I'm not sure if I should classify this as an FR or not because I have some questions on how to move forward but the context of the question must be delivered so I guess a FR will do.

On Friday I went to a meetup to chill with some friends, I was hanging out for a while when a beautiful blonde came up to me and we chatted for a while, we seemed to hit it off really well, I kept the conversation pretty light and non-sexual as I really wasn't in the mood to run any game this weekend, but she was pretty flirty and we had a nice rapport going. She had been talking with a dude who seemed way below her league prior to chatting with me and I had noticed her because we were having our respective conversations right next to each other.

We shared a few drinks and chilled at this bar for a few hours, at times we would split and talk to other people but always found ourselves around each other, she was drinking a lot and actually mentioned many times about finding a place downtown to park her car, I told her my place has parking but she was worried that she would get a ticket in the morning if she left it overnight, at this point my mindset started to shift because that's a clear hint to me that she might be DTF.

I however didn't really push it because like I said, my libido was low or something, so we exchanged numbers and she said she would drive her car home and take an Uber to meet me and my friends later. Honestly I thought she would just go home so I didn't pay this much mind but I did let her know where we were going.

She eventually met up with us about an hour and a half later, she was dressed a bit different, I'm not sure if she changed clothes or just took off her jacket but anyway she was looking pretty sexy and I was glad she came out. We were hanging out in the bar for a while and she was talking to the dude who I mentioned earlier while I was chatting with a friend, eventually she came over to sit by me and thanked me for 'saving' her from the previous guy. At this point I'm pretty certain she likes me and if I play my cards right we'll spend the night together, once again I have to mention that I wasn't really in the mood to get laid that night, sleeping with random girls hasn't given me much fulfillment lately but this girl had a pretty nice attitude and was very sweet so at the least I wanted to hang out with her more.

We both mentioned that we wanted to go dancing so we broke off from the rest of the group and went to a local club, we danced for a bit, drunk a lot, and then took a cab to her place. At her place she's making me dinner while I play with her dog when she casually name drops her boyfriend (who apparently is always traveling as a pro athlete), at this point I'm a bit floored because she was pretty flirty and DTF, my nonchalant attitude towards the night combined with the fact that I've been questioning my morals lately in regard to relationships with people led me to drop the pursuit there, I was planning on making my move after we ate but instead switched it up to a friendly tone and then let myself out after a while.

Fast forward to Saturday and she asks me what I'm up to and invites me to join her friends at a bar, I was supposed to meet a friend at that exact bar and wanted to see her again so I came over, she seemed pretty happy to meet me and introduce me to her friends, so I hung our with her friends and my friends for a while going back and forth.

We ended up on the dance floor and were dancing pretty close, dancing is a pretty big part of my game so I escalated and she had some positive reactions to it. At this point I'm still hesitant because she has a boyfriend but I don't plan on sleeping with her so I guess it's all cool. I'm going to fast forward a bit because the club wasn't super interesting -- later on in the night we are getting ready to leave, I think I'm going to go home so I'm saying my goodbyes when I come across this girl again and she seems pretty sad, I ask what's up and apparently her guy friend got drunk and jealous that she was with me (and chatting up other dudes) and called her out on it. She invited me back to her place and I went, partly because I felt bad, partly because I wanted more free dinner, partly to console her I suppose. During our ride home she mentioned multiple times how she hates that some guys only see her sexually and not as a friend, this phrase kind of does the same thing as the boyfriend line before, it really disarms me. Anyway, we end up back at her place, eat dinner and chill for a bit, while she cooks dinner she actually calls her boyfriend and has a conversation with him, she mentions she misses him and they talk for about 5 minutes, so I guess he's real?

After dinner, she mentions that the dude who made her cry earlier is coming over, I guess to reconcile or something. I found it kind of weird, plus I was tired and it would be awkward for us to be in the same space together, so I left before he came over and called it a night.

Sunday morning she texts me back and forth a bit and asks what I'm up to, I'm at a super bowl party and she is also at a SB party with the guy from Saturday who made her cry, I guess they are cool again. She invited me over to her place again for dinner last night but I declined, mostly because she's confusing me now and I want to get my mind right.

We didn't see each other Sunday but she did invite me out to a Valentine's event that she was interested in going to, now I gotta admit this girl is confusing with the different signs, I probably would've declined anyway but I'll be out of state this weekend anyway so I couldn't come over. When she invited me to this event she prefaced her text with: "I know we are not a couple but this seems cool".

To wrap things up, I'm pretty confused right now. She claims she has a boyfriend, also seems very interested in me and what not, but also may be interested in her friend, only the friend doesn't really threaten me in anyway, he's a pretty cool guy and all. But anyway, like I said I'm pretty confused, she's a very sweet girl, very beautiful and I would've definitely tried to have sex with her hadn't she mentioned her boyfriend on Friday night, and instead I've backed off, but now it seems she's hitting me with a full court press along with some other confusing signals and I don't know how to react, I won't lie and say I don't have feelings for her, but right now she seems like a lot of trouble to get involved with romantically, I don't feel like being a 'homewrecker' right now.

Feels like the safest course of action would be to friendzone her and see where it leads but I'm not sure, what do you guys think? Is she just using me for validation, should I disregard the boyfriend and pursue, should I leave her alone? What's the deal?

EDIT: I meant to make my title a bit more constructive but didn't realize that when you press 'save' on the big editor it really means 'post'. Oops.