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I'm not sure why you're on the seduction form to begin with, as your goal does not seem to be game related, and therefore the context of your argument on a post with the specific goal to be useful in the context of game. If this subreddit was called 'Mainstream beliefs about dating or self-righteous advice' your comment would be relevant. As 'Game' is a practiced skill, it stands to very basic understanding that the more you practice at it, the better you get. Therefore, if you have a crush on o…
/r/seduction05/08/18 07:35 PM
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You're saying that there's a problem of having too many options? That's not true. In fact, you are able to appreciate certain qualities a lot more by dating a lot of girls and seeing what's out there. Depending on your goal, you may not want to settle down, but sometimes you will find a girl that will make you want to settle down. I'm not claiming that there's a 'perfect person out there'. The entire point of this post is to create an actionable strategy to get the girl you can want by going out…
/r/seduction09/07/18 02:27 AM
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I absolutely started from scratch. I knew almost nothing about women and dating until I unintentionally (while looking for bodybuilding videos because I am really into that as well) found game. To this date, I've never slept with a girl, or had a girlfriend that I did not meet through cold approach or 'gamed'. I've developed the intuition slowly, by going out a lot by I've never had it to begin with.
/r/seduction08/07/18 01:27 PM
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I'm going to address several points you have here. There seems to be a very toxic notion in today's society that everyone is just supposed to be confident as if it doesn't take anything to build that confidence. It's not something you're just born with, and game is HOW confidence is developed. The other qualities you're talking about... Kindness, eye contact, humor etc, that can all be developed by going out and learning game. And game in it's best form does not look like game. As far as what yo…
/r/seduction08/07/18 01:22 PM
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'Oneitis' comes from the idea that you have a massive crush on a girl that you really don't know that much about, therefore, the heightened feelings you have for her are basically just infatuation. There is absolutely nothing wrong with building strong relationships with a girl. I respect your 'not gaming for sport' attitude, but that also depends on where you're at. My personal goal at this very moment is to become very good (meaning consistently meet and date girls that I find attractive in te…
/r/seduction08/07/18 01:14 PM
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You open one girl, introduce yourself to the rest, and try to include other people in the conversation, until you can isolate the girl you want by taking her to the bar or moving her around the venue. The point of interacting with guys is to have social momentum and because guys never get compliments in bars and clubs so if you compliment one they will usually be very nice to you (and it'll drill the fact that people are good in your head, so it can help your mindset)
/r/seduction08/07/18 01:07 PM
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The point of this post is to essentially give people something they can proactively do to be able to get the girl they want, and what's most proactively beneficial is going out, meeting more girls, and improving your game in general, this is a seduction forum after all. You can certainly connect with girls doing game. The whole point of the game is to create abundance for yourself and to have options with many girls and being able to pick one that you truly like and have amazing chemistry with. …
/r/seduction08/07/18 01:02 PM
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I did shower for the record ;)
/r/seduction08/07/18 12:50 PM
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If you think of the girl as the 'reward', perhaps the 'reward' may not be as great as you think. But, if you look inward, the act of going out a lot to such an extent will improve a lot of qualities you have generally, so even if it fails with that particular girl, you'd be a better man in the end.
/r/seduction08/07/18 12:49 PM
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I will agree with you that this can be very frustrating. You find a girl that you really vibe with and like... and your best option that the mainstream media will never admit is to go out and meet more girls?! It's a fucking head twister. But also, attractive women have 'automatic abundance' meaning that they know they can sleep with most guys. So they're acting in abundance mentality all the time because they know they can get another guy (not necessarily a high-quality guy) in a snap of their …
/r/seduction08/07/18 12:45 PM
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I did not sleep with the first girl.
/r/seduction08/07/18 12:37 PM
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I've struggled with this a lot with girl #1. I did Sensory deprivation tank (90 minute) meditations, tried a lot of things to dry to 'draw state from within' but unfortunately, that's a very, very, very long road and you can't be trying to create pure-self-confidence in the process of meeting a new girl just to get her. So, therefore, the best option you have is going out a lot.
/r/seduction08/07/18 12:35 PM
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I've taken the fitness route to gain confidence myself by building a great body, and still the social confidence that I wanted never came. The fact is, you develop confidence and social savviness by going out a lot and socializing. The reason why massive action is so encouraged is because it really does work. Of course, have a plan, have goals each night, etc... but it'll never hurt you!
/r/seduction08/07/18 12:33 PM
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At this very moment, me neither my friend! It's part of the game.
/r/seduction08/07/18 12:31 PM
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I started out with daygame switched to mostly night clubs and bars. I live in the Philadelphia area but I also like to drive out to places to do game such at D.C, recently was gaming in Atlanta georgia, Toronto, and New Jersey Shore
/r/seduction07/07/18 11:29 PM
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No offense taken. I was also raised the same way as you. There may be one thing your misunderstanding here. The girls in question are not ones that I'm dating exclusively (meaning I had strong feelings for them, but we were not boyfriend and girlfriend, so this does not AT ALL imply that you should cheat with your girlfriend). This assumes that you and the girl are in the starting stages of seeing each other (i.e. maybe you had a date or two) and you have a crush on her. As for the false sense o…
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:39 PM
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It's good that you have your standards high especially when committing to an exclusive relationship, it's idiotic that most people just jump in on the first chance they have. I learned a lot from making that mistake. It sucks that you don't have a high enough volume of girls... some options you have though: If you exclusively do night game, through in some day game in there, and you'll see new faces (i'm not sure where you live) Alternatively try other venues, or drive further to somewhere with …
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:23 PM
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Some people get lucky and get with a person in their social circle. Most of the time, it's not someone they have the best, most efficient chemistry with. I've had the option to make a couple of girls my girlfriends recently, but because I didn't think the chemistry was strong enough, I declined. Everything is not black or white, obviously, there's always a line of gray, however, from a general-game sense, this is how it goes. And don't take sleeping with other girls as a way to hurt the other pe…
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:20 PM
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So because you don't think you have a lot of options (or at least good ones) you're at what I call 'Ground Zero'... so in your situation, going out a lot and meeting girls is the best solution. The problem is, you may find one girl that you really like and vibe with but the fear of going back to ground 0 (i.e. the lack of having a great option to go for) eventually makes you lose the girl.
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:16 PM
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I personally don't drink, but what helps me out the most, in my opinion, is talking to the first group of girls you see, no matter how attractive or unattractive, compliment guys on what they're wearing and start conversations with guys, put your phone away, and I like to go the bathroom wash my face, and go back to approaching every now and then so i can feel physically refreshed.
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:15 PM
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Most people lose the girl they want because they're afraid at being at ground zero where there are no girls that are their goal at the moment, and that can be the worst part of it.
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:13 PM
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I totally get you man... but know that you're not alone... this happens to all of us. My most recent experience with this was just a few days ago, and I'm trying to pick myself up. Good luck, brother!
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:07 PM
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Why can't you sleep around with other people? Trust me, in my experience, the girl you're seeing is probably seeing other guys too, or may even have an FWB or two. No need to miss out on experiences if it's not ABSOLUTELY set in stone that you are exclusive with a girl. In a logical sense, the BEST thing you can do to win one girl is meet a lot of others, or even sleep with more if you can. Because as you talk to more women, and sleep with more women, your experience and natural confidence will …
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:01 PM
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Yes, but remember, not just for her, but for yourself as well, you owe it to YOURSELF to be the best you can be more than anyone else. Because sometimes, as I had mentioned previously if you are abundant and the girl wants to be exclusive YOU will be the one who may want to continue being single.
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:57 PM
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A LOT of my best results have been from going out solo and usually, I like to do that when I'm in a dry spell because it lets me do better. Going out solo maybe not the best way to motivate yourself, but in practice, it can yield insane results. It has gotten to the point where I made some wingman friends (because you will make them eventually) that hit me up almost every weekend, to the point where I MISS going out solo.
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:56 PM
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Yeah, trust me, I'm a hopeless romantic by heart... I know it sucks. But that's how the game is, so we either play it good or get fucked over.
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:55 PM
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Nervous game is doing game while nervous, essentially not caring about how you feel, and doing it anyway even if it means that you look nervous to the girl (usually that nervousness fades quickly in my experience)
/r/seduction07/02/18 08:42 PM
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Was 18 & a virgin two years ago, also living with my parents, and was extremely dissatisfied. Started approaching, and eventually lost my virginity in the girl's house. Don't let the lack of a place to go stop you, and if you don't have a car you can rent a cheap hotel/use AirBnB. The only way you'll solve your problem is if you keep approaching.
/r/seduction01/08/17 02:54 PM
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You can try college campuses, sure the girls would be older, but you'll find a plethora of attractive girls there, Otherwise, if you live near a city that's a great option... Usually, i'm doing it on college campuses, but since it's the summer right now, I'm doing it in the city, you just need to work on being able to stop a girl on the street while walking (which i'm still not perfect on, it can take practice) , or you can also try a park in the city, coffee shops, book stores, etc
/r/seduction16/07/17 04:36 PM
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Dude absofuckinglutely GO for that shit! I'm 20 now and i'm still going strong. Go for it! Let me know if you need anything :)
/r/seduction14/07/17 04:39 PM
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Interested in the 'social conditioning' when it comes for going for a kiss. I love your writing style.
/r/seduction13/07/17 02:35 PM
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Best place to start, ask every woman in your life that you're attracted to out, and see what happens. Be clear, that it's a date. Maybe you'll get rejected, maybe you won't either way, it will help you see that rejection is not as bad as you'd think it would be. Then, start approaching girls you genuinely find attractive.
/r/seduction13/07/17 02:21 PM
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Good for you man! Keep going, try to eliminate your social fears as soon and young as possible. I started at 18 =)
/r/seduction13/07/17 02:18 PM
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Bro, I was in the exact same boat as you. Almost three years ago, I was 18 years old and a virgin, before one day I decided that I'm done being a virgin and i'm going to do whatever it takes. Within two weeks, I finished the 'seddit 100 set challenge' and had one day where I approached 30 girls, I wrote a Infield here https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/31w0hn/fr_two_weeks_ago_i_was_afraid_to_approach_any/ One of those 30 girls that I approached, I ended up losing my virginity to. Go for…
/r/seduction13/07/17 12:26 PM
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haha I totally relate to that. I can't bring a girl home (I go to University in center city, and I commute about 45 minutes every day), so my only 'logistical' option is to go to her place or mess around in the car. I just got out of a LTR less than a month ago, so not looking for a girlfriend at the moment (although if i find someone i really like i'm willing to change that opinion)
/r/seduction13/07/17 12:14 PM
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That's very interesting. In reality, I've had a breakup a little less than a month ago... and i've been doing different sorts of meditations to get back into the 'right' spiritual stage. I can definitely see this being the problem, so I'd like to hear how did you approach the problem on an emotional/spiritual/mental level as well (I tend to make myself approach even if i'm feeling down so I can not have any excuse not to do it). I'm emotionally vulnerable with some friends, unfortunately, a lot …
/r/seduction13/07/17 12:13 PM
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Thank you for your feedback, I have worked on all of these things, and I'm generally very direct about my intentions (Genuine compliments on appearance, and personality/energy/interesting hobbies, whatever), and when I close it's very clear that it would be a date. Although, I can always work on the man-to-woman vibe, and the 'playful misinterpretation'. I really appreciate your feedback, thank you. Edit: What's your experience with going on dates without intenting to make a girl your girlfriend…
/r/seduction13/07/17 12:10 PM
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Maybe the term 'bad logistics' is not the right word, but things that are out of my control. The women, even the ones with boyfriends are certainly not unwilling, but again, it's against my values to go after girls with a boyfriend... so I don't even try at that point, and I'm advanced enough at least to be able to tell whether a girl actually has a boyfriend or is saying that in order to 'reject' me. I've met many who were touring the city I live in (Honestly, it's super shitty, I don't know wh…
/r/seduction13/07/17 02:39 AM
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I don't think that you need alcohol to stop over thinking... Dynamic Meditation, Regular meditation, doing a hobby... Alcohol is a very short-term solution that will ultimately lead you to rely on it for results, but hey whatever works for you is fine :)
/r/seduction11/07/17 11:08 PM
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This is extremely true, a lot of guys don't approach at all. Especially when you're talking in the realm of daygame, and in terms of night game, nobody approaches sober. Being sober puts you a step ahead the rest. A lot of people overthink the hell out of pick up. In the end it's as genuine as a man pursuing a woman. It's natural, even though we've been conditioned that it's not.
/r/seduction09/07/17 07:16 PM
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I've written an e-Book about business. I'm only twenty years old, but I have more books to come. The way this post is written is kind of nuts with cursing, but it's really meant to be a PSA to my self, and hopefully help a guy or two out there with the problem of having TOO MUCH FUN with interactions. :)
/r/seduction06/07/17 10:59 PM
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funniest part? I'm actually a published author... :')
/r/seduction06/07/17 04:15 PM
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Yes, yes! Great tips. Acknowledging and memorizing details because you were actually listening will help you immensely in texting her later! And your first story is very interesting, let us all learn from each other's mistakes.
/r/seduction06/07/17 03:43 PM
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You're right, and I've been practicing so much. I think meditation, and things of that nature helps, but sometimes i'm just insanely energetic, and i'm trying to get it through my head that I just need to shut up haha, and when I have I've gotten the girls to pursue me, etc
/r/seduction06/07/17 03:38 PM
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Welcome to the college day game crew, brotha! So first of all, forget about this girl. You will soon learn from doing Daygame that numbers don't mean shit a lot of times, and so what you can do is try to get solid numbers, where you've tried your hardest to learn about the girl and listen to what she is saying. Usually when girls have boyfriends I just kind of keep texting them ANYWAY, WHILE pursuing, approaching more girls. 15,000 students is very hefty and not exactly a small campus so I sugge…
/r/seduction27/10/15 12:54 PM
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They do that because they get an ego boost and feel good about themselves when guys text them. It shows them that they have Value...
/r/seduction27/10/15 12:51 PM
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Do this guide and you might overcome approach anxiety but the last thing where you instantly go for the number will only get you flakes in 99 out of 100 cases.
/r/seduction27/10/15 10:26 AM
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I'm 19, college student, fairly a beginner. Only been active in game for a few moths now and I've got a lot better. I've started when I was scared shitless to talk to any girl... And surely enough, all my friends thought I was a natural only a few weeks after game because of my "smoothness" and flow. However, I can't seem to make an emotional connection, and I end up getting a lot of flakes, and I understand that flakes are a part of this, however I want to increase the amount of non-flakesz I t…
/r/seduction22/10/15 01:48 PM
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Haha, groups are actually more fun dynamically speaking, you can engage every girl in the group, and end up getting multiple numbers, then choosing which one you like the most, or, go after all of them periodically. I've had some interesting experiences with that... its all about having fun dude! As for AA find a wing man or a friend who's willing to challenge you, that helps a lot, give the friend some money and tell him to only return it if you approach for example. That will give you motive. …
/r/seduction22/10/15 10:41 AM
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15000 is Plenty! Don't worry about seeing the same girls again, in which case you wave, smile and say hi. No need to make a big deal out of it. Also, a reputation, no matter how "bad" is always better than no reputation. 48 Laws of Power! Also don't limit yourself to your campus, go out to other campuses too where you can go much more crazy and also hit the street!
/r/seduction22/10/15 10:38 AM
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Haha thanks for the feedback, the girl I was in class was the first "ask out" I've made in a while. That wasn't the only time I talked to her... And I had no experience back then...it's not how the cookie crumbles anymore lol. Anyway, what would you recommend doing to build the connection you speak of? And how early do you cut the dialogue?
/r/seduction22/10/15 10:34 AM
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You know pick up can be very tiring and even boring sometimes, especially on days where you give girls so much value and is having a blast yourself that you don't even care about the girl pitching in, but still get bored of doing that cause every girl seems the same as the one before her... It's annoying.
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:30 PM
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Yup! Done.
/r/seduction20/10/15 02:17 PM
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I disagree with what you've said here. Especially the last part when you say 9 out of 10 times the girl gives you her number she's interested in you because you don't consider flake numbers. Also, I don't think anyone needs to get another hobby JUST for the purposes of impressing the girl. He goes to the gym which is a good enough hobby and programming isn't a hobby its a job/career. I think the best option for him personally to just start approaching, and start meditation/being able to be prese…
/r/seduction11/04/15 02:16 PM
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Love the way you put it here. Very understandable. I'll definitely try that
/r/seduction11/04/15 03:39 AM
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Great guide BTW. Will start applying somethings you said here. I'm currently working on making conversatuons sexual and giving them more of a emotional connection. Can you shed some more wisdom in regards to making these emotional connections? Also some girls get nervous because they have never experienced a man approaching them, would being sexual and using flirtatious jokes still be useful in these situations and how would you go about it?
/r/seduction10/04/15 11:29 PM
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Total girls right now as of today is 87. I'm pushing hard for 100. I wanna go out tonight
/r/seduction10/04/15 01:02 AM
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I don't give a fuck I'd rather be the guy known for his confidence not the guy known for his silence
/r/seduction10/04/15 12:00 AM
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He does in his video series about the book. He explicitly says not to touch the girl unless you are hugging or something after the interaction or holding your hand out upfront. I agree with his no kino theory because it can certainly make a girl uncomfortable. either way the hand shake thing I suggested is pretty neat sometimes.
/r/seduction09/04/15 10:37 PM
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This is My mindset exactly
/r/seduction09/04/15 12:33 PM
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For me none of them felt awkward. I was simply expressing my self. For the girls on the other hand, a select few felt a bit awkwardawkward, most girls thankedthanked me for approaching them.
/r/seduction09/04/15 12:32 PM
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I'm an Iraqi :P
/r/seduction09/04/15 09:20 AM
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Don't get too worked up about how the girl feels. Simply by approaching her and complimenting her she's gonna have a good day. Try to have fun yourself and the girl will follow. Don't think k about what you're going to say, the interaction is dyanmic its better to just say hi and take it from there. Practice is always good
/r/seduction09/04/15 01:33 AM
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I'd say... 99.99% of the boyfriends won't stab you. lol
/r/seduction08/04/15 11:56 PM
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I completely agree, If they are men present in the interaction i have noticed that they would completely respect my approach. Especially, when you stop pursuing the girl (atleast romantically) when she says she has a boyfriend, i generally keep talking to them anyway (not to get a lay or their number but to have a pleasant conversation.)
/r/seduction08/04/15 11:36 PM
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It's because i laughed her off? I laughed her off because of the ego she had, firstly it was implying that there are no other beautiful girls besides her, and also because she was someone who has a severe case of social conditioning. Maybe it came off wrong? anyway i fixed the post to share my thought process, because I don't like being misunderstood . Also, her reaction was generally one that genuinely induced laughter. I laugh at people's reactions all of the time, because it is genuinely funn…
/r/seduction08/04/15 11:30 PM
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I don't have any clue what you mean by that but okay...
/r/seduction08/04/15 11:26 PM
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Haha. Maybe i should make an approach anxiety post? do you think that can help you out? I think i have a good enough experience and knowledge to write about one at this point. But maybe i should finish the 100 set challenge first, i'm at 65 sets or something like that as of right now. Only 35 to go!
/r/seduction08/04/15 11:24 PM
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haha yeah, that's what i'm trying to say in my post. Because if you base each reaction as a reflection of you, you are investing in the reaction more than you are investing in the interaction. Cheers.
/r/seduction08/04/15 11:13 PM
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Haha thanks dude! and trust me i know it's hard... and i'm trying to help out one of my friends who has severe approach anxiety. I somehow managed to make him approach 3 girls IN ONE DAY (i offered to buy him shit if he does it. Anyway, first of all let me tell you that it's a process. I took small steps... and then things just escalated. Here's my suggestion to what you can try. The method i had my self was the "GET REJECTED" method which i went up to 5 GIRLS told them they were cute... like so…
/r/seduction08/04/15 11:03 PM
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I'm middle eastern... but i don't look like the sterotypical middle eastern. Some girls told me i look Italian, some told me i look Brazilian ALOT of girl had no idea what my race is. I'm into bodybuilding, fairly toned, six pack, decent size chest (working on my arms a little bit but they're still good sized) but this doesn't help me out much with girls as i usually wear a sweater. Some girl have told me i'm very attractive, others say im not it's all relative.
/r/seduction08/04/15 10:54 PM
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I view woman as people too, but if they are stuck up I am simply not interested in them. The same way I am not interested in stuck up men. Stuck up people are stuck up people period. I don't care for rejection because it doesn't hurt me. I don't view girls who reject me as objects, I simply move the fuck on. You said I'm acting like the center of the universe because I love my self? I find my self to be an interesting person with amazing qualities, and when the girls pass on me its them losing t…
/r/seduction08/04/15 10:28 PM
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Haha not at all appreciate the feedback
/r/seduction08/04/15 05:55 PM
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Yes that's how I went about it. I was very happy with myself after each rejection. And I got pleasantly surprised when I got my first # close. It was what worked for me because as you experience rejection you finally experience how insignificant it is. So go out there and get rejected!! You never know it can turn out good! You win certainly laugh about it after. Good luck and let me know how it goes!!
/r/seduction08/04/15 05:46 PM
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The post was unfinished when you read it, I didn't include my results in it. I have a few dates lined up and a girl who told me we can be FWBs
/r/seduction08/04/15 04:54 PM
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Haha, yeah. I'm going to experiment with night game next where escalation is very possible. I'm also working on forming emotional connections with the people I meet. And maybe start approving very very attractive girls instead of just attractive
/r/seduction08/04/15 04:49 PM
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I day game with sweatpants, nikes, and a sweater....nothing wrong with wearing comfortable clothes especially in my case because I workout with them.
/r/seduction08/04/15 03:46 PM
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I feel you. You don't have to like the guy, but basically what he said about direct game. So, basically apply what he said. Approach, compliment start a conversation (show curiosity about the girl) and try for a date/#
/r/seduction06/04/15 11:39 AM
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I think you should try 'Direct Game' or direct approach where you are not applying any 'seduction' methods and instead simply being yourself. If you click on my username there's a video I linked to sasha daygame who talks a lot of this. The premise of direct game is that instead of doing routines, and 'altering' your personality in order to seduce woman, you simply express your attraction and intent for the girl you approach on a direct basis.
/r/seduction05/04/15 05:24 PM
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Sasha is currently my favorite PUA along with RSDtyler. Thanks for sharing his AMA!!
/r/seduction05/04/15 04:39 PM
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I completely agree with this and in fact a lot of pickup advice tells guys to say things that would make them laugh, as opposed to aiming to make the girls laugh and it's certainly effective to do so.
/r/seduction05/04/15 01:57 PM
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He has these too on his channel. Its not motivational speech its more like a reality check.
/r/seduction05/04/15 02:08 AM
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I would say 'all of them'. Basicly answer with a ridiculous amount.
/r/seduction04/04/15 11:45 PM
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It helped me out and I thought I would share! Glad it helped
/r/seduction04/04/15 11:27 PM
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Haha, me too im quite the story teller! I do see what hw means though When you lose your ego you accept rejection and this acceptance of rejection cancells rejection out, It would no longer be rejection, it mean simply that the girl is not for you. Rejection is only bad to people because people reject the reality that they have not lost a single thing when "rejection occurs"
/r/seduction04/04/15 09:46 PM
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Can you be a bit more specific? If spirituality/spontaneouty is what you're aiming for I recommend the power of now by Eckhart Tolle
/r/seduction04/04/15 09:42 PM
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Yeah. When I started out I did the same thing, compliment and go for number. But after reading more, I started having longer conversation with girls and asking them questions about themselves (I.e. what's your major, what do you LIKE to be your major, and their personal interest). The straight up approach got me numbers which didn't respond. I think the key here is to create an emotional connection where she would feel a loss if she doesn't respond, thus amplifying the changes of a response. Did…
/r/seduction04/04/15 08:50 PM
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I have to say I'm very impressed with the number of approaches alone. I started approaching a week ago and only have 22 under my belt and I already feel like I've learned a lot. Would you give a sample of how a typical approach would go?
/r/seduction04/04/15 05:53 PM
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If you want to be just friends, then stay friends but you said you dont want that so I'd stop contact and move on. Find other girls
/r/seduction04/04/15 05:45 PM
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Awesome! You just made my day. Alright I'll keep posting. Did like 6 approaches yesterday but I'll do more. If you have any questions for me I'd love to answer them!
/r/seduction04/04/15 05:26 PM
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You said thousands of approaches. Would you care to give a more accurate number or did you literally do a thousand approaches?
/r/seduction04/04/15 03:13 PM
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I'm by no means an expert, but to me it seemed like you could have escalated the first one further. I haven't done much night game lately (due to unfortunate circumstance) so I've been mostly involved in day game but that's what I could tell you. Also, generally in a bar/club setting I think you should always be aiming for an F-close. If not, when you get their number don't sit on it for too long plan a meet up.
/r/seduction04/04/15 03:11 PM
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Haha I love your responses my man. Now me, personally while practicing day game I usually pass on to the next girl when this happens. But I have been doing some funny reaponses to it when I feel like I have a bit of fun. Recently I have been experimenting with the do you have a boyfriend approach up front and it has worked very well for me. (A line I love to use is walk up to a group of girls telling them I have a crush on one of them but I won't say who it is unless they tell me which of them h…
/r/seduction04/04/15 03:03 PM
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I prefer the 0 second rule, but I use the 5 second rule before I even decide which girl, Its usually to prep my self to start the process of approaching. Edit: I'm not saying the 3 second rule is not effective. And when I use the 5 seconds life hack its while walking to make my approach. Which only happens if I feel nervous at this particular setting. The 3 second rule is only so you don't change your mind while approaching and I personally have not had problems with that. I appreciate your feed…
/r/seduction03/04/15 11:09 PM
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I got like 5 numbers. Usually about 1 in 4. A lot of girls said they had a boyfriend and even though some seemed to not be telling the truth a good majority seemed to be telling the truth. Only like 2 said straight up no and the worst reaction I got was today when a girl seemed very pissed. I laughed about it and moved on.
/r/seduction03/04/15 03:30 PM
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Thanks dude! And a fairly big university in Philadelphia (30K students).
/r/seduction03/04/15 03:27 PM
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Haha thanks dude you already made my day. Maybe its because I have been selfimproving way before I started? The help of this awesome community and PUAs didn't hurt at all in fact I learned some amazing information
/r/seduction03/04/15 02:08 PM
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I don't think my physique contributed what so ever. Its really cold where I live and my clothing is bundled up. Only when I'm wearing a tight shirt does it show. That being said I worked on my posture a lot in the past, and it is something that help me assert dominance. So I would say just practice posture, physique is not as important.(although I would recommend working out)
/r/seduction03/04/15 02:06 PM
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Oh I see. Been trying that recently. I'm gonna experiment with some humor as well and see how it goes
/r/seduction03/04/15 01:47 AM
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It's when you count 5-4-3-2-1 in your head before you do something. In the case of approaching it helps clear your mind and get you started! It's very helpful try it!
/r/seduction03/04/15 01:15 AM
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"You are young and foolish" a truly critiquing unbiased answer. Listen, I don't care if you are a moderator. If you would like to delete my thread, do so yourself. I will not censor myself. If you like to censor other's ideas, than you are showing that you are afraid i might be right in what i've said. Also, I'm young, and I'm foolish and i fucking love it. I have a lot of things to learn, to experience but i will do so by making my own mistakes. Not have some biased guy on reddit teach me what'…
/r/seduction01/04/15 01:50 AM
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LOL "Even the Devil can recite scripture"? Really? that's your answer? He wasn't reciting scripture. He was probably one of the most controversial people on the fucking planet. Reciting scripture means a generally acceptable thing If he was "A devil reciting scripture" he would be a politician. Also, people do BAD fucking things because people ARE PEOPLE. Even if OSHO did do these bioterrorist attacks. Does that make his teachings wrong? No. Regardless of what he did, his teaching still hold tru…
/r/seduction01/04/15 01:43 AM
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He is very polarizing and EXTREMELY controversial. But that's a good thing to me. That means he speaks his truth. and YOU have a lot to learn if you think Elliott Hulse is an idiot not to mention OSHO. While i appreciate your reply, i would appreciate it if you critique the Actual information within the post instead of the man who's teachings i am inspired by. Also, cult is a very broad term. Infact, the PUA community is a cult of sorts (every community can be a cult.) I agree with the teachings…
/r/seduction01/04/15 01:30 AM
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Great advice! Im going to try to joke around bit and possibly show social proof (if shes in a group) before i do the asking for the number part.
/r/seduction31/03/15 11:40 AM
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haha. I see your point. But my University is Massive. 30K students + and it seems even when i got rejected i made that girl's day. I don't think that i will necessary be called "The Campus Creep". Thank you for your feedback! I am aware that it's polarizing but i am willing to take the risk, because i genuinely enjoyed each and every interaction i've had. I will try to be more social either way, and accumulate more friends through "cold approaches" because when i approach groups, they all seemed…
/r/seduction31/03/15 02:10 AM
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Oh i see. For me, as someone with some experience in public speaking, famous for being very flashy in highschool (when i asked a girl for prom the whole school there and i still went very strong). I've been on TV, and was asked to represent an organization in front of their sponsors. Even though i had approach anxiety for a long time with the fear of rejection, because all my past experiences were horrible. I always ask for the number, but the thing is im not sure if direct approaches like this.
/r/seduction31/03/15 01:56 AM
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my social circle has been nothing but undependable. The girls through my social circles where all non-viable. Even though i tried for pretty much all of them.
/r/seduction31/03/15 01:53 AM
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hello! thank you for your reply. Can you tell me what happened with your approaches? how many sets have you done and were you as direct as me or did you try another approach?
/r/seduction30/03/15 11:30 PM
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Thanks for your reply! This was my first post on reddit and today I felt like doing ballsy as well. So I saw one of the girls who was in my philosophy class last semester who i caught staring at me a couple of times but never had the nerve to ask out. She was sitting down next to two guys and I was also straight to the point!! Also, for the girl above I forgot to mention there was a day where I talked to her for like 10 minutes, and I did it like that because she was in a hurry. Tomorrow I'm pla…
/r/seduction26/03/15 08:50 PM
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