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Rorta/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:49 AM
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Almost all the CEO's, hedge fund managers, senior lawyers I've met were all complete Betas who were extremely hard workers and could play a good game of corporate politics - A lot of them were in the right place at the right time. The darling CEO of a major firm I'm working with wasn't very Alpha when his wife forced him to dump his company stock and promptly divorced him and he had to admit it to the board... Interestingly I've met a lot more Alpha's who are at the helm of SME's than establishe…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 04:15 PM
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For losing weight Keto is by far the best diet I've ever used... But for me I experienced a massive crash in my sex drive. I tried everything from supplements, to increasing calories, increasing fats, getting more sleep but nothing worked. Eventually I couldn't stand it any longer and went back to just plain IF.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 05:54 PM
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To break it down really simply; Time + Other chicks + Hobbies + Self Development.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 07:27 PM
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This shit happens. I'm in one of these phases now. Could be a million things; low test/libido, general lack of motivation, stress... Like someone else said, don't sweat it. I have waves where I'm on fire and can't get enough of the chase and times where I just can't be bothered.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 06:22 PM
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I worked in that environment for a long time. There are some dudes who clean up. Fuck the customers but don't fuck your coworkers.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:02 PM
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ENTP here, there's definitely some truth to it but the question I've always wanted to know is how do all these personality types fit into RP theory.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 12:54 PM
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Read John Sarno's books and give what he suggests a try.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 11:29 AM
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Put yourself into as many situations as you possibly can. Look, we can all sit around reading TRP all day but ultimately I find that TRP fills in the gaps of my understanding after the fact. Ultimatelt living a rich life comes through experiences.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 03:51 PM
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Focus on stacking as much cash as possible, maybe look at getting a secondary income stream for the time being - maybe the solution might be saving up to move and take up another similar job that pays more? If working with cars is your one true passion then find a mentor who does that and is actually making a shitload of money doing it. They do exist. Or dump the job and find something you excel at that gives you enough time and money to play with cars.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:02 AM
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Next her today. Find one that actually gives you respect.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 01:27 PM
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The last week or so has been pretty miserable for me - I've been ill, I've been cutting hard on a low carb diet and my testosterone is at rock bottom and the weathers been shit. I started to neglect small things and what do you know, in less than a week I began to feel like a degenerate. You have to keep pushing on.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 01:33 AM
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The concept of 'she isn't yours, its just your turn'. Truthfully this applies to everything in life. Your high status at work - It's just your turn. Your car - Not yours, just your turn. Your house, friends, family, money, everything... It's just your turn. Whether by death or a million other scenarios your turn will end and this for me is something that is very difficult and upsetting to accept because my whole life I've been programmed to believe the opposite.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 01:29 AM
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Offer web design services to local companies. Online is saturated and there are people in Bangalore who will redesign websites for $5 but targeting local companies and offering a fair price will yield better results. Buying stuff at second hand stores and reselling on eBay/Amazon. Check out /r/Flipping If you have a car advertise on social media that you can give rides and undercut local taxi services. I made huge amounts of money this way. Find a company that offers shifts/non-contractual work …
/r/askTRP15/02/17 01:26 AM
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Get another income stream. Stop worrying about girls, they come in and out of your life like clockwork anyway. Stop eating junk food and get back into lifting. Read more. Enjoy life, quit being anxious.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 12:09 PM
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I wrote this specifically aimed at people like you. I suggest you read it and then take action. I've found taking action is one of the most effective ways to kill depression.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:30 AM
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My man cave is fairly minimal. I have my weights, pull up bar and my bench, a desk, a laptop and a couple of chairs. I try to have as few books, DVD's, etc as possible as its ultimately just clutter. I have quite a few cool pieces of art, including an original piece that is mentioned in a relatively well known book that was given to me - people always ask about it and it makes for a cool story. I have a few posters from a nightclub that I used to be involved in as well. I would definitely recomm…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:24 AM
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There's a lot you can do to change your facial appearance. Growing or shaving facial hair. Getting a decent haircut. Having a skincare routine. Losing weight. I went from a 2 in facial appearance to probably a 6/7 just by doing the above.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:42 PM
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Try supplementing with ZMA and look at your diet. If you watch porn, stop. Hit the gym if you aren't already.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:44 PM
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Find a new one.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:41 PM
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Does she fulfill your needs as a friend? If yes, then obviously keep her around. There are a lot of chicks I'm friendly with that I know through various LTR's, some want to fuck, some don't. For me the key to successful friendships with women is to keep them at a distance - you don't get sucked into their bullshit drama, you don't orbit them and there's enough distance to stop any BS feelings from coming up.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:30 AM
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He's insecure, as others have mentioned. The problem is these people can be extremely vindictive and will wait until the opportunity presents itself to try and fuck you over. When I first started my most recent job I worked with a dude like this. I just came up with the most ruinous responses and would probably cross the line in terms of what was acceptable to say. He then tried to have me sacked, twice, and was very clever about it. Tread carefully. This situation can easily evolve into a varia…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:26 AM
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Lyin' Eyes - The Eagles City girls just seem to find out early How to open doors with just a smile A rich old man And she won't have to worry She'll dress up all in lace and go in style Take It Easy - The Eagles Well I'm a-runnin' down the road, tryin' to loosen my load I've got seven women on my mind Four that want to own me, two that want to stone me One says she's a friend of mine
/r/askTRP02/02/17 11:41 AM
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In my honest opinion, very, very few Western girls have no red flags. Either they have fucked too many people, go out and get wasted on the daily, have legions of orbiters etc. The question you should ask yourself is, are these red flags so significant to me that I should not commit to her? Only you can answer that and as always remember, she's not yours, its just your turn.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 10:57 PM
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You can fuck her every now and then but it won't last too long. Any other major investment is a waste of time.
/r/askTRP14/01/17 01:35 AM
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A few years ago my father experienced some of the worst shit possible in a very short space of time. At no point did he ever cry in front of anyone. At funerals, he led the speeches and bought a sense of humor to what would have been otherwise awful occasions to him. I'm sure he cried in private and he went to a therapist but he never broke down in front of my mother or us. What I noticed afterwards was an increase in the level of respect my mother showed him (She was always respectful but she r…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 01:07 AM
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All women are like that, but some are more like that than others.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 02:03 PM
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Yeah, I tend to find they always come back one way or another. My gut is telling me she's lonely and wants to fuck, my brain is saying she's just looking for validation.
/r/askTRP28/11/16 12:56 AM
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Here's the thing. I don't have a big dick. It's average. Girls who fuck me and like me will tell me its big. Girls who I've pissed off will tell their friends its small as if its a micropenis or something. Their friends have still fucked me. The bottom line is, it doesn't really matter. That's a quote from a post I made a while back. It is the truth. Having an 'average' or whatever dick has not held me back. The only times I haven't been able to do certain positions is because of the girl, not m…
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:50 PM
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Intermittent Fasting. Went from size 38 to size 32 in three months. Size 32 to size 30 in about a month. Track your calories. I don't know your TDEE but I would suggest trying 1800kcal per day and not eating for 16 hours per day and seeing where you are in two weeks.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:45 PM
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Being grateful for what you do have is the key to happiness. If you cannot be happy with what you have now, then you will not be happy when you have what you want. Be grateful you have parents who have pushed you academically, many others don't. Presumably you live in a western, modern country, be grateful of that. You're at a top academic institution, another thing to be grateful for. You've found TRP, there's another. Take ten minutes to be grateful and then go and destroy life.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 04:41 PM
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Next them, no question.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:27 PM
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Ask yourself, how many people read it and apply the contents, versus those who read a bit of it and feel good about themselves for a few days or weeks and go back to their existence as before?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 06:25 PM
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Yeah it can be done, just understand you will have to have less plates. Everyone I know spinning 3+ plates has a lot of time on their hands.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 12:28 PM
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It's a frame, nothing more nothing less so treat it as such. If you have a stronger frame and there is attraction its only a matter of time before you can dominate her and have her call you daddy.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 06:27 PM
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Go out and do something, anything. Part of being young is to find what makes you happy, what your passions are and also what you don't want to do. Do enough different things and you'll find some will click and others won't, and that's okay.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 06:21 PM
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Aside from this and 'Invictus' another brilliant and stoic poem is 'Those Kingly Days' by the British climber George W Young, written after he lost his leg in the First World War. Young walked sixteen miles after his leg had been amputated to avoid capture and then made an artificial leg for himself so he could continue climbing. http://adventure.bivibag.com/poetry/i-have-not-lost-the-magic-of-long-days
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 06:17 PM
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All things must pass, so enjoy the time you have with them. Focus on what you have to do, but manage your time so you can enjoy stuff you get pleasure from because one day that opportunity won't be there.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 07:15 PM
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Who cares, go with the flow.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 05:01 PM
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Scarcity mindset at its finest; when you're that low on options the only girl you can bang is your cousin. ...Or a troll post...
/r/askTRP02/11/16 04:59 PM
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I've dated virgins with belly piercings. I've fucked sluts with no tattoos, piercings or anything like that. They are just indicators. Watch her behavior, not so much her presentation.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 07:04 PM
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You know the answer. You came here to have others tell you that you should break up with her and it will be okay. It will be. Things might be tough, but fuck this shit man. There are millions of women that would fuck you and desire you, why waste time trying to convince someone who doesn't desire you to do that? You're twenty. In a few years time you'll look back on this and think 'I was dumb for even asking'.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 06:13 PM
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One of the things that drives my schedule is this: http://rorta.org/habits.png My habit planner has everything I need to do that is essential to my day as well as all things I need to become disciplined in. You can see some things need a lot of work, others not at all.
/r/askTRP26/10/16 04:37 PM
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I had this exact thing happen to me once. Turns out she had a dude in the background she wanted an LTR with.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 02:13 PM
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The key is finding balance, something that most people do not understand. Being either Type A or Type B personality is not possible for long term success, you will either burn yourself out or never get going in the first place. You need to aim to have the best features of both personalities: ambitious, proactive, driven, hard working yet be able to be relaxed and laid back about it and able to work at a steady pace. This is where outcome independence and abundance mentality play a key role. Two …
/r/askTRP23/10/16 11:29 PM
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Get a lawyer and leave. Since you're in the UK Citizens Advice offer free legal advice for stuff like this so speak to them ASAP. Start documenting stuff and get your own bank account. Any other guys reading this: This is a textbook example of what not to do.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 11:16 PM
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More and different girls, plus a period of time cures oneitis. Six months to a year is how long it tends to last if it was serious. A couple of weeks/months for not so serious things.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 11:11 PM
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Right now, the only thing that would make me LTR a chick is if she had substantial amount of value to offer me besides her pussy and I thought it was actually going to last beyond a year or so. What's the point of investing my time and emotion into something that won't last very long when I can invest minimal time and effort into my growing legion of Tinderellas?
/r/askTRP23/10/16 11:08 PM
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More girls have had sex with me after telling me they weren't going too than those who have said they would. It is a very common shit test. The appropriate and most natural response is to act aloof.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:56 PM
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Yeah, I do. It comes from having a mindset of scarcity. If I told you that I could guarantee that there are hundreds of thousands, if not millions of girls who would fuck you and you were to believe me, what would you do? Because that's the truth and you should believe me.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 06:51 PM
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When you start talking with chicks like this I've found its a sure sign that they're DTF. Mark Manson alludes to this in 'Models' when he talks about the idea of vulnerability.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 06:49 PM
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90% of dealers won't come after you and 90% of them have people owing them money. You have two choices: Ignore them and then pay them when you have the money OR tell them you will have the cash in three days. I don't know your dealer. My advice is this. Take drugs all you want but don't ever take drugs off someone without giving them money straight away. The most common behavior of all the pathetic drug addicted degenerates I've ever known was taking drugs with no money to pay for them and no cl…
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:20 PM
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If she hasn't fucked you in six months you need to leave. Sorry.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 05:16 PM
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The question shouldn't be how should I communicate this to her, but why the hell would I want to communicate this shit to her? You will look insecure no matter what you do if you attempt to communicate this to her, simply because you are.
/r/askTRP20/10/16 09:27 AM
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Mine: To learn as much as possible. To experience as much as possible, travel, explore, meet people, etc. Have enough money to live the lifestyle I want. To help and give back to deserving people and to be surrounded by people I love and like, with as little negative influences as possible. To be in the best physical shape I can be in. To be the best I can be.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 04:50 PM
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I don't think I've ever taken a girl out for ice cream so I wouldn't know lol but generally getting food with a girl you don't know is not conducive to developing a sexual relationship with them. Active dates and ones which involve drinking are much better.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 03:04 PM
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There is nothing wrong with partying occasionally and having an active social life. Is there something wrong with partying every day of the week, drinking and using drugs heavily? Do it and tell me if you can keep up with managing your life, adding value to it and building discipline, lifting etc. Then you'll have your answer. The key is balance. Something that 90% of the posters here do not understand.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 09:34 PM
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Being single and spinning multiple plates has its advantages. It cements a mentality of abundance and you can always get laid with minimal investment. It also has its disadvantages. Gaming multiple women at a time can be stressful. Distributing your time among your plates while keeping time for yourself and the essential shit you need to do can be challenging. Being in a relationship with one chick has its advantages. A girl you can invest a little in, spend time with and have a decent connectio…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 09:29 PM
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Keto made me feel like shit, IF just makes me feel hungry all the time. I lose shitloads of weight just with IF so I wouldn't even bother combining the two. Maybe drop out a lot of the carbs but I find I need them when I'm fasting.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 09:24 PM
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What's better than us telling you where to buy your clothes is find a style you like, buy clothes that fit the style you're going for but make that style your own. Every great man I've known had their own style that was adopted from a fairly popular style.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 09:22 PM
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Get another job. Seriously.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 09:19 PM
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Are you busy? Do you have important shit going on? If not just go out every night and start opening bar sluts left, right and centre. Just fuck the game ones and don't be a beta or a massive asshole. If you've got shit going on run day game or just game on Tinder. Meet prospective plates at a bar, I don't think buying them drinks or not matters, what matters is the intention behind it. Don't ever meet a potential plate for a meal before you've fucked them, its just not conducive to getting them …
/r/askTRP18/10/16 08:55 PM
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The thing is you won't ever be able to get over shit like this. I had a chick once, she fucked a dude who was way better looking than me when we were both fucking other people. I couldn't ever get that shit out of my head. This is one of the reasons why so many people who get back together after affairs can't make it last. If it bothers you so much that you write a wall of text on asktrp about this you probably need to let her go, for your own piece of mind.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 08:53 PM
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Honestly watch as much of their stuff as you can. RSD hit the nail on the head with so many things.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:53 PM
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Take her off the fucking pedestal dude. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GdnYedTpToA
/r/askTRP18/10/16 10:06 AM
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I've always been Red, to some extent. I was chasing girls from a young age, even though I was a massive loser who spent hours on forums, video games and the computer. I've always had a mindset to improve so it was only natural that I found PUA and started implementing it. Fast forward, I land myself a great girl, get oneitis and get ditched. It was brutal. I read and studied and swallowed the pill, even though then there was no name for it. I studied sites on the Manosphere and built myself back…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 09:34 PM
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Perfect one discipline at a time, otherwise you will fail. Get a spreadsheet and document that shit. You will have a visual representation of your progress that will motivate you.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 12:04 AM
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Meet her at a bar. Work from there. I don't see what's so difficult. You are clearly acting from a position of scarcity. Chill out a bit. It doesn't matter if you fuck it up with this chick, there will be another one round the corner.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:26 AM
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The beautiful thing about having options is you can actually turn down sex and that in itself is a liberating feeling. But in answer to your question, when I don't feel like fucking I won't fuck. If its the ex of someone I'm close to, I won't pull the trigger. If there's nothing about her I find attractive, I won't fuck her.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:24 AM
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How can you be pleased with yourself and your situation right now AND still want more? Develop a peace of mind. This comes from your own inner faith and abundance mentality. This is something I'm working on, but I' not quite there with it yet. There's a great book that touches on this issue: 'Maximum Achievement' by Brian Tracy. I suggest you give it a read.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 11:47 PM
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It's over. Three years might be a long time but be thankful this isn't happening after you've spent a decade with her or after marriage and kids. You'll find another one.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 11:42 PM
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Been in your shoes except I'm a fair bit younger than you. A few years ago I had a massive coke problem, I ditched all my friends who had the same problem apart from the ones who were determined to get out and forged my own path away from them. They gave me shit, laughed at me trying to improve myself but now my life is so much better than it was and even though I hate comparing myself to others my life is so much better than theirs.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 09:10 AM
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You have to weather the storm, now more than ever because right now your team will be looking for someone to actually lead them not pretend to lead them. I am in a similar situation: I just gave one of my best employees four weeks notice due to his behavior (Not performance related). I am looking at some of my other employees taking up an additional 25% in workload even if this dude is replaced. I've spent a lot of the time with the team letting them know that we will get through this the same w…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 10:28 PM
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Assert yourself and have the abundance to back it up. Like another user here said: "I can't really do much this weekend, come over lets fuck". This will go one of two ways, a yes or a no. If she gives you the no then do not compromise, you have to come from a frame of abundance, even if it means not getting laid.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:56 PM
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Don't LTR them. I actually have no idea why you want to LTR an older chick. It won't end well. Yeah, you can fuck girls who are older than you but bare in mind you'll be competing with guys who are much older than you so you really need to have your shit together. You need to perform, you cannot just talk the talk.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 05:52 PM
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Usually I treat stories like this with skepticism but I think the fact she got him a hotel room gives it away. Emotionally check out and get other options.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 10:51 AM
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Signet ring
/r/askTRP11/10/16 10:48 AM
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You aren't getting laid because of your face its something you're doing. When I've been fat as fuck I've still got laid. You just need some game and a niche of chicks who dig you.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:04 AM
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Read the 48 Laws of Power. Also, read The Gervais Principle. Don't go in all guns blazing, learn the environment, find out who's actually running the show and who's just the joker.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 10:01 AM
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I may never get married, but I want kids and I want my kids to be raised by a mother and father under the same roof in the dynamic I was raised in so I still consider it an option. There are few advantages to men though, it has to be said. If your bride to be comes from a good family with lots of connections, those can be extremely valuable. Many people see older, single men as a threat. My dad was able form networks with VC's after attending a few parties hosted by a friend of his. Everyone the…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 12:35 AM
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There is no adequate book that will teach you about creating your own business. You sort of find that kind of stuff out as you go along. You just have to take the plunge. Since you're in your mid-twenties I would get a gig in business management first, see if you can handle that and if you actually like it. Being an entrepreneur is not for everyone and there is no shame in that.
/r/askTRP10/10/16 12:02 AM
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That's oneitis for you. You have to actually go and force yourself to meet other chicks. Then you will eventually meet one who makes you go 'Ahhhh' and that feeling of actually liking someone will return.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 11:59 PM
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He is/was one of the key authors on the manosphere lol
/r/askTRP09/10/16 10:54 PM
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Fully prepare yourself to cut all ties with these people. There are literally a dozen members of my own family I will not see or speak to unless I absolutely have too. I have turned my back on a lot of toxic friends and associates as well. Like another user said, focus on your own independence. Get a job, then a car, then a place of your own.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 10:51 PM
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Let me guess... She's the first chick who's responded to you positively in a while? Focus on you. Focus on getting so many girls you won't give enough of a shit to come here and ask for our advice on one girl. If she comes back, cool, but she probably won't.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 06:15 PM
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Everytime I've ever thought "I'll never feel this way about another girl again" there was another chick right around the corner who I could forge a great connection with and have incredible sex with. This is life. Focus on improving yourself so you can meet better girls than your psycho ex.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 06:12 PM
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I can't tell you how to recover from grief but I can tell you how to not make this situation any worse. Don't self medicate with drugs and alcohol, look after yourself, eat well, rest well and find something to focus on. Losing people has caused me to enter downward spirals and many others in my life and throughout history. You cannot be weak. You cannot change what has happened, only how you react to it.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 07:51 AM
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I rarely hit clubs ever anymore, I'd still hit on girls etc but expect that a lot of it comes down to being the right guy at the right time. Just accept that women will kiss you, tell you they'll go home with you and then disappear in a flash.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 11:11 PM
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There are mentors all around you. Read Robert Greene's 'Mastery' for some examples of masters finding their mentors. Often you will find that they had several, some being academics, others being leaders in their field.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 12:53 PM
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Probably has something to do with the fact you're in a club full of validation seeking chicks. You can kiss a lot of girls in a night and go home empty handed.
/r/askTRP08/10/16 09:27 AM
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Sorry can't answer that, I've never been to NYC, let alone lived there.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 11:09 PM
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I'm a huge fan of taking chicks for walks. Was better when I lived in a town in the middle of nowhere and we could just jump in my car and go for a walk but this can be applied in cities as well. Went for a walk, chilled in a park and went and got some food afterwards with a girl off Tinder the other day.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:33 PM
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Embracing MGTOW is basically saying I suck at this part of my life so I'm just going to stay away from it. Classic beneath-me-loser mentality.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:23 PM
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The best way to end your scarcity mindset is to plate a bunch of low SMV chicks, IMO. That and realise that there are fucking billions of women out there and that millions of them are sexually available to YOU even if you are a 3/10. This will also lead to you feeling a lot less desperate. One of the reasons I'm against fucking hookers is that I've always assumed I would feel shit about myself afterwards and that it associates money with getting sex which generates a lot of other problems.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:11 PM
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I'm guessing you want to keep her around, so have options and be extremely vigilant. Don't be a beta bitch calling her all the time when she's away or any of that crap. Be ready to walk if needed.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 10:05 PM
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How long is she going away for? All it needs is the right guy at the right time. Bare in mind the likelihood is you will never know if she does cheat. At the very least you'd be an absolute fool not to have options at the ready in case you have to jettison.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:21 PM
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Get ready to end it and at the very least have options available. A recent plate I was about to upgrade to LTR went away, came back and the feels were gone. She almost definitely fucked someone else while she was away.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:08 PM
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I was in my late teens when I really pushed my parents away. I literally couldn't stand being in the same room as them a lot of the time. This carried on until my early twenties. I'm now a bit younger than you. For reference I found TRP about three years ago, but had always been somewhat Red Pill aware.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:06 PM
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I can't tell you what to do but I can provide some insight. I have a rule - I never pay for sex. Plenty of my friends do or have done but I don't. I probably never will. That's just one of my principles, if its been a principle of yours your entire life thus far then don't cross that line. If it hasn't then by all means go for it. You've been three years without a fuck. You can do another three years. You value the pussy because it's scarce. This is the very definition of a scarcity mindset and …
/r/askTRP06/10/16 09:03 PM
1

I distanced myself a lot from my parents when I was younger. Now I'm closer to both of them than I ever was before. Part of that is down to the fact that I deal with my mothers bullshit the same way I deal with every other girls.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 08:53 PM
1

The only person you should be in competition with is yourself. Fuck her. Get out, get a job and make some money like the rest of us.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 08:25 PM
5

The Rorta programme for freedom and independence as a young man. Get a job or an income stream Save your money Learn to drive Save more money for a car and costs Get a beater that's reliable and cheap to insure Use said beater to ferry people around for cash and meet chicks and fuck them Tried and tested by myself and the vast majority of my close friends.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 08:20 PM
1

Shit happens, I left another chick that was a 100% option to fuck a girl at 3am that flaked on me. The whole way home I felt like a worthless piece of shit. There was no way I could go and fuck the other chick, because she knew what I was up too. A week later I felt like it had never happened. Play the game long enough and this will happen to you, 100% guaranteed.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 08:17 PM
1

There are three ways to solve this problem. Improve your DHV's on your Tinder. Sharpen your Tinder game. There are some great TRP posts on this. Get Tinder Pro and massively increase your matches. Do all 3 and you'll be swimming in pussy in no time. I was on the TRP IRC and someone suggested I get Tinder Pro. In all honesty one of the best things I've done for my sex life in a long time. I used to basically run night game and the amount of chicks I've number closed and fucked in the last month o…
/r/askTRP06/10/16 08:05 PM
26

Here's the thing. I don't have a big dick. It's average. Girls who fuck me and like me will tell me its big. Girls who I've pissed off will tell their friends its small as if its a micropenis or something. Their friends have still fucked me. The bottom line is, it doesn't really matter.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 07:56 PM
2

Why do you care? If you say anything you are basically setting yourself up for a shitstorm of denial and anger from your roommate. People cannot be told this kind of stuff, they basically have to find it for themselves.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 09:44 PM
1

Everyone has people above and below them, find people below you and help them to grow. I don't think its that difficult.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 09:42 PM
2

You can take a horse to water, but you're fucked if you think you can make it drink. My advice would be to stop focusing on him and focus on yourself. He may find you to be a source of inspiration further down the line. He may also find himself at a point where he finds this way of thinking for himself. In all honesty, I know people in a lot worse of a place than your brother and I'm sure you do too, so have a little bit of optimism. This is clearly something you care about greatly otherwise you…
/r/askTRP03/10/16 09:40 PM
1

As a leader in my field, one of the things I am most focused on is teaching other people to be leaders. Of the people I lead I pay special attention to the ones with promise, take them under my wing and develop them. Others will see this and look towards you as well.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 11:46 AM
1

Had dinner with my dad and his buddy last night. His buddy is getting out of a 25 year marriage after he found out his wife was cheating on him. I expected him to be a shell of himself but no, he is waking up, rebuilding his relationships with those around him and getting the legal support to ensure his wife gets as little as possible. But like OP's friend, the wife is trying to shift the blame. The fact he was working offshore to fund his wife and kids lifestyle counts as abandonment apparently…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 11:22 AM
20

What makes you a pussy is your inability to own it and the fact that you give a shit about what people think of you. I can sew. I genuinely enjoy sewing and patching up my own clothes doesn't make me reliant on someone else. If someone wants to give me shit about it, what do I care?
/r/askTRP02/10/16 11:06 AM
2

Walk away. Find another girl. Or five. Or ten. In my experience, they almost always come back anyway so what is the point in worrying or caring?
/r/askTRP23/09/16 08:09 PM
2

You haven't internalised it yet. I first 'swallowed the pill' many years ago, before it had a name. Then I found TRP in 2013. I still haven't totally internalised it yet and still catch myself doubting things that I know deep down are truths. Also, you don't seem to be sure of your own beliefs. If one thread on the Internet can make you conflicted perhaps therein lies your issue. TRP can be very hard to believe if you do not have the experiences to support such a belief. This is the reason why s…
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:42 AM
1

Interesting you should ask this as I've been reading his blog a lot recently. Bottom line is most of his advice is solid and actionable. But, I've noticed a lot of inconsistencies in what he says about his personal life that makes me think he's BS'ing about a lot of stuff. The other thing is that I disagree with his fundamental belief that all relationships must be open. You have to use the tool box to live the life you want.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 12:29 AM
1

A 22 year old stripper invites a 19 year old on a date... To her club... I don't think you can see the wood for the trees.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 07:12 PM
1

Start saving money now. Build a financial cushion, a rainy day fund, whatever you want to call it. Start developing your skills and when you have that bankroll built up you can then start to look for other jobs that pay better. Learning to budget is the most important thing you can do at this stage, look at your most expensive outgoings, buy cheap food in bulk at the start of the week and don't buy anything on top. Hell, if you're that broke just eat noodles and pasta with cheap sauces for a mon…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:12 PM
2

Thanks for posting this, I needed this today.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 09:46 AM
0

Trust your instincts, the reasons humans have evolved to have these is because they ultimately keep us safe. Start emotionally checking out of the relationship today.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:18 PM
1

K, so I'll give you two examples from today. I went and got lunch with one of my oldest friends, he's building his own business at the moment in the fitness industry. Over lunch I gave him a lot of advice and new ideas for the direction to take his business in. He gave me some advice with issues I've been having too. Then on the train back I bumped into a guy I was friends with years ago and haven't seen in three years. We caught up and it turns out he's moving to the same city I live in next we…
/r/askTRP07/09/16 10:28 PM
1

I got back with an ex, did things work out? Yeah, for about five or six months, then I had some shit happen in my personal life that really fucked me up and sent me into a deep depression. Had I continued making great strides in my self-development would things have worked out? Possibly but probably not.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 10:18 PM
2

It's a comfort test, so give her comfort. There's no need to be funny about it. I had this exact conversation with a girl I was dating in regards to her friend who I also fucked who is objectively hotter than her. I explained that I found certain things about her sexier and that the fact her friend is an unpleasant narcissist turned me off. That seemed to keep her happy. Almost anything works when said with confidence and without neediness.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 06:46 PM
1

I used to have my own business/income stream. Then I went corporate and run someone else's business for them.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 06:41 PM
3

Depends on the girl. Some give and need more attention than others. The best way to find out is to play it cool, be patient and observe and act correspondingly. I've had plates and GF's who would go nuts if I didn't talk to them for even a day, others were fine with going weeks on end without contact.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 09:49 PM
2

I tend to use barbells for compound lifts and dumbbells for isolation exercises. Honestly, get over your fear of barbells, working out is not meant to be easy.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 09:47 PM
3

My main chick is abroad, she has been for a while. We hardly talk, I figure if I have to invest a lot to keep the interest up she was never that interested and its just not worth it. Play it cool.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 12:55 PM
1

Speaking from experience, the most RP girl I ever dated had an amazing relationship with her dad. She was still AWALT but in the time since we dated she has had one steady boyfriend whereas other plates and LTR's have racked up many, many more partners. Conversely this girl had a much older sister who was estranged from the family... You guessed it, she was an absolute disgrace of a human being.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 10:32 AM
1

Should be easy, you have status. Just don't give a fuck and all will be well.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 10:11 PM
1

Building habits that stick takes a long time. In this age of instant gratification we are all impatient but you have to accept that these things take time. Trying to take on too much is a surefire way to fail. I like to write down where I am and what I want to develop, create a strategy to develop, slowly but surely I'll put that strategy into action and then I'll re-evaluate a few weeks/months down the line. More often than not I am impressed with my results.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 08:02 PM
1

I'm from London and although I've lived all over the UK, London is very much my home but it can still be an intimidating place, probably moreso than any other British city. It sounds to me like you need to work on yourself more than anything else. Go out, keep experiencing things, keep meeting new people; London is one of the most diverse cities on the planet and if you keep improving your English, your looks, status etc you will eventually meet people who will find value in you.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 08:00 PM
6

Firstly, calm down. It is only natural to go into panic mode and posts on asktrp are often panic posts. We live in a World with instant gratification and instant solutions, but unfortunately situations like this one don't have instant answers and solutions. Secondly, find some source of income. $200 is really nothing in the grand scheme of things and it can easily be found. Once you've paid your rent find a job or something that can get you more money. Once you have a source of income, live frug…
/r/askTRP22/05/16 07:50 PM
1

If I'm in an LTR I am in an LTR because I see more value in a girl than simply sex. She adds value to my life because she's intellectual or she has connections or she will do things that help me on my journey. If I simply want sex then I won't invest anymore into a girl than just plating her. If I find myself wanting to fuck other women to the point I'd cheat on my LTR then simply she's not adding enough value to my life. I've cheated in the past and the truth was that I was deeply unhappy as a …
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:15 PM
10

Spend less time on Reddit and more time actually doing things that are productive and will increase your value.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 07:03 PM
18

When I saw my life moving in the right direction.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 03:56 PM
1

The girls who go wild on the cock carousel usually are beyond help way before they go to university. If she's already banging lots of dudes there's nothing you can do. If she's a balanced girl who has been well bought up and hasn't put her lips around a lot of cocks yet then she'll probably be alright. FWIW The University of Lancaster is not exactly renowned for being a uni where people fuck like rabbits.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 03:57 PM
2

Very few people are alpha there whole lives and even the most red pilled men will make mistakes in their judgement. I've watched men throw it down the pan for women, family, drugs, due to mental illness etc. The most 'alpha' men in my opinion are the ones who are either highly consistent or can pull themselves out of the rut.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 08:05 PM
1

You don't. You walk the fuck away. It ended for a reason.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 11:57 AM
3

Forget about the dude and never contact him again.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 03:26 PM
1

This. When I was a loser, taking drugs and drinking to excess I had periods where I was fucking up to four different girls a week. These days I sometimes pull 12 hour days at work, then seeing my few close friends and family, then eating, showering, reading, gym... I just don't have the time. Also I reached a point where my self-esteem was at a level where banging a new girl didn't do much for me because it wasn't rooted in how many girls I fucked but instead what I had actually achieved and who…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 07:51 PM
1

Your SMV is higher than 99% of most guys but you're getting flaked on Tinder a lot and you're developing an emotional attachment to girls you've never even met before... Something doesn't check out.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 07:45 PM
1

The elevator technician trade is a good one to get into - The company that services elevators for my company charge an insane amount per hour for even the most basic work. Start branching out to people, and getting in touch with businesses if you're serious about it. Plumbing and electricians are also good trades to get into and they earn decent money. For most people to start their own business they need a fair bit of capital. If this is something you are serious about then you need to start ag…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 11:53 PM
1

You've lost this one. Move on.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 11:42 PM
2

Ego boost/Low sense of self esteem. Boredom. Alcohol/drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 11:41 PM
4

Why do you have to even have the conversation? Just phase them out as you edge closer to leaving. Been there and done it, there's no need to talk about it with them.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 09:59 PM
2

Learn to DJ. Take up photography. Learn how to fix up cars. Go hiking.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 09:56 PM
1

Drop her.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 09:55 PM
3

Get a job if you don't already have one. Then start aggressively saving as much money as you possibly can. Then find a mentor and get as much out of them as possible. For someone in your situation I would actually advise you find yourself some work in a large organisation or corporation where moving up is fairly easy if you have the right mindset. I've met plenty of people who have no qualifications and certainly not the equivalent of a GED who have risen through the ranks to make big money. It …
/r/askTRP27/02/16 01:25 AM
3

File along with "I'm an independent woman" and "I'm just here to meet new people and make friends" and other stupid stuff that women come out with on online dating.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 12:14 AM
1

This is the answer you're looking for.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 10:41 PM
1

Offer value. When I was younger I used to have a lot of connects for drugs and parties so naturally people started to invite me out more. I'm not saying go down that particular route, but there must be something you can offer in terms of value. Alternately find other people who want to go out and recruit them into your schemes.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 10:40 PM
1

Being able to introduce people to music they haven't heard, books they haven't read and films they haven't seen is important and I like showing people things that might change their life in some way. It's also something that I think is an understated attractive trait. This requires a good base of cultural knowledge that comes from listening, reading and watching lots of (diverse) media. It also makes you a cut above the majority of people who can only hold a conversation about the latest DiCapri…
/r/askTRP25/02/16 10:34 PM
1

I had a girl take my clothes so I would see her more. I have a plate who likes to just wear my clothes around my apartment, I don't know what that's about.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 10:27 PM
2

Crazy, damaged girls surrounded by drugs and degenerates. I'm sure you can imagine what goes on in some of those houses where performers live. A lot of the shady characters involved in the back end of the industry are also fucking nuts.
/r/askTRP25/02/16 08:52 AM
1

A lot of posters have hit the nail on the head here. Switch to using texting only for logistics. Some chicks I can text no problem because they mesh well with my style of flirting over text, others do not at all even though they are DTF.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 10:02 PM
3

No. I had a friend who was heavily involved in the industry (not a performer or cameraman) and the shit he has told me combined with the escorts and strippers I've known has put me off for life from having anything to do with that industry.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 10:01 PM
15

Don't reply. Now watch your ex try to make contact.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 09:56 PM
2

Like a lot of things on dating profiles it has next to no real meaning whatsoever and is a prime example of a woman following a trend. Just like single girls on dating sites who put "Just looking for friends, honest!" in their profile it has no weight attached to it whatsoever. Make a joke out of it.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 12:34 PM
3

The number of girls one good friend is worth isn't even calculable to me. I was in this situation not that long ago, one of my best friends ex's was hitting me up and had tried to fuck me while they were still together. I never told him and I never hit it, because he is a good friend to me and he adds value to my life that few others do. In short, girls come and go but good friends last a lot longer, but its your life and your moral code so do what you feel like doing.
/r/askTRP22/02/16 12:29 PM
3

Two cigarettes a day is nothing. Buy a really cheap eGo Twist vape if you're having trouble quitting.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 11:13 PM
1

If you don't want to just straight up ignore her, tell her "that's nice doll" and simply change the topic of conversation.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:48 PM
1

I just ignore that shit, but that's just me.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:35 PM
1

I don't think women feel those feelings in the same way that men do, but when push comes to shove I would want the attraction of any girl I am seriously attracted to, to at least match my own.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 08:33 PM
1

TRP is full of stories of people who got fucked over in relationships and by crushes and I think that pushes people away from pursuing girls they liked. Too many times I've avoided girls I liked from both fear of rejection and fear of ending up getting fucked over again. Now I just do it, because TRP has helped me build a life that can deal with the consequences.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:07 PM
1

You will always develop feelings for some women and not for others, unless something is going on in your brain that isn't quite right. Right now I have pretty strong feelings for a plate for no discernible reason other than we have a lot of fun together. I have another plate I've known for half a decade who is just as hot but I have no feelings for whatsoever. You can lessen the feelings by applying a cold bucket of logic and rational thinking over them but only time gets rid of them completely.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:05 PM
2

Most of the 'cool kids' I was at high school with are now certified losers. Don't worry about being 'cool'. If your focus is on getting laid remain on the outside and learn game. At school the people who scored the most pussy weren't the athletes who had fairly hot girlfriends but the guys on the sidelines. If you want to meet girls, network or approach. I've always preferred the networking approach as its simply more natural and significantly easier when you're younger and you don't have access…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 12:59 PM
3

What's the odds that she will act on what you tell her? I'm going to say slim to none. Don't bother, it will be a waste of your breath.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 09:48 AM
2

Why do you care so much about what she thinks? It is your life. On a semi-related note, if you're addiction to nicotine is something you see as a problem buy an ecig.
/r/askTRP27/11/15 06:23 PM
2

I still compare myself to others but nowhere near as much as I used too. I accept that my life is my journey. It will be different from others. You can choose to view it as better or worse than others or view it completely as your own. The odds are you will never be the best at certain things and in 99.99999999% of everything you ever do in life, somewhere, someone out there will be better than you. This is fact. You have to come to terms with this. Simply focus on being the best you can be.
/r/askTRP26/11/15 07:14 PM
5

Take the Myers Briggs personality test. Then look at the personality type it suggests you are and look at the strengths and weaknesses associated with that type. For instance as an ENTP I can find it very difficult to complete tasks and I can be both quite insensitive and argumentative. You will never do well in an interview if you can't name your flaws. Employers understand that they will rarely ever find someone 100% perfect for the job and they look for those who are self aware and willing to…
/r/askTRP26/11/15 07:05 PM
0

No. But one thing that makes you a BP bitch is going to /r/asktrp and asking for the validation of others.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 08:11 PM
1

This needed to happen.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 07:00 PM
7

...And it may work for a while, but believe me people will just become disgruntled and leave.
/r/askTRP24/11/15 06:49 PM
1

I work for a company (Not my own) making employment and labor related decisions every week. Someone who is motivated enough to work 50 hours a week for you is an employers dream. Why would you want to drop say ten or fifteen hours off that person and give to someone else who may be less motivated? If the person who works 50 hours needs those 50 hours they may just choose to leave and work somewhere else. The other thing is training costs. For every employee I hire, the training costs nearly £500…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 06:47 PM
1

Indian Race Troll strikes again. Let me tell you a story about a guy I met this week when the company I work for sent me to a conference. The guy running the conference was a fat, Indian guy. This dude had the most insane amount of confidence and charisma and is up there in the list of the most charismatic people I have ever met. Every one was laughing at what he had to say and you could tell most of the women were attracted to him. At the end he told his life story - how his wife had died and h…
/r/askTRP01/11/15 09:43 PM
3

I used to feel the same way. If I didn't kiss or fuck a girl whenever I went out I felt like a loser. When I went a couple of months without a bang I felt like trash. It took me a while to realise that everything I did was for women. My life and self worth revolved around women. The way I dressed, my business, going to the gym... It was all for women. And then one day I realised that they were just not worth it. I started doing things that were genuinely for me. These days if I get rejected it s…
/r/askTRP25/10/15 09:59 PM
1

Don't. Internalise abundance mentality and move on to the next ten girls.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 07:17 PM
1

I'm 23. I still don't know what my mission in life is. Right now, its making money, experiencing and improving myself as much as I can and trying to pass on what I learn to people who are receptive. My mission will change, five years ago it was to party as much as possible and get as much pussy as possible. We don't have a purpose or a place in life, we have to find one for ourselves. Sounds like a pretty good way of summing up your purpose/mission is self improvement.
/r/askTRP22/10/15 07:11 PM
3

Every time I next a vacuous skank from my life.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 06:13 PM
1

As long as I'm sober I will never fuck a slut without one again. STD's are everywhere. And I have already come very close to having a child I didn't want.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 06:11 PM
1

Get on LinkedIn. Attend programming conferences. Intern at businesses, network online on forums and Reddit etc. Start a blog. Although IMO all that is pale in comparison to developing a solid product using your skills that people can utilise.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 10:49 PM
1

I don't see Julien Blanc using another name... Own it. Rock it.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 10:41 PM
2

Avoid directly answering the question.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 02:36 PM
2

I've seen a lot of men and women in their late twenties rock the party lifestyle for a decade or so, and wake up one day and realise they have no money and nothing of worth to show for it and that they have wasted a lot of money and the most productive years of their life achieving essentially squat shit. You can still bang hot college girls and not spend shitloads of time and money doing it. I've been to college myself and there's no way in hell I would ever go back.
/r/askTRP19/09/15 11:51 AM
1

Yeah, after coming out of a relationship you need to re-internalise everything again. It took me a long time to do this, probably much longer than initially internalizing everything that made me attractive and able to pull my ex and other girls. For 95% of men LTR's allow them to build extremely bad habits and thought processes that take a very long time to unlearn. I am still continuing to internalise the RP, a very long time after I first became aware of this philosophical outlook (back when i…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 04:04 PM
1

This. This. This. Fuck ten other girls then think about how special she is. When my first ever girlfriend dumped me, I was heartbroken, to me she was irreplaceable. Same with my last serious LTR. What made it all change? Fucking other women.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 04:02 PM
1

I don't even bother replying. There are 3.5 billion women out there...
/r/askTRP18/09/15 03:58 PM
3

Try and consume around 30mg of Zinc per day. Also try cold showers. I'm still out on whether its a placebo effect but it doesn't matter ultimately as it seems to have a positive effect on me either way.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:26 PM
2

Speaking as someone who has made large amounts of money at certain times, its not abundance mentality you need, but sheer drive, motivation and a bit of luck. The best way to increase your income is to develop skills and monetize them.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 07:29 AM
3

There are far more successful posters that will have better advice for you than I, but I'd say allowing yourself to play with small sums of your money a bit - going on a vacation, treating yourself to a new wardrobe (that you probably need anyway) or investing a small sum in a start-up would be a good start. Money is extremely important, and being reckless with it is going to ruin you - but being stressed out about it when it isn't a huge issue in your life is going to ruin you from the inside o…
/r/askTRP14/09/15 11:12 PM
3

RSD, David DeAngelo, Roosh V, the list of PUAs is endless but those are the ones who helped me, particularly the first two.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 11:06 PM
1

I didn't cum from sex with a girl til about the six or seventh girl I ever banged. I think it is a psychological/confidence issue that goes away with time.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 11:05 PM
1

A dopamine release.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 11:01 PM
3

It's really funny, women will openly call us out for whatever reasons yet engage a woman in conversation on sexual strategy, particularly when it comes to nice guys/beta's vs. alpha males and you will find they will agree with you. Judge her by her actions not her words. If she fucks you the proof is in the pudding.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 08:49 AM
2

You're probably asking the wrong guys. There are men everywhere who do not want a relationship, myself included.
/r/seduction14/09/15 08:46 AM
2

Was he wearing a furry hat?
/r/askTRP13/09/15 10:42 PM
1

I don't think its strange at all, and from experience I can tell you she'll probably love it.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 10:39 PM
8

Leave her and enjoy the rest of your life knowing what you now know.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 10:37 PM
3

Do Pelvic Floor Exercises with her or encourage her to seek some form of therapy to address the underlying cause.
/r/seduction13/09/15 09:54 PM
1

My total Tinder close rate is a little bit higher than 1%. In a nightclub I would guess that I work at a 5-10% success rate. In terms of women I meet through my social circles, it's probably around 5%.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 02:39 PM
1

Watch RSD's videos and David DeAngelo's old videos. I would also read 'The Game' as well if you haven't already.
/r/askTRP13/09/15 02:37 PM
1

I only read the TL;DR, but I think your problem either lies in the fact your SMV is not high enough or you're lacking some of the fundamentals of game. Or both. Most people who read about PUA and a lot of people on here will never bother with proper day game so well done in that respect.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 05:59 PM
1

If a girl accuses you of sexually assaulting you who are people more likely to believe when it transpires you told said girl a fake name? It's a scenario worth taking into account IMO.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 05:44 PM
2

I've talked about The Red Pill and my beliefs with my parents. My mum agrees with me about most things and respects my decisions and my beliefs. My dad, not so much, which I don't get as he was RP in his youth.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 05:41 PM
1

Go out and look at all the men in their late teens and twenties who are already losing their hair and pumping hot girls. Hell, I've talked about this before on askTRP but I even know guys with Alopecia Universalis and they still fuck hot girls. It's no excuse.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 09:06 AM
3

Sounds like she's already trying to get more commitment from you. Nip it in the bud.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 09:00 AM
1

Very, very rarely. I think the last meal I actually got with a plate was a McDonalds because we were both starving and that was months ago. If I go on a 'date' with a plate I will always try and do something interesting whether that be go for a long walk or look round a market or something like that. I keep my plates purely for sex and not really for companionship or to go to nice restaurants with.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 09:16 PM
1

I reserve conventional dates for LTRs, with plates I rarely spend anything apart from transport costs.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 09:08 PM
1

I post nothing on Facebook, I use it solely for the purpose of communicating privately with friends and plates, for example if I don't have my phone to hand or I want to send them a link or a file quickly. Most of the people I have on my Facebook don't need to know most of the shit that goes on in my life.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 06:01 PM
3

At parties talk to as many girls and people in general as possible. Once you have the momentum, keep it going.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 05:58 PM
1

Practice makes perfect. Hit bars for easy lays. Do daygame for dating. Watch RSD and David Deangelo. Read The Sex God Method.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 11:20 PM
2

She might be back. She might not. Don't let it bother you, internalise a mentality of abundance. From your post it doesn't seem like you're doing much wrong, sometimes this shit happens.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 09:04 PM
1

Yeah this is very normal. I often have to resist the temptation to throw the girl out as soon as I cum.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 09:02 PM
2

Some of the most 'Beta' people I know are the ones who came from broken homes, living with and being raised by single mothers or pathetic, miserable, self loathing alcoholic fathers. I come from a fairly solid home, my parents have been together for 30 years, hardly anyone in my extended family has had a divorce yet I swallowed the Red Pill on my own terms through my own experiences, partly because I am a very perceptive individual and partly because of the PUA community. I have Red Pill sibling…
/r/askTRP06/09/15 02:01 PM
1

Practice makes perfect. True for all things, including human interaction.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 01:59 PM
2

I've met people who have an extraordinary amount of game and aren't tall, ripped or good looking. Some of these people have been short, fat, ugly, sometimes all three but they can still swipe peoples girlfriends left, right and center because they have status and/or confidence that others simply do not have. People here need to stop focusing on an ideal and instead focus on what they can do to get the results they want.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:18 PM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:12 PM
3

This is one of the reasons why I don't really engage with popular media. If you want to watch a Red Pill TV show, watch House of Cards, The Wire, The Sopranos or Californication.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 11:44 PM
2

I have a couple of other photo's as well. The odd selfie and a few of me in various cool places around Europe. I have no bio whatsoever. Results wise I have about 600 matches, have probably got nudes of about 15 girls and I think I've banged 6 or 7 girls through Tinder. As I said earlier, I'm not that good looking and I'm certainly not shredded like your typical Chad Thundercock.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 11:41 PM
3

In my experience of watching girls swiping on Tinder (I have no experience with OKC or any other app) your pictures don't really matter too much. Women seem to choose the most benign reasons for not liking shredded, good looking, high status men and then liking men who appear to be the antithesis of what TRP teaches. I just put a photo of me that looks good. I'm not model material, yet I sometimes get top tier women matching with me. I don't think pictures mean that much but I may be wrong.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 11:18 PM
1

Yes, it is extremely needy. Do you have oneitis for a bank clerk you've spoken to a couple of times?
/r/askTRP21/08/15 11:14 PM
1

No stories to share as such but I have weeded out and dropped contact with a lot of people in the past 18 months. I didn't need the stress or the misery they caused me and I put 100% of my efforts in terms of friendships into the people that actually provide me with happiness, rather than the friendships that ultimately came down to nothing more than exchanging value between two people.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 10:36 AM
1

Try some of the bars and pubs by Holborn for night game. The parks are the best for day game.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:17 PM
1

Hiking, kayaking, music festivals, get breakfast at the top of a skyscraper.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 06:48 PM
1

I love going for walks in beautiful places, changing scenery is quite stimulating I think. Coffeeshops are cool, too. Shopping for clothes is another.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 06:08 PM
1

Definitely man. Buying your LTR lingerie seems to make the sex a lot better - I suspect down to the fact she feels sexier.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:16 PM
7

Go for dinner and then fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 04:33 PM
13

Seems like the only person u can trust in this world is you. Welcome to life.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 04:31 PM
2

Don't invest too much time in trying to convert people. I will help people who are close to understanding the whole picture or people who are mainly Red Pill but have Blue Pill beliefs but I will not help people who are largely Blue Pill in their life and beliefs. There is no point, it is a waste of energy and resources.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 12:01 PM
1

Burn the fat through an Intermittent Fasting regime. Get yourself a barbell and 50KG of weights and start lifting, then when you've dropped enough fat you can start bulking. On an additional note, I would start seeing a therapist if you aren't already.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 08:28 AM
2

Yeah, the UK is going downhill but so is the rest of the World. The USA has a whole host of problems we're lucky enough not to have. I'm your age and I've thought about leaving, a lot, and I may do in the future, but for the time being I'm just going to profit from the continuing degradation in Britain.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 10:20 PM
5

Stop texting her. This is not some seduction strategy like some people market it as but a strategy for you to recover yourself from oneitis.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 09:04 PM
1

The ugly girls may be even worse. They know they're fat/ugly/whatever so they constantly seek validation in the form of sex.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 09:02 PM
6

I see your logic, but ask yourself this - Do you want a woman who's had 50 cocks around her lips using those same lips to kiss your child goodnight? I don't.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:03 PM
1

Pretty much my standards. I have never LTR'd a girl who wasn't a virgin when we hooked up. I'm 23 and I realise that the odds of me finding a 21-23 year old virgin are near on impossible.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:02 PM
3

In that wall of text one sentence told us everything we need to know. an unwanted threesome, which she had because she was shitfaced Tell your friend to dump the girl in question. He probably won't though, because she's his special snowflake™.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 05:03 PM
3

Just be cool with them. You don't have to be massively friendly or unpleasant either. People change, they may be completely cool in a year or so, probably not but it happens.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 06:10 PM
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Have you considered not going out on the prowl and looking for alternative ways to sleep with women and obtain plates? The kind of girls you pick up at the park, coffee shop or the library are in my opinion, substantially less likely to falsely accuse someone of rape. Yes, AWALT but I'd hedge my bets that fewer quality women pull the false rape card then some of these skanks you see in bars and clubs these days. Plus in the eyes of the law, what scenario is more believable? Guy at bar rapes extr…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 06:00 PM
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One guy in this group was my best friend ever and he fell for a chick that is against me Other guys are judas type that agree with everything pussy says Ask yourself, do you really want to be friends with people like this? There are millions of people out there you can be friends with. Having an abundance mentality does not just apply to women.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 05:50 PM
4

If a woman accuses you of rape or sexual assault and you used a fake name while interacting with her and the police track you down I would have thought that would substantially weaken any argument about your innocence.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 05:48 PM
1

Dude, c'mon... When was being blocked on Facebook ever considered an IOI? There could be a million reasons why she doesn't want to talk to you. Who cares, you shouldn't. My advice: Move on. There are 3.5 billion women out there, you don't need to be wasting time thinking and posting about one who readily admits she was trying to get a free meal out of you.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 05:41 PM
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Don't drink as much when you're on the prowl, sure it helps you get into a position where you can get laid but it won't help you perform any better. I actually find that alcohol can increase my stress and anxiety and was almost certainly a factor in my panic attacks. Also, how many girls have you been with? If its a small number and you're inexperienced I would honestly just go and bang girls you aren't attracted too. It will boost your confidence about how you perform.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 02:51 PM
1

My dad used to be extremely RP, span plates for 15 years, traveled the World, got engaged, dumped his fiance to be with my mother, but shit changed and whilst he still has many RP traits he is balanced out with many BP traits and his political views are idiotic and feed into his BP traits. These days I don't even bother, I just ignore it. I don't have time to listen to his stupid opinions or his bitching and his reluctance to change certain things in his life. There is nothing I can do to change…
/r/askTRP09/08/15 01:55 PM
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No. Weirdly enough, I'm not even attracted to her anymore. I think this is to do with the fact that I accept that the person I loved wasn't actually a real person but a construct I created that was based on a real person. Separating the two has been crucial for me in getting over her.
/r/askTRP09/08/15 11:58 AM
1

Sounds like a comfort test to me. probably leaving my alpha behind with some little beta attitudes towards her Freeze her out in that case. As soon as you start to go beta, bad things happen.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 09:34 AM
2

I actually do have one sexy beard! Got to be a troll, this is like the third in two days now. No one should bother responding. Typing up long posts for the benefit of these people is an utter waste of time.
/r/askTRP08/08/15 09:28 AM
3

Meditate, this will help you to react in a more calm and logical manner.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 11:14 PM
1

I'm your age and while I don't think £14K in the bank makes you broke I don't think its a lot of money.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 10:38 PM
1

I'm in the UK and I drive cars that cost very little to buy, very little to insure and are good on petrol. The older the better as independent garages are substantially cheaper than dealerships. VW's and other German cars are fairly reliable but are fucking expensive when they do fail. There are some absolute horror stories out there about the costs involved with German cars and just the other day I was reading about a clutch change on a newish Golf costing almost £1500. You only have 14K and 10…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 10:37 PM
4

Quite right. OP is frankly deluded if he thinks this will work out for him. My rule is, if you fuck a girl who is in a relationship that should be as far as it goes. If you LTR her, you'll be next.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 10:28 PM
2

IIRC it is so common over on Roosh's forum they just ban anyone purporting to be an Indian Race Troll now.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 05:44 PM
2

Lying and being shady is a crutch for weak game and/or low SMV. it's a headache down he stretch. 100%. When I used to want to bang as many girls as possible, I pulled tricks like this and yeah, it works for a while but it causes vast amounts of drama. My current goal is to have my needs met by multiple high quality women, this is something I feel is unachievable and impractical if you're not willing to be honest. My current plate hated the fact that I was not willing to commit (I was honest from…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 10:58 AM
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If you have high enough SMV you can tell a plate that she is not alone and not promise any kind of commitment either. These days I find it much more effort to be deceitful to plates, having a policy of being honest and upfront leads to far less drama.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 07:21 AM
1

In future adopt the attitude of being up front with them. If I was to put money on what's going to happen, my bet would be plate #2 will be back. It's all in the game.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 11:07 PM
2

Agreed, do not LTR this girl. Best case scenario is she doesn't give you much grief but her idiot friends and family negatively influence her. Worst case scenario is she's just as bad as they are.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 11:04 PM
1

It may not be the best book, but The 48 Laws of Power is an essential read and is something I come back to on a weekly basis.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 10:55 PM
1

You can find hot girls who want to be dominated everywhere. I checked out a lot of the fetish dating websites a few years ago and was shocked by the fact that from what I saw most of the women were of very low quality and not my type at all.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 10:47 PM
1

Alcohol will also help loosen things up. Rarely will I ever say that alcohol is your friend, but in this instance it may well work wonders in your favor. I've never had a threesome, but in probably 90% of the threesomes that I've heard of happening alcohol played a major part.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 01:40 PM
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I use several different types of cologne, none of which cost more than £50 a bottle, some are as cheap as £10 a bottle and I'll tell you this now that no one brand makes a difference, it's the fact that you're wearing it in the first place that makes a difference. Go to a department store and get a recommendation and sample what they have.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 07:30 AM
2

A lot of really successful people do volunteering as a way of giving something back. These are the kinds of people worth networking with and the kind of people who are willing to give people a chance based on the fact they work hard.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 07:25 AM
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Lets be honest, you aren't going to find a girl with zero sexual partners who isn't over 18, except in maybe very rare instances. The only place you will find a girl like that is maybe some of the top tier colleges and universities, virtually one of the only places where there is women with a level of drive to not bow to the promiscuity and drinking culture that is so prevalent in society today. That or the Church of the Latter Day Saints...
/r/askTRP28/07/15 12:12 AM
3

In the UK a lot of people do not go into fields that there degree is based around. My advice is not to bother going back to college - it hasn't worked for you and for most people there are serious financial implications. I also feel there is a group of people who become almost institutionalized by academia and will work for several years in menial jobs after they complete a degree and then go back and get another degree and repeat. These people are miserable and debt ridden. I would recommend tr…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 12:05 AM
2

I don't think it matters that much and as I've said before there are many alphas out there who are skinny, ripped and fat and alphas who are short, average and tall. The important thing is that you have discipline and things of value about yourself - Ultimately lifting teaches discipline and increases your value. It sounds like you have discipline and things of value about yourself but it is your choice, not ours.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 10:35 PM
1

You're not obliged to fuck the fatty, no one is and if people in that group judge you for it then my advice would be to avoid them like the plague.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 10:33 PM
1

You definitely rock a beard better than without.
/r/seduction27/07/15 02:14 PM
3

Choose somewhere sensible whatever you do. Me and a plate once got chased out of a car park when the security guard caught her sucking my dick. If you have a car, drive somewhere nice and quiet and fuck her in the car or somewhere really out of the way. A place with a good view at sunset never hurts.
/r/askTRP27/07/15 11:43 AM
1

That's funny because David DeAngelo (One of the biggest PUA's at one point) actually advocated something very similar to monk mode (Though he didn't call it that) and I first went monk mode in 2011, several years before I heard about TRP on Reddit. People who have been following PUA for a long time are mostly very RP and you'll find tons of reports of people on PUA forums who essentially went monk for a while and have repeated it.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 11:09 PM
1

Ever thought she might be trying to use this to get further commitment out of you? I had a plate do this once and I just stopped talking to her about my family life (I hadn't even told her - one of my friends did when he was high). In the future, I would suggest being really careful about what you say if you want plates to play the sole role of sexual gratification as opposed to emotional support.
/r/askTRP26/07/15 10:48 PM
1

Rent a nightclub for a night, find a few good DJ's at your college who want to get their names out there and promote the hell out of it. I've been involved in running a couple of successful club nights and they take time to build momentum but its extremely satisfying to watch them build up and they are a great way to show social proof. Its worth saying I would never start my own event because there are a lot of ways to generate the same kind of cash that require much less effort. If you don't wa…
/r/askTRP25/07/15 10:17 PM
1

Cold approach Tinder Bars/Nightclubs Build a large social network and meet women through that on auto-pilot
/r/seduction25/07/15 08:28 PM
2

Try and improve every aspect of your life - This will raise your SMV. At the same time learn the fundamentals of game.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 08:26 PM
2

For plates - STD's. For LTRs - If she was to become the mother of your child how would you feel if the lips that kissed your child goodnight had also sucked 50 cocks?
/r/askTRP25/07/15 08:25 PM
3

Hasn't he been with her since she was about 14? He's much older than her and probably doesn't buy into her shit, besides none of us know what goes on behind closed doors.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 04:27 PM
1

One thing that's clear from your post is you don't understand the fundamentals of TRP or game, particularly when it comes to being needy. Improve this and I suspect your results will gradually improve.
/r/askTRP25/07/15 04:24 PM
1

Sure, most British women now are fat or at the very least marginally overweight and they ride the cock carousel like there's no tomorrow, but I disagree with the place itself being a shithole.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 07:03 AM
11

Keep your controversial opinions to yourself around people who are likely to get offended™. Keep silent and keep your power aka Law 4 of the 48 Laws of Power.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 10:57 PM
3

In London I see cold approaching happen all the time, hell I've been in London with girls I've been banging and they've been approached whilst I've been stood there with them. I used to do day game just approaching girls in parks and cafes etc. I don't really do it anymore, its not my thing but I was walking through the parks in another British city the other day and I saw high quality girls everywhere so I'm eager to get back into it. I imagine I'll be rusty considering I've spent the last two …
/r/askTRP22/07/15 10:51 PM
2

Disagree with it being a shithole but I agree with you about day game, very few people do it and it isn't in the British nature to randomly approach people yet women respond well to it.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 10:48 PM
1

I just try and meet as many people as possible through friends, parties, bars, work, etc and try and mine as much information as possible. You should be aiming to meet people older than you with much more life experience as well as those who have connections and opportunities. Three years ago I met a guy through friends who knew several major distributors for several high demand products at a cheap price - I built a business from it. This weekend I worked with a guy who is a senior manager for a…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 09:18 PM
3

I know that I need to get big if I want to start "spinning plates" or attracting more women Get rid of this limiting mindset. Yes, lifting is extremely useful but you can find examples everywhere of alpha males who attract plenty of women who aren't ripped. In my opinion, without the fundamentals of game most people who are in above average shape will still have difficulties with women.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 11:22 AM
2

The two aspects that helped me the most and will continue to help me achieve what I want in life business and otherwise is: Networking Taking advantage of good opportunities I have been presented with, often through networking.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 09:48 PM
4

There's some excellent advice here already, but let me add my two cents. Become addicted to self improvement. Most peoples issues with willpower and discipline stem from being addicted or enjoying negative behaviors that give them instant gratification. You need to learn to become addicted to things that take more time to attain that gratification. Someone already mentioned taking cold showers, take two every day, one when you get up and the other before you go to bed. It might feel shit at firs…
/r/askTRP21/07/15 09:03 PM
1

Ignore her, but they often pop back up either to try and get you to orbit them again or because they want to fuck.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 10:14 PM
2

Stop drinking Cut her out. Don't think about her when you masturbate. Delete her from every aspect of your life. Keep fucking other women, keep improving. Oneitis takes time to get over. It does go away, but it will come back if you let it.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 09:15 PM
1

I'm currently on antibiotics as a result of really bad urinary symptoms that is likely caused by some form of bacteria or STD (Not gonorrhea or Chlamydia) and I can tell you right now that I will never fuck a ONS or a plate without a rubber ever again. I have had epididymitis which is not only extremely painful and uncomfortable but poses a serious risk to male fertility. Fuck that shit. In some ways this is the natural outcome for a lifestyle which includes banging sluts and spinning plates in …
/r/askTRP19/07/15 08:59 PM
1

The concept of inner game has been toted around for years, possibly several decades since the really early days of the Internet. The Red Pill is essentially an extension of inner game and facing up to the facts of human nature. Again, a lot of this behavior has been charted in studies of evolutionary psychology. As for who started the TRP sub and what caused them to do so I have no idea.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 06:58 PM
1

Radio silence. They pop back up more than they don't.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 06:53 PM
3

You know that when you write nearly 1000 words about a girl and the situation surrounding her that you have oneitis. Some people say bang ten other girls, but really just bang a few other girls and then tell us how great she is.
/r/askTRP19/07/15 03:22 PM
2

Yes, the problem however is that if the kid is yours then the courts can be very harsh!
/r/askTRP19/07/15 03:16 PM
2

In the UK it costs a fair bit of money; you're looking at around £1000 for all the initial tests (STD checks, sperm washing and analysis) and first years storage. Then you're looking at about £300-£500 a year in storage costs. We're lucky in the UK that with child maintenance if you dispute the kid is yours the court will order a DNA test. Recently there's been a few stories about guys who sent someone in their place and got caught. The cheapest option is to just get a DNA test as soon as the ba…
/r/askTRP18/07/15 09:39 PM
2

Each genders have their own advantages and disadvantages, part of TRP is understanding these and making the most of them. My opinion is most people in society today live unhappy and unfulfilling lives. Like /u/favours_of_the_moon said, make your own life worth living.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 09:10 PM
11

Get a dopamine release from positive things: Become addicted to self improvement.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 09:01 PM
5

When you're the Alpha in the group don't be surprised when people start copying you. I have a friend who is a bit of a sycophant anyway who actually repeats word for word things I say, solely because in that particular group I am the Alpha. One kid who worked for me started buying exactly the same clothes as me and dressing identically to me, listening to the same music, going to the same bars on different nights etc.
/r/askTRP17/07/15 04:56 PM
1

How many plates do you have on average at any one time? I actually find any more than three simply too time consuming.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 08:47 PM
3

Most people in a night of drinking will have a calorie surplus. A lot of people drink several times a week. How many fat girls do you see posting on Facebook about how they're going to get drunk tonight, every night?
/r/askTRP15/07/15 08:44 PM
1

Boxing/Martial arts Rock climbing Motor sport/working on cars DIY/carpentry/metal work Just a few ideas for you to sink your teeth into!
/r/askTRP15/07/15 08:34 PM
1

Even though the gun laws in the UK and most of Europe are insane you can still have great fun with pellet guns. I think the fact that shooting is so uncommon here has just inspired a new date idea.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 08:32 PM
1

I've moved to a new city recently, so once I've got a few plates down I think I'm going to pack in a lot of the going out and prowling for one night stands. I find it boring, as well as taxing financially and time wise.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 08:25 PM
1

London Fields/Hackney. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/London_Fields Plenty of alright hotels around that area, don't know about AirBNBs
/r/seduction15/07/15 08:22 PM
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90% of people I know who smoke weed daily are losers. They have no money, they can't hold jobs and they can't go a few hours without smoking. I'm not totally against weed. When I smoked, I met a lot of really cool people, I'm just not on that vibe anymore. It's skunk that I have the real problem with, IMO when you're using high powered lighting, huge amounts of chemicals and fertilizers to improve yield and potency it's no longer natural and smoking those chemicals is bound to be what causes a l…
/r/seduction15/07/15 08:18 PM
2

A great daygame spot is down by London Fields and Hackney in the sunny afternoons and evenings. Lots of Hipster bars and cafes with loads of hot girls around. I don't run daygame, its not my cup of tea, but if I did that would be my #1 spot.
/r/seduction15/07/15 08:06 PM
3

I'm in my early twenties. I had never fucked a girl before I learned about PUA around 2008ish. Back then there was no such thing as Red Pill - It was just referred to as 'inner game'. So, every girl I have fucked has been after 'swallowing the pill' if you like, but I believe the pill has to be re-swallowed and the ideas gradually internalised. Back when I lost my virginity, I had some RP values but I was nowhere near as RP as I am now. In total, I can name about 35 girls off the top of my head.…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 06:28 PM
1

I still suffer from panic attacks very occasionally, but went through a rough period with them, but this is what worked for me. Meditate before you sleep, if meditating several times a day helps, do that instead. Do things to raise your testosterone. Try and get to the root of what's causing these attacks. You may well need therapy for this. Get a supply of Benzodiazepines. Panic attacks can be absolutely terrifying and you need something to calm down. I'm not advocating using Benzo's daily, but…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 05:08 PM
3

One day in oktober I got a strange feeling while rope skipping. I started hyperventilating like crazy, I felt bad for days afterwards. Are you sure you're not having panic attacks? I find meditating works really well for preventing panic attacks and anxiety. Cold showers also work wonders.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 04:16 PM
1

YOU may have Trichomoniasis and given it to her. Has it always smelled? I estimate I might have had this STD for several years and dismissed certain symptoms because I was clean for the clap and Chlamydia. I'm going on antibiotics next week.
/r/askTRP15/07/15 09:52 AM
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I figure that no girl can be turned on in a LTR with a guy who makes less than she does, because then she feels like she's his mom which is obviously a turnoff for her You'd be wrong. There are a lot of Dark Triads including some former friends of mine who's girlfriends practically pay for them to exist. Hell, when I was younger an ex of mine even paid for me to get a driving license because she was tired of driving me everywhere. Tell her your an engineer, don't tell her how much you earn, guar…
/r/askTRP15/07/15 09:45 AM
1

I remember a well known PUA (Might have been Owen Cook) saying that they never get over their fear of rejection, they just internalise the fact that there are millions of other available, attractive women out there. That's the attitude you need to have.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 10:05 PM
1

If you have a normal name like John or David, then I don't think it effects you negatively. I was fortunate enough to have a rare name (foreign) and I shortened it anyway and a lot of people comment on it and its great conversation material. BTW, I shortened my name when I was a kid so I could stand out from the crowd. It worked.
/r/askTRP14/07/15 10:00 PM
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You have two options. A) Fake it til you make it and lie about it, although it will probably become abundantly clear that you don't really know what you're doing. B) Tell her you are a virgin, but act in a way and say it so that it is completely unbelievable to her. When girls ask me how many girls I've fucked if I don't tell them my roundabout number, I'll tell them I'm a virgin. She probably won't ask you that directly, its more likely to be a variant of how many girls have you slept with, pro…
/r/seduction13/07/15 11:12 AM
1

Something is fundamentally wrong with your game if you can meet 20 women and only kiss one of them. I'm not a natural but I can only think of a hanful of times where I agreed to meet a girl non-platonically and I didn't kiss her or got rejected. You need to think about three things. Where are you meeting these women and how do you interact with these women when you meet them? You say you're good looking, but do you really look as good as you could? How are your conversational skills? Since not b…
/r/seduction13/07/15 12:49 AM
2

You don't want to be a braggart and you are naturally modest. Just find ways of telling people about your job without feeling like you are bragging. When I ran a business I used to talk about it with a lot of people and hated doing so at first because I didn't want to sound like a braggart, but after a while people wanted to talk to me about it so I didn't really feel as if I was bragging. I hope this makes sense.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 11:38 PM
1

Don't forget money, too.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 10:35 PM
2

Abstain from porn by all means but I think abstaining from masturbation altogether isn't a good idea. The aim of the game for most Red Pillers is to have enough plates that they don't need to jack it because they can just fuck a plate as easily as they could load up porn. If I don't have a plate and I want to masturbate I will - Lack of masturbation has been linked to prostate cancer as well as prostatitis, two health problems you do not want. While the risk is minimal I think it is healthy for …
/r/askTRP12/07/15 10:30 PM
1

Watch it. There are some major RP tenets throughout. My favourite is the Beta Bitch who stays with his girlfriend while she fucks other men on camera. Another is the young girl who initially loves riding the carousel in exchange for money but gradually realises how out of her depth she really is.
/r/askTRP12/07/15 10:26 PM
1

Want to share your success with others? Make your job and role a topic of conversation. Find interesting or funny stories that also demonstrate your success and position. You must have been involved in the firing of a fuckwit employee? What about someone you managed having a catastrophic fuck up that people would find hysterical?
/r/askTRP12/07/15 10:22 PM
1

Gradually reduce contact, she'll get the message and you can come back to her in the future that way.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 05:49 PM
4

Radio silence. Then next. She will probably be back, I might add.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 05:48 PM
2

I can't imagine British college girls are much worse or better than American girls and the same applies for women in general. You certainly hear a lot less divorce rape stories in Britain than America, but its a smaller country and divorce rape definitely happens over here too.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 08:45 PM
1

Ditch them. I've learnt that 99% of the people you call friends in your life will either fade away or you'll ditch them if you're doing things right. If they hold you back, next them. If they cause you stress, next them. If they're ungrateful, next them.
/r/askTRP01/07/15 09:18 PM
1

She might not cheat. You have no real way of knowing until she gets back and even then, I suspect your instincts will tell you within a couple of days whether she cheated or not. Don't stress it, maybe start talking to a few potential plates and get things in the works for if she does. I've dated girls and had plates that have gone on vacation and not cheated or fucked around, maybe travelling alone is different but I don't think its a given. Your post reeks of insecurity, as opposed to realisti…
/r/askTRP30/06/15 06:11 PM
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Yeah, its good advice. IMO, you can go back to seeing a plate provided they're going to meet your needs. Otherwise, I don't see the point.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 12:19 AM
2

He probably just had higher SMV and better game than you. You are basically buying into her frame that she 'feels weird' because you're younger. She's just trying to rationalize that she's found someone who is more attractive than you. There's no shame in that. There are probably millions of men out there who have higher SMV than myself and a lot of other people posting here. Just keep doing you and keep growing.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 09:41 PM
5

Get a job. Start saving money ASAP. Once you've got a decent bit of money saved invest it and start putting more money into your savings. Once you've been working for a while then you can start to think about creating additional income streams. If I start a business again, then I will probably do it whilst also working a more regular job and do it with the expectation that it will make me less money than my actual job does.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:51 PM
2

What women say they want and what they actually want are two very, very different things.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:46 PM
2

Make as many friends as possible and network as much as possible. Go out solo as much as possible. When I went solo in college I had a much higher success rate than I did when I was with others. Be frugal with your cash too. Too many idiots in college spending money they didn't have when they were already thousands in debt.
/r/askTRP23/06/15 07:42 PM
1

I don't have a career, per se. I built a small business, which I passed on to someone else. The contracting work I do at the moment is basically highway construction. Long shifts and decent pay means five days of working pays for about a month of living expenses as I live pretty frugally most of the time. I'm moving to a major city with the hope of finding something more permanent while I build another income stream from the ground up.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 03:30 PM
1

At the moment I read, a lot. I try and walk a lot too. I work on my car and other peoples. I Vape. I spend a lot of time travelling, mainly across the UK but I try and get out of the country as much as possible (Just spent a few days abroad, planning to visit Prague and Paris soon too). I'm in a situation now where I have no plates and I'm basically on a vacation for two months working contractually every few weeks so I have a LOT of free time.
/r/askTRP22/06/15 12:03 AM
1

Ugh, stop having sex with her so much. Then find other women.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 07:14 PM
1

Don't cut yourself off. Be extremely productive but allow yourself to go out and meet new people. I went monk mode in January until May and still met lots of new people and people who I knew before I went Monk Mode noticed my increased SMV. Going out will also expose weak points in your game which you can address whilst in MM.
/r/askTRP20/06/15 07:12 PM
1

If that's your top priority and you're worried about it happening then you should be investigating other avenues too. A lot of people on TRP would laugh at you for even considering to have kids with a ~28 year old and they'd probably have a point. If you want a kid that badly I would seriously look at co-parenting of some kind.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 09:18 AM
1

Maybe I need to start meeting more MILFs...
/r/askTRP18/06/15 04:27 AM
1

Maybe we don't see them as viable lays and subconsciously aren't trying as hard/acting aloof? Example: One plate of mine was four years older and was living with my business partner who at the time was being fucking useless so she was seeing the fact I was on top of things constantly. I never thought about hooking up with her, because she was older, more career driven and I just wasn't that interested. During a few drinking sessions, she made hints several times before I finally realised that sh…
/r/askTRP18/06/15 04:17 AM
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Go and try and meet as many other single women as possible and then score an easy bang with the broad you came with. If its a ten year HS anniversary most of the single women are likely to be the bottom of the barrel, though.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 04:10 AM
1

How often do you speak/text her and how often do you fuck her? If its often, scale back on both. Sounds like she sees you as a potential boyfriend because you spend a lot of time with her. Plates aren't usually like that if you keep contact fairly intermittent. Alternatively you could either tell her straight up and she'll probably stick around as a plate until she finds a BB who will offer more commitment OR you could stop seeing her altogether.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 04:07 AM
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I'm a few years older than you and for the last two years most of the girls who I've plated have been older than me. I figure the fact I have my life a lot more together than other people my age is definitely a factor, combined with the fact I have a shitload more life experience. I also feel a lot more at ease talking to older women, I don't have any idea why and I've always been like that - one of the first girls I ever fucked was 3/4 years older than me. Like I said, I can only guess why. I h…
/r/askTRP18/06/15 04:02 AM
1

The James Altucher Show. There's a lot of interesting guests such as Neil Strauss, Tucker Max, Tim Ferris and James Altucher himself is a really interesting guy. Its more business/entrepreneur based than relationships, although some of his podcasts do focus on dating.
/r/askTRP17/06/15 02:32 PM
1

It does go away, eventually. I saw the first girl I ever fucked in a bar after 5 years of not even physically seeing her not long ago and I was blown away by how I just didn't give a fuck. There was no anger, no love, I just didn't feel anything other than an urge to stay away.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 01:23 PM
1

I had this problem too, first as a side effect of a keto diet and then after I lost 2.5 stone through intermittent fasting. I supplement with 30mg Zinc five days of the week and it has massively boosted my sex drive. I'm waking up with morning wood, getting random erections and taking notice of every woman I see or have any interaction with. Seriously, I feel like I'm going through puberty again. Also try cold showers to boost Test levels.
/r/askTRP11/06/15 12:16 AM
3

Don't respond. Feelings of oneitis are extremely prone to coming back again. Once in a period of no contact you should maintain it, for your own sanity if nothing else.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 01:42 PM
2

I wouldn't even bother responding. You kicked her out for a reason - She caused you emotional damage and to be honest she'll do the same again given half the chance. Having her around, even as a plate means that she'll simply consume time that you could otherwise spend with other women and bettering yourself. I've taken back bad plates and ex's too many times. It's nothing more than a waste of your time and it will hurt your progression.
/r/askTRP08/06/15 08:48 PM
1

Only have two plates at the moment, but things change all the time. Old plates come back and I get new ones from time to time. The most plates I've ever spun at once was 4/5 (One was several hundred miles away and I saw her very rarely, so I don't really count that.) and the longest time I've spun a plate for was about 4 years on/off. I've been fucking my main girl for two years now and she's about to get dropped come next week when I leave this city for good. The other plate is an associates ex…
/r/askTRP08/06/15 08:12 PM
1

Generally speaking, men are considerably more honest, perhaps too honest about how many girls they've banged. I've met plenty of guys who admitted to being virgins or inexperienced yet could definitely claim otherwise.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 05:25 PM
3

You don't have hair? Alopecia? I actually know a dude who is ridiculously popular, had a model girlfriend, all the usual BS who has Alopecia. He just rocks the fact he has no hair and guess what, people rate the fact he has the balls to do it. Years ago I met a guy with Alopecia in a bar trying to game girls. His confidence absolutely astounded me. You need to get out and rock it. Go out enough and you will see cripples pull girls. Part of being RP is that you don't make excuses and you do the b…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:15 AM
2

There's really no way to deal with the crazy ones. The longest plate I've ever spun was for 4 years on/off and I always knew she was crazy on some level but I didn't grasp the full craziness of the broad until she came to stay with me for a week in January and erupted into what can only be described as a psychotic episode. I drove her to the bus station, told her I was going no contact and immediately blocked her number and FB. Two days later and she's texting me off her mothers phone telling me…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 01:02 AM
5

Is this a troll? If not then dude, you need to break out of your comfort zone. I have a hairstyle that I find the most comfortable and feel the best in, but I've recently been styling my hair differently every single day of the week. Change is invigorating and boosts your confidence x2.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 12:51 AM
2

They love the attention. I don't blame them. I'd love 20 girls texting me every day of the week.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 07:21 PM
2

Women give their phone numbers out to just about anyone. I really only noticed this when I started to try and get phone numbers from every girl I approached instead of just the girls I escalated with.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 05:26 PM
1

No, she's an RPW anyway. She gives shitty relationship advice, but name a woman that doesn't.
/r/askTRP02/06/15 05:23 PM
3

My money is all in ethical funds. I started off with £10K my grandfather gave me and with the guidance he gave me I'm now close to £50K. I'm not qualified to give financial advice, but it may be another thing you might want to talk to a financial adviser about. And you should definitely talk to several advisers. Try and find people who others can recommend to you. Oh and check out /r/financialindependence and /r/investing!
/r/askTRP02/06/15 12:11 AM
2

I don't know the circumstances behind why you're breaking up, but if I were you I would avoid the bullshit that comes with having an ex as a friend. See it as a change of scenery. One of my best friends in the World is starting to be an annoyance and is starting to seriously piss me off with his entitled attitude and I am coming to terms with the fact I am going to have to cut him out of my life, even though we've been good friends for nearly a decade. On top of that, an LTR should never be your…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 10:09 PM
2

I would bank half of my take home income and invest it. On that income and assuming it grows, you could easily be Financially Independent by the time you're 35. I'd also invest in a cheap property to live in and pay it off within a few years. If I didn't have a car, I'd buy an old, reliable car for a few thousand dollars. No fancy sports cars or anything like that either. Oh, and I would keep it absolutely need to know in regards to the amount of money I was earning. I met an extremely BP guy at…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 09:08 PM
5

she's just a generally sexy flirty girl And therein lies your problem. Dump her. Don't even explain why.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 06:01 PM
19

I think like most people who ask questions like this, you know what the answer is. Even if you settle down and she's the perfect RPW, the fact she's slept with 18 guys and slept with her ex soon before you got together with her will always play on your mind. My advice would be to just leave, but its easier said than done and I think you know that leaving her is the right thing to do. It serves as a really important lesson, not just to you but to others here that you should always screen a girl b…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 05:24 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U0pXhDCoZ4c Here's a great clip of him talking about socialism and grades. I'd have killed for a professor like him, as opposed to the Marxist, feminist idiots who taught me.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 03:22 PM
1

I was chatting to a couple of guys last night who arranged a double date with a girl one of them had met on Tinder and her friend. They went to the bar to meet her and the broads are already there, talking to two other guys. The girls spot them, BUT the guys don't want to 'interrupt' them. Surprise, surprise... The girls leave with the dudes they were chatting too, without even speaking to the unfortunate chumps they were meant to be meeting with. The worst bit was they were dumbfounded as to wh…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 07:00 PM
3

I would try and get girl A to pay it, since she never mentioned it to you before and she needs someone to pay the rent. This arrangement is actually quite common and I know a lot of people who rent rooms over Summer at a discounted rate just so they can save themselves money if they're not there. Some councils in the UK let you pay annually - I'd check with your local council to see if it has been paid and you can check online to verify the monthly cost too. That being said, although not mention…
/r/askTRP31/05/15 06:33 PM
4

It encourages the attitude that spending money that you don't have is acceptable.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 06:41 PM
1

I personally think the ability to make instant transactions is bad news. I have a debit card I don't know the pin too that I can use for online transactions and use cash for my IRL transactions. I noticed when I had a debit card I spent much more money than I do now where I can actually physically see how much money I have and am spending. I withdraw my monthly expenses, always have a large amount of cash at my apartment for emergency purposes and have a cash card that can only be used at ATM's …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 06:40 PM
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I can empathise with this. I've built a business and yet people (Namely my parents and peers) still tell me to find a 9-5 job. Despite having a ridiculous amount of savings for my age, people still encourage me to go into debt. ("Get a credit card, it'll be useful for covering your expenses" "You should get a better, new car" etc.) I figure the only way is to ignore them and keep doing what I'm doing. Interestingly people are a lot more receptive to my casual comments about avoiding marriage and…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 06:22 PM
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If you know your parents Sky details you should be able to bypass the block. If not, I'd resort to getting a VPN for this kind of stuff. Even though they cost money, in terms of the amount of money TRP has probably saved me in the two years I've been lurking here, the cost of renting a VPN a month is negligible.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 11:34 PM
1

Keeping stum is an essential power play. I can't count the number of times I've fucked up or been fucked over because I opened my mouth. I'm a talkative person, but to those I don't trust my words are mainly misdirection. Greene didn't include Law 4 for no reason.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 09:30 PM
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