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OP I’m so sorry this sounds so difficult. I honestly hate the term “wifey” because it means “wife like” but not an actual wife. That being said, my husband and I just got married two weeks ago and had been living together for two years beforehand. I did all of the housework etc that you described, but in that time he also started taking care of my financially so that I could go back to school, and then he proposed. Rather than just asking what “wifey duties” you are performing for him, have you …
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/20 05:26 AM
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First of all— he isn’t your husband and might not have plans to ever be, so the level of commitment and lifestyle changes and money your spending on this relationship seems crazy to me. He is supposed to support you, protect you, take care of you, not manage your appearance like a master or pay you for his time with other women?? I think he misunderstands what RP means and is abusing its principles and ultimately the relationship.
/r/RedPillWives18/10/20 07:10 PM
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This made me smile so much!! I’m so happy for you!!
/r/RedPillWives14/10/20 05:03 PM
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I struggle with this too and I’m so sorry you’re having a hard time! This might not be the answer for you, but I started being realistic with myself — which means that I KNOW I’m not going to get A+’s, bring my “A” Game at work and ALSO keep the house beautiful. Something has to give!! I work as a nanny, so I don’t have coworkers and managers to impress really and don’t have to worry about “climbing up the ladder”. That means that work isn’t as stressful for me as it could me for you. At school,…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/20 03:00 AM
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Thank you! And yes he has a lot of other sources of happiness I think, like family and friend engagements, but I feel like they can’t make his life easier like I can lol
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/20 12:33 AM
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Thank your for your response! I think this is what I was getting at in OP, I don’t want to attack him with “therapy” like convos but want to help alleviate any other pressures day to day
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/20 12:32 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 duly noted!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/20 05:32 PM
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Thank you! Thinking of this as a trial phase also really puts things in perspective, I just don’t want him to burn out 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/20 03:29 PM
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Thank you for this!!! It’s so well put. I’ve been feeling anxious about not doing enough to help him through it, but soft spot to land I can do!!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/20 03:27 PM
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Thank you!! I’ve been catching myself doing this when he gets home and then realizing how upset he seems :(
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/20 03:13 PM
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