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| 3 | Modern youngish women and their very very strange expectationsEveryone should dream big and tall, then wake up when reality clashes with expectations. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/21 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Marriage teetering on the decision to have a childIt sounds like you guys are already drifting apart without the child issue. It would be very unfair to the future child. Since she's a good person and her biological clock is ticking, it might be a good idea for you to decide sooner rather than later. She might find a children-loving partner down the road. Sometime to love someone is to let go. There is someone for everyone in this amazing world! | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/01/21 09:53 PM |
| 3 | To my ex who still wants to be friendsWell said Bro. Get it out of your system. I can "see" the big smile on your face. Take care of those kids. They will love you no matter what. Merry Christmas. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/20 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Mediation set for Mid February... need some help!Some states consider living together as common law partners, same legal rights as marriage. I would cut the loss and run - consider your half mortgage payment for the last 7 years as rent you would have to pay anyway. Fighting for half of whatever years worth (mostly still owe mortgage payment) is probably not a wise choice. Be careful about what the lawyers tell you - they always encourage a good fight to the bitter end amount divorcing couples - a long lasting fight guarantees steady business … | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/20 07:49 PM |
| 6 | I Just Don't Know What to DoYour situation is actually better than some of us went thru. Pour yourself a bourbon and look forward to the future. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/20 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Just married in October - already considering divorceYou can have the marriage annulled (within six months). Just like never happens. Embarrassing - yes. But a fresh start! People do that in Las Vegas all the time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/20 07:52 PM |
| 1 | I'm On The Other SideAs an old saying - your closest friend could your worst enemy. Some of us have experienced that recently. I am happy for you that you are happy! Move on... | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/20 09:53 PM |
| 5 | 2 very long years!Congrats for a new beginning brother! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/20 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Why am I overcome with guilt?You feel guilty cuz you are a good decent man! It sounds like she has problems beyond your help... all the best in the future. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | When does the pain stopFind a few new hobbies to occupy your extra free time and manage your expectation. Things will turn better soon enough. Believe in yourself, brother! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/12/20 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Keep house or start fresh?Man! You are absolutely right about the court system and lawyers try to suck you dry! | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Scared and LonelySo sorry to hear that. It's likely she will get some of your retirement in the future. Protect yourself financially as well! Avoid the divorce lawyers who try to prolong the fight between you and the soon-to-be-ex. The longer the process lasts, the more it costs for both of you. Be reasonable for the kid's sake and let the healing begins. Military marriage is extra hard, being away so often and for so long. Thanks for your service brother! (Been there, done it - both military and divorce.) Your … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/20 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Take Care Of YourselfThanks for bring up the attention. Holiday time is always tough for divorced families. With the Covid this year, in addition to emotional stress many are stressed out financially as well. Take care of each other. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/20 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Kids didn't know it's my birthdayHappy birthday Bro! In addition to manage your expectation, why not get on with the new technology, set up a reminder on their social media accounts. They will get a notification from whatever APPs they use on your birthday. I got a "happy birthday" message from my dentist last year! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/11/20 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Refinancing/ MortgageIt seems you guys are in amicable terms, but she is in a bad situation - can't refinance without a job. You might have to pay for the mortgage (consider it as spousal support) till she gets a job. Hope you have much better future with your new GF. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/20 04:41 PM |
| 1 | MA v CTBeen there and done it. One key question - Are you providing spousal support or receiving it afterwards? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/20 01:59 PM |
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