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| 1 | Leave the Cage Door Open, Part IIwhat if you walked off on her cus she was acting a fool? and i explicitly said this behaviour doesnt work for me and im outta here. Never spoke to her since. Seems like you answered your own question. That said, sometimes there can be a rapprochement, but usually incompatible means incompatible. Even with all the work that Spice (of "Sugar & Spice") has done, she and I would never make it longer term because we're...wait for it...incompatible. Know when to walk the fuck away for good. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/26 03:47 AM |
| 3 | Leave the Cage Door Open, Part IIAlways remember you are only getting her half of the story, and that half may (or may not) have a very tenuous relationship to the truth. It's real eye opener when you are the guy she cheats "with". Shows you a lot about female nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/26 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Leave the Cage Door Open, Part III genuinely enjoy the company of (select) women. The female lead in this one is very cooperative, so I don't mind, as I said, picking up her option for the rest of the summer. Fuck that, I’m just going all in on career, wealth building and lifting/kickboxing. Sure. That's a valid choice. No shade. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/26 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Leave the Cage Door Open, Part IIShe's in a deadbed room situation with her same age husband and says he doesn't make her feel desired I wonder what his side of the story is. which by looking at her, I'd fix in a heartbeat. So you can "fix her" bro'? we're all in a close friend circle which could blowback on me, so the potential backlash doesn't seem worth it. Stay as far the fuck away from her as you can. Don't be alone with her. Long story short, all I keep coming back to as far is what I can do is to just "be cool" and we'll… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/26 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Leave the Cage Door Open, Part IIYou should always be filling the top of the funnel, either way. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/26 02:37 PM |
| 5 | Leave the Cage Door Open, Part IIShe's in a deadbed room situation with her same age husband and says he doesn't make her feel desired I wonder what his side of the story is. which by looking at her, I'd fix in a heartbeat. So you can "fix her" bro'? we're all in a close friend circle which could blowback on me, so the potential backlash doesn't seem worth it. Stay as far the fuck away from her as you can. Don't be alone with her. Long story short, all I keep coming back to as far is what I can do is to just "be cool" and we'll… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/26 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Think or want?Most men are very literal. I’d want to know what you actually thought because that’s what I asked. Otherwise he might say something like “great well then Charlotte can stay for dinner and as long as she wants afterwards” because he’s thinking about how your daughter and Charlotte get along great and they’re having fun, and you’re thinking “if Charlotte stays much longer that disrupts my entire evening.” That can lead to husband, giving an entirely innocent and well intended answer, winding up wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/26 08:54 AM |
| 4 | Think or want?Yeah, so it kind of seems like there’s other, deeper things going on here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/26 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Raising SonsA - Model what a good relationship looks like. B - Give them space bc boys need that. Let him make his own mistakes. C - Provide emotional support without being a helicopter parent. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/26 04:32 AM |
| 2 | How important is a man's looks?So I'm 34 and a man being a provider is very important. Makes sense. I make a good living so he needs to be the same or better off. Women date across and up competence hierarchies, so nothing odd here. Its been recently pointed out to me that I date significantly below my looks "league" to the point where they think it looks weird. On behalf of those of use who are "looks-challenged", thank you for your service. As to "looks weird" just say you value character above all things, including looks. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/26 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Raising SonsWell that's good. The most important thing you can do is not interfere with the male influences in your sons' lives. Dads parent differently in that its mom's role to comfort and it's dad's role to toughen the kid up, teach him resilience, to both set and test boundaries, how to stand up for himself, how to compete, how to deal with other men, etc. The temptation for mom is to swoop in and comfort, but that creates a son who doesn't take risks and who tends towards resentment. This assumes a nor… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/26 07:42 AM |
| 4 | Raising SonsSo are you a single mom? Assuming yes, is there a grandfather or brother or uncle? Because it really takes a man to raise a boy. You may find the below helpful. Things My Father Taught Me: Advice for guys raised by single moms -Fatherly Wisdom, Distilled. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/26 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Framemaxxing is AsinineIt works for me. Try it again today. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/26 01:20 PM |
| 7 | Framemaxxing is AsinineGuys interested in this topic will find the below useful. The Importance of Frame -Your reality has to be stronger than her reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/26 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Husband came back from working away and now he’s acting completely different. Am I overthinking this?So as others have said it could be that he was getting some strange while he was away, but he’s also acting the way guys act when they think the girl has been cheating - cheaters love routines so one thing you do is an anti-cheating thing to disrupt the cheating is to vary your schedule. Leave and arrive home at different times. I’m not casting any aspersions towards you, I’m just reading the tea leaves. Think of it as a “minority report.” His talking about him just packing. His things is kind o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/26 11:08 PM |
| 9 | Need advice on getting him to commit and proposeWithout knowing the history, if I am that guy, this is a test for me. Is she going to be chill for the next few months? Or is it going to be Nag-a-Palooza when she doesn't get her way? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/26 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Older Men, Younger Women V: Why She's Into You.Well I've been here 11 years now...so no chance of that happening. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/26 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Vetting for porn useYou really need me to explain to you why porn is/can be harmful? I don't have an addictive personality, so I don't have a porn problem, but a lot of guys do which results in 20-somthings going to doctors for ED meds, being unable to perform with actual women, having unrealistic expectations, etc. For female users of porn, not every guy is walking around with a horse cock, and men do not typically want "rough/violent" sex, which is what female users of porn are, statistically into. As I wrote, I … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/26 08:38 PM |
| 4 | How to handle "dread game"First, you can have “long-distance” or you can have a “relationship. At present, as you have not been in person, you don’t even have a relationship really. Second, I miss something or could he have just randomly mentioned his ex? “Dread Game” is typically something you deploy in response to some negative behavior. Ex. One of my law school girlfriends was a total attention whore. I have a pretty high tolerance, but she would flirt with other guys at parties - not in front of me, of course, but yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/26 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Vetting for porn useI say porn is not like smoking. I don't see any harm. Porn is like smoking in that there isn't any harm, until there is. A buddy of mine was a smoker, then he was an ex-smoker. Then he started dating a smoker and he became a smoker again. He and I talked about it, bc while my advice would be to not smoke, I also wouldn't lecture him etc., just 2 adults having a convo. He would say he only has a cig when he's with her, etc. Then he started buying a pack on the way home, etc., and then he was a sm… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/26 08:50 PM |
| 4 | As I’ve started getting older - I don’t think I even want to be in a relationship.Any other guys 30+ feel this way? Welcome to the party, pal. I enjoy my peace. I want to keep it that way Exactly. Girls rotate in and other girls leave. Someone gets "difficult"? Bye, bye. The state stays far, far away, and what's mine stays mine. Move a girl in or even worse put a ring on her finger, and you have cockblocked yourself. No more variety. One woman - ONE - decides if you're going to fuck or not. That smth you do when you are negotiating from a position of weakness. If you can pull… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/26 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Vetting for porn useI am aware; my point was that, especially these days, young women may not be fully cognizant of the risks involved. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/26 08:22 AM |
| 1 | OG Content [Repost] | JP_Whoregan: On Female Consequences and Ditching Your Revenge Fantasies [TRP Vanguard]The typical insult hurled at Red Pillers is that we are all "incels" Making ad hominem attacks is easier than thinking - when the Left shrieks racist/nazi/fascist at the Right - the Right can be this way also, but the Left has raised "being the victim" to an art form - they do it in part to shut down debate/discussion but also because if the other side are "bad and evil people" then you don't actually have to listen to their POV and consider it, which most people don't want to have to do because… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/26 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Vetting for porn useSeems you're blaming what most people want to blame: the porn, and the men. My POV is male and I look at people as being responsible for their own choices. Women are turning away from men. I think that's a "both ways" thing, although might affect women more in the sense that there are more men in the "Not People" zone for women than vice versa (Hat Tip: Hoe Math.) The other things are factors - having navigated >30 years in corporate as, well, me, I can tell you that not being an asshat who gets… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/26 07:42 AM |
| 13 | OG Content [Repost] | JP_Whoregan: On Female Consequences and Ditching Your Revenge Fantasies [TRP Vanguard]Some will stick the dismount, some won't. It doesn't matter. There is, in the RP space, smth I call 'playing offense' and 'playing defense'. Playing Offense: Lifting, getting fit, eating clean, developing as a man. Playing Defense: "All girls are sucky and mean!" It's clearly better to play offense. Ofc, this isn't limited to RP. For women: Playing Offense: "Go out to the bars? I can't; I have Pilates and then my cooking class." Playing Defense: "WAAAH!! WHERE ARE ALL TEH GOOD MENZ!!!" | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/26 08:33 AM |
| 5 | OG Content [Repost] | JP_Whoregan: On Female Consequences and Ditching Your Revenge Fantasies [TRP Vanguard]Why would you EVER loan money to a woman? Blows my mind. Go punch yourself in the dick 1x for every $100. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/26 08:31 AM |
| 3 | AskTRP Megathreadr-unclevasya has a lot of wisdom from one guy, or so I am told. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/26 08:27 AM |
| 2 | RestraintSomething for everyone to consider on both sides is “Does the other person have a point and I just don’t like their tone?” that happens more often than you would think. If either you or your husband find yourself attacking the other person’s character rather than their ideas, that’s a clue that their ideas might actually be right, which is why you don’t wanna talk about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/26 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Would love to hear opinions on this relationshipThis is just… Odd. This is the kind of story that you would expect a man to tell about a woman breaking it off. Like all of a sudden, he gets blindsided by a bunch of crap he never knew was coming that the other person had been stewing on for months. He sounds a bit like a “wound collector”. I’ve only ever known the female version, but I suppose male versions can exist. That’s the person who can’t let go of something that happened like 10 years past. A buddy of mine got told he was getting divor… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/26 09:03 AM |
| 7 | The power of "Maybe"I would call it smth other than maybe. As in "Women like" and then use "uncertainty" or "a challenge" or "unpredictability." They want to wonder about you. It's like catnip to them. "Nice guys" fail bc there's no challenge. She knows he's a sure thing and that's boring. When it comes to "uncertainty" you want to be her Heisenberg. It's like catnip to them. Like "Why doesn't this man want me? Why is is not drooling over me like Stan and Mike do? Why is he immune?" | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/26 10:36 AM |
| 27 | RegretSo I’m a Rule 9 violation, and the ladies here will be able to help you more specifically, but I promise you a man will be able to love you. Don’t torture yourself. You had sex. That’s it. Don’t act like you murdered somebody because you didn’t. Everything will be OK. You move forward by pulling your Big Girl Panties (back) on and moving forward. It’s not that difficult. I would be surprised if 5% of women are virgins on their wedding nights and if you took Utah out of the equation, I bet it’s b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/26 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on a manWhen you say he sounds mean it definitely helps me think about why I’m attracted to that. Many women are, although they prefer that it be directed outward. It's "Male Dominance Behavior", that's what you reacting to if you. You sound like a nice guy I'm sure I'm regarded as being a bit wicked here, I suppose, as a TRP OG, but I do try to provide advice that is actionable for RPW. and your examples definitely help too. I'm glad. One time I brought my female friend to a party at his place, and whi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/26 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Older Men, Younger Women V: Why She's Into You.Did this guy tell you to comment? I have it on strong authority that he did not. Does he share his Reddit account info with you? She found me on Reddit, ab initio. I have a bit of a Reddit funnel. I'm like Larry David in that unusual things happen to me, but he's way better at monetizing them than I am. {see: Seinfeld} You coming here to confirm his stories seems more suspicious than not. She's one of my fans, it's not like I can stop her. This is all larping and people without any real world ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/26 08:10 AM |
| 14 | Need advice on a manTL;DR: Bro is a "No." He’s very masculine and organized which I like. Good. He’s family oriented and wants marriage. Good. I’m insanely attracted to him. Good, although this may lead you to be more plus than you should be on him. He has a nice job and is good at his job. Good. He’s intelligent and can be sweet at times. Good. But some stuff came up. Rut-roh. He likes to argue with people. Not necessarily a deal killer but... My family member told me that his friend, “always has to be right”. Red… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/26 03:38 AM |
| 2 | I’m scared my bullies will start harassing the guy I’m datingThere’s probably some sort of campus policy against harassment, and depending on your location there may be an anti-stalking law as well, so it might be campus police and regular police if you choose to go that route. I would at least have that conversation with the guy. I mean, if you showed up and had proof and explained to me, I’d probably be pretty open to it so maybe he is as well. Plus as a man usually things are different. Like if I started getting emails or phone calls, I would just star… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/26 12:45 AM |
| 5 | I’m scared my bullies will start harassing the guy I’m datingThe only thing I would add here is that if you have some of the emails, I would show them to him. That they are from anonymous accounts and such. I would believe someone I’m dating over anonymous accounts that’s for sure. As you live off campus, you might want to keep the romance off campus too, to attract less attention from your “fans.” Also, I would think about ways to expose who this is because it’s impacting your life. People who do this are very rarely savvy with computer computers, and ca… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/26 08:27 PM |
| -3 | Vetting for porn useThe woman feels devastated. Understandably, but that's really on him. We real women can’t compete with the exciting visual stimulation and variety of porn. I disagree with that. Orgasms are better with another person, for both sexes, I think. I am not sure women understand the need that men have in this regard. think about the horniest you have ever been and then 10x it. The reason I date non-monogamously (which I realize is unpopular around here) is that the thought of not having access to sex … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/26 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Vetting for porn useAs a "Rule 9 Violation" ;) Well, there's "seen porn" which is pretty much everyone, and there's "uses porn" and then there's "addicted to porn." The difficulty now compared to when I was growing up encapsulated in two words: The internet. A quick google search reveals, well, it's bad out there: Boys are exposed to porn about age 10 to 11 and girls about age 12 to 13. By age 16 about 70% of boys watch porn four to five times per week. A common concern to parents and researchers is whether pornogr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/26 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Older Men, Younger Women V: Why She's Into You.You’re right, you didn’t. I misread based on “either” because your comment showed up from, my perspective, around the same time the other guys did. FWIW, I have a high degree of internal consistency. So a lot of what I tell you happens actually happens Word for Word, at least as I remember it. The woman you replied to was the female lead the “a calming presence” section. I’m sure she will happily verify that what I said happened pretty much exactly as I said it. Without checking the rulebook, I … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/26 07:16 AM |
| 4 | Older Men, Younger Women V: Why She's Into You.So I “write too much to have a woman in my life” but when a woman actually shows up and verifies that I have been inside her body, suddenly she’s not welcome? Can’t have it both ways. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/26 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Older Men, Younger Women V: Why She's Into You.Yeah, sorry for being… What’s that word? Oh, right “literate.” This post isn’t going anywhere, because the mods know who I am. You on the other hand will be taking a vacation. Ciao. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/26 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Would you share a man in a poly relationship.Yeah, I think you picked the wrong sub for that question. 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/26 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Vetting for porn useDon’t ask him if he watches porn, ask him what kind of porn he likes. I think these days is probably less if a guy watches porn and rather how much. It’s just so ubiquitous. I mean, I grew up before there was an Internet and I remember what a red letter day it was when a buddy of mine found like seven Playboys in hollow tree – apparently this was actually a thing back in the Way Long Ago. Probably makes it sound like I grew up in West Virginia or something. Anyway, at Uni, my primary university … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/26 09:37 PM |
| 15 | Respecting a manTell him that you are proud of him. Mean it. Thank him for everything he does for you. Tell him you noticed it even when he thinks you don’t. Initiate sex. Give me a random blowjob for no reason other than you wanna show your appreciation. Rub his upper arm and his chest while you’re talking to him. Most men are starved for touch. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/26 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Older Men, Younger Women V: Why She's Into You.Competence and sometimes I think concentration or commitment. I’d get that treatment when I’m really engrossed in something. autonomous. A chess game or project..shit even a tv show lol. ^ This part sounds like "I WANT DADDY'S ATTENTION!" although perhaps I am missing some context. Beyond that yes, good work. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/26 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Older Men, Younger Women V: Why She's Into You.One thing I noticed, and I just assumed that it was this way for most guys - evidently this is not the case - is that I tend to get random blowjobs "just because." That started at Uni (at least as I remember it.) My main uni gf and I pulled up on a median (it was dark where were were) to go into a convenience store. I cracked my door and reached over and touched my arm and said "wait." So I closed the door and she proceed to give me a lovingly administered blowjob. I remember wondering as the Tr… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/26 06:55 AM |
| 17 | Older Men, Younger Women V: Why She's Into You.LOL no. I would get lost in the noise. I age gap date 31 to 36 years younger (that's the current spread). I have to be a destination. 36 is my PR. So unless there's an app out there like"Girls4Daddies!.com" I have to prospect IRL. A few things: Make yourself exceptional. I have music out on streaming apps (sorry, can't say which or under what name (hint: Not Uncle Vaz)), and no big middle age gut. I took care of business, so I have a cool lifestyle - travel (lux and otherwise), music, girls in b… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/26 11:36 PM |
| 13 | Older Men, Younger Women V: Why She's Into You.I am a natural extrovert and I meet (and meat) girls easily, but I developed my game over time. You just have to keep doing it. I wrote a piece on approach anxiety. See below. Approach Anxiety: Faint Heart Never Fucked Fair Lady -Because Really, Faint Heart Never Fucked Fair Lady. Abundance Mentality - Why It's Good For You. -If You Really Want To Know, Go And Build It. Uncle Vasya’s Guide to Outcome Independence or Welcome to Level 99 DGAF -How to Rock Out With Your Cock Out. Teachable Moment: … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/26 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.If you look at the Dataclysm data, we all do. Some of us can and do. That's the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.Accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:20 PM |
| -2 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGWomen will lose their minds. I agree with this, but I also think they are unnecessary. When people objected to "the TEA for women" being essentially a slander site, the response was "OMG! IT'Z ABOUT WIMMINZ SAFETY!!!! HOW CAN YOU BE AGAINST WIMMINZ SAFETY?!?!" It may have started out with good intentions, and there may have been some small % it that still served that function, but really it was a Compendium of Bitter Shoggoths slandering men who would not be seen in public with them, let alone f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:17 PM |
| 10 | Women won't tolerate a male version of AWDTSGpassing around a woman’s intimate pictures befor FWIW, as a RP OG, I think that anyone who exposes someone else who has made themselves vulnerable to make the other person happy is an absolute shitbag, and deserves every negative consequence they get for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 04:07 PM |
| – | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.I will "run along" when I don't have to make the simplest 2 + 2 connections for you, Yeah, that's not the problem. Bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.When you start off with a snotty remark about being a stay at home dad that it’s at that point that I don’t have to take you seriously anymore. And the whole lemon party thing was just bizarre. You might be spending too much time in dark corners of the Internet. This may come as a shock, but I understand that age gap relationships can be “less stable” on the whole, than relationships without age gaps. That said, at an individual level, which is what I care about, I seem to be doing pretty well. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.as a conservative woman I think you are being a bit solipsistic here, but ok. most conservative women aren’t open to casual relationships and being cucked as part of a harem. Fun Fact - I would say over half are center right. Not MAGA, but sort what was normal for a Northeast Republican a few years go. You also are quick to talk about “love is love” but being cucked isn’t love— it’s a humiliation ritual. I don't - and I assume they don't - view it that way. Women would, in general, share a high … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.And yet, I have no shortage of volunteers. I am upfront about how I live my life. Some women nope out, which is ofc fine, some say "Challenge: Accepted" and some say "Other girls? Can we, maybe, 'do stuff'?" To each their own. getting paid Yeah, I was waiting for that. Nobody is getting paid. Nobody is on an allowance etc. I don't do anything with the younger ones that I would not do with a woman my own age. I'm Gen X, well off, and so I pay for the first date, the last date and every date in be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.Or I could just not get married and not expose my assets to someone who "changes her mind." No temptation for that, either. I am not interested in your weird internet references, thanks. The greater likelihood is that, like most men in my family, I will cruise along perfectly happy and then drop dead in my late 80s or early 90s. Not worried about it. Now run along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.LOL. I would not all myself a chad, but I am quite fit for my age - no middle-age gut hanging over my belt; that would make things vastly more difficult, in addition to associated health problems; interstitial fat really messes with you - and have some other positives. Anyway, I am not trying to pick a fight with you, but I will answer your questions. About what the girls get: -A calming presence. As I understand women spend a lot of time thinking about the risks and dangers inherent in life but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 03:35 AM |
| -1 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.And yet, I have no shortage of willing volunteers. /shrugs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.Eh, people make their own choices. The fact is for every older man dating a younger woman, there is a younger woman who is willing to date him, for whatever reason. If you don't want a divorce - which, in the US would generally be a bad thing for the older partner if there was no pre-nup - then don't get married. Simples. Once I am dead, I am dead and my assets will be divided at that time by my will, and any trust I have put together (which I would use to protect kids (if any) or other heirs fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 10:45 PM |
| 5 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.Dunno about the % but that is scarily accurate from what I've seen about the dudes who head to SE Asia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:24 PM |
| 16 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.Because two adult people are free to make their own decisions, for themselves. Left-wingers in society think that a 4 year old has the capacity to make life-altering decisions about transitioning but a legal adult cannot make his/her own decisions about who to date? (N.B.: IDC if anyone is trans or not - that's a "Not My Business" category - but I don't want to hear about how a 24 and under person "lacks the proper frontal lobe development" to make their own relationship decisions, but a kid doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:23 PM |
| – | Blue pill psychologist's critique of a red pill psychologists's take: why common red pill talking points are just unscientifically soundSo basically she doesn't like his content bc it offends her world view. Lots of snark from her also but not over the top, really. Just garden variety snotty. When he talks about (in response to a viewer question) what his perfect woman is he talks about a "Useful 8". Ofc she doesn't like reducing someone to a single digit value - does anyone? I actually wrote a top level post titled "The 10 Point Scale Doesn't Matter" - but it's a useful tool and the reality is we all decide how attractive other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:01 AM |
| – | Blue pill psychologist's critique of a red pill psychologists's take: why common red pill talking points are just unscientifically soundPretty much. My initial reaction was "Mid girl discovers RP content and does not like it, not one little bit." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:38 AM |
| – | Blue pill psychologist's critique of a red pill psychologists's take: why common red pill talking points are just unscientifically soundIt's meant to be applied wisdom, and she goes after it by saying "Oh, men don't reeeeeeeally want young attractive women based on what they go for." Unsurprisingly not every 50-stmh guy can consistently nail 20-something tail and might have to adjust his expectations in the SMP (or the SMP will adjust it for him.) But does that mean we don't want what we want? Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:12 AM |
| – | Blue pill psychologist's critique of a red pill psychologists's take: why common red pill talking points are just unscientifically soundThat's not his actual audience ofc. It's been fun watching him become increasingly red-pilled over time. It's like he tried being a good blue pill boy and got run over and wised up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:09 AM |
| 7 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?but she also has to be hot I think that for most guys that translates as "attractive to me" I would add "Is a warm person" and "can I have a conversation with her?" To a man, if a woman has 85% of what he is looking for, then she's a catch. To a woman and 85% man isn't good enough, generally speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 11:08 PM |
| 1 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesNot surprised, but that does go to my point. That does not mean that's exclusively the issue thought (although "DV BAD!" n'shit.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 11:00 PM |
| -5 | If the woman is successful and makes more money than the man, he can be a stay at home dad while the woman providesYeah, that doesn't work out, normally. When a wife starts out-earning hubby, you can expect an up to 50% increase in the likelihood of divorce. Oh, and there will be jealousy over who the kids ask to "fix" things for them, which is usually the parent that they spend the most time with. And resentment over having to work while dad stays home. It's not going to be a good dynamic - and yes, someone, somewhere I am sure makes it work perfectly bit in general no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:15 AM |
| 4 | Most women have someone.*Women are sharing someone with other women. FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 05:07 PM |
| 5 | How to meet womenthis is the one I had to edit in What, no shout out? /heh | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/26 05:07 PM |
| 4 | Found 🚩 info about a guy I’m talking to- How bad is it?One thing you have to consider about posting if they’re not done anonymously is that there may be someone on that group who’s related to him, etc. When I posted about the tea app in the men’s forum, one of the guys said he was on it and he found out because his sister was on. She looked him up, found information on him and told him all about it. So you never know like the guy might have a sister who has his back. Not being critical just giving full information. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/26 10:59 PM |
| 9 | Found 🚩 info about a guy I’m talking to- How bad is it?So I assume that this is basically all sourced from her? Because I just wanna say it’s not like anyone’s ex ever tried to trash them and screw them over and sites like that “the tea for women” are notorious for people simply making crap up. As an example, once 4Chan declared war on the Tea App and busted it wide open guys could look at what people had said about them without fear because it was “anonymous“. One dude reported that a woman said that they had dated, she didn’t say anything really t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/26 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do you still want to date?I can get the women I want, I genuinely enjoy their company, plus women have all the pussy, so if I want some, I can either pay a pro (never have, never will) or I can date, so dating it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 09:19 AM |
| 3 | Moving Beyond RedPill"You can love women, or you can understand them." -From, the Sayings of Chairman Vaz. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/26 09:06 AM |
| 1 | one sided open relationshipYeah, so if this isn't your thing it's not your thing. If you want monogamy, then nope-out. And I say this as a Rule 9 Violation who does this. Guys who can do this (rather than talk about it) are guys with optionality, and for that guy you have to arrive at exactly the moment when he's ready to hang up his spurs. It generally works better with bisexual girls. The will often work as a team, and not just in the bedroom. In one very tender (to me, anyway) moment, I overheard 2 of my girls talking,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/26 07:35 PM |
| 4 | When he doesn't pay for the first (coffee) date?As I said, I would not have split the check; he did for some reason. I am not sure splitting a de minimus tab for coffee on a first (or zero) date should be fatal, but as I noted, I would have picked it up as a cost of doing business, the same as every other date from first (or zero) to last, unless there was some one-off intervening factor - my uni gf bought us tickets to a show for my birthday and would not accept reimbursement bc it was a gift and she would sometimes insist on paying for any … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/26 02:29 PM |
| 10 | When he doesn't pay for the first (coffee) date?So would it be possible that you have a bit of a 'confirmation bias'? You are looking for reasons to knock him out of contention? Years ago, my now happily-married admin was complaining about meeting guys and she had a bit of a "looking for a reason to eliminate him from contention" One guy was 10 min late. Not optimal, but it's also NYC Metro traffic. If someone is within 15 minutes I don't mark them down. At some point, once she was full on into her "There are no good men!" phase, I asked if I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/26 06:12 AM |
| 4 | When he doesn't pay for the first (coffee) date?I thought about that, too. Or he may have just been a bit tired from driving. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/26 05:57 AM |
| 2 | How to get over self consciousness?So as a Rule 9 Violation, trust me, we don't care. It's more about feel than look for us If you want to groom, go ahead. The modern look is completely smooth and bare downstairs, but if your bf has never had sex he won't have any context. For me it's like the woman is 'more naked' but it's not like I would turn her down if it was a landing strip or smth. I'd be surprised but that's it. But again, your bf won't have context. If you are curious and (brave) you can ask his preference, particularly … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/26 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Men who are successful, high earners, or providers— I have a debatable questiondo you think that gives you the right to occasionally sleep with other women? Or use that as a condition to be with them if certain circumstances occur? You get what you negotiate. I don't date monogamously. I tell girls up front. They are three basic reactions: A. I'm a nope out. B. Challenge accepted. C. "Other girls, you say...can we like....do stuff together?" I think doing it after you agreed to be monogamous is unfair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 02:03 AM |
| 18 | Dad's Parenting StyleDads play a different role as parents. Dads teach kids about respect, how to relate to authority, to test boundaries, how to say "no', that actions have consequences, and, how to stick up for themselves. You want your kids to be able to resist peer pressure, even if they are the only ones doing it. How to say "NO!" and mean it, etc. One of my business partners - and he is a very talented guy - asked me after I got off a phone negotiation how I handled things so effortlessly. Now, I am a trained … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/26 05:58 PM |
| 5 | All I wanted was to be a wife but now idk what to doI just want to say that I am sorry that this happened to you. As you describe events, it is patently unfair. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/26 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?are you actively trying to date? Yes. Are you on dating apps? No. I would get lost on the apps. I need to be in 3 dimensions. Are you asking women out IRL? Ofc. Are you on a platform like Reddit or elsewhere wherein you regularly communicate with potential desired partners? I am on Reddit, obv, but not trying to use it in that way, although every site is a dating site, now and I have met/dated/fucked some female Redditors. That kind of stuff just happens to me. Pussy falls out of the sky and lan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?Um, no, I keep tryin got return to the topic; you keep trying to play word games. We know most men are attracted to most women as holes. That sound like and idea from the Angry GRRL Fever Swamps. I think a lot of guys genuinely enjoy the company of feminine, pleasant women. Being kind will raise your attractiveness no matter who you are. We know that men will only commit to young and hot women. Young, hot women will have more and better options. Men will commit to other women, and will stay with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?Certainly, but if she can "only" attract men who are "bitter and angry" she might want to look at how she's going about things. There is, in the RP space, smth I call 'playing offense' and 'playing defense'. Playing Offense: Lifting, getting fit, eating clean, developing as a man. Playing Defense: "All girls are sucky and mean!" It's clearly better to play offense. Ofc, this isn't limited to RP. For women: Playing Offense: "Go out to the bars? I can't; I have Pilates and then my cooking class." … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?Not partnering is certainly a valid choice. But it might be that you need to adjust to reality. If my "standards" are Sydney Sweeney and prime Charlize Theron, you'd tell me to stop hallucinating...and you would mostly be right, even though I am certainly quite happy with my dating options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?I base my opinions and views based on my observation and understanding of the world and the SMP (in this case) as a whole. Some of that information comes from the ladies I date; most does not. Perhaps we should return to the topic? Everyone - including women - have to make choices in life. Those choices may ultimately be sub-optimal, but the best outcome may still be to, um, "compromise" on one's "standards" bast on reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?Which guys? If you mean "All RP men" then obv not. But if a guy is bitter then yes he will be a miserable partner. If a woman marries him, he has to have had smth for her to do that, I assume, so I cannot say "offers nothing", but she might be better off passing on him. and are only into women under 30. You have to be careful with "only" and its cousins "always" and "never." The fact is that the vast majority of men will prefer younger, more attractive women. It's in our reptile brains to prefer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?You also admit that you don’t care about the bottom like 99% of women. I don't think I said that. If you only pay attention to the top women, don’t whine about them wanting top men. I am actually quite happy with my dating life, thanks. I get the women I want. Not all of them, but enough to be quite happy. I think you are arguing with someone else, here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:16 PM |
| 2 | AskTRP MegathreadI'm not looking for answers like "you'll know because she'll become a repeat customer" or "you'll start getting random blowjobs." Those are actually pretty good indicators, along with "she initiates a lot." I've had a wide range of experiences and honestly it makes it harder to judge. Yeah, so that doesn't sound accurate, but you do have to understand that ... Sometimes I get every sign people associate with a powerful orgasm. Other times I get almost none of them. ...different women are differe… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/26 01:14 PM |
| 2 | How do you reconcile the 'hypergamy' argument with the rise of high-earning, successful women in modern dating?is there a nuance I'm missing? Yes. I see plenty... You are looking at a twig on a tree and thinking you see the whole forest. If a woman makes more than her partner, does that fundamentally break the evolutionary mechanism described in the literature A woman starting to earn more than a partner often triggers her leaving. Not always, ofc, but she will likely resent him. Also indicates and uptick in ED meds for the guy. Disrespect will do that to a dude, or so I am told. or is there a James Joyc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Redpill tactics are idiotic and have the opposite of the intended affect for high quality womenacting flakey Acting flaky? Hmm. TRP is more likely to say "be stoic." Also the tactic of multidating multiple women will also turn her off and make her think you lack loyalty and commitment and will make her want to stop dating you. That can happen, but often a little competition anxiety is good for a girl. Throwing it in her face is bad. I do it so I don't have to start from zero pussy if a girl leaves. Makes me easier to be around. The tactic of negging women I more or less agree with this on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:06 PM |
| – | Resentment in the marketSo I have a wholesome story about this. Not about me, ofc, although I do understand the guy being altruistic in the beginning, because Good GuysTM are like that. I know a couple whose origin story is they grew up together and she had a very bad ugly duckling stage (her description). The guy was nice to her because they lived on the same street and he was a good guy, blah, blah. His older brother would give him shit about it - "Why you always hanging out with the fat, weird girl?" He said she was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?Why would we want to have a kid with a bitter red pilled man who resents women and believes we are stupid hypocrites and an inferior gender? A. Never said you had to have a kid, or who with. B. Never said you had to partner with a resentful man who holds those beliefs. Same with why would we want to live with that guy? Another things I didn't say. Those guys are miserable to be around. The sound like it - I mean the resentful ones. Plenty of women do want to be led/be submissive, though. That's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?Only Instagram model types (top like 1%) get the DM’s from Vegas, LA, NYC, or Dubai offering to pay the girls to get flown out. I would be more than that, but I don't send those DMs. Or get them, for that matter, not being young, attractive and female. I do know a few guys who do. Guys with content houses, a guy with a yacht. Partied on his yacht, with models and such. Partied in both places. Lots of hormones, lots of drama. It's fun to visit but I wouldn't want to live there. The fact that you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?So we should settle when we are young so that we don’t age out? That depends on what you want in life. If you don't care about having a partner or kids, you can drink champagne all night and swing from the chandelier. What you want to avoid, if you want a partner and biological kids, to avoid being 35+, single and childless asking, "BUT WHeRe aRe aLL TeH GooD MeNZ?!?!" How is me being on a relationship where I’m not attracted to the man (the outsides and the insides) going to make me happier in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?No disrespect to Miss Bates; I had to choose an older lady who people would recognize, etc. I hope, in the general sense I hope this for everyone, that she is happy in her life, ofc. Second - what a shallow thing to say. Should I lie to you? I answered a question honestly and in good faith. If you don't like the answer, that's not my fault. I'm also right. Tough noogs. Third - more options don’t mean shit. Until you don't have them anymore. They both will probably go through a series of LTRs thr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?Why are women required to "figure it out" at their peak. They aren't. But they will have greater options for themselves if they do. What do men do when they reach their peak? Settle down? Hardly. They fuck around. Men and women have different time horizons, and different rules. Even in middle age I can still get attractive women in their 20s. I really this causes a lot of Ass Burnage among Bloopers and my other detractors, but tough noogs. And you're right, a lot of guys don't settle down. There… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 11:57 AM |
| 2 | What has your actual lived experience/ challenges with dating been like?What are the real challenges you personally face in dating? Like basically all men, everywhere, in the History of Ever, I like very attractive women in their 20s, and I am in my 50s. What patterns have you personally noticed in your own experiences? This doesn't affect me so much because I waste no time on dating women who are never going to have sex with me, plus I am good at building rapport, but there's a lot of bitchy, narcissistic entitled women out there. It used to be that guys a woman wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 11:50 AM |
| 6 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?Possible consequences: A) missing out on being a mom - smth like 80% of childless women get there without intending to. B) Living alone when they want a partner, but could not (and cannot now) get the partner they wanted. C) Unhappiness bc they said "yes" to a guy in their 30s who was not as good an options as 3 guys they turned down in their 20s. I am sure there are others, but I am just trying to illustrate. And I have zero Schadenfreude about this. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?First, no "moral obligation" but read on. Second, not "less selective" but more realistic, for their own benefit. I want both men and women to be happier with their lives (just generally, because I'm an older guy now.) Statistically, 90% of men are not in the top 10%. Unless woman who cannot lock down at top 10% guy will really be happy alone, then she needs to be more realistic. I am not saying this to be mean, but if her lifespan is 80+ years and she fumbles her 20s and early 30s, well, 50 yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Do you think that sexy women are "torturing" average and unattractive men?Crazy talk. Bro has ZERO game. Even if he believed that BS he shouldn't have brought it up. Dumb, dumb, dumb. You owed him nothing, period, full stop, the end. I wonder about these guys. Do they think they are entitled to a "government-issued girlfriend" or smth? Life owes you nothing. You have to go build it. If you saw a man acting in this way towards a woman, would you be willing to step in for her well-being and physical safety? If he demonstrated he was an actual threat, then yes, but just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 09:29 PM |
| 10 | Update : Bf asked for a 3-5 day breakBut another part of me keeps wondering Stop it. You’re never going to know definitively and you’re just torturing yourself and by extension him. You will just forever go in circles in the Land of Made Up Bullshit and torturing yourself. If you were in my position, would you stay and try to rebuild trust, or would you accept the original breakup and step away? Hold up. You went through all this drama to get him back and now you’re thinking about dumping him? Are you sure you just didn’t want to b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/26 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do men slut-shaming?I don’t think it’s me changing the terms of the argument, but OK. I think we’ve also reached the end of the conversation. As I said, I hope things work out for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 10:34 AM |
| 3 | Expected Violence?These kind of things don’t generally get better. I expect that had his coworker seen it. He would’ve gotten an immediate Code: Red … and he would’ve deserved it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/26 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Expected Violence?The long "em dash" indicates ChatGPT. I answered it straight, but it feels off to me for a couple of reasons. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/26 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Expected Violence?The tolerance for you you describe should be zero. The only reason that springs to mind where I would strike a woman would be to prevent an immediate and credible threat of violence to myself or others, and even then it would be proportional and as a last resort. That said, what the the "red pill" angle on this? It seems unrelated. I can't find any RP content on your profile and you just ask for our take, without any apparent relation. Does your bf claim to be "RP"? Because what you describe wou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/26 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Women find good men sexually appealingYou may be being too literal. Confidence is an outward sign of Competence, although Competence is also sexy. I pointed out some examples. One girl visited my place and discovered my toolbox. She told me - and I heard this from other girls - that watching a man work with his hands can be a turn-on. Anyway, I opened it up for her and ofc some tools she knew and others she did not. My socket wrench was a revelation. ;) And I pointed out things around the house that I had fixed. So yea, don't sleep … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do men slut-shaming?So firsts you incorrectly pronounced that female promiscuity gives only the perception of increased paternal uncertainty, which is false. So I demonstrated how your pronouncement was incorrect: A. Mathematically. If a woman is faithful to a single partner, then paternal uncertainty is 100%. One to One. From a mathematical perspective, uncertainty increases along with female promiscuity, as the number of partners, 1/n+1 etc. So 2 partners is a 50% chance 3 is 33% etc. This should be self-evident.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Why are you not religious?Why would I spend my time promoting smth I don't believe in? I am fine with religions and religious folks provided they (or their adherents) do not harm others, but it would be hypocritical to promote any particular religion myself - I certainly do not try to dissuade believers (subject to the above mentioned condition.) Also, TRP is intended to increase sexual options for men, which is generally incompatible with Abrahamic religions, which tend to be mostly what we have in the West. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do men slut-shaming?There is nothing unclear about what I wrote - are you sure you did not read it while drunk or on drugs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 08:38 PM |
| – | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?The guys who believe this think that those things will make them attractive to the women that they want. At least that’s how I understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do men slut-shaming?"Perceived increase in uncertainty of paternity" -> correct this is only perceived To the contrary, I was being kind - not only does female promiscuity increase, for obvious reasons, paternity uncertainty mathematically, it does so biologically. See "Female Infidelity and Paternal Uncertainty Evolutionary Perspectives on Male Anti-Cuckoldry Tactics" (Cambridge University Press). "Increased likelihood that she will divorce you for cash and prizes" -> That's not a slut, that's a gold-digger Also, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 01:41 PM |
| – | In 2026; The patriarchy is real, broadly promoted by both sides equally, broadly harms both sides equally, and isn't that big of a problem.Why is it not ideal? Because if the OP was sovereign things would be "better." I would agree it's not ideal, but much like Churchill's dictum about democracy, it's the worst system other than everything else that's been tried. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 10:11 AM |
| – | In 2026; The patriarchy is real, broadly promoted by both sides equally, broadly harms both sides equally, and isn't that big of a problem.in certain countries women receive lighter prison conditions by default, While not "official" that happens in the USA. I saw some feminist type complaining that women got longer stretches on probation wit the typical "NO FAIR!" reaction, but she clearly wasn't considering that the men were getting longer actual prison sentences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 10:09 AM |
| – | In 2026; The patriarchy is real, broadly promoted by both sides equally, broadly harms both sides equally, and isn't that big of a problem.People were happily doing those things back when the Patriarchy was more dominant. The Patriarchy itself isn't the problem at least wrt the birthrate, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 10:06 AM |
| – | In 2026; The patriarchy is real, broadly promoted by both sides equally, broadly harms both sides equally, and isn't that big of a problem.No need; as the actual Patriarch of the Patriarchs, I have already noted it, and shall allow it, as it's mostly accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Women find good men sexually appealingI think that it's really competence that women find appealing. They will often say "confidence" but confidence stems from competence, unless you are faking it. Why are you confident? Because you know you are good at shit. Women spend much more time thinking about their personal safety than men do, for obvious reasons. I have had girls tell me that they like that when they are with me, they don't have to "think." "Think?", I thought, "Dafuq wut?" But I quickly realized that what the meant was tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 10:03 AM |
| 6 | Women find good men sexually appealingI saw a yt clip earlier about a study of attractive married women (basically they took a list of everyone who got married in a region of the USA's Midwest, offered $20 to fill out a survey, took their photos, and then had the opposite sex spouses rate the photos, so they got a range of Hot to Not. Then they looked at the surveys. For the attractive women Number 1 was: physical attractiveness with ability to provide a close second. Loyalty? Dead last. Do with this info what you will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 09:52 AM |
| 2 | How to meet women besides using dating apps?So there's a new MMORPG called "Outside", brought to you by the makers of the smash hit "IRL." The plot can drag but the graphics are AMAZING. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/26 03:46 PM |
| – | Why did I start getting more women by implementing toxic, narcissistic and manipulative behaviors?Young American men - who are significantly 'red pilled' - are the loneliest and most sexless generation. Do you understand your error here? Or is it just "My politics are my politics and the world must conform"? It's a response to a crisis, but also a solution that doesnt work. Says who? TRP existed before the crisis. TRP doesn't say "Just follow this one simple trick and you will wake up covered in bitches." TRP says, use the following tools in your toolbox to optimize yourself and become the b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do men slut-shaming?One could cite exactly one person as an example—not two. And one would still be making the same error. Because that demonstrates the very possibility of being happy. So what? A couple of celebrity hookers are 'happy' (as far as we know) and that settles thing? I guess we don't hear from the suicides. /shrugs. Crisp Crisp would have been miserable bc he would have been living as smth he was not: a straight man. Not sure how you went down this particular rabbit hole but here we are. The fact that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Am I just going to have to put up with my husband flirting with other women?If you want to stay? Maybe. Is he likely to change? Nope. Everyone wants to be wanted. In particular, he has an addictive personality, and he gets a charge out of female validation. Plus you make a lot more than he does so he probably - although he's unlikely to ever admit it - that he feels some guilt/shame over that. Also we're only hearing your side. Are you prone to jealousy? I say that because there's a difference between a "playful exchange" and cheating, although I don't like that he's me… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/26 02:34 PM |
| – | Why did I start getting more women by implementing toxic, narcissistic and manipulative behaviors?Yeah, a lot of us don’t, except the guys who actually are dark triad. As I noted below, I don’t want to be right about this stuff, necessarily, I just am. I do what works. Women are the choosier sex because they may the cost of gestation, childbirth and raising young children. Thus men have to be chosen for sex and as a guy with a high drive, even in my 50s, I figured out what it took to be chosen. A lot. Because I had to keep feeding the beast. If “Nice guys” got all the pussy, I would’ve been … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 01:16 PM |
| – | Why did I start getting more women by implementing toxic, narcissistic and manipulative behaviors?Yawn. Just keep telling yourself that because it gives you emotional comfort. People do it because it works. It being a “nice guy“ worked the TRP would be all about how to hold your girlfriend‘s purse while you took her shopping at the mall. Look, I don’t wanna be right about this stuff, I just am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Why do men slut-shaming?No, I’m just not wrong. And you don’t like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 12:55 PM |
| – | Why did I start getting more women by implementing toxic, narcissistic and manipulative behaviors?Because you are exhibiting "dark triad" traits which women respond to. Simples. Even if you want to be a "good guy" you still have to have an edge to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 07:32 AM |
| 2 | Why do men slut-shaming?Was I hiding something? Not sure you were "hiding" anything, but you did just reveal a key piece of info (although, in fairness, I haven't read all of your posts) So, does Google not help you, or are you avoiding something uncomfortable? Not avoiding anything, but if you want me to look it up for you, I will give you my research rates. It should be easy for you to find. Xaviera Hollander ... Quentin Crisp So TWO whole people? If they are (or were) happy, good for them, but individual results may… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 07:27 AM |
| 2 | My husband says most men only want one thing. Is he right?From an Islamic perspective, am I being naive, or is my husband being overly cynical? How do you view interactions like this? No idea about the Islamic perspective, in particular (although I will speculate) but your husband is going to be often right, but also often wrong. Depends first on what the thing is. As an example, I will hold a door for anyone in my proximity, male or female whether I am interest in sex with them or not - spoiler alert: that is 0% of the men, and a relatively small % of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 05:20 AM |
| -1 | Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for.I was going to say, they get narrowed by the women. Quite correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Any female that genuinely supports the patriarchy is a total moronWe did have a problem with poverty among the elderly back in the day, although certainly not every elderly person, even widows. My maternal grandmother outlived her husband by 20+ years. She would have had a semi-ok widowhood, but my mom wisely took the raw materials that were my father and turned him into a success, and he was able to write whatever check was needed to support his mother-in-law (and keep her happy and elsewhere.) I am talking about the present, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Why do men slut-shaming?You mean you can't support your argument with evidence. But hey, it's Reddit, no problem. Go in peace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?Hey, I don't write the news, I just report it. What’s retarded is thinking that if a woman was she wants a kind man that means she would want to date any guy who is kind. Maybe, but as I said, they want this from men they are already attracted to. The leave that part out in "Nice Guy" school, apparently. I forget, as I have been a cad for a long time. Obvously if men and women say... Well evidently, everyone thinks they are going to be the guy/gal, who... I mean, statistically, 90% of men aren't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Any female that genuinely supports the patriarchy is a total moronSounds like you are out in the pumpkin patch, waiting for the Great Pumpkin to me. What you are really doing is trying to make your beliefs "unfalsifiable." That's smth cult members do when their prophecies don't come true, btw. You have to say "but, um, we are on a continuum and someday, bc, um, well, someday the Great Pumpkin...." The Patriarchy ain't going anywhere because women don't want it to. It's the same reason women, despite educational and financial attainment complain of how their da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Why do men slut-shaming?Because I am promiscuous by nature Ahh, the truth comes out. You have the horny and don't want to have self-control. As a dude, I sympathize. You don't like slut-shaming because it feels like "accountability". You can't make a choice without trying other options. Apparently, you can. Idc if a girl does so or not, but some do, or so I am told. How do you know that? Google doesn't work for you? Whether there is a causal or correlative effect, promiscuity tends to have worse outcomes in terms of ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Any female that genuinely supports the patriarchy is a total moronStill around, though, despite all the babble. We got a Black president before we got a White female one. Let that sink in. And she lost to that guy...whose 'entry level' job in politics was the Presidency. Then he beat the "diverse" female candidate badly...the only guy he lost to was another White male. Most male billionaires are self-made; most female billionaires got there from divorce or inheritance, so please tell me all about how you 'smashing the Patriarchy' n'shit. /heh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/26 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Why do men slut-shaming?Another declarative statement, but my mind is open to change based on this as yet demonstrated data ofc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 11:45 PM |
| 4 | Why do men slut-shaming?It’s actually fairly common. Along with bitch as you point out and also an attack on a girl looks/weight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Any female that genuinely supports the patriarchy is a total moronI agree about not simping, but if women agreed en masse that the Patriarchy was bad for them, then it would no longer exist. It cannot function without their cooperation. The fact is that a lot of women secretly and not so secretly loved the Patriarchy. They love the option of being cared for if things don’t work out, some are happier in a more subordinate role with less responsibility and some just wanna be kept like pets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Why do men slut-shaming?If you say so, but that sounds like it’s a mere declarative statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 06:16 PM |
| 5 | Any female that genuinely supports the patriarchy is a total moronYou know who LOVES themselves some Patriarchy? Women. Indeed the Patriarchy would not be possible without the complicity of women. Why do women love the Patriarchy? Oh, all that "STRONG" LOUD and "INDEPENDENT" OPINIONATED stuff is fine, when the sun is shining, but the second things go bad, look who is suddenly all "bUt I'm jUst A gIrl!" Women LOVE benevolent sexism. Even feminists. Because when things get rough, women perceive sexist men as more likely to protect them and share resources. So th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?Being a felon also seems to help, or so I am told. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?I am sure that by "harsh" you meant "accurate." /heh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:39 PM |
| 12 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?Women shift their definitions of what constitutes an attractive male based on whatever makes them look good. Facts. The pretense that “nice guys” somehow arrived at the conclusion that women are attracted to kindness and decency based on delusions perpetuated by nothing is women dodging accountability, as per usual. Men also tend to be very literal, so when women say "I want a man who..." that tends to be taken at face value. Women shift their definitions of what constitutes an attractive male b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:38 PM |
| 10 | Who told men being nice would lead to sex?Who told men being nice would lead to sex? Women did and do, when you ask them what they like in a man. It's often a compendium of "nice" things. It's just that they want these things from men they are already attracted to. Who told men that the only reason they should be nice to ANYONE is to get laid? You are changing the terms of your argument here. Did no one teach men to be genuinely kind to people because it’s the right thing to do? Oh, all the time. We are (or were) taught to. Help little … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Is an average woman dating an average man considered "settling?"Everyone "settles" when they enter an exclusive LTR or Marriage because they are foregoing every other opportunity they have or might have. Women have to balance "I want the best man I can get" with "I wan the best man I can keep." Hypergamy is a cruel mistress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:22 PM |
| 8 | Why do men slut-shaming?Usually it's women who slut shame. What's the first thing that a woman calls another woman in a verbal fight? A slut/whore/etc. Women hate sluts because sluts lower the cost of pussy to men. Men LOVE sluts, in short term. Men don't want to MARRY a slut because of the perceived increase in uncertainty of paternity and also the increased likelihood that she will divorce you for cash and prizes. But doesn't that deprive her of her individuality? Why can a woman only have "individuality" by being a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 03:20 PM |
| 5 | A feminine girlie feeling isolated[are] there truly dominant men out there? Hi there. Yes, yes, they exist. We exist. One of the difficulties is that, in Gen Z, it seems to me that, for some reason, weakness is glorified. Everyone wants a diagnosis or to be defective in some way. Gen Z seems to have 3x the amount of autistic people in it, but then you find out that they have just determined that they are autistic by you know, reading about it on the Internet. I have often thought that being a submissive woman must be terrifying.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/26 11:04 AM |
| 3 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulSo what? That doesn't mean there's a cabal of 12 billionaires that meet quarterly in Davos and decide how the world is going to be run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 06:27 PM |
| 22 | AITAH for having a baby my ex-bf doesn’t want…at all.AITA for keeping the baby despite the father’s wishes? No, you are not, assuming the facts are as presented. He knew the risks and took them anyway. Particularly in light of your PCOS and experience with your prior termination, absolutely you are NTAH. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/26 06:24 PM |
| 9 | I (28F) are at loss as to how to help my boyfriend (28M) that has fallen to the recent redpill content craze. How do i pull him out of it?Is he on the Men's Forum here? If so he can reach out to me - I'm an OG over there. The stuff that a lot of content creators put out (and this is not limited to RP stuff) is designed to grab clicks, so it is very often ragebait. I look at it as playing "offense" or "defense." Offense is: here is how to use RP tactics to improve your life. Defense is: "Wimminz BAD! All girls are golddigging HOES!" etc. The former is more likely to lead to a happier life than the latter. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/26 06:23 PM |
| 4 | I (28F) are at loss as to how to help my boyfriend (28M) that has fallen to the recent redpill content craze. How do i pull him out of it?You can never stop gaming your wife/gf. Guys who enter into marriages/LTRs thinking they've "won" generally find out that they are really playing on "Hard Mode." | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/26 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulyes, the men who have hoarded power and actually run things. So women are STRONG! and INDEPENDENT! and have agency....except when it's convenient to your argument that they don', got it. women are capable of learning/doing the jobs people think of as "man's jobs". It's entirely relevant, because this would not be possible at the scale and in the time frame that would be required, under the initial hypothetical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulBut I never said that they were unworthy of empathy, just that I did not enjoy spending time with them. Bear in mind that your original question was how to become less resentful, so I have been working towards that. Did you ever have a look at that Norah Vincent video? I think that would be helpful. It sounds like when you describe women being treated better you are expecting women to step in and provide that emotional support for men. That doesn't necessarily follow. My point was that the group… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulI think that’s justified. Ofc you do. Hypergamy is a cruel mistress. But is it practical? It's also why women think that "all men cheat" - because you are all fucking the same guys. I’ve had so many women describe a good date to me Anecdotal evidence. My favorite kind. :) Oh, and your friends agree? I never would have guessed! I guess I’m having a hard time seeing how “seeing the guys at the bottom half” makes me feel less resentful. My hope was that if you expanded your group of people who are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 11:07 PM |
| 5 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulI didn't posit the hypothetical. While nurses walking out of NICU would be tragic for the babies therein, and their parent, it would not be a civilization-ending event. if women decided to stop giving birth there would be no more new people Or - and I do not support or wish this - you might find yourselves playing "The Handmaid's Tale - The Home Game." in this hypothetical of yours do all the men in power plants lock the doors so no one can turn the power back on? If you have a look at who runs … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 10:54 PM |
| 5 | Why do you think some women feel entitled to fight men without retaliation?I have seen women get argumentative/violent with men with the full expectation that the man would not retaliate physically. I mean in situations where a man behaving similarly could expect a free concussion. And that was in an "office" situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you step in and support a single mom if the reason why she ended up in that situation is a noble, respectable reason?Define "support." Does that mean I move her in and take over all responsibility for her and her kids? Nope. Does it mean I might make a one-time contribution of $ or food? If she was someone I liked and respected, sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulIf you say so, but if men, en masse, decided to not "have jobs", then power plants would start shutting down after about 15 minutes and civilization would be mostly gone by the time came for the next oil change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulI appreciate you taking the time to write. No worries. I did try to answer the question and I recognize that my opinions may be contra to yours. To me friendship is... And there's nothing wrong with that. I just addressed why men might feel that "friendship" is, as you put it, a downgrade from sex. ...then find out that he was only spending time with me because of the possibility of sex. Men are very sex-motivated. That said, I don't recommend (not do I practice) the "stealth" method of "be a ni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulLolz. Let’s try not to pretend that suggesting somebody takes in alternative points of view and somehow a hate crime against women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Ideas of ways to be less resentfulI think the majority of women would be good partners (I see them as more caring, empathetic, sensitive, etc) I recommend going an reading "Self Made Man" by Norah Vincent. She was a lesbian who posed as a man for a number of months can came out of it literally saying it was a "privilege" to be a woman. She went on a number of dates as her male alter ego "Ned", with a rule that, by date 3 she would disclose that she was actually a woman. Upon finding out that she was a woman at least one (and I t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 10:37 AM |
| 2 | AskTRP MegathreadYou also have to decide what works for you. A rotation might be two girls. Who knows? But yeah if you only have one plate? Then she’s your girlfriend. In my 20s, I wanted to be fucking 4-5 girls at a time. In my 50s it’s pretty much 2 to 3 max. I always wanna have a few possibles for the top of the funnel, but it’s not really crucial. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/26 10:21 PM |
| 2 | AskTRP MegathreadFigure out your routines in the new place. Where you’re gonna do your lifting, where are you gonna do your grocery shopping, etc. Whatever cool hobbies that you have that women are into? Yeah find out where you’re gonna do those in your new spot. Set up professionals from your barber to your doctor to your dentist. Don’t neglect that just because you don’t know anybody there. Develop a place or two where they know you. Where you can bring a girl and they say something like “Mr. Zaitzev! So good … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/26 09:42 PM |
| 3 | AskTRP MegathreadDecide if it will make you happy, and if it will, you’re gonna have to keep feeding the top of the funnel. Also, get good at sex. If you can blow a girl’s mind, she’s going to become a repeat customer. You will also start getting random blow job for totally no reason whatsoever, except your girl the feel of your cock in her mouth. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/26 09:39 PM |
| 5 | AskTRP MegathreadA. Get fit B. Fix your health (not just your muscles) your fashion, your hair, and probably your teeth. C. Figure out something that you like to do whether it make music or play volleyball like I do or something else. Then get out and do it and meet people. Have a hobby where you can meet fit women, not some looser bullshit like silk flower arranging. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/26 09:38 PM |
| 7 | A Red Pill Reminder from RoissySo this is good advice for normal guys. Well worth it. I remember Roosh saying something along the lines of how game could’ve saved E.R., but the reality is that by the time you get to “natural born killers“ there’s really only one equation which is: malignant narcissism, coupled with antisocial personality disorder. His additional problem was that he was an Aspie (Aspies sit down, that's not what made him a killer, you'll be fine, more or less), so he didn't get the natural charm that frequentl… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/26 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Are there ny marriage material men on tinderI am not on Tinder, but I am told it functions more like a conventional dating app for the 35-40+ crowd. So if you are looking for a man in that age range, then maybe. A woman I know in NYC Metro found her LTR that way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/26 11:48 AM |
| 2 | 34F dating 39MI get some anxiety about whether I’m “worth” it. Don’t. I have been the guy in this situation - he’s making decisions that he wants to make. The general rule I have is that when I travel with a girl, she stays where I stay (typically a suite) and if we are flying, she flies in the same class of service I fly in. Her job is to sit in the window seat next to me and look pretty. Well, also to make sure I get enough sex, but the mile high club is overrated. Speaking of which, if your guy is taking c… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/26 10:46 AM |
| 8 | 34F dating 39MSarcasm is one if the many services I provide - No purchase necessary! You were almost at the answer yourself - sometimes it’s easier to see a thing more clearly when you are distant from it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/26 07:55 AM |
| 11 | 34F dating 39MBut my reservations and fear from my ex make me nervous Whatever you do, make sure that you torture the new guy over with the last guy did because we LOVE that. /s So how your ex treated you isn’t this guy’s problem. Treating him like it somehow is isn’t fair. no-brainer So let’s review: Chunky 35-year-old single mom with self-esteem issues isn't sure that a 39-year-old millionaire is “good enough“ for her. Read that through, slowly, as many times as you need to. If necessary, go to your proctol… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/26 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Talking with a guy onlineI think it’s less about the sex and more about tha there’s no natural endpoint. Friends first, for how long? Nobody knows. It feels like the friend zone. But you were originally talking about a social circle game where you meet somebody organically and then decide that maybe you’re gonna start dating them. That’s an entirely different thing. That has more to do with propinquity than creating some kind of artificial non-dating dating scenario. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/26 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Talking with a guy onlineOfc you should vet the guy, meet in public for the first time, should you decide to meet, facetime, etc. Whatever you ladies do. Although in your case, given the geographical distance, you’re going to have plenty of time to vet him. Unless you are otherwise going to be in the UK, then he will be the one traveling ofc. I’ve flown to meet women in the past and it’s just better - I am an experienced traveler, I won’t have the same safety concerns, and by the time she’s coming to see me I don’t wann… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/26 04:38 AM |
| 2 | Talking with a guy onlineN.B. The OP specifically mentions “friends first.” That’s a specific thing - you can “get to know each other” while dating also. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/26 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Talking with a guy onlineN.B. “friends first” usually has men headed to the exits. It’s like saying “I would like to keep you in the Friend Zone for a while, while I make my mind up and perhaps try out other guys.” It’s too ambiguous and tends to wander off and never resolve. Why you tryna c-block yourself? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/26 05:03 PM |
| 7 | How much does being 30+ matter to guys?A. Get as fit as you can. If you are fit already, stay fit. B. Being an introvert isn’t really a disadvantage. Although I am massively extroverted, I actually prefer introvert girls because they tend to have fewer behavioral issues. My main chick is so introverted that if some other guy hit on her her most likely reaction would be to scream and run away. I would recommend you tell guys that you are introverted and that will help with some of your social awkwardness. For example, if I know a girl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/26 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, I need advice on a man! Help! 22FThe only thing that matters in a man is character. Someday, when you have a foreboding dark spot on your mammogram, you want the guy who is going to hold you and say “babe, we will make it through this.” This guy is 26, you can’t expect him to be a millionaire. So long as he has a path forward and is working on things then there’s no reason to dump him. It sounds like he is otherwise quite the catch. I know a guy who is a plumber. That doesn’t sound impressive, but plumbing is actually a fairly … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/26 06:50 AM |
| 8 | He didn’t offer to take me home after date, I feel disappointed but don’t know if I’m being too pickySo in general I think women have to be careful about not disqualifying an otherwise suitable man over a single faux pas. Remember, guys tend to be very literal. Some of us take that "strong, indpendent woman" stuff seriously. Another problem is solipsism. Some women have this idea that there is their way of doing things and nobody else's. Most women will react negatively to being propositioned on the first date. Some women will get mad if a guy propostions them on the 10th or 20th date, like it … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/26 06:32 AM |
| 7 | He didn’t offer to take me home after date, I feel disappointed but don’t know if I’m being too pickyI had a similar thought, although he did give some color around it with the bit about the opposite direction. You just never know how someone will react. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/26 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Double Degree in Stem and Stay at home wife - why do some of my friends secretly and some openly don't like I am financially dependent.So you asked a question and I answered it. If you want all the rights, but only some of the responsibliites, yeah, that sounds hipocritical. Beyond that if you and your husband are happy, then great. Also note that I did not say that you didn't contribute; that is you changing the terms of the argument. All that said, if you have a look at the counter-question I posed in the general without specifying it to your marriage, you may find yourself reacting negatively to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/26 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Dating market is a reflection of women’s changed behavior and men reacting to itA woman will also take rejection harder, in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 06:12 AM |
| 5 | Double Degree in Stem and Stay at home wife - why do some of my friends secretly and some openly don't like I am financially dependent.So… I am a feminist, but I don't want to be married or be in a relationship where I have to do 50/50 or without day to day courting. And… The question is am i hypocrite? So you already know the answer to this, but let me pose this to you: imagine if your husband said “You know, I love her, but I don’t want to have to go without regular sex and I don’t want to have to pay more than 50% of the bills and I don’t wanna have to do housework. Why does it have to be unconditional?” I’m guessing you wou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/26 06:34 PM |
| 5 | How do I go about letting men know that I have certain financial standards when it comes to dating someone seriously without seeming like a gold digger or hurting feelings?I might say “goals” instead of “standards” if you are trying to soften the blow, but that’s up to the individual. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/26 04:10 PM |
| 5 | How to meet women besides using dating apps?A. Cold approach. B. Find the activity you like that is co-ed/co-rec. If it’s some type of sport, then the women involved are more likely to be fit. C. Social Circle game. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/26 03:20 PM |
| 15 | I date multiple suitors simultaneouslyThis seems like an odd quote. Men are already graded on a brutal curve called the SMP. The problem with your logic is that it assumes either you’re the only game in town, or you are sufficiently high value that men are willing to compete for you in this manner. I think most men would find it exhausting and they would toddle off to find another, less-complicated woman. But hey, everyone gets to approach dating how they want. Good luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/26 03:10 PM |
| 5 | How do you know if something is traditional or mysoginistic toxic?So why are you talking to this guy at all? Traditional is masculine, kind and protective. What about him is any of that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/26 07:15 AM |
| 3 | How do you know if something is traditional or mysoginistic toxic?Like cartoonishly awful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/26 07:11 AM |
| – | UnprotectedA) Don’t care. It was topical. B) People do dumb stuff all the time. I didn’t recommend it – I do not in fact, have a couple dozen kids – I just explained it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/26 03:30 PM |
| 1 | UnprotectedEh, people are not always thinking correctly when they have The Horny. If I chose to believe the women who, in the moment, demanded that I “breed” them, I’d have a couple dozen kids. You do make a fair point about the relative expense, though | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/26 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Make him wait for sexWomen can sleep with who they want to on their own timetable but a guy in that situation, assuming he has any self-respect, is basically going to feel unwanted and not good enough. It has to be a guy who has no options because otherwise he’d walk. In my younger days, I had a woman basically tell me that she would have flings when she knew there wasn’t any future but if a guy had potential then he had to wait. You know because he was “special.” Ugh. Me: “You know you sound insane, right? Because … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/26 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Make him wait for sexSo the problem with the “fuck boy” test is that it produces too many false positives. As it turns out, good guys like to have sex, too. Some of the guys who wanted to have sex sooner rather than later - which is basically all of us - sure some of them may have been fuckboys, but some of them may have been perfectly happy to give you a relationship. I get it, it’s not always easy for a woman to know which is which. A guy who says “but I’m not a fuck boy“ may not actually be a fuck boy, but that’s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/26 09:03 AM |
| 3 | Make him wait for sexOut of curiosity, do you give him a little extra now that he showed he was a good guy? Or do you still use sex to manipulate him? I’m sure to the surprise of many I’m not saying that I disagree with your strategy necessarily, but as much as I want good girls to win, I want good guys (that’s genuinely good guys “nice guys”) to win, too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/26 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Tired of my boyfriend’s mental games.so it’s really not gay Yes it is. It’s very gay. (NTTAWWT.) But that he “used” to be gay Still is. God is doing the work and I was sent by God to help him out with being straight. So he ‘s trying to “Pray the Gay Away”? Because that’s not how that works. (We’ve been together 4 months have not had sex yet) Because he’s gay and you have lady parts. So, the sooner he figures out what he is the better off both of you are going to be, although you’re gonna need a new boyfriend. As far as I know that … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/26 05:33 PM |
| – | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolI haven’t discussed anybody in a relationship. I’m talking about single guys who are not approaching women. Your explanation explains why women might reject them, but not why men don’t approach them. And it’s not “oh but they know the girls would reject them” because most guys get shot down on most approaches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 10:48 AM |
| – | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolThat doesn’t explain the lack of approaching that explains the lack of reception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 07:50 AM |
| 7 | Did couples therapy help you?One thing you will have to be careful of is that the therapy field is predominantly female, so men tend to think that it is “by women for women.” There is some truth to that. If you want things to work, you need to be careful that you don’t put him into the position of thinking, “Hmm. I seem to be paying one woman to gang up on me with another woman.” That is a surefire way to get him to check out of things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/26 08:50 AM |
| 7 | Boyfriend giving silent treatmentAnyone who uses the “silent treatment” much like the people who seem to live their lives in a state of perpetual offense, lack the requisite maturity to control their own emotions and expect the rest of us to do it for them. My recommendation would be to ignore the silent treatment and continue about your business Yuen troubled until he decides that he’s done pouting. It does seem to be that your boyfriend is the “girl” in the relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/26 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolOh, I know a few of these people and I think it’s incredibly unfun to have to listen to them and their Predictions of Doom. Years and years ago, I decided to take the Foreign service exam. Upon arrival at the testing center I ran into acute graduate student. I knew so I stood and chatted with her for a bit. A man she knew came up and was going on and on and on about how difficult the test was how nobody ever passed, blah blah blah. I of course I’m thinking “Eff this guy.” I can tell my companion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolNot among younger age groups, unless you mean that hypergamy has become such a self-limiter that the pool of "desirable" men has shrunk so much, which might be a reasonable, point, but not one that I think you are making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 03:20 AM |
| 4 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolNot for the kid and not for the moms so you're 0-2 on that. Lot's of single moms stay single and others "settle" for relationships of necessity, so you may want to re-think. They gamble their eggs that they would tame Alpha Alan but have to settle for Billy Beta, IF he's available (and they can stomach him.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolMy "algorithm" includes non-internet sources and they all pretty much say the same thing, but ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolMy point was that guys who they might have wanted to approach them, also took the general “Don’t approach women!” advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 11:22 AM |
| – | What do you think about the new tradwife aesthetic Pilates Girl?I haven’t heard anything about this, but if you’re fighting The Wall, Pilates and yoga are your friends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/26 08:11 AM |
| 4 | Single and Happy? Are they?I think most people want to be partnered, beause we are a social species and because life is difficult and it's easier when you have a teammate. Of the women I know in my age cohort, the single ones are generally the least happy, and have to rely on there social networks for things that a husband would/could have provided. Those without children seem to be the worst off, mentally. I freely admit this is anecdotal evidence, but if you gather enough anecdotes together, you have data. Beyond that, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/26 07:13 AM |
| 3 | confidence > looks > money when it comes to dating womenCompetence is what slays, although it manifests itself as confidence, so if you want to feel (and be perceived) as confident, get good at shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/26 06:33 AM |
| 7 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolIn their effort to achieve "Feminist Supremacy" the ladies have decided than any man who does not skitter away at the slightest indication of their displeasure are "creepy" and must be condemned, and, if possible, dragged on social media. The difficulty being, they have "Me too-ed" too close to the sun, and now find that they have dissuaded a lot of men from bothering with them, creating supply shortages. So they told men, "Leave us alone!" and we did, and now they Big Mad about it. So what's a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 06:24 AM |
| 16 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolGiven the number of single moms there are, how's that working out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 06:20 AM |
| 6 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolCatastrophize. That's a great word. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolI had the same thought. "Who dares, wins." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 06:13 AM |
| 2 | AskTRP MegathreadMake sure you’re not hitting the booze too much and also be sure you get enough sleep and sunlight. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/26 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Need Advice about how things work in relationships from a perspective of women ?Oh, there may well be a Darwin Award waiting for him at the end of this non-rainbow, but he’s pretty intent on following through so whatever I say isn’t going to stop him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/26 11:19 AM |
| 1 | About men's mentalityShh. No one cares. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/26 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Need Advice about how things work in relationships from a perspective of women ?You are very serious about a pretend relationship that consists mostly of projections you gave made onto her. Maybe it works out, maybe it doesn’t, but it’s not real yet. At least not until you show up in Mexico. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/26 01:31 PM |
| 4 | Need Advice about how things work in relationships from a perspective of women ?This really belongs over in the men’s form however you’re going to get the hard line there. Mostly because you need the hard line. If you’ve never met in person, and it seems that you have not, you don’t have a relationship at all. You have an idea idealized “pretend” relationship. Sorry it is how it is. If you’re serious about her, get on a plane get to Mexico and meet her in real life. Until then you are at most a “maybe” for her and the same for you. Why in all this time, more than a year, ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/26 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Need Advice about how things work in relationships from a perspective of women ?It’s great that it worked out for you and your husband, but successful LDRs are generally not the trend. It seems that the OP has never met this person in real life, which would be different from your situation as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/26 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Any chronically depressed RP women found a way to get the light back in their eyes they had when they were younger?The less you care about what other people think of you, the happier you will be. I think people, by which I mean, both men and women, of course, if they haven’t hurt in their relationships, tend to generalize that to the other gender, as a whole. For the most part, happy people are not making YouTube videos about how happy they are. They’re busy being happy. If you have someone in your life, as most of us do, who wants to constantly be negative and tell you how you’re going to fail whenever they… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/26 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Is he condescending or am I just sensitive?Thank you for commenting on my reply of 11 months ago. Take it up with the OP, who specifically used the word “tone.” | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/26 10:02 AM |
| 18 | getting badly anxious about aging out of my mid-20sThings could be far worse. The first thing to do is to stop panicking about stuff because panicking isn’t gonna help anything. Second, if you are not fit, get fit now because it’s never going to be easier. It will also help you find a relationship if that’s what you want which it seems like it is. If you’re already fit, then stay fit. Yoga and Pilates are your friends. You can also work on your RMV as well. The number one way to do that is to learn how to cook. If you already know how to cook, g… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/26 10:01 AM |
| 4 | AskTRP MegathreadIt sounds like option 2 for you (and in fairness for a lot of guys) is "I can do what I want, but what I want is to be married and hangout with my wife and do 'married people' things." Nothing wrong with that. For single guys, TRP is about how to conduct oneself in life and how to maximize sexual opportunity in whatever form that takes. N.B. you may be interested in "married red pill" - link on sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/26 06:39 AM |
| 6 | AskTRP MegathreadMost guys struggle with women, so the first girl they sleep with is the "Magical Unicorn Giver of Pussy." It's not complex. The same thing happens to girls. A lot of girls will, in the aftermath, follow the guy they gave their v-card to like little kittens after. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/26 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Tactfully declining someone while still staying friends?A) Mention your boyfriend, early and often, even casually, like “What did I do this weekend? My boyfriend and I went to the Farmer’s Market and then apple picking.” This will dissuade most guys. N.B. If you’re not available, men prefer knowing. No mixed signals. That way they don’t commit a social faux pas asking you out because you acted like you were single and then do a rug pull at the end, because you like attention. Not saying you did this, just saying it’s better to let somebody know proac… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/26 05:33 AM |
| 2 | He asked me out to dinner and then we split the billIME, restaurants prefer not doing that so the default would be a single check. I could of course be wrong, but it just sounded fishy to me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/26 04:09 PM |
| 3 | He asked me out to dinner and then we split the billHaving dated in NYC, that’s factual, and it is the city that the “Jessica Sporty Story” - came out out of but if you properly vet women it’s not terrible. Good and well-heeled men are at a premium there for sure. Aside from Jessica Sporty - and ladies, she’s the girl who wrecked it for you - there was another case where a girl on a date texted her friends that she was going to be able to take the guy for 5 dates and “not have to do anything [sexually]” - except the last person she had texted was… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/26 08:06 AM |
| 3 | He asked me out to dinner and then we split the billIndeed, very crappy. And the restaurant pre-splitting the bill is highly sus. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/26 07:48 AM |
| 3 | He asked me out to dinner and then we split the billSo as the Dark Lord of TRPTM let me say the following: I pick up the tab on the first date, the last date and every date in between. I view it as a cost of doing business. Any suggestion by my date that we split the bill is met with some version of “Don’t be silly, I am your host.” If she offers a second time, I refuse again and a third time results in me raising a skeptical eyebrow and saying “I’d be insulted.” I have never gotten past that one, but I suppose I would offer to arm wrestle her. I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/26 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Any chronically depressed RP women found a way to get the light back in their eyes they had when they were younger?You’re 28. You still have so many unwritten pages. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/26 10:16 PM |
| 5 | How to spice up my relationshipA. Lube. B. If he’s too big to give head to comfortably for too long take a time out and tongue his balls for a bit while stroking him with your hand - make sure that you use enough saliva/lube so it is comfortable for him. C. Lick and suck the head while you stroke him. Swirl your tongue around the outer rim (corona). D. There is a spot on the underside of a man’s penis where the corona merges back in that is very sensitive on some guys. Probe it either the tip of your tongue and see/ask if he … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/26 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes feelingweird about the fact my boyfriend has a “line” with revealing clothes even though we mostly agree on it?But if I still chose to wear it, he’d probably reconsider the relationship because he doesn’t think he’s compatible with someone comfortable dressing like that. Men tend to be very literal. What he should’ve said here is “but if you wear it anyway, I will sell tickets.” at any rate he does have the right to “reconsider the relationship“ if he’s not comfortable, but what you’re really doing here is making up problems that don’t exist. Do you need drama in your life or something? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/26 02:44 PM |
| 9 | Sometimes feelingweird about the fact my boyfriend has a “line” with revealing clothes even though we mostly agree on it?^ Exactly this. This is 100% a “stop making up fake problems and hurting your own feelings“ situation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/26 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Teaching or Nursing?Nursing. And it’s not close. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/26 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Am I petty?If you want kids and he doesn’t, then you are not compatible. NB - some married women keep their last name. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/26 12:33 AM |
| 3 | About men's mentalityOh, I understand that there’s a book with that title that I’ve never read – I’m not trying to hook a man after all. I was using that more in the way that some guys say “Women only go for jerks.” In any case, I was just trying to lay out a plan that’s actionable for RPW because I think good girls should get to win. I cannot stress how much “peace” is undervalued. I mean, I dumped a girl who was a genetic celebrity with a medical school-quality intellect (I can’t speak for other guys, but I really… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/26 04:51 PM |
| -4 | 29F met 36M - early dating; he says he is looking for a family, but unsure about meYou are dating an introvert. Once you understand this, things should be more clear. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/26 10:18 PM |
| 18 | About men's mentalityFor example, is it true that 90% of men are visual creatures, that beauty comes first, character is secondary, and that a woman needs to be above average for them to build a future together? Is everything in the male brain really based on sex? So from a biological perspective, men can provide everything for themselves except sex and babies, so yes, we focus on looks because that's what tells our primordial brains about your fertility. So what do men care about? I. Looks A. Your hips-to-waist rat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/26 08:45 PM |
| 3 | I’m 23F and my bf 23m shouts at me often and has anger issuesAFAIAC, shouting at a woman is nearly as bad as beating her. Any man who cannot control his temper is not worthy of respect. Why don’t you have any girlfriends? As far as not wanting you to make “guy friends” that’s probably the only sensible thing he’s doing, at least as you have to described things. Except in rare circumstances. “guy friends” are just waiting for your relationship to end so that they can shoot their shot. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/26 07:48 PM |
| 1 | AMA I’m a SAHM married to provider that’s makes 1.8 millionAre you happy? Would you change anything, or do anything differently? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/26 07:19 PM |
| 10 | AMA I’m a SAHM married to provider that’s makes 1.8 millionSo I didn’t downvote you, but you got downvoted because it’s an “AMA”, and someone asked you a question that is within the bounds of civilized society, and you declined to answer it. That’s my take anyway. No shade in either direction. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/26 07:13 PM |
| 8 | This dread game makes me want to die......but he wants me to just know what he wants without asking. Your husband is the girl in the your relationship. I've gained a lot of weight over the last few years. Yoga and Pilates. Just keep going. I think if he spent more time lifting me up he would have exactly the wife he desires, but maybe he hates me. I doubt he hates you, but he does want you talking to yourself. Basically doing exactly what you are doing. If you try not giving him the response he wants you may see some results, or he m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/26 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Newly wed needs help navigating relationship with mother in lawDoes she have other kids? If so, does treat them the same way or is it just him? A couple of strategies for you: Don't mention that you are losing respect for him; that's only going to make things worse. Much worse. Just say you see how she treats him, and it's not fair. You love him and seeing her belittle him hurts you on his behalf, and you want it to stop or her participation in your life needs to be minimized. Let her go to voicemail. Leave her on read. Take longer to return her calls. Let … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/26 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Is this the truth of people?Not all men think like this Not all people are right-handed, but most are. I think this kind of thinking comes from misogyny. So I disagree with you ... smth, smth ... misogyny! You have reduced the value of that woman to some kind of status and her child also. Nope, I just (correctly) pointed out that "all things being equal" - note that phrase - guy will prefer a woman without a pre-existing child. It is how it is, I don't make the rules. Children are not baggage but a gift to this world. Char… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/26 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Is this the truth of people?She wasn’t; she was simply pointing out that all things being equal, a single mom will be less attractive to a potential romantic interest because bringing along some other man’s baby is extra baggage that guys don’t want to deal with because it’s not their kid. Remember, this was in the context of the friend, thinking she was hotter than W&M. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/04/26 08:55 AM |
| 4 | Any successful guys here still play video games? What’s your relationship with them?All I know is, if you're playing Madden, and your girl walks up and says "He's sitting in Cover 3 - run 4 verticals!" and you didn't teach her that shit? Then there is definitely another fox in the henhouse, my dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/26 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsLOL. "Just be yourself, dude! WAGMI!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsRed pillers live in an exaggerated reality or you just surround yourself with money obsessed vain people. Ah, yes, the "imaginary world" in which Red Pillers live as dreamed up by blue pillers. All we tell guys is, "use this set of tools to become the best version of yourself that you can be." That's it. If you are a 5'8 dude, there are things you can do to "raise your ceiling." You may not wind up in the top 10% or whatever, but you can maximize your chances. A buddy of mine is like 5'7 and ove… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:56 PM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).You're lucky. It tends to be a low-probability but also high impact, event. It's like being kidnapped; not likely at all to happen, but if it does, it really, really sux. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 05:26 PM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).{Words} Kindly note that I said "some women". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:21 PM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).It cracks me up how these arguments always assume women have male bosses. And yet, on a percentage basis, that is most likely. Maybe she enjoys the work she does for her company more than cooking and cleaning. Ofc. Note I said "some women are perfectly happy being SAHWs/SAHMs", etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:21 PM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).As I understand it, women spend much more time thinking about their own personal safety than men have to - I could much more reasonably leave my drink on the bar if I went to the toilet; you could not. I mean, I don't do that either, but still. Anyway, "protecting" is very much part of the deal. I have a situationship in another city. The first time I visited her (on a long weekend) she practically luxuriated while saying "I am soooooo happy I won't have to THINK for the next 4 days!!" Now she d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:17 PM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).The OP has been deleted but I read that as the OP's take and not the take of the hypothetical man, but I could, ofc, have been wrong in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:10 PM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).Never uderstood the protecting part of the deal If smth goes bump in the night, is Sally going to go all Tomb Raider, or is she going to tell Bruce laying next to her in bed to go check it out? Beyond that 50 years of adulthood is a long time to spend alone. Life is difficult and it's generally easier with a teammate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:11 AM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).Statistically, some do. There are inefficiencies in any market including the SMP. Men are rarely punished for being um "experienced", at any rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:10 AM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).Why are you assuming that he is going to treat her like property? Some women are perfectly happy being SAHWs/SAHMs, because they would rather take care of their husband/kids that work for another man who does not love them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:08 AM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).^ This. Everyone cuts his/her own deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:03 AM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).Cats. Lots and lots of cats. And one of the cats should be named "Whataboutism" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:02 AM |
| – | A man works hard his whole life, it’s fair for him to want to marry a young virgin woman (21–25).Everyone is free to want what they want, but in the end, you get what you get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 08:01 AM |
| 14 | Red-pill men, is a husband who beat his wife because she cheated on him less guilty?Are you willing to unequivocally condemn the man who said this, as well as all the red-pill influencers who propagate similar thoughts? Sigh. I am not a big fan of "loyalty oaths" or blanket condemnations, but I think your guy is wrong, here. Read on. From a legal perspective, we lessen punishments based on extenuating circumstances/diminished culpability all the time, although I am not sure this qualifies. I also do not know what the current state of the law is in NYS, but a million-billion yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 07:59 AM |
| – | Do you feel shame about desiring women?I absolutely do not, but I am also Gen X. In more recent times, women will try to shame men who do not meet their SMV requirements for having natural male desire. That's likely more common because of the opportunity to flex about it on social media. Thus we went from guys hitting girls at the gym, to guys quickly glancing over to see if a girl was done with her reps on certain equipment, but who then gets put on blast as "OMG! What a creeper!" when the guy was very clearly just seeing if she was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 07:18 AM |
| 5 | Do relationships where one person has a best friend of their partner's gender work?Is is possible? Sure. Is it optimal? Most likely no. Most male BFFs are, strictly from my own observation, doing the "boyfriend audition" and waiting around for Fair Juliet to "get it" that they are meant to be together, blah, blah. I have seen that with women also, but it's more rare. With women there can be an element of competition because the girl BFF, even if she is not sexually interested in the guy, certainly likes the attention she gets from him. Pro-Tip: As I am known as a bit of a play… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 07:13 AM |
| – | Why do men tend to be so mean to fat women?"...don't respect yourself" Basically true, although this can be a lack of knowledge etc. The food in the USA is PACKED with sugar. When I am in Europe or Australia I eat carbs and don't blimp out like I would in the USA. Secondly being fat as a women is actually hard. Women still look fit even with higher BMI ... I have never, not even once, asked a girl what her BMI is. I just know what "heavy" looks like. "don't try to keep fit." Yeah, that's a thing. Anyone can diet and exercise, a short kin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Friend got ragdolled in a wrestling match in front of his GFTo the victor goes the spoils pussy. Very few things dry up a pussy faster than losing a fight in front of her. The reverse is also true. I have had to intervene on a couple of occasions to back guys off and that results in increased humidity in low-lying areas. Once I was out late (after last call) with my then gf in a big city - Philly as I recall - and I wound up jacking a guy who got too close while looking like he had bad intentions - I warned him off but he was drunk and undeterred so I po… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/26 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Questions for red pilled guys, after seeing some recent debate clipsSo I’m basically the exact type of woman red pill hates, woops. That's no particular reason to hate you. Like everyone else, you are free to make your own choices. Just don't complain if they happen not to work out. I assume there is some likely tragic story as to how you came to foster your brother, but I admire you for that. Probably not easy to do at your age (also depending on his age). But family is important so props to you. 1 - Polyamory, as in “men should have multiple wives and cheat as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 08:07 AM |
| 1 | Red pill dudes don’t actually do better with women than other men. The ones who seem to do well do so because of a self fulfilling prophecyHere all this time I thought it was us who didn't claim you. TRP is ALL about self-improvement. If that results in more and better sexual options, then cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Red pill dudes don’t actually do better with women than other men. The ones who seem to do well do so because of a self fulfilling prophecyMost men that fall into RP spaces tend to be unsuccessful with women. Over at TRP, before it was quarantined, we would get a lot of guys who started by googling "Why did my gf dump me?" or "Why did my wife divorce me." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:10 AM |
| 7 | AskTRP MegathreadSo my guess is you're young, and that's a good thing - if so you have a lot of the most valuable currency in the world: Time. More good news - you have nowhere to go but up. Fix the things you can fix. You're already lifting. That's good. A lot of guys don't see results right away, which is also good. Just keep going. Also be sure to fix your diet if you haven't already - bodies are built in the kitchen and 80% of shit that goes wrong starts with what goes in your mouth. If you aren't a swimmer,… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/26 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Husband created AI porn.A code red, in this context, is a very stern warning, such as "You will delete that nonsense, never speak of it again, never do dumb shit like this again, and you will go to church EVERY Sunday for the next 6 months before I even THINK about letting you out of the dog house. If you do not, or if you backslide, I WILL be leaving you and I WILL be taking the kid(s) - and you can explain, in court, under oath, about your AI porn fetish." FR the problems other dudes have. I mean, I'm sarcastic and I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/26 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Husband created AI porn.Eebish. Homie needs a Code: RED. Is this "dumb guy being dumb" and he had it on his hard drive or is he putting it out on the internet or smth? Non-consensual "deep fakes" - porn of an actual person that they did not consent to - is illegal. Is anyone depicted underage? Because that is EXTRA-illegal. Like felonies/"for real" prison/registered sex offender illegal, at the federal level and in 90% of the states. I also wonder what this guy's search history looks like. If you are going to divorce h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/26 05:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I give a good blow job ?One can only admire that level of dedication to the craft. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/04/26 02:48 AM |
| 1 | How do I give a good blow job ?I'm a helper. I help people. ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/04/26 10:37 PM |
| 10 | Why do men develop oneitis so strongly?If men stopped simping, women would go broke in a week.. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/26 02:56 AM |
| 0 | Why do men develop oneitis so strongly?Going from abundance to scarcity sux ass for most men, because they have to start over from zero in the pussy department, and roll the boulder all the way back up the hill. Girls recycle bodies bc a guy she has already banged is N+0; men recycle bodies bc if she's already fucked you, you are N+0 to her, and therefore it's likely that she will sleep with you before some random stranger. Scarcity is why guys who can have rosters, so that one woman cannot walk out of your life with 100% of your pus… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/26 02:56 AM |
| 1 | AskTRP MegathreadYou get divorced. I wrote in the post that it's easier to do this from the jump. A wife isn't going to want to alter the deal she already has. What would she gain from it? Nothing. But, from her perspective, she could lose everything. She will likely throw a shit-fit, make you out to be the "bad guy" - which you would kind of be, and threaten divorce herself. You could propose an open marriage, but then that's open for her also . Do you have any kids? Do you mind getting divorced? What would you… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/26 02:41 AM |
| 1 | AskTRP MegathreadI prefer OLTRs. I enjoy feminine energy and the company of women. Also, this way, I'm never starting over from zero if a woman leaves. And if she does, I simply enjoy the other women in my life. Oh, and my stash stays intact. If a girl leaves, I don't get stuck paying her to fuck other guys and teach my kids to hate me. Simples. OLTRs: What They Are, And How To Manage Them -Open on your side, closed on hers. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/26 05:08 PM |
| 0 | I don't think I can live the life I want or be the woman I want to be if I have kidsSo to answer your second question: Yes I am. As you can see from my flair I am TRP Senior Endorsed, but on this side of the Red Pill I give (or try to give) RPW actionable advice in RPW terms (at least as I see it.) As for the first, it has just ben an observation as I go through life. When we are in our early 20s - very early in your case - we think that getting pregnant (or from a man's perspective, getting a girl pregnant) would be like the end of the world. But as women hit their later 20s I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/04/26 12:19 AM |
| 1 | I don't think I can live the life I want or be the woman I want to be if I have kidsGranted I'm only 21 This is part of it. I've seen a lot of women catch "Baby Fever" (sometimes called "Baby Rabies") ~27, regardless of whether they wanted to be a mom all their lives or never did. In E. Europe it's more like 24 or so, but that's changing as they become more Westernized. It's good that you are thinking about it, because some 80% of women who end up childless didn't get there on purpose. Good luck however it works out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/26 08:44 PM |
| 17 | How do I give a good blow job ?Well, I've never given one, but I've gotten plenty, so here are some tips from the "receiver" side of things. A. Don't leave out the undercarriage. Tongue and suck his balls. Run your tongue up on the "seam" where his scrotum meets his body. I suppose individual results may vary but I reeeally enjoy that. B. The "Male Clit." There is a spot on the underside of a man's penis where the edge of his corona (the outer part of the glans) fuses back into the head. That is a very sensitive spot on some … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/26 03:04 PM |
| 10 | Help me decideSo out of curiosity, if Guy 1 wasn't in the picture at all (i.e. never met him) would you be perfectly happy with Guy 2? I am not suggesting one over the other, but if the "negatives" of Guy 2 are only in relation to Guy 1, then we have learned, once again, that comparison is the thief of joy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/26 09:42 PM |
| 5 | I want to make sure he is serious about marrying me before I get any older. How do I broach the subject again for real this time?I assume he wants kids also. If this is the case then you have your discussion points laid out. A. "We both want kids." B. "We both want kids to be raised in a stable, 2 parent home." C. "We both want to be married to each other." D. "It's time to get on this." Best of luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/26 08:04 AM |
| 9 | I want to make sure he is serious about marrying me before I get any older. How do I broach the subject again for real this time?Have the convo with the sister first. That's my free piece of advice. She sounds like she's on your team on this. How well would he respond to an ultimatum? Because when you tell someone "my way or the highway" they can always choose the highway. Are you planning on having kids? If so, better to get on this, especially as you have been together for 10 years. I’m nervous if we wait any longer that he might leave me. you just never know. He (or you) can always leave at any time. That's how that wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/26 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Did I hit a dead-end?This is supposed to be her husband not some random house mate. A random housemate would...wait for it... be paying rent. :) lack of future planning. It's lack of agreement. Remember, we are only getting her side. He may tell us, "Oh, no way was I putting her on the deed until year x." We sometimes here smth different than our partners say, kind of like "You're not listening to me!" often means "You're not agreeing with me!" she is also now paying the bills for 2 people not one, whilst he gets to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/26 12:20 AM |
| 3 | Did I hit a dead-end?my household bills are about the same amount as my minimum mortgage payments, so like insaid he retains his investment and she doesnt. You wouldn't be paying rent, so, if you were in this situation, your single biggest monthly expense vanishes. She will stay renting and it's harder to save. She would have whatever she was spending on rent at her former residence. She doesn't have to be on the deed now but if there is no plan to own a house together personally I wouldn't be comfortable. Why shoul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/26 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Did I hit a dead-end?they are getting married... and she hasn't mentioned any indindication of being added. He may not add her at all; she's not automatically "entitled" to be. It's a pre-marital asset. I wouldn't be in a hurry to add her, either. ...so essential she is renting from him. That would be a pretty sweet financial deal as rent goes. She's getting a massive discount. ...she hasn't actually indicated this is the case so we don't know. I do recall the word "outraged." That's not a good word over smth that r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/26 08:17 PM |
| 11 | Did I hit a dead-end?When discussing how we'd like to handle it after marriage, he said he'd like to keep the same arrangement we have now. That to me is outrageous, I felt shocked he'd say that. This is the real issue. Reasonable people can disagree. Just because the other person wants smth different than you do doesn't make them wrong/a terrible person, etc. Ex. One of my sisters and her husband have their own personal accounts and they have worked out who pays for what, and do not necessarily have visibility into… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/26 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Did I hit a dead-end?Ultimatums are a bad idea. The person issuing the ultimate is actively manipulating/coercing their partner to force their viewpoint. That's not how you treat someone you love. ETA: the person issuing an ultimatum should not be shocked if it gets refused. I do that on principle, because if you show someone you can be coerced they are gong to keep doing it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/26 07:12 PM |
| 12 | Did I hit a dead-end?The most problematic thing here is the house doesn't have your name on it They aren't married yet. I wouldn't necessarily be in a hurry to add her name to it right after marriage, either, at least for a while, particularly as, from my perspective, she has some control issues - if I live in a house, that I bought, with my money, and I make 100% of the payments on, then there's going to be one name on the deed: Mine, period, full stop, the end. What he should 100% do is have some term life insuran… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/26 07:10 PM |
| 6 | AskTRP MegathreadA. Fix your health, and keep it fixed. Join a gym--and fucking GO to the gym. The heaviest weight you will ever lift is the door to the gym. Go, even if you just tell yourself "I will go for 10 minutes." Once you get there you will be fine. If you are broke go to Planet Fitness. It's $15/mo. If you cant afford that, google "Body Weight Workouts." Gains will be incremental. Just keep going. Also learn how to swim. Older you will thank you when you can still exercise at 70, after your knees are sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/26 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What Phases Do Men Over 40 Go Through?I think you’re still missing my point. It doesn’t matter what your conscious brain thinks you’re doing or how your conscious brain justifies it, your genes are on a mission, and like what they like. To give you a more concrete example, how old were the Playmates in Playboy? The average Playmate was about 22. The typical range was 18 to 25. there have only been a handful over 30. I bet you couldn’t even fill a monthly calendar year with them, out of 800+ women. Why isn’t there a MILF version of P… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/26 01:12 AM |
| 0 | What Phases Do Men Over 40 Go Through?I disagree with this generally. That's ok, it's not a crime to be wrong. While there are men 40+ that may seek out women for fertility, I would bet that there's more that seek younger women because they're vibrant and full of energy. So it's not that 2+2=4, but 3+1=4. Got it. Any man with his head in straight doesn't want to deal with the chaos that comes with a woman in her 20's. As /u/countessbathory07 correctly points out, this is a broad generalization. I do not invite chaos into my life and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/26 09:30 PM |
| 1 | What Phases Do Men Over 40 Go Through?I surmise that men, as they get older, will preference low maintenance vibes … Less tolerance for drama, gossip, emotional instability, shit testing, etc. Can confirm. For a long time now I’ve told girls if they can find a “Kate-shaped“ or “Holly-shaped” space in my life, they are welcome to stay. Sometimes the squeaky wheel gets the grease, but sometimes it gets replaced. If I wanted drama, I’d go to Broadway. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/26 05:52 AM |
| 1 | What Phases Do Men Over 40 Go Through?I wonder if most older men are attracted to younger women in their 20’s? Pretty much all of us are. You can check the data from Dataclysm if you’d like. Our genes tell us to seek out youth and beauty because of implied fertility. Of course there are not enough 20 something women to go around, nor are most 20 something, women attracted to older men. Those who can, do. That is not to say that a man cannot be attracted to a long-term partner with whom he has built a life. That is especially true if… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/26 05:45 AM |
| 2 | AskTRP MegathreadConsult a lawyer in your jurisdiction about about what to do. If she has left anything, box it up for her and arrange for it to be dropped off at her folk's house by a 3rd party. You may need to change the locks BUT you need to consult an attorney first. If you don't have a ring camera or similar you should install one so you can see if she enters when you are not there, trashes the place etc. Overall she's good, minus the frequent fights from her mental issues. So she's good, except when she is… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/26 09:00 AM |
| 2 | AskTRP MegathreadDon't be average. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/26 08:55 AM |
| 2 | AskTRP MegathreadWhat’s the happiest ideal long term dating strategy for men? Individual results may vary. Spin plates forever (won’t that get old/empty?) Why would it? Long term monogamous relationship? You mean like marriage? This is probably the winner if you want kids. LTR with cheating or open relationship? If you are going to do this, first read my top-level post on "OLTRs" and second be upfront about it. Cheating is scarcity mentality. Or something else I am quite happy doing what I do, which is have a co… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/26 08:55 AM |
| 5 | I’m confused. I can’t see any reason why a single man would want me at my age.So this: I’m confused. I can’t see any reason why a single man would want me at my age. But also this: I get compare[d] to young Megan Fox, and I’ll admit I have a really great body. I am confused as to what you could possibly be confused about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/26 06:57 AM |
| 6 | Red Pill Men Experience the Anger Phase. Red Pill Women Experience the Hopeless Phase.(\Male ECs: feel free to add/correct anything in the comments) You did a good job. That's pretty accurate. I will expand on this a bit, because, well, that's my thing, but also because it will help women understand what men are going through in the Anger Phase. What we see over at TRP (at least pre-quarantine of the subreddit) was mostly guys showing up because they just went through a very bad divorce or breakup and had googled - quite literally - smth like "Why did my wife divorce me?" or "Why… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/26 09:09 AM |
| 1 | how to weed out men who only want sex earlywhy did a couple of people on this thread just act like men are sex fiends that cant control their libido and HAVE TO ask the woman for sex the first time they see them? You asked for an explanation of why you were seeing this behavior, to wit: You: "What do you think? Does something make them act this way?" I provided an explanation. Also you: "I wanna ask you if theres a way to weed out these types of men without outwardly asking their intentions." Again, I provided actionable advice, which wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/26 04:13 AM |
| -1 | how to weed out men who only want sex earlySo the problem with the "Are you a fuckboi?" test is that it gives too many false positives. Why? Because good guys want sex, too. I wanna ask you if theres a way to weed out these types of men without outwardly asking their intentions. Why would you not want to ask? I get it that guys will be incented to lie, but just be clear from the beginning that you are dating with intention. Say you only have sex in committed relationships if that is in fact what you do. Does something make them act this … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/26 11:32 PM |
| 3 | how to weed out men who only want sex earlySure, but they will still want sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/02/26 05:29 AM |
| 2 | what do men want or find valuable in a woman?How women "aren't smart" Men and women typically have different skill sets. "aren't funny", etc. They can be, but humor is an evolutionary adaptation that allows a man to communicate intelligence, which is a trait that women like, and, makes him more likely, in theory anyway, to be chosen for sex. It's more necessary for us. I will say, there are some young female comedians now who I find genuinely funny, mostly because their acts are well thought out and not just "Men SUCK!" How men "don't care… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/26 09:12 PM |
| 17 | Oral sex vs. penetrative sex^ This. I just explained this in a similar way to someone the other night, at least the first part. Q: "Why do guys like head so much?" A: "Because we can relax and enjoy it." | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/26 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Wait for a better environment to date, or try it out here?Anyway. My husband says we are arguing at cross purposes for the most part, and men's definition of a standard seems quite different from mine, so I'll leave it here. Could be. We were disagreeing, but respectfully. In any case, I am happy for you that you ultimately found happiness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/26 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Wait for a better environment to date, or try it out here?^ This, with the caveat not to lead guys on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/26 06:20 AM |
| 4 | Wait for a better environment to date, or try it out here?OP will again be constrained by hypergamy to her own IQ or higher. It may not be just IQ. Again, this cuts down the pool of matches significantly. Even engineering students can be... Average. We have no basis to assume that. If the other students could be average, so then could she. No way to tell. She's at an engineering school and there WILL be intelligent men there. It also doesn't sound like she's going to Princeton, she's at a country University with maybe lower standards. It's going to mak… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/26 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Wait for a better environment to date, or try it out here?100 potential matches is no guarantee. It doesn't have to be. Also, it's not 100, it's hundreds She's at a university. She doesn't tell us the student population, but out of hundreds of guys she can't even find one she can date? We're not even talking marriage yet. I was in the same position as OP and have hard numbers. You have a sample size of one: you. The problem wasn't me, it was my SMV/IQ excluding a large swathe of men. That sounds remarkably like hypergamy to me. I mean, I'm glad things … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/26 05:45 AM |
| 6 | Wait for a better environment to date, or try it out here?I am not saying she "has" to do anything, but she is in a target-rich environment and cannot find anyone to date...really? Not anyone? I'm just saying she might want to have a think about why that is. FWIW, I would tell a man the same thing - if you are at uni surrounded by hundreds if not thousands of girls and none of them will date you, the problem isn't the women, it's you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/26 01:15 AM |
| 3 | AskTRP MegathreadWell it's having real consequences. For every 100 Koreans now there will be 4 grandchildren. And 4B isn't the only anti-natalist movement. Birthrates are below replacement in all or nearly all countries. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/26 11:34 PM |
| 14 | Wait for a better environment to date, or try it out here?^ This. OP, you are surrounded by men, 100% of whom are pursuing higher education. The rest of the world is dumber, and will be poorer. Hypergamy will dictate that you seek a man at least as educated and who makes at least as much $ as you. And there is a limited supply of 6'5, blue-eyed finance bros. How many students attend that uni and what % of them are male? As Susan Patton (Princeton, 1977; class president) wrote in The Daily Princetonian about a dozen years ago - and the reaction was pred… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/26 10:03 PM |
| 2 | AskTRP MegathreadEvolution gives zero fucks about the sisterhood. I think you are limiting your choices here by assuming everything is binary. It’s not. Women will, and do, defect from the sisterhood in a heartbeat if doing so improves their reproductive chances. Go ahead and explain the 4B movement then. I’m afraid you may have anchored yourself to a position and you may not want to move off it but it isn’t just a “either/or” situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/26 09:12 AM |
| 1 | AskTRP MegathreadRead the second bit. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/26 03:52 AM |
| 3 | AskTRP MegathreadThere is the "Sexy Son" Hypothesis - basically that mothers should encourage sons to be great big man-sluts (hi, mom!) but they see that as a betrayal of the Sisterhood. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/26 10:44 PM |
| 2 | AskTRP Megathreadbbbbut X characteristic in her is rare you're digging y It's scarcity mentality. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/26 06:18 PM |
| 3 | AskTRP Megathread"Not every relationship lasts forever - did you marry the first guy you dated?" | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/26 06:21 PM |
| 2 | AskTRP MegathreadShe's INSANE. Also go over to Married Red Pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/26 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Dating younger full of potential men?I know it’s quite a manipulative mindset I would have less of an issue with this if you were going to be a "benevolent dictator", but I'm not sure that's the case. Ex. I get my sunny extroversion from my mom. She had my introvert dad completely bamboozled - he was quite a good-looking man,1 and, at 6'5, he had godlike height but zero understanding of women2 - but she was also what RPW refer to as a GOLF - Goddess of Light and Fun. Usually, the extrovert woman - introvert man combination leads to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/26 06:17 PM |
| -1 | Dating younger full of potential men?Depends on the guy. I know some mid guys who became earners who are certainly "happy with what they have" because she was with him before the $. Back in the Day, before I became the Dark Lord of TRP,TM there were women I dated who were attractive, made sure I got enough sex, etc., and had they not managed to do whatever the female version of sperging out is, I could have married and been quite happy with. And I can actually get girls, so a guy who can't who but who scores one out of his league m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/26 06:09 PM |
| 4 | If a man asks me to fly out to see him should I expect him to pay?He always has come off as though he wants a relationship. He may well want that. But "good guys" like sex, too, and the two of you have a history. Are you suggesting that I make sure we’ve spend a longer period of time getting to know each other on the phone before visiting if it comes to that? He's already been inside your body - how much "getting to know each other" is needed at this point? What you want to do is clarify expectations, and see if they align with yours. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/26 06:07 AM |
| 0 | If a man asks me to fly out to see him should I expect him to pay?My expectations of what will come of seeing him are uncertain. He doesn't want to fly you down there to just look at you. If he asks me to see him, should I expect him to pay? Absolutely, signed, a guy who has flown girls in to meet him.1 That said, girls I fly in know what's up, so if sex is not on the table for you, but you still want to go, that's when you buy your own ticket. Here is your decision matrix: A. "I am going to have sex with him." - he buys. B. "I am NOT going to have sex with hi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/26 06:04 AM |
| 0 | Why didn't men want to date successful women in their 30sDon't you just hang out in coffee shops and libraries looking for the sad lonely introverts? Are you trying to stalk me or smth? I like introverts, and I am good with them - I can make them blossom - but my game is not limited to them, I do just as well with extroverts and ambiverts. You got the secret to pulling girls who didn't get any attention from their peers. Hey, don't sleep on nerd girls - beneath the glasses and the frumpy clothes very often there lurks a sex goddess. Just cause OP got … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/26 05:43 AM |
| 8 | AskTRP MegathreadThat signals low interest. You should be moving girls off of text and into Meat Reality as quickly as you can. Wr1tten has a patented line that he uses like "No one ever fell in love over text, so let's meet for drinks at {place} on {day} at {time}." If she gives you some "BuT i WaNTz To GeT tO kNoW yOu FiRsT!" crapola, reply with, "That's what dates are for." If she still doesn't want to meet up, move on; you don't need a texting buddy. Those types just want to waste your time and get free vali… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/26 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Finding a partnerSo you are bright, a high-achiever and tall, with a good body... GREAT! Seems like you were (or still are?) insecure about your nose, but as you got surgery, I assume that's in the past. You are in a bit of a pickle as women generally want men taller than they are, at least as intelligent, if not more, and who make at least as much $. You say most of the guys in town are much younger, although it would seem that can't entirely be true as there would be other faculty (not suggesting you date at w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/26 07:39 AM |
| 3 | Why didn't men want to date successful women in their 30sNow, now...be nice. In case you didn't notice, the OP concurred with me. I suspect that the men that the OP is going for are in their late 30s to their late 40s, and, given the description of where she lives, making well into 6 figures with a 7 figure net worth. Men like that, assuming that they have kept themselves fit and have acceptable table manners, will be able to date much younger women, which is what men's biological imperative is. I didn't make the rules; go argue with God/Nature/Aliens… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/26 07:28 AM |
| 10 | Why didn't men want to date successful women in their 30sThe type of men that successful women in their 30s want to date can typically date attractive women in their 20s. Hypergamy is a cruel mistress. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/26 06:36 PM |
| 4 | At what age do you think a woman’s “sexual market value” is highest and why?You are conflating SMV with RMV here. Having a well paying job has nothing to do with your SMV. Just like ability to cook really well would not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/26 09:14 PM |
| 5 | At what age do you think a woman’s “sexual market value” is highest and why?So the answer to this is:20 to 24. But really 20. I’m not making this up or saying it to be mean. I’m just looking at the raw data from Dataclysm. This does not mean that a man cannot be attracted to a woman older than that, even much older, or a long-term romantic partner in her 40s, or older. If we take out the “romantic” stuff and just think about what our genes want – which is to breed – men look for three things: Facial symmetry, which we call beauty. It is a marker of overall health and as… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/26 09:10 PM |
| 2 | called cute instead of hot, but I'm tallHey, better to be cute than mid. Anyway, even if you were a little potato, there’s a guy out there who likes little potatoes - Fun Fact: back in the old country there was a girl who we used to call “Kartoshka” which is a bastardized version of “little potato“ because well that’s sort of what she looked like. Let’s just agree that we said it with a lot of love. She was a sweet person. She did always have a boyfriend though. Statistically, 90% of us are not in the top 10% of looks. You just have t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/26 10:16 PM |
| 2 | called cute instead of hot, but I'm tallin our society of hunter eyes and great cheekbones So how’s the weather in Eastern Europe now? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/26 10:05 PM |
| 3 | New To ThisThe sidebar is this way ===> | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/26 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Do RP men actually treat women as disposables the way they describe it on their sub?So first, a seven-year-old TRP post is pretty deep in the weeds. You’re probably better off, avoiding TRP entirely and certainly not digging back that far. Assuming that we can take everything he says at face value, there are a few things to consider: Yes, bearing children takes a toll on a woman’s body. Most men are actually going to be pretty forgiving about that. For whatever reason that guy isn’t. But he’s an outlier. That said, there’s a difference between baby weight that she then turns ar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/26 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Do RP men actually treat women as disposables the way they describe it on their sub?So first, a seven-year-old TRP post is pretty deep in the weeds. You’re probably better off, avoiding TRP entirely and certainly not digging back that far. Assuming that we can take everything he says at face value, there are a few things to consider: Yes, bearing children takes a toll on a woman’s body. Most men are actually going to be pretty forgiving about that. For whatever reason that guy isn’t. But he’s an outlier. That said, there’s a difference between baby weight that she then turns ar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/26 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Waiting until marriage questionSo have you always wanted to wait for marriage? I ask because sometimes you run into a situation where a woman didn’t wait, but then wants to to later, and the pool of guys who will buy into that is even smaller than the pool of guys who will wait for a virgin. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/26 03:38 AM |
| 4 | Waiting until marriage questionYou should be upfront from the start because most guys are gonna feel deceived otherwise. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/26 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Do I stay?This is clearly a "her" problem. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/26 08:03 AM |
| 8 | I’m with a good man, i’m near the wall, but he wants to continue living in the state we relocated to and it’s nearly unbearable for me. To stay and be tolerably unhappy, or go and find a man who isn’t so passive?^ This. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/26 07:47 PM |
| 11 | Men who genuinely cannot attract anyone are not as common as people here think.Sooo.... "It's not as bad as you think, guys...you can date a single mom of 3 or a dwarf!" | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/26 07:45 AM |
| 3 | Would it be weird to not get my husband a V Day gift?By all means don’t bother getting him a gift for Valentine’s Day. He probably won’t notice or care. If I never got another gift or another compliment for the rest of my life, I would be perfectly fine. Your husband sounds like he probably feels the same way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/26 04:30 AM |
| 9 | Does society pressure men into relationships with women they do not truly want to be with?This coworker was tall and skinny, and later I ended up seeing a photo of his girlfriend, who he eventually married. She was obese and unattractive. Maybe they are soulmates. Plonk Anyway, yes, women plot all this shit out and think they can trade us like baseball cards. When I was in high school I was pressured by basically all of our mutual friends to date this one girl because she was 5’11 and I’m 6’2. She wasn’t terrible or anything, but she’s wasn’t someone I would’ve chosen to date otherwi… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/26 08:41 PM |
| 5 | Should a guy visit your city as opposed to you going to his for a first date?As a Rule 9 violation, I'd want to do the traveling. I am a lot safer on the road than a woman driving by herself. Having her come to me for the first date would not even be considered. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/26 07:10 PM |
| 3 | FIL cut my toddlers hair behind my backYeah, letting small things go, then big things come next. If they did this, then they definitely need a Code Red. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/26 08:19 PM |
| 4 | Can RPW cause a 180° change?IKR? I read “…the last around 20 guys I was seeing refused to form a commited relationships with me. I have always been the one putting in more effort, giving the sex very easily…” and thought “username checks out.” | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/26 04:06 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with some manosphere guys degrading women?So as an, um, “nicer” manosphere Rule 9 Violation, recognize that all content is not for you. As an example, when I give advice here, it is actionable in an RPW context, and in accordance with RPW guidelines. When I write for men, I write differently, because men and women communicate differently, and they need to hear things in a different way. A lot of what you see in the Manosphere is guys going through the “anger” phase. I forget who said this precise quote, but it is often true: “The truth … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/26 02:00 PM |
| 27 | When RP guys hear my takes.. it ends up turning into a disaster..First time on the internet? 🤣 People who agree with you, or at least understand where you’re coming from, don’t write comments. They just hit “like” and move on. You may also be getting reactions from guys who are still in the “anger” phase where they are just finding out that there is a “2nd set of books.” Ofc, sometimes simps are, in fact simps. Anyway, the algorithm drives this type of reaction so be grateful for your haters; they’re getting your content more views. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/26 10:03 AM |
| 16 | I’ve been seeing an older man. I don’t know what he’d want from me, or what meaningful contribution I could be making to his life beyond what he already hasSo at as Rule 9 Violation who routinely age gap dates younger women, I can advise as follows: It appears to me that for a man to pursue a woman and marry her, she’d ideally have to bring some irreplaceable, meaningful value to his life. I presume that the two of you are dating with an eye toward future marriage and family. What could a successful to the point of financial freedom man possibly want with a younger woman...hmm... think, think, think-think, think... Oh, right, her youth, fertility, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/26 03:27 PM |
| 10 | Lauren Sanchez - Married 3x now to a Billionaire - strategyLauren Sanchez is Hypergamy: End Game. How so? So she has her first kid with NFL baller Tony Gonzalez at age 31 (he was 25) so she locked down those 6'5, NFL Hall of Fame Genes. Alpha Fux Achievement: Unlocked. Technically Alpha Bux, as TG's career earnings turned out to be $74M. But she wasn't stopping at a mere deca-millionaire. She moved on to Patrick Whitesell (Net worth today around $500M), so she climbed the ladder there, had a couple of kids with him because rich dudes want a legacy. Thro… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/25 01:01 AM |
| 4 | Lauren Sanchez - Married 3x now to a Billionaire - strategyBezos gets to fraternize with the level of celebrity he didn’t have access to it. LOL. Bezos is, on any given day, is in the top 4 or 5 richest men in the world. He owns not only Amazon, but AWS, a spaceship company and a film studio. People take his calls. he gets to hang out with Kris Jenner I think you mean, Kris Jenner gets to hang around with him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/25 12:34 AM |
| 5 | Lauren Sanchez - Married 3x now to a Billionaire - strategyKeep the body in good shape. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/25 12:29 AM |
| 11 | How to stop worrying about getting too old to find the right man for me?So first, you can go ahead and block that guy if you haven’t already. Second, don’t be anxious over what you think you “should” have done differently in your early 20s. That is water over the dam. We’re fixing our eyes in the future. The good news is that you have done a lot of physical work; not being fat puts you ahead of probably 70% of everybody else. You also have recognized on the correct side of 30 what you want out of life and simply have to put a plan of action into place. If you have a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/25 12:38 AM |
| 10 | Do most men really want a woman that brings them peace or do they like the chaos?I know you’re 24 and everything, but isn’t this just too much drama? I don’t think it’s just his mom that the mental illness is limited to. A normal man is going to want peace. This is true to the point where I’ve actually dumped very attractive women because they were just too much chaos. No amount of “hot” makes up for constantly being too much work. At 35, he is what he is. He may want to just let this one go. I think you will discover that when you’re in a normal relationship again that it’s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/25 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What do we think about the « stay single in your (early) twenties » advice ?You should be vetting guys the whole way along. If you meet Mr. Right at 22, what value is there to waiting until you were 29 instead on the off chance you meet someone better? If a guy is a 90–10 guy, the current zeitgeist would say “dump him and look for 100” except most people are lucky to find 90–10. But yeah, be vetting guys the whole way along. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/25 03:42 AM |
| 2 | When “normal” stops being functional and responsibility matters more than explanations?Yeah, that too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/25 10:16 PM |
| 5 | When “normal” stops being functional and responsibility matters more than explanations?a common example we see here is the guy wants sex and so the woman thinks that’s all he wants and therefore counts him out. When the reality is that all men want sex and this doesn’t mean they don’t want a relationship necessarily ^ This cannot be repeated enough. Women underestimate the importance of sex to men, and the problem with the ”if he wants sex, then he’s a fckboi” test is that it produces far too many false positives. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/25 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Am I wrong for seeing a male provider behind my partners back?You are not wrong and your partner has some odd hang ups. If it was my partner, I would want her to get the best care available. For your partner, he thinks some pervy guy is going to be rummaging around in your lady bits, but for your doc it’s “Tuesday.” I mean, if your partner ever gets a prostate exam from a male doctor, does that make him gay? Does it make the doc gay? Of course not. It makes him a doctor and your partner the patient. Having had one of those before I usually joke about “don’… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/25 08:03 AM |
| 5 | just turned 21, worried about SMV peak, hitting the wall, afraid of agingSo as it turns out, it’s basically exactly 20–24. If you look at the Dataclysm data, that’s the group of women that men find most attractive for reason dealing with fertility mostly. I mean it’s not like there’s some expiration date at 25 like it’s Logan‘s Run either. What you have to recognize that there are seasons in your life and everyone has 30 years of being under 30. That’s the way the math maths. It’s like the playground: you have to get off the swing when your turn is over. Anyway, we r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/25 08:48 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that women over 30 are seen as lower value by men or don’t get quality male attention?What age range are you going for? I would think that you would have success in the 28 to 35 category easily, if you’re self description is accurate. One thing to watch out for as you get older, is that for a woman who’s average or less, aging is simply a biological process. For attractive women aging can become an existential threat. Don’t let that get to inside your head. Do everything you can to maintain your SMV overt over time and you will have better results in general. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/25 02:17 PM |
| 6 | Is it true that women over 30 are seen as lower value by men or don’t get quality male attention?You’re 27, not 57. If you’re in shape, stay in shape and if not get in shape. What age range are you looking at? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/25 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that women over 30 are seen as lower value by men or don’t get quality male attention?Hmm. I don’t know what to tell you because the only things I know about neuroticism is that is smth that (a) exists and that (b) other people have. I suppose I’m technically low neuroticism but you know that person that stays calm no matter what and always knows what to do even in high stress or even dangerous situations? Yeah, well that’s me. It’s actually pretty cool. So if I’m ever in a hijacking or a bank robbery, I’ll be the person who’s coldly calculating out what the easiest and best way … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/25 01:34 AM |
| 4 | Is it true that women over 30 are seen as lower value by men or don’t get quality male attention?Thank you. I try to keep my advice actionable for RPW, otherwise there's no real point to me being here. I like to see other people happy in their lives and relationships, even if I myself remain the Dark Lord of TRP,TM Also, the likelihood that the right guy (once he already chose you) stays happy with his partner as she ages is high if she remains the kind of partner he was hoping for, and continue taking care of herself and her fitness/appearance. Don't underestimate the value of having the "… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/25 08:32 PM |
| 24 | Is it true that women over 30 are seen as lower value by men or don’t get quality male attention?First, skip the neuroses; it doesn't help. Second, it may be helpful to think about it this way, as a gentle slope and not a cliff. Will you have more options in your 20s? For most women, the answer is yes, because you are younger, fitter, and more fertile. What to do about it: You don't say where you are in your 29s - could be 20, could be 29 - but if your goal is marriage and children, you should be vetting men for the qualities you are looking for in a partner.1 If you are early to mid 20s th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/25 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Does your partner pay for all your meals out?I pay for the first date, the last date and every date in between. There’s a rare exception let’s say where a girl will pick up tickets to a play or a concert or something to surprise me with. I wouldn’t expect a girl to fork over if we went to a seafood restaurant, but I would also probably also veto the seafood restaurant, because he who pays the piper calls the tune.An exception would be if a sushi place also serves decent teriyaki. Because that’s something I will eat. But if it’s exclusively… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/25 08:24 AM |
| 7 | Boyfriend lost jobDifferent guys are going to react differently, so Iwould recommend simply asking him how you can help. Just say “hey babe, I want to be supportive. How can I help?” Even if the answer it some version of "nothing", the gesture will be appreciated. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Postpartum and my husband has turned emotionally cruel. Is this abuse or stress?My point was about this particular story, not about how "Men/Women BAD!" but that a relatively new account that spams 6 subreddits with the identical story, which is fairly clearly ragebait, even if it's smth that actually happened - I suspect not, because there is an "orgy of evidence" about how one party was completely, totally and 100% at fault/is the antichrist/shot JFK should be viewed with a healthy skepticism. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/25 08:13 PM |
| -2 | Postpartum and my husband has turned emotionally cruel. Is this abuse or stress?Yeah, so based on the facts presented, this guy is pretty much a monster. That said this user has had an account for one month and has made six identical posts all at the same time across six different subreddits. That typically indicates a bot or a spammer delivering their payload. And does anyone else think that this guy is just too on point as the perfect movie villain? Because that’s the way he seems to me. The only thing he could do worse instead of sleeping in the other room is saying “I’m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/25 08:09 AM |
| 5 | Bad friends or products of liberal dating culture?A lot of men who judge women for their body count, in today’s world, are hypocrites. So as someone who is no doubt considered to be a Great Big Man Whore by most ladies here, let me let you in on a little secret: The guys who judge women on their body counts are not typically guys who have high body counts themselves. There are fundamentally two reasons for this: A. They are jealous of women's sexual agency. If guys could get laid with the ease that women could - if they chose to - nothing would… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/25 07:09 PM |
| 16 | Bad friends or products of liberal dating culture?People like this want you to be like them. If everyone is a slut then nobody is a slut. That's basically it. That is part of the appeal of "I don't have to listen to no MAN!" it means the speaker can go be a turbo slut without (so she thinks) consequences. It rationalizes her behavior in her mind so that she doesn't have to think about possible consequences someday. So yeah, you have to do what's right for you. Learn how to say that to people, along with "Thanks for your advice." Don't waste you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/25 06:43 PM |
| 6 | There was a lot of redpill men under a spousal homicide IG post who defended a man’s murderous actions.Yeah, so next time the middle schooler hurts my feelings, I’ll be sure to disconnect my Wi-Fi. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/25 08:40 PM |
| 5 | There was a lot of redpill men under a spousal homicide IG post who defended a man’s murderous actions.You do realize that you’re getting upset over something that somebody said that was intentionally offensive on the Internet, right? Put your phone down and slowly back away. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/25 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Getting Married Over the Wall at 42 (first marriage)and gotten married for the first time at 42 when according to RP men, I’m so far over the wall I can’t even see it anymore. Well, as an RPM, congratulations and I hope it works out for the both of you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/25 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Dating with a promiscuous pastA. Stop torturing yourself. It's not helpful. B. The number itself isn't so important, but it's a proxy for both damage and "What are the chances I get screwed over in a divorce?" C. By the time you are in your mid-20s, you are going to think to yourself, "Why did I get so worked up about this?" D. Generally the guys who feel this way are those who are not very successful with women. Me would loooooove to have the optionality that women have at sex. To most guys, it's like watching someone who i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/25 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Greeting My Husband At the Door After WorkWhat is shows is that the wife sets the tone in the home. She can make the atmosphere pleasant and cozy through her attitude and actions...or not. Nice work! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/25 03:25 PM |
| 10 | Field Report: Greeting My Husband At the Door After WorkThis is a really great way to be a “force multiplier” for your man. And if he’s had a bad day at work, it’s really going to turn it around for him and help him de-stress. Good job! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/25 10:17 AM |
| 9 | Male “feminists”A lot of times being a "male feminist" is a lot like being a "nice guy" - it's an alternative pussy-getting strategy that doesn't work. And just like a 'nice guy' feels he 'deserves the sex' because he's so nice, that can be true of male feminists - "Look how woke and good I am!" etc. Verdict: Avoid. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/25 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Got played like a fiddle by a married man and I feel incredibly stupidThis guy is a dick, and while there are some things you could have done differently, at bottom, he's a lying ahole. IMO, there is a less than 50% chance that his "long message" is true/sincere. It's just his exist strategy. Don't torture yourself, but remember the lesson. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/25 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Bad Business: Women become costlier, yet less attractive over timethe real tragedy is not admitting to even the possibility that you COULD be wrong. So here's the thing: I'm not saying the other side is "wrong." Everyone has to do what's right for them, and I am happy for people who are happy. What I have no patience for is married guys who presume to lecture me about how "miserable" and/or "unfulfilled" I am - and if I'm not unfulfilled, I must be inexperienced or a psycho. A psycho? Really? It's like they can't justify their own choices without shitting on m… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/25 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Bad Business: Women become costlier, yet less attractive over timePeak fertility is between 17-22. Evidently, you don't know what the word "near" means. What we know from Dataclysm and other sources is that men prefer women from 20-24. Overwhelmingly. It is how it is. I don't make the rules. Around 33-37 she'll know what she like and dislikes, and know her way around the bed like no other. Hey, good for her (them). And if you want to fuck MILFs, go ahead, but this "herp, derp, WiMMiNZ iZ morE ATtrActivE at 37" bit is nonsense. Imagine being that clueless hahah… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/25 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Bad Business: Women become costlier, yet less attractive over timeThe “sexual peak” of a woman is not 37. Just by 37 they stop giving a shit and act like men and slut it up if that’s what they want to do. On average, women are much more attractive to men between 20 and 24. Near peak fertility. Just because some wine aunt fucks her way through a bunch of younger guys when she’s in her late 30s doesn’t mean that’s her “sexual peak.” If the “hottest woman {sic} you know are in their late 30s“ then you obviously don’t know enough young women. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/25 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Bad Business: Women become costlier, yet less attractive over timewelcome to the RP. brother. You seem young and new around. BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Someone tell this knucklehead who I am. I haven’t read more off base post since someone told me I needed to “go read VasiliyZaitzev’s posts” to learn something. Seriously. Thank you for the belly laugh. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/25 01:55 PM |
| – | Women lie on men all the time and nothing happens to themI think you mean Alice Sebold, the author of "Lucky" and "The Lovely Bones." She was raped when she was a freshman in college, and misidentified the man she believed had raped her, but then corrected herself after being prompted by police. The man she identified, Anthony Broadwater, served 16 years of his sentence before being released. His conviction was later overturned on a motion of his attorney which was joined in by the D.A. Sebold, to her credit, apologized to him publicly. Another case w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | The primary way to fix a good portion of dating issues in the next 30 years is to increase public transportation, third spaces, decrease cost of production and increase wages.Not sure how you are going to "fix the apps" because for women they are online Hypergamy & Validation Machines - if you are a Hottie With a Body or a Cutie with a Booty, living in Kansas City, or Detroit, your dating pool isn't local anymore. It's: The Earth. You have guys in your DMs from LA, NYC, Vegas, Dubai, etc. Instead of marrying cardiologist or lawyer locally, which may have previously been the best way to leverage your beauty into economic security, now you're on yachts - although than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 02:48 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highIt's a skills-based activity; things will become more clear with experience. At this point, I can pretty much see the Matrix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highProbably smiling at me a lot. I am reaching way back to through the mists of time for this, but I don't recall any casual touches etc. As I noted, she was very introverted, so smiling and engaging me in conversation counted at "flirting" to her. Look for body language. Lingering glances. Looking away then looking back. Smiling. Touching your upper arm or chest, being receptive to touch from you. That sort of thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 06:11 PM |
| – | Husband is very deeply involved with crypto and it feels like a strain on the relationshipSo you're saying "but....marriage" rather than looking at my advice, which was solid. I gave her fair warning that I was going to take the counter point, and I gave her solid advice as to how to have the conversation that she wanted to have. Simples. That has nothing to do with marriage, so "but you're not married" isn't material, it's an excuse. She clearly - and nothing wrong with this - wants him to go back to having a "regular" job with a W-2, probably because women view that as "security". … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/25 06:08 PM |
| – | Husband is very deeply involved with crypto and it feels like a strain on the relationshipOh, no worries; I am not here for the karma and I can handle the smoke. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they say women's standards are too highIf you don't have solid game, you might not be detecting it. As an example, the woman who became my primary uni gf thought, on the night we met, that she was flirting with me outrageously. I just thought she was being nice. She was very introverted, so that explains her half of the equation. Luckily for both of us, I will pursue to the point of failure, and she kept greenlighting me, once I decided to pursue her. So from what you tell us, it's more likely that you need to (gently) pursue women m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 12:16 PM |
| 0 | Husband is very deeply involved with crypto and it feels like a strain on the relationshipfrom someone who’s actually not married. So what? If I go to a doctor to get an injury treated, I don't insist that he have had the exact same type of injury, so this isn't particularly relevant. especially since it’s really not an insecurity issue It absolutely is, whether you want to admit it or not. Whether or not that's justified is another matter. You're afraid that you're going to wake up one day, walk into his home office (or whatever) and say, "I see the cow is gone....do you at least ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/25 02:56 AM |
| -7 | Husband is very deeply involved with crypto and it feels like a strain on the relationshipSo, as a Rule 9 Violation, I will take the counterpoint, and try to explain what I perceive your husband's POV to be. Don't get caught up in right/wrong, just take what I say as a best guess of what his viewpoint might be. I don’t really understand it ^ This is the real problem. Plus some control issues. Full Disclosure: one of the more lucrative things I do is currency trading. It's one of those things you either get or you don't. I would find it very frustrating to take time away from making m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/25 05:39 AM |
| 5 | How to raise my value as a woman with pastSo I wouldn't torture yourself, 7 isn't the end of the world. In general, as a Rule 9 Violation, I would want to know the number, but I wouldn't be very judgey about it, within reasonable parameters. It's less about the actual number - there is no number where a girl goes from being 'normal' to 'harlot' with the +1 body - and more about what you're dealing with that interests me. There is research that shows that women's marital satisfaction decreases roughly in line with body count, but it neve… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/25 05:26 AM |
| 5 | How to find a traditional, old school gentleman as someone who hates the idea of dating apps?Have you put it out there to the Ladyfolk Network that you are looking and would be open to introductions to age-appropriate sons/nephews/etc.? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/25 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Help - in relationship with 45 year old manSo it seems he has his own set of issues to work on. Two imperfect people having a relationship! Who would have ever thought this could happen?! It seems that both of you have some things to work on which you should both probably be doing individually. Not every person is fully formed yet, although at 45 I'd want him to be doing a bit better than shutting down/getting angry - once upon a time, my then-gf was asked if I beat her (not based on any evidence, but just because it's a possibility) and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/25 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Help - in relationship with 45 year old manSo despite my history of large age gaps, there are things here I find concerning. Some are about the guy and some are about the OP who, from her other history on Reddit, seems to struggle with, in her words, "depression, ocd, and dissociation." Additionally she posts separately needing help "changing the belief in my head that guys aren't kind or thoughtful, and only see women as 3 holes and a house slave" Not an ideal starting point. That said, as we look at the guy: he has a lot of knowledge a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/25 07:49 AM |
| 3 | Help - in relationship with 45 year old manWe’ve been living together a month and im originally from the uk, now in Bali where he lives Is he an expat there? Is there anything you aren't telling us, like he's Islamic and wants 4 wives or smth? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/25 10:02 AM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on Orion Taraban’s teachings?Taraban has some good insights. His book "The Value of Others" is particularly good. Or are there red pill relationships where it is still built on love, teamwork, and the general dreaminess of finding your other half? It's great if you think your partner is dreamy, but that doesn't mean that other factors, such as hypergamy, don't exist. Taraban is a very realistic guy and that comes out in his content, so if you're still in the "Honeymoon Phase" - basically the Disney version - it might sound … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/25 09:54 PM |
| 16 | AITA for wanting to leave my Bf after he said " You are just like a man"Some years ago, I told the woman I was dating that she would’ve made a good man. She beamed and then chuckled and said “I just realized that that is the highest compliment you will ever give me.” In her case, I said it because she was highly competent. Generally, when a man says this to a woman, it means she’s really easy-going and fun to be around. Plus he get to have sex with her so it’s even better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/25 04:33 AM |
| 11 | Bad Business: Women become costlier, yet less attractive over timeThat feels like propaganda from the Marriage-Industrial Complex, brought to you by Walt Disney. Not that you’re intentionally pushing it but that’s what it feels like. I mean if marriage is so wonderful how come half of them fail? Of those that don’t how many of them are just medium sucky? I mean, if you’re happy, God bless - my parents also had “storybook love” – but the position of the “Cathedral” is that a single life is unhappy and unfulfilled, and I can assure you that it is not. Why would … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/25 01:48 PM |
| 9 | Bad Business: Women become costlier, yet less attractive over timeHey, you’re entitled to love your wife but don’t get it twisted up to this whole idea that women are more attractive in their 30s because they aren’t. We all basically dig 20 to 24. I just get to live it. If you arent miserable you dont know what to be Not sure what this is about, but I assure you I am well pleased with my life as it is. Zero marriages, zero divorces. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/25 10:49 AM |
| 5 | Bad Business: Women become costlier, yet less attractive over timeNobody ever thinks it’s going to be them. But whatevs. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/25 05:26 AM |
| 13 | Straight from the Horse's MouthWhile men want a "good girl" who is only "bad" for them, women want a "bad man" who is capable of great violence but who is "good" to them ("because I'm nice, and he loves me.") Thus the "Beauty & The Beast" archetype in which the "Beast" is transformed into a handsome prince all due to the love of a good woman, etc. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/10/25 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Bad Business: Women become costlier, yet less attractive over timeBut there’s a million other more important reasons NOT to get married as a red pill man. FTFY. Why would any rational person enter into a future contract where the other party's obligations can be freely withdrawn at any time, while yours cannot, and which they are incentivized to break and be awarded with cash and prizes? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/25 09:23 PM |
| 20 | Bad Business: Women become costlier, yet less attractive over timenow i’m married and have a kid and kind of laugh at it “women become ugly once they hit 30” ok maybe to a 20 year old but not to men also in their 30s. Sounds like "wife goggles" to me, bro'. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/25 09:18 PM |
| 4 | I miss pre Me too interactions with menYeah, I think with most people meeting on apps now there’s no need to do it in public because if you get rejected on an app, nobody sees it, I guess. I will still approach a girl in public, but I also have enough savoir faire to stay out if trouble and not make it awkward. Add to that that the message sent out was “Don’t approach us!” So guys stopped. Nobody wants to be put on blast. Also having worked in an HR adjacent function before, I can tell you, there are plenty of complaints. That are re… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/25 12:16 AM |
| 2 | I miss pre Me too interactions with menOr something someone lies about. I’ve seen that happen too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/10/25 12:04 AM |
| 0 | How do we find Middle Ground between Conflicting Needs?I’ve never understood this kind of “scorekeeping.” There’s an old New England expression and maybe it’s from somewhere else, but I learned it in New England, “Many hands make for short work.” That said was there something about the way things that were done in his birth family that you think might be driving this? There are a couple other things to think about. First there’s a tendency. to say “well all you have to do is x, y and z” without realizing that even though those are the three steps, t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/25 09:37 AM |
| 5 | Fiancé wants me to wear glasses on our wedding day?So this is what engaged people fight about? It’s your wedding day, and you get to present yourself how you want. At the same time saying something like “Oh but when I was a little girl, I didn’t imagine wearing glasses” like you are somehow betraying your five year-old self sounds goofy. One thing you should consider for the future is getting yourself some nice Lindberg (or similar) rimless frames. I’ve actually had people ask me if I wear glasses while I had them on. It’s funny really. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/25 07:01 AM |
| 2 | High SMV Aesthetic Men’s Instagram Accounts?It’s not complicated. It was more common back before we were quarantine, but from time to time young women read my body of work, especially the series on submissive women and the slave girls series and for those who have those tendencies who’ve never had someone they could talk to them about, well, now there’s me. Things proceed from there. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/25 06:42 AM |
| 3 | Boyfriend had a bad day, how can I help? I’m away on vacation.Show him your boobs. It’s been scientifically proven that men cannot be unhappy while they’re looking at boobs. I mean, if you’re comfortable sending him nudes. If you’re not obviously then don’t. I’m kind of interested in the seven week solo trip. Is it a grand tour thing or are you doing something specific that takes 7 weeks? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/25 06:38 PM |
| 7 | Should I leave my marriage over this?First, let's do an inventory: A. You have a husband who loves you and who you love. and B. You wish he was more ambitious/richer for reasons that you never really articulate - "I've always dreamed of" isn't a reason. Also this: "I also fear that the kind of man I dream of is unlikely to be faithful, single, or even available to me, or would even make me happy." Ok, a bit of reality, that's good. But... D. "I get jealous and resentful when I see friends or family back home who are growing financi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/25 04:31 AM |
| 3 | High SMV Aesthetic Men’s Instagram Accounts?Every site is a dating/mating/plating site. I get laid off of Reddit - REDDIT - with entirely normal (if secretly freaky) girls you would actually want to have sex with. It's nuts. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/25 06:23 AM |
| 1 | I have Blonde FatigueIt seems to me that it's dark dudes who worship blondes. To me it doesn't matter. I have blond hair myself, it's no biggie. Current lineup is 3 blondes and 2 brunettes. Main chick (aka Blondie) and I were walking in Budapest in the late winter, she has on an overcoat an a knit cap, so only her face and her hair (out of the back of the cap) is showing and, sure, some Turkish looking MFer shouts "You're BEAUTIFUL!" at her. I say "Thank you" and nobody breaks stride. Not sure where he thought that … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/25 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Be selective; avoid taken womenSo back in my Dirty 30s, I got a lot of "no strings attached" offers from married women. On the one hand, nobody misses a slice from a cut loaf, but on the other, you might catch 2 in the chest. So I declined, because it's bad karma and the center never holds. Why It Happens I had a cool life. You probably do to. I was working as a lawyer then, buffed out, playing in bands, etc., and hubby was probably skinny-fat at best, plus she picked up his socks, and she'd seen him on the toilet, etc. Why I… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/25 04:56 AM |
| 3 | Would you show up?He got me my favorite snacks so it’s currently looking more like that? Oh, he also wants to bone, but what's wrong with that? The dating market is pretty bad these days, and he seems like he's been giving you "girlfriend treatment" thus far, but one of the points to having a girlfriend is the sex. You may be reacting this way because it's good and not toxic, like you're used to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/25 07:22 PM |
| 5 | Would you show up?unfortunately a lot of my past has slipped out to him already. That's actually better than lying to him by a mile. How did he react. If it was me I would have said smth like "Well, we all have a past," and let it go. If that came out on date 2 and he's trying to get you over for date 5, he seems to have accepted it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/25 05:09 PM |
| 4 | Would you show up?It's def a smush session, but what makes you think it's the "final" one? If it was a pump-n-dump, he'd have dumped you already. He’s a good guy, pays for everything, protective, and sweet. So...maybe he likes you. Let me let you in on a little secret: good guys like sex, too. Biggest red flag is that he accidentally said he loved me on our second date. Or he really likes you. You have already slept with him, so he is N+0 for you now. If he has to work in the upcoming weeks you can send him off w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/25 05:07 PM |
| 2 | I have Blonde FatigueThe "dumb blonde" stereotype has a basis in biology. Blonde hair is a signifier of youth, which is why non-blonde women will bleach their hair. The best explanation I've heard for the "dumb blonde" is that the blonde hair many women have in youth will often grow darker over time, so the average age of blonde women, back through the misty sands of time, was younger than brunettes, so blondes as a group may have been more naive than brunettes as a function of youth. As for the "inflated SMV of blo… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/25 04:18 PM |
| 2 | I have Blonde FatigueYeah, I linked directly to TRP instead of using the archive bit. I’ve been meaning to fix it, but I just haven’t gotten around to it. Basically, I explained the dumb blonde stereotype, and also pointed out that to the extent blonde women are conceited a lot of of that’s being fed by the idolization of blondes by swarthy dudes. It’s a self-perpetuating problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/25 07:27 AM |
| 2 | When women say "You are a good listener"A couple of pro-tips. A. When a woman says "You aren't LISTENING to me!" you can substitute in the word "agreeing" for "listening." B. Women also don't want you to solve their problems, even though, if you did, there wouldn't be any problems. When you solve, what your are doing, in her fuzzy pink brain, is telling her that her silly little feeeeeeeelings don't matter. C. So when a girl tells you that you are a good listener you are probably listening to her too much. D. Watch It's Not About the … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/25 09:00 PM |
| 7 | I have Blonde FatigueThe "dumb blonde" stereotype has a basis in biology. Blonde hair is a signifier of youth, which is why non-blonde women will bleach their hair. The best explanation I've heard for the "dumb blonde" is that the blonde hair many women have in youth will often grow darker over time, so the average age of blonde women, back through the misty sands of time, was younger than brunettes, so blondes as a group may have been more naive than brunettes as a function of youth. As for the "inflated SMV of blo… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/25 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Finding beauty (or, put on his love goggles for a minute)A lot of female insecurity is just marketing. For example, at no time have I heard any man I know say anything like “Damn, she would be FINE, if only she had a couple big fake ass caterpillar looking eyelash things pasted on! Too bad she doesn’t. I’ll have to pass.” Also, don’t look at fashion models and think that you’re fat. Fashion is run by gay guys and ladies of a certain age. If fashion was run by straight men, there would be a lot more Booty on DutyTM and Tiddy on the Committee. Fashion m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/10/25 06:47 PM |
| 5 | I have Blonde FatigueIt's a play on "Black Fatigue." | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone successfully avoided signing a marriage contract and managed to receive benefits?God is not going to fuck you Job might disagree. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/25 05:08 PM |
| 2 | The TEA Has Been SpilledGreeeeat. I suppose the move would have been to deny all of it, claiming revenge posting and that's that. Basically, "I fucked her 10 years ago and she is STILL not over me, and is not making up a bunch of crapola." | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/25 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Boys Sowing Wild Oats vs. Girls Staying PureSo I just checked, and it appears that men have higher marital happiness that women nearly every stage, and, while it mostly correlates, there is a big difference at 6-10 but it really swings wide at 4 partners, and 6-10 partners. For some reason 5 partners doesn't seem to cause a difference in marital satisfaction. Also, while the chance of marital happiness decreases with body count, it never seems to go below 50% - although women at 6-10 bodies get close, so if someone does rack up bodies, th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/25 06:17 PM |
| 5 | When should I start offering to pay for dates with the man I’m seeing?I hope it works out. You may be experiencing a form of "gender blindness" where we feel that the opposite sex wants the same thing in us that we want in them. Most older guys are not going to expect a woman to be a "provider," - while this is personal to me, in general I pay for the first date, the last date and every date in between, but I'm also an older guy. Individual results may vary, ofc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/25 05:55 PM |
| -2 | Boys Sowing Wild Oats vs. Girls Staying PureI would not be shocked if that was true for men that higher level body counts, but I don’t recall there being much of an effect at lower ones. /shrug | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/25 03:03 PM |
| 10 | When should I start offering to pay for dates with the man I’m seeing?As a guy who does smth similar, I can tell you: He doesn't care, and doesn't expect you to offer. I also don’t want him to think that I’m just dating him for the nice dinners (which is not the case at all!) He knows. We can tell who is going through the motions. We’ve been talking about my baking a lot and I was thinking maybe for the third date I can bring him a few pieces of pastry I baked myself? Would that be too much? Not too much at all. It would be a nice gesture. It will give you an open… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/25 04:25 AM |
| 0 | Boys Sowing Wild Oats vs. Girls Staying PureEverly sleeps around at 24 for validation or her own ego ... doesn't mean she can't grow up, realize the error of her own choices, either pragmatically or morally (because they are 100% hers), settle down and be a doting wife and mother. She can, but there is a trend where marital happiness and bodycount are inversely proportional. Men do this just as often Entirely different for us. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/25 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Boys Sowing Wild Oats vs. Girls Staying PureMy husband is my second kiss. He has no idea what number I am. That second one likely doesn't mean anything. I could guestimate my number, but I don't know it or have a chart because body count w/r/t men only matters to guys who struggle getting laid. So it may not be that he's in triple digits and it could be that he just doesn't care. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/25 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Wife's gone frigid. Advice needed.Withdraw attention. Start going back to the gym. Be polite, but be your own man. | /r/askMRP | 02/10/25 10:05 PM |
| 2 | In the world of actual high value people, is the red pill truly valid?Yes, way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/25 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Help?So it seems you guys are pretty far apart in terms of compatibility issues. When he tells you that you’re overreacting, to him, you are. He just thinks more things are playful than you do. That’s a “point of view” issue. About the dress thing, does he want you to wear only short skirts? Could certainly one could wear dresses that aren’t revealing, but leggings that are. Not sure I fully understand this one. So when you say “slapping“ do you mean hitting you in anger? Or do you mean like a light … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/25 08:54 PM |
| -1 | Help?I don’t know that kind of depends. If it’s a slap to the face that’s one thing but a playful cuff on the butt shouldn’t be the end of the universe. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/25 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Complicated situation — was it cheating if we weren’t official, and is there any path to trust?I literally thought “39 is way too old for high school.” | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/25 12:15 PM |
| 3 | In the world of actual high value people, is the red pill truly valid?Hi there. RPM come from all social classes and all walks of life. I trained as a lawyer, and am admitted in 5 states - some people collect baseball cards, not me. Wr1tten is an I-Banker, Archwinger is a patent lawyer, RPU Mike is a top salesman, JoeDee is ex-military and a a consultant. As for what such a man likes, I don’t care if my girl is the CEO or the sweeper-upper at night, provided she’s fit, feminine, friendly and fun. My current primary told me the other day, apropos of nothing, that I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/25 06:58 PM |
| 2 | The Man of YOUR Dreams!Guys interested in this topic will benefit from: Become the Prize -Master your life. Become the Prize. You Never Stop Competing -Life is About the Struggle. Here's What You Need to Know to Win. "Women are a Lagging Indicator" or "If You Build It, They Will Come" -Fuck Bitches, Stack Paper. Fitness, Finances, Fun, Fucking -The Four Fs You Need to Know for the Future. Life After 30: How to Be an Old Guy -You have one life. Here's how to enjoy it. How to Age Like Wine From a Guy Who is Doing It. -H… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/25 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Not being "that" special girl“No, we don’t”, signed, 100% straight guy. I think you are misreading the OP. She’s worried about not being the “special girl“ that her man did everything “first” with. I don’t know about you, but I couldn’t care less that any subsequent girl after my first girlfriend I had sex with was a “first.“ | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/25 11:56 AM |
| 13 | Don't think I'm ever going to get married or have childrenThat’s the first thing that crosses my mind if I find out a woman has a high body count. But there’s some kind of drama and probably some father absence. I just saw an Instagram reel that illustrated this brilliantly. It started with a snitch and attractive woman saying her body count was 500 and she wanted to see where the other girls were and there was one who replied “Oh, I’d be right there with you except that my father kept saying this really annoying thing to me over and over again when I … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/09/25 09:28 AM |
| 10 | What to do when the man nagsOh, boy. I love naggers. I mean, I hate what they do, but I love torturing them. My three favorite responses none of which will be applicable for you, but they are fun: A. “What is WRONG with you?” B. “Are you trying to get punched?” (directed at opinionated males) C. “Make it stop. Make. It. Stop.” D. “Hey, why don’t you start a fight?” (this one is always the last stop before I start rummaging around the Oval Office for the nuclear code books. Members of my family understand that when I say th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/25 01:39 PM |
| 6 | What Are The Best Skills A Girl Can Acquire Before Marriage?So it seems you already have the skill, but I will reinforce it: Cooking. There is nothing like a hot meal prepared with love. For you as we’ve already developed this, it may mean venturing into a new style of cuisine but the more dishes you have in your repertoire better offer you’re going to be. This one has been touched onto, but I will repeat it: basic bookkeeping and household budgeting. Really all of the traditional feminine arts. I helped a friend of mine move and as it turns out, she’s q… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/25 05:00 AM |
| 0 | How to ACTUALLY tell if a guy doesn't watch pornThis is useful for those women who regard any porn use as a dealbreaker. I think it can be problematic for those guys who have addictive personalities who cannot control their usage in the same way, but some people can use opiates to relieve pain and be just fine and other people wash down on 30 Vicodin with a fifth of vodka and then don’t wake up. What’s problematic for one group is not for another. I am only a rare and casual user of porn because my teenage years were in the 1980 might have se… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/25 07:23 PM |
| 3 | I feel bad for women who deep down want a soft life but media manipulated them into thinking men want another manever since I met my boyfriend. I can name that tune in one note. Often times it’s not people way above or below us in the social hierarchy who are the problem, it’s our peers. People at/near your level, socially can be catty about you improving your lot, esp if they ferl you sre now foung better than they are. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/25 10:54 PM |
| 1 | I feel bad for women who deep down want a soft life but media manipulated them into thinking men want another man“DOWN GOES FRAZIER!! DOWN GOES FRAZIER!!” 🤣🤣🤣 FR, genuine chuckle. ETA: Another dagger would be “It is nice, and the sex is great, too!” | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/25 10:50 PM |
| 4 | I feel bad for women who deep down want a soft life but media manipulated them into thinking men want another manSo much this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/09/25 10:48 PM |
| 16 | He wants me to work and homeschoolSituations like this or why the phrase “easier said than done,” was invented. While it is theoretically possible, to me that would be an “either/or” situation. Proceeding on the basis that he wants to is a great way to have a completely stressed out and unhappy wife. The cure for this would be to have him take on an identical workload. I bet he doesn’t last a week. I had a summer job in which I had a boss who didn’t really understand the amount of work that was required to do what I did … until … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/25 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Help me be okay with my boyfriend’s choice of wordsThat seems to have worked more than once with you. That is the risk he runs by padding the clock. I am reminded of an old joke: “In the early evening, offer your wife and aspirin. If she says ‘but I don’t have a headache,’ you’ve got her. But it will only work once.” I am a big fan of “leaving time for trouble.” While Russians tend to view agreed times as “suggestions” my father indoctrinated me into his Anglo time sense. So if I say “7 PM,” it means 7 PM. Being a bit late for a restaurant reser… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/25 08:58 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible to ensure sexual compatibility while waiting until marriage?I’m afraid the OP is going to read this and think “new fear: unlocked.” | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/09/25 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Being secure in a relationshipCan I ask what a “random local girl” is? Is it a girl who he knows personally? Is it a girl that is a normal girl with a normal social media who just happens to live in the same town? Is it just any e-girl? I ask because I find it odd if someone is jealous about some random girl who does bikini pics or whatever. That seems to say something about insecurity more than infidelity. If you were thinking that he shouldn’t be looking at other girls, I’ve got news for you: we all look at other girls, ev… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 05:45 PM |
| 4 | Help me be okay with my boyfriend’s choice of wordsOh, even then. If I was driving my elderly mom somewhere and I saw a guy by the side of the road, I’d call a road ranger for him, but I would keep driving. And clearly you don’t pick up a hitchhiker who looks like a total Tweaker, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Help me be okay with my boyfriend’s choice of wordsI love it, and told him that, but how he phrases it just rubs me the wrong way. So here are a couple things for you to think about if you’re in a philosophical mood. I will sometimes say to a woman I am dating that I will “let her” choose the restaurant or the activity or whatever. I don’t say that in any kind of condescending way, but out of recognition that it’s 99% of the time me that does the picking, which is generally how women I date want it - I’m very good at logistics and generally pret… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Help me be okay with my boyfriend’s choice of wordsIt’s less that picking up a hitchhiker is “unsafe” than it is if you’re wrong, it can go badly. So it’s a low risk-high impact event like a kidnapping. It’s not gonna happen to you, but if it does, it really sux. I’ve had to hitchhike twice in my life because of a disabled vehicle. Both times it was women who stopped to help me. In one case it was a middle-aged lady and her elderly mom. They were very calm about the whole thing and insisted on taking me to my sister’s house - I would’ve been hap… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/25 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Relationship anxietyIs that a "pro" or a "con"? /heh Full Disclosure: I am generally against spanking kids, but in favor of spanking girlfriends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/25 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Dominant but traditional, can it be conciliated?So generally, those things don’t go together. I think the guy that you were looking for probably has a super responsible job and just wants to turn it off when he comes home and let someone else make the decisions. As it happens, one of my former girlfriends is now a professional dominatrix. She says that’s the type she sees most often who are high-powered in their work spheres but want to cede power in their personal lives either because of stress or some other reason. I mean some guys who are … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/25 01:26 AM |
| – | Roast me: Went Off Strategy Dating Younger, Ended Up Burned — What’s the Lesson?The lesson is: this guy is an ass clown. As someone who dates non-monogamously, it is important to be clear from the jump. Then you let the other person make their decision. You don’t suck them in and then trauma dump on them. “I cheated because my last girlfriend was mean to me!” Get outta here with that BS. It’s the smaller version of someone confessing an affair years later because they “want to get something off of their chest.” No they want to transfer the guilt. They feel to their partner … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/25 10:00 AM |
| 6 | Why would they friend request me 5 years later?As /u/CountTheBees as directly pointed out, it is most likely sex. Other possibilities are that you were suggested based on having common friends, got tired of looking in with the “friend suggestion” every time he logged in, might have grown up a bit in the ensuing years. But based on everyone’s age, “wants to bone again” is the most likely answer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/25 10:37 AM |
| 11 | Why would they friend request me 5 years later?^ Our Number 1 answer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/25 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you unmatch if a guy mentions anything sexual during the texting phase when online dating?Yes, I am aware. I was talking about the boundary in general. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/25 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Do you unmatch if a guy mentions anything sexual during the texting phase when online dating?it was a gay porn star. Eew. I have come to think that my success, such as it is, with the distaff gender is in no small part to me not being a social moron. It turns out being halfway clever and not saying/doing dumb stuff goes a long way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/25 11:50 AM |
| 0 | Do you unmatch if a guy mentions anything sexual during the texting phase when online dating?Well you certainly have the right to do whatever works for you. I suppose part of it is me thinking, "Who the eff would even DO this?!" But in general, I would suggest to anyone that ghosting/blocking people over minor infractions like "bad at flirting" or "tells a joke that doesn't land" is smth that you might think twice about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/25 11:45 AM |
| 13 | Realistically, how many men will marry an obese woman?celebrate That would be putting the best face on it certainly. (No worries; voice to text is the bane of my existence.) So there’s “a little chunky“ and then there’s morbidly obese. The fatter someone is the fewer number of people in the population there are who would consider them as a partner. It just is how it is. I mean, I’m assuming that you’re living in the West, of course and not off somewhere where being fat as a sign of resources or something. It seems like you don’t really wanna leave … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/25 08:52 AM |
| 9 | Do you unmatch if a guy mentions anything sexual during the texting phase when online dating?Eww. I can’t imagine. Never of times I’ve ever mentioned morning wood to a woman who is not present for the occasion: 0 Sending unsolicited dick pics is the number one unforced error that men could easily fix. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/25 08:31 AM |
| -2 | Do you unmatch if a guy mentions anything sexual during the texting phase when online dating?It sounds like he unmatched you rather than the other way around. That could be why it sticks in your craw a bit. Probably preemptive on his part. That said, men think about sex a lot and if you unmatched everybody who makes a random oral oblique reference to sex, even one that isn’t particularly awkward or disgusting, you’re going to severely limit your options. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/25 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Everyone is incentivized to demonize the nice guy.Eh, you can always be a "good guy", which is sort of like a nice guy but with boundaries and a spine. "Firm but fair" is another way of saying it, I suppose. Also, very often, these days, all an "asshole" is, is a guy who is pursuing his own interests which are in conflict with the interests of the guy calling him an asshole. Ex. If you want to take Suzie Sugartits home and pipe her, but she goes home with me instead, you probably think I'm an asshole. I'm not. I'm just a guy who wanted to pipe … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/25 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Community for women in relationships with RP men?Although I presume a lot of them would be just angry at the whole ordeal. Why would you presume that? There are RPM and RP-aware men who are monogamous. Archwinger and RPU_Mike are married and have children. Wr1tten is not married but tends to date monogamously. I typically do not date monogamously, but I am upfront about that from the jump so a woman can make her own decision. Why would a woman who wants a male-led relationship be unhappy to find herself in one, unless she want's a male-led rel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/25 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Question does being red pilled actually make any women happy?I meant to indicate that I was speaking more generally, and not particularly attributing this to you,but apparently I didn’t. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/25 11:01 PM |
| 3 | Question does being red pilled actually make any women happy?I get it, but it's easy to fall into the "RPW come in all types, but RPM are all player-sleazebags." All good. It seems like you have a healthy dynamic in your relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/25 08:58 PM |
| 8 | Question does being red pilled actually make any women happy?Red pill aware is the key. So here’s the thing. For some reason, we say here that there can be more than one type of red pill woman, but only one type of red pill man. I agree with the former but not the latter, because people in general seem to want to reduce the latter down to shouting “Andrew Tate! Andrew Tate!” as if he’s the only exemplar - I regard him as being more opportunist and PT Barnum than anything else. I may lead the lifestyle of a middle-age playboy, Wr1tten is a serial monogamis… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/25 07:25 AM |
| 10 | Women don’t Care About Your StrugglesIsn't that a classic Bill Burr adage? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/25 01:03 AM |
| 26 | No Woman is Ever "Single"Guys interested in this topic will benefit from Schrödinger’s Girlfriend - “Girls are never single, girls are never in relationships.” | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/25 06:55 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else’s partner go through a career crisis? How did you support them?So, here is some general advice. A. He's a man. Say whatever it is you want him to understand, out loud, using words. So tell him, "Hey, honey, you are my husband and I love you and I want to support you. If you want to talk things over, I want to listen. If you want to be left alone, I will leave you alone." Caveat: if it's the second one, then yeah, you have to leave him alone. He may not want to discuss it all all (although in your case he seems to.) B. Men often find it easier to discuss thi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/25 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Male Led RelationshipsTo me, it's like saying "It takes a lot of trust to have sex with a man who gets off it. What if he goes past the limit and disregards your consent when he wants sex?" So your husband is someone you trust enough to have married him, etc. I was basing that response off of the pain girls I have come across who have told me about guys they eliminated before the sexy pain part or who may have been a mistake bc he did smth they weren't cool with. People tend to get way worked up about stuff. The girl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Male Led RelationshipsNot even a little bit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/25 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: Male Led RelationshipsHe is a sadist, I am a masochist, we both like playing with that. That's smth that requires a lot of trust. One of my collar girls was here for the weekend and she's a pain girl. She trusts me completely because...wait for it...I am not a sadist. At all. It moves the needle literally zero for me. But, as I am all about customer satisfaction, I will happily inflict pain on a girl who wants it (within negotiated limits ofc.) The ironic thing is that pain girls tend to put themselves completely at … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/25 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Male Led RelationshipsI think some character traits might make us more in need of a higher level of dominance, to be honest. If you want a dominant man, and already have a monster of a backbone :), then you're going to need a pretty friggin' dominant man. I think this is generally true, with the caveat that there are women who will be submissive little kittens for one man, but ball busting bitches to another man, depending on her attraction to him, his level of competence, and his demeanor/leadership qualities. I hav… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Getting my man to use sex toys on me when it went horrible the first and last time.I feel selfish for wanting to ask. Nope, not at all. But I'm really kinky. Like really kinky and he's pretty vanilla. He's missing out. Sometimes, we do things for the other person - standard disclaimers apply.1 I try to do stuff that doesn't violate the disclaimers because it's important to the other person, and usually there's a (voluntary!) quid pro quo and that person is going to do their absolute level best to give you a good experience. I've never understood not doing this. There's not eno… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/25 09:37 AM |
| 6 | Why So Many Men Get Used By WomenWomen start sizing you up in grade school, while you're playing sports and memorizing batting averages, they are sharpening your skills. You start a new job? You're getting sized up and evaluated either for themselves or their friends or their daughters and their friends daughters. Oh, and they know if you fuck or not. Years ago, I was out with my then gf and her brother. She and I are both Nordic-looking but he favors an Italian grandfather, dark hair and dark complexion. Some other tall blonde… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/25 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Are men’s ways just hard for me to tolerate or is it the men I’m dating?Not a little shavings, but if a man is losing his hair, it can have a similar effect | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/25 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Are men’s ways just hard for me to tolerate or is it the men I’m dating?But is that how men are, and it’s something we need to put up with if he provides and protects? So there's "pig sty" and there's "we just do things differently." Women - and I notice this more with women, but, OTOH, I do not date men - sometimes get it into their heads that there are two ways to do things - the way they want it done, and the WRONG way, which, as Sportin' Life sang in Porgy & Bess, just "Ain't necessarily so." Now, in the Zaitzev Household (Population: 1, with intermittent overni… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/25 08:32 AM |
| 8 | Are men’s ways just hard for me to tolerate or is it the men I’m dating?Men Need Respect More Than Anything Can confirm. If we had to choose between being respected and being loved at least 75% of us would choose respected. Fun Fact: Women cheat on men they love all the time; they never cheat on men they respect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/25 08:13 AM |
| 6 | Are men’s ways just hard for me to tolerate or is it the men I’m dating?I have unblocked my bathroom sink before and to my horror it was full of long hair - from my head. I didn't even realize it got in there. You are what is known in the plumbing biz as a "Rapunzel", or in the event that there are multiple women with long hair living together (mother/daughters) then the house is a "Rapunzel House." | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/25 08:11 AM |
| 3 | The TEA Has Been SpilledFrom both the men and the women. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/25 04:04 AM |
| 7 | The TEA Has Been SpilledThere's millions of women in the Balkans, Baltics and Midwest who're surrounded by such low quality men Define low quality men. I ask because, at least among what I call the "Beach Slavs" - and indeed in the Ancient Rodina - often enough you will find a Shrek-looking MFer with a fine ass babe. But believe me when I tell you, Shrek keeps her safe from all the danger in the world, and provides as well, or she would be elsewhere. So if you mean "unattractive but with a hot chick" yep, but if you me… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/25 12:10 AM |
| 9 | The TEA Has Been SpilledGSR. To us it's "gunshot residue" but to them it's "Gossip, Shaming and Rallying." It's how women manipulate men and suppress the mating of other women. If you look at the actual photos of the women who got doxxed it's fairly textbook the "She's not interested!" girl only late 30s, fugly and obese. Losers at life beyond any hope of recovery, who don't want anyone else to be happy. I have made myself into smth of a destination, so I am unaffected by this BS also. Women find me, either online, or … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/25 10:25 PM |
| 2 | The Fourth PivotEh. This one wasn’t as bad as usual. I think he felt legitimately agrieved as opposed to the usual “the Internet cannot miss out on my rapier wit!” trash. A lot of young guys don’t understand that there are women out there who are just aching to give you their pussies. You simply have to prove yourself worthy of it to them. The worst thing that can happen to a woman as she sleeps with some loser that she mistook for an HVM. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/25 07:28 PM |
| 2 | The Fourth PivotIt was a bit of a more polite version of the usual - he called this a "fanfic" which happens when I post anything about women, which means he focused only on the intro and not about the actual substance of the post. My text game wit her is a Master Class in both Frame and Amused Mastery, but if I posted it, I'd get a bunch of "Auuuugh! You used two phones! I don't believe it!" That last line is why they fail, ofc. There are women out there hoping that someone comes along who knows what to do wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/25 06:45 PM |
| 6 | She Left You, for you to Become the Man She Begs ForThis is good advice for n00bs. Women do stupid things all the time. Never let that bother you. What you will ultimately discover is that, over time, you will become indifferent to the erratic and often irrational behavior of women, and there is no need to worry about why she left etc. That is when you are free of them, and you will have achieved enlightenment, at least wrt women. Women are never the goal, but rather a pleasant and pleasurable accompaniment to a well-lived life. A woman can be a … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/25 06:38 PM |
| 7 | Still can’t inspire him to fix home items/ wtd when he doesn’t take the lead on repairsHow odd. I guess some guys are like that. It seems like you’re going to be the “home repair coordinator“ in your relationship. He may be happy doing that. I know a couple where the wife does this. They’re empty-nesters, but she was to stay at home mom and he went off and made money in finance. So whatever needed to be taken care of around the house she would do mostly just call a repair guy. This is something you might wanna have a talk with him about. Because if he’s not gonna do it fine, but i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/25 03:41 PM |
| 0 | The Fourth PivotHey, it's my life. I do what I do how I do. No idea why you have such a visceral reaction to it. shrug You might want to focus on the main theme. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/25 03:02 PM |
| 0 | The Fourth PivotShh. Nobody cares. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/25 02:56 PM |
| 2 | The Fourth PivotNot as far as I know, but she is Latina so anything could happen. At any given time there are three or four women in my life to whom if I said “Let’s have a baby?” they’d be “Can we start today?” I don’t think I’ve hit terminal velocity yet with this one, but she has brought it up. I think it’s just a breeding kink though. At least for now. But hey, if I get her pregnant, then I get to be a dad. I’m a fully mobilized grown-up. I can handle pretty much anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/25 01:34 PM |
| 2 | The Fourth Pivotrobo-traders are something that are becoming a hot commodity not necessarily because they work so well, but because it’s easy to get the everyday day trader to buy a robo-trader. Yep. I know a guy and got in early. They are crazy expensive now. I am basically getting their most current version for $<100/month - it's probably around $400 now, but I have the price locked in - and the retail buy-in is crazy high now, so much so that I wouldn't do it and I have almost-Boomer money. military. Yeah, I… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/25 11:47 PM |
| 7 | Do you just accept his need to be with other women?So I will explain this to you from the "Rule 9 Violation" side, not to convince you - you have to decide for yourself what is acceptable to you - but so you can understand it. Are you married now or are you asking in general? Has a bf proposed this to you? For some people, it's monogamy or nothing and others can tolerate being the "primary" with some side chicks so long as the man keeps everything straight in his head and some women are bisexual and perfectly happy to share women with their men … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 03:23 PM |
| 4 | I want to reward him somehow... But how? Or should I leave it alone...?I appreciate your curiosity and analysis here. Exactly what I was looking for. I am trying to help. God's call for me to be abstinent until marriage So no shade, and I am sincere in asking this, because I want to understand it: how was this communicated to you? I mean by God. Was it a bible reading? Sermon? And how did that conversation go with your fiancé? I cannot imagine he thought "What a great idea!" even after our years of wild fun together. VERY lucky. I suppose he thought after so long t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Competence Kills or Be Good At That Voodoo That You Do So Well!Glad things are working out for you! | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/25 04:54 AM |
| 5 | I want to reward him somehow... But how? Or should I leave it alone...?We've been together for 7 years...A year ago, I decided to abstain from sex until marriage after feeling convicted by God to do so. So were you having sex before? Whether with him or any men before him? Because if you shut down the vag on him after 6 years and he's STILL with you that's either love or mental illness. I truly don't know what men like Well you've sworn off the thing we really like. I'm in good shape, naturally conventionally beautiful (I'm comfortable saying I'm a "10") and I feel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Age gap relationshipI said nothing about "everyone" you disagree with, but this particular topic does set women off. Anyway, I can certainly do "insufferable" but this wasn't it. Ciao. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Age gap relationshipShe was a teenager a few months ago. And she was in Jr. High 7 years ago. Doesn't matter. defensive Not even a little bit. You do seem pretty into casting aspersions.... I clearly know better men than you do. Mentally healthy and ethical ones don't have sex with 20-year-olds when they're nearly twice their age. /shrug And judgements. As I noted, the data disagrees with you, but no point in continuing when you are just going to moralize and toss back-handed insults. Ciao. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/25 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Age gap relationshipI have no issues with her response, other than the first bit, and we often take the same view of things. As I noted above, I’m a known quantity here, and I used that as a jumping off point for what more men would do if they could do it, which is supported by both data and logic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/25 07:39 AM |
| 3 | Age gap relationshipOP is barely more than a child. I said what I said. Infantilizing an adult woman is an odd thing to do. I choose my company more carefully than this. I know what men talk about when the ladies aren’t around. Just as your conversations change when a man enters the room, ours do in the opposite way. There’s also the data. That’s literally millions of data points. We like what we like. I didn't make this about you. Yep. But I am a known quantity around here. Anyway, my point was that more men would… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/25 07:36 AM |
| 3 | Age gap relationshipI just said something that you disagree with. Nothing more nothing less. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/25 07:28 AM |
| 1 | What power do women hold other than pussy power?A. If men were truly trying to maximize their power, would they have voted to let women vote? Put another way, “If men wanted us chained up in basements, we would be chained up in basements.” - Judgy Bitch (PBUH). B. Some of us are actually quite fond of you. And not just because you have a magic box between your legs that grants wishes. C. If you’re a beautiful woman, and you are only getting pumped and dumped, then your picker is broken. D. Men and women are built to complement each other and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/25 12:13 AM |
| 4 | I can’t keep up with his libidoI had that as release before sleep, bearing in mind, he goes to bed early because he gets up early. So it was more time of day than anything else. She also subsequently said he’d get a lot fewer blow jobs than he does if he was a selfish lover (approximately) so that doesn’t seem to be the issue. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/25 12:02 AM |
| -5 | Age gap relationshipAlmost any mid-30s man dating a woman who isn't old enough to drink has issues. Don't be a hater. There's something wrong with him for dating that young, even if it's just that he's only interested in sex. Nope. As it turns out, we pretty much ALL want women between 20 and 24, no matter how hold we get. There just aren't enough women in that age range to go around, and a much smaller group within that group that would be attracted to older men. 25 and 40, not necessarily, though the other points… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/25 09:55 PM |
| 3 | I can’t keep up with his libidoWhich would be fair, but it doesn’t seem like him being selfish as a lover is the problem. That tends to get assumed around here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationshipEverything comes with pluses and minuses. have found myself fixating on older men (10-16 years older) Good girl. This is typically what women say when they say they liked "older men" - that's usually 10-12 years older. So with an age gap like this, living the last 20 years of my life without him should be expected. That's likely, but there are no guarantees, though. A friend of mine drank himself into obesity and then liver failure. His wife - they were within a couple of years of each other - b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/25 08:32 PM |
| 0 | I can’t keep up with his libidoYeah, that's going to work out great. What if he calls her bluff and tells her to quit her job? She seems to want to be a housewife anyway. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/25 08:18 PM |
| 7 | I can’t keep up with his libidoWhy are you leaving out blowjobs? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/25 08:17 PM |
| 10 | I can’t keep up with his libidoBOTH of them need to make the time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/25 08:15 PM |
| 4 | I can’t keep up with his libidoYour husband complaining about the frequency is further killing your libido. When our partners complain about it, it becomes a point of contention and a chore He will take this as "shut up and take what I give you. Stop talking about it. I don't care about your needs." The fact that he feels entitled to a physical relief while you rarely orgasm and You deserve fulfilling sex and it shouldn’t just be about his gratification. Redpill or not. Sure, but he doesn't seem unwilling to provide that; it'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/25 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other awayWe do have it right now. The decision is, whether to keep it. We can stop that at any time, until we can't. For example, I am a powerful swimmer. If I swim out a mile into the ocean, I'll be fine, assuming water temp is fine and I don't meet and apex predator that mistakes me for lunch. I could turn around and swim back and be fine. If I keep going, thinking that "everything will be ok because it's ok so far" I will find out that it will not; I will die from exhaustion, hypothermia and ultimatel… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/25 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other awayAll you have to do is hold Frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/25 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other awayThe worst thing is that this order might be sustainable. I don't think it is. I'm working on a post called "The Fourth Pivot" which will come out in a few days that explains why. Plus we basically have that now, and it's getting destroyed by the brain damage "bUt mY FEEWINGZzz!!!" crowd that wants to import losers from the 3rd world until Western Civ is completely destroyed. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/25 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other awayIf simps stopped simping, feminism would vanish overnight. Orion He's on point. It has been fun watching him become increasingly redpilled over the last few years. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/25 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other awayWhy waste your time on femcels? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/25 08:17 PM |
| 3 | How To Deal With Women Acting DistantI will take this opportunity to remember my epitaph: "If you were maintaining sexual relationships with multiple women, none of this would be a problem." That is all. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/25 06:15 PM |
| 2 | How a college girl defeated the Russians in the late '80s using only her pussyLikely, but not definitively - there are a lot of ethnic Russians in Ukraine, which is why Crimea was basically "Meh" when the Russians took over. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/25 03:59 PM |
| 26 | Is it wrong to call out friends who ghost men?On behalf of all the Rule 9 Violations, we appreciate you going to bat for us. That’s said, it’s not like you’re going to fix her behavior. People like this are just how they are. Just make sure you don’t put yourself in a position where she can take advantage of you in some way because she doesn’t sound like she’s a really great person. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/25 12:06 AM |
| 22 | Is it wrong to call out friends who ghost men?^ Yep sounds like this. She’s making excuses for her bad behavior. How did she ever expect to have a boyfriend? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/25 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Negative alpha male conditioningYeah, "Hulk SMASH!" might work tactically, but probably won't strategically. Down the road when wifey is unhappy about smth, some other female relative is going to say "And remember when LateralThinker caused that big scene at Thanksgiving?" Escalate more slowly. In that situation, I take the kid and say, "Hey, we're all good." If he grumbles, repeat, "I said we're all good. I can talk about sports and hold my child. Carry on." | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/25 04:44 PM |
| 52 | Not being "that" special girlDon’t come up with reasons to make yourself unhappy. Men don’t think this way anyway. It’s not the same for us. If everything’s great then let everything be great and don’t screw it up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/25 07:54 PM |
| 2 | There **is** Male Intuition, LadiesThe difference in salary after a few years for somebody who stayed with the company and someone who moved is staggering. It can be up to double. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/25 07:28 PM |
| 2 | There **is** Male Intuition, LadiesThe first one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/25 07:28 PM |
| 1 | There **is** Male Intuition, LadiesNB On my personal subreddit, r-unclevasya, there is a section entitled “CorporateLand” which focuses on things like how to negotiate salary, how to ask for a raise, etc. My top level posts are directed towards young men, and therefore written in a rather jocular tone, but there is some value there for ladies similarly situated to what you were. Sensitive types may wish to stay out of the deep end of the pool, which is segregated off into different categories in which I discuss things like age ga… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/25 10:00 AM |
| 3 | There **is** Male Intuition, LadiesIt just means you were underpaid all the way along. Might still be if you agreed that quickly. Or the cost of acquiring and training new talent is otherwise prohibitive/difficult. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/25 07:07 AM |
| 4 | What is wrong with reddit?Pretty much. As William F Buckley, Jr., famously said “a liberal is someone who claims to want to give a fair hearing to other views, but then is shocked and offended that there are other views.” | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/25 08:52 AM |
| 3 | What is wrong with reddit?Is this your first day on the Internet or something? ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/25 08:42 AM |
| 10 | Negative alpha male conditioningThis sounds like a “just listen,” but the reality is that nobody takes those guys seriously. If you have to yell and scream to make your point, you’re not really all that “alpha.” You’re just a guy who yells and screams at women. In the future, it would be better for you to come up and touch your husband shoulder and say “hey honey, I need your help with something,” and then dry him away from the group. That doesn’t give your uncle an angle. But I’ve seen and read about husbands boyfriends falli… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/07/25 08:38 AM |
| 6 | Follow up on my last postI kinda feel at fault here LOL, no. Normally I am against girls trips/solo vacations but this was a godsend. He then blames me for leaving him saying I neglected his physical, emotional, and sexuals needs. Entitled man-child. This guy has "Loser" written all over him. Why did you partner up with the loser weed guy who is $35K in debt and is mopey because you went on vacation? Does he grant wishes if you rub his belly or smth? He got rejected by both girls. Ofc he did. He's a loser at everything … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/25 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Men’s inherent value in a relationship?There's some stuff going on here, on both sides. he has “jokingly” mentioned he wants to be a stay at home dad in the future, while i work, and I just laugh along and say if my income is high enough, sure. (we are joking but also serious, if you know what i mean) To me, this is the big one: the dude isn't grown. He should have some ambition, not be joking about staying at home and being a pillow princess. The problem is that, he does not show me any redeeming qualities that he can be a reliable … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/25 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Has studying/learning about men actually made you a better partner or dater?So this thread went in a different direction than I thought it would, but since this is a teachable moment: A. Men Are VERY Literal (or seem that way to ladies.) Ex. "I'm tired" doesn't mean "I'm tired of you," or "I'm tired of our relationship" or "I'm tired of life." It means he didn't get enough sleep last night or he needs a nap or smth. Think of us as the living embodiment of Occam's Razor - whatever the simplest explanation is, it's probably correct. B. We Don't Have to Verbalize Everythin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/25 08:55 PM |
| 2 | What makes a man dominant to you?Reddit does have over 1.2B active monthly users and 70M active daily users. There is undoubtedly a mix of personalities. In my case I am here because I became generative (in the psychology sense) as I got older. I enjoy helping younger people. I'm not here for the karma, but it is a reflection of the value of my posts to the intended audience. Beyond that, you can choose to believe what you want - I don't need to brag about how "Alpha" I am - I consider myself more of a Sigma anyway. I do carry … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/25 01:19 AM |
| 1 | How long do you guys wait to have sex when you're dating?So the first is really ego-driven I suppose, being an accomplished enough seducer to be able to lure a woman to bed. Once you know you can do it, it becomes less of a thing. Perhaps it is because I'm older but I have to at least like the woman as a person before I am interested in having sex with her. And yes, the chase is fun, but the sex is more fun. In my case I prefer - well, all men prefer this really - women in their 20s and it is a bit of an ego boost to me that as, an older man, I can se… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/25 02:03 PM |
| 1 | What makes a man dominant to you?Shhh. No one cares. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/25 12:39 PM |
| 5 | How long do you guys wait to have sex when you're dating?It's bonkers to me that men even want post-commitment sex. Um, they’re both actually pretty good. It is better if you don’t feel like you’ve been extorted though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/25 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Competence Kills or Be Good At That Voodoo That You Do So Well!When you ask a woman to even do something as simple as choose a place for a first date what is actually going through her brain is a string of anxieties. There are only 2 things that you should tell a woman about your first date: A. What time you are picking her up/meeting her at the venue. B. What the dress code is. You don't have to know what it is for her, just smth like "I will be wearing chinos and a polo shirt. Wear what stylish young ladies wear when the men are dressed this way." I had a… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/25 08:42 AM |
| 6 | Real Talk: What I’ve Learned About “High-Value” Men After Dating One (Or So I Thought)I’m not sure if he’s Larping or if you are, but: He hadn’t seen a dentist in 7 years. Eww. Proper dental care is essential. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/25 07:54 PM |
| 3 | What would be your thoughts on someone co parenting a dog?If this is the only weird thing about him, I might let it ride. How old is the dog? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/25 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Did I Ruin my Chances of settling down with a High Value Man?So what is your target market? What is an HVM to you? If it's a 6'5 finance bro with blue eyes, that's different than "a 5'10 guy who is a good person, will do his best to take care of me, and will stick around if I get cancer." Obviously one point is my age. Not the end of the world, particularly if you don't mind a guy a bit older. The egg-freezing thing gets less likely as the woman ages. I am not trying to scare you but you need to understand what IVF, etc., entails. The younger you are the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/25 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Competence Kills or Be Good At That Voodoo That You Do So Well!That only works if you are a girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/25 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Competence Kills or Be Good At That Voodoo That You Do So Well!First, develop skills for yourself not to attract women because these will be tertiary. Second, I basically gave you a list: A. Be skilled at managing the aggravations of day-to-day life, particularly situations that can be "adversarial" in nature - meaning if you have a problem, handle it calmly but firmly. B. Basic home repair. C. Know how to work a wine list, and handle social situations with aplomb. D. Be able to handle travel disruptions without blowing your cool. E. Be a half decent athlet… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/25 07:44 PM |
| 0 | What makes a man dominant to you?Someone does - she doms couples, mostly - but not me. I guess some people are into that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/25 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Competence Kills or Be Good At That Voodoo That You Do So Well!u/PimPedOutGeese correctly points out that competence is skills-based. So: A. Figure out what you want to be competent app. B. Set about developing the skills required to achieve competence. You may, or may not, find this article by Malcolm Gladwell helpful: Complexity and the Ten Thousand Hour Rule. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/25 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Competence Kills or Be Good At That Voodoo That You Do So Well!I ALWAYS slay it, Queen! | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/25 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Competence Kills or Be Good At That Voodoo That You Do So Well!I used to try to tone things down about 25% to be more relatable but now I’m like fuck that I’m just gonna tell it how it is. I tap hot young cooze 30-35 years younger than me, and they send me “thank you” texts. The lesson is, if I can do it, you guys can do it too. You just have to put in the work. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/25 09:23 PM |
| 8 | Competence Kills or Be Good At That Voodoo That You Do So Well!You should definitely Be a Pimp and Not a Simp, which is coincidentally the title of another post that I’m working on. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/25 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Competence Kills or Be Good At That Voodoo That You Do So Well!I mean, in general, you should be competent for your own sake too, but if it does have some side benefits. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/25 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Do you find blue-collared or white-collared men more attractive/ masculine?So really, it's the man, not the collar. Women LOVE competence. Competence SLAYS. I am a white collar Rule 9 Violation, but one with toolbox. Scene 1: Back in the 90s, I had a 22 y.o. gf who got into a car accident. It wasn't her fault - she got rear-ended (Me: "Hey! That's my job!" /heh) but she was super anxious about bringing it in to have it looked at by the other driver's insurance co. (Plot Twist: they were going to total it, ofc, which I knew.) Bringing it in was a non-event but not to he… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/25 07:26 PM |
| 7 | Do you find blue-collared or white-collared men more attractive/ masculine?watch him do stuff. ^ This is an actual thing. I think it's "competence." | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/25 04:50 PM |
| – | Guilty for keeping things from my boyfriendIf you are constantly living in fear about how your bf will react that doesn't seem healthy, although it could be that you are just high-anxiety. Block the guy, and if your bf asks, say you blocked the guy. You can tell him, "Steve texted me but I deleted his texts and blocked him." Sorted. If your bf asks what he said or why you deleted them, just say it was some hateful stuff about the two of you and that you had a bad reaction to it (duh) and deleted and blocked him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/25 04:26 PM |
| 2 | What makes a man dominant to you?Thanks. I do have a certain amount of experience in the matter. /heh | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/25 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Guilty for keeping things from my boyfriendYour guy friend seems to be overreacting here. Ask for your boyfriend you took him along on the meeting so it’s not like you’re lying to him. You didn’t do anything untoward in the texts either, so I wouldn’t worry about it. Does your BF know that you’re going to be working in the same office with this guy for the next couple of weeks? I mean that’s not something that is your fault that you can control but it’s probably something you should tell him. If you want to in that context, you can say “… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/25 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Are other conservative women not worried about the R word?Rule 9 violation here. It may surprise you to learn how very “not rapey” most men are. As it turns out, I rape exactly the number of women I want to every year: zero. If they removed laws against rape tomorrow? I would still rape 0 women. I’m not at all interested in harming other people, (obvious exclusions like self-defense apply.) I would assume that you know at least some of the guys and who is more trustworthy and who is not. If you’re doing some sort of after work event like drinking in a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/25 01:20 AM |
| 23 | What makes a man dominant to you?A Dominant man: -Is a leader/takes the initiative. -Makes decisions after careful consideration of relevant factors. -Sets the tone/gives off a protective, masculine vibe. -Puts your safety first. -Never blows his cool. -Is not arrogant or domineering. Fun Random Fact: I know a woman socially who is a professional dominatrix. She told me recently “It’s so hard to be dominant with you because you just say ‘We are going here and we are doing this,’ but you’ve thought it through and it’s something … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/25 12:29 PM |
| 10 | Does a woman career matters?Rule 9 violation here. So I am a bit (ok more than a bit) of a knuckle-dragging caveman, but most guys - especially guys who make money - literally could not care less about a woman's career. Unless/until you become a SAHW/SAHM, just don't be entitled, and don't be a drain on his resources. I have dated entrepreneurs and doctors, and I have dated students and shop girls. Not to put too fine a point on it, the job of the "girlfriend" is to look pretty, be pleasant and supportive and make sure I'm… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/25 07:42 PM |
| 5 | Why do posts here tend to be full of generalised wisdom and "top-level" thoughts, as opposed to focusing on actionable advice?Because almost all the OGs got banned or left and it's mostly all newer writers trying to fill the gap and learning how to write Hey, I'm still here. Trouble is, when I put smth up, I get some moron with zero RP experience who wants to argue with me, even though he hasn't touched a vagina since he was born. It usually starts with "Oh, I'm not invested in this, but you're wrong, and TRP never works because no girl will talk to me." I explain he needs to eat clean, hit the gym and learn to wash hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/25 09:11 PM |
| 2 | In a city like Miami, is paying for it actually the more rational option for sleeping with 9s and 10s?Miami is pit, although I think that’s a reflection of the culture as a whole from Instagram to Only Fans. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/25 07:09 PM |
| 2 | In a city like Miami, is paying for it actually the more rational option for sleeping with 9s and 10s?This is just how I look at the world, although an actuality for men, a woman is either a “0” or a “1”, and for women a man is either a “1” a “5” or a “9” - “run away!”, “normal guy” and “yes, please!” | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/25 07:08 PM |
| 5 | On Wizard Liz dramaI only found out about this because Replicant Fish did a yt vid on it. She's some sort of "dating guru" for the vagina people. Team Girl thinks she's great, and her guy cheated on her and now they are PISSED. They go on and on about what a loser he is - and for all I know he is - but he's still the guy who played their heroine. It feels selective. Because it is. Women are either "stunning & brave boss babes" or they are helpless victims, depending on what is best/most convenient for them at the … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/25 11:51 AM |
| 2 | In a city like Miami, is paying for it actually the more rational option for sleeping with 9s and 10s?Can confirm. Source: Lives in SoFla these days. There are plenty of "normal" girls outside of SoBe. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/25 11:45 AM |
| 22 | In a city like Miami, is paying for it actually the more rational option for sleeping with 9s and 10s?A 9 is a woman who can monetize her looks to the point of making a l living off of it, so a model, but not an OF skank. A 10 is an Elite 9. If you hear her name you know who she is. An 8 is the prettiest girl in your hometown. A 7 is pretty A 6 is cute A 5 is average/normal. We don't talk about 1-4s. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/25 11:44 AM |
| 4 | Is this kind of motivation a good thing?Why would it not be OK? I mean if it motivates you to take care of yourself and feel better about yourself how is that wrong? You wind up with a healthier, happier you that your fiancé finds appealing. And why would you not want to inspire your partner? The “just be yourself“ voice in your head wants you to be lazy. It doesn’t want you go to the gym. It wants you to think that you're “good enough" and a reach for that bag of cookies. That’s the voice we don’t listen to. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/25 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Is he condescending or am I just sensitive?I tell him I don't like his tone You know it’s funny. I just saw a meme where a woman’s thought balloon is that in their disagreements her husband is right 95% of the time but she just “doesn’t like his tone.” So here’s a question: he’s getting you a new car as in he’s paying for it? And your biggest issue is you don’t like his tone? Because that’s the case, you’re not gonna like my tone either…. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/25 01:01 AM |
| 2 | What is your view on the current shift among young men towards red-pill content?You may decide to go to a club That's actually the first step to going wrong. Step 2: Then you have more alcohol than you are used to. It's a warm night and the week has been stressful. The vodka lemonade is refreshing. Maybe your partner has been slammed at work and has also been stressed and you feel neglected. Step 3: You see a person who fits in "just right" with your dream girl/guy. S/he is receptive. For most of us there is a certain type/look that absolutely rings our bell. You see my poi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/25 12:11 AM |
| 2 | What is your view on the current shift among young men towards red-pill content?It’s less about me, and more about having lived a long time and having seen a lot of stuff. Human beings do not always behave rationally. Even if you get someone who, 99 times out of 100 makes the right decision, there’s that one time that they won’t. Believe me, as someone who negotiates for living, I wish that people behaved rationally much more often than they do. There is a book called “Descartes Error” which is about how, despite how coldly rational we think we all are, we operate on emotio… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | What is your view on the current shift among young men towards red-pill content?Oh, who knows? Love might walk her ass home. That said, ethics are often much more situational than we as humans would like to believe. Believe me, I wish that was not true, and I say it with a bit of sadness and resignation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/25 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Should I forgive my man for being addicted to porn?But somewhere in my mind I feel like maybe I’m letting him get away too easy because I was really hurt and betrayed So, hold up. Don't you think that you might be getting away too easy with (presumably) still demanding monogamy while not providing him with sex? I knew a couple where the wife (they were in their 40s) basically said, "Hey, I'd like to stay married, but no more sex." The husband said, "Hey, I'd like to stay married, too, but daddy needs some lovin'. I'm going to give you a few mont… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/25 07:10 PM |
| 1 | What is your view on the current shift among young men towards red-pill content?it's not a bad deal because "all women are cheaters" (a truly false statement). So not entirely sure about this. I think everyone (male or female) cheats under the right circumstances. My main chick is VERY monogamous, which is largely a product of how painfully introverted she is, but if Johnny Depp walks through that door and asks her to, she's going home with him (well 99%), and I'm not taking her calls thereafter. Under normal circumstances, it's not "all women will" it's that any woman coul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/05/25 06:57 PM |
| 6 | 32F Can my pros outweigh my cons?If it’s lesbian then you might be able to find a guy who is willing to look past it You know, I hadn't considered this, but yeah, somehow that would be less bad. Either he can say "Yeah, the wife was 'gay for pay' back in the day" or "I'm getting FFM threesomes, Tim...how's that 'once a month pity sex' at your place?" (or find it hot if you’re really lucky and willing to be a freak for him in bed). As a general rule, every woman should be their sluttiest selves for their husbands. Why are you sa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/25 02:58 AM |
| 9 | 32F Can my pros outweigh my cons?Rule 9 Violation Here. So I did a rundown for you. A lot of your stuff isn’t stuff a lot of guys will care about. Ex. Not having a lot of gfs means you aren’t going to be on a lot of GNOs and come back at 3AM with some bite marks and smelling of man’s cologne, after you said you’d be home by 8pm. The real problem is That Big One. You are going to have to navigate this one carefully. Here are some things to think about: A. Your man needs to hear about it from you before he hears about it from som… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/25 02:55 AM |
| 0 | How do I get a man?Shhh. Run along. The grown-ups are talking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/25 03:54 AM |
| 1 | (19f) First date update !Congrats. And probably, after your date, this was him. I hope things continue to go well for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/25 08:42 AM |
| 10 | How do I get a man?What is a "high quality man" vs "low quality man" in your opinion? What characteristics of each? (im still saving up money for some cosmetic procedures) Get a gym membership instead. I have a patented 3 step approach for women who want a man: A. If you are a bitch, stop being a bitch. (Not typically a problem for RPW.) B. Do everything you can to improve your appearance. C. Lower your expectations. 90% of men are not in the top 10%. The only thing - the only thing - that matters in a man is char… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/25 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Trying to understandAnd Louise Perry. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/25 11:08 PM |
| 0 | Trying to understandWhy does body composition come up frequently in red pill circles? Because the type of RP vids you are talking about are aimed at men, and, in general, a woman's appearance and implied fertility are what we care about, because we can (or should) be able to provide everything else for ourselves. Younger men may need a woman's economic contribution to have the type of lifestyle that, in all likelihood, she wants, but otherwise we are perfectly content to lead spartan lives, provide enough for ourse… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/25 11:07 PM |
| – | Can a break from sex help ?So to me it's odd because I cannot imagine not wanting sex - I have basically structured my lifestyle around making sure I get enough sex - and if I had a partner who wanted more sex I would do everything I could to give it to her, and I surely would NOT be stroking off in the other room or whatever. I didn't see her behavior as "hounding," or whatever, but again, I will generally sympathize with the partner with the higher drive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/25 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Ladies with a wild side, how to keep it in check?A girl might be getting the "polite, respectful fuck" because she's never indicated she wants to be held down and ravished. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/25 10:44 PM |
| 7 | Will he ask me to be his girlfriend?It’s been a week. Have you even had sex yet? “OMG, nooooo! It’s too earlyyyyyyyy!” Yeah, exactly. Slow down, Speed Racer | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Ladies with a wild side, how to keep it in check?Do you think that she’s given any indication that that’s what she’s into, assuming she is? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Can a break from sex help ?A. Most healthy men would prefer sex with a woman they are attracted to to masturbation. B. I didn’t recommend harassing or shaming him. I suggested an open and honest conversation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/25 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Can a break from sex help ?However, I have grown anxious of him checking out girls online he has agreed to stop. When you say "checking out", is he on cheater/dating sites or just hitting "like" on e-thots' thirst traps? Also, anxiety is never a good look. He has expressed that he does not like discussing his private sex life, but I find that annoying and find myself always asking questions. Because men are shamed for masturbating even when they DON'T have partners. He has a willing sex partner but for some reason he's no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/25 06:12 PM |
| 0 | I'm (25F) dating a great guy (36M) for 3 months, we haven't slept together,I (potentially) want to wait until marriage but idk if that's fair/potentially manipulative and have no clue how to have the conversation!Ok, so probably not gay. Not a lot of game, either, but you probably don't mind that in your "Mary Magdalene, Second Phase" period. ;-) When is the best time to have this convo if at all and how would you phrase it? Per my above: And the only way to truly know is to bring up this conversation. Easy: Bring it up when you have the "girlfriend" discussion, assuming you have not already had it. As in "So, Tim, things are getting more serious between, us, which I like, but I want to know: what are yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/05/25 06:06 PM |
| 3 | I'm (25F) dating a great guy (36M) for 3 months, we haven't slept together,I (potentially) want to wait until marriage but idk if that's fair/potentially manipulative and have no clue how to have the conversation!Basically, I’ve been dating a kind, masculine, generous, Christian man 36M for the last three months. This week he asked me to be his girlfriend. Ok, all good so far. He also asked for exclusivity without sex first, which is not common. Plus 3 months is kind of a long time among the secular to wait for sex of the premarital variety. Now, he’s never pressured me into anything physical. Does he give you any indication that he wants to hit? I mean at all? Tried to kiss you or hold your hand? There … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/25 07:33 AM |
| 5 | I'm (25F) dating a great guy (36M) for 3 months, we haven't slept together,I (potentially) want to wait until marriage but idk if that's fair/potentially manipulative and have no clue how to have the conversation!Here, I am a kindly uncle. Over on in the Men's Forum, I am the Dark Lord of TRP. It is how it is. Formulating a reply. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/25 05:55 AM |
| 6 | I'm (25F) dating a great guy (36M) for 3 months, we haven't slept together,I (potentially) want to wait until marriage but idk if that's fair/potentially manipulative and have no clue how to have the conversation!I will have a look. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/25 05:47 AM |
| 4 | How should I view past sexual encounters that only happened because I was drunk?I know I was a lot more promiscuous with OS than PIV and struggled with adding all those encounters on my body count. I have to say, only PiV "counts" AFAIAC, and probably most guys think that way. If OS was to avoid PiV and "curate" your body count that would indicate to me that you were (ironically) exercising some degree of self control. Anyway, FWIW. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/25 11:11 PM |
| 10 | Ladies with a wild side, how to keep it in check?I think the problem is ladies get caught up in "But what if my hubby thinks I am a giant turboslut?" But that tends to be inauthentic and lead to unhappiness or at least being unfulfilled. Ex. Several years ago, my old One-itis from HS hit me up - we were both single and she needed to get railed - and I quickly deduced not only that when she suggested we have a "relaxing weekend together" what she meant "Will you please ride me all the way to Poundtown?" but also that she was sexually submissive… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/25 05:42 PM |
| 2 | I’m starting to understand men and now I’m madConsidering what you do now, and let's say things worked out, would you want an open relationship instead? When I committed to my main uni gf I was not yet the Dark Lord of TRP.TM I grew up in a tradcon (one might even say paleocon) environment, so in some alternate reality in which I married her I could have remained faithful and been perfectly happy, assuming she was also keeping up her end of the bargain - she was On Point when it came to keeping her body Right, Tight and In The Light, and wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/25 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Ladies with a wild side, how to keep it in check?Note the Dr. Taraban says to be the nastiest slutty version of herself, not to simply agree to whatever the man involved wants. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/25 03:09 PM |
| 54 | Ladies with a wild side, how to keep it in check?{Shamelessly drafting off of the top comment} Dr. Orion Taraban, whom I have enjoyed watching become increasingly red-pilled, say his most controversial advice to women is to be the nastiest, sluttiest version of themselves with the men they want relationships with. Now, that doesn't mean from the first date, but at the point where you're banging, pretty much yeah. Don't save that for the guy you're cheating with, and then you won't have to cheat. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/25 01:53 AM |
| 11 | I’m starting to understand men and now I’m madYou sound like you’re in the RPW version of what we call the “anger phase“ over at TRP. Everyone gets angry when they find out they’ve been lied to when there’s a “second set of books.” It happens to men too. Cold comfort, I realize but still. Do not let your anger turn you bitter. Let it flow through you, process it and then recover. In general, even after we find out the truth, we are better off trying to be the best partner as we can for our partners as it were, provided there is love and und… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/25 01:54 AM |
| 22 | I’m starting to understand men and now I’m madOh, I think feminism tells some pretty big whoppers too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/25 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Loving a RP Man“I was loyal and faithful to one woman our whole marriage and she cheated on me and left us.” So you are going to get to use the female version of one of my favorite lines: “I’m sorry your last girlfriend was mean to you. I would like to be judged based on my own actions, though.” If he’s new to red pill content, well, sometimes it can be a lot to take in. Guys typically come to it after a bad divorce or a bad break up, and then they find out that there is a “second set of books.” And then they … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/25 04:20 PM |
| 3 | How can modern women have unreasonably high standards while having a high body count?If “Dave says he slept with Amy, and Amy says that she didn’t”, who is lying? They both are, and they both aren’t; it’s Schrödinger’s body count. There is still plenty of banging going on, but among a smaller segment of the population, mostly because of dating apps, which, particularly in their early years, resulted in women, simply Amazon Prime-ing themselves over to dudes flats to get railed out and then Ubered home. Apps exacerbate what I call the “Delta of Delusion” which is the difference b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/25 09:48 AM |
| 2 | How can modern women have unreasonably high standards while having a high body count?I think you are not accounting for how big the denominator is. Very very few guys go do this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/25 09:19 AM |
| 3 | How to navigate being among feminst women^ This. For all their complaints about men, particularly “men ranking us right now,” notice how top of mind it was for them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/25 07:50 AM |
| 2 | What is the best mindset a short guy can have to promote taking action without living in delusion?Rock out with your cock out. I mean not literally out, but walk around like you are 6'5. Never let it bother you. A bud of my is a hair over 5'4 and does just fine. Everything else should be on point. A - Fitness. Be in shape, but don't over bulk up and try to grow out because you can't get taller. B - Fashion/grooming/hygiene. C - Kill your ego. Nothing is going to wreck you chances like having a raging case of "Little Big Man." A buddy of mine in grad school was 5'5, but had you asked me I wou… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/25 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Only attracted to dominant masculine men - helpI suggest looking for a single dad in his late 30s early 40s who works in the trades. Or who is ex-military.That’s what I’ve got for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/25 07:25 PM |
| 5 | The Lie That Men Should Never Be Controlling (And Why Boundaries Are Needed To Maintain Masculine Frame)Upvoting. Guys are "insecure" and "controlling" in two situations: A. Where they actually are; and B. Where they set boundaries bc their girl wants to do smth completely whorish. If a girl wants exclusivity, and you are going to give it to her, you need to Lay. Down. The. Law. You need to set boundaries and those boundaries will be complied with, or she will be removed from her position as "girlfriend." Simple as. To be clear for hyperventilating bluepills, manginas and feminists, she does not "… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | MarriageWhy would you object to it? It works to your benefit, at least as long as you are the higher earning spouse. You would have to manage PoAs to cover "next of kin" type arrangements (hospital visitation etc.) If, for some reason, the imprimatur of the gov't is important to you, you could offer a favorable pre-nup in order to induce him, but that's between the two of you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/25 09:31 PM |
| 1 | MarriageAbout 50% of marriages in the US have the husband as the sole or primary breadwinner. That leaves out the other half. You seem to imply that the “other half” have women as the sole/primary breadwinner – sorry if that’s not the case but that’s how I read it – when in fact only 16% of marriages in the US have the wife as sole (6%) or primary (10%) breadwinner. Note: My stats are from Pew Research unless otherwise noted. That's your opinion. Opinions are good, but they are not facts. (ETA: I would,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/25 08:38 PM |
| 0 | My (32F) boyfriend(32M) feels that I don't respect him and we got in a huge fight. How to fix?So when we put our partners down, especially in front of other people, that’s gonna be something at least resentment. That said, 32 years old is awfully old to be giving someone the silent treatment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/25 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Marriageyou don't speak for all men. I never said I did. At his insistence, not mine. That's fine. It works out for some people. One might stay it's the triumph of hope over experience. I hope it works out for the two of you, but even if it does, he's been right only 50% of the time. It is akin to a woman saying she will never have sex with any man before marriage because she can't trust them not to abandon her afterwards. Any woman is fully within her rights to do so, and any man who is interested in h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/25 09:43 AM |
| 4 | MarriageWomen initiate divorce smth like 70-80% of the time. If both are university educated, that rises to 90%. Not sure what the subset is for women who earn more than their husbands, but that's the risk - it might even be worse for them bc one of the indicators of increased likelihood of divorce is a wife earning more than her husband, although I suspect that's "starting to earn more" so not the same as your situation. That said, your personal circumstances are not typical. It's not "my stuff" when I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/25 09:26 AM |
| 8 | MarriageLove you to death, CTB, but really, it's easy for you to say these things because you aren't the person bearing the risk. As the Spanish say, "It is one thing to talk of bulls, it is another to be in the bullring." Only they say it in Spanish. But you get my point. I read a man write "if she decides to leave me tomorrow and take half my stuff, it will still be worth it". Sure. Check back with him after she does it. Look I'll leave off here, but modern marriage is just not realistic. It's complet… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/25 04:17 AM |
| 12 | MarriageI've will never have to pay 40% of my gross income to my passport because it "changed it's mind" and it "loves me but isn't in love with me anymore." | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/25 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Fully dependent on partner/husbandGo get a million-jillion dollars of term life insurance that goes out for 20 or 25 years or whatever you can get that’s reasonable. That way, if something happens while he’s busy running things even if the business goes to 0 you would still have the payout. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/25 04:03 AM |
| 31 | How do I reconcile being a “good girl” but with a shameful past?So a few things. A - Search on “matching luggage” here. The guy who isn’t jealous of the optionality that women have when it comes to sex is going to be a better partner for you. Women decide when women are going to have sex. Women also decide when men are going to have sex. Scarcity can lead men down dark paths. B - Do not torture yourself about things you cannot change. That’s gonna put you in a spiral of self defeat. C - Do Monitor your behavior going forward. You can’t put the toothpaste bac… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/25 12:04 AM |
| 13 | How to stay positive in the face of modern dating culture?trauma/baggage I’m sure you’ve thought of this, but you need to do whatever you can to process that on your own because carrying it around isn’t going to work and expecting someone else to deal with it isn’t going to help your long-term success. modern dating feels like an emotional minefield If it’s any consolation, it’s not any easier from the other side of the gender gap. I’ve had guys cuss me out for saying I don’t feel safe meeting privately on the first date. That’s perfectly reasonable, b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/25 01:31 PM |
| 2 | At what age do most men “hit the wall”?Edit: after looking at OPs post history, they are definitely fishing for confirmation of their ideas. ^ This. I had a glance; she's a misandrist who barely sees men as human. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/25 07:05 PM |
| -2 | At what age do most men “hit the wall”?{whistling a happy tune to self} Oh, don't mind me...just passing through.... back to whistling | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/25 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Should I not date HVM if I’m still a student?My point here was to delineate the difference in what men and women look for in the dating market. You can think of my use of the word “hot” here as “attractive to a particular high value man that she wants to date.” If she is attractive to him, then he’s not likely going to care about the other factors she mentions because men don’t think that way. If she’s not attractive to him, then she’s going to be SOL with that particular guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/25 06:46 PM |
| 5 | How straightforward do men Actually want women to be?although I feel that sentiment is very different for many men. Well, I freely admit that I am “not like the other men” I suspect there are more guys that are like that than you would think, although for different reasons than me. I instituted a rule very early on that I only have sex with women I genuinely like. That of course makes things easier. I think some guys use shaming to get rid of girls that they just wanted to bang. I do think that a lot of guys just want to have a girlfriend who is n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/25 12:52 PM |
| 13 | How straightforward do men Actually want women to be?I think the difficulty is that some women think that they are “playing hard to get” when they are really playing “hard to want.” Of course, I also think that “the chase“ is some BS made up by women so they wouldn’t think that they were “too easy” or something. For me there’s no such thing as “too easy”, and there’s no such thing as having sex “too early” - to the point where I am perfectly willing to stipulate that the girl wanted to hold out, but was clearly done in by my lady-killing charm. Wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/25 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Should I not date HVM if I’m still a student?Why would you wait? So you could be another year older? in some ways may be lacking the things of adulthood. As a Rule 9 Violation, let me explain it to you: HVM do not care about all the stuff that you are worried about. Are you hot? Would you be a good partner? Are you a warm person? Are you a good person? Can he have a conversation with you? That’s what’s important. They all seem to have great lifestyles- have travelled the world, eat out at nice restaurants often, etc. It seems like a comple… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/25 09:08 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?I never said anyone was. What I said was this guy might be in it to win it and not to screw things up in case he is which is what the OP wants. The only way to make a determination would be to move forward and he did show up for day three etc. So we’ll see. Maybe it will work out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/25 01:39 AM |
| 2 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?I also think that anyone has the right to stop having sex whenever they like. Ofc. But that's still a dumpable offense in my book. I once dumped a man ... And it seems you agree. :) That felt like some strange mind game. Yeah I don't understand that. Very odd. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?Ok, I misunderstood. It seems like he is acting in all the right ways, so far. I hope if works out for you. Fingers crossed/no whammies, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/25 06:54 PM |
| 0 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?Well first, both men who will offer exclusivity for sex, whether first or at all, and men who will not will both ask women out, so I am not sure that supports your position. Second, a lot of time it deals with relative power. So a man with fewer options will offer exclusivity in exchange for sex, and a higher value woman can insist on exclusivity first. If you have been successful then good for you, but the general POV among men with options is do not make a girl your sole supplier if it can be … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/25 03:31 PM |
| 0 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?He should bring it up if he wants it. A woman shouldn’t have to ask a man to be hers. In general, men believe the exact opposite. Just a data point for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/25 01:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?I'm trying to salvage & handle this the best way possible. You know, things might still work out great. Just sayin'. Do not look at this as some sort of "problem" that needs to be solved. He might just be walking around thinking, "What a great girl. She didn't torture me and isn't a complete narcissist. Wow." | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/25 01:13 PM |
| 3 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?I knew it could happen the moment I decided to go to his place. Usually this isn't an RPW blind spot, but women as a group vastly underestimate how sex-motivated men are....and we pretty much all are. I mean look, my measured IQ is waaaay over on the right side of the bell curve, and yet I've built my entire lifestyle around making sure I have access to sex. That's how primal it is for men - I mean, in fairness, I do genuinely enjoy the company of women and being around positive feminine energy,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/25 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Basic Guide to Flirting for IntrovertsAaaaaaand, look who is back. When I'm right, I'm right. I'm not "taking offense" - in fact, I joked about your 'theater kids' remark - I'm just calling you out on your bullshit. You're just using jargon - Jestermaxxing, Frame - mixed with insults: "gyaness!" and your fave, "ridiculous" without any substance. If you genuinely felt my post didn't apply to you, you should have said - to yourself - "Oh, this post doesn't apply to me" and kept scrolling. Instead you thought "Oh, this is an opportunit… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Basic Guide to Flirting for IntrovertsI replied this because the advice is not suitable for introverts Except at no point did you say "The advice is not suitable for introverts." You started with "No hate" and then proceeded through a bunch of weak sauce insults. "Look at me! Punching down on theater kids! Hey! Everybody! See how cool I am?" Eww. You posted because you wanted attention. And now you reply because you are ego-invested. You aren't fooling anybody. It comes across as practically jestermaxxing. Except it isn't. It's call… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/25 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Boyfriend and I have very different relationships with alcohol. How to compromise?Call him an alcoholic or not Well, right now, he's just a drunk; alcoholics go to meetings. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/25 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Basic Guide to Flirting for IntrovertsSo first, don't knock theater kids. A lot of them do actually fuck. With the opposite sex, even. That's the thing about nerd girls - beneath the glasses and the frumpy clothes there very often lurks a secret freak who is just a glow-up away from being a sex goddess. Second, is it entirely possible that these lines work for me because they are coming out of my mouth, and they wouldn't work for you? Sure. Women can sense if you fuck or not. I don't know what about your reply made you think, "Yes! … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/25 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?So, one day at a time, but I’m glad it does seem to continue to be going in the right direction. I’m happy for you, and I hope things keep going well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/25 04:10 PM |
| 2 | It’s been 4 months and I want to be exclusive - or am I just a plate?I guess you will know in two months. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/25 08:52 PM |
| 3 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?I was just trying to put the best possible face on it because it might work out. Also, it’s not up to him to police her boundary. It’s up to her. If you offer a guy sex a lot of times he’s gonna say yes to it. It’s like offering a lion red meat. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/25 03:07 AM |
| 5 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?Sure, but she’s already had sex with a guy so she might as well play out the string on the chance that it’s not, which it probably isn’t. A lot of guys are completely guileless. If he shows up for date three, then she wasn’t just a pump and dump. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/25 12:04 AM |
| 2 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?It kind of sounds like you’re letting your “anxiety brain“ make up a bunch of situations that are never gonna happen so you can screw things up. Somewhere in your brain, this song is playing, and you gotta make it stop: If you’re happy and you know it overthink. If you’re happy and you know it overthink. If you’re happy and you know it give your brain a chance to blow it. If you’re happy and you know it overthink. You already bang the guy. At this point, he’s N+0 to you. Might as well keep on ba… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/04/25 12:01 AM |
| 8 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?GOLF = Goddess of Light and Fun. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/25 06:45 PM |
| 9 | How do you know if you've 'passed the test'?So, a lot of guys really do just want a girlfriend who is nice to them. Everything might work out just fine. Since you’ve already had sex with him, you may just want to switch into GOLF mode and see what happens. Don’t torture yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/25 03:33 PM |
| -2 | HypergamyThe species is the same around the world. It’s a matter of what local controls are put in place. You see rampant hypergamy in the West because we don’t put any “controls” for lack of a better term on women anymore. There are at least three major world religions that are focused on controlling female sexuality, so the train doesn’t go off the tracks. I’m fairly certain if you look that in poor countries, you’re much more likely to have polygyny. In the West, this can be done “unofficially”, hence… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/25 06:10 PM |
| 3 | HypergamyReddit “AutoCorrects”, a lot of things to “communist” apparently. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/25 06:06 PM |
| 66 | Silence when I’m awayEnjoy your trip. Deal with whatever you have to when you get back. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Style that attracts older and conservative menThe sentiment is not offensive - I do not care what brands you buy; B2 was a throwaway example to illustrate my primary point to the OP, who is interested how to dress to please an older, conservative man. Here's the bit you should have focused on: Think “understated but elegant,” or “Conservative Preppy.” Clear? Yes? No? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/25 05:56 PM |
| 4 | My long distance bf of 4 years said he doesn’t know if he will be ready to propose 4 years down the road. Should I end it?You can have “long distance” or you can have a “relationship.” That’s it. That’s the post. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/25 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Style that attracts older and conservative menLook, I realize your stuck on your own solipsism and just want to hear yourself talk, but you simply don’t know what you’re talking about relative to the topic at hand. I mean, you’re welcome to give us the benefit of your long experience as an older conservative man….oh wait, right, you don’t have any. Whether it’s B2 or someone else, understated an elegant is what she should be shooting for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/25 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Not feeling feminine/womanly due to chest size? 😔I don’t disagree about the harmful effects of porn, but it doesn’t seem from your post that your guy has a problem with it. He’s not hard-core pushing you into getting your tits done, and you don’t give any indication that he has porn-induced ED. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/25 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Style that attracts older and conservative menWell, one of us is an older conservative man and the other one of us is you. The OP is gunning for a much older man, and men of that type are going to want to take her out to places they’re familiar with, and she’s going to need to be able to fit in. so yeah, “understated and elegant” is dead on. I don’t even have to look at your post history to figure out what percentage of your replies are just snarky bullshit. But hey, you keep doing you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/25 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Not feeling feminine/womanly due to chest size? 😔So of Madison Avenue, the San Fernando Valley, and me, who do you think is really gaslighting her? The first is telling her she has to buy a certain product to look a certain way, the second is telling her that men only like one particular body type and I’m saying that small tiddies are fine. Because they are. I mean if she really wanted to do something to make them stand out she could always get her nips pierced although I wouldn’t recommend that, either. As my grandmother’s people would say “t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Should I end my relationship?I assumed not, but sometimes it pays to ask because what’s really going on behind “my boyfriend is scared of me“ is “well I have BPD and I tried to kill him in his sleep three times.“ | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/25 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Husband struggling with weight loss, I'm struggling with attractionI know some guys that semaglutide injections have worked for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/25 04:47 AM |
| 6 | Not feeling feminine/womanly due to chest size? 😔porn So what? It's not real. Guys KNOW it's not real. Adult guys anyway. I wear medium padded bras and now im becoming self conscious of this because I feel like when people hug me it’s so noticeable. Nobody is noticing. My uni gf's mom had a double mastectomy and once I visited when she didn't have her prosthetics in. She kept tugging at her shirt (not that I noticed; uni gf told me later.) Her mom spent whatever amount of time being self-conscious about smth I was oblivious to. I mean, I did k… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/25 04:36 AM |
| 12 | Am I over thinkingIf your biggest problem is your guy is proud of you and brags about you to his family then yes, you are over-thinking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/25 04:17 AM |
| 21 | Should I end my relationship?Bro is not showing up for you. Is there some alternate reason for this? You have a cat you would be bringing with you, but he's allergic? Smth like that? (I am guessing no, but one never knows.) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/25 04:15 AM |
| 5 | I didn't follow my bf's lead because it felt wrong and now he's mad - wanting other perspectivesSo, NTA, as the saying goes. You’re not obligated to do anal at all, let alone without proper preparation and lube. Just bizarre. The only time this would ever be OK as if it was a prearranged CNC situation that specifically included forced butt sex. It seems pretty clearly though that alcohol was a factor. The executive function of your brain doesn’t work as well and you come up with stupid ideas like using soap. I may be the wrong guy to ask as I have no desire whatsoever to stick my cock in s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/25 12:00 AM |
| 1 | are age gap/trad marriages inherently a kink/ fetish?fetish No, wanting an older man is not a fetish. Dominant Daddy/baby girl is a fetish. As a guy who age gap dates, it’s easiest to explain it this way: there are three groups of girls. The first group wants a man about their age maximum four years difference to the plus side maybe one year difference to the minor side. Anything else is totally grody or whatever the kids say. The second group of girls will give it up for the right older guy. Think Matthew McConaughey or whoever. But basically the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/25 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Style that attracts older and conservative menLocal rules can be different. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/25 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Style that attracts older and conservative menNot every guy is a boob guy. /shrug. And really it’s usually about the total package. As an example of buddy mine is a confirmed boob guy, but he married a woman who is maybe a small B cup? I mean I’m not allowed to look too close but she’s not over endowed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/25 12:51 AM |
| 6 | Style that attracts older and conservative menRumor has it that some white women don’t even own a scale. When black guys start hitting on them at a higher frequency they’re like “I should lose some weight.” 🤣 | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/25 07:17 PM |
| 14 | Style that attracts older and conservative menSo one thing to remember about how women’s figures are portrayed in the media is that fashion is run by gay men and ladies of a certain age. So the models look like undernourished 13-year-old boys. If straight men ran fashion, there would be a lot more Booty on DutyTM and a lot more Tiddy on the Committee. That doesn’t mean a girl can be fat and attract a lot of men. There’s curvy, and there’s fat. Also, in general, it’s gonna depend on the ethnicity of the guy. Black men are known for liking th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/25 04:58 PM |
| 4 | Can you come off as innocent/feminine even if you have a more “manly” corporate role?Of course. My youngest sister has a very senior role at a bank. She is often the most senior woman in management wherever she works – she’s frequently recruited by other banks because of her skill set. So at work she is “Ms Zaitzev-Jones” - she built a business reputation before she got married, and as she stayed near our hometown, incorporating her maiden name works because our family name is pretty well known because of my father’s business. At home, the business suit comes off, and the apron … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/25 04:46 PM |
| 44 | Style that attracts older and conservative menOlder, conservative Rule 9 Violation here. Think “understated but elegant,” or “Conservative Preppy.” So whatever they have for young ladies in the Brooks Brothers catalog. What’s more important is that you stay slender and trim, and keep your hair long. If your figure is naturally more curvy, that’s fine, but you can’t be fat. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/25 02:01 PM |
| 5 | Bf wants 'a bj'I’m a helper. I help people. You’re going to get good at this. And when you do, enjoy your new superpower. /heh | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/25 01:30 AM |
| 11 | Bf wants 'a bj'Oral sex is a loving an intimate act. Millions of women do this for their man each day, and enjoy it. Would that affect the way he sees me? Sure. He will like you even more. Would that affect the relationship and in what way. He will be happy and more positive. I have never done that before That's ok. There's a first time for everyone. Make sure he knows this and tell him you will do the best you can, and for him to have patience (more on that in a bit.) is it his normal? It would be abnormal no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/25 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Are you attracted to most redpill men?No, GirlMath, deca-millions. 1,000,000 = 7 figures. 10,000,000 = 8 figures. 1,000,000,000 = 10 figures. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/25 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Are you attracted to most redpill men?Look for a local D&D group. :) But be careful, you just might wind up in the “Princess Leia slave girl outfit." | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Are you attracted to most redpill men?Yeah, when you have patrilineal inheritance, it does sort of matter who cracks that clam if the manor house is riding on it; less so for the cobbler or the tinker. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/25 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Are you attracted to most redpill men?Or what year? IKR? I was like "Damn, is it the 1500s again? Can I be a brigand or a berserker?" | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/25 02:44 PM |
| 4 | Are you attracted to most redpill men?Yeah, TRP got an influx of, um, other than TRP types when the specific for MGTOW and related subs got banned. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/25 02:43 PM |
| 5 | Are you attracted to most redpill men?Nope. The guys just need to adjust to having their eyes opened; by the time a woman is a 304, it's a long way back even if she can make the journey. A man can adjust; a woman can't give those bodies back. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/25 02:41 PM |
| 37 | Are you attracted to most redpill men?TRP and RPW have different goals. RPW are usually better off, not dating red pill men less those guys are focused on monogamy, or fully formed in their journey. Bear in mind that most guys over at TRP are broken in some way. I don’t mean that as an insult, but typically guys show up there after a horrific breakup or divorce. They just found out that there’s a “second set of books” and they have to adjust to the new reality, tear themselves down and build themselves back up again. Deep down, most… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/25 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Would you let your spouse cheat on you if they treated you well and providedSo this only really works if everyone’s truthful upfront. Such as if it’s an open marriage, or an open marriage on one side. Very often guys who can pull that off or not gonna be down for the wife to be stepping out either. The wife may not want to step out. Men and women worry about different things in relationship relationships. Men worry about being cocked and raising a child that isn’t their genetic legacy, and women worry about lack of or withdrawal of resources. Some women are OK with hubb… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/25 08:26 PM |
| 0 | How is being house wife still desirable when you know the risks. Like having no way out if he turns abusiveMy point is there are trade-offs. If you want to have children, you are vastly better off in terms of what their outcomes will be if you live with their father. If on the other hand, you don’t care about that, then by all means buy a dog, and die alone, but 50 years or whatever the rest of your life expectancy is a long time to spend by yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/25 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How is being house wife still desirable when you know the risks. Like having no way out if he turns abusiveThey both are, but with one, your "employer" loves you back. You are comparing the "best" outcome of one with the "worst" of another. If you want freedom and automy, work for a corporation, get a dog and die alone. That is always an option. If you want to have kids, it's better to do it with a man in your life that you are married to. 50 years is a long time to be alone. If you have kids and feel like you missed out on being an employee, you can always go be an employee at 50, you can't have kid… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/25 12:12 PM |
| 13 | How is being house wife still desirable when you know the risks. Like having no way out if he turns abusiveIt is the problem of the “unknown outcome.” Do not think for a moment that employment isn’t a “life of servitude.” Plus, unlike a husband, a corporation will not love you back. And they will happily stick a knife in you and lay you off if it raises their stock price a penny, even if you’ve given them years of loyal service. Who said someone has “unemployable”? You will have different options than someone with a PhD, but you will still have options. I think you will also find that most men are no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/03/25 09:49 AM |
| 1 | How do you have a good "girl game" with a man that has a lot of options?Sure, but not with the guy in the OP. There are always market inefficiencies - I’m the king of finding them, which explains my dating life. an introverted guy might find such a woman to be an absolute treasure. But on average, things average out, so you can’t rely on being an outlier. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/25 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Sharing a man?Yeah, it's def not for everyone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/25 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Appealing to traditionally masculine menNo, typically they know what's up already and DM me after having read either the Submissive Women series or the "Of Human Bondage" series. The OP and I would not be a particularly good fit; my asides were to make those RPW who know me by reputation chuckle. I do not take myself too seriously and recommend the same for others. EDIT. Having read another of your comments on this thread, let me be crystal clear: I have not DMed the OP, and I'm not going to; when I DM with an RPW it's because one has… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/25 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Appealing to traditionally masculine menHe's not exactly your typical nerd. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/25 11:15 AM |
| 0 | Appealing to traditionally masculine menSerena Williams - married a tech nerd and he dotes on her and their daughter. She married a billionaire. Paris Hilton.... married a nerdy guy At 40, even though she met him when they were ~25, but she wasn't done being a cock jockey yet. Also, he's a venture capitalist. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/25 09:24 AM |
| 1 | How do you have a good "girl game" with a man that has a lot of options?Because if he was in it for the money, he'd have wifed one of them up. Take it from a guy who is in it for the Hotties With The Bodies and the Cuties With The Booties. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/25 09:12 AM |
| 4 | Appealing to traditionally masculine menI like old-school, traditionally masculine, conservative, dominant men that you might refer to as “alpha” Congrats, you're normal. it’s not my end goal to be a trad wife or have kids. Guess what those guys are going to want. the type of man I find attractive was basically bullied into extinction I think you will find they are still there, but tend not to seek attention on Snapface and Instabook....and they don't go where they're not wanted. plus I have a very skinny, flat and tall body like Ursu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/25 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Sharing a man?You sound vaguely Latina, or Slavic. Like “You betta not talk to that waitress too long or laugh too loud. We can both die today.“ | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/25 04:49 PM |
| -1 | Weight loss fixed my marriage… don’t know how to feel?So you have a man who loves you and who stood by you. Try being grateful for what you have instead of finding reasons to be unhappy. Simple as. And lose the negative self talk. It’s not helpful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/25 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Weight loss fixed my marriage… don’t know how to feel?So has it occurred to you that you were probably a lot more of a cast iron beyotch when you were fat and unhappy? That maybe you chased him away with your bad attitude and crabbiness? And your husband - who hung in there with you when you blimped out, told you he loved you, told you he was still attracted to you - is still somehow the bad guy? Now put the shoe on the other foot. What if hubby had gotten a good deal heavier than just “chubby” instead of you? Would you still have been as attracted… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/25 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men in high earning careers more likely to be unfaithful or...Everyone has their own tastes. I prefer thigh highs of a more classic design, without a garter, although more slender-legged fillies may need one. The more cooperative a lady is with whatever her man prefers - usual disclaimers apply - typically the better-served she will be. A couple considerations: First, women very often underestimate a man's need for sex. Women have vastly more optionality and typically less horniness, so perhaps it doesn't occur. So when a woman says "All he wants is sex", … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/25 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Sharing a man?Well first, you (as the guy) have to be better than whatever Billy Beta offers to give her 100% of his loyalty and attention, etc. Believe it or not, women will often opt to share a higher value man (even if the preference is to have him to herself) rather than get all of Billy Beta. (A) If you (as the guy) preselect for bisexuality. It helps if they are into the other chick. (B) So the biggest fear a man has in a relationship is cuckolding (other than the weirdo fetishists), and raising a child… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/25 12:11 PM |
| 8 | How do you have a good "girl game" with a man that has a lot of options?Men looking for relationships don't consume PU artist content. Agree with 99% of your post, but you'd be surprised. Most guys who come to the men's forum do so because they just got shattered in a breakup/divorce and want to understand why. They don't want to become players, necessarily, but they will look at this stuff to understand what happened. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/25 04:56 AM |
| 5 | How do you have a good "girl game" with a man that has a lot of options?When you say he isn't dating women of his caliber, do you mean women who are as successful as he is? No, although we do have a couple of posters here who will disagree with me based on their very specific situations (married old money). For example he had a lot of classmates (women) who come from wealthy families, have their own business, and were good-looking but his relationships with them didn't work either. He's not in it for the $, he's in it for (a) the Hotties with the Bodies and (b) the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/25 04:33 AM |
| 5 | How do you have a good "girl game" with a man that has a lot of options?I don't have much experience with men who have many options. Hi, there. boyfriend (first one mentioned) This is the guy you lock down, but I assume he's also the guy who took the job overseas. quite good looking, very successful, educated, and overall has a lot of options and women who want to be exclusive with him. For this type of guy, you need to meet up with him at the point where he's ready to hang up his spurs. Because the sale you are trying to make is "Hey, big fella, wouldn't it be grea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/25 04:30 AM |
| 0 | Sharing a man?Hi there. So I did this for time. Twice, actually, although it never got to the kid-having stage - although one of them just boomeranged back to me bc: 32 and no kids and that biological clock is going like a trip hammer. A 24 year old in my rotation would happily sign up for this. Two things that you need to consider: General compatibility with the other woman. When it works, it’s great - my girls would hv convos like: “I have to work on Friday - will you be here to take care of him?” I do not … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/25 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Men in high earning careers more likely to be unfaithful or...If you are hypersexual, why would you give up your options to marry one woman when you have no idea if she can meet your needs? I mean unless you were going to cheat on her behind her back, as needed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/25 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men in high earning careers more likely to be unfaithful or...hypersexaul guy willing to wait until marriage? That does not compute. Any woman who maintains she will happily satisfy my sexual needs would have to prove it, over the medium or longer term, before I put a ring on it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/25 12:51 AM |
| 0 | Boyfriend climbed up a few stories to help a woman get into an apartmentCould be, and I am leaning that way, but some of the stuff in my life had to actualyl happen; it couldn't be made up. Although I also don't have a rep as a lier either, so there's that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/03/25 12:44 AM |
| 4 | A Lady's InfluenceAs a guy who uses the word “fuck” like other people use commas, I do appreciate this. /heh | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/25 11:32 AM |
| 20 | Boyfriend climbed up a few stories to help a woman get into an apartmentHe's lied about random stuff before I’m more concerned about this. NB I am not shinnying up a drain pipe for anybody no matter how hot she is. The only way I’m doing that is if there’s somebody who needs to be rescued from a fire or something. Even then, I’d find a different way because my drain pipe shinnying skills are somewhat out of date. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/25 10:16 AM |
| 6 | Accompanying my husband to a work lunch, meeting his boss and coworkers. Secrets, tips, and tricks to best represent him?A. Be as sweet as granny’s sweet tea. B. Be complimentary - not a bad word to say about anyone. Tell the other wives how good they look/what a nice dress they’re wearing/how you love their hairdo. C. Do not get isolated by another man off somewhere. D. If there is dancing, apply the “Catholic School” rule and leave room for the Holy Ghost bw a partner and you. Or say “I only dance with my husband” or “Slow dances are for my husband,” based on what your individual rules are for these situations. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/25 06:36 AM |
| 9 | Thoughts on his idea of loyalty?Atrocities? That’s fairly simple to say when they’re hypothetical (you) vs actual (him). He’s also using it as in a manipulation tactic. The problem that you have in this situation is: the disease will always choose the drug. He has to commit to getting well bc, so long as the disease is driving the bus, he’s not going to get better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/25 06:00 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on his idea of loyalty?^ This. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/25 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Men in high earning careers more likely to be unfaithful or...Hypersexual Yep. Highly likely, assuming he Takes the Pledge in the first place. At some point he may decide to forego all of his optionality for whatever reason, e.g. wants kids, but this guy doesn’t sound like a good bet for fidelity. It also depends on whether he has any honor. For example, when I give my word, I keep it. But in this context, I seldom give it. I also tend to value longer term sexual relationships with women whose company I enjoy, but if a woman expects me to not bang other wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/25 05:55 AM |
| 5 | How to best support investment banker husband?I am a Rule 9 Violation who trained as an attorney and worked in trading for 20+ years. I have been the happy beneficiary of lots of TLC over the years, and can advise as follows: -Be his peace. Your home should be an oasis of calm. -If you are not going to be working outside of the home, take as much if the administrative burden off of him as possible. Bill-paying, etc. -Make sure you get enough self-care time to have your own peace. Keep fit both for yourself and him. -If you do not already kn… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/25 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Am I not considered pure anymore?Oh good Lord. Yes you were still a virgin and you will remain one until somebody’s cock goes into your vagina. Don’t torture yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/25 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Occupations that are in line with RPW goals?legally married Depending on your location, he should be able to register you as a “domestic partner”, which should provide the same benefits as there would be for a spouse. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/25 11:09 PM |
| -1 | Occupations that are in line with RPW goals?Nannying seems like the best option. Or temping - is that even a thing anymore? I remember Olsten Temps and being able to hire a “Kelly Girl” for secretarial work. You want smth low commitment. Bartending may bring in more cash but Starbucks has, as I understand it, some good bennies for retail workers. Howard Schultz has my undying respect for saying, back during the financial crisis, when others told him that he could cut that program and nobody would blame him, “We don’t want to be that kind … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/25 09:55 PM |
| 24 | Would you support arranged marriage coming back into style?I have a daughter now and I keep thinking how I wish it was the norm to cut to the chase and do arranged marriages young literally just because I want to make her life easier. Pitch this idea to her when she’s 18 or 19. I’m sure she’ll love it. /heh One thing that should be done for a potential bride/groom is have opposite sex family members vet potential spouses as we pick up on things that the other sex might not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/25 09:37 PM |
| 6 | I just want to live like my great grandmaIm homeless I think this requires some further explanation, esp as it was left out of the OP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/25 07:31 PM |
| 26 | I just want to live like my great grandmajoin a cult. Two friends of mine, independently of each other, have each told me I should have my own cult. One gave some further exposition that there would be plenty of good food, red wine, and everyone would get laid a lot. Since I’ve tested out is both ENTP (the “Visionary”) and ENTJ, (the “Commander”) I guess “cult leader” is pretty much right down the middle. You know what that cult would not have? A farm. Farming is absolutely backbreaking labor. A vegetable garden, sure, maybe some fruit… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/25 04:31 PM |
| 17 | Does submission start in a relationship or in marriage?Submission starts when you find a man worthy of submitting to. You’ll know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/25 08:30 AM |
| 3 | No flowers for ValentinesOut of curiosity how old are you? How old is he? if everybody’s super young, did he spend his “I have $X amount of cash to spoil my girlfriend” on dinner rather than flowers? Would you have preferred only flowers in place of dinner? I’m just making sure that this isn’t a “young and exploited segment of the workforce“ problem. Valentine’s Day is a giant scam. It is a total Hallmark holiday. Do I get my girls flowers? You’re damn right I do. I don’t want them to be the only girls walking around wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/25 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Petty RevengeYeah, pretty much. But it is what it is. Completely wrong sub for that too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/25 07:58 PM |
| 3 | I'm trying so hard not not resent men but the internet is making it difficult. I'm starting to regret ever standing up for them as a conservative woman. How do I get over this feeling?So first I'm sorry that this has been your experience. Everywhere online I have located the problem. ;-) The various algorithms find out what interests us and then drives us down the rabbit hole until we are enraged because that makes us click more and eyeballs are worth money. If wind up hanging out in Dark Places on the internet, you will find yourself running into Dark Creatures. Not after seeing their true face. Not after seeing what so many of them truly think. Not when I know that, to them… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/25 07:38 AM |
| 2 | I'm trying so hard not not resent men but the internet is making it difficult. I'm starting to regret ever standing up for them as a conservative woman. How do I get over this feeling?Lolz. Oh, yeah. We love that. I get what you mean but all to often that is: "Men are HORRIBLE! Now solve all of our problems!" There's a reason Whisper would say that feminist only understand male power, and not female power. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/25 07:20 AM |
| 3 | I'm trying so hard not not resent men but the internet is making it difficult. I'm starting to regret ever standing up for them as a conservative woman. How do I get over this feeling?but she's like 5'3" So a quick note on this. To a woman who is 5'3, similar to a man who is 6'3, the dating pool is, well, everybody. So if you were to point this out to her she'd say "Yeah, so?" That is neither good nor bad, it just is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/25 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Petty RevengeMy other two fave opera quotes are: -Opera is like drunkenness; it is a sin that carries its own punishment with it. -There are three rules of Opera: (1) Make it loud; (2) Wear flashy clothes; and (3) If things aren't going your way, kill yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/25 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Petty RevengeI just like the “opera plot” part of it. It makes it funnier. But yes, people act in haste and then regret at leisure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/25 12:24 AM |
| 0 | Do daddy issues affect relationships?As a Rule 9 Violation, I always heard "I'm a wildcat in the sack." Meaning, "Yes, I will have sex with you AND I will do fun stuff that other girls might not." I also keep the "Daddy Issues" girl around, provided she (a) wasn't a nutjob, and (b) keep, um, "being cooperative", because I'm good at being a "Daddy." Usually (b) wasn't a problem, but (a) could be. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/25 09:57 PM |
| 6 | Petty RevengeIn before the lock. Without checking, I would bet real money that there’s a sub-reddit for exactly this sort of behavior. You are better off, looking at that. Of course, you are really better off not engaging in this type of behavior. It isn’t productive and won’t help you heal. “While not popular as an opera plot, living well really is the best revenge.” -George Herbert, more or less. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/25 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Do daddy issues affect relationships?Men think of “daddy issues” in terms of the result, or the perceived result, which is hypersexuality. So when a girl says “I have daddy issues,” what a man hears is “I’m a wildcat in the sack.”. I think that these types of daddy issues are caused more by father absence, than some sort of sexual abuse by father, although that’s just a deduction from my every day observation of life. I saw a panel discussion once that consisted of adult actresses. Not a single one of them had a father present in t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Pornography ConversationSo when he looks at porn is he stroking to it or is he just looking? I ask because if he has sex with you one day a week and then jacks off the other six days your sex drives aren’t all that misaligned, it’s that he has a porn problem. I cannot imagine letting a partner go unsatisfied because I wanted to look at pictures or video on the Internet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/25 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Worry about futureOn paper, your standards are fine. The question is, how are they in practice? Could it be that you are in a location where they’re just aren’t (m)any suitable men? Sure, that’s possible. On the other hand, hypergamy is a cruel mistress. You seem to recognize that in your last sentence. If there are women around you who have husbands or boyfriends, somehow they are getting partnered up. Ask yourself how. Just make sure that your actions align with your thoughts. a lot of guys will say that they j… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/25 01:00 PM |
| 0 | 21f) curious how many girlfriends or wives allow their partners to have other partners while staying monogamousi would rather not tolerate it Not unreasonable. or perhaps i could settle for us both to get to go out and get some action once in a while as long as are sex life was good alone. Yep, but that's an open relationship. Unless you come into it that way, it's not going to go right. Someone catches feels, or violates the rules. Either the woman wants it so she can try out new dick while still having the safety of her marriage and sets ups "rules" that are neutral on their face ("no exes", "nobody we… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/25 07:04 PM |
| 2 | 21f) curious how many girlfriends or wives allow their partners to have other partners while staying monogamousim young and have a lot of options. Right, so why would you tolerate it at all, assuming that you don't want to? Are you European or smth? /heh I note that you didn't answer my question: Is there a particular reason you ask this? Or is it just a hypothetical? If you are looking to safeguard yourself in the future, you simply make sure your man doesn't leave the house unless his balls are empty and his belly is full - that doesn't really account for the "Coolidge Effect" but it will certainly put… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/25 04:59 PM |
| 1 | 21f) curious how many girlfriends or wives allow their partners to have other partners while staying monogamousI’ve never used a prostitute and I never will. To me, that would be like moving a lamp. I prefer genuine human relationships, so my girls are all “wild caught.” if it's anything but that i dont think id be very happy with it That sounds like you’re OK with your man visiting escorts. That certainly rather open-minded. From a psychological perspective, you are trying to eliminate or at least downplay the chance of attachment on his part. This ties into “fear of abandonment,“ as I discussed above. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/25 03:27 PM |
| 0 | 21f) curious how many girlfriends or wives allow their partners to have other partners while staying monogamousIs there a particular reason you ask this? Or is it just a hypothetical? So as a Rule 9 Violation who runs a soft harem, let me weigh in with an answer. I wrote about this in the men's forum in a post called OLTRs: What They Are, And How To Manage Them. Here are some basics: Why I Do It. I have a high drive. It completely sux to go from 3x/day to zero....and not knowing where the next time is (pun fully intended) coming from. I get really irritable and difficult to be around. Thus, it's better f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/25 09:37 AM |
| 1 | My (33f) bf (24m) has a hot female friend. Should I be concerned?A. He doesn't mention her because he knows you're insecure about her and he doesn't want to get dragged. B. It seems he has 1-on-1 hangouts with her. This is what would raise concerns. C. "Then I hear a girls voice on the other end. Guess who it was? Tiffany." Would you feel better if it was a different girl? D. "I know nothing about this girl besides what my bf tells me about her." This is concerning. Does she know he has a gf? Back in my monogamous days, I would make sure that any gf I had met… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/25 08:51 PM |
| 0 | My (33f) bf (24m) has a hot female friend. Should I be concerned?give him an ultimatum, with clear boundaries and conditions. So you don't think that's "insecure" or "controlling" when a woman does that to a man? Asking for a friend.... | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/25 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Feeling trappedDon't just assume I'm on "Team Boyfriend" here. Read on. Why should she not be out of the house at 8pm? I didn't say she shouldn't. I simply asked what was going on. To me, a curfew for a 27 year old is just odd, but that did spark my curiosity. It's clearly not brunch and unlikely to be shopping. Maybe the movies? I don't know. I though it was reasonable to ask. Note that I wrote: "I’m not judging I’m just curious." OP: "...he gives me an unreasonable curfew, like 8 PM." This sounds like a curf… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/25 07:24 PM |
| -3 | Feeling trappedlong distance You can have “long distance“ or you can have a “relationship.” Has this always been an LDR, or did you spend any significant time actually together? Is the LDR portion for a definite period of time? Or is it kind of just ongoing? one lie Is it ever really just one lie? Trust can be a fragile thing. curfew So what’s going on is the two of you are not in the same location and he’s doing this to exert control over you, and/or keep you out of trouble - although I don’t really think how… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/25 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Dating adviceYou can harness this. You just have to tell him you're doing it because this will be different from what he will expect. Prime him with "I get it that guys can struggle with hints, so I believe in being clear..." Then call back to that when you need to be direct. Simple as. "So, remember when I said...well..." | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/25 08:00 PM |
| 2 | How to instigate desire?men may sometimes not notice Remember who you're talking to. ;-) I am the KING of "creating a narrative" and spending time living in girls' heads. When you see a guy with a woman who is waaaay out of his league? Yeah, he's probably good at the same thing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/25 11:21 PM |
| 2 | How to instigate desire?He knew that I didn't want to do it and he felt hurt and unloved. Yeah, that's tough. I've been in a similar position, although the girl was SA'd before I arrived on the scene. I obv didn't know this from the jump, but from her perspective, she had not had sex since the rape (after the break-up of her first relationship, she went on a date with a guy who turned out to a rapist), and after I got told why I wasn't getting anywhere (I was actually the first guy she wanted to date in her post SA lif… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/25 10:15 PM |
| 5 | How to instigate desire?If he can tell you're not into sex, your not faking it right. Is there right way? I would absolutely hate finding out I had been deceived, and my girl was either/both (a) dreading my touch and (b) wishing it would end the whole time. I would not downplay the SA element. That can really mess with a girl's head, even if she's subsequently with a man she WANTS to feel desire for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/25 03:21 PM |
| 5 | How to instigate desire?That actually can work, but probably not in her situation. Read on. Where it works is where the couple hasn't been having sex, bc the wife 'doesn't want to' but then when things get going, she's into it, can achieve orgasm, etc. It's like when you don't go to the gym, but tell yourself that you will go for "10 minutes" then you get there and 10 minutes in you are going to do your whole workout etc. The difficulty is: they have been having sex, and it's not having that effect for her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/25 03:16 PM |
| 10 | Am I overthinking or is this actually to be concerned about?Should he be imagining other women in them? Look I get it you may have had a sheltered upbringing or something and may not feel comfortable with it, but this pretty tame stuff. You are free to ask him to stop, of course, but this is hardly a hate crime against women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/25 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Would it be appropriate of me to ask my SO to pay for my travel tickets?So first, one has to understand how important respect is to men. It is. To the point where given the choice between being respected and loved, 75% of us would choose the former. I think this has smth to do with our "value" being our usefulness to others. Some context: So, putting it carefully, I do well, economically. I rather enjoy treating people, and frequently pick up the tab at restaurants for friends, etc. Among my group of friends (I have friends of various ages and economic classes) ther… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/25 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Seeing romance during valentines will make me sadWithout commenting on the relationship, just for your peace of mind, it might be a good time to remind yourself that comparison is the thief of joy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/25 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Would it be appropriate of me to ask my SO to pay for my travel tickets?Nope. I like running a soft harem, and wives generally do not approve of that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/25 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Would it be appropriate of me to ask my SO to pay for my travel tickets?If he's sensitive to being used, suggest alternatives that do not add to his out-of-pocket and see what he says. Either (a) suggest that he comes to you, dropping your ticket expense to zero, or (b) suggest a location closer to you that results in a less expensive ticket for you. If you ask directly, say smth like "Can you help me with tickets?" That's better than straight out asking for $. Much like with food, it's often in the presentation. Bring him the problem, and let him solve it, which as… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/25 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on this manIt’s long distance. You can have "long distance" or you can have a "relationship." LDRs work when it is with an established couple and only for a defined period of time. What you have is a texting buddy. The problem is, he tells me all the time he’s going to buy me something or send me money (nothing crazy) but doesn’t follow through with it. So in the men's forum, we say "Don't listen to what she says, watch what she does." That applies here, also. It’s starting to get on my nerves because I ex… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/25 01:08 AM |
| 9 | My husband wants me to quit my 6 figures jobI would stop telling him that men are hitting on you though - there’s no reason to tell him other men are giving you options. That is likely hurtful to him. So first, he already knows, so the sudden drop off may be noticeable. It's like when a woman talks and talks about "Steve, the new guy at work." It's "Steve this" and "Steve that" for a while. Then suddenly, no more talk about Steve. Unless Steve has decided to move to the Himalayas or got reassigned to the Nome, Alaska, branch, the greater … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/25 02:05 PM |
| 13 | My husband wants me to quit my 6 figures jobSo I see that we want to use the words “insecure” and “controlling” a lot here, because in most situations it’s easy and validates the woman’s feelings, and lets her continue behavior that her husband isn’t comfortable with for what might turn out to be entirely valid reasons. It’s just an intellectually lazy thing to do. Let’s look at it from his point of view: First, she’s in a predominantly male environment and guys know how other guys are. “Oh, no, they’re not like that.” BS. They are totall… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/25 06:42 AM |
| 4 | Not sure why I couldn’t form lasting friendships in recent yearsYeah, welcome to 2025, where everyone has massive social anxiety, FOMO, and are glued to their phones. Most people don’t interact with other people all that much. One of the things that the interns are assigned to do at work is to watch me do a negotiation on the phone because they don’t have that skill set. we are also more rootless. we don’t live in the same place as we grew up, and we don’t live with relatives usually after we move out of our birth family’s home. The advent of dating apps mad… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/25 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Enhancing your SMV later in life?Five and six are technically RMV although that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/25 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Am I (28F) letting the provider (28m) comments get to me?SAVAGE! (which I mean in the best possible way.) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/25 10:31 PM |
| 2 | How to present concerns in a way he will understand.It was brought to my attention that my initial response was argumentative. I apologize as that was not my intention. I understand why; you are deeply frustrated by the situation. No harm done/no offense taken. Are there other things I can do to improve his perception of having any discussions? So there are a couple of things to think about. First, the two of you have been together a long time and you have established patterns. Changing them is going to be like turning an ocean liner. Our birth f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Is my boyfriend using me as a placeholderI hope everything works out for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Is my boyfriend using me as a placeholderI just meant about the psychology. I’m pretty sure that’s right regardless of whether they’re in an LDR or not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Is my boyfriend using me as a placeholderThat’s a way to disagree with me with extra words. With LDRs you can have “long distance“ or you can have a “relationship.” When you see one work it’s because it is with an established couple and a defined time frame that isn’t necessarily all that long. That said, I’m pretty sure I’m right on the psychology. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Do men still want to have sex with you even when you’re over thirty?Look at who Bezos chose. Does anyone thing Bezos has any kind of game at all? He may be Alpha ChadBro in business, but he's was a "no hoper" when me married McKenzie (who kind of was also), and he got hunted by his friend's wife. Dude has zero game. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Do men still want to have sex with you even when you’re over thirty?TMI maybe but I'm 23 and still a virgin. Not TMI. Good info. I'm worried that I've wasted all my "attractive years" postponing sex in lieu of other things going on in my life. Nope. First you are still in your attractive years. This is extremely upsetting to me because I've always been pretty sexual in my thoughts and always dreamed of having a relationship with a man who desires me and finds me beautiful. Hmm. If you've always been "pretty sexual" how did you manage to old on to your V-card thi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 05:25 AM |
| 4 | Is my boyfriend using me as a placeholder2025 happened and he told me we can postpone it until 2026 because his career isn’t going well at the moment. Assuming that is true, this is 100% consistent with being a provider guy. The worst thing that can happen to a provider guy is that he fails, even once. I asked him what is going on and what will happen in 2026 if his career isn’t going well then either, but i feel like his answers were vague. So, having found the nerve you decided work the nerve over. This is why men don't tell their wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Tone on the phone 📞😬What do I do here? Text. Or schedule a call when you both aren't busy and stressed. Fun Fact: Years ago I worked with a guy who, if I had to give him an answer he didn't like, would try to bully me if the conversation was on the phone. This went about as well as you might imagine. /heh What I figured out was, if I had him in my office, he was polite, we discussed things rationally and we worked toward a solution much more efficiently. After this happened a few times, he remarked how much easier … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 05:08 AM |
| 7 | How to present concerns in a way he will understand.My issue is that he never seems to understand my perspective, and always takes it as a personal attack when it isn't. Are you sure? Because a lot of times, women will present things as: "I feel bad/sad/mad", and the guy will receive it as: "YOU MADE ME FEEL bad/sad/mad." And sometimes it is that. And if it happens often enough, he's going to expect it. Men, on average, have a much lower EI - like a lot lower - than women do. Dealing with a woman's emotions can feel a lot like being dropped into … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 05:03 AM |
| 1 | I feel rejected, my bf told me "I don't think I can just keep paying for everything", how do I deal with this situation?How do you think I could improve communication? Be clear. Use words. Do not say things you don't mean. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/25 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Boomerang Babes (They Always Come Back), or So I Alpha Widowed a Playboy Playmate.Nerd Girls: Beneath the glasses and the frumpy clothes lurks a sex goddess! I have used your line “You’re so lucky you’re attractive” to great success. In general, the most sexist line said with a smirk had the greatest success. I usually deliver it as "You're so lucky you're pretty," dripping with condescension. It get their motors going. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/25 04:37 AM |
| 2 | Boomerang Babes (They Always Come Back), or So I Alpha Widowed a Playboy Playmate.My main chick and I have had young guys approach assuming I am her father. Me: "I'm not her father; I'm her Daddy." She's a nerd girl trapped in a model's body so she just smiles and shrugs. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/25 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Boomerang Babes (They Always Come Back), or So I Alpha Widowed a Playboy Playmate.You helped me transition a bi-curious chick into a threesome. Glad I could help. Raise a glass to me next time you are toasting people. Genuine question: I know you must be getting up there in years now, have you ever had thoughts of slowing down? Reason I ask, is because the more I live this “bachelor till the rapture” life, the more I just can’t see family life in the picture. So I am 57. I always sort of assumed I would be a husband/dad - half of my fraternity was like 'You're going to be a g… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/25 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Boomerang Babes (They Always Come Back), or So I Alpha Widowed a Playboy Playmate.Sorry, just seeing this now. In general, no. I out earn the women I date by several multiples, and I view the expense of dating as a cost of doing business. I have had girls pick up the check before but they were usually doing it to show they weren't in it for the $. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/25 08:22 PM |
| 14 | I feel rejected, my bf told me "I don't think I can just keep paying for everything", how do I deal with this situation?Previously months ago I wanted to make sure and asked him if he was comfortable paying for everything on our upcoming trip, to which he said yes. But then days later he asked me if I’d like to contribute to it, to which I said I really appreciated him taking care of it. I feel it bothered him a bit, and then he said he would sort it out. Yeah, this not great communication. Also, you see how you felt when he came back to you on it? That's how he feels when/if you add things on. This week he has a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/25 06:08 PM |
| 25 | I feel rejected, my bf told me "I don't think I can just keep paying for everything", how do I deal with this situation?He is in fact my boss, I work for him. Not always a great idea. and I asked him if he could also send me some markers There are a couple of problems with this from his perspective: A. Feeling like "The Wallet." It's not the cost of the markers. It's the feeling that, if there kept being add-ons, that he keeps getting invoices for every little thing. You're working, and you have a salary, and you can spend $5 on yourself for markers instead of transferring every expense to him. Also, once he's ag… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/25 06:00 PM |
| 8 | Sometimes they want to be chased.I gave him a long kiss when he got home later and he said “there’s my wife.” It’s important to remember that the wife is the “emotional fireplace“ of the home. If she fills her home with light and love, then her marriage/family will benefit. Don’t build your house and then tear it down with your mouth. I mean, not exactly how it’s written in Proverbs, but that’s pretty clearly the subtext. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/25 05:04 PM |
| 28 | Adulting is realizing all you need is a home, stable income and a peaceful partner.As we get older, we tend to be more grateful for what we have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/25 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Dating adviceHmm. Ok that doesn't compute, although sometimes you see that where the guy doesn't necessarily have a lot of experience with women. That's why you see guys who are Alpha-Chad Business Bros who crush everything in their path who are completely whipped at home. Right now, my view remains: he's into you also, but also doesn't want to mess things up. One thing to bear in mind, and I got this from watching Louise Perry on Chris Williamson's podcast, is that a man with an IQ of 130 in general has the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/25 07:17 AM |
| 14 | Sometimes they want to be chased.Sounds like his LL is Physical Touch. Smth to remember, is that most men are starved for physical touch. Putting your hand on his upper arm or his chest or coming up behind him when he is sitting down and kneading his shoulders a bit will yield big divideds. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/25 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Dating advicehe did tell me that he’s very turned off by girls who start sending nudes right away and trashy stuff like that. I guess a lot of girls he would talk to from dating apps were trying to do that with him. That isn't surprising, given what you've told us about him. As bleak as most men have it on apps, the top 4% or 5% of guys are spoiled for choice and girls have to differentiate themselves, since 90% of the right swipes are going to those guys. I remember being a bit taken aback the first time I … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/25 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Wanting to wait for sex till marriage but not a virgin.then that’s his problem In a relationship it's not. If there's one thing that makes good guy positively stark raving mental it's the "Yeah, I used to give the younger, hotter, tighter version of me away for free at last call to every drug dealer, outlaw biker and escaped mental patient I could lay my hands on - he didn't have to put in any effort or anything, he just had to have a pulse - but YOU get to wait, Mister, because you're SPECIAL!" The last thing that guy is going to feel is "special."… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/25 04:50 AM |
| 4 | Dating adviceSo from your description, I think my initial take was accurate. As you mention he is Christian is that like "regular, try to be a good person" Christian or is it "Sex is dirty, save it for someone you love" Christian? You might float the idea of exclusivity, assuming you aren't already, or just say "I think I'd like to be your girlfriend." I mean, he doesn't seem like the "hit and quit" type. You may have to plow the road for him a bit. Also, you might want to try traumeel injections for your bu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/25 08:33 PM |
| -1 | Don’t Fear The Wall - Use Time to Your AdvantageSo absolutely follow the advice in this post because it will help you. Everyone ages, but do what you can to control the process and keep yourself fit, feminine and fun. In fact, never stop being his girlfriend. You can get married, but never stop being his girlfriend. Because girlfriends are fun, sexy, and spontaneous. The word “wife” sounds like the word “obligation” is in there somewhere. Because it is. But still. Never stop being his girlfriend. You’re still a baby to a 40 year old man Prett… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/25 10:00 AM |
| 11 | Dating adviceWe haven’t done anything sexual yet. He hasn’t asked to, and it seems like he isn’t very interested, or at least won’t be for a long time. And It’s all so perfect that I’m super scared of fucking it up. He may be feeling the same thing. A lot of young men are super circumspect about making that first move, physically/sexually, because, post-"Me, too" you don't know where a girl is going to go with that. A few possible moves without having much context: I. If you are super bold, next time you mee… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/25 09:23 AM |
| 2 | What to do with this guy?I 28F am post wall. That's a bit early. Men used to hit on me all the time, stare at me in the street and when I approached them, their eyes lit up. Now I am never hit on, never stared at and when I approach men, even when I am putting my best self forward (positive, confident, socially skilled), they are generally irritated/they don't want to know me further. ^ I am curious about what happened, because usually the fall - especially at 28 - isn't this precipitous. The WallSPLAT! is often softer/… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/25 06:55 PM |
| 0 | “Women live their life on easy mode”/u/OrganicAd54501 So for whatever reason, I can't reply to you in the original sub-thread, probably for reasons dealing with the other removed posts, so I will reply to you here. What you don't see or CAN'T see is the real price that 22 year old pays to go to a museum, stay at a nice hotel and go out to eat at a nice restaurant once. So let's just agree that not every 22 year old (or 24 year old in the instant case) is looking for a sincere guy to have lunch with. Let us also agree that the youn… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/25 05:45 PM |
| 1 | “Women live their life on easy mode”Oh, no doubt, but (a) this isn't a thread about "But NURSES!!!" and (b) nobody forces women to be nurses. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | “Women live their life on easy mode”Not specifically, but I have done jobs that involve me lifting Very Heavy Things. I suspect that the OP was intended to apply to women in general. If it had been “nurses live their lives on easy mode” you might have more of a point. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | “Women live their life on easy mode”Have you ever been a roofer, in July, as a redhead? Asking for a friend... ok, well, Bill Burr. ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/25 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment?I'm with "Team Girl" on this one. He said he didn't understand why I, as his partner, wouldn't take on half of the domestic load on a chore day. Because you are not his domestic partner. Ask him if he's going to come to your house and help you clean up on your own chore day. If he says "But I don't live there" say "And I don't live here." If he says he's never there, point out that you always travel to him, and incur costs as a result. The most hurtful thing is that he said he "doesn't want to b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I show gratitude to my boyfriend when he’s giving a lot?It also depends on the guy. My love language is also physical touch, and secondary quality time. Meanwhile, if I never get another compliment or gift for the rest of my life, I will be perfectly fine. So that’s why I think the way I do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | “Women live their life on easy mode”{Deleted by author.} | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/25 05:55 PM |
| 0 | “Women live their life on easy mode”Well this illustrates my larger point: a guy who can put it together to be attractive to at least a certain segment of young women in the SMP has had to put in the work to be able to do so. When you see a 45+ year-old guy on a yacht with a 22 y.o. in a bikini, he had to put it together to be on the yacht by either having $$$ or having the social connections to be there (which typically also requires that he has to bring some kind of value to the table). She just has to be hot. scoring women thre… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/25 05:46 PM |
| 0 | "men prefer younger women"So as the TRP Master Blaster of Age Gap Dating, let me put you at ease. Or not. Do men prefer younger women? Yep. Have a look at the "Dataclysm" chart. Men of any age prefer women who are in their early 20s, for reasons dealing primarily with perceived fertility, which youth and beauty are markers of. But most men are not going to have the ability to get women in their 20s, particularly as they (the men) get older. The flipside is that women find 80% of men "below average" in looks - which is a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/25 05:05 AM |
| 31 | “Women live their life on easy mode”Is there any truth? When was the last time you heard a guy bragging about being "STRONG!" and "INDEPENDENT!" Yeah, that's called "being a guy", and we don't get to complain about it. Now, if you are an attractive woman, you certainly can live life on easy mode - many attractive women think the world is a wonderful place...after all everyone is nice to them, wants to impress them and give them free stuff, and have sex with them. That last one has a double edge - they will have optionality with me… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/25 05:02 AM |
| 14 | "men prefer younger women"“wife goggles” ^ This. But for Wife Goggles to truly work, he needs his wife when she was young, so he has the young version of her for the Highlight Reel. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/25 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Women do really become invisible when their youth and beauty are gone. Thoughts on this?"When you are used to special treatment, equal treatment feels like discrimination." -Thomas Sowell, maybe. When she was 19 years old, Paulina Porizkova - who, like all supermodels, is a "genetic celebrity" - was on the cover of Sports Illustrated. Now that she's in her 50s, she has been (in recent years) been complaining on Insta about how she feels 'invisible' and posting thirst trap bikini photos. Now, does she look good in them? Sure, for being 55 (or however old she was at the time), she lo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/25 11:49 PM |
| 2 | How do I show gratitude to my boyfriend when he’s giving a lot?First, you can use your words. It’s also OK to go beyond “thank you”. So for example, you might hug him kiss him - most men are absolutely starved for touch - and say “I really appreciate all the planning that went into this. You do a great job of taking care of us.” Second, treat him, sexually. As I related recently, an FWB once rang me because she was jammed up while traveling - lost her wallet and her purse, but luckily, her passport was back at the hotel. Anyway, she got a hold of me and I a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/25 06:39 AM |
| – | My husband planned a family trip and now he's not comingIs there some reason the name of the country is a secret? You’re not very likely to do yourself and it would help us in evaluating the situation. If you don’t wanna go, then don’t go. The whole purpose was for you and your husband to go on this trip and now he’s not going. If it’s because “oh, you deserve a break“, then you deserve a break in a country you actually want to go to. And if you’re taking the kids with you, that’s hardly a break. That’s a break for him back home. This whole thing ree… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/25 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes guys post their financials, red flag or?Supposedly, there was a trend on Tinder, where tall guys would just put their heights in their bio. Like “6‘3” or something. I don’t use apps so maybe that was just a rumor. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/25 04:41 PM |
| 8 | Sometimes guys post their financials, red flag or?I can only see a guy doing that if he was somehow otherwise deficient, and was trying to get some attention on a dating app where he didn’t usually get a lot of attention, which is most guys. So for example, if I was 5’8 instead of 6’1 I might consider it. Although in general, my advice to guys on this topic is as follows: “If you go fishing with gold, you catch gold diggers.” -Confucius, maybe | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/25 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes guys post their financials, red flag or?I would see it as a green flag myself, but you know every time I read something here about how “some guy did something“ it just confirms to me how profoundly normal, mentally stable and not weird I am. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/25 04:22 PM |
| 24 | I'm sooooooooo tiredAs a teenager, I had a car that got so bad that in order to start it, you had to open the carburetor, fiddle with the butterfly valve, reassemble it, clean your hands off an then start the car. I wanted to get it fixed but for unknown reasons, my father forbade me from doing so. I would get lectures on "the value of a dollar" - even though I would be spending money I earned for the repair - etc., and "All you have to do is {as above}." Don't try to make sense of it, because the math doesn't math… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/25 08:37 PM |
| 5 | What does a bodycount qualify as?It’s not really the number, it’s the damage. This has actually kind of popped up more and more for me lately. In the sense that I get some story about some other guy who did some shit to whatever girl and that’s why they’re effed in the head. I’m not particularly interested in turning a girl into a project. Body count really only matters for women, and men who don’t get laid enough. Generally speaking, a higher body count is actually a bit of an endorsement for men in the sense that (a) a woman … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/25 09:08 PM |
| 0 | What does a bodycount qualify as?More likely it’s because by the time that you come in the back door, you already come in the front door “loads” of times. Pun fully intended, of course. For me, paternity risk is always present because even with young women who talk about putting off motherhood for years, after as little as two or three weeks of dating me have started picking out our kids names, and trying to get me to hit it raw, either because they like the lifestyle, or because, while I would not say that I’m particularly han… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/24 12:45 AM |
| 3 | What does a bodycount qualify as?I suppose it could be, but I cannot think of a girl that I’ve ever had anal sex with where I hadn’t already plundered her vag. There is a subset of women that particularly enjoy anal sex - for some it’s a form of submission - but very few of them are going to be exercising the “poophole loophole” to preserve their virginity, because it’s the “sex that God can’t see,” etc. Hat Tip: Garfunkel & Oates. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/24 12:25 AM |
| 2 | What does a bodycount qualify as?PiV. Simple as. At least that’s how I score it when I care to ask. The only reason I would ask would be to gauge how effed in the head she might be if I’m not able to triangulate that in other ways. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/24 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Did I (21F) lose my boyfriend (23M) to the red pill?You are going to need an alt for the rest of Reddit. People who post on RP forums whether RPW or TRP, etc. tend to get banned from other subs because they’re closed minded and can’t stand anyone thinking differently from them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/24 05:15 PM |
| 5 | Princess TreatmentTikTok is not real life. Instagram is not real life. The Lambo is rented and so is the yacht. A lot of what you are seeing on the (supposed) high end is “sugar” lifestyle, which means the same girls that are holding their expensive purses, and tagging themselves in Vegas or, worse, Dubai, are earning those goodies on their backs having “normal” sex, quid pro quo, if they’re lucky. You are vastly better off with a man who loves you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/24 05:20 AM |
| – | Dad can’t stop joking about marrying me offThat can go in either direction depending on which primitive culture you’re dealing with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/24 01:52 AM |
| 2 | When people say the rich marry the rich - are they talking about men who come from money or men who are self made?Which men don’t want feminism to continue? Hi, there. Feminism is cancer and had led to lots of female (and male) unhappiness. The basis of feminism is that women feel empowered to live their lives the way they choose without outside judgment or influence. How's that working out? Hint: not good. Why 60 Years of Feminism Has Not Made Women Happier The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness The Paradox of Progress: Why More Freedom Isn’t Making Women Happier Survey Reveals Profile of Unhappy Worker… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/24 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Dad can’t stop joking about marrying me offsomehow I’m woke and a commie for not wanted to hear that. Is your dad kind of joker? I would give it back to him. Call him "Attila the Dad." Tell him he had better get at least 30 goats and 12 acres for you. Tell him, "I know you know it's the 20s but I'm not sure you know it's not the 1820s." | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/24 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Struggling to understand boyfriends sexual desires and porn useIt is not a "her issue." Scroll up. Locate where I wrote: ”It is 100% not your fault.” Reread as many times as necessary. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to understand boyfriends sexual desires and porn useHe has to kick his porn habit. Once he does that, I think everything else is gonna work itself out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/24 06:08 PM |
| -3 | Struggling to understand boyfriends sexual desires and porn useWanting your man to be able to get off with you during sex He can get off with her during sex, just not the way she wants. Sometimes that’s how that goes. Anyway he’s got other bigger problems to solve. up to a year. Like a lot of things it depends on the individual. The more difficult thing is 30 days in a row. I would expect a lot of starts and stops and start overs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/24 05:26 PM |
| -4 | Struggling to understand boyfriends sexual desires and porn useBut I worry about how far this need for novelty can go. What if it escalates? Well he is using porn and not other actual women. /shrug What if it affects what happens between us in the bedroom or desensitizes him to real-life intimacy? He needs to break those habits. It takes about 30 days, +/-, to rewire a guy's brain off of porn, from what I understand. My boyfriend already struggles to orgasm during vaginal or anal sex. He can only finish from a blowjob or by using his hand, which he has cond… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/24 04:31 PM |
| 5 | What are you guys thoughts on “black cat” energy on TikTok?What do you guys think about “black cat” energy? If I wanted to play games, I'd get a PS5. Every guy is going to be different, ofc, but that's where I am. There is a young lady who will always be in my posse because she is sweet-natured, compliant and drama-free. So when she reached out to me for help when she was stuck in a foreign city with no purse or phone (purse stolen, phone in purse; laptop and passport at her hotel), I got her a plane ticket home (she'd have been happy with a train ticke… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/12/24 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Painting a PictureThis is what I refer to as "creating a narrative." Feed her Hamster some HamsterChowTM - although really, I give the Hamster cocaine. This can be more in the general sense, like the romance novel in the OP, or it can be in the more specific sense, such as when I tell a girl what I am going to do with her after I have her tied up, naked and blindfolded, in my bed. If I have read the signs correctly, her Pussy Tingle Generator Level will be: Niagara Falls. Remember, lads, women seduce themselves. … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/24 11:56 AM |
| 14 | Unsatisfied with a “good” man.Have you talked to him about what kind of sex you like? You could start by asking him if he has an “fantasies” and then share that you like rough sex or you wanna be tied up or smacked around or whatever it is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Women who accused three Duke lacrosse players of r**e, now says she lied after 20 yearsYeah, evidence of sluttishness isn’t admissible. Very often evidence of past sexual relationships of a consensual nature are also not admissible. That is irrelevant here, but might be in a marital situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/24 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Women who accused three Duke lacrosse players of r**e, now says she lied after 20 yearsThey did. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/24 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Women who accused three Duke lacrosse players of r**e, now says she lied after 20 yearsI'm just happy when these high-profile cases crash and burn so badly. When the test came back she had splooge from four dudes in her, none of which matched the (alleged) perps.. This bish collected more DNA than the FBI. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/24 03:44 PM |
| 6 | Why do the men I date eventually become complacent?he is willing to pay for a lot of the bills which helps me a lot since I’m still in school. And He doesn’t leave me all the chores but for example, I often make dinner most nights and he tends to not do the dishes after, or procrastinates them till next day, etc. There are a couple of ways to look at this: A. So “pays the bills” pays the bills; “doesn’t pay the bills” does the washing up. B. It’s perfectly OK if the dishes sit in the sink overnight. C. Instead of keeping score, you might simply … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/24 10:29 AM |
| 10 | Why do the men I date eventually become complacent?say “you’re doing it again” To me, even if you’re in the right, that sounds remarkably like a nagging. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/24 10:21 AM |
| 3 | Help with mindset around girlfriend versus wife privilegesHave you nudged him? He does seem to miss you when you’re not around. Next time that you’re going home for the night and he asks you to stay, you could say something along the lines of “You know, there is a way I could spend every night together with you from here on out.” | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/24 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Help with mindset around girlfriend versus wife privilegesSo after two years together, where do you think this relationship is headed? Not a loaded question just for information. There is a danger on pulling back on stuff now that you once did. I would take that as a sign of disinterest. For example, if a girl suddenly decided that having sex with me was “wife privileges” and she was gonna stop doing it that would be an immediately dumpable offense. Men don’t ever want to go backwards sexually. So is this guy your future husband? Is he Mr. Right? Or Mr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/24 11:54 PM |
| 1 | If TRP believes it’s mostly unsustainable to meep LTRs, why does it always blame the guy if the girl leaves him?Out of curiosity, what percentage do you think that is? I’ve seen it, because that was my parents. But I would suggest that it’s pretty rare. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/24 11:07 AM |
| -1 | Field Report and Discussion: Things are more dire for men than I realizedI think that's mostly guys who struggle, first because of the nature of the SMP on dating apps - numbers heavily skewed towards men - plus if a woman is hot enough, men don't really care what color she is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/24 02:25 AM |
| 11 | Field Report and Discussion: Things are more dire for men than I realizedBeing non-white on OLD can really limit your options from what I understand. White people prefer other white people so much on dating apps that there was a study about how to mislead whites into dating non-whites by lying to them, er, “expanding their horizons” to include “more diverse” partners by portraying bad matches as a “good matches”. I am not, repeat, not making this up. Debiasing Desire: Addressing Bias & Discrimination on Intimate Platforms. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/24 09:42 AM |
| 0 | My fiancé wants me to address him by a term of endearmentUse “Sugar britches”. The problem we resolve on its own. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/24 11:12 AM |
| 0 | When "Babe" Turns to "Nadia": Am I in Trouble?“Hey, babe, wanna order pizza?” Now it’s, “Nadia, do you plan to clean this up?” NADIA?! Has he stopped calling you babe or honey entirely? Or is it he uses that name when he is trying to get you to do something that he feels should already have been done, like the washing up? Much like with my screen name, my birth name has a diminutive nickname. That’s the one I use in day-to-day life, but with my parents if they ever used my formal birth name that meant I was at least going to get a scolding … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/24 06:30 PM |
| 12 | When "Babe" Turns to "Nadia": Am I in Trouble?Dudes are rarely this complicated. ^ This he'd call me Apple Tartlet for a month just to troll me. It's been SEVEN YEARS. BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! Troll Ranking: Master. One of my university girlfriends started calling me by some cutsey nickname that I disliked, so I started referring to her as “Sugar Britches.” The annoying nickname behavior stopped immediately. Every so often I would trough that back out again though. Just so she knew I remembered, and I wasn’t afraid to use it. 🤣 | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Why is 4B celebrated as girl power and MGTOW condemned as misogyny?Don’t worry about it. Just keep working on yourself. There’s no reason for you to give a shit about some 300 pound shaved head girl who tells you she isn’t gonna sleep with you. Nobody asked her. Deep down in her fatty little heart she knows it. That’s punishment enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/24 05:27 AM |
| 3 | How do you stay no sex until he asks for a relationship?you'll end up simultaneously vetting for men happy to find a woman who doesn't sleep around casually. *Anymore | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/24 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: Men in high earning careers more likely to be unfaithful or...So, without knowing from the inside, I simply laid out what I found to be the most likely scenario. Given the fact pattern, I find it to be the most reasonable. Could I be wrong? Of course. Am I likely to be wrong? Probably not. If you look at Rachel Uchitel, his affair with her, began a few months after his son was born. He and Elin had already had a daughter, so the timing is dead on for her. Now I don’t know the timeline for the other women and he could’ve been banging some of them all the wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/24 07:19 PM |
| 0 | Wife uncomfortable with workers at house.So here's the thing. You're a guy. You don't go through life being groped by men, and with half the population wanting to fuck you, some of whom don't care if you are down or not. Your wife doesn't want to be around 6 strange men when she's pregnant, and feels vulnerable. A couple of other factors: A. Is she an introvert by nature? B. Has she ever been sexually assaulted? Take the L on this one and learn. | /r/askMRP | 03/12/24 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Wife uncomfortable with workers at house.You're wrong on this one. Take the L and learn. | /r/askMRP | 03/12/24 12:02 AM |
| 5 | Can I have a job in medicine but still be traditional?You have to learn to switch gears. One of my sisters is a high-end banking professional. At work she is "Ms. First Maiden Lastname" - she had built a career long before she got married and was known in her field by our (hers then and mine still) family name. At home she is "Mrs. Husband's Last Name," or "Jake's mom." | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Wife mad because I "destroying her dreams" and "her life"Yeah, so for this particular guy, he’s living out a nightmare of a marriage. Once he escaped from this one, why would he ever get married again? In general, it’s got about a 50% failure rate, Plus about another quarter, best guess, who are miserable but stay together for various reasons, either because they have no hope of doing any better or because of the kids or whatever. So that leaves 25% that are medium OK to storybook love. I’m a deal guy and those odds don’t make any sense. Beyond that, … | /r/askMRP | 02/12/24 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Men in high earning careers more likely to be unfaithful or...Oh, I 100% suspect that his game was shit. His childhood was spent hitting golf balls and staying focused and not becoming socially adept. If you ever saw his press conference conferences, they were very closely monitored by his handlers. I can get the impression that he doesn’t have any hobbies other than golf. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/24 09:03 AM |
| 4 | I feel like a rapist in my relationshipI feel like I have raped him and I have ruined this relationship. You have not, and you have not. He is a grown man and could say "no" if he wanted. He is simply trying to make you happy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/24 04:09 PM |
| 7 | Discussion: Men in high earning careers more likely to be unfaithful or...So as a guy who falls into the first category for sure (6 figure income for the better part of 3 decades, plus a 7 figure net worth nearly the same amount of time), let me break this down for you. It's really both, but more opportunity. High earners will be tend to be more desirable as mates. A third of women will go on a date with a guy they aren't interested in for the free meal, think of what women would do to marry a wealthy guy. If you are a high earner who is around a lot of women, it's di… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/24 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Men in high earning careers more likely to be unfaithful or...Male feminists are also more likely to have man-boobs, so that lowers the risk. ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/24 09:42 AM |
| 7 | Discussion: Men in high earning careers more likely to be unfaithful or...Tiger Woods Wife is laughing her ass off at this. Here's the breakdown of how their marriage, um, broke down. Tiger married the hottest piece of ass he'd ever laid eyes on. The guy has (or had) a high drive and was nailing a goddess-level beauty every night. And then she had a kid. And then she had another kid. So he went from Numero Uno in her life to Number 3, or 4 depending on if the had a dog or a cat. So then what? El Tigre was a lion in the sack and had needs, which weren't getting fulfill… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/24 09:41 AM |
| 2 | How to vet guys who are just interested because of sexual attraction?Now, recently I got back on dating market again and had looking for'relationship' clearly mentioned on my profile. How do you phrase it? Dating with intention? Smth else? I would use that if you don’t want to say “marriage”. Now, I don't know if he was above my league What app are you using? The difficulty with apps can be that because of the ratio, women will have access to higher status men, which can lead to, what it led to. he said he was looking for a girlfriend. Not a terrible answer. I di… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/24 12:00 AM |
| 5 | How to vet guys who are just interested because of sexual attraction?“Look! Up in the sky! It’s the Vaz Signal!” /heh I’ve read this and I am formulating a reply. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/24 06:12 AM |
| 8 | How do you stay no sex until he asks for a relationship?>As always, you got it. It took a lot of difficult and sometimes painful experience to get here, but for you ladies, it's free! >Imagine a sexually experienced guy, over a certain age, then expecting him not to have sex, then not have sex with someone else that is willing. That's where a man's options come into play. If a man has options, why would he choose the one that doesn't come with sex? I mean assuming there isn't some external factor such as religiosity. And I get it, it's often hard for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/24 10:19 PM |
| 9 | How do you stay no sex until he asks for a relationship?Sigh. I get it that this is the Internet, but your reading is far too restrictive. As an initial matter, if a woman was sexually active two decades ago, she’s most likely off my radar. Beyond that, most women are not gonna tell you on a first date “You know, in my 20s I was kind of a slut.” But let me try to get this through to you in a different way. If a man goes on a first date with a girl who he knows is a virgin, or if he goes on a first date with a woman who he knows has had a couple of on… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/24 08:05 PM |
| 4 | How do you stay no sex until he asks for a relationship?Waiting is feasible until it isn’t. Most guys will wait a reasonable amount of time but after a while, you keep investing in a “relationship” for basically no return - it’s not a secret that men are very sex-motivated - and the girl can do a rug pull on you at any time. That’s a bad deal. I don’t think women truly understand what a physical need sex is for men. Think about the horniest you’ve ever been and then multiply that by 15-20. That’s the baseline. If I didn’t have to keep Feeding the Bea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/24 07:53 PM |
| 5 | How do you stay no sex until he asks for a relationship?Your counter example is simply an extreme case. It’s like if I told you that men are generally taller than women and you said “Oh but Cameron Brink in the WNBA is 6’4, which is taller than most men.” That just makes her an outlier. It doesn’t invalidate the underlying premise. Men are very sex motivated. We’re not gonna want to wait longer than we absolutely have to. So if we know that you slept with guys after three days or three months or three whatever, we’re not gonna wanna wait five dates/m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/24 07:25 PM |
| 17 | How do you stay no sex until he asks for a relationship?I would be upfront about it early on so you don’t waste your time or his time. You were also going to have to accept that your test to weed out “players”, while it will weed out players, will also give you with a bunch of false positives on actual good guys who want sex because that’s basically all of us. Another issue will be is that you (apparently) didn’t make other guys wait. Whatever the least amount of time is that you’ve made a guy wait is the maximum amount of time that another guy is go… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/24 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Studies on pair bonding?You are not reading them correctly. The numbers referred to “stated number of sexual partners.” | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/24 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Conventional attractiveness vs your partner's tasteDo what is best for your mental and physical health. I have a bit of experience in this in that about 20 years ago, I had a girlfriend who wanted me to be super big. I’m not a small man to begin with, but she was trying to get me well up over 300 pounds. And not in the good way. If there is a good way. I was trying to drop weight and she would say “oh that’s great honey,” and then she would do sneaky stuff like plate my food for dinner in the kitchen and it would be lasagna, literally falling of… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | My complete guide to Women and Power (Part 1 of 2)Girls who like me trend submissive. So I build enough rapport and then use that when it will have the desired effect. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/24 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Studies on pair bonding?I wonder about girls who say 7. Usually it's 3. As in "High School Boyfriend, University Boyfriend, Local Boyfriend wherever she's living/working." Nothing else "counts", not casual flings/spring break/that time the football team ran a train on her, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/24 07:10 PM |
| 3 | My complete guide to Women and Power (Part 2 of 2)It's in the first part. Specifically, the more a person displays the CAB CARD traits (Competence/Confidence, Abundance, Boundaries, Challenge, Attention, Reciprocity, and Dominance).... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | My complete guide to Women and Power (Part 1 of 2)One thing I say to girls early one (I mean I have prequalified them to be receptive to it) is "That little pussy between your legs? That belongs to me." Even those that "deny" will smile at the thought and sometimes a little frisson of pleasure will course through them. Women want to be desired. Women want to be conquered. Women want to be OWNED. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/24 06:12 PM |
| -1 | Annoyed with submissive women who regret polyamory but don’t do anything about it.You made your bed! Lay in it! Well, yeah, actually. As someone who enjoys D/s from the Dom perspective, I never hide who I am. Of course it’s easier to run more than one sub if they are bisexual. Also, the Dom in those situations may not be doing enough comfort for his initial sub. Women are generally afraid of being replaced, because, in the Bad Old Days of the Sabertooth Tiger, that could mean death for her and her offspring. Typically, if you explain to a sub that a woman who enthusiastically… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/11/24 01:41 AM |
| 6 | Who pays for dates?I pick up the tab on dates. Starting with the first date (even if I know there won’t be a second date) and ending on the last date. It’s just how I do things. I view it as a cost of doing business. I think the problem is for guys now is up to a third of women will go on dates for the “free” meal - which of course, is only free to them and not the guy who’s paying for it. Plus the rise of the “foodie call” perfected by Jessica Sporty - who I will never get tired of naming and shaming - in New Yor… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/24 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Do I look feminine176 is a bit more than 5'9, so you are a tall girl but not crazy tall. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/24 10:20 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on manosphere?I am an "innocent until proven guilty" guy so not yet on AT, even he is a tool. I cannot judge BB's experience - I have had an easier time with women the an he has. His non-women takes are often pretty good. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/24 10:19 PM |
| 7 | Do I look feminineI was completely oblivious to that My dude. Once a guy learns that, it's like getting the keys to the kingdom. A buddy of mine is 6'3 so I told him to search on apps for women 5'10 and taller. His response rate went WAY up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/24 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Do I look feminineSo you don't look like a TG to me at all. The hair color doesn't go with your ethnic background. You look like you are an Asian mix so you m ight play more into that. I wouldn't go with shorter hair as it's less feminine in general. Out of curiosity, how tall are you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/24 08:06 PM |
| 9 | Do I look feminineN.B. The OP posted in a different post that she has alopecia, so it's a wig. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/24 08:01 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on manosphere?Most of them are out for outrage clicks. F&F Occasionally have a good point, but you have to wait through a lot of crap to get to them. Tate Tends to say truthful things in outrageous ways again for clicks. Thus, instead of saying, “In general men are stronger than women,” he will say “Females are weak!” he also has a bit of a problematic pass as a possible sex trafficker. For women, I would recommend watching as much Louise Perry as I could. Better Bachelor has some decent takes, when he’s not … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/24 07:04 PM |
| 7 | Friends after break upI can only see this if you were somehow a source of stress in his life. Then it would make sense. But otherwise no. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/24 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Wife mad because I "destroying her dreams" and "her life"Unless there is some asymmetric factor like her being a malignant narcissist or something, she’s pissed because you weren’t her first choice. Anytime you run into a cunty woman it’s because she married her fourth round draft pick and not her first round draft pick. If anyone is “destroying her dreams“ it’s her. And she’s making herself unhappy in the process. Whatever the fuck you do, do not go into a lot of debt buying her a big goddamn house somewhere because when she has that, what the fuck d… | /r/askMRP | 16/11/24 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Help me come back to my sensesI have about 100 top-level posts and dispense advice on the regular, usually in comment replies. And anyone is free to reach out privately as well - my DMs are not just for co-eds trying to have sex with me. /heh | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Confessing How I Learned to Accept My Husband's Secret Life.{Humming to self} Oh, don’t mind me. Just passing through. 🤣 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/11/24 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Do you wear high heels if you around the same height as you’re boyfriend ?Rule 9 violation here. I am (or was) 6’2. Im probably 6’1 and change now. I dated a woman who was 6’4. Think Cameron Brink only hotter. Not only if she’s super tall, she got her height early so as she would have said “I’m over all of my complexes about it, If I ever had any.” i’m a thickly muscled widebody so I could toss her around in bed and such. Would she have preferred it if I was 6’6? Oh, I’m sure. But guess what, so would have I. Nobody gets to pick. It didn’t bother me any because I’m a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/24 01:05 AM |
| 4 | Help me come back to my sensesSo, lingerie and blowjob it is then. Well done. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/24 11:32 PM |
| 7 | Help me come back to my sensesThink of the joy I just created for that guy. And really, lots of people who read my stuff. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/24 11:30 PM |
| 9 | Help me come back to my sensesAnd? Your BF took you on a weekend bc he wanted to. Enjoy it, guilt free, and be appropriately grateful. Do you know his love language? If it is “words of affirmation” then write him a note expressing your enjoyment of the weekend. If it is gifts, get him a small token, something that you can afford, to express your gratitude. If it is physical touch, put on a pair of thigh highs and tell him that you’re gonna do something “nice“ for him and then give him a languid, sloppy blowjob. Actually, I’m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Is worth ending my engagement over libido mismatch?Oh, definitely. But 34 has also been in the rear view mirror for nearly a quarter of a century for me. Testosterone levels have been dropping about 1% a year each year so, on average, my T-level at that time would be nearly 25% higher than men the same age today, plus I had been a college athlete and had maintained a good fitness level. So there’s that. It’s a different world now. I’m sure I had a higher drive for then, also, and yeah I suppose I was fortunate to find partners with similar libid… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/24 09:24 AM |
| -1 | Is worth ending my engagement over libido mismatch?That's a pretty big delta and likely not indicative of the differential for most couples. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/24 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Whats everyones opinion on the 4B movement?You are attempting to apply logic to a very illogical situation. That’s why it doesn’t work. Think of it this way, something like 30% of white liberal women are on head meds. Do you know what we call the rest of them? Undiagnosed. 🤣 | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/24 12:07 AM |
| 7 | Whats everyones opinion on the 4B movement?Pretty much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/24 12:05 AM |
| 6 | Whats everyones opinion on the 4B movement?It's honestly baffling to me. Well first, the women involved were crazy lunatics to begin with. I mean completely cuckoo for cocoa puffs. If you watch some of the “liberal reactions to Trump’s election” videos they are just bizarre. And the men too. This one guy had to make sure he screamed at all four of his walls. Just boggles the mind. The problem is, with the reversal of Roe, some states have adopted really restrictive abortion laws. Both Georgia and Florida have six week limits, and a woman… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Is worth ending my engagement over libido mismatch?Well, back in the day I think we were all kind of horndogs. I mean, we weren’t comparing notes, but I am also Gen X, so we played outside a lot, got a lot of exercise, played a lot of sports, were in pretty good shape, weren’t being fed a bunch of crappy estrogen-mimicking chemicals, etc. So a normal, healthy young man should want sex a lot. Looking back, no one thought it was at all strange that my uni girlfriend and I were banging 3x a day. if anything, they probably thought “That lucky bastar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Is worth ending my engagement over libido mismatch?Hmm. So everything from professionally produced porn down to OF is a qualified “no” from me. Porn is ubiquitous, kids are seeing it, it’s addictive, it can lead to performance issues, etc. If porn is preventing someone from engaging ind sex with a willing partner, or a partner who “needs” sex, that is an Extra, Super, Hell No! If you are watching it with a partner (both voluntarily) fine. It might spice things up. I used some high grade “lipstick lesbian” and threesome porn to help an old lover … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 07:59 PM |
| 2 | does this make me less valuableLol. Yes. Will correct. When I get on a run of voice to text being perfectly fine, I let my guard down, then something like this happens. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Is worth ending my engagement over libido mismatch?I think most guys that age are closer to me than to him. And would certainly step their game up if their wife or girlfriend needed it more often. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Is worth ending my engagement over libido mismatch?A. I wasn’t being serious about getting him back on porn. B. I mean, he is not trying to make you feel unwanted. He just is how he is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | does this make me less valuableHey may be perfectly OK with that though. Being locked down to you though I mean. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Is worth ending my engagement over libido mismatch?He quit porn about a year ago and he admitted that since his brain is just a lot less desexualized and that’s he’s just focused on work. So maybe get him back on porn? 🙃 That would be hysterical if he became the only guy in the history of the universe ever to save his marriage by increasing porn use. I mean, obviously don’t do that, but it is funny. me being too available I’ve never understood this, ever. In my world, “to available” means “getting fucked more.” unwanted I promise you, he is not … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 05:06 PM |
| -8 | Is worth ending my engagement over libido mismatch?Because I used to be 34, and I was a 1-2x a day guy then. My then gf was a “high gas”, so it worked out. I went from 3x/day at uni to 2x in my 30s. I could be exclusive with that girl and uni girl bc they would fuck me literally every single time I wanted sex. The primary reason I keep multiple women on the go is bc I don’t want to start from zero - plus with no sexual outlet, I am impossible to be around (well, back then. I am calmer now.) That’s also the reason that I date young women: it’s pr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Is worth ending my engagement over libido mismatch?he also doesn’t masturbate Maybe you should. In front of him. While wearing lingerie. That would get my attention. I mean, I would also probably mock-go sarcastically say. “I’m not just a piece of meat you know! I have FEELINGS! I need to be romanced!” OTOH, you would definitely get laid. I’m scared of being 27 and doing it once weekly, at that point I would divorce :( That is a distinct possibility, but it seems odd that his libido is like this is only 34. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 04:26 PM |
| 21 | Is worth ending my engagement over libido mismatch?secretly just thought we should be banging daily at that point… the weeks where we do it 2 are soul-wrenching for me. 2-3x/wk is pretty normal, although I can assure you that there are men who would think you were the greatest woman who ever lived. /hah First, this has nothing to do with you being attractive, unattractive, so stop taking it personally. He is how he is. Second, if marry him, this is how it’s going to be. He hasn’t “fixed things” - although from his point of view, everything is ju… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 03:49 PM |
| 0 | does this make me less valuableOut of curiosity, why do you not care? Is it because you figure that if he can sleep with other women, he’s less likely to leave you for one because he gets to keep you, too? Is it a form of altruism? to me, it would make you more valuable, but for men who do not regularly practice non-monogamy, this sort of “offer” often seems like a trap. As in the moment he agrees to it, you’re going to say “you were supposed to say no, you didn’t want other girls!” Are you bisexual? I am sensing not so much,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 12:01 PM |
| 6 | I'm going crazy, can someone offer ways to stay stable please?He probably said that to tease you. He's an objectively attractive man, tall, white, handsome, the exact kind of man that Japanese women in those street interview videos are always gushing about. So why would he need to visit a prostitute? Has he ever even expressed an interest in Asian women? Meanwhile I'm objectively unattractive and will be until I have plastic surgery in about a year. And yet an objectively attractive, handsome man chose you. Maybe you are not so unattractive. I will also be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 11:48 AM |
| 17 | Whats everyones opinion on the 4B movement?So for the ladies in the USA trying to make it a thing here, it’s mostly unhappy, unpartnered, and, well, unhinged women. As in: Men: Them: “WE ARE NOT GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU!!!” Men: “Um, okay?” Now this is mostly from what I’ve seen online from Manosphere creators, (but sane ones, like BB and Legion of Men), so they are going to pick the most extreme examples. But really, there was only one I thought was halfway cute. She looks sort of like that little Gen Z blonde girl who was having a me… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 11:32 AM |
| 3 | Sexy Sexism?benevolent sexism is associated with higher relationship satisfaction and less relationship conflict. For individuals in relationships, benevolent sexism predicts higher life satisfaction and higher well-being for both men and women. So, to recap: A. Let Daddy Handle Things. B. Be a good girl for him. C. Everybody wins. This also explains why liberal women always seem to hate their husbands (well, at least as much as they hate everything else.) Oh, and it gets better: Feminists Think Sexist Men … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Sexy Sexism?I know it doesn't look like much but I get so much hate when I tell people. Out of curiosity, why would you tell people? Other than as a form of exhibitionism? Oh, wait. You have must have a humiliation fetish also. Check. It's even worse when I mention I asked for these and they make me happy. I suppose you hear all about your “internalized misogyny.” "ANTI-FEMINIST" I have never understood this as an insult. It is something that everyone should be, from the 3rd Wave on at the latest. I can't b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 08:50 AM |
| 23 | Sexy Sexism?It’s a 24/7 consensual D/s relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/24 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Is is possible to restore heated passion in a relationship? Maybe some mystery? Anyone who succeeded?I didn't fart around him the first year or two of our relationship, but he then begged me to start doing it lol because he wanted me to be comfortable. I like my girls to be comfortable around me. I’ve never asked a single one of them to fart in front of me, though. That seems odd. doing a personal "glow up" Yes. I would include some yoga or Pilates or whatever ladies due to tone up. new lingerie Double yes. If you know his taste in lingerie on you, go with that. If not, remember, guys like “set… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/24 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Do these actions suggest I’m being used?That was what “rock up to my dorm room” was about. Usually between dates 3-5 a guy is looking for some bedroom fun. If a man proposes a situation in which you will be alone with him, ESPECIALLY if there is a bed present/nearby, he is trying to get it in, and by ‘get it in’ I mean his cock into your body. As we say in the men’s forum: “Isolate. Escalate. Penetrate.” Birds fly, fish swim, men try to seduce women. And if a guy plans a weekend away with you? Whatever you are doing, you will also be … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/24 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Should a second chance be given to men who “cancel” on first dates by not texting you the day of the date or canceling last minute?Omg are you sure you didn't just stand up all those guys???? IKR? I just had a vision of sitting alone at Le Bon Maison staring at an empty plate while the waiter says “Sir, she’s just not coming,” after setting up day/time/place but not confirming day of. In retrospect, that’s never happened, but I have gotten a few “We’re still on for tonight, right?” texts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/24 08:10 AM |
| 3 | Should a second chance be given to men who “cancel” on first dates by not texting you the day of the date or canceling last minute?It would seem to me that there is no “date” here. It also seems that the guy is low effort. Why give him a second chance when he didn’t really give you a first one. No. Either you were the backup and he got a better offer or he just wasn’t into you enough from the jump. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/24 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Reluctant about monogamyI might lose a star at RPW for this. 🤣 Well, we couldn't have that! I will reply to your question via DM. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/24 04:20 PM |
| -5 | Reluctant about monogamyi'm being funny, based on who I am. Kindly remain calm. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/24 03:34 PM |
| -7 | Reluctant about monogamySo as the 57 year old version of this guy - and I speak from experience, so there will be a lot of "I's" here (as if there aren't usually /heh) - so let me break it down for you: We like what we like. That isn't going to change. If he is a 40s guy who can get 20s girls, why would he want to stop? Superman didn't fly just once. Batman didn't take the Batmobile out just once, etc. He is being ethical about it insofar as he is disclosing, in advance, what his proclivities are. I have dated women wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/24 11:03 AM |
| -13 | Reluctant about monogamyThe 16 year age gap is also...concerning. Don't be a hater. /heh | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/24 10:21 AM |
| – | After years in a toxic relationship, I (27F) thought I’d found happiness (33M)—now I’m questioning everything -- need claritySo first, congratulations on the publication of your first novel. Second, why did you spend 8 of your prime time years with weirdo, porn freak, give-me-head-while-you-are-on-the-toilet, sleep- rapist1 guy who has a drug habit?2 You complain that he never let you move in, but you should be thanking God for that. Some notes on him before we move to James: He was also very pushy regarding sex and grabby regarding sex So, his love language is physical touch and he's also a horny guy, but doesn't und… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/24 10:19 AM |
| 5 | How can I look more “conservative”?So you don't tell us your age, but if you look over the style at "Brooks Brothers for Women" that will help. More classic, more feminine, more like how the secretary for a 60+ y.o. C-suite executive would wear, adjusted for your age. No garish make up, classic grooming. Grow your hair out. Wear it in a ponytail when dressed casual, etc. Work on your weight issues, to the extent possible. Also, you are going to need an alt for the rest of reddit now, because some subs ban people for posting on RP… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/24 05:07 AM |
| 11 | Do I need to be more submissive to make my husband happier?So, with the caveat that we’re only hearing 1/2 of the story, I will advise the following: what he didnt let me say is that I agree with his other points. So lead with that. As in “I agree with everything that you just said, but I think they’re putting the medicine under the washer may lead to it being damaged and unusable.” It may also be that he simply doesn’t care where things are put. He just wants it done. This is particularly true if you started the conversation by asking him what should b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/24 05:13 PM |
| 5 | Do I need to be more submissive to make my husband happier?You should not have to answer "how high" when he says "jump." Correct. She should already know how high he wants her to jump. :heh: J/K, carry on…. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/24 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Re-engagementI’m a helper. I help people. 😆 | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/24 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Re-engagementI did some calculus on it. If it was Two Hamsters, I wouldn’t have said anything. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/24 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Re-engagementSo I have another edit for you: I think 24m really needs to be 24f. 🤣 | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with low self esteem and my generation?Basically im going off to college soon and my biggest priority in my life has always been finding that one person and building a family together and becoming a mother but im starting to doubt that. No need to doubt it for a couple of reasons: First, it's perfectly normal. Second, and remember this one because it will be on the quiz, you have to do what is right for you. I have always had very low self esteem so i dont feel confident enough to approach guys so ive never had a relationship with an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with low self esteem and my generation?creepy So I have a theory, which you are welcome to weigh in on - and this has been corroborated by a few ladies (small sample size) - that a guy is either creepy or he is not. If a creepy guy does smth, it's creepy. Non-creepy guy does smth? Completely not creepy. Ex. I knew a barista years ago who held this view. She told me that some guy had come in and had been "totally creepy!" so I inquired as to what made him creepy (as a data point for my own program of "Not Being Creepy,") and she said … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/24 04:24 PM |
| 5 | Best tips to stop a crushPlot Twist: It was Kristen Stewart. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/11/24 01:15 PM |
| 4 | High body count - am I cooked?N/P. If someone comes to a forum sincerely asking for help, why not try to help, you know? I used to do the same thing in AskTRP for the Lost Boys of Reddit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/24 11:03 PM |
| 2 | What with the trend of women claiming their partner doesn’t notice other women? #observationI’m assuming you’re a guy? Correct. Thanks for sharing your experience. N/P. This is one of those things that no guy is going to argue about, because....why? What is he going to do, say "Oh, no, honey I actually totes ogle other girls all the time." Why pick that hill to die on? No point. Save it for more important points. So yeah if a girl wants to think that, fine, but not so much. It's out nature. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/24 10:38 PM |
| 9 | What with the trend of women claiming their partner doesn’t notice other women? #observationwife goggles Or "love goggles." To me, that's more when you get married younger, then your husband has the younger, hotter version of his wife on the highlight reel. When your granddad say that your grandmother is "as pretty as the day I married her", that's wife goggles. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/24 04:01 PM |
| 4 | What with the trend of women claiming their partner doesn’t notice other women? #observationIt's a flex. It is supposed to show "partner investment." As in "My man is sooooo into me that he doesn't even NOTICE other girls." Um yeah, he does, but he's good at doing it on the sly. Ex. 2 of my girls are models. If another model-type girl saunters by, I notice. I just don't get caught noticing. I'm also not drooling or thinking about chatting her up, I just think, "Oh, she's quite pretty" and then go back about my business. Interestingly enough, this is the same idea behind expensive baubl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/24 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Advice on male friend (not sure if this is a red flag?)Yeah, I don't even know why I second guessed this 🤣. I assure you, there is no guy that I know who is a man's man who would think this was in anyway normal. I also posted in 2x, where of course the first comment tries to convince me it's normal. That makes me wonder what they think it "abnormal" but it's probably just traditional masculinity. There's a reason we call it 'Two Hamsters" in the men's forum. It's not even just women's clothes, it's a mini skirt and six inch heels. I don't even wear … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/24 03:40 PM |
| 8 | High body count - am I cooked?So, while not ideal, it’s not the end of the world either. First, you have to understand why men are more concerned about a girl’s “number” then one might think appropriate. It’s not the actual number; it’s the damage. Speaking as a “Rule 9 Violation” I can tell you that men positively hate Hate HATE getting punished because of what some other guy did to a girl. Among younger guys it can also be jealousy of the “optionality” that women have when it comes to sex. If you are a woman, you are not d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/24 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Do the majority of (straight) men observe and assess women solely as a potential partner?So first, think about what men need women for. We build civilizations. We need women for sex and babies. So yeah we’re going to look at women in that way in general. Why would we not? Women, on the other hand, need men for, well, literally everything else. It’s not popular to say so, but it is true. Something like 45% of men are involved in keeping the infrastructure going. Virtually everything around you was invented built and is maintained by men. Your house catches on fire? Men are coming to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Would you give a woman over 30 years old a chance if she is looking for marriage?No. Why? Because my current options that also fit the criteria you have laid out are 22, 24, 26 and 29. Secondarily, why get married? You are inviting the state into your relationship. I won’t go over all the reasons that I think it’s a bad idea, but there are plenty of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 04:09 AM |
| 7 | Advice on male friend (not sure if this is a red flag?)After we met up for a late coffee, he blurted out over text that he's into cross-dressing. I did not have this on my bingo card for this thread. I guess I'm just worried he'll get weird at some point You don’t think this is weird already? Because I think this is weird already. telling me these things is him kind of testing the waters. Maybe he just wants some fashion tips? It would be a shame since I don't have many friends around here Maybe it’s time to make some new friends? but I think I'd ju… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/24 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Should I be worried ?So what are you going to do going forward? Trust him unless you really really want to snoop? It’s a problem. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/24 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Should I be worried ?Am I just being crazy and insecure? Yes. By 23 you should be out of junior high school. You snooped through your boyfriend‘s phone, which is a violation of his privacy.1 If he caught you doing that he would be fully justified in dumping you. By the way, you find 95% of everything is good like him talking you up to his mom and sister. You also find he had a conversation with his ex seven months ago and then subsequently blocked her and there really wasn’t anything terrible in the conversation, an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/24 06:18 AM |
| 1 | When men marryThe problem with later in life marriage for men, even if they decided that that’s what they wanted to do, is this: if I get married and then I’m subsequently divorced, I could be working into my 70s and 80s to support an ex-wife who bailed on me. Why would I want to do that? I mean, I wouldn’t want to do that in my 40s, but at least in my 40s I could see a path of recovery. In my 70s, I would basically be an indentured servant until I died. As a result, the “forever girlfriend” or “soft harem” p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/10/24 01:10 PM |
| 6 | What are our thoughts on “don’t eat pussy”If you look at cuckold porn… Wait, wut? Muff diving is bad but somehow this is OK? I see where you went wrong…. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/24 10:37 AM |
| 14 | What are our thoughts on “don’t eat pussy”P.A Announcement: “Uncle Vaz says it’s OK to eat pussy.” Carry on. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/24 10:35 AM |
| 5 | When men marryThe chances of finding a guy in his late 30s or 40s who’s never been married but is going to get married to you is pretty low. Can confirm. ;-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | When men marryStill, there will be correlative factors. Think of it this way: Generally speaking, a guy who can get women is not going to be perceived as a lost cause by other men. Cool guys hang out with other cool guys. Studs don't hang around with duds. Now there are some dudes who are solid guys who are not so successful with women, which is why I say it is correlative. But there's an adage that: if you hang out with five successful guys you with be the 6th. If you hang out with 5 losers, you will also be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/24 01:57 PM |
| 15 | When men marryA lot of these men said “if I could find a nice woman I’d marry her tomorrow”. This sort of sounds like when women say “all I want is a nice guy!” Point out to them that “Tom is a nice guy” and you’ll quickly find out that there’s more to it. Expect something like “But he’s only 5’9!” follow the pack Or this could just mean that 28–33-year-olds know other 28–33-year-olds. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/24 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal to speak this way?Guys tend to be binary about these things. While I would encourage her to continue with her self improvement and losing weight, let’s not hold out false hope either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/24 06:15 PM |
| 9 | Is it normal to speak this way?So, and I mean this in the kindest way possible, you need to let go of this guy. You also needs to fix your health. Do that and then go meet a different dude. First this guy’s involved with someone else, and second, he’s really not gonna be able to see past the “old you.” Again not trying to be cruel it just is how it is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/10/24 08:55 PM |
| 2 | How to connect dailyWhat are your respective love languages? Work on giving/receiving in his/yours. It seems from the comments that you two are quite busy. Anyway to cut back and make more time for the marriage? Schedule time together. Walks, sex, cocktails, sex, watching TV together, sex...whatever it happens to be. on days without sex Sometimes a quickie bj will make a guy feel very connected. Just sayin'. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/24 09:56 PM |
| 2 | 15 years difference of ageI'm not so sure. There's a reason we say "single women keep other women single", whether for their own selfish reasons (envy, etc.) or otherwise. Ex. I had a gf years ago (we had an age gap, but it was like 7 or 8 years) who had a toxic BFF who would claim, up and down, that she had my gf's best interest at heart when she was poisoning my well. Ofc, she poisoned the next guy's well also, and the guy after that. Why? Because Toxic Friend had two - TWO - divorces by age 25 and didn't want to be th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/24 09:24 PM |
| 5 | I’ve been so hostile and angry. How to handle stress in a relationship?Is it wrong that I feel a bit like a gender traitor when I read these stories and think "This guy is just a lazy asshole"? I mean, I don't play video games and I don't use rarely use porn. And who tidies up around the Zaitzev household? Uncle Vaz himself. And it's surprisingly clean (well mostly, anyway - I get comments like "you have the cleanest 'guys bathroom' I have ever seen," which at least sounds good.) Same for the laundry. And the dishes. Now, if I had a permanent live-in, I would devol… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | 15 years difference of ageFor every older man dating a younger woman there is a younger woman willing to date him. If that's not you, great! But why yuck someone else's yum? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | 15 years difference of ageI feel like a lot of women's concern is "What is the force driving this man to not have any fear and ignore societal shaming to pursue younger women?" In my case, I recognize it for what it is: an attempt coerce me into sacrificing my own interests for someone else’s. The game is rigged, and I’m not going to ‘play by the rules’ when they are designed to eff me over. A lot of structure in modern society is aimed at convincing men to take what they are given, not ask too many questions, and be jus… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/24 07:29 PM |
| 7 | do guys find girls with high sex drive unattractive?i do have a high sex drive LOL. RIP to your DMs. ive felt pretty shameful and gross about myself in the past from it. i just feel like it’s not “classy” behavior etc. Eh. It’s the way you’re made. Men actually love women who like sex, provided that they like sex only with that guy, so as long as you limit your sexual activities to a partner, you should be fine. Accordingly, you are better off finding a guy with a similar predilection. To this day, I sometimes refer to my primary university girlf… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/24 02:19 PM |
| 4 | 15 years difference of ageSo here's the thing: Basically all men prefer women between 20-24. So by your way of thinking, ALL men (or at least the overwhelming majority of older men) who would prefer, given the option, of dating/plating/mating young women must be walking red flags. That would be a bold claim. The problem for the majority of older men in that situation, just like for the group of ladies who want men 6'+, is that the math ain't mathing. To wit: A. Demand outstrips supply - there aren't enough 20 to 24 year … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/24 05:35 AM |
| 2 | 15 years difference of ageImmaterial. A single data point doesn't negate the general principle. For example, if I were to say "Generally, men are taller than women," you could say smth like "Not true! Cameron Brink (6'4) is taller than most men!" While Cameron Brink is taller than most men, that doesn't change the over-arching facts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/24 05:10 AM |
| -2 | 15 years difference of ageWhoo! SAVAGE. :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/24 01:16 AM |
| 2 | 15 years difference of agereally... I'm angry at them. Be happy - because they did not treat him correctly, now you have him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/24 01:09 AM |
| 4 | 15 years difference of ageLOL. This is what older women tell themselves, but ok. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/24 01:03 AM |
| 3 | 15 years difference of ageSo your man is engaging in some negative self-talk, based on his prior experience and observation, as well as societal pressures - as and older man who dates younger women, I can tell you that women in my age cohort do not like this one little bit. He said he has sadly seen this situation several times, of good willed young women who weren't not ready (and lied, manipulated, collapsed in emotional turmoil, broke basic rules of healthy relationship...). Older women are perfectly capable of this a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/24 12:40 AM |
| 12 | Help with managing work and domestic/household tasks?because women are "naturally more skilled at cleaning." A “skill” is smth that can be LEARNED. I would probably point that out a few times. We’re only getting your side of the story, of course, but he sounds kind of lazy. What did he do before you moved in? The last time I was in a roommate situation was back in law school and my roommate and I would clean the apartment after classes on Friday. We throw on some music, one of us would clean the bathroom, the other one of us would clean the kitche… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/24 06:48 AM |
| 8 | Field Report - Road RageA. Never blow your cool. If you’re driving, listen to some smooth jazz or something. Your manhood is not on the line. B. Any commentary from passengers in my car is met with ”Don’t drive when you’re not driving.” | /r/askMRP | 19/10/24 09:20 AM |
| 4 | The Red Pill is apoliticalWhile red pill itself is not inherently political, there is a correlation with the right wing because right wing dudes are more likely to “fuck this left-wing feminist shit.” Same with tradcons. Basically, nobody here is going to worship at the altar of vagina entitlement. Can you be liberal or left-wing and be red pill? Sure but are you likely to be? Probably not. Then somehow, around the first Trump presidency… I personally love it that you call it the “first” Trump presidency, like we are gua… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | You Can Do Everything Right And Still LoseSometimes, they can’t get past the damage. I actually had a girl tell me, in between deep, shuddering sobs against my chest, “You do everything right and I’m so mean to you!” She literally knew it was her, and still couldn’t stop herself. Bitches can’t get out of their own fucking way sometimes. So that was >25 years ago, and pretty much my last stop on the way to becoming the Dark Lord of TRP. Oh, and she’s been a single mom for a while now. File under “bullets, dodged.” Fun fact, though. You k… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/24 08:24 AM |
| 2 | You Can Do Everything Right And Still Lose90% of the time when a girl goes you it has nothing to do with you. Some ex-boyfriend popped up, baby daddy‘s in town, who the fuck knows? Some guy she likes better texted her back. It can be a lot of things. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/24 08:15 AM |
| -1 | What about class?Most men are bluepills. They are also conventional, and don't "dare" to do things that will get them criticized socially. I am in my 50s and date women in their 20s. Anyone who doesn't like it can shove it up their ass. Most guys don't have those kind of balls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 01:28 AM |
| 4 | How do I handle the issues in my marriage using RPW strategy?I organized your tool shed No. Absolutely NOT. Organize something else. Nobody needs to touch my tools, my files, or my musical instruments without clearance from the tower. I would regard that as an invasion of privacy AND negative attention-getting. My tools are where I want them. If the hammer is on the floor, it’s because I want the hammer on the floor. For real. Do not do this. It amounts to “While you were off helping your mom, I completely messed with your life.” | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/24 05:34 PM |
| 7 | Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show and celebrity crushI don’t know who Tyla is, but I assume she must be hot, if she’s in the Victoria’s Secret fashion show - unless they’re still in their “woke” phase. Your husband may think she’s attractive, but he loves you. Verdict: If this is your biggest problem in life, then you don’t have any problems. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/10/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Do Modern Men Want Women to be More Submissive or more Masculine?One would think, but as long as it’s not constant, it can be OK. Although in general, I prefer agreeable and compliant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Do Modern Men Want Women to be More Submissive or more Masculine?All things being equal men prefer, feminine, agreeable, submissive, women. I think some of what you are seeing relative to men wanting women to “shoulder the load” a bit when it comes to gender relations stems from women achieving economic parity or superiority in some cases among younger people in urban areas. I think a lot of younger guys are thinking ”Why the fuck should I pay for dinner when she makes more than I do?” or ”Why should I have to ask women out when I’m gonna get filmed and put o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 04:17 AM |
| 4 | Do Modern Men Want Women to be More Submissive or more Masculine?Average = Not in the top 15% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Do Modern Men Want Women to be More Submissive or more Masculine?Marriage is like the Jesuits; you only really know if you’re on the inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Do Modern Men Want Women to be More Submissive or more Masculine?I don’t know about a celeb or pop culture reference, but it sounds like he wants someone “bratty” to me… like mouths off, but wants to be put in her place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Do Modern Men Want Women to be More Submissive or more Masculine?I don’t wanna feel like I’m pulling her along by her collar That’s the best part. /heh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/24 04:01 AM |
| 7 | How do you act around your boyfriends/husbands male friends/relatives?So probably everything’s fine. But I will ask: have you discussed this with your boyfriend? In general, each individual spouse needs to be the “ambassador” of the couple to their respective families. So if you talk it over with him and just explain the situation, which he probably knows already, that way if it comes up, he could simply say “Kay was raised in a very conservative household and the girls were not allowed to have male friends so she’s not always particularly at ease conversing with … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/24 02:56 PM |
| 2 | If You Became Super Desirable To Women, Would You Be A Player?I would have a harem, because that’s what I do now. I would not say that I’m “super desirable“ to women, but I can get enough of the women that I want - very attractive 20 somethings - by using status and game (I’m certainly not classically handsome but I am tall and I do keep in good shape.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Is there an exception to the rule?So think of things this way. Imagine if a young man came to you and said “I’d break up with my girlfriend, but she gives really amazing head.” Would you tell him that she’s some magical “exception“ to the rule? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/24 05:56 AM |
| 5 | Meeting Men without Online Datingtrivia night Oh yeah, but I’m not here to solve dudes’ problems. 🙃 I prefer to meet ladies IRL, but something to bear in mind is that literally every site is an online dating site now. You hear about a couples meeting on Facebook or Twitter or Insta or whatever - Insta is the new Tinder, evidently. Back before quarantine, I used to get laid off of um, I mean “form relationships off of” TRP - and even once off of - gasp! - RPW! (Nobody needs to get the vapors though; she was just a tourist.) Evid… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/24 07:42 PM |
| 13 | Meeting Men without Online DatingSounds like you’re doing great! For introvert girls, men are all around you. We’re at Starbucks, we’re at the bus stop, and in general we’re very approachable unless you have massively misjudged your SMV. A couple of notes: men get weird about asking out women at the gym Yeah, so it only took a few of us getting put on blast as “gym creepers” for that to dry up. Contrary to popular belief, we are actually quick learners. If you are trying to meet guys at the gym, ladies, get used to being the “a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/24 04:57 PM |
| 10 | Handling Impotence in Marriage5 years in he wanted me to fist him in the ass, one night we got super drunk I did not have this on my bingo card for this thread. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/24 06:29 PM |
| 5 | Trying to take the red pill^ This. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/24 06:22 PM |
| 8 | Trying to take the red pillhe got upset for not inviting him Hmm. I thought this might’ve been just a figure of speech but… Now he’s locked in our room and it’s almost noon. Wait, wut? Did he also threaten to hold his breath until he turned blue? How old is everyone involved here? Look, I don’t want to run the guy down, but this smacks of a lack of emotional maturity. And guys who lack emotional maturity tend not to make great leaders. The right answer here for him would’ve been to say “Hey, I would’ve liked to have been … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/24 05:31 PM |
| 8 | Handling Impotence in MarriageSo yeah, not all of those things were going to be true unless he was really, really unlucky. Dr. Seuss was right: sometimes Calculatus Eliminatus is the best friend that we’ve got. If he gets morning wood, then the problem is between his ears. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/24 05:16 PM |
| 34 | Handling Impotence in MarriageThis is also very hard on him…. No pun intended? 🤣 I’m going to assume you meant “difficult” and proceed… /heh. This isn’t normal for a 29-year-old man. Here’s an initial question: does he have morning wood? If so, then it’s not a physical problem. The next two most common problems for ED and young men are: A. Porn addiction B. The “death grip.” I assume he’s not obese. Is he really completely not physically fit? Does he have a really, really bad diet? Assuming that none of these are the case, t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/24 10:52 AM |
| 6 | What is a reasonable expectation about the delivery of bad news? What is the optimal response?I kind of flipped out on him This is pretty much your answer. Particularly if this was not an isolated incident. How the women in our lives react to problems directly correlates to how willing we are to discuss them. I used to date a woman who was basically like WebMD: even things that had a rational explanation, like being a 24 hour bug, became “or it could be cancer.” You had better believe that even if I was about to have a leg amputated, I would never say anything other than “I’m fine baby.”… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/24 09:12 AM |
| 1 | How to Be a G on a First Date – Setting the Frame and Closing StrongI made sure I wasn’t getting stuck in endless texts like most guys do. Wr1tten's famous line for this is some version of "Nobody ever fell in love over text, so let's meet up." | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/24 11:53 PM |
| 10 | A post on avoiding false rape accusations.Some free advice from your Uncle Vaz: First, don't rape anyone, obv. That said, ~99.5% of guys don't do this, there are just a few repeat customers. This is part of the problem with women complaining that we don't approach them anymore: the good guys did what they said they wanted, but the creeps keep right on creeping. But anyway, I digress. Second, in the event you are every falsely (or, really, not falsely, because it works in those situations also) accused of a crime, I am going to do your f… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/24 08:11 AM |
| 2 | A post on avoiding false rape accusations.If this is an active case you are involved in, then you should not be posting about it on the Internet. Or trial strategy. Or anything related to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/24 07:23 AM |
| 2 | How to overcome redpill rage after learning the truth about female nature ?You can be Big Mad or you can be happy that you now know the truth and can act accordingly. Do not hate women for their nature, just as you would not hate the bee for stinging you - just learn to avoid the stings. On Hating Women, Especially For Guys in the “Anger” Phase -I Don't Hate Women and I Don't Think Anyone Should. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/24 10:11 PM |
| 17 | Partner says I’m like a manAlexander Grace and he talked about how women shut off their brains in a relationship. Yeah, they get “girlfriend brain” because they shut off their “anxiety brain.” That’s why you never count on them to remember where you parked the car or something like that because they’ll just look at you, giggle and say “I don’t know, that’s your job, daddy.” one of the downsides is “situational awareness”, to the extent they had it, goes right out the window. OTOH, they tend to be happier because: no anxie… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/24 07:45 PM |
| 15 | Partner says I’m like a manGeezus. Tell him to shut up, enjoy the clear and logical thinking and lack of emotional terrorism, and stop complaining. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/24 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone here gotten someone to wait for marriage for them while having a high body count?LOL. Thanks for the laugh this morning! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/24 12:38 PM |
| 7 | Has anyone here gotten someone to wait for marriage for them while having a high body count?not including online sex, etc Well, the bit of good news that I have for you is guys don’t count it that way. Unless it’s PIV, it isn’t sex. I want to become religious and wait until marriage. So usually people wait until they have already become religious. Accordingly, I’m a bit curious as to what is driving this. I was wondering where I could find a man who would accept me and wait for me Wherever simps hang out, because that’s who’s going to wait. So churches, corporate IT departments, etc. T… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/24 12:33 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone here gotten someone to wait for marriage for them while having a high body count?^ This is basically the unvarnished truth. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/10/24 12:23 PM |
| 9 | Has anyone here gotten someone to wait for marriage for them while having a high body count?Well, being compared favorably is certainly better than the opposite, I suppose. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/24 11:10 PM |
| 6 | My boyfriend lied to me about not having girls added onto his socials, should I be worried?“you told me you didn’t have any women added? why’d you lie?” He lied because he didn’t wanna have a fight with you about girls he’s communicating with on Snapchat or who he’s added on social media who may have predated you and be totally innocent or he might be banging behind your back. Although if he’s socially awkward guy that’s probably little danger of the latter. The joke is on him though, because the cover-up is always worse than the crime. i don’t want to be seen as controlling. Well I h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/24 07:09 AM |
| 18 | Has anyone here gotten someone to wait for marriage for them while having a high body count?So what I think gets lost in the noise is that it’s not only the number it’s the damage. What do I mean? So with the number, there’s always the “uncertainty of paternity” along with the data that shows that the more partners a woman has had the less likely she’s is to be happy in a marriage. But on a day-to-day basis, there’s the damage. Women absolutely torture men over what their last boyfriend did to them. Trust me, every guy wishes he had a dollar for every time he could’ve said some version… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/24 04:50 AM |
| 5 | We’re my expectations reasonable?So this is an “away game” for him. A few years ago, I went on what turned out to be a date in Sydney, Australia, while I was visiting. The young lady in question provided local info and effectively acted as my “administrative assistant.” In Australia, you pretty much have to make a reservation or “booking“ as it’s called locally, for dinner, etc. I gave her an idea of what I liked, and she sent me a note with five or six options at various price points and then I approved one and provided an alt… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/24 12:29 AM |
| 12 | Swallowing too many pills this weekHow am I supposed to be positive right now? Because you have a husband who loves you and who is trying to provide for you in the best way he knows how. Women tend to be more risk averse for a variety of reasons, some that trace back through our DNA to the Veldt. Women tend to play it safe because, historically, that was a better survival strategy. Back in the Bad Old Days of the SaberTooth Tiger, when the tribe from the other side of the mountain came raiding, they weren't going to kill the wome… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/24 05:43 PM |
| 2 | why are simps/beta males against passport bros?Game is a great equalizer. It’s what allows me to date women half my age and younger. And money does not equal game, although it can be useful as a tool. You just can’t lead with it otherwise you’re going to regret it. “If you go fishing with gold, you will catch gold diggers.” -Confucius, maybe. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/24 02:27 PM |
| 1 | why are simps/beta males against passport bros?Tony Montana Shout out to Scarface. That was actually a very quotable movie. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | why are simps/beta males against passport bros?I’ve seen some documentary of a homeless man who used his game to sleep on girls couches and eat their food. And the girls were happy to do so So he was a “hobo-sexual.” That should not be anyone’s aspirational goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/24 04:38 AM |
| 1 | help navigating relationship with my overly attached immigrant MIL…From the description, I don’t think it can go any other way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | help navigating relationship with my overly attached immigrant MIL…Then pick a neutral site. You don’t want a crazy person in your house where you can’t get them out or you can’t leave. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/24 12:16 AM |
| 2 | help navigating relationship with my overly attached immigrant MIL…I feel I must have misrepresented things because a lot of people seem hung up on this being my choice or something So it seems you added a clarification, but I think people were getting it out of this: “Recently, I was able to get through to him that he should respond to her finally (after 2.5 years).” | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/24 12:16 AM |
| 1 | help navigating relationship with my overly attached immigrant MIL…host her and treat her like any other guest in your home. Oh God, no. Why would you host her? Then you can’t leave. Go to her house, and then the second things go bad getting in your car and get the hell out. Or better yet don’t meet her at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/24 12:30 PM |
| 3 | help navigating relationship with my overly attached immigrant MIL…His alternative was basically never speaking to her again and just letting her wonder what happened. You should’ve gone with this one. This is why everyone suggested that closure/clarity would come from speaking with her again, if only to say that he wouldn’t be speaking to her again. Never listen to advice from morons. People who suggest this are mapping their own normal relationships with people over your situation. They think of their own perfectly nice mother or father and think “why would a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/24 12:29 PM |
| 4 | Sexy pictures?I never imagined to post labeled “sexy pictures” would turn out to be so wholesome. 🤣 | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/09/24 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on taking a break on my relationshipTaking a “break” means him taking a break as well. You may not get him back. Remember, you have something to lose also. Source: On those few occasions when a girl wanted to “take a break“ I dumped her. Permanently. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/24 03:53 PM |
| 4 | why are simps/beta males against passport bros?Because simps, betas, and pretty much everyone on the political left for that matter, don’t want anyone doing better than they are. So when guys take initiative to take control of their lives, the simps and the betas and the feminists get all butt hurt about it. This is also why blue states want to export their commie bullshit to red states. Fear of exposure, and fear that someone else will do better than they are. The modern day left are much like the Puritans: they lay awake at night, terrifie… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/24 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on the Happy Wife School (YouTube channel)?It sounds like an entrée down at my favorite Chinese restaurant. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/24 01:15 PM |
| 2 | What is the correct response to when this happens?Do not take it personally; we are all kind of like that. We don’t multitask as well as women do because if you’re out hunting mammoths, you have to be focused on that and not other stuff. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/24 12:24 PM |
| 13 | Is he a narcissist or am I overreactingSo yeah, based on what you’ve said, he has some problems. But you can decide to sit around and let him “ruin your life” or you can fix the things that are going on with you and try to go find happiness. Maybe you will maybe you won’t, but you definitely won’t if you sit around giving other people power over you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/24 12:22 PM |
| 13 | What's the red pill explanation of why girls get tattoos?Damage. That’s the answer to 90% of why girls get graffiti or shrapnel (piercings). It so they can express their trauma without having to verbalize it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/24 01:59 AM |
| 7 | There is a distinctionThis makes perfect sense. Just like a lot of women now want to have a wedding day but they don’t want to be a wife. Another thing to think about is: women should look for a man who is easy-going and who they like because men don’t change. I think I picked that up here, and again, it makes perfect sense. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/24 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Ovulation makes me look good?Pheromones. You are in a breedable phase. You were also probably subconsciously sending other signals, like wearing red (or more red or whatever) and such. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/24 10:15 PM |
| 2 | When men ask for commitmentYou should do what’s right for you, but evidently, that’s what the kids are doing these days. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/24 05:38 PM |
| 2 | When men ask for commitmentKG = cagey. Voice to text is the bane of my existence. Fixed now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/24 05:36 PM |
| 2 | When men ask for commitmentShould I tell him… Sure. Simply say that you have not been talking to other guys, because that’s the truth. You are also free to say that if he wants official commitment, meaning a promise that you will not talk to other guys going forward, then he needs to offer the same. Assuming commitment, I would expect him to be relieved. Even though seeing other guys was “permitted“ within the context of your LDR, he is doing a bit of a “ho’ check.” Congratulations, you passed. N.B. I get that a lot of th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/24 07:09 AM |
| 2 | When men ask for commitmentThese days, intimacy is often a precursor to commitment. I’m not saying that’s right for RPW, I’m just saying it “is.” | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/24 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Reading: My ex texted me after 5 months of no contact. What does he want?LOL! And here I am breaking it down in real time! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/24 03:07 AM |
| 12 | how to make my dominant man listen to me.Silent treatment? That’s a great way to get replaced. And be careful with manipulation, a smart guy is going to see that coming a mile away. Or at least a guy who has sisters. Your best move is to be straightforward and in a calm voice, say I would like you to listen to what I have to say. Don’t come at him sideways. A fair-minded guy is going to listen. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/24 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Reading: My ex texted me after 5 months of no contact. What does he want?So it seems like you’re writing a novel about this. Or maybe he is and this is your interpretation. The answers are relatively mundane: A. Sex. B. He seen what else is out there and it turns out you weren’t so bad. I just had a girl boomerang back to me that I dated in her early 20s. She is very high drama, and our relationship had a lot of turmoil in it, which I don’t really care for, so I broke up with her. Evidently, and I quote, “guys don’t break up with me!”, I just did. in fairness to her,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/24 10:26 PM |
| 11 | Diffrence between trp and rpw?TRP OG here. TRP is a sub that is about promoting masculinity, men’s sexual options, and dealing with and understanding women (esp Married Red Pill). A lot of guys show up there after a divorce/bad breakup bc they don’t understand what happened. Younger guys show up there bc they don’t have any model for masculinity (single moms & all female teachers in elementary school) plus constantly getting shamed for being male. A number of they young men say that I “raised them”, which makes me feel both … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/24 11:35 AM |
| 11 | Dating as a fat girlbut couldn’t lose the weight. I would revisit this, with a trainer, a nutritionist and possibly semiglutide As long as he’s white You are cutting out a large mkt segment for bigger girls, or so I’m told. But the heart wants what the heart wants. Hispanic men may be more forgiving in the bigness dept. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/24 06:59 PM |
| -7 | What does submission look like to you and would you do it for your future partner?On the other hand, they can be highly ornamental and a tremendous aid in relaxation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | What does your partner think of RPW, submission, and male-led relationships?So mostly D&S bc that turned out to be my market segment. Like most men, particularly when we are young, I was very sex-motivated, so I leaned into it: So let me get this straight: if I smack you on the ass and if you call me, daddy, you’ll do whatever I say and have sex with me anytime I want? Yes, please.” my momma didn’t raise no dummy. And yes, DS/free use has to be freely negotiated otherwise it’s rape. As far as shit tests go, I don’t generally get those. The girls who like me want to give… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/24 03:34 PM |
| 4 | I'm too good for every guy I meet?It’s a load of bullshit when guys say you are too good for them. Basically if they don’t find you attractive enough to date and lock down. Maybe, but I bet it sounds a lot better than “you’re kind of ugly.” Think of it as the male equivalent of “letting you down easy.” | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/24 02:46 PM |
| 17 | I'm too good for every guy I meet?This is often Guy Code for “You would be a lot of work.” You know what guys want from girlfriends? Comfort food that comes with sex. And not a lot of work. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/24 02:44 PM |
| 6 | Career vs WifeGo in house. Source: went in house decades ago. Alternatively, you could become like a “virtual” general council where you keep a relatively small number of corporate clients. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/24 02:41 PM |
| 1 | What does your partner think of RPW, submission, and male-led relationships?What does he think about submission? I’m a big fan. Both in relationships and in bed. How would he define it? Voluntary acceptance of my leadership. it even a word he would use referring to your relationship? Privately certainly. In more public contexts, I might say a girl is “cooperative,” because “submission” is politically charged for some people. It depends on the situation. If I’m among friends, and the girl is wearing a collar, things are pretty clear already. Do you consider your relation… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/24 04:24 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on telling a man about other men approaching you?Have you thought about asking him what he wants? You know, using words? Do RPM like when men are attracted to their girlfriends or do they not? It matters more whether we are attracted to our girlfriends, and also how she handles the attentions of other men. My main chick is a working model and gets a lot of unwanted attention wherever she goes, although she says that most guys are afraid to approach her, which really works out for both of us. /heh. If a guy is not respecting boundaries, though,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/24 12:58 AM |
| 1 | You only go after younger women because you can't handle older womenThis kind of talk is a massive cope by old bitches. Easier to manipulate? How about way less damaged. In addition to being younger, hotter, tighter, and more pleasant to be around. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/24 10:12 PM |
| 2 | After a (very short) breakup...Gotta hedge those bets! 😂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/24 02:48 PM |
| 3 | After a (very short) breakup...What exactly should I do to make him feel/know that he is in "trial mode" and has to prove himself? If you’re thinking this way, you might as well just break up with them now. I don’t say that lightly but what you really saying is “how else can I torture him because I’m mad at him for making me feel the same way he felt?” That’s not going to end well. What you might do is find a way to be supportive of him, help him learn your language via 30 to 60 minutes of conversational practice, etc. If you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/24 02:43 PM |
| 2 | LDR relationshipTwo months is a short time frame. But a larger thing for you to consider, and you’re medical school school student so you know this already, but you’re gonna take up a lot of of your kid-having years with a high intensity career. That’s something to think about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/24 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend is punishing me for going to a partyGiven how the sexes interact with each other, he has to have a lot more trust. And things like “oh you know I support you, honey, but I’m not gonna come to your show. I’m gonna go hang out with other people somewhere where you don’t know where I am possibly getting attention from other dudes” it’s not the kind of thing that builds trust. You can say what you want about how you don’t accept attention from other men, but that’s easy for you to say, it’s not necessarily easy for him to believe, par… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/24 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend is punishing me for going to a partySauce for the goose = if my girl wants to go get attention and validation from other men, I can go pursue other women. Rethinking the whole relationship = it’s time to cut her loose and move on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/24 09:43 AM |
| 3 | LDR relationshipYeah, so basically you can have “long-distance” or you can have a “relationship.” There’s no guarantee he won’t cheat, but he doesn’t have any guarantee that you won’t cheat either. Assuming you decided to go forward with the long distance relationship how much time would you be able to spend together and on what intervals? LDRs tend to work better for established couples where there is a defined period separation that isn’t excessive. For you it’s going to be two years, plus you might still be … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/09/24 08:45 PM |
| 2 | LDR relationshipDon't punish your current lovers for someone else's screwups ^ This needs to be repeated. I wish I had a dollar for every time I got to say “I am sorry your last boyfriend was mean to you.” | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/09/24 08:41 PM |
| 12 | Boyfriend is punishing me for going to a partyHe doesn’t want to be controlling, because then you’ll tell him that he’s controlling. But what he wants is for you to figure out on your own what you should be doing to “act right,” as he sees it. I am guessing that you were both quite young, like in your 20s, which explains a lot of the drama, but what’s also going on is no guy at that age is thrilled by the idea of his girlfriend going out with her friends, getting sloppy drunk, and getting caught or worse, fucked by some strange dude because… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/09/24 01:02 PM |
| 11 | I’ve been hearing more about how women aren’t as interested in dating these days, and I’m curious about your thoughts. Do you think it has anything to do with changes in men or maybe the rise of the 50-50 relationship dynamic?I think it’s less disinterested, and more dissatisfied with the dating market as it exists for a number of reasons. First, women have a lot of choice now because of apps, and choice can turn out to be a bit of a tyranny because people don’t want to settle go with what they have when an exciting new match is just around the corner. For a humorous explanation of this Google “the husband store.” If you’re always chasing the bigger, better deal, sometimes you wind up playing yourself. I think young … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/09/24 08:58 AM |
| 9 | “A woman cannot date backwards..”What should I do? So here’s the problem with hypergamy. Think about the most beautiful woman, you know, and think about the most plain woman you know. They probably want the same man. I don’t know what your age is or what your ceiling is and how close you are to it, but you should do everything to improve your looks, you should do you should lower your standards because they’re probably too elevated because hypergamy. Beyond that you can either learn to like what’s good for you or you can exploi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/09/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Boomerang Babes (They Always Come Back), or So I Alpha Widowed a Playboy Playmate.I was fond of her. I edited the conversation for context. Yeah she kind of is missing the D. Women don’t go back to guys who have bad dick game. One of my exes actually has me in her phone as “Dirty Disneyland.” Yeah, I would not be surprised at all that, when I bought them out in her badge, she’ll say something like “God I missed this!” The wording may not be exact, but the sentiment will be on point. How do I know? Well I guess that girls don’t go back to guys with sloppy dick game, but it’s h… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/24 03:23 PM |
| 10 | Ex wants me backSo you don’t wanna get back with him, and he wants to get back with you because he can’t do any better. Yeah, that’s not really a recipe for success. Also, it sounds like he’s the “modern girl” in the relationship since he didn’t want to commit because he wanted to rack up bodies and damage. Except men don’t really get as much damage in that way, but still. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/24 09:26 AM |
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