Hey guys Im a 28 year old 7 months out of a 6 year relationship. I've been studying pickup and game and female to male interactions since I was 16. Was in a 6 year committed relationship but I've had sex with 12 girls and 20 plus make outs. Currently attending community college and dating 21-25 year olds.

In the pass 7 months I have had to completely relearn gaming single girls. Here are a few interactions with a briefing of how we met and how I dropped the ball 4 separate times when i could of easily gotten laid!

The first girl is a musician lead singer and bass player and plays shows and house parties in a college town. shes a HB6 but has a lot going for her cool life lots of dudes around her.

This was the first girl that opened my eyes too chemistry/attraction. We met up after a few chats over social media short and logistic stuff about us both going to the same music festival. we had mutual friends so it was very easy straight forward, I was going to see her in a few months at the festival so I stayed distant but on her radar.

We eventually meet at the festival knowing basically nothing and It was fucking amazing. I had really worked on just being a more socially cool guy at this point 1 month out of a relationship. The more I just sat back DHV every once in a while with some cool stories the more shes slowly starts to fall like puddy. She starts touching me flirting more, Ga Ga Eyes (I'm lone wolfing this festival BTW and with her group of friends). The final night I invite her group back to my hotel and we party, eventually she passes out in my bed after (in rearsight) she had made countless opportunities too Fuck Me. Rookie mistake.

The Revelation Should of just fucked her she wanted it, but I was kinda digging her friend a lot and her friend was showing signs of interest so I just didn't do It. But I learned first hand what chemistry/attraction is because the next day the next morning and the next 2 months she turned cold on me. Why not because she didn't like me but because In the grand scheme i rejected her, she really liked me and the only thing she could do to protect her self was too go cold. This is what high value girls do when there rejected, they blame themselves and try there best to forget about you. I eventually broke through as friends with, we hang out but on a platonic level but she never again had the GA GA Eyes, the touching she couldn't take it again so she protected herself.

The Friend of the girl from the music festival about (hb7.5) recently single.

Not all was lost I had gotten the better looking less cool girls number and a week after the festival we hungout, she was so Into me txts where just pinging off her I asked her to hangout she was enthusiastic to meet. In rear sight of course I had rejected her best friend and started chatting her up and asked her to hangout the following weekend. I was making this girls dream of sleeping with a High Value guy who gets women and has self control. The first hangout (Mind you this would be the 3rd day I would even know this girl) after about an our (We went to a brewery with my friends) she getting frigidity, she was so into me that she started getting self conscious mid date. I eventually took her to eat and back to my place to watch TV. We would make out and then i would simply say hey lets go lay down, are cloths where coming off before i could shut the door. She Was On Auto-accept (she was so into me and knew so little about me but open up so much that she was willing to fuck and deal with the consequences later) She would tell me shes on her period but gave me a blowjob. I should of just taken her in the shower and fucked her brains out. But the next day she was happy glowing she had blown this High Value guy. BUT I was her friends crush she felt slightly ashamed. The next week she plays assertive text pinging but more stand offish. She would Text me that week a MULTI PARAGRAPH text about how the timing was bad and she was feeling guilty but liked me and was only a 2 weeks out of a LT relationship. I would then distance myself and just said Ok I didn't want to interfere with her development as being a single girl cause I too know its hard right after a breakup. I still text her a bit over the next two weeks to stay on her radar and then BOOM she hits me up and asked me to hangout with her friends. I end up picking her up. Driving her there and we both within 2 hours are sleeping in one of the guest bedrooms. I would eat her out and then try for sex but get a soft non verbal no. Next morning we grab breakfast and she asked me back to her place. This is why I talk about seizing opportunities because attraction expires, because i made my second rookie mistake. She invites me to lay in her bed and what do I dooooo. FUCKING CUDDLE don't make a move kiss on the cheek then I leave after a few hours. After she goes straight COLD, she flakes on 3 dates. Eventually she would come out and tell me she felt like things weren't progressing and thought i was cool BUUUT the between her best friend liking me and me basically being a pussy on not fucking her we learn that, I gave her to much time to rationalize to much time to actually put a personality on a human being... Chemistry was gone!

Revelation Sex is the only thing that can keep a girl into you for long periods of time consistently, Chemistry/attraction is fading. If you give the girl to much time to think about her decisions with you without sex she will loose attraction/chemistry eventually so act fast!

Bar Babe 8 this one is short, I went out for a wedding and we went bar hopping after I was dress to impress full suit. This gorgeous girl standing next to me and I ask for a craft beer they don't have it so I turn to her and ask her what should I get like out of habit. She suggest something and offers to buy it for me, I was shocked but composed she eventually after 15 minutes asks me to go to the next bar with her touching my shoulder. I was with some friends so I asked for her number she said NO come with me now. Rookie nightclub mistake on me again. I just get her number and said ill text her. she says sure fine. After about an hour I text her and she never responds. I had rejected her, she had literally asked me out and I didn't drop everything I had going on and just go with it.

Revelation Girls who like you can change their opinion of you on a dime, this was a situation where I was a bitch. Should of just went with her she had mentioned she had a hotel room near by. Bar game is Fast pace. You better have laser focus and make sure to clean the backseat of your car out if you dont have a place to fuck.

Conclusion

  • Attraction/chemistry is fading don't wait weeks act on days. There is nothing wrong with making friends with females they help your value. Girls will reject you if you dont make a move cause they think its there fault, then to protect themselves will begin to reject you. *Sex and Chemistry are two separate animals without the social pressure related to sex on women its really hard to keep them Ga Ga for you.
  • I have a zero success rate after the 5th date and my odds are way better on the first hangout then any other time. Once she puts a personality on you as an actual human being the you probably have already fucked up. Hit her with a sweet spot of not knowing you really but opening up a lot on her end. She will go into auto accept on your advances purley on FOMO or (Fear Of Missing Out) With you. *Its all about chemicals Dopamine you meet someone you like and they like you its a drug, you want to get them addicted then fuck them before there brain starts desensitizing the stimulus and rationalizing cause its unsustainable.

Hope you guys enjoyed the reading.