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| – | Its "Old Fashioned" to expect your wife/Long term GF to do "household chores."Those are some harsh words without proper justification. So hiring once a week someone who provides these services is "slavery"? Many of them are on "maknstream apps." But telling another human to do this otherwise she is a bad person is right? It makes no sense. "Household Chores" should be taken into account. Unless you are "Old fashioned" conservative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:01 PM |
| – | Its "Old Fashioned" to expect your wife/Long term GF to do "household chores."I agree with the personal preference part. I have seen people who are wealthy yet choose not to have these services. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 08:55 PM |
| – | Its "Old Fashioned" to expect your wife/Long term GF to do "household chores."Well, said, I agree. Honestly, the housekeeper doesn't need to do duties everyday. She come do it 2 to 3 times a week ,and that'll be enough. In my opinion this would make things way more affortable compared to what people think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 06:11 AM |
| 13 | Why does it seem many Mainstreams dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, paint themselves as "Progressive" and "Female Friendly" yet make most of their money from a large Male audience?Do you think Nightclubs and/or bars follow a similar were there's the "ladies free" nights. However, when you inside the club is 80% men. The women are in VIP area were there's no guys. These establishments market themsevels certain way in reality are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 04:12 PM |
| 0 | How can you tell between "High Value Women" and "Low value Women"?Good answer and you summarized my point clearly. Another problem, is the idea of "Woman are Prize" at least in some societies. What I mean is that it seems women have all these standards for men, including new one's like Social Intellgience or status like fame, the latter that seems hard to gain and a bit superficial. While men, seem to have no standards for women even this acronym of her not being overweight they just ask women for the bare minimum. I don't think its the fault of women or men. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man?Good observations and I agree. As you said for some single guys its a deal breaker, right away. To me it seems like an immediate reaction from some guys. In terms of women, what do you mean by involved? You mean if the guy is actively paying to raise the children? Or you mean raising them by by involve like taking them to sports? In my opinion, a guy having children is seen as a "sign of success" by some women. I think women give single dad's a lot of leeway room. I have seen the certain cases w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 02:54 PM |
| 0 | Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man?Honestly, I used the word to apply to both scenarios. Since based on my interviews women do not find either of those men unattractive and find the somewhat attractive. In scenario B if a man says, "I have a child."The woman might say, "Can I see your child?" There's som women who find the whole DILF concept very attractive. As you wrote on your other post, men have a very different response. As soon as you bring the "single mom" idea to some of them they don't want to be involve. I'll let others… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man?Interesting response. I do believe that what is said and what is done by both genders might be different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 02:33 PM |
| 6 | Why does it seem that Single Dads are viewed as 'somewhat' attractive by the average woman, while Single Mom's are viewed as 'somewhat' unattractive by the average man?Good answer, it aligns with the whole "preselection" idea as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem "Wit" and/or "Witness" plays a central part in dating particulary in the Anglosphere?An American in Germany breaks it down very well from minute 8:32: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LfRB4sgb1ZU&t=176s He explained that in America his communiation style was different and he needed to use more "Witty Banter" and a "back and forth'teasing" in order to succeed. While in Germany he could be more explicit and straight to the point with his "statements of interests.' I speak French, Spanish, and some German and have noticed this as well. In order to suceed in dating in America a you n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 09:15 PM |
| 9 | If It isn't too high standards the reason men are lonely, but cOrN, why would men seek corn to begin with?You are mixing apples and oranges. And possibly coming from a “conservative” line of though unconsciously. You are assuming that if there was no porn then a man would all the sudden get a gf. But there some guys who don’t watch porn yet can’t get a gf. Mainly due to time, for instance having to work a lot at an office. Getting into a relationship has more to do with the culture of male and female dynamics which at this moment is not as good as it should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 02:11 PM |
| – | How does the rest of the world view Western males and women?I would say, “American” is a better word. Since some European countries are quite different. I studied Brazilian society and talking with them it made me realize that they view Americans as people who “don’t settle down” easily and are always looking for the next best romantic partner. For instance, if you are dating someone you might break up with them if that relationship is not ideal in hopes of finding someone “better.” While people Brazil might stick it out since they find they can work on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Why does it seem, the lack of “Workplace Romance” is the “Elephant in the Room” as to why dating is so hard in American Society?I would challenge that. There’s many places that even before they hire you they make it very clear they don’t want any kind of relationships among workers and even worst among superior as you said. Ironically, if a woman admired her boss why can’t she date him? In theory a woman’s sexual strategy/hyper gamy is to look for people like her boss. Now by restricting that they are actually putting some women at a disadvantage telling them they can’t pursue the higher value guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem, the lack of “Workplace Romance” is the “Elephant in the Room” as to why dating is so hard in American Society?Good response, you bring a lot of insights and get to exactly what I was getting at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?There’s a Social Stigma in the English speaking countries/Anglosphere against prostitution and males visits sex workers. I study different cultures and notice this.Including Eastern cultures where as you say some men are allowed to visit brothels…etc. I don’t know the origin of this belief but it might have old puritanical origins probably from the UK and then evolve into more feminism variant and contemporary variant in the US. For instance, British writer CS Lewis said prostitution was an evil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?Deep societal change would need to take place first I notice conservative men, not all but some, will shame women if they sleep around too much. Like a woman who posts about their IG hook up’s. Most conservative guys will say’s she’s a slut. I’ve seen it on Instagram. Meanwhile, Liberal women, some not all, will shame men for not sleeping around. Many liberal women attribute that any men who disagrees with feminists as a “Incel.” Oh he doesn’t agree with women empowerment he must be an incel. Oh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 09:47 PM |
| 1 | High value men do not want 21 year old'sThis are also "Public Figures" therefore, their image is very important to them Meanwhile, the CEO's you are talking about most likely care less about their image. And they are likely to date younger women that one's their own age. Even if they don't do it publicly they might do so privately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 08:29 PM |
| – | Newbie Question: Why do you think American Society and Hollywood "Sexualizes" Friendships but "Desexualizes" Relationships? (American Pie, Power Rangers, Hangover, Videoclub, PUA )Another thing that clicked is the French band "Videoclub," in most of their videos they are on a relationship but it shows a more "physical relationship" relationship(Make Outs, Kissing on the floor, touching each other. That's when it go me thinking, "Wait a minute." A young man with a young woman, of course if they are a couple they are going to be "having sex" often. I researched a bit and found this quote from wikipedia, "The French film industry went in a completely different direction, wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 11:46 AM |
| – | Newbie Question: Why did Roosh V and Andrew Tate only got popular after saying "Shocking" and "Controversial" statements is that a reflection as to what it takes to be "popular" in American Culture?Hey man, you have good insights, I also agree with you since I've been studying American society, could you expand more with concrete examples and other types of examples books if you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Newbie Question: Why did Roosh V and Andrew Tate only got popular after saying "Shocking" and "Controversial" statements is that a reflection as to what it takes to be "popular" in American Culture?Very interesting. Could you expand more on this ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Newbie Question: Why did Pick Up Artistry become more right wing?Good observation. I think what happens to is that we live in an Era where "Everything has become Politicized." Before, during Generation X, "Nothing was political." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 08:34 AM |
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