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| 1 | When you finally sleep with the girl does anyone just think omg is this real?The first time I’m about to slide in I think “I wonder what this one will be like” and then immediately after I’m like “same circus, different tent”. | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 07:05 PM |
| 0 | Why do women get disinterested in the men they find intellectual and smart, whom they like previously ?There are all different types of girls. Those guys probably aren't doing a great job of finding the kinds of girls that would be interested in someone more intellectual. | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 06:52 PM |
| 1 | If you’re thinking in terms of stupid shit like calling real life “the field” or setting a dedicated number of “cold approaches” like a robot than you’re currently too socially awkward to be having healthy sex.Focusing on the end result of getting laid is like 101 for how not to get laid | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | If you’re thinking in terms of stupid shit like calling real life “the field” or setting a dedicated number of “cold approaches” like a robot than you’re currently too socially awkward to be having healthy sex.How about “talking to chicks” like a normal person? | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons.That’s probably why mate, it’s very normal and nothing you should be worried about. Talk to a therapist about it. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons.Models for interacting with women The Inner Game of Tennis, Chris Voss, Vanessa Van Edwards for everything else. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons.Did your parents hug and kiss around you? Did you parents hug and kiss you (appropriately of course) as a child? | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons.Look up Vanessa Van Edwards and Chris Voss | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons.Look up Tucker Max on Amazon, not his memoirs but his books on getting chicks. Also Models by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons.He’s a lot better now. His Mating Grounds podcast was much more mature, but ya he can be a prick. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 02:55 AM |
| 15 | Most seduction books are pure s**t, what you need to be doing is working on fundamental social skills and dealing with your inner demons.Robert Greene Jocko Carl Jung Dhammapada Chris Voss Listen to The Jordan Harbinger show podcast Watch Fleabag on Amazon Prime (understand how women think/tick) | /r/seduction | 02/07/20 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Why Dinner and a Movie Sucks: How To Plan Better DatesLove The Process is a dating podcast for men that want to live and love better. We discuss topics relevant to guys that want to work on their relationships with women in a healthy and natural way. In this episode we discuss why going on the typical dinner and a movie date is terrible, and how you can strategize better ways of coming up with good first date ideas that won't be awkward and will actually be fun. If you have any comments on what you would like to hear in future episodes, or if you… | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Why You Should Set Realistic ExpectationsLove The Process is a dating podcast for men that want to live and love better. In this episode, we discuss why it's important to have realistic expectations with regards to the women you will realistically meet and have an opportunity to develop a relationship with. A lot of men go through life frustrated about what they perceive to be rejection or dismissal when in actuality they have been fed a skewed message as to what their expectations should be with regards to dating. Lots of guys think… | /r/seduction | 13/05/20 03:00 AM |
| -1 | Why is she not messaging back?Hey guys this is an episode from my dating podcast Love The Process. In this episode we discuss the different reasons why women might not be messaging you back on Tinder, text, etc. We talk about the different approaches women have towards Tinder (some women take it seriously, some don't) along with some of the reasons why your text might be boring her. | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Why You Should Learn To Love F**king UpOne of the most attractive qualities a man can have is the ability to face obstacles in life without withering or panicking but instead showing resilience and the ability to persevere. I would argue that the easiest way to do this is to learn to appreciate life's fuck up's for what they are, opportunities. Opportunities to grow, opportunities to learn, and opportunities to become a better man. | /r/seduction | 20/04/20 03:32 PM |
| 2 | What To Do During Quarantine To Help Your Dating GameIn this episode of the podcast we discuss ways to keep fresh during quarantine to ensure you don't end up being another schmuck that wasted it away playing video games. We give book recommendations, workout tips and other advice on how to stay on the top of your game. | /r/seduction | 20/04/20 05:32 AM |
| 0 | Why Actually Giving A S**t About The Women You Meet Is The Secret To Getting LaidThe pick up and seduction community is so obsessed with routines and techniques for getting laid that is forgets what is the singular most crucial step to having a successful and positive relationship with a woman and that's actually giving a shit about her. In this episode we break down why you should have a healthy (as in not self effacing) focus on the women you interact with and what that looks like in an actual dating situation. | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 08:17 PM |
| 3 | When To Go For The KissToo many guys obsess over when the "right" moment is to go in for the kiss. In this episode we break down the right way to set up for the kiss, and how to get a girl excited enough that she initiates. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 05:42 PM |
| 0 | How To Talk to Women At The BarsSummary Most men go to the bars for the wrong reasons, getting way to invested in a woman's attention instead of focusing on enjoying their time. In this article I break down the reasons why some guys struggle to have fun at bars, and why their bored or anxious attitude is preventing them from having positive interactions with women. | /r/seduction | 15/04/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Please text me!This is a terrible, terrible idea | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 07:34 PM |
| 7 | Her opinion of you, does not matter.This is ridiculous for several reasons. You’re confusing caring too much about the opinion of a woman you just met (or haven’t met) with never caring about a woman’s opinion at all. If someone, anyone, has proved themselves to be a good judge of character/circumstances/morality/etc it’s important to listen to their opinions because they can provide valuable insight into the world and yourself. | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 06:08 PM |
| 4 | RSD can't be trusted and they can't take criticism, they are now shadow blocking and deleting Youtube commentsBecause these guys are nowhere near as hot shit as they think they are. This is seriously inappropriate behavior from Todd. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 08:11 PM |
| 15 | RSD can't be trusted and they can't take criticism, they are now shadow blocking and deleting Youtube commentsSomeone that isn’t culty like RSD was/is. I know people that have met those guys and they are actual weird people. Also Todd’s infield is a perfect example of how many of the PUA’s out there are really cringey and immature. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 06:19 AM |
| 19 | RSD can't be trusted and they can't take criticism, they are now shadow blocking and deleting Youtube commentsMen's dating advice needs some disruption. Not super sad to see them go. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 05:54 AM |
| 4 | Master the basics of Frame Control | Women by Todd Valentine Exercise |Step one: write down all of your earliest recollections of encounters with women you had romantic interest in. Step two: write down your recollections of your relationship between the dominant women in your life starting at a young age. What was your mother like? Did you guys have a good relationship? What about your sister? Grandmother? Step three: cross examine both for evidences of early patterns of how you interacted with women looking for negative or immature beliefs that adversely impacted… | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Master the basics of Frame Control | Women by Todd Valentine Exercise |Right, dealing with the inner confidence issues is teaching them calculus. You hold your frame naturally when you’re confident, it’s just there because any other response is ludicrous. You’re trying to show them the end result of the equations to teach them calculus when really you just need to show them calculus. | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Master the basics of Frame Control | Women by Todd Valentine Exercise |Yes I think we are too. | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 11:23 PM |
| 4 | Master the basics of Frame Control | Women by Todd Valentine Exercise |I agree that learning how to express your inner self takes practice and there is an outer communication element in play. But, to me at least, the way Todd was framing (no pun intended) the video sounds more like "fake it till you make it" confidence where as I'm arguing that a better approach is to tackle the inner game portion first then discuss the best way to communicate this confidence in a socially appropriate way. A more insightful video imo would be to discuss the ways in which a guy can … | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Master the basics of Frame Control | Women by Todd Valentine Exercise |Maybe, but you're not really dealing with the actual root issue of the insecurity. If I have a deep belief along the lines of "I should be ashamed of my sexuality" which causes you to be awkward around women you can try and fake "frame control" for a long time until it stops, or you can dig deep in yourself and fight out why you have those self limiting beliefs and nip them in the bud. | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 10:02 PM |
| 10 | Master the basics of Frame Control | Women by Todd Valentine Exercise |I thought the point of the sub was to get better with women. | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 09:48 PM |
| 19 | Master the basics of Frame Control | Women by Todd Valentine Exercise |I agree with what you are saying but packaging it as "frame control" sounds, in upon itself, as try hard. Having to have some sort of phrase or name for something that is a natural byproduct of being a confident man implicitly betrays a lack of confidence imo | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | I need to stop being so insecureThat's how you turn into the biggest douchebag | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 04:16 AM |
| 81 | [FR] Getting Past "Let's Just be Friends"Be careful with women like this. If she actually just wanted to fuck you because she was jealous then that shows some neediness that can cause headaches later on. | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Apartment or house?It’s only important I’m you pick the place that works best for you. | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 07:18 AM |
| 2 | (REPOST) Beware of inexperienced Seduction members giving mainstream advice "Be yourself". How it could potentially ruin your views on game and seduction.Most PUA stuff is shit frankly. Way, way too much emphasis on pretending to be someone you’re not. The reality is that the best books to read on seduction are probably: “What Every Body Is Saying”, “Never Split The Difference”, “A New Earth”, “Loving What Is”, “Models” and “What Women Want”. Of these, only one is written by a (former) pickup artist and only two are actually dating books. A lot of PUA’s prey on men that assume that there is some magic shit or lines you have to use to attract wome… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 03:54 AM |
| -1 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.That’s uh, not what I said at all. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 03:38 AM |
| 1 | There's a cute girl sitting next to me swiping on tinderCompare profiles | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | How do we avoid this happening?Trying to “pass her tests” is fucking needy. Who cares? If he’s honest about what he wants and she rejects him he can save precious time in his life by not fantasizing about something that’s never going to happen. He’s got money to make, places to be, vaccines to invent, he needs women in his life that accepts him for who he truly is not energy sucks he has to be fake around. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | You Guys Ever Take Breaks?Np good luck! | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | How do we avoid this happening?It’s not a line it’s the truth. You don’t need lines if you just focus on being a man that’s confident enough to be honest about his intentions. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | You Guys Ever Take Breaks?From my perspective it sounds like you shoulder too much of the blame for relationships going sour. As guys society teaches us that romance is all about us not fucking up when in reality women are just as capable of sabotaging a relationship through poor decisions as men are. There’s a LOT of imperfect women that wouldn’t stick around with you if scientists conclusively proved you would be the best man possible for her. Some people, women included, just have a difficult time maintaining relation… | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How do we avoid this happening?At this point he’s already lost because he wasn’t upfront to start with. It’s best to just be vulnerable and come clean at this point. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Critique my day gameThis is gonna be a tough one. I think really the only way this works is if you run into her again and can restart the convo. I’ve tried to hit on plenty of servers and the only times I’ve really been able to actually go anywhere is if I match with them on Tinder after (which is actually gold because they’ve already met you now and know you aren’t a creep ass so they will be far more likely to meet up) or at a party or something. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:58 PM |
| 3 | You Guys Ever Take Breaks?Usually when that happens it’s because I’ve been focusing on sex instead of relationships. Not in the sense of long term boyfriend-girlfriend dynamic but relationships in the sense of actually connecting to the real human being beyond the person we pretend to be just to get laid. This is just me, but if I feel that way I usually try and just actually focus on the person instead of the outcome and I feel so much more fulfilled because I’ve had an actual human to human interaction. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Tuesday evening with nothing to do?Go to a nice mellow bar where you can spend time talking to the bartenders, other patrons, cute girls and make some new friends! If you get a good convo going with a girl tell her you’re interested and ask for her number! | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Would a girl offer a meetup/hangout if she wasn't interested?Best thing to do is ask! | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:39 PM |
| 2 | How to get my boyfriend interested in sex againThis is a great answer but I’d also offer that he might also have some sort of sexual intimacy issues he could receive help with through a trained therapist. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | How do we avoid this happening?You say “hey I probably should have told you this a lot sooner but I’ve always had a crush on you. If you just want to keep things as friends I understand but if you’d let me, I really want to take you out on a date because I think your beautiful and want to get to know you better.” | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:34 PM |
| -8 | Hitting on hired guns is usually a fools errand, but this one simple trick might help.That’s the point. You don’t have to DO anything. If you are clean, where decent fashion, take care of your body, and are reasonably healthy mentally than you will attract women naturally without having to try and “build attraction” other then making strong eye contact and making a move when its obvious it’s time to make one. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps ghosting me. Why?Dude, you asked for help and now you are responding by insulting ME. Again, why would this girl want to go out with you if you’re first response to criticism is to turn to insults. Would you want to date someone that was acting that way you were acting? Would you feel good about dating someone that reacted so strongly to what someone on the internet was telling you? | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 11:54 PM |
| 4 | Should I talk to her about our kiss“You seemed kinda uncomfortable after our kiss, was that as fun for you as it was for me?” | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps ghosting me. Why?Why would this make her a whore? She sounds like a woman that is still trying to figure out what she wants in life and needs some time to work things out. Guess what, LOTS of people are in this category. The fact that you have to stoop to calling her a whore, which is an incredibly ugly thing to say about a person (especially someone you’ve had a friendship with) tells me that you yourself still need to work on some maturity issues. Why should she work hard to maintain a relationship with someon… | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 10:39 PM |
| 1 | If the women is horny enough, would they have sex with the dude they don’t find attractive?(assume on first date)No, absolutely not. They might have sex with an attractive guy they want to wait to have sex with because they feel pressured to please him, but I have never in my life heard of a girl fucking a dude that she didn’t genuinely like for one reason or the other. | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth going on tinder if you’re short?I would just put your height out there in a confident way. Be proud of it and make a joke about it. If you both swipe right you already know it won’t be an issue. That’s the miracle of Tinder, you can sort through all of the women not into you instantly! | /r/seduction | 09/01/20 01:26 AM |
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