openingceremony Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How do you maintain a strong frame when another guy comes into the set? I don't think I've ever had a guy 'invade' my set who had better game or chemistry with the girl than I did. So I usually welcome them in and use them as a foil to show off how good I am in comparison.	/r/seduction	11/03/16 04:50 PM
6	Scared to get physical This was hard to read because I watched a guy on Saturday night go through the same thing. I was gaming two girls, I wasn't going to take both of them home so I "passed" one off to this guy, his game was TERRIBLE, he said a lot of weird things, couldn't dance, was kind of awkward, etc. But the girl seemed to like all of that shit. Honestly I was very confused because this guy had the exact opposite game as I did, me and the girl I was with observed this dude bumble his way through attracting the…	/r/seduction	07/03/16 06:42 PM
2	If you're struggling in college, calm down and don't act like this is about as good as it gets for guys, it really isn't and the ceiling is much higher as an adult! Yeah I never really got this, once you leave college I think the game opens up a lot. College has a lot of unique things that make college game awesome but "young adult" game is awesome too. People have jobs, they have freedom, they still want to cling on to the college life a bit, etc. The only caveat is that if you live in a small town post college the game will be harder, but if you live in a relatively large city with decent nightlife the city is your oyster.	/r/seduction	07/03/16 06:12 PM
3	Need some smalltalk tips Learn to listen and learn to 'chain' conversations so you never run out of things to talk about, here's a sample conversation from Saturday. I walk up to the bar waiting to get the barttenders attention, a girl is sitting at the bar and asks me if I want to take a look at the menu, I politely decline, I probably should've accepted but I was waiting on a friend who was late so was kind of annoyed. Anyway, a few seconds later I notice she's looking at her beer bottle in a curious manner and I ask …	/r/seduction	07/03/16 05:59 PM
7	Getting rid of a crush/feelings/oneitis Reduce contact, and meet more women.	/r/seduction	07/03/16 05:26 PM
4	If I approach a girl and she asks me "What do you do?", "Where are you from?", "How old are you?". Does it mean I reach what is called The Hook Point? wth is the hook point?	/r/seduction	01/03/16 09:02 PM
1	Attraction has a expiration date, you must seize the opportunities: Social/Festival/Bar game A full indepth look at fading chemistry Thanks for this, I need more reasons to not feel guilty about pulling the trigger and closing properly.	/r/seduction	19/02/16 10:54 PM
3	What's your biggest sticking point and why haven't you addressed it? Mines is mild stuttering Good shit. Just gotta push through it.	/r/seduction	19/02/16 08:00 PM
3	What's your biggest sticking point and why haven't you addressed it? Mines is mild stuttering I'll be more specific. When I'm dealing with a girl who I know or believe to have a higher partner count, I have no issues making the moves needed to close. When I'm unsure of the partner count or believe it to be less than me I usually freeze up.	/r/seduction	19/02/16 06:22 PM
2	What's your biggest sticking point and why haven't you addressed it? Mines is mild stuttering It's pretty strange for me, because over the past year or so I've been able to sleep with women who have a high partner count like it's nothing, and on the other hand there have been multiple occasions where I've been in the bedroom of a girl with a lower (presumably) partner count and couldn't close the deal.	/r/seduction	19/02/16 05:05 PM
17	What's your biggest sticking point and why haven't you addressed it? Mines is mild stuttering My worst habit is that I'm a terrible closer, I think most aspects of my game are pretty solid but I blow more saves than goose gossage.	/r/seduction	19/02/16 04:02 PM
6	[FR] F-closed My Long Distance Instagram Crush You need to write a guide on how to successfully slide into DMs.	/r/seduction	18/02/16 02:14 AM
2	What to talk about when dancing? Don't, speak with your body, get close, look her in the eye, dance, touch her. When you're tired pull her aside for a sit down and then you can talk. Dancing is all nonverbal communication, so roll with it.	/r/seduction	12/02/16 06:15 AM
2	A lot of seduction seems to revolve around having an abundant mentality and approaching a lot of women, anyone prefer a more 'targeted' approach? Sorry to dodge your question, but I don't think there is a mathematical formula for it beyond what makes you feel better about your ability to fulfill your desires. I prefer your method, I just haven't been able to see it framed in this way. I guess this is what I've been doing for the rough part, having sex with women I find okay (5/6) isnt really appealing to me, so I usually bypass a majority of women and only go for ones who I deem of 'high quality' (in terms of looks, attitude, even job/sch…	/r/seduction	08/02/16 10:20 PM
2	A lot of seduction seems to revolve around having an abundant mentality and approaching a lot of women, anyone prefer a more 'targeted' approach? This is a good post, I guess I'm having a misunderstanding of what abundance is, the way I've seen it framed in this sub is usually in regards to math: Let's say I sleep with 10% of the women I approach. If I approach 10 women in a year that's one woman per year. If I approach 100 that's 10 women a year. How would you define it?	/r/seduction	08/02/16 10:05 PM
6	FR: A weird weekend branchswing I'm unfamiliar with this term, could you elaborate?	/r/seduction	08/02/16 06:33 PM
1	I suggested picking her up, she suggested that it's not necessary and it would be possible to meet somewhere halfway - what to answer? You're doing too much bruh. Just meet her halfway.	/r/seduction	27/11/15 07:55 PM
2	I've realized I have almost nothing to talk about when approaching people Learn to be more observant. Last Saturday I pulled a girl by commenting on the basketball jersey was wearing, I'm a huge sports nerd so I was able to talk about basketball for a bit and bridge that into the start of my game. Another time a girl was wearing a really large and extravagant necklace so I commented on that. Look around your environment and use that as your open.	/r/seduction	24/11/15 10:11 PM
17	My Grooming Routine Good routine but I would advise against shaving ass hair, especially in the crack. Maybe trim if its so bad.	/r/seduction	22/11/15 08:59 PM
3	Took the plunge and approached.. what did i do wrong? He's right though you did everything wrong. The time, location, your line about her facial appearance, the fact that you noticed her behind you and slowed down, this is a literal 0/10.	/r/seduction	21/11/15 08:12 PM
12	Went on a tinder date last night, had a great time, she tells me she didn't feel a "romantic connection." How do you create a romantic connection? There are plenty of threads in this subreddit which can help you, insted of re-iterating what other people have descibed better than I could, I will give you some keywords to search for. kino eye contact sexual tension (specifically how to generate sexual tension) If you can incorporate these things in your date and she still doesn't feel a romantic connection you may just need to move on.	/r/seduction	20/11/15 09:36 PM
0	German guys numberclose girls looking like plumbers. I am surprised that the girls didn't care at all Last time these guys were posted there were a lot of comments about how they were attractive, but these guys are just GOOD. Charming, funny, able to tease in a way that doesn't seem like negging (which I personally associate with teasing badly). Also really clever approaches, obviously it's tailor made for the video and the clothes they are wearing but regardless, very good. Take note ya'll.	/r/seduction	21/10/15 09:34 PM
11	Those of you who constantly have girlfriends, what do you do? OP is the type of dude who is gonna marry a virgin and then drop her because she's bad in bed.	/r/seduction	20/10/15 11:05 PM
6	Openers "I just noticed you from across the room and I would've been kicking myself all day if I didn't come over and say hi. so hi" This, or some sort of variation of this is my standard. Anything else seems really cheesy IMO.	/r/seduction	20/10/15 07:46 PM
4	How to respond to 'Why would I want to meet up with you'? Absolutely savage. I'd take the L and move on.	/r/seduction	20/10/15 04:08 AM
2	Girl and I like each other at Uni, and she says she just wants a "casual" relationship It means she wants to chill and fuck. Don't fuck this up OP. Play it smooth, get her to your dorm for Netflix & chill.	/r/seduction	15/10/15 01:50 AM
5	[Advice] How to step up a date? Coz we are losing the text flow between us Ask her to meet you for drinks at a bar and take it from there.	/r/seduction	07/10/15 04:57 PM
13	What do you guys do to be heard in loud clubs? I do club game a lot, honestly it's like 80% of my game. The other 20% also revolves around night game. So I feel like I have some inshight here. Basically you're trying to get the girl either on the floor to dance with you or off the floor so you can isolate. So if you meet a girl at the bar and can generate a spark within 3-5 minutes you must ask her to dance so you can escalate quickly. The opposite is also true, if you and a girl catch eyes on the dance floor you should dance with her for a …	/r/seduction	14/09/15 11:11 PM
3	I ran some experiments.. Has anybody noticed College girls not very interested in dating? This doesn't include only college girls. A lot of younger women don't want to date, they want to mess around just as much as we do, as time goes on you will get get better at identifying which girls to use the d word with and which girls just want to 'chill'.	/r/seduction	14/09/15 04:33 AM
2	What are some hobbies you guys have? Boxing, rock climbing, have done more hiking in the past 6 months than any time previously. Also weightlifting.	/r/seduction	09/09/15 09:30 PM
2	Different ways guys have initiated the first kiss with me. Good shit. We need your thoughts on texting now haha.	/r/seduction	03/09/15 07:10 PM
2	I swear I am the worst for being oblivious to signs that a girls interested, how can I change that? Be attentive, the girl in your post showed her intentions clearly by kissing you and cuddling, but obviously this will not always be the case, see how she's reacting to your words, weather she shows any IOIs, pay attention to her speech to see if she let's any thing slip that shows she might be interested. Be aggressive, women like sex as much as we do, once you've followed #1 to the point where you can see multiple 'signs' that she's interested, shoot your shot. If she rebukes your advances you…	/r/seduction	01/09/15 10:59 PM
11	To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid. I've been doing this recently and really need to chill. I've taken two shots of vodka at my place before heading out for the night, sometimes it's worked well but other times I've just gotten too drunk.	/r/seduction	06/03/15 07:32 PM
1	She drives me crazy. Assume attraction. Escalate. If she likes you she will respond appropriately.	/r/seduction	20/02/15 04:28 AM
1	Embracing the Friendzone? She didn't really say she wasn't looking for anything serious, my bad for not being clear. She said she just got out of a serious relationship and didn't realize how much it was affecting her.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 10:27 PM
2	This may make me sound like a douche but... How do I incorporate my guitar playing into my game? Is it electric/bass? If so, Learn the chords to The Morning, and get your scuba suit ready.	/r/seduction	19/02/15 01:02 AM
3	Text game: I get bored too quickly Stop having conversations via text, use them only to set things up.	/r/seduction	09/02/15 11:19 PM
2	Is a kiss after the second date always a good sign? I just went on a second date that ended with two long make out sessions, a day later she texted me that she was still recovering from her previous relationships and wanted to be friends, in which I replied no. So I guess the answer is, not always?	/r/seduction	09/02/15 07:46 PM
3	Stoic guy tells girlfriend she isn't 'his', and that if she cheats he wouldn't get overly emotional about it. Her brain has total meltdown. Reason: He indirectly (and without knowing) played a very powerful dread game card. Analysis inside. Is it just me or do archive today links never work?	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/15 06:28 PM
1	Those who opted out of social media, how's it going for you? How has it changed your dating/social life? I'm 23, so Facebook, Myspace, etc. were big in high school. I never opted into social media, from an early onset I saw that aside from seeing what people you couldnt see face to face often were up to it had little value. I have an Instagram that I rarely use and a Twitter account for lurking interesting people. I don't think having a Facebook would have enhanced my dating or social life in anyway.	/r/seduction	06/01/15 06:23 PM
4	Do you have a seduction playlist? What's on it? The Weeknd, Frank Ocean, Miguel, some Drake.	/r/seduction	06/01/15 05:10 AM
-5	PSA 2: Do not post shit about hitting women. EVER. One and only warning. No more. We aren't "thuggish niggas", and we aren't interested in that shit.> But we're racists now, much better. The content of this post is practically made irrelevant by this comment, say less.	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/14 12:09 AM
49	[FR] Girl from tinder Hemingway was known for having a very direct writing style, no hyperbole or extra details, very reminiscent of OP.	/r/seduction	05/11/14 04:42 PM
94	[FR] Girl from tinder If Hemingway wrote an FR this is what it would be.	/r/seduction	05/11/14 04:03 PM
0	How to explain keeping women's products at home? Your sister just came back from visiting and must've left it.	/r/seduction	03/12/13 02:23 AM
1	What are your goals for self improvement this summer? Leaning over a billards table with a big belly might "tip the scale" in his favor, he's probably been banned from billards at his local joint.	/r/seduction	16/05/13 02:33 PM
1	What are some cool things that you wear that catch the ladies eye? I had an orange "man bag" over the summer, well, not really a man bag but it was called a 'folio', it held documents and shit. Anyway, all the girls at my job commented on it and I got a few remarks about about it from women at some bars. It was way out there, not a lot of guys will want to walk around with an orange bag for the summer, but I liked it and am pretty comfortable with what I wear, so it worked out.	/r/seduction	10/04/13 05:29 AM