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VZ: "You should go date other guys. I will only seem like more of a prince by comparison." I'm no alpha but can confirm. I tell them very seriously, "You should date other guys". They go on a date but don't usually fuck them, come back and report it to me like I should be aware. All I can do is smile
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 12:32 AM
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I see this as opportunity more than sadness. Having been around plenty of mid 30s unmarried women, I can assure you that this is good. Most mid 30s unmarried women are of 2 categories: Picky but desperately wants to get married, possibly a gold digger. Will probably divorce your ass as soon as she finds someone "better". Wants to marry only for love and is happy being unmarried, until she finds the "right" guy As men, just date them. Keep dating them. Do not get married. There is no incentive to…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 11:47 PM
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There are 2 types of "dating". You-are-an-item-and-hang-around-together type dating: Billionaires and high-status guys do super well in this. They pull hot chicks like crazy and have a nice simple dating life. Passionate, romantic, retarded-in-love type dating: Only achieved by guys with game. This is the kind of dating where the couple can't stay off each other, have hands in pockets, public displays of affection, making out everywhere etc. Loser guys get automatic danger points. Engineers/doct…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:20 AM
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However, what does piss me off is how women (and lots of men) completely lie about this relationship structure Reality is, women are gold-diggers as fuck and don't even realize it. Gold digging doesn't work the way most people think. It's not like women compare payslips and go for the one earning more $$. It's more about projected status. A guy making $50k/yr wearing suits, well-built, lots of social cred is considered higher status than the $200k/yr dad-bod nice guy. Gold digging is falling for…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 07:25 PM
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A bitch I met off bumble told me I looked "20 lbs heavier in person" "Says the anorexic/fat (depending on what she looks like) photoshopper" Then wink wink at her. Shows you're confident and puts reality in perspective for her.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/16 08:20 AM
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The problem of men is that they are very good at destroying, but they suck at creating liveable homely conditions on their own. So they had to accommodate women before patriarchy. And what we have today, far from being unnatural, is a return to the old state of affairs. I believe you are writing this little bit of text on a computer, an invention 'created' by men. Men create....but only to maintain order and only because they care about their tribe. If women all of a sudden decide to be disloyal…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 11:22 PM
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I feel 3a is more her laughing at you. But hey it's better than the other two. Does her laughing at you matter to you? Doesn't matter to me.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 07:44 PM
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The choices in this situation are Being a loser cuck and letting her do whatever she wants Being a loser jealous dude and whining about this behaviors of hers Instilling dread 3a. She thinks you're low value and leaves you 3b. She thinks you're high value and shuts the fuck up I'll choose options 3a or 3b over options 1 and 2 any time.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 06:53 PM
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Just compliment something of her hottest friend at that time. Girl: "Jonah Hill is so hot, he is the hottest man alive, and I want his babies" Guy: "Yeah, there are so many hot people on this planet. What do you think about Sarah? She's got some nice ass!! Bet she wants my babies" Instant dread, jealousy, setting of boundaries and an achievable fantasy, not some celebrity.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 06:14 PM
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Must just be her.. I became recently single again in my mid thirties.. Or you are better than most men in their 30s :)
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:13 AM
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I've had a rotation of female roommates for around a year now. As long as the rooms and bathrooms are separate, you're cool. If you're not a shy retarded man, she might introduce you to her female friends too.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:15 PM
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Just ask her out. Have a fun first date. On the second date, ask her real relationship questions. She's probably secretly riding the carousel. You just don't know.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:13 PM
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Good catch. Yes, she might be a wrinkly 33 year old, but her NUMBER options are more than the average man. The QUALITY, not so much. The men she meets are boring. Essentially, she meets 2 kinds of men: 1. Beta men, desperate, abundance of them 2. Cool men who pump and dump. Her life is going down and she doesn't even know why!
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 10:11 PM
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It was temporary. Also, google "Median rent San Francisco".
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 09:03 PM
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When has alphaness ever been about reality? It's situational perception, always!
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 07:28 AM
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Remember - weakness invites an attack. Exactly. If a man can flaunt his weakness and still can't be touched, that guy is much much more alpha than a man who needs to hide his weaknesses. I think there are steps to being a man and the goal should be to become a man who isn't fearful of his weaknesses. When young and learning, guard your weaknesses, when powerful enough, don't worry about weaknesses.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 08:50 PM
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Which has me thinking... When met with strong opposition to my views, am I just running across someone dealing with their own insecurities? Some realize their insecurities, others realize they've been conned into marriage, others genuinely think you are struggling at dating. This is because 80% men and 99% women REALLY believe that life involves marriage. They truly believe in the soulmate crap. I have had old grandparents asking 26-yr old me if I feel lonely. Should they set me up with some nic…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 08:09 PM
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Can confirm this behavior. For 2 years, I had an apartment in the heart of downtown. This projected a successful lifestyle. I shared the apartment with a roommate who kept the living room messy. This made me tell girls, "Let's go to my room, clearly my roommate needs the living room" Once in my bedroom, they would see books in a bookshelf, a clean bedroom and things generally sorted. This would cause them to backpedal a bit and start qualifying themselves as non-sluts. Once I realized this, I pu…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 08:10 PM
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That bitch of a mother. Reminds me of mine, who says, "Get married have kids. I would make such a great grandmother" Does she care what's going to happen with me? Or does she really only care about her being a grandma.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 07:10 PM
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Yeh I do, cheers. I also know about stocks and bonds! And I'm not 30 yet. Geez, maybe I need a pat on the head? Kudos to you, but are saying most women do this and this is the norm?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 10:46 PM
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That argument that women make about their sexual past? Men make it too, for real. Yup. Bet men don't claim to be some virtuous innocent people either. Men are dogs. Most men don't get offended when you call them that outside of a social setting. If anything, my argument that we might be setting up on another planet and to focus on solutions IS a solution. Good attempt. But there's no habitable planet within light year's distance. Like I said, your assumption of "everything will be fine" is not t…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 06:02 PM
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In third world countries (depending on which country) only certain men will gain access to power and/or wealth. True. But the system still stands. Few men will control other men and almost all women. An alien visiting planet earth with no understanding of human societies will see some humans with dicks controlling other humans with dicks and boobs. You're correct in the sense that, yes, resources will not last forever and perhaps in the future we'll be back to square one and dog-eat-dog (althoug…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 11:33 PM
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At that rate, most women have an experience of dating a variety of men. So does that, truly, mean all men are dogs? All men sociopaths? All men are abusive Yes. Most men are dogs. It's stupid to think otherwise. Most men do watch porn, most men do fantasize about fucking that cute neighbor, or wife's sister or bff female friend. Denial of this is what causes a lot of women and men hurt. This includes your dad who thought of fucking your female friends every night. Men like sex and go to great le…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 08:29 PM
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You come up with quite a simplistic argument and then jump to conclusions. Let's just say men have more experience dating with variety of women than women themselves have. To err on the side of caution is advisable. Does that mean EVERY SINGLE WOMAN is a child? No. But the vast majority does behave like it. Explained by women shopping excessively instead of saving for retirement. Does female PM of UK, Germany etc. do excessive shopping? No. But are they the norm? Are they resembling most women o…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 07:44 PM
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If you genuinely believe your argument on the basis of the argument itself (I'm being generous with the word 'argument') I doubt you'd need to sound so disdainful. How about we remove "sound" and read statements as assertive sentences? I prefer looking at things as "Systems". Input this, you get this output. It's likely just based off your prejudice. No offence - but why not search 'cognitive bias' or 'confirmation bias' I am fully aware of this. Do you know what the other end of Confirmation bi…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 06:40 PM
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We're not in the past - particularly not your stereotyped, western past. Are humans in 2016 really that much more special than the ones in 1916, 1816, 1716? Go to Greece, your modern first world country, the pioneers of Democracy. Ask the Greeks how their life has been in "modern" world. Humans are the same. It's the abundance and current laws that helps us live our sheltered lives. When the rest of the world starts competing against first world countries for resources, you'll start feeling the …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:25 PM
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yup, you're a shit debater Thank you. Yes, a history professor that's also into roleplaying as ancient soldiers Oh you sheltered kid. Only a hundred years ago roleplaying was unimaginable. Even right now, most humans don't live the life you live. You think this luxury we have is permanent? Think again. You live in africa or some shit? Never seen women dressed skimpy in non-bar locations? I did mention other environments. The aim of that sentence was to explain that they do it to attract attentio…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:16 PM
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Oh they'll get wet. Instead of saying PhD in STEM, tell them, "I save the planet and that's all you need to know" Basically, you need to not be humble with the sluts. Be arrogant, show that you are untouchable. They'll think you're a badass guy with loads of money...and start auditioning for Mrs degree. Fuck them. Dump them.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 05:16 AM
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Yup. Since you have the imagination of a small child, I'll help you out. Without modern laws, men in power would rape young women and kill weaker men. Think of most of mankind to be a society like the popular tv show game of thrones. Seriously, besides the magic and the dragons and the drama, society was just like that. Men fought every day, day-to-day to stay alive (unless they were part of a strong tribe). The average man wasn't Jaimie Lannister. The average man was the knight's squire, the in…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:23 AM
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I'm not seeing it. Men wear armors, women are trying to reveal more and more skin every skin to attract the alphabux. Men wear armors to save themselves from being killed. Armors were only worn by men who are going to be in a situation of combat. Did you ever see a college professor wearing an armor? Women don't wear revealing clothing outside of bars, clubs and other environments. They only wear it when trying to attract a man. Context matters. Situations matter. I don't know/care if you are a …
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:20 AM
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On your suggestion, I found a better one. http://www.nationalhomeless.org/publications/facts/Whois.pdf If you are claiming that women are more likely to be homeless, I'd like you to show that as well. I am not the only one with the burden of proof. Women do have a survival instinct. They are humans too. Fear of Rape is just a more prominent/relevant/pressing fear than fear of survival.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 04:21 AM
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My post wasn't intended to show that women don't get murdered at all, or that rape doesn't end in murder. What it intended to show was the BIGGEST insecurities in men vs women. Most men feel a survival insecurity, deep within our instincts. Women, feel rape insecurity, everyday, even in very safe environments. These insecurities are so natural, so ingrained in us that our lives are shaped around it. Men try to build a moat, life-safety net around themselves, all over the world, in every culture.…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 12:19 AM
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Not the actual resource but a few google searches could help you out. Here's one that I found with a quick search. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/thinking-man/11787304/Homelessness-is-a-gendered-issue-and-it-mostly-impacts-men.html
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 12:12 AM
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I have a great analogy for you. A woman who doesn't care about her life, doesn't really put effort to make herself better, doesn't earn....WILL STILL SURVIVE. A man who doesn't care about his life, doesn't really put in the effort to make himself better, doesn't earn...will be thrown to dogs. Think of danger scenarios: In a war: Enemies kill men and rape women. Who survived? In a famine/drought/extreme proverty situation: The king/ruler/man with most resources kills men (or makes them their slav…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 07:31 PM
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I hear you buddy! I hope you and he both manage to get out of that shit! The world is way too awesome to be living depressed because of a selfish cunt!
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 05:36 PM
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It could have been worse but yeah, this story was close to heart. I could only motivate him and tell him that he needs to find his own path and be strong.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 05:55 AM
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Most men aren't fighters! For 99% men, just staying firm with their decisions is enough.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 11:26 PM
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The only takeaway is: Don't be a retard Anybody going into a fight unprepared is going to be blown apart. While the girl is giving him a kiss right now before he goes for the fight, she will be the first one to abandon him when he comes back with broken bones. It is more important to be sure of your decisions, even if they are beta decisions. Just be sure and act confident. Don't get retarded in trying to impress some chick.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 11:14 PM
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In today's world, it is women who need to propose (the red-pilled man). They are the ones who need to convince their men to marry them. They are the one who have to put so much effort. Be red pilled, and let them propose to you. Of course, if we didn't live in this feminist world, this girl would've been proposed to by a gentleman and already married by 25.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 10:40 PM
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Genuine question. How do you be subtle about it?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:23 PM
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Traditional marriage was based on a simple concept. Men: grow up, work hard become men, husbands, fathers, grandfathers Women: grow up, work hard become women, wives, mothers, grandmothers Since both men and women were raised with these ideals in mind, they actively spent their youth trying to do their best to become a man or a woman. Instead, most youngsters today spend their youthful days partying, going into debt, not really thinking about a future family, not really caring about a loving rel…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 08:52 PM
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For a woman who doesn't need basic necessities in life, all she wants is emotions. A guy who pulls his socks and works hard doesn't have the time to play games and give emotions. An unemployed person has time to be social. Men get it. Women don't
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 08:44 PM
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The flaw in your analysis is that you are viewing women as a static object whose emotions don't change. There are times when women get up in the morning and feel like strong independent wymen who don't need men (and really, dislike the fact that they are tied in a relationship). Then when they are single (or in a depressing relationship), they want an awesome man to be with them..a man who gives them social status, validation and attention. Women are not the same as men. Men NEED sex. Women are …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 07:23 PM
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This is called existential crises :) Relax. Don't try to find meaning. Do try to leave a good mark on the world. The best way to do it is passing good information. Really, mentoring and passing info to future generations gives you a lot of satisfaction. If you are young, gain experiences. If you are old, be a father figure and share experiences. Trust me, you'll feel more complete in life than any bitch can make you feel.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 09:00 PM
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I could say the same about women. There is a difference in being pregnant by having sex with you versus being pregnant from somebody else and still claiming the father is you. You see the point? Men doing this is called fraud. You yourself are calling it fraud. Understand that you are calling fraud because you are a caring good person. Women doing such fraud would require a shit load of documentation and paternity tests. They participate in such fraud a hell lot more than men. One part of red pi…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 07:33 PM
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Holy shit! This is so similar to mine. My life was derailed because the girl I "was in love with" had an ex who was a crazy sex-addict. We're talking about a guy who had harems full of sluts and professional prostitutes. He took sex tourism trips to different cities (not random pick up trips, but a literal underworld of pimping and prostitutes) The way "my love" and he got into a relationship was that they were just neighbors (at her parent's house) and just started as friends. Then slowly they …
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 06:59 PM
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Islamist cultures probably had good intentions but they got stained by corrupt power-hungry humans along the way. Don't view Islam as a bed of roses. The reality is, women and men both suck. It's our blue-pill upbringing that caused us to believe in some fairytale about people. Get rid of that! Never in the history of mankind were women truthful. Throughout evolution, they literally survived by conning men to support them. You think you came from a direct line of faithful ancestors? Think again.…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 06:39 PM
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I used to think like you. High moral ground. Then I realized that we're practically living a modern world with medieval humans. Once I truly swallowed the pill, I started caring more about my family, my parents, siblings, cousins more than the random chick who, until proven, doesn't deserve my trust. I still don't lie much but I keep my cards close. This is modern day Game of Thrones. Relationships are the biggest window to exposing you to legal fraud.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/16 06:34 PM
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Am I really the only one who can say this straight to women on their face? "Should an ugly male model be paid the same as a hot female super-model? If yes, then fight for that as well you feminist cunt"
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 08:07 PM
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I didn’t say it verbally, I said. The action is my hand on her midriff, which is skin. I’m not lifting any clothing up. This is, I don’t remember fully what it is, but it’s there and I can feel. I got her skin and it’s just above the hand and it’s just above where you can go under the pants. Ok. If this is not alright, what does the law propose men should do to initiate sex? I can imagine the following deposition scenarios: Verbal agreement: Judge: Did you get a verbal permission? Man: Yes (no p…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 09:41 PM
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I'll tell you why I want those things. Because I fucking worked for it. While those girls (and the guys they were associating themselves with) were chasing their selfish desires, I was doing the following: Studied in a hard STEM area because I wanted to ensure my (and a future partners and kid's stability). Got a six-figure job at the age of 23 Sacrificed months of pussy, partying and fun in order to build a life worth living Saved for my parents who sacrificed their own desires for my education…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 11:26 PM
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Matters only for LTRs Most men want LTRs. Nobody doing productive stuff really has time to spin plates Low n-count indicates her outlook towards sex. It means she doesn't give it away easily, even under pressure. It means she doesn't get carried away by emotions when so many guys hit on her. She values her sexuality She probably wants to be a mother. I want this is my LTR. I'd like to be a father some day (yes, I'm aware of child support pitfalls)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:14 PM
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Sometimes I feel bad for women of this generation. They just did what they were told by their feminist older women. They got their own dose of blue pill and got hit by the wall at 30. In a marriage 1.0 situation, I wouldn't mind them actively looking for provider status. But today, it just makes no fucking sense. What the fuck is a used up 30 year old bringing to the table? Money? Career? Years of smoking, drinking, partying, satisfying sexual cravings with thugs? These are her selfish desires..…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 09:05 PM
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I have a group of 4 men. We all graduated from school at the same time and live in the same metro area. Here's the thing we do: Meet at least once a month (hiking, camping, vegas, touristy stuff, bars, road trips, MOVIES, concerts etc.) We talk about sports and women. We talk about women we are dating, their behaviors and our struggles IT FEELS GREAT! I feel lucky to have such male friends. No female has ever given me any such emotional support as them. We laugh together, share joys and sorrows …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 09:29 PM
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Awesome answer: Phfewww....you kids (followed by a look of disdain)
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 07:35 PM
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The reason a lot of betas are betas is that they used most of their youth to learn how to make themselves skillful and translate that skill into money. If they had spent that same time learning about and interacting with women, they would have become alphas. A lot of betas are natural alphas fed with the wrong set of rules.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 06:40 PM
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Great post! But you seem grim. Here's something I do with LTRs. If she does not respond positively to your emotional depth, just call her out on it lightly. Say things like: "You seem awfully interested ;)" (even when you know she isn't) "I'm kinda disappointed that you don't share the same emotional depth as me" "Oh you kiddo, you won't understand what real world's all about" (This is true because Western women never get out of their sheltered bubble) I personally feel the need to establish tha…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 09:18 PM
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Great image. To add to it, the girl's legs have to be wide apart for the pussy to show. Stretch her legs apart. Also, depending on your height, you might literally have to stand behind her instead of kneeling. Just stand like a crouching soldier and pierce through her 90 degress.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 08:44 PM
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If you lick the pussy like a wild animal, and she moans, you're in. Just lick a few times wild and quick, if it gives her a rush, she'll reciprocate by sucking your dick wildly. If she doesn't like it, fuck that shit. Don't lick her anymore, but make her lick you. Sample size: 2 women
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 08:41 PM
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I have a different solution for late bloomers: Think of yourself as the fortunate ones! You have great opportunities, great abilities and honestly, you can control so much of your life (as opposed to someone living in say, Sudan). Just do it. Do whatever the fuck you can and want to and just live. It's OK to not have everything!!! We are the fortunate ones!!
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 08:29 PM
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In a redpilled society, men will be awake, women will be awake. Men will realize that they don't need to pay for women shit. They don't need to marry a woman if she's not worth it. Women will realize that they can't go slut around (since no one will marry them/pay for them/buy them). So, in formative years, men will work hard to compete and make money, build resources and women will work hard to find a good man. And thus, marriage 1.0 will return. Most people will have an average satisfying rela…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 08:35 PM
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I've made women pay for me. This is how it works: At a coffee shop: MJ-"So, what do you want to drink?" Date-"Chocolate frappucino with double expresso shot...blah blah" MJ-"Wow, that's a complicated order, why don't you go ahead and order yours? I'm still undecided" At this point, some girls blush and go order their own. Some will keep looking at you or outright ask you to pay: Date- "So you won't pay?" MJ- "Your drink, your money" Some women will accept this. Others will come back with more: D…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 07:07 PM
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The wall for women is the realization that they can't find commitment (as per their own life schedule). They don't really want money as much as men do. They want attention (specifically male attention). They want to beat loneliness. They want a man they can look up to, be proud of and have the tiny little family with. Too bad those men are plating those old hags and trying to LTR 25 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 02:12 AM
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The problem is that women have ZERO repercussions for their behavior today. They can choose to do whatever the fuck they want, they WILL get married (at whatever age that might be) and if the marriage sucks, they WILL leave. Men are a fucking joke to them. That's why they don't pay any attention or respect. If they had to face repercussions, ANY REPERCUSSIONS, they wouldn't do this. Repercussions include: - Slut shaming in society - Hefty abortion bills - Divorce raping themselves - Men collecti…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 01:27 AM
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So the only woman worth marrying is simply a pretty, quiet babe who will worship her husband? The other end is women claiming the only man worth having sex with is someone who is 666 (6 ft tall, 6 figures, 6 inch dick) Men and women both have a fairytale imagination. A quiet supermodel smart young babe is EVERY man's unicorn...just like almost every woman wants Ryan Gosling as Husband.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 10:43 PM
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The part where she said you aren't a real man made my blood boil a little.. Shaming language like that is something I've never been able to handle.. Just say coolly,"Oh yeah, fine!" (walk out/make her move out/go for a walk/go fuck another chick/do whatever the fuck you want...except what she wants aka, don't give her any attention. Treat her like garbage)
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 08:07 PM
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my neighbour parked his Aston Martin DB9 outside my apartment - was it mine? Hell no! Did the girls I brought back think it was mine? Hell yes! This is hilarious. What would you say when one of them asked to take a ride in it? Not OP, but I'd just say, "Do you have $500/hr to spare?" (smile slyly)
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 07:56 PM
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I hear you! Forever, in the history of mankind, humans were born into social circumstances beyond their control. Born in an ice cave in ancient times? Too bad Born a boy in a war zone? Too bad Born a girl in a rape culture? Too bad Born in Afghanistan or Iraq? Too bad Born in a Third World country? Too bad Born in a First World misandrist country? Too bad....and this is you! The point is, you are always going to be born in circumstances outside of your control. There are only 2 things you can do…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 10:48 PM
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"I'm big where it counts" (then a sly wink)
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 12:05 AM
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Here's the thing about Chad: He doesn't think...at all! This means Chad will take uncalibrated risks and by definition, uncalibrated risks will fuck you up. Uncalibrated risks mean there are no moral boundaries and you'll get laid...A LOT. But, you might end up in prison too.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 09:54 PM
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You just simply must understand that a woman wants you to be that fun, social, flirty, dominant, passionate asshole champion god motherfucker when she's ovulating. And she wants you to be more "vulnerable," caring, sweet, comfortable, etc. when she's on her period. Except, that as a busy man, I have a ton of other things to take care of. Even werewolves have a better periodic cycle than women.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 05:34 PM
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a mechanical engineer is like the super sayan BB profession Completely tangent, but I ROFLed at this. Part of me sometimes wonders how jokes like this would fly with women.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 05:35 PM
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This is perhaps what girls should be exposed to as kids. Not the Disney fantasy. This also makes me think that the feel-good folktales of the past were just a form of entertainment for the people back then. All those tales with happy endings? Only little kids could find those stories interesting....the real world was rife with wars, famines, disasters and survival (except for the privileged few).
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:34 PM
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I wouldn't, but not because it's not socially acceptable, but because I don't give a shit what a child says, so why give him/her my damn time or energy. Whatever works for you :) . Personally, I've learned to establish boundaries with actions and speaking my mind.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 06:34 AM
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The whole thing took place in a span of a year...some concurrently. It only looks like I was phased because you read all of it in 20 mins. Petty remarks Call them out if you think they're being petty.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/15 01:02 AM
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Your made up scenario wasn't even relevant to the conversation It is. This is an example of how double standards work. A woman driving a man to homelessness (and dangerous situations) is ok but a man doing the same to a completely self-sufficient woman is not? Seriously wtf!! (Hamster, hamster, hamster) So that instance makes it okay for you to stoop to their level? Did you just try to rationalize vindictive behavior? So you do agree that their level was below what I'd call "honorable". Good, I …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 08:01 AM
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You put somebody's life in danger because you were butthurt Can we say the same about a guy who lost all his assets due to a divorce (filed by a butthurt girl who fell out of love) and became homeless?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 07:37 AM
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Sure. I did call her out with my actions. Let her suffer real world repercussions of real shit that she thought she could get away with. She had a smartphone, let her figure out how to get back home. Why did she think she can insult me and then get a ride back too?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 07:24 AM
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Agreed. This is not something you can just go up to a random girl and start doing. This probably works for me because I'm a more commanding person with decent education, who usually knows what he's talking about. The girls I date know that and that makes it easy for me to call them out on their bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 07:19 AM
0

I was just making an observation that the kind of behavior described here would likely not go down very well with any woman who values herself Or maybe my SMV was waaay too high to be ignored? Maybe she really thought she had a chance and wanted to try again because I was too good to pass? Honestly, I know I'm not that good. But women don't know that. Maybe they really want some of this perceived high SMV and would go to lengths for it? It could also be a combo of low self-esteem + my (perceived…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 07:12 AM
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The point is to be mean. I want it to be mean. Sorry ladies. About time you learn how a man's world works. I've seen girls saying things like,"My dream is to go my entire life without paying taxes". When I hear something like this, I have two options: - Ignore and try to please her - Call her out and tell her she's a fool to even remotely think that (unless if she's a drug overlord..who I won't date anyway)
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:32 AM
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Amused Mastery: When you make a face showing that you know that the girl is wrong. Generally a sly smile works the best. Don't get me wrong. Girls can be right too. But let the onus to prove themselves right be on them. Don't try to over-justify your views with all corner cases.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:29 AM
4

Relax. Let her next you. That is the point. You cannot (and should not) be insulted with such behavior by anyone. Going on a date with you and flirting with another guy on that date is basically an insult. I don't care about her SMV anymore.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:26 AM
3

Here's the thing. I believe in genuine equality. She has all the resources to do whatever she wants without bringing me into the equation. What I mean is we (men) don't look kindly on a guy who's been an asshole to us. Why should I be kind to a girl who's been a bitch...and then had the audacity to string along for a ride back home? Seriously, wtf?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:24 AM
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It is not just being an asshole. What pissed me off was that she had the audacity to come back to me for a car ride. This is analogous to a guy being an asshole (say damaging your car while drunk) and then having the audacity to want to use it again for a small errand. You'd have to be a real good friend to me to use that car again.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 06:15 AM
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I wasn't justifying anything and I never said anything about her career. I only guessed that she likely has little self-respect (which is not related to what she does for a living) based on observing the women in my social circle. You had also commented about intelligence in your original post. The self-esteem thing might be true. But that does not mean she has a free pass. Her reaction was abnormal. I was surprised too. I'm sure all women won't react the same.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 02:57 AM
1

OP, don't you think telling that friend of a friend to fuck off and qualifying yourself breaks frame? What is frame? Frame is basically, "I'm going to be me. Are you giving me shit for being me? Fuck off". I just used "Fuck off" with her to keep it concise.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 02:47 AM
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Like the woman you left on the freeway? Sounds very low value, can't imagine someone with any ounce of self-respect would behave like that after that incident She works in Google. Women don't live by male ideals. Stop justifying their behavior.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 02:44 AM
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Did she know she was on a date? Or did she think OP was just a some nice guy giving her a ride? Second date. We kissed at the end of the first one. These are clearly directions to being an asshole. And yes, while there are times where the two appear to overlap keeping frame isn't just about being a dick. I'm sorry! A 27 yr old girl does not know how to respect the guy she's on a date with and the guy is the asshole?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 02:43 AM
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Actually it's not something you should do at all. In times like these where we can't decide, I simply think what I would do if this were a guy (short of physical action). Considering that, I think I was polite to have dropped her halfway through.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 02:40 AM
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A simple example of this is when you get to skip the line at a night club or gets free drinks at ladies night Examples are great. I use the titanic one: For some fucked up reason, women and kids are "supposed" to be evacuated first in an emergency. We take that as convention but it really is privilege. Yes, many women hate me!
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 11:40 PM
0

Yeah. This has been my biggest grief since I moved to America from Asia. I just can't understand how the society here holds women to no standards. I've started calling women out on their worthlessness. I play the feminist card myself and make them pay for shit on dates. Get them to buy stuff, make them come on time or pay the price etc. I get called asshole a lot but this also gets me laid.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 10:06 PM
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Depends on your definition of success. ONS, yes. A serious LTR? Nope. Primarily because average white (or any other race for that matter) women are vapid self-absorbed bitches...ain't got no time for that!
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 11:30 PM
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Norcal is good. But there are so many Indians and Asians here, it's pretty hard to stand out. I get the sense that the rest of the country thinks San Francisco is a foreign city within US borders. I moved here from ATL though (and grew up in India until mid-teens, so I still retain my original accent). I never learned how to give a fuck about my race. Perhaps because I grew up in a rough neighborhood back in India. I have a tough skin. If what others think bothers your gf (which is likely what y…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 10:36 PM
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Indian. Dated a latina and an asian girl in the last 2 years. Got a lot of hate from everyone (all races). But I really didn't (or perhaps couldn't) give a fuck! Was too busy building my own life to care!
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 09:55 PM
2

Makes perfect sense. I'll try to work a schedule out. I'd have to make some time for extroverted hobbies though. Too bad my ninja programming skills doesn't wet the panties as much as Bachata does! :)
/r/seduction03/10/14 08:47 PM
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Haha! Does this mean Linus Torvalds made some great life-decisions? That's a revelation! Opportunity cost is a big problem. We can (and want) to do everything in our 20s. This is when we're at our peak. We can take risks and not flinch if they fail. Of all the things I want to do though, women are the worst time-sinks! I hear ya! Gotta be selective!
/r/seduction03/10/14 08:40 PM
1

Hey thanks for sharing your story! The sliding-scale metaphor makes sense. This makes me wonder if I could move the slide on a weekly basis. For example, be socially hyperactive one week and sink into my cave the next (weekends excluded obviously). I guess "work-life balance" actually means something to me now. Previously, I used to shrug it off as a professional world jargon that everyone likes to throw around while making small-talk.
/r/seduction03/10/14 07:45 PM
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Don't think of it as pick-up. Think of it as self-improvement. Here's another way to put it: Approach women, not with the intention of getting laid or getting a date. Approach them as people, just meaning to hangout. Think about it. You approach your friends just to hangout right? Don't you have a calm feeling in your mind and body when you meet regular friends? This is the feeling you need to have when meeting women. A great way to achieve this is not expecting anything in return from them. Tha…
/r/seduction25/10/13 08:54 PM
1

Oh yes. I changed my daily cycle to fit this. Waking up at 9 am and getting out early leaves me with ample of time to do all this. I also do some late night game and stay over at an AFC friend's place in the city when I can't drive/take the train back.
/r/seduction14/10/13 04:11 AM
1

Cool. Thanks for the tip. Will check out Dolores this weekend.
/r/seduction14/10/13 04:03 AM
1

Haha. Yeah. I have no idea what the etiquette on reddit is but I'm just gonna go ahead and continue this chain of conversation. What districts in SF are the best for daygame? I've tried Golden Gate Park, Union square and the Embarcadero (and other tourist hubs). Btw, agree to your comment about burned bridges. =P
/r/seduction14/10/13 03:51 AM
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Yeah. As you might have guessed not too happy about the ratio either. The only advantage being that I can go to the city (SF) during weekends and do whatever I want to. I can sharpen my skills without having any fear of being recognized by someone I know. You from the area?
/r/seduction14/10/13 03:37 AM
1

Cool!! Thanks
/r/seduction14/10/13 03:15 AM
1

Agreed. It is in my best interest to avoid ruining the night for other guys, particularly friends of my target. But say you got a minute or two of alone-time with the girl and you pop the question. A witty retort might just ease the situation, right?
/r/seduction14/10/13 03:10 AM
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I'm only 5"4', 140, athletic. I'll take a round of beer. No dominant pats please. Of course, I've enjoyed the company of tall girls when they need a pat :)
/r/seduction13/10/13 03:25 PM
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I met an orbiter tonight. What are these cards you speak of? Any examples would be helpful.
/r/seduction13/10/13 09:29 AM
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Same problem here. I say this living in one of the most densely populated areas of America. I just hang out with my housemate, when he gets his ass off of playing League of Legends.
/r/seduction10/08/13 11:07 PM
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