The Importance of Manliness.

The Importance of Manliness.

It’s important to remember that, no matter what she says, when things go bad, she wants you to be a fucking MAN.

Years ago, a woman I knew was dating a guy who, well, he just wasn’t the most masculine fellow in the world. So they are talking and she says, “What would you do if you heard someone breaking into the house?” Him: “I’d make noise so that they’d realize there was someone at home.”

This, gents, is the Wrong Answer.

Me: “Wut? Not ‘Go bash the guy over the head’?”

Her: “I wouldn’t have to ask YOU.”

This was a test, and he failed it.

Correct Move: Look at her like she said something stupid and, “I’d go smash him over the head, dafuq do you think I’d do? Then I’d come back in here, rip your panties off and ravish you!” – then proceed directly to the “ravishing” part.

Carry yourself with “Amused Mastery” – you are in command of the situation, and you can handle it with ease. How would James Bond handle things? The Bond films – especially those starring Sean Connery – are a master class in Amused Mastery. Alternatively, if being witty isn’t your thing, then the quiet confidence of Jason Statham might be.

Women want to feel small and feminine. It is imprinted on their brains. The more that you do it, the more they will like you, even if they don’t know why.

This is why I recommend physicality with women. In a Dominant – not “domineering” – way. Done correctly, it taps something primordial in their brains. I’ve talked about this on the TRP podcasts – I think in the first ones I did with Wr1tten.

Pick Her Up After You Pick Her Up

At some point early on, ideally, on the first date/meeting/whatever, find a reason to lift her off of her feet. The last time I did this there I was chatting with a girl on the sidewalk – we were meeting up so not just a rando – and there was a lot of foot traffic coming towards us, so I wrapped an arm around her, lightly lifted her off of her feet, took a step or two out of the way and gently deposited her on her feet. I could tell she was surprised at how easily I did this. She felt (correctly) that she was 100% under my control, physically, and it made her feel small and feminine, to my strong and masculine. Polarity is your friend, lads.

Uncle Vaz’ Patented ‘Ankle Drag’ Maneuver

When you are having sex with a girl, at some point, when you want to change positions, get up and drag her across the bed by her ankle. It results in tingles, and if you can do it with ease – firm grip, no yanking, drawing her steadily into position – the more tingly she will get. The first time you do it, at a minimum, they WILL mention during post-coital pillow talk. completely under your control and their subconscious goes PING! - “This is a strong, dominant, masculine man!” Why? Because you are exerting control over them, AND they are getting fucked.

Pussy Tingle Generator Level: Niagara Falls

Bonus Tip, Heldover: Bloopers claw their faces off when I say this, so I’m going to say it, again: I will often tell a girl smth along the lines of, “I will meet you at 8pm. The dress code is {x}. And be sure to wear pretty underwear for me.” Now, Bloopers (and some of you guys) will say “OMG! Uncle Vaz! That’s so ‘cringe’! OMGEEEEE!” First, saying ‘cringe’ is the new cringe. Second, I’ve never had a girl break a date over that, mostly because I’ve built attraction and established my Frame and a ‘mildly subversive’ vibe. And more often than not, it results in her wearing pretty underwear for me, that I get to see, and remove. Even if it starts out with, “How dare he?! Who does he think he is?! I’m going to wear my prettiest pair in case I want to flash him later!”

What if There Was a Zombie Apocalypse?”

A woman I know jokingly mentioned the other day that men love it when you ask them what their plan is as to how they would handle a zombie apocalypse, and “Some guys have worked out some elaborate plans.”

Me: “Their answers have nothing to do with zombies, and everything to do what How They Will Handle Things When Shit Goes Bad. There won’t be any zombies, but there will be people walking around ACTING like zombies, and you can be that, when that happens, their wives, girlfriends and female family members will EXPECT them to Have a Fucking Plan.”

Her: “?”

Me: “You live in California. Sure, it’s beautiful, but there are forest fires, earthquakes, mudslides and maybe tsunamis. Kind of Mother Nature’s ‘El Sucko Combo Platter.’ If the worst happens, you expect your husband to be able to take care of you and your kids, right?”

Her: “Yep!”

Me: “And THAT’S why we think about these things. Ta-DA!”

Not every girl will ask you about this stuff, but if they do, the subtext is, “You can protect me, right?”

Uncle Vaz’ Numero Uno Survival Tip: The only time you don’t need more ammo is if you are swimming or on fire.

Sexist is the Sexiest: Women – Even Feminist Women – Prefer ‘Benevolently Sexist’ Men”

I’m not making this up – Believe The Science! There is some gobbled gook focusing on “muh CHIVALRY!” and such and about how they can get the “good” parts without the “bad” parts – stuff will like such as being feminine and cooperative, because that’s “submissive”…du-uh.

That includes everything from showing deference to up to and including rapekink, consensual non-consent and being “slave girls - obviously these need to be discussed and agreed on during non-sexy times, and safe/ease words utilized, limits established and respected, etc.

The next time it’s appropriate, ask a girl you are fucking/chatting up smth like “I’ve heard that, for women, ‘feeling desired’ IS the orgasm…is that true?” She will give you whatever opinion she has, and she will think to herself, “This guy gets it.”

This is why women want you to have a plan from everything from “What if someone was trying to break into the house?” to “What if there’s a zombie apocalypse?”. You are the Captain and the Captain Always Knows...and she’s Just a Girl.

But Uncle Vaz! The Bloopers say I should just ‘Be Myself’. Should I?”

Men are sex-motivated. If “just being yourself” or “Being a Nice Guy” was the Pathway to Pussy, then TRP would be all about how you should totes not lift and just play vidja and smoke up all day, and then take milady out and blow all of your wages for the week on escargot and a bottle of DRC at “Le Queef” because then she will definitely give you that 10th stamp on your “Nice Guy” card and say “Finally! Now I can give you all the sex you deserve!”

Yeah, that’s not how shit works, so that’s not what TRP is about.

You should focus on becoming the best version of yourself that you can be. Hit the House of Iron, eat clean, take your vitamins, say your prayers and LURN Game.

Fun Fact: On the rare occasion where I’m surprised with a shit test or similar, I often say the most sexist thing that pops into my head that I can ‘legally’ say. Ex: “Little spoons don’t ask questions,” or “Women should be felt and not heard.” Or my favorite: Man Talk.

Takeaways

-Carry yourself with an air of “Amused Mastery” or at least “Quiet Confidence.”

-Kino is Key.

-Sexist is the Sexiest: Girls dig benevolently sexist men. Her pussy wants a Man, not the kind of man who belongs to a club, but the kind with a club that belongs to him.