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I dated a total of 5 teenagers between 16 to 18 when I was young and all of them had ex-boyfriends, in most cases some years older. I saw the same pattern among school mates. I myself am guilty of having dated younger. Women generally reach puberty earlier than men so it makes sense. Of course there are 16 year old "Chads" and female late bloomers, it's very individual, but why would you assume the 34 year man must have been that Chad and the 24 year he is dating old the late bloomer? Once again…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:40 PM
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If you start early you will have more time to collect more experience. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:17 PM
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What it means, if a generalized pattern, is that two years from now, when she is 16, she will be in a classroom where the girls have dating experience and the boys have not, already giving them an advantage over the other gender. I never said anything about what men should or should not. I just said that in many cases age gap does not equal unbalance and even age does not equal balance. I think it's wrong to assume a 34 old man dating a 24 year old woman is a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 03:10 PM
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Read it again, please. She now has dated one person at 14 while he, a year earlier at 16, dated zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:53 PM
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Let say a 14 year old girl dates a 17 year old boy and they are each others firsts. This means at the age of 14 she is more experienced than he was at 16. Most likely it means she will be more experienced at 17 than him at 19 etc and the snow ball is already in roll. Those three years are a lot at that point of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:43 PM
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Men: I only have to pay 30$ to meet several women IRL!? That's like my weekly Tinder fee! Better bring Viagra! Women: I have to pay!? 30$!? It better be full of top men looking for nothing but serious commitment! No wonder most people there end up disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:48 PM
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Yes, I would expect men and women to view this situation differently, hence so much frustration. It's really a question of scarcity, of different kinds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:21 AM
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If he don't tell you about fucking other women how do you know that he does?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:19 PM
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The irony is that I think 1 and 2 are the same women most often. We meet up, have some dinner. I think you're not what I was looking for, but I invested time and money and I am horny and haven't had sex in a couple of months. So I put my hand on your lap, look in to your eyes and tell you you are beautiful. Then we kiss and end up in bed. Next day I'm home and happy about that I've been able to let off some steam for a while. I ignore your texting because I'm not interested. You go to Reddit or …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:17 PM
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"Some women are sluts and should take care of that part so I can be a princess". So its kind of like he goes to see escorts on the side, but free ones. So he is sexually satisfied already when you meet instead of thinking about how to seduce you as fast as possible, to only get post-nut clarity later on. If he even planned anything other than getting laid in the first place (which an escort could have taken care of). From my understanding reading this posts having trouble getting sex for a men i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:24 PM
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He tells you about having sex with others while you are dating??
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:10 PM
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I think many guys, me included just don't have many pictures to choose from. Especially young women documents everything for social media with themselves in focus. So they end up with a portfolio in their phone of hundreds of images. For men it's like that photo from that one time fishing, some drunk pic, that trip 3 years ago, graduation maybe, and some last minute selfie. I attend social events pretty often, but it just never strikes anyone of my mates to grab the phone and save the moment of …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:52 AM
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But how many people holds such extreme positions? If your point is that a person who demands a DNA test aren't honest when he tells you that you have his complete trust, then yes. But don't you think there are levels of trust? Child abuse are fortunately not far as common as cheating, and if anything would raise suspicion of such a behavior I hope the parent don't leave room for benefit of the doubt in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:44 PM
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If I was a woman and would hold such a belief about men I would never let any potential partner see my child/ren. Why take that risk? It's seems very irrational. Of course I wouldn't try to get anyone pregnant either if I thought most women cheat on regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:48 PM
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So you are introducing your child to a man you suspect have a record of child molesting? It sounds like child services need to step in. Your kid deserves a better mother before it's too late. How can anyone even compare something like that to infidelity??
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:57 PM
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No, believe me when I say I am a people pleaser. If we would meat IRL I agree with you on anything. I'm entangled in webs of lies due to fear of conflict. It's way beyond putting my best foot forward. It's fawning. There is nothing healthy being all character and no personality. It was not worth it. But I'm trying to change through therapy as a recovering door mat. That is why I feel a need to be cautious and picky to not fall back in old habits with toxic relationships. I removed the apps today…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:10 AM
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I wish there was an AI tool that could tell me if someone was attracted to me by reading their body language. It's rarely as obvious in real life as in theory. Doesn't seem to unrealistic either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:00 PM
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I spent my early 20's pretending to be someone I was not. And it worked of course for hook ups and shallow flings/relations. After all, I was fishing with a troll. But it never got me anywhere, because it was like being at a work place and hope no one notice you actually lack the skills for hiring. It was tiresome and stressing. Now in my 30's the one trait I value is authenticity. Sure, a message can be delivered in different fashion, I already tried a few, but no more lying and acting. My exce…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 11:34 AM
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My interest in Japan is mainly due to Akira Kurosawa and of course the general "strangeness" and mystique of it's society and culture. But how many knows who he was? 0,01% of the female population? I'm gonna follow your advise and cut it down to exactly zero words next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:05 PM
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I think you are missing the point. I'm not saying I'm such an interesting person that I should be drowning in matches. Either you are attracted or not. But when you send me a like and write to me, why show no interest in knowing me? You want me to come over, but you don't even know what I do for a living. Can't you see how that makes me feel objectified? Or you don't because you don't even have any profile text yourself? All this complaint over men only want to have sex, and then 8/10 women don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:25 PM
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My profile text is: Soon to be web developer. Loves philosophy and a bit of nerdy interest for Japan and the Japanese language. Like football, beer and padel tennis too! Hope to find someone to join me for a match or some pub quiz. Personally I find it rather boring, very toned down and mainstream on purpose. No obscure references to Hungarian movie directors, theorems or nisched artist. No mentioning of my use of psychedelic substances or anything questionable. No "red flags" like anime and man…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:46 PM
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"Cute girls doing things" is a major fetish among guys. Gamer and skater girl has left boys heart broken for decades now, I think a part of why many men are drawn to younger women actually is things like sub cultures and hobbies that shows by appearance, which are interpreted as playfulness and personality. Why would you ever wanna go for something generic? One of my biggest crushes was and still is a scene girl I met in my youth. And I never cared at all for that type of music.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:51 PM
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Not necessarily to be shared, but don't you think it's says something about what kind of person you are? I mean there are a billion men out there that are physically attractive, intelligent and probably share at least some of your goals in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:28 PM
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I'm actually on the opposite end. It's hard for me opening up to people and talk about myself. I'm very sensitive to rejection. I rather let other people talk and try to fit in some own references to relate. Even my therapist told me I am "stingy". I think that is what makes it worse when I loosen my shell a bit and no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:19 PM
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Damn, this is super interesting. Yeah, I'm very much the chameleon, struggling to find his true colors. I even steal other peoples traits. And eccentric people are always shinier. If something I feel my lack of continuity is my personality. For better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:00 PM
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Isn't hobbies and interests a big part of what makes up personality compatibility factors?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 11:33 AM
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Sure, but it gets weird when you are actually dating and they still don't ask about things you take interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:24 AM
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I think neurotypicals like the "Jack's of all trades". They appreciate people who know just enough to acknowledge their interests. It's harder for the "savants". I feel like I hold the keys to most groups that way. Until they recognize I'm a academical failure with no real expertis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:22 AM
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It's not about sharing interests. It's about taking a interest in the other person. I'm not necessarily talking about hobbies as in going somewhere or join a club. You can be fond of a certain genre of music. I like city pop. It's odd enough to be something to ask about. You don't have to like it too. It's just strange to consider it "none of my business".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:11 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 01:59 AM
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Of course you should enjoy the activity, but generally men and women differ in interests. Most clubs I attended have been either sausage party or me and grandmas. If you're into horse riding or ballet as guy though I can see how it must seem easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 04:21 PM
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Would be interesting with an app that reverse the swipe process, so instead of swiping on images the first thing that shows up is ones text. Then if your interested you can view their pictures by clicking their profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:23 PM
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It's funny since I had the opposite experience not long ago. Through my adult life I've been told about "social proof", looking important and being valued, doing fun stuff etc. And I always sucked at it; having few friends and was never good at taking photos to post at social media. But lately I actually managed to be more active, joining a party and getting a bigger social circle and taking part in events more frequently, and also documenting it. Then I met this attractive woman at a speed date…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 11:11 PM
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I thinks it's wide spread misconception that having a hard time would create better men. From my understanding it's rather the opposite. Encouragement leads to further improvement and success gives born to success. Even effecting testosterone levels. Most men who never really entered the game will embrace their learned helplessness and throw in the towel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:32 PM
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Now in my 30's I gain more interest from women my age. It's just that I'm not very attracted to women in their 30's... So I don't find any pleasure in that. Just another black one to the pill box.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 05:13 PM
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Virginity is of course a limited instrument to measure by, I admit that. I've had about 10 sex partners and am more inexperienced than most people since sex is not all. It's just that sexual activity is the part most easy to quantify. Because you know a virgin haven't met any of the other milestones. Then again, 14% virgins between 20-24 years old was really a large amount of guys I must say though. That will be a struggle. Interesting and a bit worrisome that so many woman choose to abstain fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:57 PM
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If you mean "you" as me personaly, then no I'm not a virgin. If you mean "you" in a general sense there's propably many different reasons behind it. I want to add though that it's not like non-virgin = experienced, but rather that an increasing amount of virgins can be seen as a marker for the general trend of sexual and social activity among all of us. Not really on or off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 12:14 PM
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Unfortunately I read it in paper form at work and looking it up online it was behind paywall. The article was an interview with Peter Ueda, but I don't know if the statistics also was collected by him. But if we assume there´s no gender differences, does it necessarily balance out on the partner market? I mean do virgins strictly date virgins, while those with more experience date each other? If not we should still face the dilemma of huge gaps in experiences due to more and more people getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:48 AM
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