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Mindsink/r/seduction06/05/15 03:12 PM
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Do not wait for the perfect moment. It will never come. Don't wait. Just go for it. When a woman wants you, she will help you along the way. Just go for it.
/r/seduction09/06/19 11:03 PM
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Go join a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu school and train for 1 year 3 times per week and the rest will take care of itself.
/r/seduction22/04/19 04:24 AM
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Good stuff
/r/seduction19/06/18 04:26 PM
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The sex may become more valuable once you connect with a woman that you love and make real love with her and experience a connection that you never have felt before. Some people never experience it. Depends what you focus on you will cross.
/r/seduction19/04/18 02:08 PM
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F it! You rather be the guy that wonders what could have been? This is a building block towards learning to not give. Let me tell you women often times are about timing. One day you can get her and another day you may not. People's mood and life circumstances change. You just need to keep going for it.
/r/seduction11/04/18 04:32 PM
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You asked permission. You told her she was on your mind. You spooked her. Ntspike is on point. Telling her that you would be at her school anyway and that it could be cool to run into each other again would have had a different result.
/r/seduction22/07/17 12:17 AM
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That is the right attitude. To develop the its ok to fail attitude. You win some you loose some but you keep going and learning and improving.
/r/seduction14/03/17 03:47 AM
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You asked permission. Lacked confidence. Should have gone up and started a conversation. "give me your number". You can either strike out being confident or strike out doing what you did. Not really trying at all.
/r/seduction12/03/17 11:25 PM
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Well not sure how you feel about athletics but the best practice is to put your head down and work on yourself. Join a Brazillian Jiu Jitsu gym and put in a year. Forget about your women worries and just focus on improving. Three times per week. You will be like a new man. It will change the way you feel about yourself subconsciously and this will effect how women perceive you. There are many mechanisms, or vehicles that will change the mental image of yourself. This is one of them. Tough work, …
/r/seduction29/01/17 05:18 PM
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Steps of progression while having fun. Playing darts or pool. First step is getting your hands around her and her responding favorably. Then you need to get to kissing. From there it is about getting to a comfortable private environment. Which you need to suggest and lead the way. The whole time you are gracefully transitioning from step to step with the filler being having fun. A fun activity. You can assume what the next steps are. Gotta be willing to go for it. Respectfully. The trick is know…
/r/seduction19/01/17 05:04 AM
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sometimes you need to pick a hobby because it is in your best interest. One I would advise is Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. It will change your life. Effect every facet of you inner self. Creating a rippling effect in your exterior reality. You just wont be able to help it. You will unconsciously begin to emit a different vibe with time. A vibe that you want to emit. Begin, be consistent, 3 x a week at least. Look forward to your future in 1 year. If you do this you will share this same advice with anoth…
/r/seduction22/11/16 07:06 AM
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So accept the fact that everyone is expecting everyone to walk up to one another to talk to one another. You can expect people to help you out by being friendly. So all it really takes is to walk up and say Hi, my name is Joe. That is all it is to it. You can use sites like metup to find many opportunities to practice. One other note of advice that I will add is it is a good frame of mind to be in if you are positioning your mindset to learn about someone else.
/r/seduction22/11/16 06:56 AM
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just read the first one, and by the sound of it, smooth my man. Good stuff. Textbook assertiveness and charging through the escalation windows with confidence and throwing in some fun charm in to mix.
/r/seduction07/08/16 07:12 PM
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The nice guy is scared to touch her with keeno and neg her and doesn't make proper moves through escalation windows. Basically he isn't being "respectfully" manly with her. They like being swept off their feet. Nice guys just don't do that. They also always ask for permission to advance. Ouch.
/r/seduction07/08/16 07:08 PM
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You are very welcome. Make it a great day!
/r/seduction25/06/16 06:45 PM
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Communication. When you do things you ask her questions. Does this feel good, faster, slower, keep doing this? Women many times wont say anything until you make them comfortable in providing input. Once you get this communication going, you will learn based on feedback.
/r/seduction25/06/16 05:21 PM
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Basically our fabric of time is composed of layers. Parallel running ribbons of time. Within each ribbon of time, you are destined to learn important lessons. Each ribbon interacts with you in such a way that it creates an environment for you to learn a particular lesson. As you progress through each ribbon there are periods in which you are tested to see if you have learned the intended particular lesson per that ribbon of time that you are within. If you pass you advance to the next level and …
/r/seduction25/06/16 05:11 PM
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Already failing bc you asked her for permission and she set the term for the evening bc she is already bussy with plans. She will test you. GL.
/r/seduction21/06/16 08:43 PM
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Try talking about your hobbies. Women like to hear about your own personal interests. You can lead the conversation into asking about their own hobbies and interests. Then you can build up a date idea by expressing interest in her interests. Saying things like, I would enjoy hearing more about..., we should get together for some coffee.
/r/seduction13/06/16 04:06 PM
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Without me elaborating I understand your point. So what I mean is that grappling allows that super intimate struggle that one would find yourself in a life and death strugle. That real close proximity of someone trying to squeeze the life out of you. It is the closest most intimate struggle between two people. I am not trying to take away from striking and or disrespect other arts. Striking is vitally important. But that psychological benefit that you get from grappling is very hard to replicate…
/r/seduction18/05/16 10:35 PM
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Yes it is personal preference.
/r/seduction18/05/16 10:30 PM
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Well nothing worthwhile is easily gained. There are always fears and concerns to overcome. Self limiting beliefs to reprogram. I have seen bjj pressure transform people. Pressure makes diamonds.
/r/seduction18/05/16 07:32 PM
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I vote BJJ bc you get the most realistic difficult situation of grappling with someone without getting hit in the head. This day in and day out struggle of life and death, yes if you do not tap you will have your shit broken or choked out. Sounds tough but very safe as ppl are not there to hurt you. It is the best real fight simulation in a safe environment that exists without striking.
/r/seduction18/05/16 07:21 PM
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Ready? Go join a brazilian jiu jitsu gym and begin transforming yourself and your mind and perspective.
/r/seduction18/05/16 06:59 PM
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Congratulations! Facing your fear and overcoming it. Huge breakthrough!
/r/seduction14/02/16 03:13 AM
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Yes... It is really about becoming involved with something. There are many vehicles out there. Some better than others. A hobby and or a new interest that pushes you. It needs to be something that you can continuously keep improving at. So a sport or athletic framework with competition options or something of that nature is recommended. The physical exertion, exercise, the consistent release of endorphin's are important. For instance with your dancing interest. You start by taking a dance class …
/r/seduction27/12/15 07:15 PM
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Maxwell Malts, he wrote Psycho Cybernetics, he talks about the internal image that we create of ourselves. It is programmed through living, undergoing life experiences. The image that you program of yourself is what screams to the world around you. It is your scent. The scent that makes a woman decide in a flash of an instant how she wishes to interact with you. Learn to program this mental image of yourself into the man that attracts the types of women that you wish to attract and you will attr…
/r/seduction27/12/15 05:16 AM
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Oss! Confirmed.
/r/seduction17/12/15 04:11 PM
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Honestly, join a Brazilian Jiu Jitsu club and start training. Train for three months, 3 times a week at least, and then PM me how you feel. If you do this, and yes it is tough and challenging, but work through it, it will change your life and how life interacts with you. Promise. Note: It would take a whole page to list out the benefits you will receive physically and physiologically. Those benefits will reshape your image of yourself and how you feel about yourself. This in turn will change how…
/r/seduction15/12/15 05:13 PM
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Some girls really like to be tickled, which turns into a fun wrestling tickle match. Making some hot tasty tea is fun to enjoy together. Finding a netflix show to get into together, a comedy is a good one; Master of none, always sunny in Philadelphia, Louie... My GF actually proposed playing a video game together. A game like zelda in which one navigates while using a guide book. Some girls like to play, so you take turns, and some just like to watch a help navigate with the book. Darts are alwa…
/r/seduction15/12/15 05:08 PM
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If she is away on vacation. Let her text you first. Do not text her unless she texts you. If she texts you then great, if not, she is busy doing her thing and probably would like to be talking to you but doesn't want to text first. Oh well. That is good, she is thinking of you. Day before, text her and tell her that you hope her trip was great and you look forward to seeing her tomorrow on your date.
/r/seduction15/12/15 04:48 PM
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Agreed 100%. This is the secret sauce.
/r/seduction18/10/15 08:33 PM
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Only if it's a pretty pussy.
/r/seduction18/10/15 08:24 PM
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naaaah, I don't whore myself around.
/r/seduction18/10/15 08:24 PM
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One thing left out is that once you do find her engaging in sex for the first time, now you have to show her what it is all about. Meaning that you aren't selfish. Meaning that you aren't just jumping on her, pumping one out and it's over. It has to be about her enjoying sex. Taking the time to explore her, to give her attention. She isn't going to let go right away. Once she sees that you are a sex god by giving HER lots of sexual attention and figuring out how to push her buttons... now she wi…
/r/seduction18/10/15 02:10 PM
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I would like to never stop, roll till I die.
/r/seduction18/09/15 03:49 AM
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I agree and I used BJJ (Brazilian Jiu Jitsu) to help me evolve. I like that I learn a skill set while getting in six pack shape.
/r/seduction17/09/15 04:35 PM
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Your confidence and the mental image you have of yourself. Look at #1) "Psycho-Cybernetics" by Maxwell Maltz, M.D.,F.I.C.S [1960 ISBN 0671700758]. Get that version, not the new one.
/r/seduction09/09/15 03:20 PM
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Work on yourself and let it will happen when it is time.
/r/seduction30/07/15 08:11 PM
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Exactly, if you want to score as fast as you can you will kiss her as fast as you can. Just gotta learn how to do it the right way without creeping her out.
/r/seduction24/07/15 02:52 PM
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OSS, you kinda proved my point. I agree with you. I also say BJJ over others bc BJJ will help push you. Not everyone has that drive to go push themselves hard. I have done many sports and BJJ has pushed me the hardest. Granted that is coach attributed as I am a part of a competition geared school that isn't all about student retention. They will drive us hard. It's a luxury to be a part of such a school. Take care man!
/r/seduction09/06/15 09:44 PM
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So share the other ways. Share a way :) Add an option that can be chosen. Add your input that you think will improve his mindset about himself. :) Go for it!
/r/seduction09/06/15 08:40 PM
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Yes it involves learning how to do dislocate, choke, control people but it is all based on leverage and the control of your body to maximize controlling theirs. You are wrestling people but the community is so cool that everyone just views it like we are all waves and we are surfing each other. So it's way different than fighting someone bc it is more like you are engaged in a complex chess match that you are really cool brothers with after. Guys I competed against, we are all smiles after. If y…
/r/seduction09/06/15 08:29 PM
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Go join a BJJ gym. You want the secret here it is. You man enough? I friggen guarantee you you will be going after hotter ass bc they will be attracted to you bc they will see how you feel about yourself once you achieve improvement though Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Guaranteed. The only thing is if you will put in the grind, the pain. It is all about how you feel about yourself. BJJ will make you feel amazing about yourself! The time is now!
/r/seduction09/06/15 03:34 PM
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LOL
/r/seduction04/06/15 08:33 PM
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Brazilian jiu-jitsu
/r/seduction04/06/15 02:29 AM
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That's what I did! Works fantastic. As I always say, you know what you get for the rest of your life with a bald man. A good looking bald man will keep looking good. :) And I am pulling better looking women than ever. Just go train BJJ and you will discover it is all about how you feel about yourself.
/r/seduction03/06/15 07:36 PM
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This list is what seperates everyone from getting good at anything in their world. This list applies to everything one wants to master. Good list.
/r/seduction15/05/15 06:26 PM
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Your focal point is sex. Most of the time for many men it is the focal point. When a man meets a special person, which is rare, the focal point become the person in their entirety as their presence alone brings you much pleasure. When you really find someone that you super click with, I think you will be surprised how willing you are to wait for her because your concern will be her positive experience of having a wonderful sexual experience with you. In this situation you really do not care abou…
/r/seduction11/05/15 09:56 PM
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Hehe right on. You are starting to part this fog some more. Yes I am thinking about her. Obviously with other women I did not care about the outcome. With this one I want a specific outcome. This is a trip. Why am I altering a communication strategy if I should not care about the outcome? Why not do what is easier and just text away and smother her. Obviously that is easy vs obtaining communication at this time. But I am altering my behavior to put myself in a better position of getting the outc…
/r/seduction06/05/15 09:39 PM
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Understood. Gathered by what I have described do you feel that my strategy is now the correct one to follow? If and when she does reach out I will be back to a more reserved communication protocol. I will play it much more cool like I did prior to our first date.
/r/seduction06/05/15 08:21 PM
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I am working on myself now more than I have ever during my life time thus far. It has definitely made a massive difference. This is one of the reasons why I feel that I am coming in contact with more spectacular people. I have to be honest. Your words sound simple at first and then become super complex and cryptic when I ponder them. If we just allow the pieces to fall where they fall then why are we here on this sub learning to evolve our behavior and thinking to render an outcome positively fo…
/r/seduction06/05/15 07:17 PM
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I read your advice again. Detach yourself form the outcome. Pretty great and powerful mindset. Tough to do. You want a certain outcome so bad when you really like someone. It is much different then just wanting to get with a girl for the sake of getting some.
/r/seduction06/05/15 06:37 PM
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Nice, lol. Ya, writing it out helped me. People say that writing helps. I see now how it can first hand. Seems like the only play here. Just wait until she reaches out if she does. Thanks for the pic, made me laugh. It helps when someone confirms your thoughts. Thanks.
/r/seduction06/05/15 05:07 PM
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Very true.
/r/seduction17/04/15 08:47 PM
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Hmmm I think I would do like the lions do and run him off like a giant roaring lion and then plow my woman. J/King. This is tough. I am not a fan of these situations. I would instinctually see him as a target. Just being honest. I would guage his true feelings by doing a lot of physical contact in front of him with my GF. Maybe he is gay and will tell you that the two of you look cute together. Then it's all good. If he gets jelous, then I would run him off. She has to see that he got jelous. Th…
/r/seduction13/03/15 04:02 PM
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I once had a girl say she was going to call me back after breakfast. She never did. 2 weeks go by. She calls me out of the blue, we go out, I have a great time. I say, push to go out, make plans, if at any time she is hesitent and or flakes. Then just ignore her. Nothing to loose only to gain. You aren't head crazy so no danger. You already know what you are dealing with. Just be confident and advance through the escelation windows quickly.
/r/seduction02/02/15 03:27 PM
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Did you try to escalate beyond making out? Did she block you? It's huge to move past making out ASAP. Get to making out ASAP and move past it ASAP. For me if they are making out, it is going further!
/r/seduction26/01/15 04:36 PM
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Damn thats a good one.
/r/seduction26/01/15 04:33 PM
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All good stuff here. Between the two posts, they nailed it.
/r/seduction20/10/14 07:23 PM
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There are tasty goodies at whole foods believe it or not. If you don't find them on the shelves then you will find them on the racks ;)
/r/seduction30/09/14 08:23 PM
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I see a lot of solid women at whole foods.
/r/seduction23/09/14 02:23 PM
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Are you in need of a high level sales man?
/r/seduction19/09/14 07:00 PM
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What is the service that you provide? Business wise.
/r/seduction17/09/14 04:41 PM
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I am starting to ingrain into my head that I am meeting the representative and I will really get to know her after 6 months of time if the dating matures that long. Then I will allow myself to fall for them. This is beta test mode for now. It's recently that I thought about this after watching my ex turn into someone I can't recognize on the turn of a dime after the honey moon phase. About 6 months time is a general time frame to really get to know someone and allow for their ugly head to surfac…
/r/seduction16/09/14 04:57 PM
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Makes sense. Good points.
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:55 PM
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Just stop, move on and don't day anything. Month later you will hear from them. These types get intrigued the more time passes that you haven't tried to contact then and or show that they got to you. If u can identify this type early before he night is over, you start distancing yourself abruptly. They are sent into a spin and you will avoid the long stretch of time before you will see them a second time.
/r/seduction06/12/13 01:20 AM
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Ya I do that. Need that release at times.
/r/seduction20/12/10 06:58 PM
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pffffff ya wow, hehe, oops. But in light of my mistake. Plenty of people do try and don't understand why they can't get the gal in the miserable relationship by trying to communicate that you will provide her with the opposite.
/r/seduction20/12/10 06:57 PM
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Man, I hear you and I wish it was that simple. I have learned that it is not. At some deep level subconsciously she may even instigate or support the abuse and believes that she should be abused in this manner. Keep in mind that this is a pattern. It happens over and over. If she really really did not want this pattern to continue, she would have put her foot down a long time ago. Particularly at the onset. Has she gone through sexual trauma as a child, teen years? In most cases as such in this …
/r/seduction20/12/10 05:15 PM
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Keep in mind that you didn't crack the whip right away. If you did, called her and left a vmail right away and said how dare you treat a person in such a manner and told her that her actions are out of line, irresponsible, and untrustworthy... Then you state that I want no further communication from her bc she is not trust worthy and interacts with people in a irresponsible manner. You must cast her away, this is key. This is important bc it lets her know what you are not waiting around for her,…
/r/seduction01/11/10 05:43 PM
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Start by being confident, cocky and funny. Tease them. Feel in your mind and heart that you are a great catch and only a great woman is worthy of you. Walk into a establishment with the mindset burned deep into you that none of these girls are worthy of you. Like they don't even stand a chance. But when you get the attention, can you act like you don't care? Practice only make you better at this. You will fail and the woman will take a hike cuz you will show to much excitement from her interest.…
/r/seduction31/10/10 06:06 PM
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So you want to push it huh? Ok. Start backing off a bit. Less attention from you. I don't know who is the agressorr, who calls who more. If you are the one establishing most of the communication then back off. If she is the one, then let a call slip through or a text and don't respond for a long bit. When she asks what you were up to? You were having a super fun time without her story. You will notice her becoming the one to try to spend more time with you. When you hang out, have great times, l…
/r/seduction31/10/10 05:57 PM
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Agree with her. You are right, I don't want a relationship either. Smile and keep having fun.
/r/seduction31/10/10 05:45 PM
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Spot on great advice. Do not give her the impression that you are all about her. Shift her into the position where she is making a move or two to get your attention.
/r/seduction31/10/10 05:43 PM
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Ya they will come up to you to let you play that game on them. Tell her your here to keep things in line and she simply isn't a bad girl to warrant your attention. Tease her that she is a good girl and start scanning the room like your looking for someone else. Try to grab a close buddy next to you for a conversation and slip away. Smooth though. At some point later she will get your attention with what she thinks is a bad girl move. Then you have fun arresting her.
/r/seduction31/10/10 05:38 PM
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For sure acting like it didn't bother you is key. Saying something to the effect that the night turned out to be a blast by bumping into a old friend can be a good move. That tells her that she wasn't on your mind and she isnt of great importance. She may think to herself, wow, I thought he was all about me but now he just doesn't care. You must ignore her from this point. She will try to bait you by trying to get you to call her to restore confidence in herself. Just gotta act like you don't ca…
/r/seduction31/10/10 05:31 PM
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