Spitting good game isn’t about always being flawlessly brilliant

TheGreatConst · 2020-07-23T05:31:04+00:00

Stop trying to impress women with how good your game is, then you will no longer care if the things you say are clever or not, let alone "flawless". The best game is when you don't try to impress women or to maintain an image of a cool guy. I.e. when you DGAF.

earsurgery9 · 2020-07-23T08:08:18+00:00

The reason there's a million styles of 'game' all contradicting each other, is because it kind of doesn't exist, tbh. Your game (unless you are really creepy or whatever) will work or look good when she happens to think you are hot (maybe you're just her physical type or whatever)

Your game will look 'bad' to people and you will get rejected when you open girls who aren't interested in you like that. That's why all of these 'pro PUA's have 'rejection compilation' albums as long as your arm! lol

RSDJeffy might post an infield and people are like ''Man, he spend the whole interaction making her laugh with his disgusting jokes about abortion. She loves it! That's game!!'. Or they'll watch a mysyermethod infield and be like ''Aahhhh! That's the secret. You need to be indirect and also he was kinda just telling tonne of stories about his life that made him look good with a few 'negs' thrown in. That's game!!!''. Or they'll watch someone else and be like ''Hmmm, he just opens girls directly and tells them they're hot and this young handsome dude seems to clean up!! I'll do that!!'' :)

'Game' is mostly marketing. There's basically very little to 'learn' unless you are Edward Scissor hands and you need to be told to smile for example. If a girl thinks you're hot, you just need to not make her feel uncomfortable and have the balls to escalate on her when it's clear she likes you.

If she ISN'T attracted to you, no 'game' will be any more effective on her than an ugly girl trying to 'game' you into wanting to bang her with neg and confidence and humour and pushpull etc, lol. Move on

7Saturn7Saturn7 · 2020-07-23T06:26:27+00:00

Game has two goals: emotional connection and physical intimacy. These aren't listed on the side of any pill bottles so they aren't side effects. You have to work for them directly and they aren't totally encapsulated by just having fun with another human being.

flashnet · 2020-07-23T08:05:36+00:00

For some reason I thought I was in r/leagueoflegends and it still made partly sense which confused the heck outta me.

noprideinsomniac95 · 2020-07-23T13:50:23+00:00

just work on being able to have fun with another human being

I learned this the hard way. Dating/Seduction should be about having fun, nothing more, nothing less. I learned the hard way by getting too invested early on, having too many expectations for people I'd only just met, etc. If you go into it with the mindset of just trying to have fun, you are more laid back, which makes you more attractive. And if you focus on having fun, chances are the other person is having fun too and is more likely to go home with you/ see you again.

teptep03 · 2020-07-23T21:23:26+00:00

Timing and delivery is everything

Jedimester · 2020-07-23T09:26:48+00:00

True, being free and perfectly comfortable with who you are is the key.

donaldtrumpsmistress · 2020-07-23T10:37:39+00:00

Well duh. Have you seen the guys who consistently pull in bars and clubs? Not the top minds. Confidence and sustained effort will get you 90% there.

ArmedSquirel · 2020-07-24T00:49:41+00:00

"good game" doesn't mean best joke, smartest things to say it is about delivery my dude

BKBooklover · 2020-07-24T11:26:58+00:00

I love it. but I would add just worry about if you like the person, if they are right for you.

its_whot_it_is · 2020-07-23T05:43:50+00:00

And if you can make non judgmental observations of your surroundings they'll feel so much more comfortable in your presence, as opposed to subtly criticizing and sizing things up. Its such a toxic mindset. Granted I take micro size edible everytime I go out so its easier to take them along for my ride, its always a good time. (You hear a frog) what is that sound?! Oh that the lake monster, stay behind me Ill protect you. At the end of sound, I saved your life, you owe me big time.

Kenic_In_MD · 2020-07-23T05:25:36+00:00

Absolutely this!

Title	Spitting good game isn’t about always being flawlessly brilliant
Author	Love-The-Process
Upvotes	109
Comments	22
Date	July 23, 2020 4:54 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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