How can i be emotionally stable?

Rorta · 2015-08-07T23:14:06+00:00

Meditate, this will help you to react in a more calm and logical manner.

notthatguyTHATguy · 2015-08-08T00:28:13+00:00

Find the source of your emotional instability. Is it low self esteem? Is it genetics? Is it family upbringing? Then focus on improving that part of your life. Recognizing the source of the problem is the first step.

And grow some balls. Accept that the world is here to fuck you over. Deep down no one really gives a a shit that you solve problems or are intelligent or creative. Do it because you enjoy it. Deal with it. Welcome to adulthood.

FelixCopy · 2015-08-08T02:04:02+00:00

Read stoicism and actively work on stoic exercises.

trpftw · 2015-08-08T02:51:34+00:00

No the government is not collecting 45 percent tax (well not in the US, what country are you referring to?).

You've done bad research. Government collects marginal tax rate.

For the first $13,000 the government ONLY collects 10%. From $13,000 to 45,000, the government collects 15% of that. It's MARGINAL tax rate. Most countries have marginal tax rates.

Before you get pissed about something or think something is unfair, always research why it is that way.

90% of the shit people get angry about in the world, are shit they didn't do the proper research for. They "heard" something and it angered them without researching it or understanding why it happened.

You need to become outcome independent too. Yeah the government takes your money, sometimes unfairly, but without government you would be in the middle of a war zone instead of a safe neighborhood. I'm not saying government is "good", I'm just saying anything can be adapted to. I'm saying that being bitter about it won't help you. And you can't always look at everything as only cup-half-empty.

You gotta see the world from the eyes of evolution. Any challenge can be adapted to. Anything can be overcome. It shouldn't effect you. If it is angering you, you need to do the proper research and understand why it is that way.

druganswer · 2015-08-08T07:51:19+00:00

learn to like yourself without all of the things you "want" you'll be more objective and less emotionally volatile.

also, it sounds like you need to research your business more before you jump into it from the way you're talking

Title	How can i be emotionally stable?
Author	santander26
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	August 7, 2015 10:35 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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