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What is permabulk and what makes it comfort zone kryptonite
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/22 08:45 PM
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I was curious about this,too, so I checked OP post history. MOD says OP is LARPing. MOD apparently looked at OP's post history and found that on other subreddit, OP reveals, and complains, that he has sex with wife about once a month. IOW, OP is putting out the impression here that he is doing well with MRP, but that's not really the case (LARPing, incongruent). That's how I understand this thread. OP seems to be improving, getting better results, so that's cool. But I suspect mods think he's no…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/22 12:28 AM
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dude. learn game. the proof you hasn't learned game is that you have no success. game works, period.
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:57 AM
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definitely not false. look at the life of Sean Stephenson - he became a pick up artist, and if someone with his looks can do it, anyone can do it. game works.
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:55 AM
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/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:53 AM
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get a cpap off craigslist if you can't get one through insurance go to CPAPTALK.COM , read up on how to program it I DID THIS and it CHANGED MY LIFE sleep apnea will put you in an early grave if you don't get a handle on it. My father and best friend both had a prolapsed mitral valve (-> open heart surgery will FUCK YOU UP) because they wouldn't use their cpap. my brother in law died in his sleep becuase he wouldn't use his cpap at 10 year followup, apnea patients who refused to use their CPAP w…
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:07 AM
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Much higher, perhaps. .. to say nothing of your own career. Although if you want one and you want kids, have the kids first. Putting the career first often means a fretful attempt to silence the biological clock followed by a round or 10 of infertility treatments - with a dubious chance of success. And once you raise toddlers, up through their powerful adolescence, until they are well established and ready to launch (you'll know by the time a kid is 15 if they'll make practical adults), running …
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 04:59 AM
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... and I think you may possibly benefit from sharpening your assessment of yourself. Maybe you're not masculine; maybe you're just so strong that you're stronger than many men, but with a true man like the one in the post I referenced above from MRP, you'd just be intensely feminine relative to him, and wouldn't be perceived as masculine at all. As Einstein said, "everything's relative".
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 04:53 AM
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Well, well. As I already observed, you are somewhat smarter than the average bear, and this shows it even more plainly. Smart plan: get your head on a little bit straighter for a bit. And meanwhile keep your eyes peeled for a likely prospect. Don't settle (as if you could). You deserve someone like a big shot professor or a senator or a Fortune 500 CEO. Or higher. Much higher, perhaps. Fair winds and following seas, lass.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 04:16 AM
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She definitely wore the trousers I next think this: guy #1 was maybe relatively less dominant than #2, and also less stereotypically dominant than you, and you didn't want to end up like your mother, dominating your man - so you picked the one you couldn't dominate. I've heard it said that no matter where most women fall on the dominance spectrum, they typically want a man who's a bit more dominant than they are. Unless the woman is just not feminine, and then they want to dominate the man. My g…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 12:46 AM
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Variable schedule of reinforcement Were your parents unpredictable ? Guy #1 was probably capable of protecting you; your parents didn't protect you, so it wasn't on your radar as a thing to look for in a relationship. Maybe try mapping all your parents' characteristics, separate them into functional and dysfunctional, and then look for guys who have none of the dysfunctional ones, and practice relating to and appreciating people who have the opposite of your parents' dysfunctional traits/behavio…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/19 11:32 PM
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Ok, I will repost to askrpc with more details. What stats are you referring to?
/r/RPChristians17/10/19 02:21 AM
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I've come to pretty good terms with my son's death My little brother passed when he was 5. My mom never got over it 50 years later, I don't think that's possible. I suspect your wife's very dark comments ("if I had cancer, I wouldn't go to the doctor") are a strong sign that she is still not close to integrating the experience. It can get better but not automatically. Neglecting this guarantees it won't get better. Life, not she, has thrown you the ultimate comfort test, and the more you follow …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/19 06:54 PM
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American church is just dog shit. I see it as a structural issue in the relation of the Body to the world. People in underground churches in communist or mohammedan countries, who experience an existential risk, never complain like that. They are starving for the Spirit in the communion of the saints. Looking for water in a thirsty land. If I get into my airconditioned car and drive to an airconditioned megachurch with a $15,000 media system that shows me a clip from the 'Christian' movie Firepr…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/19 06:32 PM
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Something strange this morning....she gave me a kiss before I left for work. A woman once told me "a woman is not going to put her mouth on you if she doesn't like you." You might not realize it but a story like what you are telling here is so important because there are a lot of guys in your shoes (years of slipping up) who need to see that it's possible to just take baby steps and get small results. There are guys with solid success in getting their wives on board/cooperating, porn style sex l…
/r/askMRP21/09/19 05:03 PM
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Women being vague/indirect drives me crazy, and not in a good way. And vice versa. I am usually occupied when I'm in public and have no time or patience for mindreading. The woman I'm hanging with now started out by saying (in a really fun conversation) "let's finish this conversation later! Take my number!" Bingo. We've done some great stuff together: studying aviation, visit an Air Traffic Control tower up in the top of the tower with that incredible view, etc. She set the tone: "I am a dynami…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/19 01:52 AM
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so much this. communication is the key to a successful relationship. if you can't talk about this, how are you going to talk about any of the 1,000 other things that will arise in relationship with everyone ever.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/19 12:47 AM
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He'll figure it out. Not without motivation and a generous clue from outside his frame of reference he won't. That's why 'move out' is such popular advice in this thread: it makes sense. Currently OP is rewarding crazymaking behavior. Moving out will insulate OP from the crazymaking, end the wasted rewards OP is squandering on this kid, and send the kid a needed message: "you want an adult relationship, act like an adult". The missing piece is the clue. He would benefit from reading r/ASKMRP and…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/19 12:37 AM
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Keto, yes, but that's a side effect. It's much simpler and easier to follow than keto: https://meatheals.com/2018/02/04/charlene-andersen/ Plants are full of anti nutrients and toxins. All kinds of Auto immune disorders go away on the all meat way of eating.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/19 07:32 PM
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I hope you're right (that things will get better), for everyone's sake. I hope you're wrong (that the situation will improve when he improves) because that proves he was the problem and I'm feeling loyal to my boy here. I hope things don't improve when he improves to the 'reasonable person' evidentiary standard because that will prove she's just a (w)itch and that will create/justify a _ Taming of the Shrew _ story arc which will be more enjoyably empowering for him, ultimately more arousing for…
/r/RPChristians18/09/19 02:45 PM
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A good method for deflecting is to be "wing man" for the fat chicks and tell them to point out who they want and take them to go make friends. Basically turn them into a beta orbiter. When you're across the bar and the girl you really want sees you being outgoing it doesn't matter that you just met these people. This is top level tactical thinking.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 03:10 AM
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how the hell did you think of this simple formula: yes = maybe maybe = no no = yes Believe what she does, not what she says
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 03:03 AM
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there are other more craftsman-like, stronger ideas for making a camera mount for the tripod but coat hanger wire is everywhere, free, works easily with a pair of pliers, and is practically immediate. And with careful technique, a coat of black paint, (or even sleeved over with flexible tubing) and a good design it could even look not-terrible.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 06:29 PM
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Get a tripod from the thrift store and use coat hanger wire to make a bracket to hold your phone.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 04:01 PM
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She's cranky from not sleeping well. does not equal: My wife is a highly angry/anxious type. When one thing doesn't go her way, the whole world is on fire and burning around her and she normally wants everyone to die in the flames with her to feel her "pain" or "frustration". Either he is exaggerating the extent to which this is her default mode or you don't believe his description is accurate.
/r/RPChristians17/09/19 03:56 PM
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if you ever got a chance to hear/see his appearance at one of David D.'s seminars back in the day, you would know it really was his lifestyle. cat was legit the mack daddy when he was single. Tony Robbins was not fooled by this guy, he was who he said he was.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 11:46 PM
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dude. it's not snake oil. it worked for him. are you saying he lied about everything?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 11:42 PM
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No amount of game or "alpha male strategy" will fix your decomposing goblin face. ...and yet this guy here got laid like a rock star before he settled down he co-authored a book too, with Tony Robbins and maybe you're looking at it from a limited perspective, and less beautiful people should not curl up and die, they should make the most of life.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 10:29 PM
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Some dudes are just fucking ugly. Not everyone is redeemable. Yeah ? This guy got laid like a rock star before he settled down So I don't really have any excuse. RIP Sean Stephenson - giant of a man.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 09:49 PM
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takes a modest amount of courage but learn to cut your own hair. Save a lot of time. And experiment with different cuts, too. I gave myself a different style a couple of weeks ago and the first 5 people who saw me when I went back to work gave me big eyes: "nice haircut!"
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 09:00 PM
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Hard to say which is the worst; here's another: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24IfD-0VUu4
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 08:43 PM
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" free yourself from mental slavery" - Bob Marley [edit]: good point, though - what we could use is a list of red pill songs/movies / etc.. Red Pilled movie: _ The Moth _ from the novel by Cookson
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 08:41 PM
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this advice you are getting is brilliant, really.
/r/RPChristians17/08/19 10:13 PM
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aww
/r/RPChristians17/08/19 04:13 AM
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Yep
/r/RPChristians16/08/19 11:23 PM
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STOP RUNNING YOUR HANDS THROUGH MY HAIR!!!" I told her: You know you like it when I do that. I'm confused. Was she kidding? If you don't know, did you ask open ended questions about her request to get to the bottom of it? Maybe she likes it but wants to differentiate herself (become her own person) and developing boundaries is even more important to her at this point.
/r/RPChristians16/08/19 11:23 PM
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Once you are a free man, life and options will look a lot different to you. At your age, things change a lot month to month and year to year. She can change, you can change... Let go of definite planning that far out, there are way too many variables. Set yourself up with options so that when a chance to make a break presents itself, you can waltz right out of there a free man. That's not going to happen unless you address all the issues raised by FuzzyKitten. The other risk is that if you don't…
/r/RPChristians16/08/19 08:38 PM
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It's really good advice. Except I would clarify "If you are going remain together with this girl" make sure that you do it after you are out on your own, after platonically dating a lot of other women, and comparing them all for how well they fit you and your as-yet undefined mission. Everything else T4C24 said is solid. All this doctrinal back and forth is a pointless distraction. You're saved? Great. Let's move on. From a practical standpoint, the main issues are You need to start testing her …
/r/RPChristians16/08/19 08:38 PM
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you're sexually active, then tried to ... keep us from pegging you...
/r/RPChristians16/08/19 06:23 PM
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how about telling us your goals by wording them in a way that won't give away your identity?
/r/RPChristians16/08/19 06:21 PM
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I>working on your appearance is huge, especially body shape. I walk around all day and shake my head at all the women who could raise their SMV 1-5 points, no exaggeration, by eliminating grains, fruits and starches. Check out Charlene Anderson on meatheals.com, it will blow your mind. If a woman actually wants a man, she is shooting herself in the foot if she ignores this truth and eats more than a small amount of carbs. I've lived exclusively on meat for a year, never been so healthy. Its extr…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 03:05 AM
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If it comes to move on and learn You should get the book, and develop an abundance mentality. There's plenty of guys who would respect you for having values and insisting your worth is more than just for sex. It will also protect you from heartache and confusion after being ghosted by a guy who shared your most intimate self. Also free you up to spend time talking to guys who value you for you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 02:47 AM
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Yep
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 02:39 AM
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the book "why men marry some women and not others". ... is a work of genius. Very insightful and practical. Get it on Amazon. You are sick of guys ghosting you after you give up sex to them. What you were doing wasn't working. You hated it. You still hate it. It appears that you are stuck between two different strategies, using both a little sex to keep him and you hope, not enough sex for you to feel vulnerable. It looks like even this much sex is enough for you to feel vulnerable though, which…
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/19 02:38 AM
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Ok, lots of stories of women who have failed, but have you seen stories of women who succeeded in triggering their man to lead? Or is it all just women learning to be happy in spite of him not leading? Because the FW materials describe lots of successes; why not in RPW?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/19 11:25 PM
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"Do Not Talk About Fight Club"
/r/askMRP04/08/19 10:07 AM
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likely she just wanted out of the marriage the rationalization hamster - I've met that one. I am tracking with everyone here. DNTAFC I felt like a douche just thinking about a conversation like that .
/r/askMRP04/08/19 12:48 AM
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I liked CF a lot for the variety of activities, which gave me much improved overall coordination in fine and gross motor skills. They have some stupid exercises though, like box jumps with weights in your hands. Stretched out the ligaments and tendons in my knees, I thought I had fucked something up but I recovered with no real lasting injury. Stay away from stupid exercises and learn from them how to program variety. My box was a friendly place. The WOD included some Oly lifts at a faster pace …
/r/askMRP03/08/19 08:44 PM
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girls they’re with (like an alpha widow lets say) try to “game” them into growing balls, and exaggerate submissiveness to the point of helplessness I've never seen this but maybe I need to get out more. How often have you seen it? This sounds like a caricature of the Fascinating Womanhood techniques done wrong. Doomed to fail. The FW people say their method works for them in real life but it includes a lot that you have left out of that failed formula (like forgiveness and genuiine admiration) a…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/19 07:55 PM
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eHarmony dating site, not hookup app
/r/RPChristians02/08/19 02:57 AM
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is this a tactic guys use to try and get me into bed with them? ding ding ding
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 12:31 AM
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What about moving somewhere with more people ? eHarmony used to have a lot of Christian women. Haven't looked lately.
/r/RPChristians02/08/19 12:14 AM
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Do you read insincerity in my other comments here ?
/r/RedPillWives01/08/19 11:06 PM
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If I'd been sarcastic, I could deny it, and you'd be no further ahead in your understanding. If it's sincere, I'd feel on the defensive trying to convince you. No DEERing. Or you could engage in self-soothing your hamster by looking at my other comments in this thread, apply the 'reasonable person' standard of evidence, and trust your own judgement.
/r/RedPillWives01/08/19 05:58 PM
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What do you think you're reading there?
/r/askMRP01/08/19 11:04 AM
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something seductive about the idea that it is actually all our fault...we women can make or break a relationship I see this as a theme sometimes when women talk about relationships- my ex actually conceptualized our relationship , in so many words, as a power struggle. What if there is a hunger for agency, self-efficacy, empowerment, in everyone, and it can be completely satisfied by exerting oneself to be the best person one can imagine, while allowing others the freedom to pursue that life for…
/r/RedPillWives31/07/19 05:57 PM
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heh
/r/RedPillWives31/07/19 05:14 PM
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lucky man
/r/RedPillWives31/07/19 05:08 PM
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[clapping]
/r/RedPillWives31/07/19 05:07 PM
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perspective on the female hamster among other things
/r/askMRP31/07/19 04:05 PM
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Seems to work. It doesn't. You'd have to read their source documents. If you believe them.
/r/askMRP31/07/19 03:59 PM
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one of the few responsive comments to the post. You know this isn’t about RP. How do you mean? Maybe we have a different definition of RP. I understand RP to be a process of applying the understanding of genetically driven behaviors to male/female dynamics to come up with techniques to manage your behavior relative to the opposite sex: dropping the failures, keeping what works, and sharing the insights with others. My wife didn’t find RP and she was trying many of the things they spout. This doe…
/r/askMRP31/07/19 03:59 PM
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most women are incapable of articulating what they want from you and because they want you to "get it". Most, very true; I'd say almost all. Unless they develop insight and acquire tools to act on it. I'm wondering about the outliers. They just won't tell YOU. Even the ones who follow that plan referenced above don't explain anything, they just change their behavior and ask for specific things, not "I want you to be more masculine". It's manipulative in one way, but in another way, it's just a w…
/r/askMRP31/07/19 03:40 PM
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at first I thought, 'what a pithy, sarcastic, ironic answer'. actually almost pretty good advice, in a way.
/r/askMRP31/07/19 03:17 PM
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one of the few responsive comments in this thread They have it in their blood. Unless they consciously choose beta bucks. opposite ends of the same spectrum. can see/assert need for captaincy<------------->passive/dependent; lacking insight; narcissist fathers matter.
/r/askMRP31/07/19 03:16 PM
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r/zerocarb http://meatheals.com/category/weight-loss/ it cured my cancer and my gout, YMMV. it wasn't a placebo because I never dreamed it would fix anything. I didn't personally need to lose weight but my body has been recompositioning anyway. I never count macros or calories, I just eat as much meat as I want. healthiest I've ever been in my life. the adaptation period to the diet was more of a challenge for me than for some. I used to be carb addicted, hangry all the time. now I can stop eati…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/19 10:15 PM
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I’m not passively standing by the laundry. and I’m just a woman standing by a pile of laundry asking my man to notice me... congrats on the shag ! There’re is stuff I’m handing back to him great! now continue to Doyle him thoroughly every day, and just keep doing it !
/r/RedPillWives27/07/19 09:29 PM
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anytime, I'm glad to help, let us know how you make out. glad to hear you are going to be thinking it through, that's a winning strategy as long as you make a decision and take action after all the thinking. all the best
/r/RedPillWives27/07/19 09:14 PM
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He doesn't respect you or genuinely love you if he needs to be told these basic things. OP said he grew up this way. He thinks this way because that's his norm, not because he doesn't love her. He had all these ideas indoctrinated into his world view before he met her, and it doesn't prevent him from loving or respecting her up to the limit of what his world view allows. Their ideas of love and respect are diverging. There may be a spark of love and respect there for her on his part. It's not bu…
/r/RedPillWives27/07/19 07:29 PM
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I do so much for him. Too much. He is pampered. You can't pamper him too much. Pampering is good. the problem is you are doing tasks that are his, not yours, and calling it 'pampering', and you are neglecting to persist in asking him to do certain things that meet your needs. You're on the right track. But talking yourself into thinking you would be 'ok' if you left him - you're playin' with fire, there, lady. live my own life pleasing myself You are pleasing yourself, now, to the extent that yo…
/r/RedPillWives27/07/19 06:46 PM
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only done 3 bottles of gin since April organicsunshine is dead on the money. alcohol is a stimulant and removes inhibitions/self control while stimulated: a recipe for disaster/aggression. it's also a depressant, both of mood and physiology, so you feel dopey and sleepy. the depressant effect wears off first, so it's easier to wake up in the morning after drinking, because the stimulant effect is still acting. alcohol is kryptonite for frame control. powerfully destructive effect on self control…
/r/RedPillWives27/07/19 03:29 PM
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he's realized his mistake and is working on improving. he deserves some credit, not getting shit on.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:24 AM
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Yeah, no shit. This: that's your own damn fault is crab bucket mentality. Keep up the good work, man.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:04 PM
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guy who takes pity on himself and is lazy... how do you get that from Been on a self help kick for about a year now which is what led me to trp ... omad and fasted walks after work everyday for a few weeks now. Trying to turn it around You're not giving tough love, you're kicking a guy when he's down and working on getting better.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:03 PM
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for a few weeks now. Trying to turn it around and be patient, too. one foot in front of the other. the small wins of doing the right thing every day will add up.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 01:59 PM
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cool
/r/RedPillWives15/07/19 12:23 AM
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We were driving and my husband saw a woman running in short shorts. He said, “when we aren’t having sex, seeing that makes it sooo hard to not be attracted “. He was trying to explain how turned on he is visually. I said “look, I get it doesn’t go away because we are married. But I don’t need to hear about it”. And he has been respectful of that for me. I understood this completely differently from the way you did. He saw an attractive woman, and then opened up his mind /feelings to you and told…
/r/RedPillWives14/07/19 01:16 AM
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There is no MDR for fiber. It's harmful. My digestion works much better than ever without fiber. All kinds of people are curing themselves of all kinds of diseases, especially GI stuff (Crohn's, IBS, celiac, etc.), from going to meat only. meatheals.com
/r/askTRP06/07/19 07:16 PM
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Tyler's... in field crap I love the guy, and the arc of his backstory. But the women he games infield mostly seem like drunks and airheads. I'd love to see infield of his day game, meeting women in a business setting, or at, for example, a tennis court or sailing club.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 02:08 PM
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I have no fucking clue what this guy is saying. That's because he has no insight. He's just rationalizing his failure to learn to execute the skills game.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 02:03 PM
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True... true. They should watch _ Ground Hog Day _ because it shows that process/dynamic perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 02:02 PM
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Trolling was better in my day. heh. "Hey you kids, get off my lawn." the ultimate key to self improvement, for free: Read how to make friends and influence people, there is also an audiobook if you can't read. Hit the Gym. Dress at least okay, get a decent haircut, and personal hygiene. Learn about something interesting, what doesn't really matter, its more in how you say things than what you say. Interact with girls. There you go. There is no secret beyond that. Might add learning to dance, pla…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 02:00 PM
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in the absence of a strong male frame, they will cannibalize their own children to feed their pettiness. Albanian sworn virgins is parallel to modern women turning their sons into fake ' girls ' to get attention: it's another case of Munchausen's by Proxy. Kipling had it right a hundred years ago: every fibre of her frame Proves her launched for one sole issue, armed and engined for the same; And to serve that single issue, lest the generations fail, The female of the species must be deadlier th…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/19 01:41 PM
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and pemmican. I rely on pemmican more and more these days in a situation like this, it's perfect. Also sausage.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 11:41 AM
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I used to do that but now I'm zero carb, living solely on meat for the last year. I do eat meat in the car on the way to work but I only have time to eat maybe 3/4 pound during my commute and I need about 3 pounds of meat a day.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 11:44 PM
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I tell myself to not give a fuck what other people think, and to just approach anyways. It does not help at all Practice approaching like it's a job. Set a schedule, a goal, x number a day, and go To it relentlessly. It's like lifting, you gotta put in the work.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 11:20 PM
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It's hard for me to see how I can do that. You don't build frame by thinking about frame. You build frame by starting where you are, with what you have, exercising frame the best way you know how, then doing it better every day compared to the day before. Practice the skills in real life, in real time. There's no other way. Find a social / hobby group and volunteer for some leadership roles.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 11:16 PM
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I get up at 4 am and have to jump in the car, no time to cook, get to work and immediately am running all day long, maybe 10 or 15 minutes here or there during the day, get off work at 4 PM, rush home to bed. Too exhausted to get up and cook during the night or in the morning. I need to change my shift. I've never had a job that sucked this bad. Everyone is quitting.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 11:10 PM
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There are hotter women out there than your step sister and you need to go find them. Maybe someone else suggested this and I missed it, but- stop hanging around with her. Make it a gradual change over a period of about a month. Go to the gym, hang out with brothers in Christ, develop a hobby that will get you meeting women, go to a variety of different churches with brothers, not with her. She will want to know why, and if you make this change like an autistic person, she might take it personall…
/r/RPChristians04/07/19 08:46 PM
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This is all totally fixable. You just need the one key that unlocks the mystery. The consensus here is: lose the apps and approach like mad. Apps are just a productivity hack/tool for guys who are already have game in person. If you have the money, do a boot camp. If not, watch enough of pua / game videos to get the basic idea, then discipline yourself to approach every day, because there is no way you can untangle this without live, in person, real time practice. The one critical element missin…
/r/askTRP04/07/19 06:25 PM
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My job keeps me too busy to eat, it's insane. That's just me, idk about OP... but it's possible.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 06:13 PM
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Buddha in the marketplace, right here on Reddit. Look at some Buddhist artwork called The Oxherding Pictures... if you haven't already.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 05:51 PM
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I experimented with biphasic sleep recently and I'm a new man, getting 8 hours a night, feel like 30 years younger, no exaggeration.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 04:35 PM
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No. You cannot judge a man by what he's doing to a woman Men's behavior toward women exists on a spectrum from guys beyond you, through you, to Ted Bundy. The effect a man has on a woman/women is important, to everyone: men, women, children, society in general. That's why it was so often weaponized and propagandized when it comes to Supreme Court appointments. Its import is a real, not imagined thing. the "wrong" direction is only wrong if the man or woman is acting against his or her interests …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 07:58 PM
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Your post here is the best I've read about how, once you've found a partner who has also escaped, to proceed with your partner I think the point of the post was that he helped her escape; he stuck with her and helped her wake up and unplug. Without him, she'd probably still be stuck, and not know why because her emotions cloud her logic and insight.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 04:51 PM
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I think you have hit the nail on the head, identifying men's process that goes on in parallel with the growth process developing in the other half of the human race. I need to grow as much as my exes / future partner (if any) need it. I made a comment a while back about how the Cock Carousel damages men, too, but in a specifically masculine way. Got downvotes for that idea but I think you are seeing something similar, and your post jogs my thinking on the subject. Here's the key (IMO) to underst…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/19 04:42 PM
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incel slayer how does that work? (serious question)
/r/RedPillWives28/06/19 02:56 PM
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I think you handled it well. +1
/r/askMRP28/06/19 01:55 PM
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This is super unusual/new/modern, few people are doing it yet but you could try zero carb: meat only. I have eaten only meat for about a year now: no plants. No fruits, no vegetables, no grains. If the vitamin C from fruits was necessary I would have died of scurvy about 8 months ago. Plants increase your need for vitamin C. No plants, smaller need for C. On the second day, a basal cell carcinoma on my cheek started to itch, dry up, shrink, heal over , now it's almost gone. YMMV It worked out pr…
/r/RedPillWives26/06/19 10:24 PM
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...yeah, I missed the boat here somewhat, presented these ideas all wrong, too confrontational. Hope you and your family are doing well.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/19 10:26 PM
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Great response. I zeroed in on career/money because you said it was the driver for her losing attraction. Maybe a more accurate way of looking at it is to say it was the abdication of leadership in the situation that killed her attraction. Attraction is coming back but not as fast as you want, or in the way you want. What if the money was a proxy in her mind for your lack of drive and initiative, i.e., leadership? Your lackadaisical approach to the non-Main Event was an expression of lack of dri…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/19 09:27 PM
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I'm not going to pick through this pile of hubris. I don't think I exhibit hubris: English picked up both the concept of hubris and the term for that particular brand of cockiness from the ancient Greeks, who considered hubris a dangerous character flaw capable of provoking the wrath of the gods. In classical Greek tragedy, hubris was often a fatal shortcoming that brought about the fall of the tragic hero. Typically, overconfidence led the hero to attempt to overstep the boundaries of human lim…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/19 01:41 PM
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Well, that's two votes, from u/johneyapocalypse ("Insightful comment.") and u/BostonBrakeJob ("Holy shit man....Well done. Sincerely."). I appreciate the feedback, gentlemen. If only u/Reach180 felt the same way. But like I said, I wrote it for me as well. This is all stuff I fucked up myself when I was married, and needed to get a handle on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/19 10:02 PM
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If it doesn't sound useful to you, at least I had the experience of thinking through the issues. What strikes me is that you gave two vague complaints saying I was wrong, then talked about how you feel about your job, but haven't refuted any of my specific points. That's a great way to hang on to your blind spots- refusing to deal with specifics. she's the type who shuts down at any real criticism I know someone just like that. I don't think I was picking apart phrasing or interpreting my own wo…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/19 02:51 AM
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thanks man, I had to split it up and re-post because it got too long.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 09:54 PM
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What if there's nothing that she needs to do, and this is just the next phase of what you need to do: keep doing what works, and enjoy what you have, and eventually she will feel secure enough to let down her guard. When she lets down her guard, then you will have what you want from sex with her. Automatically. It won't be hysterical bonding, it will be her abandoning herself to you. If she's not there yet, maybe you still have work to do, and maybe that is the same work you've already done, jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 09:51 PM
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" I'm getting exactly what [physical interactions] I asked for and it's not turning out to really give me be what [kind of emotional kick] I [really] want." Do I understand what happened ? You want her to give you something? How is this sexual interaction different from a validation-seeking conversation ? And what are the chances that if you stay the course, she has the time (months) to consider her options and think it through, and decide to grow? I suspect that any time a guy has any kind of F…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 09:49 PM
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" I'm getting exactly what [physical interactions] I asked for and it's not turning out to really give me ~~be~ what [kind of emotional kick] I [really] want." Do I understand what happened ? You want her to give you something? How is this sexual interaction different from a validation seeking conversation ? And what are the chances that if you stay the course, she has the time (months) to consider her options and think it through, and decide to grow? I suspect that any time a guy has any kind o…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 05:52 PM
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Found out my grandfather was a complete stranger
/r/askMRP20/04/19 08:15 PM
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OPSEC (Operational Security) you have given enough specific information for someone who knows you to figure out your identity and inform your wife of you plans. Uncommon first name for child, timing of professional exam, delete that shit and leave it off next time. Chances of blowback for this are small but the downside isn't worth the risk. "toddler child"; "busy with work project" gives us enough info.
/r/askMRP20/04/19 08:12 PM
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I wonder why that's not suggested more often. It's a two fer one. She sees the dread competition watching you lift, she gets your company, you are a team. If she says no then it makes her lack of commitment obvious. What's the downside?
/r/askMRP20/04/19 07:28 PM
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Crossfit changed the way I carried myself. I like Stronglifts 5x5 for the strength gains but the 10 points of fitness in Crossfit made me feel more 'ready for anything': confident. Maybe she sees that. Plus there are way more chicks (dread) in a Crossfit box than in a weight room.
/r/askMRP20/04/19 07:24 PM
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That could totally work. Would also be good to find a good wingman. I hear you on the expense. If he has the bread and is motivated and teachable, a boot camp could get him off dead center, but it's not the only way. The main thing is to get out there and start learning good skills by reading about then or watching videos, then practice. A lot. Become an approach machine. His first post was looking for feedback, though, which is a good sign. Everyone needs it, few will seek it , however he gets …
/r/RPChristians09/07/18 12:32 PM
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The advice to work on yourself and your game is correct. Next time she'll get a cold stare. She's not the problem here. Attraction is not a choice, and if you don't have game here, you wont have it there in [Foreign country). Go to a boot camp, work with a coach. You can fix this.
/r/RPChristians09/07/18 03:56 AM
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Does anyone have any stories of this working out well? I have several stories about it not working out well (slow learner, apparently).
/r/RPChristians19/05/18 09:27 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing, I can't imagine what you went (and are going) through. I looked at an explanation, and it was a real eye-opener. (Don't look at that if you're squeamish because in addition to explaining the procedure clearly, it's a graphic video of an operation like yours). I've never heard of this, and wonder if my ex-wife had it. As far as parents/Catholics are concerned, Robert Louis Stevenson said, "If we could but read the secret history of our enemies, we should find sorrow…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 10:05 PM
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exactly
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/18 05:26 AM
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I just said "I bet you'd be fun to go to ... with" He said "I do! That'd be a good time!" I like that approach. It's an open door, not a direction for him to follow. I bet expanding that concept would work.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/18 05:21 AM
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Bravo!
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/18 05:18 AM
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The consequences of trading up are more horrifying! So much this. A man who has the guts to deploy to a combat zone... strength right there. The guts to admit he's not perfect... holy cow. The guts to work out his shit on his own initiative? Sounds like a keeper.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/18 05:16 AM
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Educating myself on the subject has made me decide to stay with him and work through the problem. Yay! A mature decision IMHO. All the best to the both of you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/18 05:13 AM
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u/carrotriver , this sounds like it might be on the right track somehow
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/18 05:11 AM
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If you don't mind explaining, what was the operation called ? What kind of physical therapy? Because it might be relevant, and I see a lot of advice about the relationship and the mechanics of sex but I still don't understand your physical/anatomical situation. The bit about being able to orgasm with fantasy is puzzling, too. We're a bunch of random strangers on the Internet - we're not going to judge you (I hope!), so can you tell us what fantasies you find effective? It seems like another poss…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/18 05:09 AM
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Jesus-Chad complex TIL Thank you reddit...[looks off into space, hand to chin ]
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/18 04:53 AM
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Once a person has the IQ to get into a certain field (e.g., 120 for medical school), emotional intelligence accounts for about 90% of prosperity by the time the career is over at retirement. So both are important.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/18 04:45 AM
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Put it into practice, a bit at a time, and keep track of what happens, then get back to us. It's been a famous bestseller for years for a reason. Reading it and then claiming it won't work, but it you haven't put it into practice, proves that you are missing the point by a mile.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 12:39 AM
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I have heard of much less ejaculate post-vasectomy. You're saying there was no noticeable difference for you?
/r/askMRP25/03/18 02:04 AM
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Vasectomy seems redundant when you've already given her your balls. ...wow. I've been away from this sub for a while, forgot what it's like. Narrator: Testicular cancer's mine, that one should be a no-brainer. Marla : Technically, I have more of a right to be there than you; you still have your balls. Narrator: You're kidding, right? Marla: I don't know. Am I? FWIW, some women, I've read, have way less attraction if you're not giving them a good dose of ejaculate. They get off on the sensations,…
/r/askMRP25/03/18 01:56 AM
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Different places have different strengths. I go to a few churches. They are all goofy in some way. No church organization will give you fellowship, it's always with certain individuals in that place. Look for the right individuals where ever you go. Chances of finding a 'red pill friendly' church are pretty slim. If you stumble across one, great, but don't hold your breath or delay looking for fellowship because you can't find a perfect church. Nothing can prevent you from being a red pill man w…
/r/RPChristians20/02/18 04:07 PM
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Home church, took the words out of my mouth. Except I don't even make it that formal. I just focus on trying to spend quality time with other believers as I live my life. It's simply focusing on what feels glorifying in the context of my life as I live it day to day. I don't 'go to' church, I am the church and so is any other believer I meet, when we are together. It's similar to what they say about dating. Don't make a big production about it, just invite her along on what you were going to do …
/r/RPChristians15/01/18 02:16 AM
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I'd like to read that story. Edit: this sub is about praxeology, right? This guy says he found something that works.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/17 03:43 PM
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Thank you for your detailed reply, which misses the point in every detail. women who ask for a bit of tarot advice are not seeking validation read the thread; validation seeking is all through the responses on this thread. and I do not see how them making goals to better themselves is exercising bad judgement. I never objected to goal setting, I objected to using divination. Not a single one of the cards' messages are telling them to do anything negative- Never said they were; the problem is usi…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/17 03:06 AM
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I used to love lurking here to get a perspective on what kind of woman I would like to find, and it was so helpful for that. I *loved * reading about women getting things handled and I was very encouraged that I would find a unicorn - I know you all are out there, I've met some. What I see in this thread is something that turns off every Red Pill man I know: women looking for validation and guidance in the wrong place: exercising bad judgment; failing to discern a sensible course of action. I wa…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/17 02:04 PM
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There are an infinite number of possible explanations for his comment, based on the relationship he has with his wife and any conversations they might have had this week. Without inside information as to context, it's impossible to know what his comment means.
/r/RPChristians26/08/17 04:37 AM
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Never forget her look when I dropped her off - little wave goodbye and that was the end Apathy. Very bad symptom. Symptom of what? I don't understand who has the symptom, either. She's apathetic because she gave a little wave, nothing more? OP is apathetic because he seems unmoved instead of rejoicing?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/17 04:02 AM
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She like legitimately almost started crying about it The next time a woman acts like she's going to cry, say something really cold. Withdraw the beta and watch her change like a chameleon.
/r/RPChristians23/08/17 12:43 AM
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screen hard live easy Christian mothers should make that in needlepoint and hang it in the hallway outside their sons' bedrooms.
/r/RPChristians23/08/17 12:34 AM
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If he overcame the handicap and had success with women, then... what does it matter if he still has the handicap? Based on what you have already said, if you have a decent income, if you can lift and you look like it, you already have a huge advantage over Stephenson. I am positive, based on Stephenson's example, that any man, no matter what he looks like, can drastically improve his success with women. If a wheelchair bound midget with a congenital condition that causes his bones to break and c…
/r/RPChristians23/08/17 12:32 AM
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Conversations with your wife, not aimed at the girl, but in her earshot, that talk about the realities. She will be intrigued and want to know more, but only if it's a stretch for her to get it and treated like rare important grownup stuff. It's caught, not taught. Explanations will probably not engage her. From a Red Pill perspective, talk about current events; celebrities or people you all know, and how their decisions have given them certain results, constructive or destructive life outcomes.…
/r/RPChristians20/08/17 11:01 PM
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I started off with 5 minute cold showers and got pneumonia at the end of the first week. Took a break, got healthy, tried it again, got pneumonia again. It happened a third time, and now I time limit the exposure: I count the seconds and am slowly increasing the time. Wim Hof says there are levels of response to the cold. I happen to be someone who goes through the levels quickly and I reach the danger zone sooner than most. There are three variables: duration, frequency, and intensity. I go as …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 11:46 AM
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The Communists infiltrated the top echelon of Christianity, including Catholic seminaries, for generations. That's why your seminary stinks.
/r/RPChristians14/08/17 02:13 AM
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Dude. I just joined up and was going through old posts and saw that no one had responded to your comment, which deserves a response. In fact it deserves a separate thread. If you open a thread relating to the issues you raised in this comment, please PM me so I can participate. It may sound presumptuous on my part but I believe your problem is fixable. At the very least I wish you would give your brothers here a chance to give you a hand and together we'll pull you out of this hole and help you …
/r/RPChristians14/08/17 02:09 AM
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karezza... goes against red pill teachings how does it go against? Asking for a friend.
/r/askMRP11/08/17 11:13 PM
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The theory (supposedly backed up by Science) is that orgasm produces a boom/bust physiology of dopamine surges and crashes. Kind of reminds me of blood sugar fluctuations the way they talk about it. Without the drastic ups and downs, the partners stay engaged and always ready, willing and able to have gentle, slowly moving or still genital contact which can go on for hours in a dreamy state of intensely sexual and affectionate bonding. According the the author of Peace Between the Sheets, people…
/r/askMRP11/08/17 11:13 PM
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She feels pressured to do her "wifely duties" It seems like a chore for her, another thing on the list. She has every excuse available and most recently said that she has vaginal secretions the next day that make her feel like she is wetting her pants. She is wet (sexually aroused) the next day (still? again)? No one else has noticed this detail AFAIK, so I'll chime in, because I have personal experience with this phenomenon (if I understand the situation correctly). It seems like a crucial deta…
/r/askMRP11/08/17 11:06 PM
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An anthem of immature males who blame their negative outcomes with women on women instead of on their own lack of healthy masculinity. It sold well 50 years ago for the same reason Bread lyrics like "I found her diary underneath a tree, and started reading about me..." were on the radio: there's always a market for dysfunctional culture. (and some great licks in the case of LZ). I don't think referring to that LZ lyric contributes to the praxeology. If you think it does, please explain.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/17 07:21 PM
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Not projecting; speaking from personal experience. You do you. Are you saying that all women just blow it off, forget it, and no woman represses the guilt, feelings of loss, and sadness of an abortion? To say nothing of the people who work in abortion clinics - talk about stress. Tear babies limb from limb for a living and then try to sleep at night. Some people can; some can't. The ones who can live that way don't disprove the experience of the ones who quit because they can't take it anymore. …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/17 07:15 PM
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the speed she sweeps it under the rug is always impressive. FTFY but only a real spiritual experience can fix it for her now. Like a church that has a functioning post-abortion ministry. It's the worst thing she could have done to herself psychologically.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/17 04:32 PM
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Daddy issues... AWALT. IME.
/r/askMRP28/05/17 05:57 PM
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I'm kinda new to this MRP stuff, so I'm just thinking out loud here to see if I understand OP's issues. The ego investment that, "I wasn't that bad", Might not be 'ego investment', it might be a lack of perspective. He never says "I wasn't that bad"; OP is doing his best to own his shit: I can see that I'm living deeeeep into her frame... This hurts to write but to be fair her role as captain has been due to my shortcomings. So that doesn't sound like "I wasn't that bad", and I don't get that fr…
/r/askMRP28/05/17 01:52 PM
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This comment seems cryptic to me, WAS. Are you saying that OP needs to focus strictly on his own behavior and if​ the marriage survives, it'll be because the wife decides that OP is attractive enough for her to do what it takes to keep him?
/r/askMRP28/05/17 11:59 AM
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You got three downvotes, does anyone know why? Are you saying that she is trying to use gratitude and praise to manipulate OP into staying with her in spite of the fact that her 10 year younger self, if magically transported into the present, could cause OP to leave her because of the way she is now? In other words, she admits her SMV is lower than many other younger women now and the only reason they are still together is because no other younger hotter woman has made a move on him yet? A lot o…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/17 12:54 AM
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My question was incomplete. Whom are you saying is wrong? I think you meant to say the OP was wrong. In the layout of the page, you were replying to /u/InChargeMan above who said MRP ... cannot force "her" to follow and you got downvotes for saying that was wrong.
/r/askMRP19/05/17 06:19 PM
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In the evening following sex she's looking for any excuse for a fight and getting pissed at me. Could be this. Boom and bust neurotransmitter cycle, dopamine crash.
/r/askMRP19/05/17 09:43 AM
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You got 4 downvotes. Why is he wrong ?
/r/askMRP19/05/17 09:37 AM
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This also puzzled me. I am sexually attracted to women and so anytime I am aroused, I'm thinking about some woman. I don't see how it's possible. Like 'breathing' ( moving diaphragm and chest) with your mouth and nose plugged: nothing happens. Edit: unless this is like a Zen koan: contemplating a paradox is supposed to provoke you to have a realization that pops into your mind, bypassing logic. If I'm attracted to women, and can't get sexual stimulation without porn or fantasy, does that mean...…
/r/askMRP17/04/17 02:26 PM
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I didn't mean you weren't attracted to women. I am under the impression that women have not responded to you with attraction. It ain't rocket surgery. Lift, approach, DGAF, have fun, these are all things that anyone can just decide is worth doing, and do it. Find wingmen. Put yourself out there. No one is going to drag you out of your house to date you, but if you drag yourself out of your house and start approaching women everywhere, eventually something will click. It's like a law of nature. I…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 02:03 AM
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http://www.reuniting.info/karezza_korner_intro Confidence from a big penis is great but it is completely unnecessary. It's just icing on the cake. Too bad finding s girl into that is very rare. You only need one. Women want to be led. If you were to meet a woman and she wanted to sleep with you, and she was an openminded person, and you told her "I have studied this sexual technique that completely will blow your mind, it's very subtle and low impact..." and then share it with her, she's not goi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 01:57 AM
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Warming up religiously? Did you get any coaching from anyone at Thunder's place or PEGYM.COM? Even if PE doesn't work after exhausting all avenues, there's still the option of using Karezza, which makes size irrelevant. And the only things keeping you from finding a woman with whom you can do Karezza is Sexual Market Value (game) and RMV. This is totally fixable. ANYONE can raise their SMV and attract a woman if they work at it. Ever see Sean Stevenson and his wife? If HE can mack, anyone can ma…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 12:59 AM
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Practically no one finds a good relationship through luck. It takes work. Approach, approach, approach. Burn through your resistance. Get blown out enough times that you just don't give a shit. Approach some more. Let go of your inner censor and say whatever outrageous shit comes into your head, and eventually it will start to stick and get results. Women want a man. You can be a man. Lift. Keeping to yourself guarantees that you'll be by yourself. All the opportunity in the world is outside you…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 12:47 AM
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Have you tried pumping? How many different routines and moves have you tried?
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 12:43 AM
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With all due respect, I think you are sublimating and rationalizing and minimizing. If you were to become very attractive to women and confident with them, and started having ethical sex with a woman who was just what you wanted, would you be more satisfied with your life than you are now? If the answer is yes, then that future is so attainable it's not funny. EDIT: I'm not interested in gaming anyone The only way to succeed with women is with game. Game is the study of what women want, based on…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 12:42 AM
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Can you see the contradiction on the one hand between this: I feel he's being a total man baby about the injury. It's completely upset and hindered his way of life, yes, BUT, with surgery and physiotherapy (6months+), it can be nearly 100% fixed. And on the other hand, this: A week later, I texted him again asking him what went wrong. No response. A few mutual friends said he looked like he was in really rough shape so I texted him again, cringe, I know. I let him know that I was there for him. …
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/17 12:20 AM
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That NoPorn/NoFap nonsense is just a big placebo. There is a huge number of guys who would laugh at that statement. PornMasturbationOrgasm (PMO) is a real threat to any man's functioning. Their stories of addiction are heartbreaking, and their success stories are heartwarming and encouraging. You are doing the world a disservice by speaking against something that is dramatically helping men who need help.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 11:09 PM
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IMHO, the answer is more than one tactic. Karezza makes size irrelevant. Learn game. Game gets you more women in your life, and creates abundance. Abundance creates confidence. All it takes is one woman who will practice Karezza with you and all this will become a non-issue. Once you find a woman, if you want, practice PE. Do it smart, you'll get results. All of the stories I have read of guys who had limited success were not doing it right, and when they fixed their routine, they grew. Just don…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 11:05 PM
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Issue with size or girth- can't fix it Absolutely false. The ignorance about this on the part of urologists is a crime. And don't get me started on circumcision Male Genital Mutilation... PEGYM.com, the book Exercising the Penis Speaking from personal experience here. Go slow, be careful, be serious about it. It can take a while, but it is completely worth the effort. My increase in length and girth was amazing, and the improvement in erectile quality, too. Just take it slow an easy, Rome wasn't…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/17 10:59 PM
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You have plenty of credibility with the kids; they love your attention. you have plenty with mom, too, "you're better with them than I am". You already have tangible results: they love you. I think I hear you overthinking this, and catastrophizing. Love them all and have fun, and pray for them if you're into that. Mainly have fun. Positivity is contagious, alluring. Lessons are caught, not taught. Model what you want to see them have. You have the right beliefs and skills, and you are in the dri…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 01:55 AM
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Seeing a single woman interact with someone else's child in a good-mothering way is one of the most potent instant RMV-boosters I've ever experienced! THIS !
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 01:51 AM
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If you like the attention (more than you like him as an individual - i.e. Do you spend more time thinking about the traits you admire in him or how he impacts you and your life?...) I'd let him know you're moving on out of respect to him. Very good point and great advice. Just goes to show that application of RPW principles can prevent a woman from expressing some of the traits (e.g., in this case, solipsism) that drive TRP men up the wall. This will make you MUCH more attractive to a truly high…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 11:49 PM
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IMHO you're parenting the wrong people. The crazy mom n dad probably had the same kind of upbringing, and incompetent parents. So you're in the situation. In order to not go nuts and satisfy your moral/ethical nature you do something. What if you changed the nature of your interaction with the crazy mom, and started to mentor her? What's wrong with being a friend to her and coaching her? When I think back on my own upbringing, it would have been so much more practical if people had come alongsid…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 08:10 PM
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I got something out of it. I like short and direct. Good reminder that simple works.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/17 01:30 PM
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It's not creepy or weird. It's a normal thing for people to talk about with a trusted friend.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 02:53 AM
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The advice about no alcohol in your profile /socal media pix: right on. The thing about alcohol is that it has to be used in the right situation (all people you really trust, not in a bar or club). After two, it's easier to have three or more, and then all bets are off if you meet a guy with serious game who just wants to get in your pants. Keeping your count from increasing beyond what it is now is the most important thing. When you keep the count from going up, you're avoiding something that h…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 12:52 AM
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Don't fall into the trap of thinking dating = actively-looking-for-a-captain-in-my-high-smv-years. How is that a trap? I thought it was good strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 12:47 AM
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Has to be with a sincere smile if you are not sure he will understand.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 12:45 AM
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If small size is a concern: Size matters in a way. Karezza makes it irrelevant to a certain extent but more size is always nice for you both. pegym.com has an overview of the effective exercises for increasing girth and length of the Hammer of Love. The operation is a dangerous waste of money because the gains are limited and exercises work better; there's almost no limit... some guys have gotten huge over the years, pills and lotions are completely ineffective. the exercises at pegym.com also i…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/17 12:26 AM
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Not buying it. It is the man's responsibility to make sure he only would impregnate a woman he knows is worthy and wants to stay with until the kids are raised No woman, no government agency, nobody is making that guy impregnate anyone. A man so out of control with his life that he would do that is not a true alpha. He may be successful at getting women to sleep with him and getting them pregnant but he's not at the top of the social heap. He's at the bottom. I wouldn't follow him anywhere.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 01:02 AM
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Then the problem is NOT Fathers not being allowed to teach is it? The problem is irresponsible men.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 03:16 PM
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Then isn't it the man's responsibility to only have children with a woman he wants to stay married to at least until the kids are adults?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 11:24 PM
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Fathers not being allowed to teach their sons to be real men and their daughters NOT to be whores No one is holding a gun to the heads of these men and telling them they are not allowed to take responsibility ( having children only with a woman to whom they are married).
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 05:57 PM
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I seem to remember the explanation to your question is that men tend to be big picture thinkers and women tend to be more detail oriented.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 01:34 AM
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If you have to share him with multiple women, he's not worth it. :/ I'm not saying it's psychologically healthy or ethically right, but there are many, many women on the planet today who prove by their behavior that they disagree with you - women who know they are one of multiple plates of a high SMV alpha male. And these are typically high SMV women themselves, who would rather share a very high SMV alpha male than settle for monogamy with a (relative) chump. And many use both simultaneously to…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 07:09 PM
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Excellent explanation of something that had me scratching my head.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 06:36 PM
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Because they are meaningless to him and to you they are potentially a life or death threat. Your question just proves the point /u/loneliness-inc was making.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/17 06:24 PM
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"Shut up, he Spillaned".
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/17 02:02 PM
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Keep working on finding a way to make this approach work. Get advice , brainstorm with girlfriends or here, whatever. Hang in there and don't give up. You are on the right track and as a virgin, you are much higher value than you think. At your age, in your position, I can put that energy and time into networking for practical purposes (improving work and athletic performance, most often) or put it into, what seems to me, the huge uncertainty of dating men who don't show promise in less than fiv…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/17 01:17 AM
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Hi! I am impressed by your ability to admit you are rationalizing. That's a start. Let's see if you can follow through to the conclusion (acting counter to the rationalization and getting what you really want). I'm adamantly against sex before marriage (for myself) Yay! Very smart! That's a hindrance if you want to date players (you don't) and it is an enormous advantage if you're looking for a quality guy. I'm not feeling hopeless because of the military, but because of my own standards. It fee…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/17 09:07 PM
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all women are having sex and no men are You missed the bit about getting dicked out. If not, the woman was depressed as sht and The happiest men were the confident arrogant semi-chubby slobs (i.e. Dad bod) who drank and ate like ch*t and got the most sex.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 10:55 PM
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This just occurred to me. It looks like you are taking on the burden of his higher N-count. If he was a virgin, too, would you be feeling this way? No, most certainly not. You are hamstering as strongly about body counts for women in general as you are about feeling bad for being a virgin compared to all the other women he's been with. Honestly - when he talks about all those women - do you feel special? Of course not; that's just another way of stating the issue, but I suspect it is closer to t…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 06:06 PM
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CBT is just a fancy word for being mindful It is full of specific techniques that I have never heard about anywhere else. It really works, and it's more than just someone telling you to 'pay attention'. I got real help from Voice Dialogue, too. On the whole, though, you're right... regular talk therapy with almost any clinician is no more effective than talking to a friend who's not an idiot.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 04:18 PM
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Speaking of Harambe... Dicks out for Harambe, friends. Dicks out.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 03:57 PM
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I can't say this strongly enough. All the people here who say you are sitting on 4 aces are exactly right. You are looking at a perfect situation for yourself if you can keep this guy and you think he's good for you. The only reason you see a problem is your hamster is telling you there is a problem. Almost every other woman out there has fucked this up. Except you and a few other unicorns. Sheesh. Any woman who would disagree with what the men here are telling you ('you did it exactly right') i…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 03:00 PM
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Sex feels good. The barrier to entry for men is high; for women it's low. Women who limit their sex life because it's wise to do so are the prize. Men who are focused on making a difference are the prize. I get it now.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:41 AM
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That scene in Ground Hog Day where the weatherman picks up Nancy who works in a dress shop in Punxsatawney, bangs her that night.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:34 AM
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If I were not so glad to be a man, maybe I'd spend a little time feeling sorry for them. So harsh. But I'm sure you come by it honestly!
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:31 AM
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Specifically what in this thread is suspect data due to confirmation bias, in your opinion?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:28 AM
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Wait, what?! How did he get in here? Srsly tho... How does this apply to you? What use do you make of what you learn here? Interested in your perspective.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:24 AM
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+1 for CBT. Evidence based AF, really effective; imagine if Seneca the stoic was your therapist and was telling you "look, your thinking about this all wrong. What if you looked at it like this...". If you're not in crisis, voice dialogue will blow your mind with insight. +1 on finding a good one, I've known people in the mental health field (used to work in it) I wouldn't trust to pull a sliver out of a dog's ass, much less help someone through a sensitive personal problem.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:17 AM
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Respecting women in the modern way is fundamentally unmanly. Holy shit. You just... put into words a thought that had been percolating in my mind but I couldn't form the sentence because it's so... out there. women will never appreciate it, it puzzles them and makes them morbidly anxious This. I went through this before I got divorced. "Why do my eyes hurt?" "Because you've never used them".
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 11:06 AM
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When asked about recent sex, it would be weeks, months, years for men. Most women are banging someone every week. ... The happiest men were the confident arrogant semi-chubby slobs (i.e. Dad bod) who drank and ate like ch*t and got the most sex. AMALT. AWALT. THIS is the best post I have read in like, forever.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 10:58 AM
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I think it would help to explore this. What is it about his partner count that triggers insecurity? What's your concern/fear? Is it not a fear but really something else ? How does this result in you feeling bad about yourself? Hard to know what to say on such little information.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/17 03:30 AM
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Ok, here's my assessment. It's not 'trying harder' that will get you the man you want, you've been doing your best, I'm sure. It sounds to me like you have done your best; what you could think to do so far. You've not gotten the results you want, and now are rationalising giving up. So be patient and try more and different ways to add value to yourself. I say that because a good prospective partner, generally speaking, will be snapped up eventually. You are in no way hopeless. There is plenty of…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/17 07:12 PM
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I love the internet. I clicked on that link and checked out the Maccabeats. Exactly what I've been missing. Great uplifting pop. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/17 01:59 PM
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That's enough to swing any and every election the wrong way if it's close. In related news: HEY! Didja hear Trump has teed off on the Chicago murder rate? Rahm and Bathhouse Barry's showpiece of Democratic party policies has more murder than LA and NY combined. If Black Lives really Matter, why don't the Dems do something about the murder rate? Like allowing ordinary people to defend themselves, for one thing. CHICAGOLAND: Another failed state like Somalia. But Hussein is going to stay in DC ins…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 02:05 AM
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Dude. You are in the wrong part of /reddit. Go to /marriedredpill and learn how to be a captain. Spend a year lifting, eating right, and learning game. You have nothing to lose but your chains.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 05:04 PM
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how do you do quotes of what someone else said? Hit 'enter' twice, place a '>' symbol At the beginning of the line, paste the text, then Hit 'enter' twice Again and start typing your response. As far as OP assumes that ALL women are all the same. Is concerned, AWALT (all women are like that) is a thing. It's not a completely global hard and fast absolute like e=mc2, but it can be a useful rule of thumb. It's like the 80/20 rule. Stick it in your toolbox and measure situations with it.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 04:31 PM
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I have never been in your shoes, so I suppose I was coming off arrogantly; my predictions are out of line. I wish you the best, and if it works for you, I'm impressed. To me, it seems like the slippery slope, to crack open the door to infidelity with only certain classes of people: women, that you both agree on, who have sex with both of you. Is there any contradiction between She knows that if she fucks up and cheats on me - she'll be instantly out the door - there will be consequences. You set…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 03:31 PM
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The latest thinking on will power is that people who look like they have a lot of will power because they have things handled actually use less will power to resist temptation. They use their will power to arrange their life so that it's easy to do the right thing and hard to do the wrong thing. Organization takes less will power than white knuckling through temptation. So, you are on the right track with making plenty of food that you like that's also healthy. Figure out what you are getting fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/17 08:12 AM
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'Trying' lifting isn't what works. Lifting heavy for years is what works. Please for the love of God don't start trying to 'bulk' as a natural. You're going to end up as a very bloated, albeit strong, creature that repulses women. If you're strong, it's because your muscles are bigger. Bigger muscles are more attractive to women. "Bloated" is guys who eat too much.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 03:32 AM
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My source for all these antiquated opinions: I'm 60 and have screwed up every one of these decisions in the past and OP is harsh but pretty accurate. I still believe in marriage, but I am going in to the next one loaded for bear, and OP has pretty good advice. If your girl has healthy self esteem why is she OK with you having sex with other women? If it's OK for you to have sex with this other woman then why would she not eventually cheat on you with a guy? Sorry, that doesn't sound like a LTR, …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 03:03 AM
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From the sidebar: Our focus is on long-term goals that bring long-term happiness. what is "riding the CC?" If I have sex with a man on the third date and we date for 3 months before ending it, am I on the "CC?" It's a question of why it ended and how her total N# is perceived by subsequent men, not by how the woman feels about it / what her hamster says, and not by one relationship in isolation. How many 3 month relationships has the person in question had, and why? What if I didn't want his com…
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/17 12:08 AM
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Word. +1
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/16 05:15 PM
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ELI5 what is it telling.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/16 03:01 AM
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If you take a similarly exacting and thorough and insightful approach to your career as you have to this experiment, you are going to become very successful (if you haven't already). This is remarkable work.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 01:37 AM
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+1 on staying busy with productive stuff, sports, etc.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 01:34 AM
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+1, totally works like a charm.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 01:32 AM
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I admire you for OYS. Keep up the good work, it sounds like solid insight. As we used to say in the Navy, "when you are up to your ass in alligators, it can be difficult to remember that your initial objective was to drain the swamp." Don't compare yourself to a perfect ideal; compare yourself to all the guys out there who know what they should do and don't even try. You are in the top 4% (Scientific Wild Ass Guess) of guys who ever make any kind of effort at all. Keep at it! You are the Oak. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 09:55 AM
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/u/IASGame : "It is possible to bail on a wife that is unsatisfying without bailing on the kids." /u/IASGame : I disagree. Breaking up the family because the man is unhaaaappy with her has a super negative effect on the wife, which deprives the kids of the best level of effective parenting from her. There's no way sharing parenting from two different places is as good as a secure home life with a mother and father who visibly love and partner with each other and model commitment. It creates chao…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 09:46 AM
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Glad you think it's important, u/TheFamilyAlpha. u/GargantuaBlarg29 : "He is not required nor encouraged to ...stick around no matter what because he had kids. " I get it that TRP skills are amoral and therefore his comment is not out of bounds here. It seems preposterous and monstrous to me, though. I wonder what the dads on /r/marriedredpill think? The ugliness and pain left behind by people who think like u/GargantuaBlarg29 is on the news every evening: fatherless boys trying to become men wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/16 01:49 AM
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Speaking as someone whose dad bailed because his wife was unsatisfying, I'd have to say: my brothers and sister and I lost almost all respect for him. All he had to do was live up to his commitment for another 5 years ( I was 12, the youngest, and I went on active duty at 17). Left us with a woman who had a personality disorder but she tried like hell to overcome it. Poverty. Multiple moves. Chaos and grief, the kind that makes a child get the 1,000 yard stare. To this day my brother is unable t…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/16 09:36 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/user/TheFamilyAlpha: I don't understand your comment: "You too, but that's it"... what do you mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/16 09:29 PM
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u/redmountainpill has good advice, all of it: AM, dad time, etc. Ownership of the new home is a great idea. It's beta comfort, if she could see it, and she needs to see it, because she knows subconsciously you are growing beyond her and she is projecting into the future like crazy. She's expecting you to dump her because she is relatively low SMV. Working the plan (lifting, OI, etc.) all by itself incites nuclear dread that she is communicating covertly. Try to indirectly, covertly hint to her a…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/16 08:05 PM
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"My emotional and intellectual life is actually alive, its only sex that is the missing. How do you determine if my intellectual life and emotional life is dead by reading my posts, " If you are not getting sex, your emotional life with your wife (the whole point here) is dead. You mentioned nothing about sharing any fulfilling intellectual pursuits with your wife as a possible bright spot, so that area of your life is dead with respect to your wife. If your wife found your intellect super attra…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/16 05:02 PM
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I'm not saying you should never post. The way your posts sound, they sound like you're not doing the work or understanding the reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/16 04:55 PM
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"Some of the comments on here are they supposed to be harsh >?" What was your MOS?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/16 04:54 PM
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Every other comment is for you to STFU and yet you keep posting on and on. Maybe you just feel lonely for validation from other men? Maybe the payoff in a co-ed soccer league is not just dread from being around women but the chance to meet men in real life who can help you stay focused and meet some relationship needs. Not just your bedroom but your intellectual/emotional life looks dead at home (except for time with your daughter). You already know what to do, this avalanche of posting you're d…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/16 12:02 AM
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The suspense is killing me. BJ ?
/r/askMRP30/10/16 10:24 PM
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Adolescents are like two year old horses: big enough to do real damage but inadequately socialized. You dodged a bullet and all concerned did you a favor by showing their true colors, giving you a learning experience; and most of all they have opened up space in your life for better friends.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 08:54 PM
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I suspect it's a numbers game. Put yourself in front of as many men as possible, and see who pops out at you. Go 'where the boys are'.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 08:51 PM
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I don't understand. How could there be a post ("there was a RP blogpost all about me") all about you? Did they come and interview you and bring a photographer or something and write a personality profile as if you were a celebrity? What information are these people using who are criticising you ? Can you give us a link to the post or has it disappeared? Did you copy it? I don't understand how anyone can well answer the question without seeing the evidence. Based on the bare facts you presented, …
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/16 05:21 PM
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This is a head scratcher. As far as it being his job to love you, that's in an ideal world. In other words, if he was keeping up his end, that's how he would have to act. When I suggest or advise you to love him no matter what, even if he doesn't love you back, I'm suggesting a saintly level of commitment and effort to bring your marriage back. . It seems contradictory because it's two different possible scenarios, one of which is plainly not happening for you at the moment, and the other is: yo…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/16 12:54 AM
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Not even your mommy loved the real you. That's always your own job. Holy. Fuck. Well, looks like I stumbled onto the /sub I need.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/16 03:30 AM
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tl;dr Stop trying to get him to love you and be the most RP, most loving wife you can possibly be, without expecting him to change. Go all out to love and serve him. You said: "Please knock some sense into me." Here goes. If you wait for him to act lovingly toward you the way you want him to act you might wait forever. He has some real problems with being present in the marriage, true, but if you don't take the first step, you just want success handed to you: you're entitled, and that is one of …
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/16 01:34 AM
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Y'know, I think I can see it. The way it looks from here, Jolie stole Pitt away from Aniston; she snagged him. Pitt allowed himself to be snagged (he takes the feminine, receptive, responsive role relative to Jolie who has more dynamism, more agency: she's going for what she wants: another woman's man). Jolie took the initiative to hypergamize. Pitt went along with it. I think his alcohol and drug use have made him soft - or he was soft so he wasted his time like a high school stoner instead of …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 11:41 PM
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"Patrice predicted Angelina/ Brad's divorce." What did he think would be the cause and the dynamics?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 08:35 PM
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She criticized you implicitly for making her doubt your concern for 'womyns' struggles'!? I'm new here so I might have missed the rules about this suggestion, but would introducing her to RPW ideas help her get on the same page with you?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 01:59 PM
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It looks like all the positive stuff is in the present and all the negative stuff was in the past. "trust his conditional offer, continue on as we have been, and really up my girl game for both myself and his trust" sounds like the smart move. He sounds like he is sincere about upgrading his commitment to you if you keep up your end, which you are doing, and he sounds like a keeper. A lot of the other advice sounds right on (" him not ending it completely is the big clue imo. So he (cautiously) …
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 02:39 AM
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You might try online, put up a profile and start practicing screening men. You will be inundated with responses from an online profile, so you should get a lot of practice. You can post a 'practice' profile for different locations that you won't be going to anyway if you will be moving after you graduate. Once you have a handle on how to use the online route, you can start screening men in the locations where you are considering moving (unless you are staying put). All the other suggestions are …
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/16 01:48 AM
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Did not know what to make of it, so I just assumed he didn't like me enough Girl, wake up and smell the coffee! Well if he isolates with you daily that is a strong IOI (indicator of interest). The advice I have most often given is to be very strongly RPW and I think it is appropriate here. Be very feminine with him, enact the basic RPW SKILLS with enthusiasm, really respond to him deeply in a red pill woman way. This should engage his masculine nature. Fall into step with what he does, and respo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/16 01:06 AM
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One wonders if you were to present yourself as interested in a long term relationship with him if it would stimulate him to chase you. I wonder if even more information would help. For example, did you draw him out on his thoughts about why he is more passive with women? There are a million possible explanations for his settling for being picked up instead of initiating himself. There are also a million possible explanations for your uncertainty as to whether or not he was flirting with you. Fro…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 11:38 PM
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Exactly what I was going to say. Any guy you meet should be overwhelmed by your RPW feminine skills and RPW mindset/ideas/thinking skills right away, seriously, honestly, before you get to the disclosure part (for which as others have said, second date is about right for disclosure). I also second the church community suggestion, might be more lenient /forgiving esp. if you are involved in activities that showcase your present wholesome approach to life. Everybody has the right to get smarter. N…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 09:54 PM
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Hi, any news on this front? Any specifics on what he has done or failed to do that made you lose confidence in him? Not a lot to go on here to reality test your beliefs.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 09:28 PM
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Two replies: Without thinking what the 'correct' RPW answer would be, what do you want out of life? Also, as you read the sidebar articles, certain ideas and practices will jump out at you - what happens when you look more deeply into those ideas? Good luck! You're on the right path, sounds like.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 09:17 PM
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Funny how the best advice I can usually think of is "work/enact the RPW lifestyle as HARD AS YOU CAN. Follow his lead, be as pretty as possible, domestic, no complaining, compliment him, etc. Have you read The Five Love Languages? Do you know his love language? (Physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, thoughtful gifts, acts of service). Which of these five seems to get the most smiles from him? If you don't know, test them all. Then just apply yourself to doing those things for him. …
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 08:54 PM
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Men are simple. You should be glad they are! If you want someone complicated to date a woman, lol. She'll be >nice and complicated for you. This. I think that perhaps you are looking for a reason to break up with him and if you don't want to be in the >relationship do the both of you a favor and end it. sweetxsour: how did this resonate with you? Or did it? Don't blame it on male habits. Yay for not blaming men.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 08:27 PM
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So - Shaela90: Any news? Any clarity or closure? VigilantRedRooster's advice sounded perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 08:06 PM
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I think all the other advice here is spot on (except "Do not sleep with a guy unless you think that he's wildly attracted and falling in love with you"). I would go further and say not to sleep with any man until you are married. Any man worthy of being a Captain will understand and it keeps your N lower in the worst case scenario something comes up and it doesn't fly with that particular guy; you can't afford any more notches, end of story. No woman can, RPW or otherwise. Just tell him "I love …
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 07:56 PM
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Only a miserable suffering misogynist wretch who thinks he's giving you what you deserve because some woman rejected him 10 years ago would take your virginity. Everything in male and female psychology has a complement. Men protect and provide, women bear and raise children. Men are generally compartmented, more inventive, spatially oriented and rational, and women are more emotional, verbal, and socially intelligent. That's why with their rationality men can figure out how to manipulate you emo…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 06:07 PM
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Not saying that will happen to you - but how many women in that boat currently thought it would happen to them? Just to set the record straight: virgins are not 'bad' at sex the way these heartless PUAs claim (people can sometimes, as in this case, when they go against common sense in the name of gratifying their sex drive, say the stupidest, most illogical things and yet think they are being clever). If they are making love to their husband, they are giving a priceless gift of character, the ki…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 05:57 PM
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TL;DR: tell him right away and stick to your guns. PUAs and TRPs gonna hate, haters gonna hate. Stick to your guns ! You are right on in your ideas. There are amazing guys out there looking for you just like you are. tttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt The Carousel, where women can never get commitment or secure wholesome affection, and men are forever doomed to be tormented with an unattainable memory or dream of validation sex, the Carousel circles aimlessly, with a tedious banality, as the pathe…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 05:42 PM
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Intelligence is critical for me in a woman, I want her to be be about as smart as me (modesty forbids, but). Too far below me and the conversation drags. Too far above me and I feel ... patronised? Matronised? I'd like to go caveman on one of those smartypants for once, just for the experience. In the interests of science. However, I've met women smarter than me and they weren't attracted to me, though anyway, because hypergamy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 11:36 AM
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Peer group is SO critical at that age. Make sure she is comfortable bringing her friends home, and provide ways for that to happen. Teach the girls how to throw dinner parties! Require the young men to put on coat and tie. Make it a thing, and not an infrequent thing. Young people NEED to socialize, but they are not any better at it instinctively than they are at sex (and avoiding sex). They need to learn to socialize like adults. That means community service projects and dinner parties, and tri…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 10:38 AM
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You are totally on the right track. You're doing the right thing, and you are making satisfactory progress. DO NOT COMPROMISE! Giving it away is like walking around with a sandwich board sign that says "PLATE FOR HIRE WILL WORK FOR FREE". Try learning to hunt and fish. Craigslist activity partners, platonic, whatever they call it. Vet them! Meet the families. You're going to be meeting working class guys, technicians (some of whom make pretty decent bread), so you may be marrying down in the edu…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 09:48 AM
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I would love to see a thread where a woman turns her life around >with RPW and pulls the rug out (gently) from under one of those >MGTOW guys or TRP guys. What do you mean by this? It sounds like I'm asking for a thread where more women like you explain how you got your SO to commit to you and stick around, and give details about how those SO's TRP natures responded to your RPW skills AWALT applies, Yah? Now its my turn to ask what you mean. with the exception being that a biological female is b…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 09:29 AM
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Use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, CBT. There's absolutely nothing at all preventing you from moving on except the way you think. You're not sick in the head or weird or hopelessly jacked up, you just need to learn new ways to think about your life and your situations. You can get the CBT books from the library, they're all pretty well known. It's probably hard to visualize from where you are now, but that is literally the only thing separating you from what you want. Once you learn the cognitive…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 08:43 AM
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I have read on teh Internet (so it must be true) that loose skin is sometimes a sign of still needing to lose fat. Subcutaneous fat is, ipso facto, welded to the skin. The skin is still there because the fat is still there. Lose that last layer of fat, the hypothesis says, and the skin has no reason to remain and is absorbed. I have seen it happen. I had a friend who lost over 150 pounds and he had no loose skin. I coached my ex through a 115 pound loss and she absorbed all the extra skin. I had…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 08:10 AM
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Don't know if this has been mentioned, but what are the chances that, in the worst case scenario, a highly competent RPW marries a man with N=0, he's awkward in bed, and she lovingly, compassionately, assists him in 'coming into his own' (so to speak)? Is it really the end of the world if they learn together? Is it really so bad if they share that experience? Is whatever experience a man has before marriage that big of an advantage? Is the lack of experience really a dealbreaker? Or is the reluc…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 07:36 AM
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Everything the OP said is spot on. If a woman is kind, witty, sensible, and naturally sincere, and interested in me as a person - but plain and takes care of herself, she's attractive to me. That's not because I'm older, I was always that way. A young woman who is plain but has internalized RPW and does a good job at it - I'd try to introduce her to good guys (and I have). A highly competent RPW woman is worth her weight in gold. They're rare ! All the rage you read on TRP is really frustration …
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/16 06:23 AM
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