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THINGS SCROTES SAYMistygirl179/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:22 PM
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DISCUSSIONMistygirl179/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:32 PM
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Because being a good person always got her excited Absolutely! A man being chivalrous/a gentleman , and an overall caring person is sexy af. Being that way makes a woman WANT to reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:32 PM
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This sub is in no way neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:28 AM
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Dont make things personal, but calling women “stupid “ and calling women “cunts” is ok🤔 Noted…. Its no wonder women are leaving mixed forum subs in droves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 05:59 AM
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……Yup can def turn one toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:50 PM
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You’re right, I operate from experiences i have irl. Online is a tiny skewed version of reality. I limit exposure to stuff on here because it can turn you toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:45 PM
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Lol yeah “figure it out” never realized it was that easy🙄 I can’t speak to “what women tell men“ because I’ve never had a problem communicating exactly what i do and dont want. Seems like you need to “choose better” which is essentially the same thing you’re telling women. See how silly that sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:41 PM
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Guess youve never had someone initially appear legit, but turn out to be something else🤷‍♀️ Lucky you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:35 PM
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You’ve created an entire narrative that has nothing to do with anything ive said but ok i guess? Lol Don’t remember ever saying men needed to figure out women, I suggested listening to women when they tell you what they do and dont want. Said nothing about MH issues. Anyways, best of luck to you…✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:29 PM
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Saying “idk who hurt you…” is in no way shaming. Its a statement… Youve got an unhealthy idea of how women work, and are obviously bitter. I get it, you feel overlooked or slighted and think you deserve more. Fact is, pointing the finger outwards isn’t gonna do anything to change your situation. Women are not a monolith, you have no idea what their individual experiences are so you cant proclaim to know why certain women do what they do. You also don’t know what these men do or say to get these …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:21 PM
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Lol noones shamed you 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 06:08 PM
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This total idea is just deflection on the part of men who feel they aren’t getting sex like they “deserve.” Its easier to say there’s something wrong w everyone else vs saying “maybe im the reason im not getting what i want.”….simple as that. Its not because you’re not a chad, not because women like f’boys, not because you’re not rich….but because of something YOU are doing, or not doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:08 PM
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Ok, go ahead and continue to believe you know what women want and why they do what they do better than women do.🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 05:02 PM
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Because no fuckboy ever says they’re a fuckboy. They come off as kind caring and considerate until they’re not. Noone wakes up and says “yeah i wanna get lied to and screwed over today..” If women wanted men who sleep around we’d happily stay w f’boys……we don’t. Once w realize they’re lyin pos’s were out. The stuff you’re saying aren’t things women value at all, thats stuff guys for whatever reason value in other men. You all idolize men who you think are getting something you’re not. But im tel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:56 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:50 PM
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There was another thread on here where women were adamant that since she found her current man attractive, that there would certainly be other women who found him attractive. This is very telling. Women don't get into relationships with men who are not desirable by their peers in some way… I just cant even describe how a$$ backwards this rationale is lol Someone saying “im sure im not the only person who finds you attractive” in no way means i care whatsoever what others think about you. Looks a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:57 AM
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Yeah strongly disagree with that, im sure as a guy you think getting more women makes more women want him. Not at all true. If a guy has desirable qualities, those qualities attract women. Plus, what kind of women they are getting is an important factor too. You’re generalizing imo from a place of scarcity. You look at someone who’s getting lots of female attention, knowing little about how they are w these women, and assume reasons behind it because you don’t know any better. You should Really …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 04:20 AM
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You’re seriously mistaken…..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:22 AM
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You have it backwards, hes wanted for other things besides his ability to sleep w multiple women. Him Sleeping w women is in no way what causes others to want him. Him getting women is the byproduct, not the cause. The more getting laid is the expressed goal, the less likely you are to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 03:16 AM
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Ikr lol, Its funny hearing what men think women want. Mind boggling stuff for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/21 12:28 AM
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Your ability to stick your penis into a vagina tells me nothing about your ability to provide or be a compatible partner 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 08:57 PM
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That would be a hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 04:41 AM
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Again, never said they shouldn’t. Look u have every right to think whatever you want. My point is if you think ur ugly or unworthy of love, so will others. if you base your worth on what others think of you you’ll always be miserable. There’s always gonna be someone that thinks someone else is ugly regardless of how much surgery a person has. There’s gotta be a point where you just stop giving a shit and live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 07:42 PM
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Never said you shouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:36 PM
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Self pity is unattractive . Noone said walk around thinking they’re a ten, but if you think being a ten is the only way to get into a relationship you’re sadly mistaken. Very few people are rich or hot or both, but many are in relationships…….truth is those thinking they need surgery for a relationship really mean they think it would attract hotter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 01:41 AM
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If you have the mindset that others are able to determine your worth, they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:29 PM
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🙄 Balding is not being bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:23 PM
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Being bald is not subjective. Attractiveness is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 08:15 PM
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Its not healthy to feel that without plastic surgery you wont be found attractive by anyone. I get people feel that way, its just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 04:52 PM
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Oh wow, i guess thats what this sub is for , to vent and gripe about how you have no control over your situation in life so ill leave you to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:32 AM
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People only know what they know. I suggest not closing yourself off to different ethnicities because you think they wont like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:23 AM
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Then how are all these not tall not rich and not traditionally handsome men in relationships? There are plenty people who are exactly the things that you say prevent you from meeting someone. Your personality and outlook on life is not genetics. This sub makes it sound like average or unattractive people dont enter into relationships when they do. The vast majority of people both men and women are average to below average looking. I think people’s expectations are warped from tv and social media…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:04 AM
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I just think it’s wrong to tell people that they need to fix their physical “”flaws” in order to find someone. Why would anyone give someone so much power.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:20 PM
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Not at all, just telling you that what you believe women like may not actually be what women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 03:13 PM
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If looks are your measure, women def date down. The examples I mentioned about execs or ceos marrying beautiful women. When i say type, maybe you refuse to be open to a particular look, or race, or size idk. Ive just seen every type of person you can think of in relationships. So to say surgery would be needed to attract someone is just hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 12:08 PM
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Im saying that even with surgery he may not get the woman HE wants. I just dont believe that it’s impossible-for some men to date without some type of enhancement surgery. I do believe that there are particular types of women a guy may be going for that generally aren’t responding how hed like. So when i hear guys say “id like just one” woman to be interested, it makes me think that theres a particular type of woman you must be interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:49 AM
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It appears to be something like that for sure lol. I almost wanna send everyone virtual hugs and tell them they are much better than they think!🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:41 AM
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Thats not how women work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:25 AM
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Ill take the person in the above picture for example. Did his profile improve from surgery, absolutely. Will he now receive quadruple the amount of attention from women than he did before? I honestly dont think so, it doesn’t work like that for most women imo. And besides, if it did would you even want someone that now all of a sudden finds you “worthy?”….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:14 AM
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Id say choosing to spend a good chunk if not all of your life w someone means something but ok. If you’d rather be the guy a girl had fun with then left to marry someone else well i guess that works too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 11:02 AM
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It’s the gold standard, the best form of value to have as a partner Oh man i dont even know what to say to that lol. Absolutely false, and i hope you know that you are so much more than what you look like. I wouldn’t want anyone to judge my worthiness for anything based on looks. I sense there are some very hurt people here 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:56 AM
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I see it daily where i live. How many average or even below average looking ceo’s or executives do you see with average looking or below average looking wives? Almost none. Doesn’t mean all these women are gold diggers as it’s usually quite the opposite. Many of the women are educated and maybe stay home and raise children by choice. Im almost positive those women could have almost anyone, but they’ve chosen and fell in love with someone who could help give them the life they want, and probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:39 AM
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Fully agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:26 AM
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Lol I completely disagree with you as a woman, and as someone who has plenty married friends who didn’t marry the best looking guys. They married men that were good partners and could provide the lives they wanted. You’re coming from the perspective that the most important characteristic to women is attractiveness, its simply not. Noone is saying attraction isn’t important, its just not as important as you’re making it seem. Wanting a partner who can help provide for a family isn’t materialistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 10:22 AM
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Being desired by women doesn’t automatically make you confident. But confidence absolutely causes someone to appear more attractive to women. And to answer your question yes id rather someone average looking given your example, again looks are not the most important attribute in a person imo. Who’s going to be the best partner and build be able to build something with? Are they business minded? It also depends on the type of person you want to be with and for what purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:39 AM
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Looks by far have the most influence over a man's dating options I know many men think this, but i disagree. I think confidence, social influence, status and hate to say it but even money, has more influence. I think many are unhappy with their options as you mentioned, its not that they cant get anyone period.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 05:10 AM
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Yeah i found that people like that will always find something exterior to blame their perceived lack of success w dating on. Maybe they are going after the wrong people, maybe its a self esteem issue that doesn’t always get fixed through surgery. But generally im all for someone having surgery within reason if it helps self esteem. Just extreme stuff, like limb lengthening or muscle implants…..kinda extreme imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:18 AM
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Thats assuming that looks are the only reason someone isn’t successful in dating. There could be plenty reasons for someone having difficulty in dating, and it would suck to go out and spend all this money only to still have dating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 04:04 AM
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I almost agree, but id say between “chad” or an average guy, most women will choose whoever treats them better or gives them more attention. Like you mentioned i don’t believe looks are as significant for women(didn’t say not important at all).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 07:34 PM
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Exactly. I have male friends, some in relationships some not. If a guy cant be only friends with a female thats a huge flag. Not being able to just be friends w women says that women are only a means to gratification for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 07:26 PM
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No, im saying mens idea of what’s beautiful is unrealistic. I say who cares, makeup or not, if a person looks good they look good. I have no problem w makeup, i dont wear it anymore from yrs of having to wear too much of it. But I absolutely am for women doing whatever they need to to feel confident. My issue is when that same woman is suddenly taken down a notch when not wearing makeup. Thats silly to me, because she’s the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:57 PM
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For example, i hear guys considered average or below talk about women like Emma Watson or Jenifer Lawrence, Jenifer Garner etc and call them average lol. Im like “”wtf??” Those women are beautiful imo but like op mentioned i feel porn has totally distorted people’s reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:55 PM
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Those women are like unicorns. Just like a 6’5 man whos kind, monogamous, and bizillionare rich is a unicorn. My point is that very few of us, men or women, will ever even come close to that. So to orbit the dating-sphere in search that, of or using that as your standard will leave a lot of people angry, horny and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:51 PM
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As you’ve clearly stated the vast majority of women are average looking. Very very few women are attractive w absolutely no makeup at all. Which is why im saying the standard of “beautiful without makeup “ is unrealistic. Im talking Hadid sisters unrealistic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:45 PM
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Agree to disagree, instagram is a perfect example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:36 PM
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The problem lies in the rating system period. Were all going to age and be “ugly” eventually anyways. Makes more sense to plan for the long haul. I modeled for yrs…….and would bet money, majority of the women men view as hot wouldn’t be looked twice at without makeup. Which tells me theres a distorted view of what’s beautiful nowadays and way too much focus on the superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:28 PM
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Odds are, if you’re finding them attractive they’re wearing some form of makeup even if light. The “no makeup look” is a thing. Many dont realize that, then when they truly see a girl w no makeup their deemed unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 06:16 PM
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Agreed, when i hear soooo many guys complaining about not meeting “attractive “ women i automatically question their idea of what’s attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/21 05:32 PM
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Yeah that’s the difference, I personally dont think it should be all that separated. And if it is for someone, thats fine, just say that early on. I think problems come in when folks lie about what they want out of desperation. Also to put it bluntly, men can sleep with as many people as they want and physically nothing changes about them. Women, by sheer anatomy aren’t built the same, the body changes. Women understandably are generally more selective about who they sleep w. And i don’t believe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 03:25 AM
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I understand what you’re implying, just wholeheartedly disagree. Now mating with, sure guys may not care, but who wants to get used for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 02:09 AM
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Yeah completely disagree, ive seen the opposite for sure. No way in hell “men have dated whoever “?!….not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 01:50 AM
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Men absolutely date up…….they just place value on different things than women. If you’re a rich ugly dude that’s dating a model……you’re dating up. If you’re a young guy dating a rich sugar mana, you’re dating up. Its all similar. Plus nowadays in average marriages the women are more financially stable than their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:20 AM
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Lets just be real, all relationships are in some way transactional. Dating marriage or otherwise. If they weren’t, everyone would be in a relationship because no-one would care about what the other person brings to the relationship, they would get w whoever just because. We all for the most part have standards that wed like someone else to bring to the table. On the flip side we all, well most of us, work to be our best selves in hopes of being seen as a partner worthy of the standards weve set …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:16 AM
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Yeah id have to see where this is shown……dont agree at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 10:27 PM
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Fully agree! Why get upset and pout about something you have no control over?
/r/seduction07/03/21 01:42 PM
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Because height is important to many women, especially tall women. HOWEVER, personality/confidence can definitely balance things out. Just like i hear many guys say a girl who’s their type physically can balance out other qualities they may not normally go for.
/r/seduction07/03/21 08:53 AM
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Thats a great resolution: Do it anyway.
/r/seduction03/11/20 09:49 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction06/05/20 03:11 PM
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Most of this is pretty bad advice :-/ ...infinity level fuccboi behavior
/r/seduction06/05/20 03:11 PM
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Its way more to it and that group unfortunately is not what I thought. I initially thought It was more of a self improvement type thing.....i was very wrong. And I was one of the fiercest advocates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:33 AM
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Lmao!? Naww hun I’m 100% female simmer down 😂 You must not have read anything I wrote Being able to acknowledge a man doing something thoughtful doesn’t make you less of a woman damn?!. I’m in no way defending all men, hell not even most men.....my bf is sitting here cracking tf up🤦🏾‍♀️. I’m hoping this sub doesn’t become an echo chamber, because I doubt that’s what the creators wanted. The hive mentality is everything we are supposed to be fundamentally against.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:29 AM
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I was referring to what u initially wrote about fds and trp mentality basically advising “if you do this you get that....” I said there’s no way to gauge that because every relationship is different. Ive already mentioned I totally agree with the belief that both parties need to put effort in and disregard the advice to do otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:42 PM
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When ur In a balanced and mature relationship all that stuff goes out the window tbh. The whole beta pick me stuff is irrelevant because you’re both putting each other’s needs as a priority. Its not a competition or a tally of whose more important. It only becomes an issue when someone feels slighted. So realistically u cant say a certain action is will get a specific result, just depends on the relationship. Fds is not what so many men seem to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 06:48 AM
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Can I just say I love the passive aggressive thumbs🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:46 AM
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Omg uve described most of my exes?!😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 10:11 PM
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You need to love you more though:-/ If they loved you they wouldn’t put you in the position to need to call police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:57 PM
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When you’re both doing for each other it cancels out any negativity. People that complain about the other sex are upset effort wasn’t reciprocated. The term “simp” is a made up one by men who haven’t experienced an actual balanced relationship. What you have is actually how it should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 04:46 PM
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Sorry but the whole no snitching thing is immature and bs. I grew up in the same environment and best believe if any of my exes popped off in front of my house, I’m calling the police. You cant control him yourself. Don’t allow him in your home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 04:39 PM
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Avoid the BlueBallBrigade at all costs!...was wondering why I’ve received random chat requests. Now I know smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 10:20 PM
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I just realized u were being sarcastic 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:09 PM
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Lube helps it feel better but there are still small fissures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 09:14 PM
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Reestablish your relationships w friends and family. You’re the same person you were when u met him only more wise as you know what to avoid next time. DO NOT let him suck you back in and avoid him as best u can. Don’t give him information about what you’re doing in life and don’t inquire about what he’s doing. Create a new space for yourself. Establish new routines that have nothing to do w him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 04:57 PM
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Yup, and the falsities being spread are just to sooth the fragile egos of SOME men. Ive lurked before to get an idea of what lies are being circulated about this group and its pretty laughable. All these other male initiated subs seem to do is complain that womens standards are too high...vs doing the work on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 04:49 PM
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An offended rapper acting like a child demanding that “respekkk” be put on his name......especially when he crosses his arms in a huff...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:14 PM
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“You cant get pregnant from rape, because the female body automatically rejects pregnancies that are from rape”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:31 PM
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https://youtu.be/nebLQvywKKk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:25 PM
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I don’t think anyone is trying to intentionally belittle you, but frankly to understand all of this now will save you tons of future heartache. It could be an age thing where you haven’t had enough experience to have seen how men can really be, and yes, most men. Everyone in this sub hails from all over the world, yet are saying the same things regarding their experiences. That has to count for something.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:57 AM
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Don’t disagree w him being a pos. As disgusting as he is, I do think what he said about porn and violence, even murder, is true. Not because it’s coming from him, not because I feel porn is any kind of justification, but because I’ve seen it play out in violent offenders. This dude was def on another twisted level, and did stuff I know no movie showed him how to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:01 AM
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I knew someone would finish it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:31 PM
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Ya think!?😂.....he unknowingly just helped the movement!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:20 PM
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Agreed.....many minimize the effect it has. I mean I’m not a religion peddler, and its not like I’ve never seen porn. But the influence it has is more widespread than I’d originally thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:43 PM
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Oh he would have DEF used being abused in court if that had happened. Thats usually the first thing investigated by defense attorneys, abuse or neglect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:29 PM
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That was exactly my point. I don’t believe everyone who watches porn will become a serial killer. But ive seen a consistent connection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:26 PM
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Yeah I didn’t really pay any attention to the interviewer, coulda been spongebob for all I care. I think for me, ive already made this connection prior to even seeing this portion of his interview. Idk just the way he killed those women wasn’t your typical murder (if there is such a thing). He sexually tortured them much like youd see in snuff films. Again I don’t necessarily think a film can make someone kill people, but I do feel there’s a link to violence against women. Whether it rises to mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:21 PM
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He would’ve had to file prior to that interview taking place, plus he had exhausted his appeals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:09 PM
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Ehh I can agree to disagree lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:05 PM
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He actually turned down the interview initially. Dobson came anyways to the prison and convinced him last min. I just don’t see how anything he says could make him look more positive, he knows he’s horrid. At that point I think he’d just accepted his death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:04 PM
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The porn excuse had already failed in court. At that point he was out of opportunity to file for a stay again, and was due to be executed in several hours. Also Bundy refused to do the interview up until an hour before interviewer arrived.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:57 PM
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I’m curious, what Benefit? I agree that porn can’t “make” someone kill. However when he talked about the connections in prison with pornography and violence against women, I fully agree, and see it with the adult offenders I work with daily. The societal movement regarding the issues w porn hadn’t taken off yet. Porn in some places was still showing in theaters at the time he was arrested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 06:48 PM
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What I don’t understand is why the idea of feminism is like saying you worship the devil to some people?! The literal definition of feminism is “NOUN: the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.” What on earth is so blasphemous about that? I don’t even think most men even know why they’re threatened by the idea of equality...smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:08 PM
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Its funny because that’s how I found out about this sub. I was in unpopopinion debating w this bottom-feeding scrote who was adamant that wearing revealing or as he put it “male tempting” clothing justifies a woman being raped. Basically I made him look like the idiot he was so he commented that I “sounded like an FDS feminist nut job.” Looked into what he was talking about and it’s been love ever since haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 02:52 PM
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Thing is they’d never say this stuff to you so you really don’t know how twisted the male mind is. My father and cousins are great men and even they tell me the majority of men are horrid behind closed doors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 02:37 PM
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No actually most of them think and talk this way amongst each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 02:35 PM
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Even worse, the advice given to women nationally regarding rape in the 70s was “don’t fight back just let him get it over with, its much easier that way.” Male “experts” would actually go on national television and advise women of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 02:33 PM
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Omg! This is awesome .....sexy fashion cactus “ 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 11:15 AM
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Ugggh been there done that. Thank GOD I grew out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:11 AM
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That post had me furious. I especially couldn’t handle the dudes commenting “don’t leave him so fast, talk it out.” Gtfoh, dude raped her and has a porn addiction, and that’s just the stuff she’s willing to tell people. Guarantee there’s way more she’s not saying....I just can’t smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 10:50 PM
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Its also crazy how guys try to normalize porn. Shits not normal and it’s obvious men have a difficult time realizing its negative consequences smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 06:08 PM
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Uggh and this is better than being single how? I soo hope this isn’t real.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 05:42 PM
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I think I misread, I thought you were responding to the commenter above describing Ri as a HVW. My mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 06:49 PM
33

I don’t think being victimized makes you of low value. Its continuing to allow yourself to be victimized that sets them apart though. She’s done exceptionally well for herself despite all that’s happened to her. And I’ve never seen her let a relationship define her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 04:56 PM
3

I really wish I believed that. Ive been as nice as they come, became highly educated, worked on myself spiritually, invested, bought property, learned to cook, excelled at personal hobbies etc. I didn’t get so much as a glance until I lost 40lbs. Its almost sad the differences that exist between how u get treated based solely on looks. Nothing about my personality or what I’ve achieved had changed yet all of a sudden I’m “hot” and men that I know would have never spoken to me before, do. I def a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:58 PM
5

I don’t disagree w you, men SHOULD feel indifferent about physical/mental abilities, just like they should feel indifferent about anything physical regarding women. But the reality is, people aren’t indifferent, as wrong as that may be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:15 AM
18

Unfortunately though, for many men it does boil down to looks. Ive heard men talk about the “crazy vs hot meter” meaning the more attractive you are, the more craziness/baggage they’ll put up w from her. I say go for who’s hot to you, men are painfully simple and usually want the same things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 01:03 AM
2

Troll post...
/r/askFDS22/03/20 02:56 PM
47

The only time EVER I’m ok w losing then This sadly explains why men do some of the ridiculous/irrational shit they do....because so many condone it or even praise it. Why level up when pickmeishas keepin it hot n ready for you regardless of how lil effort he puts in 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:49 PM
9

Ugh my lord. Wtf is wrong w them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:45 PM
10

No #CoronaCuddlin over here🙅🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:14 AM
27

I know it can be tough to come to terms w the fact you’ve pretty much been used for yrs. Not sure how long ago op was, but def be mindful of even talking to him. He seems like the type to say all the right things as if he’s had some revelation, just to get you to “try again.” He even pulled the “my friend said I was wrong too” bit to make you think things might really be different this time cuz his friend said so. Smh Especially now, this shutdown has dudes all in their feels. Ghosts of the past…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 10:24 PM
28

He’s either a master manipulator or has some serious mental health/emotional issues. Either way...ain’t nobody got time for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 09:39 PM
93

Lol he was def feeling out what you’d go for....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:43 AM
4

I look at it as i GET to chose who i wanna interact w. Vs. being spammed w crazies. Please believe, they still gotta do the work lol. Plus i love the verification feature so i know its not a catfish. Just that every now and then u get a verified loony toon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 02:08 AM
4

Nah bumble isnt the prob, its the dudes. At least bumble lets you pick......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 02:03 AM
5

Idk WHY him smiling pisses me off so much!?!wanna pimp smack him 🕺🏾👋🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 12:04 AM
9

U have no idea how many of these exist. Idk which is worse, this or the ever so classy “im ethically non monogamous” bs that some guys try n sell....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 12:02 AM
7

Im sure in his mind he was just being “100 honest” and not crazy. From now on when guys do stuff like this im just gonna repeat what they said to me but put “beige pink skin” so they can see how cringe it sounds...crazy thing is i have received way worse Cringeworthy messages from people that I didn’t snapshot before blocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 09:51 PM
2

Oh cool, ill take a look my job’s got us “self isolating” for the next month so I’m down to check out everything.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 09:32 PM
2

I was really surprised that i liked it so much! I usually boycott reality tv because they often dont portray blk women accurately but i luved it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:32 PM
11

I feel like alot of it comes from blk men unfortunately. Men of other ethnicities who know nothing about blk women always have that blk male friend that they look to as the “knower of all things black.” If all thats talked about are how horrible and unworthy blk women are, theyre just encouraging these fools to say just about anything. Some brothas i know are cool, but many just perpetuate stereotypes about BW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:18 PM
1

😂oh we were talking about “love is blind” i had just finished binge watching it....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 06:32 PM
8

Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:40 PM
13

Ewww 😂👅. And yeah silence of the lambs is the first thing i thought of when i read that. Sketchy af..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:34 PM
11

Well i can tell he wasn’t lying about not being around blk women much.....very obvious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:58 PM
13

Yes you can def tell when someone is genuine, or a straight up pervert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:57 PM
20

Oh those are the top three disqualifies . Honestly any dude thats lived in a diverse area knows this stuff. Its the clueless buffoons that are from outside the city that are a bit slow, this dude was from way outside the city but i gave him a chance because he was cute.....and then he spoke🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:14 PM
18

Exactly!! like damn!? Is it that hard to be normal???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:44 PM
21

Lol ikr!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:41 PM
13

I was really in disbelief that he thought i or any woman would respond favorably. I live in Cali where most here date interracially and folks know how to address one another regardless of race.....he just missed the memo .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:38 PM
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Oh trust he was blocked two mins after that message lol.....ive met many men of other ethnicities that dont fetishize blk women, but there’s always a few stragglers. And yes it irked me that blk women being attractive was some “new revelation “ for him🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:31 PM
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Yeah i knew what he meant, and it came off in the most creepy serial killer way possible. He obviously fetishizes blk women and thinks of it as a compliment...but nahh bruh lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:30 PM
42

Uggh theres sooo many of these out there too....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:11 PM
22

How DARE you be happy w a different ethnicity? Lol i get it BAD frm blk men whenever im out with a different ethnicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:26 AM
25

Good lord the fact that so many have co-signed on that nonsense is crazy.... Its obvious BM wanna perpetuate these negative-stereotypes in hopes of preventing BW from finding mates....which wont work lol. Anyone w common sense would question why these fools down their own women and knows their full of 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 06:11 PM
1

Think its very difficult to have a truly plutonic friendship w the opposite sex. I have 3, two are gay and one is someone ive been with in the past.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 06:03 PM
1

Captain of the BlueBallBrigade, just ignore.....🙄
/r/askFDS14/03/20 05:21 PM
11

Only person that can turn his marriage up is him. He made the vows and can either put a plug in things w ex or not. Hes shown that hes not able or willing to do that. So why should his wife wait around hoping he “picks her”. I feel bad for all involved but he’s showing her(wife) where his loyalties lie, she needs to take note and act accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:48 PM
8

Id say his “value” is questionable....he’s definitely testing you, and would probably go as far as you let him. Plus how do you know that ANY of what he’s saying is true?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:44 PM
19

Damn, this really does suck for everyone involved. You really cant place blame on anyone. Bottom line though, if he stays married there will always be that”what if” in his head and she will always be wondering if hes thinking about the ex. She should let him go, for her own sanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:38 PM
7

Ive been on some of the co-ed subs regarding dating. The advice i see other men give men about women and what they want is insane. They really have no clue but swear up and down “this is what they want cuz i know!” Lol. And women, even TRYING to speak up and point out that woMen jusssst might know what women want, get shit on🙄. Oh well, let the Blue-Ball-Brigade flounder, and you ...welcome to tha light:-)
/r/askFDS13/03/20 02:50 AM
10

Thing is though, if we only talk amongst ourselves about what they’re doing wrong, and never even allow the male humans to learn something.....the few that may want to do better never change/hear the gospel! lol. Training people how to treat you takes a willingness from both trainer and trainee...imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:20 AM
16

Hes totally manipulative, dont respond. Hes playing on your emotions hoping youll come tell him that “everything is ok” and that you were happy w him too. Cut your losses.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:32 PM
20

Think its the old way of saying “Metro” lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:56 AM
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