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Out of 10, how attractive appearance wise do you want?
/r/RPChristians16/02/25 02:43 PM
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Mission: To bless and honor God alone and do what he wants with all of my life and fully rest in the completed work in Jesus on the cross. To be more like Jesus, which includes growing in spiritual disciplines. To have 3 disciples with the goal of multiplication by the end of 2025. With regards to health, to live as long and healthily as I possibly can by doing lifting and cardio in order to have as long healthspan as possible. I see my influence and wisdom growing as I get older and I want to e…
/r/RPChristians16/02/25 02:35 PM
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OYS 19 5’ 11’’, 171lbs (-2), 34 yo, 33 wife, 8, 4 boys. Health Lifting is back on track. I started a PPL routine and I am enjoying it. My liver levels were elevated on my last bloodwork so I am changing my supplement routine. In doing my research I found out I may have been taking a contraceptive on accident (Ooops). Also my T is high now. I met with someone to go over my bloodwork and the asked if I was on TRT, lol. Mindset Interesting time here. I don’t think I loved my family before. Any atte…
/r/RPChristians16/02/25 02:33 PM
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You want a girl with masculine appearance? Please describe in detail what you mean.
/r/RPChristians16/02/25 02:17 PM
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I'll pat you on the back too, nicely done. I don't know the extent of how bedridden your wife is, but I think I remember sex is off the table. What about an HJ or BJ?
/r/RPChristians16/02/25 02:14 PM
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Do you want a mediocre girl or a hottie?
/r/RPChristians16/02/25 02:07 PM
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Age, relationship status, weight, height, bf, lifts
/r/RPChristians16/02/25 01:31 PM
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Interesting 2 posts. What are your stats?
/r/RPChristians16/02/25 01:22 PM
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Good, more food for thought, what would you do if you had no fear of failure?
/r/RPChristians10/02/25 02:45 PM
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Love the post, and that fact that you posted here.
/r/RPChristians10/02/25 12:28 AM
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I'll jump in and reply. You want an awesome life that the wife is invited to join, but your life is awesome either way. I see some growth, but something is missing. Maybe hobbies? What can you do over the next week that will make you happier and has nothing to do with your wife? See my answer to #1. It solves both.
/r/RPChristians10/02/25 12:19 AM
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What's something big you want to accomplish this year?
/r/RPChristians10/02/25 12:15 AM
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Mission: To bless and honor God alone and do what he wants with all of my life and fully rest in the completed work in Jesus on the cross. To be more like Jesus, which includes growing in spiritual disciplines. To have 3 disciples with the goal of multiplication by the end of 2025. With regards to health, to live as long and healthily as I possibly can by doing lifting and cardio in order to have as long healthspan as possible. I see my influence and wisdom growing as I get older and I want to e…
/r/RPChristians09/02/25 11:58 PM
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5’ 11’’, 173lbs, 34 yo, 33 wife, 8, 4 boys. Health Some traveling out west at a resort made training hard. I actually passed out from the elevation, so I didn’t do well with training there. I know to drink more water next time I go. This past week has been okay. I lifted 3x which was my original goal for the year, but I want to lift more, do a PPL close to 6x per week. I also have cardio and longevity goals related to my mission. Weight is about the same. I have inconsistent activity which is le…
/r/RPChristians09/02/25 11:57 PM
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Fair enough, I was imparting my story on yours. My wife has diastasis but not as bad as yours.
/r/RPChristians29/01/25 03:59 PM
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This is more for any future reader as it is likely too late for you to change this now. Dread could have fixed what you are using surgery to fix. It seems to me that you are just reinforcing bad behavior, and now no sex for 2 months. Your choice at the end of the day. As for fitness test or genuine rejection, it doesn't matter. Did you get what you want?
/r/RPChristians27/01/25 01:01 PM
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I forgot about your history tbh. Was it a covert contract initiation before or authentic desire? Were you butthurt?
/r/RPChristians24/01/25 07:07 PM
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I'll have more persistence when I'm sensing a possible opening. Still in her head. Do you want sex? If yes initiate like you mean it and don't stop until a hard no or you want to stop. Edit to add: A woman wants to feel a real man's sexual desire. Don't hide it like a nice guy.
/r/RPChristians24/01/25 06:36 PM
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How is your bench 50% more than your squat or your body weight? Doing good form or showing off and arching back like crazy? My bad knee and I honestly didn't care about lower body for a time. Reacting like that over pickleball and fixating on long lifespan while still in 30s are signs of low self esteem. Focus on actions and spiritual growth that build your self esteem over time. I am recognizing multiple places where I struggle with anger, this was an example. I don't understand how my longevit…
/r/RPChristians22/01/25 09:42 PM
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If you wanted sex and didn't get a hard no, you caved in some way and are still in her head. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/60x6do/did_you_get_a_hard_no_or_a_soft_no_or_quit_being/ I understand not wanting to initiate then, but what about the other 5 days of the week? Also what is your back story, were you alpha at some point or not?
/r/RPChristians22/01/25 09:37 PM
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Wife initiated extended spooning session in bed this morning and told me that I did an excellent job leading family this weekend, but I'm trying to grow by not using such feedback as my primary barometer anymore. My intuition is she wants you to initiate sex from spooning. Do you want to spoon or have sex? You are on RPC so I assume the correct barometer should be have you had sex.
/r/RPChristians22/01/25 04:20 PM
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I am exploring purchasing a business and am SBA approved if you want to talk about that. Connect with God daily In prayer/devotion alone - miss. Zero I think outside of cuff prayers. Sex - continue initiating sex, how I want when I want regardless of outcome. - mediocre week here. What are you going to change this week here?
/r/RPChristians22/01/25 03:44 PM
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Mission: To bless and honor God alone and do what he wants with all of my life and fully rest in the completed work in Jesus on the cross. To be more like Jesus, which includes growing in spiritual disciplines. To have 3 disciples with the goal of multiplication by the end of 2025. With regards to health, to live as long and healthily as I possibly can by doing lifting and cardio in order to have as long healthspan as possible. I see my influence and wisdom growing as I get older and I want to e…
/r/RPChristians22/01/25 03:34 PM
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5’ 11’’, 173lbs, 34 yo, 33 wife, 8, 4 boys. Health Joints are okay this week. My family prayed for my knee and it started feeling better after. Thank you God. My goal is to lift at least 2x per week and do more cardio (pickleball). Estimated 1RM is 240 Bench, 163 SQ, 259 DL. I also have cardio and longevity goals related to my mission. Weight is about the same. I have inconsistent activity which is leading to an inconsistent TDEE. When I have a new normal schedule I should be able to figure out …
/r/RPChristians22/01/25 03:33 PM
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I want to read this but couldn't find it when I searched. Was this in an OYS or somewhere else?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/25 03:19 AM
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I would argue not, even on the first part. I hear you is fine. You are doing something wrong is not for the time being. See if you can STFU for a week and not tell her she is doing anything wrong.
/r/RPChristians13/01/25 04:58 PM
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Dude, you need to STFU more than anything.
/r/RPChristians13/01/25 03:08 PM
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I'm not personally closed to polygyny in the long term. I have landed in a place where I don't believe it is sinful. I am still evaluating this to be sure though.
/r/RPChristians11/01/25 02:59 PM
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Seems like a list of not well defined goals. How much sex are you getting? What does your OI look like for getting a no? Personality matters much more than abs. Why are you using Rx to get abs? What does your comment about prize even mean. How often are wanting to read with your daughter? A lot of this smells like a dancing monkey, but I'm not certain. Look at smarter goals and try to have some on your next OYS or even in a response here.
/r/RPChristians08/01/25 12:02 AM
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In regards to squat, yes I have a past injury, go rambo on repeat. I am going to take it slow. I talked with the pastor once, but there are still issues that need to be addressed. In my story I have been through this before with a different pastor. This time I didn't DEER and held my ground. Him and I had a good relationship before this. Things will go well or I will leave the church, I don't really care at the end of the day. The wife as a gift piece is new is why I mentioned it. I think if you…
/r/RPChristians07/01/25 11:40 PM
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Mission: To bless and honor God alone and do what he wants with all of my life and fully rest in the completed work in Jesus on the cross. To be more like Jesus, which includes growing in spiritual disciplines. To have 3 disciples with the goal of multiplication by the end of 2025. With regards to health, to live as long and healthily as I possibly can by doing lifting and cardio in order to have as long healthspan as possible. I see my influence and wisdom growing as I get older and I want to e…
/r/RPChristians07/01/25 04:19 PM
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OYS 16 - 5’ 11’’, 173lbs (+1), 34 yo, 33 wife, 8, 4 boys. Lifting is about the same. Went through a deload week. I don’t like deload weeks as they feel like a waste of time. Maybe I just need to change my mindset around them. Estimated 1RM is 240 Bench, 163 SQ, 259 DL. I also have cardio and longevity goals related to my mission. My weight is trending up. It is a little higher than I would like. Bodyfat is in the teens. I plan to get a dexa scan soon to update it. Last I checked it, it was at 17…
/r/RPChristians07/01/25 04:19 PM
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I appreciate the comment, I did a good amount of reading. I will gladly eat my words if I am wrong. I still stand by my situation being a main event. My reading on hysterical bonding mentions emotional volatility as a telltale sign and this has not been the case. I will stay on the lookout regardless. Also, I read the Ray Ortland Soul Keeping book on your recommendation and enjoyed it. Thanks for posting about that (assuming I have the same person).
/r/RPChristians07/01/25 03:59 PM
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I know God can use anyone, including an ass. I would prefer to know more about someone I am swapping notes with. My closing was more of an invitation to post an OYS, FR, or something. I'm getting the sex I want, but I'm not saying I'm completely where I want to be either. Time will tell if it's hysterical bonding, but sex was on tap before this as well.
/r/RPChristians07/01/25 12:28 AM
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I am responding as I desire, not sure why it comes across as not being able to handle it. I can handle stuff from my wife too. I am getting tired of this Hurr de durr, you responded and so you are DEERing hurr de durr. I think it is detracting from the goal of men swapping notes. Regardless, I don't currently find dread to be a useful tool for where I am. I get sex as I want. Disrespect from my wife, which I see as a sin and am trying to correct. I think there can be a healthy fear that leads to…
/r/RPChristians07/01/25 12:25 AM
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I find it funny all 3 comments are calling me not RP, which is fine. I'm no guru, and I'm grinding. The sidebar says: We're here to provide a place for Christian Men to discuss problems, solutions and insights on relationships, sex, and biblical masculinity according to biblical principles. I am sharing a problem I had and how I addressed it. Did I do it well? I will give myself a 70%. I could have executed much better. Did I get the result I want? Besides wife going to pastor, yes. Is my wife i…
/r/RPChristians06/01/25 01:19 PM
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It's my understanding that overt dread or overt consequences for bad behavior have been largely disproven by the MRP community. Like 'failatdawn' points out, any resulting improvements from wife would be forced and from a place of fear, which won't be genuine or sustained. I disagree, but I am open to changing my mind. What proof does MRP have that it doesn't work? Do you think God disciplines us? Does he use fear as a motivator sometimes? Change needs to come from wife being drawn to your attra…
/r/RPChristians06/01/25 01:19 PM
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This was not a main event I disagree. I think the narrow definition of snot bubble is unhelpful. I define a main event as a last ditch effort by a wife to maintain control up to an event which afterwards, the wife turns into a sweet submissive woman. I have had 2 of these, one of them detailed above. Attempting to "discipline" your wife into submitting is going to backfire. It will simply cause resentment and any submitting you experience will either be done spitefully or from a place of fear. I…
/r/RPChristians06/01/25 12:54 PM
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You’re still way too emotional. Hmm, maybe? I have likely yelled at my wife 3 times in the past 10 years. Was it the best move, likely not, but I even said that in my post. I wouldn’t even consider you red pilled. What makes you the gatekeeper of RP? What do you have to contribute here? Keep grinding I am. I am simply sharing my story as a grinding guy, I'm no guru. I'm posting OYS etc. What are you doing?
/r/RPChristians06/01/25 12:34 PM
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Okay, I will give you more feedback on your next OYS, seems like something new is brewing. I do agree you should give a lot of time before divorce, but I'm coloring my situation on yours.
/r/RPChristians06/01/25 12:29 PM
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You should read this if you haven't: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/60x6do/did_you_get_a_hard_no_or_a_soft_no_or_quit_being/
/r/RPChristians06/01/25 12:35 AM
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I finally posted it: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/1hug2uw/fr_main_event/ And yeah, I set some new years goals around friends, I want to see improvement there.
/r/RPChristians05/01/25 08:16 PM
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Mission: To bless and honor God alone and do what he wants with all of my life and fully rest in the completed work in Jesus on the cross. To be more like Jesus, which includes growing in spiritual disciplines. To have 3 disciples with the goal of multiplication by the end of 2025. With regards to health, to live as long and healthily as I possibly can by doing lifting and cardio in order to have as long healthspan as possible. I see my influence and wisdom growing as I get older and I want to e…
/r/RPChristians30/12/24 02:05 PM
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5’ 11’’, 173lbs (+3), 34 yo, 33 wife, 8, 4 boys. Lifting is good, I've battled a knee injury that has been hit or miss, I keep getting to a respectable level on SQ and DL then get hurt. Wendler 531 plus some accessories. Estimated 1RM is 240 Bench, 163(+8) SQ, 259(+9) DL. I am considering taking my own advice and hiring a powerlifting coach, but I also don’t care that much about my leg lifts, so I want to make a decision around this soon. I also have cardio and longevity goals related to my miss…
/r/RPChristians30/12/24 02:05 PM
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Do you want to change? What are your physical stats?
/r/RPChristians25/12/24 02:24 PM
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My post or my ...
/r/RPChristians19/12/24 02:56 PM
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Updated op with a new post
/r/RPChristians19/12/24 02:55 PM
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It came out in our argument in a round about way. I have handled it well. More details will be in a future post.
/r/RPChristians19/12/24 02:37 PM
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You can sh*t on my all you want, I don't care. I know why I am here and what I am doing. Do you? Why are you here?
/r/RPChristians19/12/24 01:33 PM
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The username is fitting. What is your mission?
/r/RPChristians19/12/24 02:59 AM
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Spiritual: Assurance of Salvation - 10 Quiet Time/Devotional - 4 Bible Study - 2 Scripture Memory - 0 Prayer - 7 Evangelism - 2 Fellowship - 3 Mission: To bless and honor God alone and do what he wants with all of my life and fully rest in the completed work in Jesus on the cross. To be more like Jesus, which includes growing in spiritual disciplines. To have 3 disciples with the goal of multiplication by the end of 2025. With regards to health, to live as long and healthily as I possibly can by…
/r/RPChristians18/12/24 08:33 PM
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5’ 11’’, 170lbs, 34 yo, 33 wife, 8, 4 boys. Lifting is good, I've battled a knee injury that has been hit or miss, I keep getting to a respectable level on SQ and DL then get hurt. I’m open to feedback on how to fix this. Estimated 1RM is 240 Bench, 155 SQ, 250 DL. I am considering taking my own advice and hiring a powerlifting coach, but I also don’t care that much about my leg lifts, so I want to make a decision around this soon. I also have cardio and longevity goals related to my mission. My…
/r/RPChristians18/12/24 08:33 PM
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Lol, what is this?
/r/RPChristians18/12/24 08:17 PM
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My wife now sees me as the head of the home, and she is not able to just drop responsibilities in my lap without asking. Her asking to shower is her asking me to watch the kids while she freshens up for our date. Your wife has led things to where they are and you have let her. I would change the title of you post to: "I am letting my wife is make life difficult for me" If you want to change, commit to doing the hard work over the next 15 months. If you commit to change and honor God, you will be…
/r/RPChristians13/12/24 12:43 PM
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You can change this situation, but you must want to change. My wife just asked my permission to take a shower, lol.
/r/RPChristians12/12/24 07:34 PM
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I've had an interesting time since posting these, more updates are coming.
/r/RPChristians11/12/24 02:57 PM
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This is the type of content we need around here. Stealing from Rian Stone, I envision this place as "men swapping notes". We are in a unique position as we answer to God, taking some things off the table. My story is still being written in expected ways, even in the last week. I will update here when I can. I appreciate you posting, hopefully the other comment was actually helpful. In my opinion, we are not going to "arrive" until the end of our life. What are you doing about your mission?
/r/RPChristians11/12/24 02:44 PM
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Updated OP
/r/RPChristians07/12/24 07:34 PM
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How do I not play the game to begin with?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/24 12:17 AM
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Where do I learn more about this in the positive?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/24 06:50 PM
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Yeah, I think fear was the wrong word choice to describe things, changed op from fear to care. I'm not some RP God. I'm just a regular guy who is happy with the progress made and want to help others.
/r/RPChristians06/12/24 11:24 AM
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I'll bite, could be. How so?
/r/RPChristians05/12/24 08:46 PM
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Sweet, let's chat more on Discord. There's a good amount here.
/r/RPChristians05/12/24 12:52 PM
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Lol, bummer. Maybe you can learn to not be as autistic, I know at least 1 person who has accomplished this feat.
/r/RPChristians04/12/24 06:52 PM
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Get plugged into the discord or post some OYS. As long as you aren't autistic AF and you want to go you would likely get an invite. I forgot to send conquer, I may start an online group if there is interest: https://www.conquerseries.com/
/r/RPChristians03/12/24 12:57 PM
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Good question. I am far from egalitarian, they would be offended at this, but men and women are different. My wife is not allowed to flirt with other men. I can flirt with other women. The difference is in sexual dynamics. My wife, well any woman, if they made themselves available, could likely sleep with a man ever single night. I know how to sleep with women if I wanted to. This power is attractive to women, including my wife. Even with all the above, I am unlikely to have the success rate of …
/r/RPChristians03/12/24 12:54 PM
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Lol, 😆 yes I did. Woosh
/r/RPChristians02/12/24 10:26 PM
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I am a little concerned I say I am fantasizing about cheating on my wife to get back at her and you are focusing on the behavior, which I would argue is not in itself sinful.
/r/RPChristians02/12/24 09:58 PM
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Okay, that's good. I was going to be concerned for you if you thought I was overly aggressive, lol.
/r/RPChristians01/12/24 02:58 PM
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I can't think of a time that happened. Reddit at large is likely the youth group vibe. I know some of the mods agree with polygamy and some others in discord agree with remarriage being adultery. I wouldn't equate down votes with mods opinion. Do you have times you or someone you saw be silenced?
/r/RPChristians30/11/24 01:01 PM
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Why do you say that? To avoid the no true Scotsman fallacy, I recommend you define terms.
/r/RPChristians28/11/24 01:01 PM
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Is this directed towards me?
/r/RPChristians28/11/24 12:58 PM
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When did you post an intro? I don't think a mod would troll and delete it, but I could be wrong.
/r/RPChristians27/11/24 12:31 PM
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Be part of the change you want to see.
/r/RPChristians25/11/24 06:43 PM
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Be part of the change you want to see.
/r/RPChristians25/11/24 06:43 PM
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Stay tuned.
/r/RPChristians25/11/24 06:43 PM
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Stay tuned.
/r/RPChristians25/11/24 06:43 PM
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Besides intros on Discord, there has been about 1 post in the last year, so maybe?
/r/RPChristians25/11/24 06:42 PM
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If you find it please let me know. The only that I know of are Darlock's (no longer active) and DeepStregth's (I didn't look into this too much but he still appears active) blog. There are some RL people I have met that I keep into contact with. I am unaware of other options and hope to rebuild an on ramp for new people.
/r/RPChristians25/11/24 06:42 PM
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Lol, nice one.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/24 09:10 PM
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Fun read, but seems validation seeking on the plate details.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/24 01:26 AM
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Lol. But they want to be treated like objects in bed. Women...
/r/RPChristians31/10/24 01:12 PM
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Get out of your head with sex. This is not some performance that is being filmed. Do what you want without thinking of the other party.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/24 01:46 AM
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My thoughts exactly. OYSer, if you want sex initiate. If you don't want to hear no then stop complaining about being busy and never initiate. My wife said let do it tomorrow. I said okay and then we proceeded to f*ck.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/24 01:43 AM
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I would love to read a full breakdown of control vs dominance from you.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/24 01:28 AM
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Medication has been a great help in my son. Don't assume the pill is a negative. Long term outcomes of methylphenidate are better than those with ADHD who don't take it. I'm not saying your kid has it, but do more research. If you randomly cry at corny movies, you probably have it too.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/24 01:24 AM
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Are you op? Do you know how to lead?
/r/RPChristians05/10/24 01:58 AM
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Everyone wants a proverbs 31 woman but they don't read verse 3.
/r/RPChristians04/10/24 02:53 AM
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This was better than I expected.
/r/RPChristians04/10/24 02:51 AM
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This was an interesting read. Do you lift? Do you know how to lead?
/r/RPChristians04/10/24 02:42 AM
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Some people here are giving me weird vibes. If you want kids, stop going to school and creating more debt. Have a serious conversation about your goals. If you have already, how has it gone? There is something stressing him, that is the only reason a man wouldn't want sex. Maybe it's you. I agree you shouldn't have gotten the morning after pill. You have some talking to do.
/r/RPChristians25/08/24 11:01 AM
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I keep seeing sex as low frequency, why?
/r/RPChristians11/08/24 12:44 PM
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Yes, now is the time you test her submissiveness. Order her around (I'm not joking, although our culture leans itself to this being a meme). You can do so kindly, how you would an employee if you are a manager. Go through the hard texts with no agenda, just see where she is now. That will give you a good gauge. Are there red flags you are concerned about right now?
/r/RPChristians11/08/24 12:38 PM
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For some reason I didn't get notified. I'm 291 days from porn. I have found some victory, thanks be to God. You need to disassociate porn and sex with your wife. Porn is used as a way to deal with boredom, loneliness, suffering and to get validation. Good sex is giving validation to your wife and breaking through her tests etc because you want to and are not making up for some inadequacy. I can go on. You also need to learn to STFU.
/r/RPChristians11/08/24 12:36 PM
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I think flirting sends the right message 😎. Marriage is supposed to be a Godly direction to send you sexual desire, up to you how strict you are on that one. Also, you can lead better with more practice. Your decision at the end of the day.
/r/RPChristians01/08/24 01:39 AM
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How are you doing in reaching the standards you have set? I think there is no harm in flirting until you get there, but that is up to you. Also I hope you didn't share the no porn part.
/r/RPChristians31/07/24 11:03 PM
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How do you think your wife would reply to "go do X" to something that you are wanting done? Have you done any vision casting for the why behind breaking bad habits?
/r/RPChristians31/07/24 11:00 PM
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Wtf is this? You don't even know how to count your children. You enjoy being yelled at in front of your wife, your mission mentions like 4 different things and all your spiritual growth/sanctification and sex with your wife hinges on you getting your "addiction" under control? And then you are here to get yelled at? Sounds like the train wreck it is. How would you even describe the gospel?
/r/RPChristians26/07/24 10:08 PM
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Why can you not do frequency and quality?
/r/RPChristians26/07/24 10:03 PM
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You are on OYS 3 and giving advice? You need to learn to STFU
/r/RPChristians26/07/24 10:00 PM
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What are you going to do to change this? You cannot control her at the end of the day.
/r/RPChristians11/07/24 03:49 AM
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It sounds like you are on the dancing monkey improvement plan and not doing it for yourself.
/r/RPChristians09/07/24 09:16 PM
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Things seem to be going well overall. I'm not sure if you are at the point your life is so great sex can come and go. What do you think? If not how will you get there? Why did you miss your physical goals? Doing this often leads my nice guy to come out. I am slightly concerned at the road ahead. You likely already know but pregnancy makes sex harder. I also don't see any mention of your flirt game.
/r/RPChristians09/07/24 04:08 AM
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Overall things seem on track. Better formatting with repeated things. I recommend you try to make your goals "smart". Also look up Alex hormozi on productivity on YouTube where he shows his calendar. That should help you with spinning your wheels.
/r/RPChristians09/07/24 03:43 AM
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I recommend you consolidate your posts. Only update what's new. It gets old finding what is new out of a wall of text.
/r/RPChristians02/07/24 03:31 AM
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I think we are in the same spot. There is still a sliver missing from being true OI.
/r/RPChristians25/06/24 11:25 PM
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Do you see it as a gift from her? Why do you care if she enjoys it?
/r/RPChristians24/06/24 04:37 PM
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Walk me though a typical initiation by you, word by word on both sides.
/r/RPChristians24/06/24 03:30 AM
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Your wife was sick so no sex, but still hung out with her family. Is this correct?
/r/RPChristians16/06/24 03:24 AM
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If you are adding things to your life (time for fitness, RP content etc,) you need to subtract things to make room for them. Either you can choose what it is or you can burn out by trying to do too much. Also how is your sleep?
/r/RPChristians07/06/24 10:05 AM
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Who are 1-2 guys you can share your life with and mentor them?
/r/RPChristians07/06/24 02:39 AM
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This was difficult to read. My intuition is you need to say no to some things in your life until you get your life in order. What can you take off your plate in order to better lead yourself and your family? Why has your fitness sucked?
/r/RPChristians07/06/24 02:33 AM
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I don't think DEVI will help. Have you read horns post on authentic desire?
/r/RPChristians06/06/24 08:23 PM
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Look up what is a hard no. I think it's in MRP. You may find it helpful.
/r/RPChristians24/05/24 10:24 PM
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I highly recommend you getting tested. Test, don't guess. Are you sure 7h is enough sleep? I have been highly interested in longevity and there are plenty of tests you can take to see what the problem is or talk to a doc if you know a good one.
/r/RPChristians23/05/24 02:31 AM
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This seemed like the most to the point I have read from you. Well done. You also don't come across as but hurt and OI about sex. I would treat the wife health stuff like you would a coworker. Lend an empathetic ear when convenient. When not convenient, don't. Initiate until you hear a hard no. Example: Last night I initiated late in bed. I have admittedly allowed this to become a bad habit. She sht tests me complaining about always having sex late. I laugh it off and keep going. She crosses a li…
/r/RPChristians23/05/24 02:25 AM
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I thought about how to reply to you, given how arrogant you are. I realize that is a theme. People try to help, but you know better than them. This makes it hard to want to help you. I am getting this from brief interactions on the Internet. I couldn't imagine the joy of living with you. You word vomit every week on your posts. You always have the right answer. Why are you even posting every week? When people try to help you, they are obviously wrong. What is the point? Regardless, the answer is…
/r/RPChristians17/05/24 01:32 PM
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You are assuming you know which one you are. Would God put you in a position where you have to sin and there is no way to escape? Your understanding also undermines Hebrews 4:15
/r/RPChristians10/05/24 07:31 PM
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You are: 1. Boring 2. Desperate 3. Angry You care way too much when she says no. OI will cure this, 2 and 3, and maybe even 1. Going out without your wife (mommy) knowing where will cure 1. I recommend you go out without her knowing where and you stop initiating for a little bit. She will have a lot of questions. Also figure out how to be OI, while "sexually satisfied" whatever that means. Jesus was OI. Was he "sexually satisfied"? If you do these, you will likely be better off than where you ar…
/r/RPChristians10/05/24 04:58 PM
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It sounds like you should start going down the path of dread. How often do you leave the house without the wife knowing where you are going? All the things around the house you care about should be done, but none of the things she cares about. You can do the above without sinning. Your wife can already feel your anger. What are you going to do about it in an OI way? You have combated me before about being OI is sin, but you keep actually sinning by looking at porn. There is a covert contract som…
/r/RPChristians10/05/24 01:45 AM
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Paul has answered your question. ‭1 Corinthians 10:13 NASB1995‬ [13] No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it. Also, you are on the dancing monkey improvement plan. Stop it.
/r/RPChristians19/04/24 01:08 PM
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"I honestly don't care about OI if the alternative is damnation. I'm going to keep my goal as only my wife as an outlet for sexual desire/fulfillment." You have clearly not considered a 3rd option and reading this as autistically as possible. I thought maybe 10 OYS was an accomplishment, which is why I offered to chat further offline, but you come off like a child still in the thread below. You are needy. What do you want? You are reaping what you are sowing. Your requirement, likely idolatry of…
/r/RPChristians19/04/24 03:14 AM
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Nice work making it to 10 OYS. Let me know if you want to chat further sometime, maybe voice? I know it can be helpful to further chat about some of these things. What does LMR look like in these situations? I think technically it is when the panties are about to come off. Is that when these are happening? Okay” with way too much IDGAF which made her fly off the handle and storm out of the bedroom IDGAF is supposed to be attractive. You are doing it wrong. Likely should have teased her or someth…
/r/RPChristians17/04/24 02:34 AM
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Good self-analysis here. Some other thoughts I would give that works for me personally when my wife gives a soft no (that is what all of your examples are) I just smile (a naughty boy smile) and keep going. Make it fun, not akward. Tickle her, lick her, bring her into your frame of sex now. I don't really get hard nos anymore, but you should go until she gives you a hard no (she is pissed at you). Let her be the mood killer, not you. If this happens, she will want to "talk it out later". The nic…
/r/RPChristians15/04/24 04:17 PM
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Somewhat of a rough read, a lot not going your way, but some areas of improvement. Glad to hear things seem better with the ex. I prayed for your job situation. I don't know how it works there, but the last time I was looking I applied to over 70 places. If you don't feel confident with job security there, do you need to reskill or relocate? As for frame, are you doing what you want to do? Do you even know what you want? I read some about your mission, but does it fit you well? If you want to le…
/r/RPChristians15/04/24 04:04 AM
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You want more sex, and yet your goal is to initiate once per week? If you are that horny, wake her up. She will complain, but she is yours. You are still scared of her. You still believe what she says instead of her actions. I know where you are. When you get over being nice all the time, you can be where I am. I woke my wife up last month in the morning. She complains, but we do it. She isn't into it but whatever. That whole day she is super affectionate and giving me iois. Next morning we do i…
/r/RPChristians15/04/24 03:53 AM
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There is a time and place for hypertrophy training, and it is squarely after you are actually strong (for a normie). Yes, it may not have been clear from my post, but I am still doing the big 4 and making gains on them, just not in the same way my stats have been tracked here. How are you defining strength goals I should hit? I know my legs are meh, but I think I am close to strong for my bodyweight on BP and MP. What I'm getting at, is go for quality - not quantity. You're clearly not starving …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/24 08:44 PM
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I've been thinking about how to reply. I would break it down into 3 things for me. Outcome independence: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2qjwg9/how_to_become_outcome_independent_using_a_stoic/ Setting goals that don't require input/help from others and meeting them Doing hard things. BJJ and lifting help me here Stop listening to crappy music. Society puts woman on a pedestal and complain In the end, I think validation seeking is weakness.
/r/RPChristians04/04/24 08:32 PM
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Yes, it may not have been clear from my post, but I am still doing the big 4 and making gains on them, just not in the same way my stats have been tracked here.
/r/RPChristians04/04/24 08:30 PM
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OYS 13 5' 11” 167 – Lift numbers are old; I switched to hypertrophy training. Leaving up for reference: SQ 190 5 reps, DL 230 6 reps, MP 125 1 rep, Bench 187.5 1 rep Mission: Live a Christian life. More details available in RPC post who care. Mental/Sex/Relationship: In a good place. I think March was one of the months where we had the most sex. I found out my wife tracks our sex in her fertility tracking app. I think March was 12. I haven’t fallen back into validation seeking. I have been able …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/24 01:50 PM
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OYS 13 5' 11” 167 – Lift numbers are old; I switched to hypertrophy training. Leaving up for reference: SQ 190 5 reps, DL 230 6 reps, MP 125 1 rep, Bench 187.5 1 rep Mission: Spend time with Jesus. My goal is to hear “well done good and faithful servant” at the end of my life (Matt 25:23). My current goals along these lines are: Have 3 multiplying disciples (defined as them having 3 people in their down line) Be directly or indirectly involved in rescuing 10 men from betadom (living as weak men …
/r/RPChristians02/04/24 01:49 PM
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Not sure. She just dipped. You can lead a horse to water vut you can't make it drink. Something seems off here but I will stop pressing. I'd actually be thrilled You are still white knighting. You are giving her so much head space even though she showed her true colors. It is possible for a woman wait for you to lead an encounter, but she did not. She gave into her sin too. You were not helping the relationship, but neither was she. Now get over it. This is my thinking also. Unfortunately I can'…
/r/RPChristians01/04/24 01:18 PM
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All with limited success Why limited success? explanation, should give you the right idea, tell me if I'm wacked. I went back and read your breakup post. There is more to this than I thought. If she met a Chad she would be over you, and you would probably be pissed. I think more than anything, you are projecting your feelings. You messed up and it affected other people (not just the porn but poor leadership). (I hope) You repented to God for messing up. You reaped what you sowed. Now get over it…
/r/RPChristians31/03/24 12:43 AM
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Sounds like things are improving overall. Newbie gains are nice to lose weight and improve your lifts. Every OYS of yours I have read you have been focused on a BJ. I think this is another validation point of yours. Some women just don't like them. If everything was working in your life except BJ's, would you be happy? I have intuition that you are not letting the sexual experience unfold. Just enjoy each step and don't rush it. Take time. Live in the moment. I was bad at this, I'm guessing you …
/r/RPChristians30/03/24 11:43 AM
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How did you come to this workout? Are you seeking feedback?
/r/RPChristians30/03/24 11:33 AM
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It's okay to cry, just a matter of over what. Don't shame yourself for being emotional. I also convinced her to come along to one of the guys houses for post-church hangs, but she didn't stick around for very long. I hope you acted like her host there and engaged her in conversation etc. You had a chance to DHV by introducing her to others, etc. How did you do? she feels like crap, and that's my fault. I have zero context, and I don't care too much, but you are shaming yourself for her feelings.…
/r/RPChristians30/03/24 11:31 AM
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I'm not trying to attack you. Literally what are you doing with your time, do you work, go to school or something else productive? Ultimately you make time for what is important to you. ​ As for ADHD: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cx13a2-unjE&pp=ygUQZG8geW91IGhhdmUgYWRoZA%3D%3D I ask because of how hard you are on yourself and you seem to also have time blindness.
/r/RPChristians18/03/24 11:50 AM
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Thanks for the Luke reference, this was super helpful. I met my goals and am not getting duty sex. I hear you though.
/r/RPChristians17/03/24 08:55 PM
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I'm confused where all your time is going. I have a job, family and I lift 2-3x/week, bjj 2-3x/week and have other stuff going on too. Have you looked into ADHD? Your dialogue here sounds like you have it.
/r/RPChristians17/03/24 08:54 PM
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In both replies you say it is a long road. It can be sooner if you think it will. You have a lot going on. If you want improvement here sooner, you should say no to other things in your life. ​ There is an RPC post on defining a mission, I recommend you read it. ​ You don't know how to deal with her sh*t tests, which is what was happening during sex. Ideally, sex will be from your natural desire. It was scheduled, which can be okay, but it still needs to be from your natural male desire. My gues…
/r/RPChristians17/03/24 08:46 PM
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Lifts: modified phraks for 5-6 days lifting a week. Pulled shoulder and felt pain in new. Beginning cut diet so I will lay off lifts for two weeks and begin cardio. Resuming lifting by OYS 15 I highly recommend you do not stop lifting. Work around your injury, work on mobility. Also, cutting is not a reason to not lift. HB10 was out of office last week. You let this girl have way too much head space. At 20ish% body fat a true 10 would not even talk to you. Maybe a 10 in your brain, but I am stil…
/r/RPChristians05/03/24 08:17 PM
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OYS 12 5' 11” 165 – (not much change here from last OYS) 165 SQ 190 5 reps (+10), DL 230 6 reps (+20lbs +1 rep), MP 125 1 rep, Bench 187.5 1 rep Mission: I realize I have been forgetting to include my mission. My goal is to hear “well done good and faithful servant” at the end of my life (Matt 25:23). My current goals along these lines are: Have 3 multiplying disciples (defined as them having 3 people in their down line) Be directly on indirectly involved in rescuing 10 men from betadom (living …
/r/RPChristians05/03/24 08:09 PM
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OYS 12 5' 11” 165 – (not much change here from last OYS) 165 SQ 190 5 reps (+10), DL 230 6 reps (+20lbs +1 rep), MP 125 1 rep, Bench 187.5 1 rep Mission: I realize I have been forgetting to include my mission. My goal is to hear “well done good and faithful servant” at the end of my life (Matt 25:23). My current goals along these lines are: Have 3 multiplying disciples (defined as them having 3 people in their down line) Be directly on indirectly involved in rescuing 10 men from betadom (living …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/24 08:07 PM
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I stopped initiating a while back because I didn’t like being rejected. This is so weak Wife didn’t initiate this week. Not her job. I told her that I needed sex for temptation fighting and we set Sunday night for me to get a hand job (she's on her period and blowjobs have been out for a long time). Scheduled sex is typically duty sex She seemed like she was ready (put on somethign sexy then cuddled up to me), then came up with excuses for how her hands hurt and she was too stressed about stuff …
/r/RPChristians05/03/24 04:22 AM
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Its a shit test, she is trying to make you promise that you wont do it again and then get in her frame so that she will lose attraction to you. Women do that to men to see if they actually have abundance or they are seeking validation from her. Good point, I will not bend to her frame. Keep it I have no problem keeping it, my internal dialogue is more should I seek more numbers. I wonder if I am just moving my goal of validation seeking from my wife to somewhere else. I believe you man Nice jab …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/24 08:38 PM
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Overt dread is not different than seeking validation. "Look here please, OTHER girls like me, so WhY dOn'T YOU?!" I feel this and don't like where things are. This is why I am on the fence about whether I should continue to get new girls numbers. You also say it's not what you want in the same breath as being undecided about keeping numbers. Own you shit and make a decision. Being passive and directionless is unattractive. I was pissed, hit on a girl and got her number. I decided that I did not …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/24 08:29 PM
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OYS 11 (#3 this year) 5' 11” 165 – (not much change here from last OYS) 165 SQ 190 5 reps (+10), DL 230 6 reps (+20lbs +1 rep), MP 125 1 rep, Bench 187.5 1 rep (most of these vary, I’m running Wendler 531) I have made good progress this week. I finished another listen through NMMNG. I have many traits of a nice guy still (again?). I was a solo dad for most of the week. I think this is the first time she has been gone and I have not had her do extra work just so I can have it easier. When working…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 08:41 PM
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Internal vs external conflict and which do you have control over? External. I have control over any internal conflict and how I react to any external conflict. Hamster this however you want. I think it is equally likely you are incompetent and don’t take responsibility for yourself, but what are you going to do about it. I have been incompetent, but where am I not taking responsibility? I wanted to find the source of my issue so I could deal with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/24 08:05 PM
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There is no need for "conflicts" when you have frame. Meh, I disagree. When reestablishing boundaries there is likely to be conflict. Yes, I'm an idoit for not having them, so I am getting what I deserve for that. ​ Field report it. Hard to tell otherwise but usually its some form of making your wife your judge and/or validator. I don't think it's unique enough. "Dancing monkey gets mad his wife isn't fulfilling his covert contract around sex". I came to the conclusion I have been led by fear. F…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/24 01:12 PM
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OYS #10 (#2 this year) 5' 11” 165 SQ 190 5 reps (+10), DL 230 6 reps (+20lbs +1 rep), MP 125 1 rep, Bench 187.5 1 rep (most of these vary, I’m running Wendler 531) My goals for fitness have been a challenge. I don't think I am in good enough shape right now nor have the time priority wise to lift 4x per week and bjj 3x. I am going to try 2x lifting and 3x bjj, with both lifting days being full body. My current goal is to make it through the full rolling time at bjj, my cardio is weak and improvi…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/24 10:07 AM
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Great reply, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 01:33 PM
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OYS #9 (#1 this year) 5' 11” 165 SQ 191, DL 225, MP 120, Bench 190 I have been mostly focusing on upper body lifts. My weight is up this week more than I want. I have been cutting for a little while with the goal of having visible abs. I am close. I will go back to 2 meals/day to meet this goal. I want to get to 158 and then start a slow bulk. I am going to be doing more lower body (previously 0-1x/week to 2x/week) and adding BJJ. I realize I get mentally weak when these are missing. Sex has bee…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/24 12:35 PM
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My validation problem goes even deeper than I thought. I care way too much about what my wife thinks of sex. My “caveman” has been more along the lines of being angry she isn’t into sex and “punishing” her for it by going hard. All in her frame. I am doing almost all the validation-seeking behaviors in the “escaping validation” post. I keep wondering what the difference is between seeking validation from sex and just wanting it to be with an enthusiastic partner. Starfish sucks. I am progressing…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/22 04:00 AM
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OYS #7 5 11, 168-170ish +3-5(haven’t weighed in a few days)lbs, DL 210(+5), Squat 165(+15), Bench 165(+5), Pull-ups 4-3-2, OHP 95 Fitness I may be bulking too fast. My belly is getting bigger. I stopped weighing myself since that is making it hard for me to eat as much, but I am not sure what is too much. My old jeans don’t fit anymore. I keep being tempted to cut as I don’t like the look of my belly and not seeing my abs. Maybe I just need bigger abs. I decided I will fail under the bar instead…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/22 05:18 AM
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OYS 6 5 11, 165lbs, DL 205, Squat 150, Bench 160, Pull-ups 4-3-2, OHP 95 I am on a trip right now that I agreed to for my wife's sake. It is with her friends. I am up in my room doing work I brought because I didn’t want to waste vacation time on this. I am thinking about what type of rewards should I be giving my wife. Is it really I am the prize and it stops at that? How does mayor-game play into this (Jack10)? When I agreed to the trip there were no covert contracts then - this is actually wr…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 01:11 PM
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OYS 5 The Turning Point Last Stats: Married Age: 31 Height: 5ft. 11in. Weight: 155 lbs - this is a 7 day moving average instead of single day Body fat: ~14% Exercise: I didn’t save my last workout with higher numbers, will leave these the same for now. Traveling and illness have me out of my rhythm here. Switched to GSLP: Squat: 155 max 5x5, down to 150 deload 557 Deadlift: 225 1x5 deload to 205 1x5 Bench: 160 5x5 max, deloading to 152.5 555 Overhead press: 95 556 Pull Up: -27.5 555 Row: 80 55 1…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/22 05:27 PM
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OYS 4 Last Time Stats: Married Age: 31 Height: 5ft. 11in. Weight: 150.6 lbs - this is a 7 day moving average instead of single day Body fat: ~17.5% (Renpho Scale - doubtful this is accurate) Exercise: Switched to GSLP: Squat: 155 max 5x5, down to 150 deload 557 Deadlift: 225 1x5 deload to 205 1x5 Bench: 160 5x5 max, deloading to 152.5 555 Overhead press: 95 556 Pull Up: -27.5 555 Row: 80 55 11 I am also doing a lot more accessory work now with the goal of hypertrophy Diet: Stil going for 15%bf. …
/r/RPChristians23/06/22 02:22 AM
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OYS 4 Last Time Stats: Married Age: 31 Height: 5ft. 11in. Weight: 150.6 lbs - this is a 7 day moving average instead of single day Body fat: ~17.5% (Renpho Scale - doubtful this is accurate) Exercise: Switched to GSLP: Squat: 155 max 5x5, down to 150 deload 557 Deadlift: 225 1x5 deload to 205 1x5 Bench: 160 5x5 max, deloading to 152.5 555 Overhead press: 95 556 Pull Up: -27.5 555 Row: 80 55 11 I am also doing a lot more accessory work now with the goal of hypertrophy Diet: Stil going for 15%bf. …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/22 02:20 AM
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Nice sales letter at the end, you piqued my interest.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/22 04:36 AM
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Thank you for pointing out my terrible language. Do you have basics in mind or you are saying I should focus on one thing at a time? Can you explain why that comment at the end is a shitty mental model?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/22 04:33 AM
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How do you define a retard bulk?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/22 04:31 AM
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OYS 3 Last Time Stats: Married Age: 31 Height: 5ft. 11in. Weight: 150 lbs (-1) Body fat: ~17.5% (Renpho Scale - doubtful this is accurate) Exercise: Switched to GSLP: Squat: 155 max 5x5, down to 145 deload 557 Deadlift: 225(+10) 1x5 Pull Up: -30 556 Bench: 160 5x5 max, deloading to 150 557 Overhead press: 90 5x5 max, deload to 85 5x5 Diet: My diet has been much better. Abs are starting to show. I plan to get a DEXA soon so I can see if I have reached my 15%bf goal. I don’t think the 17.5% is acc…
/r/RPChristians16/06/22 03:01 AM
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OYS 3 Last Time Stats: Married Age: 31 Height: 5ft. 11in. Weight: 150 lbs (-1) Body fat: ~17.5% (Renpho Scale - doubtful this is accurate) Exercise: Switched to GSLP: Squat: 155 max 5x5, down to 145 deload 557 Deadlift: 225(+10) 1x5 Pull Up: -30 556 Bench: 160 5x5 max, deloading to 150 557 Overhead press: 90 5x5 max, deload to 85 5x5 Diet: My diet has been much better. Abs are starting to show. I plan to get a DEXA soon so I can see if I have reached my 15%bf goal. I don’t think the 17.5% is acc…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 02:57 AM
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I don't follow. I have done MWF to follow SL schedule. Are you recommending something else?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/22 12:15 PM
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I would describe it as I am in a good spot to build muscle. Not in a good spot right now. Appreciate your concern, but I am not going to stay where I am.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/22 10:43 AM
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I believe it is lower due to pictures and the inherent inaccuracy of the Renpho scale, but I am leaving it as is since it is my measurement for now. I plan to evaluate using other more accurate methods soon. Edit, the navy method tells me 8.5%
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 11:51 AM
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I hear you. I will consider if I want to keep posting it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 11:47 AM
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I didn't realize nobody was the intended audience of my writing. I will take that into consideration.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 12:44 AM
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MWF. I do Bench/Squat/Chin Ups for one and Bench/DL/Overhead the other.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 12:37 AM
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11.1% on that.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/22 12:35 AM
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I remember reading this post a while back and laughing. I started at 190 pounds, I am looking forward to eating again. My goal has been 15% bf before bulking, I may already be there as I doubt the 18% is accurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 08:45 PM
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It is all I have atm. Your link is broken.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 08:44 PM
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I don't really think the 18% is accurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 08:23 PM
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150-160g
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 08:22 PM
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OYS 2 Last time Stats: Married Age: 31 Height: 5ft. 11in. Weight: 151 lbs (-1) Body fat: ~18% (Renpho Scale) Exercise: Modified Stronglift: Squat: 155 max (+5), down to 135 deload 5x5 Deadlift: 215(+10) 1x5 Chin Up: -10 5x5 Bench: 160 max, deloading to 150 5x5 Overhead press: 90 deload to 85 5x5 Diet: My diet has been much better. Abs are starting to show. I plan to get a DEXA soon so I can see if I have reached my 15%bf goal. I don’t think the 18% is accurate. I went 6/7 for calorie tracking wh…
/r/RPChristians07/06/22 04:30 PM
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OYS 2 Last time Stats: Married Age: 31 Height: 5ft. 11in. Weight: 151 lbs (-1) Body fat: ~18% (Renpho Scale) Exercise: Modified Stronglift: Squat: 155 max (+5), down to 135 deload 5x5 Deadlift: 215(+10) 1x5 Chin Up: -10 5x5 Bench: 160 max, deloading to 150 5x5 Overhead press: 90 deload to 85 5x5 Diet: My diet has been much better. Abs are starting to show. I plan to get a DEXA soon so I can see if I have reached my 15%bf goal. I don’t think the 18% is accurate. I went 6/7 for calorie tracking wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 04:26 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 01:36 PM
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Which rule is this, 11? Do I need to reach some acheivement then I can ask for notes from others?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 12:42 PM
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This is something I am trying to figure out. I have been "mostly" consistant with going to the gym, but that is about it. Anything you would recommend?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/22 11:21 AM
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OYS #1 since returned: Stats Married Age: 31 Height: 5ft. 11in. Weight: 152 lbs. Body fat: ~18% (Renpho Scale) Reading RPC Sidebar (read a while ago when it was shorter, should revisit) WISNIFG (complete) NMMNG (complete) Biblical Masculinity Blueprint (complete) WOTSM (listed once, starting over) SGM (Read, would like to revisit soon) Church Impotent (not heard of this book?) Exercise Modified Stronglift: Squat: 150 5x5 Deadlift: 205 1x5 Chin Up: -15 5x5 Bench: 160 5x5 Overhead press: 90 5x5 Di…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/22 01:57 AM
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Stats Married Age: 31 Height: 5ft. 11in. Weight: 152 lbs. Body fat: ~18% (Renpho Scale) Reading RPC Sidebar (read a while ago when it was shorter, should revisit) WISNIFG (complete) NMMNG (complete) Biblical Masculinity Blueprint (complete) WOTSM (listed once, starting over) SGM (Read, would like to revisit soon) Church Impotent (not heard of this book?) Exercise Modified Stronglift: Squat: 150 5x5 Deadlift: 205 1x5 Chin Up: -15 5x5 Bench: 160 5x5 Overhead press: 90 5x5 Diet I have been super la…
/r/RPChristians01/06/22 01:56 AM
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