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DiscriminationMeanestNiceLady/r/MensRights29/08/25 03:51 AM
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The first? Did abolition have negative side effects? The enlightenment?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:07 AM
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I posted something very similar here a couple weeks ago. A podcast (hosted by a woman) framed a teacher having sex with a student as a pedophile grooming a child (which it is). The comments on the podcast instragram saying how lucky the kid was were almost exclusively from men. It was disappointing. I am not a man but I know men who were victims of SA by women. They carry it through their lives. As an SA victim myself I cannot imagine how horrible it would feel if other women told me I was lucky…
/r/MensRights04/09/25 08:02 PM
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When men look at ugly women, their brains respond in anger or annoyance. This says A LOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:59 PM
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The slapping woman trope isn't used as much, but you saw it a lot more in old movies. In the 1930s, 40s, and 50s, corporal punishment was pretty normal (the the honeymooners). Women also had to "defend their honor" so to speak, and since women were seen as weak and docile, slapping was considered a more or less harmless way of defending yourself from lecherous men. I have no idea how common it was in real life, but it is such a common trope in old movies.
/r/MensRights02/09/25 09:33 PM
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This is so hard to wrap my mind around. They got fired for taking pictures with a celebrity? That's it? There is no more to the story?
/r/MensRights02/09/25 09:25 PM
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You dont know that he would have consented if he could. No information about him has been released. Maybe YOU would have consented. But you can't speak for a 13 year old simply because you are the same gender as him.
/r/MensRights29/08/25 06:29 PM
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So it’s a burden when women get them, but it’s a luxury when men do ? If women don’t want to take care of kids, why do they pressure the legal system to grant them custody ? Shouldn’t they be fighting to give that custody to men ? Since it’s such a burden ? I am not saying this at all. Where am I saying that men getting custody was a privilege and luxury for them, or that caring for children is an unbearable burden for women? It takes more mental gymnastics to extrapolate that than it is for me …
/r/MensRights29/08/25 04:19 AM
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Yeah that makes sense, before 1870 women had zero rights. Please, share any study you have proving men make better parents...
/r/MensRights29/08/25 01:28 AM
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Bahahahahaahhaha that's an insane extrapolation. Many men abandon their kids at the drop of a hat. Custody usually defaults to the mother because the dad doesn't care. Kids raised by single dad's are kids who were raised by men who fought hard to be in their lives. Men who can afford good lawyers. Of course those kids are better off. They have the rare distinction of fathers who care about them more than their mothers.
/r/MensRights29/08/25 01:21 AM
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I have to wonder how many men on this subreddit have spent more than 5 minutes around a small child, because they seem to consider caring for a child extremely easy. Women do it so it must be right?
/r/MensRights25/08/25 04:47 PM
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So women spend 50% extra in two domains and men spend 50% extra in one...
/r/MensRights24/08/25 03:59 AM
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Yes.
/r/MensRights22/08/25 08:35 PM
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Is it misandry for a woman to view any man as suspect after being abused?
/r/MensRights21/08/25 09:07 PM
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Also what special programs are you talking about? I genuinely have no idea. There was a mentoring program for poor kids, but I have never even heard of a special program just for getting girls to college. Like I said, my my Alma Mater accepts almost anyone with a pulse. I had zero advantage, zero help because I am female. I put in the work and graduated with honors. What point were you trying to make? You accuse me of emotionally responding, while you clearly have a strong emotional reaction to …
/r/MensRights21/08/25 12:59 AM
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Here's the data from the University of Nevada. Again, you don't know what you are talking about. Men: ~84.5% (3,693 admitted - 4,372 applied) Women: ~85.9% (4,922 admitted - 5,728 applied) What are you trying to show with this data? The difference is insignificant and its a school that lets everyone in. I mentioned why I don't have scholarships because you inferred that I didnt have any because I wasn't smart enough. You act like this and then wonder why guys don't automatically take you serious…
/r/MensRights21/08/25 12:54 AM
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You got no scholarships? Which means you weren't smart enough to get scholarships. Which means you absolutely were there because of a quota. This is so silly. I got no scholarships because my parents are very well to do so I didn't need any. The extrapolation that if you don't get a scholarship, you are not smart is insane. My GPA was 3.8 and I went to University of Nevada, who accepts almost everyone. The idea that I was filing a quota at this massive land grant school has zero merrit. I think …
/r/MensRights20/08/25 11:57 PM
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How do you know this study is valid? How do you know Dr Jessica McCarrick isn't one of those women who only got into school to fill a quota? As a woman (a blacl woman at that) who got a master's with zero scholarships or assistance, I think your assertion that women get into college to meet quotas a little silly. There is no evidence that women are academically inferior to men. Most state schools never had a quota for women.
/r/MensRights20/08/25 11:25 PM
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Yes but it became faaaaaaar more common after the feminism of the 60s and 70s.
/r/MensRights20/08/25 11:11 PM
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Is being a CEO of a fast food chain difficult, unpleasant, and dangerous?
/r/MensRights20/08/25 11:00 PM
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Every single one of the chains you mentioned has a male CEO. Men own more restaurants. I think we are safe from a female fast food takeovef
/r/MensRights20/08/25 10:59 PM
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It is annecdotal I know, but a most of my female friends have been assaulted. I have too. After an experience like that, it is natural to be wary of men. Men are usually bigger and stronger than us. You only need to be assaulted once to become more cautious.
/r/MensRights20/08/25 10:55 PM
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I don't understand how you can be pro-mens rights and then dislike men who act differently so much. What is men's rights even about if you are bothered by men making strides in traditionally female spaces?
/r/MensRights20/08/25 10:52 PM
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. It's the fact that these guys are waving around pompoms and wearing what looks like damn near like a cheerleading skirt. It But isn't men's rights about empowering men to make their own choices? Does men's rights not include effeminate men?
/r/MensRights20/08/25 10:51 PM
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The article is written by a woman
/r/MensRights20/08/25 10:48 PM
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Because feminism allowed Dr Jessica McCarrick, who published the study, to have a Doctorate and research this important topic. . That is indeed feminism working as intended. Feminism is the reason female scholars and professors exist.
/r/MensRights20/08/25 10:41 PM
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Current feminism or all feminism?
/r/MensRights03/08/25 02:38 AM
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You are baffled by women wanting to raise their children and be present as mothers?
/r/MensRights03/08/25 02:32 AM
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Naw, I am hopelessly in love with a nerdy buck tooth immigrant with extreme anxiety. Very few people would say he is conventionally attractive, but our first date lasted 6 hours because we had so much to talk about. He is beautiful to me. My friends are all married to average looking guys. Women value connection over looks. Look around you. You'll see average looking married men all the time.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 03:43 AM
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Yeah but only the top 10% or 20% of men have enough options to actually refuse someone because they also have conventionally attractive women open to them. Okay? So do the top 20% of women? What % of women are conventionally attractive? It is so telling that you feel like a woman's physical attractiveness is her most important quality. You are really telling me that the majority of married men are beggars who were forced to pick an ugly woman? Can you comprehend that some men value a woman's per…
/r/MensRights18/07/25 03:40 AM
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a majority of men get married Finding a girlfriend isn't some epic mythical quest.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 03:07 AM
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The likely reality right now is that most women want a small % of the men Most men want a small percentage of women. I am not conventionally attractive, most men aren't interested in me. I have no doubt that if most guys in this subreddit saw a picture of me in a bikini they would have all kinds of mean things to say. My instragram is fairly popular and men comment on how fat and ugly they find me at least 3x weekly. For what it's worth, the guy I want so badly is a complete nerd with buck teeth…
/r/MensRights18/07/25 03:05 AM
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Exactly. If I wanted to have sex with some random guy off Bumble I could every single night. I don't want to have sex every single night. I think men want sex more because climax is almost guaranteed for them. It isn't like that with women. Finding a guy who wants a hole to blast in versus finding a guy wants to build a relationship based on mutual attraction, effort, trust, and connection... there is a massive difference.
/r/MensRights18/07/25 02:55 AM
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🤷🏽‍♀️ Maybe. I am not a relationship with the guy I want nothing more to be in a relationship with. I have been single for 5 years
/r/MensRights17/07/25 03:50 AM
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I do not remotely deny that we are swarmed on dating apps. I have over 300 Bumble matches within a 20 mile radius and I am fatter and older than most men prefer. However, the idea that I can have any man I desire is absurd. There would be very few single women if it was as easy as picking out whatever man we want and he will happily enter a serious relationship with us. I am pretty sure a my most conventionally attractive FWBs wouldn't ever want to be seen with me in public. Having a lot of guys…
/r/MensRights17/07/25 03:46 AM
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I am a woman that most of you would probably consider ugly. I do NOT have more dating options than Henry Cavill. I have more dating options than a man who is my level of attractive. But the idea that I could be pulling men as hot as the women Cavill, or even just lotharios I know in my own life, is simply untrue. Men don't want ugly partners, they tend to view their partner as a status symbol and want conventionally attractive women.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 03:32 AM
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Woman here. We definitely have more options when it comes to dating but the idea that we can have "anyone" we want is absurd.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 03:30 AM
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"Vast majority" is a dramatic overstatement. What are you basing this on, besides your perception that women are dishonest? Most sources place it around 2% -8%, though they acknowledge that knowing for certain is pretty much impossible. I don't think you undersunderstand how common rape is. Multiple women in your life that you interact with daily have been raped, I can guarantee. We don't generally disclose it to anyone but those closest to us, if that.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 03:27 AM
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False accusation and NINE YEARS of sustained harassment and she gets a FINE?
/r/MensRights17/07/25 03:22 AM
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Naw I like men, porn, and sex. There is a small subset of men who are threatening. But I surround myself with men who are good looking, smart, and fun. I am FWB with men I truly trust and like as friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 05:41 AM
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I'm not sure what you are referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:47 AM
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Ugly women have sexual opportunities or men lining up opportunities Having sexual opportunities or men wanting to date you doesn't mean you don't struggle in dating. What if you have zero interest in the guys who want to date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:40 AM
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Does this apply to fat/ugly/older women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:34 AM
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This subreddit is full of things talking about how women should act
/r/MensRights18/03/25 01:17 AM
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Alright than you cannot judge or comment in any form of femininity, whether good, bad, or indifferent
/r/MensRights17/03/25 09:42 PM
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Nobody seems invested in it. I can't stand the feminist subreddit, but some of the horrible things that have been said to me have come from this subreddit. Blaming me for my own sexual assault, telling me men are inherently superior to me because they are male...
/r/MensRights17/03/25 03:05 AM
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Just two. I had a roommate who was assaulted by the couple who lived next door routinely. When the parents found out they went to the cops but it was a he said she said deal. Any trial would have to rely on the testimony of a 4 year old boy. They continued living next to that couple, which I think is insane. The kid is now 23 and obviously scarred by that experience.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 12:52 AM
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That's a really good point. We need to restructure society and I don't know how.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 12:41 AM
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Of all the women and men I know who have told me they have been raped/abused, not once did the abuser go to trial. I suspect if your family and friends confided in you their stories of assault they would say the same.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 12:14 AM
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Maybe you only heard the term a few times, but the concept of distinct gender roles has been present throughout history. One can argue that gender roles are the most lucid they have ever been in western society at this point.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 12:06 AM
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What you are describing is simply misandry or internalised misandry. Misandry and patriarchy are so emmeshed at this point. Many of the things that hurt men the most were the makings of powerful men, not feminism.
/r/MensRights17/03/25 12:01 AM
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🤷🏽‍♀️ Femism is a spectrum. I believe we need people of integrity, intellect, ambition, and accountability in leadership positions. Gender shouldn't be a factor.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 11:56 PM
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Even the woman who popularized it now says she regrets "believe all women". I think a better slogan is "take rape accusations seriously but investigate them thoroughly" It's hard because it often boils down to he said she said. I was raped when I was 17. He used a condom and he didn't leave bruises or anything. How could I have proved it? I never told anyone. Sexual assault is very common and often unreported. When it is reported their is sometimes little they can do. A friend was injected with …
/r/MensRights16/03/25 06:23 AM
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Thank heavens for paternity tests.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 03:13 AM
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Gross. Scumbag human.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 03:11 AM
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This sounds odd but I was doing dominatrix work. I saw men at their most vulnerable. They confided the saddest stories in me. They came to be dominated because they didn't have to be themselves, to keep up a masculine imagine. Its the first thing that got me thinking "are men doing okay?" That and my uncle went to jail for not paying child support after his baby mama married a wealthy man that the kids ended up calling Dad, meanwhile their bio father barely saw them and was expected to pay out. …
/r/MensRights16/03/25 03:09 AM
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We need positive masculinity. Strong principled leaders and builders. Masculinity and toxic masculinity aren't the same thing. Some examples of toxic masculinity: Men that get surgery to become taller because society tells them only tall men are attractive. Men not reporting abuse because they fear they will be viewed as victims. Men being scared to be viewed as victims in general. Men and boys being told to hide their emotions, not to cry or express sadness Men being made to feel like they numb…
/r/MensRights16/03/25 03:04 AM
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How does a woman prove it? Rape is a very real thing, if a women said "I dont believe men can be SA'd, prove it or it didn't happen" you would probably consider that prejudiced and unfair.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 02:59 AM
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I believe it was Time magazine that put the boy's faces right on the cover, labeling them rapists.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 02:57 AM
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I am so sorry that happen to you. And even sorry that we live in a culture where your awful experience is taken less seriously. I lived with a man who was molested by a woman over the course of many years, it was clear that it scarred him. I completely understand why you would feel how you feel.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 11:02 PM
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My Dad isn't a rapist, my brother isn't a rapist, my male friends aren't rapists, fuck right off. It must be exhausting having that world view. I say this as a women who has been sexually assaulted more than once. You simply can't have that attitude if you are going to participate in society.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 10:48 PM
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"The Truth About Unwanted Arousal" is very eye opening. I am embarrassed for not considering this more until now. Thank you
/r/MensRights01/03/25 10:44 PM
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Former dominatrix here, even if that is his kink, his partner should never ever take it so far as to KILL him. The submissive person's safety should always be the #1 responsibility and priority. This woman doesn't sound like a kinky domme though, she sounds like a horrible cruel idiot. Absolutely nothing warrants this.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 10:40 PM
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Its a tough one because feminism is an ideology while male violence towards female isn't done by a specific group of men. Its a minority of men who aren't organized or united in anyway. Most men aren't like that at all. My dad, brother, and boyfriend certainly aren't.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 10:36 PM
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I love the way the language around these women is being changed. As little as 7 or 8 years ago it would be like "Teacher Caught In Love Affair With Student" or some shit. These awful women are being called out for the predators they are.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 08:50 PM
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Probably about as hard as it is for you to accept that men do real tangible harm to women. You know the statistics
/r/MensRights01/03/25 08:46 PM
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UK feminism is a whole different breed of weirdness.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 12:02 AM
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100% modern feminism has gone off the rails. The focus is in the wrong places.
/r/MensRights01/03/25 12:01 AM
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Fair enough
/r/MensRights28/02/25 02:25 AM
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Don't tell me what I do. Feminism is vast.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 01:45 AM
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She's sorry she got caught. She needs to be in jail. These women should face serious punishment.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 01:16 AM
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I am a feminist. This isn't feminism. This is a lying, cheating, low down dirty woman who deserves jail time. There should be serious jail time for all false accusers. False accusations existed long before the feminist movement. It isn't about feminism. Some people are just evil
/r/MensRights28/02/25 01:15 AM
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This response when in a different direction and I appreciate it. While the man I am seeing tells me I am beautiful and I agree on good days, we are mostly dating because we have so much to talk about.
/r/MensRights19/02/25 04:21 AM
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I think "pity" is the wrong word. I dont find it pitiful to ask for safer working conditions for your gender.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 10:18 PM
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People often assume I am trolling this subreddit because I am a woman who doesn't 100% agree with everything, but you guys do make a lot of good points. Its a shame I get so many mean comments (I've been told women are inherently dumb, undeserving, and have zero value in the last 24 hours here) becuase it really undermines the legitimate points you guys make. Dating apps are 100% tilted in the favor of women. It's almost like a buffet almost. It's also created a culture where men rarely approach…
/r/MensRights15/02/25 10:07 PM
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Yes. A former coworker. He was trying to market himself as a 50 shades style "Dom" for women. His OF name was LatinDaddyKing or something. I dont think he had a single subscriber. Most people on only fans don't make much money in my understanding
/r/MensRights15/02/25 09:45 PM
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As a woman, the majority of unsolicited comments I get on my body are from other women. Like easily 90%. "You look like you've lost weight" "I wish I had your boobs" Etc
/r/MensRights15/02/25 09:43 PM
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Oh totally. Jobs like lineman, construction worker, firefighter, and roughneck tend to be majority male. No reason a strong woman couldn't do that work.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 09:41 PM
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Wow wow wow that was a huge typo. Holy shit that makes me look like trash lolol. The majority of my friends have met their partners on dating apps. I dont think I know anyone who has an only fans, except 1 dude.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 09:39 PM
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100%, most of those jobs are see as culturally male.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 08:09 PM
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I can only speak for myself, but I have make-up free, filter-less full body photos. That way when I show up for dates in make up I look better than they expected. Maybe women using filters to deceive is "disgusting", but the amount of likes we get isnt. I don't have any friends with an OF, but most of my friends have met their husbands/partners on dating apps
/r/MensRights15/02/25 08:07 PM
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I think it it totally fair to being attention to higher male mortality rates at work and try to prevent it.
/r/MensRights15/02/25 07:58 PM
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It's so weird how people think the men's rights movement is misogynistic right?
/r/MensRights15/02/25 07:57 PM
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How is it "disgusting"?
/r/MensRights15/02/25 07:56 PM
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When it comes to physical aggression, not at all. Look at murder and assault statistics.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 03:24 AM
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I never thought about it this way, that's a great point.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 03:23 AM
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Men are like 10x more likely to die at work because men take more dangerous jobs.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 03:22 AM
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Don't subsidize a woman unless she is mothering your children and doing a damn good job. Its 2025. Women have every opportunity to get educated, have careers, and support themselves. A woman expecting a man to to take care of her is a succubus. Avoid at all cost. If she can't stand on her own two feet, she ain't worth it.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 03:15 AM
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I don't know any woman who wouldn't find this appalling. What women are you talking to that express sympathy for a mother who murders her children?
/r/MensRights14/02/25 03:09 AM
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It must be exhausting hating half the population. What a miserable person she must be.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 03:08 AM
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No arguments here. I can only speak for myself as a woman, but I have well over 1000 bumble matches. And I am plus size, a feature many men dislike. If it wasn't for dating apps I would have no idea that many guys were interested in me. It's changed the dating game entirely. Especially when you can see a man's occupation on their dating profile. This has to suck for men. It's unfair. I am sure tons of good guys get overlooked because of how they look "on paper". I am not really sure what the sol…
/r/MensRights14/02/25 03:05 AM
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Get an annulment immediately. She's bad news. Not just because she sent to goodbye text but becuase she's talking about it on social media. She's not worth the trouble
/r/MensRights14/02/25 02:54 AM
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If you are American, the draft ended in 1977. The idea of the draft was created by men entirely, on the notion that women are too weak and unintelligent to be helpful in war. We have been engaged in at least 4 boots on the ground conflicts since then, had foreign terrorist attack on our soil, and not one single soul has been drafted. Whereas over 600k women have has abortions in the last year. It is ridiculous to compare the two. No man born after 1960 has been drafted. If youre so worried about…
/r/MensRights14/02/25 02:43 AM
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Thank you for the information, I will check it out
/r/MensRights14/02/25 02:27 AM
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How about everything done for racial minorities under President LB Johnson? I don't think I conveyed my point very well. The civil rights act was wonderful. Affirmative action came right on the heels of the civil rights movement. The only reason my dad has a college education is because his state college started offering free housing for black and brown students around 1967. Affirmative action was a much much much more intense version of DEI. And it started immediately after the civil rights mov…
/r/MensRights12/02/25 03:39 AM
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How do I have DEI to thank for that? Before DEI there was literal segregation. Jim Crowe. Before affirmative action POC and women were legally barred from participating in society on the same level as white men. some white men act as though there was ever a time when one's race and gender did not have a huge impact on their life. At no point in history has this country been truly merrit based. Affirmative action started as soon as segregation ended. Please note: This doesn't mean all white men h…
/r/MensRights12/02/25 03:01 AM
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I appreciate this perspective. I took the time to get two degrees and build a successful career, I am always surprised by how little men care about that stuff. It's very attractive when a guy finds my ambition attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:05 AM
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That is so disgusting and horrible about you Mom. Her actions were monstrous and you didn't deserve that. I don't think people realize the harm of speaking about "men" in such a broad sense. Most men are good, I really believe that. Male victims of sexual assault are completely ignored in our society and it's so tragic and wrong. I do think that the patriarchy harms men by telling them to "man up" and hide their feelings. "Real men don't cry" etc doesn't help anyone. Democrats need to realize th…
/r/MensRights12/02/25 12:29 AM
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I don't know much about that (I work in public schools and healthcare so I worked through the whole pandemic). I do know that tons of people of all colors benefited from covid relief they didn't necessarily need or deserve. The democrats lost me when they ran Hillary in 2016.
/r/MensRights12/02/25 12:22 AM
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Probably. Personally I take pride in never taking a handout.
/r/MensRights12/02/25 12:20 AM
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Awareness of what? Men's willingness to violate a woman unless she clearly stated her boundaries? Yeah I agree, that's why I am very assertive now. You have the balls to tell me men care more about consent and then tell me I should have expected "escalation" aka unrequested raw penetration from a massage. That's some Jerry Fallwell Taliban Ass thinking. That men just can't control themselves so if a woman gives him an inch he should be able you take a mile. This is why women don't trust men. You…
/r/MensRights10/02/25 09:47 PM
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It is most certainly sexual assault.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 09:19 PM
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The fact that you don't view non-consensual penetration as "pushing boundardies" says so much. Creep.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 09:18 PM
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You were on his bed, you allowed him to "massage" your ass, but somehow you thought the situation wouldn't escalate? So if a girl asks you for a massage you have the right to penetrate her, raw and unprovoked? You have a right to "escalate" the situation? If my guy goes hard on leg day and wants a glute massage, should he expect me to stick a dildo in him? Youre literally telling me a guy sticking his cock in me with no warning is my fault? First you say women want men to be more aggressive sexu…
/r/MensRights10/02/25 09:14 PM
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This is why women choose the bear.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 06:15 PM
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An example from a couple years ago. A guy is massaging my ass while I am laying prone on his bed. Next thing I know he sticks his penis inside me, no condom, and starts thrusting. We hadn't talked about or agreed to sex. I didn't want that and I told him so. Got up and left. "Pushing boundaries" in my mind usually involved inserting fingers or other body parts in me without asking, touching my genitals without warning.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 04:57 PM
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Men being "assertive" is part of the heteronormative sexuality that women actually want I am just speaking from my own experience. I don't want men to push boundaries, that's why I learned to be assertive. Don't tell me what I do or don't want sexually. You don't know me or what I am into. Are the girls you fuck telling you they want you to be assertive and rough or are you just assuming they enjoyed it? Also, next time pay for your own food, homeless wannabe. Why? Becuase I am allowing the guy …
/r/MensRights10/02/25 04:32 PM
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The so called “left” has led to reracialising things (it never really became non-racialised did it). That's the problem. Race has never been handled in a fair way in America. We have no model of equality to look too
/r/MensRights10/02/25 04:10 PM
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It's our loss as women, I dont want to sound racist, Asian men tend to have qualities we claim to want in a partner. Ambition, intelligence, a strong sense of personal responsibility. I think both sexes look for hot people, not good partners
/r/MensRights10/02/25 07:06 AM
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Who suffers from women being in sports?
/r/MensRights10/02/25 07:02 AM
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What would that look like?
/r/MensRights10/02/25 07:00 AM
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I am gonna get down voted to hell. MRAs probably hate that I think men sometimes push boundaries without caring if the girl is comfortable. I've definitely had guys unexpectedly take things way too far. Feminists will hate that I think women should be VERY vocal about what they don't want. If a guy is doing something that you really don't like say "No, I don't like this, you need to stop" and get up and leave his house. Both men and women can have unpleasant sexual experiences, that isn't the sa…
/r/MensRights10/02/25 06:59 AM
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People are so so sick.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 06:19 AM
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Remember when the entire goal of super bowl commercials was to be funny?
/r/MensRights10/02/25 06:16 AM
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This times one million. Appeal to problems that affect everyone. Stop acting like poor whites don't have legitimate grievances.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 06:11 AM
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I'm not registered with any party, but conversely, I am not going to vote for a party who says it's "common sense" that diversity causes a horrible plane crash. I do concede that the left caused much of this by focusing on identity so much, but it is also hard to make a case that historically, white men have stood on the side of gender and racial justice. I think the dems messed up by not acting like white people collectively were responsible for racial injustice, not just a few at the top makin…
/r/MensRights10/02/25 06:08 AM
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I (black woman) remember having this conversation with a white female friend in like 2014 If POC or LGBT put identity front and center, can we be surprised when white people do the exact same thing? We are telling everyone that their race/sexuality is the most important thing about them. I don't want this to come off the wrong way but when you look at history, when white men, who are generally in power, start feeling that their whiteness and masculinity is the most important thing about them, it…
/r/MensRights10/02/25 05:56 AM
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I know this isn't what your saying, but as a black woman it's worth pointing out that you can be a minority and female your whole life and never receive a cent from any of these grants. Hell I don't know what grants I could even apply for.
/r/MensRights10/02/25 05:50 AM
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Hell I am a black woman and I can totally see this perspective. I'm seeing these shirts advertised saying "Old White Men Shouldn't Make Decisions About Women's Bodies" and it's like.... yeah I agree about our bodily autonomy but why call out white guys specifically? White men aren't any more dangerous than other men. There is a whole separate conversation to be had about male/female dynamics. I have been harassed, assaulted, and diminished by men of every race. I've also been assisted, uplifted,…
/r/MensRights10/02/25 05:47 AM
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Shit lady you can't have it both ways
/r/MensRights14/01/25 06:56 PM
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Some men get chosen and after a couple of months decide they don't want the woman after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:37 PM
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I've "chosen" plenty of men on dating apps who later decide they do not want to be with me. It's not that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 09:35 PM
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women should be required to have sex with/date/marry/get pregnant by men to be worthy of having shelter
/r/MensRights10/01/25 07:06 PM
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Many of them are raising children
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:53 AM
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Dude... are you really claiming 99.9% of first responders are men? You can't even be bothered to Google "what percent of EMTs are female"? THIRTY NINE PERCENT OF EMTS ARE FEMALE TWELVE PERCENT OF COPS ARE FEMALE* TEN PERCENT OF FIRE FIGHTERS ARE FEMALE EIGHTY PERCENT OF ER NURSES ARE FEMALE It's the fucking information age buddy. Objective facts exists and you can easily access them online. Why are you making up statistics? Stating things that are demonstrably untrue is the fastest way to lose a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:51 AM
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Women start fights/arguments with men because they know they can just call the cops. So when things escalate there will be men to save her. What made you so bitter? Has this actually happened to you? Or do you just need reasons to dislike women because it stings less that women aren't romantically/sexually interested in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:45 AM
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How many women have shot up schools? Men could stop 90% of murders and assaults by not commiting them, and you are complaining that women aren't standing up to violent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:59 AM
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He doesn't need to cite anyanything. This is how he feels and he is a man so he must be correct /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:58 AM
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They literally prove our argument. That men think they are the superior and more confident gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:57 AM
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That article only says that men feel more confident in their preparedness. Not that they are more prepared. I've sent you lots of videos and articles of women saving people. You are searching for a way to feel more important and meaningful because of your gender to compensate for your lack of personal accomplishments Have you personally ever saved somebody?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:06 AM
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Look at all the videos I showed you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:53 PM
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I was at my heaviest when I dated the wealthiest man I have ever been with. He loved my body
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:33 PM
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A submissive man, but only if he is into being submissive. I have had submissive boyfriends before who love surrendering control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:32 PM
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literally google "woman saves man from drowning" or "woman saves man from fire" and see what comes up. You are creating a false narrative to protect your own ego. Have you yourself ever rescued someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:28 PM
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Are you seriously shaming women for calling 911 when there is an emergency? People don't call 911 so men can do the helping, they call 911 so trained professionals can do the helping. Also since you feel videos = statistical evidence, here are some videos of women helping here here another one yet another example this woman also saved a man these two saved a man from a burning car this woman saved her husband from a burning building her too Did you even look for examples of women saving men? The…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:25 PM
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This is a weird take. I thought you were going to show us a study proving women are less likely to help in an emergency. But it's just a couple videos and your own conjecturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 11:16 PM
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blaming everyone but myself for terrifying and life changing trauma. I have nothing to take accountability for. I am not accountable for the actions of those men. I simply offered my perspective on why a woman might feel that way, and you told me I need to take accountability for how men have treated me. It has taken years of therapy to get over these incidents. Men in general don't scare me at all. I love my male friends and colleagues and I am actively dating men. I dont fear them. I dont fear…
/r/MensRights26/11/24 07:49 AM
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"You're literally saying women need to just "get over" their sexual trauma," Did you not say that women need to take accountability for letting their sexual assaults affect them. Youre telling a sexual assault survivor that she needs to not let her lived experiences make her wary of strange men and their intentions. You speak about sexual assault so casually. You are the reason we are wary of men. Your exact attitude is what makes men frightening. I pray no woman in your family is ever assaulted…
/r/MensRights26/11/24 07:40 AM
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Ok. So as a sexual assault survivor, I should be blaming feminism for allowing that trauma to affect my life. Be real. You know the statistics on sexual assault and gender. I've been assaulted and harassed by MEN multiple times. I am not a victim and I am not an infant. I am a grown women who and I base my opinion on my own experiences, not because feminists lied to me. I do not think I am constantly in danger of men. But I do acknowledge that I am wary when a strange man starts following me to …
/r/MensRights26/11/24 07:33 AM
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You're twisting my words, you have to take accountability for how you allow that to effect you. NOT accountability for being victimized. So a woman who has sexual trauma needs to take accountability for letting it affect her self-image. Its her fault for not being able to move on from a traumatic experience. Feminist are in the wrong for seeing sexual assault as traumatizing. They are asserting that men see them as only good for sex. But thats just what other women have told them men think. How …
/r/MensRights26/11/24 07:08 AM
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The world is a tough place, there are assholes out there, but constantly blaming other people for your own actions is the domain of feminism. What actions? What are you talking about? What action am I taking that is the result of feminism??? I am not doing anything but pointing out that many women feel objectified because they have been objectified. What are my "actions" and who am I blaming incorrectly?????
/r/MensRights26/11/24 06:55 AM
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I am sorry you have experienced the same sexual trauma as me. Do you feel that you bear some "accountability" for how you were treated? Telling sexual assault victims that they need to take 'accountability' for recognizing that they are unwillingly sexualized by others is insane. Nothing that happened was my fault. I dont have to take accountability for others sexualizing me. No woman has ever groped my ass at a bar, followed me to my car and tried to force herself into the car while screaming I…
/r/MensRights26/11/24 06:47 AM
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Be yourself. Anyone who shames men for having normal human emotions is a misandrist idiot. It's really unfortunately that society pressures men to never show vulnerability.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 06:22 AM
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Blaming everyone but myself? I should be blaming myself for the obscene comments strangers have made about my body? Blame myself for DMs from strangers telling me they want to fuck me? Blame myself for men forcing themselves on me? What exactly do I have to take accountability for??What responsibility do I bear for being sexually harassed and having my body commented on since was 12. What exactly am I supposed to own up to??? What am I not taking accountability for? Which part of this is my faul…
/r/MensRights26/11/24 06:10 AM
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Jeez this is absolutely awful. I had no idea this was a thing. What you are describing is humiliating and torturing a young child, not a medical procedure. I am so sorry you went through that
/r/MensRights26/11/24 06:03 AM
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As a woman, it can be hard not to see yourself that way. I'm not saying it's correct, but with how the world works, it becomes clear from a young age that you are viewed through a purely sexual lense by some men.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 06:01 AM
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This is one of the saddest most disgusting stories. The police camera footage where he is begging for help because he knows his kids aren't safe will break your heart . Those poor kids. They had a loving father who wanted the best for them. Now their lives are gone and his life is destroyed. Evil evil evil woman.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 05:56 AM
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More than half of the politicians in our country are convicted felons?
/r/MensRights26/11/24 05:51 AM
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If you don't want a baby with her, always use a condom that you brought yourself guys. And you be the one to empty it out when you're done.
/r/MensRights29/10/24 03:19 AM
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Damn. You've really expanded my mind here. I've never thought of it this way but you are completely right. It's so often framed as men trying to control women's bodies, I am sure I have said this exact thing myself. But there are tons of anti-choice women and so many men who are pro choice. Now that I think about it, I have as many male friends as female friends who benefited from abortion when they were not ready for parenthood. Often it's a tough decision a couple makes together. This isn't ab…
/r/MensRights29/10/24 03:17 AM
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Gross. He was a child, she was an adult. Even if he did seek her out, she would still have been 10000% in the wrong because adults aren't supposed to have sex with kids. End of story.
/r/MensRights19/10/24 06:16 AM
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Many women's "high" standards are more about interpersonal compatibility than money. Women used to have "lower" standards towards men because women used to need men for financial stability. So they wanted a guy who took care of them, and overlooked other factors. I've known so many fun great guys, I've yet to meet one I wanted to commit to living with. I just like my alone time and not having to compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:51 AM
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Former dominatrix here: I have only ever heard this term used in a small penis humiliation context. I've never heard it anywhere else and I talk about sex a lot with my female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:43 AM
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They even created a series of videos to really hit the message home known as "man vs bear." Whenever I see this this I know the man gets 90% of his information about women from the internet.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 01:27 AM
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Do you have a source on this?
/r/MensRights13/10/24 04:54 AM
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Individual women though, not sort of any women's movement.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 02:46 AM
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4 years is waaay to lenient. Poor kid, I hope he gets the counseling he needs
/r/MensRights13/10/24 02:45 AM
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The 60/40 split is a major red flag. If you give this chick and inch she will take a mile. And I'm saying this as a woman. Run. Rational women exist, she is not one of them
/r/MensRights13/10/24 02:44 AM
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Our culture is currently obsessed with pedophilia. It's really unfortunate, kids need adult males they can look up to and trust, but honestly in this paranoid culture, if I were a man I would never put myself in a position where I was alone with a child that wasn't mine. It's a sad sad sad misandrist reality, our culture is failing our boys.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 02:42 AM
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100% agree
/r/MensRights13/10/24 02:38 AM
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the only safe path is to treat unknown women as if they're a manipulative nutcase ready to burn our reputation to the ground over any perceived slight or misunderstanding This is as paranoid and unhinged as if I were to say "I know so many women who have been raped by men so I treat every man as a potential rapist" That's no way to live, treating half the population as a threat. The vast majority of men do not have their careers ruined by women. Believe whatever you want but life is easier when …
/r/MensRights13/10/24 02:37 AM
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Okay so the goal is to return to traditional gender dynamics where men were treated as disposable workers and soldiers, couldn't show emotion, and obligated to be the only breadwinner in the family? What does "traditional masculinity" mean to you?
/r/MensRights11/10/24 04:00 AM
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I am in the foothills of center CA. It's a very conservative area, I think I'm the only one in my building who isn't voting for Trump.
/r/MensRights11/10/24 03:56 AM
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I am a woman and I watch straight porn that features attractive males pleasuring female. I get nothing out of girl on girl or guy on guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:29 AM
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I thought boys not being forced into traditional "masculine" roles was important in the men's rights movement
/r/MensRights11/10/24 03:04 AM
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It takes a really brave man to speak up. Good for him for being an agent of change
/r/MensRights11/10/24 03:03 AM
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I live in California. I believe in men's rights in a broad sense (against conscription, mother getting automated custody, men's mental health). However I am constantly surprised how many men here feel that almost all women are militant feminists who you can't even talk to. Are you in like, a super queer area of Seattle or San Francisco? I've never had an issue with male coworkers talking to me unless they are aggressively hitting on me, which is extremely rare.
/r/MensRights11/10/24 03:00 AM
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Where do you live? I'm a woman and I constantly banter and laugh with my male coworkers, my male roommate. So do my female coworkers, most of whom never ever think about gender issues.
/r/MensRights11/10/24 02:52 AM
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That is like asking why men didn't refuse to fight. They were recruited by a powerful man. It was only 30 women. They probably thought they were helping with the war effort. The UK was completely consumed by world war 1. They were absolutely desperate to get more soldiers. I'm not saying it's right, I'm just saying it wasn't a feminist thing. The men whose bodies are exploited and treated as disposable were the wrong age at the wrong time. The whole war was a tragedy and so many young men lost o…
/r/MensRights11/10/24 02:48 AM
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The "men always want sex" lie is so vile and harmful. It's basically saying "he was asking for it". That attitude needs to go
/r/MensRights10/10/24 11:51 PM
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From the article: At the start of World War I, Admiral Charles Fitzgerald, who was a strong advocate of conscription, wanted to increase the number of those enlisting in the armed forces. Therefore he organised on 30 August 1914 a group of thirty women in his home town of Folkestone to hand out white feathers to any men that were not in uniform. Fitzgerald believed using women to shame the men into enlisting would be the most effective method of encouraging enlistment. It was a man's idea to use…
/r/MensRights10/10/24 11:49 PM
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I appreciate the sentiment. I think feminism is like a religion, there are moderate and extreme versions of it. And I think a lot problems men face (like being shamed for expressing vulnerability) are things that every feminist I know in real life also view as problems.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 10:03 PM
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I know I am going to get down voted to hell, but this is why traditional western patriarchy is bad for everyone It expected men to be responsible and care for women almost entirely. I know this subreddit hates feminism, but 60s feminism increased men's independence as well, because it made women responsible for themselves. If I was born 100 years I likely would have married young with zero source of income except for my husband. I would be a financial burden. Because of feminism, me and millions…
/r/MensRights05/10/24 09:14 PM
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As a woman: Some women have this mixtures of arrogance and paranoia that leads them to believe that all men are 1) attracted to them and 2) inherently violent. Unfortunate right now we are in a place where this attitude is popular. You did nothing wrong, she's the one who acted inappropriately, not you. Do not feel bad about upsetting her, in fact, try to avoid women with that attitude.
/r/MensRights30/09/24 02:19 AM
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I just think it's really interesting that you feel that the man just needs to have sex, but it's the woman's job to find and maintain a lifelong partner to raise kids with. I don't think not having kids or not having sex makes anyone a failure. Childless women and men who have trouble finding partners will never be as big of failures as abusive, shitty, or negligent parents.
/r/MensRights16/09/24 06:37 PM
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Thank you, you're really sweet for saying so. I'll never forget you, guy who thinks talking to one woman is basically the same as talking to all women
/r/MensRights12/09/24 08:16 AM
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You said "you" when replying to my comment. So it seems like you're talking to me. Why would I assume "you" meant was directed at all women?
/r/MensRights12/09/24 08:04 AM
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I had a guy on this subreddit a few weeks ago say "if all men are rapists, how many times have you been raped today"? Nowhere had I made the assertion that all men are rapists. Thankfully the mods remove that comment. Today I have men calling me a liar (they don't believe I have slept with a guy who is shorter than 5'8) and telling me I MUST work for an Idian troll farm. I've never really frequented many feminist subreddits, but I would be surprised if they were this paranoid and hostile towards…
/r/MensRights12/09/24 08:00 AM
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I understand it, but so what? Men make more money and have fewer familial responsibilities, of course their contribution is going to be larger.
/r/MensRights12/09/24 07:38 AM
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Who me? I've never even been married You assume because I'm a woman, I must be a liar? I can easily see that men are not a monolith and don't all inherently share certain characteristics. I have to many men in my life for that not to be an obvious conclusion. I would never assumed someone is lying because they are male, though I've had a few men lie to me, because I understand that people are different and gender doesn't define character. It's strange few of you understood that women are as dive…
/r/MensRights12/09/24 07:33 AM
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Ok so most girls like taller guys and most guys like shorter girls. I think everyone knows that. It doesnt mean that short guys never have sex. It doesn't mean no woman can ever be taller than her partner. And it certainly doesn't mean I'm lying about have a fwb who is shorter than me. People are extrapolating that to say guys under 5'8 can never get laid unless they are celebrities and I must be lying about fucking a short guy and I must be getting paid to lie about it.
/r/MensRights12/09/24 12:38 AM
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Yes, women don't do the deed with sub-8 men unless he has a MAJOR trump card to offset his physique. Like wealth, standing/status. That's just the way it is and your constant lies about the opposite won't change the truth about it. I'm laughing so hard at this absurd line of thinking. My assistant at work can't be taller than 5'4 and he is married. All I did was say "hey, I'm a woman and I don't mind shorter guys" and you're telling me I MUST be lying because NO WOMAN EVER would fuck a shorter g…
/r/MensRights11/09/24 10:52 PM
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I don't think most women look at men who choose to be child free and take steps to ensure they are child free and feel anger that they aren't "up to their necks in supporting a family". We look down on men who have living children and don't step up as fathers.
/r/MensRights11/09/24 10:26 PM
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I think when Taylor Swift and Aubrey Plaza and 90% of other women are kind of embracing the term ironically. I'm a childless plant lady and proud. By no stretch of the imagination could I be considered a femcel
/r/MensRights11/09/24 10:23 PM
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The problem for males and females can be solved by not having sex in the first place.
/r/MensRights11/09/24 10:16 PM
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Oh I agree this country punishes men much more harshly in almost all situations. I'm not on this subreddit to troll, I think the way society treats men can be very fucked up.
/r/MensRights11/09/24 10:08 PM
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Yeah but you're acting like these generalizations are hard and fast rules. Surely someone in your real life friend group/extended circle is dating a woman who makes more than him, or vice versa with female friends. It's far from impossible for a short low income guy to have sex with and date women.
/r/MensRights11/09/24 09:49 PM
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In large part this is because most single full time parents are women. I'm sure in your mind these women are only single moms because they pushed the father away. Not because men are far more likely to leave their kids in the mother's custody
/r/MensRights11/09/24 09:42 PM
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Bahahaha You really truly cannot conceive that a woman would be fucking a short guy unless he was a millionaire? I'm not a super model, I'm just some lady. Dude is a construction worker. He's handsome and we get along great and he's a good lay. I'm 5'9, I really limit my options in dating/fucking if I only go for taller guys. IDK what to tell you. Want a picture of us both holding tape measures? Or signed and affidavits notarized affidavits from every shorter guy I've fucked? What world are you …
/r/MensRights11/09/24 09:40 PM
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I literally provided you with sources that disprove that 90% of women want taller guys, but you're "not going to read that diatribe". Not being able to read 5 paragraphs and refusing to acknowledge actual data isn't the debate-winning strategy you seem to think it is. Just admit that you resent women because we don't want to fuck you, and that you will never change your mind because your arguments are based in emotion, not rationality
/r/MensRights11/09/24 09:26 PM
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I'm not claiming it was sexist at all. I'm just pointing out that plenty of women also get expelled, suspended, ect
/r/MensRights11/09/24 08:29 PM
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But women still pay taxes 🤷🏽‍♀️ What do you want me to do, thank men for paying taxes as if I dont?
/r/MensRights11/09/24 08:27 PM
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Are you under the impression women don't pay taxes. Do you believe men don't have college debt and don't want want debt forgiveness if they do? You're giving off vibes that you don't have many people of either gender that you interact with outside of the internet.
/r/MensRights10/09/24 08:27 AM
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I like how you feel that the sole fact that I am a woman means you know I complain about men's height. You guys severely underestimate how much value we place on height. My longest and favorite ongoing FWB is 5'6. I'm going to venture to guess you get your ideas from online content about what women supposedly want and have few, if any, female friends or male friends who have wives/girlfriends. Half of women make the same amount of money as their partners. Most women don't care that much about he…
/r/MensRights10/09/24 07:37 AM
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Men are revealed to be the best to serve others (I'm a woman for what it's worth)
/r/MensRights10/09/24 03:27 AM
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A woman has a lot less choice over her attractiveness than a man has over his career and education level.
/r/MensRights10/09/24 03:25 AM
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I'm a former girl (now a woman) and I got expelled from high school for slapping another girl.
/r/MensRights10/09/24 03:22 AM
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Women gained a privilege, without being required to fulfill the responsibilities that go along with that privilege. Conscription has never been required to vote. Men who were not eligible for the draft could vote.
/r/MensRights21/07/24 10:47 PM
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You truly believe in 1920 all the women came together and decided to vote at once? Never mind that in some states women were voting in the 1870s, in 1920 all women just got together and decided that they wanted to vote? Did you know that several of the states that had originally granted women suffrage revoked it in the 1800s? Why would they do that if men had no problems with women voting? It's insane how you guys think being treated as a man's property and raising his children, no matter how he…
/r/MensRights18/07/24 09:41 AM
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Do you have a source for all women suddenly deciding they wanted to vote as soon as they learned they wouldn't be drafted? 18 states had already granted certain women the right to vote by the time the ammendment was passed. Women are not a monolith. The idea that we all suddenly decided we wanted to vote as long as we weren't draftable in 1920 makes no sense. I'm also interested in why you think most men agreed with women's suffrage and owning property. In your opinion, why were women not grante…
/r/MensRights18/07/24 03:21 AM
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Picketing is not terrorism. And woman would never have had to fight for our rights if men had seen us as equals in the first place. Women as a demographic didn't suddenly decide that they wanted to vote when they learned they wouldn't be drafted. That's an absurd thing to say. Makes no sense because voting rights were generally granted state by state, only the federal government can draft you. Also aren't you contradicting what you said earlier, when you implied women simply asked to vote and me…
/r/MensRights18/07/24 03:09 AM
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When the original feminists, it was like ‘well yeah, you should be able to vote and have a bank account’. Once they started challenging the system You don't think the OG women's suffrage were challenging the system. It was a multi-decade movement and multiple women went to jail. Most men and some women were staunchly against it. If that isn't challenging the system I don't know what is
/r/MensRights18/07/24 02:38 AM
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This is a good point. Pushes the notion thay men won't be able stop themselves if they see a woman in a short skirt. It's absurd
/r/MensRights13/07/24 10:11 PM
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Not all of us are for sale. Women who expect men to pay for the nails and handbags and send them money are a loud minority. If I were a man I would avoid women who have any financial expectations of you at all. If she can't support herself financially, she isn't worth it because she's looking for someone to support her lazy lifestyle, not to find true romance and companionship.
/r/MensRights13/07/24 09:35 PM
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This is beyond upsetting, I'm so sorry you are experiencing this. May that girl get the punishment she deserves
/r/MensRights09/07/24 04:34 PM
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And they publicly accused those guys off rape/assault? The gay bar is a weird equivalency, people go to gay bars to find sex partners. Can't say the same for grocery stores
/r/MensRights04/07/24 06:09 PM
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How many women have falsely accused you of molesting them?
/r/MensRights03/07/24 07:44 PM
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Fun fact: The WNBA has never made a profit. Honestly if the NBA wants to pick up the tab, I don't care. It's not like NBA players are losing $$$ because of the WNBA
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:37 AM
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Doesn't everyone want to marry a rich person though? I'm sure most men wouldn't mind a wealthy wife. But geez, urging women to do this instead of getting a job where we can support ourselves is insane.
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:32 AM
2

As a woman I don't think you should draft anyone, but if you do, draft everyone. 90% of the military doesn't see combat, and if a woman can meet the same physical standards as male combat soldiers, have her fight too
/r/MensRights16/06/24 12:30 AM
18

Because society has the mindset that teenage boys and men always want sex. There is also the mindset of protecting a girls "virtue". So a male predator is seen as ruining a girl's life and a female predator is perceived as giving a man what he wants. It's really fucked up.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 10:51 PM
1

I've never been in that situation, but I imagine I'd be fine with it. I think independence is good in relationships for both parties
/r/MensRights29/05/24 09:53 PM
1

They are a minority but it's much much more common than you would think. I have some subtle hints about it in my dating profiles and I easily get 5 or 6 matches with submissive men daily. It's something most men are ashamed of and never share with their friends. On the whole they tend to be regular appearing, stable guys. If anything they are more successful than average. Lots of guys in high stress or macho jobs especially. Cops, prison guards, especially firefighters and air force guys. Some o…
/r/MensRights28/05/24 09:30 PM
1

Thank you for being so kind and giving sources :) It makes sense. I mean, if I learn a guy makes good money it definitely doesn't make him less attractive. What's interesting is guys in my life have never seemed to care about my career or income. I'd wager the average man finds a woman's physical attractiveness much much more important than their career or education level.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 09:16 PM
1

Depends. If it's something super expensive like a trip abroad, I'll go alone. I really don't mind being alone. Currently the closest man to me is a fwb that is also my roommate. We have kind of an unspoken arrangement where I pay for things like music festivals and good seats at NBA games, but he does the majority of cooking/cleaning/laundry. It may sound odd but he is naturally much tidier than Mr and he loves cooking. It works for us.
/r/MensRights28/05/24 09:11 PM
1

. I'd also highlight that your friend with a master's degree might actually make less money than her man who works in construction with a GED She definitely out-earns him, we've talked about it I know on this sub asking a question like this is begging for downvotes, but do you have a source indicating that women prioritize money when dating?
/r/MensRights27/05/24 11:00 PM
-1

It's interesting because I have done dominatrix work. It's kinda what got me curious about men's rights. They would ask for such fucked up stuff, I started thinking "are these guys okay". Made me more interested in men's wellbeing as a whole. Most of my friends want to be dominated by men though. To each their own.
/r/MensRights27/05/24 10:33 PM
1

Her youtube channel is super interesting. I'm not an antagonist. I'm hear to learn.
/r/MensRights27/05/24 10:31 PM
1

Why do you suppose that is? (Genuinely curious). I out earn most men I have dated. It never bothered me
/r/MensRights27/05/24 10:29 PM
1

Unrelated, but I am planning a trip to Romania next year
/r/MensRights27/05/24 10:28 PM
1

The average woman working full time works less hours than men. Roughly 8 hours per week, in fact. That easily accounts for any hourly earnings gap I thought you said there wasn't really an earnings gap? It's interesting because as a woman, I don't really hear my girlfriends taking the perspective that men that make less aren't desirable. I have a female lawyer friend engaged to a Walmart employee. She easily out earns him by a factor of 4, she's still excited to marry him because he loves her an…
/r/MensRights27/05/24 10:27 PM
1

Though that last parting bit of "men dying in wars started by other men is also our fault", got me thinking about the whole shaming/griefing tactic of "You're a man, don't you feel guilt/blame because Hitler/Mao/Mussolini were also men!" -- no, not particularly. Nowhere am I saying men are collectively at fault for all bad things other men have done. Where am I blaming men for that poor guy dying. How are you extrapolating Hitler into this? I'm not saying all men as a group started all wars. I m…
/r/MensRights27/05/24 10:20 PM
7

Well said. I think a lot of women don't realize how much rejection hurts men. We have this culture now where women look at men as more predatory than they likely are. Men don't just look like losers if they are rejected, they are seen as creeps for even trying. It's unfortunate
/r/MensRights26/05/24 11:40 PM
-14

Source?
/r/MensRights26/05/24 11:27 PM
-29

Statistically though, the average woman doesn't make more than the average man? This is an objective fact
/r/MensRights26/05/24 11:25 PM
2

If you're in California by any chance this is considered rape. Report her to the police
/r/MensRights26/05/24 11:22 PM
1

I've literally never encountered this in all my years as a feminist who was raised by a feminist. I can't find anything on Google about a feminist organization calling to ban mens only shelters. I'd love some sources to back up your claims that feminists are against mens shelters. If I ever encouraged a woman who felt that way I would vehemently disagree with them. Telling me to tell my feminist friends to be against mens shelters is like me telling you to tell men not to murder. You're not resp…
/r/MensRights26/05/24 11:18 PM
2

Thank you. Some people are just so angry and see the internet as a place to vent.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 11:15 PM
0

Well, I'm pro choice, I support woman's sports, I have a good career in health care and live independently which would be very difficult for me to have if it wasn't for the feminist movement, I support universal childcare, equality under the law for women around the world, don't like how women's bodies are talked about and judged, don't agree with sentiments that women aren't as capable as men, I think the best problem makes a lot of sense, am very bothered by crime statistics involving female d…
/r/MensRights25/05/24 04:59 PM
1

Heh I'm all for healthy discussion but I another commenter called me co-responsible for this man's death so I think I am done with this subreddit.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 04:42 PM
1

I've never encountered a feminist in my life who doesn't believe there shouldn't be halfway houses for men? If there are feminist organizations that are trying to prevent men having transitional housing after leaving jail please let me know and I will stop giving them money.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 04:40 PM
0

Are they actually saying that though? Are feminists defending this woman? Do you have examples?
/r/MensRights23/05/24 01:42 AM
-4

I consider myself a feminist and I find this man's death horrific
/r/MensRights23/05/24 01:40 AM
1

How it women's spending driving income inequality?
/r/MensRights22/05/24 08:19 PM
1

So the bit about social media warping perspectives isn't important then? The notion that women want tall men with money isn't any newer than the notion that guys want submissive conventionally attractive women.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 06:53 PM
0

OP's point seems to be that women only want one kind of man. I'm a woman pointing out that that isn't necessarily true. Confidence and a strong sense of self is the #1 factor. If a man is so insecure that one rejection will mentally destroy him as OP claims, of course women won't be attracted to that.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 05:27 PM
2

Maybe not all the time. I don't know. I know guys that definitely aren't "bad boys" who have sex and are in relationships. Most firefighters I know aren't hurting for sex and love and they are quintessential "good guys".
/r/MensRights13/04/24 05:16 PM
-6

I'm getting downvoted because it's a truth that's hard to deal with. Women get with charismatic guys who aren't particularly rich or good looking all the time. I think the reality that other average dudes are getting laid regularly really bothers men who are lonely. This subreddit can be surreal as a sexually active woman. I'm have casual sex with the same roster of guys for a couple years and most of my friends are getting married. None of the guys I'm sleeping with or that my friends are marry…
/r/MensRights13/04/24 08:55 AM
1

Poor guys. Right age at the wrong time, like almost all soldiers throughout history
/r/MensRights13/04/24 02:39 AM
1

. I'm a domme but I know abuse when I see it and this is clear cut abuse
/r/MensRights13/04/24 02:39 AM
12

It's really sad their dad's weren't around
/r/MensRights13/04/24 02:26 AM
-7

I live with a 24 year old line cook. He's been to jail and has acne. He gets ton and tons of women (including me) because he is extremely charming and charismatic. He stays single because like myself, its far easier to have casual sex than it is to date for marriage. He isn't especially impressive on paper, but girls flock to him. I tell him about this subreddit and how lucky he is. He doesn't get it. Attracting women just comes naturally to some men.
/r/MensRights13/04/24 02:25 AM
1

I'm confused as to why this would bother someone concerned about men's rights. A lot of people watched a woman's basketball game. How does that take away from men in any way?
/r/MensRights12/04/24 11:07 PM
8

It's interesting. The article mentions the YouTube Kidology. Look at a picture of her. Maybe not a beauty queen but definitely not a woman who could never find a partner because her looks are so hideous
/r/MensRights26/03/24 10:30 PM
-2

Suit yourself
/r/MensRights25/03/24 12:22 AM
7

It's more complicated than that, it needs to be packaged at a certain temperatures and overnighted There are sperm extenders and other thing you can add to the sample to make it more viable. And of course you need to get the timing right in terms of ovulation. I found that men who were doing this were very into the idea of having multiple children by multiple women and were extremely knowledgeable about the whole process. Almost all were already married with kids.
/r/MensRights25/03/24 12:02 AM
-1

My wife? Haha! I would NEVER marry a modern western woman, that’s absolutely suicidal. Why don’t I just take my house, belongings, and my money and just set it on fire. Why not one of the many women who want to be tradwives? Or finding a non western wife? If you're a man who doesn't want to be a father, or to have sexual relations with women at all, why are you upset about women who want to have their children without fathers? It's not like you're doing your part...
/r/MensRights24/03/24 11:58 PM
-2

I'm guessing your wife is exactly like the woman you have described? And if a woman really wants to be a single mom, selecting a sperm donor is way better than letting "Chad" or "Tyrone" get them pregnant and then hitting them up for child support. The average single mom by choice is in her late 30s/early 40s. She has had plenty of time to carefully consider her options.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 11:40 PM
5

Why do you want women to see you as high value?
/r/MensRights24/03/24 11:08 PM
66

The idea that this woman was able to leverage falsely accusing this innocent black man of rape into a writing career is so disgusting. And her real rapist got to walk free the whole time. Everyone loses
/r/MensRights24/03/24 11:07 PM
96

Good. Infidelity is always a justified reason to end a partnership
/r/MensRights24/03/24 11:05 PM
0

What would this self improvement look like to you? Nothing guarantees anyone will find their perfect match. Using online sperm donation is way more ethical than baby trapping, or staying with a guy you aren't 100% committed to just for having a baby.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 10:56 PM
7

Women who tried to have a baby this way here: Men in this community have you signed a document drawn up by a lawyer saying you will never pursue child support or list them as the father. They use pseudonyms. I tried to conceive about 3 times this way with the same man and I never knew the man's name or what he looked like, and I signed a document from his lawyer saying I would never pursue child support and that he was not legally the father. He lived in a different state and would ship me the s…
/r/MensRights24/03/24 10:54 PM
14

There was awhile where I was wanted to raise a baby as a single woman. I got deep into this subculture. The men aren't offering sex, they ship you the sperm. I have never heard of a case of the man actually having sex with the woman to conceive the baby.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 10:51 PM
2

I think it's about how you expres the anger. Are you discussing it rationally or punching walls?
/r/MensRights24/03/24 05:49 AM
0

Source?
/r/MensRights24/03/24 05:38 AM
1

For millenia men have felt immense pressure to be strong providers and hard workers. Nowadays in America it's impossible for most men to take on the provider role no matter how hard they work. Because of this shift, men struggle to find life meaningful or pleasant.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 05:31 AM
1

Who is not allowing you to cry? I'm confused. Is a specific woman in your life discouraging you from showing emotions?
/r/MensRights24/03/24 05:28 AM
1

What a heartbreaking and brutal watch. Vile, evil woman.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 05:18 AM
3

This is anecdotal obvious, but almost all my married girlfriends make less than their husbands and none of them seem upset about it. I've never had a relationship with a guy who made more than me. And I don't make that much in the scheme of things
/r/MensRights24/03/24 04:29 AM
11

Men are so easily dismissed in war. Women are portrayed as the worst victims. The men thrown in as cannon fodder are disregard as statistics.
/r/MensRights12/03/24 05:48 AM
0

Even more pointless to argue with someone like you, who doesn't even try to back up the "mental abuse is worse than physical" statement
/r/MensRights10/03/24 08:06 PM
0

here are the stats I think it's fair to assume that the gender who perpetuates more physical violence, and notably more violence against strangers, would be more likely to lead a nation into war. But mental abuse has been shown to be much more detrimental, Where are you getting this information from. Try telling the families of someone murdered or disabled by violent crime. Tell my murdered cousin's mother that it would have been more "detrimental" if her child's father had abused her mentally i…
/r/MensRights10/03/24 07:21 AM
2

"Believe all women" bothers me so much as a woman. Multiple documented cases of fabrications and false accusations. Appropriating the sexual traumas of other women as a means to an end.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 01:21 AM
2

At some point in the last 20 years women started thinking of men as inherently predatory and creepy. Started viewing every man as a threat. Catcalling went from an annoyance to verbal assault. Compliments on looks were suddenly predatory and implicit sexual. A man approaching you that you don't find attractive automatically became a perverted creep. It frames men as evil predators and women as fragile and vulnerable. It reinforced the sexist dynamic that feminism claims to hate
/r/MensRights10/03/24 01:18 AM
0

I agree women cause more conflict, but less damage. Women start drama but most violent crimes are committed by men. It's just a fact, men start less drama but commit more violence. It's pretty rare for a conflict between women to end in death, even though women have equal access to deadly weapons.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 01:13 AM
37

(I am a woman) When I was working 70 hr weeks, my partner who was between jobs stayed at home and took care of the laundry, the cleaning, and preparing meals. I absolutely loved it. I'm shit at those things, he is great at them. I'd love a stay at home hubby/partner/baby daddy permanently.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 01:08 AM
7

Never thought of it this way. Well said.
/r/MensRights10/03/24 01:02 AM
41

Lol ugly leftist women always sneaking up behind me telling me I'm a victim
/r/MensRights08/03/24 03:45 AM
91

Woman here, run and hike alone alll the time, I have for years, and never once had a man bother me. She's paranoid as fuck Edit: I rewatched and "they kill their families" got me cracking up. Imagine looking at an average man on the street and thinking he will probably kill his family
/r/MensRights08/03/24 02:52 AM
1

Honestly, the only thing I want for "people" like you is to stop existing more than changing your minds, all the replies I write to you have the purpose of making your life at least a bit more miserable like you deserve for being a misandrist and to leave a record explaining my point of view so anyone with real value as a human being reads it and changes his/her mind, but you? You're not so important. Bahaha I'm important enough for you to write long rants about how you're a victim. You're not m…
/r/MensRights07/03/24 05:35 AM
0

This is an insane take. You don't approve of women staying home to raise their children? You implied a shit ton of times men are to blame for everything bad in this world and that any of our struggles is our fault Can you show me an example of where I said such things? Your kind of thinking is no different from that of any feminist who says she wants all men to die on Twitter. Nowhere have I called for men to die. There are so many men I love and respect in my life. What the FUCK did I say imply…
/r/MensRights07/03/24 03:05 AM
1

Literally EVERYTHING in your life has been invented, built, provided by and maintained by men, from the roads you drive on and the car you drive on them with to the cellphone or laptop you are posting your nonsense with and the electricity you charge it with (not to mention the power plant, the fuel that powers that plant as well as your car, the power lines, tansformers and wiring in your house/apartment). LITERALLY everything. Even your job was in all likelihood only made available because men…
/r/MensRights07/03/24 02:50 AM
1

Wow your arguments have really changed my viewpoint, thank you for your reason and cogent perspective. but don't even dear using a man made object like the one you're using to write all of those moronic misandrist comments, or the building you're in right now, or the street, a car, a motorcycle, a fridge, a TV... I won't dear. the only viable way is applying several punishments to people who spread misandry like you Oh no, not several punishments. You sound very sane and stable. Why is it "bizar…
/r/MensRights04/03/24 06:20 AM
-1

It literally says that a huge majority of single parent households are female. That's why child abusers are more likely to be female, because children are usually abused by the people who raise them and women are faaaaar more likely than men to be raising kids. It's just a fact. Men are less likely to be raising their children.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 08:54 PM
-2

here
/r/MensRights03/03/24 08:30 PM
0

P. S. The child abuse statistic makes perfect sense because women are more likely to be raising kids alone. Men don't abuse kids as much because they are way more likely to abandon their kids.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 08:20 AM
0

When feminists teach that women didn’t get the vote until after men did, have you ever asked yourself what the gap was? Are you really trying to say that women being granted suffrage after men isn't evidence of society being run by men for most of western history because people in general couldn't vote in the stone ages? -I've been in feminist circles all my life and never heard anyone claim that all men are domestic abusers. But you cannot deny that women are 5 times more likely to be murdered …
/r/MensRights03/03/24 08:19 AM
2

Oh I haven't even seen that post. Idk, every has a right to say "no" to sexual acts they don't want, even if they had an extremely promiscuity past.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 03:47 AM
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Im not going to go looking for individual sources, as that would take forever. Some, like the stoey of the 13 year old are easy enough to Google You're so passionate about this topic but you don't have sources readily available? The story of the 13 year old boy is horrific. But it isn't the norm. I guarantee you far more women are forced to support their rapist's babies for a lifetime than there are men paying child support to their rapists. Consider that maybe, just maybe, youtube isn't the bes…
/r/MensRights03/03/24 03:32 AM
-6

Again, can I please see some sources for the claims? It seems like you're mostly talking about noble women in the medieval period. That was like 5% of women. Serf women worked the fields just like men and middle class women helped run their husband's businesses. Most people in western history have been subsistence farmers, and women have helped run the farm. All of these women were basically forced into marriage, there were few options for unmarried women besides prostitution. The same cannot be…
/r/MensRights03/03/24 03:28 AM
-2

Do you have sources for all this information? I don't think telling women they are "coddled" is going to get you much sympathy. Most women know few jobs were available to them until the last 100 years. Most women know having financial freedom while married was incredibly difficult for the past few years. All women can see that a huge majority of the people in power are men. Women's partaking in public life is relatively recent. I can't find a story anywhere about women making the King of France …
/r/MensRights03/03/24 02:17 AM
2

Are you talking about your own life situation? I was talking hypothetically.
/r/MensRights03/03/24 12:55 AM
2

Who are you talking about?
/r/MensRights03/03/24 12:44 AM
-13

A man in a monogamous relationship who cheats is somehow settling?
/r/MensRights03/03/24 12:31 AM
3

International Men's Day is November 19
/r/MensRights02/03/24 11:46 PM
-12

You don't see how a woman can be upset if her husband cheats on her with multiple other women?
/r/MensRights02/03/24 11:40 PM
-1

I think you need to start by explaining to reasonable women why their lives are easier than men's. What would you tell them?
/r/MensRights02/03/24 11:23 PM
-13

But as long as women are going to reject a large number of males while simultaneously demanding commitment they are going to have to accept either being single themselves or some amount of infidelity. How do you feel about women cheating on guys who want monogamous relationships. Should the dude just accept it as a woman taking advantage of the situation she has been given?
/r/MensRights02/03/24 11:19 PM
0

Do they though? Ask your average woman if they think Casey Anthony wasn't guilty...
/r/MensRights01/03/24 08:10 PM
1

Just like how porn creates unrealistic beauty standards and sexual scenarios for men. Two sides of the same coin
/r/MensRights01/03/24 08:06 PM
1

Much like wage gap can be explained by women choosing lower paying jobs and choosing to have children, this can likely be explained by men choosing far more dangerous careers.
/r/MensRights01/03/24 08:01 PM
1

The guy I'm was replying to literally told me my role is to submit to a man, and called me retarded for not understanding that. That's why I'm a feminist. Because the people who are against feminism believe that my gender should define how I spend my life.
/r/AntiFeminists16/10/22 04:46 PM
1

Fair enough 🤷🏽‍♀️ I disagree that women are completely equal to men in all respects in our society, but I could see how those points could be really difficult to understand from the male point of view.
/r/AntiFeminists15/10/22 09:13 AM
1

Lol yes posting in angry misogynistic rants on Reddit it's definitely something a happy man who is confident in himself does. I'm a literal dominatrix. Men pay me to control them. There is no winter in sight for me
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/22 09:37 PM
2

The idea that this was ever a business model is insane
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/22 07:41 PM
1

Lol I'm not remotely angry, I'm just perplexed and I feel a little sorry for you. You're a very angry, lonely man
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/22 07:28 PM
1

Bahahahaha so you're literally admitting you are anti feminist because women aren't worthy. You're anti feminist because you feel women are inferior. Living proof that anti feminism is based in misogyny. Whats hilarious is that you truly seem to feel that being a feminist isn't going to work out for me (or any woman) because it will prevent men who think like you from wanting me romantically. Believe me, we are glad that you aren't interested in us.
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/22 03:17 AM
1

You got a LOT of projection going on here buddy. Like you've been waiting for a woman to tell all these things to, but they are totally irrelevant to me. You said the quiet part loud when you said you want women to be submissive. You feel women should submit to you. You feel like you should be in charge of women. I'm not a feminist because I feel I'm superior to you. I'm a feminist because I don't want submit to anyone. I want equal treatment and the ability to make my own choices. Men like you,…
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/22 02:29 AM
2

It's fascinating to me that you view women not being able to work outdoors the home in the past as a limitation on men, because men had to provide for women. I never thought of it that way. But like, do you understand that feminism is the reason women can now work outside the home, live independently, and support themselves?
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/22 02:00 AM
6

Is she a known feminist or something?
/r/AntiFeminists14/10/22 01:52 AM
-1

One instance from 2016 that says nothing about being hard = you want it
/r/MensRights28/08/22 01:39 PM
0

I'll send you 100 dollars if you can point to a single instance of a woman saying this
/r/MensRights23/08/22 05:47 PM
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