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This, although if they are really attractive they will be approached more and therefore have more options so are more likely to not act on their obsession. Guys when they obsess we stop approaching new women and then we begin to act on our obsession, this is why we always should be approaching!
/r/seduction27/04/16 11:50 PM
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Solid gold right here, Although I will add that in social circle game its best to just befriend the girl right off the bat if she has a boyfriend. If things fizzles out she will know who to call and if not then you have a wing girl!
/r/seduction09/04/16 04:49 AM
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I had this same problem the issue was that the girls new i wanted to date them way too early. I opened up to much to fast and lost all my mystery before they had more time investment. So I began to talk less let my body language tell my story and ask more and qualify more. This lead to more mystery and more time investment.
/r/seduction07/04/16 09:42 PM
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I would recommend just making friends with at least one girl in everyplace you visit, honestly I tell everyone learn too manage a relationship as friends then progress too starting intimate relationships with different girls! My first female friend after my breakup came from just being honest after hanging a few times and really enjoying it I just asked her "what are some cool places to frequent where I can do my single thing cause I just broke up with a girl" she ended up being a musician and p…
/r/seduction28/03/16 02:03 AM
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Hey OP I do this on a smaller scale I live in fort worth, but frequent Austin, Dallas, Denton. I have girls some fwb some just friends that I see once a month or so! If I can do it in a small geographical scale there is no reason that if you frequent these places often you can't setup a similar situation. The key for me was staying at on there radar every few weeks, and treating the relationship like it is... One where I can only see them once a month sometimes less. Then I have a girl I frequen…
/r/seduction28/03/16 01:38 AM
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My take on the subject is that yes vulnerability will not always net you the results you desire every time. Guess what that's the point! It's these situations that develop your emotional tolerance. I was in a similar situation got emotionally crushed, but found a cooler hotter girl. Normally I would be head over heels for her from the first date I'm not. It was being vulnerable too one girl getting crushed that helped me realize I become too invested early. So I worked on myself talked to 40 oth…
/r/seduction26/03/16 10:38 AM
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lol i'm in a similar situation with this girl in one of my college classes. She honestly a badass chick beautiful ect, but shes single and pregnant (No tummy atm) but just like today she calls me up just to chat and tell me how smart and intelligent I am. How her and another girl where chatting about how I have great Ideas in our group sessions! ect shes def. pulling the heart strings but she pregnant and i Know what I deserve but non the less its just a form of mild 1its
/r/seduction23/03/16 11:47 PM
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I just surrounded myself with women, made as many female friends as possible. If they had boyfriends i befriended them too. If what you desire is to be good with beautiful women then go out meet lots of girls with the sole purpose of making friends and advancing you life style. Then once you find yourself consistently confident around women you begin finding new girls to pursue romantically, rejection become moot at this point. Why care Ill have one of my cute friends hit me up to kick it in a d…
/r/seduction15/03/16 03:47 AM
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Your key word of Maintain attraction is on point. Text is just not nearly as conducive to building attraction too many variables but you can be intermittently available for her and if shes already attracted this will maintain attraction. I've tried to build attraction and in all honesty its way more work than what is worth it, when you can just go out and meet a new girl.
/r/seduction14/03/16 04:28 PM
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This may be TMI but when i was working 60 hours a week I would refrain from jerking it. This would give me a lot more energy to do things and more motivation to go out after a stressful week. You would be surprised what that human body is capable of once you restrict the easy pleasures in life.
/r/seduction12/03/16 09:38 PM
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There are two ways to deal with this situation! He's friendly then I'll be friendly bet if he does or says something off the wall then I'll make a joke about it. Example: this guy came up too me and this girl somehow we got in the conversation of vaping. He tells this story of how he Vapes in his bed and blows it out his window. My response "Was this before or after you hit rock bottom" this is called AMOGing you be cocky and funny while still knocking the guy down a level but it's so funny even…
/r/seduction12/03/16 02:01 AM
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Unzips pants whips dick out and maintains eye contact!
/r/seduction12/03/16 01:44 AM
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I get this problem as well, although I am able to keep communication open if I don't score a lay early I get caught up in a several month ordeal of both of us being too busy to meet but out of the blue they suddenly ask me out again and seem really interested and if I don't lay them. ( twice I had them in their beds) and just play the slow game I get put back on their back burner again. Still trying to find a solution my best thoughts are to just push for the lay as soon as we meet again! Maybe …
/r/seduction06/03/16 09:48 PM
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Rightfully so, the way I look at is the better you build your lifestyle the Easier everything else is. Game is a stressful thing if your working and going too school, but being invited to parties, bday parties, festivals by women I've just befriended with no stress is preferable with my busy schedule. This also gives me confidence to do cold approaches when I feel like it, but I never feel forced to do any of it.
/r/seduction04/03/16 05:13 PM
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I honestly enjoy my failures more than anything. If you haven't already search my name I have another very popular post about attraction, if you read it well I'll post another FR in a couple weeks!
/r/seduction04/03/16 05:06 PM
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Thanks, glad I could help
/r/seduction04/03/16 05:03 PM
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No I get it, but the point I was getting across is too not put these girls on pedestals before actually knowing them. Trust me I have done acid while taking a school bus too a radio head concert. I get why people take drugs there fun. This girl in particular had lost about 20 pounds and told me herself that her dopamine levels where fucked from taking it. But never the less it's a serious relationship red flag
/r/seduction04/03/16 05:02 PM
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You never tell a girl she's hot until she's earned it, use action to show your interest whether it's touching her on her arm, hugs, asking for a number you build up the relationship. Then when you make the move its not sudden or out of left field. People won't look at you badly if your calibrated it's the dudes that come into the group add no value and hit on the girls openly that get a bad rep.
/r/seduction23/02/16 11:52 PM
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What repercussions? This is the question you should ask yourself. As long as your not triple texting a girl paragraphs of i love you love me shit, she will be flattered you may get rejected but then there's one less girl you gotta think about. and if you like me and just ask girls to hangout/grablunch then you not really committing a date frame. So ask yourself this question again What Repercussions?
/r/seduction23/02/16 10:09 PM
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I broke up with my girl of 6 years 8 months ago, all I can tell you is to approach and just try to befriend as many girls as possible. Also work on yourself, work out jog get a hobby. Its a process but I am now happier than I have ever been in my life I have hand lots of flings, but still am not ready for another relationship. Its all about building your confidence back up and it starts painful but once you get momentum youll become unstopable
/r/seduction23/02/16 09:57 PM
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I've had this before, Usually it was because I didn't make the move quickly enough. 2 months is a long time, Shes had time to think about the consequences of hooking up with you and having to deal with it in class and although she likes you, you didn't make the move early in the relationship when her peak interest had her GA GA for you and you could override her logic with a flurry of emotions. As far as getting with this girl may be too late, just make sure your advancing with other girls and d…
/r/seduction22/02/16 03:24 PM
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Day game is extremely fast spaced, should of asked her out right then and there for a drink!
/r/seduction20/02/16 08:47 PM
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Lets not lie to ourselves here, Every girl gets bored of their boyfriend. The reason she'll stick around is cause you fucked her and you have a few things in common .The complete infatuation fades, My deal is no confidence issue its just an understanding that the more I have improved myself as a person, the faster these women wanted to have sex with me. I am getting smaller and smaller windows of opportunities because these women are becoming more infatuated faster and if i don't act they get of…
/r/seduction20/02/16 04:18 PM
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Currently, I'm testing out classroom game. There is this 21 year old in my class deff. a 9. its like the 4th week of class so i hope i haven't fucked up shes basically just said hi to me in the hall and the next day I just plop right down right next to her in class. She instantly chats me up, caught her doing lip bits, waits for me to pack my school stuff and walks with me in the hall without me even asking. I've seen her eat after class but once we got to the cafeteria could of easily just aske…
/r/seduction20/02/16 12:11 AM
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I would change non-frame to a dominant frame for clarity. The reason framing is so important in seduction is people who have a dominant frame have more social status and more persuasion in social situations. Every interaction has a positive, negative and neutral perspective. When you and your best bud are hanging out and he's like "what's up needle dick" he's framing you negatively and is trying to show his dominant frame of reference. You always have the options to neutralize a negative frame b…
/r/seduction16/12/15 10:04 PM
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Hook her up with one of your friends. If you friend zone her and don't have utility in her life she will move on, but if you friend zone her and help hook her up with your friends. Then she has a reason to be friends with you, I mean isn't this what friends do anyways.
/r/seduction31/07/15 02:18 PM
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Yes a take it or leave it attitude, it's called push/pull tease her a little then pull her in by being genuinely interested when she deserves it. But never apologize if you push to hard as it comes of as try hard. http://www.lovesystems.com/dating-advice/attraction/pickup-lines-pua-techniques
/r/seduction22/07/15 09:24 PM
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There's no set guidelines for this, but she may act upset if you tease her and may fish for an apology. "Don't" be aware is all I can say bro, if she ask or does something that feels like she's testing you avoid it don't get mad ect. In all honesty the friend role is in your head you decided at some point that you would rather be friends then loose her. It's about breaking down you friend behavior/reactions to her and moving things sexual. If you don't have much experience take things slow, if y…
/r/seduction22/07/15 08:16 PM
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Let's be honest she was the first attractive girl who showed interest in you and made you feel good. It's happened to me before, learn from the situation reflect back on what red flags may have popped up early on. And know you deserve better, leave the girl alone take it as a learning experience, it's not a healthy relationship so why devalue yourself, meet women who are willing to move to your level don't stop down to there level.
/r/seduction22/07/15 06:54 PM
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Google Dicarlo escalation ladder. Your going to have to slow burn her if she's been accustomed to just being friends, also talk about first kisses, craziest places you have had sex ect you want to slowly warm her up to that sexual vibe around you before you ask her out. I have lots of female friends I hug and touch them all but I draw lines as what constitutes friends and what's more in line with dating. Everyone enjoys being touched get that out of your head first. And remember if you genuinely…
/r/seduction22/07/15 06:45 PM
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I've come to realize this, you can figure out the role you play in a girls life by just texting and never asking her out. If she's texting you she's interested on some level. But if you just next her cause she won't hangout (for whatever reason) your turning down a lot of potential leads. Keep distance ping her occasionally to show interest without being needy, try to move sexual. Let them warm up at there own pace.
/r/seduction19/07/15 04:56 PM
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Talking to a girl just like this, She wants it when she wants it. If I try to move things forward she pulls back. I've just been pinging her with some funny texts every week or so to stay on her radar and ending the convos first but let her setup the meets. Some girls get attached quicker then others. And when they want it go get it.
/r/seduction19/07/15 04:28 PM
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Yes this is why you use text to get them on the phone where you have a situation that is conducive for things moving forward. You can use text to create the illusion and to stay on someone radar, lots of girls for one reason or another create barriers for the meetup. I have one girl who I hooked up with in a distant social circle. She single but I know she's trying to test waters with her ex, even though she has no clue I know. I have done the very same thing she gives me the illusion that she w…
/r/seduction17/07/15 09:15 PM
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So true, been learning texting game. I'm amazing in person but my text game was weak. Can't tell you how many times I tried to punch through my bed and threw my phone before I gained a zen like patience
/r/seduction16/07/15 06:59 PM
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It's more like honesty by trial and error, being honest at first your going to get rejected. This causes a emotional desensitization to outcomes, it's a slow process bet eventually you will become so desensitized that even the hottest girls catch on to your whole subcomunication and then they begin to find you more attractive because you have meet so many beautiful women your standards grow beyond beauty and you begin naturally qualifying weeding out potential mates effortlessly/withoutemotion.
/r/seduction08/07/15 03:33 AM
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Unzips pants
/r/seduction03/07/15 10:52 PM
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I've been a a man whore with this move
/r/seduction03/07/15 10:49 PM
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Hence the pro tip title, but for those times you meet a girl at a party haven't setup logistics don't have a place near by, making out in a hallway and want to get more intimate without being pushy then pull this move. I have fucked girls in walk in closets, bathrooms, backs eats of cars. Ect in less then an hour. Maybe not the cream of the crop, maybe not girls you would ever date but attractive non the less
/r/seduction03/07/15 08:32 PM
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So is making out in public but how many times have you seen people at parties make out. I have even done this while making out and instantly walked away. It's a way of escalating sexually and getting her mind on sex. The bra doesn't fall off if she's wearing a tight top. She has to go to the bathroom worse case scenario and rebutton it. Use it in joking manner and smile.
/r/seduction03/07/15 08:24 PM
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Cool just remember if you give a complement make sure it's genuine, and not coming from a reactionary standpoint. Girls find it attractive for a guy who's bold and confident to give them compliments. But if your coming from a seeking validation mindset you will scream creep and its a turn off. It's very subtle but basically if you compliment her you come from a place that hey I don't care if I ever see you again, there's a lot of beautiful people in the world, and I'm curious how well you take a…
/r/seduction03/07/15 03:59 PM
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I would focus on your sexual/kino escalation. You may also try using push pull, being more aggressive with your kino pre kiss. Also another thing I do is bring her close and don't kiss her. Builds tension. Then when I kiss her I'll count too two or three pull back, Stare at her say she's a great kisser. Grab the back of her hair. Kiss again pull away then continue the date.
/r/seduction02/07/15 09:24 PM
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Dude I'm in the same situation currently, right now the main thing I have noticed is since I'm feeling the friction my intentions are coming off that way. Another thing is I'm afraid she may have a boyfriend and I'll look bad too the group and loose chances with other girls. So what I have begun is weed girls out before I have a chance to loose any value. Target girls like this. She's the most attractive girl directly in the social group: your upfront honest that she seems like someone you would…
/r/seduction02/07/15 12:53 PM
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Let's exchange numbers
/r/seduction01/07/15 09:44 PM
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If it's via text, let the girl set the threshold. Believe it or not some girls suck at texting in general so keep it straight forward fun simple if she flirts flirt back. But since you are not physically there and can't calibrate her it can become very confusing and in turn create a situation where you are effort ing to much. She may be at a funeral and you say what's up gorgeous if she hasn't flirted via text it can seem weird if she had it's understandable and she will forgive ect
/r/seduction30/06/15 09:41 PM
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This seems really dumb too actually get a girl but if your wanting facebook social proof for girls who add you then yes this should do the trick
/r/seduction30/06/15 09:21 PM
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If it's via text and she doesn't know you then yes, that's why in the beginning you need to be more positive and fun setting logistics and leave flirting more for the actual in person meetings.
/r/seduction30/06/15 09:07 PM
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Seeing someone I feel is vastly different then straight saying boyfriend. So I would almost clarify with a boyfriend? Text
/r/seduction30/06/15 08:42 PM
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Stand tall at all times progress conversation be relaxed, strong with your voice, feel free to throw in some sexual stuff. If you get to talking too a girl for 10-15 minutes ask if she has a significant other/boyfriend. At social situations like these you want to target single girls if there not single move on. Gaming girls with boyfriends is more effort than it's worth especially in school. If she's single tell her she's cute and funny and ask for the number. Then escalate with touch and try to…
/r/seduction30/06/15 08:18 PM
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Wait till she posts something interesting/funny/smart open her then go the direct route. Say you find her cute and funny/interesting/smart and had to ask if she's single. This right here will save you a lot of wasted time/flakes/attention seeking women... Then if she say she's single ask her if she's busy at so so time and logistics
/r/seduction29/06/15 07:41 PM
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Another thing as I read above you said you have jealousy issues, quality ltr girls are going to shit test you again a few times usually around the 3rd to 6th date. They will flirt in front of you, last minute flake. Its in your best interest to understand this will happen and mentally prepare yourself. If you show that this effects you your mood ect and get angry or mad she will feel she can control you and won't see you as ltr material. All there doing is screening for insecurity. I literally h…
/r/seduction19/06/15 02:48 AM
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You look needy either way, at least with calling you can dig yourself out of the whole you've made faster. Discuss the movies ect plans for summer build solid attraction, if she doesn't pick up send a text saying curious how your movie was!
/r/seduction19/06/15 01:56 AM
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If you don't build enough attraction through the in person meeting then call first in my opinion
/r/seduction19/06/15 12:35 AM
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Exactly letting a girl know she can make you angry show you don't have control of your life. If she did something that bad then next her
/r/seduction19/06/15 12:31 AM
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Once I realize she is relationship material, I begin throwing larger future projections at her. You want her to begin thinking of how a relationship with you would be like with you. Most girls enjoy or would enjoy traveling,concerts, road trips vacations ect. major life events that you think she would like and you would like as well. Begin putting them in your conversations. Such as telling a story about a Vacation you had in detail and saying you would have loved it there. Talking about how you…
/r/seduction19/06/15 12:05 AM
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Honestly thanks man I've been feeling like John snow the past couple days daggers to the gut lol. Girls got my emotions bouncing this really helped.
/r/seduction17/06/15 05:11 PM
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How is having an abundance of women paradoxical exactly? Having an abundance mindset is literally not putting any particular women on a pedestal!
/r/seduction16/06/15 09:52 PM
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That's usually the girls job
/r/seduction13/06/15 12:45 PM
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I'm not sure of your age but sometimes stepping away from seduction and focusing on getting your life on track is the best thing to do. People get distracted to much on girls that there lifestyles become affected. True confidence comes from achieving life goals, if your not where you want to be then you'll be seeking confidence from women which in turn is counter productive.
/r/seduction05/06/15 09:21 PM
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Sex with a girl who has a boyfriend without a condom your an idiot bro. Wrap that shit up
/r/seduction05/06/15 04:06 PM
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