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LonesomeSidLeon/r/MGTOW15/06/18 06:57 PM
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And when their sensitivity to stimulus is challenged they just shut down or freak out because of the added anxiety. Its not because they dont care. What you describe is someone with a dark triad personality disorder, not someone on the Spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:07 AM
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I think you are very mistaken. My entire Family is on the Spectrum (plus I was a special educator for years and worked with many kids on the Spectrum) and they are ridiculously empathetic people. They run into problems when they get overwhelmed by the strong emotions of others. My sisters and cousin (and most of the kids I worked with once they trusted me) will look me straight in the eyes as long as Im not exhibiting strong emotion. Some people on the Spectrum have a hard time understanding som…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:06 AM
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I fucking love Uncle Iroh. Agustus McCrae from Lonesome Dove is also a pretty good example of an MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW220/03/20 08:07 AM
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Im a 50 year old dude, and same.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 10:22 AM
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Loving unconditionally is not the same as allowing or ignoring abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:58 AM
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The women in my Family tend to be beautiful, so Id likely be at least ok looking... but I have no interest in being intimate with someone just like me mentally and emotionally. It would bore the fuck right out of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 07:30 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 07:01 PM
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Seems 'Funeral Home Attendant' would be ideal for this... the dread and desperation are already built in. (And thanks for the good laugh, ToraChan23)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:48 AM
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I am not a Nice Guy... I am a Kind Thoughtful Assertive Guy... and I had to work on myself a lot to get to that point. I hate the term Nice Guy... its the ultimate in passive aggressive behavior and its become a trope because its so common. these dudes 'act' nice to lure chicks and manipulate them with social expectations, and they get pissed resentful abusive and mopey when it doesnt work they way they want it to. Thye would act like a dick all the time if they felt they could get away with it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 03:49 AM
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I am enjoying the comments section but the whole post is problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 02:58 AM
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Manipulative people are more successful at sex and money but they suck at intimacy, care, and nurturing, and that destroys any chance at a real relationship. They dont have the emotional strength or the solid sense of self needed to bond and connect with others in a meaningful way. Thing is, dealing with them closely over a period of time is like the the whole 'frog in water' scenario... if the water is hot when you start, the frog will jump out immediately, if the water is cool and you slowly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 02:53 AM
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I am not one of those guys. I never have 'expectation' or 'entitlement', and outcome independance sort of eliminates needy behavior so it works well on several levels... plus, I want clear enthusiatic consent from a potential partner, or Im not interested. Ive seen that whole PUA bullshit "if a chick says no sex, it means nothing, in fact it means that she is linking you to sex in her mind..." This is insanely bad advice. Its also gasslighty as fuck. You cannot read someone's mind, you can only …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 12:50 AM
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Exactly... bahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 06:35 PM
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I feel ya. Im a dude. Im 50. I do not like teenagers. They all look like they are undercooked to me... they cant carry on a real conversation, and they are full of nonsense drama. I live for chubby Milfs with a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 03:32 PM
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A lot of studies out about swearing. People who swear tend to be more honest. Its not the rule, but there has been some interesting work on it. I grew up around a lot of wealth and priveledge, but my parents were pretty humble and lived quietly. In my experience, some LC women are perfect ladies to the core, no matter what is happening in their lives... and many HC women Ive known are only ladies in public. Priveledge doesnt change who people are at the core, it just makes maintaing an 'acceptab…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 11:19 PM
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Uncle Iroh is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 06:22 AM
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Well said. It. Can. Be. Exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:15 PM
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I can see your point, but I gotta say that Porn is kind of a bad way to learn about having sex with another person. Its fun to watch, but its all fantasy and just terrible as a sexual learning aid. I didnt learn from porn, thank god. When I was young I read every science and psychology book on sex I could. Also books like The Joy Of Sex, The G Spot etc etc etc. It was important to me to know what I was doing. In order to even BE dominant I felt I had to be confident and well educated. I was also…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:14 PM
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Snu Snu ruined me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 10:02 PM
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In my personal experience... its way more fun to switch back and forth... sometimes she dominates, and sometimes I do. We play. Thats what Ive looked for in women, but thats not always what what Ive found. A lot of women dont know how to sexually dominate properly (if you do it wrong it sucks), or they are uncomfortable with it, or they are lazy. It can be tricky. For that matter, a lot of men dont understand how to surf the ebb and flow of sexual energy. I may want to fuck like a beast sometime…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 08:55 PM
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Smokey and The Bandit
/r/MGTOW212/08/19 07:33 PM
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It means you are an Ambivert... E is for Extroverted, I is for Introverted. If you are on the cusp between both, you are a combination of the two traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 10:01 AM
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Steal away, kind Sir... enjoy... its also been my experience that the low slung utility belt is a deadly sexual appeal intensifier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 10:44 PM
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In a relationship... I love that. If she's sweetly appreciative and thinks its sexy that I am construction capable and like to take care of all the Man Voodoo, thats awesome because I melt when she cooks for me and does her Lady Voodoo. In a reciprocal healthy relationship you find a balance that works for both of you, where you can both rock your Voodoo together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 09:46 PM
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Seems like some men and women are desperate for attention and want to know that tons of people, even the ones they arent attracted to, find them fuckable... but most dont enjoy it unless its from someone they also find fuckable and the attention from people they find unappealing might be a little flattering, but usually feels pretty gross. My sisters are unusually attractive, but they are also gifted creative passionate and funny, and most 'compliments' they get are vapid and low effort, focused…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 09:39 PM
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Sorry, I thought I posted under the automod and I cant figure out how to delete it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 02:24 AM
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I was raised in a big Native American family that all the men could cry in. My Dad and Uncles and Older Brothers were the biggest bad ass manly men Ive ever known, truly legendary gents, and if they were sad or something touched their heart, they cried without shame, and no one saw it as weakness. It was just seen as part of life. Everyone cries. They all stayed married to kind caring women. Im a big sorta scary looking dude, kinda like Hagrid, and I cry whenever I fucking feel like it. Fight me…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 02:23 AM
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If a woman doesnt take good care of herself, Im not interested... but we all have our preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:10 AM
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It all depends on the person... I have nothing against anyone being in relationships with women or men who leverage their sexuality for financial gains, but I strictly avoid abusive dark triad types, especially if their personality disorders are left untreated. Its people like that who ruin it for everyone else because the process of their illness tends to victimize everyone around them while they are busy claiming that someone's unwillingness to put up with abuse from them, is victimizing them.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 10:15 PM
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I have a fuck ton of very long and ridiculously curly hair. Ive been growing it for years and I look like Hagrid if I dont condition the shit out of it and use some kind of decent hair oil or smoothing serum. First, I never use a hair dryer. Heat damage is a bitch. Also, I only wash my hair every 3 days. It dried out too much if I wash it more, so I usually just spritz it with conditioner and water when it needs it. Second, I keep my hands out of my hair as much as possible because the more I to…
/r/askTRP16/02/19 04:36 AM
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Ive seen it all over the Manosphere. Not constantly, but enough to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 10:11 PM
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Whenever I need the services of any kind of prfessional, whether its a Doc or Lawyer etc... first do your homework, figure out they type of therapy you need, then get good references, then meet with at least 3 different ones to give tourself some choice , and then trust your gut. If you feel uncomfortable with them gtfo and dont ague with yourself about it. One test I use is The Humor Test, can they laugh at my jokes and joke with me in kind? Is it sincere? Might sound weird, but people who are …
/r/seduction09/02/19 05:11 PM
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Im older now, almost 50, but I was a model and considered Hollywood good looking for most of my life. In many ways its over rated. I had the same fucking problems everyone else did. No attention from who I was in to, and a lot of attention from people I never wanted attention from in the first place. Im an introvert and I had to learn to be more extroverted. I had to get past the social anxiety. I had to learn how to relax and talk to people instead of acting like the autist that I really am. I …
/r/seduction09/02/19 01:36 AM
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I cant even get thru the fucking comments... Im alone in my garage laughing so hard Im crying. I had to leave the house because its 6 in the fucking morning and I dont want to wake everyone up. OP... you Magnificent Bastard.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 02:00 PM
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Indiana Jones... especially the first movie. He is always a man with his own mission. He gets beat to shit, but he soldiers on... with heart and humor.
/r/MGTOW209/01/19 10:54 AM
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Only if you harass them and treat them poorly, or if they are sick, or if they are poorly socialized, or something threatens their pack. Dogs are pretty damn reliable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 01:26 PM
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Probably the best indy comic ever made... easily has some of the lovliest comic art Ive ever seen and the stories, at least the first 20 issues... are remarkable. Brilliantly written and beautifully drawn. Well worth the read. Ive been a fan since I was about 9, and Im always excited when someone hasnt read it, because ElfQuest is fucking awesome. To anyone who needs to be sucked into a new and different world, enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 01:49 PM
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Twue wuv...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 01:37 PM
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I had a lot of tragedy in my Family. A LOT. I first went to talk therapy after my brother and his wife were murdered. It helped. Ive had good therapists and bad therapists. At this point, I know what to look for and what to avoid. It might sound weird, but my test for a prospective therapist, is to see if they will joke with me. If they can laugh at my jokes and tell a joke themselves, they are far more likely to listen without judgement, and more willing to emotionally connect. The big thing is…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 07:44 PM
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But He's a Dapper Dan Man!
/r/MGTOW06/01/19 07:11 AM
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Thanks RedditMom! I almost forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 11:28 AM
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Not all hoes, wear capes... FTFY /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 11:27 AM
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Thanks for the laugh... Honey Badger dont give a shit.
/r/MGTOW01/01/19 11:25 AM
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Ive bumped into a few...
/r/MGTOW01/01/19 11:24 AM
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Ive been to several reunions... can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 01:43 AM
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Love the reference to Kipling and 'If'... I memorized it in high school, and its been some of the best advice Ive ever come across.
/r/MGTOW21/12/18 04:18 AM
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It seems to me, you play a game to have fun, not to have someone mercelessly harass and show contempt for you. Just shit talking with no intent to hurt someone or fuck with them hard can be fine, even funny... but it sounds like this dude lacks tact at best, and at worst gets off on breaking people down. Id find someone else to game with.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:21 AM
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Just recommended Sublime, lol.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:12 AM
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Santeria by Sublime... I havent listened to their stuff in a while, but it seems to have an RP vibe.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 06:11 AM
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My Dad was a very traditional patriarch. He was the big earner. The big Dude. He paid for EVERYTHING. He was the center that the entire extended family revolved around. My Mom kept the house, handled the money, took care of the kids AND worked a full time job (the earnings of which she spent on us kids). It left my Dad free to work crazy hours and when he came home (often with dinner reservations) and he would spend that 'free' time playing with us kids. Plus he would take us on trips so my Mom …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 12:28 AM
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I disagree that toddlers and young children are anything but chaos machines... mine was insane. Curious and into everything until he was about 8. As they got older, helping with school work and extra curricular activities were a full time job... plus dealing with their wild emotions and teaching them impulse control, and how to express themselves in a clear and appropriate way... dealing with all the shit that comes with having friends and going to school (which can be a nightmare for some kids,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 11:52 PM
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He wrote that she is not jealous, and that he cant read her emotions... sounds more like Sociopathy than Borderline Personality Disorder... then again it might be Autism.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 05:07 AM
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Settle down dude, I grew up working Reniassance Faire in So Cal, since the 70s. There were a LOT of tattoo artists at Faire that wanted practice back in the day.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:20 PM
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Settle down, dude. I grew up working Reniassance Fair. Since the 70s.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 10:15 PM
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Same.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 03:20 AM
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Yes having quality well fitting clothing can greatly raise your smv. This is how I do it... First off... have great hygiene. I cant stress this enough. Most women love a man that is clean, smells good, and looks well put together. I focus on low cost medium to high quality clothing made with fabrics that are co fortable and wear well (Im not a fan of nylon/synthetics unless its sportswear). If I find an item that I really like, I will buy duplicates if I can. The key is to find what works for yo…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 02:29 AM
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Dude, first off, I am proud of you... you are WAY ahead of the game because you can actually SEE that you are off course and not meeting your own standards right now. Most people arent even aware that they are the root of their own problems, let alone willing to confront them and find a solution, so well done, Sir. Im always excited when someone can see their own unhealthy shit because if you can see it, you CAN fix it. I highly recommend using a journal. Although writing can trigger a lot of po…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 01:05 AM
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Yeah, he did. He was the best part of that show... my son used to watch it and Rotten was awesone.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 12:13 AM
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These days its rare to find a woman under 50 without some kind of tattoo... it was a sort of right of passage for a roomy chunk of my generation. I VASTLY prefer plain skin, but if the tattoo is really well designed, nicely placed, and beaitifully executed, and the woman is fantastic in all other areas, I will absolutely make an exception. I know one chick who is physically stunning and has a really solid, playfully down to earth demeanor with a gorgeous tat of an apple on her upper right bun, a…
/r/askTRP21/10/18 12:01 AM
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Sounds like you and your girl have been targeted for some fuckery... walk carefully, sir.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 07:53 PM
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Had a live in girlfriend long ago... at the time, I left the seat up a lot. She never said anything about it. When I asked her about it, she said she'd rather pick her battles, and toilet seat placement just isnt worth fighting over. Seat up or down, it was easy for her to adapt, so she saw not point in arguing about it. Ever since then... I dont get why anyone gets angry about it. Toilets are easily adjustable.
/r/MGTOW05/10/18 08:00 PM
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For some reason people believe that Surrender is Subservience, and it is not. Surrender is insanely sexy when its done right. Subservience is boring and clingy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/18 05:43 PM
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Im sorta new... been lurking for a long time... but I didnt know the culture very well. I still dont. I just wanted to connect with others that are GTOW and maybe learn from their mistakes and cheer their successes and feel some kinda support in the land of Dude Things... And I was really turned off by all the woman hate. Ive hung around because there is a LOT of shit I needed to know... and reading No More Mr Nice Guy blew my fucking mind. I honestly love chicks, the kind compassionate ones esp…
/r/MGTOW206/09/18 07:53 PM
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Straight to hell in a handbasket...
/r/MGTOW17/08/18 08:58 PM
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I love seeing shit like this... love. it.
/r/MGTOW17/08/18 08:54 PM
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Well said, brother. Well said.
/r/MGTOW17/08/18 07:29 AM
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Long Live The Manarchy!
/r/MGTOW12/08/18 02:48 AM
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Its over for Lurkcels.
/r/MGTOW12/08/18 01:34 AM
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"... basically a funeral with cake." Fucking BRILLIANT! High IQ post right there.
/r/MGTOW11/08/18 10:20 PM
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And maybe a nice egg in these trying times?
/r/MGTOW10/08/18 12:49 AM
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And Rob Roy and The Last of The Mohicans... and of course, Gladiator.
/r/MGTOW10/08/18 12:48 AM
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Save your money. Just make raptor noises at them, until they run away.
/r/MGTOW31/07/18 01:19 AM
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Exactly what I was thinking... she is decompensating, and its usually an outter effect of a much deeper problem. She needs a psych and physical evaluation to rule out and expose whats going on with her. The thing is, even if she starts decent personal grooming again, there is no garantee that you will even want her anymore.
/r/MGTOW30/07/18 09:41 PM
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In some situations, it makes sense... but its rare. My Father worked insane hours as a petroleum engineer, he and my Mom were together for 38 years, until he died. And she ran the house, ran us kids, did the yard, worked full time, and did all of the money managing and bill paying because my Dad was too damn busy. She did really well for the family. Dad would give her a break every few weeks, and take her somewhere nice and do extra chores and just be charming. He did it because he valued her an…
/r/MGTOW30/07/18 05:06 AM
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Reminds me of Honey boo boo's mom.
/r/MGTOW30/07/18 02:47 AM
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Is this what it means when women rope...
/r/MGTOW30/07/18 02:46 AM
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She's gonna need a bigger net...
/r/MGTOW30/07/18 02:44 AM
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This made me spit out my drink laughing... fucking funny... thanks for that.
/r/MGTOW30/07/18 02:43 AM
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My 17 year old son Red Pilled me when he was about 12 or 13... because of how cucked comics have gotten. He is a MAJOR comics afficianado, always has been, and the 'man hating and man abusing' crap he read freaked him out enough to study it. At first, I didnt quite understand why he was actually afraid of feminists... Art as the canary in the coal mine.
/r/MGTOW30/07/18 01:54 AM
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I actually prefered women with tats for years, and Back in the 90s, the vast majority of my friends had tattoos. It was so common that we always just assumed when someone new joined the group, ink was gonna be there somewhere, and we were surprised when it wasnt. More than surprised, tbh we were legit astonished. Alright, what follows happened in the mid 90s at Reniassance Faire (dont judge, I was obsessed with doing Improv and the pussy was cray-zay... plus most of the people were really cool) …
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 07:51 AM
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Screams internally
/r/MGTOW25/07/18 09:26 AM
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Only an idiot would walk into a Lion's Den wearing a hamburger suit?
/r/MGTOW12/07/18 03:15 AM
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Its not just his appearance that makes him an awesome role model... he is a genuinely decent dude, and he is totally GHOW, and has been for years.
/r/MGTOW11/07/18 03:14 PM
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Whats green and smells like pork...
/r/MGTOW10/07/18 11:49 PM
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If a man lives his life in accordance with his own deeply held and deeply searched personal beliefs, and decides to help... I can respect that. This man wasnt forced, or coerced. He died as he lived, working in dangerous situations for something he believed was valuable. We can argue about whether he was brainwashed by bullshit all day long... but he was special forces... he KNEW the risks going in... and he chose to volunteer. Who fucking cares if anyone remembers you. If you live your best lif…
/r/MGTOW10/07/18 10:29 PM
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sending you the High Sign
/r/MGTOW22/06/18 04:37 AM
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Made me laugh out loud... even the fucking Little Rascals had a He Man Woman Haters Club. Dude, I even still remember The High Sign...
/r/MGTOW22/06/18 04:11 AM
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