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Tired. I can’t sleep every time I try to sleep i have horrible nightmares. I’m so confused I don’t know how I going to keep going with out my husband. But mostly I’m just sad I can’t find joy anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/20 01:37 AM
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My husband died from a suspected brain aneurysm. He went to bed saying he had a bad headache and didn’t wake up. My father died of a heart attack.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 01:35 AM
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My daughter is 11 and such a daddy’s girl she’s so heartbroken. I don’t think she’ll ever get over this. She said prayers with him and gave him a kiss goodnight and he never woke up.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 01:31 AM
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But why is he doing this to me? Why just take them for no reason? It hurts so much and it won’t stop.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 02:11 AM
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My daughter and the baby are leaving in the morning to stay with them. They live in a more rural community so they’re less effected.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 09:28 PM
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I’m really thinking about going to stay with them if they have room for us.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 01:02 PM
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My parents aren’t following quarantine either. And his parents who are live in another part of the country.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 11:58 AM
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Most rabbis in our community aren’t following quarantine either. My dad is a rabbi and he’s been over everyday(even though he’s diabetic and at high risk).
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/20 11:56 AM
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I make a lot of mine and my family’s clothing so I can make sure it lasts. But when I do buy I try to buy the best quality I can.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 11:27 PM
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Almost all Haredi women shave their heads after they get married. It’s considered like going out in public naked and a grave sin.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/20 10:25 PM
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I’m thankful that my husband found a new location for his book store that’s with in walking distance of our house. I’m thankful that I get to see my baby for the first time tomorrow. I’m happy that my sister had a beautiful baby girl a few days ago.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/20 04:05 AM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 06:33 PM
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I feel like arranged marriage could help some people in the boarder world. Yes I would say most couples in my community are happy or at least functional. There are matches that never should have happened there’s a problem with domestic and reproductive abuse in our community. My dads parents were “married” for six weeks before they met in person.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 06:33 PM
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I was 18 he was 19. The usual in my community is 15-20. But thats come up because my grandmother got married when she was 12.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 06:26 PM
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My parents but mostly my dad. My dad went to visit with him and get to know him, my mom decided if he was actually a good match for me. The Haredim don’t mix genders so it’s impossible to just meet a man, plus my husband lived in a different part of Israel. It’s both you have to be lucky to get someone you can make it work with. And it’s a lot of work especially in the beginning there were a lot of feelings and pressure we had never had before. We never had so much responsibility before. Yes I k…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 01:38 PM
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A git is document saying that my husband wants a divorce too it’s basically him giving permission to dissolve our marriage. I can I choose not to I do a little dressmaking and tailoring but all in my house and only for people in my community.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 06:15 AM
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Yes very happy I love my husband and life. No because I’m happy with how things ended up. Plus a divorce is really hard to get in my community. I’d have to get my husband to give me a rite of divorce called a git. Before I could do that we’d have to go through counseling with our Rabbi. Then once that’s done we’d have to get a religious divorce. Then we’d have to do a regular divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 05:30 AM
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I would do things like run to my parents every time we had a fight. Or be really passive aggressive. I’d like annoy him on purpose and I was just shopping a lot and wasting his money.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 04:55 AM
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I guess he convinced my dad that leaving the Haredim was a youthful mistake. I met my husband twice for a total of an hour. Meeting your spouse at the alter is rare but not unheard of. My dad’s parents were married for six weeks before they ever met. If I didn’t like any guy I had to tell my dad and he would figure it out. I could have said no at any point but I knew if I said no I’d disappoint my family and community.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 04:34 AM
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Yes very much.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 03:31 AM
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We’ve been married 11 years and have 4 children and one on the way. No my husband husband is the best thing that ever happened to me. I wish I hadn’t been such a brat during our fist few months.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 03:29 AM
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I’m from the Haredi which is an extremely conservative sect of Orthodox Judaism.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 03:20 AM
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I could say no and I had previously said no to two guys(one because he was my cousin and I knew he was a loser and the other because he had left our community) before my husband. It was something I knew was coming my whole life. Every adult I knew was arranged married. It was what my community and family expected.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/20 03:09 AM
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I’m trying to get my son to stop thinking that bathing is a family activity. He tries to get into the bath with everyone and refuses to bath alone. He’s 5 and is getting too old to not take a bath alone.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/20 04:48 AM
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I had only met my husband twice for a total of maybe an hour before we were married. And we were only married 3 months before I got pregnant. But it took me six months to a year to really get to know him. So I’d say maybe wait that long. Give yourself enough time to let everything fall so you can be real and honest.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/20 05:14 AM
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My husband owns a book store and teaches at a Rabbinical school. I’m a stay at home mom and I do some dress making. We make decent money the reason why money is tight right now is my husband is moving his business to a new location. Our community is liberal by Haredi standards(like we can use computers and cell phones) but we’re still very religious. The Haredim is very tight knit we look out for each other. Our community doesn’t ban birth control we just don’t use it. Huge families are the norm…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/20 09:04 PM
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Unplanned, none. But between no birth control and an odd cycle I can only plan so well.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 06:13 AM
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We don’t use birth control. And when I say unplanned I more mean unexpected. I have really odd cycle that makes it hard to track.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 05:54 AM
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Well we got married young so we started our family early.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 05:43 AM
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I’d talk to him about how he feels and why he feels that way. I know why he might be upset we didn’t quite plan for this baby. And we’re in a financial tough place.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 05:37 AM
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We didn’t plan 1 or 4 either so I’m not quite sure what’s the problem is.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 04:50 AM
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He’s 30. He’s usually very upfront with his feelings I’ve never seen him act like this. I know we’re in a tight spot financially but we should be fine by time the baby gets here. I don’t think that’s it but he hasn’t really talked to me since yesterday.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 03:17 AM
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Half planned we wanted to have another baby but maybe not soon after my last baby(he’s only 7 months). My previous pregnancies he got excited or at least gave me a kiss something. He just looked confused said okay and went to work. At this point I’d settle for an indifferent hand shake.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/20 03:10 AM
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We don’t watch tv or play video games. But I ended up planning a romantic weekend away for us. And he seems to be looking forward to it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/19 03:49 AM
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My husband doesn’t like me reading me to he says I read too slowly. And he’s usually reading something dry a lot Jewish theology work lately. He reads a lot with our daughter(the boys still just want to wrestle with daddy) and she loves it. And I caught him reading the news paper to our 6 month old.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 05:20 PM
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My mom was raised in the US so she taught us English. And Haredi schools(in the US and some here Israel too) are starting to teach English too. But my husband only speaks Yiddish and Hebrew.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 12:08 AM
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This is one of the few positives about having a shaved head and wearing wigs if my husband doesn’t like my hair he can buy me a different wigs.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 08:35 PM
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