| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 310 | Female Perspective On Online Dating | Comprehensive | Medium-Map3864 | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Guys What Is It That Really Bothers You About Girls Who Have Been With 'Many' People | Question For Men | Medium-Map3864 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Think Bothers Guys About a 'High Body Count' (A.K.A. Female 'Promiscuity') | Question For Men | Medium-Map3864 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Some Legitimately Curious Non-Judgemental Questions From A Real Live (Well Online) Female | Comprehensive | Medium-Map3864 | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy Is Real But Overstated In My Experience | Medium-Map3864 | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 12:54 AM | |
| 0 | Been Out of the Dating Market Forever... Is Her Behavior Unusual? | Conversation | Medium-Map3864 | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 06:53 PM |
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| 1 | Been Out of the Dating Market Forever... Is Her Behavior Unusual?That's the shitty thing. We live far the fuck apart. Just my luck lol. | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Guys What Is It That Really Bothers You About Girls Who Have Been With 'Many' PeopleHmm a few thoughts I guess. I think what I'm realizing is it's not so much the absolute number. Like a girl who had nine partners but all were boyfriends would seem much less off putting to a guy than a girl who had six but only two were boyfriends and four were like model level good looking guys she just fucked. As for sex and size, I would say there is good news and bad news lol. I personally do prefer a somewhat bigger guy (not huge though... for me that's unpleasant) but I've only been with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Guys What Is It That Really Bothers You About Girls Who Have Been With 'Many' PeopleI get the second part. That makes sense to me. I guess I don't get the first as much. If as a guy you know you are rocking our world, why do you care if someone played some shows before you (lol weird analogy maybe but w/e) I guess for me the pit of the stomach thing would come from worrying i don't satisfy the person as much, though admittedly as a girl it's less of a concern as men are easier to satisfy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Guys What Is It That Really Bothers You About Girls Who Have Been With 'Many' PeopleBut I'm not a guy lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy Is Real But Overstated In My ExperienceYeah but normally when hypergamy is discussed from what I can see it's not like 'It can be offset by other stuff.' And the reality is it can be massively offset. Loyalty matters a lot to me and kindness too. The fact that my bf picked up my Mom when she was sick and drove her everywhere to get what she needed when he hadn't had an off day in forever meant a lot for instance. Now i can't lie. I need a minimum level of physical attraction and financial stability. I wouldn't date an unemployed 300 … | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy Is Real But Overstated In My ExperienceHmm maybe I misunderstand it a bit then... I dunno. My sense was hypergamy was predicated on the idea that given the choice between a financially okay but not rich nice guy and a rich jerk the girl would go for the rich jerk. I would also distinguish between nice guy and beta My bf is nice but not insecure, controls his life path, asserts himself in big decisions and so on. But he also did stuff like text me first after our first date and I liked it lol! | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Some Legitimately Curious Non-Judgemental Questions From A Real Live (Well Online) FemaleInteresting because a lot of guys on here seem to idealize foreign women. | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Some Legitimately Curious Non-Judgemental Questions From A Real Live (Well Online) FemaleThanks good points. | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Some Legitimately Curious Non-Judgemental Questions From A Real Live (Well Online) FemaleI agree with you on some of these but not on others. For instance, the reason girls put out so many selfies and tik toks is because they generate followers cough cough mostly male followers lol. You can't blame girls for trying to profit from male led market demand there. In terms of single moms... I have mixed views. Some are just really good people who were abandoned by shitty guys or non-shitty guys but guys who were not right for them. Others made the decision to hook up without protection w… | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingYou're saying most women in their 30s are like 'Give me kids now or that's it.' Wow I'm an anomaly lol. But I started my career late so that may be why. | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingLove her but wouldn't say she's a 10. Women have higher expectations but eventually they do settle. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingYeah i hear this a lot on here but here is the good news- the law of supply and demand (dating market version) dictates that the super duper attractive financially well off guys can only be had by so many. All girls want them but only a small percentage will get them. That means options for guys who are less super hot and rich and so on. Now it will take girls longer to settle for the fact that they have to give up on some of their criteria. Part of this is just in general girls don't have the s… | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingTinder is a lot of people in their early 20s looking for quick fun. The good news is you get older status and security start to matter a lot more. So work on getting rich! | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingOf course character matters. Because women are looking for security. So if a guy is treating you badly... no security. I do hear your point about like 'Give people a chance and discover....' But not the way the world works. Let me give you an analogy. My Uncle is a prof at a fairly prestigious university and he says when they are hiring the first thing they look at is where the applicant got their doctorate from. If it's not a top 30 institution, it gets tossed. The person in question might be b… | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingI can guarantee this is not the case good sir. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingThis is the thing. Not much! Lol no I'm kidding she's pretty cool. But her profile is mad basic lol. It's all 'I like Netflix and starbucks' type stuff haha. Which I mean who doesn't... But it doesn't say much that is enticing. She got more replies when she did this in her 20s though (she's in her early 30s now) so there is hope for the guys as you age. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingI should say I think money is very important but often as a signifier of status. For instance, a guy interning in the office of a very powerful political figure or a super cool magazine might be making next to nothing but his prospects could be better than a plumber making 75k a year for status reasons. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingRight, right. But the problem of course is that men and women want different things. Like might a female doctor or lawyer have sex with a Wal Mart cashier if he was super hot... maybe. But would a male doctor or lawyer have sex with a Wal Mart cashier if she was super hot... near certainty. Now would a female doctor or lawyer have sex with a moderately attractive multi- millionaire business owner... pretty high chance. Would the male choose a moderately attractive rich woman over the hot poor on… | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingShe's in her early 30s and looking for late 30s and early 40s! | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingYou are certainly right to a point. Another thing to keep in mind is age here. Women will have more power in their 20s but then starting in the 30s it starts to shift. I feel a lot of you guys are in the shitty 20s phase. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingYeah no the boring discovery comes with talking. I don't know if it's the online dating format that makes people boring though lol. But a lot of the guys would respond with super boring answers to questions that cried out for thought and elaboration. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingHey trying to respond to as many of these as possible. So I think we have to be honest. A guy whose not meeting the attractiveness threshold or the good job threshold is unlikely to get a reply even if his first message is brilliant. True. But don't you think guys also go after the best they think they can get... in my experience a lot of guys complaining about being fried zoned are being friend zoned by super hot girls... | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingVery fair. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Dear “nice guys”........Men want women, as a rule, way more as a sexual matter. Desire for a relationship is probably stronger for women. | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 02:19 AM |
| 9 | Dear “nice guys”........As a female, I would say it depends what is meant by nice. I was on a date once with a guy I knew disagreed with me on politics and i was testing him a bit and he just agreed with all my statements. He was trying to seem nice. I said 'Oh yeah then why does your social media say so and so on' and he was all 'Well I see both sides.' Then he got into it and started arguing with me and kind of making fun of me a bit and then I made fun of him and it was a much sexier dynamic. Confidence in yourself … | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 02:18 AM |
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