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I'm also beginning of week 3, brain doesn't want to leave me alone. Hot Saturdays doesn't help a lot, not much todo, but I know what it is, I know it will be better, just have to endure it. And I will. And I will leave this better.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 06:39 PM
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Neither I. I can't understand. The only think I can think (but talking on my case) that she is dumb, because it doesn't make any sense to trow so many years(13) together away, or at least not thinking on the consequences that those actions would have, it crashes my mind, but I have to move on, I feel betrayed yet the sentimental part of the brain only thinks on the good times, not that she changed, I tried to fix, that stressed her even more and so on, spiral of relation death... Mine got a lot …
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 05:42 PM
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yeah... once the mask falls you see what they are, it is impressive how long they can carry this, for the other dude she is again another version, but he will also see her when that mask also falls, but at time you probably will be in your own life, with your own stuff, wont even care, as it should. :)
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 03:56 PM
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Also, make your place your place again, whatever sometime she changed that you don't liked, go, do it your way. It probably was best this way, it would have gone just worse and worse, it was my case and I feel free now, I do whatever I want now, it sucks, but it's not the end, just a new beginning, that may be even better, you probably can't agree now, but you will later, so hang on there. Ah BTW, I also trusted, blindly, very similar to you, I mean not to that length, but I never minded her lon…
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 09:31 AM
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After 10 years together you notice even the subtlest of signals, that may indicate some changes are happening. In my case: She never did take pictures, suddenly on a bike ride on a Sunday she was making a lot of random pictures, in the past it would have been selfies with me, this time not, I noticed, made no big deal, was just off. That same day we went for dinner, for whatever reason she suggested the nearby city, which was also odd, she never really was into cities or whatever suddenly she ha…
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/26 10:12 AM
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I think she is emotionally disconnected, kinda happened to me, I tried similar techniques like the one you did. I remember in the past if I slept or tried to sleep 1 night in the sofa she probably would not be able to sleep alone. When I noticed her change I also wanted to see if shed miss me, went to the sofa in another room, sleep there, moved my PC to the same room and basically lived there 1 month, nothing from her. Next, vacations, another country, each at his own family houses, almost 2 mo…
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/26 03:56 PM
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Have a very calm conversation, expose the facts. Keep in mind, if you tell her you have even considered leaving she will store this and use it against you at some point in the future, it may even make it worse now. The think is the truth is the only way. This probably will reset the process for a few weeks, you may be back to the hole in the future, extremely difficult keep a woman happy, should not be the husband obligation to keep her happy, we try anyway and fail, we all.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/26 11:51 AM
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Mine additionally was vindictive (I think they all are), I think in the end I got lucky to get out at the right time (10 days ago) because I believe she had a master plan that would crush me.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/26 09:33 PM
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I did read it to, maybe watch a few of these videos: https://www.youtube.com/@john-griffin What you listed is basically how it is nowadays, I had kinda similar experience, it was amazing for 11 years, then that 1 one year she disconnected from me - keep the bare minimal to keep me around, new friends at the gym and I felt abandoned, very close to depression, I was miserable, she made a small mistake, not so horrible (giving a gift to the mother of a gym friend - that's what I know, it may be mor…
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/26 10:59 AM
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bogs me how can they lie to your face like this, had a similar experience of lie on the face while I was 100% sure it was a lie, I don't think a relation can move forward when this happens, the person you trust does something on your back and still can lie about it later face on. I'm single now anyway, but again, still bogs me how they can lie this way to a person that went above and beyond for them.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/26 02:35 PM
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For me what, well I think, works is getting rid of visible memories, the less you get triggered the better, I even went trough the home and moved every think a little bit, so now I was the last one touching it, call me crazy. Also, specific photos with her moved away to hard to reach backups, did laundry on my own, removed old clothing that I don't use anymore o to rarely, take all garbage out, unclutter the house - make it more man style, as in, changed curtains to new ones I bought, got rid of…
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/26 08:40 AM
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I'm in a foreign country, at 44 after a 13 marriage. Now single for 6 days, I think my relation was so toxic, all the time she was complaining about something, I had to calculate each move, anything from me to her she usually didn't want to see, as If I'm not allowed to make her happy. So few days and I'm already starting to see the light. Rather alone then become something that you are not just to feed a monster that's always hungry, urgh, I don't miss that. Every time my brain came up with pas…
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/26 03:05 PM
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she probably thinks you are bluffing (experience from mine), and when she get the papers she likely will get a shock and very fast convert it to anger.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/26 01:50 PM
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It's actually more like 'impressive', that has to be some kind of skill where they can switch instantaneously from love to hate.
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/26 08:20 AM
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This moment is quite stressful for the brain as it it brings finality and all the connections the brain created during the years will be lost, get ready, it is rough, very, but it is normal, brain hates going out of comfort and will have all kinds of strong tricks to not lose it.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 10:29 PM
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Prepare mentally, it will be much worse than you can anticipate, it is normal, brain goes brrrrrrrrrrr What I would do? I actually don't know, - I just separated after 13 years last Friday and it is really not a good experience. I still feel guilt. I think both this relations will fail, current wife eventually will have some kind of revenge, that's how women are, and the 24y one likes to be disputed, once this is over or once you are all hers it will stabilize for some time and then start to loo…
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 06:08 PM
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oh yeah, on the eyes of the family of the X we all are or will be disrespectful AHs.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 03:22 PM
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"She took my kindness for weakness" same here. Once they enter a line of thinking of whatever they hardly come back, also usually extremely stubborn, they may go back to level 0 of their lives, loose everything but doesn't matter, they have some kind of tunnel vision and are unbeatable on this. But, they are not immune to time, when you start moving again only then they will analyze it properly, usually to late for them.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 08:32 AM
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I had the impression it was going the same way with the wife, basically waiting to find a job, if she gets one I'm pretty sure she would leave in less than 3 months. She even had the audacity to ask if she could stay around until she gets a job, wtf, please let me find a job so i can live with my new nr1 .........
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 06:51 PM
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Why they all do this, subconsciously try to run the guy off with attitudes, disrespect, bad home energy, secrets, they still do the minimal to look not so blatant, I think they want to call it they want you to call it so they don't have to carry the responsibility.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 06:21 PM
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