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I like turtle's
/r/seduction23/01/15 03:51 PM
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This, some "practice" you can do to get better at this is start giving compliments to people more often. Whenever you notice someone doing something well, you notice someone put a lot of work into something or someone dressed really well today just say something about it. People love compliments, so even if this feels completely unnatural to you and you can't really get it across well they'll still like it. Just something as simple as, hey man really liked that article you posted on facebook, I …
/r/seduction23/01/15 03:50 PM
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Dunno dude, oneitis, putting a girl on a pedestal, approach anxiety you got it all :P You're getting way to worked up about this really, "I have feelings for her", how? You don't know shit about her, you're building some mental image about this girl that is in no way aligned with reality. But no fear you've come to the right place here, there is a lot of material here you can research, just look at the sidebar. Some advice I can give you is realize there are other women out there other then this…
/r/seduction23/01/15 03:47 PM
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"empirical evidence" thanks for the case study bro
/r/seduction23/01/15 03:16 PM
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True, but I also think you need to build some more rapport with people before they accept a certain kind of humor. I have a very dark sense of humor but I don't really use it around people who I don't know, I just stick to bad puns and some mildly sarcastic comments. It's when people get to know me better or I know they are cool with these kind of jokes that I show them more of myself.
/r/seduction23/01/15 02:54 PM
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Ever took her on a date? How long do you know each other? Do you see each other a lot IRL? Texting isn't really a metric for interest some girls text a ton because they just like the attention and some text very few but only with people they really like. Just don't let it get to you man, just next time you see her ask her if she wants to go out with you sometime, if she says no you know where you stand otherwise, well that's on you.
/r/seduction23/01/15 02:47 PM
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Just start using kino everywhere, I don't mean as in try to escalate on people you meet but little things. Give handshake's to everyone you meet, pat someone on the shoulder when they make a good joke, give someone a joking punch on their arm when you're busting their balls, hug friends goodbye. Touch is a very strong tool can use when communicating, so start incorporating it in your everyday live. Sure you're still going to have some awkward moments when doing this put that's part of learning a…
/r/seduction12/11/14 12:57 PM
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Can we not make this a thing lol
/r/seduction07/11/14 02:25 PM
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Highschool is way different then any part of life, I wouldn't focus on trying to get girls but use this time to get good(or just passable :P) grades and take the time to figure out what you want to do later. In terms off pickup I'd focus more on self improvement, try to be someone who can hang out with anyone, be an open person and create fun social circles. Read some books on stuff like meditation, social interaction and self esteem to really set yourself up for college so you can tear shit up …
/r/seduction07/11/14 02:21 PM
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http://www.rsdnation.com/node/548400/forum Tyler's response for now; I dunno feels like he tries to sugar coat it a little bit but I get where they are coming from. I don't get why Tyler thinks Julien is an idiot for posting the video though: Julien for the last couple of months has been putting out more and more "shock" content, testing his boundary's and it seems like he hit a wall. I don't think any of his crotch or choke techniques were meant to be taken seriously, if you followed him on FB …
/r/seduction07/11/14 02:05 PM
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This isn't really the place for this it really adds nothing; the only thing this will lead to is: DAE hate feminists DAE hate extremists DAE hate shitposts
/r/seduction06/11/14 10:39 AM
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You're going to be fine, just make sure you do it unprotected and in the middle of the crowd, bonus points if you can high five an officer when he passes you.
/r/seduction06/11/14 10:35 AM
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Dunno she's not interested in him but is in you, nothing you can really do about that. Your friend sounds like me a couple of years ago, scarce with women, desperate for attention and unable to cope with rejection. You could have a sit down with your friend and talk how he feels about women, how he handles approaches and introduce him to the game; you might end up helping him this way. If he isn't open to the idea then whatever, nothing of value was lost, he'll continue placing women on pedestal…
/r/seduction21/10/14 11:07 AM
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Try and enjoy the process more then the outcome. Your mindset shouldn't be "I need to do this to get a girl to stick around" or "I need to get laid to feel good" but "I want to be the kind of guy that girls want to stick around". By having this mindset you are more devoted to yourself; you shouldn't care about results, care about being the best you can be in this game; results will follow. This way you don't waste energy by focusing on the bad stuff (rejection/flakes) that happens, especially sh…
/r/seduction13/08/13 11:38 AM
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The thing with handshake's is that they are acceptable but touching a girls hand out of the blue not so much. The thing is; like anything in pickup nothing is set in stone; you can either touch her upper arm and shake her hand or just start with a handshake when meeting her. From, then on you can 'reset' the ladder and start from step 1.
/r/seduction07/07/13 10:06 PM
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I(dutch) lost my virginity to a french girl who also a was virgin during an exchange camp, also know a lot of girls who lost their v-card during ONS so not really unheard of.
/r/seduction02/07/13 07:42 PM
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Pretty sure this is sarcasm :P
/r/seduction02/07/13 07:37 PM
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Okay if you want to have a conversation here could you care to elaborate on a few points. It's because it's all counter intuitive and I hate not being the "prize". What is counter intuitive and what do you mean by being the prize? the way I look the whole "I'm the prize" point of view is this; you do not put girls on pedestals and are aware of your own worth. And by worth I don't mean your worth as a potential lover/boyfriend or any kind of way that relates to her but your own worth as a person.…
/r/seduction02/07/13 07:31 PM
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Just listen to the entire talk I'm sure you'll get something out of it. And with that attitude what are you doing here? Anyone can land chicks, as long as your open to improving yourself and changing your beliefs you'll have a chance. Sure some guys need more time then others but you got to keep moving forward.
/r/seduction02/07/13 05:10 PM
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more like /r/abduction amirite?
/r/seduction29/04/13 12:13 PM
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How are there no other women? look for other ways to meet girls then through online dating. Almost everyone in this thread is saying you should stop messaging this girl. Why are you still looking for a way to connect with this girl when you clearly can't. I told you, you need to change the way you view your problems. Getting a gf isn't going to change you, it's all in your head. You're setting yourself up for failure here.
/r/seduction26/04/13 04:50 PM
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Looking at your post history I'd say you are suffering from oneitis really hard; you're obsessing over this 1 girl and it's ruining your life. Lucky for you there is a simple solution: stop seeing her and start seeing other girls. Now this will probably sound terrifying to you, but this is the only way. There is plenty of material on this reddit that can help you to get over your fears. But you need to stop feeling sorry about yourself and take action. Some things you might want to look into: ov…
/r/seduction26/04/13 03:52 PM
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Haha, this guy knows what's up :P Most of them'll be happy that someone shows interest (as long as you're genuine) and it is kind of a mental boost if you're having fun with them. Also: motion creates emotion; dancing, high fiving random people, just finding shit to do around the club that amuses you. You shouldn't be standing in one place. If there are multiple venues it can be nice to go to another place as well. Also if you're with friends you can use them to boost your state, this depends on…
/r/seduction25/04/13 09:04 PM
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"Hi, my name is He25, how are you doing" shake hand
/r/seduction16/04/13 09:56 AM
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A lot of this is actually in the book "the 7 habits in highly efficient people". Not the picking up girls part but the first half of the book is pretty much a solid go-to guide on inner game I suggest anyone who takes inner game serious reads this book.
/r/seduction16/04/13 08:03 AM
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Agreed so hilarious, that dislike/like ratio :P
/r/seduction09/04/13 01:04 PM
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What also helps is coming during non-peak hours, just drop by in the afternoon(say after work) when there are no people, just for half an hour.
/r/seduction07/04/13 12:44 PM
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Screwdrivers: vodka+OJ.
/r/seduction07/04/13 12:29 PM
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Was a bit skeptic because last Friday I discovered that hooking up with girls that are rolling is really easy :p But the way you handled it after the rave was great. Being clear in your intent, thoughts, words and actions aligned, you really took it home: kudo's to you.
/r/seduction31/03/13 10:30 PM
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Nice read, good to hear you enjoyed yourself so much; keep on the work and keep on pimping :D
/r/seduction26/03/13 12:55 AM
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I think it's more about being clear in your intentions and not filtering yourself. Be who you want to be and fully assume it, being uninteresting because of who you are is bad; being uninteresting because of who you are not is worse.
/r/seduction25/03/13 11:26 PM
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There are a lot of resources available that deal with this matter better then I do, the practice of meditation helps, A LOT. http://www.urbandharma.org/pdf/mindfulness_in_plain_english.pdf This book gives you the practical side of meditation: what it is, what it does and how to do it. Meditation is a practice that anyone can do, takes 20 minutes per day and can help you immensely. It basically teaches you to ground your thoughts in the present moment, instead of letting your mind wander to the p…
/r/seduction25/03/13 11:23 PM
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Plenty of fish in the sea, keep trying :)
/r/seduction25/03/13 10:55 PM
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I noticed a similar trend in my game actually, it's super easy for me to open on anyone and start conversations. However when I come across a girl I've met already, I sometimes have difficulty maintaining a flowing conversation. What usually happens to me is that I start worrying about the outcome, I apply a filter to my thoughts instead of letting them flow freely. I worry to much about what she is going to think of me when I say X or Y. Instead of being in the zone like I'd normally would be a…
/r/seduction25/03/13 10:49 PM
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Pretty much this, like any other insecurities, insecurity about age is only in your head.
/r/seduction23/03/13 04:31 PM
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Good story and good advice. Well played man keep it up!
/r/seduction23/03/13 03:56 PM
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Good to hear you are making progress, taking those first steps and getting over AA is always a good thing. You should be more detailed about your approaches when writing a FR: how long was the conversation, how much kino was there, did she show IOI's. The more details you give the better. The way you describe the conversation, I can't make out if was she was interested in you in a sexual way or just in a friendly way. I don't know what your next action should be because you haven't given me a wh…
/r/seduction23/03/13 01:29 PM
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Second that.
/r/seduction23/03/13 01:01 PM
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Not going to bother with reading all the comments; I just want to share my own experience. I was a kissless virgin until 20, I've missed out on a lot of girls either because I didn't know how to flirt and act or because I was terrified of actually going sexual: what if she thinks I'm a bad kisser, will she laugh because I'm a virigin at 17/19/20, will I fuck up in bed. I was terrified to talk to anyone about it including my best friends, who have witnessed way more embarrassing shit from then I …
/r/seduction18/03/13 09:23 PM
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Dude you are asking the wrong questions; what if she leaves her boyfriend because of me? You didn't kiss or fuck, I doubt this will happen. should I be glad if that happens? Never ask other people how you should feel, you should make up your own set of morals,.
/r/seduction15/03/13 02:55 AM
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