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I think it’s generally all those things at once. Depending on the girl it’s not usually the whore one. Most whores seem stoked to tell you they’re a whore. At least the actions tell you they’re a whore. They brag about all those dudes then disappear for a few days. Whore, but you already knew this. It’s the others if she’s blowing you up all the time and worried about what you’re doing.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 07:27 AM
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Lift and read
/r/askTRP06/12/18 05:38 AM
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Yeah small is the best way to start. When I start a plan I start even smaller, like today I’m going to clean a part of my bathroom. I start with the sink and most times. I’ll end up cleaning my whole fucking house, but I don’t start with a huge overwhelming goal ever. When I go out I say. I’m just going to dance like I don’t care for a song. Then I dance all fucking night. I’m just going to talk to this one girl. Then I talk to 10 and get s few numbers. This is just how my brain works I guess.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:34 PM
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Seems like every time you mess up something, a little you have a full on melt down. You need to relax and realize that perfection is not the goal. Practice is the goal. Just do one thing a little better everyday. Also look back at your day and see what you did right don’t focus on what you did wrong. You just need to try to do a little better everyday. I would start with the gym. You don’t have to go to the gym and “fucking kill it” sometimes you just go and do a bullshit workout, but that’s ok.…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 10:30 PM
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This is def the secret handshake
/r/askTRP28/11/18 05:53 AM
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I’m on college round 2 first time I was a 2.5 student that didn’t really care and thought I was smarter than the system. This time around I use my resources, such as free tutors and all the online help that’s available through YouTube for all math and physics stuff. I focus on how I learn and not so much on how they teach me. It’s not the teacher fault if I don’t understand something. It’s my fault because I didn’t put in the effort needed to get the result I wanted. Now, I’m a 3.8 student and I…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 10:37 AM
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Well this is going to sound unpopular, but I’d have dumped his ass too. There’s some deep seated emotional shit going on if the dude is “breaking down” about something that happened 16 years ago. I’m sure this wasn’t the first thing that made her want to run, but I’m sure it was the last. We’re all saying this girls evil and shit. She’s a person who has needs to and she wants someone who isn’t going to lose it about an event that happened in the very distant past. Who probably hasn’t dealt with …
/r/askTRP23/11/18 08:38 PM
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I’ll check these out they seem legit
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:59 PM
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I’ll check them out
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:52 PM
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Did she just move to a new city? Need a little more context
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:00 AM
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You should quit your job and move to another city
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:56 AM
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Reply “Lol”
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:52 AM
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This is going to sounds a little counter intuitive, but slow down when you’re inside her and feel when your going in and out. Concentrate on yourself and your feeling more than on hers. I know this is a little odd but for some reason it worked for me when I had this issue. That way you’re not just destroying pussy to bust a nut. Really focus on yourself and how you feel and not worry about her at all. You know you can go forever the next round if you have to and make her cum so focus on you and …
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:50 AM
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This is the thing, if they’re a plate who cares if they’re fucking someone else. You have to be aloof and not give a fuck to get them in the door but then you need to have genuine fun with them to keep them around. Unless you’re way above them in SMV then they will do things for you. You still need to take them on dates and play the game a little. Especially if they’re high quality. Just don’t commit. You can have multiple amazing girls. That you date and fuck. Hell they know you’re doing it and…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 02:30 AM
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I have noticed that condoms dry them out almost as soon as I put it in. This has happened with every girl. It’s a damn shame. Def has to invest in line and all that
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:42 AM
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I am at the same point. It’s to the point where it isn’t even worth the effort, but I have to do it. Guess I’ll just start having girls suck my dick more.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:38 AM
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No nothing like that. It’s just they’re plates and I’ve gotten tested and all that but I know I’m putting myself and by association them at risk of catching something. Shit if they don’t use condoms with me are they going to use them with other dudes. Fuck no! Now I might lose a plate or two because of this but if gets really bad. I’ll just LTR a good one or something lol
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:27 AM
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It is def a numbers game. I always say it’s like 20% usually 2 out of 10 are willing to chill. Out of those you will be able to sleep with 1 of them or will be willing to put the effort into sleeping with them at least. You have to at the very least show interest without being overt about it. I have always followed the TRP principle of never complementing a girls body unless she’s naked riding my dick or a variation of that. Never tell her she’s beautiful, that’s beta show her with your eyes and…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:22 AM
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I have been using those. Guess it’s all just going to be an experiment.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:04 AM
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Haha not even a little. It’s fantastic but I really like fucking more, just a personal preference I guess.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:03 AM
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Lol fuck. It time to try magnums. That might be the issue. It really does feel like imagination. It’s legit like I’m having to think about it not in the moment at all. It’s terrible.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 07:55 AM
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Depression is a real thing but I think it gets over used in today's society. Someone is having a bad day "I'm Depressed" something small makes a girl a little mad "I'm depressed". It isn't your job to make them feel better about anything especially if they're depressed for real. Society uses depression as a way for people to think they should feel good all the time. Guess what? You aren't supposed to feel good all the time. Shit sucks ass from time to time. You just have to do the right things i…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 06:23 AM
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I have done this a few times. Always large city to large city. I think where ever you decide to move to it should be a place where a lot of the people are not from there. Cities that are growing, like Phoenix or Austin. I have never lived in the north east but from what I here it can be very unwelcoming for new comers, I take this with a grain of salt but that's what I hear. This makes people more likely to show you around and be friends with you because you are new to the area, just they were a…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 06:17 AM
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Yeah I like that approach. I see where the guy is coming from though trying to stick up for himself and all that but it’s always a losing battle in a bar. Just laugh and move on. Bartender was being a dick but that really can’t phase you. Sometimes they’re dicks. Reminds me of a story. One time was going out in New Orleans on bourbon street. My buddy was driving and didn’t want to drink so the bar tender rolled a can of Coke for him off the bar and it bounced around the floor. My buddy grabbed t…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 01:46 AM
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This is all perfect advice. You have to at least try for the kiss if she doesn’t kiss you back oh well. At least you weren’t a bitch
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:09 AM
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Try to jack off and hold out blowing a load as long as possible. You’ll get to point where you can last as long as you want and blow your load when you feel like it. Also jack off before you see a girl. You’re still a young horney as fuck dude. You’re not an older dude that doesn’t have raging hormones and needs to hold onto them to get hard and have the killer instinct to bed a girl. And if you do blow a load to quick just say “Good got the easy one out” let’s go for round 2. Don’t be embarrass…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:07 AM
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Sometimes the people you thought were your friends aren’t your friends at all. They’re just drinking buddies. Hurts to say after all the time you had spent together but it’s the truth. I was a full on alcoholic for a long time and when I quit drinking I lost a few friends. The ones that stayed were really my friends. Here’s what I suggest. Do stuff that sounds fun that doesn’t have to involve drinking. Go out and go for a hike. Go for a bike ride find an activity that drinking not improve and do…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:53 PM
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You need to look at every girl as if she would fuck you given the chance. Then you give them the chance to do it. You’re the hottest guy in the room right. They all want to fuck you, but you have to put in the effort to let them get the chance too. You have to internalize that you are a prize and they are all just girls. You give some the opportunity to be with you. You make the others jealous that they didn’t get too. M
/r/askTRP17/11/18 11:44 PM
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Say "cool" don't give it a second thought
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:18 PM
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Point taken. Thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 10:28 PM
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Damn good advice
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:55 AM
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Cut down the plates and do what you want. The same thing sort of happened to me. I realized I was putting more time into hooking up with plates than going to the gym. One of the very things that got me the plates in the first place. I cut down on the ones that I didn't really enjoy hanging out with and took the girls I liked to do things I really wanted to do. Made a world of difference.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:54 AM
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I say go and get a blow job. If she's not doing it right just tell her to make it sloppy as fuck and use her hands. I fell like some girls just need to watch one damn blow job from a porn star to get it.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:43 AM
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This might be unpopular but I would act the same way she is. You're trying to bang her not wife her. Who gives a shit if her first choice turned out to be a beta or if she got dumped by an alpha chad. You were busy to right! you didn't text her either, good! Set up date go forth and slam.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:35 AM
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I honestly haven't found a group that really does it all yet. Though with time the bullshit settles and you start to see some friends become successful in ways you never really thought that they would. I have friends who are salesmen and they are great with people, and generally very smart in a streetwise sort of way. I have friends who are in school and they push themselves to do the best they can in class, it's always good to compete with classmates for the best grades it makes you better. I a…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:30 AM
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I read that book. It really did help a lot with ending my covert contracts especially with girls. Then it was the gym. When you go and you go and you finally get to the point where you look fucking good. It's amazing, I know we don't go for anything but self validation around here but holy shit. When a girl looks at you when you take your shirt off and says "Holy shit, you're fucking hot" for the first time. That will change your life forever.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:17 AM
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I'm a bouncer. You want younger girls bounce. You make money while others are spending it and you get to sleep with the hottest girls in the bar, well the younger hot ones. You still have to game them of course but it's basically easy mode, if you try a little. I haven't tried to get with any cougars but I work at a college bar so that helps. I have friends who work in other bars that are more cougar friendly habitat and they hook up with cougars.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 09:10 AM
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Got the lay tonight. I wrote a decent length comment to another reply if you care to read it. Seems this ASD was mostly due to lack of comfort which I didn't calibrate correctly. Hope, it can help you in future endeavors.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 08:57 AM
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Well I pulled some magic and made it happen tonight. Seems that the ASD was legit because she thought that I just slept with a ton of girls. I do, sort of I guess. She needed a little more comfort. She says "what is this, what are we doing, are we just hooking up" I said "yeah we're just hooking up right now, We've already spent time together and I don't hook up with girls I don't want to hang out with". Then She says something to the effect of "You're just used to hooking up with all these girl…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 08:54 AM
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Good fucking point! She def did. I’m a fool it what I have learned. I need to make her put in effort. I’ve been doing all the work. Oh well. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:12 PM
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Sadly, you are correct here. Spot fucking on! I really didn’t want to hear it but you’re right. I’m seeing her tonight and if it doesn’t go well it’s time for a soft next at the least. Abundance my friend, abundance.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:10 PM
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Keep these friends and just make new ones. Then drift away. It's pretty natural and happens all the time. Don't try to drag them along with you. Either they come with or they stay behind
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:04 AM
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You didn't get her number? She was just being the only female in a room full of nerds. She was having fun with you. You didn't escalate well enough I would think. Oh well move onto the next one. Set backs happen.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:01 AM
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Ask her to manslpain to you what mansplaining is, then laugh.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:46 AM
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LOL what (hand clap) da (hand clap) fugg (hand clap) did I just read. Cool story, I hope its fake. This is the exact opposite of TRP. Unless you're a pro gamer, then it's fine. I would say you need to redo your priorities. Stop playing video games so much. Go to the gym, change yourself for the better. I hope this is just a troll. honestly you're in a sad state my dude. Video game addict and to drunk to bang. I would move on the same way she is, if I was her.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:37 AM
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Time, cardio, gym. Hook up with girls. The only way past a girl is to put your dick in a few other ones. Remind yourself, she's not all that special and get moving forward.This situation is one where you really need to move the fuck out. Find a plate and stay with her as much as possible. Stay a friends houses.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:29 AM
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Flush it
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:22 AM
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I'm 30 got of the military and I'm going to college now. I feel like I'm 23, people tell me I look 25. Then some kid does something and I'm reminded of how much more experience I have. I generally sleep with 21-26 year old girls. I have yet to meet a girl my age that I'd really say does it for me. Dating now seems easier because of all the ways to do it. A relationship on the other hand is way harder to control. Girls have so many options that they are always on the hunt. I guess I am too so I c…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:19 AM
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Sounds like you played it well. I think you maybe should have asked for her number and said you don't like using snapchat. It's just easier to connect with people blah blah blah... This is just a thought. She probably just wanted attention. Hell her Boy Friend might have told her to unfriend you. There's a ton of reasons. You could always try again in a month or two.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:12 AM
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That's not really a shit test. Just hold frame and don't seem like you're pandering to her at all. You could always say "I'm more of a lover than a fighter (add wink for dramatic effect)"
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:45 AM
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She sounds like fun to me. Though i'd say pass unless she just stumbles onto your dick. Good move not getting the Red Bull. I have never met a Bi chick that wasn't insane in the sack but I really can't say to go for it unless you're going to a new company.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:42 AM
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Nope, You want to do security if you want girls. You want to bar tend if you want money. You just tell them you are only available for Fridays and Saturdays. It's that easy. I do security and its awesome for pulling girls. Just be fit and have a little bit of game. You are going to be put in the most boring spot when you start security, but stay with it and you'll move up fairly quickly. I love my side gig right now.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:35 AM
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You’re basically still a Freshman. You’ll be fine. Just keep moving forward. Keep doing the stuff you should be doing.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 02:31 AM
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LOL just listen and agree. Then do what the fuck you want anyway.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:09 PM
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Well shit you must have stood out like a sore thumb then haha. I do not really know any martial art I would recommend. I know people on here are always talking about Brazilian jujitsu. I personally don't do any martial art, but I would look into one that will help you fend off attackers with knives or guns.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:08 PM
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Oh you made the message to much mistake. That's okay live and learn. Move on spin more plates. You could go for the Hail Mary and say hey I thought what we had in middle school was special, Let's try to reignite the spark. That might work lol. You have to do that being playful though, and if you haven't developed a playful tone you are going to have to work out your own Hail Mary pass for this one.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:05 PM
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Seems like a douche. Ignore or agree and amplify. He mocks your accent just say that's not even how sound. I sound like this, put on the thickest accent you can muster and something stereotypical of your country. That way that don't laugh at him they laugh at you mocking him back. You can't let it bother you in the least. Once he see's you just don't give fuck he will stop because it wont be funny.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:02 PM
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Lift and get huge. Go practice a martial art and vow it will never happen again, that's the Batman response. I've never been mugged but hey sometimes shit happens. When a dudes got a gun your money aint worth your life. You could always get really fast so you can run away really quick. I think it's sort of a great party story, might suck now but that's an interesting thing to tell people. Just always phrase as hey I guess he needed his crack more than I needed my money or something along those l…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:57 PM
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The dancing is def a plus. I am not the best dancer but I don't think 95% of the dudes in clubs are good dancers. It's just a matter of having fun. Like really having fun. You want to escalate in a manner that has you to in your own little world.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 10:52 PM
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I would mention it playfully, but that's how I am. I tease a lot and try not to be to serious with girls. I would say I knew who she was the moment I saw her pic, or play it off like I wasn't to sure it was you but I thought it might be. Either way I think you should bring it up just to see her reaction, if she's a little nervous or shy about it I think you have it in the bag. Plus she matched with you so she still thinks your cute bro.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:49 PM
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You lift and you change. This is all that can be done, if you're a freshman you have a long time to change. Should you be a junior you can change a lot over summer. Should you be a senior, just keep lifting and go to college. You have plenty of time either way. High school isn't where you should peak anyway my bro. Stop calling yourself a loser. Once you believe you're not a loser other people will start to believe it too. Keep grinding out time in the gym and try to be more social. High school …
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:38 PM
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Yeah, you lost frame my man. You got shit tested a little bit and failed. I have done the same thing so don't worry about it. You just needed to make a good reason to leave. Say things aren't working out with the escalation. Check watch and say you need to leave in an hour. This gives you plenty of time to try again without seeming like you're pouting. Then when time comes give her a big deep kiss and bounce. This applies if they are hot enough to be worth the time put in. Should she be just ano…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:28 PM
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Bossy is a feminine trait. You're not being bossy, you're delegating responsibilities. When I am in a position of leadership I generally lay out tasks I would like accomplished, with a caveat that I will also be doing something. I do this with peer groups, if I am the actual superior I will tell them what to do and leave telling them where they can find me if they need me.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:22 PM
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You can try. It usually wont work unless you have already met them IRL at some point. I know dudes that can do this but they have huge social media presence. When pulling a girl off insta your profile must be hotter than hers.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:17 PM
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You need to move on to different girls. Then once you have shown you can get girls the others will circle back, not all of them but some will. Also, don't try to escalate over text. You want them to be with you when you escalate. The exception to this would be if you are gaming a girl in another city. That you only see occasionally. Use text to set up dates at first and don't blow girls phones up, EVER!
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:15 PM
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The lean in is key. You have to be right next to her face with your ear right there next to her lips. Then you do the same to keep the conversation going in a crowded club. When you lean in also put your arm around her waist. This is key. When you take a girl to dance I would suggest escalate to a kiss. You can get away with ass grabbing and such as well but don’t try to fuck on the dance floor. Try to get her out of there to escalate past the kissing and grab ass. I only say this because I used…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/18 09:10 PM
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I wrote a huge diatribe, but decided to delete it and leave it with this. Unless you were in the military. You don’t really know the military. I’m glad I did it. You can argue about its merit but I can lead men.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/18 11:32 AM
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All you need is your car, seriously I’m in my 30’s and when I drive home to my parents. I hook up with chicks in my car. They like it, it’s exciting. You can always go to their place. Which I like because I can leave whenever I want. I know a lot of these guys are spouting off about getting you’re shit together but that’s not helpful right now. What you need to do is be confident and just escalate in the car. It works and generally if they want to fuck you they will either take you back to their…
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:45 AM
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If you’re matching with chubbers. That means you’re swiping right on chubbers. Just stop swiping right on them. Then you won’t match with them.
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:38 AM
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They don’t care about potential. They care about what you have right now. Get a house and watch them line the fuck up. Right now there’s no high value girls seeking you out because living with the parents is not what a high value man would do. She doesn’t want to tell her friends she’s dating a guy that lives with his parents. Especially if said guy is 24. It just is what it is man. They don’t want a guy going places. They want a man who is there already.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 10:21 AM
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I feel like you should be escalating harder on the first and second dates. The Fuckboy thing might be coming up because they “want you to be one”. Escalate more on the first date. I always try to close on the first date. They only throw this shit test because you’re acting out of character. With the image they have of you and maybe they just wanted a quick lay. I could be way off but that’s what I got out of your post OP.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 10:07 AM
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I wanted to elaborate on this. You are not popular yet so you can’t push the limits of conventional fashion. Stay in the middle until you have style of your own a know what rules you can break.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:09 PM
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Lol bro you’re parents are nuts as fuck. You could always tell them that you trust people you don’t know more than them every time you get on a plane. Tell them it’s a part of life. You’re going to have to break little threads slowly to get these parents to crack. They are hard fucking core man.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:07 PM
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Why not? I’ve done this with good results but I can see how it wouldn’t be for everybody.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:05 PM
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This strategy does work. That's why the term fuck boy exists. I personally don't use it as it would be a huge pain in the ass for me. This really just seems like nice guy blue pill game. Plus you basically invest a lot of effort into a single girl. Hey if you want to give it a go try it and see if it works for you. I know a guy who does this and is constantly jump from girl to girl "breaking their hearts". I don't think he means to break any hearts on purpose. He's the perfect loving boyfriend t…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 09:50 AM
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Just give her a reason to hang out with you, in your apartment, alone. Ask her if she wants to watch a Disney movie. A dude told me this once "if she wants to watch a Disney movie she wants to fuck, everyone has seen every fucking Disney movie".
/r/askTRP15/10/18 09:20 AM
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You find a study linking success in school and career with being physically fit then present it to them in a power point. They probably won't go for it but I think they would respect the effort.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 09:11 AM
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You're overthinking it. Just get them to go on a date somewhere that isn't a fuck boy type of place. Take them to the fucking climbing gym or fucking mini golf. The problem is going to be separating them later, if she's into you and the other isn't into your boy. You're going to have a bad time. I would try to set up a date with your girl alone first then do the double date thing later. I just don't see the logistics of the double date working out at all.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 09:01 AM
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Just wear what the kids that are popular wear. It's the oldest trick in the high school book. Don't be the weird kid that wears suits and shit to high school or the weird goth kid. Wear well fitting clothes that match a style that you want to emulate. You want to be a popular kid dress like them, you want to be a red neck kid dress like them. I would stick to middle of the road "nice" clothing. Polo shirts, cool t-shirts, button ups all must fit well, fit is very important. Then wear jeans or ch…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:39 AM
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Sounds like back of the car bang time to me. I wouldn't next her she'll be happy as fuck just to get out of the house. Though she will probably be an LTR seeking missile, do what you will this this information.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:29 AM
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Bro I was in the military and saw broads straight destroy dudes. It's not all about money or even status but it can be about time and who has more to give. Plus, it can be boiled down to she left you because you were a beta pussy and she just wanted an alpha. You will most likely see this with younger girls that are looking to ride the CC once they reach a certain age they start to "hit the wall" and look to settle down into a sexless marriage where she can brow beat her poor beta husband. When …
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:16 AM
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I don't think he understands the Hypergamy concept as it applies to college. He might be thinking in terms of relationships and how they don't branch swing, because no body is in relationships, Maybe? Hypergamy is def real as fuck in college though...SOOOOO idk????
/r/askTRP15/10/18 08:03 AM
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STEP 0. LIFT!!!!!!!!!!! This is seriously important. Like crazy important it make the rest of the steps much easier and it has nothing to do with game, but trust me when you take your shirt off and a girl legit goes wide mouthed in awe and says "You're fucking hot" you'll understand. ASD goes down considerably. STEP 1. Just be cool treat woman like people and not delicate flowers. This is easier than trying to remember to all the crazy game stuff, and is basically the building block of all game.…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 07:57 AM
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You have to first off shave, like man to man bro you have to shave. The scar looks good plus it has a good story and I don't know how effective laser treatments would really be. However, if you don't like it then get ride of it. But you have to SHAVE!!! I'm not saying forever but you have to until your beard looks good. I'm not trying to be a hater. I promise you I'm just looking out for you my man.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 07:45 AM
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Ask if she has hot friends to introduce you to. You disqualify her and make her jealous, maybe she stops orbiting you. Then you didn't have to really do anything, but on the plus side she's introducing you to new girls. I like to have female "friends", it makes you look much more social.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 07:38 AM
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You say hey I think your cute, plus (insert bullshit about something she's wearing or doing in her pictures). It isn't hard and it takes little effort. Your opener is good but it lacks personality. Tinder is a numbers game though. I wouldn't have unmatched. I would have tried to have the same conversation verbatim with both of them, if that worked I would have said something to the effect of "hey do you know (insert other girls name)". The key with tinder is to not give a flying fuck, bc really …
/r/askTRP15/10/18 07:28 AM
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I second all these things. Think of this as well, excluding people from your life doesn't always make it better, you have less friends. This is an opportunity to work on being charismatic, make people like you just for who you are if they don't like you. Guess what you don't care because you like yourself, you laugh at the insults and say good one. Your brother punched you because he sees you as weak, if you get fucking yolked your brother won't fuck with you. Should your mom complain just say, …
/r/askTRP15/10/18 07:20 AM
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I’m sure those are good. I just don’t know Jack shit about either of them. I do know I’d look at you funny if you told me you rowed or fenced. Though I supposed that’s my own predisposition because I associate those with a certain type of person. Basically I’m just being a hater. Those could be good options if you have a good coach or trainer. I think rowing would drive me insane just because it’s like an endurance sport where you work together. Fencing could be fun, but I think wrestling would …
/r/askTRP15/10/18 03:56 AM
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Just say it’s less rough than football and it’ll help you network at Ivy League schools
/r/askTRP15/10/18 03:27 AM
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I don’t see why not but you would need to be in the weight room and become a monster. Playing rec won’t be nearly as intense. Sounds like your school is way more legit than mine was. You could play club rugby. The games are really intense at any level and the skills translate almost perfectly. Plus you can actually get scholarships to play rugby for high level programs in college.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 02:41 AM
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Bro football is the only sport in the US where you can get a scholarship and only pic it up in high school. There are guys playing pro right now that never played before they went pro, crazy right. This is why. With American football all you need is athletic talent and to be strong and you can learn a position. Not like baseball where you need to learn a lot of new skills. Football is highly physical with the strong man winning most times. It’s an awesome game and you only have to really learn e…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 08:59 AM
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You say “ We’re not doing anything”. Softly next to her ear. If she says “we aren’t having sex tonight” say “did you think I was that easy, you’ve got to earn that”.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 08:49 AM
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Go to a recruiter. Do you want to be a SEAL sure you fucking do, you’re a high speed, billy badass, pussy slaying, sexual man beast, with balls of brass. Here’s how the navy works. You get paper work sorted and you go to MEPS. At MEPS they will assign you a job, this job is not special forces. Once you get signed up for this job you can then apply for a special forces contract. EOD, SEAL, SWCC, Navy Diver, SAR Swimmer. Seal has the hardest quals, followed by SWCC, EOD/Diver and SAR swimmers are …
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:59 AM
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Just go be the DD. You can drive a girl home and game way better if you don’t drink. I’d wear a costume I love that shit and guess what the girls love it too. Don’t make a big deal about not drinking. Don’t bring it up. Should someone offer you a drink just say “I have to drive” or “I have a thing tomorrow I need to be at my best for”. Once people start to get shitty, they won’t even notice you’re not drinking or smoking. You just make conversation. It’s not bad at all.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:27 AM
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Pulled this off tonight. F-close. You can always work on improving your game. I have decent game but it can always get better and I like reading trp to get a fresh perspective. Took HB7 to haunted house. Perfect for kino. Escalated to kiss in the haunted house. Left there said hey let’s walk around this park I used to go to all the time when I was a kid. I’m 31, took her to park walked around make out time. Back to my vehicle. F-close. Park at night is great. Didn’t do the lay in the grass trick…
/r/askTRP12/10/18 09:37 AM
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You know I think you could pull this off if you're over 25 and have a free spirit. I mean nostalgia can be a great way to get them thinking about good times and good vibes. You would probably have to find a place with a coffee shop close then say hey lets walk in the park or something. Then get them to go over to the swing set. I think this could be great for any age. It's def not "normal" and a girl that wouldn't be down would be probably be an annoying princess anyway.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:27 AM
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Tell me about how you work a gym date? I have never taken a girl there because I don't feel like fucking around with all the weight changing and shit. However, I would like to know how you pull it off.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:24 AM
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I think hiking is great for sure. I have yet to try it do to my current schedule with school and work. I do think it really sets you up for success because you're out away from people the escalation happens naturally. I know a dude who's 20 and a pilot. He takes girls up in a fucking airplane for first dates. His Dad is loaded obviously . That I think is the ultimate first date.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:17 AM
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sounds awesome for a date for a plate. I think it might be expensive for a first date in my current situation plus i don't know shit about horses but sounds fucking awesome.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 06:11 AM
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Yeah if you can get girls to go to abandoned buildings on first dates, why the hell not. Start off at pub, say hey I’ve seen this really cool abandoned building let’s check it out. It could work for sure. Or transition from “haunted house” to “real haunted place” could work too. Seems harder to pull off than straight to the “haunted house”. But hey sheeple aren’t creative.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 10:55 AM
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Lift! This is the first step. Get strong and keep reading the side bar. Eventually things will sort of just fall into place. You have to do the work though. you have to lift and you have to approach.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:52 AM
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This is it my friend. Def wait until after the assignment. This way you can possibly see more IOI's and if you're smart and capable build some SMV. Uni is a good place for coffee dates or coffee hangout's whatever you prefer to call them.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:47 AM
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I feel like serving jobs fall into a strange category where everyone bangs everyone and its like high school. You can for sure get at this chick. Don't be creepy and just ask her to hang out. No big deal just hang out. Then let things "just happen". Don't frame things as dates and if the escalation isn't working or isn't smooth just next it. Be aware though if you try and fail it will mess up your rep with the rest of the server chicks. They all talk! Now, because you are new to the game and awk…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 07:38 AM
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I don’t drink but I do smoke tobacco. I generally just meet a girl for food and see how it goes. Should it go well I ask them for a walk around or come over to my place. Now it’s Halloween time. Take a girl to a haunted house nothing is better for kino in the entire world. Like in the history of ever. This month is a great month for dudes that don’t drink.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 05:40 AM
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I haven’t drank in two years and it has only made my life better. Especially with girls, I look better and I feel better.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 06:02 AM
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Bouncer at a club. I do this, best job to get girls ever! Like ever in the history of fucking ever. You talk to hotties all the time so it becomes normal to talk to them IRL. You're in charge so you get alpha cred. Girls will hit on you, even if you look like a turd.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 07:52 AM
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Do you want to be right or do you want to be cool, likable and a guy people want to be around? Nobody, I repeat NOBODY likes a know it all. Keep conversation fun and light in public with new people. Should you want to engage in political banter do that with your real friends. You should also try to keep in mind where people are coming form with their point of view and try to agree with it from their standpoint first. Then if you must counter, counter from your stand point. It's best to say "I li…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 07:47 AM
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Talk to everyone you can. Gas station attendants, fucking hobos, say hi to strangers. Just try to be talkative, it's strange but if you really start doing this you will get better at talking in general. This might be way off the deep end but I think if you could try to do improv comedy you could really up the game. You have to just get used to talking and not feeling awkward, I can talk to anyone about damn near anything. The book "Models" has a good section on speaking. -EDIT- When walking down…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 07:30 AM
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This is actually awesome advice. I took a dance class in college and found a great girl friend for years. I was BP as fugg so she didn't stick around but hey if a scared beta can meet girls in a dance class anyone can. Plus, tons of girls really want to "Dance" they love it.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 07:24 AM
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I generally say "No, what's your number". I think that the "No, but I'm taking applications" line is much better though will use hence forth.
/r/askTRP08/10/18 07:02 AM
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My man, nothing will make you feel more like a man than being able to kick someone else's ass. Just knowing you can do it will change how you look at the world. Get fucking huge in the gym, lift like your life depends on it. Because brother it really does if you have the incel frame of mind. Go to a boxing gym learn some martial art. Get discipline, make your self better. Guess what bro if you're weird it doesn't matter in the gym because you don't have to talk to a soul. It's just you and the w…
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:55 AM
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Yeas to this no excuse just do it. Go for playful leg grab if you have to just to gauge reaction. But mostly just do it. You’re a man you want it. Get it
/r/askTRP07/10/18 12:59 AM
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Touch her leg, move up thigh if sitting. If standing go for hand on lower back and move to hand around waist. If no resistance or pulling away pull her in close feeling around waist. I’m tall so when I pull them in they’ll usually rest there head on my chest. If they do this I’ll go for the kiss. After kissing and alone I make out with her while letting my hands roam. Make sure you’re hands are everywhere! Not like a wacky waving inflatable arm flailing tube man but in a sensuously moving slow w…
/r/askTRP06/10/18 08:33 PM
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Had a girl like this once. Really strange situation. It was like everything I said was an invitation to be critical. Super weird, she was also standoff-ish and didn’t seem receptive. But let me touch her and I kissed her and escalated but it still felt weird. I hung out with her twice then decided it wasn’t worth the effort.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 07:58 PM
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If you see her at the gym a lot then yes. It’s don’t shit where you eat if not it’s a grey area. I understand the premise completely though. As for mentally damaged maybe or maybe not if she was really attractive I’d have to find it for myself haha
/r/askTRP06/10/18 07:40 PM
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Over thinking is way normal especially if the girl is really attractive. Problem is if you start to over analyze you stop really being “you’re self” lame as it sounds. Just be cool and funny and slightly cocky act like nothing is a big deal or they’ll run to the hills.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 07:28 PM
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Good luck
/r/askTRP06/10/18 07:25 PM
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No, your're not fucking up ask her what there is to do. You already fucked her and she's down to do it again. Ask her to show you a night on the town or whatever. Tell her to be your slutty little tour guide.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:24 PM
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You weren't hard because you were nervous. Relax next time you'll be fine. Seems like a lot just came at you way to fast for you to even comprehend. From first kiss to BJ all in one day pretty good work. Remember you can bust a nut quick as long as you fuck her again real quick after. Also do not for the love of baby Jesus become exclusive with this girl. EVER!!!!
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:19 PM
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I think the main thing is to look like you're always having fun and always on fucking instagram. I think if you have a billion posts and a ton of followers she can be attracted to the profile itself and not necessarily you as a person as the profile tells of high SMV. I'm sort of working this out right in my head right now so bare with me. You should have better success with insta if you're always on it and posting cool shit. You can not have 5 pics and only be followed by your mom and expect to…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 12:05 PM
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Some girls don't want to give it up on the first date. I'd set up another you'll be good. Did you try the 1 step forward 2 steps back technique it works wonders.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:53 AM
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The only time I ever even tried this she sent me a request to follow. I accepted, I knew her from middle school. I said "Hey did you go to Dumb Stupid Kid School with me" (I already knew the answer to this). She said "yes I did". Told her "wow you look great and seem really into handstands" (she was a gymnast so she was doing tons of these in he pictures) She said blah blah blah something else. I told her I'd be in my home town soon and we should catch up sometime and asked her for her number. S…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:49 AM
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Make sure you lift and get strong nothing will help you more with every aspect of your life
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:35 AM
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This one is wild because you've been with her for 2 years. I know girls who have slut friends and they are not sluts themselves. The thing is if you don't trust her then this isn't going to work. Seriously, even if it's just a feeling it'll fucking nag on you from time to time. Here's also the fucking deal. These things happened when you were not exclusive. I think you're jealous that you didn't bang other chicks while you were seeing her, if you had you wouldn't give a shit about this right now…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:25 AM
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First go to the gym and lift! Look up starting strength if you feel like you need a guide on how to do it. No one in the gym will give a shit if you're small. I repeat no one in the gym will give a fuck if you're small. Also your parents shouldn't give a shit about you wanting to go to the gym and your father will respect you and hell even listen to you if he thinks you can kick his ass. You want to be a man in your house then look like a fucking man. Second. Stop comparing yourself to other peo…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 11:13 AM
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I know this is not a popular opinion on TRP at the moment but getting a degree is worth it IF you don't have to pay for it. It opens doors down the road in many cases for management and the like. However, there are many cases where it is dumb. Don't get a degree in something that ends in studies and you'll be fine. and take note that you can't get into a law program without a degree, but you can get into a law program with a bullshit degree as long as you have good grades.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:50 AM
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I know a dude that did that, he went after college though. He makes a really good living. 250k or something in euros lol. Not NBA money who gives a fuck. It's a fuck of a lot more than MBA money in most cases. You want to be happy go be fucking happy playing ball for money. Now this being said, is what they are paying you going to be more than what it would cost for a full ride scholarship at a university, where you can get a degree paid for while playing ball. Then go play pro after in Europe. …
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:41 AM
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Ummm.....Say "what's your number I'll hit you up when I'm done here maybe we can compare notes. I'm trying to get nice ass (stare at ass, yours then hers) maybe you can show me some work outs I don't know (smile and wink for extra effect) ". I do understand the hesitation though. I have missed opportunities like this in the past because I simply was not prepared to be hit on by a girl like that. That is classic DTF behavior. Now the real question is was she hot or not? ​
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:31 AM
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You can look at this a few ways. Do they have hot friends. I always make friends with everyone I can, because this can generally help you down the road. I know you may already know the subject matter, that they want help with but it is a valuable skill to be able to explain a concept to a person and have them be able to understand it. You may want to take this approach in your thinking. It may help them but I am also learning how to teach. This being said, make them learn the material and if the…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:20 AM
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I’ll be going in December
/r/askTRP04/10/18 11:45 PM
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Medieval architecture and touristy places during the day with cheapish nightlife. I was thinking about just taking a ton of pictures at random places to increase SMV for when I get back home. I do have another question. What are the girls like out there. I'm going to treat them the exact same way I treat them here, in the US anyway but what's a good spot to find the girls during the day and then at night?
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:45 AM
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Thanks for the info man. Will do.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:12 AM
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This happens all the time man. Like all the damn time. It happens even after you get the number. Which I think you should do first. Girls now a days seem to like the texty text prior to a real date. Get number then ask for a date. Don't burn bridges with girls just soft next and forget until they come back around. Also don't call it a date. I say "You want to hangout" girls know it's a fucking date, but the word "date" has to much gravity these days. Dates make them nervous but everyone "hangs o…
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:12 AM
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This is the best analogy. Holy shit that is good. I will work this fishing analogy into any conversation about this that ever happens in real life from now on. Thank you The_Tren_Train. Damn I might just quote the whole fucking comment.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 09:04 AM
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Also if drinking is really ruining you. You should stop drinking. It was the best decision of my life when I stopped. I'm stronger, better looking, better at my job and bang more girls than I ever could when I was a drunk mess.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:47 AM
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My grandmother and grandfather we taken care of by my mother and her siblings as they aged. My fathers mother was as well was taken care of by my aunt. I personally do not plan on ever putting my parents in a "home". I do not think it's an anglo thing I think it's just a shitty thing that people who lose principles do to justify their own shitty behavior. Some people lose sight of family.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:33 AM
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Just like to see what all there is basically. I really want to see some off beat touristy shit. I know it's not en vogue to want to see all the tourist traps but I like old castles and medieval architecture in general. The history of the place is fascinating as we don't have anything like it in the states.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:25 AM
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Sounds like a plan to me.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 08:23 AM
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Thanks man
/r/askTRP04/10/18 12:51 AM
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Middle of the date for sure!
/r/askTRP03/10/18 10:43 PM
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Touch legs. Hold hands. Grab waist and pull in. If you can do all this with no resistance go in for the kiss. Best TRP advice ever is if you think you can kiss her you probably could have 10 minutes ago.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 10:42 PM
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he means get that shit in writing so she doesn't accuse you of rape. Then proceed with the deal. However, I think the friend zone thing would be funny. Tell you you like hoes but you don't fuck whores. Actually don't tell her that unless you want to light that bridge on fire. if she'll do it for 50$ a week for a month I might be down. However, you sound like she might be a sort of oneitis for you, so you have to understand that this girl is now a hooker and you cannot fall in love. Also do not p…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 10:38 PM
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I don’t think they are all the same. With there interests, I knew a girl who loved playing guitar and music. I knew a girl who was really into animals and reading books. I’ve known a hundred party sluts. Even those girls are slightly different. Some are really funny and cool and others are dumb as rocks but really attractive. You have to dig deep with girls. They put on a mask every time they go out (make up). They have a public and a private face. Most men I have met don’t have a private face t…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 10:30 PM
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Make friends with this guy and learn from him. Don’t be a crab bucket. Join up and slay together. You need make friends right. I make a point of making friends with anyone I think is better than me. You can learn from them an may find out they are not as high up as you thought. Also, you should just try to be friends with everyone generally.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 10:20 PM
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I go to Nordstrom Rack and Ross. I get medium shirts. I'm not into the jogger pants and long shirt thing but they have those things at both these places. I generally try to get slim straight cut pants so I can ware boots with them and people can see my thighs. I'm 6'2" 195lbs my top abs are visible. I'm not huge but I look strong enough. I might be slightly less large in the shoulders than you are though. ​
/r/askTRP03/10/18 10:08 PM
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You're trying to F-close you sort of need to throw cation to the wind and just say "Let's get out of here". You can also say something to the effect of let's go get some food. Then once you get food which gets you out of the bar. Getting her out of the bar is step one, then maybe when you get her to your car you just start kissing her deeply and try to f-close in the car. You can also try to say something like I haven't seen the dorms in awhile I really want to see how you're living. Honestly F-…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 10:01 PM
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I've been reading The Sex God Method. That guy says to connect with woman emotionally during sex. I personally have been very put off by the thought of saying "I love you". However after reading this book I'm beginning to understand that in order to have truly great sex with a woman you really need to connect with her on an emotional level. I know that this is in fact true as I have been having empty sex as of late. The book says to use "I love you during sex", especially if she wants it. I woul…
/r/askTRP03/10/18 09:55 PM
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Bro the Army will change you. Right now, just tell girls you’re about to leave and you might not have a chance to see them for awhile so it doesn’t have to be a big deal. That worked for me before I joined. However I would focus more on training for the job and getting in shape at the gym. You can also talk to the recruiters and find a “work out group”. Then you have some male friends and maybe female ones too. Do not fuck female recruits, whatever you do. Finding someone with the same goal as y…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:51 AM
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Get a job at the campus gym. You see all the girls that use the gym everyday and they see you. Then you see them around campus and talk a little with them. Just a thought.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:40 AM
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Check this youngster! People are not meant to be happy all the time. Hell, we’re not even meant to be content all the time. Girls can fuck you up. You have been working out and bettering yourself. Keep doing that. Do something small everyday to make you feel like you’re working to better yourself. Even if it’s just picking up your socks off the floor when you take them off. I was an incredibly depressed alcoholic for most of my 20’s. I’m in my 30’s now. I stopped drinking and started to take car…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:37 AM
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I like to just say “Hi, I’m lostitink, how’s you’re day/night going.” Then try to jump the conversation from there. I’m for sure not going to call you a pussy or whatever. I’ve also asked girls if they think kissing a girl is cheating. Plus, there is real benefit to canned openers. You don’t always need them but if you have them they can help. I generally don’t use them so much anymore and try to comment on something around them or on them.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:23 AM
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Did anyone actually get on the Stoney Brooke University site and try to read it. My God it’s incredible, it’s literally horrible for young men to read and does nothing to help a man become a man. I’m glad I found TRP when I did.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 10:39 PM
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Take her to play pool or bowling. Movies are not good for anything unless you've been seeing the girl and YOU want to see a movie. Also make her split that shit.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:06 AM
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Move cities and delete her on every fucking thing you can think of to delete her on. Keep slaying pussy until one day you just legit don't give a fuck. Also time, basically just time. Also yes your ex is probably getting nailed to a wall by Chad. So be Chad go forth and concur
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:02 AM
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I never ask for N count. Should they ask for mine I'll tell them it's over 100. I don't care and truth be told I like hoes. I like girls that like to fuck. Now TRP for some reason has people locked on this magic N number. I think if the sex is good keep it coming. Have your chick and a side chick or three. Don't worry about the number because she's fucking you right now. Are you going to wife her? Probably not so just have fun.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:54 AM
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I think you want something special with them both but you really cannot have both for an extended period of time. It's college and things will fall apart eventually. I know that I treat situations like this in one way. When I'm with the particular girl, I'm with that girl, and when I'm not, I'm not. You feel me. Just tell them you expect them to treat the situation the same way. They're plates let them do their thing and you do yours. One day it will run its course with one or both of them and t…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:44 AM
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You need to see a real counselor or therapist and actually listen to their advice. I don't know your whole deal but I would start there and figure out why you have a problem with school and people in general.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:32 AM
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This is somewhat subjective and you have to feel it out. Start by saying something to the effect of you seem so innocent, but i bet you have a few secrets to tell. or say stories to tell. Then move on to something about her first kiss or losing her virginity. When you do this you can tell stories about yourself if you need to but hopefully she will just be willing to talk about it.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 05:16 AM
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I think clubs can work for a very specific type of person. However if I wasn’t bouncing I’d never be in one. Ever
/r/askTRP26/09/18 04:50 AM
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It seems to be a trade off between the two. Day vs. Night game, My day game is slacking because of work and school and other things I do. It isn't really a worry thing. I stay outcome independent. I guess it's main as you said I was hot when she was drunk a flirty but because I can't really engage in that situation, I end up being a sidenote to the night and not the main thing. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:48 AM
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Thanks man. Ill try it this way. I'll get back to you if I have success with this method. Appreciate the advice. Lots of dudes at work seem to have the same issue with club chicks. We know they are hoes but that why we love them.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:42 AM
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I know all this. I guess the main thing is trying to build more interest. I know there is not a magical interest bullet. I'm trying to see if other men have ways of building interest and setting up dates that may not follow the cookie cutter sidebar approach. I'm not salty at these girls and I know you gotta next a girl when they flake.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:34 AM
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Then how about posing the question like this. What do you do to transition from number to date? Here is what I do. I get logistics set, if they reply to text which I do not do very much. I tell them where we are going to go. Then they either bail or don't. Should they show up I will almost certainly have sex with them either that night or the next date. I think one of my issues might be that I'm letting to much time go between number and date or maybe not enough time. What are your thoughts on t…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:27 AM
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I often see this as it does work for most of the situations. I think a lot of people don't fully read the question before they turn on the default" read the side bar". This isn't really a rookie question. I approach. I have plates. I just want to see if I can change a facet of my game to make it more effective.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:21 AM
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Big Dog, The issue is not escalation. Once I have them with me on a date it's easy to close. The issue is setting up the date without a flake. That is all. Do you have personal experience or advice on this specific aspect of the game. I'm trying to see a different perspective on what other people do. It's not TRP 101 is the minutia of this specific set of circumstances that I'm trying to figure. As For shitting where I eat. Bouncing does not pay my bills. It's a fun hobby job basically to pick u…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:17 AM
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I'm looking for actionable advice, not a lecture. Bouncing doesn't pay the bills it gets me girls numbers and it gets me laid. I'm looking on better ways to transition from the number to the date? Do you have advice on that?
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:04 AM
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I am having a similar issue. The main thing I would think is the dating app it self. These girls have an endless and i do mean, fucking endless supply of cock at their disposal. You might get one fuck out of them but then it's on to the next guy because they didn't feel a "connection". I would slow down the texting. You're not exclusive so if a date goes well set up another date and only talk to them on the day of that date, or better yet just have them come to your place. I have this arrangemen…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:15 AM
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I like this idea. Easy day low investment and they truly know the deal if they go back to your place.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:07 AM
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Lift!!! Be confident (or pretend to be confident) and you must truly be prepared to fail. The first time I did a cold approach when I finally got to the what's your number part I was legit shaking. It's a journey man but you just have to do it. Good Luck!
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:02 AM
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Depends on the girl. You can either go cold and not say much, which I would do if I legit didn't give a fuck, which has happened more than a few times. Then there's a girl you actually like to talk to in which case I only ever offer solutions and if they ignore them I just tell them it's their fault for allowing said person to be that way. I would also tease the shit out of them for making me an emotional tampon. If it's serious to them it's not serious to you. You are fun remember that.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 01:58 AM
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Either say something funny or don't say shit. Or here's an idea look like your having fun in your pictures.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 01:54 AM
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I think a lot of people try to generalize this situation. I would personally try to build a conversation with a more sexual tone. While not touching her just so she gets my intentions. Then if you can get her to open up about that move in and start the touching and feeling. You could also just try to get inside her head and make her feel more comfortable. Meaning talk about her hopes and dreams and fears. That's always a good place to start, seriously you just need to make her feel better being …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 01:52 AM
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It’s a fun job in the right environment. Everyone knows at least one guy that bounces. Ask him about where he works and what other clubs he’d recommend work at some are really authoritarian others, like the one I’m at are not that crazy and you can have some fun while working. You don’t really make good money it’s a side job for sure. You can make decent money on a Friday or Saturday if the club is busy and you work the door taking tips to let people skip line. I don’t really work there for the …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 03:01 PM
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It’s really easy actually. It’s sort of a job perk like a pension or dental insurance. When they hire you they understand this. You work for sure but there is down time, your job is to watch costumers. You stand around a lot and people will come up to you and ask you questions about the place. You can’t be rude so you talk to them. As a bouncer you are still in costumer service. When a girl walks up to you and acts all flirty you simply ask her if she wants your number. When she says yes you giv…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 02:51 PM
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I’m in Tempe and with school about to start up it’s going to get fucking nuts. On a side note bouncing is 1000% the best way to pick up girls at the club. Working as a bouncer and making money while chicks try to pick you up, it’s a fun job for sure.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 01:02 AM
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People say you shouldn’t get a girl friend in the first year. Which I agree with you should focus on being sober. You can date and honestly there is no rule that says you can’t date other members. Just don’t have and LTR.
/r/askTRP28/12/17 02:10 AM
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Yeah for AA you have to get to a point where “your life has become unmanageable”. Hot chicks are given everything so they’re life never becomes “unmanageable”. Chicks tend not to seek treatment until they hit the “wall”. I have seen girls get sober and turn get another 2 or 3 points SMV thus pushing the wall away. That is not the rule though, it is an exception unfortunately. I had a friend who I had this exact conversation with months before I found TRP.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 03:56 PM
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Thank you.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 09:48 AM
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Bro I’ve been sober over a year and a half. During that time. I had more sex than I did in the previous 4 years combined. Also I still go the clubs and bars with people. I just don’t drink. Plus AA has chicks. Some are crazy as fuck but usually if she was an addict she will latch onto sex with you. Plus once you really focus on not drinking. You can focus on the gym. Fucking lift!!!! Women will literally be able to tell you work out. It turns them on. Without booze I’m a better person. I’m the b…
/r/askTRP27/12/17 08:20 AM
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