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Red Pill TheoryMindlessCalendar/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 03:14 PM
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1

someone asked her to a formal and she was considering it That's called a date bro.
/r/newTRP17/11/21 11:14 AM
1

She also said she would be yet she's going out on a date with another dude and getting smashed, with no guilt or remorse whatsover. So why are you feeling bad? Just keep her as a plate until it breaks.
/r/newTRP15/11/21 11:54 AM
3

Read the fucking sidebar. It's not that hard. Literally everything you asked is in there.
/r/newTRP07/11/21 12:38 PM
7

Big red flag. Guys and girls can not be just friends. Chris Rock: "No man ever thought 'damn she's so fine, I wanna make her my friend'."
/r/newTRP08/08/21 06:03 PM
1

she recently broke up with her boyfriend. looking to monkey branch probably It's not monkey branching if she's single. Anway, we absolutely do not have enough information to know if she likes you or not. Stop being a pussy and ask her out if you don't care about your job. If she says yes: kino, escalate, smash. If she says no: next. As you should be doing with every girl.
/r/newTRP05/08/21 11:57 AM
3

She doesn't even allow me to let my mom visit? Who cares what she "allows". It's your home and it's your mother. If you want her to visit she should be able to visit. No wonder your wife behaves this way dude. You're a beta with 0 self-respect who want even let his own mom visit his own house. Your wife owns your balls.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 12:46 PM
2

LMAO if this ain't a troll I don't know what is.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/21 12:56 PM
2

Are you stupid?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 10:09 AM
9

The fact that cheating is even on her mind is a huge red flag. I'm 100% sure she is not LTR material. Act accordingly.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 08:53 AM
4

Pro tip: when things are getting hot (touching/making out), put her hand on your dick.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 11:05 AM
3

So you're saying they only banged for 2 hours?
/r/askTRP02/03/21 03:01 PM
3

Not LTR material. Demote to plate and keep smashing until the plate breaks if you can handle it emotionally. If not, hard next. Side note: she probably cheated. But even if she didn't, NOT LTR material. A good GF doesn't get drunk then sleeps at another guy's house who has been hitting on her.
/r/askTRP01/03/21 07:49 PM
13

1) Don't text too much. Learn that lesson now. 2) If she thinks that's sexist and doesn't want to hang out anymore, she's a feminist retard anyway and you dodged a bullet. 3) You could text her the day of the date to "confirm". If she doesn't reply, hard next.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:46 PM
5

A good GF doesn't text other dudes, let alone delete messages to not get caught. So you don't confront her. You break up with her because she is not LTR material.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 11:50 AM
1

She's just a plate so you can't say anything. Keep banging her if you can without getting feels, but don't give her commitment. She's not LTR material. Don't try to turn a hoe into a housewive. Decent girls don't go out for drinks with other guys.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:36 PM
7

Your issue is you promoted a girl you're not really into because of scarcity mentality. Keep banging chicks without commitment or find a girl you actually like. Your relationship won't get better.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:34 PM
3

You are putting her on a pedestal. Don't put her on a pedestal. With this mentality you have already lost before the date.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:47 PM
1

Dude, why are you dating a single mom? Are you that desperate? And she's literally telling you she doesn't want you. Take the hint, go NC, read the sidebar, work on yourself and then when you aren't a retard anymore MAYBE you can get into a LTR with a DECENT woman who actually likes you.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:50 PM
3

It's already over bro. Let her go.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 11:44 AM
4

You are the man. It's your job to escalate.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 11:43 AM
0

Fuck other women. You will realize you just "like" her because she looks good/you are having sex with her.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 11:41 AM
2

They had 'drinks' before at his hotel. They have 100% had sex before. And look how 'cold' he is replying and look at her long texts. She is 100% DTF for that dude whenever he wants to. I'm really sorry to say it bro. Also, please don't LTR girls with male friends in the future. It's just not worth it.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:54 AM
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Men and women can't be friends. And I for one would never LTR a woman who hangs out with other guys. If she would even consider it, that's an instant hard next for me. Let alone someone she's banged in the past, let alone if she would meet up with a guy behind my back. Do with that information what you want.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 12:09 AM
4

Then it's fine I guess. But I read your comment above and sometimes she doesn't check in for two whole days? I wouldn't want a LTR like that man, she's not that into you if she pulls shit like that IMO and I'm talking from experience. My ex used to be like that and it's just not worth being in a relationship with a girl like that. But if it works, you do you.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 09:09 PM
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Does she spend time on her phone when she's on a date with you?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 03:20 PM
3

Even then he will get rejected once in a while.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 03:02 PM
2

Stop asking the same question every week you pathetic beta.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:39 PM
2

Red flag. Break up.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 01:45 PM
4

Because you still think male and female sexuality is equal. Read the sidebar. It's not.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 02:04 PM
4

Are you autistic? But to answer your question. Set up a next date and actually try to kino and ESCALATE this time. Don't be a pussy. If she rejects your advances, you have your answer. And this is how you should proceed with every girl.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 03:07 PM
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It's been 2 years and you haven't even kissed her yet. Move on to other girls. And read the sidebar since you are new.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 10:42 PM
2

A 24 year old guy dating a 16 year old girl. Of course they aren't taking you seriously. Maybe he isn't even. Really think hard about this.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 04:52 PM
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Fuck her already. If you would not act like a pussy beta for once and made a move she would 100% have sex with you. But now you are just constantly hamstering yourself out of sex. Why are you talking to her for hours? You really think you are "being a gentleman" by hanging out and watching a movie on a bed with a girl that has a BF? No, of course not. You are just being a coward who doesn't have the balls to make a move. Either make a move or stop hanging out with her.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 11:23 PM
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1) Not your job to ask for commitment. 2) Dread with action, not with words. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:47 PM
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Not your GF, so you can't call her out on it. But now you know she's not LTR material. Keep her as a plate max if you can deal with the emotions without getting oneitis. If not, next.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 10:39 AM
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Why are you in an LTR with this woman? Cause she's not LTR material.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 10:48 PM
1

Best answer in this thread and the correct way to maintain boundaries in general. Although if she's even thinking about pulling shit like this, she's not LTR material anyway and you haven't vetted her properly.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 07:27 PM
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You are considering LTR'ing a whore in the literal sense of the word. Cut all contact with this girl, punch yourself in the nutsack 5 times and read the sidebar 10 times. Hopefully in a couple months from now you will look back at this thread with shame and complete disgust for the person you are now.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 06:34 PM
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Okay, I misunderstood. Thought you weren't getting enough sex. If you are happy and getting laid, then who cares about variety man. Keep the LTR.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:37 PM
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If she's not giving you the sex you need, she's not a good LTR.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:59 PM
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Are you not fucking her regularly? If not, why, how are you happy and why are you giving her commitment?
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:58 PM
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100% this. I literally thought girls from my year were all virgins who would only have sex in a LTR of 1+ year lol. Oh, how stupid I was. Girls in your HS have sex bro. If it's not with you, it's with someone else.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:40 PM
4

Cuckoldry isn't a kink, it's a mental illness.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:35 PM
21

Exactly, you are socially retarded. Spoiler: if this happens to you all the time, you are the weirdo.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 09:01 PM
3

Are you high?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:45 PM
5

This relationship is dead.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:12 PM
1

You probably don't know what genuine desire is.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:11 PM
1

Do you have a link to that post? I remember reading it and it was excellent, but I can't find it anymore.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 02:52 PM
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Male and female sexuality isn't equal. Also, we don't dislike those women. We just think they aren't LTR material.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 06:40 PM
1

No. Grow up.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 03:56 PM
3

Yes. These are Red Pill basics. Read the sidebar and look up ASD.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:54 PM
6

but 3 weeks ago I met a girl It's only been 3 weeks and it sounds like you already have oneitis. Normally I would say she failed the vetting period and to just keep fucking her without giving her commitment, but it sounds like you are already way too attached for someone you have only known for a couple of weeks.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 11:27 PM
1

This doesn't make any god damn sense. Do the work because you don't want to be a loser anymore, fuck other people. And people will notice anyway when quarantine ends. You are just making excuses and being lazy.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 12:38 PM
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it has been 3 fucking weeks she’s a bit of a whore might escalate into an LTR Have you read anything of the sidebar? I'm gonna guess you haven't. Start there. Hints: Vet a girl properly (FOR A COUPLE OF MONTHS) before deciding she's LTR worthy. She needs to be the one to ask for commitment, not you. You already know she's a slut. Why would you LTR a slut? You already know she's a slut and she hasn't given you any in weeks. So you know she has no genuine desire for you. Why would you LTR someone …
/r/askTRP24/10/20 12:35 PM
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If you have time to notice her being "cold" because she is doing homework for a couple of hours, you aren't busy enough. She is the focus of your life right now. Which means she will break up with you if you stay like this. No girl wants this. Find your mission. Have your own stuff to do. And this is basic shit. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 12:29 PM
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I met this amazing girl a few weeks back Should I ltr Sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 04:41 PM
8

I've seen multiple posts like this recently. You're an idiot. This is classic ASD. You would have still had sex if she came over and you proceeded as usual (kino, escalate, smash). But instead all you guys immediately go autistic mode and tell her not to come over, like you haven't read anything of the sidebar. This is the best way to make her feel like she's only good for sex and break the plate. Text her whatever you want, then set up another date a couple days from now.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 11:59 AM
1

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 04:14 PM
10

Autism.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 07:39 AM
2

Why are you texting her for months? Set up a date. If she doesn't say yes, next. Is it really that difficult?
/r/askTRP18/10/20 11:51 AM
1

u/ThrowawayYAYAY2002
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:18 PM
14

This is such a wrong mindset.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 09:49 PM
1

Entrepreneurs in cars is solid.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 03:33 PM
12

Lifting will still help you as a player. Look at Adama Traore or Ronaldo. Having a decent amount of muscle mass will only improve you as a player. You should know that. Lifting doesn't mean you will end up as big as Arnold.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 12:33 PM
1

u/violetmonstermunch
/r/askTRP11/10/20 01:29 PM
13

Hamstering because of clear oneitis.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 11:42 AM
1

Yes, she hated him so much she was in a relationship with him. Sidebar. You haven't properly read it. Hint: actions, not words.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 10:04 PM
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You got it wrong. Watch what they do, not what they say. You haven't even been on a date with her and you are already giving up because of something she said. Sounds like you haven't properly read tje sidebar. Go on the date, have a good time and try to get phyiscal with her. Then evaluate the situation based on that. Not on her ASD before you've even been on the date. The same girl who says no sex will fuck your brains out after 1 hour of meeting you.
/r/askTRP27/09/20 12:21 PM
1

Anti-slut defense. Downvotes are because you haven't read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 10:25 AM
3

Get your own shit together and she will want to fuck you. If not, other women will.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 04:57 PM
1

U/Entertaxciting2
/r/askTRP20/09/20 12:32 AM
1

U/Imahumanb3ing
/r/askTRP19/09/20 01:40 PM
12

There's either something wrong with him or he's gay.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 02:18 PM
2

Google "The Red Pill sidebar PDF", "The Red Pill Handbook PDF" and "The Rational Male PDF". Download those. Read them carefully. And drop that bitch.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:46 PM
1

U/jacobgeorge94
/r/askTRP27/08/20 12:44 PM
8

That's not ASD. Two things: 1) She's a bitch. No normal person says that. 2) She's not interested at all and wants to let you down easy. Tell her "okay, hit me up when you are free". Then do not text her ever again until she does.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 04:07 PM
9

No. If you even have to ask this question, you aren't red pilled. Read the sidebar and the Rational Male 10 times.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 10:31 AM
20

Male and female sexuality isn't equal.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 02:06 PM
4

Sounds like you haven't read the sidebar. Hint: pre-selection. Hint: read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 10:03 PM
1

Read the sidebar. It's literally in there with a graph to illustrate.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 09:02 PM
1

I lift and eat well I meditate Cold showers Go to a good school Social life (large social circle and I constantly am approaching) Working on picking up copywriting as a skill and income source I try to be grateful and enjoy the little things in life although this is a work in progress You are already on the right path. AskTRP sidebar, main sub sidebar, Rational Male. Read all of these. You will find all the answers you asked for.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:26 AM
3

LDR's aren't real relationships. Read the sidebar, up your SMV, then find other women. Once a month is shit.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:13 AM
2

Ask her number within a couple of messages. Don't keep it on Tinder. Girls have thousands of guys on there. You will have less competition if you have her number. Dont ask "if she wants to meet". Actually propose a day and date idea. If she doesn't bite, try one more time a week or 2 later. If she still doesn't bite, hard next.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:16 AM
1

Read the sidebar on the main TRP sub and on this sub.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:01 AM
3

No one here believes you have read the sidebar. First put in the work before you start asking questions. But I will help you a little bit. Your whole post reaks of autism: You would've 100% gotten laid if you played your cards right. The girl came over to your place, had two bottles of wine and hopped into your bed. Too bad you literally did everything wrong. Don't use your words to escalate ("I want to see you naked"). Use your actions. Kino, kino, kino. You will never get laid if you don't lea…
/r/askTRP14/08/20 01:52 PM
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The first step is reading the sidebar. The second step is putting what you've read into practice. That's all there is to it.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 10:25 PM
1

You will be back crying on this sub after she fucked another guy. But you were on a break, so no big deal right?
/r/askTRP04/08/20 06:13 PM
1

'Comfortable' is a bs excuse. She doesn't want to have a threesome with you. Just so you know.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:34 PM
1

feels like any effort I make will be infinitesimally dwarfed by the amount of irreparable damage I've done to myself You are only 22. Most guys at 22 are still autistic and don't know what they want in life. I used to have potential That potential is still there if you actually put in the work. That's the key part. Putting in the work. I want to succeed, but I don't know how By taking it one step at a time. Go back to school or get a job (or both). Start making friends at college/work. Start sav…
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:14 PM
0

Basic fucking sidebar question. Judge her actions, not her words. Her words say plausible deniability and ASD. Her actions say fuck my brains out.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 03:50 PM
2

Read the sidebar. Read the material before asking questions.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 11:27 PM
70

Basic sidebar question. Hard next.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 09:31 PM
2

That response was terrible.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 08:25 PM
1

It's 100% oneitis. You have been on TRP for multiple years, and you still want to LTR a girl who: 1) Has not even been a plate for half a year 2) Hasn't even brought up the talk herself 3) Has clearly shown you she's not worth your commitment You've forgotten all about the sidebar. If she actually was just a plate you wouldn't act like this.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 08:23 PM
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No. Wouldn't ask. Proceed as you would with any other girl. Make her come over to your place and kino.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 09:34 PM
1

Move her out. The reasons she got this comfortable to be lazy are: 1) You are allowing it 2) You moved her in Read the Rational Male.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 09:43 PM
15

She said several times that we have no future Treat her as a plate. She is for sex. Nothing more.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:32 AM
26

she doesnt want to introduce us (ever) She's not your GF. Your GF would be dying to introduce you to her parents. Meaning she's a plate. Start acting like it and treating her like it.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 09:04 AM
8

No. It's masculine to take the lead.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 12:17 AM
1

Super disrespectful. he knows what he did is wrong, but he clearly values them (him) more than you. I would not accept that.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 11:23 AM
6

Nothing wrong with valueing monogamy. But you can't be monogamous with a girl you aren't even official with. It's stupid to give away your 'commitment' to a girl who didn't even ask for it. You are basically giving away your power as a man for free. That's why OP is in this situation.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:19 PM
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She should not be an LTR, but a plate max. She doesn't deserve commitment. You don't have to ghost her, though I would recommend it if you have feelings for her. But if you can keep yourself together, drop her to plate status.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:48 PM
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u/brianReddits
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:32 PM
1

Don't wait for days. Always strike when the iron is hot.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 03:33 PM
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GF is unsure what I mean when I say I want her to act more in line with traditional gender roles You are doing it backwards mate. You don't tell her this. You shouldn't have to tell her this. You vet a girl and if she meets your criteria, THEN you LTR her.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 10:13 PM
1

Don't talk all day every day. It shows her you have nothing better to do and will dry her pussy up. Set up a date and escalate.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 01:01 PM
2

There are 2 possibilities: 1) She still likes you now, that's why she is saying that. In a week or two she will stop giving a fuck about you. 2) She wants to keep you as an orbiter.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:48 PM
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She's probably not interested. Try to set up a date. If she doesn't agree, next. Only way to not waste your time.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 12:37 PM
1

You aren't going to get 1% of Ronaldo's physique if you don't lift. You probably don't realize that guy has been in the gym for years. No one said you have to get a bodybuilder physique. The muscle/lean combination is actually what a lot of guys go for. Guess what? The muscle part comes from hitting the gym. You don't have to. But your mindset is problematic. Instead of trying to improve your form and learning how to enjoy something that is very beneficial to you, you keep making excuses and qui…
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:55 AM
1

Did you fuck her or not?
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:42 AM
2

Don't send sexual texts. It will only trigger her ASD and she will flake. I can guarantee you that if you just went on that coffee date and escalated, you would've banged her.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 08:38 AM
6

You could try again 3 weeks from now, but I wouldn't even respond and next her. I'm 100% sure she only wants validation and isn't interested. No one is too busy for a small date, 3 weeks in a row.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 05:06 PM
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a bit weirded out by her statement - “how much I mean to you”? You spent an entire god damn week with her.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 11:34 PM
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I doubt she's gonna want more than 3 times a day even with all the dread in the world. It might improve for a very short period, afterwards it will shift back to 1-3 times a day. Which is more than plenty let's face it. She's giving him sex 20 times a week man. Sounds like OP doesn't have enough going on in his life if he can fuck 3 times a day every day and still wants to do it more often.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 10:57 PM
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I doubt it's because they are living together. 3 times a day, every day is a lot. If you want even more than that you are going to have to find a girl with an extremely high sex drive OP. Or have a couple of side chicks. I really doubt you can get more than 3 times a day out of this girl and nobody can really blame her.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:41 PM
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Depends what you see as a date. I think there was a post lately on here saying you should meet the girl for about 15 minutes, date 1. Oops, gotta go. Then another day you do 30 minutes or an hour or so, that's date 2. It increases the number of dates you had with a girl rapidly (meaning sex is gonna happen faster) and you don't invest a lot of time in a girl you don't know is gonna put out yet. This is more related to the reply of u/FirstName_LastName4
/r/askTRP16/07/20 09:30 PM
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The problem is you see sex as a service, like buying bread. Now let me say I have nothing against paying for sex. You are free to do that if you want. Heck, I'd do it sometimes. It's fine. However, it's not right to compare a girl who has sex because of the money, to a girl who has sex with you out of genuine desire. And yes I know you still "pay" in some sort of way (time, drinks, whatever). But paid (with money) doesn't come close to genuine desire.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 04:01 PM
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This is one of the most retarded things I have ever read.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/20 10:33 AM
3

With that in mind, should Monk Mode be the primary focus of the red pill? No, of course not. The focus of TRP is working hard to get the life you've always wanted to live and having sexual abundance. Monk mode is a means to that end. It should only be the primary focus for a period of time in which you really need it. That's all.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 10:03 PM
1

She said she was actually on holiday with her hometown friends and would be back in 1 more week, and would be free after that. Ask her out.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 09:59 PM
1

arent we a bit hypocrites for shaming women for leaving us when they find shit like that while we support the exact same behaviour from men? Except we don't shame women. We point out that the Disney BP narrative that women want a sensitive man who talks about his emotions and how he's feeling is wrong. We point out that women don't want that.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:54 PM
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slept once with each after getting blacked out drunk that resulted to her leaving them You actually believe this? Then comes one night where she goes to a party gets raped and few weeks later tries to commit suicide Not LTR material. her bc 4 and her total amount of actual sex is like 5 or 6 max Again, 4 guys but she only had sex 5 times? How do you believe this? she said I’m too good for her and she doesn’t deserve me Believe her. You can do way better if you actually want to.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 06:37 PM
4

Entrepreneurs in cars is very solid.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:58 PM
3

Have you read anything of the sidebar? This is a classic shit test and ASD. She's still coming over and if you kino you will 100% fuck. Then she can tell herself "it just happened".
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:01 PM
1

Venting in itself isn't necessarily wrong. Although I wouldn't do it too often, you don't want to be seen as a Debby Downer and I can see the desperation from just this one post. It's what you vent about. You vent about being on a long dry spell, not being able to get girls. And last but not least "I'll never get laid again". I get it. You haven't had sex in a while and that's frustrating. But saying these things is very unattractive. It signals extremely low value. Girls will not want to have s…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/20 10:12 PM
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Those aren't even Red Pill ideas. And no wonder your friends say you are a creep. You are basically admitting you are unwanted by every woman out there. You are crying about how desperate you are and how no one wants you. They are 100% right. If you would say things like that to strangers they would think "who the fuck is this creep?". Women aren't going to want you with the mindset you have. And your mindset is definitely not even close to RP. You wouldn't even be discussing things like that wi…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/20 10:43 AM
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Actually read TRP material. You would not be here crying about this one girl if you had actually read anything of the sidebar.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/20 10:42 PM
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Everyone knows you have read nothing of the sidebar. You already got a temporary ban last time and was told to read it. Three weeks later and you have still read nothing. Read the god damn sidebar and stop orbiting this slut. Also, regarding your post on exredpill: she didn't reject you because of TRP. She rejected you because you are weak beta faggot who doesn't even KNOW anything about the red pill. Actually read TRP material first before you shoot it down.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:38 PM
4

She's not LTR material. Even if she was, you can never know that after only 1.5 months of dating. Vetting girls is an extremely important thing and you haven't been able to do that properly because of the short time frame. Or rather I'd say you have and she failed. She's not LTR material. I don't believe you have read the sidebar properly. Also, why the need to give her your commitment? Just keep her as a plate until it breaks.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 02:22 PM
18

Do it, faggot.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:56 PM
29

So I've read your post history and there are multiple huge issues there. She told you she only wanted to be friends. Multiple times. Yet you took her back every single time. You lied to yourself when you said you did it for the sex. Well, maybe you didn't lie. You actually took her back because of the sex. But that's the issue right there. You took back a chick who rejected you dozens of times because of sex. Scarcity mentality ruined you. People told you to next back then. You didn't listen, be…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 11:29 PM
1

I don't think you understood the book if that's what you got from it.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:35 PM
3

There are 4 must reads if you ask me. The Red Pill Handbook The Red Pill Sidebar (main sub) AskTRP Sidebar The Rational Male The rest is optional. Another good one I recommend is The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 09:34 PM
7

It doesn't sound like you've forgotten how to have fun. It just sounds like you are a pussy who doesn't have the balls to escalate.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 02:27 PM
1

People probably thought it was unrelated to OP's post and I was just mentioning some random RP stuff. I honestly feel bad for OP. You just know he's some 18 year old extremely BP nice guy.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 02:25 PM
-1

LDR's aren't real relationships. She's not a plate if you haven't fucked her at least twice. She's not your GF if you don't have sex. Why are you staying with someone who you've never met but has already cheated on you? You are literally doing EVERYTHING wrong. Let this girl go and read all RP material you can access. Read the sidebar, multiple times. Read the Handbook. Read the Rational Male. You really need it more than oxygen. Edit: anyone downvoting this needs to read OP's post history. He w…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 09:48 PM
20

You should be happy. You know the truth. You know most women are low value and not worth being in an LTR with. If you were BP you would get in a LTR with a low value girl because "love" and save a hoe mentality. But you are RP. You know the importance of vetting women, so you only date and LTR high value women. You can bang low value girls, but your commitment isn't for them. And that's a good thing. You should actually be grateful and happy, but here you are whining about how it's sad to know t…
/r/askTRP02/07/20 10:46 PM
4

She's saying it like 3 months is a lot. 3 months is nothing mate. Especially during these corona times, wtf is 3 months? Solipsism of girls is ridiculous I swear. It's ASD. She just didn't want to fuck on the first meeting. Next time you will get laid 100%. She's a slut.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 09:50 PM
3

If it works, it works. But you grow on rest days. Don't forget that.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 05:46 PM
4

and cheat with 8’a and 9’s? If you can't even escalate while watching a movie in bed with a girl, what makes you think you can fuck 8's and 9's so easily? Work on yourself and actually fuck girls before asking these questions.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 05:44 PM
1

Doesn't literally have to be behind a dumpster, but you will have to accept it's either doing stuff in public or nothing at all.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 08:35 PM
1

Not LTR material. Drop or keep as FWB max.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:19 AM
1

Strike when the iron is hot. Send a message and try to number close/set up a date fast.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:18 AM
1

Do you live together? And how often do you have sex vs how often do you actually want it?
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:17 AM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:10 AM
6

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7: "It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was."
/r/askTRP29/06/20 12:09 AM
1

Sidebar TRP Handbook The Rational Male These 3 are must reads.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:28 PM
13

Smoking is low value behavior.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 10:27 PM
2

That's simply not true. Women are literally on this planet to bear children. If you aren't getting sex, she's not your girlfriend. Find a girl that actually wants to have sex with you.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 09:14 PM
8

Stop obsessing over a girl you haven't even fucked yet.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 08:46 PM
3

Not all girls text 24/7. Most do, but there are always exceptions. If she still agrees to dates and you smash, then why are you even complaining?
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:10 PM
25

When I don’t see them for a a while I start to have “feelings” for them It's called being horny. Then we smash and my “feelings” are gone It's called post nut clarity. What the fuck is wrong with me. You are thinking with your dick.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:07 PM
1

It sounds like you haven't read anything of the sidebar or handbook. Otherwise you would not be asking this. 1) Read the sidebar and handbook before asking these questions. 2) Don't argue with women. 3) Your mom and sister are lying
/r/askTRP26/06/20 10:49 PM
2

You are only 18. That's super young. You haven't even lived anything yet. Most guys your age are still virgins. There will be lots of other opportunities mate. The thing is to from now on realize that and put in the work. Turn off the regret and live in the present.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 09:44 PM
41

She was probably cheating and had LMR.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 06:24 PM
5

Read the god damn sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:53 PM
3

Not LTR material. Work on yourself, not the relationship. Then find a proper girl.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:49 PM
2

My LTR is in monthly contact with her ex You haven't read the sidebar, have you? She's not LTR material if she does this. Don't give away your commitment so easily. I could've stopped reading here and just said read the sidebar. with her ex who turned out to be gay. Sure. At the same time my LTR is approached by her second ex who texted her couple days ago to meetup for a coffee as they're now in the same city She's not LTR material. I'm in different city due to COVID and long distance relations…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 05:46 PM
2

Why are you texting and Facetiming so much with a girl you haven't even met, let alone had sex with? It shows you have way too much free time and nothing important going on in your life. Next time, try to set up real life dates earlier. You aren't looking for phone buddies. No one got ever laid over text. If anything, too much texting can only make her lose attraction. Which clearly happened here. What you do now is text her a day and time to do something. If she agrees, she's still interested i…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:06 PM
3

You can find your purpose while you don't live like a hermit.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 10:39 PM
1

She might be autistic. Who cares. She said no, so forget about her.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:08 PM
7

Read the Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. You can download a free PDF if you Google it.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 03:07 PM
2

Nope. You choose to live like this. You choose to think about this every day. For absolutely no reason. There's 0 need for a "last conversation". You apologised already. She already moved on. Why are you still hanging in the past? Closure is a myth. You are deliberately sabotaging yourself and crying over her for absolutely no reason. You are just doing this to make excuses and be a victim. She's not a unicorn. While you are here crying over her on Reddit, she is out there fucking other guys. Sh…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 02:40 PM
1

The issue is you are still hoping that one day you will get her back. You are only improving yourself to win her back. That's the wrong mindset and will only fuck you up. She's not special. There are billions of women on this planet. The only reason you think she is special is because you have memories with her. That's all there is to it. You need to improve for you. You need to completely forget about her. Completely forget about getting back together. Improve, and fuck other girls. Don't impro…
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:35 PM
1

Oneitis and scarcity mentality. There's no such thing as a soulmate. Go no contact and fuck other girls.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 08:55 AM
1

Scarcity mentality. Fuck other girls and you won't give a shit about her anymore.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 06:55 PM
2

So you are probably new to the sub. This is a basic FAQ/sidebar question. You are looking for a shortcut. There is no shortcut. You have to put in the work to become a high value man that women want to have sex with. Read the sidebar and read TRP Handbook. Everything you need to know is in there.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 12:41 PM
5

She says she's busy this week. Okay, can happen. Try to set up a date later again (next week). If she agrees, it's cool. If she doesn't and doesn't offer to reschedule, (soft) next.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 12:36 PM
1

Solipsism. They find it attractive if you have sex with other women (preselection), so they think that talking about how they had sex with other guys makes them attractive as well. Not realizing that men and women aren't the same and it's a turn off for most guys. If you like talking about it with her, do it. If not, tell her you don't need to hear about her adventures with other guys.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 12:33 PM
5

Sidebar The Rational Male TRP Handbook.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:20 AM
4

If you want to keep smashing: deflect, tell her you've been busy, set up a date.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 11:08 PM
2

4 dates in 4 months and you already have oneitis. You are going to screw this up.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 08:08 PM
2

She said "haha sounds like a plan, [phone number]" I waited 3 days to text her Why would you wait 3 days? That's such an outdated, dumb move. STRIKE WHEN THE IRON IS HOT.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:35 PM
0

Wrong sub. Post it on the main sub if you think it's important to share.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 09:03 PM
1

You should not have mentioned the Red Pill. She might have agreed then. But by specifically mentioning the Red Pill she wil automatically disagree and say it's not true. Don't talk about TRP from now on. With anyone.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:58 PM
8

Sidebar. Block her and don't look back.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 07:10 AM
1

Read the sidebar. No one on this sub has ever said that. Not in 2016 and not now. If you see comments like that, report them.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 09:06 PM
1

ASD and LMR. Some flirty comments are fine, but don't go full on sexual texting before even meeting them. Escalate on the date.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 03:01 PM
2

She's not a plate if you haven't fucked her at least twice. You haven't even met up with her. Don't contact her until she reaches out. When she does, don't mention sex. Just set up a date and escalate in person.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 02:26 PM
9

A quality girl should not even want to hang out 1 on 1 with another guy. If she does, she's not LTR material to me.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 10:40 PM
11

The issue is you are still listening to her words bro. Her words about sex do not matter at all. I mean you were the one who had the first date with her. You were the one telling us she's a total slut who fucked you on the first date. Is that the behavior of a girl who "just wants to talk" on the second date? I can 99% guarantee you that if you have a second date with her to "just talk", you will fuck her if you play your cards right. Quite easily even. Just talk for a bit, kino and escalate and…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:41 PM
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Read the sidebar you doofus. 1) Shit test. 2) ASD 3) Plausible deniability 4) Actions, not words You haven't heard of any of these? You fucked up big time. It was a shit test and you failed. You should have said something like "who said anything about sex?" Or "I'm not that easy". Then when you hung out you could've done some kino and she would 99% have had sex with you. You gotta give the girl some plausible deniability and pass her ASD. You listen to her actions, not her words. Her words say y…
/r/askTRP09/06/20 06:34 PM
2

Her mind: ASD. Her nature: I like this.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:15 PM
4

she was busy I told her "I'm gonna masturbate, help me "
/r/askTRP09/06/20 10:21 AM
1

Wrong sub mate.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 10:06 AM
6

You are autistic and overthinking stuff Ask her out regardless.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:51 PM
1

Did you actually tell her "lets meet up for a hook up?" If so, sidebar: plausible deniability and ASD.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 02:32 PM
1

The problem with "trust but verify" in this case is that you verified that she's a low value whore who is going to cheat on you, but still won"t take any action. You literally confirmed your gut feeling and still won't do anything. See you in 3 months with a "my GF cheated on me, can I salvage this?" post.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 09:31 AM
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Try again one more time. If she doesn't put out, next.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 10:07 AM
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I don't believe in platonic friendships between men and women. That guy wants to fuck her. If that makes me insecure, that's fine to me. My LTR should not even want to talk to other guys like that. And she's definitely an attention whore if she starts talking to a guy after you stop giving her as much attention.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 09:37 AM
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Not giving her attention didn't fuck you over. Giving away your commitment without properly vetting a low value attention whore fucked you over.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 08:09 AM
5

Have you actually read the sidebar? It really doesn't sound like you have. I say this for 2 big reasons: 1) You are shitting where you eat. Don't shit where you eat. Just don't, unless you literally do not care about the job or have another job lined up. And even then. It's not worth it. 2) Why would you plan a scuba diving activity for weeks later? And why does she have to meet your friends? Just go for drinks or a walk or whatever this week. Kino, logistics, escalate. That's it. No need to mak…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:21 PM
1

1 Sidebar 2 Handbook 3 Rational Male In that order.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:52 PM
5

I do. I don't see why it's so weird. It's just some idea people have, based on nothing. You stfu and enjoy the movie anyway, so it's actually one of the best things to do alone if you think about it. Also, it was just an example based on the post.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:10 PM
3

Read the sidebar and handbook.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 09:06 PM
2

What I mean is, I don't have friends to infroduce me to new women. I'm not good looking enough to make it work for online dating, and I'm not fun or outgoing enough for clubbing. I am also apparently a little intimidating, so even bars don't seem to play to my strengths. Sounds like you have other issues you need to work on first. Get new friends, get some quality hobby's, lift and improve your looks, work on becoming more social and improve your personality. Why the hell would women want to fuc…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:27 PM
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We have been talking before and I have no idea why she was suprised. You have been on this sub for at least 5 months as far as I can see, but haven't learned a thing. Read the sidebar. It will change your life. Hint: plausible deniability.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:22 PM
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There is a 100% chance you have not read the sidebar. SHE asks for exclusivity. That's the woman's job. Not yours. Your job is to have a good time with her and fuck her brains out. Read the sidebar and handbook.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:20 PM
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This sort of question has been asked a lot. 1) If you can still do a date every time she reschedules, you aren't busy enough 2) you should do things you enjoy, regardless if she is coming along or not. Say you are going to the movies on Thursday. Tell her 'I'm going to the movies on Thursday at X'. If she tells you she can't, you still go because it's something you enjoy and wanted to do anyway.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:17 PM
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So then why did you make out with her? And why are you asking us if you can score with her? You are either a troll or autistic/retarded.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 04:38 PM
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If you are new, you should start off by reading 3 things: The sidebar. Go on the main TRP sub. In the sidebar on the right are the basics of TRP. The same applies for this sub. Sidebar. The Handbook. Google 'The Red Pill Handbook 2nd edition' and download it. The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. Again, you can easily Google and download this. These are 3 essential reads for beginners and teach you more than asking questions here.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 08:49 PM
2

No, it's not necessarily true. Read up on the light switch effect. It's in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 04:00 PM
1

All talk but no action. Just cause you matched doesn't mean she will fuck you. Go for it already.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 11:09 AM
1

Read the god damn sidebar. You have NOT read it properly if you are still 1) arguing with women 2) are talking about TRP with others. What are rule nr1 and 2 of fight club?
/r/askTRP28/05/20 09:17 AM
1

This is a basic RP question and has been answered in the sidebar. You need to find your mission and focus on that. Something that gives you purpose. Also, there's nothing wrong with wanting to bang a lot. It's your nature. Embrace it.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:18 PM
1

If you have to ask this about a girl you have never even met, let alone had sex with, you are eventually going to lose this one anyway. Your post reeks of BP and scarcity mentality. You would not be asking this if you had 3 other plates lined up. You know what you should do during those 3 weeks? Trying to get with other women.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:16 PM
2

Find new girls to have sex with. Don't initiate contact. If this one comes back, you set up a date and smash. If not, no worries. Next.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 10:01 PM
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I've been in your spot man. I've even been in her spot. She will never confront or give up her family for you. It's best to let this one go fast.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 09:59 PM
1

I recommend you start out with the sidebar. Then move on to the Red Pill Handbook and the Rational Male.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 04:19 PM
1

Third time and still no mention of reading the sidebar. You haven't and we know it. You would not be giving out this bad advice if you had. Actions count, not words. You would know that if you had actually fucked 50 women. You would also not jump immediately to rape like a BP guy.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 03:44 PM
1

You are probably completely new to the sub and you have not read the sidebar. I'd recommend you read it fully before you start giving out advice.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 03:31 PM
2

This guy has read the sidebar. Listen to this guy. Disregard her words. Meet up and try to escalate.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:15 AM
3

If you want to get laid, don't listen to this guy. He probably hasn't read the sidebar and you haven't either. Otherwise you would not be asking this question. Why do I say that? Multiple reasons: Texting is mostly for logistics. No one ever got laid over text. Yes, keep things hot and text with her some. But you are looking for someone to meet up and have sex with. You are not looking for a texting buddy. Plausible deniability. You need to make her not feel like a slut and give her some plausib…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 11:14 AM
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The solution is quite simple honestly. You move on by being busy with your work, hobby's and other girls. What do you think will happen if you don't move on, don't try anything with other girls and just hide in your room? Of course you will never get over her like that, because you aren't actually TRYING TO MOVE ON. Sure, of course it takes time. But don't be a faggot and say 'oneitis so I can't bang this other 10/10 now'. You move on by going through with it and banging the other girl. And when…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:09 PM
2

Read Uncle Vasya's guide to threesomes. It's in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:43 PM
2

I mean it's quite normal for her to ask that? Because why would you offer it. But she sounds down to hang out with you so be chill. There's no problem. Just give her a bit more details (place and time).
/r/askTRP26/05/20 08:41 PM
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You are doing life wrong. I really don't get how a 33 year old can fall this hard for a 19 year old. It's pathetic honestly. Oh wait I do. It's the sex. Find another hot girl to have good sex with and you will fall for her too.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 07:06 PM
1

There's no such thing as building value over text. That only works during actual meet ups. Now I don't agree that texting is for logistics only, because that rarely works in this day and age. But you shouldn't text her a lot and should always try to schedule a date. No one gets laid over text. 24 hours is extremely long btw. But you do you.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 12:36 PM
2

Shoulders 1.6 times bigger than your waist is the perfect ratio. So you don't have to be huge like Arnold. Getting a V-shape is what makes a guy attractive.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 12:40 PM
1

What do you mean 'plate material'? If you thinks she's fuckable, she's plate material. Other question: read the sidebar and handbook.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:36 PM
4

Read the sidebar. There's literally a post in there called "Getting over a breakup". Read the Red Pill Handbook and the Rational Male as well. You wouldn't ask this question if you had read those.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 08:09 PM
1

Not a question. And this reeks of oneitis. Sad.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:26 PM
5

5 years and you still don't know this sub is for questions lmao.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 02:24 PM
0

What?
/r/askTRP21/05/20 12:02 AM
2

He can have his boundaries man. I think its completely inappropriate and unfeminine to talk about it as well. That being said OP, I think it's time to let this girl go.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 10:43 PM
2

I was careful to wrap it up when I was with her, until my dick brain got the better of me and I felt the need to nut in her butt. If this is all you did (no vaginal unsafe sex), then I really doubt it's yours. Some other dude probably got this slut pregnant. Get a paternity test. Don't sign anything.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 06:07 PM
4

You wouldn't care if you had 2 other plates.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 06:03 PM
1

Don't be buthurt because you asked a dumb basic question and therefore got basic advice.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 07:49 AM
1

I'd say it is, yes. Because 90% of the time people haven't actually read the sidebar or handbook. And the other 10% are cases containing oneitis, which definitely requires re-reading the sidebar. Like in your case. There's a whole chapter in the sidebar called "how to utilize push-pull". Yet you are here asking us about your oneitis touching your Willy and push-pull like there aren't 3 god damn books about it in the sidebar. Just look at your question. "I’m worried if she finds out that I actual…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:16 AM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:06 AM
10

Except they almost always are "gay".
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:56 AM
3

String her along for sex. Don't LTR her again.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 11:10 PM
4

With the first girl, I can understand your frustrations. It's hard to feel your girl pulling away when you aren't on top of your game. But you did good by not giving into her need to 'talk'. The second girl is completely your own fault though and you need to accept responsibility for that. Why would you tell her 'we don't need to text, I'm too busy for you' basically? That's not alpha or cool. Of course she's gonna leave you if you do that. You gotta be covert about those type of things. And com…
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:38 PM
2

1) It's obvious you haven't read the sidebar or handbook. It's her job to pursue a relationship and ask for exclusivity. Basic RP knowledge. 2) It's obvious you haven't read the rules. Questions go on askTRP. Not here.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 09:56 AM
6

No.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:56 AM
2

You are doing TRP wrong. Fuck, you are doing life wrong. I'm pretty sure you have read NOTHING of the sidebar, handbook, or the Rational Male. Otherwise you would not be asking these pathetic questions. She cheated. That alone is reason to dump her, block her and never talk to her again. Yet you kept having sex with her. Yet you texted her first. Yet you are here asking us what to do if she comes back. So she hasn't even come back yet and you are already here asking us questions about the possib…
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:05 AM
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Why? You should be happy she will become someone else's problem. She isn't LTR material. The sooner you get out the better. But I'm gonna guess the only reason you aren't leaving is sex. Scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 07:36 AM
18

Sounds like you are the girl in the relationship. Instead of doing what society says (aka nothing) you should try to be a man.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:21 PM
7

Have you even read the sidebar? Actions, not words.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:17 PM
11

Why did you LTR her in the first place? Because you're a weak pathetic cunt. Why can't you break up with her now? Why 'the end of the month'? Because you're a weak pathetic cunt and you aren't going to do it. The answer to all your problems is grow a pair you weak pathetic cunt. It's as simple as that. There's nothing more we can tell you.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:16 PM
2

Actually put in the work. Read the sidebar, read the handbook, read the rational male. Those are the basics. Everything comes after that.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 09:06 PM
3

Sidebar: if you are on a pc you will see it immediately. It's the posts on the right side of the screen on TRP and askTRP subs, containing top posts with RP knowledge. If you are on your phone, press the about section on the top to access the sidebar. You can also google 'red pill sidebar pdf download'. Handbook: google 'Red Pill Handbook 2nd edition PDF'. It's the 'manual' on the red pill. Rational Male: book written by Rollo Tomassi. He is one of the biggest and famous RP guys out there. Again…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 09:00 PM
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The problem is most guys over on askTRP haven't actually read the sidebar (or Handbook/Rational Male). It's becoming more and more like the relationship advice subreddit every day.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 05:13 PM
8

?? You thought some random from Tinder was "the one" and started Facetiming with her every day even though you had RP knowledge. And then think she's a complete whore and not worth an LTR because she used a sex toy with another dude? What am I even reading? This doesn't make any sense. You're taking BP and RP to the extreme mate. Just because you click with some random, that doesn't make her the one. (Also there is no "one", you should know this if you actually read RP material). That's you taki…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/20 09:29 AM
1

1) LDR 2) With a girl younger than 20 You're doing life wrong champ.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 11:26 PM
3

This is an obvious troll. He posted a picture of another dude claiming it's him and in another post he claimed he was 15. Just kill yourself already you pathetic troll.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 01:57 PM
2

Read the fucking sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 10:54 AM
9

You know the god damn answer. You should get a ban for even asking this.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:28 PM
1

New girl.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 11:51 AM
2

I know people have mixed opinions on that. On the one hand, you put the ball in her park and if she hits you up you know you are in. But my personal opinion is don't do that. It puts the power in her hands so to speak. I would ask her out one more time like a week later and if she says no again without a reschedule, then hard next. But you could do that if you think it's a better option. Like I said people have mixed opinions on that.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 10:01 AM
3

Perfect opportunity to follow the system straight like an arrow and this time make no fucking mistakes. I check the whatsapp chat once in a while, she is never online. I start to think that there is something wrong with whatsapp no way she will flake Doesn't sound like you are "following the system" at all. This is probably the first girl you started texting after your "change" and when she doesn't answer you start stalking her on Whatsapp. You are still outcome dependent, because you don't have…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 12:04 AM
1

This. If she isn't giving you sex (because of quarantine or otherwise), what else is she doing to keep your interest? You are doing things completely wrong and are living in her frame. SHE should be worried about losing you. Not the other way around.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 11:54 PM
5

You are overthinking this.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:33 PM
1

Two obvious reasons: 1) It's a shit test, she's playing games and fucking with you. And it's clearly working. 2) She finds it attractive when you have multiple options. Preselection. She likes it when multiple other women want to fuck you. And because women are solipsistic, she therefore thinks men will find it attractive as well. Not realising it will turn men off. I feel like I have to reply this to every post on this sub, but this is basic RP knowledge. Read the sidebar, the Red Pill handbook…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 10:31 PM
1

I wouldn't be surprised if you get a temporary ban. This is so dumb and basic. Have you even read anything of the sidebar or handbook?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 11:04 AM
3

Have you read anything of the sidebar, or the Red Pill Handbook, or the Rational Male? Because I'm pretty sure you haven't read any of those. Those are basics. Start with those.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 09:43 PM
7

Why not get off quickly the first round, and then last long the second round (maybe some oral/fingering in between)? That way you can satisfy her too. That's how I do it when I can't last long the first round.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 08:58 PM
1

Of course ethnicity is a big factor. The most succesful is the white male model type of guy. The reason is, every thirsty dude is going to like 99% of the girls on Tinder. There's two reasons for that. Either the guy is lower value and will like everything, or a guy is higher value (8+) but will still like uglier/fatter girls, just to pump and dump. Therefore every girl that is like a 3 thinks she can score an 8+ dude. Women can be as selective as they want, because everything is a match for the…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 03:14 PM
3

I made my account 48 hours ago and still no matches. I'm top 5% in looks I have some bad news for you dude. Either your pictures are complete shit, or you aren't as good looking as you think you are.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:37 PM
6

Read the Handbook and The Rational Male. There's plenty on becoming alpha and killing the beta in both of those.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 11:01 AM
2

Seeing me with my mother wasn’t the manliest thing ever as I am a 22 year old bearded man with a bit of belly fat who always does “masculine” shit like weightlifting, cars and so on.I’m still feeling cringy. Never be ashamed of being seen with your mother. I was like that too back in the day and it's one of the things I regret the most in life. I later realised that no one actually cares about it. You are overthinking it. She is your mother.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:30 PM
14

New girl
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:23 PM
2

You are hamstering and making excuses for her because you have clear oneitis. Stop defending her when she is treating you like shit for the dumbest reasons. You didn't tell her you were going to be busy for 2 hours. Really, that's a reason to let a girl treat you like shit? Are you and her 10 years old? What kind of dumb shit is this? And you call it complex, lol. Get some self respect man. What's wrong with you? Are you even listening to yourself?
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:20 PM
1

Ltr has got me wondering if I should Break up with her or not But in the last few weeks things have been getting so bad. I've been with her for [ONLY] 6 months now. And also we havent even sexted or anything for the past two weeks Well, she actually used to act this way before and we broke up and then we got back together the next day and we had so many break ups actually And this shit is turning me off because the way she's been treating me lately is childish and stupid Or She's a wife material…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:17 PM
2

Any girl on a dating app will have 1000+ matches and 100+ messages. Even the most ugly, disgusting women you can think of. There are literally no exceptions. Try it out for yourself. Also, dread doesn't work if she is not invested in you in the slightest. She has to have a little bit of investment/emotions for you. Otherwise dread is useless. With chicks on Tinder, the best thing you can do is striking while the iron is hot. After that, your chances of pulling are way lower.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:11 PM
2

Not red flags, but it does mean she is an unintelligent, low value girl. Don't know why it matters though. You are just talking to her. Come back when you have been fucking her for 6+ months and she is the one pushing for commitment. Then we can talk about red flags.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:07 PM
2

I hope so. But it does honestly sound more like a problem of not kicking her out.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:43 AM
2

What ended Up happening is we were laying in bed, ordering pizza, drinking beer and watching Rick and Morty the whole day. It doesn't sound like you had sex? Did you actually have more sex, or did you just have trouble kicking her out?
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:16 AM
1

No one is telling you to fake anything. Also I never said to not ask for nudes. You can ask for them if you've build some tension up. I'm actually telling him to man up and go for it. Don't know what's autistic about this.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 10:19 AM
3

You shouldn't randomly ask her for a nude picture or something like that. But if you want to sext with her, go for it. Gradually build it up. You have the responsibility to initiate, build it up and push it further. If she stops you when you push it further, that's when you actually have a 'problem'. Honestly, it sounds like she's down and does want to sext with you. It's just you not doing anything that stops her.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 09:38 PM
7

But this week she didn't initiate and I don't push it much to not look needy You are the man. It's your job to initiate. Don't wait for a girl to read your mind and give you what you want. Initiate and go for it. When I implicitely sexualize the convo, she goes on about how she misses me and my cock. But the convo doesn't go further than that. Push it further. Why wait for her? Tell her what you want to do to her and go further.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 09:30 PM
2

Specifically, when her and I were just dating casually (FWB)
/r/askTRP28/04/20 04:29 PM
5

It's hard to tell because we don't have a lot of details. A couple of things I've noticed which tell us you've been weak for a long time now: You moved in with her after only a year. Don't do that. She's friends with party people. If I understand correctly, she wanted to do drugs according to your post history? That alone tells you she's not LTR material. Proper women don't do that. She texts other guys. An LTR should not even WANT to do that, let alone actually do it. It's inappropriate in a re…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:58 PM
2

It's not about jealousy. When he checked his girl's phone, it was already way too late anyway. Checking her phone is about knowing if something funny is going on so you can act accordingly (demoting, hard nexting, whatever). I'm also not saying to do it daily or whatever. Just occasionally to see if she's not doing things you don't want her to do. Trust, but verify.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:50 PM
3

There's nothing wrong with checking your girl's phone. Especially when you know some bullshit is going on. Don't ever let someone tell you otherwise. You need to let her go. She's a cheating and lying whore. Don't beg for her to stay. Interact with her minimally until she fucks off. Go monk mode. For it to come this far and for you to write in such a blue pill way means you either 1) have never even read the sidebar/handbook, or 2) you have strayed far off the right path. Read the sidebar and ha…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:26 PM
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Your goal shouldn't be to get an LTR. It also isn't the man's job to bring up 'the talk' about exclusivity. You date/fuck plates, have fun and work on your mission. In the meanwhile you vet your plates and see if they are worthy of being more than just a plate. And if after a couple of months you see that she is worthy of more and SHE brings up the talk, then give it a go if you want. There's 0 need to stress or 'chicken out' about this.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:27 PM
12

Same. How the fuck are we going to give advice if you are vague as fuck. If you want generic advice based on vague information, read the sidebar and handbook. Most basic things are covered there, including this.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 11:37 PM
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Because they pedestalize pussy and think women are special/more valuable/better than them.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 11:09 PM
1

People in the comment section are kinda overreacting. Sure, it could be another guy and she's fucking someone else. But you said it yourself. You didn't see each other for 2 whole months. It's quite normal that her feelings are going to be way less when you dont see each other for that long. Regardless. You need to pull back and not give her any attention. If there even if is any chance of salvaging this, it needs to be because she comes back to you. Not because you chase after her. And even the…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 11:48 PM
2

Read the fucking sidebar and handbook.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 05:15 PM
1

You need to snap out of this fantasy. That's one of the traits of a BP man. A BP man doesn't live in the real world but fantasizes about dumb shit that's never actually going to happen. People rarely respond in the manner you fantasize about. Smash if you want, but please don't actually LTR her.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 10:40 PM
19

She's not a plate if you haven't fucked her at least twice.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 08:38 PM
8

No one says the end goal doesn't matter or you shouldn't do things for the end goal. Of course it matters. It's the whole reason you do things. The point is that if you only want the end goal and dont (to a certain degree) enjoy putting in the work to achieve that end goal, you will most likely stop putting in effort and fail. If your end goal is to become rich, you will more likely succeed if you pick a job you enjoy at least a little bit than if you completely hate the job you picked. If your …
/r/askTRP13/02/20 07:45 PM
1

No. Of course looks do matter a lot, but it's not the only important thing. Yes, I'd say extremely unattractive people (with deformities) won't attract women, but that's a really, really small percentage of people. Other than that exception, the black pill is not true. There's more to getting girls than just looks. You will just have to work harder and try to improve yourself more. Also, a lot of these "black pilled" people aren't even that ugly. They just have a loser/victim attitude and aren't…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 01:11 PM
9

The worst thing is he hasn't even known her for a month and thinks she's special after a week of screening her for red flags. The poor simp. He will be back with his balls and heart in his hands telling us we were right.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:18 AM
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If it was the other way around, she would dump you and not look back for even a second. That's how cold women are when they want to get rid of you. Now you are being a complete fool for having a LDR (you give up your commitment and attention but don't get sex in return) and don't even have the balls to end it because she's gonna cry? Bro let me tell you this. She will be over you in no time. I know because I've been in your position. It wasn't a LDR but I also thought I didn't want to break up w…
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:14 AM
1

Did you even read the sidebar? Judge her actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 12:26 AM
1

I have. Solid read. Would recommend it.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 01:03 PM
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The first step to not caring about what other people think, is realizing that people really don't care about you. At all. The only reason you think they do is because you are the centre of your own life and think that people look at you the same way as you do towards yourself. They don't. Do you care about what other people do? Maybe for a split second, then you start thinking about your own life again. That's how people work. You are not a special snowflake. Why would people care about how you …
/r/askTRP10/01/20 12:55 PM
2

Your plan is fine. It sounds like she's down, so I'd give her one more chance. But still judge her actions and not her words.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 11:18 AM
1

If you aren't getting sex, she doesn't deserve commitment. Basic TRP rule. Did you read the sidebar of this sub and the main TRP sub? Serious question, if not start there.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 09:47 AM
1

How many times a week do you actually have sex with her and how many times a week do you want it? If you want sex and she doesn't, does she still give you a bj or hj? These questions are important.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:23 PM
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If you aren't fucking her, she's not a plate. Okay so you're up to it then? She doesn't answer for almost 5 minutes so I send another message saying to forget about. Wtf is this shit? You couldn't wait 5 minutes for a response before going all passive agresive beta?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 10:40 AM
1

People are mad fucking haters. Looks like I'm right lol.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 01:46 PM
16

It's you projecting your own issues. 99% of people are indifferent and don't give a shit about you. You aren't special. 99% of people isn't "against you". They simply don't give a fuck about you, which isn't the same as being against you. The other 0.01% of people is either with you (LTR, or she should be anyway) or against you (someone who doesn't like you). That's it.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 09:38 PM
10

Judging by your post history, this is the same girl that has extreme anger and jealousy issues, has NPD, you have broken up with before, has threatened to end your career and has admitted to cheating on you. You don't deserve any advice on this sub. You are a weak spineless beta who won't do jack shit anyway. You will stay with that slut until she is completely done with you and then cry and beg to get her back. You will never take the right course of action and ghost her fucking ass. Because yo…
/r/askTRP23/12/19 09:11 PM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 05:41 PM
1

Because this sub is for questions. He didn't ask a question. Therefore it's a post for the main sub. Read the sidebar and the rules.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 03:15 PM
1

Wrong sub.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 01:09 PM
7

1) It's not your job to comfort her. You guys are done. Let her find comfort on her own or with other people. In fact, you reaching out and "comforting" her will probably make it harder for both of you. 2) Think about if the roles were reversed. If she broke up with you she wouldn't give a shit about you or making sure you are okay. So why do men always make sure the woman is okay after a break up? Move on and let her go.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 09:41 PM
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Nice bait. Get a life you fucking troll. If it's not, why are you even asking this bullshit? You didn't fuck a huge slut raw. Good. What's the question exactly?
/r/askTRP17/11/19 07:11 PM
1

Wrong sub. Questions go on askTRP. Read the sidebar and the handbook while you're at it.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/19 06:31 PM
7

I don’t know why but I feel like I shouldn’t make her upset cause what if she cheats? This is so blue pill.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 05:03 PM
6

No, definitely don't. Your second orgasm is gonna be less intense and you are overal just going to have less pleasure than if you didn't jerk off/cum already. And for what? To fuck her a bit longer? Think about your own pleasure. Make her give you a HJ/BJ so you can cum the first time and then go for seconds. This way you will have more pleasure and last longer.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 09:39 PM
11

Read the fucking sidebar. Specifically "There's this one girl".
/r/askTRP10/11/19 07:31 AM
1

Wrong sub. This sub isn't for questions. Questions go on the askTRP sub. Since you don't know the rules, I'm gonna assume you're new. Google and read: Red Pill Handbook 2nd edition PDF Ask TRP sidebar PDF Begin there and come back in a couple of months. Your question is basic.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 02:46 PM
5

What did I do wrong? Okay, let's see. There's this girl I work with Here's what you did wrong. Don't need to read the rest.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:35 AM
1

I mean, she's been the one to ask questions and keep the convo going so that's pretty good. But she did reject you. So move on.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:33 AM
37

Get other, higher quality girls. /thread.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 09:50 PM
1

Ehm, not really. His first response was completely wrong and sounded like your typical blue pilled "women can sleep around too, sexual liberaaaation" bullshit. Hence why it's so heavily downvoted. His second response makes a lot more sense and fits in this sub. But it still doesn't mean you should LTR a cum dumpster, because I honestly don't think all women will have had sex with 100 guys. And in that sense I don't think it's completely beta or insecure behavior. You should still vet and make su…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 06:11 PM
4

You're on the wrong sub.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 07:14 PM
2

Google and read: Red Pill Handbook 2nd edition PDF Ask TRP sidebar PDF
/r/askTRP03/11/19 07:03 PM
3

The terminology isn't used 100% correct, but I definitely like this post.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 06:54 PM
3

You're a long time visitor and apparently still don't know that you ask personal questions at the askTRP sub. Delete the post, read the rules, the handbook and the sidebar and come back in a couple of months.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 06:46 PM
4

Stop asking these bullshit questions you fucking autist.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 11:02 AM
10

I’m pretty good with women am naturally gaming pretty often So don't do LTR's. Keep spinning plates.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:19 AM
6

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 "It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was."
/r/askTRP02/11/19 12:19 AM
1

It also doesn't work if a plane crashes on top of her head at 8:59.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 06:30 PM
5

Yeah and 2 days ago you said she's your FORMER client. Stop making excuses to keep this girl around. You are 100% hamstering. She lied dude. MULTIPLE times. She's playing you so hard and you don't even have a clue.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 06:03 PM
2

You're hamstering so much. You're literally unable to walk away from this girl. GO NO CONTACT ALREADY. Idiot. Update us when you get back together and she cheats on you with the typical "you were right TRP" post.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 06:02 PM
8

Depends. One thing is not setting the date too far away from the present. Chances she will flake are higher. Second thing is having at least some contact before the date (unless the date is the same or next day). Not texting a lot (that definitely kills attraction), but a couple of messages back and forth help your chances of her not flaking.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 05:48 PM
9

Of course he shouldn't literally call him an incel, but he should set him straight. He doesn't own the girl and he can't tell OP shit. OP needs to let him know that. And he definitely needs a new roommate asap.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:58 AM
37

Wtf is wrong with your room mate and his friend? She's not his or their property. Tell your roommate he needs to STFU and not act like an incel. Keep bringing her over. He doesn't get to decide jack shit. Threaten to file a police report if they keep hitting you. I mean it. They need to fuck off. This isn't just about some girl.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 09:52 PM
6

But she gave other details, i told her to stop telling me her past sex life but she told me that 3 days befor this cowroker, she fucked her ex, and that one week later she fucked a new guy. You can hamster as much as you want, but a decent girl doesn't do this. For the love of God just dump this girl, read the handbook and the sidebar, lift, work on yourself and come back in a couple of months. She's going to mentally/emotionally destroy you if you stay together.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 02:35 PM
7

We've already given you the advice YESTERDAY. Stop wasting our time, stop wasting your time on this slut you've commited to after only 2 months and go find a decent girl. You don't get over it. She's not LTR material.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 02:22 PM
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1: He's stuck in the anger phase. 2: He still wants to get laid. 3: He's a lazy piece of shit himself for not reading the god damn rules of this sub and posting a question. Questions go on askTRP, OP. You're on the wrong sub.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 02:19 PM
1

He can, but he isn't willing to put in any work.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:34 AM
2

Definitely this. Dude just makes excuse after excuse to not put in any work. "I can't lift because I'm depressed. I feel bad so I can't study". He's just another intelligent person who is lazy as shit and thinks everything will fall in his lap. He doesn't even realize he has huge potential. He is intelligent. He can make a pretty good career and good money. Even though he says he is ugly and short and isolated, he could still go out with 4 different women. Imagine that. FOUR DIFFERENT WOMEN. Oka…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 11:31 AM
2

Because you AREN'T DOING anything, yet come here complaning about everything. If you were actually TRYING to improve your life and your value you wouldn't talk the way you do. You come her telling us how you are so depressed that you don't do anything. You don't lift, you don't pick up interesting hobby's, you don't improve your value, nothing. Those things are BASICS of TRP and described in detail in the handbook and sidebar. That's why we tell you to stfu, don't bitch and read the sidebar. Bec…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 10:26 PM
1

Which comment?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 04:31 PM
3

Your first step is deleting this post. Questions go on the askTRP sub. Not here .Don't be lazy and read the rules before posting. Your second step is googling and reading these two things: Red Pill Handbook 2nd edition PDF Ask TRP sidebar PDF Those are the basics of TRP. You start there.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 02:44 PM
2

Definitely, but you still have to game them to a certain degree, and kino, escalate and smash. I don't understand why people put so much emphasis on that one sentence. It's just a simple example of how you get laid. Nothing more. I could've also said not banging a chick from work is acting in your best interest. No one would've batted an eye.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 09:44 AM
1

I'm working on lifting but my depression due to isolation and virginity has prevented me from doing anything other than studying, and I'm not even studying well because I feel so depressed and it's affecting my grades. You don't actually help with anything by saying to not be a bitch. You're a bitch dude.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:39 AM
9

Plenty of high SMV guys will use her for a pump and dump. That's why she says she has better options than you. She does. For the short term.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:37 AM
5

Exactly. It was just a simple example.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 09:17 AM
0

BUT - many men do have that instinct. And it's because THEY like it. They KNOW women don't even like that it much, it's purely for them. Quit that nonsense. That's definitely part of the point of my post, haha. Situations in which you clearly know something isn't going to work, or just aren't acting in your best interest (because of one dumb reason or another) and you still proceed to do it. I KNEW texting her a lot or needy stuff like that wouldn't help me, and I still did it. Because of ego, o…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 05:48 PM
37

I don't know why that sentence would make you change your mind. That's simply the way to get laid, but I definitely didn't mean that you should make it all about her or make a woman your goal. And I didn't limit acting in your best interest to just getting laid with a girl. It applies to all aspects of your life. Also, it goes without saying that you should lift, have interesting hobby's, increase your value, etc. Basically doing whatever YOU want. Of course those things are acting in your best …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/19 03:50 PM
11

One of the biggest TRP lessons: judge her ACTIONS, not her words. She SAYS the sex was bad and he's an asshole and she was afraid to ask him to leave. What do her actions show you? They had sex, chilled and then she asked him for sex FOR A SECOND TIME. It's not going to be more clear than that. Be extremely careful. This is the type of girl that will claim "nothing is going on between us" while sucking his dick behind your back. This is the type of girl that will cheat on you and say "oh yeah bu…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:35 PM
1

Ah yes, every faggot ever asks this same question. I know because I once was that faggot. If you are a virgin, go ahead 100%. Fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:32 PM
23

So many red pill basics in such a short post. Have you read the sidebar? If not, start with that. If you would've properly read the handbook and the sidebar you would have already had your answers. I'm dating a wonderful girl since 3 months, we are together and exclusive since one month. Mistake number one. Never commit to a girl after only 2 months. You haven't vetted her enough to know if she is worth the commitment. You gave up commitment way too fast. She told me the guy was a bastard, that …
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:28 PM
20

Nothing to lose here bro. If she's genuine, you are gonna have a threesome. Great. If it's a shit test, you have just found out that she's a crazy, mind games playing, psycho bitch and be glad you are done with her. Win-win if you ask me.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 12:42 PM
24

I swear you sound like a woman right now. Because it sounds like you know what you did was wrong at the time and are hamstering it. "It just happened, it's not my fault, I don't even like that guy even though he was my best friend"). You wouldn't care about this bullshit years later when you aren't in contact with either of them if you ACTUALLY believed this was okay and not a wrong thing to do. You know you are a shitty friend. But I'm going to give you 1 piece of advice: DO WHATEVER THE FUCK Y…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 10:04 AM
2

You are done. Move on with your life. Or how to handle seeing her/handle the "break"? This is your problem. You are still holding on and think you will get back together. Otherwise you wouldn't word it like this and especially use the word "break". It's not a break. Breaks are bullshit. You are broken up. Move on with your life and game other chicks.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:53 AM
8

You have clear oneitis dude. You say you want to keep having sex with her, yet you blow everything up and cockblock yourself with your responses. Here's some advice: always act in your best interest. Because no one else is gonna look out for you. And when you do dumb shit like texting her "you don't give a fuck about me" like a needy beta, you aren't going to keep having sex with her. But like I said, this is probably not because your goal is having sex with her. Your goal is commitment because …
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:50 AM
4

Act like nothing has happened. However, I will tell you the chances of this relationship working are very small. If she breaks up with you, she does not value you. She would not break up with you if she valued you. You are better off moving on to new women. Iron Rule of Tommasi #7: "It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragg…
/r/askTRP24/10/19 12:43 PM
9

It might be a shit test. Act like nothing has happened and try to escalate like you normally do. If she doesn't bite, soft next for a couple of days. If the next time she still doesn't bite, she might mean it. In which case break up with her and find a girl who does want to have sex with you. Because you should never give a girl commitment if she isn't giving you sex.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 12:36 PM
1

This is a post for the askTRP sub. Questions go on there.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 10:34 PM
3

Have you even read the sidebar? It's literally TRP 101. Look up AF/BB.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 01:23 PM
13

Accidentally? Are you a man who owns his actions or a woman who hamsters, doesn't take responsibility and claims "it just happened"? This is your first problem. Why did she quit being in the mood so early? How should we know? Maybe you sucked in bed? Maybe she thought of her ex? Do I just continue with business as usual and fuck her again if the opportunity opens up? Again, are you a man or not? Do whatever the fuck you want. How should we know? If you want to bang, bang. If you value your frien…
/r/askTRP23/10/19 09:53 AM
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You guys really need to stop being this god damn lazy and read the sidebar. It's literally rule number 6. No examples from fiction or LYRICS. Jesus Christ man. Also, what is up with these low effort posts with no description lately? It's like they multiplied tenfold in the last weeks.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/19 02:27 PM
18

They are not your friends.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:43 AM
1

The same things you should be doing when you are in a LTR.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 11:32 AM
8

You're on the wrong sub. This sub is for questions. Post it on the main TRP sub if you think it's a valuable contribution.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 08:06 AM
1

To the idiot down voting this, write why my comment is wrong or fuck off. The answer to this question (that mind you has been asked a million times already) is literally in the sidebar. It's not even a slight variation on it or anything. Guys are way too lazy here.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 10:15 PM
0

Why does no one read the sidebar anymore? It's getting extremely annoying.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:59 PM
8

We meet and I can tell she's quieter/more serious than usual. Just her overall behavior seems off, a feeling in the gut. A few days later, invite her to go out, says she has something else to do, very vague. Apparently the whole thing was triggered by me declining to meet up with her after her dinner with friends. When we met, she said she thought I "had no empathy" and was "cold". Turns out she misunderstood my intentions and was butthurt I didn't meet her. Which one is it? Was she being suspic…
/r/askTRP17/10/19 11:37 AM
2

This is a misunderstanding a lot of people of have. TRP doesn't teach that women are inferior. What it does teach: The nature of women. Women and men are fundamentally different. Lies you've been told about women What women actually want How to become sexually active with women TRP does NOT teach that women are inferior. Women and men are different. Find a woman that complements your masculinity with her femininity and adds value to your life.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 11:18 PM
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So you already lift, that is great. Do you still watch porn and play video games a lot? If so, cut those out. That's the first step. Other than that, you need to be healthy. Do you sleep well? Is your diet in check? Is your personal hygiene in order? Do you dress well and groom? Do you have hobby's? Those need to be fixed combined with unhealthy habits like porn. You need to become 'average' before you can become 'the prize' and 'great'. The second step is figuring out what your mission is. Do y…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 09:59 PM
1

Try to figure out the lock. They will open it in front of you sometimes (if they aren't hiding stuff) and you can see how to open it.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:16 PM
12

I knew they used to fuck because I sometimes check her phone when she’s unaware. Call me insecure, beta, or whatever, but I won’t be made a fool. You're definitely not a fool. It's actually a smart thing to do. Yes, you should trust her (when proven), but you should also always verify. Look how checking her phone made you dodge a huge bullet? Imagine if you didn't and you would have spend more time with her and then she cheated? You would be fucked in so many ways. Always verify.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 05:05 PM
1

If only there was a post in the sidebar titled "there's this one girl". Oh wait. Read the fucking sidebar. The posts on the right side of the main TRP sub and this sub with basic information you have to read before making posts. Check it out on a PC.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 02:56 PM
1

Look up emotional state control.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:59 PM
2

If only there was a post in the sidebar called "Getting over a breakup". Oh wait. Read the god damn sidebar of this sub and the main sub.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:59 PM
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You need to think about why you are like this. Why do you want to fuck women so badly? Why is everything in your life revolving around women? Is it because you are inexperienced? Validation? You need to figure this out first. The second step is finding your mission and your purpose. You won't care as much about women if you have something else that drives you. Plenty of posts on that topic.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:58 PM
3

Read the sidebar. Rule number 6. No examples from fiction.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/19 01:09 PM
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If you have positive text messages from her from after the date, saying she had a good time etc, then you might have some proof she's lying.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 01:08 PM
20

Except you're doing the exact same thing, having sex without a condom with a random you just met.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 01:42 PM
1

If she wants a relationship and you don't want to give her that, don't contact her again.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 11:16 AM
1

If you are really tired often, you are doing something wrong. Sleep for 8 hours (at reasonable times, not from 4 until 12), eat healthy, exercise/lift regularly, don't watch porn and try not to fap too often (2-3 times a week is fine). If you do these things, you will rarely be tired.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 01:49 PM
1

Rule zero mate.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 11:08 AM
3

What would you do if you were me? Dump her like we have told you in 10 other posts you've made about this low class woman. But of course you are going to keep her and make another 20 posts about her until you post 'my gf cheated, now what?'. Then you are going to make another post 'how to win back my gf after she cheated?'. Or you know, dump her like we have told you a billion times already. She's an attention whore and not LTR material. Edit: in a post you made one hour ago you said she's a pot…
/r/askTRP10/10/19 11:02 AM
1

Being more assertive/agressive (in general, not just with women) doesn't mean you have to be an asshole.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 10:36 AM
15

Fuck them Improve your SMV so you can get hotter women
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:10 PM
5

Google, download and read these two things: Red Pill Handbook 2nd edition PDF Ask TRP sidebar PDF These two are the basics of TRP. Start with these.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:58 PM
1

Read the God damn side bar. It's covered in there. This question is being asked frequently also. Do a 5 second search. No, do not tell them.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:56 PM
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Disagree. Trust, but always verify. It would actually be dumb to not check up occasionally. If he didn't check, she probably would have cheated on him. Now he found out early on.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:27 PM
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I'm gonna guess she's your best sex, because it sounds like you're getting oneitis because the sex is good. That's all there is. Realize that you are thinking you want to LTR her like an idiot because you are thinking with your dick. Act accordingly. That's literally all there is. You like the sex. No for the love of God do not LTR a single mother.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:20 PM
1

She was still fucking other dudes 2 months ago, when she already knew you for 10 months. I'm gonna say not LTR material. Keep smashing until the plate breaks. But of course, do whatever you want. If you want her as a GF, go for it.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:13 AM
1

No, you did not. Don't do sexual stuff over text except when you are fucking them/fucked them recently. She needs plausible deniability to need feel like a slut. You should've waited for her to be back in town and ask her to come get it. Then kino and smash. Don't do sex over text. It's dumb and pointless.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 11:10 AM
3

Even if it's a comfort issue, she "solved" that with breaking up with you. Not with talking about it and trying to improve things because she wants and NEEDS to keep you. No, her solution is dumping you instantly not saying anything. That's how little she cares about you. That's how little value you have. And if you ask her why and argue with her to keep her, you will lose even more value in her eyes and her pussy will dry up even more. She will have all the power. Don't make that mistake. The O…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:36 PM
18

Just maybe it's a preemptive thing or to gauge if I actually like her? Be glad she broke up with you if this is the reason because if so she is a retarded mind games playing bitch.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:33 PM
1

Yes, that's definitely possible.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 10:31 AM
10

Not 35+, but I know this feeling. Have experienced it at several times in my life. It's because of one simple thing we advocate in TRP: not having a mission. If you don't have a mission or goals you are just going through life without any purpose or meaning and you are going to feel empty and bored. You are going to think "what am I doing with my life?". When you wake up you will think "what am I even waking up and getting out of bed for?". The solution is very simple (on paper, in reality it's …
/r/askTRP06/10/19 10:13 AM
10

"I know".
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:35 PM
0

Start a business about something you are passionate about and be your own boss.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:18 PM
5

Assume that these two have the same game and both are able to maintain frame equally. There isn't a clear answer. Life and humans don't work like that. Your example does not exist in the real world. Stop theorizing about stuff that isn't important and start taking action to improve both your body and face.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:10 PM
1

There's so many red flags in just this small post and you aren't seeing them. Tells me you have a form of oneitis for this girl. She literally broke up with a dude for you. She's going to pull the same shit to you if you get together with her. She's an "instagram model". You aren't red pill if you want to LTR a girl that lives 3 hours away. Long distance is for blue pill losers, not someone who is as red pill as you claim to be. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 01:05 PM
1

If only there was a "Dating: How to use dating sites, set a sexual frame, and utilize Push-Pull?" post in the sidebar explaining everything you asked. Oh wait.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 12:05 PM
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This question has been asked a million times already. And if that isn't enough, a post about this subject was made on the main sub just last week. Don't be lazy and do a simple Google search. You guys need to read more and ask less.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 11:52 AM
3

Their nature is the same, but not all of them will act on it like western women do because of social consequences.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 11:39 AM
3

True, but it's not black or white. It's not like she can only have everything of those or nothing of those. A woman can be fit. A woman can be goal driven. A women can be capable. Yes, you should be more rational, more fit, etc. That's normal. But it doesn't mean your woman can't be either. You find one that is. Of course if you pick out a girl that has 0 goals, no ambition, is dumb and out of shape you aren't going to respect her. But why would you pick a woman like that? The problem lies withi…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:48 AM
3

The qualities you mention are masculine qualities. It doesn't mean you should look down on her for having less of those, because she should have other FEMININE qualities that complement you. It doesn't mean she is a lesser person or a lesser human being. It just means you both have other qualities. And with those masculine qualities you should be leading, but not look down on her. People on this sub take stuff the wrong way and think they are superior and women are worthless and should be disres…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:35 AM
1

Ask her to do something. Doesn't really matter what, drinks or coffee or whatever. Kino when you meet up, ask back to your place, sex. Please don't tell her you are going to "clap them cheeks". Just get her to meet up and escalate from there.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 12:15 PM
1

It's disrespectful, but she's a plate you have only talked to for two weeks. That means nothing. Just realize you're not going to LTR her and keep fucking her and other girls.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 12:03 PM
0

It's literally in the sidebar dude. Read "Getting over a breakup" in the sidebar. If you haven't already, Google and read these two things: Red Pill Handbook 2nd edition PDF Ask TRP sidebar PDF
/r/askTRP25/09/19 10:36 AM
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She can't take blame or responsibility. Huge red flag.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 12:12 PM
3

Did she apologize and offer an alternative? And is it the first time something like this happened? If yes, let it slide for once. If she didn't apologize, or didn't offer an alternative, or it's happened more than just this one time, I'd say soft next for a couple of days.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:52 PM
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I don't believe I'll ever get over her You will. You're not the first person in the world to be dumped and you won't be the last. She's not special. Like you said yourself, she was your first love. You don't even know what women are like yet to say she is special. Advice: it's great that you've been going to the gym already. It's okay to grief. Read ''Getting over a breakup" and "There's this one girl..." in the sidebar (again). If you haven't read the rest of the sidebar, read it. Also google a…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:27 PM
3

Realize that you're not actually horny. I will bet you everything that if you stop jerking off/looking at Tinder/Instagram whatever for a day, your libido will completely disappear for a while. Because at the moment you're just doing it for the dopamine high and because you are bored, not because you are actually that horny that you want to jerk o`ff 5 times a day. I'm gonna guess your life is boring, you don't have any goals, don't know your mission or purpose and fill that gap with dopamine hi…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 12:45 PM
2

I've read your other post from 2 weeks ago: It sounds like you have oneitis. You're way too invested in this girl you've known for a month. Her reactions tell you everything you need to know. She's not that into you. At least not as much as you are into her. Otherwise she wouldn't suggest a break (breaks are bullshit btw). No decent girl is going to keep photos of her ex on her phone, let alone show the guy she is currently dating. At least not if she's actually into you. But she's not. Two reas…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 09:07 PM
7

I actually asked this to her and she escalated and said "It was a 7 years relationship and he -her ex- is still part of me and I will keep them there." She's not LTR material. Keep her as a plate or drop her, but don't commit.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:25 PM
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You're on the wrong sub buddy.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:13 PM
5

At least you got the rest figured out and are making solid improvements. Keep up what you've been doing this year. Getting women will follow.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 03:54 PM
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I mean, I guess in theory you could be disgusted with reality for a while so your sex drive could be temporarily lowered. But more than that, I doubt it.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 01:54 PM
1

Can someone ban this clown?
/r/askTRP20/09/19 12:02 PM
3

Google and read these two things: Red Pill Handbook 2nd edition Ask TRP sidebar PDF Of course there's more like The Rational Male etc, but the 2 titles above are the basics and a must read for everyone.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 11:15 AM
8

He's not your friend.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 05:28 PM
2

She's literally saying it could happen herself. So clear shit test. Play it off, try getting a date, kino and smash.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:25 PM
2

You're a dumb ass. You don't own her, even though you act like you do. She's single. She can do whatever she wants. That's the definition of a plate. You fuck her, and that's it. Sounds like you already have oneitis, so it's going to blow up in your face in a couple of months anyway.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 01:14 PM
2

Her answers online do not matter. Build a little bit of rapport online, then move offline by asking her for drinks/coffee/whatever. Her answer to that question is the only online answer that matters. Try getting with her offline, kino and smash. Her answers online do not matter. The only thing that matters is if she wants to go out with you and if she's receptive to sex.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 04:15 PM
2

Definitely, I think religion in itself is blue pill like you described. But the dude I responded to talked about cucking himself and I think the sexual parts of religion are red pill. No cheating, no sex with multiple people, no slutting around, always having sex with your spouse. I'd say the sexual parts of religion are red pill and would improve our society. But the rest of it yeah, blue pill of course.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:54 PM
7

Why? I don't agree. The rules in religion are actually quite red pill and forbid women to sleep around. I'm not religious btw.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:26 PM
1

OP a week ago: how to be mgtow in high school OP now: how to be red pill in high school Me: OP is wasting his time on bullshit instead of reading the sidebar, being productive and working on meaningful goals.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:18 PM
2

Do you have goals you work on daily? A mission? Purpose? You probably wouldn't think about some random chick all day if you were actually busy achieving your goals.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:55 AM
3

You're a fucking idiot. Not necessarily for fucking a friend's ex, but definitely for fucking the ex of a friend who you don't want to lose. You can't do anything about it now.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:43 AM
-1

How far we talking about? Because if it's far, then I'm gonna say don't do it. A LDR is for losers. Why would you give up sex (with other women) for someone who lives far away and is therefore also not able to give you sex?
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:41 AM
1

First of all, this post belongs in the ask trp sub. The main sub isn't for questions. Second of all, she's not LTR material. She cheated on her ex and still made him to be the villain ("nOt EnOugH AtTEntioN"), is an attention whore in general and "doesn't know" guys are flirting with her (she 100% knows, she just says she doesn't so she can keep getting attention from men). At one point she's gonna cheat on you and afterwards justify it blaming you and not knowing the guy wanted it. I know, beca…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 10:46 AM
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Sounds like you are going to get her pregnant and pay child support. Wrap it up. But if you want a solution and fuck raw, find other girls who will let you do that. That way you won't have to complain about this one girl throwing a power play. You will have the power. Then came a whole blabla and she starts saying I don't respect her and things, that I'm an asshole She sounds awful.
/r/askTRP09/09/19 10:02 PM
1

I'd say it depends on how long you've done it and it would help if it's useful for/related to your field, but it could definitely be work experience. The letter I don't know. That's not something you have in my country. I've never heard of that here.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 10:28 PM
1

I'm not an expert in that field and I don't know the country which you are from, but building your resume is the best thing you can do in university besides getting your diploma and good grades of course. I don't know how it is in the USA, but in the country where I am from for example it would be almost useless to work a 'simple' job like at a fast food restaurant, or Wallmart or physical labour, because it's unhelpful for your field. You know what I mean? Of course this could be different in a…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 06:57 PM
2

This has been answered in the sidebar. Looks, money and status are the three most important thing for high value. If you don't have any of these you are low(er) value. If you want to improve your value: improve your facial looks and your body, get better in your career field and earn more money.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:07 PM
1

Try to get the highest grades you can. Join as many fun clubs as you can. Don't always hang out with your same group, try to meet other people. WORK HARD ON YOUR RESUME.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:05 PM
1

You should be happy about this. Focus on your goals and mission and when YOU have time and want to meet up, initiate a meet up and bang. I know you probably think it sucks that you have to initiate almost every time (I've been there, we've all been there), but it's actually a blessing in disguise. You are the man. Do whatever YOU want, whenever YOU want it.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 12:40 AM
12

You sound controlling and insecure as fuck. It's unhealthy.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 03:30 PM
61

She's a plate. Do whatever the fuck you want.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 03:07 PM
2

Both have their advantages. Do which ever one of the two makes you happy.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 11:25 AM
13

This is without a doubt one of the worst posts on this sub ever. Probably the worst one which isn't an anger phase post. I'm not even going to attempt 'disproving' this. You guys know how it is.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 12:20 PM
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Should I check her Facebook or phone to make sure there is no "reunions"? You should always do that from time to time, not just when something is off. Trust her if she has earned it, but always also make sure to verify.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 02:20 PM
9

First kiss at 16 and sex at 20 aren't that late. Those are quite normal really. Either way, stop comparing yourself to other people and only compare yourself to who you were yesterday. Try to make a little progress every day. That's all that matters. Other people aren't important. Set the goals you want to accomplish and then go for them. Nothing else matters.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:49 PM
1

That doesn't matter. You can still access the sub on mobile if you use desktop mode. Or you can use your PC or laptop. Either way, you don't need the main sub to read the sidebar. Literally the only thing you have to do is google "red pill sidebar" and the first link will be a PDF with the whole sidebar in it. Read it.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:46 PM
5

I have the feeling you don't know what plate means and I have the feeling you haven't read anything of the sidebar or recommended books and material. There's no such thing as relationship prospect for a 1st date. You don't know the girl at all. She could be terrible LTR material. Always vet her for a couple of months and then, if she shows the behavior you'd like from a LTR, you can maybe give her commitment if she pushes for it. Otherwise it's not your job to push for commitment. That's the wom…
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:21 PM
1

Read the sidebar. Google Red Pill sidebar and Red pill handbook.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:17 PM
5

Generally speaking it's not feminine to pursue a guy. Women like to be pursued. Which doesn't mean they never initiate, but it will be a small percentage. If she literally never initiates, she's not interested. In your case, she's simply not interested. She wouldn't decline a date or would offer an alternative if she really couldn't make it. Move on to other girls.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:09 PM
1

Way too long IMO. You only need your height if you are 6'+ and a super short BS line. "6'2. Sometimes I'm funny." If you are short don't mention your height. That's literally all you need. The truth is bio doesn't matter 99% of the time. Being attractive and having good pictures are the way to matches.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:06 PM
12

I'm down to possibly plate/LTR for the summer Do not LTR this girl. Even if it's just for a day. You don't start a LTR with cheating sluts, no matter the circumstances. Plate her and fuck her whenever you want, but do not make her your GF. As for how to fuck her, you've been able to get her to your house before. She's obviously interested and down. Make her come over again. Just make sure you give her plausible deniability like mentioned in another comment and make sure you strike while the iron…
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:00 PM
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Basically, does anyone think there that strong Beta vibes can offset even good looks? Of course they can. Why is this even a question? It's completely normal that a fairly attractive girl isn't going to hook up with an unconfident dude with bad social skills and body language and instead will go for a guy who is still decent looking and knows how to kino. Confidence and kino are extremely important.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 08:55 PM
15

TRP isn't removed. You can still access it on mobile using desktop mode or you can use a PC.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 11:24 AM
1

I’m not sure even becoming the red pill itself will get me a girl like the one I saw with that guy. I"m going to be completely honest. I get that it's a shitty feeling. Maybe you won't ever get a girl as hot as her. We don't know you, so it could be the case. But are you going to be a little bitch about it and be alone or settle for a HB2? Or are you going to play with the cards you've been dealt, work your ass off and realise all your potential so you can at least end up banging HB7's? Your cho…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 10:37 PM
2

She's not a unicorn if she cancels on you for non-emergencies, especially if she cancels on you to meet up with a male friend. It's good that you aren't mate guarding her, but you aren't as alpha as you think. I would never LTR a girl like that.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 10:27 PM
1

I don't think it matters. You retain or get gains with progressive overload, aka lifting more than last time. I don't think being drunk has any influence on that. You could still retain or improve lifts. But it's not wise to lift while being drunk. You could injure yourself. Also never drive drunk.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:35 PM
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Two important basic things. First, how's your sleep schedule? At worst it should be from 12 to 7.30. Preferably a bit earlier than 12 and a bit longer than 7.5 hours. Always make sure you sleep at least 7.5 hours though. Second, do you jack off and watch porn a lot? It fucks with your energy levels. Try to masturbate 2-3 times a week max and cut out porn all together. It could be other things than porn for you by the way. Browsing social media too much could be it too. Basically everything that …
/r/askTRP05/06/19 09:14 PM
1

I don't understand the problem. She's a plate right? So you're fucking her? But you don't have to date her. Isn't that ideal? It sounds like you have oneitis. It's just one girl. This could be any girl you've known for a longer time. She isn't special. In fact, she's either a slut or trying to play mind games by going on a date with another guy. Doesn't sounds like she's LTR material anyway.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 09:10 PM
0

Questions go on askTRP sub. Not here.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 08:48 PM
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A lot of these comments are unhelpful and completely stupid. I've had the same issue as you. Both living with parents and difficult to escalate outside. Not every girl is comfortable with doing stuff in public, especially if she is really shy. Never escalate through words, always with actions. What helped me was escalating in dressing rooms. In stores, the pool, etc. You can both change together in the pool or you can check her outfit when she's changed in a store and escalate from there. It doe…
/r/askTRP04/06/19 12:19 PM
2

Yes OP is a pussy who didn't have the balls to escalate. I think everyone can agree on that. But don't forget about the fact that she has a BF and a child and STILL is doing physical stuff with multiple other guys. I think that's lesson OP is trying to tell us.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 05:12 PM
2

If you aren't exclusive and she is just a plate then why are you so upset? Imagine I went and stayed in a girls house. Like you have been with your 5 other plates? Sounds like your story doesn't add up indeed.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:45 PM
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What should I do? Get other girls, so you won't have to come to askTRP to ask questions about "this one girl" (read the sidebar) misreading a joking (is this serious?) you aren't even fucking.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:58 PM
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You can find most answers in the sidebar or with the search button. A lot of people who ask those questions are just being a lazy beta faggot. This is TRP. We don't make excuses. Like literally look at today's thread "RP Books". That has been answered so many times and could be found with the search option or google in 5 seconds. It's pathetic.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 09:51 PM
1

You are clearly new, start reading the material. There's a lot to learn from the sidebar. Best topics to read about in your case: "there's this one girl" and about abundance. It's just one girl you AREN'T HAVING SEX WITH, why the fuck do you care? Would you post this about a guy? No you wouldn't. So you like being an orbiter? It reads like you have oneitis. Stop caring this much, it's only hurting you.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 02:35 PM
2

It reads like you are autistic, really stupid/young and haven't read the sidebar. These are all huge red flags. She will cheat on you with him. And if it's not with him, then with someone else. She is not LTR material.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 03:24 PM
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The problem is pretty clear. You have the looks to get matches and dates, but can't get further than that. If you lift, have good looks and get matches on Tinder, are intelligent and have a mission then there 1 is thing left. Your game isn't good enough. I'm also knowledgeable and well read about many topics so I'd say I'm an interesting person to talk to. I suck at small talk but I don't see that as a problem This is a contradiction. Also, you can't get to the "deep" and "intelligent" topics be…
/r/askTRP10/03/19 02:42 PM
3

You judge actions, not words. When she said "I want to be FWB", she meant "I want to be FWB right now". Not anymore. Next.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 02:25 PM
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I know that forgiving her is not an option but I also don't want to break up You don't want to break up, but you also want to keep her as a plate only? A plate isn't a LTR so you are already broken up in that case. You have oneitis and scarcity mentality. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7: "It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 02:21 PM
2

So you had a drunk night on which you did some stupid shit. WHO CARES. This happens to 99% of people who drink. You aren't special and you have such oneitis it's unbelievable. Why would you care this much about a girl losing attraction for you cause you had a stupid drunk night? It doesn't and shouldn't matter, but you care so much about this one girl it's making you go crazy. Just joke about it/agree and amplify when it's brought up and move on. This isn't a big deal.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 05:10 PM
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Multiple reasons. For you: You aren't as high value / 'alpha' as you think you are. Can literally read that in the couple of sentences you posted. It sounds like you have scarcity mentality and are desperate. Twice, one month apart. You might not have shown her enough interest. You were too cold/used too much push instead of balancing it with hot/pull. In general: You did something to make her lose interest. High value isn't inherently going to mean every girls wants you or won't chose a "lower"…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 09:18 PM
4

I honestly believe anxiety is bullshit. Nobody gives a shit about you in the gym. Literally nobody cares. If anything, people will look at someone that is for example really fat and think 'good for him for trying to do better'. Go in there and lift. Other than that, the usual. Make sure you sleep and eat well, those are very important. Read. First and foremost the sidebar, but other (RP) books too. Get a good/better job, up your income. Or study hard and get good grades if you are still in schoo…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:53 PM
4

You are doing literally everything wrong, I could write 10 pages about it. She has ALL the power. Why would you want to be sexually exclusive with this girl? She sounds awful and is NOT LTR material. It's in your best interest to next her, read TRP material a lot more carefully and then chase a lot of other women.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 08:18 PM
5

Improve your own value.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 03:59 PM
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By not being a faggot? There's nothing wrong with banging an uglier girl ocasionally, especially when drunk. You guys care (and way too much) about stuff that has zero importance. It doesn't matter. At all.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 05:02 PM
14

LTR for 3 years I’m 21 There's your answer. Go see other women.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 12:17 PM
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now I am enrolled and going to be taking more credits this spring If you care about this at all then this is your direction and you should work hard towards your goals for college. If not, go find something else. a load of debt due to poor financial decisions Your direction should be getting a (part-time) job and paying your debt off. Also I'm a frail bitch 115 pounds Your direction should be working your ass off in the gym and bulking up.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 11:11 PM
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You're so good to me and I don't deserve you Yeah, it's over.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 11:08 PM
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She laughed about how she could hit her last ex in the face, and he wouldn't do anything to her in return. Great post overall, but this is a huge red flag if she actually did hit him. Regardless of how you frame it. If it was joke then good for you.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 03:32 PM
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Questions go on the asktrp subreddit. This isn't a main sub post.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/19 03:21 PM
1

You're about average. It depends on which country you live in if you are relatively short. In Northern European countries you would probably be considered shorter. In Asia, Africa and South America you would be (a bit) above average.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:17 AM
2

What's so special about one girl? I literally can't understand that. There are a billion girls out there. You are going to get attached, but there's nothing wrong with that and that doesn't mean you shouldn't have the will and power to walk away. They aren't special.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 09:36 PM
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Her breaking up with you should have no influence on your life. You should be living the same way before the break up as after. That means lifting, socializing, making money, hobby's, etc. As for dating, I'm going to give the same advice I give literally everone on this sub. DO WHAT YOU WANT. If you want to take a small break from women, do that. If you want to date other girls/have casual sex, do that. Literally every answer to questions like these on the sub is do whatever you want.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 05:28 PM
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Read his other posts. This guy is a moron for staying with her, despite even Blue Pill folks telling him to GTFO. OP you are an idiot. Dump her and don't look back. Her sexual past should be the last thing you should be worried about.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 01:16 PM
2

Your right course of action would've been not doing GF things with her if you think it's unfair for her to fuck other guys when you do those things. You chose the complete opposite, asking for commitment. You don't LTR a girl who is actively fucking other guys on the side. If you are unhappy in the relationship, get out. Learn from this experience, read the sidebar, improve yourself and then try spinning plates again the right way. Don't get into a LTR when you clearly aren't ready for it.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 01:09 PM
4

Not following every rule in the book doesn't mean you aren't muslim. A bad/non-devout muslim maybe, but still a muslim. Do you think every man that has sex before marriage is non-muslim? Your views are too black and white.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 04:23 PM
1

I see some articles that say try to be her friend and don’t be pushy. While others say now is the time to make a move. Have you actually read TRP? First, you can't get "that one girl". It doesn't work like that. But you can get many one girls. We don't know if that includes her, but the best thing to do is definitely NOT friendzoning yourself. Ask her to do something together and if she says yes kino and escalate. Like with every other girl you want to get with.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:38 PM
5

Have you read the sidebar and TRP handbook? Start with reading those. There's a post in the sidebar called "How to OPEN and CLOSE: Beginner's guide". It might help you. Read the handbook and the sidebar completely though.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 06:44 PM
2

I can't tell. But an hour of lifting is fine. If that works for you go for it.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 12:56 PM
2

Where you meet her is irrelevant. Read the Rational Male. A woman you meet in church can be worse than a woman you meet in the club. It all depends on if you vet her long enough and if she has the qualities you want from a woman in a LTR. But what if you met a girl who had all green flags That being said, there is no girl with all green flags.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 12:55 PM
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Could be alcohol. Could be you not being attracted to her. Could also be excessive porn and masturbation. Too much porn can ruin you.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 12:35 PM
4

She can be an 8, but to the guy with an extra high SMV, she's just another plain Jane for an easy lay. Irrelevant for Mark. The best part is that Jane now thinks she deserves a rich athlete and nothing else. You don't know that. Maybe she wanted an 8 or a 9 instead of Mark. Truth is he doesn't sound that great/alpha to me. If he actually was that great he wouldn't LTR an obese chick in the first place, let alone be devastated because this one girl left him. And no matter how much you invest in y…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 12:03 PM
2

Lifting 3 hours every single days is really unnecessary. I'm not even talking about overtraining, more so about it being a complete waste of time, especially if your diet is trash. Lifting hard for 45-60 minutes (not even every day) is plenty to build muscle and you could use the remaining 1-2 hours doing other productive things. Make a list of things you have to do for week and then divide that over the 7 weekdays. Then start doing those things. That is all.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 12:04 AM
1

Now that I think about it, read the Iron Rules of Tomassi in his book 'The Rational Male'. Specifically rule number 3. You need it.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 11:31 PM
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If she starts improving herself you need to improve yourself as well, otherwise you will lose her. If she could've gotten him when she was an obese 4 she will believe she can do way better than him when she's a thin 8. This is on him.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 11:16 PM
2

This has been covered in TRP Handbook and the sidebar. Looking at your question I'm assuming you're new. It's important to first read the sidebar and the handbook.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:41 PM
2

ethnicity makes me a low SMV male Ethnicity doesn't make you low SMV. It can be a -1 sure, but if you are high SMV overal then just your ethnicity doesn't make you low SMV suddenly. Is it worth chasing girls or should I focus on increasing my SMV Do both, but don't "chase". Approach girls but also increase your SMV. You should be doing both regardless of the place you are. Always try to improve yourself and your value and always try to approach and close (if you want that of course).
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:37 PM
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Anyway, I'd matched this girl on tinder and we chatted for a few days Set up drinks You could have set it up earlier. You probably chose not to. Which is fine, but then what is the problem? But good either way. But it's not about fucking another guy. I'd realised I'd been made to invest resources into the chating, and into a date What resources? You literally just typed a couple of words into a chat. I think you are taking TRP too literally or wrong. whilst this other guy just got it all because…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 08:28 PM
5

It's about sexual strategy and therefore about getting laid of course, but understanding sexual strategy is more than just getting laid. It's also (and more importantly) about understanding the truth about gender dynamics and society, about what women actually want and do, etc. And to have a more succesful sexual strategy it's important to improve yourself and maximize your value, become the best version of yourself. For me that is the most important lesson from TRP. Improving yourself daily, be…
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:16 PM
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You have an extreme case of oneitis. How do you write this many words about some 19 year old chick living that far away who won't even kiss you? Your title is just plain wrong. If she won't kiss you she is giving you the best signal she is NOT interested. Read the sidebar 5 more times. You need it hard. Start gaming other girls. You are drowning in scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:56 PM
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Two things. First I can recommend reading 'The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck'. Specifically the part about taking action. Motivation isn't important. Motivation comes after action, not before. You start working and then find motivation/inspiration. Not the other way around. Otherwise you will never get anything done. It's the same as going to the gym. How many times are you actually motivated to go to the gym? I'm guessing rarely. But when you are actually there and doing your exercises, how m…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:46 PM
1

You are lucky to be here at such a young age. Read as much Red Pill as you can. Sidebar, books like the Rational Male etc. Read as much non-fiction as you can. Lift, eat healthy (learn how to cook), get good sleep. Learn how to be financially responsible. Improve your social skills. Find hobby's that you enjoy but that can also be considered productive. Cut out video games/porn. There's lots of things that you can do.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:35 PM
1

Non-fiction > fiction > not reading at all.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:32 PM
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Read the Rational Male. All of it, but specifically the part about "Mixed signals". Also read this: https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/4368/you_re_not_her_top_option
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:08 PM
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Depends on your goals and on your capacity. Not everyone can achieve anything he wants. You will never be a NBA player for example. No matter how hard you work or try that's impossible. And if you are already in your 20's changes of being a billionaire are 0. But things like building your own business and making 6 figures are definitely doable. And becoming a millionaire is definitely not impossible either. It depends on several things. How skilled you are, how hard you work, luck, etc. Becoming…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:55 PM
2

Recently turned a plate into my gf (not the best move I know) Depends on the circumstances. It doesn't have to be a bad move if you vetted her long enough and she has the qualities for a LTR. I suspect her of lying when I have asked her about 2 specific past sexual relations. I usually wouldnt care, but more specifically the 2 said parties are my friends. It's not weird for her to lie about this. Why would she tell her BF that she fucked a few of his friends? And yes you are being insecure. If y…
/r/askTRP20/01/19 07:42 PM
1

Read the sidebar for fucks sake. You should've been lifting long before you knew this girl. And never do something for a girl. Do it for yourself.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 11:12 PM
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It's literally in the sidebar, "lifting basics for beginners".
/r/askTRP19/01/19 11:07 PM
2

It's a red flag and a lot of drama if she has a lot of guy friends. Don't get involved.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 11:40 PM
2

I can't lift because of back problems. Maybe you can still do legs and some exercises for other muscle groups which don't effect your back I don't know how useful advice is going to be for someone that's suicidal, but these aren't your best years. Far from it. It's tough to be lonely, not have girls, etc. But you have some good years ahead of you if you are actually willing to put in the work. You are only 17 years old and have Red Pill knowledge. You have a huge advantage against a lot of peopl…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 11:30 PM
1

This. It's really not that difficult if you actually read the material guys. A girl that's interested will meet up. If she can't, she will offer another day to meet up. You are wasting your time. She isn't interested. When you are her top priority you will know. You aren't. Do what u/deatcoreboy1 said and next. If she changes her mind she will be back.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 08:33 PM
1

Read Rollo Tomassi's Rational Male. He has a chapter written about "mixed signals". Honestly you would've known this if you read Red Pill literature. She isn't very interested in you, but you are interpreting this in the way you want (she is interested, but...). She would NEVER give mixed signals to a high value man she is very interested in. You will ALWAYS know when you are her top priority. Judge her actions (in real life), not her words. Next and move on to other girls. If she makes up her m…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 08:29 PM
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I don't know if you can call it 'racist', but they definitely did it on purpose and tried to be as PC/leftist as possible.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:22 PM
1

Yes, it will still improve your physique. Look up 'body recomposition'. That said, you aren't eating enough. It's basic math. If you don't gain weight you simply aren't eating more than you are burning.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 10:54 AM
1

You posted about the same topic yesterday. Yes it's a shit test.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 02:20 PM
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Agree with vandaalen (have to say I usually do). Also, you offered both weekend nights to a random chick you just met. It looks like you have no life, no value, nothing interesting going on or are needy/desperate. Don't do that. And be a bit more specific with the day/time/place.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 01:00 PM
1

1) Try to get her when we get drunk 2) Tell her im attracted to her 3) Take it slowly by flirting and not telling anything (I think she wouldn't notice because I'm that deep in friendzone) 4) Make my friend tell her im attracted to her and that he did it on his own without my permissiom Read the sidebar. Everything you asked is in it and all of these 4 options are 100% wrong, except maybe the first option. That one might work, but is just needy and desperate. And you would've known all of that i…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 02:24 PM
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It's all about abundance and power so you are willing to walk away. You won't give a fuck about that one girl if you have 5 other girls lined up. You won't give a fuck about that one guy who doesn't like you if you have a good social circle and can make friends easily. You won't give a fuck about that one job interview if you have 5 other job interviews lined up. See where I'm going with this? It's all about abundance and the power to be willing to walk away. That's what being a high value man i…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:31 PM
3

Do you have the capacity to get other girls? You improved your life in many aspects and that's great, but did you also improve your social skills and game? If so, then it depends on your goals and what you want out of life and women. If you like being in a LTR or are considering marriage (I wouldn't but some guys do) and she's good to you, then why would you give that up? But if you want to bang other girls, then definitely go for it if you can. It all depends on what you want out of life (right…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:26 PM
2

Are you planning on dumping your GF for this girl? If so, yes definitely. She proved she doesn't have good morals and chances she will cheat on you are high. If you don't plan on dumping your GF for this girl, red flags for what and who cares?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 12:21 PM
2

It's okay to do some of the 36 questions with a LTR or close (red pill) friends. Otherwise no.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 04:38 PM
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I can't believe how racist this ad is.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/19 03:31 PM
5

Don't even bother overcoming her past. She is not LTR material to begin with.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 02:15 PM
4

Rollo describes this in the Rational Male. Most guys just use their RP tools to get the girl and achieve their blue pill fantasy. They just want to be themselves ultimately. That's why they revert back to BP when they get the girl.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:39 AM
9

Sounds like shitting where you eat to me.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:35 AM
3

don't speak for a few days This doesn't work in this era. Make sure the date is very soon (like the same day or in maybe 1 or 2 days), so you can strike when the iron is hot. Always strike when the iron is hot. Or the other option if the date is say a week later, keep her slightly engaged. Only texting for logistics does not work in this era if the date is further away than 1/2 days.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 08:01 AM
2

Do you have to-do lists for a day/week/month/etc? Because you have to plan for all of those things. You can't just wing it and expect to be able to do all of your hobby's every day/week. That's not how it works for a busy man. Make a list of things you have to do for a day. Work/househould activities, etc. Then according to your schedule plan to do those hobby's on certain days. Hockey one day, DJ'ing the other, going to the gym a couple of times a week. That's how you also track your goals.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 11:10 PM
2

To be honest it sounds like he has read and knows what's in the sidebar. His post has multiple mentions of sidebar material. He just disregards all of the advice in it. OP the best advice is to actually start applying what's in the sidebar instead of fucking up, coming for advice (which is in the sidebar) and then ignoring it all. You already have the tools. Use them.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:39 PM
2

I'm honestly surprised you even have to ask this. She is NOT LTR material. Keep her as a plate max and find a more quality girl if you want a LTR. And yes she sounds like a quality plate, but she isn't LTR material.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:33 PM
2

It's pretty easy to find if you just Google 'SGM free PDF download' or something like that.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:24 PM
1

Then it's not only green flags and there are probably more you don't see (or don't want to see). IMO a girl that doesn't delete pictures of her ex on social media is not only a red flag, but also a dealbreaker.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 08:32 PM
2

If she says she will let you know, wait for her to message you. If she doesn't let you know by Monday, message her then if you'd like. But odds are she isn't interested if she doesn't let you know this weekend.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 08:16 PM
3

There isn't a single answer on your question. So many possibilities. It depends on the girl, her sex drive, how submissive she is, etc. But short answer yes they do.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 07:38 PM
5

I don't know man, sounds wrong to me. Like sure sex is psychological for a huge part (especially for women) and riding the CC ruins that partially IMO. However, if she is mentally present during the sex and you are good in bed that should mean she should be able to cum and the CC should have no influence on that. If the only reason he says she was a CC rider is because she can't cum with you that's really dumb.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 03:10 PM
1

This is fucking ridiculous man. Why would you be hung up on a girl just because she is hot. Like who cares? There are millions of hot women in the world. And if you want a LTR and a family then the hot girl isn't even right for you, so what are you even on about? It's really dumb to be obsessed with a girl (I literally can't understand oneitis, it's just one fucking girl), but it's even worse to be obsessed with a girl just because she's hot. Like grow up man.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 01:08 PM
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You were right, but you shouldn't 'forbid' it. Next time just recognize that kind of behavior isn't something you want to see in a LTR and keep her as a plate max.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 10:41 PM
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