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LordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 09:36 PM
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FDS HUMORLordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 12:24 AM
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FDS HUMORLordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:00 AM
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MESSAGE FOR MALE LURKERSLordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:56 PM
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GREEN FLAG 🟢LordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:03 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYLordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 12:23 PM
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LordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:04 AM
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LordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:11 PM
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How-To High ValueLordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 12:48 PM
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LordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 11:41 PM
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LordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:01 AM
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LordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:51 PM
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LordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:59 PM
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LordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 11:36 AM
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LordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:26 AM
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SOCIAL GROUP STRATEGYLordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:48 AM
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REMINDER 👑LordLivre/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:27 PM
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I would like to respectfully disagree that these are in fact men, not just "males". This distinction is made by men all the time when trying to other bad men from themselves. As if it's not their responsibility to be involved in the solution because "real men" wouldn't do that bad thing that theyre trying to distance from. If they are male and over 18, they are men, and we need to call them that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 10:04 PM
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Here to second this. The only times I've seen it happen were people who were LV because of how they treated themselves, not others. ie if they're a cave-dwelling gamer with poor hygiene because of depression, I've seen this change. Or a pickme who allowed others to treat them terribly but one day learned boundaries. Etc. Also important to note that these changes were always self driven. I never saw it happen to "save" a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 11:17 AM
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If they're scared by you having boundaries, how much babying will you have to do when something actually scary happens??? You absolutely 1000% do not need someone in your life who things boundaries are scary. Especially your therapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:30 AM
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I mean make sure you maintain social circles seperate to your spouse. I see so many stories of women who didn't have anyone to turn to for help, because the relationship destroyed their connections external to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 07:49 PM
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This tiktok so eloquently shares why FDS does not support trad wife/trophy wife living unless you have financial independence. But please keep in mind that when you're married, there is no such thing as true financial independence, there are just extra steps for LVM/NVM to getting access to your money, which is why I am of the opinion that not only should women maintain financial independence (as much as legally possible), but also social independence. Also, I did not share the video directly fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/22 12:27 PM
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I was in scouts. I think it's only in the US that they didn't allow girls to join Scouts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 10:55 AM
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I'm completely incapable of being objective when it comes to Matthew Goode (he is my dream man!! Swoon). Buuuuuut, if any OTHER character did this it would be a dumpable red flag, for not respecting her boundaries. He never displays this behaviour again, so maybe it is a "blip" in his character written in to add drama, but if this was a real life person, it shows me that when he really wants something, he struggles to hear a no. Something to be weary of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:02 AM
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I'm sure they would just retreat into porn further because they were broke. Most NVM are negative because of an unwillingness to improve/provide value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:22 AM
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This is an interesting one. I have dated two guys that didn't use social media that ended up different from this again. Didn't have any social media because he was terrified of the big bad internet from selling his information. The only "account" I ever learned about that he had was an email, and he wouldn't even use that on his phone. When we went on an international holiday and needed to pre-purchase a tourist visa, he made me process it on my card because he was uncomfortable with the risk. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:46 AM
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Wow, did you just describe 99% of male gym goers!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 12:23 AM
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Just a small caveat to this. They must be evaluating and improving for themself, not to impress someone/get a trophy partner. I've known waaaay too many LV/ZV men who are on a "growth" journey, but it all relates to being able to flex on someone or "catch" someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:59 AM
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Met at work, and didn't start dating until we didn't work at the same company
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:56 AM
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No, the worst part is that he thinks being raped 3 times a day is more enjoyable than building a career. My vagina closed up just reading that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:13 PM
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This needs to be its own post. We've been raised too much to be grateful for anything at all even if it's nothing. "It's the thought that counts" - repeated from mothers to daughters for centuries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:40 AM
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I instinctively wanted to down vote this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:22 AM
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Don't forget Slug guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:06 PM
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They talk about it on episode 5 of the podcast. We can't link it because it might be considered brigading by people who are trying to ban FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:12 PM
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Haha our hormones do weird things to us! But given the orgasm gap, maybe a toy would serve better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:19 PM
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Pets?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:17 AM
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Doing the goddesses work here 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:54 AM
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Basically unanimous agreement that she should dump him, but if she does move in with him and feels obligated to contribute, she should pay him 1/6th of the equivalent of rent going in the area for a similar property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:39 PM
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Ooof. I hope she cleans him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:00 AM
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Oh no, what did he do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:19 AM
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Yes! Spinning silver is so good! I'm reading Uprooted now, and it's amazing too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:52 PM
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Your username though 🔥😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:38 PM
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Still worth repeating. Men remembering details about who you are and what you care about is non-negotiable! Would like to add that it's also a requirement that they care about these hobbies as much as they expect you to care about theirs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:36 AM
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If you can justify why you had one on your person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:46 AM
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It's a great edit! Thanks for adding 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:53 AM
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No need to apologise! It's an old(er) reference, probably not at the top of your mind lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:50 AM
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It's from an anime series of the same name. Essentially it's a notebook that kills someone when their name is written. https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0877057/ - It's on Netflix if you want to watch. It was fairly decent, and wasnt *too* bad at their portrayal of women... at least as far as anime's go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:08 AM
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Commenting to boost this as a promoted response. This is so important. As much as is mentally possible, we need to do this to protect other women. I understand why we don't report our rapes, but I think a lot more would be successful if more of us reported, as it would show a trend. We need to start somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:03 AM
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With things that are plausible for you to have on your person for non-violent reasons. Ie keys, utility knives, hair aerosols, steel toed boots, deathnote, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:59 PM
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I agree with this. She doesn't seem to be perfect, but she's a hell of a lot better than most media I've seen. She seems willing to put herself in the aim of fire in order to call out toxic masculinity. I see other claiming that she is a kinkmesha, but from the little I've seen of her recently, (IMO) she discusses it in a really healthy way. She condemns the normalisation of non-consenting kink, and acknowledges the part that normalising kink has had in the increase of sexualised violence toward…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:44 PM
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Yeah, it popped up in my 'memories' today and made me laugh. I must admit I unfollowed her for a while for my own personal reasons and am not up to date with her contraversies. I've been browsing her FB since I posted this, and haven't found anything overly contraversial. If you have the time/mental space, I'd love to understand what she has said/done that makes you say that about her? Thanks in advance if you do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:53 AM
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Edit: The authors name is spelt wrong in the quote. My apologies. It is Clementine Ford. The four predictably basic moves of men's rights activists http://www.dailylife.com.au/news-and-views/dl-opinion/the-four-predictably-basic-moves-of-mens-rights-activists-20160211-gmri2v.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:01 AM
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No, no, you ignored and avoided him, because it was the only way you could stop yourself from dropping your panties and taking him right then and there! ​ /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:57 PM
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Only wild dogs act that horrendously! And they learnt it out of necessity, not laziness!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:54 PM
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This should be it's own post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:30 PM
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Welcome to the sisterhood! We hope that you find some community while you continue on enlightenment and healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 11:51 AM
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I see y'all have met my dad. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:26 PM
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Haha your Aussie is showing! (I'm an expat and I never hear Aussie slang, I miss it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:42 AM
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Our mods are not rude, they have high standards, as they should. They work super hard to maintain this space, and deserve more recognition. I'm sorry your flair isn't flattering, but it's LV behaviour to call them rude for it. I'm sure there is a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:58 PM
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He didn't even cook it for her, he was offering her his leftovers!! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:38 PM
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You are 100% correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 07:52 PM
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You don't need a man to have a family if that's your goal. It's more expensive and challenging, but there are a few ladies on here going this route of male-less parenthood. But I wish you the best of luck with whatever journey you end up on 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:54 AM
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Yes, I was referring to the HVF. But thanks for clarifying that it meant friend! I haven't come across someone using it like that before. I'll add that to my repitoire of acronyms 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:54 AM
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Love your message. Just a reminder, if you use man, the feminine equivalent it's woman, not female. Female denotes gender only, woman denotes gender and species. We are humans, not wild animals, pets, or objects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:39 PM
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My partner is. Never has to be asked. Never uses it as leverage for something else. Never rubs it in. Just does chores he sees needs doing. I'll never go back to anything else. If it doesn't work out with this one, I'm entering the solo harpy club ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:08 PM
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My ex did that to me, and I still don't post permanent selfies. I'll only post them to my stories. I don't know how to get past this. I feel like a complete narcissist when I post any pictures of myself on my socials now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 12:39 PM
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It wasn't to put the fire out, it was to relight it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:44 AM
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The first line is 👌👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:23 AM
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Someone literally asked for his opinion, and he calls out people for telling women to lower their standards. His message is pretty on brand for FDS, so I don't understand your comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:14 PM
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Apparently, she agreed to a date at a restaurant, but he picked her up and just took her to his place. This was reportedly their 2nd date. We need to be so careful letting men drive us anywhere :'(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:34 PM
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Use what works for you. As long as you are aware of the higher risks, and still heavily vet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:58 AM
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Google voice is only your friend if you live in the US. Less helpful for the other 190 countries in the world. Edit: I appreciate how useful Google Voice is, so maybe you could suggest virtual number services instead. It's frustrating having to explain why Google voice is not a valid option, and alternative services (such as Snapchat) are a good option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:54 AM
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Make it stop please. I have this weird playback going on in my head where thousands of men are saying the same thing over and over again horror movie style
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:27 AM
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If she tells the truth and says negative things, it's alienation. She has to lie (or lie by omission) to the kids and act like their dad is a wonderful human being that deserves to be around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:40 PM
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WoMeN aRe NeVeR nIcE tOo mE aNd AlWaYs AsSuMe I'm A cReEp, ItS dEsCrImInAtIoN aNd AbSiVe. We ArE tHe ReAl ViCtImS wHy WoNt AnYoNe CoMpLiMeNt Me. /s if it's not obvious enough. Honestly men need to be mad at each other for making it unsafe for women to be kind to them, rather than at women for being smart and safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:01 PM
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Sure! We met through work. I think dating apps are harder because it reduces the chances of you being friends with them first and means you have to vet them while being involved. Whereas in teh 'real world', you can vet before agreeing to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:50 PM
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Great question! I'm sure I came to FDS for the same reason as many other women with a HV relationship. It's so nice to have a community where my lived experiences are validated, and (as terrible as it is), know that I'm not alone in being frustrated in how women are given the short end. My current romantic relationship is great, but I've had terrible ones previously, and I have other complicated relationships with people (family, friends), that is still helpful to use the FDS mindset for. FDS is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 03:02 PM
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Sorry, I didn't mean that to come across as it did. I would have just put the user but I'm not sure if it would count as doxxing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:28 PM
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Credit is waterwashed on the image
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:17 AM
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It does both. She acknowledges that she isn't one to judge a woman for chasing that money, but she questions why female liberation looks exactly the same as what men want women to look like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:22 PM
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Honestly, this is me. I swear the dishes are clean when I'm doing them, but everytime I come back there's always one dish that's still greasy AF, or I missed something. The bubbles and the water make it hard for me to see the smaller less obvious things. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:29 PM
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Men don't take the woman's last name in Quebec... That's just straight false. Women don't take the man's last name either, but it's not a matriarchy over here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:19 AM
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That just tells them what they need to so for the next lady. Let them keep showing their true colours to everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:35 AM
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Exactly! I want to support women and their own agency, and lift them up, but how much of what they're doing and their success is because they're pandering to what the male gaze wants. I love how she called out that "female empowerment" looks exactly the same as what men want to see, and how that's probably not okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:15 PM
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Yes, the one and only! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:55 PM
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It's straight messed up. I'm not sure how she is justifying or rationalising this, but I definitely feel it is a chargable offence to knowingly put someone in a dangerous situation without allowing that person to make an informed decision about whether they will do it or not. This is not empowering women. This is just a crime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:05 PM
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I agree. I was completely down for this until it became clear that there was no remorse for violence that came upon people directly because of actions she took, and especially because she seemed pleased with the outcome. It kind of ruined the whole thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:03 PM
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They do, they just get shit on. May I introduce you to a small artist you might have heard of named Taylor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:55 AM
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There is some definite 'virtue' signalling happening here. I get the vibe that OP feels superior because of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 02:58 PM
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As u/GAaliyah12 said, Men lie. In any case, even if you don't have the 'n-count' talk, a HV man will not put you in a position where you are unknowingly with someone they've previously had relations with (carnal or love). They've either cut that person from their life, or they'll tell you in a 'full disclosure' moment as soon as they learn that an interaction will occur.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 02:57 PM
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Underrated response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 02:55 PM
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This directly contradicts the handbook. We don't disclose n-counts, no exceptions. We don't shame people for having high n-counts, we don't know their story. And if we aren't going to shame our sisters for having a high n-counts, we shouldn't be holding that against our men. Yes it's less likely that they have a high n-counts due to being used and manipulated, but I think their current opinion on porn and kink is a better indicator of value, than their n-counts. If we are allowed to level up, so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:34 PM
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This is my kink 💖 EDIT: Autocorrect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:56 PM
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She is a Queen 💅 No one has any issues with the men in this show being picky AF. At least she is giving everyone a go, instead of rejecting them based on their picture SMH
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 04:32 PM
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In the same way that people can say "all fries are delicious", yet sometimes there can be an occasional and objectively bad fry, people can accurately say "yes all men" and there can still be an occasional and objectively HVM. Point is that pickmes rank all men as HVM to the beginning and deduct points for behaviour. FDS assumes all men are nuetral or low value and they have to earn their points.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:09 AM
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ThAt'S hAtE sPeEcH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:09 AM
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The difference here is consent. Then men want you to struggle with them about how you (women) will spend your life, but eventually concede because you are mentally broken, so that he 'wins"'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 10:00 AM
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When she was a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 09:09 PM
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It's super manipulative. They're trying to make their partner desperate by showing how little they care and how easy it would be to walk away. It's manipulative and disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:28 PM
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This is the first I've seen it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:22 PM
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Your family just can't process properly because they're lacking sleep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 12:58 AM
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Can confirm. Having seperate bedrooms is the best!! We snuggle every evening and morning, but sleep separately. And we each have our safe space when we need alone time. Never living with a man again without seperate rooms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:03 AM
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Were we friends 10 years ago?? Is this about me? I feel personally attacked haha. S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:21 PM
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https://youtu.be/DwXweiRjckI This one is WAAAY creepier (focuses on his interactions with the children)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:06 PM
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Vanilla is my favourite flavour. Icecream, milkshakes, cake, desserts, sex. Vanilla is amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 11:53 AM
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It's honestly just so infuriating. As far as I can tell, most of it seems to be about how they don't get hugs/compliments enough. But I don't seem them having an "uh-huh" moment and realising that they should hug/compliment each other more. They want the women to do it. But yah know, if a woman hugs/compliments a man, there are too many men who would take it as a sign that she is DTF and they take something that was pure and helping them, and make it gross and inappropriate. So women don't anymo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:31 AM
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Sorry if this isn't allowed - I can't see the sidebar on mobile to check
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:04 AM
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Older single men are seen as creeps, weirdos etc but probably for 20+ years, they felt like Peter Pan. My father, 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:58 PM
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His wife's response https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/f4f0kc/comment/fhqwr3g
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:50 PM
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I feel personally attacked 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:40 AM
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Pictures
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 01:54 PM
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This was made by a VLVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 12:28 PM
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Good reminder. I got so caught up in my frustration with him I forgot to be supportive if she chooses to stay. <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 12:29 AM
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He is genuinely a nice guy, but is an absolutely crappy BF, and doesn't communicate with her. He also constantly ditches her for his friends, and does not provide any emotional support AT ALL. She is trying so hard to build her life and grow into the best version of herself, but doesn't have any extra energy to do so because she is having to do all the emotional and mental work in the relationship. She's been on the edge of leaving him for ~9 months, but never seems to get close. How can I help …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 12:02 AM
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The fact that you are on meds "that you couldn't remember what happened" means that you couldn't consent. Same as alcohol. Go to town on this asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 01:27 AM
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Following
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 01:19 AM
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You're literally saying women should be thankful to men for not being assholes, and for "trying" to shame others for not being assholes. What's to prevent "big strong man" from coming and stealing all of your property if not for societal protection. What's to prevent "big strong man" from coming and taking his sexual utility from youif not for societal protection. And remember, no weapons allowed, because we are just going off of pure physical strength here. Societal protection extends to more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:37 PM
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So is this whole thread...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 05:30 PM
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I'm sorry that you had to learn how to defend yourself. I'm sorry that men think they are the only solution to a problem they continue create and perpetuate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 03:05 PM
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No more sex!! For ANYONE... Men included
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 11:42 AM
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I saw that. It is honestly one of the few logical responses to the whole thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 01:19 AM
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Can I quote this everywhere??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 12:02 AM
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Good. People suck. Especially those who think one group of people should be thankful to another group of people for not being abusive fascists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 11:44 PM
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You're a good parent. Thank you for trying to raise them right!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 12:38 PM
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I wish I could upvote this twice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 01:09 PM
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This is perfect!
/r/MensRights15/01/19 09:55 PM
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