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Her loss if being in madly in love with her drives her away... You want a girl that matches your personality, so repressing this is not going to work out for the best. The girl... There could've been a lot of reasons why she didn't text you back: she could've just forgotten, she could've had an emergency, ... Putting myself in her shoes: I would be very disappointed if someone I started seeing wouldn't even check up on me after I disappeared from the radar. You could still call her to ask if she…
/r/ExRedPill28/10/19 02:38 PM
1

How did the second girl ghost you? As in she didn't reply anymore? "I think I might have come across as too intense or something idk". How so?
/r/ExRedPill28/10/19 12:07 PM
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It is akward at first. However, most people 'naturally' suck at most things and need to learn them. Dealing with women is a skill like any other. Wether or not you find it worth your time to acquire this skill and make it second nature is up to you. I totally understand where you are coming from. I - like my wife - prefer to spend my rare free time by myself as well... Did you like the girls you were seeing?
/r/ExRedPill28/10/19 09:24 AM
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I have a theory: In my experience, women tend to lose interest if things do not move forward fast enough and are not exciting enough (the two are linked). You need the proper format: Don't 'date' and don't text. Dating puts you in an environment that make you indistinguishable from all other men. which is boring. Texting is slow and lame. Meet 1 (building comfort and trust). Go do something (preferably adrenaline inducing) you are passionate about instead, follow it up with quick dinner (sushi, …
/r/ExRedPill27/10/19 11:27 PM
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" they expressed strong interest in me". How so? "they disappear". How so?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/19 12:07 PM
1

What's the reason she doesn't want to come to your Thanksgiving?
/r/ExRedPill25/10/19 11:11 AM
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Red flags all over and a gut feeling... just let it be... "it's hurting the integrity of your relationship". I'd say it might as well be her not giving a f*** that is hurting the relationship. We can't tell from the data. "and its not protecting you from danger". I'd say it does protect if it prevents her taking advantage of him or STDing him.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/19 11:10 AM
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I say to you as a Redpiller: stay of the RP subreddit! That sub has become toxic. You are linking your happiness to another person. That is never healthy. That being said, everyone likes external validation from their partner. Otherwise, you're in an abusive relationship where you give and get nothing in return. She cheats or she makes you feel like she is cheating, you break up. She doesn't want to come to Thankgiving even though you explained it's super important , you break up. She threatens …
/r/ExRedPill25/10/19 10:51 AM
1

The Red Pill is like any extremist group: they correctly view that there is a problem with men women relationships in the West, but they completely miss the ball and/or hugely differ in how to solve this problem (ChadTC, Married Red Pill, MGTOW, antisemitism (wtf!?), ...). The Red Pill is the idea that men and women are biologically and mentally different, pursue different and often conflicting mating strategies, and that the West is biased contra men and pro women. I've kept this view now for s…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/19 09:58 AM
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I'm studying aviation science to become a parachute quality tester.
/r/askTRP28/10/15 10:39 AM
1

Yeah, that's what I mean when I say you can't beat women at this game. Just tell her your refuse to play her game and to stick to the issue. Also, tell her that her feelings are not an objective reality, but her subjective problem. You'll notice that once she capitulates and sticks to the issue, she is left with nothing to argue. Then own her and demand amends for being a cunt (no sexual acts because she should do those because she loves you. Just for an idea: I accept a bottle of good whiskey).…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 08:59 PM
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Newer, different, better. Next!
/r/askTRP27/10/15 10:55 AM
1

You should listen to the woman if she has a point. However, what is unacceptable is when she tries to get what she wants by using (verbal) violence, psycho/emo manipulation, drama, crying, deceit, ect... This includes language and frame wars that women are wont to engage in. Ex: I said A but meant B, you said C but it felt like D. That sort of behaviour should not be tolerated. You shouldn't fight. You'll never beat a woman in debate because they care about winning, not finding the truth. You ne…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 10:49 AM
2

He should blame her. What she did was evil. She could have left him or just pushed him in the direction she wanted like loving women do. Instead she abused him so bad that he almost killed himself.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/15 10:01 AM
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Own it brother! Fire whip poison deck and damage on discard deck are my favourites.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 07:37 AM
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Hi, my name is Bellum00 and I play MTG. It makes a lot of sense for a man to only commit to women in their early twenties: you have to evaluate if she's a keeper, then build a nest and have children together. This requires time, something older women don't have. I started dating F23 when I was 30. We've bought a house and have a son on the way in little over two years. She'll be 26 when she gives birth to my first child, and will need a break to recover. Meaning she'll be about 28 when she gives…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 07:29 AM
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She was subconciously aware that her low SMV kept her from leaving. Her mind protected her from this truth by requalifying Nick as undesirable. She vented because she wanted affirmation that her new reality was in fact real. Exact same process as low SMV men telling themselves and others that they don't want a harem.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:08 AM
1

Exposure breeds contempt and experience builds confidence. The reason you care is because you are not fully confident about your shoes. You don't care what some fuckwit thinks of your shoes when they saved you from gliding down a clay mountain in a monsterous tempest and dropping of a cliff unto jagged rocks. Or when you swept across a club with them, opening hotties left, right and centre. Also, I bought shoes with a flowered print last year. Some loved them, some didn't like them, but ALL comm…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 12:32 PM
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She wants the D. Not good game to point out her whorishness. She's just flirting and you had to make it all personal. Quite frankly, you need to bang this girl and tell your friend so he can have a better life.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 09:17 AM
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I prefer dark haired, golden skinned girls, so I'll use blondes as a pivot. I love stating "I don't do blondes" in the middle of a group of women. It leads to qualifying by the blondes, who are (of self-)perceived high value and who you can then neg further about not being natural blondes, and amused interest (schadenfreude?) of the other women.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 08:40 AM
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Most modern jiu jitsu clubs in Europe mix karate, judo and aikido. Aikido is used for basic locks and escapes. It is not a good idea to mix in Aikido because it is a weapons art that requires understanding of evasion and one cut one kill, and it doesn't blend well with sport arts like modern karate and judo.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 01:14 PM
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Flip the script and see how this story looks when a man picks up a homeless woman. "Rich man lures homeless woman to hotel under pretense of hot shower and warm bed, then takes advantage of her".
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 12:56 PM
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This is the number one problem working with women. If you take initiative and don't report back you risk being fired for crossing boundaries, and if you don't take initiative and report back you risk being viewed as incompetent. It also depends on the time of the month what a female boss wants from a male employee. Studies show women favor women in the workplace. This is probably the reason for it. All you can do is pray to the gods of poon that your boss is relatively sane.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 07:19 AM
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Your mistake was taking her serious when she said she wanted commitment, instead of treating it as a shit-test and comfort-test all rolled into one. You should have laughed and replied "I'm a man of my word. I can't commit before sex. What if you're horrible in bed?". Enjoy the fallout and then throw in "Okay, let's compromise: I'll put it in halfway... No? I'm willing to accept a BJ or a Spanish massage". Then finish with "You're taking this too serious. Let's just have fun, go with the flow an…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 09:56 AM
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Become an adrenaline junkie instead.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 07:31 AM
3

Guns are illegal in Belgium, yet somehow a known terrorist was able to board a Thalys train with a bag full of heavy firearms and ammo. Thank God for those US heroes who saved the day. Germans and Swiss own guns, but they don't have nearly as many problems.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 09:28 AM
1

You missed the mark entirely. The New Testament explicitly states that everyone is nice to those that are nice to them, and that God rewards those that are nice to assholes because the world does not reward them. It also states that the healthy don't need healers. Being nice to assholes and sinners is the essence of Christianity.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 11:34 AM
1

Christians can do whatever they want as long as it isn't evil and doesn't hinder their mission to do good. A wife and children more so than a plate would keep me from giving up my riches and devoting myself to the Lord's work in Africa.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 11:28 AM
1

Explain to him that his expectations are not the norm and therefore unreasonable.
/r/askTRP06/10/15 07:57 AM
1

It used to be a full time job. Then automation happened. Now it's a part time job. It merits respect, but it is not hard work and easily combined with a full time job, especially if you divide chores and hire for cleaning. Basically it's groceries, cooking and children that you have to do as a family.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/15 09:40 AM
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Massive shit test. Stand your ground. She's completely in the wrong. Flip the script and make the issue about her not trusting you, her making dancing sexual and her projecting infidelity.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 09:35 AM
6

Why not get surgery and fix it?
/r/askTRP02/10/15 09:00 AM
15

We had a case of a 16 year old boy that wanted to become a girl in Belgium. He already dressed as a girl in public. The judge ruled - respectfully - that he couldn't have hormonal theraphy, considering he was underaged and could change his mind. That boy turned 18 and changed his mind. How is this even legal!? This is child abuse! Munchausen by proxy comes to mind.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 12:07 PM
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Women are not goldfish. They don't forget you, they reject you. "Asking if you don't mind going for drinks another day." It's a test to evaluate your social capital: available equals low SMV. Moreover you enter her frame. I think the reply should be that you are not available for a while, and that you will contact her if/when you find the time.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 09:34 AM
2

You're in competition with yourself, not with others.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 09:11 AM
4

Just tell her: "I'm doing this activity at that time, you should come". If she's into you, she'll come. If her boyfriend then flips out, he'll look like a tool. Survival of the sexiest.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 09:06 AM
1

"Don't worry, I won't harpoon you." Coughs and states "gently".
/r/askTRP29/09/15 09:33 AM
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Haha, fair enough. You're not really into her. Have a heart and let that little calf have a chance at some real calves' love.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:38 PM
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Massive red flag. Normally women will mark their territory with visible hickeys, public displays of affection and Facebook.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:38 PM
2

Hillary couldn't even manage her husband or her mail, let alone that she could manage the world's biggest empire.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 02:09 PM
9

Silver lining: she gave up on you as a long term partner after 8 months but dumped you after 18 months, so you must be good in bed.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:47 AM
1

Pros (in theory): three wives, effective criminal system, no interest rates, constitutional monarchy, constitutional right to social security. Cons (in theory): no booze, no bacon, have to kill all unbelievers. Meh, I'm divided on the issue...
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 08:20 AM
1

Yes, it's the Jewish masterplan to create a grand Caliphate of Europe, the ME and the steppes, because that couldn't possibly go wrong for Jews...
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 08:11 AM
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I agree. Being a total dick yields better results than being a massive pussy, but that doesn't mean it's something to aspire to. Dark Triad, sociopath, psychopath, emotionally abusive game might attract some women with issues and a whole twenty dollars, but it won't keep any woman. More importantly, being a cunt won't lead to happiness.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 07:51 AM
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I'd cancel the wedding and not tell her. Next.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 07:42 AM
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Wait until after the birth. The stress could damage the unborn child. Use that time to lawyer up.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 11:52 AM
1

Yes. It makes them hamster and turn hostile.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:12 AM
2

Pro tip: splash some water on her when washing the dishes.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 09:00 AM
2

Women are always on the market for an upgrade. Just invite them (both?) over for some home-cooking and vino and see what happens.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 08:26 AM
2

Wait until after the birth. The stress could damage the unborn child. Use that time to lawyer up.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 08:18 AM
0

Take her to and in the restaurant. Best of both worlds.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 08:14 AM
2

Sales and marketing don't matter, just have a good product...
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 02:12 PM
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Gaming can be fun, autocensoring is somewhat tiring. Women are fair-weather-friends. You can't really talk to them because it kills their interest. I reserve deep conversations about my fears, hopes and dreams for my best friend.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:32 AM
1

Style PUA (Neil Strauss) used this as a disqualifier. "It's not lying, it's flirting". Proceed and seduce her.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 09:20 AM
0

No for 'European socialism', where we have clientilism for the poor, fascism for the middle class and libertarianism for the rich. Yes for real socialism, the optimal (re)distribution of resources for utalitarian purposes. There is no freedom possible without socialism, only survival of the fittest, slavery and uncontrolled growth and collapse. Freedom without real socialism requires a physiocratic world, where every human has enough skill and property to ensure his own survival, quod non. In th…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 08:54 AM
1

This style reminds me of David X PUA.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:15 AM
2

No. It's not worth trying to save the relationship. If she plays the break up card she is either genuinly done with you or a dramatic emotional vampire trying to leech on you.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 02:51 PM
1

Damn right! I find real intelligence and calm reasoning very attractive qualities in a woman. Pretty women are abundant, good women are rare. We have an expression in my language: "You can't eat from just a beautiful table". It's comforting to know that my children won't be doomed if something were to happen to me.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 01:50 PM
1

Can you support this statement?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 12:30 PM
2

You shouldn't feel threatened or even care if you're the alpha. Let her enjoy her freedom and see what happens. If she causes much drama or cheats: good, next. If she regulates her own behaviour and doesn't cheat: good, carry on. It's a win-win.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/15 08:43 AM
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For day game dating: Do something that involves physical activity. Throw a frisbee on the beach and go for a swim, go ice skating and build a snowman, walk around the zoo, ... Releases feel good hormones. Follow whatever you are doing with food. I prefer cooking or a picknick over restaurants. Once shows you're a chef and lets you order and neg her, the other shows you have money. I'd say only go to a restaurant if you know the owner and it's your favorite place in the world. Again, releases fee…
/r/askTRP18/09/15 09:12 AM
2

She wants the D.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 08:12 AM
1

I think it's normal. There's a massive difference in quality of sex between women in general, and between women that trigger your chemicals and those that don't in particular. After experiencing hot sex with an interesting HB9 up to seven times a day, it makes sense if you can't be arsed to perform for mediocre sex with a vapid HB6 thrice a week.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 07:57 AM
1

I share an account with my wife and check it every three months. I will debate her on expenses that I consider unwarranted, and I will check for possibilities to save money. Every purchase that is not groceries must receive my fiat and can face my veto.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 01:44 PM
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Poor woman. Get your wife her surgery and get someone to help with the children. Be extra kind to her, buy her flowers, give her a kiss on the forehead and tell her she can take a break from sex and that you still love her.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/15 01:34 PM
2

I like your thoughts on the matter, but disagree. Bastards are a massive drain on resources. Women will always be threatened by you having other women, because you might father children by these women and create competitors for her children.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 08:34 AM
1

"She does not know that I know." How do you know? This is crucial info.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 09:02 AM
1

It's a test to see if you are weak. Not the best idea to let possible swindlers know you have too much money and little spine (which is why your wife is married to you, according to you). I ignore it and talk business. Usually they knock it off, but sometimes they'll keep it up. Just take your business elsewhere. Next.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/15 08:58 AM
1

I don't know about you, but after a flight I want to take a shower, brush my teeth and have a nap. I'd go for a hug and some light kino at the airport, have her freshen up at my place and then get her all dirty again.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 11:43 AM
1

Can't be done. I don't have any. They always end up going for sex. I had one female friend once upon a time, because we both had zero attraction for each other. I lost her all of a sudden when she settled down. Probably because I knew all her dirty secrets, and became a liabilty.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 11:32 AM
1

Use women's speech. Don't make it about her. Make it about you, your standards and being an example for your future children.
/r/askTRP11/09/15 11:25 AM
6

The irony of that soldier in Afghanistan and his wife is troubling. He's fighting for his wife's freedom that she's using to destroy him, against totalitarian Islam that would benefit him.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 10:02 AM
1

I'm the boss of my sphere, she's the boss of her sphere, and we both have veto in the common sphere. It either works because you both govern your own and the common sphere in a good way, or it doesn't because one is a cunt. Nexting is easier than micro-managing someone else. I'm not going to struggle for power if a woman doesn't respect my right to decide my own life or have my say in our shared life, I'm going to kick her to the curb and replace her with one that 'just gets it'.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 07:37 AM
1

Religion is widespread, so we can deduct that religion provides an evolutionary advantage.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 09:58 AM
2

Sit-ups build abs, they don't cause weight loss. Stop drinking. Sprint 1 minute, then in the interval do one of these: 25 push ups 25 squats 50 sit ups (correct technique is going up with a straight back - focus on a point on the ceiling). 25 sit up leg raises 0,5 min monkey walk 0,5 min army crawling 0,5 min seal crawling 0,5 min goose walking 0,5 min frog jumps Do this as long as you can (just before you puke). Your ultimate goal is 1 hour of this twice a week. Go swimming once a week.
/r/askTRP10/09/15 09:15 AM
1

Forget all that a relationship is a power struggle crap. A healthy relationship is one where both parties control their own sphere and they both respect that. One party using veto means it's a no go. A woman that doesn't respect that should be nexted.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 07:31 AM
2

No, I'm assuming men are polygamous and women are hypergamous, except in harsh environments were they might have to fall back on monogamous behaviour for survival and reproduction. Chimpanzees might do this, but humans don't. Ergo the bigger testicles on chimps and the smaller testicles on humans. I don't know about you, but if Sue is banging the whole town then I'm not going to think it's mine. This is hardwired evopsych stuff. Ergo our ancestors would've thought the same.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:01 PM
1

Disagree. The male counterpart of the female war bride mechanism is war, not oneitis. Being dumped by a woman hurts the core because in a small tribal society this would mean ALL women you had access to now know you're another woman's reject. Game over.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 07:41 AM
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This attitude won't work if you have children and a house together. You can be the guy with more to lose, you just have to accept you can lose and don't let it trouble you. A samurai can be cut down, he just accepts it and doesn't let it trouble him. You can't avoid the bad that goes with the good, only accept it.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 07:25 AM
1

What you did was not "de bon gout". You were an aggressive, moronic, barbaric, drunken cunt.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 01:02 PM
1

Just so I understand, are you claiming that all women are all nurture?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 12:21 PM
1

30 something men should LTR and have children with 20 something women. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 10:20 AM
1

Follow the advice given by griefpickle. I would like to add that you should not suggest food as an activity. It lacks imagination and she might not like that type of food. Any suggested activity should involve the following: It gets the blood flowing and releases feel good chemicals. It doesn't have to be a triatlon or alpinism, throwing a frisbee or building a snowman will do. It demonstrates value. Teaching her surfing at your favorite surfing spot followed by a picknick is good (shows high in…
/r/askTRP07/09/15 09:35 AM
1

Get rid of the temptation.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 08:59 AM
1

Credibility.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 08:58 AM
0

What depresses you is not AWALT, it is women not rising up to the challenge and self-regulating themselves. You will notice in life that most people - men and women - love not liberty but license, and will use their freedom to excuse their evil. This theme is constant in all matters (see the Bible or Milton and Burke). Accept evil as inherent to the world. Accept you cannot change, rule or flee the world. Realize that you do have full control of yourself, your actions and your views (when action…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 08:27 AM
1

Red Pill way is to treat your woman as a queen, but also to make sure you're treated as a king. You have to be the best, but you will also be treated as the best. Moreover, your entire premisse is wrong. The meaning of life isn't to be happy, it's to do one's duty (Sakamoto Ryoma).
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 09:02 AM
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Biggest contributions: LTR with HB9 ten years ago. I've been surfing on a wave of confidence and social proof ever since. Also Game. Fastest/easiest contribution: suit and tie.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 08:24 AM
1

They are not opposites. Attraction and security would be mutually exclusive if consistency was required, quod non. I can dominate my girfriend in bed and afterwards pet her until she falls asleep. I can put my foot down and then kiss her on the forehead. I can slap her ass or hug her lovingly. You need both in an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 08:23 AM
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The problem is that she admitted fucking lots of randoms without protection. He couldn't have known she was an STD farm until she confessed having casual sex and until she didn't ask for a condom. There is no 100% protection against some STDs so walking away is more than sensible if the girl is a rawdogging slut.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 08:23 AM
1

You did the right thing. This self-destructive girl could have given you a nasty STD.
/r/askTRP01/09/15 08:16 AM
1

It's not LMR but a comfort test. She wants commitment. Also, maybe she's a virgin?
/r/askTRP31/08/15 01:24 PM
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Indeed. You can base your entire game on it. Yesterday I was going home by train in the evening. Old beta was trying to impress HB7 with his worldly knowledge. They were discussing exciting urban life versus bourgeois country life. I was reading but actually growled when he said he enjoyed my nations capital, which is a shithole. HB7 opened me by asking my opinion. I lauded old Beta's ability to find beauty in this concrete monstrosity, but stated I prefer nature and escape in it every chance I …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 11:48 AM
1

No, just like I don't feel like I'm missing out when I'm enjoying a lobster dinner even though fastfood is an option.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 11:23 AM
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A girl once came up to me and asked if it was true that I was the campus bike and that every girl got a ride. I smiled and answered "only the pretty ones". We ended up in bed that very same evening, so I reckon it's rather a good thing to be known as a man whore. If women call you a fuckboy, why not flip the script, smile and answer "I'm a sexually liberated man, ya bigot".
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 08:22 AM
2

Exactly, but always remember Machiavelli. You should either treat men kindly or destroy them utterly.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 02:59 PM
1

Nexting is the best and only thing you can do. LTR is a cunt. Newer and better. Next. Someone is being a cunt during sports. I don't play with him anymore. Next. Boss is a cunt. I quit. Next. What's your alternative?
/r/askTRP26/08/15 02:50 PM
0

News flash: ugly men often get hot girls because of charisma and/or money. Get contacts, shave head, shave face, lift.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:23 PM
10

Wait 3 days, then reply "Sorry, I was in the shower".
/r/askTRP26/08/15 01:14 PM
2

The only power you have as a man in any modern relationship (LTR, friendship, job) is walking away. Just leave when you feel wronged and don't look back. No argumenting, no getting angry, just walking away.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 09:51 AM
1

Everything good has bad in it and vice versa. You are free again, will lust and love again. More importantly, you will grow as a person. Lawyer up and stop being a victim. Don't do anything stupid that will land you in jail and make you Bubba's LTR.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 08:32 AM
2

The problem is you stepped into her frame and discussed logistics as if she was a man. Texting and dating women is like a blitz krieg. You plan something and execute it. "I'm building a snow man in the park tomorrow at 07:00. You should come. Bring hot chocolate with honey in it". In your case, the answer should read: "vale". It's not a shit-test, it's an excuse. If a woman likes you she will run through a mine field in a blizzard just to spend five minutes in your company.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 07:42 AM
1

In Belgium we don't have these mandated anticonceptives for non-married people. Most of us just conceive outside of marriage. We Belgians marry for two reasons: for love or for tax evasion.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 12:44 PM
1

Have/demonstrate high SMV and give women an excuse to see it and pursue it. Give zero fucks. Train convo: Blantantly checked out a girl's ass as she was walking in front of me and seated myself diagonally opposite her with one bench in between. Me: "Beg your pardon, could I have a tissue". Her: "I'm on to you. You don't really want a tissue...". Me: Get tissue from older woman and trumpet blow nose. Return to seat ignoring her. Her: "I have a tissue..." Me: "I like your purple socks, they give o…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 08:08 AM
1

Laugh and flip the script: "a date sounds awesome... just the two of us... I love suprises".
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 01:50 PM
1

In my country we have this magical thing called mail. We use it inform others of important issues, and the content of what has been said is saved for the ages. Someone - let alone a manager - claiming that they handled something like this by phone (or morse code, or smoke signals), would be fired.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 09:57 AM
1

You have good game. First date she refused to go back to your place. Probably she was on her period. Second date was initiated by her so she was definitely interested. Fact that she didn't eat and wore a thong supports that she intended to sacrifice on the altar of venus. You came off as too experienced. She threw you a comfort test and you treated it as a shit test/LMR. Maybe she was hunting for a LTR and she realized you were no LTR material.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 08:53 AM
2

Indeed. I was thinking of the Orthodox jews in Antwerp when I wrote "much needed new genetic material". They stricly adhere to their ideology and only marry within their community. This inbreeding causes many defects, so they're trying to add some jews from Israel and New York. The European Union obviously has enough genetic diversity to last until the end of time.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 11:04 AM
3

Women see betas the same as we see old, fat or ugly women: not at all. I went out of my way on the train to pay attention to some old fat and ugly women, and I realized I've never noticed them before even though they commute to work with me every day. The fat women with a pretty face are strange. Some could be really beautiful if they lost weight. Their lives would be improved by some exercise in the same way a man's would by years of hard work, yet they can't be arsed.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:53 AM
7

You would enjoy the Abolition of Work by Bob Black. Here's the truth. You can be a slave to work or a slave to nature, and everything in between. You'll always be a slave to yourself. There is no freedom except in your head... and that's okay because ours is a gilded cage. Better to serve in heaven than to reign in hell.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:26 AM
4

TL;DR Racism is natural and rational, policy should channel and check it instead of fighting and condemning it. The nazis (and the rest of the world at that time) were actually racist: they believed there were superior and inferior races. Obviously there must be objective differences: natural selection and (eu)genetics will result in different 'breeds'. Ironically, the jews should then be rather above average because of their brutal past and reverance for intelligence. That being said, mistreati…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:07 AM
1

Indeed. It's the same everywhere because legislators consider relationships as an insitution belonging to the state instead of a contract between equal parties. Two lawyers could get married in Malta under Maltese law with a national contract on the side declaring Maltese law applicable, and most countries would still consider that the absence of divorce is not acceptable.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 09:59 AM
1

I imagine it could be because you do not feel invested in your achievements because they are externally (biologically or economically) mandated and not internally chosen. Sort of like having a girlfriend that ticks all your boxes but that you're not in love with. I missed my graduation from law school to go to a job interview because I didn't care about finishing law school. This after five years of studying and working every day from morning til evening. I didn't care I landed the job and got a…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 12:50 PM
1

If you're meeting but you're not doing horizontal activities, then she's a friend. Just next her and get out of orbit.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 01:24 PM
1

Wipe out her tribe, raze her village, salt the earth, burn her kin, violate her on the ashes of said kin, nail an extra pair of ears to the back of her head and impale her as a lesson to others. Unless this is what you had in mind, you're asking how to demonstrate that you find this behaviour undesirable. If she's a date, she's just not into you. Next. If she's an LTR, just tell her and if she doesn't comply remove some form of commitment or next her.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 11:58 AM
2

Personally, I've always viewed gender change as a form of escapism, similar to materialism and hedonism. You think you'll be happier when you can behave like a woman, but you won't be. Happiness isn't permanent. You'll settle in your new reality and go looking for another fix. Also, your view on womanhood is an outsider's view on the life of attractive women. The grass ony looks greener on the other side of the fence. Daniel Tosh adequately pointed out that if you're ugly as a woman, then your l…
/r/askTRP07/08/15 08:09 AM
11

You converting for her is a massive failed shit-test.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 07:49 AM
1

Yes. There are old precedents. In the continental tradition these precedents are not binding, so ultimately it's up to the judge, but since it's a contractual marital obligation there is little room to manoeuvre. However, in my country (not France) we have no fault divorce, strict limitation of alimony in time, men with money marry with separation of goods, cheating is no longer a criminal offence, and civil moral damages are capped, so it's a bit of an anachronism. Divorce and having a maîtress…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 10:19 AM
1

In France and other countries that have the Code Napoleon, there is a contractual marital obligation to have normal sexual relations (defined by jurisprudence as vaginal intercourse at a minimum of three times a week). A man could sue and win as well. Rape within marriage is a criminal offence, but breach of contract leads to civil damage and compensation. Excellent solution to the problem.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 07:53 AM
2

Breakfast in bed. Pancakes, waffles, strawberries, champagne... Give her a book with photo collage of pics of the two of you as a couple, accompanied by cocky-funny comments. Last page should contain a frame with a question mark, accompanied by hints concerning activities planned that day. Plan an experience she'll enjoy. Provide a picnic for afterwards, get a bottle of bubbles or vino, drive up to the sea or wander into the wild. Eat, drink, fool around, cuddle, ... Go back for suprise party/di…
/r/askTRP04/08/15 08:52 AM
0

I left every girl I've ever been with except for my present. I did so because I believed my situation would improve (infatuation, chemistry, hotter girl, less drama, better mother material, more common values, ect...), and I was right. Women take blows to the ego as well. They get left for better women, or even just for younger women. A man can mold himself into an alpha (unless you're dumb or short), but a woman can't make herself any younger.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 08:09 AM
8

They were talking to a group of strange men, her friend was getting some action, yet she wasn't? She didn't guard her drink in an unfamiliar setting? Her close friend just abandoned her in a foreign country? Even if it did happen, she put herself in a situation where she was raped. So either she is lying or she is unbelievably stupid. Neither are attractive qualities.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 03:13 PM
2

You need to nip undesirable behaviour in the bud. It could be a shit-test, a comfort-test or just her being a cunt, but once I decided it's annoying I will end it. I treat it as follows: Amused mastery (humour, forgive and forget). Pointing out undesired behaviour and requesting she stops it. Warning about removal of a perk (which equates removal of commitment). Removal of said perk. Next. Most important thing to accept is that some women never learn, and you have to next them. Sticking around w…
/r/askTRP30/07/15 02:36 PM
0

There is no right to privacy in a relationship, except the right to take a dump in private. You should respect one another's privacy as much as possible, but that doesn't mean you can't ask full transparency when you need it. Just tell her what you saw, that you find this suspicious and that you would like to look through her mails. She can then make her choice. Taking away her agency by spying is unmanly and immoral.
/r/askTRP29/07/15 12:28 PM
1

My list: No habitual partying. Offering to pay for herself or buying me a round. Sports (especially dancing, figure skating and horse riding). Sense of humor and relativism concerning self. Sense of justice and acknowledgement of past mistakes. Good with children in her family. Kind to animals. No fair weather friend. Has real friends. Solid professional and financial plans. Has steady job. Modest in dress, frugal in life. Knows how to cook. ...
/r/askTRP28/07/15 01:58 PM
3

You know what this sort of texting demonstrates. That you have a lot of free time and emotions, and that's never attractive. Next time keep it simple. "I'm going bouldering tomorrow. You should come". If she's into you she'll come, even if it's something she doesn't normally do. Also, I think you'll be fine with this girl. Just ignore her until she contacts you to meet up.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 01:29 PM
1

Do nothing. Most men can't do this because it's so hard, so they try to amuse and entertain the target. You're a man. You don't have to be playful. Your frame is all wrong. You should approach a date not as an event where you have to perform, but as a chance to judge performance. Think of a date like a job interview. Ask her relevant questions and make her qualify herself. Answer her questions if she earned it. Insert negs and swat down shit-tests. That's all there is to it. Games, such as palmr…
/r/askTRP28/07/15 01:11 PM
2

Do nothing.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 12:49 PM
2

Volunteered for my regional Santiago de Compostella Society some years ago. I walked in and was given an important position on the council right of the bat. Learned a lot. I met the bishop of my province, the minister of social security and the Spanish ambassador in my first year. Volunteering is awesome.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 12:33 PM
2

Aqua di gio.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 12:00 PM
1

A wife is to a husband what a cabinet is to a king. My wife rules, micro-manages and takes initiatives. I have absolute veto, macro-manage, guide and take intiatives. My wife is very competent. She has to be because I don't suffer incompetence. Being able to go nuclear and to next is a conditio sine quod non for any relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 08:41 AM
1

Solid FR. Good use of kino, cocky-funny and negs.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 08:08 AM
1

PUA tactics that are legit and make total sense: Peacocking (displaying something so women have an excuse to open you. Muscle is ideal). Canned openers (because you don't always have something to say). False time constraint (so she can evaluate your SMV without stress). Shit-tests. Negs (shotgun and sniper). Kino escalation. LMR and response. Three second rule in social gatherings (illusion that you're popular/pre-selected). Opening the set, not (just) the target. ... What's the alternative? Lif…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 02:18 PM
1

TRP is strategy, PUA is tactics. You want to know both.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 01:45 PM
5

TL;DR: Red Queen Theory applies to life. Everyone can get ripped. Not everyone has what it takes to be professional top tier man. Doing so also has consequences. I finished law school. I'm a lawyer. Most of my close friends are lawyers (some are engineers). All of my competition are lawyers, engineers, architects, ect. Absolutely, I got up and made it. Relatively, I'm mediocre. Also to the few women who I consider worthy because of my changed world view. Red Queen Theory. You level up and life o…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 08:15 AM
2

Legal abortion should be available for men. The woman writes the man via official way that she is pregnant with his child. He replies via official way that he does not want said child. The woman can then decide if she wants an abortion or birth said child. Gasp! This would mean women would have to seek - or worse - demand proof of consent before conceiving, instead if just being wild and free. Utter madness!
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 02:05 PM
1

I don't think OP even recognizes his wife is abusive. She's just fighting to keep the status quo. Let's reverse roles: Woman: I want you to get a job and stop beating me. Man: smacks her in the mouth yelling that what she's asking causes too much stress.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 09:47 AM
1

Your wife is a SAHM that doesn't do her job. Fix this. She should take care of the household, cook, clean, ect. Explain to her once that this is fair and you expect what is fair. You tell her and then the conversation is over. Communicate clearly that this is not open for negotiation. Your wife starts tantrums when she doesn't get what she wants. Fix this. Explain to her once that this is a form of spousal abuse, not acceptable and bad for the children. You instruct her to refrain from such beha…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 09:42 AM
1

Wow, that's so disrespectful. It not only demonstrates that she values you for what resources (not tingles?) you give her, it also shows she compares your capicity to do so with other men's. The equivalent would be you asking your wife to get plastic surgery so she would look more like a young Claudia Cardinale. Worse, it's idiotic. Once basic needs and some luxuries are indulged any money that is left should be invested for the future of the family. Women are supposed to know this. I would next…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 08:45 AM
1

First of all, own your shit. It's your fault for not doing your homework, not your academic councillor. Second, you sound like you have a lot of issues (postponing school again, drinking to the point where it impacts on finances, howl-crying, ...) so I doubt you'll offer much moral support. Third, he won't have any time for you because he will be busy. Any woman becomes a burden at that point. You make jokes and funny faces to get his attention while he is working. Fourth, money is tight, yet yo…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 12:11 PM
1

First respond with humour, then ask her slightly annoyed/disappointed to knock it off, then command her to stop or you will revoke insert some form of commitment. However, if you fucked up you should indeed apologize and make amends (because nothing is more worthless than an empty apology).
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 11:40 AM
1

Your findings are correct but your conclusions are wrong. This has everything to do with women's emotions, or rather the hamster: the reality of rape is refused or the victim is blamed by female jurors because they want to protect their psyche and believe they won't/wouldn't have been be raped. Source: criminal psychology and criminal sociology in law school.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 09:58 AM
3

Makes my stomach turn. You have to place this into context though. This happened right around the Dutroux affaire in Belgium, which placed enormous pressure on judicial systems to prove they can protect minors from sex offenders. Obviously this resulted in a witch hunt, where "in dubio pro reo" took some serious hits. The German wiki also states that the public prosecutor held back evidence that favored the defendant. Most likely this man's life was destroyed because the German justice system wa…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 09:37 AM
1

Great, you understood exactly what I wanted to convey. Personally, I would give up casual sex with other women (for now) and focus on my family and children. Once children are present, you will have very little time between work, your wife, children, sleep, your hobbies, ect... Messing around would just take quality time away from your children. I would rather spend my evening reading my child great fairy tales than getting hot and sweaty with some conquest. Maybe it would help if you didn't see…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 07:26 AM
1

Haha, I'll do just that if they rename the sub redpillmonogamy instead of marriedredpill ;) OP asked to talk some sense into him. The problem is he's seeing everything really black and white right now. I reckoned he could use a little gray.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 02:34 PM
1

I'm saying OP can have his cake and eat it too. Plenty of men do (if they can afford it). He just can't continue as if he's fine being monogamous when he's clearly not. However, he should consider that his wife has been good to him and should make sure he doesn't deprive her from a chance of having quality children. Considering the interest of the wife (yet depriving her of her agency), it seems best to change the relationship after the children are there, because both will have realized their g…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 01:47 PM
1

OP should do whatever he thinks is right (for him). I would say that the wife accepting his infidelity (social proof versus risk to resources) under the condition of not cheating (comfort test) shows that she realizes her poor position (F28 facing the wall). She doesn't want to nuke the marriage with a high SMV alpha male and her best hope for quality kids just because he's sowing his wild oats.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 12:43 PM
1

There's no difference between a marriage and a LTR.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 09:35 AM
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The fact that you even consider divorce should be enough for you to know that you have no business staying in this marriage on it's current terms. Let's be rational here. Imagine you divorced her. She's 28 years! That would be brutal. You might as well shoot her with a shotgun right in the womb. However, you're high SMV. You should aim for: A maîtresse, Kids with wife 1, kids with wife 2, Polygamy. Just have kids with your wife, then start over or introduce a concubine or maîtresse. Best for you…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 08:49 AM
1

I highly recommand the Camino de Santiago. Spain, tons of culture, good food, lots of wine and plenty of people from all nationalities and ages. Woke up, bought a back pack and a train ticket and that evening I was sleeping directly below the Pyrenees. Met lots of interesting people, could've gotten woth a German-Ukranian girl from Köln, got with a German girl from Berlin.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:31 PM
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Let's just use our brains instead of yelling AWALT. I wonder if the rape victim blames OP for her rape. It could be hardwired evopsych, because in a small, tribal setting it would be the man's fault for not protecting his woman from competition/invaders. Or it could be creating a scapegoat to regain a sense of control. Female juries usually attribute fault to the rape victim, because the alternative would be for them to admit that it could happen to them. I once read most rape victims experience…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 12:59 PM
1

What's with all these American women who don't work? In my country this is very rare and frowned upon. Not because women should have a job, but because we dislike laziness. Being SAHM isn't work. Everything is automated, you have a cleaning lady, school and youth clubs handle the children most of the day, ... All a woman would have to do is groceries and cook. That's 10 hours a week max.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 02:41 PM
2

Not intervening when unarmed is the rational thing to do. You want to know how well you would do against someone who is untrained but holding a knife. Put on a white T-shirt, give a friend a red marker and try to neutralize him.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 10:45 AM
5

Africans among each other vastly differ in genetic composition, more so than Europeans to Asians. Ergo there is no "black" race. There's only one race: human. However, darwinism and genetics are real. They studied a species of bird that was native to two very different habitats. The birds from the harsh habitat were vastly smarter than the birds from the forgiving habitat. This makes perfect sense because the first had to be more intelligent in order to survive. I don't see any reason why select…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 10:37 AM
1

*American women. Work is relative. Most women in my country work, even after the children are born. They also do most in the household. They understand your work and what it takes out of you, and do the same and more. My Bulgarian cleaning lady however told me she doesn't understand why people are stressed in my country. She told me that in Bulgaria she got up at 05:00 to tend her garden, went to work until 19:00 in a factory, and then came home and managed the household (where there is no clean…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 08:43 AM
2

Because I need something to do whilst I'm shaving myself with an axe, standing on top of a slain grizzly bear, surrounded by bonafide Vestal Virgins shining the light on what I can only describe as a sea of naked women gently moaning my name.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 01:20 PM
1

They should really do a remake of sex and the city following real world rules. Carrie is nexted by Mr. Big because she is too old and not wife material. She succumbs under crushing debt, loses her appartment, falls ill and sells all her shoes so she can cover medical expenses. Samantha has HIV. She's forced to give up her career, finds God and spends her days yelling at strangers that "God loves them and that they should repent". The crowds look at her strangely, partly because she is bat shit c…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 08:29 AM
1

Getting a blowjob from a girl with a cold sore is worse. Learned that lesson the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 10:21 PM
1

Stop caring about how you feel and keep doing what is needed. The mind is running obsolete programs. Ignore it. It will tell you it's a bad idea to go rolling, even though you feel great after. It will tell you it's a good idea to eat McDonald's, even though you feel like shit after. 3000km hike worked wonders for me. One step at a time, one day at a time, and before you know it you're there. Just like life.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 12:25 PM
2

Jesus also states that Christians are fishers of men.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 09:55 AM
4

You only want to have children with a woman that is much younger but (equally) mature. That way you will get the maximum of her good years. This also implies you settle when you are older (30s and up). Some women age really gracefully. Look at the mother to see the future. Eventually though your wife will get older. It's up to you to stay, get a mistress and/or start over. Two factors should weigh on your decision: Your happiness. Wether or not your wife has given you her best. There is a tacit …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 07:49 AM
1

We have the same in my country. It is never used for good, only as a weapon to target dissenting, democratic opinion based on common sense. F.i. Pegida being attacked for being religiously intolerant and racist, whilst they are protesting against followers of a doctrine that incites to violence and orders to kill all apostates, unbelievers, homosexuals, adulterers, and that allows sexual slavery and violence against women. Pure Orwell.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 07:23 AM
2

You know what's really interesting: the house, the family, the circle of friends, ... this is something women want. We spend so much time working to provide this, that when we have to go nuclear, we're too invested.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 07:43 AM
2

It's interesting to note that Giacomo Casanova was notorious for being a gambler. He would win and lose fortunes. He lost everything, escaped prison, got extremely rich by introducing the lottery in France, then blew it all. He didn't care. He had this very same attitude towards women, who he would fall madly in love with and even risk his life for, only to forget weeks later. All he really missed was his Venice, and later on his health and youth.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 11:08 AM
1

If your eye offends you, pluck it out.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 10:51 AM
3

I give zero fucks about the feelings of others, because I have even less consideration for my own. Your mind and your feelings - aka hormones - are your worst enemy. Brain: I'm depressed, life is useless, we should just stay in bed, ... Me: 50 push ups. Brain: yeah, hormones, best day ever! Brain: ah, public speaking, my worst fear. Let's stop functioning. Me: smile. Brain: well, the body is happy so everything must be fine, I'll just relax.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 08:45 AM
1

Just to put day game and cold approaches into perspective: Friend of mine walked into the women's bathroom to take a piss, gets tons of looks, flashes a grin and states "it's okay, I don't mind". Obviously this sollicits some harsh responses (shit-tests) from many girls, allowing him to A&A, neg, and generally display amused mastery. He walked out of the women's bathroom with two numbers. Blew my mind.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 07:49 AM
2

The principles are sound and still valid because of AWALT. Just modify to fit 2015 (magic tricks still very cool, peacocking neon furry hats not so much). It's a lot like learning martial arts. First he needs to imitate the basics and build confidence. Then he needs to understand the principles behind the basics. Finally he can fight naturally and execute advanced techniques without even having to think about the basics. You can't just enter monk mode, lift, and go straight from not having a clu…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 01:25 PM
3

Let's go over some mistakes so you can improve: Don't directly face the target. Open whilst leaning away and give yourself a false time constraint. After 30 seconds turn in and face the target. Also, your opener and the convo was generic, predictable and didn't distinguish you from other men. She was bored so why not use canned openers. Just walk up and tell (not ask) her that you need a woman's opinion. Immediatly follow with the routine where you tell her you're going to next a girl because sh…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 10:09 AM
4

Agreed. Sexual compatibility is real in the sense that medical conditions may prevent the girl from having quality sex. Too big, too little, too dry, obstructed passage, allergy to semen and extreme predisposition to urinary tract infections are just some that come to mind.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 10:03 AM
1

I remember from reading the Red Queen Theory that most animals favor reproduction over survival. If you're willing to sacrifice yourself, then you're certainly willing to sacrifice others.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 08:28 AM
2

Not sure she could have acted any different. She's 27 and needs financial stability to start a family asap.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 08:19 AM
2

I'm a lawyer, but put me in the sun with a pastis, a book on history, macro economics and/or monetary policy, and I'm happy as can be.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 08:00 AM
2

Martial arts, hiking, cooking, gardening, studying history, playing Fallout, watching GOT whilst petting my girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 03:42 PM
4

Unless you're a child, or get sick from environmental pollution caused by others, or you're taken by a drunk driver, struck by lightning, ect...
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 12:52 PM
5

I've trained in karate, jiu jitsu and judo. Plenty of live sparring. I've been attacked a couple of times, but one stood out. I defended a friend. I threw down two attackers in a couple of seconds, then ran for my life. My friend told me I was really brave because they had a knife and chain. I was actually really stupid because I didn't see the weapons. I agree that Aikido is often practiced too soft by LARPing softies. The principles however come from the battlefield, and those are sound: move …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 09:00 AM
1

Only systems like Aikido, traditional (ko ryu) jiu jitsu, Escrima, ect. qualify for self defense. F.i. Muay Thai is great for unarmed and winning competitions, but not so great when a man with a knife, another with a baseball bat and yet another with a chain attack you. Same with Judo and BJJ. Weapon arts is where it's at.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 06:10 AM
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Only systems like Aikido, traditional (ko ryu) jiu jitsu, Escrima, ect. qualify for self defense. F.i. Muay Thai is great for unarmed and winning competitions, but not so great when a man with a knife, another with a baseball bat and yet another with a chain attack you. Same with Judo and BJJ. Weapon arts is where it's at.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 06:07 AM
1

One should cook every day. Cook together or alternate with your man every other day. Healthy, tasty meals take next to no time to prepare (20-30 min. max.): Steak + mushrooms + onion + greens. Chicken + salad + tomatoes + apple + walnuts. Fish + seasoned small potatoes + greens. Greek salad. Mussels with carrots and celery. Some delicious meals are fast as well: Trout + zuchinni risotto (30 min.) Pasta carbonara (20 min.) Escalope (veal) à la Milanese. Weekends is for luxury food, like lasagna a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 12:03 PM
1

It's not whay you did, it's how you did it. Adhering to politeness and generic smalltalk is often ill received. Next time don't say a word, stare into her eyes, grab her cup, fill it, give it back and just walk away. If she makes such a comment, stare into her eyes, grab the cup again, drink it ad fundum, give it back and command her to show her superior beer pouring skills.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 01:30 PM
1

Haha true, ne waza is all happy hugging, cranking and choking... until you get that foreign drop of sweat in your mouth. Another thing I love about randori is how you are totally lost in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 09:25 AM
-1

You'll peak around 35. That is the time to cash out with a nice, sweet, demure woman of 18-25. Those girls have plenty of options, so when they go for an older man it's because they are really in love with him.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 08:07 AM
6

You need some protection from yourself as a man. Situations like this always lead to sex and more often than not you regret it as a man. Men overestimate their own willpower. Just respectfully ask him not to do this anymore. Pretty sure he wouldn't be cool with you having two men - one a previous love interest - stay over for three nights.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 12:39 PM
2

I understand. Mundane activities (dinner, groceries, ect...) become fun and good women tend to improve your quality of life. The trick to having a good LTR is not wasting time on bad women. You need to have standards and a be methodical. You need to find a woman you find really attractive and interview her: Ask if she can cook. If she can cook, ask her to describe her ideal man. Most of the time women have unrealistic expectations (f.i. great career, 9 to 5, and helps around the house). If she h…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 09:52 AM
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Cesare Lombroso studied criminals and found them to have distinguishable features. This was ante World War II of course, when eugenetics was accepted.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 12:14 PM
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Join the military. Or do volunteer work. They always need people, and often you are given big responsabilities you wouldn't receive at work. You'll gain valuable experience and contacts that could lead to employment. Consider finding a job your job.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 09:57 AM
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We should consider that men have a dual sexual strategy of monogamy/polygamy and both come naturally. Monogamy in bad circumstances (harsh environment, few females in the tribe, ect...) and polygamy in good circumstances (survivor post war). Or monogamy in the tribe (proper bride) and polygamy outside of the tribe (war brides, slaves). Continued utilisation of one strategy generation after generation may also have an effect.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 07:38 AM
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How is being exclusive or having a LTR different in Asia? Could you elaborate, because I'm genuinly intrigued.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 12:49 PM
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I would confront her. If she admits to it, I would ask a bottle of whiskey as retribution and tell her to be upfront in the future. If she continued her deceit, I would next her. If she's willing to lie to your face about something so insignificant, imagine how she would lie about something important.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 10:58 AM
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No worries, soon Sweden will have Sharia law.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 07:12 AM
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It means an evil slut wants to fuck you. Just don't LTR her or get killed by her beta.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 01:09 PM
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All is fair in love and war. Have a story similar to yours with a girl on the train. She ended up on my lap in my appartment, when her Beta boyfriend kept calling and she hung up every time. He was clearly distressed, yet she went bat shit crazy and just yelled "I'm with Bellum00!", hung up and turned of her phone. Killed my desire. Ended up going for a beer with my best friend instead.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 12:59 PM
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Continue on your career path. The grass is always greener on the other side, and it's clearly not really an option. Read psychology books if it interests you. You'll improve your intelligence and create an interesting duality. Shave your head. Take up Muay Thai. The conditioning will get you ripped, being hit will breed contempt of mundane things such as women, and fighting increases testosterone. Meet some Alphas, study and mimic their good behaviours. First yourself, then the women.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 09:20 AM
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You're right. You can be Alpha and play video games. Girls will go along with it as long as it's healthy. Nothing like playing Diablo III with your crush and having a quickie after each boss fight. I actually had to stop her from playing because she became obsessed with loot. I received a BJ playing Skyrim (I got killed by draugr, but I forgave her). Time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 11:26 AM
1

Men shouldn't settle in their twenties because they would be settling before reaching their SMV peak and thus settling for less than they could have had if they had waited. That being said, RP practice in a LTR is improvement. One doesn't exclude the other. Do LTR in your twenties and upgrade whenever possible. Just don't marry or buy things together.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 08:49 AM
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Once had a traditional Romanian girl tell me that women divide men into three categories: a good lover, a good father and a good husband. They know. Years later she also thanked me for causing the break of her relationship (with her long distance Alpha), because she realized what she was missing (Beta) and settled down (before the Wall). Not only do they know, they actively reflect on it. Broke up with a Russian-Australian girl and a Hungarian girl and what they said was very interesting: First …
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 08:24 AM
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Yes. I picked up the Game ten years ago when visiting Australia. Changed my life. I read, and read, and read... I've been learning every day since then. Women don't just magically fall in love with you, but size you up to see what you're good for. So what? Men do the same. YOU do the same. You look at a woman's face, ass, tits and hip to waist ratio and determine if she's worth breeding. You proceed to make this happen using what's in your arsenal. You can trust women to maximize their biologica…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 08:05 AM
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This is disgusting. In my country 50/50 co-parenting is preferred, child-alimony only covers real needs (around 345-500euros/month) and partner-alimony is there to allow him or her to get back on his or her feet and is limited in scope and time. If a man were to get fired he would have to hand over everything that's left after paying for essentials. Public social security will meet the difference. No one is imprisoned (as that would prevent the man from paying his alimony). This system would be …
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 08:04 AM
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What I'm trying to say is there are different states of mind suited to different needs. When I'm learning. I need to be open and eager, without preconceptions (shoshin). Now when I'm practicing what I know - that's most of the time at work - I want to be there without being there. A mind without mind for effortless effort. Calm water acting as a mirror (mushin). When there's an emergency, I need to act with resolve and not be phased by any emotions or desires. I accept that I won't sleep, eat or…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 08:15 AM
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Daenarys doesn't know if reality is real. Maybe it's an illusion created by the gods to test mortals. Maybe the illusion created by the sorceres would have made her happier. You can be a slave commuting to work, a slave farming, a slave hunting and gathering... It's really a matter of preference. There is no freedom from life other than death. These concepts of 'reality', 'freedom', 'happiness', 'me' are actually very BP. Accept that they do not exist. I agree with the Japanese take on this prob…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 08:20 AM
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Yes. It doesn't work and leads to even more bullshit. Your expectations based on her real SMV won't match her expectations based on cultural unalienable rights. You'll put in little to no effort and she'll bitch and whine about it because she believes she is worth it just because she is your LTR. "Now listen here Maria, I'm a 9 and you're a 6 so you have to do all the chores and I'll do Juana". She won't accept that. Her family, friends and collegues will constantly tell her what a dick you are …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 09:12 AM
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Wouldn't this be different? In my country it wouldn't be considered a divorce because there was fraud (pretending to want norm). The contract would be deemded void ex tunc so it would be as if it never existed.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 07:59 AM
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This is like watching someone getting kicked in the balls. I actually feel his pain a little.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 07:49 AM
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She is on your team. You are business partners working on a project together. She gives children and a warm nest, you give genetics (alpha) and resources (beta). Being weak means she made a mistake in selecting genetics, so naturally she will be upset. Being sick means she will have to pick up your part of work, so obviously she won't be happy. Aside from this you can still be friends though. Here's the real Red Pill: the majority of humans - both men and women - are horrible human beings. Deal …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:15 PM
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Dread solution to this blatant display of disrespect seems obvious to me: order your wife to (help) take care of your mother. Might also fix the relationship between the two. Anything else than a job well done should result in divorce. Now, you have men here advocating to stay together for the sake of the children. However, I'd say it would be infinitely better to have one of two new households that functions correctly, than one original household that's constantly sabotaged.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 10:08 AM
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"There's a certain mutual-exclusivity between "AF/BB"." How so? I would say being the best and providing security are synergetic in a LTR with a good woman. Firstly, most women aren't worth a LTR and deep down they know it. Starting one with these women makes you not-Alpha because no Alpha would LTR Runaround Sue. Secondly, I think it's just rather rare to find both skill sets in one man: A natural Alpha doesn't need to develop Beta. A Beta doesn't know Alpha. Haha, "Sexy Wife/Belching Buddy". C…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 09:47 AM
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I agree with the hypothesis provided in this post. Solution for me is randori. Getting your testorone up, sparring and physical exhaustion help a lot. Getting choked out every now and again also does wonders.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 09:17 AM
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"People don't stick to moral codes to get ahead in the world, they stick to them despite what they do being less effective for them." New Testament is pretty clear on this where it states the world hates the righteous and you are send out as sheep amidst the wolves, ect.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 10:07 AM
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I'm a Christian but I don't fear God's might as much as I dread disappointing God (and myself) by not measuring up to the challenge of this unjust world. If I didn't believe God's way - be good even if it kills you - to be right I wouldn't follow it, even if I would be smitten into hell. Also, not doing evil is not enough, you have to do good because you believe in good. Ultimately, God wants you to be like Him, not some groveling fearful sycophant.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 10:03 AM
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I wouldn't say golddigging, greed and entitlement are covered by AWALT (nature). I think it's a matter of personality and macro- (culture) and microlevel (parents) nurture rather than nature. Notice how her parents also try to convince you to give up the cash (or did I misread that). There is also no natural incentive for this woman to act like this if she's in it for the long run, as her and your son's children will own the combined estates. I know plenty of women who are just when it comes to …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 08:29 AM
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You did the right thing. Your son probably wants to shoot the messenger right now, as the message is that his woman is no good. It's great she's flying her true colours now and not later when they're already married.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 07:44 AM
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"The man traveled to the end of the rainbow and saw that the pot of gold resided within." Paulo Coelho, is that you? Great post OP!
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 09:28 AM
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What constitutes mistreating a woman in red pill reality: abusing her. What constitutes mistreating a woman in blue pill world: putting yourself first and having personal standards and expectations. The first won't help, but the second will. Why? Because all top tier men show this behaviour, so emulating it links you to them. Might be real or false, but it will be accepted as proof of high SMV.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:00 PM
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Interesting is that when they talk about the men they are attracted to, they can get their genes but can't get their commitment. I understand how a F6-7 could couple one night with a M9, and prefer to try to secure commitment from a M8-9 than/then settle for a M6-7. She has nothing to lose, as the M6-7 will still be there should her plan fail. All women aiming at men above their league are acting rationally.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 12:57 PM
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To the men who argue they are loved for their performance. Firstly, I would argue you are the sum of your actions, and this you doesn't even exist. Secondly, if my LTR stopped performing (sex, cooking, being responsable and helpful, giving emotional support, ect.), she would be nexted. Next time you complain about having to perform as a man, take into account a woman has to perform much more so that her Alpha will commit and stick with her after she loses her youth and looks. I'd say women bear …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 08:07 AM
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Good question. They would be sexually selected. However, men deal with it by being Alpha, so Red Queen Theory will play. All men will be absolutely more Alpha, but hypergamous women will chose men who are relatively most Alpha.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 07:55 AM
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Do you know what Munchausen by Proxy is? Can we deduct from this that most women hurt their children for attention. No. Clearly these women have a disorder. I reckon most women like their men in that grey area between a spineless neckbeard and a crazy monster. Nice guys don't get laid because they have low physical and/or social capital, not because they are kind, warm, generous individuals.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 10:33 AM
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I introduced the RP to two of my friends who were having trouble with women: One dismissed it, the other embraced it. One repeats the same mistakes over and over, the other went from zero to hero in a year. This dogmatic refusal to consider interaction with women as a field of study instead of some mystic sacrament is very strange, seeing how almost every girl's magazine 'teaches' interaction with men.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 09:25 AM
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"I want a loving, demure, and beautiful woman." POSSIBLE. "One that is above shit-testing and hamstering." IMPOSSIBLE. Some rare good women will keep it to a minimum. "One that would support me unconditionally and incontrovertibly, even when I'm down." IMPOSSIBLE. Some rare good women will support you conditionally when you're down. "One that I can genuinely be myself around." POSSIBLE, if your genuine self happens to be someone she doesn't find unattractive. Do look for a good woman, but don't …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:42 AM
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I have the feeling my body distinguishes between women, and only releases (bonding) chemicals when the woman is of sufficient LTR value. Sex without a crush is just not worth it. Back in my anger phase, I would just continue the hunt until the mark was down to fuck, then put up last minute resistance and exit the scene because I already got the confirmation I wanted. Sex with your crush can be absolutely amazing. Probably because your mind gets flooded with hormones.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 08:09 AM
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AWALT. All women share a biological structure, and have the same evolutionary needs. NAWALT. Not all women ACT like that. Still, from personal experience I know two women I like as a person: my gf and my best friend's gf. That's two women in ten years of meeting women after discovering the Game. Interestingly, both these women have experienced extreme hardship. I also remember meeting a Brazilian mother and her gorgeous daughter on the Camino Frances (about 30 days pilgrimage across Spain). At t…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 11:40 AM
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Well done! Haha, the pains of the inexperienced. Firstly, if a girl goes on a date with you, then she's into you. All you have to do on a date is not fuck it up. How? By doing nothing that conveys sexual interest until she starts gazing into your eyes and biting her lip. Instead you do physical things that you would do to your little sister (touch her casually, push gently whilst teasing her). Use this covert kino and look for IOI's (staring at your lips, playing with her hair, scratching her wr…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 08:12 AM
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Women tend to overestimate the time it takes to run a household. You have a maid and almost everything is automated, so it takes about two hours each week to keep a clean house. You can alternate cooking and helping with homework, which takes an hour each day tops. Women also tend to underestimate what children can do for themselves. My coworker just said she gets up at 5h45 to leave for work at 7h30 (1h45). The reason she gave was "getting the children ready". When I was six years of age, my fa…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 08:32 AM
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You have to A&A in a manner that isn't offensive (contrary to what you suggested). F: Do you think about other women during sex. M: All the time. F: !? M: Pensive pause. Last time I was wondering if Angela Merkel regrets having changed the Bundesbank's position now that Greece is defaulting on it's debt. F: (...). M: Feigned indignation. Wait, you meant of other people in a sexual context. What kind of monster would do that... Perv! Exit shower and proceed chasing her and wipping her with a wet …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 09:51 AM
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The crucial part of your post is this: "She was talking about moving out back into a cheap place so she can save more money, but if she were to do this it would end our relationship." Why would SHE want to save money HERSELF, and not as a COUPLE? The answer is obvious: she is not invested in the future of the couple. Therefore, she should pay for herself. Explain it to her like this, using "I feel that" (feelings are subjective and thus not open for attack and mind games). Also, red flag: woman …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 09:40 AM
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Not that I know of. I read in the papers though that the chance of divorce positively correlates with the cost of the wedding. From this I would deduce that the more beta a man is, the more willing he is to field a princess-for-a-day party.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 09:08 AM
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A wedding as an event is a shit-test. Agreeing is herhalding your own demise. They're also an excellent opportunity to learn what kind of woman you have. Ask a girl what her dream wedding would be like. If her answer isn't down to earth and a refusal of materialism, plate her. (The only wedding I would accept is an epic bbq in summer with close friends and family). Then ask her how she thinks the costs should be divided. If she wants to use someone else's money for her decadence or go into debt …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 09:03 AM
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You're welcome. I looked for good ones after I read Style's use of disposable lighter repair man in the Game. I just couldn't work with that. Do your research. Make up a story about the company and some fake coworkers and anecdotes to go with it. When you have her eating out of the palm of your hand, smirk and triumphantly reveal you owned her. If called a liar, don't A&A. If she is genuinly upset, move on. If she is playing upset, ask her why it is so important for her to know your job. If she …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 09:16 PM
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Quality control tester for a parachute company.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 10:23 AM
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Good post on a problem not often adressed. I don't think it's a matter of confidence rather than mirroring. If a third party comes in and she responds to it instead of you, steal that party from her. If she focuses her attention on you respond in kind and create a bubble.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 10:05 AM
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Love Miyamoto Musashi. From one thing, know ten thousand things. From ten thousand things, know one thing.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 02:40 PM
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I agree, except that I wouldn't even attempt to plate her as that could backfire (she's a slut, but not necessarily simple). OP won, even if it felt as a loss: he got rid this horrible woman and learned some valuable lessons in the process.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 10:21 AM
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You can't verify how many partners she had in total, but you can and should verify why she has whatever number she mentioned. A huge red flag is if she externalizes guilt, and if she doesn't own past actions as self-destructive behaviour. That's an indicator of a lack of introspection and personal evolution.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 09:07 AM
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Walking away is only useful if it helps getting the woman. All the rest is just your hamster. There is mentioning the boyfriend as an IOI: It means she's evaluating if you're better. You should hang around next time a woman mentions her boyfriend. Once she determined she likes you better, she'll start complaining about him. Another IOI. There is also using the boyfriend as a shit-test (usually when you open her): Her: "I have a boyfriend". Me: "I have too/two". Ignore and proceed. Shit-test pass…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 10:50 AM
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Look at it this way: this is a moment in life where you have almost absolute freedom. Buy a backpack and go walk around for some months or even a year in the US or Europe (there's a route from Istanbul-Turkey to Santiago de Compostella-Spain). If you walk 30-50kms/day for a couple of months you'll be fit, you'll have met tons of people and you'll have seen a great many things. Little improves outcome independance more than being uncertain about food and shelter, and just praying you'll be okay, …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 10:05 AM
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Beautiful post on what I think should be the endgame for any romantic. "I think the key is to let loose the emotional dogs of war, to dish out a wild and unpredictable emotional experience, to revel in the highs and lows, to give her an unforgettable emotional ride, and within that wildness, within that chaos, you can express the depth and power of your love, because it's expressed at random, as is dread game, and thus expressing antifragility." You're right. Yesterday I suprised my LTR with flo…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 10:35 AM
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Ouch. That wasn't alpha, but needy bordering on sexual harassment. Second date is out of the question. Don't worry about it though, we all have to start somewhere and we all get there by falling and getting back up. Let's go over your mistakes: Complimenting her on her looks right off the bat. Letting her attack you for not buying her a drink and letting her flaunt her options. Btw, a woman who's that entitled isn't LTR material. Not playing with her being traditional, describing her bringing yo…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 09:21 AM
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If these were the friends of my future wife, then our relationship would be finished.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 09:34 AM
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We should also consider that there are no assholes, but that these men were alphas that were hamstered into assholes. Maybe this is hamstering coming from women who can't land alpha due to low SMV, but still need alpha genes. In other words: low SMV women psychologically dealing with their Alpha Fux pre epiphany (see Rollo's timeline). I don't consider myself an asshole, but most women do. Mainly because: I don't care about social conventions. I only adhere to reason and my own moral code based …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 09:19 AM
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As a Christian, it is better not to marry because your family might keep you from doing the Lord's will. Jesus orders people to abandon their children for the Lord if necessary. Judge not, lest you be judged. The healthy don't need healers. Jesus spent his time with the less reputable members of society. The Law was given to men because they are weak. Jesus after preventing an adulterous woman being stoned. I doubt Paul. Many of the actions of the first Christians are in direct violation of the …
/r/TheRedPill06/02/15 08:57 AM
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Some personal thoughts on the matter. Fight Club and the Bible changed my life. It opened my eyes. I just had started working and felt like a slave. This led me to my answers. To me it's about dealing with civilization and corporate slavery. The problem is that Project Mayhem - green anarchism - has no chance. Civilization is furthered by men for the benefit of women. It's the apple that cost us Eden, an idea that cannot be destroyed but will destroy us. I would say the narrator is civilization'…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 10:57 AM
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I do judo and jiu jitsu, but Aikido is a great system for self defense: it teaches you to free yourself from any situation with up to three armed attackers allowing you to run away. Just make sure you have a good dojo. Slugging it out is folly. It's hard to low kick or judo throw someone drugged up or full of adrenaline. Best case you beat them: maybe it wasn't self defense, maybe he had HIV/AIDS and you got some of his blood in your eye, maybe he was part of a clan and now you have to fear the …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 02:57 PM
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RP Western European here. I respectfully disagree. I've been in LTRs non stop for 14 years now and have worked in a 2/3 female environment for 8 years. Women are just as capable and accountable as any other person. I know many women who are very professional and work twilight hours to advance their career by merit, and some who possess sheer genius. What you describe are the reactions of a person who doesn't want to do something and resists domination. I've had similar experiences with some male…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 10:48 AM
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What you said about being in love applies to being alive in general. Blue Pill love is irrational, unconditional, relinquishing all control to the woman. She will resent you for it. Angry Phase love is irrational, obsessive, needing to control the woman. She will resent you for it. Red Pill love is about self control and truth, and part of that is the acceptance of what you can't control, and the acknowledgement that everything positive has a potential negative and vice versa. You control yourse…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 10:09 AM
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You're not anger-phase angry because you've been desillusioned. You're angry/disappointed/frustrated because you understand her game and you don't like being played. That never goes away, nor should it. Bit like asking if you can ever stop being angry about someone kicking you in the balls. Just accept it. More plates would equate more games, so I doubt that's the solution.
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A lot of Skyrim... In nothing but my underwear and socks... Using my mighty thuum to inform the girlfriend that the Dovakhiin could use some beer...
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I'm can guarantee it's not your 'nerdy' interests that drive women away, its your lack of game. I know this because I'm good with women even though my most frequent pastimes are playing Skyrim, practicing classical jiu jitsu, studying history, cooking and gardening. The good news is: Women don't care about your interests. You can be a massive nerd. Women want drive, strength and passion. The bad news is. Women don't really care about your interests. On the other hand, they will go out of their w…
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You're confusing democratic access to education - a luxury at best and a scam at worst - with socialist education. In a real socialist system education would be distributed according to the needs of the system.
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This presupposes that there is no objective truth and good, while Christianity is founded on the idea of objective truth and good. Holding the door with good intentions is good. Someone judging another for holding the door and suspecting malicious intent is evil. Btw, I hold the door for both men and women.
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The most important part of the RP isn't getting women, it's understanding why you are (not) getting women. The Red Pill is about women's hypergamous nature and dual sexual strategy, not seduction and PUA. Your simian beta friend thinks he pulled a woman. Period. We at the RP consider that he's fulfilling a woman's need for security, whilst not meeting her need for good genes, and that this might blow up in his face.
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I would pursue her for a LTR. Otherwise I would leave her alone. Probably she wants commitment first.
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RedFrodo, it's time to let go of the precious. Dating a slut is a lot like dabbling in necromancy: it's all fun and games until it bites you in the ass. I would turn this heavy alliance into a light dalliance if I were you. Plate her if you're not going to next her.
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I don't notice ugly or old women, I do notice women I'd like to fuck. Similarly, if a woman notices a man, she's down to fuck him. Convo between girls where she genuinly isn't interested: "I think X is really hot". "Who?". You dating a slut automatically implies you are BB, because this just wouldn't be done by AF. Just next her.
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I sometimes have to give presentations to more than a hundred people that know their stuff. What helps me is the following: Experience. Know your stuff. Exposure. The more you do this, the less it will stress you out. Meditate on the worst that could happen. Hagakure counsels samurai to meditate every day on being ripped apart on the battlefield. I find it helps if you have worked out and accepted worst case scenarios in your head, so you aren't phased when they actually manifest. Exercise daily…
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I don't get this. I don't think any European gets this. If you are with her, she won't play the market unless she is a slut. If you feel a need to verbalize, she isn't LTR material. Imagine you would get this girl - that you obviously suspect of being a slut - to agree on not sleeping around anymore. Would her word mean anything? Of course not, she's a slut.
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No, my life pro tip is avoiding self-destructive women that probably have STDs.
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