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We get these posts once a month. Question for Men: Would you date a woman that makes more than you? Question for Men: Would you date a woman significantly older than you? Question for Men: Would you date a woman taller than you? Men, why are you intimidated by a woman that is strong and independent? I'm a single mother of two. Why are men so intimidated by me?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:09 PM
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Holy shit you are right why didn’t they think of that. You hear that incels? Do better!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:51 PM
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I’m agreeing with you. Sounds like you don’t respect men or value their contribution. Why not create a society with more women then? There would be much less rape, sexual assault and murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:43 PM
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So if you see that there are countries that are more likely to abort female babies, wouldn't it makes sense to advocate for more women to be born to even it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:30 PM
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It doesn't have to help every single person and nowhere in my post did I say every incel is guaranteed his own bang maid. I just said it would help improve the dating market. If you are in a small town with 500 people and you move to a city with 100,000 people, chances are you will date more people and more likely to find a partner that satisfies your criteria because you are exposed to more people mathematically. So I am making a generalization here that more women would improve the current mar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:29 PM
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What does that have to do with the previous comment or train of thought on this thread? Your so paranoid or bitter you are just airing out grievances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:22 PM
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If you think the majority of men are unattractive, undecent people, who don't care about equity and uncaring, then why not create a society with more women? That would be a good thing, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:20 PM
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They are sedated by porn, video games, drugs, and fast food.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:15 PM
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This is a hypothetical scenario from a random post on the internet. I think there's plenty of radical women in the "I hate all men/kill all men/I could never raise a boy" crowd that would gladly prefer a daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:14 PM
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Isn't it just supply and demand? Unless you are saying it's delusion or they have an inflated sense from dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:44 PM
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Prime dating is <35. A 1% difference looks small, but it is literally millions of people when you have a large population. EDIT: Damn look the studs must be killing it in the 100+ bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:42 PM
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That's because women have longer life expectancy and live longer. Prime dating age 18-30ish is what matters. After menopause, the drive for women to date is diminished.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:32 PM
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So you agree men have nothing to offer society or not valued anymore. Why not create a society with more women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:19 PM
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Ur living in a fantasy land or think you live in the Hand Maidens Tale. I'm talking about a small adjustment to birth rates. Cities like San Francisco and San Jose are majority male and men tend to struggle dating there. Cities like New York are majority female and women tend to struggle dating there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:15 PM
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Why do you think men complain about dating in San Francisco and San Jose (Man-Jose)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:09 PM
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That is true, but then I can help but agree with Redpillers who tout the 80/20 rule. (80% of women go after the top 20% of men.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:08 PM
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Doesn't that kinda align with Redpill? That women only go after the top 20% of men, so it doesn't matter how many men/women there are?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:01 PM
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Doesn't that kinda align with Redpill? That women only go after the top 20% of men, so it doesn't matter how many men/women there are?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 03:00 PM
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There is an equilibrium that is reached. Unless you are assuming 100 % of the "extra" women born would be voluntarily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:58 PM
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I said it would "help" the dating market which means a slight improvement. There was other stuff I would say but the reddit mods wouldn't let me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:53 PM
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I think a slightly female skewed society would be better. (And it probably was the case for a lot of societies due to wars.) I was agreeing that it is good (surprising) people would be optimistic and value the contributions of men to society because almost every week I'm seeing posts like "Why do we need men." on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:47 PM
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I agree with that. I'm surprised by the takes so far. I thought the more radical misandrists on this sub or the "all men are pedophiles" crowd would be dying to agree. I can see blackpilled incels who have given up also agreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:34 PM
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I didn't say selective abortions, but that is an option. Lots of women on this sub have been saying: "I hate all men." "Men are stupid, worthless, don't contribute anything" Men are: violent, gross, dangerous, disgusting, lazy, blah blah blah. If these women dislike men so much, why wouldn't they be proponent of a society with more women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:24 PM
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Evening out the gender ratios would help because of supply and demand. Not sure why you think were are going back to the 1950s, but my proposed solution is non-violent and doesn't take away anyone's rights; can you come up with a better counter argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:21 PM
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Can you think of a counterargument beside a personal attack on me for no reason? I'm offering a solution to the incel problem that would apply to society at large. I'm assuming you hate incels find them gross and are scared of them right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:17 PM
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Why do you assume my post is about forcing women to have children they don't want? You are projecting. And you spend so much of your time on r/ Inceltears, if you hate incels so much why not help solve the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:14 PM
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Are boys a better income source? Young men are living in the basement, unemployed, playing video games. Women are earning more every year, and I predict they will eventually outearn men. The government could sponsor and help pay for IVF. Having tons of lonely single men (incels) is actually very dangerous for society/the government as they could revolt or commit crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:12 PM
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Yes, it's been long established attractive women will give women who are clearly ugly/fat compliments because they are not perceived as competition, and it makes them look better if people think they are nicer/more kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 02:00 PM
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How can there be more single men than women? And how can the rate of single men be the highest it’s ever been if most men are successfully dating? Unless gulp a good portion of women are dating the same guys and getting cheated on or dating older guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:23 PM
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Wasn’t there a chart showing the percentage of men single/not having sex is the highest it’s ever been?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:17 PM
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A guy you were interested in called you boring and...? It's not a contest to be entertaining, we aren't all meant to be clowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:29 PM
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You are right being ugly is not a crime. But because of ego, how many people would admit or want to be ugly? No one, most people cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:26 PM
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Women already earn more <30 in metro areas and they still aren't happy or feel equal. Considering 60% of college students are women, it will only be another decade or so until women as a whole outearn men, and I promise you they will still not be happy and will still be complaining about inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 09:36 AM
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Where did she say that? She's been saying she is very thin. I'm thinking something doesn't add up if she is making bitter posts online, chances are she is failing at dating in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:35 AM
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You can pursue and go after who you find attractive. Why do you care what other think or find attactive? It doesn't affect you at all. They have done studies, women care as much if not more about looks as men do. Men just vocalize it more. But as I said before. Why does it matter which gender cares more about looks or who is held to higher standard in terms of looks? Most people in the US are fat/ugly that's just the reality. Individuals are making their own choices for who they want to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:34 AM
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I'm 30 and very fit because I do bodybuilding. It's very fatphobic and anti-body positivity of you to assume that. If you feel like men have to be held to a higher standard, and you are attractive and can choose whoever you want, why not just do it? What is stopping you from getting the guy you want? You are only posting online because you are bitter or failing at some aspect in dating. So chances are, you are not as attractive as you think or overweight yourself. Otherwise, you wouldn't be post…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:24 AM
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Men have always been judged by looks its not something new. Its just women have a little bit more choice now due to outearning men. I just don't get what is there to complain about. if you are picky and can choose who you want just do it? Why post online gloating or celebrating unless you yourself (OP) is ugly or fat themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:22 AM
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More men already go to the gym than women and the percentagewise less men than women are actually obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:17 AM
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It's my assumption when you are making such a bitter and vitriolic post. Attractive 19 years olds are not on Reddit booboo. They are outside with friends, at parties, dating cute guys. You are probably not as thin or attractive as you think you are. Or you spend waaayyy to much time on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:16 AM
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??? you think walking up the stairs is hard? A lot of overweight people can do that already. How are you struggling at dating when you are only 19. Are you ugly or just terminally online? Come debate me in chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:12 AM
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Chances are OP is 40s and overweight so considers herself average but upset she can't get the quality man she perceives is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:04 AM
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Dating and romance is for people in their 20s and 30s. If you are 40 and an overweight woman, sorry but your time has passed. You had literally two decades to date you who want and wasted your time. Stop blaming men or the "patriarchy"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 02:00 AM
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Uh yeah that's common sense what? Men can't decide what women find attractive and women can't decide what men find attractive. You choose who you want to date; that's called sexual selection. My counter argument to your post is that it's not like women have leveled up in looks. Most people are average (mathematically speaking). Your post comes off as bitter like "who hurt you" revenge fantasy/gloating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:57 AM
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Men and women are different and thus judged different and held to different standards. They also value and prioritize different things in a partner and thus logically will never be held to the same standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:47 AM
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What is the standard that people are being held to and meeting? 80% of Americans are overweight. Most people from both genders are ugly so it's actually equivalent in terms of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 01:36 AM
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That’s just quiting. You couldn’t find the partner you wanted to commit to so you just decided to give up. It’s not an accomplishment to brag about is what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:49 AM
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Everyone is already doing that. You are allowed to take a shit and not have it be for a man right? it’s not an accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 07:35 AM
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I didn't word it well. That part was more directed at Redpillers who fantasize about gym and money maxxing in their 40s-50s to give them a chance with a chick in her 20s outside of sugar baby arrangement. There are healthy people taking a break and people using it as an excuse. Let me give you an example. What's the difference between someone who worked 10 years at a stressful job and takes a gap year versus a unemployed stoner who has never worked a job before because he is "finding himself"? (…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:39 AM
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Yes, I'm saying it's a little bit of a cope for the redpillers who fantasize about gym and money maxxing in their 40s-50s to give them a chance with a chick in her 20s outside of sugar baby arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:36 AM
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If the quality of men that you are able to attract is so low quality that they are all abusive then something is wrong with you. The hard truth to accept is that they are low quality women only capable of attracting low quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:33 AM
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Health, money, time. Pick two because you probably can’t get all three. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:55 PM
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A woman can have a baby whenever she wants. (The standard of living that child will get is another story 🤷‍♂️) Universities are a business and their goal is to make money. They will gladly accept you as a student after you’ve had a baby. And there is no shortage of corporations looking to exploit you and force you to earn them money. Assuming you are retiring at 65, you have plenty of years to work for them and are not missing out. The amount of time you have (fertility) and the health of your f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:45 PM
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That’s voluntary. I’m saying incels that have no options aren’t doing it voluntarily and some are even faking it or cope by thinking they are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:36 PM
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Yes that’s technically a cope. They literally had to leave the country. But I have nothing against them. The only thing annoying is incels/femcels/bitter people whining or spreading mysogyny/misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:57 PM
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Exactly it’s like being someone pretending to be vegan or LGBT
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:50 PM
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People are pursuing (#1), and then when they fail, saying they weren't trying (sour grapes) But I'm more annoyed by people doing #3, but pretending to be #2. (Incels/femcels complaining about the dating market but then say there were working on themselves if they get any criticism.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:46 PM
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I'm saying people are not legitimately working on themselves. It's incels/femcels joining the movements as echo chambers to cope, but secretly they still want validation from the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:38 PM
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I understand women can be frustrated with dating. If they feel the need to decenter men: 1. You are what you attract. (If you are attracting low quality men, you are probably a low quality woman.) 2. Assortative mating. (People date within their social class and income level.) I don't have a problem with people saying they need a break. But it gets annoying when they blame men for their problems and thinking "decentering" men will solve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:33 PM
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Isn't that just...giving up? What's the difference between: 1. "well ackshually I'm monk mode" versus 2. "OK I'm ugly I give up" I'm saying people are claiming #1, as a cope when in reality their situation is #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:27 PM
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Nothing wrong with just saying "oh I was too busy to date". You don't have to dramatize it and say you are going monk mode. I'm not talking about legitimate cases, but the fakes. More and more I'm seeing people who just use these movements as a cope or defense mechanism because they live in denial for how their own behaviors are causing them to fail in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:22 PM
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There are people who cling to these movements and live in denial as a cope. Let me give you an example. Friend: I'm struggling with dating. You: I suggest losing weight and improving your diet. Friend: UH WHY DO YOU ASSUME EVERYTHING I DO IS FOR MEN? I've decentered men and I'm doing it for myself. People use these movements as a defense mechanism for their own failure. They live in denial, as in they secretly still want the validation of a partner but have to declare they aren't looking for one…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:20 PM
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That is probably true. But I'm saying at a certain age, let's say 60, you can't or shouldn't have to MGTOW. You are so old you are out of the dating market realistically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:13 PM
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Nothing wrong with taking a break. It just comes off as sour grapes when a woman says "well I didn't want them anyway and actually I'm focused on myself right now" or a revenge fantasy from the men's side "I'm going to become successful and make tons of money and get tons of bitches"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:12 PM
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This is common sense, but men are not the ones deciding when a baby is born.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 03:02 PM
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There are women who do this already. They are referred to as "hoes". What would I do? Fuck them and move on. Is this is a trick question?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:00 PM
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Men like hot women is this controversial now? Also, I would bet all the money I have she is a freak in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 12:38 PM
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Ahhh that make sense and explains all the high age-gap lesbian relationships we see!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:31 AM
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Uhhh they are doing it for themselves because they have decentered men from their lives!! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:31 AM
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Is this just effortless rage bait now? Knowing what you want doesn't make you more attractive. I knew what I wanted to eat for lunch today and it didn't make me more attractive. The easiest way to prove that older women are less attractive is to look at how much more younger women are tipped, how much more they get paid in jobs like modeling/acting/fashion, and just how much attention they get from random strangers. You can even make two Tinder accounts. One of an 18 year old and one of an 80 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:26 AM
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Glocktavious again???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:23 AM
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Yes, usually just busy with work. Other times maybe if I was really sick. And right after sex (post nut clarity) and the day after.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:54 AM
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At home playing video games duh? Or on Reddit doomscrolling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:10 AM
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80% is literally almost everything you asked for. Me personally, find it hard to even find a woman with 1/3 of what I'm looking for. Most have no options at all, and their standards are literally "not fat and kind". Unfortunately, 80% of Americans are overweight so that is actually a rarity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:05 AM
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Absolutely takes things like money and free time to make healthy meals and do pilates. Being a higher caliber woman will naturally net you a higher caliber man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:22 PM
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Glocktavious?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:19 PM
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You get your foot in the door with looks. Then you establish an emotional connection based on “feelings” This is often called a relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:40 PM
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My post is advocating people be healthy as one of the benefits is being attractive. (This is rather innocuous and milk toast opinion.) That being said, I can't force someone to be healthy and lose weight. Majority of Americans are overweight (and by extension the people on this sub and reading this) and might be insulted by reading my post. But who am I to tell someone to lose weight and be healthy? I can't force them. If you don't care then you don't have to care. I'm not and can't force anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:35 PM
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Not caring about something is not an accomplishment. If you don't care then you don't care. I said women can remain attractive into their 40s--to emphasize the benefits of focusing on your health and to extend an olive branch to bluepillers who have to constantly hear that women hit the wall at 30 and lose all their value. I wasn't arguing that women have to do it or should do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:15 PM
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This is literally what my post is about. They are thin and have nice skin. The average person is fat and the chart is based on a sample of the average population.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 07:02 PM
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Lot of factors here. Being in a college (town) setting most men will be your age. Being in a group makes men less likely to approach and most men these days won't even approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:57 PM
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80% of Americans are overweight and this is by the medical definition by BMI. (so over 25). Just being a healthy weight (or normal BMI) would make you look thinner than most people. My post is basically a PSA: being healthy and normal weight will make you more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:54 PM
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Women usually stop caring once they exit their fertility window (menopause). But with obesity, alcohol, and drug use people actually have prety bad hormone levels these days. If you don't care then it doesn't affect you. If you have to say you don't care, it almost seems like sour grapes. Example: Btw I don't care at all about attracting women in their 60s because I don't find them attractive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:52 PM
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I think it's mainly name calling & shaming by older women who are bitter. I don't think they mean it literally. And the word pedophile is overused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:45 PM
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Everything you do in life is technically "for yourself". I think people need to be motivated and see a reward. Long-term gratification is not a good motivator and not enough for people to change their behavior in the short term. If "doing it for themselves" was good motivator, no one would be obese and there would be no alcoholics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:42 PM
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This is the "I'm doing it for myself" argument. If it was true, then every obese person would just decide to "do it for themselves" for their health and lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:02 PM
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Humans are animals and animals want to have sex. Wanting to have sex does not make you evil and it is a biological drive. Do you have a pet male dog? He wants to have sex. Should he not be allowed to have food and shelter? The male penguin swimming in the ocean? He wants to have sex. The bird chirping on the tree? He wants to have sex. Your cousin or nephew that is 4 years old and dry humping the couch? He wants to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:11 PM
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What do you think about: Women only want money, resources and fame, something most women should never have nor deserve. Also, aren't your brothers, fathers, sons also men? Should they not be allowed to have bank accounts, jobs, or an education?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:03 PM
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Nope, windmill flowers hasn't posted in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 05:45 AM
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Red pill men and women are different because men and women have to use different strategies in dating. But in general, red pill generally leans toward more conservative views and values. Personally, I would say employing any "strategy" in dating is red pill, basically being aware of your actions and thinking long-term. You might already be doing it without being aware of it. Some examples would be: 1. If you dress a certain way you will attract a certain type of man or people will assume things …
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/25 09:15 AM
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If it’s so easy why isn’t every man doing it? Sounds like the red pills dream. Why haven’t the incels caught on and start doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 11:44 AM
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No, everyone on this sub would say it would be inappropriate because she is a minor and was groomed by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:28 AM
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Why did Prscilla choose him when she had tons of options her age?? Could it be because Elvis was famous, successful, and going to be rich? Nah he probably groomed and manipulated her. /this thread basically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 09:14 AM
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Are you sleeping with every homeless man in your DMs? No, and you probably block or delete their messages. Women have plenty of options when it comes to men their age. Why are they choosing to pursue older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 08:50 AM
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It’s either poor men helpless to the manipulation of you sirens and succubi. Or the young naive women who cannot resist the allure of older tall, rich successful and famous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:25 AM
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🧟homeless men catcalling young women like “mmm come here you look naive and easy to manipulate” Meanwhile the 6ft+ rich successful NBA player who sleeps with 1000 women a year. “Why do all these young naive women want to have sex with me?”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:22 AM
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I take it back. I think OP is just (closeted) gay and projecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:29 AM
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Why does OP's post scream of mental illness or too much time on Tumblr looking at tranny porn? EDIT: I take it back I think OP just discovered he is gay and projecting on us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 05:24 AM
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Why do you assume it's the man intentionally pursuing younger women and not the other way around? Most men take what they can get. Let's say there was an 21M dating a 30F who was abusing him. But the 21M had over 100 matches on Tinder with Victoria Secret models who wanted to have sex with him. Do you think the man would choose to stay in the relationship with the 30F or leave?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:24 AM
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You sound mentally ill. I don't claim you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:19 AM
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Sorry I'm trying to follow along. You asked a lot of questions. There can be predatory adults who do that, but I don't think most age-gap relationships fall under that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:10 AM
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Men don't have options so have to take what they can get. Men don't think that hard and age doesn't matter to them. Men prefer women that are thin and attractive; age is corelated to that. But I know that I would rather date a fit 40-year-old than an obese 18-year-old.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:58 AM
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Why/how do you think age-gap relationships exist at all? Older men are usually fatter, older, and balding. Why would a younger woman choose an older man when she has plenty of options with guys her age?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:53 AM
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Why do you think age-gap relationships exist at all? Older men are usually fatter, older, and balding. Why would a younger woman choose an older man when she has plenty of options with guys her age?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:51 AM
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The 35M is not pursuing her at all and even turned her down multiple times. The 21F is pursuing him even with 100+ matches on Tinder with guys her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:46 AM
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That's not the same situation. Age gap relationships are voluntary. The women can leave anytime because they have 100+ matches on Tinder already in my example. I'm asking why women chose to be in age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:42 AM
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Uhhh ew. The women on the sub say it all the time: older men are ugly, fat, and balding. Why would they go out with older men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:40 AM
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Try asking the question in reverse. Why would an 18F want to date a 30M? She has 100+ matches on Tinder with guys her own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:25 AM
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Title has to be edgy to get engagement. I only made this post because we get an "Age Gaps are Icky" post once a week and it's tiring as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:05 AM
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Both sides have a role, but there's more agency on the woman Let's say you have a friend. Her big age gap boyfriend cheats on her for the 5th time. And she decides to forgive him and get back together with him for the 5th time. She has multiple guys her age asking her out but she refuses. IIs it on her or the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 03:03 AM
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Post is meant to a debate. Obviously there can be nuance and exceptions. What do you think about a hypothetical situation. A 18F is romantically pursuing a 30M and asking him out on dates. Simultaneously, she has 100+ matches on Tinder with equally attractive guys all 18M. Isn't she making a choice to pursue the 30M?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:59 AM
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What do you think about younger women who "prefer" older men and pursue them. Could be daddy issues or kink related. Why are they always seen as damsels in distress? Or women who pursue celebrities. The women who go after Leonardo DiCaprio or NBA players. They aren't being tricked or manipulated. They are making their own decision to do that. They can download Tinder and get 100+ matches with guys their age on the first day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:52 AM
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What about 26F and 80M. The 26F is pursuing the 80M and asking him out on dates. But most people assume the 80M is a pedophile who is manipulating and grooming her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:45 AM
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There are other factors there, but yes partially true. You can get over 100 matches on your first day on Tinder. You have endless options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:43 AM
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This sub gets an age gap post once a week???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:41 AM
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Good analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:38 AM
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Both sides dislike accountability. But accountability falls more on the side with more power and control of the situation. Women are the sexual selectors. Can a homeless man choose to sleep with Kylie Jenner? --The answer is obviously no. Kyle Jenner has to choose and consent to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:35 AM
0

What about a 40-year-old woman dating a 80-year-old man?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:32 AM
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My point is why do people always assume the man is grooming/a pedophile when there is a large age gap relationship like the woman isn't making a choice. There is a complete lack of accountability from the woman's side every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:30 AM
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25-21 was the most milk-toast harmless example I could think of and just an example. Barring, someone underaged and grooming, could you engage with the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:28 AM
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Please address my argument. An ugly/old 35 year old man can't just walk up to an attractive 21 year old and be in a relationship with her. The 21 year old has to choose him and want to date him. If she is making the choice to date him, isn't it on her? Why does the man get all the blame and the woman has no agency or accountability?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 02:21 AM
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Women don't need a dating coach. They are getting plenty of attention and options just going outside day to day. If they need to supplement, they will use dating apps and get their pick of the litter. If a man talks back to her or gives her an ick, his replacement is on the way in the next 30 minutes. Why would she need a dating coach?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:00 AM
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Absolutely nothing wrong with it and happy for them. Looks like real feminism and empowerment in 2025 instead of victim mentality and blame games.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:07 PM
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It's all about EQ. I'm basically saying a lot of women are not as high EQ as you think: 1. Is absurd logic and overthinking that men would be so manipulative that they would withhold compliments maliciously. 2. Realizing people communicate differently takes maturity. It's solipsistic to expect everyone to understand you and women expect men to do "mindreading" sometimes. 3. This one is just straight up entitlement, dehumanizing and objectifying men as money objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 08:54 PM
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Men and women communicate differently. Women use "hints". Have you seen some of the things women post on PPD? If women have higher EQ, what do you think about these posts? Do men maliciously withold compliments to spite women when in public? Do men pretend to not notice hints? (he didn't get me flowers post) If a man doesn't give a woman money, what value does he bring to the relationship? (yes, written by a sex worker)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:56 AM
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Single/Married/Parental status doesn't matter its: Attractive Women Ugly Women Attractive Men Ugly Men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 03:18 AM
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Do you think OP might be slightly biased? If she is a sex worker in her 40/50s and her looks are fading, and she is seeing first-hand how men are treating her worse as she gets older? Do you think OP's decisions in life has impacted her views? If she chose to be a sex worker for easy money and she attracts literally the lowest quality men in society that don't respect her at all? Do you think OP is completely innocent though? Do you think she's never taken advantage of lonely men and exploited t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:38 AM
2

Isn't that just common sense? Does anyone need a four-year degree to learn that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 10:29 AM
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Stop being mean to me and projecting gender roles onto me please 👉👈🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:50 AM
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It’s okay when they do it but when I do it… 💅meme
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:46 AM
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WTF are the mods doing when this sub gets weekly shit posts by either 18/19 year old college students (who are likely virgins with no dating experience) making posts like "Men are actually fatphobic for not wanting to date BBWs" Or just straight up hateful shit by this 40+ year old sex worker divorcees like "All men need to be executed if they don't provide monetary value to women"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:43 AM
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Look, I get it. Pink pill is femcel. But it's like you think you are saying something profound, new or groundbreaking. "We don't like them so we don't care about their opinion!!" This is a room temp IQ take. Like a school shooter or terrorist could use the same argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:32 AM
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Exactly, it's good. But men don't give a shit if misandrist women reject them that would be a good outcome and serve the same purpose. It's not whining its good advice. Misandry serves no purpose for men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:27 AM
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Stop taking advice from OP when she is a known sex worker and divorcee. Literally re-read what you just wrote but replace it with women to hear how much it sounds like an incel whining. Women criticise every single thing a man does that doesn't centre or benefit them if you pay attention. Criticism from women is worthless. Reject these women. Reject all women that hold contempt, disrespect and disregard for men. It's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 09:04 AM
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*attractive tall misogynists. Not the short, broke, ugly ones. Fixed that for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 02:34 AM
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Yup, OP is basically a female incel ranting. It's bad when men do it but when women do it it's okay 🤷🤦🤦
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:08 PM
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If you are sex worker who only entertains men for money. Then shocker, the men you attract are going to be low quality and only want you for sex. And likewise, sex workers who value men only for money isn't shocking either. My point is, we need to stop taking advice from these people because most are mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 12:44 AM
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Talking about OP. She posts once a week ranting about men when she is a known sex worker/bitter divorcee.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:29 PM
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Or maybe we could just not take advice from sex workers?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:19 PM
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Both are obese what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 10:36 AM
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Those are both good traits and perfectly fine to look for in a partner. I just cringe when I hear a Redpiller say "I want a submissive" women. It always makes me think about BDSM roleplay or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 04:13 AM
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Being kind means just that. I have never thought about or heard anyone outside of Redpillers talk about women needing to be subservient or submissive. Just seems weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:36 AM
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What about an 8 year old child dating a <1 year old embryo? They seem extremely mismatched in terms of physical growth, mental development and maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:27 AM
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Bro got groomed. Call da police.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:25 AM
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More accurate is: 1. Not fat 2. Kind/not bitchy It's not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 05:21 AM
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Patriarchy oppresses me but not for thee.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 04:00 AM
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Whores, even fat ones, are unfortunately a necessary evil and key to the apps sustainability and profitability. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 07:42 AM
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The equivalent would be a weight filter—oops we can’t do that. 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:33 AM
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It’s simple math. Only 15% of men are 6ft. So most won’t even be visible and won’t get any matches. On the woman’s side, they will be swiping through the same 15% of guys and won’t get any replies on messages because these guys are getting swamped. Bumble stock price has lost 90% of its stock value in the last five years. Sounds like a failing business to me 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:27 AM
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1 Men don’t care about height as much as women and Bumble already tried this. 90% of women set their height preference to 6ft+ and it killed the app. #weeklyWindmillflowerspost
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:17 AM
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is your partner overweight or obese? this could be a wake up call to take his health more seriously
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/25 10:29 PM
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I think OP assumes women don't love bomb?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:19 PM
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Let's not ruin it for this guy and tell her she can't get pregnant at 47 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:09 PM
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Never let a bitter woman in her 40s tell you what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:03 PM
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There are people in retirement homes fucking more than this. Heck, I know people cheating on their partner who fuck their side piece more often than you have sex. I think sex stopping is the number one predictor of a relationship failing so take that information how you will...
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 10:21 AM
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yaaaay they did it. Feminism won!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 10:08 AM
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Sorry but having sex once to twice a month seems very little and feels like you guys are doing the bare minimum. Why even be in a relationship? If you have low libido issues. This is probably related to health issues and you should look into that. Are you overweight or obese? On any medications?
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 06:22 AM
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The major PRO you got going for you is that you are fit and attractive so you have time. The major CON is doing sex-work in the past. I guess you could keep it a secret and bring it up later, but lots of guys will put you in the "No" bin just because it gives them the ick. Please add another CON--that you probably talk too much. So many items from your PRO list were irrelevant.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 06:15 AM
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OK this makes more sense. Your issues are: drugs, drugs, stress, more stress, obesity and hormone issues. Being over 300 can't be good for you and you are starting to experience health problems.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 05:52 AM
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Drink water. Are you dehydrated? Lots of people are consistently dehydrated and I noticed lots of Americans don't even like to drink water because they prefer the taste of soda so much. Are you on any medications?
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 05:49 AM
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It's not about the percentage. Women tend to go after the same guys...which means they are drowning in pussy and have tons of options so they don't want to commit. It sucks cus they are usually the most attractive guys, but you have to go after someone your own level.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:40 PM
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OP is one of the most miserable people on this sub. Older woman, 40s, overweight, sex worker, bitter from divorce. Posts a man-hating post multiple times a week. But ironically occasionally posts nudes and thirst traps for validation from the same men she hates. In some ways she thinks just like an incel. Like sweetie, no one is forcing you to be a sex worker. It's time to get off the sub and work on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:35 PM
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If you only pursue fuck boys, they are gonna...well be fuck boys. It has nothing to do with Peter Pan syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 07:30 PM
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The best part was you didn't engage with the ideas at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:33 PM
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Wage/income gap. Enrollment rates in college. Enrollment rates in medical school/law school. Women in tech Women in Congress/leadership positions. (Everything is about "equality" and "representation" but you will never see it for hiring men in nursing or equal pay for men in modeling)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:26 PM
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You will occasionally see it on social media. There was a woman that went viral on Tiktok for refusing to go on a date to the Cheesecake Factory. (Not good enough for her) Conservative/Redpill women are also more outspoken about their standards for men and can have high standards for education/income.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:43 AM
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This is the best answer I have read all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:28 AM
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I was being sarcastic and trying to make a point but cooked too hard. Everyone be like
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:28 AM
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I absolutely agree with you. What bothers men is entitlement and hypocrisy. Maybe Reddit attracts a niche group of women who are open to dating men that makes less than them? But what I see in real life is always: "No broke boyyssss" "No scrubs, I want a man that makes 6-figures" or "I have a master's degree. I'm an educated woman. I want a man on my level."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:27 AM
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That would solve the scarcity issue and fix a lot of problems but not the mindsets of men/women and how society treats them. Women are seen as victims that need help. Look at the gender wage gap we need to help women make more money. And if they do have the privilege of being wealthy, they still want to play victim, and the man needs to do everything in the relationship. When men fail, it's their fault. They weren't good enough or didn't try hard enough. They need to stop feeling entitled to wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:16 AM
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It's about having privileges (education, money, power) and agency. You are in control of your life, so you ask the man out that you are interested in. OR you want princess treatment, and the man needs to do it for you. So are you empowered or not? Or empowered when it benefits you, but not when its inconvenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:55 AM
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Logos1789 basically nailed it. When men fail at something (school, job, dating) they are told to man up and try harder. No one cares that boys are falling behind in school and dropping out of the work force. Women will look down on you. (No broke boys sorry) Women get more sympathy for every aspect of life. You poor thing, it's not your fault. Here are some resources that could help. Can't afford school? Here are women-only scholarships. Need more women in tech? Here's a hiring initiative only h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:52 AM
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I'm saying women hate the current state of society and are extremely unhappy. No matter how educated they are or how much money they make, no amount of empowerment is going to make them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:36 AM
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If education doesn't matter, then why do women try so hard to get an education and get into colleges? Why did they pass Title IX? Why do you act like women are just helpless and stupid. They can't help it but be groomed by the patriarchy. If women are voting against themselves then why advocate for women voting if yall are going to self-sabotage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:34 AM
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Abortion is one area. And most women do not ever have or need an abortion in their life. It's being scared of something that will never happen. A good portion of women in the US are actually too fat to conceive or carry a baby to term, but that's another story. The US is the best country in the world for women in terms of education, economic mobility, and political influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:31 AM
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The matriarchy is thriving
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 02:28 AM
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It's a satirical illustration of a feminist utopia. In a "is this what you want" kind of way. I just had fun with it, but it got a bit cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 01:16 AM
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The world is a bit of a zero-sum game. Colleges only have so many spots, jobs can only hire so many people, and there are only so many affordable homes in an area. Women succeeding in these areas unfortunately pushes men out. Women are allowed to have preferences, it's just the hypocrisy that rubs me wrong. The fan fic was a bit of a shit post. I put that in there for fun just to illustrate a ridiculous example lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:56 PM
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It's a made up scenario where the gender roles are reversed to the extreme to show the difference between equality and superiority. (Little bit of a shit post tho lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:51 PM
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It's an extreme made up scenario where the roles are reversed to show the difference between equality and superiority. (I'm not gonna lie I had a giggle writing it tho)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:49 PM
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Fk there is so much to unpack and I'm not a therapist but here goes: 1. If you self sabotage and have self hatred you need to work through your trauma; you are not ready for a relationship. 2. You are 20. You have plenty of time to start over. 3. There's a lot of negative self-talk here (which does not benefit you at all) and you are manifesting a terrible outcome when you say you both clearly don't see a future together and he "deserves someone better". If you truly believe that then move on. 4…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 07:53 AM
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Location. Are you still in college or are you working? Are you in a rural or suburban environment? Proximity. Do you have hobbies that make you go out and create situations where you can meet new people? Are you spending time in a group setting around the same men you are interested? Looks. Do you take care of yourself and put effort into your appearance. Are you overweight? You do not need plastic surgery or cosmetic procedures. Natural is usually better. Personality. Do you seem like an approa…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 04:09 AM
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I didn't say anything about the worth of a person or whether or not they deserve love. Only that it is good general advice to "increase their dating prospects" (more people would be attracted to them or open to dating them.)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 09:18 PM
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Obviously, there is more to it. I am talking about a person's dating "prospects" which basically encompasses who is in their league which depends a lot on first impressions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 09:09 PM
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I don't think women are getting careers to "get" men. But it seems like very successful women feel entitled to higher quality men. In a "I went to a good college, own my own home, and have a successful career, why won't men commit to me?" sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 05:06 AM
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You are right. These pursuits should be independent of getting a mate and should not be the sole focus. But achieving these benchmarks allow you to reap rewards in the dating market. If we are results orientated, even though it is oversimplistic, we can give basic advice to a friend struggling with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:24 AM
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Obesity rates are lower for younger people, so you are right on that but only a couple percentage points. Which college did you go to where 90% of the student body was fit???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:08 AM
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Absolutely right that health is important. But holy shit is it rough out here for the guy working at McDonald's. Should he be taking night classes for college credit or going to the gym/meal prep with his spare time?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:03 AM
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You are right that compensating for looks with money is not a good strategy. I remember I saw a blackpill research paper on height. Basically, a man needs to earn an extra $30K/year to make up for an inch in height. So yeah...that's pretty rough. I think women still want someone on their level or higher, so you need to make at least what they make. So a man making more will unlock more options. (But yeah it won't help if he is really ugly lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:01 AM
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All of these are pretty true. I think I remember seeing a TED Talk that had a woman saying basically "I have a PHD and good career why am I single". (she was obese) I think it was taken down because I can't find it. But why are some women seemingly oblivious to this or in denial? And how do you explain overweight women on looksmaxxing, howtolooksmax asking how to improve?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:51 AM
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Yes, this is technically true. Redpillers are not incentivized to look for LTRs. But how is what I said bad general advice. General meaning it applies to most people and would work for Blue and Purple Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 03:49 AM
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"Incel" means "involuntarily celibate". The problem is the definition has changed and people use it for name calling and now "incel" just means "men bad" or "men I don't like" or "men that said mean stuff to me online that I disagree with". It's the same as "facist" or "nazi" people overuse these words and they lose meaning. I use the 18-year-old man as an example because a lot of these "incels" online are just immature young men who are still virgins. I don't think they are evil or violent but …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:39 AM
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People get radicalized and act hyperbolic online when they are behind anonymity. How many men in real life, either friends or family, (who are celibate) do you believe think this way? Do you think your little brother or son would think this way if they were a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:35 AM
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My argument is that they are two sides of the same coin. Making fun of one is making fun of the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:33 AM
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Yes, I am saying they are two sides of the same coin. Making fun of one is making fun of the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:32 AM
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Yes, any women can download Tinder and have a man over within the hour. The female equivalent would be a woman who can't get a man to commit to her. Or a woman who only has her eyes set on one man, but unrequited so she chooses to be celibate. (Are these women as much losers as the men who are incels?) My post is for women who look down on incels. And women who like to make fun of these people to get a feeling of superiority. Do you realize who you are making fun of? I do think some genuine femc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:39 AM
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Men tend to struggle early in life. Women struggle later in life when they are technically exiting the dating market. I'm just saying both are incels, but only men are looked down on. No one really cares if Susan from HR can't find a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:32 AM
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woaaahh pre-marital hand holding? That's moving really fast no?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/25 12:25 AM
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Red or blue, looks and first impressions matter. You can have the best personality in the world, but if you are obese it won't matter. That being said, you should focus on being healthy for yourself and not to please a man.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/25 12:06 AM
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Having a mature conversation and communicating your priorities or what you want is not scary by any means. Demanding it, feeling entitled, being passive/aggressive and "dropping hints" or issuing an ultimatum however is not the healthy way to go about it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/25 11:46 PM
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What about what I said makes you think I am angry or saying women shouldn't have standards? Why don't you address what I brought up? If you think men want to abuse women, do you think your male relatives think that way? If you want to criticize men, why not start with your relatives? You are in a relationship today, but posted in female dating strategy three years ago, so I'm guessing you were single back then. Doesn't that mean you used to be a femcel? And if you were, don't you think it's iron…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:32 PM
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You assume most men are malicious and want to take advantage of women. So as an example, I called you out for being a bitter single mother. How does it feel when someone else assumes the worst about you and projects their own thoughts onto you? You are the same as the incels you criticize and hate. If an 18 year old man can't get a date, he is an incel. If you are a single mom in her 40s who can't find a man, you are an incel. It's the same thing. But the man is criticized, the woman however is …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:50 PM
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"Men" includes your father, brother, little brother, sons, uncle, and cousins. Why do you think your relatives want to abuse and take advantage of women? And you post in female dating strategy--which focuses on exploiting and taking advantage of men as much as possible. You are likely a femcel--which means you are literally the same as the incels you look down on and hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 06:48 PM
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You need to go outside and touch grass. Are you a bitter single mom that just comes here to hate (blame) on men for no reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 10:22 AM
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So you think the majority of men want women to not hav standards so they can abuse them? (And not because men want human connection and relationships?) Will you go outside and touch grass??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:35 AM
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Everyone woman in a relationship is being abused by this logic and women without standards are by default getting abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 07:52 AM
1

OP suggested: Everyone be the best version of yourself and you will find people who like you. Unironically JuSt Be YoUrSeLf. Really groundbreaking discoveries made by Bluepillers every day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:33 PM
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OP got offended at the objectification of women because it insinuates women do not have any choice. And there would be an assessment that someone is more "valuable" than another person if they were more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:27 PM
1

OP never studied economics and got offended by the commodification of its participants. Basically, she felt like women were objectified. and took offense to the analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:24 PM
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The marketplace is an analogy and doesn't mean anything. It's meant to be a framework to explain how and why people make the decisions they do. Let's make up a scenario where you want to decide what to do on a Saturday. You are only free for two hours and you don't want to spend more than $50. -Friend A wants to watch a movie that costs $10 but it three hours long. -Friend B wants to go to a nice restaurant but the meal costs $60. -Friend C wants to go to the zoo and the entrance fee is $10. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 11:14 PM
0

I never said that? Those obviously do matter I just forgot to mention it. Why do you keep saying I said things I didn't? Do you want to know how it feels? Why did you marry a man if you think men see women as objects that they can just buy and the woman can't refuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:52 PM
0

Yes that is common sense and no one is saying that? You are fighting ghosts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:24 PM
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OP thinks there is an incel fantasy where men are mysognistic and go to the market to "buy" women. When it's an analogy from economics about how people independently make choices based on their circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:19 PM
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Fuck this must be why redpillers think bluepillers are stupid. Either that or you are just insanely dishonest.🤦🤦 I never said that? Please stop projecting on me. I agree with most of the stuff you said, but that is common sense like water is wet so I don't know what you are complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:13 PM
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I have a bachelor's in economics. There are already plenty of responses to your thread telling you that you are wrong. But it seems like you aren't interested in having a good faith conversation or learning something new. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:56 PM
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Why don't you look at the content of your post? Guessing you never studied economics?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:00 PM
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Those are definitely included I just wasn't thinking about them when I was responding. (Thinking from the male gaze) Please go outside and touch grass though if you think men see women as products they choose and buy at the store.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:21 PM
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A lot of men can't even get one woman. What do you think incels are? Chad on the other hand is having trouble choosing his favorite from his roster of fuck buddies. These are completely different people with two completely different experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:23 PM
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No..the marketplace concept does not mean people are literally products being bought. That would be slavery lol... People get and date other similar to their level or league. Their League depends on factors like how attractive they are, height, weight, money etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 05:02 AM
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If it's not clear OP is posting about her "friend" (she's posting about herself lol) and seems to be a bitter woman with a little bit of a revenge fantasy who rants on PPD
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 09:14 AM
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Men already know they are disposable and replaceable. OP sounds like your "friend" got rejected and were bitter about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:21 PM
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Wouldnt the female equivalent be weight? (Which yes you can change unlike height) but 80% of Americans are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 07:19 PM
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This is old. I suggest watching the interview of the woman who encountered a bear who almost killed her. Are you really a man or are you a trans man??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:45 PM
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I think she's a woman, but if I recall very young (18/19) so no life experience and a virgin. (Idk why anyone would debate anything about sex with a virgin)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:52 PM
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Who is forcing women to be fat or ugly? They can take a class on nutrition, hire a dietician, go to Planet Fitness for $10 a month, eat less fast food etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 11:38 PM
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Gooning and moderation is contradictory and like an oxymoron.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:24 AM
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What is it with Americans looking to be offended by every little thing they find? And then coming to a random message board on the internet of all places and expecting people to be polite and sensible? 😂😂 All they have to do is go outside and touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 12:53 AM
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You mean you are attracted to men who can fake being charming and financially abusive to you. *Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:22 AM
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It's always funny when Asian women complain about being fetishized but then when you ask them they will tell you the last five guys they hooked up with were white. Maybe it's a regret thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:48 AM
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😪fk me I guess for giving nutrition advice. What you eat impacts your hormones. If you eat fast food, junk food, and lots of soda every day, you are going to have hormone and fertility issues. But trying to convince Americans shit food is bad for them is like trying to convince someone the earth is flat. Junk food is all they know and it's what they crave because they don't know any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:18 AM
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That's what I meant. PCOS comes from too much insulin from too much sugar. (More likely to happen for obese people.) And thyroid issues are from lack of iodine due to lack of protein in the diet (also more prone to obese people of they eat mostly junk food and skip meals) IDK at what weight, but eventually there would be a point where doctors are just going to say someone is a high risk pregnancy. And of course lots of men are fat too and need to put in work. Their fertility just isn't affected …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:05 AM
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A lot of *American women are already infertile or too fat to conceive or carry a baby to term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:51 AM
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Ehh a significant portion of women already don't due to obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:43 AM
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🤣 look, if you have only lived in the US then you have no idea what a healthy weight woman is and you have no idea what you are talking about about. I can't convince an elephant it is actually a mouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:34 AM
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Most of these come from poor diet and being overweight. Why don't you take some classes on nutrition and hit the gym? Everyone can look at your profile pic and tell you are overweight. Like look, you lost a ton of weight, so you can have some sympathy but complaining on Reddit does nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:31 AM
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I'm not talking about anything from natural aging or pregnancy. (Yes your 100 year old grandma is allowed to have a few grey hair and wrinkles.) I'm criticizing the 300+ pound land whales that have all of these before they even turn 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:25 AM
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That is obviously natural and some of the things you mention occur naturally with aging. But can you really say diet and lifestyle don't play any part at all when the US is 80% overweight and 40%+ obese? Do you think a woman that is over 300 pounds before she turns 30 a "natural" woman? Yeah no, I don't care about feeder fetishists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:24 AM
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Sigh, OP used to be obese and lost a ton of weight. Her body still has some lingering signs of that (lose skin, cellulite, etc) and she is bitter that men treat her differently because of that. /End thread
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:18 AM
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To be fair almost no one would know these unless they studied nutrition a lot but: Excess body hair - hormonal imbalance from being overweight. Usually PCOS Saggy breasts - excess fat from being overweight Stretch marks - from rapid weight gain Wrinkles - stress, lack of fat in diet Pimples - poor diet and hygiene Gray hair - stress, vitamin/mineral deficiencies usually iodine Loose skin - from rapid weight gain Flat butt - this I think is natural I've never been into BBLs Cellulite - insulin/ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:15 AM
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To be fair almost no one lives a perfect life with a perfect diet in the modern day civilization but: Excess body hair - hormonal imbalance from being overweight Saggy breasts - excess fat from being overweight Stretch marks - from rapid weight gain Wrinkles - stress, lack of fat in diet Pimples - poor diet and hygiene Gray hair - stress, vitamin/mineral deficiencies Loose skin - from rapid weight gain Flat butt - this I think is natural I've never been into BBLs Cellulite - insulin/hormone issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:11 AM
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Almost all. You are what you eat. You are overweight I'm guessing??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:51 AM
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Some of these are not "natural" and come from poor diet, lifestyle, and obesity. Usually men just want someone that is healthy but that is asking for a lot these days apparently when 80% of Americans are overweight lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:44 AM
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So you are saying OP should break up and immediately block his current GF?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 01:52 AM
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I've seen women freak out over a 22M/18F age gap lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:51 AM
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How would you feel if you found out your Boyfriend had another secret YouTube/Tiktok where he was obsessed with Red pill/Manosphere/Andrew Tate? It's normal to feel conflicted.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:43 AM
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My point is lots of women like content making generalizations about incels or hating on shitty men, without realizing their little brother might be in the next room and can overhear the video. It's like a mask off moment because you assume these girls are nice, but then realize deep down they hate you. And for no reason besides the fact that you are a celibate man. And then you feel like a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:38 AM
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I've seen very nice girls literally say "All incels should be killed" because her little sister was r*ped while drunk at a club one night. And I'm like...these nerdy/shy virgin incels are not the ones going out to clubs every weekend to sexually assault women.😂😂 We are talking about two completely different groups of men. But yeah, basically a small subset of men/women who do bad things give a bad rap for the whole sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:35 AM
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Typically it's women who are very overweight or older women (35+) who lack options and don't get the best treatment from men. (A young attractive woman can get whoever they want already they would not be on FDS) And they use I guess unethical dating strategies to try and get the best man they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:37 AM
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Very important. As an international, it's mindblowing how fat the country is sometimes. Most Americans have "fat goggles" and can't see it because they are so used to it. This has been said on the sub before, but just being a normal healthy weight almost automatically puts you in the top 20% if you are a woman. (Excluding deformities or extreme birth defects or rare genetic conditions)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:26 AM
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I agree that the body positivity movement is not a big deal. It's literally just a cope for fat people. But obesity is very serious and damaging to people. And my God do Americans throw a hissy fit when they are told to eat less or lose some weight. It feels like you are asking them to kill their unborn child. But yeah I lurk on the /fatlogic sub a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:16 AM
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Who is at your house holding a gun to your head and forcing you to eat until you are overweight??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:14 AM
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People are literally dying. Obesity kills 10 million Americans a year. If you are fat or overweight yourself and you grew up in the US then it's understandable if you don't know any better, but at least admit it's not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:10 AM
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I like to ask people: If you were the CEO of McDonalds or Burger King, why in the world would you want Americans to be healthy and skinny? The company would make more profit if Americans were as fat as possible and ate as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:58 AM
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It IS a big deal (literally) when 80% of Americans are overweight and 40%+ are obese. Everyone can say they support body positivity but then secretly try to lose weight in private or take Ozempic. As they said in a South Park episode, "Body positivity is for poor people, rich people take Ozempic". If OP grew up in the US (which is my guess) then you have no idea what you are talking about. Come to Korea or Japan (2 and 4% obesity rate) the difference is night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:55 AM
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Your weight is a reflection of how you treat yourself. If you don't love yourself, how do you expect your partner to? 2nd, this is more of a US problem. 80% of Americans are overweight and half of those are obese. What do you think about Korea and Japan where the obesity rate is 2% and 4%? Are the people living their forcing themselves to be skinny because they think think they owe their partner something? What if they are single? How are the single people on Asia who don't have a partner skinni…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:44 PM
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Yeah but isn't that common sense? What needs to be debated here?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:54 AM
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So you are telling me men that want to have a lot of sex, are going to date lots of women and engage in casual sex with multiple partners?? Wow who would have thought. /S end of thread
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:51 AM
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What is it about "high value" people in general that feel the need to post on Reddit, 4chan, Tumblr to get validation from random strangers on the internet? Why not just go outside and be high value??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 07:24 AM
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LOL Have you seen how much overweight women are coddled online? Have you seen /femledatingstrategy? And how it tells 250+ pound women they are "queens" who need to "manifest a man with money" to spoil them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:27 AM
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Anti anxiety, anti psychosis, ADHD, bipolar, and anti depressants. These are all drugs with side effects they aren't magic Skittles. +You also smoked for many years depleting your vitamin C and vitamin B levels so its not surprising you have tons of mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:57 PM
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This but OP looks average and is likely overweight and has tons of mental health issues. What is her best move here? She's more insecure about her career choice than her mental health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:23 AM
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Your post history suggests tons of mental health issues and possibly heavy drug use to deal with these issues. Lots of mental health issues stem from diet so maybe you are not as healthy as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:17 AM
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I dont think it is impossible.. I think healthy women can have kids until they are 45. But do you think the average American woman is healthy? Nah majority are overweight. Half are obese and obesity rates only go up with age as people let themselves go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:14 AM
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38 is a geriatric pregnancy. Most women can't have kids at that age, and if they want to they need to go to a hospital and take tons of injections. If they are rich, maybe they can drop 100K on invitro. The average American woman tho? Susan or Dorothy from accounting? They have already let themselves go at 38 and probably too fat to conceive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:09 AM
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Are you fat or ugly? Nothing that you said in your post can fix your situation of you are one of those two.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:02 AM
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It's windmill flowers. She doesn't exactly do much research. Probably just a college student or teen
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:07 AM
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If women treat men differently than women you realize that would mean women are being sexist too? #weekly braindead windmill post
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:32 PM
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Weight. Just being thin almost automatically put you in the top 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:19 PM
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No one in the real world knows what the mannosphere is or cares about that. Try asking your parents or some random at McDonald's.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:21 AM
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Get off Twitter and go outside its different out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 01:03 AM
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Yes it is true. They had to stop doing gender-blind auditions because it resulted in only male candidates and they wanted more diversity. They don't do gender-blind auditions anymore so its not a surprise they are majority female now. That is not to say women don't necessarily bring other things to the table. I think they are more cooperative and can work better in large groups or can contribute to the group dynamic in other ways (positive moral and encouragement etc) so they technically are "be…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:22 PM
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Their sample size is 1 ☝🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:58 PM
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How can we have an open and honest discussion with bluepillers if they are this disconnected from reality? I now think my comment in response to OP was a waste of time. Lots of lefties don't even want to acknowledge physical (strength) differences in sports, how the f*ck are we suppose to acknowledge mental differences in temperment? 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:57 PM
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So IA (in LGBTQIA+) are just left out now? That doesn't seem very inclusive :( /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:15 PM
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OP said they are far left so I can't tell if they are joking or serious...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:01 PM
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WTF is LGBTQ2S+ ?? I only know LGBTQIA and can't keep up. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:24 PM
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As many have said, the bell curve distribution for IQ for men and women is different. But even if you do not believe in that, testosterone (which men have more of) can have a lot of beneficial effects on the brain that will give men the advantage over women when it comes to competing in many professions. Testosterone is known to: decrease pain and discomfort, & increase ambition, determination, motivation, competitiveness and focus. This gives men a huge leg up on women at the top. The New York …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 12:15 PM
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Lilith + Windmillflowers weekly posts 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:11 AM
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I think you are projecting your own life experiences and bitterness on others. Chances are you are not as attractive as you think you are. Passing or not, you are not a biological woman and won't look exactly like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:47 PM
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How much you want to bet OP is a virgin teenager?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:29 PM
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We need a new rule: Virgins can't make posts about sex because you shouldn't be allowed to post about things you know nothing about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:21 PM
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I never said anything about preferences or shaming. I just want to know why do so many women have a victim mentality when it comes to losing weight or being healthy? Why do people act like it so impossible like a short person growing taller? Who is forcing them to eat??
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:58 PM
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No, the point is you cannot grow taller (naturally) after reaching adulthood. But everyone is able to lose weight naturally, so it is literally a choice to be overweight that a person makes every day through their dietary choices. OP, I can see that you are an American so you likely don't know any better, but the average American is almost 200 pounds, and the CDC estimates one in three Americans are pre-diabetic. At what point do people realize it is a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:53 PM
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You are correct but the point of the post is no one cares about body shaming when its shaming men for their height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:20 PM
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80% of Americans are overweight or obese. This is not natural or normal at all. It's not just the men that would be happy if women lost weight, their parents, siblings, and friends would be as well if they overall became healthier as people. In the modern age there is no excuse to be fat. You can consult a nutritionist or dietician, hire a personal trainer and Planet Fitness is $10-15/month. You can Google what are healthy foods or ask ChatGPT to make you a meal plan with your favorite foods. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:13 PM
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Lmao no matter how "empowered" women become, they will never approach a man or make a first move. They are way too comfortable and lazy. And frankly, most attractive women are DROWNING in dick. They only need to go to a bar or club to get approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:48 PM
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Ok, but we literally get a man🙋‍♂️ or bear🐻 in the forrest post once a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:40 AM
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They don't want to understand 👈 Do you see the irony of you saying that about men when you have no intention of wanting to listen or understand the other side?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:39 AM
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Men and women are different and prioritize different things when looking for a partner but that's besides the point. Men like ass and titties🤷‍♂️, we don't hide it lie about it or pretend we don't to gaslight people. Women seem to struggle with understanding what they really want. Men definately know when they are doing something dumb. I've decided to not use condoms for many one night stands. I know what I am doing is risky and dumb. I'm not shocked or gasp surprised when I have to deal with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:22 AM
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Pussy is one hell of a drug and men are fiends 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:17 AM
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Absolutely nothing wrong with that, but it can seem hypocritical when these same women then complain there are not suitable men to date if they absolutely refuse to date men less educated than them or who make less than then. Any woman with a PHD making a million dollars a year is free to date the homeless man down the street, but do they want to? Hence we have a problem as there literally just aren't enough successful men to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:12 AM
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Since its not clear. Im not talking about literally needing a man for actual functional survival. Im talking about attitude and mindset. Men are way less likely to want to date someone that has a sense of entitlement and superiority. And feeling so "independent" that they see every man as disposable and never feel the need to compromise or put in any effort into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:01 AM
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Im not talking about literally needing a man for actual functional survival. Im talking about attitude and mindset. Men are way less likely to want to date someone that has a sense of entitlement and superiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:56 AM
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Just listen to what they say. They say it all the time. They are strong and independent, have their own careers, so what if they are 30 and still single? Why settle for an average man if he is less educated than you and makes less money than you? Women are no longer reliant on men for survival etc. 🥱🥱🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:21 AM
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You need to factor in that It's harder to get in a relationship with a feminist woman in the first place because most will think "They don't need no man" EDIT: Im not talking about literally needing a man for actual functional survival. Im talking about attitude and mindset. Men are way less likely to want to date someone that has a sense of entitlement and superiority. And feeling so "independent" that they see every man as disposable and never feel the need to compromise or put in any effort i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:18 AM
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It is exceedingly rare for a woman to have a "large masculine build" just because they have much less testosterone (a steroid) compared to men. 99% of the time they are just fat 🤷‍♂️ and yes obese people in general are treated worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:47 PM
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Being obese is not a big assumption. 80% of Americans are overweight so that is almost everyone. I post here because we have some of the most mentally ill and ill-informed people in the US making brain-dead misogynist posts that incite hatred and division.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:25 AM
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If identity is something you can just decide, then why do you assume I am a man? How do you know I don't identify as a woman? The reality is our hormones affect how we think and feel, but Americans have a shit diet, nutrition, deficient in every vitamin/mineral, 0 exercise, poor sleep, hormonal imbalances, on two different anti anxiety and anti depressants, morbidly obese with 10+ medical issues, and then they want to top it off by taking steroids? Nah, that's not a good idea and they should not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 05:04 AM
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Ma'am you are obese who is messaging you to do lewd acts? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:17 PM
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Who said anything about lying? I never bring up politics on a date and check my flair I'm purplepill so I can agree with parts of both sides. Why do you think politics matters so much for a one night stand I probably won't ever see again? 🤷‍♂️ Instead of being so judgemental why not focus on yourself? Seems a little hypocritical. You are probably one of those people that consider themselves "openkinded" and promote "diversity"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 12:35 PM
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What do you have against what two grown consenting adults are doing? You seem really judgemental too. Are we really slut shaming in 2024? Do you say the same to women that sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 04:58 AM
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Dick is an equal opportunity employer. It doesn't discriminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:06 PM
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Uhhh ahhctually I identify as a (trans) woman. ☝ /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 02:18 PM
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Rules for thee but not for me. Teehee!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:35 PM
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Having the ability to go on dates at all--to be able to complain about them is a privilege most men don't even have...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:36 PM
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OP isn't actually a man. OP is a 17 year old teenage girl with serious identity and mental health issues that thinks they are trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:32 PM
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Well, OP is a 17 year old teenage girl that struggles with identity issues, body image issues (I'm guessing they are overweight) mental health issues, and depression. To top it off they think they are trans and are taking steroids. 🤷‍♂️ This can't result in a good outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:26 PM
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OP isn't actually a man. Its a 17 year old teenage girl with mental health and identity issues that thinks they are trans...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:38 PM
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OP is 17 year old teenage girl with mental health issues that thinks they are trans 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:31 PM
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OP is 17 and ftm trans so not even a real man. So yes regarded lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:30 PM
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Ftm is not a real man...when did you become the spokes person for all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:22 PM
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Is this how women feel when men don't believe them when they claim to be SA'd? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:46 PM
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As a minority who has had police called on them by women making false police reports multiple times, I almost always try to avoid those types of women. It's just not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:28 PM
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I have a gay friend who basically goes to gay orgies whenever he feels like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 05:31 PM
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Honestly American men are not asking for much. Just don't be fat and be nice. Sadly those two qualities are not easy to find these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:29 PM
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What if hypothetically men and women worked together in a relationship as a team to achieve common goals and weren't in competition with one another? And what if corporations don't care about you and working for one is just a sacrifice of time with your family? In that case, men never really had it all because they always sacrificed time with their family to be a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:22 PM
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What if hypothetically men and women worked together in a relationship as a team to achieve common goals and weren't in competition with one another? And what if corporations don't care about you and working for one is just a sacrifice of time with your family? In that case, men never really had it all because they always sacrificed time with their family to be a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:22 PM
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Hey, like I said OP is likely a teenage girl that has never been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:24 PM
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So your post is basically: Women can have a career and family, so men need to do more housework... I mean okay? Why don't you (and women as a whole) focus on finding a man that does a larger share of the housework then? If you want a certain type of man, you are perfectly fine and able to go after said type of man. No one, not the patriarchy is forcing you to date an asshole who doesn't do any housework or is going to force you to be a stay at home mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:38 PM
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You worded your post like men are collectively as a whole keeping women down or oppressing them. So you have a power fantasy of succeeding to prove them wrong. But as you can see, many men such as myself are literally telling you it is possible to have a successful career and family. Just please stop blaming men for everything. Women who are childfree and happy aren't wasting their time posting on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:32 PM
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Unmarried women under 30 in metro areas are more educated and make more money than men now, so that is a given. As for having kids and starting a family, the biological reality is that it is more difficult after 35, so women should plan ahead and be smart about it. The women unable to have children are not being prevented/stopped by men, it's just biology due to age. A larger subset of women are unable to have children due to fertility issues associated with obesity (roughly half of Americans). …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:18 PM
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Women can definately have it all and most women do. (And "have it all" usually entails a marrying a man and having a family) But your post is literally written like femcel fantasy revenge novella. So OP is likely a teenage girl who has never been in a relationship and spends too much time online.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:06 PM
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There are edge cases, but it's a small fraction of women. And the women who have it all aren't spending their whole day on purplepilldebate posting revenge/success fantasy (love op). If you just go outside, you will see most women prefer to be in a long term relationship with a man that loves them and a family. It's really a small subset that are full corporate girl boss, eggs frozen, going through sperm donor records and then going on trips to France--jusy cus they are that rich and can.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 02:01 PM
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People say it all the time: money doesn't buy happiness. No one ever said anything about a kitchen sounds like you are VERY insecure if you are overanalyzing everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:55 PM
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What he means is that men work hard toward a career and money with the end goal of starting a family. Essentially being good enough or worthy of a woman. Women's mindset seems to be more fear mongering. You need to make at least $200,000 so you can leave if your BF domestically abuses you!!! etc. In reality most women seem to "girl boss" for materialistic reasons and then eventually realize it's not fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:04 PM
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Maybe you shouldn't have such a black and white view of people and be more nuanced? What do you think it says about you when you are judging someone so quickly before you even met them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 05:00 AM
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I wish the mods would ban her. The trollbait is literally so low effort and its not even purge week.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 05:45 AM
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I see it more from younger women who prefer to date older men because they are more "mature" compared to men their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:48 PM
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Imagine ovulating every day, but 99% of men aren't attracted to you. You finally find a cute guy but he sees you and goes "Ew gross 🤮 sorry I got the ick"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:24 PM
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Imagine hoe you feel when you are ovulating. OK now imagine that every day. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:22 PM
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Plethora of options. Any man can be replaced in less than 30 minutes with a random from Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:10 PM
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Alexandria Cortez, Ilhan Omar, even Don Lemon (gay man) are progressives who always bring up racism and oppression of POC by white men yet choose to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:35 AM
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You asked the same question literally a week ago? Same answer: couple studies have found women are more prejudiced. I wouldn't say women are more bigoted, but women are more socially aware and outwardly they will always repeat the consensus or beliefs of "the group" so you don't actually know their true beliefs. A good example of this is the question: Are you willing to date someone from a different ethnicity? Women always answer "yes" more than men in surveys, but when you look at actually marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 06:31 PM
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Maybe you are projecting here? Women under 30 in metro areas are more educated, make more money, and more likely to own a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:57 PM
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Do you think a 600 pound 80 year old grandma wearing a winter coat gets the same amount of attention as an 18 year old Victoria's Secret model wearing only lingerie?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:04 PM
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I don't think mamy people realize they have low energy/low libido or feel "asexual" due to diet or hormonal imbalances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:05 PM
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I wouldn't say women are more bigoted, but women are more socially aware and outwardly they will always repeat the consensus or beliefs of "the group" so you don't actually know their true beliefs. A good example of this is the question: Are you willing to date someone from a different ethnicity? Women always answer "yes" more than men in surveys, but when you look at actually marriage statistics, men are actually more likely to date and marry someone of a different ethnicity. I don't recall the…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 11:09 AM
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Who doesn't like some good cougar p*ssy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:44 AM
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Why does this come off like a caricature of what a "nice guy" TM is? His flair is literally "Non-Toxic Man". Like oh I didn't know he wasn't toxic but now I know!! - Every Women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:04 PM
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I think it's more due to a Christian friend group. They are "saving" themselves for marriage.
/r/BlackPillScience02/09/24 01:30 AM
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Mid twenties
/r/BlackPillScience01/09/24 08:06 AM
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Does anyone remember West Elm Caleb? Aren't women paranoid and go to "Are we dating the same guy" groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:47 PM
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Almost all the Asian guys in my friend group are virgins so yeah...if they aren't sexually active then they aren't getting STDs.
/r/BlackPillScience30/08/24 04:18 PM
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Can we ban this troll? Either they are intentionally posting rage bait or just mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:35 PM
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As a man, I've been used for sex by some women and even some fetishizers. Doesn't that mean dating sucks for men as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:10 PM
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There are millions of women who do s*x tourism as well to countries in the Caribbean and even Asia (Korea if they are K-pop fans) By your own logic are these women predators as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:15 PM
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I thought women said they prefer the bear?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 10:31 AM
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Today I learned: lots of guys are fuck ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:24 AM
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40/60 (men/women) is not that unusual when you consider that it is what most college campuses are these days and even then it still feels like lots of guys are struggling to get a date and unwanted celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:17 AM
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