Is it hard for older men, to admit that younger girls are not attracted to them?

Like seriously. I’m 21 and the oldest man I can date is 26. When girls my age say they have a thing for older men they actually mean men In their late twenties MAX. At least the desirable women in their early 20’s.

Most of the girls my age that I see dating men in their mid to late thirties are usually the less attractive ones , have self-esteem issues and think that they can’t do better which means getting a hot guy their age or they’re simply gold diggers that are using their older boyfriends as an ATM machine and are in most of the time cheating on them or are simply not sexually attracted to them, and consider it a burden to fuck them, which is probably not a relationship goal.

Ofc a younger attractive woman can fall in love with an older man, but I saw that as rarely as I saw a young attractive man falling in love with an older woman. It’s not the norme! Yet men outta here act as if 20 yo women are attracted to 30+ men more than guys their age, while in my case and many other girls around me it’s certainly not the case.

I literally got a 37 yo man hitting on me, telling me that I should be attracted to him because of his EXPERIENCE, that guys my age are lame and don’t know what they’re doing and that it’s more natural if I date him, like he literally thought that I was going to leave my younger boyfriend for HIM! I was shocked cause many girls my age got audacious older men hitting on them like that.

on the other hand MILFS and cougars are less arrogant, cause even tho they constantly have younger men going after them, most of them know that these young guys hit on them for easy sex, or because of a fetish, they don’t go around saying that older women are hotter and sexier and they literally admit it when they’re their younger partner’s sugar mommies , yet you see sugar daddies sometimes introducing their young sugar babies as their «girlfriends».

No matter how much I tell older men that they don’t attract me, they go on and keep reciting me, multiple reasons why I should find them irresistible. Is it truly a hard pill for men to admit that younger girls prefer younger guys??