And that makes me sad. So I plan to change that.

Who am I? The reason I am sad is God used this place helped turn my life and marriage around. I didn't find help in a church etc.

I want to help you do the same.

Am I some rando on the Internet? Of course I am. So is everyone else. I got here 7 years ago with my life on fire, searching something about my my wife not respecting me.

The reason I finally think I have something to add is I have my life in a much better place. I went from my wife flirting with another man in our church and getting ILYBINILWY to my wife regularly initiating sex and we had sex in the same hotel room as our kids while they were asleep (I used to think this was off limits, and now I realize it was because of how I thought about it). I'm not really defined by her anymore and don't care about sex as much, but I know if you are here, you are likely starving for some female "appreciation".

Anyway, I'm not the writer Red-Curious is, and I won't pretend to be. I will be here for those who want change, are willing to put in the work and aren't finding help in a church (our church doesn't know how to handle women, me listening to their advice is what got me in the mess to begin with).

I know we have had a couple people stop by the discord too. If you stopped by that ghost town, I will work to change that too.

I'm starting a Bible study Wed, Dec 4 11:30AM EST. More info inside the discord, we will likely meet there.

God bless