Mazufigo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Getting unstifled/in state	Mazufigo	/r/seduction	24/04/12 04:39 AM
5	OkCupid Date Flakes	Mazufigo	/r/seduction	03/04/12 11:40 PM
2	"maybe" and "probably" dates	Mazufigo	/r/seduction	12/06/12 12:21 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	"maybe" and "probably" dates Cool. Went through my old texts and messages from earlier this year and I noticed that I used to talk about nonsense a lot more. Made it 10x easier to roleplay and tease them. Was less boring and usually got more sexual. I think I swung from maybe crazy (not being trusted) to probably boring (not being attracted) by toning things down too much. My attitude as of late has been too along the lines of "I don't need to impress anyone". Aaaaanyway I'll try not giving an option next week when trying t…	/r/seduction	12/06/12 04:38 AM
1	"maybe" and "probably" dates Well I disagree on the polite part lol. As an example I'd ask if they were free on either Tuesday or Thursday to do something specific and get either busy, probably or I might be free on Tuesday. Just started happening this month. Something has definitely changed. I think giving them that option at all is a bad idea.	/r/seduction	12/06/12 03:20 AM
1	"maybe" and "probably" dates Will do for sure. Looking back I've been asking more often for some reason. I used to say the date, place and time without exception. Don't know why I stopped.	/r/seduction	12/06/12 12:57 AM
1	Confidence - is it an attitude? Well it's a belief. Anorexics can be 80lbs and believe they're fat. Anyone can be a decent or an amazing human being and believe otherwise for all sorts of reasons. I had this problem. Things that HELP confidence are ways to back up that belief with evidence. Being physically active, interesting hobbies, friends, etc. Still none of these things guarantee confidence. Initially reference experiences help get you to believe it yourself (eg having a few people confirm that you can be thought of as s…	/r/seduction	28/04/12 08:56 PM
1	Getting unstifled/in state That reminds me of one I got from a friend. Music or no music he does an awkward robot dance. I still do this but it amuses me so much it doesn't help knock me out of my comfort zone anymore.	/r/seduction	24/04/12 09:33 PM
17	Simple trick to give your wingman some confidence when in field This made me laugh out loud. I'm actually working on this starting this week. Kinoing friends to get used to casual touching, not groping them lol.	/r/seduction	08/04/12 11:24 PM
1	OkCupid Date Flakes Thanks for the tips. I already mirror message lengths and response times. I can get dates in about 6 back and forth messages messages now but I find it harder to do in less. I don't even bother asking for a number but instead go right for the date and treat their phone number like a utility. I only want it because I might need it. As for the 4th point I usually qualify them twice before I ask them out and do a good job of being the one screening them. I used to have to kind of fake this but now …	/r/seduction	04/04/12 06:23 PM
2	OkCupid Date Flakes Might be your profile. I just send 2 or 3 sentence messages to get the conversation started. To be honest I probably had to message about 300 girls before I started getting dates. Kind of reminds me of the adage "the first 1000 approaches don't count."	/r/seduction	04/04/12 06:10 PM
1	OkCupid Date Flakes True. I'm just terrible on the phone compared to in person lol.	/r/seduction	04/04/12 06:07 PM
1	OkCupid Date Flakes I might try this starting this weekend for the following week. I've read this before and it can't hurt to try.	/r/seduction	04/04/12 12:15 AM
1	OkCupid Date Flakes Just to clarify they tell me they aren't coming the day before or hours before on the same day but I swear the reasons seem like they're all sharing the same standard excuse list.	/r/seduction	04/04/12 12:10 AM
1	OkCupid Date Flakes I get their numbers. I only once didn't and it was a terrible idea. I'll usually text them about nothing (my day, their day, randomness) about every 2 or 3 days if the date is a few days in the future. I found it gets them used to the idea of me texting them without wanting anything from them.	/r/seduction	03/04/12 11:56 PM
7	[FR] First Date, K-Close No I realized but I started by saying I agreed with you...then lost my train of thought lol.	/r/seduction	26/03/12 10:23 PM
1	Yet another inspirational example for those of you starting literally from scratch [huge story] I might have to look into improv myself. I know of a lot of PUAs who've done it and also recommend it. Fear of judgement is still probably my biggest sticking point right now since it prevents me trying out new things that I'm not entirely sure will work.	/r/seduction	26/03/12 10:21 PM
7	[FR] First Date, K-Close Yeah I think she might have been too lol. I've done this on OkC dates before. Girl was totally down and I didn't realized until a day or 2 after. Either way you said you did more than you normally would so that's good at least. Keep pushing what you're comfortable with and assume she really likes you and wants you to keep going until she shows you signs that say otherwise. Some of the shy OkCupid dates I've had gave me no signals at all but gave their consent by not saying "no" to me moving thin…	/r/seduction	26/03/12 08:20 PM