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| 3 | 4 years married, 7 kids, high‑value husband, 8+ weeks dead bedroom, secret antidepressants – I’m furious and need a hard reality checkI agree if you are miserable, your body is telling you to fix your life. Taking the medicine just papers over it for a short while. Eventually you have to fix the issue | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/26 10:19 PM |
| 5 | 4 years married, 7 kids, high‑value husband, 8+ weeks dead bedroom, secret antidepressants – I’m furious and need a hard reality checkSide chick, or dread game. But her having 3 kids she might have been heavily filtering for a stable man and wasn’t ever a ton of attraction . 7 kids to support man, you are fucked with a divorce. I would just get a side chick and enjoy a fairly peaceful home life | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/26 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Are you guys ready to date again after 5+years of divorce?Dating will help you forget, otherwise you will just be wallowing in the sorrow and won’t escape the pain | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/26 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?Stop asking girls in your social circle and go out into the field | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 10:49 PM |
| 7 | Why do women reject you but look sad with their head down everytime they see you?This is why game is better with people you don’t have to see in any social group | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 10:49 PM |
| 19 | Ex-Wife Reaction to me datingYou don’t talk about shit to expire, gray rock only. Only focus on kids , any other topic comes up, redirect to kids stuff | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/25 03:09 AM |
| 5 | Lawyer told me in a divorce I’d be financially wrecked. Wife is emotionally gone. Any dads survive getting hit with this reality?Could you force you wife to get a job, say sales is slowing down. Or move to another more favorable state for “work” | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/25 08:47 AM |
| 4 | Guys Who've Been Through Divorce: What Was the HARDEST Part to Get Used To?lol you should be fucking other women | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/25 06:19 AM |
| 6 | Why wait to hook up?Bang as quickly as possible will help the progress, don’t jump into anything long term . Don’t listen to people that say wait a year, life is to short | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/25 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Guys Who've Been Through Divorce: What Was the HARDEST Part to Get Used To?50% of quality time vs 100% of shitty time. And your kids are old , not doing as much with them. Even at 10 my son has started to focus on his friends | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/25 04:41 AM |
| 14 | Guys Who've Been Through Divorce: What Was the HARDEST Part to Get Used To?How much life gets better, and how little the wife was useful beyond watching the kids and even then maybe not that much | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/25 04:40 AM |
| 5 | Ex regrets separation/divorce, looking for advice.No. Don’t go back | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/25 02:09 PM |
| 5 | Dating in this time period is wild!If she’s from third world, it’s better to retire there then import | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/25 10:08 AM |
| 9 | Dating in this time period is wild!You should be dating women 5-8 years younger and enjoy prettier girls for the drama , 40+ is a disaster for most women | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/25 10:07 AM |
| 4 | 20 month post seperationIt’s better for both parties to just not meet | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/25 07:54 AM |
| 3 | 20 month post seperationLife is short if you burn 2 years doing your peak productive years , that’s like 10% of all your best dating years. Honestly I think getting back on the horse is best treatment | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/25 07:54 AM |
| 5 | Men over 45 after 27 years of marriage I haven't been intimate with my wife for 4 years. Thinking of calling it quits but I am afraid of not finding anyone. How hard is it out there?Way better than being in a sexless marriage. If you get I’m shape and have a little bit of money, you’ll do fine. It’s way better for men then women at that age | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/11/25 05:34 AM |
| 9 | How can I convince my SO she has a better marriage that her friends are jealous of?Single friends are just crabs in a bucket they know it’s wise they just want to pull your wife down. You should make her stop spending time with single women Also I agree with other posters if you try and make her stay it will make things way worse, women only want to stay if they feel you don’t care about her leaving | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/25 11:56 PM |
| 1 | She disregarded even the smallest needs I hadSome women are better for a while, particularly if they think they can’t do better then you and want you to stay. It’s rare for most men because they haven’t leveled up enough . Even still I don’t think humans are meant for long term relationships | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/25 03:32 AM |
| 7 | She disregarded even the smallest needs I hadIt’s simple they just don’t care about you. The goal was getting married and having kids. You are an inconvenience beyond just bringing in a paycheck. Like Louis Cl says “Divorce is like an Oak tree. Each year it keeps getting stronger” | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/25 03:30 AM |
| 5 | Leaving the "unsuspecting" wifeI had many talks, never mentioned divorce. Nothing ever got better. I just ended up divorcing Others had good advice don’t tell them you are going to divorce, that can also lead them to trying to play along for a while | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/25 03:08 AM |
| 5 | Ex wants to reconcileNo. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/25 11:30 AM |
| 15 | Curious question for men who are divorced and aren’t interested in a relationship how do you handle your sexual urges without a partner?Relax your mind all relationships are transactional. Your wife married you cause you were a safe option. Then once you had you, she realized she could drip feed sex and other love. Then eventually she divorced you and took a bunch of money. Cheapest relationships are the ones you pay for | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/25 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Curious question for men who are divorced and aren’t interested in a relationship how do you handle your sexual urges without a partner?Sugar babies over time can actually find they like you and grow into interesting relationships. Also if you have the money it’s fun traveling with girls | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/25 08:24 PM |
| 12 | Curious question for men who are divorced and aren’t interested in a relationship how do you handle your sexual urges without a partner?Sugar babies , escorts it’s not hard | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/25 05:01 PM |
| 12 | Who regrets their divorce?Best decision of my life | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 07:57 AM |
| 9 | Almost divorced and wife is not moving a finger to save itOnce divorce starts it’s over, one party is already gone. Don’t be the one trying to stay | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/25 05:44 PM |
| 11 | Wife said she wants a divorce for autonomy.If you try and save the marriage it will push her away faster. Just get a lawyer and go through the process. It’d only way you might have a chance | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/25 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Lack of intimacy divorce?Find where singles hang out then, running clubs, bars, board game cafes. 3m is a pretty small town. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Lack of intimacy divorce?Then find a better avenue then dating apps or move to a better city | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Lack of intimacy divorce?Dude young men aren’t dating women in their 40s/50s they are only sleeping with them . Milfs are in their 30s Men have a clear advantage at this age. If you don’t either you are in wrong location or you are doing something wrong , maybe just need to work on yourself | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Lack of intimacy divorce?Absolute bullshit. Men have better dating options in 40s they get date women in 30s and 40s and women are stuck generally dating men 10+ years older then them | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 05:19 AM |
| 11 | Lack of intimacy divorce?Best decision in my life was leaving a sexless marriage and it wasn’t anywhere as near as bad as yours man. It’s not fair for you to have to go without. Either it opens up for you only, cause she says it hurts her. Or you divorce | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/25 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Just curious… for those who initiated the Divorce due to reasonings other than infidelity, why did you initiate? How is life, and your mental state now (post Divorce)?Once she disrespects you, the marriage is already over. The women wants out she is just waiting till it’s optimal, in mean time life will be miserable | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/25 09:28 AM |
| 5 | Nagging Thoughts about Paternity.18 year old I wouldn’t dredge anything up. Nothing to gain lots to lose | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Now wife works out and loses weightlol man is already locked in, no need to work hard | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Now wife works out and loses weightWomen usually only grow when they worry about losing their man when he is growing | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 06:27 AM |
| 19 | Now wife works out and loses weightWomen don’t improve for their husband. Once the improvements starts she is on her way out | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/03/25 06:16 AM |
| 11 | Wife wants to separate but continue living togetherSo all the bad parts about marriage combined with all bad parts of divorce? | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/25 06:25 PM |
| 21 | It's so easy to sleep with divorce women.Yeah ex wife barely did anything in bed. Complained all the time. Now she gets pumped and dumped by random dudes, that don’t return her calls. Nice move | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 05:43 AM |
| 2 | How do women keep guys in bad marriagesIt literally gets more expensive every day you wait | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/25 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Guys, the peace of mind and silence is truly worth itHaha I’m dying of laughter | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/25 06:27 AM |
| 1 | What to teach the next generation?Women purposely do shit to disrespect you, my ex wife would never touch any of my tools for work, but she disrespected me in a dozen other ways. I don’t think it’s that she didn’t care about your tools, she just knew this was a good way to go at you | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/25 05:24 AM |
| 2 | For average looking guys out there who successfully started dating again after divorce was finalized, what strategies worked for you?Travel to SEA ;) particularly if you can speak Khmer, Cambodia is super poor makes Mexico look like Paris. You can use your money and get much better options. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/25 07:13 AM |
| 17 | Dead Bedroom & Divorce LoomingShe doesn’t care, she just needed a good provider. Check out and then head somewhere warm and meet some nice ladies 20 years younger | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/25 11:44 AM |
| 14 | I became too rich to divorce and I feel trapped.It only will get more expensive the longer you wait | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/25 08:55 AM |
| 24 | Went overseas to date women... kind of stunned really.Most women want to stay in their home country. But most men don’t have a way to make money overseas so they import them to USA. Then the bride learns the ways of America and becomes an American woman and you are back to this subreddit again in a few years | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Wife says she puts out enoughSounds like you need to do something different | /r/askMRP | 31/10/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Wife says she puts out enoughTruth rarely matters. Do you care about explaining situation or actually having sex. Better to work on her emotions | /r/askMRP | 31/10/24 05:00 AM |
| 0 | Wife says she puts out enoughMy second wife had sex all through pregnancy, I only let off the breaks once the belly got super big and she basically had to sit on top of me and it kind of ruined the vibe seeing the baby in front of me . After pregnancy instant blowjobs and then sex within 4-6 weeks. However first wife was like no sex during pregnancy and only hand jobs, and after pregnancy like 6 months of barely anything Really all depends on how the woman feels they need to keep you | /r/askMRP | 31/10/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | STBXW is cheating on meIt doesn’t help in court | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/24 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Nice Guys Who Get Trapped “Raising” an Immature Princess Wife are Always Disposable at the End. NOT YOUR FAULT!!! REPEAT!!!Then do more filtering of future women. The answer isn’t to leave the game | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/24 10:00 AM |
| 9 | Nice Guys Who Get Trapped “Raising” an Immature Princess Wife are Always Disposable at the End. NOT YOUR FAULT!!! REPEAT!!!Honestly you need to move on and find someone else. Work on improving yourself and stop longing after someone that has left | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/24 03:02 PM |
| 10 | I’m a sole financial provider for my stay at home wife, and 2 kids.. I’m at a point in my marriage where I feel like i’m only as good as what I can provide (my income, and occasional sex). There’s awkward silences, and I feel like maybe we’ve both grown out of love. Anyone else been here?Only thing you can do is work on yourself , goto gym , enjoy your own hobbies,read the book No More Mr Nice Guy, and see if anything improves after 6 months | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/02/24 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Will I lose half my business?Cash in the business is smallest issue. Cause she will say the business is worth $xxxxx probably 3-5x more then cash flow , then you have to pay that | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/24 04:30 PM |
| 9 | I over heard my wife talking about going out of town the following week and heard her talking about another guy.Dawg it’s over. I suggest focusing on how to make more money to fix your situation. Goto gym. And have money so you can stay in your kids life. Rebuild and find someone new | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/24 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Does wife making more than husband contribute to relationship issues?Yeah this is going to be an issue , unless you are significantly attractive and have women seeking you already | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/23 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Women call preferences Standards and for Men is being ToxicYou seem overly rigid over 2 hours when she gave you a heads up, probably an uncontrollable situation. Also if you were really upset about the time why did she break up with you and not other way around. This just smells like weak beta behavior. This isn’t about simping this isn’t really that big a deal . I’m not sure how you are going to date if you think, that you making slightly better then average salary makes you gods gift to women | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Came across this on IG, made perfect sense to me. What do you think?Hahahah right better just get divorce and find a good one | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/23 09:51 AM |
| 4 | Came across this on IG, made perfect sense to me. What do you think?While I agree with her, her channel seems to be focused for men. I doubt many women will listen to this | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/23 09:42 AM |
| 3 | Wife trying to come back after leaving me for affair partnerDivorce before 7, if you want her back later you can always do that , but I’m betting your self respect will return and you won’t | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/23 05:27 AM |
| 4 | Stay at Home Dad ProblemsYou deserve the money, you delayed your career for all those years. Look my wife took a good bit when she left, am I upset no way. I would rather paid her than destroy my career for 8 years. It’s a fair tradeoff. Get a lawyer and get what you deserve | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/23 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Read this …No I don’t, but I also don’t write self defeating stuff about submitting in marriage. Likely you got divorced cause you weren’t being a strong man | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/23 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Read this …Umm no. This is why you are on a divorce forum | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/23 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How do I make sure my net worth is transferred to my daughter and her future benefit and not my daughter's mother?Assets will be split in divorce . Before you get married again you can setup a trust to protect it from future marriages but not your existing | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/23 05:20 AM |
| 6 | financially supporting this “wife” of mine for the past 2 years.. the only thing that I receive in return is constant stress and bickering from her. Men who were me, how is life now after getting out of the situation?Divorce life is better on other side | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/23 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Tiktok...Be careful you have potentially doxxed your own Reddit account . Since it’s a quick association to find out who her ex husband is | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/11/23 11:44 AM |
| 12 | New boyfriend of my ex buys toys for my kids, how am I to react?End of thread. This is basically the answer | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/23 08:02 AM |
| 12 | Biggest mistake?Begging to stay . Only pushes them away faster | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/23 05:51 AM |
| 1 | She threw her engagement ring at meFirst mistake was buying an expensive ring | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/23 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Why most MARRIAGES FAIL: you are not enough peopleThis is most simple terms. Raising kids with 2 people is to difficult, it creates to much strain on the core marriage . Mix that with monogamy and having stretches of years sexless, there is no way for marriage to work | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/10/23 11:20 AM |
| 4 | Why most MARRIAGES FAIL: you are not enough peopleI love this channel, tons of good advice at finding new women after divorce | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/23 05:57 AM |
| 10 | Men in your 40s dating younger women, what are you guys doing?Sugar dating | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/23 10:56 AM |
| 5 | How much time between “Let’s get divorced” and “Let’s both go fuck other people asap?”1-2 days into separation | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/23 05:55 AM |
| 7 | After a long enough time here and in my own marriage, I’m seeing other people’s relationships as time bombsWhen you watch the show again, the guys in the show are the butt of the joke. You realize they aren’t laughing with us, they are laughing at us | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/23 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Blowing it up for a dead bedroom and no loveSelf improvement shouldn’t be stuff to please them only for yourself. I agree if you are doing serious work after a while you have to walk away | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/23 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Blowing it up for a dead bedroom and no loveHow long? Have you really implemented it? Do you hit the gym? Are other women starting to react to you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/23 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Blowing it up for a dead bedroom and no loveMy kids are far happier after divorce, they get 4x attention. My new wife showers them also. Being a martyr helps no one | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/23 02:27 PM |
| 14 | Blowing it up for a dead bedroom and no loveDead bedroom usually indicates she is largely done with the marriage. Only thing you can do is improve your self, your attitude , read “no more Mr nice guy”. If things don’t get better after 6-12 months of you improving yourself, then it’s easy to just move on | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/23 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Any one feel like they started going backwards after lots of progress?Lack of sex is the best indicator that your relationship is starting to fail. You need to get things moving or you’ll be complaining about a divorce next year, or even worse a multi year dead bedroom you do nothing about Watched a good video about this yesterday https://youtu.be/BaSDrFrZfDM?si=-6p7tfQCasBGeyER | /r/askMRP | 19/09/23 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is undefeated in killing libido and it appears there's nothing I can do to stop itHell yes | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/23 09:03 AM |
| 4 | How Do They Turn It Off So Completely?Your talk about baseball vs going out is very telling. She probably wanted some excitement and fun. You wanted to sit and watch baseball . Not saying this is a reason to divorce, but you have to start looking at all the details | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/23 06:28 AM |
| 22 | The last photoDon’t stay friends. The wife usually wants this so she gets most of benefits of marriage while banging other men | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/23 08:14 AM |
| 13 | I regret not making my marriage work and now my ex husband is happily remarriedI do feel like it’s men that post this. I don’t know many women that would post such a thing and not blame the guy in anyway | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/23 07:07 AM |
| 3 | "Real" Cost of AlimonyLove your job and force her to work to help out. Wait it out a year and then divorcew | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/23 09:38 PM |
| 3 | What are the loopholes used by the rich?I know Elon was already a 10-20 millionaire by time he was married, so there I believe was a defined package she would get at end of marriage. She contested, you can read her blog posts about it, but I think maybe cause it was already agreed and likely already enough for life, it’s likely that they couldn’t argue the prenup was unfair | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/23 07:35 AM |
| 23 | I am debating getting a divorce because my wife’s ambitions and mine do not match anymore. I’m convinced she is a narcissist that loves taking advantage of my personality.Once they become disrespectful the marriage is over, I’ve traced everything back and that seems to be the sign that it’s over. Just move on | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/23 05:24 AM |
| 13 | EX keeps asking me to include my Airbnb Income | She hasn't reported a profit she made from selling a houseIf you make an llc and run all expenses via it, only the profits that come back to yourself would be reportable, basically the stuff you pay taxes on | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/23 05:18 AM |
| 2 | It’s our faultWhen he says exciting life, he means banging random men and drink in with her other single girlfriends | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 04:51 PM |
| 3 | It’s our faultIt’s much easier to romance from a blank slate then a long marriage full of issues. Just the same you’ll find women higher quality then your wife with a lot less work by starting from scratch | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | I don't feel like fucking my wifeIf you are ready to divorce you are ready to be straight blunt | /r/askMRP | 23/06/23 12:53 PM |
| 5 | I don't feel like fucking my wifeTry and track down when it started, are you less attracted to her? Usually men can find a list of items , women can improve to make them happier | /r/askMRP | 18/06/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | How do people afford housing?Can you offer her money over time. Like Xxx dollars a month ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/23 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Questions for Divorced Men : Startup Event (early stage, urgent need for responses)Sounds like you have a bad startup idea and you are going around spamming Reddit. If it was a good idea you would have women onboard first | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 02:15 AM |
| 15 | UnsureShe if she was cheating and then the guy broke up. Most of time if the women cancels the divorce suddenly it’s cause she found out her next meal ticket isn’t going to work out | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Questions for Divorced Men : Startup Event (early stage, urgent need for responses)Why would any women use this service? What’s upside for any women to only limit their pool to divorced men | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/23 07:10 AM |
| 1 | rant.. how bad will it be in these situations...I’ve read your other comments, man I’m not sure what you are sticking around for. Also you don’t have many assets to get in a divorce so not a ton of downside. I would do it sooner, give you guys both time to fix financially | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | If you think you've ever done some stupid stuff just remember this.Pretty sure he made a lot of money from his Wall Street days, also his family is fairly well off and supported him in initial days of amazon . Don’t think his wife was critical other then home life | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/23 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Moving countriesYou need to find a way to stay in the country or consider the kids lost. Can’t you goto school or do something to upskill | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/23 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Retirement focusI would suggest considering retiring in SEA, however make sure you are wise first. Seen a lot of men lose money on women there also, but they have a ton of fun and a woman half their age doing it | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/05/23 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Something to remember no matter what stage you’re in: Nothings ever enough, theres nothing you can do to change anything but yourselfThe more you let them not do anything the lazier they get and more they disrespect you. Honestly my new girlfriend works hard and tries to keep my attention all the time. Go out and find someone that respects you and works hard for you not the other way around | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/23 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Am I Overreacting, Or Am I Justified To Feel This WayMy best memories as a kid were going hiking or into woods with uncles. Tons of activities that don’t cost much that get make bonding time | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 08:13 PM |
| 14 | You served a purposeMaking them happy makes them despise and disrespect your more. They would prefer to feel like they are having to work to keep you | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 08:10 PM |
| 4 | You served a purposeSticky this post, absolute truth | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/23 07:04 PM |
| 3 | need advice on marriage divorceA bit to much to read but got first half. Lending money to family is a tale as old as time. The money is gone. A few of my friends had this happen also. I even “lent” some money to my wife’s family knowing I wouldn’t get it back. Lesson learned, never lend to family. Always say oh sorry we aren’t in a good financial place. You have to decide if this will affect marriage Not sure the marriage is salvageable since it seems your wife isn’t working on it either. May just write money off and go enjoy… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 08:20 AM |
| 3 | In a weird spot regarding relationships, does anyone relate?If you have the ability to move, try going somewhere else. You may find better luck with women there | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Date or notAs long as lawyer oks it. I would say date cause it feels good, always you to forget your ex faster. And it’s lots of fun | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/23 09:38 PM |
| 31 | How many of your all’s marriages were savable? But your wife refused to work with you.We separated temporary to figure things out, and her best friend egged her on to find as much dick as possible. Cause she secretly hated her own marriage. Once wife got tingles for all these other guys any fixing was over. Now those relationships are all ending and she has become incredibly unhappy | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/23 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Almost decided.So the state can require her to pay your attorney bills, you can do a consultation | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/23 09:41 AM |
| 5 | Dead bedroom (no intimacy)... Who has filed for this reason.Be an asshole get your needs met, only live once | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/23 05:32 AM |
| 4 | Wife harassment threats100% | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/23 03:31 AM |
| 2 | When your ex-wife start dating someone newExwife brought new boyfriend around kids after one month. Said he’s the one and we are serious. Six months later they are broken up and I’m six months into new relationship and finally bringing kids around my girl and she is talking shit to everyone. Can you believe he’s doing it so fast | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/23 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Divorce adviceI was like you, luckily I got divorced. Now I’m much happier | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/23 05:52 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 02, 2023Don’t let her just get to seperate and have fun, heads you lose, tails you lose. Either she finds a new guy, or she realizes she has problems, comes back to you but maybe keeps some guys or knows she can always go out and bang other men. Once they leave just start divorce process. Longer you wait the more you pay | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/05/23 01:50 PM |
| 11 | Whenever I see this over there.....Truth I took mine to therapy and she just nodded her head until ran the clock out, was already messaging guys on Tinder and didn’t care | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/23 09:28 AM |
| 10 | Is my frustration with my Ex-wife reasonable?The more you give the more they want. You were to good to her during marriage and she can’t respect you. So they just continue to take and take and take Avoid talking to her if it’s not about when she can see kids. Only make it convenient for you It’s time for you to be selfish for your own needs | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/23 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Just retired, what to doExit before she wastes your money and you are back to work | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/23 03:42 AM |
| 5 | I get a job interview and it's in the office with STBX's BFFTake it and keep your head down | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/23 08:05 AM |
| 3 | Update and a Deep BreathTruth. My ex is just getting out of this phase and now her wrath is returning to me. This is the danger zone | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/23 01:18 PM |
| 10 | Don’t worry fellasYeah my ex was complaining why her new boyfriend only wants to watch Netflix and never go out for dinner | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/23 05:17 AM |
| 1 | My STBXW tried to convince me she needs a pedicure / manicure monthly. Which costs 1,400 annually. We are in the middle of negotiation, why the fuck would someone say that...Yeah all the parents have like Hermes and Chanel hand bags and do group trips to Paris and Japan each year. So while I understand , I’m still not paying lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/23 05:40 PM |
| 1 | My STBXW tried to convince me she needs a pedicure / manicure monthly. Which costs 1,400 annually. We are in the middle of negotiation, why the fuck would someone say that...Dude my ex wife told me I needed to fund her international trips with the kids so she can keep up appearances at the private school our kids goto | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/23 10:19 AM |
| 6 | Been dating a girl who I told I was in the process of getting divorced but otherwise didn't want to discuss it. Finalized a month ago and let her know I'm divorced. Told me today she was following the docket the whole time.I would run so far away from any woman that was that intrusive while dating. Imagine if you marry her later, sounds like a miserable life | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/23 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Just want to get laid...Sex is best anti depressant do what you need to, to get it | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/23 06:19 AM |
| 2 | I would appreciate some inputDoesn’t sound like she wants to fix things so I’m not sure how this Hold me Tight hook would help | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/23 06:31 AM |
| 9 | I would appreciate some inputYou can’t negotiate attraction. If she doesn’t show you affection, only thing you can do is read No More and Nice Guy, goto gym and focus on hobbies. Likely you should also see a lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/23 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Maybe I really am the problem?Truth , we become emotionally unattractive to our wifes and it’s hard to admit | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/23 04:44 AM |
| 6 | Fuck, this hurts.Hit gym. Read No More Mr nice guy. Lose weight, focus on hobbies | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who were upfront before marriage and not willing to negotiate on having a prenup, trusts, and strategic legal separation (before the marriage, as crazy as that sounds), did it backfire on you? If so, did you regret it and would you do anything differently?9 years but I also divorced in a country that respects prenups, lucky I never moved back to America. The prenup was more generous then it needed to be just Incase I went back to america | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/23 01:48 PM |
| 6 | Does this ever happen?Same boat ex wife just doesn’t care about me. So divorce has been relatively straightforward but still like a boat anchor | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/23 07:10 AM |
| 8 | For those of you who were upfront before marriage and not willing to negotiate on having a prenup, trusts, and strategic legal separation (before the marriage, as crazy as that sounds), did it backfire on you? If so, did you regret it and would you do anything differently?I had a prenup, worked out. Wife wanted a lot more at divorce, she was way more rational when we got married. The prenup cooled her down quickly and I ended up giving her a bit more then prenup but no where near as much if we had no agreement | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/23 04:54 AM |
| 4 | Any advice?Once the wife starts looking it’s best for you to hit the gym and start talking to a lawyer. Nearly impossible to come back | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/23 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Rantr/hlcommunity and r/banfromdb | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/23 05:52 PM |
| 5 | Am I crazy to leave a “good man” because I’m unhappy at the lack of emotional connection?He made a big mistake trying to get her back, nothing makes a woman dryer then begging | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/23 04:57 AM |
| 5 | Am I crazy to leave a “good man” because I’m unhappy at the lack of emotional connection?My marriage lol. However after reading NMMNG I realize that a lot of stuff I was doing wasn’t attractive | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/23 04:40 AM |
| 3 | The BEST parts about being divorcedRead the book, No more Mr nice guy. Happy wife happy life is literally what’s making her unhappy | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/23 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Filed for divorceThanks for posting ;) | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/23 03:57 AM |
| 2 | To divorced men with no kids: Would you move to a completely new city to finally heal from a tough breakup (that you didn’t want)?Yup did was totally worth it, met my future wife | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/23 11:22 AM |
| 4 | Why didn’t marriage counseling work?Described my ex thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/23 05:12 AM |
| 4 | Why didn’t marriage counseling work?This basically needs to be a sticky. Counseling can only work if you are both still in love and having regular sex and there are other interpersonal issues like lifestyle or work. However I feel like if you are in love working through issues is generally a ton easier anyways | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/23 04:56 AM |
| 5 | Why didn’t marriage counseling work?Lol mine was an ugly dude that made less money. I think a lot of times it’s about the women just wanting to leave | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/23 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Ex finally popped up on online datingYeah this is a good option | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/23 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Ex finally popped up on online datingWhat’s the alternative ? Yes it’s hard but it’s still better then other options | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/23 01:15 AM |
| 6 | Ex finally popped up on online datingQuestion is why aren’t you ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/23 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Wife is becoming more of a feminist every dayDon’t goto couch, let her go. It’s your house also | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/23 07:06 AM |
| 5 | What did you do with the rage/fatigue?Massive diet, multi day fasts (check snake diet). Gym trainer 3x a week, new sports car, new girlfriend. Make sure you find emotional support with friends or therapist Go NO contact immediately there is even a subreddit for no contact Don’t look back it will be bad for a bit and then life will be better without her | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/03/23 03:30 AM |
| 3 | ex wife and social mediaWe just use shared albums in iPhoto so we get updates but no social media | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/23 12:59 PM |
| 21 | Wife wants a long-distance marriagePlease divorce her, I lost a lot of my own self respect during divorce. None of it is worth it. After a few years of lifting of it doesn’t work out just goto another country with easier standards | /r/askMRP | 18/02/23 02:07 PM |
| 15 | Anyone here married but living separately successfully?Nah it’s over once you move out no matter what lies she says | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/23 07:54 AM |
| 2 | ED after Divorce?Likely stress, first few weeks doing my divorce agreement I couldn’t do anything. After a month or two everything was back to normal, once stress was gone. I wouldn’t sweat it, probably you body telling you to go enjoy yourself for a bit, exercise hobbies and it will magically your little guy will be annoying like before lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/23 04:36 AM |
| 6 | Joke: no sex tonightI need to put this comment on a poster | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/01/23 11:19 PM |
| 1 | ENCORE: 'Love wasn't safe' Rolling Stones author Neil Strauss, whose book The Game became a hot bed issue, believes his philosophy about relationships was wrong and destructive.Think this is a puff piece largely to promote his book The Truth | /r/ExRedPill | 13/11/22 08:05 PM |
| 6 | I need some help, or advice, I need out of this desperately, but she spends all our money, and I'm not sure I have anywhere to go.Block her access to checking accounts and take control of situation | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/22 06:15 AM |
| 1 | What are some green flags for picking a future wife?So let me get this straight ? Once she gets pregnant you are going to legally separate ? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | What are some green flags for picking a future wife?Mostly just talking about your parenting plan threats. I’m not sure what you are referring to about legal separation | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | What are some green flags for picking a future wife?Parenting plan where you retain all the rights and you make her sign under duress while pregnant threatening to leave her will not. Lawyers will warn you any prenup or any other document that can be construed as being signed under duress is very easy to throw out. Also prenups can not enforce any kind of parenting agreement or child care payments. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/22 04:52 AM |
| 4 | What are some green flags for picking a future wife?Date , you don’t have to be single. Just don’t marry them | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/22 03:19 AM |
| 5 | What are some green flags for picking a future wife?Pretty sure that wouldn’t hold up in court and likely also damage relationship at same time | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/22 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - September 27, 2022Welcome to the club, the wife becomes more of a liability at a certain point | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/09/22 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Wife makes plans without meThis 100% | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/22 05:44 AM |
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