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Meadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:15 PM
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NAH, SISMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:27 AM
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RANTMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:02 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 11:27 PM
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#JustLVMThingsMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:53 PM
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RANTMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:01 AM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:57 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:28 AM
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#JustLVMThingsMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:53 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:44 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨Meadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 08:10 PM
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NAH, SISMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:34 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:24 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:59 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:45 AM
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FDS SUCCESS!Meadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 07:13 PM
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DISCUSSIONMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 05:56 PM
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Meadow97/r/askFDS15/04/21 05:37 AM
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RANTMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 01:04 PM
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#JustLVMThingsMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:24 PM
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Meadow97/r/askFDS14/11/20 08:55 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 06:51 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:04 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTMeadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:10 PM
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Meadow97/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:18 PM
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I'll be doing a manicure/nail art and pedicure by myself, then spending the evening with my cat just listening to music. Will take a hot bath with candles later. On new years day itself, I'll be reflecting on the year gone and journalling my thoughts and plans for 2022!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 01:54 PM
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Yeah, I agree, nothing is more valuable than your comfort and peace. No worries, glad to have been of some help! Hope all goes well 💛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:26 PM
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The way I see it, if you have to question if any behaviour/action/mindset etc is a red flag then it is. Because that means that something that has been said or done doesn't sit well with you. It's disturbing your peace. That alone is a red flag. If it doesn't feel right then it's not right. Bottom line is it doesn't matter if we think they're red flags or not because either way it's bothering you and that's enough reason to end the relationship. All the best to you, whatever decision you make, u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 11:45 AM
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She spoke Twi at the end (I'm Ghanaian and I guess she is too). What she said meant 'continue' or 'keep on' - I'm guessing she means keep doing what you're doing to make these men say you aren't wife material. The gesture at the end, well, it could mean a lot of things 😂 us Ghanaians love to gesture!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:33 PM
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The worst part of this whole thing is part of it is written in Korean. It's not even Chinese. Gross. Fetishism and ignorance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:13 AM
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I don't know if I should link the name of the subreddit here in case it garners unwanted attention. But, that being said, it's where people 'ask men' questions 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:00 PM
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It's honestly so pathetic. About a year ago I was talking to a friend who said if it wasn't for the fact that her boyfriend pays for everything she'd do 50/50..my heart sunk. I've since cut her off for other 'pick meisms' as I call it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:26 AM
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I did the same, I've blocked and downvoted several of these types of posts. I think I'm suffering from pick me induced stress. I just came across another one titled "how do I get my date to split the bill" and there are tons of women saying that they'd gladly pay for both parties..or for themselves. They like coffee/hike and other low effort dates to avoid splitting an expensive bill 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:04 AM
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I don't know what 'advice' she was given. I saw the post, didn't even read it if I'm honest and immediately downvoted it.. cringed my way to fds. I imagine they told her to lower her standards. That or they're blowing up her private messages offering themselves to her. Edit: I found the post. The woman is saying that she's asking men for advice because she's tired of women sugar-coating advice for her and that the advice from men is eye opening. 🤡 By sugar-coating I assume she means women tellin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:47 AM
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Lord knows 😂 it said something along the lines of 'if you're struggling with your health there are resources available', 'you've received this message because someone cares' and listed some mental health helplines. I think someone read my post, felt attacked but since my messages are turned off they reported my account 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 04:27 AM
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It's definitely a thought I've had often. One theory I have is these women are the result of the way we are socialised as children. Made to believe that there is value in nothing other than the prioritisation of romantic relationships with men but 🤷🏾‍♀️. I can remember several family celebrations from my teenage years to this day where I've been asked when I am getting married, if I have a boyfriend etc. Another theory I have is this: some women don't want to focus on men and actually want plato…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:23 PM
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Yeah, glad to hear that you see your old friend's point of view now. I got rid of these friends for the same reason - it felt as if I was intentionally shrinking myself just to remain friends with them. But it's so not worth it, although hard to find, there are women out there who align with me in more healthy ways. I also agree 100% with the friends that don't acknowledge your accomplishments. The same woman I wrote about in my post never congratulated me for getting work promotions, a new job …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:56 PM
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I've just received my first message from reddit's care resources lool 🤣 Looks like I've struck a nerve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 02:46 PM
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?????????? There aren't enough question marks I could write to explain my confusion at this 'poem'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 05:07 PM
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On today's episode of things that definitely did not happen..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 12:42 PM
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This actually happened to me when I was 18. My friend had to do a project with a guy in school, he opened the wrong word document and the entire thing was about me. My height, assumed weight, fears, family members.. An actual fact file.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 02:04 PM
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Deadline? The deadline has long since passed, sis should've been outta there a long time ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 01:59 PM
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🙋🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:29 PM
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My go to answer recently is either "why am I still single? have you met men?", "I have better things to do with my time" or my favourite, "I'm just lucky I guess".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:29 AM
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This is what I came here to say. It's surprising how many people complain about how awful online dating is, and rightfully so, yet are still using these apps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:16 PM
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You're right, I thought about this not too long ago. The woman I'm closest to in the group only meets up with me and other friends if her boyfriend is present.. If I want to go shopping or out to eat with her she'll turn up with her boyfriend. The other day she wanted to hang out because she said she was lonely as her boyfriend went out with friends, he cancelled and so she cancelled on me.. 😬😬 It'll get worse once they're married/move in together. The very good thing is that I suspected that on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:05 PM
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Yeah, I just leave her to it. She's my very good friend but she also doesn't listen to reason at times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 03:23 PM
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Yep custom candle and wax melts making. They started on the idea a few months ago, opened a joint bank account and are pouring their savings into the business. My friend 'G' has also planned her wedding to her partner... They are not engaged. She has a promise ring from 2 years ago though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:00 PM
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I have. I remember once I said almost exactly as you did "I have no issue being single" etc and the response I got from one of them was that I have no choice but to focus on myself because I'm single..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:42 PM
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Funny enough none of us went to university. We got jobs after school/did apprenticeships, but aren't working in our desired fields which is why I'm more confused. I'm working hard to breakthrough into my career of choice yet I'm being mocked in a way for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:41 PM
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Yeah it's ridiculous, I literally just turned 24 last month 😬 I've been thinking to bail on them for a while now if I'm honest, it's hard because I've known them since age 11 but then again I have other, healthy friendships. You're right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 11:52 AM
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I do feel as if I've outgrown them in instances like this, definitely. Luckily I have other individual friends who are on board with me/FDS values and don't spout this nonsense. It gets exhausting so I've been spending less time with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:50 AM
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It was hellish. Usually that particular friendship group is quite chilled and lovely but I've noticed that as we've entered our mid 20's they're making snide comments here and there. 😬😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 09:41 AM
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So what she's saying is her husband ain't shit, his friends ain't shit and his mother ain't shit? Divorce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:17 PM
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This has got to be up there with one of the most pathetic things I've ever had the displeasure of reading... Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 06:42 PM
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.. I didn't want to finish my bowl of cornflakes anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:11 AM
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Lol. You go ahead and do that, let us know how that works out for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:58 AM
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Ohh okay thanks sorry about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:34 AM
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He's so funny 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 03:30 PM
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I wasn't expecting the picture on the 4th slide and I instinctively screamed when I saw him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:11 PM
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???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:45 PM
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Great analysis. Also, why is it always 3 months? Has anyone else noticed this, a lot of men keep up appearances that start to break around 3 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:17 PM
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Clown music intensifies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:06 PM
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That'd be so lovely! 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:36 PM
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Okay, this is the comment that has sent me into orbit 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:57 PM
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Yeah, towards the men around him he seems like a genuinely nice person. His attitude towards women is questionable. I heard about Dutchavelli also, he was outed as a predator I think? Oh, the show is called "does the shoe fit", with Konan. Seen an episode or so, it's... Interesting. Very objectifying what they say at times. I agree, there's something in the water here because I'm yet to meet a man who isn't problematic in one way or another from here. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:46 PM
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Yeah only a few are, but there's still some calling him out for it. Most of the comments are from men saying really nasty things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:04 AM
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Yung Filly, really well known and popular in South London in particular, not so much around the rest of the UK. More of a YouTuber/Internet personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:03 AM
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This.. This may just be the most pathetic thing I've read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:11 PM
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Lol. Sis, if you're lurking here, have fun with your backwards advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:53 PM
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Exactly, he's the community bicycle it's just her turn to ride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 05:02 PM
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Their relationship concerns me so much 🤮 it's borderline incestuous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:04 PM
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Nah, it was a black man but being a scrote has no boundaries, someone of that decent has probably said it before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 10:57 PM
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I'm from the UK, London so I can't speak for other parts of the UK. But I'd call him a 'bumlick' or 'bumlicker'. But since I'm specifically from South London I'd say 'he's a beg' or he's 'begging it to him/her/them'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 03:34 PM
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Colour of the toenail. Sometimes it's an indication of a health issue (black, yellow, green ect) but they don't care to get it checked out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:59 AM
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For real though, some men have the worst looking feet and toes. The length of their nails, the colour, the crusty back foot.. Just 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 11:19 PM
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"I work at Massage Envy".."I work at Amazon".. "I'm a physical therapist assistant".. "I'm a massage therapist".. "I do runways" 🤔🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:12 PM
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I thought foto was an acronym of some kind and spend ages trying to work it out.. Until I realised it was 'photos' 😬😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:23 PM
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Hi! It's your girl, bisexual figment of imagination here 💜💙❤️ (but don't pay attention to me, obviously I don't exist /s)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:12 PM
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🤢🤢🤢 Why does his pee look electric though, way to show off you're not drinking enough water AND you're gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:29 PM
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Good on you! That's so disrespectful. It's insane how men think this is acceptable behaviour. I had this happen to me for the first time last year also. He was texting and scrolling through Instagram and twitter in the cinema. Excused myself to the toilet and blew out, blocked him on the bus ride home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:08 PM
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For context, I live in the UK where quarantine hotels have just been introduced. Anyone travelling into the UK from a red zone country must quarantine for 10 days in these hotels. One lady was asking if people would have access to washing machines whilst in these hotels as she would like to do her laundry ect. Here is just one of the several gross responses from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:56 PM
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I was about to say this too. He's not sly 😂 If refusing to approach men makes me immature then do be it, goo goo gaa gaa homie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:55 AM
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Yesss! My favourite lyric in this song is "I'm a press conference, you a conversation". Live for this song.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:04 PM
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Lol. As if Ciara would even breathe in this dude's direction. Next. Scrotes stay scroting, y'all be safe out here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:34 PM
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clown music intensifies Glad he's your ex because he's an A1 clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:54 AM
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Oh come on..... This has to be trolling right? Someone please tell me this is a joke because I refuse to believe what I've read. So now we've gotta vet for this shit too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 10:57 AM
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That sounds like a good way to unwind for a bit, and no worries ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:32 PM
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💛💛💛 Sending love and good vibes your way. Proud of you, what you did wasn't easy at all, I've been in a similar situation, you dealt with it very well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:20 PM
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Definitely targeting women. She's frantic the whole time, saying stuff like "but what if he doesn't like me", "what if he doesn't think I'm funny" or something like that 🙄 Lord knows. It's very unappealing, I'm definitely not the target audience for that. I guess it's for some men, since they like to go on one or two dates then demand sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:00 PM
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What a gut wrenching statistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 12:45 PM
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I keep getting ads on YouTube for Bumble and I don't know why. I'm not on any dating sites ect. The ads are so irritating, it's this one lady talking with her friend about a guy that she asked out and is planning the date for. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 10:50 PM
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What??? 🤨🤨🤨 She's lucky I'm eating potato wedges, I would have kissed my teeth so hard she'd feel it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 10:39 PM
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It's very true. Sis is spitting straight facts no printer. There's also a large amount of men that say women aren't funny... Yet in their tik tok/Instagrams/snapchats ect it's full of them imitating women. They'll grab wigs and put them on in haggard ways, put paperclips on their fingers to imitate false nails, use their scarfs/towels as headwraps, purse their lips. Then go on to title those videos "women be like.." or "when your girl is..". It's also telling of how they perceive women, very moc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 02:42 PM
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You don't. He wants you to chase him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:56 PM
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This is why I love this sub. I legit saw this and screenshoted it earlier, whole time I was thinking FDS ain't gone like this. Luckily most of the comments I saw were women saying that women who only have male friends don't realise they just want sex, that this is a sad way of living, "hope you get picked sis" comments. There's hope after all. Really despise women with this mentality. They live for men and men alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:51 PM
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I'm from SE London, they're like tumours over here too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:37 PM
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Y'all notice how no one said a man is less manly for not having a drivers licence yet this scrote is so defensive? So I should pick you up in the car I bought, using the petrol I paid for, including road tax, insurance, mot, maintenance ect and then use my time to pick up a bum? I need some air. This is the type of stuff people in South London discuss all the time. Every day I open twitter/Instagram and there are talks between lvm and pickmeshias defending their behaviour. I gotta move. Also, wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:31 AM
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Hey, that sounds really awful and painful sorry you went through that. 💛 I think you dealt with it well because Lord knows I would have spit a couple lyrics his way. Take the time to reflect, heal and focus on yourself before you get back into the dating scene. All the best with that ☺️ Going forward, there's a lot of red flags he showed and I think it'd be helpful for you to learn how to recognise these red flags, and avoid similar situations in the future. This isn't an attack at you at all, j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 10:09 AM
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So she's putting her daughter at risk of being groomed by thus dude and asking men... Men of all people if she's justified in her feelings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:57 PM
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*all three of my brothers. Someone save me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:43 PM
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Someone find and tell this lady that this is far from funny because I fear if I do I'll say something harsh. Also, stuff like this just irrates me. Women do know that they don't need to be in a relationship or get married, right? Why are there so many women in these shitty relationships simply 'happy' because they aren't single. It's so embarrassing. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 04:26 PM
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🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:59 PM
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Oh to have eyes that have yet to read this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:21 AM
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✨No✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 01:26 PM
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Oh, this sounds so lovely! Have a good time sis 😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:16 PM
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Lol. Looks like a nipple ring... Oh wait, even that would be way too big.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:04 PM
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Finally someone who understands! It's SO hard having someone clean up after you and raise your children whilst you play video games and cheat 🤪 /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:03 PM
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The bar is so low already yet men and pickmeshias find a way to limbo under it every damn time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:54 PM
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Opened my twitter to see this rubbish. Don't know who on she is, someone I follow retweeted this so I blocked them and found the OP of the tweet, blocked her too. Don't agree with this ideology at alllll. Whoever you are random woman, hope you get picked. 😙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 04:52 PM
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Lol. Swine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:18 PM
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Sis, he should have been dumped a long time ago because wtf is this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:40 PM
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??? Jesus Christ of Nazareth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:07 PM
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Not scrabble.. I- I don't understand what's wrong with these people. I'm offended on your behalf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:26 PM
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Ewwww🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 05:25 PM
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Ooh this is seriously so gorgeous! Where are you ladies buying this beautiful jewellery from? I'd like to buy some for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 05:39 PM
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Same here! All the googling questions led me to FDS because I wanted a woman's point of view and so much advice out there is male centric.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:38 PM
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I agree 100%. Back in 2019, my Google search looked similar to this. There was a lot of: is it okay not to talk to your partner for a few days? My bf never calls me on the phone,why? My bf doesn't ask me on dates, why? Am I being unreasonable? Why won't he introduce me to his parents or friends? He says he wants to go with the flow, but says I'm his gf. He says he loves me but is scared because of his past.. He turned out to be very emotionally abusive, he even harassed me sexually multiple time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:47 PM
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Alexa, play obsessed by Mariah Carey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:28 AM
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That sounds wholesome and nice to me, playing Legos with young family members. I think I was imagining something more childlike/immature since I work with children so I was picturing the way they play with them like building a peppa pig playhouse or a paw patrol car looool 😅 Definitely agree that OP sounds off, he also kinda sounds like he's mooching off her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:05 PM
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Oh I see, I didn't know this. If the Legos are being used in the way you described then it's not so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:59 PM
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Aside from the issues that other comments have raised I'd just like to know why grown men are playing with Legos? As in the building blocks.. That i give to my pre schoolers at work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:44 PM
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Embarrassing. Does your mother and father know you're online playing the role of a clown to entertain useless men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 11:25 AM
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???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:44 PM
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Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:30 AM
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Even if the women were of a similar age range (late twenties onwards), this pos would have still invited himself to a gathering he had no business being at, made an otherwise joyous moment/milestone awkward and then refused to leave. Clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:51 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:56 PM
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Let's not bring children into this, I've met kids way smarter than men especially this guy. I'm there with you on his mental state though because wtf have I just read??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:07 PM
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Hope you get picked sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:27 PM
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Okay. But this is clearly a sick man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:54 PM
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🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 It's such a shame, really. It's something I'm experiencing more and more now that I'm 23. I have a few friends, solid friends. But it'd be nice to meet more lovely and like minded women, far better than dating in my opinion. Yet, I find that when I try to become friends with other women they either put no effort into the friendship usually because they have a boyfriend/fiance/husband and they get all their social needs met through this, or they treat me like a back up option. I'm a friend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:38 PM
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If they've been together for 1 year I'm assuming this is their first or at most 2nd Christmas together, no? This is unacceptable behaviour, if he's behaving like this one year into the relationship when realistically he should still be trying to prove his worth to her then she needs to bounce.. Like now. If she stays she'll end up like those women who either never receive any gifts or buy themselves a gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:25 PM
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My dad was like this. My school shoes would be busted, like hold the soles together with super glue busted, I can feel the rain in my shoe busted and he'd refuse to buy me shoes. He'd tell me that I wanted new shoes for fashion, that I was vain. Meanwhile he would buy my younger brother loads of trainers, football boots, Kickers, Wallabys just because. If I wanted money for my school lunch he'd tell me that I didn't need any because I used to get free school meals (very small meals). Meanwhile, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:10 PM
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Is she dating a damn child. "I had to put an adult content blocker on his phone" girl dump his sorry ass and take yourself elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 10:59 PM
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Yeah the difference is though, that women who do hair are actually talented and could make money from it if they choose to. LOL. Scrotes stay scroting, y'all be safe out here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 10:46 PM
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Does he want to become a bum? Because that's how you become a bum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:35 AM
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Sis... This ain't it. Tf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:32 AM
2

Oh they know what they want. They wanna take yuh fi eediyat. Don't give them that opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:14 AM
21

Lol. He's so lame. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:43 AM
15

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 This applies to friendships too. It's a difficult thing to implement but it feels so damn liberating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:22 AM
3

The age gap gave me whiplash, i didn't even read the rest but i know it's gonna be a shitstorm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:12 PM
12

So this is what we're doing early in the morning huh?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:00 AM
14

Wow. Everyday I find out something new that makes me lean further towards staying single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:55 AM
9

This is a thing???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 04:43 AM
1

?????????????????????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:57 PM
32

I find this very pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:50 PM
6

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 I legit just rolled my eyes so far back i saw my past self. Warned her not to read this rubbish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 07:39 PM
8

I'm not even religious but Lord if you're real, now would be a good time to reveal yourself. This woman will get herself killed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:33 PM
4

Girl I- 💀You wrong for this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 09:09 AM
3

He tried to replace you. Failed. Now he's back for crumbs of attention. He is trying to get you to be a backup option. Block him. Should've blocked him when he left you with his stupid explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 08:57 AM
4

Not the dookie stains in the boxers 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:35 PM
1

You're welcome and I'm so glad you enjoyed your day! Here's to many more happy birthdays! 😃💛 It turned out really, really well and solo parties are sometimes the best I think. Ayy! Thanks sis, the inside looks so delicious as well, I'll take a bite ahaha 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:23 PM
2

Happy (belated) Birthday Sis!! Hope you had a fantastic day! 😃🎉💛 That cake looks banging, look at the skill!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:45 PM
4

You're pretty for a [insert race] woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:56 PM
42

This is so embarrassing.. On God. What a literal man baby. Ew. Sis ain't even a clown. She a whole ass circus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 09:50 AM
11

Yeah, this is how I feel. At my loneliest points in life I was serial dating yet when I made good friends I was always single. I have a few very solid friendships with some women although I'd like to make more. It feels so difficult though, i find a lot of people get into a relationship and suddenly friends aren't important. They don't value them. It's a shame, I'd love to have more friends, women are so much more cooler than men! It's almost like they see female friendships as a placeholder unt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:52 PM
3

Men be like - "I was nice to you once so where's my sex, i demand sex"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:15 PM
31

One thing i have noticed is that men seem to think being emotional means to cry hence why they say men aren't emotional. Yet anger is an emotional response, so is annoyance, the silent treatment ect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 04:09 PM
22

On today's episode of the world hates women we have scrotes telling a literal abuse victim that their partner's sexual pleasure means more than their own mental health. Will the scrotes keep their stance? When will FDS members join forces and beat their asses? Why are men.. Men? Find out next week on 'I'm sick of this shit.. No seriously it's making me ill'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:51 AM
8

Lol. Divorce him. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:16 PM
26

This comment has sent me into orbit 😭 Why the random Harold, why is this so funny to me😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:56 PM
44

Great reasons! I'll add my own, 1)he's a man and 2)he's old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:23 PM
61

I think a lot of people confuse dates with quality time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:53 PM
3

Yeah it's a non personal, easy to send message that he could be sending to several other people. 8pm must be prime time for no nonsense! & exactly that, that'll be his problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:02 AM
11

For me I'll text men no earlier than 12pm in the afternoon, i don't want any good morning, how was your sleep messages and if i receive them i sure as hell ain't responding. The latest I'll text a guy back is 8pm, again, none of that late night falling asleep on the phone together, booty call business. Not here for it. If the guy doesn't like it then tough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:16 PM
29

Wishing you safety, great health and success also! ✨ I had a guy do something similar to me back in secondary school. He somehow convinced the teachers to let him move into my Psychology and English classes. One of my friends had to do a presentation with him for a lesson. He opened a file accidentally on his USB and it was titled under my name... It was a fact file of me. As in 'Meadow97 is about 160cm tall, i think about 110lbs, she gets easily embarrassed and she has x amount of siblings call…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:37 PM
2

I just had whiplash from reading the first two sentences. So she was with this person for 5 long years before they proposed?? Then has been engaged for over 8 years?? Madness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:14 PM
16

Window shopping on Oxford Street, London. As in, we walked around looking at clothes, he bought himself some slacks, a top and that was that. Thank God my clown ways are over cause that wouldn't run now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:58 PM
14

I'm failing to see what's so funny about being a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 12:36 PM
4

Pathetic. Well and truly pathetic. Couldn't be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:57 PM
5

She's expected to say "what's updog" as in what's up. Then he'd likely say 'not much' ect. Not that funny or inventive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:54 PM
11

??????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:30 AM
19

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I think this needs to be pinned! Great explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 06:32 PM
3

The scream I just let out 💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:08 PM
2

Oh! My bad, yeah HVW 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:41 PM
21

I had some luck! I made an amazing friend from there back in December last year, we talk every day and spend time together in person regularly, the friendship is far from one sided. She's definitely a HVW, in terms of her morals, mindset, behaviour ect. Plus we have a lot of fun together! I also made another friend from there back in April, so far she also seems to be a HVW.) For context I am 23 so ymmv)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:16 AM
9

Men who have no gold to dig stay calling women gold diggers. Tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:40 PM
4

Every time I think this sub couldn't get funnier 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:25 PM
5

No, absolutely not. You are more than worthy of being treated with respect. In my opinion it's one of two things: 1)More than likely you fought with him about feeling hidden from his friends and family, expressed that you felt him not introducing you to his family and friends means he isn't serious about you. So now he's actively showing this new woman off to give the illusion of being more serious about her. He knows knows how to manipulate. 2) He wants you to feel the way you do. He wants you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:06 PM
2

Ew. He looks like the yellow larva cartoon character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:09 PM
19

What in the pedophilia did i just read???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:44 PM
9

I'd much rather put a staple under my toe nail and kick the wall than do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:18 PM
4

I am so, so sorry that you experienced that. It was no way in your fault, he's simply a disgusting pervert who feels entitled to you and your body. Which is of course not true. Please don't internalise his behaviour, you did not deserve it. You made it very, very clear to him that you were uncomfortable and he still disrespected and pushed your boundaries. Again, not your fault at all. Disgusting man. Please block him, give no explanation, no contact. Nothing. In the future if possible, try to l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:41 PM
17

Last week i met up with my best friend, her boyfriend and a mutual male friend. The mutual friend was complaining that he's dating a new woman and she never pays, never offers to pay and expects that he foot the bill on every outing. Went on a rant about how it's unfair that women expect a guy to pay, it puts him off an overwise attractive woman. It makes him feel undesirable. He lost his job a few months ago so to be honest he shouldn't be dating at all so it's no surprise he got all defensive.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 09:16 AM
2

Why is he asking for a chance? Am i the town bicycle, the latest toy or?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:57 PM
4

Happy Birthday Queen!! Have an amazing day, hope you thoroughly enjoy it, here's to many more years of wisdom and happiness! 💛😘🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:01 AM
2

So, so proud of you!!! Welcome to FDS, your life and mindset is about to change, it's never too late to do so. He didn't deserve you then, now or in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 12:49 PM
4

It's a restaurant. They sell Afro/Portuguese inspired cuisine. (according to their own website). Think like marinated spicy chicken, rice, corn ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:20 PM
2

Sorry you had to go through that. It's so, so disrespectful. Like, what better way to say to someone you don't care for their company than to text other people in their presence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:09 PM
1

Thanks sis! Lucky for me I found this sub last year, so much has changed in my mind set.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:08 PM
1

Yeah, I moved myself away put he kept his head firmly on me until I just shoved him off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:07 PM
1

Definitely agree, when my alarm went off in the morning I winced. Laid about for another 30 minutes, and only got up because I'd be late. Plus I was slightly pricked when he texted me 'see you soon' 😣 Really should listen to my gut. I will do, next time I'll just up and leave. Straight away. It's so awful how on guard I need to be on dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:06 PM
5

Haha will do! And thanks, the worst thing is, his left hand is broken/in a cast. So he was really going out of his way to text and ignore me. He'd put his right hand onto my lap and try to text with the left. 🙄🙄 So disrespectful, it's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:52 AM
30

I agree. I need to do this and unashamedly. I'm a quiet, introverted woman so I don't like being the centre of attention (not low self esteem just one of those things I dislike). But that being said, because I don't like attention on me I find it hard to just call out such behaviour and instead show my disapproval through actions like walking away or throwing a hand off me, rolling my eyes, kissing my teeth ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:43 AM
3

After today, I'm going to say it's not worth it. And I'm in London, everything is opened up now with some precautions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:34 AM
3

Thanks! And he's 23, the same age as me. I agree, usually I don't accept movie dates unless there's a meal involved before so I can talk to the guy a bit and then watch the movie. But now I have another reason to not accept movie dates, it's the first time anyone has used a dark theatre/cinema room to touch me inappropriately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:14 AM
40

So rude! I felt so uncomfortable. That's why I declined his offer of lunch. What, he wants me to eat some steak as I watch him text other people? Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:56 PM
64

You know!! Definitely texting another woman he'd rather spend time with. Well, I left him high and dry so now he has plenty of time to entertain whoever it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:55 PM
105

Ew 🤢 he tried to touch my intimate area too, I moved his hand. I legit packed my things into my purse when he was looking away texting and then excused myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:54 PM
48

I should have, I know. I was actually walking to the bus stop when he called out my name from across the street but still. I know for next time to just leave unashamedly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:53 PM
3

Huh, I didn't realise this was a 'thing' guys did. One guy tried this with me a couple of months ago, after about 5 of these messages I got bored and blocked him. Nice to know it probably would've turned sexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:51 PM
28

Could we add guys wanting to join you on an activity to this list? I had a guy say to me that I should let him know the next time i go on a hike/picnic so he can come along 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:02 PM
5

Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:44 AM
5

This has got to be satire.. Right? He's clearly love bombing you plus there's too many red flags here to pick out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:15 PM
2

Good for you! You are worthy of respect, don't let them dull your shine and take yourself elsewhere! All the best, hope you can find a better job soon🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:10 PM
65

Because these types of men are after sex and they want all the benefits of being in a relationship without actually being in one. They want to see as many different women at the same time as possible with no strings attached, because it's technically not cheating if he's not commiting to any of them. They also don't want to feel like they're being used by a woman who also only wants sex. They know it doesn't feel good to be wanted just for sex but they're hypocrites. So they pretend to want a re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:08 PM
7

Wow i- 💀this comment has made my day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 09:05 PM
42

Damn.. Hope you're well now and that's all in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:03 PM
10

Men are a plague. What's wrong with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 05:10 PM
5

This is just chef's kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:37 PM
14

👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:28 AM
12

Crack. Is it crack that she smokes or?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:40 AM
5

Congratulations! All the best for your new future! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:07 AM
3

Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 06:56 PM
11

I'm still confused and it's been several months, and exactly I could easily tell a lie 🤦🏽 I was tempted to ask him that, like if that's true then surely his dna has been left in every other woman too??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:51 PM
80

I got asked this by a guy who claimed he absolutely needed to know because 'his pos ex cheated on him multiple times and every time a man sleeps with a woman his dna is left in her... So i need to know yours so i know that you're not biologically predisposed to sleeping with people you've slept with in the past..' Bruh.. I hung up the phone and blocked him. What kind of rubbish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:24 PM
23

I saw this and instantly thought of FDS.. What a mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:20 PM
3

Oh boy. Do I have some things to say. He said he'd like to take me out some time then proceeded to ask me what I'd like to do. Didn't plan it at all. I suggested a movie and a meal, he said yes and I researched the film, what restaurants, what location ect. (This could never run now of course). When the day came he called me an hour before we were going to meet up and said he didn't feel good so he cancelled.. About 30 minutes later, he called again and said he reeeeeeeally wants to meet me so h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:55 PM
2

Thank you! It's so true 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:08 PM
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I'm not even surprised he has the balls to say that considering his beard literally looks like a ball sack. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:43 AM
11

Thanks, and it's ridiculous honestly. I agree that it's ignorance and just blatant racism. Could you imagine the outrage if I said I disliked Chinese people because I went to school with a guy who was an asshole and just happened to be Chinese so now I dislike them? It's just not okay. Another thing, he said he'd never marry me because that would be to go against his parents wishes and to do so would bring shame to his family and he'd be disowned ect. Homeboy knew damn well he shouldn't have got…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:24 PM
21

I've noticed this trend also. I'm black (Ghanaian), my ex is Asian, specifically from Sri Lanka although we were both born and raised in London. About 4 months into the relationship he refused to let me meet his family. He later on said that his parents don't like black people and that they want him to marry a Hindu woman, especially one who is Sri Lankan,that he will NEVER marry me. To this day it angers me, I'm obviously 100% black, I'm not ethnically ambiguous ect. Why bother dating me, appro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:28 PM
13

Ikr! It's so odd like do they realise it's easy to tell when they're telling lies 🤦🏽 I had one guy do the recycling photos thing, I legit was like dude.. You showed me this exact photo last time, this is what went down, who you met, bla bla bla
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:35 PM
83

"I'm new to this" - I'm a serial dating app user. I've been banned and blocked from several because of my behaviour and this is a new account so technically I'm new to this. "I want a girl who has a sense of humour" - I masquerade my insults and disrespect as humour. If you get offended it's not my fault you can't take a 'joke'. "My dog is my life" - I think having a pet is a substitute for having a personality. "My friends made me make an account" - I think it's embarrassing to want a loving re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:23 AM
2

Thank you! ✨ So glad I can recognise lvm from a mile away now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:56 AM
3

Yeah I agree, they love having their ego fed when a woman chases them. Couldn't be me (anymore), I'm not an elevator men can't just walk in and out of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:55 AM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:41 AM
3

I agree, I don't want to be on bad terms with her because then that will affect my relationship with my brother to some degree. The last sentence.. I need to take that in more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 08:14 PM
9

I have this exact issue with one woman except it's near impossible to get rid of her. She (21F, almost 22) and I (23F) went to school together. She eventually started dealing with my eldest brother who is 1000% a LVM in every shape and form and also 28. They've been together since she was 17 and he 23 🤢🤢. I suspect he groomed her. She's constantly calling me to complain, sends 10 minute voice notes to vent, wants me to hang out just so she can complain whenever they have an issue. She literally …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:29 PM
1

Ah, i see you've met my ex. Should've never gotten involved with a garden gnome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 06:16 PM
31

Nah what kind of rubbish is this please? The whole thing is disgusting, the crusty pubes, the implication he smells of literal shit and sweat. I- 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:05 PM
5

I thought i was the only one who did this, except I stop responding at 8pm until noon. It's a great strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 10:47 PM
155

Men hate women so much that the idea of other men not hating women is so far fetched. They literally cannot grasp the concept of a man not being misogynistic that they'll label men who respect women simps. In their minds, the only way a man could respect a woman is by pretending to care and respect her in order to get something, usually sex or emotional support. The fact that other men might actually respect women without wanting something from them is an alien concept. Ridiculous, honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 10:59 PM
19

Of course. She wants to know how to COmMunICaTE with him. Ew. That's absolutely disgusting. She needs to leave ASAP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:27 AM
2

I dated a guy like this.. Told him i was having a panic attack so he sent me videos of him masturbating. Asked me to play with myself so he could 'finish'.. Absolutely disgusting. Sorry you went through this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:41 PM
1

I'm honestly ashamed to say i had this exact conversation with my ex April 2019. Thank goodness I've grown, learned my worth and got rid of his stupid ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:37 PM
5

What..? No, seriously what? The moment he asked to see his former FWB should've been the moment she walked away. Smh 🤦🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 06:31 PM
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