So I'm really trying hard now to do more game through approaches but I really did gain most of my confidence by getting tons of OkCupid dates. I can now get 5 or 6 girls to agree to a date in a week BUT only about 50% show up. I'd be fine with 3 in 4 or maybe even 2 in 3 but half is deplorable. I figure its either its because something actually comes up, they have second thoughts or because something that they think is more important takes priority.

I found personally if I made the date as low pressure as possible (eg 1 or 2 hr false time constraint and just something like coffee) I could get almost any girl I was having a decent conversation with to say yes. It might be a little more needy than I'd like but now I'm thinking that maybe I should just jokingly sell the hell out of the meeting before hand.

Anyone else had to tackle this issue or have any ideas?

Edit: To clairify they tell me they aren't coming the day before or same day. Usually saying its because of illness, work, forgotten plans (birthday seems common lol), etc.