship or just banging girls. If you're just banging girls. I don't see how you will attract the wrong girls. You'll fuck and then she'll ask you to buy a car, leave her and fuck another girl who will ask you to buy a purse, rinse, repeat.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 08:00 PM
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Then just go and practice. Talk to some girls.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:44 PM
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Good backstory. Emotions are matched with perceived situation. No deviation, sensing something different will trigger alarms. Much easier to not lie with women. Fun as fuck to do social engineering otherwise, look up some videos of how people get into concerts by talking their way in. Confidence and presentability play a huge role. Why would the good looking person who is sure of himself be lying.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:43 PM
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Just do it and figure it out.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:36 PM
1

Reminds me of the "shopping for a husband, elevator" joke. And a quote from Vicky Cristina Barcelona movie where the main actor coins the term "chronic dissatisfaction"
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:34 PM
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Had this question as well. I said "time". I don't have a lot of it.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:29 PM
1

I don't see how you can be the shit a year ago and be nothing now. It's the same skills, did you magically lose the ability to flirt with girls and pull? These skills grow and compound in usefulness, just like career skills. I don't see any reason why someone can't better themselves in both.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:28 PM
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What are your hobbies? Very easy way to tell how much of an airhead someone is. I'm sure most of you are busy working on something or doing something that you enjoy. I'm sure you can list a few hobbies. Some girls have no hobbies. Educated, nice, pretty, caring girls who have fuck all to do 24/7 and will require a lot of your time. Looking forward to seeing some interesting responses in this thread.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:17 PM
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He deserves it, it's his fault. Gotta learn the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 03:32 AM
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This is written as if I would post it directly to the okcupid subreddit thread. I think that no one has really mentioned attraction. Logic is one thing. Attraction is another. Thoughts of attraction are one thing. Actions of attraction are another. I'm going to put it bluntly, it seems that B is doing the trick. A can't do the trick. I think it's also important to note that this is not a relationship so the name of the game is dopamine. Which amusement park ride gives the most excitement. It see…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 07:38 AM
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♂ Wanted to give you a point for this old post: Can't access archives now. It's in this thread if googled. why_telling_her_how_its_going_to_be_is_always_the/dba1alk/?context=3
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 05:49 AM
1

Reminds me of Nightcrawler
/r/MensRights11/12/16 04:15 AM
1

"what day works for you?" You're free Wednesday, she says Wednesday, arrange a time and go out. You're not free Thursday, she says Thursday, "I can't do Thursday, I have Wednesday free". It's either a yes for Wednesday or any further conversation with her should relate to what day next week you can both go out.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 11:39 PM
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You're not looking for a wife or relationship. It's just your turn. What are your immediate desires with girls? If you want to have a great experience with a girl, that can be achieved even if she is a slut.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 11:30 PM
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For starters, you need to have an amazing life if you take girls out of the equation. You need to write out your goals. They could be anything. You need to help yourself. Imagine girls as a market. You are the product. You're not elaborating on why they are repelled when you are alone with them.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 11:27 PM
1

The blue pill poster stated that he/she agrees with it stated moderately, implying less than agreement if it's stated not moderately. Do you see the issue with this? Replace the word "idea" with "fact" in my last post and read it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 03:27 AM
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Exactly. And how do you get good at dancing? You learn. Same thing for sex. They didn't learn yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 03:20 AM
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Leading and being more creative is more difficult than submitting Yes. You're basically asking "Why are men bad at the more difficult role that women are even worse at?". For most of the general population, yes. Why should men give more than women Because the man gets something out of it that he wants. You get to a nightclub and entry is $5 for women, $20 for men. "Why should men have to pay more?". You can ponder the question, or you can deal with reality. Do you want to enter the nightclub or …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 03:10 AM
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I agree with a lot of the basic ideas stated more moderately. This makes no logical sense. You either agree with an idea or disagree with it. This pencil is yellow This fucking shit-pencil is yellow It's either yellow or it's not yellow. You can disagree with the fucking-shit part, but not with the yellow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/16 02:59 AM
1

Looks like he's going to have to learn.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:59 AM
1

It's simple, you're not giving them what they want. Your strategy is giving you unwanted results. What does a business do if it's strategy is losing the business money? Does it keep using that strategy?
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:52 AM
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Maybe there's a VR porn market. Someone's going to start making VR porn games. If you can't make money from it, find another hobby. You could play a popular sport. That's a much better hobby.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:42 AM
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What he said. Also, have confidence. You landed the position. Take pride. Learn at every opportunity. After you're well into your work, focus on what actually happens at work, and not what you think is fair or what should be. Set your sights on more $. Jump around to different jobs, gain experience. Get promoted.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:34 AM
1

You need to communicate. Body language.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:26 AM
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Having a boyfriend didn't stop many girls.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:25 AM
0

How can I salvage this and bang her a few more times? Fuck her good. Problem solved. Actually, both problems solved.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 03:23 AM
1

he's saying you have loved by all privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 05:46 AM
-1

I think that most women find a fit man with 9-12% body fat attractive. If we are talking about body type. Unless big bear means fatter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 05:44 AM
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I have another solution for you. Build up your own reasoning, understanding, and knowledge. Prove to yourself that you are worth what you think you are. Once you do this, everything else becomes moot. For example. People think a guy is not good looking, while in reality he has an extensive sex life. People think a guy is not making money, while he has a side business that earns him income and the dollars are in the bank. What does it matter what they think. He is who he is. Once this is establis…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 05:35 AM
1

It's funny that this is what it boils down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 05:10 AM
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I did not know that. Ok, let me ask you this. Taking in the fact that the lady said it was unwelcome to the guy, do you think that it's possible for a guy to successfully ask her out in an elevator?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 04:54 AM
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Is there a reason that a person should only hit on random people in large spaces, where the other person can get away if things go bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 04:43 AM
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I remember walking and talking with a girl and she was adamant that she would never want to be asked out for coffee and that she would say no. Now that I'm writing it out it doesn't make much sense, but at the time she had her reasons for having this stance. So I asked her "would you like to go out with me for coffee". she said ok. Pussy tingles > the bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 04:41 AM
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Who said I was hot? Do you think that ugly people cannot politely ask a girl out in an elevator? Just like differently-abled people have abilities, differently-aesthetic people have the ability to politely ask a girl out in an elevator.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 04:34 AM
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Read what I wrote, women don't call me creepy. Step 1 fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 04:05 AM
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It wouldn't be creepy if I did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 04:03 AM
1

A person is an asshole if they ask someone out in an elevator? Business exec looking guy steps into an elevator with a cute girl after finishing work. "I'm headed to so and so bar, you should come have a drink with me if your'e up for it" smiles He could be a rapist. He could be a normal nice guy who is asking a girl out for drinks. He could be something else entirely. You see, I'm actually advocating for women's rights. It's her right to determine how she wants to be asked out. In this instance…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 03:52 AM
2

I don't recall being called creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 03:41 AM
1

How do you know it's unwelcome unless you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/16 03:06 AM
1

Easy if you let it happen. But you have other shit to do as well.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:27 AM
1

Here's my opinion. can i stay over tomorrow night? Never let these words leave your mouth. If you lived alone, you would have less of a problem than you do while living at home. Firstly it's a different dynamic because she knows she can go to your house as well. Right now you only stay at her place. In some aspect, it's as if you are imposing your presence on her house, a guaranteed morning after, etc. If you fuck her good, she'll want you over. Now you can hang that carrot in front of her. You …
/r/askTRP11/10/16 03:25 AM
1

Looks like they didn't read the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 02:40 PM
1

No answer. I just want you to be happy and reach your goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:27 AM
1

My plates want to cook and clean for me. I understand the cooking part, but I don't know why they are enthusiastic about cleaning. They are loving and kind and gentle. They are educated with bachelors degrees. They have good jobs. They are in top girl shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 07:50 PM
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Believe me I just want to make it work and not risk dumping this girl. You're already coming in from a position of weakness.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:38 PM
6

Hit higher up. Looks like you're dominating the current SMV range you are targeting. If you were going for 7s and 8s, go for 10s.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:36 PM
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Most responses that I read resemble this one mentally: As a man who has dated quite a bit, I disagree. So – did I get that right – your "true" advice would be for young men to be more aggressive and masculine? What would that even look like? Coming to school wearing sunglasses and a leather jacket? Now that I've read some more responses, there are a few good points out there. But it still seems like everyone is arguing about semantics Here's another response I want to highlight: This is one of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 05:42 PM
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I haven't seen him with a gf, but he has an ex he sees regularly. So maybe there's something there. Although she's lower SMV than his bangs. The ultimate redpill is that no girl will ever be attracted to him the same way she would be attracted to a 6'3" guy. In my head I like to think of it as gigantic fetishism. I'm not a girl, so I can't understand exactly how their attraction based on looks works. Although I can see the allure of your argument. I think all shorter men still have a huge weapon…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 06:48 AM
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That narrows down your search criteria considerably. No drinking, smoking, or drugs will take a huge part of the population out (don't they drink wine at church?). Them having to be the same religion as you is also going to take a huge chunk out. Not only that, but they need to have the same level of devotion, and another piece of the pie gets removed. On top of all this they need to want to get off the grid and live on a farm. So basically you literally want his undying devotion to yourself and…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 06:21 AM
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What's the level of devotion? Describe going off the grid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 03:32 AM
2

What's your list of requirements? So far we have no drugs, no drinking. How attractive do you want him to be /10 Gimme everything you've got.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 03:26 AM
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Men can also hide things they want to hide very well. There was a thread a few days ago with women posting their strategies to weed out red pill men. The strategies weren't very promising.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 02:41 AM
1

Notice that in my original comment I said most RP guys, not all. In my second comment, I said "An RP man may" not "an RP man definitely will". I noticed. I just wanted to see what you would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 01:57 AM
1

pretty much. That's why I put "fetish" in quotation marks. Technically it is a fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 01:55 AM
1

What do you think it means?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 01:44 AM
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Oh, I see what your problem is. Let me tell you about this short guy I know (he's like 5'5). He knows red pill. He has never been on reddit, probably hasn't heard of the manosphere. But everything that comes out of his mouth is pure red pill (when he's saying something red pill related). The reason that he knows is because he had to figure it out on his own. He has a diverse set of experiences from many facets of life. Probably the best story teller I know. He can entertain someone for hours. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 01:22 AM
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I think the two most popular "fetishes" that women have are men who are bigger than them, and power (rape fantasy, domination, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 12:35 AM
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His girlfriend is cool with that idea, but wants to know where he's going, when he's coming back, who else will be there, who's driving, will there be women there, are any girlfriends going, etc. Assuming I would do a relationship: Way too much info. I hate obligations. I hate being accountable. I love my independence. If there was a table where both parties bargain, I would put it down as "that's me", take it or leave it First of all, I'd figure out what the root cause of concern is. Second of …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 12:02 AM
1

Could you give an example in a situation between a man and a woman of: and the relatively few PP guys use a pragmatic view (expect their partner to be a fellow adult, are protective of their boundaries but not automatically offensive towards the person approaching them, accept the need for compromise in a relationship while retaining their hard limits).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 10:49 PM
1

"I cry with my sweat glands at the gym"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 10:47 PM
1

Would you be able to provide an example of teamwork, compromise, and communication?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 10:46 PM
2

I recommend that you try again with her. Try to see how far you get within your current permanently emasculated position. Every time I sleep with someone who's cheating on their partner (this is dependent on the guy finding out), I hope he learns his lesson. The guy has been cheated on by 3 of his last girlfriends? 1st time wasn't enough, 2nd time wasn't enough, 3rd time wasn't enough, maybe I'll be the "4th times the charm". What lesson? "I will never let this happen to me again, I will never l…
/r/askTRP08/10/16 07:33 PM
2

I've seen alpha -> alpha branch swinging
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 02:25 AM
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Abundance mentality will certainly play into enforcement. If you have something on the side, or even if you have nothing but you have the ability to go out and find&fuck something you like, it becomes very easy to strictly enforce any boundaries you feel like having.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 02:21 AM
1

Even if I got ignored, two things pop up into my head. The first one is that I'd bring some value to the encounter. Girl sucks my dick and goes down on the other girl. That doesn't mean I have to sit still. I can choose to make an action. Make them want to fuck me as well. The second is that I just got my dick sucked for a very short time of 10 seconds, and now there are 2 girls fucking each other in front of me. Let's say they don't want me to participate, maybe they just want to fuck only each…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 10:23 PM
1

One part of it is a fetish, 2 girls doing their thing. The other part is about the girl enjoying herself. If she's just doing it for me, that's very different. I'd prefer it if she has the 3 way because she wants it. And if she is really into the other girl, she's having a good time. I enjoy getting off, and I enjoy it when the other person gets off. It's a positive feedback loop. That's why there's a disconnect for me with: she is sometimes going to be way more focused on that girl you guys are…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 09:58 PM
1

Especially when you can tell that your SO is genuinely really, really into this chick and not just ''performing'' for your pleasure. To me, this is preferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 09:15 PM
0

she is sometimes going to be way more focused on that girl you guys are having a threesome with than you I honestly don't see the issue/problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 08:55 PM
1

I knew it. What you said and the way you responded to me, I knew you had something real. I'm a big sucker for real love stories. I found happiness. You have too. Cheers!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 11:18 PM
1

Obligations are the devil. You are not obligated to do shit.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 11:09 PM
1

Up to you, you could drop him if you wanted to.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 11:07 PM
1

First of all, you should lift. focus on yourself and be better than the person you were yesterday, everyday.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 10:58 PM
2

Half the shit I see on here is "what do you think she meant, what does this mean, why did she do this" What would I do? I would ask her. It's absurd that people don't do this.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:54 PM
7

You're going to need to accept that it's just your turn. Whether it's plate status or ltr. Stop expecting that your plate will stick around forever. Stop expecting that an ltr would stick around forever.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:46 PM
1

You never know. One day, the stars align, everything happens in perfect choreography, and you feel a little tingle for someone who's not your husband. Pardon my colorful language. And just so you know after this little back and forth with you, I respect you and your relationship and honestly wish nothing but the best for both you and your husband. You've got some true love shit going on, and I'm rooting for you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 07:47 AM
1

shit happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 07:36 AM
2

What if you contract chaditis? edit: I think I just coined a new term.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 07:28 AM
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Kids movies are a form of art now. Pixar, Dreamworks, and Disney took storytelling to a whole new level. Women comedians, sometimes they are great, sometimes they suck so much. I take a feminist stance on comedians. Their gender is irrelevant to their performance. Do you think that "terpers" are literally posturing 24/7 in their lives? You seem to equate trp to tryhard alphabro.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 07:26 AM
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Pick one. Your strategy does not weed out all the bad ones. There are good ones who know "TRP" Edit: nevermind. I thought this was a serious thread. It's just a bunch of women posting strategies that they think will weed out trp men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 07:16 AM
1

Players (the businesses) provide a wanted/needed product/service to the customer (women). If you look at it as an industry, the environment is created to a lesser extent by the business, the business is created to a greater extent by the environment. The environment being the general propensity of women wanting/needing a good fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 07:08 AM
2

Yes, this feeds into the feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 07:03 AM
4

Wow, I don't think I've seen a question answered here so succinctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 06:59 AM
1

If I was in your position, I would start reading about success stories of self made millionaires and absorb it like a sponge.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 06:52 AM
1

I shouldn't tell people how to live their life and what they should enjoy. But you're here asking about what I think. It's like drawing. A kid is 14 years old and likes drawing. By 19, he's going to university and learning engineering, no time for drawing. His hobbies evolved into MMA/robotics/socializing etc. Say that instead of robotics, he keeps drawing. He's going to get very good at it by 25-30. But drawing is a way to put artistic thought on paper. Think of all the things that you can crea…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 06:46 AM
1

Yes, get some goals and work towards them. Also exercise. Expand your social circle. Tons of things you can do.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 06:16 AM
1

If you are still recovering, you may want to hold off on weight loss and certain physical exercises. Talk to your doctor. If your doctor ok's it, then you're fine to do it. Or if you want, fuck around with crazy diets and exercise and have long lasting foot issues. If you're all healed, you're going to need to diet and exercise. Know what the fuck you are doing. Don't diet past the point where you are losing weight because you are losing muscle mass. You'll need to know that and a ton of other t…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 06:13 AM
1

Work on your issues (anxiety). Since it's the nature of this forum I'd just like to point out that although I'd like to find myself a girlfriend and/or improve my game I consider this a side-effect rather than the goal of this exercise. If anything this gives me more motivation to go out to the people, but it's not the reason I'm doing this. You're already results oriented, and your goals are better than shitty goals like "there's this one girl I like...". Now you need to be able to work on gett…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 06:03 AM
1

Maybe the interaction fizzles out because of something else. Men can show no attraction and the girl will hit on them. Showing interest =/= telling her she's pretty. How do I make it clear I'm interested in a smooth way? There is no one way. There are unlimited ways. Go practice and learn how to do it in your own way.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:53 AM
2

Practice makes perfect. Get 10 numbers, text different things, see what works and what doesn't, axe what doesn't work, repeat.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:46 AM
1

I would advocate for fucking a milf that is outside of your social and family circle. Shit goes wrong, you don't care. If you want this one, you need to run some milf game and make something happen. Like that response from cazzah. It will go somewhere or it won't.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:41 AM
1

Rejection is feedback. Feedback is good. Achieve outcome independence and enjoy not the rejection and success, but the improvement of yourself based on that feedback.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:38 AM
1

Why is it your concern anyways. It's your ex, it's just some guy. Who cares.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:36 AM
1

It's natural for them to develop feelings.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:34 AM
1

Ignoring the fact that he's trying to turn a ho into a housewife, that he still has oneitis type issues, and that he's trying to date. If it's just for a fun night and a good experience, I could argue that the tatted bitch will be a much more interesting experience than a cookie cutter basic bitch. I like your theory btw.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:28 AM
1

Do you guys think that my low sex drive is because I havent had sex yet and my mind has just given up? What?
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:21 AM
2

Bull shit. Bull fucking shit. You have the great outdoors, parties, hotels, her house. Kill that male hamster.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:20 AM
1

Ignoring that this is a troll post. You're stacking the odds against you by not focusing. "I want to get an engineering job, so I'm going to try to learn chemical, mechanical, and computer engineering to even out my odds. Should I also learn bio engineering to load the dice a bit more?"
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:12 AM
2

"I want to go to a party", then go to a party. "But I don't have an invite", then get an invite. "But I don't know how to get an invite", then figure out how to get an invite. Is it really that hard? This is going to be brutal, but you're 24 years old, grad school in engineering, and you can't figure out how to socialize, go to parties, and get laid? If you want to socialize, then obviously you need people to socialize with. You can socialize with people at a rock climbing gym, at the bar, at so…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 04:59 AM
1

There are things you can control and things you can't control. If you are doing the best you can to improve your life for yourself, and she leaves, what's the problem? You did what you could that was in your power. That's what matters. The other problem you have is a dislike of hypergamy. This is classic anger phase. You were conditioned to think that the sky is red, but the sky is blue. Over time you'll learn to deal with it.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 04:49 AM
1

what the hell is an edge lord?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 06:18 PM
13

The biggest cost is time.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 09:07 AM
1

If you can't beat em, join em.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 08:57 AM
1

Uh oh, girl with an attitude!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/16 08:21 AM
1

I don't neg insecure women. I don't actively dread game them. The dread game comes as a part of my lifestyle (non commitment). What I'm saying is that it's a lot more complicated than what you wrote. There's a lot at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 07:45 PM
1

Agreed. I honestly don't give two fucks about what he's doing. I do find it interesting though. And I salute him for finding a nice comfy place for himself to live in this society.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 07:30 PM
0

Are you asking me to type out the trp aspect of my game, explain how it works, and why it works? TRP is a buffet, people can come and take from it what works in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 07:28 PM
1

Now I can answer your question, in a way. Here's what I think, People do things in their self interest. A mix of conscious and subconscious decision making leads to this. A girl can be getting a guy to buy her dinners consciously, or she can be subconsciously trying to have a good time (or insert whatever other innocent reason) and the guy paying for dinners is simply something that just happens. An abstract way to look at these interactions is by seeing who's profiting from them at the expense …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 07:23 PM
0

I'm not going to speak about your definition of TRP. I will tell you that TRP in my anecdotal experience works on feminists, shy girls, introverts, extroverts, sluts, virgins, insecure, secure, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:45 PM
1

A girl is trying to get her guy friend to do her homework OR spend a disproportionate amount of time helping her with her assignment. Is she trying to have an intimate friendship experience, or is something else at play? I can rework the same question for Guy friend always paying for dinner Trying to get guy friend to help her move If we go back to the marriage decisions, is the woman only trying to have an intimate partnership, or is something else at play as well. Your premise is that women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:37 PM
1

A woman may presume a man likes tutoring her in a subject he is expert in because during conversations he gets so damn pleased when he's the expert during group conversations. That's a very stupid presumption. And then you get circumstances where a guy wants a relationship and deliberately underplays the cost to him of the favors he is doing in order to try to make himself look very abundant and more attractive. Yes another dynamic that promotes misunderstanding. I think a similar situation to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 05:09 PM
1

However, I think this describes a small minority of cases. Give me a ball park figure. I also have a question for you. Do you think increased financially based quality of life and financial gain play a part in women's decisions with marriage and serious relationships? Examples: The financial gain, if divorced, of a part of the man's estate and/or a stipend. Quality of life, a house, a car, disposable income, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 02:23 AM
3

Trick question. A girl who sucks my dick and asks me how I like my steak cooked.
/r/askTRP30/09/16 11:49 PM
1

There's a girl I knew, still know actually, who could tell if guys would be ok with being rimmed out. It was a 6th sense gained from years of being a slut and rimming guys out. Objectively, there was no way to tell. But she knew. I will never convince you. But I understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 03:12 AM
1

Top of the line bullshit detector. Master of piecing puzzles together. Always had the ability to open up a girl and read her like a book. It also helps that I enjoy a deeper connection, makes the sex better and gives me a good look into her soul. Not my first foray into dom-sub sex. On top of all this and all the other little nuances that make me think that, I practically watched her grow into her self-made sub role, like a father watching their child grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 02:38 AM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 02:14 AM
1

I guess I just have a way with women. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/51ktx6/how_do_you_get_her_to_reveal_more_about_her/d7dcsm2 Puzzle master.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 02:06 AM
1

Cabs exist. Uber exists.
/r/askTRP28/09/16 10:24 PM
1

Then why is it so hard for you to believe some of the stuff in the other thread, when it pales in comparison to what you just said?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 07:24 AM
2

I've known guys who went on sprees and fucked so much that they looked dead. Bit off way more than they could chew. And it was their right to bite off more than they could chew, but they were drained.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 07:07 AM
2

What if I told you it wasn't a lie? No man has any sort of control over a women's sexual agency If she has already chosen you, then the ball is in your court. With one particular girl, I was seeing her once every couple of weeks. Some of my time freed up and I wouldn't mind seeing her more often. I thought the sex would be even better if she solely saw me. So I told her to end it with her bf. I told her this over the phone. She told me she would call me back, and 5 minutes later she called me ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 07:01 AM
2

That's exactly what I was thinking and also that's exactly who my target audience was. If you read my other reply, you'll see why. To save you the trouble, I just want to add the info in my post into the mix of the discussion so that it drives a guy to try something like it in real life. Then he can see for himself if the results are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 06:20 AM
1

I see some comments mentioning the dollar cost of preparation. I would argue that the time cost is much more significant over the long term (time = money, meaning a loss of $). Other than that, here's my reply to your post: nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 06:16 AM
2

Thanks for your reply, I do have a question for you. OP replied to my last comment saying "do you actually expect people to believe this?". Is what I typed really that far-fetched? Why can't they believe something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:12 AM
1

To be honest with you, I don't care if people believe it or don't believe it. That's just one of the small experiences I've lived through. What is someone's opinion going to change about my life? Is it going to falsify what I've experienced in my own life? No. Am I seeking validation on internet forums? No. It's a complete waste of time to type any comments out if you really think about it. I don't really derive any benefit from it. Also this whole situation was one of the things that made me in…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 05:08 AM
2

A number of women who don't do casual sex will go casual for the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 02:47 AM
3

I can't even reply to these threads. Seriously. I sit there and ponder "how the fuck do I explain this". Then I look at the top reply. "Women don't like being treated like pieces of meat, but they might tolerate it if the guy is hot enough". Right away the alarm bells start going off. Is he saying that women don't like being objectified? Is he saying that women do not enjoy being objects of sexual desire? I guess to him, sexual attraction of that form is something a woman would "tolerate". So th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 02:46 AM
8

It's like a sugar daddy-baby relationship without the sugar.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:51 PM
1

Look at it as a market where the exchange of value takes place. Everyone wants something and everyone is bringing something to the table. In each transaction there is a power structure involved based on what both parties are bringing to the table. Pre-selection is good: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/20dfyy/the_restaurant_analogy/ Running to do her bidding is a power structure where she holds the power. Is she looking to be submissive or is she looking to dominate? Just be careful,…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:47 PM
1

Give me a short and specific question, and I'll see if I can answer it.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:20 PM
0

Like an investor choosing where to park his money, you need to have a good understanding of how things work to make the most correct decisions. While you are concentrating on making the right decision, you are focused on building your decision making abilities. Test your assumptions, gather real world evidence as seen through your own eyes, and use evidence based reasoning to expand your understanding of how things work.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 06:08 PM
1

Just test it out in real life.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:27 PM
1

IMO she wants to get under your skin. She succeeded. It's a litmus test. If you care, she's winning. If you've built yourself up as a man to a certain point, you wouldn't care.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:17 PM
1

Find something you truly believe in internally.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 05:10 PM
1

It's actually easy, just do it.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 04:46 PM
1

Real answers and understanding lie within the complexities of life and context. If you don't know how something works or why it works; or you don't understand it within the context, you're missing out.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 01:56 AM
8

I want to fuck who I want. Other people want to fuck who they want. Sex happens. Someone gets left out? Not my fucking problem. Looks like a free market to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 01:37 AM
1

It's fine.
/r/askTRP25/09/16 01:33 AM
7

Free market rules. Don't like it? Stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/16 01:27 AM
1

Putting up with shit tests is second nature. Putting up with weight training? Try doing it for more than 6 months and seeing results. It's also a form of meditation. If you do the 6 month challenge, you'll learn that you're really doing it for yourself. Is it worth it for girls? No. Just pull while being overweight. You'll have to up your game considerably.
/r/askTRP24/09/16 02:30 AM
0

It can be the difference between a green and red light. If I'm always laughing around a girl and feel great, it's a plus. But maybe once a week max. I can't do that 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 01:01 AM
2

Nope, fuck that. People have fundamental rights. It's my right to drink and do what I want (while respecting others rights). If another girl wants to do something with me, and I want to do something with her, and we are intoxicated, it's our right to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 12:52 AM
3

The thirst is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 11:41 PM
2

Works great for plates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 07:35 PM
2

Aren't as sexual as I want them to be is a better way to describe it. They don't value sexuality as much as I do. Why pick from the crop if you can pick from the cream of the crop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 07:23 PM
18

I see three options. Dump her. Tell her to keep her family drama out of your life. Allow only solution oriented discussion about anything to do with her family.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 06:33 PM
-1

You don't like challenges.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 06:26 PM
25

I would eliminate her family from my life. They don't exist anymore.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 06:24 PM
2

I hope this pink pill thing takes off. Looking forward to the entertainment!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 06:15 PM
4

I don't think they can. Other men can. Sure ice cream is great, but you've had it countless times. Right now you know that you need an omelette. You'll be fine sacrificing some delicious ice cream to hit your dietary goals, even if it's for some time. And if you're craving ice cream so badly, you can hit up the store and score some.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 05:33 PM
2

Some girls just aren't sexual. I just identify it as fast as I can and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 02:00 PM
5

Men can be just fine without women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 01:48 PM
1

Let’s consider sugarbaby/sugardaddy relationships in particular. Those aren’t just about sex, otherwise the sugardaddies could just go to a prostitute for a single night rather than lavishing the same woman with money and gifts (where’s the “coolidge effect” now?) You need to rethink this entirely. Likewise about the girlfriend experience thing. I don't think you understand what it means. Of course, men are also more willing to wish to engage in casual sex outside their relationships; even the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 01:46 PM
1

I know it's satire. But why do you add on the extra objective of erasing stigma?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/16 01:30 PM
1

Figure out a way.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 01:06 PM
1

And you can't handle that?
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:45 PM
1

Are you saying that without her, you are nothing?
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:43 PM
1

Why?
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:39 PM
1

How will you be happy if she's not happy?
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:33 PM
1

Do you want her to be happy or not?
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:27 PM
1

Call a suicide hotline.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:22 PM
2

the whole reason I chose to have casual sex with them was because we were incompatible in terms of a relationship. I hope all the nice guys read and internalize this. Now imagine a girl and guy are fwb. The girl wants it to be more than fwb. Men in that position are the gatekeepers of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 11:53 AM
1

One of the options is not to have an LTR in the first place avoiding this problem altogether.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 11:17 PM
3

Go out in the real world, test your assumptions, and see which ones hold up.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 11:08 PM
2

I do things that I like. I enjoy doing those things.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 01:42 AM
1

We all go down that line. It's like a right of passage.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:13 AM
1

lucky is my middle name sealed the deal. Hilarious. I think no matter what you do, you'll be fine. You have a good head on your shoulders. I do recommend soft nexting and fucking plate #2. Or maybe grooming a replacement plate.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 11:13 PM
5

Men can either build their life or dig their own grave. Sometimes they think they're building their life and realize that they've dug their own grave instead. one night stand gif I'm not going to say anything about OP's situation. What I can say is that numerous marriages / partnerships / long term relationships resembling this one progress into situations where a few years down the line or even 10 years down the line the guy goes "fuck".
/r/askTRP15/09/16 11:05 PM
1

How is everything coming along?
/r/askTRP14/09/16 07:57 PM
3

Take joy in improving your life and knowing that you're in a better place than others around you. And if at the same time you're feeling like George Carlin, grab some pop corn and enjoy the decline.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 07:55 PM
1

Comes with experience. Use your best judgement for now. Build your judgement.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:50 AM
1

The odds are in your favor. It's a personal choice. Choose your life.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:45 AM
1

Vasalgel when it comes out. Put a dome on in the meantime.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:43 AM
1

I think it's a mix of it being down to the girl and down to you. The girl has to have the capacity to be able to act in that fashion. Even if she does have it, she won't be that way to all guys. At that point it's up to you. If you want to run a quick litmus test, look at how much value you are providing to her. If it's a lot, you hold the leverage and she will modify her behavior to keep that value. Other than that, I can tell you that there are some girls out there that get off on being yours.…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:33 AM
1

I like this answer most. I've found that each intellectual connection is different and great at the same time. And if you're already getting enough pussy from your harem, and you want that intellectual connection on the side, then have at it. If she gives you a reason to want more, and you want more, have at it. And if you don't want it, just move on.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:21 AM
1

Take the time to learn through experience. Put yourself in situations that develop your knowledge and understanding. It's one thing to be taught something, it's another thing to teach it to yourself by reading about it, and it's another thing entirely to see it unfold in front of your eyes and truly understand it. I did do this, but only after I learned the hard way that some of what I was taught including commonly held beliefs were bullshit.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 04:06 AM
1

Stop texting this girl. Use calling instead. The time you previously spent together should be reason enough for her to be wanting to see you again. In you current situation, either she will fuck you ever couple of weeks or she won't. If it was me, I'd be enticing her. Basically laying down game, even over the phone. Doesn't take long at all, you could do it in quick call.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 03:57 AM
3

Use game. Don't have game? Develop game through experience.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 03:36 AM
4

On the one hand some women are holding out for mr perfect. On the other hand some women are giving out pussy like charity. Well, they are all holding out for mr perfect, some are fine with riding the carousel in the meantime.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 03:32 AM
8

What exactly are you looking for?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 03:29 AM
1

tell her to show you a porn vid of it.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 02:10 AM
1

What learning curve?
/r/askTRP12/09/16 01:55 AM
1

You don't know how to rough her up.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 01:44 AM
1

Figure out if she likes you, if she does, escalate.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:14 AM
2

I'd make her cook me a 3 course meal. And then after eating it, I'll tell her it was "okay".
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:11 AM
1

You don't manager it. Well, you could go hardcore and confront. But what's stopping you from just doing what you do and being good friends with those friends of yours.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 03:06 AM
1

Your first problem, no game. Your second problem, fat tissue. And stop concentrating on your circle. Go outside of your circle, new pussy. This way you're going to get an unbiased read on your abilities.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:57 AM
2

The fake thing vs the real thing.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:43 AM
1

Confront your fears instead of hiding from them. Ideally you should be at the point where you are unfazed by her. What the hell are you getting out of using your valuable time to do something which doesn't benefit you at all?
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:34 AM
2

At this point it's stupid to backtrack. Follow through with your decision.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:31 AM
2

If it was me, I would figure out if she likes me or not. Most importantly I'd see if I like her. If there is mutual interest, I would escalate. Treat her however you want.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:30 AM
2

Some top Quotes: "texting his coworker slightly inappropriate things like "I can't wait to see you on Monday" " That's an inappropriate thing for a single man to text a single woman? From her perspective, yes. Because it doesn't just mean the guy is hitting someone up for sex. It means he actually likes the girl he's hitting up. "You're exiting my sphere of influence, and that is not ok" - girl The great thing about being a man is you can decide what is ok and not ok, what is appropriate and ina…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 12:24 AM
2

Good point.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 07:45 PM
2

I'd say move.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:31 AM
1

Alcohol and music leads to dancing a lot of the time. But damn though. 4 is a lot. Definitely possible. But at least one Doable for sure.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:28 AM
5

Backhand. Keep that pimp hand strong.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:19 AM
1

Hotter body? Probably has more sex because she's more desirable, many potential suitors.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:17 AM
0

Ask her what it means
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:14 AM
1

Get some hobbies. You need more time sinks.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:13 AM
1

Best reply in this thread.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:11 AM
3

Lets go to an adult shop and watch porn like the rest of the world. I can't tell if you're being sarcastic, but I can tell you that I would never think to go to an adult shop and watch porn. I'd much rather watch porn at home and fuck the girl.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:09 AM
2

Weve had good sex all our married life. And now this comes out. She's telling you that it wasn't good enough and she wants you to really fuck her.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:06 AM
2

To answer your question, I think this has more to do with him than with you. She craves that rough, kinky, degrading stuff. He's in her life so that feeling gets amplified. But it's interesting that one of her options was to introduce this into your 2 person sex life, but she went straight to the three way plan. Which begs the question of is she into the degrading stuff, is she into 3 ways, or is she into her ex. Other than that, I want to say that this is literally a nightmare scenario for some…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 06:02 AM
1

But I think the key is getting her to understand her role in your life, embrace it I'd be curious to see how you would handle it if you were the opposite of generous. Even if she's being perfect.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 03:21 AM
1

Argue it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 02:25 AM
1

Where she basically just values any time she gets to spend with me so much that it trumps all else. It’s very fulfilling to be such a powerful source of happiness to a girl. I also share this knack. The best experience is what I value most. Also keeping myself happy and spreading that happiness around. The problem is that if I am that person who fits that niche in her life, she wants more and more of me. More time, more emotional connection, more contact, more everything. Doesn't help that most …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 02:19 AM
8

Just my 2 cents for people reading. It's really so easy to deflect these questions. It's always situation and context dependent. Girl: How old are you? Guy: "I like this question, that means your going to tell me how old you are right?" Right there the guy can escalate. The guy could switch it around to how old she is. Guy: "I think I know how old you are" He can use kino and touch her arm/hand to test how old she is. He could comment on her skin or her face. "Your skin feels so soft, do you rub…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 06:03 AM
1

I don't talk about my other sexual experiences (This includes N count, who I'm seeing, etc.) with the girl I'm with. When questions arise I agree and amplify and deflect. "Am I being interrogated?". Further questions are deflected with "Detective [insert girl's name]". I switch topic or deflect to something else immediately. It's not a bad experience at all, it's just added into the flirting. It's very simple, I respect the privacy of my other sexual partners. I make sure the girl understands th…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 05:42 AM
0

It does if they are using that word and I want to understand what they mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/16 05:25 PM
3

Mentally pliable, that's a great way to describe it.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:07 PM
1

Naturally, situations are extremely contextual. The difference between the simple example I wrote out, compared to something that I've lived in real life is night and day. The example I wrote out - is like trying to describe sex with words, it's not the same as being there and feeling/understanding what is going on first hand. So I effectively can't get into any details, thought processes, and intricacies of the situation. I just tried to give some sort of an example, because it is better than n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/16 10:40 PM
1

When you're valuable, they will care about you.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 04:46 AM
0

Fingers crossed for vasalgel
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 04:20 AM
1

I see TRP as a collection of experiences and observations by men from all walks of life. Discussions of sexual strategy are discussions about tools that a person can use. Of course a hammer can be used on a nail to fix something or it can be used to break down a wall. It's up to the carpenter. I can't say much about MRP because I haven't been around those parts much. they do increase their value in the eyes of their partners, but also cause their partners to dread that their man may leave them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 08:40 PM
2

inexperience masquerading as experience.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 08:09 PM
2

Is that her in the photo? She's 33? Holy shit.
/r/MensRights11/05/16 08:06 PM
1

Can you make sure to factor in how people actually use generalizations: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/4is9vr/what_are_the_biggest_points_of_disagreement/d30vtr7 Generalizations give you information before you actually know anything about the person. I still keep an open mind, but I have the generalizations at the back of my head. Their person's personal information supersedes the generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 07:42 PM
1

I'm considering reading this, what did you think of the book?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 07:25 PM
1

I see the point both of you are trying to make. She's saying that niceness generates attraction, but not being very descriptive about it. This is the meat of what she said: Women would be more drawn to nice people. Strong disagree. This is a fundamental lack of understanding of how people work. Even if you define comfort and attraction as two separate entities, there is a lot of overlap between the two. Comfort and emotional intimacy increase sexual intimacy. Whereas you were descriptive about b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 07:22 PM
3

Could you describe depersonalization and dehumanization?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 04:46 AM
1

I get where you're coming from. I want you to try to see things from another perspective for a second. Imagine a guy who just doesn't know how any of this works, and didn't learn it naturally growing up. How is he supposed to just get it? I don't think he can just wish experience into existence. So he really has two options, to learn it by reading it or to learn it by experiencing it and naturally selecting behavior that is successful over behavior that does not result in success. Of course a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/16 04:28 AM
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although I do think playing off someone's emotions can also be manipulative, particularly if it's meant to instill fear or some sort of compliance. That's the thing though, in my situation, I know the response that I will get. She will want it, she will not want to lose what she has, and she will sacrifice to keep it. Regardless of the intent, it will instill fear or some sort of compliance. But from another perspective, I am just trying to fit her into my life in a way that satisfies her and my…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 07:11 PM
1

"change your behavior or else I will be unhappy" I can also say that "change your behavior or else I will do X" (whether that be leaving, or seeing another girl, or etc) is also an honest assessment of what I need/want from them. But I don't have to communicate this to them head on, verbally. See this post for more info: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/4imqh7/describe_where_you_think_the_line_is_in_terms_of/d3063fv I'll give you an example from real life. A plate was tired yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 06:28 PM
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But you see, that's the thing, I think option 1 and 2 are pretty much the same option when you are operating from a logical and non emotional standpoint. Husband does something bad, but instead of emotion, logic is used to form the opinion that "I don't like this, I want it to change". If you give into sex right after, this could be categorized as enabling behavior. For the sake of argument, let's say that you know that in that instance if you have sex right after, this will enable that behavior…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 05:58 PM
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You've boiled it down to intent, which I believe is an important factor in categorizing manipulative vs non-manipulative tactics. And here is a huge problem I have with intent. This is something I wrote in another thread: It's a very important point that I think many people don't give justice to. If someone learns "manipulative" tactics throughout their life but is not conscious of them, according to this thread it gives them a free pass. In the same way that evolution sees successful progeny re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 05:42 PM
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Let's say that I'm with a girl and for whatever reason I see that she isn't really valuing me that much, or is doing something that I do not like. I can go home with her, sit down, talk it all out and communicate everything, even thought this will be a huge turn off for myself and for her and a waste of time. Or I can simply demonstrate my value, my lack of mental/emotional clinginess, my lack of oneitis, and more. Walking down the street with her I can mention another girl who is also walking d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 05:30 PM
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I wanted to hear your thoughts on a post I made in another thread: It's a very important point that I think many people don't give justice to. If someone learns "manipulative" tactics throughout their life but is not conscious of them, according to this thread it gives them a free pass. A man is talking to a few girls at a night out and he's not getting far with girl 1. He goes to talk to girl 2 knowing that girl 1's attraction will increase. This is apparently manipulative. Another man at the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 05:03 PM
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I'll never have sex with you again unless you admit you're wrong and apologize, that would be a little manipulative. I can fight fire with fire. What if you were pissed off and were subsequently "turned off" until he admitted he was wrong and apologized? Are you not allowed to not do something that you don't want to do? Or are you obligated to fuck him even if you are still pissed off and turned off. if I say to someone hey you really hurt my feelings and I'm going to need to cool off for a litt…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 04:53 PM
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Like I'm gonna do what's convenient to me logically cause you will also do what's convenient for you and use ur feeling as an excuse. People will gloss over this point but it is very important. If we imagine some vapid, bubbly girl who uses her emotions as excuses to act in her full self interest, everyone is fine with it. She's flirting with one guy, the next minute she is going to talk to another guy, then a third, etc. You probe her to understand what she's doing and she just says "I got bore…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 04:41 PM
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What if you don't live in a world of major emotions, but instead live in a more rational logical world. Your husband does something bad, other people in your situation would be pissed, but you're over feeling all these crazy emotions and take a logical route instead. So while other people in the same situation as you would be pissed, you instead are not pissed because you don't let your emotions control you. To put it more frankly, you prefer logic over emotion. So, instead of being pissed off, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 04:32 PM
1

A dictionary doesn't describe what other people believe the definition to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 04:20 PM
1

explain
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 02:11 AM
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The common narrative definitely influenced his life. This is why trp is important. It gives someone the ability to think outside of the common narrative box and opens them up to other avenues of options.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 01:14 AM
1

I just posted up a new thread on PPD because I think this thread sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 12:59 AM
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if youre dishonest about your emotions you are giving your partner a sense of comfort that she shouldnt have if youre judging her and potentially may decide to dump her based on emotions youre withholding from her, this can be maniupulative as she may sense a disconnect between your actions / words etc, and she may probe, and you will shut her down, and give her a false sense of security, when in reality you are doubting her and the relationship. And if I want to keep my emotions to myself? What…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 12:28 AM
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TRPs purposefully hold back emotion and/or true intentions. Am I supposed to be a big walking poster of my emotions? What if I don't want to show my emotions? Do you see how that would impose on my own freedom of person? I meet a girl, right away my true intentions are to fuck her. That doesn't mean that I have to tell her this. That doesn't make me "manipulative".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 12:17 AM
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I will explain how I operate. People can do absolutely whatever the fuck they want, I don't impose on their right or freedom. At the same time, I can absolutely do whatever the fuck I want and no one can impose on my right or freedom. I don't moderate people's behavior. I simply modify my own behavior to serve in my self-interest. If they choose to modify their own behavior, that's completely up to them. What else am I supposed to do? Modify my own behavior to be detrimental to my self-interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 12:09 AM
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It's a very important point that I think many people don't give justice to. If someone learns "manipulative" tactics throughout their life but is not conscious of them, according to this thread it gives them a free pass. A man is talking to a few girls at a night out and he's not getting far with girl 1. He goes to talk to girl 2 knowing that girl 1's attraction will increase. This is apparently manipulative. Another man at the same party is talking to a few girls and is not getting far with gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/16 12:00 AM
1

Do you have any studies that I can take a look at?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 03:55 AM
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I certainly had a very Redpill BP, stemming from belief without evidence of ideas, which were indoctrinated since a young age. I was doing things wrong because I believed in what I was taught. At the same time I did set boundaries, I didn't live in servitude, and I was myself. I don't see myself fitting into your mold at all. When I was BP, I thought that surely such a large number of people couldn't be wrong about such fundamental understandings, but they were, and I saw this with my own eyes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 03:35 AM
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Maybe they even fuck their cast ;) ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 05:54 AM
1

That was a great post.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 02:59 AM
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but as long as she has the power to profit from ruining your life by invoking the state, she is the one with all the power. One thing I want to add is that not only does this affect the man's life, but that of his children. If she rapes him financially, now she has control of his assets, and who's to say how she will distribute "her" wealth to the children.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 11:02 PM
2

The other option is to cheat. For some men, cheating is better than the alternatives.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 10:34 PM
2

A lot of those princesses are demons in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 06:01 PM
1

"bad bitch" lol. Seriously though, they know how to ride. Then again, I'm not looking for a wife so bad is fine with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 06:00 PM
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A few questions for you. Does one become a rapist after raping someone or after thinking about raping someone? Can you show me where I said that I think I should continue to penetrate a vagina with my penis while someone is saying no to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 01:44 AM
1

what makes me a rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 01:04 AM
1

It's AWALT not AWATS (all women are the same)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 10:22 PM
1

Why is someone an asshole for having that standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:24 PM
1

Hey, everyone's different. This consent structure works for you. Submissive women can give consent in other ways. Especially if it's someone you know. I've done it before without any direct questioning. I can't imagine myself doing what that guy did in your situation. Having you in his bed after he almost offed himself is not a consent trigger. and you have to be careful when advocating it because some people will just use it as an excuse to get what they want without asking. Actually, I'm not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 09:05 PM
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The point I was conveying was that TRP posters choose what to submit as their input. TRP will keep growing and it will evolve. You could choose to be that signal or maybe someone else will. I don't want to put the onus on people who submit the content. I want the onus to be where it should be, the people using that information. In the sense that it is a logical process and I am trying to iron out a certain kink in a logical process when I see it. I post where I see it fit for me to do so. What I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 08:44 PM
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I understand your story, but I really want you to think about it. She tried to push him off and he instead held her down and fucked her. Let's be honest, your story has two additional consent problems. The one I mentioned simply has a girl saying "no.... no.....". Yours has that AND her pushing him off AND him holding her down. Those are two huge things. I thought it important to also add that there are many things that a girl can do sexually to show consent. For example, there is LMR and "no...…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 07:14 PM
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you misunderstand. AWALT is the commonality between women, not the differences. In other words, female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 06:39 AM
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In a purely logical discussion devoid of morality or equality, and based on pure logical reasoning if we can agree that there are differences between humans and other animals, then it is only natural to assume that there are differences between sexes, races, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 07:23 PM
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What you're driving at is the lack of signal for your point, which is that the negatives should be spelled out for those who are socially challenged. TRP is a vast wealth of information. So someone could add that information to it. Either you, me, or someone else. Or maybe no one will add it. I add my own signal by saying things like It's either that you are the problem, or it's just that you two don't match. And when I say don't match, I mean that you're living your life a certain way and she i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 06:24 PM
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The way I see trp is like a vast wealth of information. It is up to the person who is reading it to use that information for themselves. TRP promotes experience based learning. I don't think there is any other way to learn about social cues, body language, and other non-verbal communication. The utility gained from reading about it would be easily trumped by real life experiences in this regard. People can have their morals on TRP, but we dissuade people from circlejerking about their moral supe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 03:57 PM
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I support women doing engineering jobs. Qualified and deserving women. Free market rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 03:14 PM
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I know that the blue pill is pure satire, but I still wonder if some people here truly believe bypassing LMR is rape. It also brings up thoughts about the autistic spectrum. Could it really be that hard to comprehend? If you meet a girl at a bar, 2nd time you see her she comes over to your house, gets into your bed and says "we're not going to be having sex today". Is it really that far out of the realm of possibilities that she just doesn't want to look like a slut but actually really wants to …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/16 03:02 PM
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Considering at one point in ancient human history there were only twelve individuals left, 8 female Where did you read that? I could only find this: A 2005 study from Rutgers University theorized that the native population of the Americas are the descendants of only 70 individuals who crossed the land bridge between Asia and North America. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Population_bottleneck
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 04:29 AM
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I remember back. out of the 20 parents friends I knew, 1 is still around. I saw 90% of my friends parents get divorced. The ones that made it, the husband had a rapidly increasing income.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 04:05 AM
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♂ I'd appreciate any reading material you could recommend related to your post. I want to take a deeper look into this.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 03:41 AM
2

This is from one of my past posts on the RPW subreddit, it looks to be relevant here. It may offer another perspective. You are a business owner and are looking for businesses that provide various services. You have different ways you can approach this. à la carte. Many small business dealings with many different businesses. Regular business dealings with a few select businesses. An exclusive arrangement with one business that services all of your needs. If it is looked at from this perspective,…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 02:47 AM
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I think this is probably the closest OP is going to get to a real answer. It's hard to put what you like into words, I'm surprised you got that far.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 03:20 AM
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decreed I don't think I've ever heard a girl say this word
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 03:15 AM
1

Did your father have any similar characteristics about him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 03:14 AM
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Ok, so now we have defined that this scenario takes place in the sex market we currently live in and the girl has to be consistently propositioned. I've lived many real world examples. I don't judge her SMV to be 9, she's a 5. If she's consistently getting 8s and 9s it's because those guys are stooping low because she's offering easy sex. Every guy does it once in a while and she's a pro at figuring out which guy does it. Also, she may be doing shit in the bedroom that not many girls do. I'll le…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 03:10 AM
1

So let me get this straight, if she puts on a sign saying "I'll fuck you if you're hot", and 10 guys who have an smv of 9 fuck her, she has 9 smv?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/16 02:22 AM
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This is just my two cents I've never really had this. You can talk about anything and trail off. You don't even need to be talking about something that is true. You can just throw something out there "I was thinking about hitting up cuba this summer, those resorts are so nice" - trail off about anything vacation related. She probably has 5 relevant stories of her own vacations or her friends vacations. You can talk about the food. You can talk about the ways of life. Absolutely anything. Just en…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 11:40 PM
1

Seems pretty fair to me. Then again, I'm not looking at it through the wrong lens expecting results that are mismatched with the work required to attain them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 11:15 PM
1

Well, looks like mainstream advice is working. And it worked all the way to those results.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 11:07 PM
2

I don't remember talking about fairness at trp. I do remember talking about sexual strategy in our current environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 10:58 PM
2

I think this is the best comment in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 10:56 PM
2

So if I go to a looks rating website, and I choose a random 8 smv male, then I hypothetically learn that he fucked a girl who is rated as a 2, does that make her an 8?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 10:52 PM
1

Damn, I guess I am a gambler. And came out victorious from the belly of the beast.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 03:28 AM
1

I'm not shaming them for it being easy. I'm just saying that it's easy. I'm just stating a fact. Then I use a cock carousel to describe it. I don't think pointing out the fact that it's easy is shaming. People can think of it as shaming, but I'd love to hear you describe how it is shaming. It is an achievement for some men. Attractive males, not so much. But for normal men, it's saying something if he can sleep with a fair amount of women, or even be able to manage a soft harem. For the physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 02:43 AM
1

In the bedroom, the oppression olympics end and the real oppression begins. Have you ever seen a feminist pull out an assortment of whips? They usually have cats too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 01:58 AM
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There we go. Player. The term player indicates that the man sleeps around. The term in and of itself is not derogatory, it's the value that people can place on it that makes it what it is in certain contexts. I have no problems with that word. What do you want me to say? "Poor guy, sleeping with all those beautiful women, what a curse it must be." People will judge the way they do. If they judge promiscuous men in a certain way, they can really name it whatever they want. Player, guy riding the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 01:03 AM
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So it's not the word cock that's offensive because you yourself mentioned "dick picking". Surely it can't be carousel. It's the combination of the words cock and carousel. Something about penises and amusement park rides. Dick-coaster. The Haunted Phallus. "Log ride". Tilt-a-prick. Drop-shaft. Do any of these cause the same offense?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 12:35 AM
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The n word is the literal word that black people were referred to in the past. The "cock carousel" is brand new. If I call a black person the n word I'm literally calling them the same word their ancestor's oppressors used to enslave them. Cock carousel is an amusement park ride with dicks instead of horses. Are you really trying to say that women are feeling HORRIBLE and having flashbacks of their grandmother's oppression because some guy said "dick ride"? I'm sympathetic to the past oppression…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 12:06 AM
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Exactly my point. You should see how deep the other comment chain from the parent comment goes. But what they don't realize is that each ride on the cock carousel makes them progressively worse as a person. There are consequences to every action. Worse, better, I've stopped caring. I have no problem with it. I'm not looking for a wife. If I was, I'd find someone I liked and if at that time I judged that I wanted a girl who did not sleep around, I'd choose that. What's better for men, or society …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 11:53 PM
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No rights, raped, beaten, forced to marry, forced to have children, no voting, couldn't work. And now they have rights, courts to jail the rapists (if evidence exists), courts and police to enforce restraining orders and jail woman beaters, the choice of who to marry (in western societies), they have children willingly, and they can work if they want to. Maybe the words "cock carousel" remind them of a time their mothers, grandmothers, and great grandmothers were oppressed. And if that's the cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 11:26 PM
1

Why is your struggle with getting laid my problem? Why should I sit on my hands until menopause for the sake of men and what they consider to be love? I have no struggle with it. I'm one of the cocks on that carousel. I don't fuck to collect trophies. I do it because the sensation of an erect penis pushing through my lubricated vagina is a good one. I'll toast to that. Actually, It's the girls here on reddit who tell me I'm abusing other girls when they come and sit on my cock on the carousel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:58 PM
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Ok, let's deal with racism vs cock carousel shaming. The n word is literally the oppression of generations of an entire race to slavery. Black people were forced to do things to be able to live. I can go into this more, I'm hoping you can already see why they are not equatable. Someone saying "cock carousel" stops no one from doing anything and doesn't force them to do anything as well. Saying the n word is a reminder of all the oppression that race faced. I don't remember seeing where I've oppr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:57 PM
1

Some of them have 1 girl. Some have girls on rotations. Some have no girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:33 PM
1

You misunderstand, I am not making them feel shame, they are making themselves feel shame. I'm saying it's nice and easy for them, and if they aren't too fat, they can ride the cock carousel. If they feel shame about it, that's on them. That's not my problem. You can call it plate spinning, you can call it male whoring, you can call it whatever you want, I don't feel shame about it. Let's say that I made a term "XYZ", to describe someone finding a simple loophole in the economy and exploiting it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:31 PM
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Are you really going to back out of this discussion? I thought higher of you. Where am I shaming women for having sex? They can have sex. I can think what I want about it. Other men can think what they want about it. Please show me how I am shaming girls for having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 10:03 PM
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It's raining pussy. I hope that every new person in this sub understands this.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 09:52 PM
1

the women shouldn't be looked down upon for that just because it may have been easier There it is. You can't make others think what you think. You can't make the world be what you want it to be. Well you can, I just don't think you have that kind of money and power. If a man and a women both had 5 partners It's not about the numbers, it's about the process of acquiring sex. Adding numbers is meaningless in this context. This idea makes redpillers look really jealous of women and insecure I'm not…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 09:49 PM
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The official husband daycare center is a strip club or a brothel. Even better than that is an AP's house.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 09:19 PM
1

offensive term for also having a sex drive and acting on it. What is the offensive term. Why is it offensive? It's really not a woman's fault that most men are horndogs No, it's not, but she still benefits from it. It's easy for her. I can still call it the cock carousel. Also not every woman wants to be with a man who slept around a lot. I know that. I've met these girls. Virgins are out there too. Keep the responses coming
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 09:05 PM
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She doesn't show me enough love (we still have sex all the time but I mean emotionally she's distant at times and she can be closed off) It's either that you are the problem, or it's just that you two don't match. And when I say don't match, I mean that you're living your life a certain way and she is so far removed from it that she as a person is not a good fit to be your mate. Figure out which one it is. Her friends are douchebags to me (she has mostly male friends who for obvious reasons disl…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 08:54 PM
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I get where you're coming from, and I agree to an extent. But it still says something about that man. It still demonstrates his value. This is if we are defining "attractive" to mean attractive as a whole in many facets, not just aesthetics. If we are talking about physical aesthetics, I know some attractive men who are unable to have multiple fwb. It has to be more than physical aesthetics. Reverse the genders and what does it say about that girl? "she's not too fat". Let's see if you will repl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 08:23 PM
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I like to bring out what's behind the veil. For a man to have many fwb is an achievement. A statement of his sexual value. For a woman, it's a like taking a ride on the cock carousel. You can choose any Tom, Dick, and Harry, or Tom's hairy dick. You just hop on and take a ride. Entry cost to the carousel? "don't be too fat". It is fwb, but cock carousel describes it nicely. Why don't bluepillers make up a term for guys who bang a lot of broads? Oh that's right, it's not really insulting to a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 07:56 PM
1

I try to explain exactly this all the time, yet bluepillers hate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 07:36 PM
1

I'm sure they would touch her and fuck her, but that's about it. She wouldn't meet his friends, family, or business associates.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:25 PM
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At the end of the day, it's about the money for the business. If what she brings to the table can make the business more money, they will hire her. If her past will negatively affect their bottom line, they will fire her ass or not hire her.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:15 PM
1

What's in it for them? The sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 07:36 PM
3

A nice girl who has higher smv will have many friends, a few orbiters, 1-5 guys asking her out every week. Guys will stare at her, talk to her, hit on her in front of her bf/fb. She has value and it's on full display. If she's out with her guy, she's getting multiple texts, fb messages, instagram, etc every hour. If she's on tinder she's getting matches, and there's at least 50 guys ready to talk to her at a moment's notice (If she doesn't delete them). A guy's smv usually cannot net the same re…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 07:26 PM
1

Not really. His point was that women in their prime have the leverage and use it. Some men in their prime have the leverage, and they use it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 09:08 PM
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They are better dressed, better fed, better groomed, and have more money set aside. You forgot to add their mental state and internal happiness to the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 08:58 PM
2

The responses this generated were great. Many people reading them will understand the significance of your point not in spite of them, but because of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/16 08:56 PM
1

2 muffs and a seaman walk into a bar.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 06:32 AM
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Through doing exactly what you posted in the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:03 AM
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There's a mental aspect to it. She knows what marriage is and the benefits it has. She may be marrying for love, but if the law changed and said she gets nothing, I'm sure this would have some effect. The woman is scorned, she divorce rapes her husband. There's no stigma. Other women and society encourage this. It's her right to have his money!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 12:21 AM
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It's that personality that some women have. They have nothing going for them in life. They are lazy and don't want to do anything. They have tits and a pussy with the ability to earn them free money. Get pregnant, have a kid, now you don't have to work. Divorce, get the house, the kids, and the support. On top of this people are telling you "you go girl!", "Good for you!". The next beta guys are ready and salivating at the mouth to have the opportunity to worship you. Changing this would change …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 11:59 PM
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I'm doing just fine. Pretty happy IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 09:07 PM
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I struggled to figure out why those squirting posts were received in the way they were. He literally put his experience out there, explaining how to give a girl intense orgasms. He said that he didn't give a shit if it was piss or alien fluid, he cared about the result. I don't remember seeing one post where someone had experience on the topic saying "yeah so I made her squirt and it was nothing special". Or one saying "yeah I tasted the squirt and it was piss". Looking back on the threads now, …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 07:36 AM
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You need to train your arm. Your arm has to be a machine. Consider switching back and forth from clit rubbing to fingering, build it up. Fingered for a bit, back to clit, she's on edge, back to fingering. When it's built up, spiderman up and down the pussy while pushing on g-spot. She has to be turned on. Look at my post in this thread
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 07:30 AM
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So go ahead and become a lvl 99 finger faggot and make her piss all over you, you fucking beta. I mean this is beyond putting the pussy on the pedestal, you're putting it there and then telling it to piss in your hand. This was fucking hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 07:30 AM
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I come there to fine tune my reasoning and find out where I am weak. I read something interesting and pick up a piece of knowledge that I can fit into my life. People do a lot of thinking and reasoning. Sometimes they even write this down. If I come across something that is well reasoned, it saves me a lot of time. It shortens the length from initial idea -> testable implementation. Someone indicates the idea for me, shows their reasoning, and talks a little bit about it in their life. This allo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:11 AM
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I do not know the answer to your question. I can tell you that I have been turned off by some women. I'd still have no problem fucking them or liking their bodies/face. I just don't like them as a person. I don't like their mind. When this has been the case, other guys had no problems with these girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 05:59 AM
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This is only your first step. There's so much more. I want to make sure that you are warned that what you're doing will lead to drama and bullshit. It will be a good learning experience, but you need to understand the cons. You will also waste time. Just keep all that in mind.
/r/ThankTRP21/04/16 05:52 AM
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Why don't you just get her to come to your house to cuddle. If you have no game, then at least you cuddle. If you have game, you'll fuck.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 05:36 AM
1

What if they are interchangeable, yet individual?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 05:00 AM
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The oneitis is strong. Keep reading RP. You'll find some inner peace in time.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 04:54 AM
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If you're not doing anything else that night, you could go. Feel out the situation. Maybe she is into you but likes to hang out in groups. You'll know right away if this is the case. Don't pay for shit obviously. Then you can meet her friend, flirt with both of them. Excuse yourself, flirt with some other women there. And when you're done that, you can say that you have to leave.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 04:50 AM
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Have you tried going to a support group?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 04:43 AM
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it's almost as if they think matchmaking should be like a bid/ask based on "SMV". I don't really think anyone thinks that, but if they do, they would be severely wrong. Is that what you meant when you said "treat the other as a commodity"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 04:41 AM
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Do you have any loved ones around you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 04:02 AM
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Ok, I understand. Could you give any examples of how each sex can treat the other as a commodity?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 03:52 AM
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This should be higher up. Great catch.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 01:09 AM
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Could you give some examples or go into some more detail?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 12:58 AM
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his sex drive is likely still higher than hers. I guess I just hang around high sex drive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 12:52 AM
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If you have that view, then you must have a reason for why someone should receive >50k/m in alimony. And why there should not be an upper limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 12:50 AM
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I'm mostly not here to discuss what is and isn't helpful in terms of getting men casual sex. My selfish reason for being around is to look deeper into the weaknesses of my reasoning. I dig until I hit solid ground. Sometimes a piece of information can hit you in a way that you reevaluate something in your life. This is a continual process. things along the lines of "but how is that useful to a man trying to get laid" My point was that it is like arguing about the morality of stem cell research. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 12:48 AM
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Two people sincerely trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 05:57 AM
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Badly drawn eyebrows. If she's that stupid to draw her eyebrows on like a maniac, then I don't want to poke it with a 10 foot pole. They either look surprised all day, or it's drawn on so badly that I don't even understand what they were going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 05:47 AM
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Sounds like a good setup for a 3way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 05:37 AM
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Do women sleeping with other women matter to you in an n-count? Yes, it is encouraged. Now to answer the question at hand. Quite a few girls have had lesbian experiences. I'm not looking for a wife. So I'm not asking these questions. However, I can say that the full piece of information is both the opposite sex and same sex n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 05:34 AM
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I get the joke, and what I say may not apply, but on the off chance here it is. I really hope that your sex life doesn't relate to a boyfriend "pestering" for sex. If I got wind that a girl I'm with feels this way, I would conclude that I am failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 05:27 AM
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But there is an obvious (to me) discussion to be had with regards to shooting people in the head that doesn't have to do with whether or not it successfully ends their lives. And then one guy starts talking about what is unethical about it. Another guy gets angry and starts championing his ethical code. 4 others chime in and no one is talking about how to shoot a person in the head, while everyone has their philosophical dicks out masturbating. Meanwhile everyone is there to learn about the art …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 05:21 AM
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Why are women allowed to take their time finding a job they want simply to uphold an imaginary contract? Either the guy pays for it, or we all do. Those guys are subsidizing the costs these create. My taxes are lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 05:11 AM
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What about: limits on the monthly amount? Should there be an upper limit, or does she really need 50k per month to "survive" or "get back on her feet" (this does not even factor asset division into the equation). limits on the amount of time that is given to "get back on her feet". Or maybe she really does need 5 years to get back on her feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 05:08 AM
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Jim Nantz 72k/m http://stories.avvo.com/news/celebrity/which-celebrities-pay-the-most-alimony-and-child-support.html
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 04:59 AM
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I love experiments. Natural State: Mind over matter. Average Word Count: Depends on the day and what I'm doing. Depends on who I'm talking with. No use wasting my time talking to someone who gives me nothing of value. 5000 - 15000 (estimate) State Before Shower: normal Observations Between Temperature Changes: Body has responses. I was aware of them coming in to this. Mind over matter let me enjoy both the hot and the cold. This experiment gave me one more point of reference for how powerful min…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 07:54 PM
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To be really honest with you, this man took time out of his day to write a 2.5k word essay for other people's benefit. The responses I was seeing for the first 8 hours in this thread were disappointing. And either the voting feedback was very negative, or we were vote brigaded like we were for the last post. He is writing about his personal experiences of a replicable sexual strategy which can give a large subset of women convulsing, deep orgasms. Every man is on some level interested in the top…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 03:45 AM
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http://archive.is/1PQAC
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:20 PM
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Seems like you didn't read the post. Because my goal isn't the squirting. I care about the chick laying in my bed having body tremors because I just fucker her better than any dude has ever fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:18 PM
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pounding a girl intensely in the groin for 5+ minutes with your fingers so you can "make her squirt" is an over-investment and sexual supplication Have you ever made a girl squirt?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:05 PM
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What is the group think here?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 11:01 PM
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How am I manipulating a plate?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 05:38 PM
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.. in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 06:21 AM
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Cause you ain't got no game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 03:16 AM
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I literally replied to your comments almost word for word. Think about it, what's to dread if it's already fucking happening? If you are a girl? Lots. He might switch to only seeing those girls he has on the side Does he like me anymore? I still like him. Will I see him more often in the future or less? If it's already happening, and your girl knows and tolerates it You keep saying it like it's a bad thing. As if two people are incapable of doing a fwb arrangement. Have you never had one before …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 12:22 AM
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I see your point. I think women should vote. Also if you look through any of my recent posts, you'd be hard pressed to find something you disagree with (imo). My status is a vanguard, although that's not important. My point is that there are great men on TRP, I see them post there every time I visit. And to talk about the views on ideas and mentality, some of my recent posts go into in depth explanations of how someone should approach TRP from a reasoning perspective. How they should process tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 11:59 PM
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Who said anything about rape? It got sexual, some token resistance was presented, resistance changed to desire, sex was had, and the woman finished her day with a nice orgasm which let her leave happily only to text back "Can't wait to see you again". Oh shit, but wait, there's a 1/1000 chance that something will go wrong about this scenario, so I shouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 11:12 PM
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Damn french women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 11:05 PM
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It's never going to happen. These fantasy discussions are stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 11:00 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, what makes you purple pill and not "red pill"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 10:53 PM
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Thank god for your comment. Gave me some faith in humanity. "Nooo, stop it you're playing too much" Let's say that I was bringing my hand to her pussy, and that's what came out of her mouth. I would just continue with whatever I was doing before, let's say that it was making out and felling her ass. Bring her on top of me so that she is already feeling my dick on her pussy through clothes or etc. And proceed to work my way down from her upper body in terms of removing clothes and building up. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 10:52 PM
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I'm beginning to think that it's actual social retardation. Real aspergers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 10:41 PM
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I don't remember the last time I "asked for sex". I don't ask for sex. What kind of sad, fucked up relationship do you have to be in where you can't sexually communicate and must defer to verbal communication to stimulate sexual desires. It's no surprise that these women are cheating on men who ask for sex. If the girl likes you, she will get turned on by you. She will want sex. You don't have to ask for it. You just do it. Maybe the mood isn't set for it. So you set the goddamn mood for it. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 10:38 PM
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I didn't watch this whole video, I just skimmed a few spots. At 17:20 he shows don't go in and out or curl. Both in and out and curling do work though.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 10:24 PM
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It's $30 for some salt. Not a big deal. He had reservations. She dealt with his reservations to a point where he was comfortable enough to proceed with the transaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 10:06 PM
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In no way is this how advertising and business works. Let's say that you decide to make the product being sold in the video. You have no advertising, you have no brand recognition. You have to start somewhere. You hire someone to sell it. That doesn't mean it's a bad product.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 10:02 PM
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No, it works on everyone. Corporate profits indicate this. It may not work on a certain product for you, but you can bet your ass that you've been sold something by a good salesman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 09:54 PM
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Not my fault these girls are submissive and looking for a daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 09:49 PM
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No, that's not how it works. You see, I don't find pussy important, I find my desire of pussy to be important. It's my desire. It's selfish. Hence your argument doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 09:48 PM
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Have you ever had a girl squirt just from oral? I don't think some blue pill guys understand that girls can get turned on by being submissive. She's the one who will come out and say "I'm your property".
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 09:10 PM
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Everything is spot on in your post. I also have a question at the bottom of this post. EDIT: ok, I put the question up here because it's actually important. The skene's gland. I've seen non-clear white come out of there (more details is it's maybe 5-15 ml worth and it's thicker, more similar to dick cum than clear fluid). I've seen this and it squirts out 2 little streams. Like a snake. It's a tiny amount compared to usual waterworks. Happened with girls who never squirted before (so they didn't…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 09:06 PM
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That's not what we generally mean when we talk about dread game, that's just flat out dysfunctional. You don't just flat keep side pieces in order to keep your woman in check. You really don't want a woman who will put up with that, she is either very low quality or has severe personal issues (background of abuse/abandonment) or both. So let's get this straight. You're saying that keeping a side piece to keep a different woman in check is a stupid strategy because a woman who puts up with that i…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 07:50 PM
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The whole point of having a status is so that others can see that "hey, this person may have something good to say". That's basically it in a nutshell IMO. It's not there for the EC's benefit. It's there for the benefit of the readers. Like I said somewhere else in this thread. If I could get through to more men with my ideas and make more men question their underlying foundational knowledge support structures, I would happily have this status stripped.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 01:18 AM
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That was very interesting. Thank you. So many good posts today on TRP. Signal is high right now. At 28:15 he goes off. Brilliant. To whoever didn't listen to this talk at least listen to a bit there.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 08:43 PM
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There definitely are hubs of good looking women. Some cities are just worse than others. In the same way there are hubs where different values are valued more and less. The women are different everywhere. South america has some amazing women.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:39 PM
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Meditation: Long-term game here. You won't get to the root of your motivations until you've been doing it for some months. More than a decade for me. And it's a continual process. It never stops. The Five Why's: This is a technique from business. You ask yourself "why" five times, like a child. "I am watching TV". Why? "I need to relax." Why? "I had a stressful day." Why? "I haven't stopped thinking about work." Why? "I have a need to escape that I haven't had in a while." Why? "I don't have a c…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:34 PM
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Instead they are focused on an imagined or unconsciously fabricated destination A great example is having a baby to magically fix a dysfunctional marriage.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:32 PM
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I am arguing from the perspective of a guy because I am not a girl. I cannot go into depth about how the female mind works from an internal perspective. It's impossible. a girl that allows herself to be continually treated poorly/put on the back burner/treated as low SMV either HAS a low SMV OR she is fucked up in the head or both. With the understanding that your definition of poorly is just as ambiguous as your definition of being "treated like shit", a girl who likes to continually go and swi…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:28 PM
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Yes, please steal it, and if you find a better analogy, let me know. It's really hard to explain the potential processes of how people absorb information, store it, and access it. There are different ways that it can be done, and different people have their own strategies. Sometimes the problem is that the person's entire method for this process is not efficient or effective. It's hard to get that across to someone. Most times that I see it, the person puts almost no weight on self-work or metac…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:13 PM
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Yes, something akin to it. To me, knowledge works like a puzzle. The more of the puzzle that is completed, the easier it is to fit a piece of knowledge in. If a non-true new piece is presented, you'll know something is up because you'll try to place it where it's supposed to go and it doesn't fit. The other puzzle pieces were placed there with evidence backed reality. This one clearly does not fit for a reason. At that point the reason can be explored. Another great analogy for it is a house of …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 06:42 PM
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This place needs ECs more than most communities, due to its very nature to attract large numbers of unsuccessful, hurting, beta men, who need to overhaul their mentality and judgement abilities. If you haven't noticed, it's a continual battle to keep things on point and not devolve into victimhood and male hamstering. I agree 100%. I consistently see great in depth analysis from endorsed posts. That is high signal. That's the whole point of this place, having high signal discussions.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 06:21 PM
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My goal is to reduce male suicides, help men attain more control in their lives, and open up their minds to other potential solutions to their problem. I would gladly strip this flair if it meant that more men would listen to what I have to say. I was even thinking not long ago to simply have it removed so that I could test if more men are listening to what I have to say, and if it's generating any discussion. I'm not really learning anything new anymore on TRP. The most value that I get from it…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 06:13 PM
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This is a very interesting point. For my own sake, anything that I have read online or any advice that was said to me in person is tested in the real world. This is because I cannot take the risk that I'm wrong and 10 years later I'll be sitting there kicking myself for being wrong. What I do is put anything I learn on the backburner until it can be tested. So I assume it's likely to be true, but I do not accept it without making sure myself that it is. The benefit of this is that I know what is…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 05:48 PM
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I am happy if someone critiques my views and understanding. I am more than happy to explain something, provide why I think something is the case, etc. Like RPS said, iron sharpens iron.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 05:30 PM
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We're not getting into a long philosophical discussion about definitions of terms. It's not that difficult. You simply present your definition, and I have my say about it if you are using a definition that is different from the one most people use. Reminds me of some people's definition of racism. Non-whites can be racist, or so goes their definition. Don't want to have a long philosophical discussion? Use different words. Or use the words you used and back them up. Otherwise you are whistling o…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 08:14 AM
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Who defines what "treated like shit" means? So because the guy cancelled on the girl for another girl, he's to blame? It's his life. Is he supposed to not do what's best for him? Is this girl in such a devastating predicament that she has no option but to go back? I've done it before. I never signed up for any commitment. I have no obligations and I make damn sure the other person understands that I am in no way obligated to them. If it works for me and it works for her, great. If not, I don't c…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 08:18 PM
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I'm not fighting anyone or anything. I'm just living my life. I have no problems fucking some slut who has a boyfriend. I slap a condom on and go to work. I'm not a monster, the girls thank me for a great time. I'm not the one in a relationship, I don't have a duty to keep it intact. I don't deal with women manipulating me, they try, but it's shut down immediately. It's also normal for people to poke and prod to understand who a person is and what is ok and not ok. Some try manipulation and find…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 06:43 AM
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It's all mental, and there is some fundamental aspect of what you like that these girls have more of than classy girls. Consider girls with tattoos. I don't really think the tattoos are what some guys are attracted to. It's what those tattoos say about the girl.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 06:20 AM
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Value can overcome him, but to what extent and for how long? High value will make the woman stick around. The rest is up to the future. Shit happens. Chad is not a myth. It's real shit. Most of the time the guy in the relationship never finds out.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 06:14 AM
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Some men just want to live life and spin plates, but apparently everything is their fault. At what point does it become the woman's fault? You tell them you're not looking for an LTR, and she tries to fix you. You tell them that you're going to remain a free man, and she tries to give it more time. From that comment: Stop being complicit in their dirtbaggery by your silence. Encourage him to stop Stop what? Fulfilling her needs? She's asking to come over, she wants to get railed. Most of these w…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 05:45 AM
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Or maybe she just likes fucking you. A lot. If you own a restaurant and serve good food, have a nice atmosphere, people will keep coming back for more, even if the prices are high.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 05:23 AM
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Which sidebar?
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:20 PM
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Have a good time. Make sure she has a good time with you. Escalate.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:50 AM
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If it's a plate it's very easy to deal with. She's trying to bring you into her fucked up frame. Do not. Wife: You just seem distant and almost like combative. "nah I'm fine". Wife: WHAT?! wow, just wow. I have enough drama "what's going on with you, everything alright?" and then you just get to the meat of the matter, deal with it, and move on.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:49 AM
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Well, I would go to the root of the problem which is that you said not tonight and she still came. Establish some ground, draw some lines, and then send her off. You don't need to give a reason, but if she presses, you can say that you don't like what transpired and you will be spending your evening not with her.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:41 AM
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Taxis, uber, and public transport exist literally for this reason. She could go on craigslist and find a rideshare as well. But wait a second, she's holding the day over your head? You don't even know the day she needs this drive? I hate commitment, I like my life to be as open as possible. If I was in your situation my response would be that I'm not sure of the day when I'm driving back or the time. But she could text me the next day or etc to check with me. This alone would probably make her f…
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:37 AM
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Turn those n-closes into f-closes
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:25 AM
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It's a fantastic world we live in.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:24 AM
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This is why you don't do LDRs folks.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:22 AM
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you could have ended the first one with "I'll catch you when you're back". second one set you up nicely, and you went full yolo. That exchange is hilarious. "because starbucks has that [insert starbucks drink here], and it's delicious" so many ways you could go from that "why"
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:19 AM
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I find those types of questions annoying. I redirect and ask her what's up, why all this all of the sudden. Then it goes back to how I said I'm not doing relationships.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:13 AM
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You could show that it's not free for you to give it to her. "Yeah, they're all over the place and not organized, I'd have to gather all of them. I'll tell you what, a case of beer would really make me want to take the time to get them all in one place"
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:09 AM
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It's not a fantasy. Many girls do it. I like girls who do show interest and initiate. Sometimes the other girls need a helping hand to show them how to do it and that it's ok to do it.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:03 AM
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"k" I don't know if you've noticed, but it's raining pussy out there, get your bucket.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 02:01 AM
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Change the topic to something sexual in nature.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 01:59 AM
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You can show your interest in a sexual way for starters. Girls feel nice when they know you want to fuck them, and know the things you will do to them.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 01:58 AM
1

Sometimes it can be as if you are playing a game called schedule manager. If you find great fwb that do it when you have time, that's a solution.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 01:55 AM
1

Question and thread of the year. It has to be satire right?
/r/askTRP09/04/16 01:47 AM
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I don't think there's a way to learn how this shit works. You have to experience it. Go experience it. Make progress.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 01:46 AM
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Stop giving so many fucks. Who cares. You had the balls to ask her out. That's a win. You're going to feel awkward like you do now if you keep approaching things this way. It's not bad for a man to ask a woman out. Contrary to what some feminists say. You can hit on women. Why feel ashamed of it?
/r/askTRP09/04/16 01:44 AM
1

Your response is hilarious. I would consider it a mistake if I said what you said, but everyone's game is different. "I didn't know you are bi!" - keeps you in the game, you can still change the tide. "I'm glad you're flattered, I'll tell you what, you pick an evening, Thursday or Friday, and after our coffee date, we'll pick out some nice treats from starbucks for your girlfriend so she'll be happy." - forces her to pick a side herself. She may reject, she may provide another opening, or accept…
/r/askTRP09/04/16 01:41 AM
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I tried everything but I still can't get myself to approach women during the day. Have you tried approaching them? How do you grow some balls? You just do it. There's no other way. You want to do X? You do it. It's not complicated. The problem is you're not doing it. You face a situation and you don't move forward. At this point you are very far removed from game. Clock is ticking, you better build your skills up.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 01:22 AM
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Instead of looking for a life raft, you clung onto the sinking ship.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 01:17 AM
1

Taxis don't exist in this world right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 01:10 AM
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"only has sex in a relationship": Classic. It means she will give it up fast for an alpha, but will delay for a beta. Besides the fact that this happens so much, maybe she really does only have sex in relationships. You only have to look out the window and see that it's raining pussy.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 01:00 AM
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The tradcon woman who says "Marry/commit to me before sex" is attempting to buy her way to the top of the Hierarchy with nothing more than a promise. And anyone can say anything. That's exactly what it is. A promise of sex for participation in a financial contract. If you're making a choice to go for that, you're taking on risk. You deal with your own risk. Nothing wrong with choosing to have to take on less risk and be more sure of your investment (the girl). Maybe the problem is that you are u…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 12:53 AM
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Your response in no way actually responds to anything I've said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 11:54 PM
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I suppose I've just seen a lot of women around me be so choosey and snobbishly turn away guys who "aren't attractive/good/deserving enough for them" while their own SMV isn't high. I agree, nearly every single time I see it in real life, it's always someone shooting for the stars. Also, something interesting is that if this was posted in trp from the man's point of view, "I'm a 5, how do I bang this 8?". What could they really tell him? The answer is to increase your attractive qualities and bec…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/16 10:29 PM
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I think you're right. I got out early.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 09:46 PM
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A man is interested in a woman, and likes certain things and dislikes others. She can walk away at any time. If she does things he likes, he continues, if she does things he doesn't like, he ends it. Is this manipulation? Is it shitty? Should he instead do things he doesn't like for her benefit? Oh wait, but she has insecurities, so he should do things he doesn't like? Or he SHOULD be nice to her because it's her need? That's the problem with TRP. The one half is bitter and angry misogynistic as…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 09:31 PM
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That's one side of the equation. Some men could do that. Other men don't abuse and manipulate women. Am I manipulating a woman because I'm not entering into a relationship with her? Am I manipulating a woman because I put on the table what I want and don't want, and if I'm not happy, I leave? I don't stop any woman from walking away in any manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/16 09:18 PM
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Here's something relevant that I posted in RPW: You are a business owner and are looking for businesses that provide various services. You have different ways you can approach this. à la carte. Many small business dealings with many different businesses. Regular business dealings with a few select businesses. An exclusive arrangement with one business that services all of your needs. If it is looked at from this perspective, every step up from à la carte adds value. This could be in convenience,…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 09:11 PM
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Yes, if people are downvoting me, I'm closer to something real. Either someone will post something and change my mind, or I have my voice heard in a discussion where there is a lot of controversy.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 09:10 PM
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You can't have a problem if you put what you're interested in and what you're not interested in on the table beforehand. If she knows she can't have you, she will make the decision of whether or not she wants to have you for some of your time or not. Every shit test can get shut down after this. "you snap chatted her back". "yeah I did". I reassured her she is the only girl I am interested in being with. This is you giving her mixed signals. You could just tell her "I like you, I like pulling yo…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 09:05 PM
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Yes, not married no kids, less than a year. I felt like I was in the beast, but she was also not completely batshit. Started out quite nice actually. Devolved into shit. Long time ago.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 08:09 PM
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Just read my comment again. People get angry and downvote. I want to incite the anger because it forces introspection.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 08:08 PM
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shared accommodations for a short while
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 08:34 PM
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I don't compromise on my needs. I find people who add value to my life, and by that reasoning I add value to theirs. It's a win-win for both parties. Any compromises are minor in nature and insignificant. There is no need to have major compromises. If major compromises arise, then it's not a good match. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 07:51 PM
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I don't forget. It changed my life. The very fabric of my beliefs and my future actions. All for the better I might add. What's the point of being broken? The point is to move forward. Progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 07:47 PM
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Yes, it's fucked up, I agree. But the only solution is to set out what kind of life you want to live and allow people who jive with your life into it. And simply not allow those who don't. I don't see why any man worth his weight would go for this massive undertaking which is a BPD nutcase. Who has time for it?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 07:45 PM
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I want them to overreact. If men are angry, it's their conditioning. The natural response should be "you live this way and it's a nice arrangement for you? Awesome, I live my life differently". They get angry for a reason. Real progress is made when people really clash with their beliefs. Anger is natural. Men don't need to be Chad Thundercock to live their life on their terms and not compromise on their true desires. If someone is disrespecting them, they can put a stop to it, whether they are …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 07:43 PM
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Which is why I'm putting forward another option. Those men who read my post have absorbed what I had to say. They can't unread it. They can't deny what I wrote in my post. Maybe when it comes time for them to make real decisions, there will be some overwhelming evidence for doing things a different way and it may hit them that they could try it. The only way to get out of gaslighting is by being given reality.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 07:38 PM
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Actually I have. And my opinion is that once you compromise, you are screwing yourself over. I don't see why you should compromise.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 07:36 PM
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I don't see it as being ruthless, evil, uncaring, and sick. You have your needs and you are making sure they are being met. This is a manly thing to do. Standing on your own two feet and allowing what you like, and dropping what you don't.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 07:35 PM
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Did the girl enjoy it? Yes. It's really that simple. You use the information that you have to your advantage to make your own decisions. If you are being aggressive and women are lapping it up, who cares about what other people think. People focus on the difference between things like making a move, being dominant, and rape. The real gauge of consent is real consent from the girl, not in your actions. If you know she's going to be good with it, you can do it. The skill to build is not to think a…
/r/askTRP07/04/16 07:32 PM
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Holy fuck, all the comments on this topic. If you're a guy and you're with a woman who is not in the mood, I highly recommend you find a woman that likes having sex, gets off on getting you off, likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 08:36 AM
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Spit works on a dried up cooch.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 08:33 AM
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I don't want power in a relationship. Just power over my own life. And I will exercise my rights. or whether it's him threatening to leave/divorce in order to manipulate her. I don't threaten to leave. I state what I want upfront. If it's not being met, I walk. It's not anyone's fault. It just didn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 08:32 AM
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This is why I like plate sex. She's there for the sex. I'm there for the sex. Win-win
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 08:25 AM
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Are you kidding me? Looks matter. I'm saying that. I know that. I post on TRP. I'm not "black pill" whatever that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 08:18 AM
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Broken or not, my life is good. If you're making shitloads of money now, do you care if you were born into a rich family, or if you started with nothing, or if you had no money until you were 30? The only thing that matters is now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 08:13 AM
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but they generaly like the girls and girls actualy like them too. Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 08:05 AM
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rpM tells man to behave like shit toward women RPM tells you X happens when Y occurrs. You can choose to treat women however you want. no morals I think I have morals. dont treat her well Am I supposed to wait on her hand and foot? I live my life, she lives her life. Maybe there's some middle ground where both people are happy. cheat by having plates Having plates is not cheating dont go in relationship with her I have the right to be in a relationship or not in a relationship deny your feelings…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 08:03 AM
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How do I treat my partners badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/16 07:53 AM
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I think that you have balls. Fuck, it's so refreshing to read something like this once in a while. Too many goddamn pussies all over the place most of the time.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 07:20 AM
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I think I'm the only one here who is a fan. Although I have to keep those types away from my professional and family life.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 07:18 AM
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My advice for you is to start fucking as soon as possible.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 07:16 AM
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piggybacking your comment If you have a woman who's comfortable rejecting you every night because she ate a little too much at that expensive restaurant you paid for, or your backrub made her just a little too sleepy, you need to make your woman a little more uncomfortable. Comfortable women piss on you. This is why spinning plates is so comfortable. She's tired, has a headache, has a lot of work to do, back hurts, it's that time of the month, and she has an early meeting. Who fucking cares. Lik…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 06:16 AM
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Agreed. I'm not really interested in girls who don't enjoy sex or sexuality. Maybe she doesn't like sex, or maybe she does and her and I are just not a good match. Whatever the reason, I don't care. I know there are great women who enjoy being fucked. I also don't like this whole mentality that the guy is the one benefiting from sex. Men should be having sex in a way that if the girl is not having sex, she is the one losing out on good sex.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 05:59 AM
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EDIT: I love it when people downvote me. If you downvote, be a man and post a reply. If you have a good frame and system of dealing with issues as they arise, you will rarely find yourself on the wrong side of a situation. Any bad situation you find yourself in, you can get out of it with some effort. Who cares if she's BPD, if you have your own frame and it is solid, her bullshit will not penetrate it. Some of the responses I'm reading in this thread indicate that the man made a mistake and all…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 05:28 AM
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Once that internal standard is made, I don't think there's a way out. I would take a guess and say that he bases some of his self worth on his own ability to reach his own internal goals. I see that you took the approach of supporting him emotionally. Have you considered emotionally supporting him in another fashion? If he is truly working 100 hour weeks, then he does not have much time to take care of himself. You could make him happier and make his life easier. I don't see the point in trying …
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/16 04:46 AM
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You are a business owner and are looking for businesses that provide various services. You have different ways you can approach this. à la carte. Many small business dealings with many different businesses. Regular business dealings with a few select businesses. An exclusive arrangement with one business that services all of your needs. If it is looked at from this perspective, every step up from à la carte adds value. This could be in convenience, service quality, history of successful service,…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/16 04:22 AM
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Go out on big nights and tell EVERYONE you are new in town, and just moved there for a job. Insta-ice breaker. Everyone beside you in line. The staff at the bar/club. And just make tons of conversation. You'll have a great time.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 09:38 PM
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Next level is going out alone and not seeing any friends and yet still meeting awesome people and having a blast. Had nights where friends flaked because of guaranteed pussy and had some of the best nights.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 09:16 PM
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I love being downvoted. It means that people are feeling something. They hate it enough to downvote it (and also not comment on it). It's a recurring theme, hence my username. I am not at the top of my game, or even near it. Always room for improvement. The biggest thing that helped me in life was absorbing information. It doesn't matter how that information was received, whether I took it badly or good. It just mattered that my brain stored that piece of knowledge. So when I saw a post saying "…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 08:31 PM
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But there is a side of me that wants to put my SO in that position I have no side of me that wants to put a woman in that position. I do not need or want a woman for emotional support. I just want to have a good time.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 02:36 AM
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Most men are able to pull themselves up and get back on the horse but others need help, and that's not something to be ashamed of. This one got me. You will be ashamed if you can't get back up and move forward.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 02:28 AM
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Here's my take on this. It reminds me of movies where one thing about society is different. I always had a problem with those movies. Change one thing and everything else magically stays the same. This doesn't happen. If you change one thing in the current environment, it will have a cascading effect on everything else. If on the other hand that one thing was different throughout history, then it would have affected everything and we would find ourselves in a different present time. You can't ju…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 07:43 AM
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This is a great post. You did a great job explaining everything.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 09:40 PM
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no amount of "self improvement" will ever find me the sort of reality I'd ideally like to find myself in Within the system you're describing, you could find blissful ignorance. I say blissful ignorance, because what men are doing here in this subreddit is describing the ends to their blissful ignorance. And that is the risk of it. Sure you could self improve, get your status somewhere, and marry a woman. And you have to marry her within that system, that's just how it works. So you've built up t…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 09:31 PM
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You don't know how to move on? Deal with your psychological issues. Deal with your lack of knowledge. When you get to the point that you don't give a shit about something so petty, then you will be over it.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 11:18 PM
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“Our family court system has zero tolerance for this type of emotional abuse of children.” Who else laughed when they read this? No tolerance? How about $500k of tolerance and 3.5 years for starters. And if he didn't have the 300k to defend himself? Also note this is a healthy police officer. If he wasn't law enforcement or unhealthy, how would that impact him and his case? At the end of the day no one gives a fuck. This judge gave a fuck at the very end. Or you could just not get married and av…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 10:10 PM
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Once you hit bottom, the only place to go is up.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 10:03 PM
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I'm scared to talk to women? I can't find a partner? Funny how your whole view collapses if your base premises are false.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 11:51 PM
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My rule for dating is easy: if she fulfills my needs without me suffering any, then I reward her with my time again. If she doesn't fulfill my needs or puts in nagging and drama, she doesn't get the reward of my time again. Exactly, it's so simple. I'm not sure why other men aren't operating like this.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 11:32 PM
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Never forget to factor in the mental cost and the cost of time. Time that could have been spent starting a business, investing, or furthering your career. Your entire mental state could have been in a place where it would facilitate this. One person who did this was Louis C.K. who grew his career AFTER he separated/divorced his wife (if I recall correctly). If you have 99 problems and your bitch is all 99 of them, that's not really helping you succeed. The solution is not to have no problems. Th…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 10:28 PM
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I would love for someone to show me how much it would cost to put such a policy in place. I also don't think that many people understand the role of government.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 10:12 PM
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Marriage is a financial union.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 12:43 AM
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"Don't expect to ever see Aspen again" - or whatever they named their kid The courts give her this power. Her: What did I do to you? Nothing. Him: Dude, are you shitting me?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 12:38 AM
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"don't expect to see aspen again" or whatever they named their kid. The courts give her this power. Her: Cody what do I do to you Cody: Dude, are you shitting me?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 12:25 AM
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At the same time, if I go too far toward being the kind of man she thinks a lot of, I get put in my place. For example I pondered buying a truck and she told me that I'm not the type of man who drives a truck, which is true but she meant it in a way that really bothered me. Call it what it is. Slavery, servitude.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 12:18 AM
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Just adding my thoughts to your comment. Looking forward to your next posts. You drew lines in the sand Yes, this is true. Although, there are some girls who NEED labels. They need to categorize everything in their perfect world view molded by today's society. They need to fit you into a category and the more you don't fit into one, the more they will try to fit you into one. tried to force the situation into a mold. She did not like that. And on the other side of the fence is girls like this. A…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 08:14 PM
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Did the guy wrong me? If not, the girl can deal with it. I can still do whatever I want for entertainment value. If he did wrong me, I deal with the issue I have with him.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 09:31 PM
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19 downvotes, 0 criticism in the form of worded replies.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 09:17 PM
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I've read around here that desiring your woman in itself turns her on. If you don't give a duck about sex, isn't that contradictory? It is healthy for a man to want sex, and to have it. Do you remember how much you cared about sex when you were with your first? Compare that to now. Do you care as much now? But you still want sex, and have it. That should answer your question.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 09:09 PM
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I wish more men would pick up their fucking balls and use them. Look at how many successful men there are in this thread. Commitment, sex, food, respect, etc is served on a silver platter. Not to mention something that I value much more than all of those combined. Peace of mind. Enjoyment of life. For men who are knee deep in shit, it can seem that this is out of reach. It's not. It just requires work, time, and persistence. Climb the mountain and enjoy the view from the top. I hope that many me…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 08:39 PM
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Yes. Guy meets girl. Guy does what he wants in his life. Girl wants Guy. Girl shit tests guy to see where she stands with him. Guy reacts, mateguards. Situation 1: The guy has 3 plates. The girl successfully pulls him into her orbit. She came out on top vs. 3 girls. The game is not over, this is just her first move. The guy can also leave at anytime if he feels like it. Situation 2: The guy has nothing going on. The girl pulls him into her orbit. Who did she beat? No one was even competing for h…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 08:10 PM
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More people should read what was discussed here in the past. For anyone interested, they can find the top posts sorted by month since inception here: https://archive.is/a3UNv
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 07:50 AM
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Mass shootings, suicides, depression, loss of masculinity. These are the real issues. the shooter is a lonely, socially awkward, romantically frustrated young man, almost without exception. If one acknowledges this, they must acknowledge that part of the solution is to reduce all of those risk factors. I'm curious to know the proportion of men who have a girlfriend (not like Robin William's relationship) or could be deemed moderately sexually successful, for each category (mass shootings, suicid…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 12:11 AM
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I can comment on a few relevant experiences from my life. I find that there are two types of men in this world, men with whom I am able to find mutual respect, and men with whom I am not. Most men of value fit into the former category. My peers usually have the same issue with the latter category. It's an uncontrollable binary. Regardless of what I do, for the next man that I meet through social or professional means, we will either find mutual respect, or not. With women, it's completely differ…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 07:28 PM
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Why are you giving drama, closure, and validation to a woman you're not fucking? I can answer that. The answer is that you may be able to gain value. YMMV Especially if it's the first time the OP has ever been in a similar situation. I guarantee anyone that if they've never experienced what OP has, when they do experience it they will remember it for a long time. There will be real lessons learned that day. It also has more significance because it is YOUR ex who you have known for some time. You…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 02:20 AM
1

sticking your dick into a woman other than the one you've pledged to is simply cheating Obviously Yet the question at hand shows that the man has not pledged to anyone, while the woman has.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 10:48 PM
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My life changed for the better when I left my ex who abused me, but I'm not going to say it's "good" that I was abused. It is not good that your ex abused you, but the consequences from your ex's actions can be a combination of bad and good. The abuse is bad, but maybe you forever steer clear of anyone abusive afterwards. Same thing with the cheating, there is bad and good that comes from it. It doesn't have to be either good or bad. It can be a combination where the good and bad is acknowledged…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 11:25 PM
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then you're asking questions you already know the answer to and wasting everybody's time I do it for the people reading the threads. My input could be of some value to someone. Maybe I'll even get really lucky and someone will convince me of something by using a great argument. Otherwise you are correct. I also like to hone my debate skills from time to time. This subreddit is like a nasty pit where there are no rules and the blue pills hate the reds. Yet it still offers some input. While blue p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 11:12 PM
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If the goal is to have a good time and have great sex, that's what I filter for. If the goal is to have monogamous relationship, marriage, and children, I would filter for those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:22 PM
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However, that does not make the act of cheating any less wrong. You specified that cheating is wrong. I can understand that. If you're under contract to be monogamous and you break that contract, that is wrong. But the lover is not under that contract, he's not cheating, she's cheating. This is why I wrote the long post. I showed that it's the action of the girl cheating that he partakes in is the issue that people have. I understand everything you have said. You have your moral code, and I like…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:20 PM
1

I love sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:00 PM
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Better if she cheats, then there are no questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 10:00 PM
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Instead you just asked about the man I'm focusing on the man in this instance. Yeah, that's what I figured, this is a "sexual strategy is amoral" thing. Show me that the actions are immoral. you would have quoted some Nietzsche I don't like to go to that level of mental masturbation. Instead you just asked about the man, who I said was committing the lesser of two evils Explain what exactly is evil about what the man does. If you say that he is evil because he is doing something immoral or wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 09:22 PM
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Have a read through this and offer your thoughts: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3vb8bo/question_for_bp_should_the_men_that_women_cheat/cxm1b5n
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 09:18 PM
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Who said anything about intentionally seeking someone who is trying to cheat? what's the benefit? what's the goal that normal dating/hooking up without having to lure someone else into cheating isn't providing? Sometimes two people connect really well even though one of them is in a relationship. Girls who are predominantly in relationships are also different from girls who ride the CC. Using the example I used above, a guy meets a girl at a party and they connect more than he's connected with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 09:17 PM
1

We talk in a certain way on TRP. We don't sugar coat it. We say what it is with disregard to all parties listening except for those who are interested in hearing it. Take the CC and hypergamy for example. I could say "she rode the CC and landed her Beta bucks bank". I could also say "Melinda seems to have enjoyed her 20s, but I'm really surprised that she married Bill because he is so different from her past boyfriends. Anyways, I'm sure they're living happily in that 8 bedroom house". Different…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 09:07 PM
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Why is it immoral? Why is it wrong? This is what I'm fishing for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:54 PM
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Who said that the other man's intention was to find someone monogamous?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:53 PM
2

but I also think it's wrong to knowingly facilitate another person's cheating. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:52 PM
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Since you have not, I will describe what commonly occurs. This applies for both men and women. The partner's lover contacts the other partner to give him/her a heads up about the cheating in whatever fashion they deem necessary. Due to the new revelation, the cheated-on partner usually hates the lover and over time begins to appreciate that the lover gave him/her a heads up for his/her benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:49 PM
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Great point. What a lot of people don't seem to realize is that it's not black and white. Different men approach it differently. I've told my friends that if I get into a committed relationship and they manage to fuck the girl, I will literally give them cash. Because their actions will save me time and money. This is if the goal was to have a monogamous relationship. The sooner I would find out that the girl can't do it, is the sooner that I would be able to refocus my efforts an another girl w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:43 PM
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What if it's a girl that the man is really into and it's not just some random girl who's throwing herself at him from the first second of meeting him. So maybe they talk, get to know each other a bit and then the sexual tension just starts. Would you still say the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:34 PM
1

Have you not ever read any posts written by men thanking their girlfriend's/wife's lover for coming forward about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:31 PM
1

Why is he a dirtbag?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:24 PM
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If a girl is literally throwing herself at a man. What respect can that man possibly have for her current relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:20 PM
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What about the men who are cheated on and use that experience to improve their lives? Surely there are men that look back on that experience and are happy that it happened because it in part made them who they are today. Maybe the long term benefit outweighs the short term pain for some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:18 PM
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It's also important to note that the OP EXPLICITLY said that you do not know the other person's SO Thank you. And it can now be seen as to why I stated that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:13 PM
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EDIT: Downvoted, and yet no real responses. Use your words. Let me set the scene. A man is at a party, he flirts with a girl. She takes a liking to him. They become temporary friends for the duration of the party. She asks him to drop her off, and uses some excuse to get him to come into her house. Once inside she escalates. She mentioned that she has a boyfriend sometime during the evening. So the man is supposed to feel guilt and shame because he is interested in the girl, and she is intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 08:11 PM
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This is why I recommend real life experience. No one can tell you that you don't know what you're doing or thinking. You were there. You saw it with your own eyes.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 06:28 PM
5

This is going to be a short response. It's not him being non-stoic, it's everything about him as a whole. The same way girls can scream red flags for me, he screams a guy that will get cheated on. I've been on his side before, and now I'm on the other side. There's no doubt in my mind that there's a pattern in the type of men women cheat on. The women really don't give a shit. They laugh about their guy, they know they are using the guy, I laugh with them. doctorlw had some points, but I see it …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 05:15 AM
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I get it, but here's the problem that I have. Just like the women who keep getting into real physically abusive relationships, he continually gets into relationships with women who cheat on him (as he stated in the video). While those women he dates are a problem for him, he is a bigger problem to himself. Him finding the texts changes nothing about him or what got him there. It's bound to happen again, unless he changes himself. Maybe next time there won't be any texts to find. Then what?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 04:46 AM
10

What are you talking about. He was in deep. Hook, line, and sinker. He was graced with a miracle by finding the texts. He didn't even notice otherwise. That's pretty sad.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 09:28 PM
6

That was my exact response while reading.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 09:13 PM
42

I saw absolutely no chemistry between them. If anyone believes that's what chemistry looks like, I would be more than happy to let them live in their world of blissful ignorance. He has way too much time on his hands. What I saw is her walk into the house and just cringe until it all ended. He probably spared her the trouble of dumping him. He also tarnished his own reputation by posting this video. I can't speak for her, but from what I've seen, a girl in this situation completely doesn't give …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 08:52 PM
3

I understand what you are trying to say. I really do. When you dissect human interaction into its parts and optimize each part with your strategy for efficiency towards your end goal: It ceases to be a human interaction, you are operating like a robot. You don't care about the the person on the other side, just your end goal. You are extracting the other persons inherent value with these tactics, which are manipulative and abusive. I will refer to manipulative & abusive as M&A Who defines what k…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/15 01:28 AM
1

maybe both statements are true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:31 AM
1

That is the point, if people knew what you really thought, almost everyone would hate you. U mangry? Yeah, I'm sure my friends would hate me. The ladies would hate me as well. It's not like they actually agree with me a lot of the time. wink wink
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 07:02 AM
1

I'm not afraid of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 06:07 AM
2

Yes, spread the word. I'd rather experience the girl doing sexual things because she wants to and not because I paid for dinner/drinks, which has happened in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:59 AM
1

Ok. Go ahead and do that. Do you think I care? You have to understand that the skills that I use in my life actually provide a benefit. I don't care if people are upset or angry about it. So the question is, how will treating all men like rapists help you? Calculate all of the trade-offs. Is it worth it? I can tell you that what I do is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:41 AM
5

Reality check, women use men for sex as well. Maybe, just maybe, a man wants to fuck a woman and she wants to fuck him too. Oh the humanity. On a side note: I met a really sweet guy last month while visiting my sister, he lives about five hours away from her. He's never been that way AT ALL. To all the blue pillers, I warn you now. This is much more common than you think. Do you think I go around spouting red pill in my life? Am I some sort of asshole dickhead? What if I was a respectful person?…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:38 AM
1

I love sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/15 05:25 AM
7

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2015-11-11/a-record-share-of-young-american-women-are-living-with-family Share of 18 to 34 year-olds enrolled in college has risen steadily since 1960 18 to 34 year-olds are much less likely to be married today The median age at their first marriage has risen considerably since 1940 Share of 18 to 34 year-olds living with their parents or family members US National Fertility Rate Data Likelihood of getting pregnant & Likelihood of infertility Average age of…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 06:01 AM
24

There are employment biases that work in the woman's favor and against the woman's favor. On an aggregate scale, employers are not stupid. They weight the pros and cons. Just imagine that you own your own business and employ 25 people. You are seeking to promote someone to manage regional operations of your rapidly expanding business. You have narrowed down your choices to 4 candidates from within your company. Two of the candidates are women and two of the candidates are male. You are seeking a…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 04:49 AM
11

How the fuck do you have time for all of this? I barely have time for girls that do fuck me, and you're spending time on girls who don't fuck you. I recommend either a lobotomy or a severe refocus on one's life to bring it to a point where you do not have time for shit like this.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 08:24 PM
1

I became aware when everything I built up based on what I learned throughout my life crashed due to a faulty foundation. I had to start over. Blank slate. Made my own foundational knowledge. With every major piece of foundation, I made sure that it was not wrong by actually experiencing it. It took a lot of time and effort. It was real self-investment. As the years went by I built on top of that foundation, and added new foundational knowledge which expanded what I could build. When I started th…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 08:05 PM
12

Reminds me of: Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 07:41 PM
3

but that these guys would ultimately get their comeuppance in form of karmic justice, i.e. not finding love at all or at least not with a "quality woman" "love" You know, the more I age, the more I think about "love", and the more I experience girls "loving" me, the less I see it as love, and the more I see it as a sum of its components. "love" has a striking resemblance with things like "victim blaming" and "feminism". All encompassing labels that are not strictly defined, and seek refuge with …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 07:33 PM
19

Great post. I see a lot of people in this world playing the strategy and not the game. They start out with a strategy and if it doesn't work, they want the game to change. People have an unwillingness and inability to change their perception of the world because they do not have sufficient understanding of it. Indoctrination on a grand scale. You start out as a girl watching disney movies where every main character is the #1 woman getting the #1 man, and it stays with you. Through adolescence, y…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 05:50 PM
2

How long do you think it will last? I wonder.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 06:54 AM
3

For how long?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 02:36 AM
1

It leads to sex, if I'm interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 02:32 AM
1

What if I told you I'm not angry or bitter? How do you pick up on something that's not there?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 03:59 AM
1

You're often only being compared to other people in your niche' - so much for any hypergamy paranoia Give a few niche examples. Or worse...for those who enjoy exploring possibilities more than finding answers, the red pill mentality is the anti-sex. This I like. This is what I call dreaming. But I grew up, I did my homework, and rooted myself in reality. And that's why, aside from serious questions about sexual ethics and the growing anger phase, some folks in the blue pill can't stand the red. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 03:57 AM
1

You can be masculine by making money, building a business, taking care of your parents and family, etc. But TRP members really genuinely didn’t care about female validation then you’d either never try to have sex with a woman at all, or you would just use hookers. Do you know what an escort session entails? Go look it up, and report back. Secondly, a man can be concerned with STD transmission. I could easily afford three hookers per week, so I could with no effort at all sleep with 150 women per…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/15 03:28 AM
7

The fact that she is using a dating site to find men says all that I need to know about her.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:11 AM
1

I have never been in your situation. I'm not all that ugly anymore (still a little chubby but working on it) It's possible to fuck a dime even if you are overweight. It just requires a lot of game and the right circumstances. Other than that, you're fat. Go keto. Drop down to 10% BF and then bulk and read /r/fitness. I'm genuinely nice, caring and easy to get along with No one gives a shit, I am too. What else do you bring to the table. Because right now you're a special snowflake that just like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 05:45 AM
1

You'd be surprised at how large the proportion of women is who are interested in men who have "toxic masculinity".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/15 05:17 AM
10

Did she interview Rollo? No? Then the documentary isn't about the red pill. Did she interview MRAs? Yes. Then it's about men's rights activism. Do I care? No. I'm sure that the red pill will weather any storms that come at it.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 01:50 AM
7

It would be nice to have someone of the same quality. What happens though is that men of much higher stature dip into the same pool. I can't compete with them. Don't get me wrong, I didn't knock it till I tried it. Well, actually, I knocked it and tried it at the same time. The problem is that I can't compete with a man who is simply in a different category than I am. I don't have 10 houses, a few Top Gear cars, and account balance so high that I have my own investment representative. I recall r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 01:21 AM
2

But your opinion needs to be policed!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 01:06 AM
2

A one hole virgin. I met a virgin who blew and handied enough guys to make a football team roster.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 01:02 AM
3

Why are you purple pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 12:57 AM
1

But you would equally think, "Wow, all those cads and chads wanted her, yet she's with ME now. I have a product that was wanted by many high status men, that must mean I got pretty damned lucky and/or I have higher status than I originally thought." And if she's with YOU in the long term, then she's actually giving you more sex than she gave them. Are you saying there's certain sex acts she did with them but won't do with you? In that case, yeah there's a problem, but the problem is that she won…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 12:46 AM
2

I don't want to see another school shooting. I don't want to see another suicide from depression. I want men to have the tools to life a happy and fulfilling life.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 04:01 AM
1

Which is why we spin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 02:27 AM
15

"I saw your girl on tinder today". problem solved.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 11:25 PM
1

https://archive.is/uTjlP https://archive.is/pF0im https://archive.is/oDlhF These posts are almost 2 years old, and I think they are great.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 08:20 PM
1

I just skimmed a ploygamy post from 2 years ago: https://archive.is/jqnL3 tl;dr: polygamy is great for alphas. bad for betas. Everything looks fine. a very high percentage of the comments were BP Link the thread you were looking at.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 07:03 PM
0

Visit the new link in the OP. Top posts sorted by month.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 06:55 PM
7

Added that into the OP in a nice table.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 06:48 PM
32

Go to http://www.epochconverter.com/ and get the unix timestamp of the beginning and end date of the search you want to make. [you know what goes here]theredpill/search?q=(and+title:'awalt'+timestamp:1396310400..1398902400)&restrict_sr=on&syntax=cloudsearch awalt is the search term in this url. 1396310400 is the beginning timestamp. 1398902400 is the ending timestamp. Substitute awalt to whatever you want to search for. Replace the beginning timestamp with your beginning timestamp the end timest…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 05:21 AM
2

but I'm still pretty fucking heated over it. Don't be like that. Thank the teacher internally. She provided you with valuable education.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 05:00 AM
3

To those men thinking alpha widows are a joke or don't exist. You're wrong, all that Chad has to do is send one text message and she can leave a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 04:58 AM
-1

And right after that she goes into explicit detail about how his cock “hurt her in just the perfect way”. She compared it to how she couldn’t come close to wrapping her hand around it while with me she can. And how she would lose track of orgasms and even talked about the weekends where they would just spend in bed. I often wonder how these guys feel. "Bobby, you and your work suck, Jim is much better". What do they do about that? Do they just say "ok life"? Now, I really am just angry and hurt.…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:52 AM
1

I'm not surprised in the least that the only weapon feminists have is twitter.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:20 AM
1

♂ Exactly this.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:17 AM
8

The most recent meltdowns I remember were the ones about single mothers. These guys put on their battle gloves before typing. Those are the posts that I love the most. The more people here that get their panties in a twist, the more progress is actually being made. I want men to get angry. The frustration is real. But there is no way that they can advance without first letting out the frustration. And you're completely right. People should read, take what they can from it, and move on. If they h…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 02:14 AM
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The people who need this community should be doing everything in their power to retain those individuals that provide the greatest value to this community. Everyone is equal. Not true. It takes years of experience, years of understanding, and a head placed firmly on the shoulders to truly comprehend just some of the things the red pill has to offer. Take a glance at the deadbedrooms subreddit and find out how many older men cannot hold their own in a relationship. Grown men, sons of the great me…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 01:51 AM
7

It really does take a lot to swallow it. I'm also not convinced that you swallow it once. The first does is just the one that opens your eyes. After that you still take the red pill. Sometimes it's a big dose. Sometimes a small one. You have to keep taking it.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 01:46 AM
1

I can just feel the frustration in your posts. So in your opinion, where is Dr. LubeOil 'going wrong'? And you respond with Since he has the halo on, for you guys, nothing. After that, rp_valiant posts a comment and you respond with I'm not reading half your rant.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 01:42 AM
7

IMO, you've given out way too much free advice here. The time and effort that you have put in to TRP is staggering. I've often looked over some random threads only to find a short essay in a comment response with your name on it. A well thought out response tying multiple principles together to form an overarching point that you drive right into someone's mind. They should be paying for your service. I love the people here that think you and GLO are doing this for money. What money? They honestl…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 12:33 AM
1

Great way to put it. It's too bad he's going to keep searching for the elusive unconditional love.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 03:08 PM
8

Your whole relationship is predicated on indoctrinated ideas and ideals. Your actions and responses, being dictated by a system rationale ingrained in your consciousness through decades of programming. There's nothing more I can do than provide the link at the bottom of this comment. It will be your choice to read the material or not. There is something that I can tell you however. Once upon a time, I used to have jealousy problems, I used to have anxiety (not sure if it was anxiety or something…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 06:02 AM
6

This is what the brainwashing is doing in some cases. "Feminism is all about equality". Yeah well, lives are on the line. Disney is fucking our children. Men are committing suicide, sitting in depressions, and living highly nonfunctional lives while appearing to be functional. The faster you unlearn the programming, the faster you learn.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 05:01 AM
7

"Healthy female strategies for raising a child week", organized by the Willford Men's Center. A series of lectures and information for women by leading MRAs showcasing what strategies are healthy when raising a child as a woman. Stay tuned for the men's center's next event "Understanding what it feels like to be pregnant"
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 04:50 AM
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What I thought was a great article on the subject: http://www.breitbart.com/big-government/2015/10/02/sorry-girls-but-the-smartest-people-in-the-world-are-all-men/ Article from Oct 2, 2015
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 04:36 AM
2

Well done on the amicable separation. I've only seen it go the opposite way. How often do you get to see your child? How is the parenting going? Has a partner from her side entered the picture?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 02:39 AM
2

That's not a plate. That's not how any of this works. I'm going to be perfectly straight with you. I don't care about what happens to you. You care about that. Are you prepared for the mental damage that you will incur from your future choices?
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 10:03 PM
2

I recommend you get a lobotomy if you're only leaning towards kicking her out.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 09:59 PM
2

Her hypergamy wants the best. She keeps trying to get the best that she can get. Consequently if she considers herself to be shit, and you offer her commitment. You just offered commitment in return for shit, and so your value must not be high. This is what she will be thinking. Fuck her like the whore she is and she will happily stay in place as your whore.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 08:23 PM
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I have never witnessed a man fetishize himself for his own comfort of his blue pill conditioning to this degree. The modern man cries. He cries often. Yes, yes he does. On the one hand, there is one good thing this guy wrote down. The modern man has thought seriously about buying a shoehorn. You should already have one. Oh, and remember the simple test you can use to see if something is bullshit. It was posted on TRP a while back. Ask yourself if the woman would care about that thing if George C…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 09:07 AM
3

A good post for those keyboard warriors and armchair generals. I will describe why I come here, and why I still read and reread resources like Rollo's blog. I have already made the lifelong decision to put knowledge over ignorance. Coming to these resources is like drinking straight from the well. I have lived my life once on knowledge that was given to me by this world and I found out that it was wrong. I cannot make this mistake again. Although I cannot remember the exact feelings that I felt …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 08:35 AM
3

I've seen men get crippled by this in real life. Men making 6 figures living worse than a student in college. I've been there in the room when a man asks a lawyer "What can I do about recovering half of the XX thousand that my wife took from the safe in our home?". Pleading with the lawyer, rephrasing the question and hoping for a different answer than the one received. The same man that told me "if we ever divorce, she would never take a penny, she's not like that at all". She crucified him on …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 06:42 AM
1

Thank you for this. I enjoy reading these. Very much looking forward to lesson 3.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 05:51 AM
18

I've been on that subreddit for quite a long time now. The way I feel reading those is indifferent. I understand why a person does A or B. There's just no room for feelings. It's a system with inputs and outputs. Put X in, get Y. Girl marries nice beta, can't get wet, fucks alpha. It's a lot more complicated than that, but it's funny to see how entire relationships boil down to BB AF. Are you swallowing the pill?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 04:41 AM
10

Every girl wants to reach for the stars. Sometimes it's all they have going for them in life. Imagine that you were a girl and every single day you spent an hour getting pretty to go outside. You know that you are vapid. You're just like any other basic bitch in your vicinity. What else do you have going for you except trying to hit the man lottery? Your only value is your looks. Here's a question for everyone. Would you truly commit and be happy with someone that is 1-2 points in value below yo…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 09:07 PM
2

Look at how far down I had to read in the comment section to find this. One of the oldest posts in the thread too, and no one seems to recognize what you're saying and upvote this to the top. ♂
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 06:15 AM
11

Haircut for men, $20 Haircut for women, $200
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 06:50 PM
1

Saw this today, thought I would reply to it. I completely understand what you're getting across in terms of women's thinking. I'm referring to what a lot of women say when talking about guys cheating because they can't have multiple relationships in the open Many men have more than one partner openly. They just don't go around talking about it. All/some of the partners know about it. And this is what those men have to give up. This freedom. There are very few problems that these men have with wo…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/15 03:37 AM
2

One thing I have to say is that I have met women in the three digit range. Don't know about these harpies on reddit. But you're right, most women are not in the three digit range.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:32 AM
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I only read the first paragraph of your post. Every single girl I have met that has a low partner count or is a virgin (young or older) proudly wears their sexual past as a badge. By low I mean <3. Because it adds value to them and they know this so they use it. Conversely, the ones that sleep around know that it devalues them and therefore they hide it.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 09:52 PM
2

You must append SMV to everything. Do I think a 6 will cheat on and leave a 9? It's less likely than a 7, 8, or 9 doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 09:26 PM
2

Put our lives on the line to prove an internet point right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 09:20 PM
4

So I'm there to learn how to get girls right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/15 09:19 PM
2

This is why I'm happy that I've lived in the belly of the beast first. Now I know what it is and I don't want to go back. I had an LTR. Not interested in doing that again.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 02:24 PM
12

I'm not surprised that she cheated. You think that would change with the next one? He is not the AF. He is the BB.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 05:05 AM
2

They don't have any value. Let's say that you're selling some service your company provides to a potential client at a conference. You are trying to maximize your sales. Let's say that they are hesitant. You figure that your time is better spent gaining clients who purchase the service. You move on. They see that everything about you makes sense. They've seen what a successful company, service, pitch, etc looks like. They will see that value. There's another guy beside you selling his company's …
/r/askTRP06/09/15 08:46 PM
2

First of all, happy birthday, it's going to be one you'll remember. From my experience, when I was still doing relationships. You just knew. There was just one moment where you knew there was no going back. 2 options. Leave, but you have a kid, so there's that. Fix it There is a married trp subreddit, I'd check in there if I were you, read up on things. If I were you, I would go stay at a hotel for at least a week and take a break, process everything. You need to come back with a plan. You don't…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 03:33 AM
2

My girl/SO/plate/whatever already knows what happened...she's been supportive You just made it more fickle Yes to powering through everything. No to killing yourself by powering through it. Balance. Few people can turn into a machine and just get everything back on track in one fell swoop. It's going to take time, manage yourself. You're going to look back on this hopefully and treasure this time because it will build you into the man you will become.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:23 AM
2

As soon as I hear masters degree, she's on my radar as a daddy's girl who lived at home till the age of 25 just studying. No experience living alone. No experience working for herself. No experience holding a real job.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:16 AM
4

Tell them to stop calling me. 2 missed calls in the last 20 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 03:01 AM
8

This has to be the funniest shit I've read here in a long time. Roll your eyes got me good.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 02:56 AM
11

Great post. High margin products and services.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 06:04 AM
11

People consider a man who is 35, main hobby is gaming, wife is fat, deadbedroom, to be a successful man. All you see on the outside is some guy who comes to work, likes gaming, and leaves. He looks like he's well adjusted and happy, but one look at the deadbedrooms subreddit and it's obvious what can be going on inside his private life. I would not want to subject my future son to that life. I would not consider that well adjusted. I would not consider that successful. In my mind that man is a c…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 07:04 PM
8

Straight people have done this, gay people have done this. We don't know if he's gay. This specific example is irrelevant in the grand scheme of things. What is more important is how the reddit crowd responded to it. How many replies included the word "gay". 7 replies for both the original and the updated post. There is now a bestof post about it, 0 replies having the word gay. And if you look at the content of those 7 replies in the original and updated post there isn't much discussion on it at…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 06:48 PM
13

I felt shitty reading that post and writing this one. I have no problem talking about relationships, sex, hamstering, etc. But when it comes to kids. These kids are going to have to answer for their parent's lack of parenting in the future. You feel it. You know the consequences, and you realize that this will have a huge impact on the future generations.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 05:42 PM
3

To the men who are reading this that think this is an exaggeration. It is not. All it takes is one text.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 01:38 AM
3

I have a natural desire to be around people as well as women. I can't turn it off. Fake gratification from fake sources do not work for me. Games don't give me a sense of accomplishment. Porn doesn't give me a sense of fulfilling my biological need. Women provide the yang to my yin. I don't have an uphill battle to fight to attract women like a lot of MGTOWs, and I indulge in what I like. I don't have any children right now. It's on the list. But that's not why I am not a MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 03:49 AM
9

Savage (noun) (chiefly in historical or literary contexts) - a member of a people regarded as primitive and uncivilized. I don't know enough about the topic to debate it. I can say that this was the definition of savage that she used.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 01:36 AM
1

14%? Drop that to 10%. I also love this guy's al qaeda look
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:37 AM
1

And be her "safety net" somebody she can talk to Are you brain damaged? Anyways, you're asking us what you should do. Imagine you have a factory and every machine under your management has to be calibrated in a certain way to output the desired product. You already massively fucked up your product, and you're asking us to calibrate your machines for you. My advice is to learn how to calibrate the machines yourself and become a successful manager. You need to read more and absorb knowledge. I can…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:34 AM
11

You are not of a TRP mindset. You are deep in the beta.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:34 AM
1

Is there any way to continue this? And if yes, how? No, move on. I'm not saying it can't happen, although it would require one of you to move, I'm saying the better option for you is to move on.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:25 AM
5

Use the same tactics that you would on a completely new girl.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:21 AM
4

Solid advice. Everything you said. Especially the way you worded things, great wording. I wanted a fun evening and waiting wasn't fun. I am doing ____, you can join me if you want I schedule myself pretty tight so I am always punctual. I expect the same I also use 15 minutes. I literally leave.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:14 AM
11

"daddy"
/r/askTRP27/08/15 12:08 AM
16

Your frame is how you live your life, what you allow around you and what you do not. Watch Ayn Rand hold her frame: https://youtu.be/3u8Jjth81_Q?t=1665 Shit test after shit test and she just holds frame.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 11:55 PM
3

Call your friends and family. Talk to them. You'll get the ambulance with them as well. Make some money and hire a professional who comes over to your house every two days, cooks you two days worth of eastern european soups based on her grammy's recipes, and cleans. Then sit back and put on some netflix.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 11:39 PM
3

Phrase it this way. What value do you add to yourself by showing off your health problems?" I'll add to this. I have garnered some modicum of knowledge throughout my life. I operate my life through this knowledge. Let's say that I want to explain a part of this knowledge to a friend. After putting in the time and effort of explaining it, they will either agree with me because they will not see fault with my reasoning and change their view, or they will change my view by showing me how I'm wrong.…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:37 PM
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I'm not who you posed the question to, but I will answer. You have your body and your mind. Your body is capped to your physical attractiveness. Your mind and everything that you can do with it is not capped. Max out your physical attractiveness, the rest is your mind and what you can accomplish with it.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 06:29 AM
9

The word you're looking for is frame. Keep your frame.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 06:15 AM
12

he says he can't because his girlfriend wants him to do something else that night. Ouch. He has gone in deep. Rest safely assured that their relationship will eventually end.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 06:08 AM
6

Today, a plate fixed me a turkey sandwich with a banana and coconut water. I didn't think anything of it. It was an expected behavior, like someone holding the door for you if you're right behind them walking into a building.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 06:05 AM
3

We need something else. Find loopholes in the system and get comfortable. This is the future for the duration of our sexually prime years.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 05:59 AM
22

The second part of the strategy is to distance themselves from responsibility Because if you take the responsibility away from yourself, you're a victim. You're not responsible. They like being victims. happy victim = repeat business in the bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 07:43 PM
2

I have a theory about how a more alpha type man will actually be more solipstic Care to share? I would be very interested in hearing it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 07:04 PM
1

I feel like that side is very steadfastly ignored here sometimes. There is plenty of room for it here. It's just largely irrelevant to the topics we discuss. Therefore you don't see it. Plenty of us understand that side. It's just that if we're discussing the biased court system, branch-swinging, or oneitis. Those things you mentioned have little to do with the topic. We come here to gain knowledge that will have a positive impact on our life. Further discussion than what we already know about s…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:13 PM
3

The great thing is that a lot of what we talk about can be observed, tested, and confirmed in real life. I am a curious individual. I would welcome the destruction of trp philosophy in exchange for a core validated truth. The problem is that I get stuck. TRP is like a wall. I will throw everything and the kitchen sink at it, and watch it stand unscathed. I have personally sacrificed many things to try to break trp theories. I would rather lose something I can gain back rather than live my life w…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 07:39 PM
37

I said, "Technically, I'm the prostitute in this situation." gold. I love playing mental gymnastics at certain times. "Did you expect something?" "Were you just doing everything to get something in return?" "I thought you were inviting me to have a great time together, not to get something out of me."
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 06:40 PM
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This one is too good to be true. We know that the posters over there have huge biases. Now we get to see them play out. Claire asked me to be in an exclusive relationship, but I explained why we couldn't and she seemed fine with it. I told her we could just stop if she wanted to but she wanted to continue. She tried to escalate their FWB relationship into an LTR. He used his freedom and sexual preference to deny the escalation. Furthermore, he gave the option of stopping the FWB relationship and…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 06:35 PM
1

You want everything to be perfect. I want my life to be great. I hate watching my beta friends be whiny cunts Get better friends. I hate women for all being the same Get women that like you and do what you like around you. I hate watching the government run this country into the ground So get your money and live your life the way you want to. Come back when you make over 100k per year, have friends that would consider you brothers, and have women that will do what you want when you want it.
/r/askTRP28/06/15 02:00 AM
1

I've met this guy. Hell, I've bought weed from him too. For the love of god, find a quality supplier.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:26 PM
2

Just the same way that some guys think they can tame a slut, there are girls that think they can tame a man who only wants FWB. It's a big fantasy of theirs, kind of like how much gay guys want to turn a straight guy. "he was like so and so until he met me, I am the princess, I can change a man". I absolutely have the same problem. It's always after I fuck them. This is why I prefer to bed hotter girls. They don't share the same thirst for a relationship as the 7s and 8s. I can say that it defin…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:17 PM
1

What's your solution? Convince 1% of those fucking married women to stop? Institute shaming tactics an have men abide by a moral code? Or address the core problem?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 03:25 AM
3

When they like you enough and see that the only way to be privy to your time is to behave accordingly to your preferences, they will. "I'm looking for XYZ, if you are getting what you want from me and providing XYZ, then we can have something" As for the disgusting part, I'm on the other side of the coin. The sky is blue and I am indifferent to that.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 09:49 PM
3

Keep increasing your value, women will come. You'll get to set the rules and pick and choose who you want to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:44 PM
13

One of my favorite ones from the past (paraphrasing) Her: Who takes a girl out for coffee on a first date? I would never go out with a guy like that Me: So you're saying that you're wouldn't go out on a date with any guy that said "let's go out on a date for coffee". Her: Yes, absolutely. Me: let's go out on a date for coffee Her: ok.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:39 PM
1

"I'm worth it"
/r/askTRP23/06/15 06:29 PM
1

You could have sparked a discussion without contributing valueless noise to the subReddit. Once again, I took one course of action and it delivered the desired result. If you think that the series of replies after that comment are valueless noise, that's for you to decide for yourself. I am of the opinion that it is not. No, it's not. There are degrees of "testing" something and things like a survey, which aren't much of a "test," are vastly superior to what you're doing. Time, value, money. Spe…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:08 PM
3

So I started to walk in the direction of the stairs, and the guy (already up there) speaks up "you can't enter" I actively wait for confrontational scenarios like this. I thoroughly enjoy them Never be needy or lacking. Understand the core of this. I want to make sure that you understand this. Your long term goal is not to never be needy or lacking. It starts out like that, you are in fake it till you make it mode. Eventually you have abundance and you aren't needy or lacking by default. It beco…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 08:00 AM
1

A man and a woman enter into an exclusive relationship. The woman infringes on her pre-established agreement. I on the other hand do not infringe on any of my prior agreements. Here's another great one for the feminists. I respect the woman's individuality and independence and let her make her own decisions. In any case, no immoral person is going to be convinced their behavior is immoral And what if I told you that there are some people that understand what they are doing is immoral and don't c…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 07:48 AM
1

You get a text essentially indicating the time and place. You're not going anywhere to waste time. She's coming somewhere to fuck your brains out and leave before her husband suspects anything.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 07:25 AM
2

I'm going to get to the point. Why do you think someone with the ability to pump and dump a very hot chick or a chick that does what they want or etc would choose to be celibate, and who do you know that fits that bill?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 07:21 AM
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Your contribution thus far to the thread amounted to "how many MGTOW can bed 9s and 10s on the reg?" And yet I was not finished with my contributions. As you can see, the comment I made spurred an ongoing discussion between myself and the op of that comment. This is what I intended. Two, the answer doesn't tell us much at all about incels or involuntarily celibacy. The answer could be tiny and yet no one in the target population could be celibate. The answer could be more than here and yet the t…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 07:15 AM
2

If you elaborate on the integrity aspect, exactly what you identify to be women's deception, as well as you "pretending to believe them", I can give you a better reply.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:37 AM
2

Great, I have no qualm with you. What percentage of MGTOWs do you think have the ability to bed 9s and dimes on the regular?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:28 AM
2

Here's the raw deal. Different women provide different experiences. If all it is to you is sex, then that's how you are. That is not how everyone experiences it. What you need to remember is that pussy is pussy. A 9's pussy is no different than a 5. No. What you need to understand is that there are things outside of your viewpoint that are valid for other men. You're coming in here with your views already set. it's because being validated by an attractive women is what gives you reason to exist,…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 06:22 AM
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If you want to live a very high standard of living you have to get there on tge backs of other men Funny how every time I read something by someone I respect I find that they share very similar views at their core. I agree, you're literally stepping on people's heads to get ahead.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 06:37 AM
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Almost none of you. You'd be surprised at what a lot of the men on this sub can accomplish. As for your second paragraph, my comments were posed to be directed towards the incel category of MGTOWs or otherwise low SMV men. There are certain areas of discussion where they are at a natural disadvantage in terms of knowledge and understanding stemming from a lack of experience and ability. In many of these discussions, their additions detract from the value of the discussion. Entertaining their adv…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 06:17 AM
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I killed it with knowledge and understanding.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 03:01 AM
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The sky is pink. Remove rose colored glasses. The sky is actually blue. Deal with it. End of story.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:57 AM
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You're not comparing this to any other group of men. You're comparing it to TRP. And what is bedding 9s a measure of, anyways? The opportunity cost. "I am voluntarily celibate at the cost of being able to fuck [insert here]" The [insert here] is the most important part of that equation. If gaylubeoil goes celibate, I'd certainly love to hear his exact reasoning. On the other hand, I couldn't care less about some other Joe going celibate.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:49 AM
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What percentage of MGTOWs do you think have the ability to bed 9s and dimes on the regular? Edit: Downvote me and come at me with a reply, I'll be waiting.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 02:21 AM
2

If you're going to get off the ride, doing it sooner is better than later. No point dragging it out.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 07:00 AM
4

This thread embodies the repercussions of a person's ability to cruise through life without doing major self development. When the stimuli for self development simply isn't there, you end up having to grind out these skills later on in life. It is a surmountable obstacle, but the cost of this common life path is the value of living without these skills. This is RPW, and my comment is that this is exactly why it is critical to prepare your children so that they don't have to carry this burden. No…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/15 01:52 AM
1

You're dealing with escorts. Do you know anything about escorts? Have you ever been friends with an escort, dated an escort, fwb? "It bothers me, and I know nothing about them!"
/r/askTRP17/06/15 06:28 AM
1

I'm onboard.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 09:33 PM
2

I would personally consider reading scientific papers, informative articles, and knowledgeable forum posts to learn more about exactly what the opiate you were using does psychoactively. This can only help you. With enough understanding, you will most likely be able to pin point what exactly it is. And since it's internalized already, all you will have to do is actively do what it is you were missing.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:46 AM
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I'd also like to point out that it's ritualistic. There's a connection that is formed when you're on the same level as someone in psychoactive element choice/use wise. There becomes a certain understanding between two people. This can be seen with people who smoke. Two smokers will have commonality on a larger level than two random people.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:41 AM
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His point is that you can sell anything if you want to. I don't participate in converting people in real life because I don't care about them. It takes up time, adds potential problems, and doesn't benefit me. What I do participate in is helping people who are asking for help. If I have the time for it and want to do it.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:14 AM
2

Maybe you should go there and answer some of those questions yourself perhaps you should try making positive contributions yourself? Time, value, money. And let me get this straight, you think that the right advice for a man in that realistically impossible situation is to take a 19F "off the CC", and get into a relationship with her so that his education is free? I would give him the advice that he should plan financially, start working on a career, and most importantly to operate independently…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 05:04 AM
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This post is a great reason as to why I think asktrp should not exist. The amount of knowledge that one can gain and the overall picture one can paint of the real dynamics between men and women by reading posts like this is vastly superior to asking questions on asktrp. The chances that someone will come into an asktrp thread and answer with this quality of post is slim. It's also important to note that illimitableman's post is not solely his opinion. These analyses are often concluded to the sa…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 04:08 AM
1

What happened 3 months ago?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 03:14 AM
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At first the people you know will be happy for you. They will like that you are bettering yourself. After further improvement, they will start reacting negatively. Once they do that, that's where the real improvement starts.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 04:34 AM
1

Hot girls will more often than not be with a tall guy who is a 7/10 in the looks deparment, with a decent amount of $ or high social status. One criteria they use is the mindset criteria. Especially the older veteran girls. They don't try to tame Chad Thundercock anymore. They will go lower on the SMV scale to get someone with a positive mindset towards a relationship. They will also go low enough to be able to control the guy. Some of these girls are veteran manipulators with years/decades of s…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 04:08 AM
1

True, and some time in the gym could help clear the depression a bit, so it cannot hurt. Once you start really studying how the body works, it's easy to see why a non optimal functioning of the entire body (sleep, metabolism, nutrition, hormones, etc.) will increase the risk of so many negative things including obesity, depression, mental disorders. It will be a huge boost to have everything running optimally.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 08:18 AM
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Glad to see you on here. Consider learning the core fundamentals of RP theory for your own knowledge. You will then decide if any part of RP knowledge is worthwhile for you, and subsequently if you want to incorporate any part of RP into your life. This may also be of some interest to you. I found it very interesting and the understanding stuck with me over the years: http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2003/10/13/jumpers I also posted to your thread before TRP picked it up, and I will reiterate: …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 08:11 AM
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The dude most likely needs to improve himself. There is no most likely about it. That goes for anyone.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:15 PM
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"If you knew what women say and think about ladies men you wouldn't want to be one." Genuinely made me laugh. It's right up there with "money doesn't make you happy".
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 07:09 PM
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Thank you for posting this. A lot of people don't understand the power of this basic trait of human interaction. I want people to focus more on the intricacies of interaction and notice subtle differences.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 01:58 AM
1

Preaching to the choir. I feel like I'm playing Russian roulette until then.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:41 PM
1

Please make a post about this. I'd love to hear yours and add some of my own. This would be a great primer for a lot of people.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:10 AM
1

I completely get your point, but I disagree. The system is the way it is for a reason, they have those reactions because of underlying reasons that won't change. If they are unhappy, that means you are going the right way. At the very least they have to be uncomfortable. You're at a social event and Joe betabux is uncomfortable with you around because his girlfriend is there? Good. Your coworkers don't like you because you are more effective at your job and they are looking worse because of it? …
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 05:03 AM
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Looking back on things, removing toxic people out of my life has been one of the best decisions I have ever made. It's also an ongoing process. All the bullshit and everything idiotic that comes with these people simply ceases to be when you remove them from your life. Things become clear, which allows your mind to move on to better things. Against my better judgement, I kept a few toxic people around for longer than I should have and it did not lead to anything good. You can always leave things…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 04:57 AM
1

I'm going to chime in here. It could a 60/40 relationship. Or it could just be two people having sex with each other and enjoying each others company from time to time where both parties benefit. It's hard enough to spin multiple plates time wise, especially if you are a career professional. Factor in the time spent on professional education, vacations, family visits, and personal things and you're already pressed for time. But if you're value is high enough to attract one girl a week, you can b…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 03:09 AM
1

Your text convo shows the exact reason of why I prefer not to text. Just look at all that crap. This would go very differently in a real life conversation or even over the phone. A quick minute of conversation to establish whether or not she wants to fuck you, and a subsequent minute to coordinate the logistics of the act.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:58 AM
1

What weak music did you listen to?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:50 AM
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Vasalgel clinical trials will start within 1-2 years, and hopefully their indiegogo crowdfunding this year generates enough money and awareness to advance it in the best way possible.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:48 AM
46

The woman stays with her beta bucks. She prefers to have an alpha, but with her beta bucks she gets to have security, financial well being, and a generous severance package. Compare that to an employment position where a person doesn't really like where they work but stays because they have a good salary, great benefits, job security, and a generous retirement package. Where's the difference? Oh shit, I'm 29, still a basic bitch, and all I have going for me are looks which age like milk. But wai…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 02:36 AM
3

I really want to know exactly how therapy would fix this situation for both of them. What exactly could a therapist do to fix it? Here's a tip to figure out the answer for the above: have you ever heard of a therapist curing a mental disease?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 05:09 PM
1

It's repetitive. I'll try to screen very well, but if one passes through my filter, it's easy to deal with. "Hey, I have to be honest, I'm looking for something that has more chemistry" Why would I want to spend time with a girl who doesn't want to have a good time when I can have some ecstasy inducing relations with another?
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 07:51 PM
1

I do things that I like and live and experience times where I am enjoying myself. If I stop enjoying myself, my interest still remains in my own enjoyment and NOT in the enjoyment/comfort/happiness of another person. Therefore the only rational course of action is to TAKE action and readjust the situation so that I am back to where I want to be. I qualify what I want to spend my time on based on my preferences. There are so many mind games that you can play with women and so many different ways …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 07:36 PM
2

A fool and his money are soon parted. I also love hearing about communication. "Communicate with your SO" "talk about what's bothering you". My effective "communication" is to take action.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:20 AM
6

Consider how many men have changed their lives after they dumped or were dumped by their girlfriend. They had no chains attached anymore and could go as far as they had the perseverance to go. Time and mental effort. Both which you can now dedicate to your own pursuits. 0 risk of problems bringing you down from the personal relationship side. There are many benefits and it's no surprise that among high value males you will find many cruising by just fine without long term commitment / true commi…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 07:27 AM
1

LTRs are a time sink. A person who is focusing their time on a relationship is building relationship skills while at the same time losing potential development of skills that would be attained from spinning new girls. While chasing strange takes time, being high value to the point that girls come to you is beneficial for your time. Just some thoughts. So while a man can improve his education, financial position, career, etc. he can do this with or without an LTR. An argument can even be made tha…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 05:34 AM
7

I hope that someone from /r/deadbedrooms will read this post and connect with it. While I have never been in a dead bedroom, I have been treated as Jeremy implies husbands are treated in his rant. And there was one reason for that, and that was because I let it happen to myself. This was in the past. On to today, on one hand, it brings me pleasure to have women in my life who prioritize me, cherish the time they spend with me, do things to bring joy to my life, and want me. On the other hand it …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 09:13 PM
2

Maybe a better indicator would be how much the woman craves sex with you. If she will move mountains to fuck you it means she really likes being with you. If she could get the same sex/fulfillment elsewhere for cheaper she would. But she's going to cook you dinner and go out of her way to cancel other plans to be with you instead. That's a quality indicator in my experience. Not because it makes her loyal, but because the value you provide to her is greater than her alternatives; hypergamy is sa…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 07:25 PM
1

I noticed you stopped responding. Interesting.
/r/MensRights19/05/15 05:23 AM
0

Women don't magically become abusive partners simply because they don't have an alpha male to keep them at heel. Please explain why many women who I have had around me in my life treated me like a king while simultaneously treating their boyfriend like complete shit. They didn't magically switch from being an abusive person to a warm hearted person and back again. It's because they can be both at the same time to two different people. Abusive women will be abusive to any man, the difference is t…
/r/MensRights18/05/15 04:40 AM
1

I understand your point. Right now we are isolating losers - passive, low self-esteem, and low achieving men and the women in relationships with them. The low self-esteem stems from a point of low self worth the majority of the time. My proof for this is a low distribution of good looking men with many sexual options, money, and life fulfillment from the being the opposite of passive, low achieving "losers". Low achievement for this group of men stems from a point of passiveness the majority of …
/r/MensRights17/05/15 05:37 AM
2

I file this under the same category as "you don't need money to be happy" Why would you ever self impose a hard limit on yourself?
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 03:44 AM
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Re-framing. HB: wanna help me move, Ill be soo gratefull :) ;) Me: You should hire movers, kick back, relax, and we should catch up over drinks this weekend
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:20 AM
2

I look at my schedule, and if I see no issues, then I usually assist. I have the basic intuition to know that my time is better spent elsewhere than helping a girl I used to know move.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:06 AM
1

I was beta as well at one point. But I've changed. I am red pill now. What I am saying is that my "just be yourself" was beta. Now it is not. When PUA came out and I took an interest in it, I was convinced that the material mimicked a high value male. 3 second rule, not messaging or calling for 3 days after a number close, and the list goes on. It doesn't matter how hard a girl tries to put me in the beta category, I just don't go there, it's not who I am. It's akin to someone telling me I'm not…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 09:24 AM
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Also, it adds additional data points to your knowledge spectrum. Purposefully choosing an action path that adds more uncertainty to a situation builds your general understanding of things and leads to more general certainty over a broad variety of life events. Standing in an elevator at a hotel with a stranger? If you don't talk to her, you'll go up to your floor and exit. You know exactly what is going to happen. So live a little. Talk to her. Who fucking cares, there are zero repercussions. Ma…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 03:57 AM
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Yet another generally undisclosed reason I don't do committed relationships. I am not giving away the 'deep throat every time' chip I hold. And its not just the chip, I want her looking into my eyes, seeing her want to do it. Relationships unfortunately remove that desire/lust element in varying degrees throughout the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 02:57 AM
1

Biology reigns supreme. http://redditlog.com/snapshots/1559260 The red pill always wins. Further reading: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/1559261 http://redditlog.com/snapshots/1559262
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 09:09 PM
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This comparison of spending the night in the cold, vs having to fuck a guy in order to sleep in his hotel is pissing me off. Major cities like Toronto have hotels with lobbies. Just go to a hotel and sit in the lobby. There should also be 24/7 fast food joints. Go have a coffee, then come back and sit in the lobby. Grab a bunch of free newspapers and read them, solve the puzzles. Did she fly there? Check in early to an airport, no one gives a shit if you nap in an airport. Took a train? Nap in t…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 08:15 AM
2

For what it's worth I'm in full agreement with your post.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 09:42 AM
1

I'm curious to know what endorse contributors disagree on. I've yet to find 1 thing. The last X times that I've read TRP I've found posts from contributors that mirror exactly what I think. I'll come to a specific conclusion on my own, one that I have not seen on talked about in length on TRP. A post on the subject will come up and I will see 3-5 contributors say the same thing in different ways all mirroring each other.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 09:38 AM
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You don't remember great men for how they treated their wives or how nice they were to women, you remember them for what they've achieved. Some start out with swallowing a small dose of the red pill to get their pedestal pussy. Eventually they will learn to understand the importance of the things you mentioned, and swallow the entire pill. "You don't deserve her" is a stepping stone to "deserve is just a word, actions and achievements are reality". OP is trying to get through to the betas who wa…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 09:30 AM
2

I agree with you. I look at the word "deserve" like I look at the words "income-equality", they don't exist outside of a dictionary definition. What exists is what is achieved through action. If your last paragraph is directed to men who are considering self improvement, I don't agree that it applies. There is no chance involved. Unless a man may kill himself because of his self-improvement, there's no chance to factor into the equation. If you put in work you will change, and your life will cha…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 09:15 AM
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Congratulations. You are beginning to come to terms with the difference between what you want vs. what's important to you. You are beginning to value other things in your life more. You are seeing the effect of reduced interest/dependency for something that had an inflated value in your past. This is not a plateau, this is a self-development period, and is much harder than your recent workout period. This is time to connect the dots and build the foundational logical basis for everything in your…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 09:00 AM
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You don't deserve her. You're not a shy guy. Your best friends are brothers to you. You're smart, funny, athletic, and socially confident. You go to the gym, dress better, socialize with people, and have a high paying job. You are happy and live an interesting life. Then there's Mike and Chad at her office, 38 tinder matches, and 5 great guys that text her every 1-2 days. And when she goes out she meets Ian. He's not shy, approaches her, makes her laugh, turns her on with his body and style, soc…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 08:24 AM
2

I take a different approach. I let them think what they want. This is never a problem with men. There are real men and little bitches. I get along with all real men. I couldn't care less how I got along with little bitches. I can easily maintain friendly relations with them if I need to for one reason or another. It's very surreal when I meet a girl of value. We both have suspicions that the other is valuable. It becomes somewhat of a game where we poke and prod each other to confirm it. Once it…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 08:06 PM
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You got it right on the first one. I haven't seen the latter. Should I watch it?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:34 PM
1

I still remember a time where I was debating something with a feminist. I couldn't get through to her with logic, so I began to deconstruct where the logical disconnect was with her. She was using a definition of racism that wasn't in any dictionary. Yeah, let me just make my own definition for a word and use it in normal conversation! Literally an idiot. She was too stupid to understand why doing something like this is counter to having a productive discussion. I hoped that an iota of logic cou…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 07:26 PM
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Women don't know what they want, they only know when they're unhappy. Chronic dissatisfaction. I heard this in a Wordy Allen movie and it fits perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 05:09 PM
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I don't like inefficient courses of action. Hypothetically, if I am committing to a life long partnership with a woman, that woman will be smart enough to deal with the situation if I simply tell her the gist of it in 2-5 sentences. I've made a lot of calculated mistakes in my life. They were mistakes because I saw flaws in the actions that I made. They were calculated because I openly tried to take different courses of action to understand the full capability of the options available to me. The…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 04:57 PM
1

As I read it, it was not a subtle brag.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 07:51 PM
0

People can sometimes display behavior that is resemblant to that of a psychopath. But I don't believe that women's behavior on a large scale is psychopathic. I do believe that women can behave in way that can be seen as being symptomatic of psychopathy. I also believe that the driving force behind this behavior is due in part to a combination of some things I will discuss. Before that, it's important that I say that I've met a lot of good women. They were good people. They didn't have a bad bone…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:11 AM
14

TIL I could sort of be a Genghis Khan Jokes aside, I have read about this before and find it intriguing.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 08:51 AM
3

If this woman could do this, imagine what the rampant hypergamy of a woman ten years younger and significantly more attractive can do. You know the answer to this one. They land men who have the net worth of an A-list celebrity. As for what's in your edit, give it time. You'll cope with it just fine after months of being RP.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 07:14 PM
1

In my experience they use it for extra side pussy or to fill up a gap in their schedule.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 08:03 AM
1

It doesn't really matter. Just send her a picture of your abs. Increasing your value is the name of the game. Go to the gym. Have a skill? Start a side business, small website. Get certified in something. Never held a gun? Go to the shooting range. Who cares about your reply to what she said, you can reply with whatever you want. At the shooting range? Get a friend to take a pic of you and send her that with "I'm deciding between taking you for drinks or". Who fucking cares, don't even finish th…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 08:02 AM
3

Maybe you'll also find the lochness monster, big foot, and chupacabra while you're looking for a unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:43 AM
2

Long ago, when game first came to the spotlight, I had a theory that game simply mimics high value individuals. The most apparent of tactics was the waiting 3 days to text her. It was easy to see that this mimics that you are busy in general and are in no rush to text the girl. I scan my text messages, reply to the high priority ones, anyone who is just chatting I don't reply until later, and it may be a few days before I text them back because the message doesn't display as unread. I don't thin…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:41 AM
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The thing that I value the most is respect. Add it in front of "his XYZ". Respect his time. Respect his emotions. Respect his preferences. If he's a crap guy, great. Drop him, move on. You'll be doing him a favor. He's not up to par. A man of value, respect his XYZ. I sometimes come into the RPW irc channel. A red pill woman will ask me who I am. They want to know who's in the channel, it could be a troll. I end up leaving because I was there only to see if someone else was online. That same red…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 08:55 AM
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♂ Very solid post and mirrors what a lot of the RP community thinks.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 09:00 AM
14

You could go to toronto for sport fucking. Game on hard mode. What better place to refine your game right? EDIT: Pussies downvoting me, live a little. Slay some pussy in toronto, why not?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:25 AM
4

I'm interested in your other examples.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 08:25 PM
2

Up your game. She touches you, classic "hands off the merchandize" or "whoa whoa whoa, what are you doing?" When they try, shoot then down. If you don't, they will escalate.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 08:13 PM
1

I was reading the responses in this thread and most of them are to tongue in cheek. As for anyone that said "beta-up" and was serious. Are you kidding me? What's the point of being red pill if some harpy can change your behavior. That's playing into the female imperative. We're talking about taking a lot of time and effort to achieve what exactly? That she leave you alone? Its really simple to get a girl off your back. "Hey, I just don't see you in that way" "don't do that". I'm not going to ben…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 08:10 PM
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When is it going to stop? When it stops being profitable for companies to capitalize on it.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:13 AM
1

Say that I am at a thanksgiving dinner at a plate's family's house. Her mother wants me to eat her specialty dessert. I didn't want it, I verbally said no and physically tried to stop her, but I ended up eating it. It ends up being one of the best cakes I have ever eaten. I leave satisfied with the experience. Did I just get dinner raped? In my life, I decide whether or not I got dinner raped. I enjoyed the dinner, I didn't get dinner raped. But you know what, some other person could be very con…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:08 AM
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I think of rape as violence + victim physically resists. Obviously the definition has changed so I stopped trying figure out what rape is, and started paying attention to what the circumstances in a "rape" were. If she drank too much and had sex, to me that's not rape, that's someone drinking too much and having sex. Although I still understand that it is considered to be rape. When there is a word that covers both 1) A girl drank two beers (the # of beers doesn't matter, it could be 1 or none a…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:59 AM
1

Great tickling example. That's how I would describe attraction works. If someone knows what they are doing, it tickles the girl. If the girl has to tell them, it doesn't tickle anymore. Yes you're right, a lot of cases require comfort after. Especially after ripping their asshole open.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 07:51 PM
1

There's a difference between voluntarily playing out sexual fantasies and actual abuse. That's why there are safe words in BDSM. There are gray areas as well. Say you fuck a girl, she didn't want it. Let's say that she verbally said no and physically tried to stop you. You did it anyways. Midway through she's enjoying it, she climaxes, hugs you, etc. Next week she wants to be in a relationship with you, sends you texts of how much of a good time she had with you. Was that actual abuse? Also don'…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 07:47 PM
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Once we learn what women really want; they don't want abusers or to be treated like crap but a man that is in charge of his life and will take lead. Are you sure that they don't want to be treated like crap or abused? I've heard that some love being sex toys. I've heard that some like being treated like crap, verbatim from the horses mouth. Weird isn't it? Why do you think that is?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 10:04 AM
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It's as if all women share common traits. Who could have ever predicted that women are similar to each other.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 09:58 AM
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it's pretty fucking atrocious and enables abusers to be abusive, and convinces men who aren't getting laid that the problem isn't them but women Translation: The female imperative is the correct path for life for men if they want the pussy. Fortunately many men here swallowed the pill and live exclusive of the female imperative to various degrees. And it's working out just great. I have time for friends, family, work, etc. And the sex has never been better in terms of what I can get. Hypergamy i…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 09:48 AM
0

Someone did an AMA here a while ago. Search for it.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 08:02 PM
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Original post: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/1384937
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 12:38 AM
5

Do you have that post?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 09:27 AM
2

Non-parents downvoting you?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 09:26 AM
1

What I see a lot on the red pill is when a girl obliterates some guy who then comes here for help. Then he starts blaming the psychology of all women in general for the failures he accrued during his personal trauma. Blaming all women in general for their psychology is the definition of misogyny. You can blame that girl for having bad moral values and abusing your interest in her but you cannot blame all women because they are not all the same. You're still fighting biology. It's a losing battle…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 04:03 AM
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NSFW This is curvy: http://i.imgur.com/lRIxVmo.jpg http://i.imgur.com/eHzLstB.jpg http://i.imgur.com/PgnSaeR.jpg http://i.imgur.com/bkp3zC8.jpg This is fat: http://imgur.com/A6wHqFd
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 03:27 AM
1

You consider that girl a win? http://imgur.com/T14OUlc Sure for an AFC that's a win. For a rapper with a net worth of $10m+ though?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 03:07 AM
1

Buy closed ear noise cancelling headphones, problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:57 AM
2

Your only option is to fight and win across all fronts. Start reading and internalizing 48 laws of power and how to win friends and influence people. Use the people around you. Get promoted from within that environment as well as landing another job. Win on both fronts. These women are just obstacles, hills that you need to climb. You need to choose what kind of man you are. If you don't have the necessary balls to stop 5 harpies, what chance do you stand further on in life and your career path …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:55 AM
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Vasalgel 2017. Its the only reason I'm not getting a vasectomy.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 08:41 AM
3

Same, this is game level 1. Animal pet names are great too. Pet names are one of my main transitions from flirting to seducing the girl. It builds a personal rapport between you both. She will most likely also make an animal pet name up for you too, or you can ask her what she thinks you are while you name drop bear, tiger. You can have a complete inside joke conversation within an hour of meeting. That's huge rapport. There are a lot of psychology hacks that can be used with this as well. One o…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 09:06 PM
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The feminine imperative of hypergamy cannot be reasoned with. It is currently being satiated in this relationship. What do you think will happen as this relationship takes its due course?
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 08:34 PM
3

For many (if not most) individuals, the mystery and intrigue of meeting an attractive stranger is exciting, maybe even sexy. If we become too close to that person in a "friend way" too soon, we start caring about them in a way that isn't associated with sexual interest. If this emotional connection forms before at least a modicum of sexual attraction has, then that person may enter "The Friend Zone." Spot on. I've been preaching this for years.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 09:38 AM
1

I like our analysis of the Sexodus part 2 better. http://redditlog.com/snapshots/1361725
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 01:04 AM
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This is how every new member should be. Welcome to the community, I hope you set a trend. I will link new people to your post to show them how unsatisfactory their approach is when they come here, don't read the sidebar, post crap, and etc. Enjoy reading TRP. That's what I do. The rest will come naturally. I started by reading (this was back when we had 1-4k subs). Every time someone would post something with a piece of logic missing another person would come in and explain it in a reply to the …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 11:47 PM
1

Who knows, either way, I've signed up.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 10:42 PM
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As for women it seems a lot of you guys are bemoaning this demographic transition. I dont understand what the problem is. The "problem" is loss of potential value. An example. Oh look, there's so much out there in space, maybe in that black spot in the sky we can take a photo and see millions of galaxies, the universe may be much bigger than we thought. Hubble telescope takes a photo and it comes back black, no galaxies. It's just potential loss. We still have to enjoy the galaxies that we have.…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 12:15 AM
2

Commitment is trending downwards because large numbers of young men are being informed about the legal ramifications of it. It has nothing to do with an awakening as to how women think and everything to do with an awakening as to how badly the courts can fuck with a married couple's life. While commitment in general is trending downwards because of this, there is a subset of MGTOW who have done it not based on the legal ramifications, but based on how women truly are. I have personally lived it.…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 12:11 AM
1

Great post, you're saying this is all a control mechanism by society elites? Plausible.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 11:55 PM
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If there was a point that could be given for general knowledge (not RP) I would give you one. Great post. Very great post.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 11:51 PM
1

How can a woman truly love a man who puts up with her shit?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 11:38 PM
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Why do you think divorce laws are in place? Do you recall that line that people say "we're not like the rest of them, we'll make it". I think all couples share and say that. What's the alternative? "yeah we'll probably get divorced, let's marry!". That surely doesn't happen often. The reality is that divorce laws are in place not because bad marriages fail, but because marriage itself fails. It starts positive and includes the motivation of "we're not like the rest of them, we'll make it, we're …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 11:35 PM
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I've already opted out of commitment. There simply is no reason for me to commit to any woman. I speak to other men in RL and give them that advice. Never commit to any woman ever. There is no point. Simply spin plates. Why would I offer my commitment to a woman when there are women who will come to me, buy me things, give me attention, give me sexual release, and then leave? Last nights plate just left an hour ago. She will go about her day and get her validation from orbiters, get placed on a …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 11:27 PM
2

You can remove jealousy from your life. I have. I still get the feeling sometimes absent pain, but it's nothing more than a craving for a candy that can be forgotten as soon as it comes up. If everything is just cause and effect in attraction, which time and time again it shows itself to be. There is no real reason to be jealous. It's a flawed emotion that we don't need to use with our higher level thinking except for judging what the girl is doing. If your wife gets close to a coworker after 10…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:51 PM
1

I don't hang around with fat or ugly chicks. It's not that I don't hang out with fat or ugly chicks, it's that I hang out with people of value. Any woman who doesn't put that 110% effort into not being fat or ugly isn't the type of person that I want around in my life. Unless she's like a subordinate, bringing brownies and goods to hangouts. They're all selfish, so why would she do that unless she's getting something out of it.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:44 PM
2

She gets you laid thru her friends, being your preselection armcandy etc. This would disqualify all potential female friends that I have.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:32 PM
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♂ This is for your OP. Everything up to your argument in your OP is sidebar material. The rest is your opinion that is up for interpretation for men to make for themselves. Great post, I can't think of a point that should be rightfully given more than this one.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 10:00 PM
6

Vasalgel. I signed up for clinical trials. 2017 it hits the market.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 04:41 AM
6

Got any stories of your experiments?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:43 PM
11

I will never commit to any woman. ever. I have not swore them off. I'm very close to swearing them off for a long time and most likely for good in the true relationship sense that we are brought up to believe. It just doesn't seem possible even with TRP. The planets have to align for it to happen properly.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:42 PM
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CONT: When we are looking at future trends, the best predictor has never been what betas do. The market deciders are alphas because of their position in the SMV marketplace, the rest will trickle down. We aren't even close to being in the upper echelon of society, but all of us here have goals and a lot of us are going to make it into very solid positions in life. The conclusions that we come to in regards to women will carry forward with us in life and will be a force in the future sexual marke…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 06:28 PM
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My take on it. Something I wrote as a response in another thread. Here's something to ponder: Maybe men of intellect and power individually came to the collective conclusion that men have been fighting a losing battle against women's nature for millennia. The opportunity cost became too high. The best option presented itself. Money, power, and personal gain became king amongst none other. And we now see the results. What is a fact is that throughout the 20th century, men in a position of power w…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 04:53 PM
2

The sinking of any ship is ALWAYS the captain's fault. So this "societal collapse" is Men's fault. Here's something to ponder: Maybe men of intellect and power individually came to the collective conclusion that men have been fighting a losing battle against women's nature for millennia. The opportunity cost became too high. The best option presented itself. Money, power, and personal gain became king amongst none other. And we now see the results. What is a fact is that throughout the 20th cent…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 06:11 AM
2

I am particularly interested in a weekly simple RP observations thread. There are many knowledge bombs that I would love to drop that don't warrant an exclusive post as it would lower the signal for the sub. A great example of this is one part of GayLubeOil's recent post: Another example of this phenomenon: Women want to wear clothes that hot women wear. Thats why models are girl hot pretty face boy body and not what men find attractive full healthy booty long hair and nice thighs. That wouldn't…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:42 AM
1

"Success" definitely exists when hypergamy is satiated and alpha qualities are present. Even then the "success" is relative. It's always a work in progress and you never stop working. I don't consider that success. I don't find it at all surprising that the first words coming out of the three endorsed contributors in this thread are "be higher SMV than her and other men she is able to reach". I didn't come to this conclusion by reading RP theory or the experiences of others. I came to this concl…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:26 AM
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I would like to see one real example of a 5-10 year relationship where the relationship is a happy one without any bullshit, and the woman ignores hypergamy. Meaning the man is of an equal or lower SMV who doesn't have drive. I've yet to see it in life.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:22 AM
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I agree with everything said here. I will add that when she is 27-37, she won't be attracted to every single guy that has a higher SMV. What she will do is lose control of her emotions for an alpha of higher SMV that is able to seriously impact her emotions. Once that process begins, it's a slow decline into something not nearly as good as described in the OP.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 03:01 AM
10

If I tried some of the techniques described on here, I think our relationship wouldn't last for much more than a month. See if it lasts more than 10-15 years. You've been with her for just over a year. A good theory is one that is constantly tested and stands the test of time. One of my biggest goals is to disprove RP. I take the world to be what it is, I have no emotional attachment to RP or non-RP. Disproving RP would open up a whole new field of interest for me to delve into. Yet every single…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 02:56 AM
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AWALT AWAW (All women are women) tl;dr: If you manage to remove hypergamy and biologically devolve everything that a woman is (while you're at it, can you reverse entropy?), then yes, otherwise no.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 11:02 PM
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Another example of this phenomenon: Women want to wear clothes that hot women wear. Thats why models are girl hot pretty face boy body and not what men find attractive full healthy booty long hair and nice thighs. How long were you going to hide this gold?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 10:50 PM
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That shouldn't be your greatest fear. Let's eliminate your fear right now. All you have to do is game her into as archwinger put it in his last post "making her want to do it". IMO you can reduce the chance of your fear happening to about 0.1%
/r/TheRedPill03/12/14 07:15 PM
2

And every time, that guy is always a huge alpha. Every time.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 11:53 PM
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Disprove this: I'll start with the bottom of the barrel (0 on the scale of 1-10). Take a huge 300lbs land whale. I can't love her because I don't love her with my eyes right? Wrong. She has huge character flaws and no ability to lose all the weight. 1 down. Moving on to the 3/10 girl. She's ugly. Most likely has distaste for men because of her past experiences. She goes to a business meeting, she doesn't stand out. As a child she never developed the ability to stand out because of how her looks …
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:53 PM
1

Once you've created a few alpha widows in your lifetime, you'll get the sense that women are not only capable of love, but of absolutely massive, unrequited love, for true alphas that are 1-2 SMV points above them. You speak the truth. I sent a text along the lines of "let's have sex", she dropped a relationship for it. 1 SMV point below me, very sexy. To be fair I was her type and she loved to be dominated, and I knew exactly how to do it. Though I may "settle down" with the next hot one that f…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:26 PM
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What they are is not respectable. I miss the part where having a 'scarless' tattoo on your lower stomach, clit piercing, and 200 selfies on FB equates to a respectable human being. All I ask is that women, both genders actually, be respectable... but they can't even do the simplest of things. I agree with this sentiment. Society fosters an environment where women almost never have to introspectively critique themselves. This leads to them not fixing their flaws, improving aspects of their charac…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:17 PM
4

I completely disagree. I'm not sure which exact part of eastern Europe you're talking about, or maybe you live in a rural area.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 03:25 PM
1

I totally get that, and it's a great phrase. But to be frank, how do you know what they feel is what we feel? They have completely different biological mechanisms and constraints that they function off of. You're looking at windows vs the latest apple os. Sure they are both operating systems that achieve the same basic need. But think about the monumental differences. I can't just throw those differences aside and say they are the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 12:15 AM
2

A woman's love is lower quality but rarer. So its worth more. A woman's "love" to be in a situation where she is gamed is easy to attain. Love without regard to higher status and game has been unattainable. It's not so much that it is unattainable, as it is that it simply doesn't work attraction wise. It doesn't follow the right principles that click their buttons. Either every girl in my life has been an anomaly or there's a pattern.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 04:56 AM
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He's talking about equal love and support I suppose. Where you accept the person for all the are, good, bad, sick, temporary weakness etc. Women cannot do this. Therefore no LTR is equal. Women will always need to be gamed. Pretty much. I've always known this, but what's a great theory that doesn't get constantly tested? The theory may be wrong, but if it's right 99% of the time, I can live by it and succeed with it. It was nice to internalize on a personal level.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 04:51 AM
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If a man stops benefitting a woman while she still has options, she will exercise an option and leave. If she no longer has options, she will become a cold-hard bitch. It's a lose-lose. A woman will never love a man in the same way. He fucks up, gets sick or injured, loses frame, supplicates, or generally acts unmanly in any number of other ways and she is effectively done. She will stay with him while looking around, but she is pretty much bare minimum from here on out. This is parroted by most…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:41 PM
2

Any ideas on how to fuck with her? Think up some crazy shit that you wouldn't do and don't know what would happen if you did it, then do it. This is the advice that I would give if she was a plate. Then again, I'm nice if a girl is nice to me. If she's not really nice, I'll fuck around. I'm a sucker for real "good" girls. Around them, I'm harmless. Add female douchebaggery and my own goes up ten fold. If some girl is really in the dumps and tries to make my day better for whatever reason, I will…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 09:28 AM
1

I don't have all the answers myself either. I often find myself in a situation where I don't know exactly what to do. And I know that at least a few people on TRP would be able to tell me exactly what I should do. So what should I do? Ask them? And then what? Say I do the perfect thing based on their advice. I get temporary success with whatever I didn't have a solution for before. Now I'm back to square one. If another variation of that life situation pops up, I'm a deer in the headlights. What…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 06:21 PM
1

But I have not fucked a "HB8", a 7.5, a 7, a 6.5, or even someone I would rate a 6. Dimes are nothing special. If you ever start your own business and make 10k from it, you'll feel good, but now you're at that point. You've made 10k. You could have worked minimum wage and made the same money over time, but you made it in 2 months instead. So? Now what? Nothing special anymore.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 05:49 PM
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This is something I posted 1 month ago in another topic: Have a question? Don't know what to do in your situation? Don't understand something? Don't ask about it. Go and read for a month. Start with the sidebar. Then read the top 100 posts of all time with comments. Your problem isn't that you don't know what to do, or you don't understand something. Your problem is that you don't know enough. So read and learn. I'm not special, I sat there reading and learning just like everyone else. I can't e…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 05:32 PM
5

Please tell me... should one remain polite and courteous in response to such a challenge? Escalation is the right answer. The police will be on your side. He grabbed your wife's ass. Your wife should be ready to lie about anything to preserve your reputation. In other words, he picked the wrong guy to fuck with. I think the appropriate response is your wife slaps him across the face and you follow up with a quick sucker punch to the jaw, flooring him, then he gets kicked out.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 05:27 PM
1

Going to do this and report back how it works out. Maybe with pictures. We'll see. Girl is like 110lbs. I'm going to start her off with resistance bands before I give her the bar and then my dick in her ass.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 11:48 PM
2

I find the best thing is to give them a look into what I experience in my life. This goes back to the "how's that working out for you?" line. Everyone can relate to real results. If I have a really hot chick around my arm that a beta sees, I have proof of work. He can't argue about that. Then its up to them if they want out of blue pill fantasy land. So simply being in an elevator with a nice girl would do it if they know you're rp or "different" in how you approach women in general. Other times…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:27 PM
1

I've quoted him from his videos before in my posts. Some are pretty good. Especially the one about rollercoaster emotions, and how that hooks women. End of the day, he's just like one of us. I see holes in his understanding of real game and he could find holes in my approach game. There are guys on here that wheel much harder than him and are at a level he won't reach with his current game.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 07:17 PM
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She blows me for a grand total of 15 seconds before she said "im done". I say "well im not" and throw her onto the bed. Gold. This shit happens on the daily. Everything that you just typed up happens on the daily. High value RP individual. Be one. (this is to those reading who aren't yet)
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 05:22 AM
1

Perfect username for your post. It also never seems to phase me how much men of intellect think alike ♂ Its a lot more complicated, but your post sums it up well, I would elaborate more if I didn't have money to make right now. I'll make a thread about it later and link to your post.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 08:21 PM
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Wow, fucking retard. Every day I am astounded at how stupid some people actually are. And by the way, the example with your friend is indicative of a concept that I've been thinking about. There is a big tug of war for a lot of men who are "trying to do the right thing" between actual feelings and reality, and the social rules of society. Many men will forfeit reality to align their actions with social "rules". The rules define their behavior. This is one such case. Society and social circles va…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 03:58 PM
11

Forced: Obtained or imposed by coercion or physical power: Coercion: The action or practice of persuading someone to do something by using force or threats: We have two options, either everything is "forced" to a certain degree, or nothing is forced unless there's almost no alternative course of action than the "forced" action. If someone puts a gun to your head and says "do this or I shoot you", you have the option of not doing what he/she says, but you may die. I don't have options, I don't wa…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 03:37 PM
1

Some women are just stuck up. Nothing you can do about it. I don't put them on a pedestal, I'm not needy, I'm not submissive, I'm not demeaning. Some of them are just stuck up bitches. Can't change that. I didn't objectify shit up to that point. The problem here isn't the women, it's the men. Read what I wrote above. "stuck up bitch" -> independent variable. If you just talk to women like you would your guy friends all the flirting will come naturally More or less yes, but there are some that ar…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 04:37 PM
3

Initiate. Not: "Hey, there's this movie on tonight, do you want to go to the movie? It's a really great movie, I think you would enjoy it. blah blah." When she said "did you enjoy last Saturday :) ?" you should have responded with "not as much as I'll enjoy having your soft ass at my house this week. Tuesday 8pm or Thursday 9pm." This game may not work for you, but you can initiate in other ways. What's the point of talking to this club rat if you're not escalating. Seriously. It's a club rat. A…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 04:25 PM
3

This goes back to the ideal of people wanting to put things into their categories and labels. You're either in a relationship or not. Or you are fuck buddies or friends with benefits. Play it by ear. Don't do the thing that puts you into a category. Do what you think is right, and if a category or label applies to you, then it does. A pseudo relationship with benefits some of the time. An open relationship only from the guys part. There are lots of other ones that work ok, no label for them real…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 09:37 PM
1

Appreciate the lengthy response brother. Likewise, it's a pleasure to talk with you. I get what you're saying in your first 4 paragraphs. But lets say you love a woman, you foster a healthy RP reltionship, yet she upgrades on you for another guy. There are a few concepts that I am currently exploring on the deepest level, one of which covers this. You know that feeling when you stumble upon a goldmine of information? You know that feeling of when something finally clicks? A Eureka moment. Someth…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 06:44 PM
1

There are inconsistencies because TRP is actually extremely deep on a psychological level. It's an extremely complex philosophy. Kind of like science. Sure someone can explain gravity, but it's so, so much more complex than that. There are many concepts that I cannot discuss on /r/theredpill because they are more advanced than the average reader can understand and process. Imagine it like me trying to explain quantum physics to someone with little science background. It's not easy because the pe…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 04:40 PM
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Bro the part you are not understanding is that it is pretty egotistical and narcissistic to [assuming you are so in control], want those things out of an adult relationship. What TheeRyanGrey said is right. I love the exact same thing. You either make or break her world, or somewhere in between. I'm not talking about a "relationship". I'm talking about woman who you truly care for. My (guy)friends who I truly care for, I want them to feel good. I don't give a fuck about money, or myself. My frie…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:33 AM
1

speaking in such a way that makes YOU feel like he is trying to be better than you? He doesn't have to try. He is.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:03 AM
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Agreed. I read it And didn't see it from that angle. It was a great example to demonstrate the concept.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 05:01 AM
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Haha If you're that well versed, then speak with confidence. Stand behind your words. No more haha.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 08:02 PM
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100% in agreement. Have a question? Don't know what to do in your situation? Don't understand something? Don't ask about it. Go and read for a month. Start with the sidebar. Then read the top 100 posts of all time with comments. Your problem isn't that you don't know what to do, or you don't understand something. Your problem is that you don't know enough. So read and learn. I'm not special, I sat there reading and learning just like everyone else. I can't even go on /r/asktrp because every answ…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 06:38 PM
1

I know exactly what he said.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 02:15 AM
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♂ I'm writing this partly to BPProfessor and all blue pillers who will read this. Wow. People are too feeble to understand some of what you say. I have a very similar story in my 20+ year marriage. ON OUR HONEYMOON my wife informed me (after YEARS of sex multiple times a day) that: "I don't have to have sex every day." Dumbass Bluepill me told her: "Of course not dear." Fast forward through 2 decades of denials, shit tests, games, withdrawal of affection, and sex twice a month- an ovulation and …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 10:11 PM
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Why am I seeing this on trp? With 9points? You'd put up with that? That's a disgrace, you should be embarrassed.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 08:21 PM
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lives very well in a pent house that probably costs more than I'll ever make in one life time. No. Fuck that noise that you can't do it. You can do it.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 03:13 PM
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♂ This is for your OP Out of everyone that I have given a point to, you deserve it the most. You know a lot more than you let on, and its clearly visible from my perspective. If you do write more in the future, I'd love to hear more about fulfillment and the search for the meaning of life.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 09:57 PM
4

If I can lie and get what I want in 1 hour, why not then. I am actually a good guy. I can make that woman have a great time without lying. This is not the way some women get attracted though. This goes back to the whole "guys who are opening doors for women and being nice to them" should be swimming in pussy. That's not what some women are attracted to. So I do the bullshit that they are attracted to. I'm lying by not being this great guy and getting the girl to like me for who I am, which does …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:46 PM
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(Why is that? She's a big girl. She can make her own choices. I respect women enough to let them make their own choices. Do you?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 07:04 AM
1

Give me an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 09:04 PM
2

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 07:27 PM
2

Are you attracted to every woman you see? Only the ones that are attractive to me. Are you attracted to all female friends you have? Only the ones that are attractive to me. What I'm saying is that it's impossible to have a friendship without sexual tension with a friend that you find to be a good match for you, in addition to that friend also finding you to be a good match. You feel the tension all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 06:06 PM
2

What if you want to get to know the other person before jumping into sex or making your intentions known for the purposes of getting to know that person without having a sexual undertone?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 06:03 PM
2

Would it then be moral for a man to self-sacrifice his time and life on things that won't progress his needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 06:01 PM
2

Bad match = no sexual tension from the better person. Good match = sexual tension. Prove me wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 06:00 PM
2

I do nice things for something in return and it works. I just have to put a little manipulation in the mix for it to really shine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 05:59 PM
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I've tried this before. They still won't leave. All they are after is value, and even if I act super beta, they still see value, so they sit on it like fucking hens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 05:57 PM
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The girl with the chocolate wants to make sure that the boy giving her sweets will know that she won't give him her chocolate. So she tells him that, instead of carrying around her chocolate bar and flashing it around in front of him while he gives her sweets day after day. Too bad girls aren't like that. The girl with the chocolate doesn't end up sharing any chocolate with the boy with the sweets after he gave her a few sweets. The girl states that she will only give her chocolate to the boy th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 05:52 PM
1

Or do whatever you want and don't care about her because she is an insignificant spec in the big picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 05:18 PM
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The point is that you should be morally good, not merely 'nice', because you have a moral obligation to do so, not because it gets you into people's pants (because it doesn't). what good will being morally good do to progress your interests in sleeping with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 05:16 PM
1

Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 05:11 PM
2

What if you're nice because you are a decent human being that cares about the other person, and you want sex? How could you differentiate that from being nice for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 05:09 PM
1

Let's see how you feel about this. I create organic interactions. I make things "just happen". I wasn't born with this skill. I learned it through reading books, studies, reading pick up artistry, add evil reading material here. Yeah that's right, I now manipulate situations and environments to my advantage. I'll have a friend who is a girl and I will create an emotional bond that is very strong through manipulation. So strong that it will be my intention to create dependability from her side so…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 05:06 PM
2

Prove to me that when a guy and girl are a good sexual/relationship match for each other, they can be friends without any sexual tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 04:58 PM
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He could have bullshitted some of it, but the way he writes it shows that he has done it before and he knows what he's talking about. It's similar to power talk. The non-power party in the group doesn't see a hidden message, but the power parties do. I know when I meet a guy, how he is as a person based on the first few minutes of interaction. How he positions his body. His hand gestures. The words he uses. The phrases he uses. How he arranges the words. All the little cues and sub-cues that he …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:41 PM
1

The answer is no.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 05:22 PM
1

You're right on the money. Keep it going. It was a pleasure to read.
/r/ThankTRP01/09/14 04:09 AM
2

Your question is best suited to the lovely ladies over at /r/RedPillWomen IMO, your time shouldn't be spent picking who you date. Your time should be spent improving yourself endlessly. You'll naturally rise up through the ranks. You'll also be smarter so you won't fuck up your own life/relationship. To each their own.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 02:35 AM
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"So wait. Girls shouldn't try to date alphas for commitment?" The smart thing to tell her is to choose the most alpha beta bucks she can find, and if need be groom him to become the alpha she wants. Which part of that did you not understand?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 10:02 PM
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Seconded.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 02:26 PM
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I have to agree with you again. I felt that his approach to give an ultimatum went way too far into the neediness category and had an increased potential for him to lose out It was a high risk high reward move. I don't know their history, or dynamic. But I can tell you that if I would pull this on one of my plates, they would think I was butthurt/needy.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:33 PM
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While I don't particularly like using "lol", "k", "sure" would be just as good. But must be followed up with hunting for other pussy, and life improvement. The way that I would personally handle it is by following up with an immediate text "I will be busy for the next two weeks, talk to you later". If she would ask me what I'm busy with, I wouldn't respond for a while, maybe a day or two. Then I would tell her straight that my time is valuable and she wasted it, I'm not very interested in those …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:28 PM
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I'm backing you up here 100%
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:18 PM
1

It is the main solution to the problem. The others are all temporary. You run a business, sure you could do things to stay afloat. But to guarantee that people will keep buying your product/service, you must make that product/service the best. People won't have a reason not to buy it. I cut to the chase is what I'm saying.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:46 PM
1

I never got that word. It's just a classic redirection filler label. http://redditlog.com/snapshots/939933 I asked for a definition once, look at those fuckers tripping over themselves to explain it.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:36 AM
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Just about to click submit to the parent comment and saw yours, posting under it now instead I'm glad you're on the ball. http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2013/05/dove.html He's still the mark. The game just got bigger and it was necessary for her to forfeit this small loss for a much bigger long con reward. Easiest thing I can think of is that word would have gotten out outside of her control, forcing her to take that step. 2nd thing I can think of is that the guilt is eating her up (slim chance)…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:27 AM
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"I think you two should get urgent counselling, but I think it would be an error to just ditch it all. You have your prenup after all, and you love one another." This right here just goes to show how much people think this type of shit is normal. Not only will they do it, but they will think it's more or less ok to do. This is why it's so important to have your frame and know what is right. Beta of the Year nominee right here folks. I am echoing this.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:20 AM
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Hey guys, so I just found out my bike doesn't actually have wheels, so I can't ride it, which is why I bought it for in the first place. /r/relationships: Why don't you try fastening bamboo sticks together to make two wheels, and try that out. /r/theredpill: You fucking moron, buy a bike with wheels. Fuck that bamboo shit, it will break down, and you won't be able to get anywhere on your bike. Go make some money. Then you can go to the store and buy as many good bikes as you want.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:13 AM
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BUZZZ. Wrong. You need to be so high value that she would never leave you. That's the only consistent thing that I have seen across the board. She's not going to downgrade, hypergamy doesn't work that way.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:03 AM
3

Making a girl squirt fucks them up. Maybe they've never done it in their lives, maybe only twice. Regardless, once you do it, they go CRAZY for you. It goes from: "Yeah, NSA is fine, I like you, you like me, let's do this". to: "So what are you thinking of doing in your future" "what do you think of relationships". They try to guilt you so much.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:11 AM
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"I just want to be special to someone.." With that, I find the best thing is to nip that shit right in the bud. Multiple approaches can be taken. Give her hope, while keeping everything on your terms, and keeping her in line. Play it off, you are on the fence, and aren't swinging one way or the other, while keeping everything on your terms, and keeping her in line Tell her that you are not doing relationships. Multiple ways to do this and keep her as a plate. Law 3: Conceal your Intentions Law 1…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:37 AM
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Sexual strategy is amoral. The moral strategies work. The immoral strategies work. Science is amoral. It works regardless of morality. Same thing with sexual strategies. Whether it is moral or immoral is another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 11:13 PM
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What's the fucking point though? You could just fuck a lot of other girls, and not have to deal with that bullshit. Sure you won't get constant sex like you would with a gf. But every time you would get sex, you know the girl wants you, and looks at only your eyes for that whole night. Is the trouble really worth it?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 07:03 PM
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The good men? We get classified as bad men. Just look at the sentiment against TRP that you hear every single day from bluepillers. People calling me personally an asshole, shitwad, and misogynist online. No one has done this in person, because that's not who I am. I take time out of every day to encourage at least a few people around me. I have made real differences in multiple people's lives this year. A man who did have balls, found me showing him that they were there, and giving him determin…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 09:29 PM
1

Deflect better. Responses depend on what's good socially. Concentrate on diffusing it as soon as possible and redirecting blame elsewhere. Don't really answer anything. She shouldn't walk out with more info than she came in with. If you want to see how it's done, just reply to my comment with a scenario, and say something, I will deflect it. Throw anything you want at me.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 03:03 AM
2

Sup brother, Read the 48 laws of power. Keep your intentions on the down low. Keep everything on the down low. Don't talk about your conquests. Play everything off. Scratches on your neck, it's from scratching your neck. Hickey is not a hickey, you had a pimple there, and had to use some prescription shit to remove it. Or a mosquito bite that didn't go so well. Be creative. The girls should "know" (read "feel") that you are getting pussy. Don't answer questions related to that. You respect women…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 02:39 AM
1

double check that you're bathing ect, flip her move on. You cracked me up real good. And for the dick thing. I hit the back wall of the vagina, I hit that A spot and stick my dick all the way in. I feel like it's perfect. Bigger dick and I can't stick it in all the way. Smaller dick and I can't hit her A spot. Goldilock's dick
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 07:54 PM
1

I have not found this to be the case here. This is actually one of the things that I have found this community to echo very strongly. Looks do matter. Myself and other endorsed contributors are on the same page about this. There is not much that can be done about losing the genetic lottery except for self improvement. That's why it is so heavily advocated. Here is a post about it, from when it was being discussed: http://redditlog.com/snapshots/937645 There are extreme subconscious processes at …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 05:04 PM
3

I want to know how you all rationalize this when in other threads you're shaming everyone who doesn't get scores of women for "just having confidence and lifting, brah!" Rationalize what exactly? There are multiple general concepts being discussed in this thread. I have never shamed anyone for not getting scores of women by just having confidence and lifting. This is because there is a lot more to it than simply having confidence and lifting.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:07 PM
2

This is the exact quote that I read a long time ago, that had a lot of impact in my life.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 02:51 PM
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I stopped fighting reality a long time ago. I saw the truth and said to myself "well, this is how it actually is". Then it took me much time to come to accept it. Now I don't see any other way to live. It's like growing up to know you can't fly. Sure flying would kick ass, but I'm not going to live my life thinking of how awesome it would be to fly every day. And then you never think about how awesome it would be to fly again. You enjoy what you can in life. I'm not going to fight reality.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 05:29 PM
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That should be the official descriptor for guys like that. "Pegged". We have "whipped" for guys that are well.. whipped. But nothing for guys that are getting fucked up the ass and taking it. It's perfect.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 01:08 AM
2

You and the OP make a compelling case. I am in full agreement with both of you ♂
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 04:47 AM
3

Sure it didn't kill him, but I'm damn fucking sure those divorces and his current wife helped.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 12:40 AM
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I'm going to back you up here. This is exactly what I think, and its nice to see OP and you put it out in the open. Regular guys play the field and pull once every other month or so if they are good. They don't sample the goods. One girl likes them, and they spearhead right into her grasp. They don't pick the best women, they just take the next girl that likes them and do the True Love™ approach. Then they get fucked over. Most of these girls are fucked, and its no surprise that they fuck the gu…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 01:34 AM
1

Fucking idiots. Every response boils down to: her opinion doesn't matter you dodged a bullet she's not a good girl for him So what, who the fuck cares. If he didn't tell her shit, his dick would have been sucked.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:04 PM
1

TRP should come up with a name for threesomes with back burner girls.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 10:21 PM
19

Let's suppose everything goes according to her plan. HOW THE FUCK CAN YOU LIVE WITH THAT GUILT!! Easy. Mentally for her, it is the best decision to make. Not only does it make sense for her in her mind, but the positives literally outweigh the consequences. Even with the guilt added in there it makes sense for her to choose to do that. She cannot at this time reconcile(resolve) her feelings towards him. She "loves" him and wants him, does not want to lose him, and is looking out for herself and …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:20 AM
13

Her behavior is normal in the environment that he fostered.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:03 AM
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I had the same experience, she was just doing what was in her interest and I can't at the very core blame someone for that. Company prices goods to make highest profit, can't fault the company for doing exactly what it at the very core exists to do.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:52 AM
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This is what I remember from my ex relationship, pure selfish actions from the female side. As a rational, logical person, it completely blew my mind that people can be that entrenched in themselves that they literally make every move and take every step with complete selfish intent, under any means necessary. It was the most fucked up thing that I have experienced in my entire life. And it was really important for me to have lived it, because I am that type of person who needs to know what is p…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:49 AM
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I know that you said that you are calling trickle truth, but for the other guys reading this: Trickle truth doesn't have to be called, it's literally written on the wall, floor, and ceiling in Bold.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:41 AM
1

Yes. Layers can do most of it. You will lose some money tax wise as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 04:09 AM
1

I love how girls have a sense of pride from having a boyfriend. "I have a boyfriend and we... Blah blah" "Bitch, it's not hard to get a boyfriend. The checklist is have a pussy and somehow advertise it."
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:41 AM
1

Literally like 15 mins of reading and thinking, and then typing things up. Under an hour for sure, and it was an hour well spent. I really have to make it a habit to do some financial trading or something while I write anything on reddit so that I can reply that I made money while doing this and enjoyed my time making money. Maybe monitor some high frequency trading while posting. Thanks, it's a push I needed.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:57 AM
1

Do you remember what she said about not having a job?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:55 AM
1

I have the exact same thoughts. It's very interesting that in the muslim faith, a man can have up to 4 wives. Anywhere from 2-4 is not too little, and not too much. It's not a coincidence. Some time ago, men were sitting down, and decided upon that. Polygyny is a very interesting subject.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:55 AM
2

man - I initiated sex several times last month and you rejected almost all of them woman - no you didnt!! tell me why, tell me when !! man -that time when you were this n this n that n that.. This is probably exactly what he made that spreadsheet for. Some twisted version of this, with a sick back and forth relationship between them. It's useless bullshit at the end of the day. If you're an employer and you're employee sucks ass, the solution is to remove that employee and not give them a list o…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:52 AM
1

I have an additional view about her seeing him betafied in her mind forever. One part of it is that he made himself into a betafied pussy in her eyes. But the second thing is that she is the type of woman that will bring him down to that level continuously in her mind. I see that trait in women, not as on/off switch that is permanently on, but as a dial from 0 to 100, with a bell curve distribution. You're bang on with everything else. Great analysis.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:43 AM
2

Another problem is that a lot of guys think effort is the solution. Effort-oriented vs. solution-oriented are two very different things. Same idea as "work smart, not hard".
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:34 AM
1

What were their general sentiments? If they were making fun of a man (boy?) who is resorting to making a spreadsheet to "tell" his wife that they are not having enough sex, then I'd be right on board with them to a degree. But if they are hating on him for not doing the Right Thing™, then I understand. End of dudes it is.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:32 AM
3

Yes. Do show me where I'm ironic though.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:28 AM
3

This is the problem with sluts. There is no such thing as a former slut. They take a "vacation", which means, they might stop slutting around for a while, but it's highly likely she'll cheat. Oh, and if PUA stuff was what brought you together, then the more bad news I have for you. Statement 1: The problem with sluts is that they are temporarily monogamous. Statement 2: Sluts are highly likely to chat. Statement 3: There are negative potential consequences if you courted a slut using PUA. Where …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 11:05 PM
1

Don't forget, most men don't count. "It was just a blowjob and then he fingered me, doesn't count."
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 03:09 PM
2

Horrible misread of what he said. Read it again.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 02:58 PM
2

I can't see it taking more than 30 seconds. If I had to go right then, I would say "X Stadium, Y Stadium, Z Stadium, those are your best bets, I gotta go". Literally 7 seconds to say that sentence. 7 seconds wouldn't lose me a customer.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 04:22 PM
2

I agree. What I personally would have said: "There are three stadiums that I know of, write these names down." "Do you have google maps? Yes? Ok, use it." But if I sense that someone's being a bitch, I have no problem doing exactly what OP did. If someone comes to me like a polite human being, I will be a very nice person. The way you treat me is exactly the same way that I will treat you, if not worse.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 04:02 PM
6

While you are right that it is considered rude not to help, you are not as right about him being a dick. I will use a roundabout way to explain it. I used to comment in /r/relationships on a different account. Some people would post a thread and provide very little relevant information. Didn't describe sex life, or how they were trying to solve things, or anything like that. All they did was vent through two short paragraphs. No one could help solve their problem until they knew what was going o…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 03:01 PM
10

I don't run the game for them, I run it for me Fuck yeah. I'll drink to that. This is what Red Pill is about for me. Confidence is a strong aphrodisiac. Edit: I originally skipped the first two paragraphs. I thought that you were going out with girl 1, and while having one girl, you were gaming another.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 02:07 AM
97

You slipped into beta mode? No, you are beta mode. You are not red pill. You have a long way to go. I feel like apologizing doesn't make you a beta it just makes you a decent human being, to admit when you fucked up and apologize for it. I don't fuck up. The actions that I take are calculated. There is nothing to apologize for. Very seldom do I actually make a misstep due to being tired, at that point DO NOT APOLOGIZE. I state that I made a misstep, it happens. Then I proceed to make things bett…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 04:35 AM
13

Don't you remember, they just went through the bad boys so that they could appreciate the value of their future nice husband.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 04:23 AM
6

I'll pay for a movie, or dinner. Sometimes. I also just realized something. Every time I have paid for a movie or dinner, I knew I was getting what I wanted, or I already got what I wanted. There was a definite exchange that took place.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 04:18 AM
14

Time and time again I find myself backtracking 10 seconds when I'm with a girl, thinking "The way she did so and so just now really got my blood pumping". Little things. Most times I didn't even know that I liked what she was about to do. But after she did it, I was fully onboard. If you stopped time before the girl did what she did and asked me "what could she do that would turn you on", I would rattle off a couple of general things that I like. There is no way that I would be able to pinpoint …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 04:11 AM
3

That's what got me into bed - not their looks or muscles or what have you. This is from my past. I also seemed to be enthralled with a girl's personality, which made me like her a lot. Later on, after fucking her and sitting on those thoughts for a day, I realized that I didn't like her personality that much, I actually was responding to her beauty. Much later on I discovered that I actually have a type of body / facial features that I intrinsically like. I mapped out the similarities between a …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 06:43 AM
10

I want to fuck an extremely hot woman. If you're looking to bang the "hottest possible women," that tells me that you're probably using society's definition of attractiveness, rather than your own. And that probably means that what you're actually looking for is the status associated with sleeping with a woman that society considers attractive, rather than the sex itself. Let me switch it up: I want to drive an extremely nice car. If you're looking to drive the "nicest possible car", that tells …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 06:24 AM
26

I totally didn't expect this one: http://imgur.com/4ElMXyo http://imgur.com/lEtvQEQ
/r/TheRedPill06/07/14 05:58 AM
13

Very nicely put with the roulette, and how you spun it around with the MGTOW example. ♂
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 04:36 PM
2

Dana Delany, one of the only 55 year olds I would fuck.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 01:33 AM
13

On the same subject, how to catch a girl staring at you. Girls are masters at checking you out without you noticing. Think about all of the reasons that led them to developing this ability. Get caught staring at guy, now he thinks you like him, you have aroused his attention. He is stronger than you, bigger than you, he may come over and hit on you, I can go on and on. So to avoid this, through years of doing it, they have developed a way to do it without you noticing. They would look at you, an…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 01:14 AM
2

I don't have a dramatic experience like so many men here. I am an exceptionally high drive man who was in a dead bedroom for 14 years I would describe that as a dramatic experience.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 12:34 AM
1

This reminds me of a post a long time ago that someone submitted titled "What was her name?" We are all brought here for one reason or another, almost every single one of those reasons being reality hitting us in the face. And then we pick up the pieces and really try to understand how things work so that reality doesn't hit us in the face again. Conditioning working as it should. I look at it all as a big puzzle. The puzzle is big, but I don't know how big. I do know that I'd have to be very sm…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 12:32 AM
4

It's a serious relationship. The relationship frame is good. She starts to deviate from it. Dread game brings her back in line. You have a shit relationship that is not serious. You are now dread gaming her for her to temporarily stay with you. Swimming upstream. Call me pessimistic, but from my understanding, OP's relationship is already over. There is an extremely high probability that it will not grow into anything more than it is now. He is trying to turn a how into a housewife essentially. …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 07:25 PM
3

♂ - This is for your OP. Since I can't give it to your OP, I'll give it here. On fucking point. I wrote about it a little bit here http://redditlog.com/snapshots/746317 Yours is very well written.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:11 AM
0

Any man with a shred of self-respect would NEVER tolerate this kind of behavior in a wife. I'll just throw my two cents in by saying that I choose not to tolerate this kind of behavior. Which is a big reason as to why I do not do relationships. Honestly, I don't know if it's because of the spot of life I'm in right now, but I've found myself having a few issues between my thoughts and common sentiments about certain things. I can't recall for sure, but I believe most of them have to do with mari…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 06:58 AM
-18

I don't do relationships anymore. But here's my opinion. The girl must at all times place me first. I need to feel happy and comfortable 24/7. It's not about what is socially acceptable, or what other girls do all the time, or what she or I are supposed to do in this situation. It's about me living my life well absent stress, uncertainty, a lack of trust, or etc. If she puts me first, comes to me, asks me if it's ok, really tries to above all ensure that I am happy and content, gives me a blowjo…
/r/askTRP19/06/14 06:31 PM
0

I would also like to add to the discussion the degree, speed, and effectiveness of someone being able to "change". Let's be frank, some people don't change. It is what it is. We can say that "the other party in the marriage must take steps to change", but what what we are really saying is that one party must fundamentally alter their way of life, thinking, and brain structure for the benefit of the other party. Wife doesn't pay a lot of attention to what the husband asks of her to do. Sounds rel…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 09:23 AM
0

I'm an asshole for putting smiles on girl's faces by fucking them and not giving a shit about them (more or less). I gets mine, she gets hers. I smile, she smiles. Yet I am an objectifying, dehumanizing, shitlord. Explain that one to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/14 05:28 PM
2

Nice to see you here! It was a great point, well written.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:58 AM
8

Glossary of terms and acronyms right in the sidebar. It's there for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 05:55 AM
25

You are right in a lot of regards. She is seeking emotional regulation, and she will leave with surface improvement. The people are wisely offering exactly that. The real problem is that no one is addressing the core problem. The system is broken. It's like recommending a cancer patient alternative treatment to chemo. Sure acupuncture, exercise, massage, yoga, and aromatherapy will make them feel better, but the cancer will catch up to them without chemo. This issue is widespread and rampant. It…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:54 PM
8

What you fail to realize is that the crux of most issues that men have is a lack of knowledge. What should men do in situations when they are engaged in a relationship with a woman like this one? How should men protect themselves from getting divorce raped? How can a man pick up a woman? I'll tell you. Men should work on understanding how the world works, how women operate, how people react in social situations, why people react that way, etc. The goal is to understand things through a broad bas…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:09 PM
13

This is a subreddit for the discussion of things related to sexual strategy. Understanding sexual strategy, relationships, men, women, desires, incentives, psychology, etc. In this thread we look at an internet post by a woman who just had her wedding cancelled, and look at the responses to her post. Contrary to your experience, a lot of people actually come out with a net positive after reading text posts. Some people learn something, some have a realization, some have some of their thoughts af…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 05:32 PM
4

Correct, thank you very much!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 04:13 PM
0

Knowledge is power, nuff said.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 02:53 PM
3

I got that top girl when I was still beta, or a beta/alpha mix. We proceeded to have a relationship for a number of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 02:52 PM
7

Now, if rape really was about power and not sex, shouldn't we expect 75 year old grannies with deflated funbags to be the primary targets? Your average granny doesn't exactly have the agility, flexibility, or strength to repel her assailant. These are the most defenseless kind of women imaginable, and yet are not a hot commodity among rapists. Why? You're fucking retarded. http://imgur.com/f9FW2
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/14 02:48 PM
3

Exactly. Here's a great video detailing this as well. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q6c_dinY3fM ♂
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 06:25 AM
1

I don't seem to have this problem and I've been here for a while. I do read fast though.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 04:36 AM
4

It's been two months, and this girl is bending over backwards so much for him that she can stick her head up her own ass. There's also no commitment from his side. I'd say he's doing pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 11:34 PM
-5

I did not make any assumptions in my post, including your assumption of what you think I assumed. Since people don't seem to get what I was digging at, I will describe it in a different light. Anything in a relationship can be described as inputs and outcomes from your perspective. The only thing that you control is the input from yourself. Everything else is an outcome. Using your inputs you can achieve different outcomes. What happens a lot of the time is that people input certain things to tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/14 07:34 AM
-1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/14 07:22 AM
2

Men are also manipulative. What exactly did you add to this discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/14 07:12 AM
1

It's a good thing that I can foresee every single possible outcome so that I can know exactly who is worthy. Furthermore it's a good thing that people never change, or fall out of love, or develop irreconcilable differences. I can go on. Yes I agree with you that it is your responsibility that the other person is worthy of being there. But things change and you can't foresee everything. There's also a good chance that no matter how well you choose, you can still get fucked. How do I know? Ever s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/14 07:09 AM
-1

A person can influence their partner's life without having direct and sizable power over their partner. Much in the same way that a girl can influence where I go with her on a first date without having any power of actually setting where we go. I want to go to a lounge, she recommends a nice gelato place, I decide that gelato sounds pretty good and we will go there instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/14 07:03 AM
-2

You are looking at what your parents gain from a purely financial point of view. I don't have to list what benefit you provide and have provided in the past to your parents. My partner(or siblings, or parents, or friends) can have "power" over me if that's what he wants, because I want to give him what he wants. Here's what I get out of it: the satisfaction of pleasing someone I care about. If I get nothing else in return, so what? I'm not looking to "win" my relationship. And if he uses his pow…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/14 06:57 AM
0

I have the power to end someone's life by pressing a button, and I share that button with you by putting it on the table where both of us could press it. Sharing the button, giving the power of the button, use any words that you like. The end result is the same, you would have the discretion to end that person's life by pressing the button.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/14 06:45 AM
1

Substitute "love" for "trust" and reread what you just replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/14 06:42 AM
-3

If two trusting parties mutually agree that X is going to happen beyond any doubts or circumstances, what purpose does it serve to give one party or both parties a kill switch that will ensure that X does not happen? Two partners live in a country where marriage is simply an authentication certificate that a wedding ceremony has occurred between the two partners sans any contract or implied contract whatsoever. A couple in this country can choose to sign any separate contract stipulating whateve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/14 02:05 AM
-2

So you're saying it has nothing to do with her looks? Or her outlook on life? Or her drive and ambition? Or her spirit to bring excitement into the relationship? A card and all is nice, but it doesn't beat a girl who is busting her ass to finish a valuable degree while working on the side and also planning excursions for the both of you while actually succeeding in pushing and supporting you into the upper echelon of society (not just trying or helping, but actually succeeding in the completion …
/r/askTRP17/05/14 08:24 PM
12

It sounds like it was how he carries himself.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 06:21 PM
1

As if you're not there already on the mod list ;)
/r/TheRedPill01/05/14 03:02 AM
1

I've given some thought to how I can best describe my thoughts and I have settled on using an analogy. TV shows. Lots of different genres, styles, acting, etc. Here's one strategy to watch shows: "I'd like to watch really good shows and after I finish watching them I feel good". This mirrors "I'd like to have a successful social life and interact positively with women." Here's another strategy: "Look at all these shows I watched. I don't even care about the shows, I don't take time to sufficient…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 10:13 PM
3

It's about time we got more mods.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 04:20 PM
11

Extremely sad, and I think the underlying problem that the man has is that he is stupid. It simply manifests itself to be observable in forms like this. Till his 57th year of age, this man did not develop any kind of bearing on reality. I would be stupid to say that women can't smell that lack of brain. And I'll be damned at how many idiots like him I see every day.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 04:12 PM
28

she is either created by societal pressure, or transformed from a hypergamous female whose main asset is slowly dwindling. This is something that a lot of people don't understand the dynamics of, and you are spot on. These things aren't coincidences. It's a complicated system, but the outcomes have their reasons for occuring. I will talk a little bit about love. Love has been so broadly interpreted that it has largely lost it's fundamental meaning besides being some sort "pull" that one person h…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 04:03 PM
1

Let's have a productive conversation. Let's start with you clarifying your point and I will respond to it.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 04:02 PM
2

Such a douche for fucking 60 women. He should have supplicated and kissed her feet. Let there be another side to the story. Who gives a shit. At the point that she stops being what he wants her to be, he opts out of being in her company. He didn't try to change her to be something she's not. He didn't force her to do anything. He didn't cheat on her while being with her. He simply left because his needs weren't being met. Such a douche.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 03:01 PM
3

I remember being on the phone with a girl I was dating semi-seriously a long time ago. She said she made out with her ex. She didn't know what to do. She was bawling her eyes out. I was sitting there, muting my phone and laughing my ass off. It was some of the funniest shit ever for me. I would tell her something to get some certain reaction and she would break down more. This only added to the effect. My life worked out just fine with that sick twisted sense of whatever it is. Frankly I don't g…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 02:59 PM
1

Demonstrating that you can go nuclear is integral to being respected. How you demonstrate that is up to you. There are ways to demonstrate that verbally, or non-verbally through your behavior. The woman must know that your happiness is unequivocally crucial. The first step to achieving this level of respect is to make is to make your happiness a prerequisite.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 02:48 PM
4

I personally needed first-hand evidence that a pure-hearted girl could fuck me over for nothing but her own personal pleasure (the pleasure being derived from something that she did for herself, not from fucking me over). I needed to see that if I put in 110%, she would act selfishly in a way that would fuck me over while she would get her own personal pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 02:38 PM
1

It's not "bad". But every minute spent on video games is a minute that could be spent doing something else. The key is to find a balance in life. Ideally, if you are really living your life to the fullest, I don't see games taking up more than 5 hours of time per week.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 02:32 PM
-5

How many times have I fucked a girl while she was sleeping? Waking her up with dick in her pussy. She loved it every time. Technically it was rape every time too. The blues can go have their enthusiastic consent while I enjoy my sex life.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 06:07 AM
7

I can be a completely unrespectful dick and the complete opposite of a charismatic leader using rp principles and get laid. Trp is the reality of sexual strategy. Stop trying to make it mean what you think it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 04:58 PM
0

Exactly. You can take some of that info and apply it to being a leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 03:54 PM
2

I talked to a mod, the user deleted their account.
/r/MensRights28/04/14 03:50 PM
11

to put this entire thread in simpler terms: trp is designed to teach people amazing social skills. people like or at least respect people with social skills generally. why don't people on reddit like or respect most of you guys? Because we don't give a fuck what people on reddit think of us. The next time (never) I care about what a cat lady or a virgin thinks of me, I'll try to appease them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 03:46 PM
4

because every masculine guy in the world posts on trp? What did he mean when he said this? Did he think you were retarded and you tried to claim that every masculine guy in the world is on trp? What you said was "how would you know if any of these guys were posting on trp?" implying that men have private lives and even though they can look a certain way in their public lives, they could be going on trp in their private lives. I just don't understand how someone can misconstrue something so badly…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/14 03:42 PM
3

I would describe what you did as level 1 life control. Life control being what you accept in your life and do not accept in your life and how you go about it. Here is my current life control. I instill an attitude that girls will know that if they don't respect me I will drop them. This is game that I learned naturally, and I can bet you that in a few months/years I'll stumble across a well written article/guide/strategy post about someone describing the exact strategy that I have automatically …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/14 11:37 PM
3

It's not a car crash where there is 100% blame to distribute between two parties. Both parties can be 100% at fault for different things. The girl for sucking an unconscious man's dick. The man's fault for getting himself into that situation by getting blackout drunk and failing to keep himself safe.
/r/MensRights27/04/14 02:17 PM
3

Especially with the ones that say "I didn't say yes, I didn't say know, I didn't know if I really wanted it, I wasn't sure what I was doing" this type of stuff. Girl meets coworker for drinks / to go over a project / coffee. [insert reason to go to his house here]. "it just happened". [insert "I didn't know what I was doing" type phrases]. Responsibility absolved. All people that question integrity = shitlord misogynist. Also, she drank alcohol = she can't consent. "How many beers did she have?"…
/r/MensRights27/04/14 06:55 AM
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