When I first started reading redpill, I was amazed at how cool it was and how much it helped me. Then I read a thread of people bashing it, and now I don't know what to believe anymore.

Men, what is my problem and how can I fix it?

I know this may seem obvious to some people, but I grew up in an emotionally controlling and abusive home, so I just don't know what it is.

Thanks in advance.