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ComprehensiveMinCad/r/seduction25/04/20 02:19 PM
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LifestyleMinCad/r/seduction20/04/20 03:11 PM
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ComprehensiveMinCad/r/seduction11/03/20 02:26 PM
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FundamentalsMinCad/r/seduction11/04/20 01:24 PM
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MinCad/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 02:10 PM
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Inner Game MinCad/r/seduction19/04/20 05:58 PM
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1

Ya, don't learn from social feedback and continue being autistic. Great advice
/r/askTRP12/06/20 04:01 AM
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If someone you knew years ago randomly messaged you, had nothing of value to offer, and wanted to 'link up,' would you respond? Now imagine this happens multiple times per week. Beyond that, by reaching out to some girl you barely know and expressing interest, you signal to her that you lack other options. A guy fucking other chicks wouldn't do this. On an intuitive level, she understands you're low value. She's not mentally ill at all. Instead, you seem on the spectrum for asking this question.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 04:00 AM
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Just do it. Offer mininal explanation or justification. After a year or two, they'll get over it. Or not. In that case, oh well.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 03:38 AM
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You're always paying for sex, whether it's creating an attractive lifestyle, creating favorable logistics (a nice apartment in a good part of town), paying entrance fees for clubs, picking up new clothes, having a gym membership, buying coffee, or (worst case scenario) seeing a prostitute. Choose how you pay wisely
/r/seduction02/05/20 03:08 AM
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Who is 'we'
/r/seduction25/04/20 03:58 PM
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Cool. I've never met a guy who was good at game who constantly whined about genetics. But sure, I guess. Not saying it's not true. But winners are proactive. They don't look for or obsess over reasons they will fail.
/r/seduction25/04/20 03:47 PM
1

Ok. Now please go back to your League of Legends and PUBG subs and quit giving bad advice
/r/seduction25/04/20 03:36 PM
6

I assume you are autistic and can't read women's facial cues, are a virgin, or both. Pre-selection is one of the primary attraction switches. If a young single man needs to see a prostitute, it implies he's not able to attract women under normal circumstances. I.e., he's unattractive. There are a few exceptions to this, but they don't apply to the OP.
/r/seduction25/04/20 03:28 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/seduction25/04/20 02:56 PM
2

Why are you so fixated on the idea of women fixing the problem for you? As long as you maintain this attitude, women will always look down on you. And women NEVER fuck guys they look down on. I'm guessing you had major issues with your mother as a child.
/r/seduction25/04/20 02:55 PM
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Women are repulsed by the idea of having to teach a man how to be a man.
/r/seduction25/04/20 02:55 PM
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Good... Now 1) Quit telling girls you've seen prostitutes. It's extremely low value for a single man to need to see prostitutes. 2) Quit taking advice from women. I just wrote a post about that. 3) Quit expecting women to help you, and stop asking for favors. They aren't 'on your side,' and they certainly don't own you anything. By asking women to be intimate with you, you're signalling that other women don't find you mate-worthy - which is itself unattractive. ("The hungry don't get fed") If an…
/r/seduction25/04/20 02:54 PM
9

And ffs, quit seeing prostitutes
/r/seduction25/04/20 02:16 PM
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Quit seeing a sex therapist. They aren't on your side
/r/seduction25/04/20 02:15 PM
1

"Maybe later" means "no" "No" means "maybe later"
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:47 PM
2

The thing is, there's nothing really new under the sun. I could give you a list of 10-15 books which would contain just about everything rsd is teaching. That said, people don't really learn social practice from reading. They learn from watching and doing themselves.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:42 PM
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I have a private telegram chat. Pm me for the link.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:40 PM
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You're ability to constantly answer these newbie questions in good faith, patiently, and in detail amazes me.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:38 PM
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Sounds like the guy whose worried about his skinny legs
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:36 PM
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In another time and place, guys like this would have been taken outside of the village as a child, left in the wilderness, and eaten by wolves.
/r/seduction25/04/20 01:34 PM
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Here's a video on that exact topic: https://youtu.be/1tF0FhoKVoo
/r/seduction22/04/20 12:55 PM
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Check pm
/r/seduction22/04/20 12:49 PM
1

This. The OP sounds like he wants to be treated like a woman
/r/TheRedPill22/04/20 12:47 PM
5

Why not both?
/r/seduction22/04/20 11:34 AM
8

Cheesy lines =/= pick up Read the sidebar and perhaps a girl will touch your pee pee
/r/seduction21/04/20 02:47 PM
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Ya. Don't adhere to this like some sort of religious dogma. But it's a rough framework for the archetypes of how men behave and relate in social contexts
/r/seduction21/04/20 04:55 AM
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For sure. You're right about the first part. But, i still personally wouldn't be doing video dates. And the guys i know who are really good at game are actively tooling guys doing video dates in their IG stories. And they are still pulling. But... you're first part is right above all else. Different people, different goals. If he's after a relationship, then this method isn't the worst.
/r/seduction21/04/20 04:40 AM
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50 shades of grey
/r/seduction21/04/20 12:07 AM
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Have you tried reading any of the material in the sidebar?
/r/seduction21/04/20 12:06 AM
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Depends on if your name is Dave or not
/r/seduction21/04/20 12:01 AM
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Guys who are good at game don't spend 3 hours chatting with a girl - even in person - unless it leads directly to sex. They 'get to know' a girl as they are moving towards sleeping with her. Whatever you're doing sounds platonic, not sexual. You're doing beta-male game. Trying to convince her you're safe, stable, and committed. That's not how guys who get laid a lot interact with women. If you're looking for a monogamous committed relationship, keep doing what you are doing. It might work. But y…
/r/seduction20/04/20 09:18 PM
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Lol. If i was to make a troll account just to give bad advice, this is what I would say
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:59 PM
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Awesome stuff. I love Gary V and his philosophy
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:53 PM
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Guys think in terms of explicit communication and exchanging information. I.e., telling a girl 'i want you.' This is all wrong when it comes to seduction. Think more in terms of the vibe and energy.
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:50 PM
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Firstly, yes. Solid guy friends are way more valuable than a girl. As a side note, this is why i don't trust guys who are bad with women. Thirst will lead them towards all sorts of bad decisions. Secondly, video dates are lame. Only beta males do 3 hour video dates.
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:48 PM
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Google 'ford conversation'
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:20 PM
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This is so cringey. You're not in a long distance relationship. This woman has no interest in you. I'm also assuming this girl is ugly. A hot girl would never respond to this.
/r/seduction20/04/20 08:16 PM
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What do u think OP?
/r/seduction20/04/20 05:47 PM
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Quit playing video games too. I honestly don't know how kids today became such huge faggots. I lost my virginity at 16... i thought that was too late. Throw away your fucking game console and become a man Or stay as faggy manchild forever while you gleefully 'kill' other faggy manchildren on your faggy games while you all thirst over girls you're not fucking.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 05:43 PM
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What.... The.... Fuck........
/r/askTRP20/04/20 05:37 PM
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Maybe you can provide even less context ?
/r/seduction20/04/20 05:25 PM
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"I know"
/r/seduction20/04/20 05:22 PM
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If most of you guys never looked at seddit or RSD again, and simply listened to Patrice O'Neal, you'd get better results with women.
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:58 PM
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I doubt Tate smashed. His girls are way are hotter than Peterson's daughter. Nevermind the fact that she has herpies and likely a bad case of keto crouch
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 03:35 PM
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Sorry. I editted my post to include more/better info. The important thing is to differentiate yourself from all the other guys who are orbiting/pedestalizing her. Let weird beta males constantly feed her attention. Be aloof, have larger goals, don't over invest or reward shitty behavior on her part. If a woman truly has a shitty attitude, ignore her entirely. Erase her from your reality. Remember, the cold bitch is probably a submissive sweetheart for the right guy.
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:22 PM
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Ciel chen Bradicus Markus Wolf of Ultimate Man Project
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:16 PM
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Women are entitled because thirsty dudes treat them like royalty. Conversely, women want a king - someone higher than them - not a peasant or jester. Go figure
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:13 PM
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If women are losing interest in you, being flakey, acting distant, etc, the worst thing you can do is reward them by giving them more attention.
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:07 PM
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Good advice. Learning pick up isn't a straight line. Newbies often need to utilize the '3 second rule' simply to beat approach anxiety. But, after a certain point, they have to toss that out and actually take a second to analyze the situation before jumping in.
/r/seduction20/04/20 02:40 PM
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I think you lower the average iq of this sub
/r/seduction20/04/20 02:21 PM
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Imagine being this invested in failure that you look for any reason why you can't suceed
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:20 PM
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Fuck off with your bullshit excuses and externalizations. Your looking for reasons to fail and sound like a fig
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:19 PM
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I'm 35 and my main is 20 Quit listening to disempowering bullshit. You already sound like a fig for bringing it up and posting that here.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:18 PM
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If a stranger who was significantly bigger and stronger than you came up to you and said 'what's up' without indicating what they wanted, how would you respond? What about if you saw them with they're dog, then they left, then came back, then they hovered around you for 30 minutes, then they said 'hey what's up' without indicating what they want? How would you feel? I get that approaching strangers can be nerve wracking. But i hope you can also understand why they didn't respond in an especially…
/r/seduction20/04/20 02:10 PM
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Generally a bad idea. Don't text girls because you're bored. That's what boring betas do. Wait until 3-4 days before lock down ends, and ping with something funny and interesting. The aim being to keep yourself fresh in her mind and set up a meeting when lockdown ends. If you're texting girls, there should be a purpose beyond entertaining yourself. It's possible to get girls to meet you during a soft lockdown, but not if your game is bad.
/r/seduction20/04/20 02:07 PM
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It's just push-pull. Being hot and cold. Displaying interest and disinterest. Yes, it works. Most of you guys are up late at night thinking about your crush - and this is the reason why. Most girls are naturally great at this. It's a fundamental element of game.
/r/seduction20/04/20 02:03 PM
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Make a conscious decision to not let your childhood define you. Reframe negative experiences into positive ones. If anything was truly traumatic, conciously choose to make more positive memories more impactful and relevant in your mind. I just made a post about inner game in this sub. Check it out
/r/seduction20/04/20 12:01 PM
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Watching a bunch of pick up content is mental masturbation.
/r/seduction20/04/20 11:57 AM
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Ted Nuggent and Kanye 2024
/r/seduction20/04/20 11:55 AM
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This sub gets weirder by the day
/r/seduction20/04/20 11:53 AM
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'The Game' is nearly useless, except maybe as inspiration. Mystery Method is a must-read and will break down the fundamental elements of seduction.
/r/seduction20/04/20 07:35 AM
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Baseline - Raising your SMV (looks, status, fashion, fitness, figuring out your logistics) Fundamentals - Body Language, eye contact, vocal tonality Basics - Push/pull, teasing, leading, calibration, social proof, frame
/r/seduction20/04/20 03:38 AM
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Over 360 people upvoted this. Practical advice that will help get you laid gets nothing. This sub is filled with losers.
/r/seduction19/04/20 09:59 PM
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Bro. This was all your fault. There were more red flags than a chinese military parade, but you stuck in there. Ask yourself why.
/r/seduction19/04/20 09:58 PM
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Good to hear Women are amazingly self aware and always accurately report on their behavior /s Edit for clarity sake: I'm not saying to girls, "I'm your best option." But that is my mindset and attitude.
/r/seduction19/04/20 07:46 PM
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Do not text her today, nor tomorrow, nor the day after. If you haven't heard from her in 4 days, the RP gods grant you permission to send a non needy ping, meme, or picture, so long as it doesn't include a question.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:35 PM
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Once you develop a skill or muscles, then lose them due to inactivity, they come back easier the next time
/r/seduction19/04/20 06:25 PM
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Why are you snapchatting your ex regularly?? Occasionally answer her messages as a basic courtesy (even then, only if she deserves courtesy), not because you yourself are invested. If anything, youre ex is stringing you along bc youre acting like a simp.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 06:09 PM
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Girls know
/r/askTRP19/04/20 06:04 PM
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Ya, don't ask girls for sex. That's weird
/r/askTRP19/04/20 06:04 PM
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Pre-selection is an attraction trigger. Being a virgin implies you lack pre-selection. You do the math.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 06:03 PM
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Good stuff. Some many guys have a binary, either-or attitude. It's possible to look good, dress well, be fit, be fun, and be mysterious all at the same time. In fact, when you check all those boxes, not just game but life in general becomes much easier.
/r/seduction19/04/20 05:42 PM
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You say that, but i'm not the one asking low iq questions
/r/seduction19/04/20 05:38 PM
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Hide and seek in a grocery store?? I really hope you're not older than 15... Playfulness is good. Being immature/infantile is another. I can't bothered to click some weird link, but vibe and energy is a huge part of seduction. Not sure if that's what you mean or not.
/r/seduction19/04/20 05:37 PM
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This mindset is unattractive
/r/seduction19/04/20 05:32 PM
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High value men have no need to neg a woman. If you firmly believe you're better than her, then theres no reason to try to make her feel lowered
/r/seduction19/04/20 05:31 PM
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She doesn't like you. Get over it but fucking 3 other girls.
/r/seduction19/04/20 05:28 PM
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Pity
/r/seduction19/04/20 05:17 PM
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Translation: Despite thinking I want a sensitive emotional man, i keep dating guys who are stoic and withold their feelings.
/r/seduction19/04/20 04:34 PM
1

Why is she an ass? She was nice enough to be honest and upfront. She's probably the best, most honest friend this guy has ever had.
/r/seduction19/04/20 04:28 PM
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Acting and sounding like a bitch makes you less attractive as a man. How is this not obvious. [As a side not, this is one reason why liberal sjw nonsense is utterly trash. It essentially tells young men to act in ways that make them less atrractive, which means they get laid far less, which leads to massive frustration.] This girl did you a solid by telling you the truth. It should be a major wake up call. You can act like a bitch, or you can get laid a lot. You can't do both.
/r/seduction19/04/20 04:26 PM
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I thought about answering, but if you can't think of something in between boring small talk and asking a girl her favorite position, then I'd be doing the world a disservice.
/r/seduction19/04/20 04:24 PM
2

Yes. Dm me
/r/seduction19/04/20 12:03 PM
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You miss being a simp, but you're far from being a pimp
/r/seduction19/04/20 11:17 AM
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The voting system here is broken. 10% of guys get laid a lot. The other 90% are beta af and take cues from cheesy memes, mainstream media, women they orbit, and other betas. That's why all the shit advice gets upvoted a ton, and guys with decent game rarely post here.
/r/seduction19/04/20 11:14 AM
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The negative long term health effects of regular drug and alcohol use is another great reason to game sober. You won't notice when you're 21, but by the time you hit your mid 30s (when you are expected to have your shit together and when having a great physique will really make you stand out) the difference between sober and non sober guys becomes much more stark.
/r/seduction17/04/20 12:50 PM
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This isn't a field report, and there's nothing to be learned from this. And given the way you describe it, i'm doubtful it happened
/r/seduction17/04/20 09:39 AM
2

Are you this try-hard in every aspect of your life?
/r/seduction17/04/20 09:37 AM
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I agree with this. This type of stuff is what gives guys who do game a terrible image. This isn't game. It's harrassment. Because it worked one time on one girl doesn't make it good advice.
/r/seduction17/04/20 06:00 AM
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It works for newbies on girls who are young and inexperienced. Didn't read You are assuming all male zebras and lions breed...
/r/seduction17/04/20 05:55 AM
2

8 weeks 2 chad podcast
/r/seduction17/04/20 05:53 AM
1

Nah dude. Like the other guy said, you sound autistic
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:52 AM
1

Get her to tell you something posirive about herself. Validate her for it. Stop saying things to try to impress her. It's not hard
/r/seduction16/04/20 07:24 PM
1

Actually you're fat as fuck
/r/seduction16/04/20 07:13 PM
1

Would that be an effective strategy in any other area of life?
/r/askTRP16/04/20 04:20 PM
1

I don't think you know what red pill is A major premise of red pill is that mass media lies about gender dynamics and dating. Hence, there aren't really red pilled movies, especially in 2020. Any red pilled movies would be protested by sjws and feminists.
/r/seduction16/04/20 01:18 PM
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Agreed. I don't think they're mutual exclusivity though. On one hand, it's pretty delusional to think an ugly, fat, poorly dressed guy with bad hygiene just needs to learn game and he'll be pulling hot chicks with ease. On the other hand, it's self defeating to look for reasons why one isn't good enough. Even if you look like shit, in the moment nothing can be done about it - so you might as well shoot your shot with confidence. Thanks for clarifying!
/r/seduction11/04/20 03:45 PM
2

Lol how does this have 300+ upvotes 🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:25 PM
2

This
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:18 PM
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I've never met a guy who was actually good at game and recommended this book. Never tell a woman that you conciously learn how to pick up women. Does anyone want to guess why?
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:15 PM
3

Take what women say with a grain of salt. Look at their actions instead [Edit: take what *people say...]
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:14 PM
1

American Horror Story is where it's at fam.
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:10 PM
1

Incel sexual communism. "Everyone must get laid equally as little as me."
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:06 PM
1

Agree about the public sex. Exhibitionism is fun
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:03 PM
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Be sexual but not easy. Creepiness stems from one of two things - if the girl is totally unaware of your intentions and running through the worst possible scenarios, or if you are telegraphing too much interest (which also looks low value). Act like you are going to kiss her, then don't. When you do kiss her, pull away before her. Instead of abruptly touching her crouch, lightly touch near it, then pull back, then lightly touch it, then pull back, then lightly touch it again. Etc. Your entire se…
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:03 PM
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No its weird and beta
/r/seduction11/04/20 12:58 PM
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No. Don't do this. Nothing is more beta that asking permission. Talking about sex before having sex ruins the fun and excitement for you both. Men lead. If she's uncomfortable, then stop. But don't be the weird guy who asks for consent before every little thing. You she be able to read her emotions to tell if she's comfortable or not.
/r/seduction11/04/20 12:58 PM
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Start making out with her in the front seat. Make sure she's into it and starting to get horny. Then say something like 'let's move back there' and hop back yourself instead of waiting for her to give you permission (and without actually getting out of the car). Just assume she'll follow you. Don't over complicate it. You got this.
/r/seduction11/04/20 12:55 PM
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This
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:08 AM
2

No. You should never get back with an ex under any circumstance
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:08 AM
1

Anger probably isn't useful
/r/seduction11/04/20 04:07 AM
22

Watching another guy fuck a woman you're attracted to while you touch your pee pee is super alpha. My bad
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:27 PM
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If you say so. Personally, i like to learn from people who actually get results i want. Thus, I don't listen to game advice from guys who fuck ugly or fat women. Pretty simple actually
/r/seduction10/04/20 04:25 PM
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Whatever makes you feel better lol
/r/seduction10/04/20 04:22 PM
1

Sure bro. I'll tell my 90 lb gf that
/r/seduction10/04/20 03:34 PM
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All those things have helped me a lot more than being woke, over intellectual, selfless, and polite. And the korean penis thing is true. Smallest dicks in the world. Look it up if u doubt me. [Clarification: I'm actually not a hardcore racist. Hate crimes are something which I think are a destructive to any free society. And believing you can't learn from other cultures is itself self-limiting. However, I also think in-group bias are fairly natural, so when they're benign I don't get triggered o…
/r/seduction10/04/20 03:22 PM
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Watching porn is training yourself to be a cuck. If you're going to jerk off, use your imagination
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:07 PM
4

Good stuff. Thanks for the tips. I definitely need to take better care of my skin
/r/seduction10/04/20 03:01 PM
-4

You can be right or effective
/r/seduction10/04/20 02:55 PM
0

Actually about to risk getting a fine so i can exercise outside. Can't get skinny fat due to corona
/r/seduction10/04/20 02:54 PM
2

Sexual Market Value In men, it's a combination of looks, fitness, style, hygiene, lifestyle, confidence (self image), race, height, and frame. Some things that determine SMV are hard or impossible to change (i.e., race, height, baldness). There are things you can do to ameliorate deficiencies like these. For example, don't be the negative stereotype of your race (unless youre Black, don't ask me why). If you're balding, for example, it's often better to shave your head (or cut it down to clipper…
/r/seduction10/04/20 02:52 PM
1

Working on game right now borders on autism. You're not actually practicing game because none of these girls believe there's a possibility of meeting you. You're effectively entertaining them, not gaming them. If anything, they're gaming you by stealing your attention and offering fuck-all-nothing in return. Focus on raising your SMV instead. If you are dead set on doing game, then occasionally ping girls you already know to keep them interested. Otherwise, if there's no possibility of meeting t…
/r/seduction10/04/20 01:56 PM
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I'm not going to waste my time reading your full story, but here's what you should do. Dump her. Find a different girl. Don't tell other girls you're a virgin. If your now ex-gf offers sex to try to keep you (which will probably happen), either tell her to fuck off or pump and dump. For everyone else: this is a graphic display of the principles of abundance and preselection. (Edit: read your post. Tell your 'friend' to fuck off too. He DLVd you hard. He's either retarded, a terrible friend, or b…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:38 PM
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Chicks dig conceitedness. I always drop little one liners that border on self-delusion: "Your friends must be so jealous that you're dating me." "Did you tell your friends how i tied you up... they must be so jealous." "Maybe you need a boyfriend with a smaller dick. I'll find you a nice korean boy." "Of course I cheat on you. But I'm choosing to spend time with you now, so it's more special for you." I know it sounds ridiculously douchey, but it works really well.
/r/seduction10/04/20 01:34 PM
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This is pretty cool and i could see how this will be useful to a lot of guys. Believe it or not, having solid male friendships (with solid dudes, not pussies) is crucial for self-development and will make most guys better with women.
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:23 PM
5

Guys who are over 25 typically can't make friends at university. I assume that's the unfulfilled need that this sub attempts to cater toward.
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:21 PM
3

Still waiting for anyone to offer a counter point based on accumulated experience. Instead, virgins are downvoting
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:18 PM
1

What you don't realize is that there are girls who adore your big nose
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:17 PM
2

The voice of reason with solid advice..... downvoted by the virgins and guys who are happy to be given crumbs of attentions from any girl.
/r/seduction10/04/20 11:45 AM
2

Doing things that raise their SMV.
/r/seduction10/04/20 11:42 AM
4

You're talking to her too much and becoming way too familiar. It's exciting for her now becuase she can't meet you, and the thought of meeting you is both abstract and seems forbidden. Once there's no barrier to meeting, she won't be as enthused and meeting you could very well feel like an obligation for her. Best case scenario in all this: you end up her beta boyfriend in a monogamous relationship. Worst case: you end up friendzoned/beta orbiter zoned. If she really liked you, she'd come over a…
/r/seduction10/04/20 08:45 AM
4

No. And the fact that you'd even ask demonstrates that you're still very BPd. Why in the world would you ask a girl 'what are we?' Talk about losing frame.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 02:18 AM
15

It sounds like you're her new best friend
/r/seduction10/04/20 02:16 AM
1

That does make it even harder. Hang in there bro. I'm hopping offline. But feel free to dm me any time.
/r/seduction09/04/20 10:45 PM
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Damn brutal. It's kinda dumb for me to say something like 'don't be angry or upset.' Shit like that is pretty upsetting when it happens. I'd just suggest that, after the emotions have settled a bit, try to learn about female psychology and adapt without becoming angry or bitter at women in general. There's always time to improve and grow. And thankfully you're not completely inexperienced. I had a similar but different story. After the breakup, I was dejected and convinced I'd never be able to h…
/r/seduction09/04/20 10:19 PM
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Whatever you gotta tell yourself to feel better ;)
/r/seduction09/04/20 09:50 PM
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Hey guys. Let's all take advice from the friendless loser who hates this world. /s What to do?? You could start by shutting the fuck up, not polluting this sub with your negative bullshit, and actually listen to advice from succesful people instead of automatically looking for reasons why it won't qork for you.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/20 09:25 PM
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Are you here because you want to improve in dating, want to leverage your experience to help others improve in dating, or to debate about feminism and incels?
/r/seduction09/04/20 09:17 PM
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Fuck dude. Sorry to hear. Break ups are tough. But with a bit of concious effort, you'll bounce back and become the sort of guy she wishes she could get.
/r/seduction09/04/20 09:02 PM
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Because you write in an unnecessarily complex way. Try grammarly or hemingway app. If you think of yourself as radical (or whatever), the point is to make yourself understood to the 'masses' (or whatever), not demonstrate your mental superiority over them..
/r/seduction09/04/20 04:27 PM
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Hit a nerve? Are you jealous because all the girls you like keep getting swooped by older dudes? Or are you a woman who's frustrated that men your age (except losers) won't offer you more than a ONS? Data shows that around 20 is the most attractive age for females. https://metro.co.uk/2019/02/22/men-regardless-age-will-always-attracted-women-early-20s-8718590/ Leonardo Dicaprio, Donald Trump, Jason Statham, Adam Levine, Scott Adams, Johnny Depp, Jay Z, are all in LTRs with women 10+ years younge…
/r/seduction09/04/20 04:13 PM
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With little exception, anyone who's done a lot of game will tell you that direct is often sub-optimal.
/r/seduction09/04/20 06:50 AM
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How is that actionable?
/r/seduction09/04/20 06:49 AM
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The problem with this sub is that any random person gets to voice their opinion regardless of their experience or skill level. I personally know what's worked for me - what took me from being a loser crying over an ltr breakup to being the guy who only dates petite, non smokers who are 10-15 years yonger than me and who feel lucky to spend time with me. It wasn't nearly 10 years of 'just being myself.' In fact, during that time, I've changed quite a bit. In fact, anyone will change who they are …
/r/seduction09/04/20 05:45 AM
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Tbh, it seems like good advice gets downvoted on this sub. And bullshit advice tends to get upvoted. Not suprising. The majority here are just parroting mainstream opinions - the same mainstream opinions which have led guys toward frustration, lonely, and disillusionment. But by parroting those majority opinions, users rewarded with validation in the form of upvotes. Personally, I'd rather date girls who are hot and pleasant:)
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:59 PM
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Depends on the type of girl your pursuing, and if she sees pierced ears as signifying value (which itself is pretty subjective). When in doubt, dress like a guy who fucks a lot.
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:42 PM
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Harassment is usually defined as either persistent behaivors or behaivor done with the intention of pressuring or threatening someone. Is what you did either persistent or done with the intent of pressuring or threatening them?
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:37 PM
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For a guy trying to promote themselves, you might consider using grammarly or the Hemingway app. ~~ Inner game: [n] Mindsets, attitudes, and beliefs which manifest in perceivable behaviors, related to seduction and pick up. First coined to describe and study the mentality and attitudes adopted by pro athletes. I'd divide inner game into three categories - -Self image [beliefs about oneself] -Mindsets [loosely defined as beliefs about the way the world works] -Vibe [appearent baseline emotions]
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:33 PM
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Without watching the video, i can say i agree. But you have to go through the pick-up phase first. That's the problem with guys who read Mark Manson. Guys read Models and think they can jump ahead to the perfect self actualized guy illustrated by Manson without first going through the awkward and ego-crushing stage of actually learning to communicate effectively. Instead you end up with a bunch of chodes who swear you just need to 'be authentic' yet have 0 results. So ya, ditch the PUA bullshit.…
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:15 PM
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Spend more time out of the house. Give her a reason to work for your attention. Familiarity breeds contempt. [Take this advice in a measured way. Don't be a total dick, entirely neglectful, or create more work for her to the extent she that she gets fruatrated or simply exhausted. Just don't seem so easily available.]
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:58 PM
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He's either a cuck or a genius
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:56 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:51 PM
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What does any of that have to do with getting laid?
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:47 PM
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Christ. You can practically tell the real advice on this sub based on how many downvotes it gets
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:46 PM
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Nice word salad
/r/seduction08/04/20 06:44 PM
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As an ignorant stranger, I tend to take what people say at face value. So... sure,... that scenario is entirely plausible. In general, people tend to be their worst selves when they feel safe in an ltr. On the other hand, women are often drawn toward abusive men. They commit, get pregnantn or get married with the hopes that the guy will change for the better.. and when their careless alpha doesn't change, women then jump ship and attach themselves to a boring, stable, nice guy. No offense, but t…
/r/seduction08/04/20 03:55 PM
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Masculinity, depending on how you look at it, simply boils down to 4 primary qualities. Strength Courage Mastery Honor These are all functional, positive traits which when practically applied are beneficial to the group. Guys who are seriously deficient in one or more of these traits typically draw suspicion or even scorn from other men. Developing these attributes will make you seem more manly and hence more attractive to most women. Masculine men generally attract and date hotter (i.e., more f…
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:21 PM
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Helicopter parenting has fucked you up
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:11 PM
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'The way of men' 'Way of the superior man' 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' 'Sex god method'
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:08 PM
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I mean.... She either A) picked a guy who was unstable and left her (or became so abusive that she left for her own safety) Or B) Was so unbearable herself that he left. God forbid that people have personal responsibility and account for their choices.
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:07 PM
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🙅‍♂️🤦‍♂️ There are a lot of good accounts to follow on twitter. You'll probably get a better feel for how game should be over there. Search daygame or something...
/r/seduction27/11/19 02:40 AM
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Demonstrate, never explicate.
/r/seduction21/09/19 02:57 AM
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Most men in positions of power have multiple partners - now and throughout history. Monogamy itself is an institution meant to stabilize society by pacifying betas with the promise of one welcoming pussy.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:47 AM
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I think the answer is pretty clear: A) At such a young age, being in a ltr while having such little experience is a terrible idea. This is despite the fact that she's given you all the red flags you need in order to know that she's not ltr material. B) Do you really think her notch count is 2? I'm skeptical given the story you've presented. Generally, you can take the number women say and multiple it by 2 (at least) . That's often a more accurate picture of their true notch count. C) Who cares w…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:36 AM
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