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| 7 | It's hilarious but simultaneously depressingor bigots Imagine not being a bigot in 2025. | /r/RPChristians | 15/02/25 11:38 PM |
| 8 | My wife is making life difficult for meI'm dying 🤣 lmao bless you Chuck | /r/RPChristians | 13/12/24 04:33 AM |
| 3 | This place looks dead.Many of us are still around, don't hesitate to reach out. | /r/RPChristians | 28/11/24 06:50 AM |
| – | Don't Hold Frame Do This InsteadThings must be hard for GLO if he is "slumming it" in a Christian subreddit. Evidently it is worth it to try and lure unsuspecting guys into his latest godless coaching scheme. For those that don't know, GLO hates and openly mocks Christians while blaming us for all the societal ills in the west. He practices kabbalah and has been trying to sell a book that teaches occultism wrapped a thin guise of psychoanalysis. He has nothing to offer us here and is only trying to harvest shekels from the und… | /r/RPChristians | 18/09/24 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Using Hypergamy to Your AdvantageDefinitely. Some of the happiest guys I know started in shitty places but keep growing while some of the most miserable guys I've met started with every advantage but are utterly black pilled. You're either growing or dying and people sense it in others. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Using Hypergamy to Your AdvantageInteresting sex advice, but no thanks, I'll leave that to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 11:06 PM |
| -3 | Using Hypergamy to Your AdvantageTo answer your question, you should tell your girlfriend that her nose ring makes her look like a cow. Also, don't date cows. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 11:03 PM |
| 8 | Using Hypergamy to Your AdvantageExpecting him to actually have read the post before making baseless criticisms is setting your bar too high for this sub | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 11:00 PM |
| 8 | Savior Complex and Blue Pill Thinking Destroy a Mans Life: UpdatedNo amount of alpha character traits make up for beta behavior and mentality, and in fact can make them prone to attracting and ending up with the worst of women. Sadly, I've known a number of Daves whose naivety and outsourcing of leadership cost them dearly. | /r/RPChristians | 02/07/24 02:11 AM |
| 9 | Let's Talk Triage, Because You're Killing MeValuable comment. Thank you for your insightful contribution. | /r/RPChristians | 31/05/24 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Getting over my wife’s pastEnemy? No. But often she is your opponent, and plot twist she wants you to beat her. | /r/RPChristians | 23/05/24 03:09 PM |
| 2 | I get worried about...What sort of idiot would marry a woman like that? For that matter, what low quality woman would marry the idiot? | /r/askRPC | 06/02/24 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Most Christians are Blue Pilled White KnightsThey need to change their avatar to an anime bunny furry, then they'd be truly alpha. | /r/RPChristians | 16/01/24 04:26 PM |
| 2 | What is the New Apostolic Reformation? Is this a sect of Christians that may not be following Bible teachings?Female pastor Claims to be an apostle The fact that you are asking is proof that you already understand that these things stem from biblical illiteracy. | /r/askRPC | 30/10/23 04:00 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Complimentarians Are Trying to Castrate You10th commandment: Exodus 20:17 “Thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's house, thou shalt not covet thy neighbour's wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his ass, nor any thing that is thy neighbour's.” | /r/RPChristians | 26/10/23 09:16 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Complimentarians Are Trying to Castrate YouComplimentarianism as a term was a cowardly rebrand of patriarchy when put under pressure by feminists. When the leftiod fembots started scree-ing about Christianity being patriarchal and saying that the Bible teaches women are property of their husbands, the correct response would have been to lean in closely to the microphone and say, "Yes. Yes it does." Instead, conservatarded cuckservatives (who can't seem to conserve anything but what the left pushed in the prior decade, it turns out) came … | /r/RPChristians | 26/10/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | In-Person RP training or coachingI've considered working with guys in some capacity like this. Message me if you want to discuss. | /r/askRPC | 24/08/23 10:09 PM |
| 2 | The Third AdamThat isn't Post Mill, that's Full Preterism, which is heretical and retarded. Post Mill is the (correct) belief that the Great Commission wasn't the Great Suggestion, that Corinthians 15 should be taken literally and Christ doesn't return to defeat death until the church has attained a general victory over his enemies on earth, and that when we pray "your kingdom come, on earth as it is in heaven" we aren't talking about metaphorical spiritual fee fee nonesense. | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/23 09:19 PM |
| 2 | The Third AdamPre-mill < A-mill < Post-mill. Join the post side. | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/23 08:58 PM |
| 11 | Noticing different behaviors from my LTRYou go to the car dealership to buy a truck. The salesperson comes back with a full sized SUV and starts telling you about why it is a better vehicle for you. Either you walk away or you hear him out and test drive it anyway. Maybe he is right after all. She thought she was getting egalitarianism until you put your beliefs into words, now she is faced with getting headship instead. She's test driving your leadership (i.e., sh** testing you). Are you a good leader? Do you set and enforce reasonab… | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/23 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Help getting over ex (4 month relationship) Conflicting signs from GodI've had signs from God to pursue her We broke up What do I do? Get over your oneitis and stop looking for "revelations" or "signs" in everything. The way you learn if it is God's plan for you to end up with her is by ending up with her. Until then, all signs (i.e., her telling you no) point to MOVE ON. Does it sting that you were too beta to make good on a potentially positive relationship? Of course. Let it be your wake up call to take your self improvement seriously so you don't biff it the n… | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/23 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Wife winked , QuestionWhat was the couples counseling from before about? Stats You're lifting, which is good. Definitely stay on that and take it seriously. What program are you running? How are you tracking progress? What's your diet / sleep like? Don't underestimate recovery. Finances Good on you for being a high earner and keeping her at home with the kids. Who manages the finances? Are you in charge of how money gets spent or does she hold the purse strings? Winking Winking itself may not be a big deal in most co… | /r/RPChristians | 28/07/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Complimentarians Are Trying to Castrate YouHey man, glad to hear you guys have been edified by some of the things I've written or said. I am not super thrilled with Reddit as a platform these days, but I've been considering starting a substack or Telegram channel to post on. Would that be something you think folks would be interested in? | /r/RPChristians | 28/07/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Complimentarians Are Trying to Castrate YouIn large part we all got pretty busy with various life stuff, and coordinating schedules with different time zones wasn't working out super well. | /r/RPChristians | 27/07/23 09:27 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Complimentarians Are Trying to Castrate YouI am not involved in the discord, but things seemed to be moving that way, yes. | /r/RPChristians | 27/07/23 05:50 AM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on Daily Wire and Ben Shapiro?Not worth listening to. The fact that they are allowed to have such large platforms and haven't had their payment processing turned off means they aren't saying anything dangerous to the system. | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/23 11:31 PM |
| 4 | PSA: Complimentarians Are Trying to Castrate YouThey rebranded out of honesty: they weren't patriarchal anymore. The church hasn't embraced real patriarchy in a long time. I think there is a good case to be made than in the antebellum south was the last time Americans writ-large believed in and practiced patriarchy as a matter of both church doctrine and civil policy. | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Is Oral Sex in Marriage Okay?Haha. Agreed. | /r/RPChristians | 20/06/23 01:18 PM |
| 11 | Is Oral Sex in Marriage Okay?"As an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. With great delight I sat in his shadow, and his fruit was sweet to my taste." - Song of Solomon 2:3 This isn't hard guys. | /r/RPChristians | 15/05/23 10:01 PM |
| 4 | What's the best way to lose 50 pounds while building muscle?Bigger Leaner Stronger https://www.amazon.com/dp/B006XF5BTG?ref_=cm_sw_r_apann_dp_H4QCZ2SDTAPSB7NK0JAQ Read this book and you will know everything you need to know to build a great physique. Follow his program and stay the course for a year and you'll be amazed at the results. Is it the absolute optimal top tier best program that will get you stage ready in a year? No. Is is more than sufficient to get you ahead of 90% of the guys out there? Yes. Stop worrying about best and focus on taking acti… | /r/askRPC | 02/03/23 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Caught wife wanking off(Continued) If you can get a woman to this level of arousal, you win. All of that swollen erectile tissue is very sensative and can cause orgasm (it's part of her clitoris after all). As you slide in and out of her opening, you are surrounded by and rubbing against this highly senstitive tissue. It is most concentrated at the opening so often very shallow short thrusts can be extremely pleasurable to her and make her beg for it deeper. It is in this state of arousal that women are most likely to… | /r/RPChristians | 27/02/23 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Caught wife wanking offWARNING: Graphic descriptions below. If you're reading this and a "weaker brother" when it comes to describing sexual stuff, close it out and go elsewhere. It's less about being "mentally reprogrammed" and more about being "programmed" for sexual response for the first time. Imagine you've only ever had sex with a limp dick. Every now and then you manage to get just hard enough to get off, but a lot of the time it doesn't quite work out. You've never been fully erect before, worse you don't even… | /r/RPChristians | 27/02/23 07:24 PM |
| 16 | Do you think Christian women care about men's body count?First, stop listening to what women say about nearly anything, especially women on those terrible shows. Second, Christian women care about body count in varying degrees, but on the whole they care far less about it than Christian men do. In short, just about any women can get sex easily so a woman with a body count indicates poor impulse control, whereas men must be a certain degree of capable to have sex so a man with a body count indicates some degree of fitness or aptitude, even if it also m… | /r/askRPC | 04/02/23 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Marital fraud/adulteryFirst, annulment is a Catholic thing and unless you are Catholic it is irrelevant in the vast majority of Western countries. Second, did she ask and get lied to? If so, she has reason to be upset, but divorce? I think that's a stretch considering nothing physical actually happened. | /r/askRPC | 08/01/23 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Marital fraud/adulteryIt is splitting hairs, but I would argue that Deut 22:13 is dealing with dowry/bride price fraud between men (husband and father of bride) moreso than having to do with the actual marriage itself. I'll concede the point, though as you explained it doesn't really pertain to the OP's case. | /r/askRPC | 05/01/23 07:46 PM |
| 7 | Marital fraud/adulteryShow me the verse that supports the idea of "marital fraud" (whatever that is). You won't find it. While what you describe is stupid simp behavior and a waste of money, time, and energy, it isn't adultery either as no one involved at the time was even married. So does a wife have the right to annul or divorce over something pre-dating a marriage covenant? No. Not even close. Edit: Is he obligated to tell his wife? No, and you won't find that concept in scripture either. Should he? Maybe, totally… | /r/askRPC | 05/01/23 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Why Are So Many Christian Women Physically Unattractive?Ich habe wenig Gelegenheiten Deutsch zu üben und ich dachte mir, warum nicht jetzt? Ich kann Was hast du nur aufm Gym gelernt? Englisch oder etwas anderes? | /r/RPChristians | 28/10/22 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Why Are So Many Christian Women Physically Unattractive?Danke für die Aufklärung. Ich habe drie Jahren Deutsch gelernt im Hochschule aber ich habe sehr viel vergessen. | /r/RPChristians | 28/10/22 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Why Are So Many Christian Women Physically Unattractive?Du verstehst nichts und deine viele arsch fotografieren sind ein bißchen verdächtig. Mein Augen tun weh. | /r/RPChristians | 28/10/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Im a depressed wife who has let herself go... And my husband isnt attracted to me anymore.😭 "OZ said something and it made me feel icky, so I am going to retreat to my myopic belief that 'love = nice' so I don't have to think about women being held to behavioral standards" | /r/askRPC | 24/09/22 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Im a depressed wife who has let herself go... And my husband isnt attracted to me anymore.You are Ned Flanders and an idiot. God bless you for being so open and honest! That is hard to do for so many people, but it is the most important step. You see where you're come short and you want to change. She doesn't want to change, that's the issue. She wants to whine about her issues and get "atta girl'd" from a bunch of white knight cheerleaders and told that she is okay. She is engaging in pseudo activity and you're Flandering all over her post. It's gross. Your husband is blessed to hav… | /r/askRPC | 14/09/22 06:29 PM |
| 6 | Im a depressed wife who has let herself go... And my husband isnt attracted to me anymore.This is vomit worthy. She knows what she is failing at and wants this sort of sympathetic velvet glove treatment to assuage her own rightfully placed guilt and you just served her a warm helping of affirmation of victimhood. | /r/askRPC | 11/09/22 05:39 PM |
| 5 | Im a depressed wife who has let herself go... And my husband isnt attracted to me anymore.You're a lazy monument to gluttony in the making, can't even muster up the energy to wash your hair more than once a fortnight, and who pulled a horrific rug pull bait and switch on your husband who thought he was marrying a woman not a certifiable liability. Then you come here whining about your feelings and wanting sympathy? You're a marital terrorist and a prime example of every Christian man's worst fear in getting married: "what if this seemingly cool, attractive, fun gal, who I am covenant… | /r/askRPC | 11/09/22 05:34 PM |
| 5 | I watched as women emasculated one of my friendsYour friend was being invited to flirt and didn't see it. Hot women don't neg guys they just met if they find them repulsive unless: 1) they are rude bitches, if this is the case, why hang out with them? 2) they are provoked and do it out of retaliation. So when they throw a sh*t test (fitness test) atcha boy like that they are giving him the opportunity to show how unfazed he is by their antics, how funny he can be by doing a pressure flip or otherwise making a funny reply, or just in general n… | /r/askRPC | 12/08/22 03:25 PM |
| 5 | What is Disciple Mode?Read bible (especially Jesus' teaching and epistles etc... I get why you say this, but honestly the modern Christian is so Old Testament ignorant these days they ought to consider that ALL scripture is God breathed and profitable, and often especially those parts we are less familiar with. | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Smash The Overton WindowI've never understood people who complain about the consequences of democracy, but still embrace it. That's why I don't. I'll call BS on your "1800's where literacy rates were up" line There is an important distinction between raw literacy rates (percentage of people who can read) and functional literacy rates (percentage of people who do read). We are the most literate illiterate society to have ever existed. Sure, most everyone can read at a basic literate level, the amount of people who choos… | /r/RPChristians | 30/07/22 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Smash The Overton Windowam I representing you fairly? Mostly. I think the rendering of: "make disciples of all nations" is less clear than the Young's Literal Translation (which I recall you tend to appreciate) as "disciple all the nations" which makes clearer the object of the discipleship. The end goal is the nations themselves, but lifeblood of the nations are the people of each nation. So, to accomplish the macro goal of bringing all nations to kneel at the throne of God under the Lordship of Christ (Psalms 2) the … | /r/RPChristians | 30/07/22 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Girl on my church started to pretend we are dating.Dude, you're 17, haven't lifted, and are just starting to figure out who you are. Don't worry about what this (or any) girl says or thinks right now. Go monk mode and work on your own situation for now. Work hard, pursue God's design for a man, and make intelligent investments of your time and you'll be years or decades ahead of your peers. | /r/askRPC | 28/07/22 02:17 PM |
| 4 | Testosterone's Effects and Importance of Maximizing ItGreat post and potentually significantly beneficial to a huge number of guys contending against clown world. Elaborate on how a man should go about getting the recommended tests. Is it something he should see a doctor about or are there over-the-counter type solutions / mail in tests that are worthwhile? | /r/RPChristians | 04/03/22 05:59 AM |
| 15 | Interactions on this subtell me that I’m a product of “soft church leadership.” You're the product of soft church leadership. As the Chief Bulling Officer of this sub I felt called upon. | /r/RPChristians | 27/02/22 06:53 AM |
| 1 | What demographic would a woman with little no pre marital partners exist in the most?https://youtu.be/5hfYJsQAhl0 | /r/askRPC | 16/02/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | What demographic would a woman with little no pre marital partners exist in the most?You're proving the case for why we banned women from participating in the main sub. I've never understood why you even bother to hang around here and post these fedora-enthusiast tier takes. How can a man turn on his wife and accuse her of impurity if it was already known that she wasn't a virgin before the marriage and payment of bride price? Let's think this through... a bad mean nasty man decides he doesn't like his wife anymore and decides to her have killed using this "legal loophole". He g… | /r/askRPC | 15/02/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | What demographic would a woman with little no pre marital partners exist in the most?This section of the OT law is often cited uncritically. The issue at hand in this section is a woman and / or her father lying about her being a virgin, perhaps so she would fetch a higher bride price. In other words, this is a punishment for fraud, not non-virginity per se. Notice how none of this applies to a non-virgin woman who gets married and doesn't misrepresent her status. Consider King Solomon's great act of wisdom when he is approached by two prostitutes for judgement regarding who's c… | /r/askRPC | 15/02/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Have i become the gay friend?Yes. Didn't read the post, but the answer is a clear yes to anyone feeling the need to ask. | /r/askRPC | 14/02/22 09:06 PM |
| 0 | What demographic would a woman with little no pre marital partners exist in the most?Oh he did? Where? | /r/askRPC | 05/02/22 05:49 PM |
| 6 | Observations that lead to questions I find troubling.Read the prophets in the OT and you will see that God's people have had corrupt and compromised spiritual leadership many times. Nothing is new under the sun. | /r/askRPC | 04/02/22 06:37 PM |
| 5 | What demographic would a woman with little no pre marital partners exist in the most?18 years old homeschooled gal with a fundamentalist family background in a rural town somewhere far away from the coastal cities. Even then, no guarantees. Also, this isn't as important as people make it out to be. | /r/askRPC | 01/02/22 01:30 AM |
| 21 | May lose job due to the jab... need ideasYour church isn't a church. | /r/RPChristians | 24/12/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Caught wife wanking offLol white knight harder bruh. In all seriousness, you're just wrong. I've read what you've read and, from plenty of personal experience, know it's just not true. Women who are utterly as you describe have been made to experience what I am describing, much to their own shock. | /r/RPChristians | 27/11/21 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Caught wife wanking offTriggered much? Women having not experienced what I am describing in no way determines their capacity to do so. A woman having difficulty achieving one orgasm is able to have multiple rolling orgasms, but probably won't ever do so due to insufficient arousal. | /r/RPChristians | 27/11/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Caught wife wanking offLook at an anatomical picture of a clitoris. The bulbs surrounding the vaginal opening swell to a visible degree at high states of arousal and stimulating them (externally or internally) cause non-refractory orgasm. It takes a high state of arousal for the entire clitoris to become "erect" like this and the head of the clitoris can be stimulated to orgasm without getting that far. Most women are having sex without arriving at this state of arousal and are thus not experiencing those sort of orga… | /r/RPChristians | 25/11/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Caught wife wanking offYou are so far from being right about this it is revealing of your own lack of first hand experience. Most women are not having sex at a high enough state if arousal to get to the point of having multiple or rolling orgasms, but the female body is anatomically absolutely geared for it. | /r/RPChristians | 25/11/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Caught wife wanking offLol | /r/RPChristians | 25/11/21 03:58 AM |
| 14 | Nowhere to Meet WomenThere's no socially acceptablr way to publically broadcast your availability If only there were centuries of precedent set where women could signal their availability with a worn symbol, like a fancy ring 💍 or something.... Is she married or engaged to be? No? Then she's available. | /r/RPChristians | 26/10/21 01:09 PM |
| 2 | How do members of this community rank the following 4 sins: porn, pre-marital sex, adultery, emotional cheatingYou are an idiot. Locked so no one wastes their time on this. | /r/askRPC | 25/10/21 10:29 PM |
| 6 | Non virgin GF conditions of no sex before marriageYour view of the end times is theologically stunted. Do a deep dive on these topics and determine which best makes sense of the various texts of scripture: Postmillenialism Amillenialism Premillenialism <--- your current view Dispensationalism <--- likely also your current view Preterism This isn't just busy work either, what you believe about Eschatology will deeply impact how you live your life today. If you want a one stop shop to figuring a lot of this out, try and get a copy of He Shall Hav… | /r/RPChristians | 03/10/21 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Constantly turned on by college girls — need advice!Are you a woman? It would explain the feel fest idiocy you post. | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/21 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Constantly turned on by college girls — need advice!Lol I'm dying | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/21 02:29 PM |
| 2 | If I were hungry, I would not tell you: Thoughts on frameYou're presupposing that these verses apply to the marital relationship and universalize "brethren" to include women | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/21 05:00 AM |
| 1 | If I were hungry, I would not tell you: Thoughts on framenon sequitur | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/21 04:53 AM |
| 1 | If I were hungry, I would not tell you: Thoughts on frameSo where does he share his burden with her? | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | If I were hungry, I would not tell you: Thoughts on frameWhere does the Bible teach this? | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | If I were hungry, I would not tell you: Thoughts on frameProve it. | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/21 04:45 AM |
| 3 | If I were hungry, I would not tell you: Thoughts on frameNice complimentarianism cope. | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/21 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe your exposure to RP was providential?Having your faith deconstructed and rebuilt is a blessing given the abysmal state of the modern church. | /r/RPChristians | 25/08/21 02:11 AM |
| 4 | If I were hungry, I would not tell you: Thoughts on frameIt's not about can't, but about should. Can I pull a trailer with a sportscar? Sure. Should I? Absolutely not; it wasn't designed to handle the load. Can I unload all my concerns on my wife? Sure. Should I? Absolutely not; she wasn't designed to handle the load. | /r/RPChristians | 25/08/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe your exposure to RP was providential?God is sovereign, everything is providential. | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Are gay men welcome here?https://www.aomin.org/aoblog/the-dividing-line/gay-christianity-refuted/ | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/21 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Are gay men welcome here?You're so wrong it isn't even funny. https://www.aomin.org/aoblog/the-dividing-line/gay-christianity-refuted/ Listen to the audio presentations in those links to learn why. | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/21 02:48 PM |
| 10 | I have an interesting situation at my gym I need your help withAre you honoring the man or worshipping him? "Pay to all what is owed to them... respect to whom respect is owed, honor to whom honor is owed." - Roman 13:7 | /r/askRPC | 13/08/21 12:01 AM |
| 8 | "Dominant Sex" - part 2 - 'Numbers Do Not Lie' - your thoughts?Women want to be wanted by a man who could have any girl they wanted but is so turned on by her in particular that they will stop at nothing to have her. The FSoG phenomenon (basically repeated in the film 365) is one giant ego stroke for women to imagine themselves getting. Want to capitalize on this in your marriage? Become the guy who could have anyone he wants. | /r/RPChristians | 04/08/21 10:40 PM |
| 5 | How important is it for spouses to go to church together?Your understanding is correct, we do not consider JW or LDS confessions (at the very least because they reject the trinity) to be christian and thus rule 3 does not apply. | /r/RPChristians | 03/08/21 02:50 PM |
| 9 | I am 25 and divorced. I would appreciate prayers.If you looked like Megan Fox from Transformers, had the charm of Emilia Clarke, and the domestic talent of Joanna Gaines, do you really think the fact that you'd been with some tool would be a deal breaker? Of course not, stop being ridiculous. Level. Up. | /r/askRPC | 22/06/21 10:26 PM |
| 7 | I am 25 and divorced. I would appreciate prayers."Frame" is essentially the lens through which you view the world, or interpret things happening around you. A Christian's frame begins and ends with the scriptures. We care about what God thinks and how he designed things. You've let a bad relationship warp your scope and perspective on reality and you are seeing everything through the lens of your relationship with your ex and view yourself in light of it primarily. Things could be far worse. You could have kids with your ex. You could be 45 no… | /r/askRPC | 22/06/21 10:13 PM |
| 12 | I am 25 and divorced. I would appreciate prayers.Advice: knock off the victim woe is me crap. Did you go through some trauma? Sure. Have people moved on with their lives after worse stuff? Absolutely. It's not the fact of your traumatic experiences that turn guys off, it's the constant dwelling on it and allowing it to define your existence. No guy wants a woman living in her ex's frame (which you are), so knock it off and focus on living in God's frame. Be the new creation you are called to be and never let yourself victim puke like this agai… | /r/askRPC | 22/06/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | At what point do men get together and fight this feminist liberal lgbtq nonsense?The fact that you are posting this on Reddit immediately after the current regime in power just announced their intent to stomp out anything that resembles domestic opposition demonstrates that you are either significantly uninformed, careless, or a fed. Locking this so no one else posts incriminating wrong-think on one of the least secure places on the internet. | /r/askRPC | 16/06/21 08:13 PM |
| 6 | Current LTR/potential future fiancé showing HPD/NPD cluster B personality traitsNo stats. Locked per Rule 2. Update with stats and it will be unlocked. | /r/RPChristians | 10/06/21 01:05 AM |
| 10 | Monk Mode: The Definitive GuideSolid post. Your diagnosis of how most men dick around without focus in "monk mode" is sadly spot on. | /r/RPChristians | 27/05/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How to be Interesting:Red Pill Christian Podcast - Episode 40We should have been intentionally highly monotonous and boring with this episode. Oh well, a missed opportunity. | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/21 04:52 AM |
| 10 | Real quick question.This has come up before. Is it sin? Probably not. Is it a good idea? Probably not. Despite the current modern notion of differences only being "skin deep" there are cultural, genetic, familial, and social considerations that can make such an arrangement unexpectedly difficult. My advice to most guys is that familiarity is a good thing and there is nothing wrong with preferencing someone of the same cultural and ethnic background. | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Are You Pleasing Man or Pleasing God?Removed for being low effort and lazy. Either flesh out the post to make a point or don't post at all. | /r/RPChristians | 13/05/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | What should the Christian Man look like?You: When did this happen? Also you: Thats trolling and worthy of me being banned from here??? Seriously? | /r/askRPC | 12/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | What should the Christian Man look like?Pause for a moment and notice that a few random strangers on the internet posting pixels trigger you and broke your frame. You're being called a troll because your question has been answered and yet you persist. How should a Christian man look? The way a man should look: strong, healthy, fit, muscular, etc. How does he get there? There are varying paths, some more efficient, others less so. Which one you take is up to you. The one we recommend starting out on is lifting heavy weights because it … | /r/askRPC | 12/05/21 05:54 PM |
| 3 | What should the Christian Man look like?Look at this destroyed body, how tragic. And this one. How tragic... | /r/askRPC | 12/05/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | What should the Christian Man look like?Which Chris Pratt is healthier / more attractive to women? | /r/askRPC | 12/05/21 05:33 PM |
| 3 | What should the Christian Man look like?Post physique brah | /r/askRPC | 12/05/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | What should the Christian Man look like?Go reread the title of your post. | /r/askRPC | 12/05/21 05:27 PM |
| 2 | What should the Christian Man look like?You're either being dense or trolling at this point. You know what you need to look like. Get off the computer and stop being fat. | /r/askRPC | 12/05/21 05:20 PM |
| 8 | What should the Christian Man look like?Well look at that, you've proven to be able to discern between unhealthy, healthy, and healthier in dogs. Now do the same with Man and you've answered your own question. | /r/askRPC | 12/05/21 05:04 PM |
| 10 | What should the Christian Man look like?What should a Rottweiler look like? Exhibit A Or... Exhibit B You know the answer. | /r/askRPC | 12/05/21 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Opinions"Right wing hate" 🤣 Oh sweet summer child... Permabanned. | /r/RPChristians | 11/05/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | What Religion is right for me?Nuwaubianism. | /r/RPChristians | 06/05/21 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Hot Take: Drinking Liquor = Divinely Ordained Bad LuckThe New Living Translation is not, in fact, translation, but a paraphrase. Huge difference. Song of Songs and Song of Solomon are the same under two different but common names. | /r/askRPC | 03/05/21 10:37 PM |
| 15 | Hot Take: Drinking Liquor = Divinely Ordained Bad LuckI think you owe reparations to anyone who reads this mental injury of a post. You brought up a dozen topics, failed to connect any of them, cite a few one off verses without exposition, and conclude with detached speculations. I want my 45 seconds back. | /r/askRPC | 03/05/21 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Question about Critical race theory in churchesOkay, so who are you suggesting Christians stand up for? Because the group that fits what you just wrote isn't allowed to be advocated for. | /r/askRPC | 28/04/21 05:56 PM |
| 15 | Question about Critical race theory in churchesImagine believing that groups receiving unprecedented affirmative action, preferential admission, probono legal representation, free healthcare, welfare, billions in corporate donations, and endless social affirmation are oppressed. | /r/askRPC | 28/04/21 05:47 PM |
| 10 | Question about Critical race theory in churchesYour instincts are alerting you to the deep cancerous compromise already working its decay through that congregation. Listen to them and find a church that is actively rejecting cultural marxism rather than flirting with it. | /r/askRPC | 28/04/21 04:57 PM |
| 8 | Should a man "marry down" and are there any studies that suggest this leads to a healthier long term relationship?...so he wants to be a wife with a husband? I think there are better subs to get advice on supporting a friend transitioning. | /r/askRPC | 28/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Getting Jacked: Interview with ReddJive:Red Pill Christian Podcast - Episode 37u/Reddjive do you have a link? | /r/RPChristians | 22/04/21 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Getting Jacked: Interview with ReddJive:Red Pill Christian Podcast - Episode 37http://imgur.com/a/ADQMDTrg | /r/RPChristians | 22/04/21 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Getting Jacked: Interview with ReddJive:Red Pill Christian Podcast - Episode 37Post physique bro | /r/RPChristians | 19/04/21 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Talebearers and secret keepersThey mistake privacy for secrecy. Secrecy is not wanting anyone to know something, privacy is wanting only some people to know something. Jesus was a private person and frequently revealed his inner thoughts, not to crowds, but to his disciples in privacy. Even so, he did not reveal everything to them and was justly entitled to his privacy. | /r/RPChristians | 02/04/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Should I try to prevent my wife from getting a Tubal litigation surgery?Lots of questions... Are you Catholic? What is "sin by control"? Why are you still a blubberous fatty? | /r/askRPC | 01/04/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | What are some small, practical ways to fight the influence of feminism at my Churches?Let me be clear: Foster's content is generally very good. My issue is not with his overall work, and I have referred people to it before. My issue is with posts like this: https://itsgoodtobeaman.com/red-pill-as-another-religion/#main-article While Bnonn wrote this particular post, it represents Foster's view as well. Fundamentally it strikes me as highly disingenuous to strawman an entire group, light it on fire, then take and use the content from the group you just put on blast. | /r/askRPC | 31/03/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | What are some small, practical ways to fight the influence of feminism at my Churches?http://imgur.com/a/Fe412yM I don't have time to go grab timestamps from the podcast, but literally his most recent post on Facebook is him posting this "genius level" meme as if it was his own, when in fact this meme has been circulating around for well over a year. I don't care that he reposted a meme. Giving the impression that it is his own original thought though is disingenuous and self serving. This a "tip of the iceberg" example of his modus operandi and I see little reason to promote som… | /r/askRPC | 29/03/21 09:12 PM |
| 3 | What are some small, practical ways to fight the influence of feminism at my Churches?Argue against feminism by promoting gender egalitarianism...? sips ☕ Right. Good luck with that. | /r/askRPC | 29/03/21 04:19 PM |
| 5 | What are some small, practical ways to fight the influence of feminism at my Churches?You misunderstand. I am not saying I disagree with his message or that it is unbiblical, I object to his methods which amount to something akin to plagiarism. | /r/askRPC | 29/03/21 02:00 AM |
| 17 | What are some small, practical ways to fight the influence of feminism at my Churches?Live a masculine life boldly and unapologetically. The right kind of men will be drawn to you and find inspiration in it, and the flak you get from weak men and their wives doesn't matter anyway. | /r/askRPC | 28/03/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What are some small, practical ways to fight the influence of feminism at my Churches?From what I've seen, Michael Foster is a grifter who has denounced the red pill, even the Christian sphere of it, yet shamelessly takes the tenants of it and repackages it and presents it as original thinking. Not someone I would advocate supporting financially by buying their material, especially since you can get better takes across the manosphere for free. | /r/askRPC | 28/03/21 10:15 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on unchecked female hypergamy and “she’s not yours. It’s just your turn”? Do all women eventually cheat regardless of how high your frame or SMV is because we’re genetically designed to be polygamous?Praex is a solid guy, I am confident can take it. The answer to the rest of your question would take far longer than I have time right now to type out, but suffice to say it is not nearly as tidy as Churchianity has made it out to be. | /r/RPChristians | 24/03/21 12:32 AM |
| -2 | What are your thoughts on unchecked female hypergamy and “she’s not yours. It’s just your turn”? Do all women eventually cheat regardless of how high your frame or SMV is because we’re genetically designed to be polygamous?The fact that you don't see the disparity of logic being applied is commentary enough | /r/RPChristians | 24/03/21 12:29 AM |
| -2 | What are your thoughts on unchecked female hypergamy and “she’s not yours. It’s just your turn”? Do all women eventually cheat regardless of how high your frame or SMV is because we’re genetically designed to be polygamous?Cool non sequitur. | /r/RPChristians | 23/03/21 11:22 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on unchecked female hypergamy and “she’s not yours. It’s just your turn”? Do all women eventually cheat regardless of how high your frame or SMV is because we’re genetically designed to be polygamous?We aren't "designed" to be polygamous This is proven by the fact that men are only biologically capable of knocking up one woman every 9 months. Oh wait. | /r/RPChristians | 23/03/21 11:19 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on unchecked female hypergamy and “she’s not yours. It’s just your turn”? Do all women eventually cheat regardless of how high your frame or SMV is because we’re genetically designed to be polygamous?That's OT Cop out answer. God promised that a feature of the new covenant (Jer 31) is that he would write the law on our hearts. Which law? The law. As in, God's revealed law. The entire "grace vs law" dichotomy is complete dispensational bullshit. Not one jot or tittle of the law is changed, because Jesus didn't abolish the law, he fulfilled it. Thus, all of the laws relating to temple worship and animal sacrifice that were prefiguring Christ were fulfilled, along with the laws pertaining to Go… | /r/RPChristians | 23/03/21 11:11 PM |
| 12 | What are your thoughts on unchecked female hypergamy and “she’s not yours. It’s just your turn”? Do all women eventually cheat regardless of how high your frame or SMV is because we’re genetically designed to be polygamous?Lots to be said about this topic, too bad it is going to get the grug brained level takes as already shown. I don't have time to weigh in now, but the following copy/paste from another comment recently seems warranted: ~~~~ Despite being a commonly held misunderstanding, this sort of exegesis of Matthew 5:28 is abjectly terrible. Putting words in God's mouth and holding men to standard beyond that of God's is a classic example of piety turned pharisaic: in vain do they worship me, teaching as do… | /r/RPChristians | 23/03/21 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Infallibility of the Bible?Thank you for the reminder as to why there have been next to zero female theologians or philosophers of any importance in the history of the church. | /r/askRPC | 19/03/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Advice needed it’s a messSunk Cost Fallacy | /r/RPChristians | 18/03/21 11:45 PM |
| 3 | Advice needed it’s a messLocked. Rule 2. Edit with your stats to get it unlocked. | /r/RPChristians | 18/03/21 11:09 PM |
| 37 | Godly men and gorgeous womenTo add to this excellent post: Proverbs 31:30 "Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised." This verse, cited in the post, follows a common pattern in proverbs. What appears to be a dichotomy is, in fact, a matrix of four possibilities. Ugly wife, doesn't fear the Lord Beautiful wife, doesn't fear the Lord Ugly wife, fears the Lord Beautiful wife, fears the Lord Option 1 is self evidently undesirable and thus excluded. Option 2 is addressed in the… | /r/RPChristians | 18/03/21 10:40 PM |
| 7 | Infallibility of the Bible?I had a feeling you had been reading Ehrman based on your questions. If you haven't already seen them his debates with Dr. James White may be helpful. https://youtu.be/moHInA9fAsI https://youtu.be/K2Mp4v8VQwQ He did some independent programs on the issue too: https://youtu.be/g04j91O9zQ8 https://youtu.be/5K-AOfj1Axg | /r/askRPC | 18/03/21 08:50 PM |
| 4 | Infallibility of the Bible?The OPs question was fair, and unless you read the original languages you too are relying on some degree of scholarship to have been faithful too. Your attitude sucks in this reply. Check yourself and save it for posters who aren't coming here in good faith. | /r/askRPC | 18/03/21 08:46 PM |
| 11 | Infallibility of the Bible?1) How can we trust the transmission of the text. Imagine you played a game of telephone with 100 people. You start with the phrase, "Jesus died for your sins" and at the end it comes out as, "Geese cannot win". Obviously the phrase was lost in transmition and untrustworthy. Fortunately, this is not what the Christian faith depends on. In reality the fact that there is such a wide variety of manuscript, even with minor variations, gives us reason for greater confidence in the accurate transmissi… | /r/askRPC | 18/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 2 | The (True) Biblical Argument for 'Lifting Is Not A Suggestion'If the purpose of the sidebar is to produce men who make their wives wet, then be clear about that Weird, and here I was under the impression that this sub was here for Christians to discuss sexual strategy. | /r/RPChristians | 18/03/21 01:09 AM |
| 0 | The (True) Biblical Argument for 'Lifting Is Not A Suggestion'You are trying to insert a command into scripture (and call it mandatory) "Be strong." That's the Bibllical command. I am not inserting it into scripture. You can make the case that it only pertains to spiritual strength, sure. I think it is a weak case when you consider the greatest commandment is to love God with all our hearts, mind, soul, and... strength. Yes, that means our physical health, since the heart, mind, and soul are already covered. Am I going to split hairs about the guy who focu… | /r/RPChristians | 18/03/21 12:18 AM |
| 2 | The (True) Biblical Argument for 'Lifting Is Not A Suggestion'Me: "Feed your dog. It's a good idea. Proverbs 12:10 says we should take care of our animals." Spergs online: "Acccthuually, that's exegesis. It says that whoever is righteous regards the life of his beast. Back then the Jews didn't keep dogs for pets, so this is a misapplication of a passage intended for the care of livestock. Further, this passage is not written as an imperative, but is merely descriptive of what a righteous man does. In fact, contextually the beast isn't even the primarily su… | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/21 11:15 PM |
| -1 | The (True) Biblical Argument for 'Lifting Is Not A Suggestion'It's cute that you believe that there is such a thing as "secular" | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/21 10:44 PM |
| 7 | The (True) Biblical Argument for 'Lifting Is Not A Suggestion'I think it is pretty safe to say the apostle wasn't saying, "improving your body's ability to do God meticulously designed it to do" is bad. That said, being fit like a lion pales in importance compared to being well spiritually conditioned. Essentially: What does it profit a man to join the 1,000lb club if he loses his soul? | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | The (True) Biblical Argument for 'Lifting Is Not A Suggestion'It's a long drawn out discussion not well suited for reddit as a format, but I believe those sort of comments stem from a deep seated anti-physicality foreign to scripture and much of church history. This, I believe, stems from an erroneous view of intertestamental continuity, or rather lack there of, that is characteristic of the fairly recently developed views of dispensationalism that were heavily propogated in the past century in America, which in turn influenced much of western Christianity… | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/21 08:57 PM |
| 4 | The (True) Biblical Argument for 'Lifting Is Not A Suggestion'That isn't a fair representation of the extension of the OP's logic. I seldom find it profitable to call a "slippery slope" fallacy, but this is one such case. | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/21 08:40 PM |
| 3 | The (True) Biblical Argument for 'Lifting Is Not A Suggestion'You: "It's not an attack" Also you: "the guys at RPC were too incompetent to be teaching any biblical truth" You might be coming off differently than you think you are. Frankly I don't care that you'd criticize a post of mine; I'm used to it. Sticking to criticism of what is actually being said is far more interesting and useful, however. Funny enough, I actually agree with you that a lot of posts here are hermeneutic nightmares. Setting up and refuting a strawman though only adds noise to an al… | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/21 08:23 PM |
| 6 | The (True) Biblical Argument for 'Lifting Is Not A Suggestion'For a guy patting himself on his ascendant ability to exegete it strikes me as rather humorous that your entire post here rests on eisegesis of what I wrote in that post a few years back. It's still a long shot to say that the Bible commands lifting weights Read it again. Nowhere did I claim it did. Rather, I made the rightful statement that the Bible commands men to be strong. Cool that you spend paragraphs citing ancient near eastern excercise habits to refute a claim I never made though. Make… | /r/RPChristians | 17/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 7 | I think I'm in some deep doodoo.Others have already said a lot of what must be said, so I'll be brief. 1) Are you fun? You don't sound like it. No need to be a dancing monkey but fat rambo doesn't sound like a great time to be around. 2) Are you familiar with "The Changing World of Mormonism" by Gerald and Sanrda Tanner? If not, I highly recommend checking it out. It is an apologetic goldmine. Also check out Dr. James White's debates with mormons if you haven't. 3) What is your plan to get in shape? | /r/RPChristians | 11/03/21 10:24 PM |
| 2 | When should I switch to hypertrophy?You are still in your "rookie gains" phase and will put on muscle and add strength quickly for awhile longer. Make use of this and focus on running the program consistently, developing great form, and monitoring your eating. Diet is especially critical, especially as a skinny guy. Simply put, if you don't get your diet squared away you will stall out and waste a lot of time until you do. As to when to switch to a more hypertrophic focus, check out https://strengthlevel.com/. Until you hit at lea… | /r/askRPC | 11/03/21 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Is it crazy that I actually want a kind of “controlling” husband and do the stereotypical “woman’s place” stuff?They do in their post history. | /r/RPChristians | 09/03/21 06:56 AM |
| 25 | Is it crazy that I actually want a kind of “controlling” husband and do the stereotypical “woman’s place” stuff?No, it is not only normal but has been normal for the entirety of human existence until about half a century ago. That said, this is the sort of question that belongs at r/askrpc | /r/RPChristians | 08/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Advice on ParentsWell said. | /r/RPChristians | 08/03/21 02:53 AM |
| 8 | Advice on ParentsThis "advice" is straight up idiocy. Anyone who takes it deserves the lack of progress they will have from the time wasted following it. | /r/RPChristians | 07/03/21 03:48 PM |
| – | Privacy in Christian MarriageThis is the sort of thing that should be posted in r/askrpc | /r/RPChristians | 04/03/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Should Christian's take antidepressants?Always. Thanks mate. | /r/askRPC | 02/03/21 03:01 AM |
| 5 | Partner with a deep sexual past?If it's not a "hell yeah!" it's a no. | /r/RPChristians | 01/03/21 06:04 PM |
| 8 | Partner with a deep sexual past?This comment is straight up cancer. just because she has a past just like you does not mean she is more likely to cheat. Yes, yes it does. grow closer to her to see if she’s the right woman for you. Indeed. Go get emotionally entangled with a girl with a dicey enough history that, despite the naive outlook, the OP sees enough red flags to come post about it here. What could go wrong? | /r/RPChristians | 01/03/21 06:03 PM |
| 10 | Partner with a deep sexual past?Hey guys I’m talking to an amazing girl No you aren't. AWALT. I don’t judge her for her past but, she does have a sexual past and I do too, I’m not insecure or jealous of her past Yeah you do, and yes you are, or you wouldn't be here. Sadly I think you honestly believe what you wrote. she kind of met me working trying to be Christlike for some years, and when I met her she was working on being Christlike for a couple months. She kind of met you? Working on? Say something concrete or don't say an… | /r/RPChristians | 01/03/21 06:00 PM |
| 9 | College student dealing with progressive ChristianityI've been told by older Christian guys that they "don't know how much they can take the Bible literally" because it says that women can't speak at church (if you actually research this, Paul was saying that uneducated women should not speak at church. At the time, women were not educated in the word of God, and they were speaking out in church and it was causing confusion). No, Paul was saying women shouldn't speak at church because: I see a lot of girls putting "she/her" gender pronouns in thei… | /r/askRPC | 01/03/21 05:53 PM |
| 11 | Has anyone run a "Red Pill" type course for men at their church?I think the early church using coded symbols and teaching their chatechumens in secret provide us some perspective on how the church ought operate in an increasingly hostile world. Cancel culture is real, and in some parts of the world comes with serious risk of imprisonment. It is long since time that Christians start to practice playing their cards a little closer to the chest. | /r/RPChristians | 26/02/21 04:23 PM |
| 6 | Communication in MarriageWhat does this have to do with anything? This is a sub for useful actionable advice, not cheap Opera style platitudes. | /r/RPChristians | 22/02/21 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Should Christian's take antidepressants?If true, then everyone you love is holding you back. Don't resent them for it, it's a sadly common and natural way of behaving. People hate change and seeing others improbe their lives shames them for their own mediocrity, intentionally or not. Your life is largely a result of your choice, which are immensely impacted by your environment. Want to make better choices? Find a better environment. Surround yourself with sails, not anchors. | /r/askRPC | 19/02/21 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Diet ReviewsSolid lifts. Nicely done. | /r/RPChristians | 18/02/21 04:59 PM |
| 8 | Should Christian's take antidepressants?Should Christians? Maybe. Should you? Better question. From what you have written elsewhere it sounds like you are feeling depressed about your life because you lead a depressing life. If your life is a series of disappointments and disillusionment then is it any wonder that you feel disappointed and disillusioned? You mention feeling disconnected from God, is it any wonder you don't feel particularly joyful when you've been distanced from the author of life and source of joy? The good news is t… | /r/askRPC | 18/02/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Want Respect? Treat Your Time With RespectTo a large degree the answer to this will be subjective because you are unique. God put you here and now with talents, desires, and opportunities, that may or may not be aligned with what modern western capitalistic consumerism places value on. Part of the answer to this is how you will look back on what you spent your time on. Ten years from now will you be proud of the game of League of Legends where you pulled off a great play and dominated the other team? Probably not. Does that mean you sho… | /r/RPChristians | 17/02/21 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Want Respect? Treat Your Time With RespectRead it if you want. In fact most of this sub will probably offer a new perspective on faith (Churchianity vs. Christianity for example). Judging by your post history you're just not the typical demographic that winds up here. r/RPCWomen may be of interest to you as well | /r/RPChristians | 13/02/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Want Respect? Treat Your Time With RespectHow in the world did you end up at this sub? | /r/RPChristians | 13/02/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Want Respect? Treat Your Time With RespectYes. | /r/RPChristians | 12/02/21 07:37 PM |
| – | Does 1 Corinthians 15:40 confirm that the beings that live in heaven have bodies?Locked for being off topic. This sort of general question belongs on another sub or r/askRPC. | /r/RPChristians | 12/02/21 04:49 PM |
| 4 | Dating Scene in the Churchhttps://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Bqz5lCP_TPc | /r/askRPC | 08/02/21 05:31 PM |
| 7 | What are your guys thoughts on Rollos Rule II: “never, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you have slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover” ?This is trite churchian rubbish. "I don't read math textbooks, the only book I model is the Holy Bible" Even external Christian sources shouldn't dictate your life 100% Oh wow, this is some incredible insight. Here we were putting Rollo on a pedestal and offering him divine worship. Thanks for pointing out the error of our ways. Give me a friggin' break. | /r/RPChristians | 30/01/21 12:08 AM |
| 25 | What are your guys thoughts on Rollos Rule II: “never, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you have slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover” ?Do you think Abraham, Boaz, David, or Solomon were bent out of shape about what their wive(s) might think about their sexual history? No. I seriously doubt it. Think like a patriarch and live in your own frame. Share if want, withhold if you want. The message is far less important than the medium. | /r/RPChristians | 29/01/21 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Children before marriageMy response was constructed in light of his value system. In case you hit your head and forgot where you were, this sub is here because people, Christians included, hold all kinds of stupid and unhelpful values that ought to be challenged. | /r/RPChristians | 25/01/21 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Children before marriageYou can have a big party once the COVID regulations get relaxed. Fixed that for you. Universal Declaration of Human Rights, Article 20: (1) Everyone has the right to freedom of peaceful assembly and association. First Amendment to the United States Constitution: "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Gov… | /r/RPChristians | 25/01/21 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Should I go on a date with this girl?Read the title and didn't bother with the rest of the post: no, you shouldn't. If you have to ask, the answer is no. what does RP Christians suggest I do? STFU. Lift. Sidebar. Apply. Repeat. | /r/askRPC | 25/01/21 06:00 AM |
| 8 | LJBF ContinuedSince you last spoke with her did you become insanely jacked, rich, or otherwise ridiculously impressive? If the answer to that is "no" you can rule out her spontaneously hitting you up for any reason that benefits you. You're still suffering from oneitis for this girl and this is just a fever dream. | /r/askRPC | 25/01/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Case Study When Your Wife Doesnt Follow Your Lead: Red Pill Christian Podcast - Episode 28u/oceangross | /r/RPChristians | 24/01/21 09:37 PM |
| 23 | Children before marriagethe regulations say... laughs in civil disobedience | /r/RPChristians | 24/01/21 03:59 PM |
| 49 | How to vet for virgin woman quickly without wasting time?Asks woman question about her n count expects truthful answer hasn't even seen a barbell based on stats This entire post is a wild spergfest. Why would a woman, an attractive virgin no less, want to be with you other than for the beta bux? Or is your goal to be her walking ATM with quarterly sex thrown in as payment for your provision? | /r/RPChristians | 19/01/21 04:20 PM |
| 14 | Another post about oneitis? How should single guys approach friendships with women?Another thing is that Catholics aren't as different as you might think. If you know some cool catholic girls there's no reason not to pursue them a little to see if something's there. Catholics who take their faith seriously are quite different and the OP is prudent to recognize the attendant difficulties of "ecumenical relationships" ahead of time. | /r/RPChristians | 19/01/21 02:48 AM |
| 6 | Spirit of LazinessADHD is largely bullshit, and it doesn't take an expert to see the obvious. What is commonly diagnosed as ADHD is simply a perfectly normal and healthy bodily response to the terminally ill clown world we find ourselves in. | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/21 02:58 AM |
| 13 | Spirit of LazinessJeeze dude, you really do have a problem. Even this post is lazy... Do you lift? Do you habitually watch porn? Do you play hours of vidya games each day? Do you stay up late or otherwise not get 8 hours of sleep? What are you doing when you aren't being productive? | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/21 02:49 AM |
| 8 | Spirit of LazinessYes, let's send him to big pharma to get diagnosed and medicated for what is more than likely an issue of environment and habits. | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/21 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Will you circumcise your sons?The alleged health benefits are marginal and hardly justify a permanent and irreversible removal of an important part someone else's sexual organ. | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/21 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Idolatry, The Marriage of the StateIf you are referring to the work of Aristophanes, no, I've not read it. I am familiar with the plot however. | /r/RPChristians | 31/12/20 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Idolatry, The Marriage of the StateThe difference is that thousands of years later we can still read, understand, and discuss what Socrates taught, whereas on day one the OP failed to express himself to a contemporary audience. Notice I haven't weighed in at all on the actually content or claims of the post. I agree that the message deserves a serious discussion, and I know of no better place on the internet than RPC to have that discussion. We tend to let most topics go on for a discussion. In fact, I am hard pressed to think of… | /r/RPChristians | 31/12/20 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Idolatry, The Marriage of the StateI am here to revive Christians in Christ and I can't do that without having a discussion first If you want a discussion, fix your writing and check your ego. Until then, any additional incoherent posts like this one are just going to be deleted straight out the gate. | /r/RPChristians | 31/12/20 07:59 PM |
| 6 | Idolatry, The Marriage of the StateHmmm.... knowledge can't write coherently humility can't take basic constructive feedback without getting butthurt Yeah, I won't be losing sleep over this one. | /r/RPChristians | 31/12/20 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Idolatry, The Marriage of the StateThis one paragraph is far more coherent and discernible than the OP, despite it being seven times longer. A sure sign of a failed post is when the medium, rather than the message, is what is being discussed. The reason he is getting (rightly) destroyed with down votes is because the post was terribly written, not because of the content per se. | /r/RPChristians | 31/12/20 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Idolatry, The Marriage of the StateThis picture says it all. | /r/RPChristians | 31/12/20 07:27 PM |
| 11 | Idolatry, The Marriage of the State"I wrote an esoteric monstrosity of an incoherent post and the fact that you don't understand it is definitely because you're a stupid slave, not because I write incoherently and fail to offer any evidence. Simp." Whatever merits the core of your post had are utterly lost because you write like an idiot who doesn't care if they are understood or not. | /r/RPChristians | 31/12/20 06:43 PM |
| 15 | Slay Your IdolsSimply ‘liking’ another woman’s picture with a suggestive pose (if you’re sexually attracted to her) is actual adultery, because of your intent. Despite being a commonly held misunderstanding, this sort of exegesis of Matthew 5:28 is abjectly terrible. Putting words in God's mouth and holding men to standard beyond that of God's is a classic example of piety turned pharisaic: in vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.’” - Matthew 15:9 In brief, adultery has a spec… | /r/RPChristians | 29/12/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Is the podcast in podcast form?We have not yet set up any sort of direct podcast or RSS feed. I am not sure what would need to be done to make this happen.Our mod who takes care of the technical side of the podcast can probably give you a better answer. Tag: u/r_horizon | /r/askRPC | 29/12/20 07:24 PM |
| 1 | How “Red Pill” is the Eastern Orthodox Church?I haven't personally delved far into it, but I have a close friend who I trust who is in the process of potentially converting and have had many conversations with him. From what I gather EO is a mixed bag. Some priests and congregations are quite "red pilled" while others are essentially normies. EO suffers from the Catholic phenomenon where most congregants and priests don't really have strong doctrinal chops, so it can be difficult to get straight answers from them. That said, I think with EO… | /r/askRPC | 29/12/20 04:42 AM |
| 2 | How to prevent or assess sexual incompatibility in a potential wife?Any additional advice? If you aren't already, track every life every time. You cannot make "progress" unless you have an objective standard to measure against. Not only does this provide accountability (going back and looking at how many workouts per week you are ACTUALLY doing versus what you think you're doing) it is also motivating to go back and see where you started from. Discipline is more important that motivation. If you only lift when you are motivated you will never achieve the size an… | /r/askRPC | 25/12/20 08:58 PM |
| 2 | (M22) Interested in a Muslim girl - Advice?Advice? Don't. | /r/RPChristians | 25/12/20 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Why did you chose to incorporate the belief system of the red pill community into your life?Unlike most of the guys who went RP, I never had a bad sex life or a dead bedroom Your experience is similar to mine. By the way most people measure I have always had good sex life and a fairly successful marriage. Not being one to settle for "above average" I began looking for ways to shore up some of the areas in my marriage I could see a need to improve on. Early on in life I had encountered the PUA community the pre-dated the Red Pill. I learned a lot from that about the dynamics of attracti… | /r/askRPC | 25/12/20 03:57 AM |
| 2 | How to prevent or assess sexual incompatibility in a potential wife?Sexual incompatibility is a fictional concept made up and perpetuated by unattractive men and women who don't want to make them feel bad. Does she soak her panties when she thinks about sex with you? Yes? Then you are sexually compatible. No? Then you aren't. End of story. Be attractive, don't be unattractive. P.S. Your stats are abysmal. What strength training program are you running? How long have you been running it? | /r/askRPC | 25/12/20 03:45 AM |
| 5 | How to prevent or assess sexual incompatibility in a potential wife?When you are getting closer to proposal or during pre-marital counseling, talk about sexual expectations. Odds are good she will say she is hot and heavy like a just-barely-bridled vixen and will want to ride you at every opportunity. I've heard many stories where the woman states something like this, only for the couple to wind up in a dead bedroom a year into marriage. Negotiating attraction ahead of time is still unhelpful. The only real upside to doing this is if she comes out and says she o… | /r/askRPC | 25/12/20 03:36 AM |
| – | 3 Year RP Field ReportThis is a fun strawman of the mod's position (especially since there is no monolithic "mod position" on this topic). It's an interesting definitely-totally-unrelated coincidence that you were in a solid personal, financial, physically fit, position to be so involved in your community. Sounds like all of those years of improving yourself positioned you almost perfectly to execute your mission. Novel concept, you should start a sub that focuses on that. Oh wait. | /r/RPChristians | 25/12/20 03:17 AM |
| 1 | What do you want to see covered on the Red Pill Christians podcast?Oh, duh. How could I have missed that? It's so obvious now. | /r/RPChristians | 21/12/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Looking for the easiest, beginner article about “frame” that an “absolute newbie” Christian college girl could understand (cross-posted from r/RPCwomen) 🙏🙏🙏We did a two part podcast on frame that you can listen to here and here. It isn't an exhaustive discussion as frame is a rather nebulous topic, but you may find it helpful as a starting point. | /r/askRPC | 20/12/20 10:44 PM |
| 4 | What's the RPC perspective on steroid/sarms use?This was a topic of discussion in the RPC podcast in a past episode on creatine. I am surprised to see this asked by a female. Care to enlighten the curious? | /r/askRPC | 20/12/20 10:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you want to see covered on the Red Pill Christians podcast?Care to expand on that? Not sure if you want to hear about the hosts stats, the importance of stats in general, or something else. | /r/RPChristians | 20/12/20 10:19 PM |
| 4 | RP Christians and the Black PillIf a woman is only interested in you because of your looks... Sexual attraction is largely an aesthetic/behavioural phenomenon. What you are saying is awfully close to the "Just be yourself!" or "You're fine just the way you are!" unhelpful mantras that help no one and has no place in this sub. | /r/RPChristians | 20/12/20 03:39 AM |
| 5 | (M22) Interested in a Muslim girl - Advice?Yo. Chicks can be dudes too bruh. What are you, a misogynist or something? | /r/RPChristians | 15/12/20 10:05 PM |
| 11 | The ChurchGood question. The church in the West is thoroughly feminized. As a fellow Reformed believer I have been disappointed to find that "our guys" are not much better off in this area. Despite their firm belief that they have a firm handle on the issue, most thought leaders within the Reformed community have swallowed many feminist presuppositions that impact their view of scripture, the church, and the world. They foolishly think that being to the right of Jon Piper or Tim Keller makes them an "edgy… | /r/RPChristians | 14/12/20 11:31 PM |
| 3 | The ChurchI am guessing he is making some well intended but unhelpful reference about the Church being "Christ's bride and responsibility and since she is His 'woman' we shouldn't be concerned with her since she isn't ours. I could be wrong on that, but this sub has a fondness for using Ephesians 5 as the dominant interpretive lens for all things. | /r/RPChristians | 14/12/20 10:34 PM |
| 2 | RedPill In Scripture: Judges 16 - Samson Nagged to DeathThat seems to me to be the central thrust of Samson's story- his lack of fidelity to Jehovah, not his lack of game with Delilah. Sure, and no one is suggesting that his lack of game was the primary point of this passage. Nonetheless, he lacked it in a bad way and we can learn from that. | /r/RPChristians | 12/12/20 10:35 PM |
| 5 | RedPill In Scripture: Judges 16 - Samson Nagged to DeathMarrying outside the faith is always disastrous. Boaz married Ruth, a Moabite woman, in faithfulness. Moses married Zipporah, a Midianite. Joseph married Asenath, daughter of an Egyptian priest of On. God even gave his people instruction on how to lawfully take foreign women from conquered enemies. "When you go to war against your enemies and the Lord your God delivers them into your hands and you take captives, 11 if you notice among the captives a beautiful woman and are attracted to her, you … | /r/RPChristians | 12/12/20 09:41 PM |
| 2 | RedPill In Scripture: Judges 16 - Samson Nagged to DeathThe exact example was fictitious, though I've encountered similarly absurd "catastophizing" spirals. | /r/RPChristians | 12/12/20 08:21 PM |
| 8 | RedPill In Scripture: Judges 16 - Samson Nagged to Deathshe was a prostitute While a popular, and fairly traditional reading, this is actually not strongly exegetically established by the text and has been a matter of dispute for centuries. "Samson went to Gaza, and there he saw a prostitute, and he went in to her... After this he loved a woman in the Valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah." - Judges 16:1, 4 Notice the shift to a future time in verse 4, and rather than reference to the prostitufe it states "a woman" named Delilah. There is nothing g… | /r/RPChristians | 12/12/20 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Is there an equivalent of this sub but for women?Locked due to OP question being answered sufficiently. | /r/RPChristians | 07/12/20 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Had the opportunity to send Bibles to white South Africans and chose not to because it will weaken them. Thinking of leaving the faithWell said. | /r/RPChristians | 04/12/20 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Had the opportunity to send Bibles to white South Africans and chose not to because it will weaken them. Thinking of leaving the faithThis is the correct answer. Taking an insult is not the same as submitting your life to an assailant. | /r/RPChristians | 04/12/20 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Had the opportunity to send Bibles to white South Africans and chose not to because it will weaken them. Thinking of leaving the faithYou mean, not let them plunder Christian peoples and lands? How terrible. /s | /r/RPChristians | 04/12/20 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Need some guidance about my relationship. Please RP me.Others have already given you plenty to chew on, so I will just leave this artistic depiction of your relationship for you to ponder when you are tempted to get back with her. | /r/RPChristians | 04/12/20 05:53 PM |
| 12 | A Word to New UsersTULIP is an acronym that provides a shorthand summation of what are known as the "Doctrines of Grace" popular among Reformed / Calvinist believers. T = Total Depravity (meaning all men everywhere are sinful by nature) U = Unconditional Election (those that are saved are not saved based on meeting some condition or criteria, but merely by grace) L = Limit Atonement (Sometimes called "definite atonement" or "particular redemption", this essentially means that Christ shed His blood as an atoning sa… | /r/RPChristians | 04/12/20 05:14 AM |
| 9 | A Word to New UsersBye Felicia 👋 | /r/RPChristians | 04/12/20 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Got a breakup text telling me I’m a “kind, gentle and curious spirit”. How do I stop being so nice and toughen up?If it wasn't his problem he wouldn't have posted here. | /r/RPChristians | 02/12/20 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Got a breakup text telling me I’m a “kind, gentle and curious spirit”. How do I stop being so nice and toughen up?What would those better actions be in your opinion then? The OP should start by reading the sidebar, and so should you since you evidently haven't. If you had internalized the basics of what we believe around here you wouldn't post such off-base unhelpful nonsense to begin with. | /r/RPChristians | 02/12/20 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Got a breakup text telling me I’m a “kind, gentle and curious spirit”. How do I stop being so nice and toughen up?Wrong. Women who aren't attracted to a man do not want to be touched by him. If she wanted more she wouldn't have sent the "I'm not interested" text. "Keep doing what you're doing" is advice for losers given by losers. If you want better results, you have to take better actions. | /r/RPChristians | 02/12/20 07:13 PM |
| 5 | Got a breakup text telling me I’m a “kind, gentle and curious spirit”. How do I stop being so nice and toughen up?Get out of here with this weak "just be yourself" crap with a spiritual coating. "Just be yourself" doesn't work unless "yourself" is an attractive man with a solid frame. The OP needs to work on himself and telling him otherwise is cruelty. | /r/RPChristians | 02/12/20 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Got a breakup text telling me I’m a “kind, gentle and curious spirit”. How do I stop being so nice and toughen up?Baptism doesn't wash away biology. | /r/RPChristians | 02/12/20 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Got a breakup text telling me I’m a “kind, gentle and curious spirit”. How do I stop being so nice and toughen up?His results will be much improved if he became dominant, firm, and resolved. | /r/RPChristians | 02/12/20 07:05 PM |
| 5 | Got a breakup text telling me I’m a “kind, gentle and curious spirit”. How do I stop being so nice and toughen up?She was subtly (or not so subtly, since he seems to have understood it) saying "you're not manly and don't give me the tingles in the 'gina so bye" Women will crawl over broken glass to attempt to get with a guy they are genuinely attracted to. | /r/RPChristians | 02/12/20 07:04 PM |
| 4 | Got a breakup text telling me I’m a “kind, gentle and curious spirit”. How do I stop being so nice and toughen up?RPC is more stick than carrot because the church in the west is a big-agra style carrot farm. | /r/RPChristians | 02/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | RP Advice on Attraction/ConversationWhere did I say I was wasting my time? I don't make a habit of spending time doing useless things. If I didn't think your post and situation had value enough to respond to, I wouldn't have. You seem like you have a lot figured out. Your responses here are thoughtful and it's clear you've spent a lot of time thinking things through and living with a high degree of intentionality. That is all promising and I believe you have good things ahead of you if you can lighten up, learn to take criticism a… | /r/RPChristians | 30/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 0 | RP Advice on Attraction/Conversation"Moderately active, mainly surf and run for my excercise" That's what you offered up for your stats, so that's what I have to go on. I'll tell you and anyone else the obvious response to being "moderately active" with cardio activities: you need to lift. Prove me wrong. | /r/RPChristians | 30/11/20 10:06 PM |
| 0 | RP Advice on Attraction/Conversationdoesn't lift gets triggered by casual ribbing online claims not to be a pussy Jeeze man, lighten up and get some thicker skin. Also, lifting is basic RP and you should expect to get slammed for not adhering to the most basic of principles. | /r/RPChristians | 30/11/20 09:58 PM |
| 1 | RP Advice on Attraction/ConversationNo one else's standard of beauty means a damned thing if you're the one doing the grown-up-hokey-pokey with her and waking up next to her every morning. If she's 10 to others but a 6 to you, that's important. Before I met my wife I dated several women, for one reason or another none of them were keepers. Each girl I dated was more attractive. As my confidence and attractiveness grew, so did my options. I knew the path I was on would lead me to being a serious catch and that I would be able to fi… | /r/RPChristians | 30/11/20 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Leadership isn't about competence?Piper jumped the shark awhile back. | /r/RPChristians | 30/11/20 07:17 AM |
| 1 | RP Advice on Attraction/Conversationshe has more or less communicated to me that she prefers to not talk. I don’t know how I feel about that. This is a big deal. Quiet and demure has a certain feminine charm to it, but it is an easy mask to hide behind. My wife is rather extroverted, and carries her own weight in social conversations. This has afforded me the opportunity to listen to her detail, discuss, and defend some of the things I have discussed with her over the years. Granted, she often defers to me when she finds herself l… | /r/RPChristians | 30/11/20 05:55 AM |
| 5 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian ApostateWeird how cases have climbed since April, but death rates didn't climb along with it. Such a dangerous virus that the vast majority of people don't know they have it, and have over a 99% survival rate. It's almost as if those most susceptible to succumbing to the virus did, and a sort of herd immunity began to develop in the general population. Let's all ignore the massive partisan inconsistencies in how the media and government has reacted to this pandemic, not to mention nonsense regulations. … | /r/RPChristians | 27/11/20 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian ApostateThelyphthora: Or, A Treatise on Female Ruin, in Its Causes, Effects, Consequences, Prevention, and Remedy; Considered on the Basis of the Divine Law - Martin Madan Libido Dominandi: Sexual Liberation & Political Control - E. Michael Jones The Rational Male - Rollo Sexual Utopia in Power - The Feminist Revolt Against Civilization - F. Roger Devlin Sex in the Bible: The Untold Truth - Evan Turner I certainly do not agree with many of the things written in these works, and the authors would certain… | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian ApostatePick a topic. | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian ApostateThat is why we are here. Do not forget that. What do you mean here? Simple: if the church wasn't deeply confused on the issues of sex, gender differences, attraction, etc. this sub would be utterly unnecessary. This sub is here to address this gushing wound in the Body of Christ. However, think careful about how you come across. Trust me, I do. Being deliberately inflammatory and provocative serves a purpose. I used to read conspiracy blogs Since advocacy of normal has become deeply revolutionar… | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian ApostateJust went through your comment history. You see it. Hang in there sister. It is always darkest before the dawn. "For in much wisdom is much vexation, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow." - Ecclesiastes 1:18 | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian ApostateNot a single taker? What timeline is this? | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian ApostateMakes you do a big think about the rest of the official mainstream narrative of history, doesn't it? | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian ApostateThe key is that everything should be measured against the Word... I’ve found myself looking at any number of dissident ideologies and thought lately, but they are always measured against the Word. This is prudent. The challenge is to get Christians to read anything outside of the intellectual Christian ghetto we've limited ourselves to. At risk of coming off as "condescending" and twisting some more panties into knots, I will repeat: The same thinking that got us into this mess is not going to g… | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian ApostateEver read Oswald Chambers’s My Utmost For His Highest? Most of it, yes. He has some good ways of putting things, but overall I was underwhelmed. Re-form everything back to Jesus’ commands as revealed in God’s word. This is the crux of it, so to speak, but the church is too busy bending over backwards trying to remain "apolitical" which leaves it impotent. The gospel is, by necessity, political in application. | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 08:13 PM |
| 4 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian Apostatewe have the right to bear arms The right to bear is important, the will to bear is paramount. If the American people are disarmed in their minds, it doesn't matter what a piece of paper says, or how many crates of ammo they have for their favorite safe queen. it's often the same or worse in many first world countries This is why moving to another first world country may not be a good idea. Many second world countries have a more developed immune response to totalitarianism, having just freed the… | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 07:51 PM |
| 5 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian ApostateSorry. I don't speak sheep. | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 07:06 PM |
| 7 | Start Thinking Like A Churchian ApostateAnyone who compares this "most people have a 99.94% chance to survive if they even catch the virus pandemic" to a war zone probably needs to be the one with an open brain being operated on. | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Stop thinking about dating non-Christian girls. It’s pointless.No worries. I'm good with having differences of opinion and being able to disagree strongly. Thick skin is a requirement around here. | /r/RPChristians | 18/11/20 08:45 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Stop thinking about dating non-Christian girls. It’s pointless.It would be fun to hear some examples. Hadn't seen you around here for awhile, which I thought was too bad since I tend to agree with a lot of what you post. Not sure where the piss and vinegar is coming from, but welcome back. | /r/RPChristians | 18/11/20 03:58 PM |
| 17 | (Don't make fun of me) Should Christians use Tiktok?"I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people—not at all meaning the sexually immoral of this world, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters, since then you would need to go out of the world." - 1 Corinthians 5:9-10 There are plenty of great reasons to pick from in boycotting an app like TikTok, but the logic of, "can't support a secular company involved in immoral activity" isn't one of them unless you are prepared to go full ludite. | /r/RPChristians | 17/11/20 11:20 PM |
| 5 | PSA: Stop thinking about dating non-Christian girls. It’s pointless.See, Christians pretend to be Red Pilled but are so eager to uncritically defend cultural orthodoxy as their predominant frame of reference. It's very telling. Also, who said I dated a non-Christian or advocate doing so? Approaching =/= dating. A lot happened during fast forward that eventually lead to me dating and marrying her. My point is, had I never approached her to begin with, none of that would have mattered. | /r/RPChristians | 14/11/20 08:43 PM |
| 4 | PSA: Stop thinking about dating non-Christian girls. It’s pointless.Strange, here all along I thought this was a sub for discussing sexual strategy. | /r/RPChristians | 14/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 13 | HillSong Pastor Carl Lentz' LoverImagine considering anyone in leadership at Hillsong a Christian. | /r/RPChristians | 14/11/20 07:34 PM |
| 26 | PSA: Stop thinking about dating non-Christian girls. It’s pointless.Funny, my wife was not a practicing Christian when I met her at the lake. There she was, looking fine in a bikini, enjoying the warm late summer weather. fast forward She became a devout Christian. We've been married for almost 8 years now and have a son. People freshly unplugging from the matrix want hard black and white rules. Do X. Don't do Y. Don't even think about Z. These sorts of training wheels can be helpful, to a point, but ultimately a man is to grow beyond needing them. “Rules are fo… | /r/RPChristians | 14/11/20 07:19 PM |
| 7 | A Novice's Guide to CorrectionThis makes my feefees hurt. | /r/RPChristians | 10/11/20 12:39 AM |
| 2 | POLL: What Denomination Are You?Likewise. So far we have found this to be an interesting experiment and will likely do some more polls in the future to get a better understanding of the community here. Dividing a bit deeper into the protestant category would definitely be interesting. | /r/RPChristians | 30/10/20 08:33 PM |
| 3 | POLL: What Denomination Are You?See note 2 | /r/RPChristians | 26/10/20 04:51 PM |
| 5 | POLL: What Denomination Are You?As a mod team we have been discussing possible follow up polls. Trying to get a better read on our majority protestant audience breakdown is something we would like to do. | /r/RPChristians | 26/10/20 03:24 PM |
| 3 | POLL: What Denomination Are You?Protestant. Maybe other if you are a John Crowder style whacko. | /r/RPChristians | 26/10/20 02:06 PM |
| 1 | POLL: What Denomination Are You?How does Armenian Orthodoxy differ from Eastern or Russian? I am not well studied on Orthodoxy in general but find it rather fascinating. | /r/RPChristians | 26/10/20 01:48 AM |
| 4 | POLL: What Denomination Are You?Ultimately because while most Christian sects would not consider themselves Christian, many of them consider themselves Christian and lurk thus sub. Apologetics is a vitally important discipline and well worth engaging in, but the intended purpose here was to gather information, not argue it. | /r/RPChristians | 26/10/20 01:46 AM |
| 7 | POLL: What Denomination Are You?You aren't wrong, but there is a limit to how many options can be added to the poll so broad categories had to be applied. Perhaps down the line we will try and aim for a more detailed breakdown. | /r/RPChristians | 26/10/20 01:44 AM |
| 18 | POLL: What Denomination Are You?See note #2 you hippy | /r/RPChristians | 25/10/20 09:54 PM |
| 2 | How much do you share here on this subreddit regarding your personal beliefs about women?As the first mod added to this sub, I can well attest that from the onset we have taken an "anti-censorship" approach to the content here. Insofar as something is on-topic (related to Christian sexual strategy), follows our rules (see sidebar), and not an obvious troll attempt, we tend to let it play out. Even if something is off topic, but still a worthwhile post, we decided to create r/askRPC so it would still have a place. We've had topics ranging from race, polygamy, chauvinism, fetishes, an… | /r/RPChristians | 25/10/20 05:34 PM |
| 9 | POLL: What Denomination Are You?Perhaps it is your predestiny... Worry not, my traps have not overshadowed my tulip peddling ways. | /r/RPChristians | 25/10/20 05:08 PM |
| 11 | Simple Question, How Do I Know If I am Truly Red Pilled?If you have to ask the answer is no. Don't fret about "arriving" at some sort of higher enlightened state. Do the work, do the reps, learn and put concepts into practice, and focus on growth. You will never reach the summit of self improvement and worldview cohesion in this life, so focus on the process. | /r/RPChristians | 22/10/20 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Divorce on the table?It's like declaring the Constitution unconstitutional in an effort to dismiss a law as unconstitutional. Quiet, don't give them anymore ideas... | /r/RPChristians | 19/10/20 10:05 PM |
| 9 | Divorce on the table?I think you are confusing two different types of men and lumping them together. One type of man is the glutton who is utterly consumed by porn and possessed by his appetites. This man took a natural desire (sex) and became overindulgent with the rotten junk food version and ends up wrecking himself because he is consuming garbage. That man is what most have in mind. If you were to encounter such a glutton, it would be right to confront them about their consumption of garbage. The second man is e… | /r/RPChristians | 19/10/20 09:36 PM |
| 10 | Divorce on the table?Churchians are out in force in this thread. Allow me to rouse you from your comfortable slumber and welcome you to pissearth 2020 where no-fault divorce means even if you do your part faithfully, if she wants to step out and go full sisterhood of the traveling snatch, you get no say in the matter. | /r/RPChristians | 19/10/20 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Divorce on the table?Martin "Chad" Luther looms large | /r/RPChristians | 19/10/20 08:30 PM |
| 7 | Divorce on the table?For the morons downvoting this, step outside your mental framework of Churchianity and actually consider what is being presented here. If you must go keyboard commando, offer a rebuttal rather than a downvote because it rustled your jimmies. | /r/RPChristians | 19/10/20 08:30 PM |
| 8 | Divorce on the table?Honestly this question, while not unimportant, is nowhere near as important as a lot of guys think it is. | /r/RPChristians | 19/10/20 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Loving my wife like Christ loves the ChurchStats: 30 years old, 6’0”, 185, bench 100, squat 100 Dude, according to Strength Level you are weaker than 98% of guys your age and weight. What in the world are you doing? Do you have a debilitating medical condition? You can start loving your wife by being able to bench more than the average 120lb 25 year old woman. | /r/RPChristians | 17/10/20 06:30 AM |
| – | Do any other Christians feel repulsed by the amorality or the main TRP subreddit?There are obvious differences between the secular Red Pill subs (TRP and MRP) and RPC and it is no secret that we find certain posts on those subs objectionable. Duh. That said, throwing shade at other related subs is not constructive and does not serve our purpose here. The OP's question has been sufficiently answered. Locked. | /r/RPChristians | 16/10/20 06:09 AM |
| 4 | 8 Resolutions for Christian Husbands (fixed)Western women present a difficult option. I can't disagree with you that many (most) are deeply impacted by feminism; even the so-called Christian trad women. If you have the ability to find a woman from another culture, that may be a prudent option. Keep in mind, however, the fact that women are highly influenced by their culture. There are countless stories of guys finding a traditional woman from a foreign culture, bringing her back to the West, and watching in horror as she adopts Western pa… | /r/RPChristians | 15/10/20 03:26 PM |
| 11 | 8 Resolutions for Christian Husbands (fixed)Your evident inability to grasp a basic possessive grammatical form is making a strong case for why women aren't equal to men. | /r/RPChristians | 13/10/20 11:09 PM |
| 11 | 8 Resolutions for Christian Husbands (fixed)Women are their own people and they don't belong to you just because you're married. “You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor's.” - 10th Commandment Weird how God disagrees with you. | /r/RPChristians | 13/10/20 09:59 PM |
| 13 | 8 Resolutions for Christian Husbands (fixed)Snowflake, meet patriarchy. | /r/RPChristians | 13/10/20 09:04 PM |
| 7 | 8 Resolutions for Christian Husbands (fixed)It's a generality backed by observable patterns. Attraction is not negotiable, meaning you cannot talk, bribe, or manipulate someone into finding you attractive. That said, across the board the vast majority of women find jacked muscular well dressed (or undressed) guys to be attractive. Especially if the guy demonstrates confidence in his speech and body language. Add on other elements of a well developed man (high income, formed worldview, accomplished in various other areas, track record of s… | /r/RPChristians | 12/10/20 02:08 PM |
| 9 | 8 Resolutions for Christian Husbands (fixed)To shed some light on that, STFU is a square 1 beginner move intended to help prevent men from engaging the hampster and digging themselves into a deeper hole. AM, AA, Fogging, Pressure Flips, negs, or even straight up disagreement and stonewalling are all viable moves, but take stronger frame and more experience than most guys have just starting out. In other words, STFU is a basic tool used a lot to start, but is largely replaced by better tools once you learn to use them. | /r/RPChristians | 12/10/20 04:18 AM |
| 19 | Question for Married men who have submissive wivesSubmission in marriage, like anywhere else in life, is a matter of power. Powerful men, or men who are at least perceived as powerful, receive far more deference in their relationships. As the power difference grows, so does the submission. This is commonly discussed as frame in RP. Frame is essentially a blend of perspective and the ability to exert your will to shape the world around you. If you have strong frame, women will tend to defer to you because they are convinced that you have a stron… | /r/RPChristians | 08/10/20 04:48 PM |
| 7 | Why do Rich People marry Ugly Women?This right here is a money comment. | /r/RPChristians | 06/10/20 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Extreme FOMOI recognized the name, didn't remember all your details since I don't make a habit if keeping tabs on the hundreds of folks posting here. | /r/askRPC | 30/09/20 12:05 AM |
| 7 | Extreme FOMODon't resist the FOMO, embrace it and use it as fuel for self improvement. You want your wife to slob on your knob? Become the guy who women desire to pleasure that way. Your stats are mediocre, but a fair starting point. Are you taking lifting and building a strong aesthetic physique seriously, or are you dicking around in the gym, not sticking to a program, or skipping workouts? If not, why are you complaining about not getting your pee pee wet? Why should be soak her knickers over the thought… | /r/askRPC | 29/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 1 | How to Address Previous Sexual Sin in a RelationshipBro, do you even lift? Your lack lift #s suggest you are pussyfooting around in the gym. Not okay. | /r/RPChristians | 16/09/20 09:30 PM |
| 11 | Do many preachers encourage single men to be Simps? If so why?Because most pastors are simps. Duh. | /r/RPChristians | 16/09/20 01:54 PM |
| 1 | At a crossroads. Need some guidance.Your right. I have now seen the light. Because she is faithful he is obligated to marry her. Yup, I should have remembered that man is unable to have preferences. Lo, but is man a mere servant to women, owing all that is himself to the first Godly women he encounters who would stoop to offer him the chance to be her possession and bask in her glorious feminine presence. | /r/RPChristians | 16/09/20 01:53 PM |
| 1 | At a crossroads. Need some guidance.Lol don't flatter yourself. To the best of my recollection I've never deleted a user comment. It probably got caught in the automoderator. Back on topic, you are advocating using the Sunk Cost Fallacy as a means of justifying rmotive decision making. Not to put too fine a point on it, but that's dumb. | /r/RPChristians | 15/09/20 08:30 PM |
| 1 | At a crossroads. Need some guidance.Your points are good ones, but no one here is advising the OP to jump into bed with some rando hottie. What is rightly being argued against is the common pressure in the church to settle for a woman who is nice but not highly attractive. It's not a choice betwen "hot but wicked" and "meh but holy", there are "hot and holy" women out there, rare as they might be, that are well worth holding out for, especially if you are in a Boaz sort of situation. If you have (or are getting) yourself and your … | /r/RPChristians | 15/09/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | At a crossroads. Need some guidance.This doesn't tell you anything other than men are possessive by nature. | /r/RPChristians | 15/09/20 02:22 PM |
| 2 | At a crossroads. Need some guidance.Yup. Nothing like scarcity mentality, settling, and emotional decision making to set yourself up for a great relationship. One so good you end up on a subreddit like this one trying to fix it and make a bad decision palatable. 1) The heart is unreliable. Men "love" terrible women for them all the time. 2) Yeah. Looks fade. So get the absolute hottest woman you can now so when they fade she is still pretty hot. Don't marry a prewall woman who is uglier than many post wall women. 3) That isn't how… | /r/RPChristians | 15/09/20 02:20 PM |
| 2 | At a crossroads. Need some guidance.Or the church doesn't focus enough on aesthetics so we have a bunch of under laid unhappy guys stuck with gremlin wives. If only there was a subreddit devoted to helping these guys with fixing this situation... Oh wait. Tag: u/RunawayGrain | /r/RPChristians | 15/09/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Our relationship with God is a synergy of free willsNo, it's not. | /r/RPChristians | 15/09/20 01:53 AM |
| 9 | At a crossroads. Need some guidance.You know the answer or you wouldn't be asking. You're too chicken to follow your gut. This is classic scarcity mentality. You think you can do better, and if you prove yourself right you fear, rightly, that you'll regret locking yourself down to a sub-par choice of mate. | /r/RPChristians | 15/09/20 01:10 AM |
| 20 | At a crossroads. Need some guidance.If it's not a "hell yes!" it's a "no." | /r/RPChristians | 14/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 5 | A theory comparing female hypergamy to male polyamory: Is it reasonable for a husband to require his wife to abstain from male friendships?Does sex trafficking occur? Sure. Is rampant increase of OnlyFans accounts where women create their own porn for money, or the TikTok thots, or the Twitch streamers, or the SnapChat call girls, or the girls seeking Sugar Daddies, or the...etc. a result of "poor innocent" women being exploited against their will? No. Not even close. The difference with porn today and the porn 10 years ago is the lack of a middle man. Far from being forced into someone against their will, women are repeatedly demo… | /r/RPChristians | 11/09/20 07:02 PM |
| 4 | A theory comparing female hypergamy to male polyamory: Is it reasonable for a husband to require his wife to abstain from male friendships?Some people who are hooked on heroin because someone held them down and forcibly injected them. Therefore, we should always talk about all heroin addicts as if they fit this category and aren't simply reaping the consequences of their chosen stupidity, right? | /r/RPChristians | 08/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 6 | A theory comparing female hypergamy to male polyamory: Is it reasonable for a husband to require his wife to abstain from male friendships?I never said it was on par. What I'm saying is white knighting about the "poor women doing porn" is stupid, unhelpful, and has no place here given that the overwhelming majority of porn being produced today is by the women themselves with their own iPhone. Women posting sex videos on OnlyFans and nudes on social media do not exactly fit the definition of victim. | /r/RPChristians | 08/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 0 | A theory comparing female hypergamy to male polyamory: Is it reasonable for a husband to require his wife to abstain from male friendships?Titus 1:11-13, Proverbs 27:5 Now buck up or go back to your safe space. | /r/RPChristians | 08/09/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | A theory comparing female hypergamy to male polyamory: Is it reasonable for a husband to require his wife to abstain from male friendships?Have you even bothered to read any of the side bar or is your brain like a leaky bucket where the information just pours on through? This whole post is so far off base that it has to either be a troll post or someone too lazy or illiterate to read words. But don't let me spoil the fun. Go ahead and negotiate attraction and see how it goes. Oh and the word you are looking for is polygamy (or more accurately, polygny). Polyamory is for beta faggots in Portland who let their women get railed by oth… | /r/RPChristians | 08/09/20 05:34 PM |
| 8 | A theory comparing female hypergamy to male polyamory: Is it reasonable for a husband to require his wife to abstain from male friendships?Women in porn aren't victims. This is a white knight fantasy brought to you by every Captain Save-A-Ho that doesn't have a clue about the nature of women and can't imagine that these "poor mistreated abused women" are not only not victims, but relish and glory in the attention, validation, and money, of thirsty guys drooling over them. | /r/RPChristians | 08/09/20 05:30 PM |
| 6 | Best resource for a Red Pill primer for a guy in a bad marriage?Has this dude asked for your help or are you being captain save-a-bro? | /r/askRPC | 31/08/20 05:58 PM |
| 26 | Self-righteous girlsLocked for being vague, low value, victim puke with no stats. | /r/RPChristians | 31/08/20 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Integrating dark triad traits + ChristianityDeception is always wrong if it's in the form of lying For anyone wanting to know more about this, check out this podcast episode. For discerning men in increasingly tumultuous times is vital to wrap your head around this idea: | /r/RPChristians | 28/08/20 04:58 PM |
| 20 | As men, you need to do betterThis post illustrates why polygamy has been practiced all over the world after times of war. The men fought and died and there weren't enough left for every woman to have her own. Yet today, instead of men going off and dying, they just aren't becoming men at all. This is endemic in the church today. | /r/RPChristians | 21/08/20 08:34 PM |
| 26 | As men, you need to do betterNo, that speech is normally given by a post wall 6/10 woman who hasn't accomplished anything meaningful in their life and still thinks she is a catch. | /r/RPChristians | 21/08/20 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Guide to start lifting [For TRP beginners]Maybe we have a different definition of natty, but your post two months ago stating you'd ordered RAD-140 and Nolva and intending to cycle doesn't wash. Or did you back out of it and decide against it? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/20 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Guide to start lifting [For TRP beginners]You forgot the bulletpoint about using PEDs.** | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/20 04:17 PM |
| 10 | Where's the Victory?Don't forget that spoiler tagging a movie that is over 40 years old is an advanced internet move. | /r/RPChristians | 10/08/20 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Looking for guidanceI agree that she is towards the upper end of muscular; specifically the abs aren't my thing either. That said, she is credibly natural and absolutely insanely dedicated and still doesn't look manly. I use her as an example to prove the point that the upper limit of "bulky" for a natural chick is still not that masculine. Steroids of course change the entire equation. | /r/RPChristians | 05/08/20 12:33 AM |
| 5 | Looking for guidanceWorking out to get specifically to get :toned" is a myth. Men and women both achieve their best looking bodies by picking and putting down heavy weight. Granted, women tend to (and should) focus more on lower body development than their upper bodies, but the principles remain the same: eat a surplus, progressively overload and lify heavier and heavier weight, focus on big compound movements first and isolation lifts afterwards, get enough sleep, then after gaining significant strength, muscle, a… | /r/RPChristians | 04/08/20 09:19 PM |
| 11 | Looking for guidanceIf it's not a "hell yes!" It's a "No." Next and move on. Oh, and you need to lift. Women don't get a pass on that. | /r/RPChristians | 04/08/20 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Episode 10 - No Frame, No Game Part 2I'm dying lol | /r/RPChristians | 02/08/20 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Why do most people not like having a respectful relationship? What’s the catholic and red pill standpoint on making out with strangers? Plus I think I’m leaving religion. HELPDo you know who Rooshv is? If not, you should. He lived the life you think you want for decades. He is on of the OGs of game and PUA. What'd he do when he found himself alone and hollow? He took the God Pill and turned to Christ. Save yourself the heartache of decades of shallow meaningless nihilism and start at Christ. You're 18. I remember wanting the same thing then. I am 30 now. Where am I at? I have a smokeshow faithful wife and we have ludicrously satisfying sex. There is not a single rela… | /r/RPChristians | 02/08/20 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Why do most people not like having a respectful relationship? What’s the catholic and red pill standpoint on making out with strangers? Plus I think I’m leaving religion. HELPCongrats on having (to my knowledge) the most upvoted comment in RPC history; more than most posts here. | /r/RPChristians | 02/08/20 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Why do most people not like having a respectful relationship? What’s the catholic and red pill standpoint on making out with strangers? Plus I think I’m leaving religion. HELPRead Dauntless by Marcus Follin Ah, the Golden One. My favorite (second favorite?) pagan. | /r/RPChristians | 02/08/20 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Is Church attendance a command from God?The fourth commandment applied to Israel. Jesus has fulfilled the Law so we are no longer bound to it. So does the 7th commandment no longer apply since it was given to Israel? Spoiler alert: the Church (capital C) is now Israel. | /r/askRPC | 02/08/20 06:18 AM |
| 3 | The Origins of the Ekklesia ("Church")Personally, I decided that I would take the New Testament as my Absolute, which still run the risk of relying on my own interpretation of it. Some chose the traditions of their churches, very risky because what proves that your church is right? God gave you a brain for a reason. Use it. Whether you believe the scriptures were written in a way that the layman can understand or that the scriptures must be interpreted by a magisterial body, you are still using your own reasoning to arrive at those … | /r/RPChristians | 02/08/20 06:17 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (07/29/20)Tag: u/DeChef2 & u/Torn4_025 Finally caught up on this conversation and found time to weigh in. I am convinced that the vast majority, if not all, of the New Testament was written before the destruction of the temple in 70 AD. Why? Because nowhere in the New Testament is it mentioned. Consider the book of Hebrews. A huge portion of the book is devoted to urging Christians not to turn back to the sacrificial system of the Jews. This makes no sense whatsoever if the temple had already been destroy… | /r/RPChristians | 02/08/20 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Abundance mentality and the ruinsTag: u/HorrorStatistician4 u/DeChef2 is right in that attractiveness and marriage potential are not to be conflated. Abundance mentality is related to pre-selection. Women are inherently social in a way that men just aren't. They tend to go with group consensus (hence why single women vote socialist/left at alarming rates). They look to other people to help them determine their opinions. When women see that other women find a man attractive, they will likewise tend to find him attractive, even i… | /r/RPChristians | 02/08/20 05:26 AM |
| 8 | How can i use my good memory skills to glorify God?This should be in r/askrpc. | /r/RPChristians | 29/07/20 11:47 PM |
| 8 | Abundance mentality and the ruinsThis gets dangerously close to spirtualizing something natural. Yes, Christians have abundance mentality because God is sovereign, owns and controls everything, and we are adopted sons. That said, in a sexual context abundance mentality, Christian or secular, remains a matter of: how many women are sexually attracted to you? The higher the number (and the higher the quality) the more abundance you have to reap mental benefits from. Notice you don't have to go around banging secular broads just t… | /r/RPChristians | 29/07/20 09:51 PM |
| 7 | Leadership Lessons Through a Comparison of Christ and Alexander the GreatIf you can't admire the life and accomplishments of Alexander the Great because he wasn't a Christian... you might be a Churchian. Get a grip you autists. | /r/RPChristians | 28/07/20 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Hey guys check out this really neat 3 h YouTube video I watched!(yes, u/OsmiumZulu I have your wife’s stats) I admit, I laughed out loud at that. | /r/RPChristians | 28/07/20 02:06 AM |
| 15 | Priorities. What does this look like to you?It looks like a long wall of text that is a waste of time for anyone here to read. TLDR: Beta Billy's wife is obviously getting plowed by his pastor for years and Billy is too much of a limp faggot to do anything about it because he is naive. Now go lift. | /r/askRPC | 17/07/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | How can you tell when you need to change things up?https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Protestant_work_ethic | /r/RPChristians | 17/07/20 08:54 PM |
| 3 | How can you tell when you need to change things up?^ Found the Protest Work Ethic. Always good to see a fellow reformed guy around. | /r/RPChristians | 17/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 2 | The Perversion of Critical Theory: Nadia Bolz-WeberSolid stuff. Critical FILL IN THE BLANK Theory is for commies, faggots, and blue haired cat ladies. | /r/RPChristians | 15/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 11 | Sort of a boner “problem”"...it is better to marry than to burn with passion." 1 Corinthians 7:9 | /r/askRPC | 07/07/20 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Reformed? Or Arminian?u/KierkegaardsGhost (comment went over 10,000 character limit, had to split it) Finally, I'm going to submit a few laws from the Old Testament, and I would be interested to hear if you think they still apply today or not, and if they apply, should they be followed literally or more as a value (like with the parapet example you gave): Running low on time so I am going to shoot from the hip. Let me know if you want more clarification on any of these. Polygamy is ok (Ex 21:10) Yes, given Biblical p… | /r/RPChristians | 06/07/20 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Reformed? Or Arminian?First, let me say that I appreciate the time you took to type all of this out. It means a lot to me and shows me that you care about the bible and about me as a fellow believer. Word. variegated antinomianism New term to me. I appreciate the insight. I don't ask these questions to be antagonistic or to try and trap you, but more to try and understand the system you live by. Copy that. I appreciate it. As far as living by it goes, I do what I can but a lot of this is still a work in progress as I… | /r/RPChristians | 06/07/20 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Ideas for an atypical dating profileFeisty red heads? Sounds hot. | /r/askRPC | 06/07/20 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Ideas for an atypical dating profileI'm now trying to make my profile intentionally polarizing in a way that repels the women I don't want Then just add something that would offend the type that you don't want? How is this hard? "Blue haired busy-bodies need not apply." | /r/askRPC | 06/07/20 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Reformed? Or Arminian?you feel that Jesus never corrects Old Testament law? By definition something that is perfect cannot be corrected. If it is correctable or improvable, it is not perfect. The application of biblical law is a challenging area of study. This is in large part because there are different types of laws given by God. In the Old Testament we see God reveal moral laws, civil laws, and ceremonial laws. Each of these categories of law differ from one another in scope and application. For example, ceremonia… | /r/RPChristians | 06/07/20 12:02 AM |
| 5 | Online dating beneficial during Covid?I’m a 24 y/o male that is around 6’2” weighing around 155 (15% body fat), lift/run 3 days a week for around an hour and a half each time. Bench: 160, squat: 120, curl 30’s for 10 reps) Advice on online dating or nah? No bro, you need to lift like a dying man stranded in a desert needs water. I have been 6'2" and 155lbs and was scrawny and pathetically weak just like you. After years of lifting serious I bulked up to ~205lbs and added about 600 lbs to my combined deadlift, squat, and bench press.… | /r/askRPC | 05/07/20 11:04 PM |
| 6 | Ideas for an atypical dating profile... they rarely tell you what they bring to the table in return... or what they intend to GIVE to the other person in the relationship. She should be qualify herself to you, not the other way around. Are you the prize or not? You are over thinking this by a ton. There are plenty of write ups on TRP on how to make an effective online profile that attracts women. TLDR is: your pictures make or break your profile. If you have a great set of photos that are attractive and show you living an interest… | /r/askRPC | 05/07/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Reformed? Or Arminian?When Jesus says “You’ve heard it’s said ‘an eye for an eye’ but I say to you to not resist an evil person”in Matthew 5 he is criticizing a verse in Exodus 21 which is a commandment from YHWH. Since Christ (and not YHWH in Exodus 21) is the full image of God, we hold Christ’s commandment in Matthew 5 to be authoritative over Exodus 21. Woah, lots going on here. First, what Jesus was doing in Matthew 5 was not offering a corrective of Exodus 21, but correcting the incorrect application of it. The … | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Reformed? Or Arminian?"Good lets us choose, but predestines our circumstances in a way that he knows we will only be inclined to choose the path he wants" If you'll forgive a "No True Scottsman" logical fallacy... anyone claiming a reformed viewpoint who makes that argument is misunderstanding or misrepresenting the reformed position significantly. Regarding your study on this issue, the core texts are: "As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to bring it about that many people should be kep… | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/20 05:40 PM |
| 7 | lifting partner?I've lifted both with and without a partner off and on over the years. In my experience, lifting with a partner tends to stretch a workout to go longer. Whether due to talking, changing plates out, running late, etc. things just seem to overall take a bit longer than when I lift alone. This is all fine if you have the time for it, but if you are constantly pinched for time this may not be the way to go. That said, if you find the right partner it can be a big help. You can push yourself to failu… | /r/askRPC | 04/07/20 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Reformed? Or Arminian?To follow Jesus you have to know who he is, and the Jesus of the Bible knows the future. Thus, you are following a false messiah that cannot save you because he does not exist. | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Reformed? Or Arminian?You know of James White's work? He has a weekly podcast and you can find some episodes on the issue if he search his archives. | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/20 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Reformed? Or Arminian?God is good. Not because he behaves in ways we consider good, but because His nature is good and God always behaves in accordance with His nature. So when God hardens Pharoah's heart, nukes Sodom, commits his people to the destruction of the canaanites, uses foreign enemy armies to chastise Israel, curses the pharisees, etc. he is doing it for good out of his own good nature. Atheists like to point to these actions of God and object to God's goodness. The proper response is: by what standard do … | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/20 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Reformed? Or Arminian?u/Vypersnake is right on this point. Compatiblism is a subsidiary belief found within monergism/Calvinism; it isn't an independent soteriology. | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/20 02:26 PM |
| 2 | How do I build competence?Yes. He isn't as competent as he could be, and does need to up his game in several areas, but he is more competent in certain areas than he is giving himself credit for. | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/20 02:13 PM |
| 10 | How do I build competence?https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impostor_syndrome I don't have time to write up a real response, but this is one part of solving your mental hang up. | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/20 01:01 AM |
| 8 | Skill in responding in a Christ-like way to this that is rooted in truth and integrity?I'll offer an alternative perspective: while "next and move on" is probably the best answer, it can benefit to keep her as just a friend if you can manage to not catch oneitis and be a chump. Preselection is powerful. Being seen with hot women ups your status in the eyes of other women. If she's cool and earnestly not interested in you she may even set you up with her hot friends. Now, if none of this applies to your situation don't kid yourself and use it as an excuse to orbit. | /r/askRPC | 04/07/20 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Advice on cannabis use and my future marriageIf the Supreme Court ruled that gravity was unconstitutional would we need to respect that ruling? | /r/RPChristians | 28/06/20 02:15 PM |
| 4 | Advice on cannabis use and my future marriageYes, 1) Christians are supposed to obey the law of the land. 2) The law of the land is the constitution. 3) The constitution says nothing one way or another about marijuana use. 4) The constitution does say in the 10th ammendment that anything not spelled out in the constitution is to be left up to the states. 5) some states have legalized use of marijuana. The constitution is the law of the land. The fed is not. The fed is not authorized to make laws concerning drug use, among many other things… | /r/RPChristians | 28/06/20 12:32 AM |
| 6 | Advice on cannabis use and my future marriageThe Supreme Court absolutely and emphatically does NOT have the power to legislate, which is exactly what it did in this recent Bostock decision. Have you read any of the majority opinion? The logic is laughably infantile and clearly designed to arrive at the conclusion that title 7 protects transgenderism despite having zero basis in the civil rights act. An even worse and more insidious case of legislation from the bench was Roe v. Wade. Are you going to argue that the decision was a matter of… | /r/RPChristians | 28/06/20 12:01 AM |
| 7 | Advice on cannabis use and my future marriageFunny, I don't really think the Supreme Court that can read transgenderism back into the civil rights act is altogether trustworthy when it comes to originalist interpretation. The 10th ammendment, along with the rest of the constitution, is written in plain language for the express purpose of perpescuity. Said ammendment makes it abundantly clear that the fed is the party in violation of the law of the land on this (and many other) issues involving state rights. | /r/RPChristians | 27/06/20 10:11 PM |
| 7 | Advice on cannabis use and my future marriage"The powers not delegated to the United States by the Constitution, nor prohibited by it to the States, are reserved to the States respectively, or to the people." 10th Ammendment | /r/RPChristians | 27/06/20 09:29 PM |
| 10 | Advice on cannabis use and my future marriageGot a source on cannabis being used in temple worship? | /r/RPChristians | 27/06/20 05:05 PM |
| 14 | What would you do if you were suddenly single?You're a Christian all the time and most Christians men are unattractive most of the time. This shouldn't be the case. | /r/RPChristians | 21/06/20 12:15 AM |
| 4 | Need some dating advice...Username checks out. | /r/RPChristians | 11/06/20 05:13 PM |
| 19 | Need some dating advice...You're new to this so I will be gentle and use lots of lube. She said that before she has told herself that she would never date or marry someone who is a cop or going into law enforcement There is a common phrase in the manosphere, "Acta Non Verba" or "Actions, not words" that applies here. What women say is far less important than what women do. So what do women do? Women go out of their way to bend their schedules, goals, and preferences to suit a guy who she is highly attracted to, especiall… | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 08:28 PM |
| 3 | RPCC Episode 3: The State of MarriageOn a related note: I listen to all podcasts at 2x-2.5x speed. I started this awhile back to get through a ton of backlogged listening. It took awhile to acclimate my ear, but eventually I got used to it and found that I was more engaged with the material and retaining more. When I've gone back and listened at normal speed the speakers sound slow, almost as if they were drunk. This may explain in part why I tend to speak so fast at times. | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 05:39 PM |
| 4 | RPCC Episode 3: The State of MarriageI tend to be a fast talker. In fact, once upon a time I was given the feedback to slow down and use smaller words on a work review. Glad you enjoyed the listen. | /r/RPChristians | 09/06/20 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Husbands Being Christ Like and Leading"To which I may add this dilemma to our Universalists -- God imposed his wrath due unto, and Christ underwent the pains of hell for, either all the sins of all men, or all the sins of some men, or some sins of all men. If the LAST, some sins of all men, then have all men some sins to answer for, and so shall no man be saved; for if God entered into judgment with us, though it were with all mankind for one sin, no flesh should be justified in his sight: "If the LORD should mark iniquities, who sh… | /r/RPChristians | 06/06/20 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Problems with my Family.https://imgur.com/a/kgef3RP | /r/askRPC | 06/06/20 05:11 PM |
| 7 | Problems with my Family.Sounds like you're on the spectrum. https://imgur.com/a/kgef3RP | /r/askRPC | 06/06/20 05:10 PM |
| 8 | Husbands Being Christ Like and Leading...we have to look at the wife as being church like... "Speaking poorly about your husband behind his back? That's not very church-like of you Karen..." I like it. ...because He knew ultimately his love sacrifice would cover all at the end. Universalism much? | /r/RPChristians | 06/06/20 04:30 PM |
| 20 | Do's and Don'ts on a "first date"Do: Tease her, poke fun at her, make inside jokes with her, etc Enjoy yourself. You invited her along for your amusement. Have a "next place" in mind. If you are enjoying the date invite her to go with you. "Since I'm pretty sure you aren't a serial killer now that we've had a chance to get to know each other, I am going (kayaking / to a BBQ / whatever) after this, want to come along?" etc. If she joins you, awesome. If not, you have something fun to do anyway. Ask her lighthearted get to know y… | /r/RPChristians | 29/05/20 04:45 PM |
| 9 | Do's and Don'ts on a "first date"Enter the date with the mindset you are vetting her to be your wife (hint: as a Christian, you really are). It's lunch, not a job interview. At this point one should only be vetting her as someone who is interesting enough to spend time with. Obviously if red flags come up during the conversation (i.e., "OMG I just adore BABY MURDER, don't you!?") she can disqualify herself, but there is no need to go into a date with any longer term vetting in mind. | /r/RPChristians | 29/05/20 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Do's and Don'ts on a "first date"Uh no. Many women have and would agree to a hike or kayaking upon initially meeting a guy who they are highly attracted to. Sure, some women won't, but "no woman"? Get outta here | /r/RPChristians | 29/05/20 03:37 PM |
| – | Corruption of Modern ChristianityWhat does this have to do with this sub? "We're here to provide a place for Christians to discuss problems, solutions and insights on relationships, sex, and biblical masculinity according to biblical principles." This post is being locked for low-effort. If you want to edit your post and explain how it relates to this sub's mission it can be reviewed and potentially unlocked. | /r/RPChristians | 28/05/20 04:17 PM |
| 4 | Praying with my wifeFriends once showed me the following model for family prayer: A.C.T.S = Start the prayer with Adoration (why God is great or why we are in awe of him), then Confession of sins and asking God for strength to overcome them, next Thanksgiving for the ways God has blessed us and been faithful to us, finally Supplication (asking God to meet our needs). When we do this I typically ask my wife about each of these things and we discuss them before praying. This pairs well with bible study. | /r/askRPC | 27/05/20 02:50 PM |
| 17 | Is Christianity a blue pill religion?Is Christianity a blue pill religion? Modern western mainstream "Christianity" (We tend to call it churchianity around here) is definitely blue pilled. Historic Christianity? Not blue pilled. I am not seeing in Scripture a basis for anything Red Pill. Consider this post on Joseph in Genesis 39. Check out the way Proverbs 6 and 7 lays out female nature. Consider the way women's behavior and motives are portrayed in Ezekiel 16. Later we see that women were not to teach men: "I do not permit a woma… | /r/RPChristians | 26/05/20 01:56 AM |
| 3 | Is Christianity a blue pill religion?My point was... Your point was a nonsequitor. | /r/RPChristians | 26/05/20 01:48 AM |
| 13 | Is Christianity a blue pill religion?Christianity is not a religion. It is a relationship with Jesus... Wrong. This is such a common, unhelpful, and weak dodge. By any credible definition, Christianity is a religion. As Christians we look like morons to suggest otherwise. What the Christian religion is all about is the unique way in which God relates to man in the person of Jesus Christ; whether or not Christianity is a religion is not up for debate. This is such a wrong headed simplistic stance that even if you grant it at face va… | /r/RPChristians | 26/05/20 01:37 AM |
| 13 | Is working/investing during 20s worth it?Many people my age... spend to have fun all the time versus save money... they are having fun and creating memories. Is it worth investing my 20s to be late to the party by the time I hit 30? These aren't mutually exclusive. Most people, especially people in that age group, are terrible with their money and time management. You can absolutely grind and save to build a solid financial foundation and still do fun things and create memories, you just have to be smart and intentional about it. I spe… | /r/askRPC | 24/05/20 05:16 AM |
| 4 | How to make sense of all this? I am scarred.This post is pure self-masterbatory catharthis. You came here before asking for advice and then completely ignored it to your own detriment. Now you're here whining and victim puking so you can get your hurt "fee fees" out in the open. In summary: 1) You're a faggot 2) You have a terminal case of oneitis 3) You need to walk away from this entire situation cold turkey, get your head out of your anus, read the sidebar, and lift. 4) Don't post again until you've actually started fixing yourself and… | /r/RPChristians | 23/05/20 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Leading your wife in Scripture MemorySolid post. Another app that I can heartily endorse is the Bible Memory app. I believe there is both a free and paid version. I paid for it because I found the app that helpful. Also, congrats on the engagement. Sounds like you are taking charge of things from the start as you should. | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/20 05:27 PM |
| 10 | The Gospel and White Privilege“Do not engage an enemy more powerful than you. And if it is unavoidable and you do have to engage, then make sure you engage it on your terms, not on your enemy’s terms.” – Sun Tzu “He will win who knows when to fight and when not to fight.” – Sun Tzu | /r/askRPC | 19/05/20 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Bad HabitsPerhaps approach her by telling her she's beautiful and you love the way her skin is and it would be too bad not for YOURSELF but for her own good if she were to ruin her skin that way..if you ever see her picking her face in front of you, maybe take her hands gently and casually hold them in yours and kiss the spot she was picking.. This is some first class "Grade A" blue pill vomit right here. | /r/askRPC | 10/05/20 09:46 AM |
| 2 | New Masculine FraternitiesIt's too soon to say much, if things go well I will update the sub | /r/RPChristians | 10/05/20 09:32 AM |
| 7 | Theory; Respect in practise and the God given order.If the husband does not respect God, the wife will struggle to respect the husband and as a result the kids will struggle to respect their father. This is true, to a point. There are ungodly men with wives and kids that respect them for various reasons (political, social, and economic power, etc). That said, generally speaking, a man who kneels only before his God is a man worthy of respect and your point remains. If the husband does not respect himself, the wife will struggle to respect him and… | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/20 07:37 AM |
| 2 | New Masculine FraternitiesGood post. It is my strong opinion that masculine fraternities of some sort or another are the way forward for us gents. That said, I think starting something local is the best path. At the end of the day, as great as something like the Order of Man can be, it is the guys who live near you that you can call up in a pinch that will make the difference. It is for that very reason I've begun working on something similar on a local level in my community. Men are starving for fraternity and we have a… | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/20 06:54 AM |
| 8 | 80/20 percent hypergamy... or girls lie. | /r/RPChristians | 01/05/20 10:19 PM |
| 5 | BiblicalGenderRoles.com"That stuff" is pretty vague. Care to offer any specific criticisms? | /r/RPChristians | 28/04/20 02:53 PM |
| 4 | BiblicalGenderRoles.comI've read a decent amount of the content on that site over the years and would say it is a mixed bag. In general I'd consider it worth reading as it presents alternative perspectives in fairly well thought out ways. As always excercise discernment per Acts 17. | /r/RPChristians | 28/04/20 02:52 PM |
| 4 | Question about my youth groupAre you a student or another staff member? | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/20 03:49 AM |
| 7 | Endure!...or talk to her and not be so beta you catch oneitis on first sight. | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/20 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Find Something to Lift around the HouseYup. Almost everywhere online sold out of olympic bars and steel plates. | /r/RPChristians | 19/04/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Dating a girl with lots of past baggageStats: 24% bf, 171 lb, 5' 9'', 160 bench, 260 squat, 310 deadlift What is your routine? | /r/RPChristians | 17/04/20 04:41 PM |
| 9 | Dating a girl with lots of past baggageSo why even be anything other than friends? | /r/RPChristians | 17/04/20 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Dating a girl with lots of past baggagethe change is only temporary (until the ring is on her finger), but if she willfully does that, she's not going to be answering to me, but answering to God for that kind of serious intentional deception You can't trust that divine accountability stops women from making horrible life decisions that directly and permanently impact you. Solipsism is real. That deception doesn't even make sense You are wrongfully trusting a woman make logical rather than emotive decisions. Think about that. But if i… | /r/RPChristians | 17/04/20 04:32 PM |
| 6 | Listen up you pricks, we have work to do.Quit being a dildo. | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe in the core attraction principles of the red pill?I'm not addressing your points because you're committed to a contrary perspective. Why waste the time? TRP sells false promises to ugly and below average guys. Brother, I can't change your experience but I wish you could see what I've seen. if you are attractive, you don't have to jump through hoops Yes. This isn't contrary to the red pill. As I mentioned above, there is a tension between PUA and RP based on this very issue. End of the day, physically attractive men are playing the game with che… | /r/askRPC | 16/04/20 06:51 AM |
| 9 | Listen up you pricks, we have work to do.Click on the "about" tab | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe in the core attraction principles of the red pill?I never had to try at all, I never had to even say anything. I didn't have to pass tests. Well slayer, why are you even here then? Sounds like you've got it all figured out. | /r/askRPC | 16/04/20 06:33 AM |
| 13 | Listen up you pricks, we have work to do.maybe people didn’t see they need to read the rules? You mean that giant banner on the right titled "r/RPChristians Rules" that they didn't bother to look at? The same banner with convenient links to the most useful posts here that comprise the sidebar? I just don’t get why you freak out Because the people who are used to being spoon fed are the same people who need a loving oh-so-tender kick in the rear that they should have received when they were 5 but their parents were too busy masturbating… | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 06:30 AM |
| 26 | Listen up you pricks, we have work to do.Way to demonstrate my point. Toughen up buttercup, this isn't a safespace. | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 06:25 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe in the core attraction principles of the red pill?I played in a club band... When a woman wants to sleep with you, she hands you her number and says 'My roommate isn't home tonight'. You're proving the point. When you are in a band you have unlimited social proof and pre-selection. She isn't testing you because she is already convinced that your frame is untouchable. Turns out that a lot of musicians and performers are insecure deep down and can't keep a woman attracted because they have weak frame. Passing tests just means you're willing to ju… | /r/askRPC | 16/04/20 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Do you believe in the core attraction principles of the red pill?I've read the post a half dozen times over the years; it's a classic for a reason. Attraction is far more rote than people, especially Christians, tend to want to believe. That's the redpill fam. Attraction operates how it does, not how we wish it did. | /r/askRPC | 16/04/20 03:35 AM |
| 7 | Do you believe in the core attraction principles of the red pill?Do you believe in the core attraction principles of the red pill? Yes. Baptism doesn't change how vaginas work. | /r/askRPC | 16/04/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on tattoos?Great resource. Thank you for sharing. | /r/RPChristians | 15/04/20 01:52 AM |
| – | What are your thoughts on tattoos?Admin notice: posts like these belong in r/askRPC. I am going to leave it open here as the discussion is already underway. | /r/RPChristians | 15/04/20 12:00 AM |
| 8 | What are your thoughts on tattoos?Note, the following is my personal opinion: Theologically: Tattoos are not inherently sinful. Leviticus 19:28 has specific forbidden pagan worship practices (involving the dead) in view, not tattoos as we know them. Personally: I think the vast majority of tattoos are poorly done and utterly fugly. In all but a single isolated case, tattoos have been a negative in my personal assessment of a woman's attractiveness. Practically: As others have linked, there is evidence to suggest that women who g… | /r/RPChristians | 15/04/20 12:00 AM |
| 7 | What are your thoughts on tattoos?It's a matter of signaling theory. See this study. Girls with tattoos are sort of like guys with rat tails: a guy who has a rat tail may not necessarily be doing meth, but the odds are good that he is. Likewise, a girl with tattoos is more likely to be engaged in risky impulsive sexual behavior. She might not be, but there is a correlation. | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Pain of birth Vs epiduralJust went through this with my wife last year. My wife worked in the medical field and several members of her family have medical backgrounds. Given this, my wife was initially set on going the typically hospital and epidural route. I, on the other hand, believed that there is a strong case for natural childbirth. I told her I wasn't opposed to doing a hospital birth and wanted to do whatever made the most sense given the research. I explained to her that neither of us had looked into the option… | /r/askRPC | 14/04/20 11:34 PM |
| 2 | 18 M no Father Girl ProblemsThis is textbook White Knighting. Pro-tip: you aren't God and can't save her from herself. | /r/RPChristians | 14/04/20 12:11 AM |
| 16 | 18 M no Father Girl ProblemsThis post has more red flags than a communist parade. i totally fell in love with this girl... What makes you so into this girl? What is she like? beautiful girl, blonde, incredible figure What else? she actively rejects Christ has a litany of other issues at home issues with boys in the past to her i “talk about God too much” the relationship is pretty toxic and it’s difficult for me in the past she has exhibited some manipulative behavior where it gets weird is how much she talks about other g… | /r/RPChristians | 13/04/20 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on Elliott Hulse?Been following his stuff for awhile. He is definitely red pill aware (hangs out with red pill thinkers and is involved in the 21 convention) and recently seems to have genuinely converted to Christianity. Wouldn't surprise me if he is aware of RPC. His specific beliefs seem to be heavily influenced by Eastern Orthodoxy, which isn't surprising given his increasingly rightward political leanings and prior semi-mysticism. Overall I think Elliot Hulse is on the same path and in a similar spot as Roo… | /r/askRPC | 13/04/20 03:21 PM |
| 15 | Friendly Reminder BrothersAre you personally experiencing this with Christian girls? Christian girls are not exempt from this behavior, they just tend to go about it differently. "Omg, could you pray for me? I am super broke and don't know how I am going to pay my phone bill this month! I am just going to really have to trust that God will provide, huh? doe eyes." | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 04:20 PM |
| 5 | Friendly Reminder BrothersThis is a good word. You can't negotiate attraction, and you certainly can't purchase it. | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Friendly Reminder BrothersYou don't. Read the sidebar and quit being a faggot. | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 04:14 PM |
| 7 | Friendly Reminder BrothersHahaha. Okay, that legitimately cracked me up. | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 04:13 PM |
| 3 | When do you know that they’re the one?Maybe I missed the part where you said you had married your wife because you were madly in love with her. Men do not experience love the same way women do. You are projecting a female ideal of love on men. women are frequently criticized for employing a AF/BB strategy ... but men often do the equivalent. After a few years of chasing Staceys (or lusting after them from afar), they decide to settle down with a 'nice girl.' You don't seem to understand the goal for men here. "Chasing Stacey" for an… | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/20 04:12 PM |
| 5 | When do you know that they’re the one?Ah, the 'beta wife'! Not entirely sure how you got that from my previous comment. Care to elaborate? | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 07:29 PM |
| 4 | How to work on not DEERing?From the sidebar: DEER - Defend, Explain, Excuse, Rationalize - From NMMNG and popular psychology literature. These are strategies of dealing with conflict that are unattractive and often off-putting. You are a man. You don't need to defend yourself, explain yourself, make up excuses, or rationalize what you are doing. Essentially, if a woman (or anyone really) is being contentious about something you said or did, the wrong thing to do is to try and defend your decision, explain why you did some… | /r/askRPC | 09/04/20 07:26 PM |
| 14 | When do you know that they’re the one?As others have already mentioned, "The One" is a myth propagated by Disney and has little to do with reality. When I decided to propose to my wife it was because: 1) she was, by the best of by ability to know, a genuine Christian 2) she was exceptionally attractive 3) she was young enough that her N count was low and lacked much baggage 4) she had a high IQ, was eager to learn, and eager to followed my lead 5) she wanted a traditional family While these are rare attributes found in one person, m… | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 05:33 PM |
| 7 | unattractive yet godly girlThe fact that you are posting here reveals the depth of your own doubts. | /r/RPChristians | 09/04/20 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How to work on not DEERing?This is where practicing the art of "STFU" comes into play. Most men DEER by default. It takes time for AM, AA, fogging, pressure flips, etc. to become your natural response. Just like a tourniquet won't actually heal a wound, but manages to at least stop the bleeding, STFU keeps you from digging a deeper hole. The hardest part is to actually catch yourself before you start to DEER. If you can reliably do that, half the battle is won. | /r/askRPC | 09/04/20 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Give number out or get hers (or both)?Basically. I wouldn't say it doesn't matter whatsoever, but it doesn't matter enough to be critical to your success or failure. So much of developing solid game is learning to read situations. In some cases the conversation naturally leads to a place where it makes more sense to give out your number or vise versa. Getting autistic about one method being statistically better may lead to you trying to force things to go a certain way, which tends to be off putting. | /r/askRPC | 07/04/20 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Advice for DM’ing (for the first message) a girl on FB (details below)?Did she accept the request? If so try, "Hey, what's up?" or some equally low stakes message. | /r/askRPC | 07/04/20 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Give number out or get hers (or both)?This gets into the territory of overthinking it. Could one method or the other yield a marginal statistical difference? Certainly, and I am sure someone in the PUA community has done the research and the math. My gut would be that getting her number is seen as a more alpha move and would likely get somewhat better results. Bottom line is that it doesn't really matter all that much. A girl who isn't attracted to you probably won't become attracted to you if you get / give her / your number. If sh… | /r/askRPC | 07/04/20 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Lifting Troubleshooting QuestionsI set a new deadlift PR and pulled 335 for one. I was ecstatic. Congrats on the PR brother, exceeding 3 plates is definitely an exciting accomplishment! I took off the last week and lifted light in line with the recovery week guidelines in 5/3/1. Today, the program had me deadlifting 305 for 5+. My goal was 7 - and should have been a new 7 rep PR. Others have already made solid points regarding your 5/3/1 program, definitely think about what they wrote. I just didn’t have it. I let go of the bar… | /r/RPChristians | 05/04/20 05:04 PM |
| 5 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenJust when I thought you'd finally given up being a pedantic troll around here you go and prove me wrong. | /r/RPChristians | 03/04/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenAll* of history. Literally today the wealthiest woman on earth is the lady who divorce raped Jeff Bezos of Amazon. | /r/RPChristians | 02/04/20 04:30 AM |
| 5 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenWe keep harping on the fallen nature of women to be some sort of innate point of what we're designed to truly be. We're easier to brainwash, especially if we don't truly follow Christ or have some strong moral background. We see the effects of that today. In scripture we aren't given much insight into creation from before the fall, so speculation of design intent can only go so far. What we do know is how women are now and must contend with how women are, not how we wish they were. Women aren't … | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenBut what does OP think about this in light of the new covenant which states that gender is no longer a distinguishing feature of our identity? (Galatians 3:28) u/john_tree's response to this is solid. In context, Paul is addressing the conditions of covenant membership. He explains that the covenant was promised to Abraham and his seed (singular), not seeds (plural). Who is that singular seed that inherited the covenant of faith? Christ. Christ alone receives this covenant. How then are men save… | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Most Christians Do Not Love Womenwe are meant to alter the culture towards God's image, in Jesus' name! Yes. We are supposed to alter culture to accurately reflect and follow God's intent. Which is why we oppose women taking positions of authority within the church (1 Timothy 2:11-15). It's why we "urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands" (Titus 2:4-5). | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 05:46 PM |
| 9 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenThat was before she was married to Boaz. She was working for someone else to provide for her late husband’s mother and herself. Re-read Chapter 2. Now Naomi had a relative of her husband's, a worthy man of the clan of Elimelech, whose name wasuBoaz. And Ruth the Moabite said to Naomi, “Let me go to the field and glean among the ears of grain after him win whose sight I shall find favor.” And she said to her, “Go, my daughter.” Before she was married to Boaz she worked for him in his fields. Boaz… | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 05:39 PM |
| 7 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenMore than half, they make up the majority of churchgoing Christians (in the west least). Guess who is the driving force behind this misunderstanding of gender roles then? | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenThanks mate. | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenI'd advise you to go read Proverbs 31 Oh my gosh, Proverbs 31 is in the Bible? I had no idea. I need to rethink my entire worldview in light of this revelation. | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenIndeed. Conservativism at best is a tactical retreat meant to stall the inevitable. We need to be looking forward more than looking backward. | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenThat doesn’t mean that stay at home mom is the only way that she can do that. If we look at the book of Ruth, one of her best qualities was that she worked extremely hard. Ruth didn't go out and spend the primer of her youth building spreadsheets for Globalhomo Corp. Yes, she worked hard, but her efforts were focused on Boaz's farm which was a family business. | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 05:06 PM |
| 7 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenWomen are not just things sitting around waiting to be fucked and bear children. Never said they were. In fact, I'd suggest women looking to get fucked and bear children ought to be active about it. Instead, we are praised for contributing to the household as evidenced in Proverbs 31. She compliments her husband by working. Although kids are a first priority, and a unique capability given to women, that does not discredit her from being a working member of the household as evidenced by this pass… | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 05:02 PM |
| 5 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenThe problem is that this isn't just being pushed the "equality" crowd, but is being pushed from within so-called conservative circles as well. They also have a fundamental misunderstanding of the female nature. | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 04:56 PM |
| 6 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenWorse is that it's being wrapped up in the package of "complimentarianism" as well. Conservative "traditionalists" are running with the same faulty programming stemming from a particular reading of Ephesians 5. "See men? You are called to love your wife like Christ loves the church! Christ sacrificed everything to serve his bride, and that is what you are called to do as well as Christian husbands." Heard that one before? | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 04:54 PM |
| 10 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenI am rather fond of my dick, guilty. | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 08:34 AM |
| 10 | Most Christians Do Not Love WomenScreenshot-20200401-012524-Reddit.jpg | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Is kissing before marriage a sin?Stats: weight around 166 lbs, body fat around 15%, 16 soon to be 17 in a couple weeks, 6 ft tall, max 1 rep bench was 165 last time I checked What is your lifting routine? Are you taking your lifts seriously or just screwing around in the gym? 166lbs at 6' is small. I know because I went through highschool around 155lbs at 6'2" and 6-8% BF and was a stick figure. Here are the strength standards for your weight / age. Your bench is in the "novice" category. Fix this. Get on a real lifting program… | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Marriage Bible studyMy wife and I visited some new friends we'd met while visiting a church in another state. We stayed with them for a week and got to see how they did family worship. They would read a short passage of scripture and then used the "ACTS" model for prayer: Adoration: What about God inspires awe in you? Confession: What sins do you need to confess? Thanksgiving: For what are you thankful to God? Supplication: What do you want to ask God for? They did this several nights during our visit and we partic… | /r/RPChristians | 01/04/20 05:38 AM |
| 10 | I am not sure if I should marry my fiancé - advice needed, new to RPCIf it's not a "hell yes!" It's a no. Next and move on. | /r/askRPC | 15/03/20 04:32 AM |
| 9 | Any thoughts on the YouTuber "Mrs. Midwest"?She's Christian, feminene, conservative, and seems to truly respect her husband. Haven't seen a ton of her stuff but I've seen enough to believe she is a positive influence on young women. | /r/askRPC | 12/03/20 12:07 AM |
| 6 | Really struggling with turning down non-christian women. Not sure how best to turn them down. Just need some encouragement.Missionary dating is a terrible idea because it is oneitis with a religious fervor. More often than not it ends terribly. I didn't date my wife until I was convinced of her faith. We had spent enough time together in group and one-on-one contexts to get to know eachother, enough so that I decided to date her. When I began dating my wife she was one in about a half dozen or so other women who had expressed interest in me (most of them were Christian, but not all). I had been on a couple dates wit… | /r/RPChristians | 25/02/20 09:51 PM |
| 8 | Really struggling with turning down non-christian women. Not sure how best to turn them down. Just need some encouragement.Solid. One of my high water mark periods actually. I can honestly say I was outcome independent as a result of being fully satisfied in Christ. | /r/RPChristians | 25/02/20 07:49 PM |
| 10 | Really struggling with turning down non-christian women. Not sure how best to turn them down. Just need some encouragement.Hot chicks need Jesus too. Met my wife swimming at a local lake. Noticed her looking great in her bikini, approached, and got her contact info. Long story short, she became a Christian, we've been married for 7 years and have a young son. Don't rule out the women God may be placing right in front of you. | /r/RPChristians | 25/02/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Pigs and Pearls...waiting for your friends to un-pig themselves... The reality is we are all pigs by nature and only God can un-pig anyone. Apart from God's regenerating us, "the word of the cross is folly to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God." - 1 Cor 1:18 | /r/RPChristians | 12/02/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Introduction:Bro do you even squat? Kidding aside, welcome to the sub. Regarding apologetics I concur with your assessment: most Christians are woefully lacking in basic theological knowledge of their own faith, let alone confident in having an intelligent conversation about an opposing belief system. Apologetics has been a major part of my own story and mission so it is something I am passionate about. I am glad you are too. What apologetic resources did you find particularly helpful in your own journey? | /r/RPChristians | 09/02/20 04:23 PM |
| 4 | I’m at a confusing place and don’t know what to doThis is a good word | /r/RPChristians | 07/02/20 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Home SchoolI think you are missing it. Survivorship bias is a logical fallacy similar to that of selection bias. How many well adjusted homeschool graduates do you meet? You have no idea because if they are well adjusted you wouldn't think to ask because they are well adjusted and don't give you any reason to wonder. More to the point, you are overvaluing the benefit of socialization with peers against real education. Homeschoolers consistently wipe the floor when pitted intellectually against public schoo… | /r/RPChristians | 05/02/20 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on Home SchoolThe reason the socialization argument is weak is because it has more to do with sheltering parents than the mode of education. I grew up involved in a large county wide home school co op and knew many homeschooled peers and their families. The one that ended up weird socially had parents that were overbearing in sheltering their kids from the world, and homeschooling was merely one more bulwark to hide their kids behind. The kids who's parents were thoughtfully teaching their children about the … | /r/RPChristians | 05/02/20 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Home SchoolYou’re right. The near-adult who can’t look me in the eye or shake my hand without going limp is only pathetic because of my attitude. I really shouldn’t expect people about to be considered legal adults to be able to socialize normally even when the person they are conversing with isn’t overwhelmingly impressed with them. I should really keep in mind that each of them is a unique and special snowflake of infinite worth to be understood in their own context. It would be quite unkind of me to ass… | /r/RPChristians | 02/02/20 06:41 PM |
| 2 | An interesting career dilemma.....Past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior. Your VP and the culture he has created is unlikely to change. Can you live with your job assuming those aspects don't ever improve? ...if everything went as planned, I could take over the VP’s position once retired in 6-8 years. It won't. Unless you have something written in a contract, the best you can hope for is this might happen. Think about how much change takes place in a year, let along a half decade or more. Opportunity is great and… | /r/RPChristians | 02/02/20 07:25 AM |
| 7 | Thoughts on Home SchoolScripture presents parents with the burden of educating their children. Not ensuring their children receive education, but actually providing instruction. While most verses refer specifically to moral instruction, we must not forget that nearly every subject of learning (history, philosophy, civics, ethics, science, etc) come with major moral implications. Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it. - Proverbs 22:6 While this verse teaches the import… | /r/RPChristians | 02/02/20 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Home Schoolthem being socially awkward is always a possibility and the chances of them having trouble socializing are higher if they’re homeschooled ... have you spent any time with the current batch of public high school students? Huge numbers of them can't even look you in the eye or break down at the smallest perceived slight. | /r/RPChristians | 02/02/20 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Machiavellianism (Discussion)The account of Solomon and the prostitutes is found in 1 Kings 3:16-28. | /r/RPChristians | 29/01/20 03:19 AM |
| 4 | HeartbreakTake your lumps like a man and don’t whine about getting push back. There is a lot of help to be found here but little hand holding. | /r/RPChristians | 27/01/20 10:27 PM |
| 1 | HeartbreakI didn’t bring it upon myself. I want to challenge this mode of thinking. It may or may not have been something you could have done anything about, but which would be most helpful to you? I suggest that taking radical, sometimes even unrealistic, accountability for what happens in your life is much more useful than to shift responsibility to external factors beyond your control. Essentially, it is far better for us if the bad things in life were things we could have had some influence over or im… | /r/RPChristians | 27/01/20 10:26 PM |
| 8 | HeartbreakHave you read the sidebar here? If not, it is a great place to start. | /r/RPChristians | 27/01/20 06:48 PM |
| 11 | HeartbreakYou caught oneitis and got burned; you aren’t the first and won’t be the last. Lesson learned hopefully. The question is: what are you going to do about it? | /r/RPChristians | 27/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Are all missions related to becoming a Pastor or Missionary? Or can it be anything?”The prince should think: Christ has served me and made everything to follow him; therefore, I should also serve my neighbor, protect him and everything that belongs to him. That is why God has given me this office, and I have it that I might serve him. That would be a good prince and ruler. When a prince sees his neighbor oppressed, he should think: That concerns me! I must protect and shield my neighbor....The same is true for shoemaker, tailor, scribe, or reader. If he is a Christian tailor, … | /r/askRPC | 25/01/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Catholic, Married 20yrs, 5 kids, 40yrs oldDoes the prohibition against men having sex with other men still apply? Does the forbidding of incestuous sex still apply? If so, why doesn’t the prohibition against period sex? Your hermanuitic is not consistent. | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/20 11:44 PM |
| 13 | I recently had a life event that tested me in ways I never again want to be tested. I feel betrayed. I feel like God is either not listening or he doesn't care.The book of Job comes to mind. | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Catholic, Married 20yrs, 5 kids, 40yrs oldWhy? | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/20 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Catholic, Married 20yrs, 5 kids, 40yrs oldSo you don’t view Leviticus 18 as relevant for Christians since it is “Jewish law”? | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/20 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Catholic, Married 20yrs, 5 kids, 40yrs oldDoes the rest of Leviticus 18 apply to Christians or not? If so, why exclude this verse? | /r/RPChristians | 15/01/20 07:01 PM |
| 7 | Catholic, Married 20yrs, 5 kids, 40yrs oldIf those logical semantics help you sleep at night you’re more than welcome to subscribe to them. Frankly this conversation is essentially pointless due to the different presuppositions of authority and telos involved. I can make every case in the world but if you subscribe to “sola ecclesia” (Rome has the final say) then it doesn’t matter what I say unless the church changes positions or you change your own personal understanding of ultimate authority. Change those and we can have this conversa… | /r/RPChristians | 14/01/20 07:39 PM |
| 7 | Catholic, Married 20yrs, 5 kids, 40yrs oldpurposefully frustrating the natural end of sex (Potential of conception and spouses unity), is immoral. ...hence why NFP as a form of birth control is hypocritical for Catholics to engage in. Condoms during a fertile period also allow “potential of conception and spousal unity.” “But they are artificial!” Comes the response. Yeah, and? Add it to the long list of artificial things man has developed as sub-creators to fulfill the creation mandate to exercise dominion over the earth. | /r/RPChristians | 14/01/20 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Catholic, Married 20yrs, 5 kids, 40yrs oldThe restraint is real. I feel you bro. loud Calvinist noises* | /r/RPChristians | 14/01/20 05:41 AM |
| 3 | Catholic, Married 20yrs, 5 kids, 40yrs oldSorry champ: Leviticus 18:19 “You shall not approach a woman to uncover her nakedness while she is in her menstrual uncleanness.” | /r/RPChristians | 13/01/20 08:28 PM |
| 11 | Catholic, Married 20yrs, 5 kids, 40yrs oldThis right here is the heart of it. Ultimately this boils down to a discussion about the roles of scripture and tradition as authorities in the life of the church, the same discussion that ultimately divided Protestants and Catholics to begin with. All that said, I will simply say that the burden of proof regarding views on contraception seems to lie with the Catholic position. It is difficult to construct an argument for the Catholic position without encountering insurmountable logical contradi… | /r/RPChristians | 13/01/20 08:23 PM |
| – | FR/Discussion: Race and marriageGents, many moderated online Christian communities won’t tolerate posts on controversial topics like this. That said, we aren’t your typical Christian community. If you want a “safe space” there are plenty of other subs here that will offer that to you, complete with complimentary tampons. Keep it clean and on topic; this subject impacts many people and is worth discussing. | /r/askRPC | 13/01/20 02:56 PM |
| 13 | Struggling with the language of expressing love.The “prom songs to Jesus” garbage is just that: garbage. Simple question: how did the prophets and apostles speak of God? How did they describe the love of God and for God? Hint: it wasn’t: “heaven meets earth like a sloppy wet kiss.” Instead scripture most often exalts God for his majesty and power and is not some gushy romantic feel fest. When God’s love is mentioned it is almost always paired with actions God did out of love. Actions do seem to speak louder than words. Ephesians 2:4-5 “But Go… | /r/RPChristians | 27/12/19 09:34 PM |
| 5 | Is it unethical for me to pull at Bible study?This is unironically one of my favorite comment threads of late. Well done u/DildoEngineer69 and u/yagop1. | /r/RPChristians | 27/12/19 05:04 AM |
| 7 | 18 Years Old. Fresh out of High School. Need Advice.Rule #2: ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: which sidebar content you’ve read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, memorize Scripture, etc. yeah | /r/RPChristians | 25/12/19 01:02 AM |
| 1 | FR: Fatherhood. Some early observations.I'd contemplated doing a series on parenting Please do, I'd certainly be interested in that. I'd say this more depends on your phase of life when you have kids... If you're younger, then you should absolutely pinch your pennies. You haven't had the time to save up a war chest yet. Fair point. I was running with the assumption that a man has his financial house in order before adding additional mouths to feed, but that is not always the case. I wouldn't let your newborn change your financial goal… | /r/RPChristians | 17/12/19 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Maturity mode: Be process oriented and not results orientedThis is a solid approach. Good work, keep it up and stay the course. Looking forward to hearing how it goes. | /r/RPChristians | 16/12/19 01:30 AM |
| 5 | GotQuestions.org says "God pursues us". What's is RPC's response?”as it is written: "None is righteous, no, not one; no one understands; no one seeks for God. All have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one.” - Romans 3:10-12 “The natural person does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are folly to him, and he is not able to understand them because they are spiritually discerned.” - 1 Corinthians 2:14 Man does not pursue God. He doesn’t accept spiritual truths because he cannot understand t… | /r/askRPC | 15/12/19 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Could mate guarding saved us all from doom?Well said. | /r/RPChristians | 09/12/19 08:31 PM |
| 13 | Wife (who actively tells me she wishes we could divorce) wants to spend Christmas with her family alone. Response?While you have plenty of room to improve, most likely your stats aren’t the thing holding you back. What do your interactions with her look like? From the sounds of your posts and a brief glance at your history it seems like you are a very logic driven person. This probably bores the hell out of someone who is so emotive. What do you do to engage her “feels is reals” tendency to use it to your advantage? I’m not an expert in BPD by any means but my hunch is that the solution lies somewhere in th… | /r/RPChristians | 09/12/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Does AWALT hold for Christian women?But she cannot become a wife or get a LTR with whoever she wants, which is the ultimate goal of Hypergamy. The ultimate goal of hypergamy is to secure the best genetics for the woman's offspring; his resources are merely a bonus. You are making the mistake of ascribing logical reasoning to hypergamous behavior. Cheating is something that most women "feel" their way into acting on. In the moment Chad is hot and gives her massive tingles. Even if he is just a bartender with no ambitions, the laten… | /r/RPChristians | 09/12/19 05:06 AM |
| 9 | Does AWALT hold for Christian women?Many would say a high regard for scripture and conservative teaching from the pulpit are the primary factors in whether or not a woman is likely to engage in hypergamous behavior. Trouble is, this is an appeal to logic and women are not primarily logic driven decision makers. The hamster can spin the wheels until “feels is reals” takes effect and justifications can be made to act out despite the cognitive dissonance. Sure, she will likely feel like a rotten sinner AFTER the fact, but the very tr… | /r/RPChristians | 05/12/19 08:18 PM |
| 11 | Does AWALT hold for Christian women?It holds. AWALT describes desire, not necessarily the likelihood of a woman acting on that desire. Stacy the slut is more likely to go behind Billy’s back to get railed by Chad than Sussie the church lady, but that doesn’t mean that Sussie doesn’t share the desire. | /r/RPChristians | 05/12/19 06:41 PM |
| 13 | Looking for a Definition of “Consent”Quick note: RC and others lean toward the stance in the quoted section of the OP. While some hold to it more firmly than others, it is not officially an RPC stance. There is room for brotherly disagreement here. I, for example, do not believe that consensual intercourse satisfies the requirement of a covenant, as I believe there is sufficient evidence in how God deals with his people, and how they deal with other humans, that covenants require spoken commitments of some kind. These commitments g… | /r/RPChristians | 04/12/19 10:09 PM |
| 2 | MissionYou will find few people more opposed to communism than this mod. That said, you have to be an idiot with an agenda to believe that what the OP was doing was promoting communism itself. Incase the previous mod comment was lost on you: we do not promote tolerate or have any patience for communism here. It is an anti-Christian satan hostility to the gospel and Jesus’ kingdom. Now, that said, the zeal the young commie expressed is real zeal, despite being a zeal for evil. Oh that more young (and ol… | /r/RPChristians | 14/11/19 06:17 PM |
| – | I feel like this girl wanted me to kiss her last date.You have oneitis bad, you are operating in her frame, and worst of all you didn’t post your stats. Some of the comments in this thread are beyond grug brained. Go read the sidebar. Locked until you at least update the OP with your stats per Rule 2. | /r/RPChristians | 14/11/19 06:06 PM |
| – | Where do I go for trustworthy, fact-focused political information and news sources?This is the sort of post that belongs in r/askRPC. That said, I am going to leave it here for now since it already has traction. In the future post like these will be locked or removed and encouraged to be posted over there. | /r/RPChristians | 09/11/19 08:23 PM |
| 5 | FR: You're Not Hot - YetI wanted my wife to make orange juice, so I gave her a bag of rocks to squeeze. I became angry with my wife that she couldn’t produce juice from stones the way I wanted. Now, I see that it is clearly my fault because you can’t squeeze rocks and get orange juice so I gave her some oranges to work with. You can’t negotiate attraction. Get it through your thick head Whit. FFS. | /r/RPChristians | 08/11/19 07:18 PM |
| 8 | FR: You're Not Hot - YetSolid FR, props for posting pics. Two questions: 1) What were your lifts in the first photo compared to the last? 2) What is with all the junk in the background of the last photo? Good stuff man, keep it up! | /r/RPChristians | 08/11/19 07:13 PM |
| 27 | The Truth About Porn“I’m low on time.” writes short book Classic RC lol | /r/RPChristians | 04/11/19 11:22 PM |
| 3 | [serious] How would you hide your boner when you’re cuddling?Good question. I’m surprised this hasn’t been covered in the sidebar yet. So compression shorts don’t really work and the guys I know who have tried them still end up unwittingly waving their willies. The way most guys who want to ensure their manhood isn’t put on display go with is Big Devil Fly Paper Nothing keeps your “big devil” down in your trousers quite like a piece of heavy duty adhesive keeping it trapped against your thigh. As a bonus, if your self control fails you and you attempt to … | /r/RPChristians | 30/10/19 04:26 PM |
| 8 | How to communicate self-improvement to a potential partner?Please don't go easy on me. How to communicate self-improvement to a potential partner? You don’t. STFU. Acta Non Verba. HT 5'6" WT 131 BF 14% Bro, do you even lift? 29 YO single RedPilled 3 weeks, redpill aware 3 months. (OYS on MarriedRedPill) So you’re a complete novice who hasn’t had even remotely enough time to internalize what you’ve read. Also, If you don’t lift you aren’t redpilled at all. This is my first time posting here. I'm not fully religious yet What does this even mean? That’s li… | /r/askRPC | 23/10/19 05:36 PM |
| 3 | How to handle Labor / birthI’m in the same exact boat. I’m not nervous though, and neither should you be. Women have been successfully giving birth since creation. Sure. Every labor is unique in some aspects, but why should your (or my) wife be any different than the generations of ancestors that successfully labored before them? | /r/askRPC | 17/10/19 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Developing charm?It really doesn’t matter if they are “RP recommended” or not. Just look for ones that you find funny; you aren’t doing this to memorize material but to expose yourself to comedic forms. Finding “clean” comedians is very difficult, so you will probably have to filter. A few that come to mind off the top of my head: Dane Cook, Mitch Hedberg, Dimitri Martin, Dave Chappell, Chris Brown, and Jeff Foxworthy. The material and styles of those comics are all over the board, you’ll be able to learn and co… | /r/RPChristians | 15/10/19 04:22 PM |
| 7 | Developing charm?Charm can be developed. In a nutshell, charm is a focused humor. Plays on words, delivery timing, mild teasing, double (or even triple) entendres, self assured cockiness / mastery, irony, etc. All of these are essential elements of both comedy and charm. Spend time with funny people, listen to stand up comics (especially older ones that couldn’t rely on cheap stunts and vulgarity for their acts), watch classic movies, etc. Charm is a subtle confident humor and a sense of humor and comedic skills… | /r/RPChristians | 14/10/19 05:45 PM |
| 8 | F/R Sunday's ArguementBut then you’d be stuck eating Taco Bell, which is worse than going hungry... | /r/RPChristians | 11/10/19 10:40 PM |
| 7 | F/R Sunday's ArguementThere is a lot here. The good news is you seem aware that you screwed the pooch in a variety of ways. Rather than point out the obvious, I’ll leave you with this: paradigm shift takes time. If you stay the course and continue to analyze your mistakes and improve on them, you will be shocked at how far you’ve come when you check the rear view mirror. | /r/RPChristians | 11/10/19 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Eating While On VacationDon’t stress about it on your vacation. Considering where you are at in your fitness journey it would probably be seen as strangely out of character and otherwise derailing to a good time. Don’t sweat it, it’s a marathon, not a sprint. That said, stop pussyfooting around and start tracking what you eat. Download MyFitnessPal as soon as you’re done reading this and start entering in everything you eat. Ballpark estimates are far better than nothing, so don’t let foods without barcodes go untracke… | /r/askRPC | 11/10/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome awkward self consciousness?Notice, appreciate, move on. The awkwardness stems from you trying to prevent a natural reflex. You’re trying to push water uphill which only makes a mess. She got the extra large bolt ons to be noticed, so notice, appreciate, and move on. | /r/askRPC | 10/10/19 05:35 PM |
| 3 | LTR lied about having slept with someone. I have proof, but not sure I should confront her with it.Congratulations, you confronted her for your own cathartic benefit and still remain unsure of what actually happened. Now she will likely be less forthcoming and more careful to cover her tracks in the future. You are in the same position as before: assuming that she is lying, do you still want her in your life? Sure, she may not be lying, but you can’t know so it is prudent to assume the worst and think through it from there. Mind you, I’m not saying kick this chick to the curb unless that is w… | /r/askRPC | 10/10/19 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Recommendation for a Patriarch's Study Bible?The detail of the thoughts offered here are the sort that make me chuckle when people accuse RPC men of not taking the faith seriously. | /r/askRPC | 09/10/19 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Resources or advise toward building an iron will when it comes to my fitness goals?Nice lifts. A lot of good advice has already been shared here. I agree with the sentiment that motivation is nice when you have it, but results come from discipline; disciple carries the day when you don’t feel like sticking to the plan. As far as eating clean goes, yes you can work on your willpower and eventually kick “the habit” or whatever, but bear in mind that as long as your aren’t being stupid and are getting a good spread of micro nutrients, you can work the chips into your macros. Will… | /r/RPChristians | 09/10/19 09:39 PM |
| 5 | LTR lied about having slept with someone. I have proof, but not sure I should confront her with it.Whatever else you do, I’d advise against confronting her about it. You now have an asymmetric information advantage, don’t spoil it by dragging it up needlessly. Here’s the thing, confronting her will only make her more careful about covering her tracks in the future, not change her propensity to be dishonest about shameful things. If you want to kick this chick out of your life you’d be justified. If you want to keep her around you now know more about how she is than you did before. The questio… | /r/askRPC | 09/10/19 08:18 PM |
| 5 | Difference between congruence-test and genuine need for help or a taskFor the most part it’s black and white: does she actually need help or is she asking you to be her butler? If she is asking you to do something she could easily do herself, it’s more than likely a congruence test. As the requested task becomes less and less manageable by her own efforts, it becomes more and more likely a genuine ask for help. Sometimes it’s grey though. Squishing a spider? Obviously she can do it without much physical effort, but is it easy for her? Probably not emotionally, men… | /r/askRPC | 07/10/19 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Career changeThis is a good word. Keep in mind that while you don’t want a job that is all physical, you would may be equally unhappy with one that is all mental. As someone who does mostly mental work I sometimes envy those who get to use their hands to create tangible results. “Grass is greener...” etc. etc. | /r/RPChristians | 04/10/19 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Complete Lifting ResetThis is my own personal experience, so take it with whatever spoonful of salt is appropriate, but I have found that my form sucked until my lifts were heavy enough that I couldn't get away with fudging my form and still progress. For example, when I got back into lifting after high school my bench form was abysmal. I decided I would start with the bar. Guess what? I could lift the bar with horrible form, so my form didn't improve. Steadily I increased my weights. Eventually I stalled and realize… | /r/askRPC | 01/10/19 07:44 AM |
| 7 | I doubt God's willingness to forgive meTwo things stand out to me reading this post: 1) Your theology is extremely underdeveloped. 2) Your worldview is incoherent. First, you have no coherent soteriology (the "mechanism" by which Christ saves sinners). Check out The Sovereign Grace of God by Dr. James White. It is a straightforward read that sets a solid foundation for understanding this important aspect of Christian doctrine. Theological study can often be esoteric masturbation. I promise you this is not the case: you will never fee… | /r/askRPC | 01/10/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Is there a subreddit for people who are real christians but don't go to church?Thanks! | /r/RPChristians | 01/10/19 04:24 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with disrespectful tones?“That’s not how I meant it.” “You’re intentionally reading the wrong things into what I said.” “Well I don’t feel like the way you brought that up is very respectful.” “You’re the only one who has a problem with what I say. Maybe you’re the one with a problem.” “Ooh, okay, I’ll be careful to treat Mr. Sensitive better from now on.” “Okay, I was sort of rude one time. Is that really worth blowing up over?” Etc. etc. Are you ready to respond to a chorus of those and other baited deflections? The i… | /r/askRPC | 30/09/19 09:34 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with disrespectful tones?So there are really two major elements in play here: macro and micro. On the micro level (how) one can examine how one can approach this most effectively. While it can be of some help, I’ve found this to be less than a complete approach. The focus should be on the macro level (why). Would the queen of Sparta disrespect King Leonidas? Would your wife speak disrespectfully (or simply carelessly) to her boss, a judge or senator, professor, or her lawyer or doctor? Probably not. The issue is perceiv… | /r/askRPC | 30/09/19 07:43 PM |
| – | Is there a subreddit for people who are real christians but don't go to church?Mod note: this is the sort of post that should be in r/askRPC as it does not pertain directly to the focus of this sub: sexual strategy for Christian men. | /r/RPChristians | 30/09/19 06:44 PM |
| 17 | How to win a girl back after rejection?How has no one else said this yet? 30-40% BF insert lifts here This is a crisis. Forget about this girl, and any other girl for that matter, until you get a handle on this. You don’t need to “win the girl” you need to win the sins of gluttony and sloth. You are a walking heart attack on a hair trigger and a ticking time bomb for diabetes among other serious health issues. Any girl who sees you and thinks, “this is the man I want to continue my genetic legacy with” would have to have a collection… | /r/RPChristians | 30/09/19 03:54 PM |
| 10 | The creation myth revisitedWhat is this intended to accomplish? You got divorce raped and are writing an allegorical “interpretation” of scripture. ...and? | /r/RPChristians | 29/09/19 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Requesting a glossary for commonly-used acronyms on r/RPChristianhttps://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/wiki/glossary?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf This may have fallen off the side bar. Bears further investigation. | /r/askRPC | 28/09/19 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Wife initiated, gave her a hard no, chaos ensues.Maybe she has a puking kink. There are a thousand reasons why she may have done this. Perhaps the Occam’s Razor answer is that she is simply being a woman and not acting rationally. Wouldn’t be the first time, won’t be the last time. Regardless of her reasoning (or lack their of) your best play is still to become attractive and to stop being unattractive. | /r/askMRP | 27/09/19 01:20 AM |
| 15 | Wife initiated, gave her a hard no, chaos ensues.She knows you are sick and initiated anyway, ultimately resulting in you rejecting her. Perhaps she will attempt to hold it over you in the future. “Of course I never make a move, last time I tried you were a huge jerk and told me no!” Or something like that. What should you do? Nothing. Keep STFU. Is your wife being a tool? Sounds like it. Doesn’t matter right now, dwelling on it will only derail your progress. Ignore it. Focus on getting better and back on track with self improvement. This won… | /r/askMRP | 27/09/19 01:13 AM |
| 5 | Easy things to figure out on first few dates that tell you whether a guy or girl is worth deeper investmentThe backlash you got from your post on the other thread is highly illustrative of why this sub exists. This post is low effort (literal copy paste) and I’m locking it because lists of this nature aren’t helpful; being high value, knowing your worth, and enforcing personal boundaries is. | /r/RPChristians | 25/09/19 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Have some fun this weekend. Here's a comic strip for you all.Just saw that subreddit drama thread. Second one that I know of. Glad I wasn't left out of the feminist screeching meltdown this time around, felt left out before. | /r/askRPC | 24/09/19 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Lifting QuestionsIs it a good idea to have a recovery week every few cycles to lift light (65-70% of training load)? Program cycle is 3 weeks and I’ve run 5 cycles without an recovery/light week. Every 3 weeks seems excessive, but I have noticed several times that returning from a rest yields new maxes and plateau breakthroughs. I’ve got lots of ceiling ahead of me on DL and SQ. I’m getting more than 5 reps on the 95% of training load set. Program says to get at least 5 reps. But, I’m micro loading 2-3 lbs per c… | /r/askRPC | 24/09/19 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Duty Sex Sucks, How to Proceed?Thanks for posting your stats. I'm initiating... ...she literally pretended not to notice my initiations... I still account for 100% of initiations... Around 80% of the time, it's still very clearly duty sex... The other 80% of the times feel like borderline rape -- eyes closed, cringy facial expression, reluctant kiss, angry snaps if I try to touch her breasts. Wonky math aside, do you initiate just to initiate or are you legitimately just trying to get off? From the sounds of it sex with her i… | /r/askRPC | 24/09/19 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Men of Iron"Acta Non Verba" seems highly applicable here. | /r/askRPC | 24/09/19 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Help! Stunned by wife"When sex leaves a marriage, it usually goes elsewhere." Gotta love the french. Definitely going to tuck that one in the pocket for later use. | /r/RPChristians | 24/09/19 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Help! Stunned by wifeThe Way of Men, by Jack Donovan Underrated book. Donovan is definitely not "our guy" in many respects but this book in particular should be on every man's reading list. | /r/RPChristians | 24/09/19 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Forbearance and Meekness vs Standing up for OneselfThis is a good word. Ruminate on it. I know Jesus says turn the other cheek Quick background on this. "Turn the other cheek" is only part of what Christ actually says. The full verse is: "But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also." - Matthew 5:39 Notice the details. Right cheek. In the culture of the day (and still somewhat common in the middle east today) the left hand was used for unclean purposes. What is potent… | /r/askRPC | 24/09/19 07:21 AM |
| 3 | Are there any good podcasts or YouTube series that you guys would recommend?It’s released under the Cross Politic podcast, so search for that. Cross Politic is a podcast and a sort of syndicate of several podcasts. Here is the latest TPP. Note: this is not an endorsement. I’ve listened to some but not enough of TPP to vouch or veto. | /r/RPChristians | 24/09/19 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Duty Sex Sucks, How to Proceed?What’re your stats? BF%? Lifts? | /r/askRPC | 21/09/19 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Could someone say anything about the statements this guy is making concerning the validity of the Bible?Dr. James R White. His books and podcast (The Dividing Line) go deep on apologetic issues across the board. | /r/RPChristians | 20/09/19 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Is strength training unhealthy?The physician you went to is an idiot. Strength training done correctly (proper form, good diet, ample rest and recovery) is one of the best predictors of both increased length and quality of life as we age. | /r/askRPC | 18/09/19 08:11 PM |
| 3 | An Interesting Study Indicates Men and Women Sin DifferentlyRight, the sin of lust is the overwhelming desire for "illicit sex". The rub is that Catholics have a completely distorted and broad view of what constitutes "illicit sex" that is entirely foreign to the text of scripture. The procreative aspect of sex (or lack there of) is nowhere in scripture associated with sin. In fact, when you get into the didactic portions of scripture where sexual sin is expressly dealt with (Leviticus 18 and 20, Deuteronomy 22, Matthew 5, 1 Corinthians 6) the procreativ… | /r/RPChristians | 18/09/19 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Finding a women in CaliforniaRule #2: ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, memorize Scripture, etc. All means all, this post is no exception. Keep in mind that we enforce this rule so we can actually give you advise that is… | /r/RPChristians | 15/09/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Self-conscious about things I cannot change immediately.Literally no one cares about this as much as you do. In fact, likely no one cares at all except your self consciousness is drawing attention to it and making it into an awkward thing. This is something you are working on. The arrow of your trajectory is pointing the right way and eventually you will work through it. Own it, act like the guy you are becoming, DGAF and they won’t either. Is it attractive right now? No. Is your hamstring about it attractive? No. Why have two unattractive qualities … | /r/RPChristians | 09/09/19 02:47 PM |
| 3 | That Girl at WorkWomen are intuitive and pick up on subtle clues more so that we often realize. A man who knows he has other options and could get his needs met elsewhere will carry himself more confidently, have greater outcome independence, and will naturally interact with his wife differently. She will notice this and respond to it, even if she isn’t even consciously aware of it. It is the difference between being a man with options and a man that could have options. The two are not the same. So, per my other… | /r/askRPC | 04/09/19 10:01 PM |
| 2 | That Girl at WorkIt’s possible that your status/style is carrying the day and she is giving IOI’s as a way to get special treatment. I am the head director of multi-department operation and some women who use charm, flirtation, and other low-level manipulations simply as a way of “padding” their work experience and making it easier. The ones that are good at it tend to get away with far more than most would be allowed simply because they make others feel good. Re: 5/3/1 From what I know of it, it’s a good progra… | /r/askRPC | 04/09/19 09:48 PM |
| 2 | That Girl at WorkIf a man works in Human Resources, any sort of counseling, management where he supervises female employees, or does hiring etc. there is a good chance he will have enough need or demands of confidentiality that following this rule is next to impossible. | /r/askRPC | 04/09/19 09:25 PM |
| 2 | That Girl at Work... so avoid any opportunity to create passive dread and provide unlimited sense of security for your wife at all costs. You’re parroting churchian cultural expectations here. Rethink the presuppositions involved. | /r/askRPC | 04/09/19 09:20 PM |
| 1 | That Girl at WorkHB8 Novice at best lifts. Pummels me with IOIs One or more of these things ain’t true and your perception isn’t correct. What are these apparent IOI’s that she is throwing at you? What sort of lifting program or routine are you following? Those “best lifts” rep ranges are all over the place. | /r/askRPC | 04/09/19 09:18 PM |
| 2 | That Girl at WorkBeing abundantly cautious is well advised, but The Pence (originally Billy Graham) Rule is not workable for everyone, especially those who don’t yet have the ability to set the terms of their employment. | /r/askRPC | 04/09/19 09:10 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about courtship?Hi there, please post this over at r/askRPC. | /r/RPChristians | 01/09/19 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Continue to pursue dating or not?The book is Thinner Leaner Stronger by Mike Matthews. My wife and some of her friends have followed the advise there to great effect; the example transformation pictures are definitely achievable. As for the “thinner” in the title, don’t worry about it. In the book he talks about bulking, which is what you need to be focused on. Also, when you go to lift weights and want to know what proper form looks like check out Jeff Nippard’s videos on YouTube. He breaks it down extremely well with high qua… | /r/askRPC | 29/08/19 02:13 AM |
| 5 | Separating the sexes in churchSurely such strong statements have equally strong biblical foundations. Would you be so kind as to provide the scriptural case for separating the sexes in church since it is so clear that any church that doesn’t follow the practice is cucked inside out? Thanks. | /r/askRPC | 28/08/19 11:33 PM |
| 1 | First argument in a whileI say explain how I have been treating you badly? This is the part of the documentary where the camera pans over at the unsuspecting gazelle about to be ambushed by the alligator beneath the surface. You screwed it up here. A proper response: "Oh you have no idea. I'll treat you real badly when we get back home if you keep up that hot sassy attitude" delivered with a wink and a slap on the butt. | /r/askRPC | 28/08/19 08:48 AM |
| 6 | Continue to pursue dating or not?Stats: 5'10" 130lbs 16.6%bf I'm a runner. 20 yrs old. Where do I start now? Lady dude, you need to lift like Africa needs to learn what civilization is. Like no joke, I didn't even read the rest of your post because until you figure out how to not be a stick figure, you are asking: "How do I climb mount Everest naked?" (Okay, read the rest of your post now) Should I start approaching attractive men? Maybe. Though if you feel the need to approach men it's likely because you aren't attractive enou… | /r/askRPC | 28/08/19 08:35 AM |
| 3 | Any tips/resources for evangelism in the west?As the west continues to unravel people, especially the younger generation 30 and under, are increasingly seeking alternatives to globalist modernity. People are starting to look back on their ancestors who built the west and asking, "How did they do this? How do we go back to that?" and finding Christianity that way. Look at Rooshv as an example of this sort of spiritual thirst. Easter Orthodoxy and Catholicism are primed to receive these sorts of people as they are over-represented in the "tra… | /r/askRPC | 28/08/19 04:15 AM |
| 2 | On Frame: Punishing Your WifeSolid reflection. > To withdraw my presence from my wife to punish her. You already covered the error of frame involved with this, and RC posted about the better way to go about this, so I will just leave you with this: removing your presence is only punitive if your presence is highly valuable. > She started to become disrespectful and challenging my authority. Perhaps it was just a fitness test, but outright disrespect is an indicator that she does not see you as valuable enough to police her … | /r/askRPC | 28/08/19 04:08 AM |
| 1 | why does christianity (especially in america) attract the dregs of society and soyboys/numalesI ought to not believe the typical TRP mantra that we should enjoy the decline, or from the Christian sense, we shouldn't be just twiddling our thumbs waiting for end times. But rather we should try to be the salt of the earth and try to make the world better, which includes making disciples, because we need God's will to be done on earth as it will be in heaven. Is this correct? Yes, Christians ought not be idle nor simply enjoying the decline. We have a mission to accomplish. | /r/RPChristians | 25/08/19 06:25 AM |
| 2 | why does christianity (especially in america) attract the dregs of society and soyboys/numalesIt’s a topic worthy of much more than a reply, but you’ve assumed a pre-millennial eschatology which has been a minority position in church history until rather recently. Amillenialism or post-millennialism have much better historical and scriptural support. I believe post-millennialism is the dominant teaching found throughout scripture. Essentially, the great commission wasn’t a suggestion to keep us busy while the world fell apart. Rather, the gospel is the undoing of the curse in real tempor… | /r/RPChristians | 25/08/19 03:28 AM |
| 7 | should churches in america be more cultural/ethnic basedI think the huge quantities of East Asian Muslims would disagree with Islam being described so restrictively. “After this I looked, and behold, a great multitude that no one could number, from every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages, standing before the throne and before the Lamb, clothed in white robes, with palm branches in their hands,” Revelation 7:9 ESV There is little evidence to suggest that the gospel flattens or wipes out ethnic or racial differences, in fact we … | /r/RPChristians | 25/08/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | why does christianity (especially in america) attract the dregs of society and soyboys/numalesConsider the definition of “church” as defined by the scriptures. Do these organizations you are critical of meet the criteria to fall under that definition? I’d argue that they don’t and ought not be referred to by the term. “Parachurch organization” is probably more apt to describe these sort of places. | /r/RPChristians | 25/08/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | why does christianity (especially in america) attract the dregs of society and soyboys/numalesYour eschatology would benefit from reexamination. | /r/RPChristians | 25/08/19 12:34 AM |
| 2 | why does christianity (especially in america) attract the dregs of society and soyboys/numalesI actually think the church should be far more involved in politics. Why shouldn’t it be? | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/19 11:46 PM |
| 10 | why does christianity (especially in america) attract the dregs of society and soyboys/numalesGreat question for discussion and great username. I don’t have time to respond more fully yet, but it is largely a matter of confusing welcoming “all who are weary” with “there are zero expectations for you to grow in sanctification once you’re in”. Essentially it’s the issue of an open border without a system or expectation of assimilation. | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I look for a christian boyfriend?Haha I like it. If Reddit allowed signatures like forums do I would probably have that phrase as my sig. | /r/RPChristians | 15/08/19 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Baptism and MarriageHaha might just have to take you up on that some day. | /r/RPChristians | 15/08/19 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Should I look for a christian boyfriend?If it’s not a “hell yeah!” It’s a “no.” | /r/RPChristians | 15/08/19 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Baptism and MarriageAlso as he noted, you've got some great Christ followers across denominations. We've got our own resident Calvinist, u/OsmiumZulu who is generally awesome, except when he disagrees with me, in which case he's a no good rebel. Ha, no good rebel? Don’t tempt me to discuss my views on the war of northern aggression ;) | /r/RPChristians | 15/08/19 12:44 AM |
| 0 | I can't control my diet.Locked until OP abides by Rule 2. | /r/RPChristians | 14/08/19 08:03 AM |
| 3 | Opinions: Do you ask a woman out to begin dating?I think I understand the question. If my answer doesn't address it, let me know and I'll try to clarify. The "join me" and "relationship time" happened somewhat simultaneously. I was leading a local young adults bible study (where she and I got to really know each other) and she began to help out with it more than she would have otherwise ("join me" time). We also began to spend more time one-on-one doing various things. Photography, painting, mini-golf, more traditional "date" sort of stuff. On… | /r/RPChristians | 14/08/19 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Opinions: Do you ask a woman out to begin dating?I met my wife before I’d encountered the Red Pill. When I decided I wanted to date her I told her something like: “Hey, you’re cute and I think we could be a good match. I’d like to find out. Let’s start spending more time together and see where it goes. If it works, great. If it doesn’t, that’d be great too because there are plenty of other people out there. What do you say?” Not a perfect method, but it worked for me. On the plus it demonstrated outcome independence, some abundance mentality, … | /r/RPChristians | 13/08/19 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Opinions: Do you ask a woman out to begin dating?This is a good answer. | /r/RPChristians | 13/08/19 02:40 PM |
| 5 | The Kingdom of God is a PartyAs long as a reader has his biblical facts... This the rub. They don’t. The average modern day Christian is horribly understudied in the faith and lacking in even basic biblical literacy. Studies keep coming out that demonstrate that this issue is getting even worse. Christians don’t need to concern themselves about whether or not church is a party when they cannot even provide a biblically based definition of what the church even is. | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/19 09:15 PM |
| 5 | The Kingdom of God is a PartyCampolo was a towering influence in the “Emergent Church” movement that was highly Influential in the 90’s and beyond. The movement called into question much of the orthodoxy is the church and was a battering ram against traditional Christianity. Of the many central aspects of the movement, perhaps most relevant to RPC was Campolo and others in the movement pushing the feminist worldview through radical egalitarianism and a breakdown of gender roles as ordained by God. He is effeminate and promo… | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/19 08:54 PM |
| 8 | The Kingdom of God is a PartyFrom Wikipedia: ... former spiritual advisor to U.S. President Bill Clinton. Campolo is known as one of the most influential leaders in the evangelical left and has been a major proponent of progressive thought and reform within the evangelical community... along with his wife Peggy Campolo, he has participated in very public debates and discussions about the place of lesbians and gays within church and society. Campolo formerly contended that homosexuality was a sin in practice, although not in… | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/19 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Open Letter to a Christian IncelIt’s like shopping to buy a house without having enough saved for a down payment, then getting pissed that no one wants to sell you their house; people rightfully expect value for value in an exchange and many men don’t bring enough value to the table to interest the kind of women they want. | /r/RPChristians | 11/08/19 07:10 PM |
| 5 | I can't control my diet.Sounds like you have quite the testimony. That said, while not a direct “relationship issue” I’m going to ask you to edit your post to follow rule 2 so we can get a better idea of where you are at. “Rule #2: ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: which sidebar content you’ve read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how o… | /r/RPChristians | 11/08/19 07:03 PM |
| 3 | The Main Event(u/lolosaurus tagging you for visibility.) I don't have a ton of time to write in depth enough to do justice to the topic at hand, but it is a worthy topic and one that has been written about and debated extensively. In fact, this is one area where the two major camps of modern day Calvinists (Reformed Baptists vs. traditional non-faggy Presbyterians) tend to reach the same conclusion from two very different routes. Before dealing with the question, a little background is important. First, we se… | /r/RPChristians | 02/08/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | The Main EventNo disagreement about the quality variance of the two respective frames (worldview), but the fundamentals of frame are independent of moral distinction. Frame is sort of like a hammer; you can use it to build or destroy, but either way you go it’s still just a hammer. A burnout drug addict can have incredibly strong but wicked frame used for immoral ends, and the Christian might have terribly weak, but used with righteous intent, frame. | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | The Main EventWhat difference do you see in secular and RPC definitions of frame? | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/19 08:57 PM |
| 2 | The Main EventYou’re not wrong. I’ve never had to have a “main event” because I’ve course corrected and enforced boundaries early on, even before I married my wife and we were just dating. Do things right and you more than likely will never need to have this sort of conversation. | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/19 07:15 PM |
| 3 | The Main Event“Main event” is main for a reason, it is when you pull out the threat of the nuclear option. The rest of what you describe are “events” but they aren’t the big shebang. | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/19 07:09 PM |
| 3 | More Than Marriage: How churchianity has screwed up friendships tooSolid stuff RC. Fixing male camaraderie fixes culture. | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/19 09:17 AM |
| 19 | Audio: Matt & Lauren ChandlerJust listened to the podcast. Bluntly stated, there is nothing of significant value to be found here. It is typical “conservative” egalitarianism in complimentarian drag. Starts off with Matt explaining that he was butthurt over his wife not fulfilling his covert contract expectations for the first six years of their marriage, so he went to counseling to learn that he was the problem in his marriage and shouldn’t be so selfish or feel entitled. Yes, covert contracts are bad, but having expectati… | /r/RPChristians | 29/07/19 06:31 PM |
| – | Household FinancesMod note: I am going to give you a pass on rule 2 because you mentioned your OYS here but next time this sort of lazy low effort wankery is going to result in a deleted post. Don’t expect others to give you their time if you can’t find the time to at least link to your own stats. | /r/RPChristians | 28/07/19 11:02 PM |
| 6 | Household FinancesSlow down there Rambo. Does finding out you’re little more than a walking ATM for your wife burn like a case of hemorrhoids after eating habanero salsa? You bet it does. Allow yourself to feel that burn, but do not act from an emotional state. Her behavior sucks, but it isn’t surprising, she is following her biological imperatives. You aren’t attractive to her. That’s a bummer but odds are good that as you begin to OYS and improve yourself this will change. Not as fast as you’d want, and certain… | /r/RPChristians | 28/07/19 10:57 PM |
| 4 | What is this subreddit's general view of E. Michael Jones?they come from not reading the bible 100% correct. Faulting Sola Scriptura for the state of evangelicalism is like never putting fuel in a car and believing the reason why the car won't start is with the car. | /r/RPChristians | 28/07/19 07:33 PM |
| 6 | What is this subreddit's general view of E. Michael Jones?E. Michael Jones has a lot of valuable insight to offer and has a helpful perspective when it comes to integrating faith, the Red Pill, and politics. That said, his overzealous Catholicism diminishes the reach of his message. Frankly, despite the many great things he has to say, it is tiresome to hear him misrepresent Protestant belief and practice in ways that he would never accept as credible regarding the RCC. I don’t expect him to compromise his Catholic beliefs at all, but when he goes full… | /r/RPChristians | 28/07/19 03:14 AM |
| 6 | Should I, a single man, go monk mode until improving or try to find a wife during a slump?I don’t have time to reply more fully, but this dude is with this gal and he only has one leg. I think you’ll be fine if you don’t let it hold you back. | /r/RPChristians | 27/07/19 06:14 PM |
| 26 | Joshua Harris, author of "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" is getting divorced and has fallen away from the faithThat sounds like something a faggot would say. Sack up. | /r/RPChristians | 27/07/19 01:08 AM |
| 2 | A list of recommended RP books according to r/redpillbooks - which of these are (and are not) biblically sound?All truth is God’s truth, regardless of whether it comes from the lips of a theologian, biology professor, or frat guy. Obviously no one would suggest all the content in these books is biblically sound, but that doesn’t mean that the general observations aren’t worthwhile. “Get laid and feel amazing!” Isn’t an exclusively secular goal. I like getting laid and feeling amazing, along with just about every married man ever. That said, knowing and accepting the “how it works” is different than endor… | /r/RPChristians | 24/07/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | A list of recommended RP books according to r/redpillbooks - which of these are (and are not) biblically sound?If you're expecting the average evangelical to use discernment and not just snap to conclusions regarding this sort of content you're in for some disappointment. | /r/RPChristians | 24/07/19 12:34 AM |
| 24 | Are wives a gift?Some wives are a gift to their husband: "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD." - Proverbs 18:22 "Houses and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the LORD." - Proverbs 19:14 Some are a curse to their husband: "A wife of noble character is her husband's crown, but she who causes shame is like decay in his bones." - Proverbs 12:4 "Better to live on a corner of the roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife." - Proverbs 21:9 "It is … | /r/RPChristians | 24/07/19 12:22 AM |
| 2 | How do bulk and cut periods work?No. He doesn’t. | /r/RPChristians | 21/07/19 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Jesus can Free you from the system and Save you!Sounds good. Wasn’t sure the preference on this so I left it in case we wanted to leave it as an example. Deletion works fine for me. | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/19 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Jesus can Free you from the system and Save you!Locked for being a low effort, off topic, drive-by post that adds no real value to the discussion. This is not a forum for promoting left-behind boomer conspiracy Jesus propaganda. r/Christianity would be a better fit for this. | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/19 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Monogamy and EschatologyChristians agree that monogamy was practiced by the patriarchs, the kings, and many other faithful men in the great cloud of witnesses. Do you mean polygamy or monogamy? Many of the patriarchs, kinds, and others had multiple wive (which is polygamy). | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/19 02:46 AM |
| 4 | Any good pickup/gaming material that doesn't lead to sex?How do you do Kino without really seeming creepy? Usually when I meet, I just try to kiss them in the cheek. ...start by not doing that. Unless that is really normal in your culture, that is a pretty creepy move unless you are extremely suave (which you aren't yet if you are asking this question) or already have a very strong rapport. The best way for touch to not come off as creepy is to not be a creepy dude. Are you well dressed / groomed? Do you have a confident voice / posture? Do you have s… | /r/RPChristians | 09/07/19 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Any good pickup/gaming material that doesn't lead to sex?Pickup/gaming is merely a tool. Learn the way the tool works and then employ it however you find ethical. Kino is a great example. The concept is that physical touch breaks through barriers and is interpreted as trust by our subconscious (he touched me, and only people I trust get to touch me, so therefore I must trust him, etc). How to use kino is a matter of discretion. There are infinite ways to apply kino without directing things to the bedroom. That said, know that if you are trying to game… | /r/RPChristians | 09/07/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | I’m meeting her dad tomorrow. Any advice?Remember, you are evaluating him and the family too. Her father has had a profound impact on her understanding of masculinity, and the way the parents interact will likely be her default understanding of "normal" behavior. I dated a girl who's dad let the mother rule the household. She would placate him decision making over trivial things, but the important stuff most often was decided by her. Guess what the daughter considered normal? Next. | /r/RPChristians | 09/07/19 07:59 PM |
| 10 | How to improve sex with wife?Locked because this post is pathetically low effort. Go read the side bar, it has plenty of content to keep you busy while you sort your mess out. Also, for the love of all things decent people, Rule #2: ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: - Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. - Reading: which sidebar content you’ve read (RPC and/or MRP) - Finances: current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues - Spiritual: How mature you are, h… | /r/RPChristians | 08/07/19 05:32 PM |
| 8 | Prayer request #2 regarding the University of FloridaLocked due to vagueness and lack of subject matter relevance. | /r/RPChristians | 07/07/19 04:46 PM |
| 5 | Curious about RP Christian denominationsNon-denominational here. Theologically I land up somewhere in the Reformed Baptist and Presbyterian position on many issues. Christendom at large is under siege; no person, congregation, or denomination is exempt. Mainline denominations have taken the most fire (bigger target to strike) but non-denominationalism affords little advantage. While every church expression must face the same broad pressures, it is interesting to see the unique battles taking place. Anglicans are looking at a Northern … | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Awesome girl that doesn’t take care of herselfshe is 29... she does not take care of herself physically/diet-wise at all Male 26, body fat under 8%, making around $90k a year without any debts. So she's is hitting the wall and doing nothing to prevent rapid decline, and you are hitting your stride and beginning to enter your peak SMV years. Sure, you could probably pull her into your frame and influence her health choices to some degree, but why would you bother when there are women with less mileage and better health? It feels like somethi… | /r/RPChristians | 03/07/19 06:49 PM |
| 7 | Matthew vs RP5 “Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth. "Meekness does not identify the weak but more precisely the strong who have been placed in a position of weakness where they persevere without giving up. The use of the Greek word when applied to animals makes this clear, for it means "tame" when applied to wild animals. In other words, such animals have not lost their strength but have learned to control the destructive instincts that prevent them from living in harmony with others." so… | /r/RPChristians | 03/07/19 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Is the greatest thing you can do for a person to bring them to salvation?What is the point of asking this question on this sub rather than r/truechristians or elesewhere focused on general theology? | /r/RPChristians | 03/07/19 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Cold-approach? Day game? Night game? What are the specifics?I met my wife doing a day game cold approach. Probably worth a post of its own at some point. | /r/RPChristians | 01/07/19 08:13 PM |
| 4 | Tips on denominations & finding men's groups?Ironic that this post can’t be defended from scripture. Pope Francis and the Lavender Mafia magisterial queers are proof positive that no church, including the RCC, is immune from compromise. The only RCC groups with a shred of credibility left are PPX and the sedevacantists. | /r/RPChristians | 29/06/19 12:25 AM |
| 12 | How is the Church effeminating men?Examples in my experience: “Sure, fitness and health are important, but lifting to improve your appearance? That’s just vanity and pride.” “Men are perverted porn addicts. Any man who is lucky enough to have found a wife who can see past how big of a sinful knucklehead he should count himself blessed.” “Women, have patience with your men. They mature slower.” “Christians are often seen as combative and argumentative. We should be inviting our unbelieving neighbors into conversation and loving th… | /r/RPChristians | 29/06/19 12:15 AM |
| 2 | How is the Church effeminating men?Unless you are in the reformed camp. They tend to have a high regard for the beard, even if they tend to be attached to hipster types... | /r/RPChristians | 29/06/19 12:02 AM |
| 7 | Just want to say I’m proud of all of us who have chosen the RP and still remain followers of ChristIt’s almost as if all truth is God’s truth ;) | /r/RPChristians | 27/06/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Question about Christian womenIf nihilism and lack of transcendent purpose is not your thing, convert to Christianity (avoid the Catholic Church unless you feel inclined to follow Pope Francis into a global communist homo hellscape though). If all you want is an attempt at controlling or altering women’s nature then you’ll be sorely disappointed. The majority of church going women are Christian-In-Name-Only and no better than your average secular thot, only better at lying. The ones that I know who take their faith seriously… | /r/askMRP | 21/06/19 04:08 PM |
| 10 | Changes starting to get traction. Wife starting to become insecure.Bingo. | /r/RPChristians | 21/06/19 03:54 PM |
| 8 | Changes starting to get traction. Wife starting to become insecure.How would you react if a six year old girl told you these things? | /r/RPChristians | 21/06/19 03:51 PM |
| 4 | Changes starting to get traction. Wife starting to become insecure.Have you clearly explained to her when you do want kids? | /r/RPChristians | 21/06/19 03:36 PM |
| 9 | [Singles] 10 Reasons Why I Recommend Doing a Lot of DatingSolid post. I often encourage my single Christian friends to do more dating. Too bad many of them go full sperg and start talking about marriage and kids on the first date... | /r/RPChristians | 20/06/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | On Marriage And MissionI agree with what you are getting at: there is more to Christianity than missionary activity. What you are describing is basically “self-discipleship”, or sanctification through obedience. What I am describing in this post is effectively striving to bring creation into the dominion of the kingdom and under the authority and rulership of Christ. That means striving to inculturate the world to obey all the commands of Christ (love one another, be generous to the needy, be hospitable, etc) just lik… | /r/RPChristians | 14/06/19 09:07 PM |
| 2 | I would like opinions.The rules of the sub are listed on the sidebar (or in the “about” section on mobile). Rule #2: ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: which sidebar content you’ve read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, memorize Scripture, etc. | /r/RPChristians | 14/06/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I would like opinions.Do you even lift bro? Rule #2: All posts asking for advice must include the stats listed | /r/RPChristians | 14/06/19 05:01 PM |
| 10 | I have fallen in love with my step sister and need adviceWhy? So he can get terrible advice? | /r/RPChristians | 14/06/19 02:26 PM |
| 5 | I have fallen in love with my step sister and need adviceYou didn’t post much in the way of stats, but judging by your unimpressive bench for your weight and height, I’d bet you are out of shape. You’re overweight and get rejected by women. Not a new problem or one you can’t fix. Your step sister doesn’t reject you (she can’t exactly not talk to you anymore) so you’ve developed oneitis for her. You don’t love her, you want your dick wet. It’s understandable, but she doesn’t reciprocate your attraction and talking to her about it will mess things up wi… | /r/RPChristians | 14/06/19 02:26 PM |
| 1 | On Marriage And MissionWell said. | /r/RPChristians | 13/06/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Substitute for deadliftsThis movement is hands down the best alternative to deadlift for guys who'd rather not. | /r/RPChristians | 13/06/19 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with my faithhttp://cessationism.com/ We don't need sign gifts anymore, we have the entire Bible. | /r/RPChristians | 12/06/19 07:54 AM |
| 2 | The world we live inI stumbled across this podcast recently and listened to a few episodes. It's brazen enough to serve as a red-pill suppository. | /r/RPChristians | 12/06/19 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Experienced RP Newly Returned to ChristianityWelcome. Thanks for posting a thought (and troll) provoking question. The handful white-knight beta fag responses here prove beyond a shadow of a doubt why RPChristians is abundantly needed in the church today. I was raised Catholic so have a firm foundation in Christian teachings. I've known many Catholics over the years and frankly the stereotype of Catholics knowing what the RCC teaches better than what the Bible teaches has often been true. While that may or may not be your case, I challenge… | /r/RPChristians | 12/06/19 07:49 AM |
| 3 | New York state lawmakers introduce bill to decriminalize sex work...A cursory study of the Bible relating to the state offers us the following distinctions between sins and crimes. 1) Something can be both a crime and a sin 2) Something can be a crime but not a sin 3) Something can be a sin but not a crime 4) Something is neither a sin nor a crime In scripture murder is a clear category 1 issue. It is a sin ("Thou shalt not murder" Exo 20:13) and a crime punishable by the state ("Whoever sheds the blood of man, by man shall his blood be shed; for God made man in… | /r/RPChristians | 12/06/19 07:18 AM |
| 3 | Gravitational Centers - A Case Study on the MRP JourneyRC, this may be my favorite post of yours. Well done. | /r/RPChristians | 12/06/19 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Substitute for deadliftsDon’t give up on this lift. Have you tried sumo stance? Also check out Jeff Nippard’s videos. | /r/RPChristians | 07/06/19 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Based on what I know of red pill thought it seems like this sub recommending marriage over living as Paul did being single is illogical.Glad to hear it. I am of the strong belief that avoidance of hormonal birth control is a wise undertaking. Beyond the potentially abortifacient element, the hormonal manipulation alone can have some severely negative consequences. Up until I got my wife pregnant recently we were using the good old pull out method along with some NFP for several years without issue. | /r/RPChristians | 03/06/19 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Based on what I know of red pill thought it seems like this sub recommending marriage over living as Paul did being single is illogical.Natural Family Planning, also known as the Rhythm Method. Essentially a couple tracks the woman’s fertility cycle and only has sex during her during the non-fertile phases. It’s a form of birth control that is natural so Catholics can sleep at night without feeling like hypocrites. | /r/RPChristians | 03/06/19 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Fiance withholding information about rapeHere’s what you should do in situations like this. | /r/RPChristians | 31/05/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Marriage 3.0Historically speaking such a thing was simply called “church”. | /r/RPChristians | 30/05/19 12:20 AM |
| 14 | Rooshv Converts to Orthodox Christianity and Shuts Down Casual Sex Talk on ForumsYes. It is an interesting inconsistency that The Red Pill advocates the idea of operating within your own frame, then chastise Roosh and others for following their own convictions. | /r/RPChristians | 26/05/19 05:46 AM |
| 9 | Rooshv Converts to Orthodox Christianity and Shuts Down Casual Sex Talk on ForumsPerhaps. I think Roosh has enough gravitas that while many of his followers may abandon the forum, I imagine many more are going to be positively influenced to consider what lays beyond, “enjoy the decline” and the nihilistic dead end of The Red Pill. | /r/RPChristians | 26/05/19 05:43 AM |
| 7 | Rooshv Converts to Orthodox Christianity and Shuts Down Casual Sex Talk on ForumsIndeed. Orthodoxy is, to westerners especially, difficult to interact with in part because of serious terminological differences (using the same words to mean different concepts) and a considerable lack of historical apologetic interaction to draw from. That said, Orthodoxy seems to hold a certain appeal to “far right” conservatives and certain elements of the manosphere. Perhaps it is merely reactionary thinking driving it, but I imagine there is a great deal more to it than that. | /r/RPChristians | 26/05/19 05:35 AM |
| 8 | If god wants us to be monogamous why does he give men unlimited sperm and women a limited about of egg?“And Joash did what was right in the eyes of the Lord all the days of Jehoiada the priest. Jehoiada got for him two wives, and he had sons and daughters.” 2 Chronicles 24:2-3 ESV There is far more to this topic than is commonly talked about. | /r/RPChristians | 22/05/19 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Marriage 3.0I’m only talking about marriage as it relates to Christians. As for non-Christian and secular types, what use have they of marriage? It makes more logical sense, ethics aside, to just stay single and never have kids. If they have no intention of having children then yes, marriage makes little sense to the secular man. That said, for those that desire children having a stable home to raise them in is a major benefit afforded by marriage (just not the 2.0 variety). For a Christian, that is not an … | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/19 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Marriage 3.0I decided many years ago that exactly that was going to be my own personal solution to the M2.0 issue. Still, I don't see it become institutionalized anytime soon as a norm because material benefits are concrete and change hands quickly. To clarify, does that mean you plan to forgo state recognized marriage? Things would either need to change in some manner to encourage M3.0, or alternatively, men wherever possible would need to dedicate themselves to the creating a value which the M2.0 cannot m… | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/19 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Marriage 3.0Thanks for your thoughts. I appreciate you weighing in, this is an issue that will take many voices to resolve. What do men have to bring to a marriage today? ... We are starting to realize that we have to step up... and that means finding something more for men to bring to the table than simply a penis. This approach is blue pilled in orientation. I understand it because I once shared it. "Men need to step up" preaches well from the pulpit, but ultimately fails to address the underlying systemi… | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/19 05:56 PM |
| 4 | Marriage 3.0The example I gave was just one possible agreement. Perhaps a woman entering marriage with a large salary / inheritance is the one protected by the prenup. Either way, the current incentive structure of how finances go in divorce incentivize giving up on the marriage and this ought to change. | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/19 04:18 PM |
| 6 | Marriage 3.0Additionally, I recognize that there are obvious tax, health benefits, and visitation rights issues at hand with this issue. Those are serious considerations, though I wonder how long these benefits will be extended towards married individuals. After all, aren't those "gibs" just propping up a system of systematic oppression by the patriarchal male-dominated social power structure? /s | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/19 08:01 AM |
| 6 | Hebrew translation of the Bible reveals why you need to do more curlsFun fact: it is believed by many that “feet” was sometimes used as a Biblical euphemism for genitalia. “In that day the Lord will shave with a razor that is hired beyond the River—with the king of Assyria—the head and the hair of the feet, and it will sweep away the beard also.” - Isa. 7:20 Unless ancient Jews were hobbits, this makes little sense otherwise. “Then David said to Uriah, "Go down to your house and wash your feet." And Uriah went out of the king's house, and there followed him a pre… | /r/RPChristians | 20/05/19 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Whoever restrains his words...“One acquainted with knowledge is sparing his words, And the cool of temper [is] a man of understanding.” - Proverbs 17:27 YLT (Young’s Literal Translation) I like referencing the YLT in cases like this. While not perfect, and certainly not as straightforward to read at times, I think it often sheds helpful light on verses that tend to get obscured in more commercial translations. “A wise man knows when to STFU and abides by the 4th Law of the 48 Laws of Power; he doesn’t break frame.” - Pro… | /r/RPChristians | 19/05/19 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Going to be a father. Resources?You don't even know the half of it lol | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Going to be a father. Resources?Thanks! Fortunately I have always had fairly minimal sleep needs. Nonetheless, I am already trying not to take a full night's rest for granted haha | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Going to be a father. Resources?Helpful stuff. Thanks for taking the time to put that list together. Be involved and active with your child from day one. This may mean adjusting your work hours or hobbies to the new family member. Use your judgment. I've been working on this one recently, my line of work has highly demanding and irregular hours. To provide a stable consistent home I will likely be changing careers when I find something suitable. Do not, and I repeat, do not shy away from discipline as they get older. This is a… | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/19 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Going to be a father. Resources?That's awesome, I look forward to it. I appreciate the outline of what to expect throughout their early life. But the whole time, they are like little velociraptors. Constantly testing the boundaries. Given my personality and line of work this is actually one of the parts I actually feel most prepared for. Helping my wife maintain the boundaries may take a bit of effort at first; she is a pleaser and sometimes has a hard time saying no. She's gotten much better at it over the years but I have a … | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Going to be a father. Resources?Family Life by Kevin Swanson I appreciate the recommendation. I took a look into Kevin Swanson and appreciate that he is a confessional believer. I have a few points of contention with the WSC but on the whole it is a great foundation. I added it to my list. | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Going to be a father. Resources?Welcome to the next level. Thanks, I'm excited to take on the next level of hard mode. "The boy crisis" by Warren Farell is a noted exception and is must reading for any father of boys. Thanks for the recommendation, I just ordered it for Kindle. | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Going to be a father. Resources?Thanks! We are stoked to become parents. | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/19 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Going to be a father. Resources?Thanks for this RC, definitely some good stuff to mull over and consider. Second, boys in particular get stifled enough by society as-is. They have ambitions and desires and crazy ideas that are totally risky and unsafe. Everyone tells them they shouldn't be this way and that they should just chill out and avoid these adventurous pursuits. This is how boys become feminized. Learning to obey the word "no" is crucial to a boy, but it must also be well-placed. If you can waken his adventurous spiri… | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/19 08:55 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/15/19)Faith Grade: C+ I have not prioritized prayer, reading, or scripture memorization as much as I know I ought. Discipleship is going well, albeit slower than my impatient self would prefer. No excuse here, I need to step it up as a focus. Family Grade: A+ As I posted about just recently, my wife and I are expecting soon. She is deeply and happily within my frame and leadership. I am confident that we will do well as parents. God has blessed us tremendously and I see this new endeavor as parents as… | /r/RPChristians | 16/05/19 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Going Public and My MissionHmmm... last post Feb 7th? Better get on it bro! Seriously though, may God bless you as you step out in a big way on this project. | /r/RPChristians | 16/05/19 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Rachel Held Evans, Influential “Christian” Feminist Egalitarian, Dead at 37It is an oxymoron, but a useful description nonetheless. | /r/RPChristians | 16/05/19 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Going to be a father. Resources?Interesting read. Thanks for sharing. | /r/RPChristians | 16/05/19 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Going to be a father. Resources?Awesome, great recommendation. I’ll add it to my list. Your points on maintaining frame by having knowledge ahead of time is exactly when I posted this, I am sure it will make a big difference. | /r/RPChristians | 14/05/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Going to be a father. Resources?Thank you, and thanks for the advice. Lots to consider. | /r/RPChristians | 14/05/19 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Going to be a father. Resources?Thanks for the recco. I'll check it out. | /r/RPChristians | 14/05/19 08:59 PM |
| 8 | New to the Forum, seeking insightOption 1 is patently stupid and akin to using a grenade to kill a spider under your chair. ”You cannot negotiate attraction.” Burn this into your brain. You can no more talk her into desiring your meat saber than someone could talk you into longing to bed Rosie O’Donald. This is why the saying, “be attractive, don’t be unattractive” is so important. It sounds like you’re in decent shape, so my guess is that your behavior is not attractive. Work on that. Re: Finances Does the captain of the ship … | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/19 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Rachel Held Evans, Influential “Christian” Feminist Egalitarian, Dead at 37“In her testimony, Butterfield describes leaving behind her partner, her feminism, and her liberalism to become a Christian, married to a man. “As a leftist, lesbian professor, I despised Christians,” she said. “Then I somehow become one!” Her story left me feeling unsettled the moment I read it, not because I didn’t believe Butterfield, but because I didn’t like that she drew a dichotomy between liberalism and Christianity, feminism and Christianity, and lesbianism and Christianity…as if conver… | /r/RPChristians | 08/05/19 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Rachel Held Evans, Influential “Christian” Feminist Egalitarian, Dead at 37I am at work and can’t reply more fully, but I believe 1 John 2:19 is relevant here: They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us. But they went out, that it might become plain that they all are not of us. | /r/RPChristians | 06/05/19 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Finding men to do life with1st) Are you only bench pressing? If so, there is your first problem. Haha, that was my first thought too. | /r/RPChristians | 06/05/19 06:54 AM |
| 7 | Finding men to do life withGreat question. First of all, don't skip leg day. Guys who skip leg day don't deserve friendship. Second, start striking up conversations with guys who are already doing the kinds of things you are looking for. Want friends who are into fitness? Start talking to the guys at the gym or perhaps join an intramural sports team. Looking for guys who are entrepreneurial and into business? There are almost certainly business, start up, or real estate investment clubs in your city that will help you get… | /r/RPChristians | 06/05/19 06:53 AM |
| 1 | 1920s were not an evolution of justice, but the beginning of our end. Take women's votes away.Your inability to understand the positions found in this sub, despite volumes of collective effort wasted on explaining them to you, is staggering. | /r/RPChristians | 03/05/19 05:51 PM |
| 8 | Wow Relevant Magazine is so cucked.Relevant Magazine is a bastion of evangellyfish thought; spineless and irrelevant. | /r/RPChristians | 02/05/19 05:54 PM |
| 3 | 1920s were not an evolution of justice, but the beginning of our end. Take women's votes away.You seem like someone I’d enjoy talking with over a beer. Have an up vote | /r/RPChristians | 02/05/19 06:11 AM |
| 10 | 1920s were not an evolution of justice, but the beginning of our end. Take women's votes away.Lacking physical strength, women have had to develop other means of exerting their will. Ultimately all power is backed by the threat, explicit or implicit, of violence. Since women, by nature, have lacked direct access to violence, they have become highly effective in influencing those who do. Feminism is ultimately about controlling men (those who by nature hold direct access to violence / power) to wield it in ways that benefit the female agenda. | /r/RPChristians | 01/05/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Raiders of the lost covenantLocked. Already posted here | /r/RPChristians | 27/04/19 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Father Kosmas (Orthodox) on Marriage and Gender RolesI enjoyed this gem from your post history: “Have you purposefully kept on weight so men would leave you alone?” Go take your misogyny elsewhere. Banned. | /r/RPChristians | 26/04/19 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Raiders of the Lost Covenantthe Bible only predicts the degradation of society, not a revival of godly principles among secular laws. We really do need to talk about this at length sometime. 1 Corinthians 15 is critical to our understanding of the unfolding of God's redemptive plan. In verses 1 through 11 Paul summarizes the gospel and then defends his status as an apostle. In verse 12 he begins to address the charge that Christ could not have risen because there is no resurrection from the dead; a commonly held belief in … | /r/RPChristians | 22/04/19 12:18 AM |
| 28 | Are Christan women really different?AWALT bro. That said, not every woman (or category of women) exhibits those traits to the same degree. Sanctification is real, but it isn't perfect. | /r/RPChristians | 12/04/19 04:04 AM |
| 1 | How can you tell if a girl is genuinely interested in you if you and her have never really ‘met’?You’ll know. Women will crawl over broken glass to be with a guy they find highly attractive. | /r/RPChristians | 07/04/19 10:57 PM |
| 6 | I'm a f@ggot.I have just beheld the splendour of a young, hot and willing woman, and I have walked away from it, again, and it feels gay. Has it occurred to you that could game her and not play “hide the sausage”? I met my wife at a lake in the summer. I saw her in her swim suit, thought she was smoking hot, and chatted her up. That’s where it started. We were married a little over a year later, and we didn’t have sex with each other before hand. Six years later we are both hotter and having more mind blowin… | /r/RPChristians | 07/04/19 01:28 AM |
| 3 | I'm a f@ggot.So what’s your plan? | /r/RPChristians | 07/04/19 01:11 AM |
| 13 | I'm a f@ggot.Nice victim puke. So what are you going to do to stop being a faggot from here? You seem pretty lucid about what is holding you back, so what’re you going to do about it? What’s your plan? | /r/RPChristians | 07/04/19 12:49 AM |
| 2 | What are practical things I can do to be more manly, masculine?^ what he said | /r/RPChristians | 06/04/19 07:05 AM |
| 5 | What are practical things I can do to be more manly, masculine?Currently reading the The Meaning of Marriage by Tim Keller Want to be more manly? Toss this book in the garbage where it belongs. Tim Keller is a beta cuck. Also, deadlift. Sheesh. | /r/RPChristians | 06/04/19 01:08 AM |
| 6 | Discussion: Is it okay to masturbate to thoughts of your wife?Tag: u/Icy_Reference God isn't a prude. His scripture is abundantly explicit in describing sexual matters: "...and lusted after her lovers there, whose members were like those of donkeys, and whose issue was like that of horses. Thus you longed for the lewdness of your youth, when the Egyptians handled your bosom and pressed your young breasts." - Ezekiel 23:20-21 "You also took your beautiful jewels of my gold and of my silver, which I had given you, and made for yourself images of men, and wit… | /r/RPChristians | 06/04/19 01:02 AM |
| 5 | If a woman is designed to be a helpmate, then is she destined to be married?I was about to write exactly this. There is an ongoing discussion as to the interplay of marriage and mission. DS is representing one side you’ve well articulated the other side. | /r/RPChristians | 31/03/19 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Open Letter to a Christian IncelThanks. "He" is actually two different people who share a very similar outlook. Enough so that it sparked the idea of writing it as an open letter. | /r/RPChristians | 28/03/19 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Open Letter to a Christian IncelHow does a Christian guy interact with women? If she is an eligible woman (old enough, unmarried, etc) you interact with them largely the same way a secular man would, but with boundaries as to how sexual you will be with them. Tease them, escalate attraction using some kino, pull / push, the list goes on. Now, if she is married or old enough to pursue, then we treat them as sisters or mothers etc. I’m in a tough spot here, do we go out and interact with women in general (ie day or night game). … | /r/RPChristians | 28/03/19 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Open Letter to a Christian IncelCurious, have you ever had someone record you in a social setting? If not, consider trying it and you will likely be able to spot the ways that you behaved unnaturally. | /r/RPChristians | 28/03/19 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Open Letter to a Christian IncelRejection on sight is a simple fix; it's not easy, but it's not complicated. Being rejected on sight is typically a matter of exhibiting some sort of anti-social body language or behavior. It can be something obvious and readily observed, such as poor posture, awkwardly dressed, erratic movement, picking your nose, etc. or it could be something more subtle such as facial expressions, hand gestures, odor, etc. In rare cases bodily irregularities can be the cause, such as being paraplegic, cleft l… | /r/RPChristians | 28/03/19 08:13 AM |
| 3 | Open Letter to a Christian IncelWe are all dealt different hands at birth, but there are many ways to play the cards. Is the man born a 4 capable of landing 9s and 10s? Maybe not, but that doesn't mean he can't improve himself to land 6s, 7s, and 8s. Having seen some pretty radical transformations and applications of game, I am a perpetual optimist in men's ability to better themselves in terms of attractiveness. | /r/RPChristians | 28/03/19 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Open Letter to a Christian IncelBy stopping the beliefs and behaviors that caused them to be incel to begin with and becoming attractive. | /r/RPChristians | 28/03/19 07:55 AM |
| 1 | FR & Two questions- admitting where you need to grow to your wife, and "STFU" vs "Butthurt".This is a good word. | /r/RPChristians | 28/03/19 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Launching a business with a rebellious wifeThis was one of those, "I read the title and already knew it was a terrible idea" posts. Don't go into business with your wife. Body fat: not sure, but must be low, because of my metabolism Dude, as a fellow "hardgainer" you need to start eating like a starving animal and hit your 1g per lbs of body weight worth of protein daily at a minimum. I had to eat ~3,500 calories a day to move the needle at all. 5.87 ft Weird way to measure, but okay. That height at only 148 lbs is rail thin. Gain 30 lbs… | /r/RPChristians | 23/03/19 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Silent Cal: Master of STFUFunny, I was just reading that chapter this morning before work. Always a great reminder. | /r/RPChristians | 08/03/19 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Question about reading in sidebar.Is there a list of the MAP items somewhere outside the book? The Book of Pook is one of the older source "texts" of the early RP movement. Pook was a pillar of the PUA community which eventually gave birth to the Red Pill. You'll notice the Book of Pook doesn't use much RP lingo (AWALT, plates, dread, etc) because most of that hadn't even been started yet. Also, what it was written it was written from an unmarried man to other unmarried men who were trying to better understand women. That's why … | /r/RPChristians | 07/03/19 07:34 AM |
| 39 | Mindblown: My girlfriend just confirmed TRP to me.... unless OP went so beta that she is actually asking for him to add some alpha back into the mix to achieve that balance she may want | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/19 05:05 PM |
| 7 | [F/R] That escalated quickly...Call me a sucker but I am not as grim about her as a prospect as the others here. Obviously proceed with caution, but AWALT is a saying for a reason. Sounds like she sees you as a catch (and lets be real, attractive Christian men who are serious about their faith are pretty rare) and is trying to lock you down the only way she knows how. What’s her past like? Is she the “reborn party girl” hitting the wall type? | /r/RPChristians | 04/03/19 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Lifting Program for Aesthetics?Hey man, Glad to see another reformed guy joining in the fun. Others have pretty well nailed it; there is no quick path to where you want your body to be. That said, there are certain things you can do to speed the process along. Form is key. If you have bad form for your primary lifts you will reach a point of stalling out. Simply put, proper form exists for good reason: it keeps you safe while giving you maximum mechanical advantage (strength) for your lifts. You want your muscles to be your l… | /r/RPChristians | 04/03/19 10:01 PM |
| 5 | [F/R] That escalated quickly...What would be sufficient evidence from her for you to believe she will take her faith seriously? | /r/RPChristians | 04/03/19 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Celebrate!Two non-believers get married. He becomes a Christian, she doesn’t but sticks with the relationship. That is a situation many men find themselves in. | /r/RPChristians | 04/03/19 02:37 PM |
| 5 | RPC: a place to stay (or at least return to)For a guy who just “left” this sub behind you sure seem to have a lot to say | /r/RPChristians | 04/03/19 01:17 AM |
| 7 | Celebrate!Praise God! That is awesome, life changing even, news. You should consider writing a field report on the situation, I am sure there are many men who find themselves trying to lead their wives to Christ. | /r/RPChristians | 04/03/19 12:17 AM |
| 3 | RPC: a place to stay (or at least return to)By calling and naming the sentiments of another person bogus, you are marginalizing and down-grading the feelings of that person. Exactly. Some feelings are stupid and should be marginalized and downgraded, especially harmful or useless ones. Example: I don't care how much someone feels they are a transgender, the fact is they are sick and should be dealt with accordingly, not be placated by entertaining them in their disillusion. It reveals you as one who labels and judges the feelings of anoth… | /r/RPChristians | 03/03/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Interesting site...This is a good word. Take the time to consider it and let it really sink in. | /r/RPChristians | 28/02/19 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Does this sub find it a good idea to wait until marriage?Somewhat off-topic, but still may be useful or interesting: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ymflbexb_Z0 | /r/RPChristians | 27/02/19 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionIt’s a false dichotomy. So far as the spirit is united to the body the two are consistently connected. | /r/RPChristians | 26/02/19 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Field ReportCheck out Deuteronomy 14:26. There is a time and place for strong drink. Was the OP’s bar experience the time for it? Probably not. | /r/RPChristians | 25/02/19 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Field Report“Thou Shalt Not Dance.” said the Bible nowhere... | /r/RPChristians | 25/02/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Games Are Fun... If You Know The RulesDon’t let the door hit you on the way out. | /r/RPChristians | 21/02/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Games Are Fun... If You Know The Rules“I’m not MGTOW but....” Haha, okay bud. Nice circle jerk of a reply: “The ancients didn’t have to ‘learn the rules’ of hunting, they just knew how!” “Lol you guys who live in a society that intentionally impairs your knowledge of hunting are so silly trying to learn how to hunt from the ancients.” High quality stuff there. Right from the top shelf. | /r/RPChristians | 21/02/19 06:19 PM |
| 8 | Addressing the Blue Pill Hate: Objectifying Women, 1 Peter 3"...he said to Sarai his wife, "See now, I know that you are a beautiful woman" - Genesis 12:11 "Rebekah... came out with her jar on her shoulder. The girl was very beautiful" - Genesis 24:15-16 "And Leah's eyes were weak, but Rachel was beautiful of form and face." - Genesis 29:17 "In all the land no women were found so fair as Job's daughters" - Job 42:15 "...the man's name was Nabal, and his wife's name was Abigail And the woman was intelligent and beautiful in appearance" - 1 Samuel 25:3 "No… | /r/RPChristians | 20/02/19 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Addressing the Blue Pill Hate: ManipulationGood stuff RC. Thanks for taking the time to write it up. | /r/RPChristians | 20/02/19 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Aristotelian Categories: Essentials, Accidents, and AlphasThe beta qualities that help a LTR be successful are accidents, rather than properties, of an alpha. Can a man be alpha without ever saying “I love you” or cuddling after sex? Definitely. Can a man be alpha and do those things? Yes. I believe u/red-curious wrote about it elsewhere, but the alpha/beta dichotomy isn’t an absolute. A beta behavior done by an alpha, out of his own will, independent of outcome, can still be an alpha move. Consider the difference between a man who tells his girl that … | /r/RPChristians | 15/02/19 02:09 AM |
| 3 | My gf is my polar opposite, I'm head over heels into her, absolutely no frane, send helpOh, we will kick his shit in. Ned Flanders style. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/02/19 12:55 AM |
| 24 | My GF is my polar opposite, has no trad values, I am head over heels into her but we seem to be stuckDude, there are more red flags in you post than a communist country. Objectively, what makes you think this is worth investing more time and energy in? Happy Valentine’s Day. | /r/RPChristians | 15/02/19 12:52 AM |
| 6 | Feeling in love, oneitis...Can you have a few drinks and get buzzed without going on a drunken joyride? Yes, you can. Love is similarly drug-like: it's okay to feel and enjoy the effects of it, but not if you can't remain in control of yourself. If you can't step back and objectively examine your decisions and know when they are being influenced by your infatuation, that's a problem. There is a benefit to feeling, "in love" too. Just as alcohol can be a social lubricant, the love feeling can be a relational lubricant; bot… | /r/RPChristians | 30/01/19 05:02 PM |
| 9 | My Anger PhaseMen gave up the reigns of society and the church to get their rocks off. And, because God will not be mocked, didn't end up getting their rocks off but ended up in dead bedrooms. | /r/RPChristians | 24/01/19 08:58 AM |
| 4 | My Anger PhaseThat’s the idea, one man at a time | /r/RPChristians | 24/01/19 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Stop apologizing so muchI’m sorry. Do I get citizenship now? | /r/RPChristians | 24/01/19 05:06 AM |
| 4 | Continuing Decline of the Birth Rate - viva feminismSure, race doesn’t matter as much as the person or their ideology, but suggesting that general differences don’t exist between people groups is just not correspondent to reality. If every immigrant were as thoughtful and contributor as Thomas Sowell or Ben Carson I don’t think we would have any reason to be concerned with immigration, but that just isn’t the case. Having worked in a densely immigrant (legal and illegal) occupied area, the sad truth is that most of them didn’t know and weren’t in… | /r/RPChristians | 24/01/19 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionDo you get the response you want from your wife/women? If so, keep doing what you’re doing. If not, change something to get it. | /r/RPChristians | 23/01/19 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Continuing Decline of the Birth Rate - viva feminismThe elephant in the room, and a discussion that goes beyond thee scope of this sub, is that the pairing of low white birth rate and high birthrate among immigrant populations means that unless something radically changes, white Americans will be a minority in this country between 2030/2050. Think about it: what happens when the founders and vast majority of historical figures of significance in a country don't resemble or share the heritage of the new majority of a country? Can we really expect … | /r/RPChristians | 23/01/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Is My Girlfriend Wife Material? Need Help....armpit stuff? https://www.allkpop.com/upload/2017/01/content/misc_1485555503_dafuq.jpg | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/19 06:48 PM |
| 8 | Is the bulk of the modern church's approach ineffective?The bulk of the "modern church" is ineffective because it isn't Christian, but churchian. What happened to discussing the true gospel message? The "mainstream" church in the west became compromised by leftist, feminist, and other cultural Marxist ideologies. Why do we support female pastors when the bible is clear on it's stance for that? We don't. Why do we simply ignore Satan who has been around since eternity past and is currently in control of the whole world? This is a false impression. Sat… | /r/RPChristians | 16/01/19 08:01 PM |
| 2 | We've done it, guys. "Traditional Masculinity" is now officially deemed "harmful" by the American Psychological Association. High-five to culture!Just saw this (the tag was misspelled). Yes, I've read this before and find it highly concerning. I don't discuss politics much in this sub as it can quickly distract folks from the main point (sexual strategy) but suffice to say I believe this infiltration of communist ideology in the form of cultural Marxism is an immediate and present danger to America as we know it. I'd go so far to say that we are living at what could be the turning point of a Post-American, or American-In-Name-Only, future… | /r/RPChristians | 16/01/19 07:50 PM |
| 2 | We can be bettsr guys!!!!No one in that commercial needed to shave anyway... so I am assuming they were explicitly marketing to low T guys who want to hold razors to feel manlier. | /r/RPChristians | 16/01/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Polygamy EndgameBuilt in dread that is unlikely to cause major disruptions unless you are terrible at balancing your time and attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/19 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Polygamy EndgameWomen happily living in a house with other women you’re fucking is really rare. It’s just too in your face... When a married woman “shares” an alpha it’s because she’s putting blinders on and pretending it isn’t happening. It was very common throughout most of human history. Women don't get along with other women when they view the other as competition or a threat. If they both have access to the man's sex and resources there is no real competition to be had. Not only that but it is a TRP maxim … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/19 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Polygamy EndgameLooks like someone hit a nerve. The amount of emotional responses to this alone suggests that there is something worth examining here. On a macro level this potentially "solves" several issues facing the West. Like it or not, demography doesn't lie and traditional Western populations are being displaced in their own countries by third world immigrants who don't share their values. Unless you've determined not to have children, this is something well worth being concerned about unless you've made… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/19 04:36 PM |
| 4 | Female Pastors - Some thoughts about itChurchianity ≠ Christianity | /r/RPChristians | 14/01/19 04:06 PM |
| 4 | Birth Control (soon to be married)The American Association of Pro-Life Obstetricians and Gynecologists has two position papers on the matter that are well worth reading. You can find the links to the papers on this page. Personally, I am persuaded that normal oral hormonal birth control pills (not including the morning after pill) do not cause abortion to take place. That said, I would avoid the pill. IUDs, or other methods that alter her hormones. Check out this video and you can learn some of the reasons why. My wife was on th… | /r/RPChristians | 13/01/19 02:20 AM |
| 5 | What do you think Genesis 3:16 curse means?Fault vs responsibility. Eve can be at fault for her own sin, despite Adam being the federal head of humanity and hence responsible. | /r/RPChristians | 11/01/19 06:23 AM |
| 5 | We've done it, guys. "Traditional Masculinity" is now officially deemed "harmful" by the American Psychological Association. High-five to culture!This is a big deal gents. Bigger than we realize. Men, now more than ever, must begin to circle the wagons and get ready for a fight for the truth, our culture, and our right to be men as God created us. We must stand together or perish alone; no one else is going to take our side. | /r/RPChristians | 11/01/19 06:21 AM |
| 1 | What aboutThere's a lot of good stuff here. I think you should write up a FR as a separate post. | /r/RPChristians | 09/01/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | A man in need of positive advice.And a Calvinist according to your post history. Someone get this girl a medal. | /r/RPChristians | 08/01/19 02:22 AM |
| 2 | How do we define the relationship?I’d met her about six months before hand, but really only knew her for about three months. We hadn’t been on any real dates up to that point, and we weren’t romantically involved. I’m not sure looking back that I’d advocate the approach to others, but it worked for me. | /r/RPChristians | 07/01/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionHow’s lifting been going? | /r/RPChristians | 07/01/19 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionPUA and RP aren’t unrelated. If you were to draw a Venn diagram of the two, there would be a huge degree of overlap. PUA creates the perception of being a high value man, RP makes you one. Marketing matters. In the marketplace it is not uncommon for objectively superior products to lose to inferior products due to poor marketing. On the flip side, even the best marketing can’t keep a poor quality product on top for long. | /r/RPChristians | 07/01/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Escalation the RPC wayFair points. I appreciate the dialogue. A question that comes to mind is: do you believe Jesus ever intended to give any instructions on how to pick up women? While maybe one could argue that he does indirectly, I don’t believe there are any didactic passages that record such teachings. So while electrical engineering is modern and self improvement is timeless, Jesus didn’t give direct teachings on many elements of life that he could have, but rather left them to us to discern and discover. | /r/RPChristians | 07/01/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Escalation the RPC wayI think you are doing what many evangelicals do to their own detriment and misunderstanding, which is to look to the life and mission of Christ and try to copy it 1 to 1. The problem is, Christ had a unique role to play in history just as we each do. Christ’s calling wasn’t to be a father of physical offspring, and was in fact was to die a substitutionary death to secure spiritual offspring, so his singleness and lack of concern for becoming married makes perfect sense. That doesn’t then mean so… | /r/RPChristians | 07/01/19 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Escalation the RPC wayIt’s pretty clear that the fat jobless timid guy doesn’t have much to offer others, whereas the successful confident fit person will have the means and live long enough to make a difference. | /r/RPChristians | 07/01/19 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Update on my situationI am leaving out a lot of details but there are so many subtle cues and hints based in their relationship with the guy that she is attached to Him Yeah. Heed the responses in this thread, they are spot on. I asked her how close she is to the guy And you expected her to be honest? Bro, do you even read the side bar? and she gave me a fit about how she has adamantly told me she doesn’t like him but I feel and sense the closeness to a dude she only met for a week in person Acta non verba works both… | /r/RPChristians | 07/01/19 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Question - Book Recommendation on Finding Your Mission?“First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way.” 1 Timothy 2:1-2 ESV IMO that and the great commission is more than enough mission for most people. Unless you feel specifically called otherwise, I think there is great peace in the relative simplicity to which we are called to live. Consider, the vast m… | /r/RPChristians | 04/01/19 10:12 PM |
| 13 | How do we define the relationship?Ah yes. The old “waiting for God to hit me with a 2x4” meme. It doesn’t work like that, at least not for 99/100 cases. How do you define the relationship? My conversation with my eventual wife looked something more or less like this: “Hey, I’m attracted to you and see potential between the two of us. I don’t date just to date, but to learn if someone is wife material or not. I want to start being intentional about spending more time together and getting to know you better.” She was pretty shocke… | /r/RPChristians | 04/01/19 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Is overlooking a female's sexual past foolish?One thing to keep in mind too is that not every “N” is the same. A woman who slept with one guy who was a long term boyfriend is vastly different than a woman who had a one night stand or cheated on a significant other. | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/19 10:02 PM |
| 5 | Is overlooking a female's sexual past foolish?Does it matter? Yes. Does it matter even half as much as the majority of the Manosphere makes it out to be? No. There are so many factors involved here there is no clear cut answer. Age: An 18 y/o with an n-count of 10 is a much bigger red flag than a 30 y/o with the same number. Attitude: a hot woman with an n-count (who could easily rack up more) and is repentant about it is vastly different than the post-wall woman who is looking for bb to get off the cc with. Background: was she raised in a … | /r/RPChristians | 02/01/19 06:10 PM |
| 2 | What are some RP conservative, fundamental pastors?All the Dalrock devotees in the house can feel free to downvote this recommendation to oblivion, but Doug Wilson is worth looking into. I'll admit that Dalrock offers some very fair criticism, but I think Doug is more "our guy" than not. Tim Bayly is another who often offers some worthwhile insight into manhood. | /r/RPChristians | 27/12/18 07:40 PM |
| 2 | What are some RP conservative, fundamental pastors?Even without reading Dalrock's posts about them, I have to agree that Piper and Grudem are, from what I've seen, pretty far off the mark when it comes to gender and sexual relational dynamics. While I don't believe they are "controlled opposition", the effect they have is much the same. They don't go far enough and offer the appearance of a "strong" position but one that is ultimately compromised. | /r/RPChristians | 27/12/18 07:38 PM |
| 3 | What are some RP conservative, fundamental pastors?One caution to keep in mind about Chan is that he has had a history of flirting with the "Poverty Gospel" (i.e., wealth is evil, being poor is righteous, etc). This doesn't take away from the good things he has said and wrote, but it comes out in places and something that doesn't square with biblical theology regarding wealth and stewardship. | /r/RPChristians | 27/12/18 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Humility in leadership. Opposites in distinction. Or not?Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it's thinking of yourself less. In leadership, it looks like this. This is the quote that immediately came to my mind as well. You beat me to the punch chuck! | /r/RPChristians | 27/12/18 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Any Catholics here?Not a catholic but like chuck I have a fairly extensive working knowledge of the RCC faith and doctrines. I know there are many Catholics lurking about these parts and the best way to get answers is to just post questions. Welcome. | /r/RPChristians | 21/12/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Advise on overcoming what you once wereAny practical advice on overcoming what you once were? Become someone else; a better someone. The reason you don't like "what you once were" is because that guy was a sinner untouched by sanctification. You are growing. As long as you keep growing, in Christ and otherwise, you will eventually look back at your old self and realize how much you've changed, how far you've come, and how good God is. Be patient. It's a fruit of the spirit for a reason. | /r/RPChristians | 20/12/18 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Where’s the line between chivalry and beta bux?Where's the line between chivalry and beta bux? Remind me, what verses in the Bible promote chivalry? | /r/RPChristians | 20/12/18 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Albert Mohler misses the pointIt’s only about 5 minutes at the end. | /r/RPChristians | 20/12/18 12:06 AM |
| 3 | Responsibilities and PrivilegesSolid post. Concise, informative, and helpful. | /r/RPChristians | 19/12/18 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Responsibilities and PrivilegesThere is no such thing as secular; religion permeates everything. The sooner we recognize that the clearer our thinking will become. | /r/RPChristians | 19/12/18 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Love this sub (+ question about meeting an ex)What’re you stats? Do you even lift bro? | /r/RPChristians | 16/12/18 06:31 PM |
| 8 | SHAME Case Study #2: The Freezing Point Of Water And The Isolation Of ShameIf anyone thinks the posts here are “scripture heavy” they have clearly never engaged in serious theological discourse. If anything the posts here are very thin on scripture for the sake of brevity. Either God’s word is important or it isn’t. Backing down an inch on the use of scripture to make things more accessible or palatable is compromise writ large and exactly what has lead us to a culture of scripturally illiterate churchmen. If that brings someone sHAmE I don’t give a rip. Pony up and us… | /r/RPChristians | 15/12/18 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Evangelical Culture is Beta CultureThe question is: are these spineless evangellyfish “churches” the churches that Christ died for to exist? I’d respectfully posit, no. | /r/RPChristians | 13/12/18 07:56 PM |
| 9 | Should I ask my ex-wife to meet?What do you hope to get out of it? | /r/RPChristians | 13/12/18 05:58 AM |
| 2 | On Looks, Genetics, and The Black PillI think the essence of it was that he was obviously doing it to entertain and amuse himself. | /r/RPChristians | 13/12/18 01:09 AM |
| 3 | On Looks, Genetics, and The Black PillHaha, no, not that big. He would no joke walk up to a classmate and say something like, “Hey baby doll nice tits” stare at her chest sometimes literally get slapped, then continue on with the conversation like she didn’t even respond and ask her out. Amazingly it worked a lot of the time. Sometimes, even when it didn’t, he would ask her out whenever he saw her, “hey nice tits, can I motorboat them?” and often they found it so surprising they would cave and go out with him. He managed to do all o… | /r/RPChristians | 13/12/18 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Evangelical Culture is Beta CultureVery interesting. I had only read the original article I linked. Seems like two very different perspectives. | /r/RPChristians | 12/12/18 11:36 PM |
| 2 | On Looks, Genetics, and The Black PillYes. I knew a guy who was a competitive body builder on top of having a jawline like Hercules. His fiancé was porn star level hot. His mindset was beta though and despite them having an LTR for about two years, she ended up despising him and treating him poorly because of his lack of “alpha” in the relationship. It resulted in one or the nastiest breakups I’ve ever seen. Looks are not enough; mindset was his undoing. Alternatively, I also knew a guy who was extremely average in every regard, a 6… | /r/RPChristians | 12/12/18 10:36 PM |
| 3 | On Looks, Genetics, and The Black PillWhile it isn’t bulletproof, SMV helps mitigate the risk of being a victim of hypergamy. A girl who is an 8 is less likely to cheat on a guy who is a 7 than a guy who is a 5. Remember, hypergamy is her trading up, so the higher up the ladder you climb the less up there is to trade for. Of course, AWALT and women aren’t rational, so it isn’t fool proof, but it does improve your odds of stability. The best way to avoid a flood is to build on higher ground, but that doesn’t guarantee you won’t ever … | /r/RPChristians | 12/12/18 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Feminine Primacy effect on DoctrineAmerican Christianity’s embrace of Arminianism despite a pretty thoroughly Calvinist origin is feminine influenced. Calvinism (God does what he wills with us as His subjects, our will is subordinated to His, his determination of salvation, etc) is a thoroughly masculine soteriology. Arminian soteriology on the other hand (we ultimately determine our salvation or damnation, God really wishes we’d choose him but won’t ‘rape’ our free will, and God loves everyone equally) is thoroughly egalitarian … | /r/RPChristians | 01/12/18 11:19 PM |
| 14 | Go for the gainzzzz. Really? What do you think.He didn't browse Reddit, invest in real-estate, or play guitar either. Stop looking for excuses to continue being a loser. Just get in the gym and enjoy the attendant benefits. | /r/RPChristians | 29/11/18 08:12 PM |
| 3 | I don’t enjoy ONS, FWBs, or Plating and feel LTRs might be hopeless. What’s wrong with me? What can I do?Hey man. Welcome to the sub. Hope you find some helpful answers here. I struggle to find enjoyment in Plates and ONS both socially and sexually. The big lie of hook up culture is: "Married sex is boring, hooking up with new people is where the real thrills are." Bullshit. From experience, both my own and others I know well, married sex is where it's at. Sure, a lot of married guys have terrible sex lives, but that has far more to do with the fact that they are drunk beta captains running their l… | /r/RPChristians | 29/11/18 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Met the church girl for coffee... How to proceed?Okay. First off, you've got a case of oneitis. Recognize it for what it is and make the appropriate corrections. Throw in the mental clutch a minute and downshift. You are way too concerned about what she thinks, how she feels, and what happens next. You should begin trying to disqualify her. Screen hard, live easy. Guilty until proven innocent. Don't be a jerk, but start to test her to see if she really is a special unicorn. She might be, but you won't know until you present her with opportunit… | /r/RPChristians | 29/11/18 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Met the church girl for coffee... How to proceed?Tell her how x, y, and z make you feel and show an understanding of how her x, y, and z probably make her feel. Better, go do things with her and feel X, Y, and Z together with her. | /r/RPChristians | 29/11/18 08:20 AM |
| 15 | Go for the gainzzzz. Really? What do you think.The Bible doesn’t command you to be literate, but it sure makes doing everything else in life a whole lot easier / better... | /r/RPChristians | 29/11/18 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Go for the gainzzzz. Really? What do you think.Because it isn’t hard to be fit and you live a worse less enjoyable life if you aren’t? This isn’t hard... | /r/RPChristians | 29/11/18 01:49 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with extended family issues?I don’t want to be party to her delusions So don’t be. The end. | /r/RPChristians | 28/11/18 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Relationship agreement - what do you think?Why do you think this is a good idea? | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/18 12:35 AM |
| 5 | Disturbing Things in This GroupI feel compelled to comment about some of the posts I've seen in this group. Goes on to make general accusations without any quotes or links. they don't want to be treated as a sub-human either. Damn. You're right. Better delete those posts about women being less than human... some of the 'advice' being spewed in this group is quite dangerous. such as...? | /r/RPChristians | 25/11/18 08:43 PM |
| 10 | Recommendation Pastor Charles LawsonDispensationalism? Zionism? 3 Part Sermons on "Date of Jesus' Coming"? Anti-Calvinism? No thanks. Hard pass. | /r/RPChristians | 25/11/18 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Please share your thoughts belowFunny enough, you’re actually the first to realize why I chose that handle. It’s a reminder of my own density and not to be wise in my own eyes. | /r/RPChristians | 19/11/18 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Soft next and hard next conceptRegulate your time and attention. Obviously if you are married, especially if you have kids, there is a minimum baseline of time and attention you have to spend on her. Beyond that is a choice. If she is behaving poorly, disrespects you, or has a bad attitude you can withdraw your time and attention by going to the gym, going to a buddy’s house, heading into work, etc. The key is to not be butt hurt. Women are smart enough to eventually figure out that you won’t spend your time where you aren’t … | /r/RPChristians | 19/11/18 04:14 PM |
| 3 | A Perspective On LustWell, back to the first post, I suppose it depends on your definition of porn. I think there is a massive qualitative difference between watching a woman engage in a sex act and seeing and admiring a beautiful woman in a bikini. | /r/RPChristians | 17/11/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Please share your thoughts belowI think your username is stupid | /r/RPChristians | 17/11/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Caught wife wanking offhttps://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/9xmi60/show_a_slutty_girl_true_acceptance_and_shell_be/?st=JOLODM1L&sh=b0cbde6f Disclaimer: obviously secular, being discernment. That said, the overarching concept is applicable | /r/RPChristians | 17/11/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | A Perspective On LustI agree with you. Shame about true sin is an u deserved but much needed grace. Shame about non-sin is seriously destructive and unhelpful. Hence why a chief concern among Christians should always be carefully examining our presuppositions in light of scripture. | /r/RPChristians | 17/11/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Should Christians Get Married Young?Stock photo “portrait”... nice find | /r/RPChristians | 15/11/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Caught wife wanking offTwo, the ideas proposed of sending pictures or video of her masterbating to you is just another one of those secular porn inspired ideas and does not promote the sanctity of the marriage bed. These videos and images are subject to hacking, being misplaced, and unintentionally viewed by others. When this happens, you have shared your wife and her image with the whole world for any man to jack off while he is watching her get off. As a husband you are a protector. Yup. The sex in my marriage is ho… | /r/RPChristians | 15/11/18 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Caught wife wanking offAlso, abstaining from other forms of pleasure such as the vibrator, self masturbation, etc. If you're "used" to getting yourself off, someone else doing it is going to suck. In the case of men perhaps, but with women I disagree rather strongly. Sexual arousal and ability for a woman to get off is 90%+ a matter of mentality. What the physical stimulation involved is doesn't matter nearly as much as her mental state. Remember: feels is reals. A woman who feels sexy, who feels great about her body,… | /r/RPChristians | 15/11/18 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Caught wife wanking offTLDR: Caught wife wanking with vibe; very uncharacteristic of her; how would you approach? Sounds hot. I'd join in or ask her to send me pics/vids when she does it. For now I am thinking of leaving a note for her taped to the vibe, saying I'm happy that she's found a way to have a good time but would she please consider saving some of her mojo for us too. That's super faggy. Don't do it. Women (your wife included) have a near unlimited pool of potential sexual energy; she could get herself off s… | /r/RPChristians | 15/11/18 07:47 PM |
| 5 | How should I handle these two disciples?Dude, if you think a simple mental assent to the truth (Romans 10:9) somehow magically seals the deal without question I have a really nice bridge to sell you... | /r/RPChristians | 12/11/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Data analytics teacher taking shots at ChristianityWhy are you posting this on a sub specifically aimed at biblical sexual strategy? Try one of the many other Christian subs that are for general discussion. Locked. | /r/RPChristians | 06/11/18 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Smash The MatriarchyThis seems to be representative of Doug Wilson’s thinking without the usual qualifiers. I think Dalrock has honestly misunderstood much of Wilson’s work in the past. I’ve always thought it strange that with such a target rich environment Dalrock seems to single out DW for his highest criticism. | /r/RPChristians | 05/11/18 08:36 PM |
| 2 | A question about tears in front of your LTR.Only here you get downvoted for it. | /r/RPChristians | 05/11/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | A question about tears in front of your LTR.Oh. Of course, I forgot all about that time Jesus cried because a girl said nice things about him. | /r/RPChristians | 05/11/18 03:37 PM |
| 2 | A question about tears in front of your LTR.Remember Lot’s wife. - Luke 17:32 ...? | /r/RPChristians | 05/11/18 03:03 PM |
| 3 | A question about tears in front of your LTR.Sure. You can cry as much as you need to. Then when you’re all done you can simply discard your tampon, adjust your skirt and pig tails, and continue on with your life... | /r/RPChristians | 05/11/18 02:46 PM |
| 10 | Your future wife should be happy to take your last nameThe fact that this post was controversial at all speaks volumes. Adam names Eve, we “name” our wives. It’s a symbol of headship. This is 101 level stuff folks. | /r/RPChristians | 04/11/18 03:19 PM |
| 7 | How to date "evenly" as a ChristianWhat does “long term” mean to you? Are you looking for a spouse or a girlfriend? What do YOU want out of an LTR? | /r/RPChristians | 01/11/18 03:29 PM |
| 10 | Intro + questionIf it’s not a “Hell yeah!” It’s a “No.” | /r/RPChristians | 01/11/18 03:25 PM |
| -1 | Studying Abroad for 2 weeksNot all “abroad” are created equal. Is she going somewhere known for party culture (Spain, France, Italy, etc) or some third world craphole? Who is she going with, anyone or by herself? Is she living with peers or with a host family? Will she be connected to a church ahead of time? Yes, generally speaking going abroad is bad news, but there can be mitigating circumstances. | /r/RPChristians | 30/10/18 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Open threadNo, still a work in progress. Looking like early next year. | /r/RPChristians | 26/10/18 11:21 PM |
| 5 | Open threadTaxation is theft. | /r/RPChristians | 26/10/18 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Can't get physicaly strong: Advise neededSo you didn't say if the injury is self-diagnosed or if have you had real experts look at it. Have you seen a physical therapist, especially one that advocates for strength training? | /r/RPChristians | 24/10/18 12:19 AM |
| 5 | New to ChristianityWelcome. The good news is that if you continue to ask these questions and begin to harmonize the scripture with the world around you, you will find that the truth of scripture acts as a lens. This lens allows you to see the world for what it really is and thus you can make much better sense of it. Do you have specific aspects of RP/Christianity in mind that appear to be in conflict? | /r/RPChristians | 17/10/18 05:08 PM |
| 4 | Eight questions for the RPC community in other countriesIn your personal experience do you find women, Christian or otherwise, at all regretting the awful decisions they made in their 20s squandering their sexual access with chads? Yes. Related to the first question: How genuine do you think this regret it? Or was it merely because of the Wall causing this? It's mixed. Some appears to reveal genuine repentance (younger women) though it seems the older they were when they "reformed" their ways the less genuine it seems. May be my own biases at play. G… | /r/RPChristians | 17/10/18 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Beta is always bad: Change my mindI think this is really just a matter of imprecise definitions. I think a helpful way of understanding this is to separate motive and behavior. Example: you are away on business. An HB10 is DTF and you could get 100% away with it. There are four ways it can go down: You want to sleep with her and ravish her (alpha frame, alpha behavior) You, out of your own conviction and frame, decide not to play hide the salami with her (alpha frame, beta behavior). You cave to your base instincts and ravish he… | /r/RPChristians | 12/10/18 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend is way too friendly with Guys, what should I do? Talking to her may push us to breakupHow much hotter is she than you? | /r/RPChristians | 11/10/18 05:44 AM |
| 9 | Girlfriend is way too friendly with Guys, what should I do? Talking to her may push us to breakupSince you didn’t abide by Rule 2 and include your stats in your past, I’ll generously supply them for you: Stats Gender: Undecided. Age: 2 (presumably illiterate since you don’t read). Lifts: Doesn’t life weights, but studies feminist dance theory for cardio. It’s really hard. Reading: None of the sidebar since I am 2 and I cant read. You get the point. Why should anyone waste their time with this victim puke of a post when you don’t even have the presence of mind to glance at the sub rules befo… | /r/RPChristians | 11/10/18 01:20 AM |
| 2 | On Biblical Justice and RapeSo RC, would you say that God's standard revealed here: “A single witness shall not suffice against a person for any crime or for any wrong in connection with any offense that he has committed. Only on the evidence of two witnesses or of three witnesses shall a charge be established. - Deuteronomy 19:15 Is no longer to be followed? If so, I have a few questions. Did God require this standard of justice in order to benefit His people? Jesus upholds this standard for matters of Church discipline i… | /r/RPChristians | 10/10/18 07:15 PM |
| 2 | “I love you”Alpha is the steak, beta is the steak sauce. Having a steak with steak sauce is delicious, even a steak alone is appealing. Steak sauce by itself is gross. First time I've heard that one, very succinct and well said. | /r/RPChristians | 10/10/18 05:47 AM |
| 4 | Thoughts on Ben Shapiro and Milo YinnopolousFunny enough they hate each other. In general I am a fan of both, but for different reasons. Shapiro runs a very tight presuppositional political apologetic. He is not overly emotive and tends to stick to logical arguments and cold facts. His famed line, "facts don't care about your feelings" is proverbial enough to spend some time meditating on. One can learn a lot about how to meaningfully engage opposition by watching his use of reductio ad absurdum. Milo is a self-proclaimed provocateur. It … | /r/RPChristians | 10/10/18 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionNo problem, hope it helps to inspire some gains | /r/RPChristians | 10/10/18 05:25 AM |
| 3 | On Biblical Justice and RapeWhile the notion is often stated, it is more involved than that. This article gets into some of the surrounding considerations that are often neglected. | /r/RPChristians | 10/10/18 05:24 AM |
| 3 | On Biblical Justice and RapeIt is both humorous and sad that non-Christians think they have enough understanding of our faith to make inane comments like that. | /r/RPChristians | 10/10/18 12:50 AM |
| 5 | On Biblical Justice and RapeNon sequiturs and straw men don’t inspire a tremendous amount of confidence that you are genuinely interested in a dialogue, nonetheless do you have a specific question that you want answered or is this just you spending your afternoon shaking your fist at a god you don’t believe exists? | /r/RPChristians | 10/10/18 12:39 AM |
| 5 | On Biblical Justice and RapeThere are some easy solutions at hand. I am a big believer in empowering women... with firearms. Armed women aren’t typically rape victims. | /r/RPChristians | 09/10/18 04:14 AM |
| 3 | On Biblical Justice and RapeWhy? | /r/RPChristians | 09/10/18 02:18 AM |
| 3 | My Intro.Welcome. Why don't you deadlift? For scripture memorization I highly recommend the ScriptureTyper app. I am a big fan of flashcards, but this app is on another level. I think I got the paid version awhile back, but the free version had all of the important features. Check it out. I too had a Catholic girlfriend before I met and married my wife. We dated for about four years before I broke it off. If she isn't going to convert, save yourself the heartache and move on sooner rather than later. I a… | /r/RPChristians | 09/10/18 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionExactly. Also, nice username 👍 | /r/RPChristians | 08/10/18 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionI don’t think Jesus expects men to lift weights. I do think he expects men to be strong physically and weights are one way to effectively accomplish that. The church is comfortable if we limit the command to be strong to mental or spiritual strength, but skittish about the idea that physical strength is included as well. Well, God created men as physical beings intentional and gave us a physical mission (subdue the earth). The new heavens and new earth are physical and we will be resurrected to … | /r/RPChristians | 04/10/18 02:58 AM |
| 2 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionCheck out this video: https://youtu.be/KyTAraGimfE The cable movement described at 5:00 was a game changer for me. I broke my shoulder earlier this year so I’ve had to play around a lot with different movements and this one seems to be a winner. | /r/RPChristians | 04/10/18 02:47 AM |
| 5 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionProbably pretty good considering he could endure a scourging and still haul a wood cross up a hill. | /r/RPChristians | 04/10/18 02:37 AM |
| 9 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionSolid, good stuff. The hour with the trainer can be very valuable, but it goes by fast and not all trainers are created equal. Don’t let them waste the time testing for imbalances or deficiencies; you’re untrained, you have tons of them and that’s fine. They will work themselves out over time and the ones that don’t will go beyond the scope of an hour session. IIWY I would ask them to teach you to deadlift, squat, and bench properly. Getting eyes on your form for those lifts early will be very v… | /r/RPChristians | 04/10/18 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionMy 1RMs are: Bench - 250lbs Deadlift - 375lbs (no belt, no gloves) Squat - 265lbs As you can see my squat is my weak point by far. I went for a long time without making progress due to poor form and lack of core strength. Now that I’ve sorted those out I am making steady progress, but I really want to get that well to at least 315lbs before the end of the year. Harder to do while cutting but doable. Also- I am curious what I can deadlift once I finally buy a belt and remember to bring my straps … | /r/RPChristians | 04/10/18 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionWhat program are you running? I started with 5x5 and kept with it through my rookie phase until I began to plateau. It’s a great starting point and helped me discover where I needed to increase or decrease volumes. I’ve been running Mike Matthew’s “Bigger, Leaner, Stronger” 5 day/week program with some slight variation in specific lifts and volumes. Each day is built around at least one major compound movement with some accessory work thrown in. The gist is: Day 1 - Bench Day 2 - OHP Day 3 - Dea… | /r/RPChristians | 04/10/18 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionGod, in at least those three places, clearly commands men to be strong. I’m no scholar, but I believe that means that men should strive to be strong. Turns out deadlifts and squats are an efficient way to be obedient to that call. | /r/RPChristians | 04/10/18 12:17 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (10/03/18)Ask them if they will honor the $0 sign up. Just explain to them that you missed it but wanted to. They may still honor it. I’ve found the Y is pretty flexible with such things. | /r/RPChristians | 03/10/18 11:54 PM |
| 5 | Lifting Is Not A SuggestionThe wild part to me is the need for redundancy. You’d imagine that by now more people would get the message. | /r/RPChristians | 03/10/18 08:44 PM |
| 3 | Oh the irony...MFW | /r/RPChristians | 03/10/18 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Oh the irony...Wow. That’s insane. “In his heart, ‘coincidence!’ cries the fool.” | /r/RPChristians | 03/10/18 01:54 AM |
| 12 | Oh the irony...Sometimes God writes his story in such a way that it is nearly unbelievable. Reminds me of when Anthony Wiener blew the election for Hillary by sending pictures of his wiener. If a novelist wrote that story people would roll their eyes and say it's too far fetched. Reality really is stranger than fiction. | /r/RPChristians | 02/10/18 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Perceived Threats?One option to consider (besides just laughing it off as a pathetic "mate" guarding attempt) is to employ the Ben Franklin Effect. | /r/RPChristians | 02/10/18 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Perceived Threats?came in between she and I fast, shook my hand as hard as possible, pushed me off a bit and just started overly hugging/touching her Sounds like the guy is a beta orbiter faggot who isn't getting anywhere with her. Laugh it off. The guy sounds pitiful. Keep calm and carry on, as they say. | /r/RPChristians | 02/10/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Feminism changing the modern American woman?the American man is so ultra high status in these other countries that they are treated different This is a major contributing factor to this phenomenon. Women from poor countries contend with entirely different challenges than the women in developed countries. Imagine a woman in Mexico who has legitimate reason to fear that she or her offspring will one day lack healthcare, clothing, shelter, or food. Last I checked the average income in is around $5,000 to $9,000 USD per year. In comes the ave… | /r/RPChristians | 02/10/18 12:49 AM |
| 6 | Cut off my best friend/oneitis and now she's blowing up my phone. How should I handle this?Do you want to marry this girl? Like, u/Red_Curious goes on record often saying to "find a girl you can't help but want to sleep with" or something to that effect. Is she your girl to that end? | /r/RPChristians | 30/09/18 02:42 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/26/18)If it's okay, can I ask what kind of work you do? I won't go into much detail because it's a brand name company that is recognized, but I work as a director level supervisor of roughly 200 employees. I'm the youngest person I've met that does my job, so it paid to get an early start on college / my career. My wife works in medical as a dietitian so our salaries combined put us pretty squarely in the top 10% (at least by most stats that I've seen). What's been keeping you away from reading? Mostl… | /r/RPChristians | 28/09/18 11:10 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/26/18)OZ - OYS #1 28 y/o | 6'2" | 193lbs | ~14-15% BF | Deadlift 375lbs | Bench 250lbs | Squat 250lbs Physical Lifting [A] Broke my shoulder back at the beginning of the year and spent the next six months unable to perform most lifts. Once I was cleared to life I spent this summer bulking / rebuilding strength. I managed to get all my lifts back and broke my old PRs and am still progressing slowly but steadily. Diet [A+] I got up to ~200 lbs for the first time and ~16% BF. I am now cutting back to ~12… | /r/RPChristians | 28/09/18 08:44 PM |
| 12 | Kavanaugh - the loss of rationalityReddit is also being taken over by this femnist imperative. It's been taken over at least since the 2016 election run up, but truly even longer than that. The fact that The_Donald or TheRedPill have been allowed to continue in some capacity (even if permabanned from the front page or quarantined) is the only shocking thing here. I know this is a RPChristian forum and possibly political discussions don't belong While not a focus of the sub, sometimes political topics are unavoidable. This is one … | /r/RPChristians | 28/09/18 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Introducing Myselfit would be solely for very low rep ranges on the bigger lifts This is where a huge amount of your strength gains will come from. Bottom line is that dumbbells do not allow you to practice proper form for your most important and efficient building lifts (Deadlift, Squat, Bench, OHP) and waiting only delays you starting to create the correct muscle memory to perform the lifts under heavy load. Sure, it seems silly to pay for a gym to lift low weight at first, but access to the equipment to start … | /r/RPChristians | 27/09/18 02:54 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about Objectivism?Atheism aside, I'm generally a big fan of Rand and her philosophy. As a Christian there are obvious points of departure here and there, but there is much value in her writings (my wife is actually reading The Fountainhead right now). My issue ultimately is that for a woman obsessed with reason she fails to see how reasonable the idea of a creator God is. Perhaps it was her soviet style upbringing, but she seemed to be inconsistent in her rejection of God. | /r/RPChristians | 27/09/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Introducing MyselfFar less concerned about the stuttering than the lack of a real lifting program. Women can look beyond quirks like that if you have a high enough SMV (Do you think Mike Tyson struggled with attracting women?) What is your plan to get into a real gym and do actual lifting? | /r/RPChristians | 27/09/18 02:14 PM |
| 1 | FRs: Blue Pill Husbands Make Their Wives MiserableThe book: “No More Mr Nice Guy” | /r/RPChristians | 25/09/18 06:16 PM |
| 8 | Qualities to look for in the men you spend time withI tend to categorize the men in my life in roughly three buckets. 1) Patriarchs. These men meet most if not all the qualities you mention above. They are further along the path than I am. They are the men I emulate in many regards and strive to learn from. 2) Peers. Men who are in a similar life situation as me who share a mutual respect. These men are the men I go into “battle” with on the day to day as we each strive to build our lives. 3) Projects. These are men (or boys) who have both demons… | /r/RPChristians | 22/09/18 08:05 PM |
| 2 | She liked me the whole time!>Although she likes me, she says that she isn't ready for another relationship because she wanted to work on herself. Translation: She likes you enough to let you orbit while she waits for Chad. | /r/RPChristians | 22/09/18 04:06 AM |
| 3 | When is it time to date for me?Comments locked until you update your OP with your stats etc. per Rule 2 | /r/RPChristians | 20/09/18 04:04 AM |
| 2 | The frame of ChristSolid stuff, thanks for writing it up. | /r/RPChristians | 10/09/18 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Should a man be friends with women he doesn't intend to marry? Let's chat.Should a man be friends with women...? Well, no. That implies he is doing something wrong if he chooses not to have female friends. Can a man be friends with women...? Sure. He can. But... Is it desirable? Is it wise? Is it worth the time investment? Does it come with risk? Etc. There are many reasons why he wouldn’t want to. I am friends, more than just familiar but actually friends, with a few women beyond my wife. Most of them were already or have become friends with my wife by now. Still, I … | /r/RPChristians | 07/09/18 11:01 PM |
| 1 | New Here and Relieved to Find This SubWelcome. Stats: 26yo / barely lifted / 14% body fat / 6'2" / 168lb. Virgin. What are your specific plans to improve in this area? I once had very similar stats and I can tell you first hand that adding 30+lbs lifting will dramatically improve not only your game but your overall life. | /r/RPChristians | 05/09/18 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Field Report. I asked my wife to write an erotic fantasy story and she didn't, but something else unfolded instead.Bible: yes, Tulip guy Good man. Roughly a month a go, I asked the wife to write up an erotic story. I was admittedly skeptical of this when you originally posted the idea. Glad it turned out in a good, if not surprising, way. I am starting to wonder if her "story" had something to do with being hit on by a different guy and/or being seen in public. Maybe it just got her exploring some stuff and these feels came back to her, like this is possibly a repressed kink that has been resurfaced. AWALT. … | /r/RPChristians | 05/09/18 06:39 AM |
| 2 | Afraid to be alone | God is isolating meTwo years ago I went to this church cult in Maryland that claimed to have had a prophet. FTFY | /r/RPChristians | 03/09/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | How important is a woman's sexual past to you?Apparently this analogy sucks and I need to stop writing in the late hours of the night because the point keeps on getting missed. The point isn’t that there are few options. There are plenty of options around. What there aren’t many of are well adjusted hot virgins who are pining to marry a man so they can act out their nymphomaniacal desires on him. There is no abundance of that special sort of unicorn. That said, there are plenty of “pre-owned” options available, but if your standard is hot C… | /r/RPChristians | 31/08/18 07:51 PM |
| 2 | FRs: Blue Pill Husbands Make Their Wives MiserableAmen. It really is tragic how common this is. It really is something that the church needs to figure out. | /r/RPChristians | 31/08/18 07:01 PM |
| 2 | FRs: Blue Pill Husbands Make Their Wives MiserableI don’t talk about fight club with her. Not directly anyway. We do talk about general relationship theory though and she is keeps up with political / social commentary (Ben Shapiro, Jordan Peterson, Lauren Southern, etc) so she has learned some of the lingo that way. I think she described these guys as “weak beta makes” and “soy boys” when she brought it up. | /r/RPChristians | 31/08/18 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Married Man With Girl FriendsI'm late 30's, 185lbs 6'2" sub-10% bodyfat, 455DL, 225BP, 345SQ married 10+ years, 4 kids, high SMV with modeling experience in my 20's You have a very high SMV, how does your wife's SMV stack up? Even if she is a match, if she perceives herself as having lower SMV, it could just be mate guarding behavior kicking in. | /r/RPChristians | 31/08/18 07:51 AM |
| 3 | How important is a woman's sexual past to you?9) Virgins have their problems, but non-virgins unquestionable have more problems. It's relative. Given the choice, I would take a wife with a n-count who is an animal in bed than a virgin who is afraid of her own body and has been brainwashed for 18+ years into thinking sex is shameful. | /r/RPChristians | 31/08/18 07:45 AM |
| 6 | How important is a woman's sexual past to you?Or you just ask her like I did with the Christian women I dated. It's not a big deal. Your situation may be different, but in most cases such direct questioning will not yield a full answer, but a safe answer. It's a classic trap of trickle truth that even otherwise virtuous women often fall prey to. It's game theory. Option 1) Tell the entire truth and risk losing him. Option 2) Tell enough of the truth to be honest, but hamster-justify out of telling him the entire story so he doesn't run away… | /r/RPChristians | 31/08/18 07:42 AM |
| 2 | How important is a woman's sexual past to you?Notice in my analogy the car is actually perfectly fine other than it is missing a couple bells and whistles (seat warmers, MPG, etc) and has a broken radio. The primary issue the man in the analogy has is that the car is pre-owned. This is similar to where a lot of women are. They aren't fresh off the lot, and there is a certain subset of men who dismiss them as options. You're right though, the analogy breaks down; there are other possible options. Assuming you want an attractive wife, I think… | /r/RPChristians | 31/08/18 07:34 AM |
| 5 | How important is a woman's sexual past to you?Obsession with virginity in today’s landscape is ridiculous. It’s like we are living in a burnt over post-apocalyptic wasteland and a man comes across a car that actually has fuel and runs. He is excited but upon closer inspection realizes that the car is not brand new and has been previously owned and driven. He lists the faults: the car doesn’t get enough miles per gallon and he is worried about the damage the carbon emissions might do to the environment. Plus he finds that the seats don’t hav… | /r/RPChristians | 30/08/18 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Trimming Downdark beers I knew I liked you for a reason! | /r/RPChristians | 27/08/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Frame?Frame - The context in which something is perceived. A man's frame is his internal point of origin that defines how he perceives the world. If a man's perception of the world is determined by others' judgments, he is in their frame. If other people interact with the man on his terms according to his perceptions, then they operate within his frame. Maintaining frame is often cited as the most important aspect of Alpha behavior. Frame is more than just confidence. It is your perception of reality … | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/18 08:18 AM |
| 1 | If you knew then what you know now“If you knew then what you know now” what wisdom can you impart. I'd tell myself to read the rules of the sub before making low effort posts. "RULE 2. ALL posts asking for help with relationship issues must include the following: Stats: body fat, height, weight, lifts, etc. Reading: Which sidebar content you've read (RPC and/or MRP) Finances: Current job and income quality, future prospects, debt issues Spiritual: How mature you are, how often you pray, have quiet times, share your faith, memori… | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/18 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Question on priorities.“The maid who sweeps her kitchen is doing the will of God just as much as the monk who prays -- not because she may sing a Christian hymn as she sweeps but because God loves clean floors. The Christian shoemaker does his Christian duty not by putting little crosses on the shoes, but by making good shoes, because God is interested in good craftsmanship." - Luther God is glorified when his creatures “creature” well. While a Christian always lives Coram Deo, much of life is simply existing and a ma… | /r/RPChristians | 23/08/18 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Advice for a girlCultivate your hotness. If this guy is a Christian he will be looking to his future wife to be his sexual outlet. If you want to take that position, make sure you are up to the task of satisfying him sexually. You will be compared to other women. Is it fair? Perhaps not, but it is inevitable. More importantly, you will be compared to your own potential. Men are very flexible when it comes to finding women of varying shapes and sizes attractive. What quality self respecting men aren’t flexible ab… | /r/RPChristians | 15/08/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Strict Objectivism Necessitates RecalibrationLooks like someone’s been reading Rand. | /r/RPChristians | 13/08/18 10:38 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Duty Sex - Analyzing my mistakesI’m going to commit an act of MRP heresy here, but... Honestly I've long believed that the "always be initiating" mantra of MRP is low level play. It's a good place to start, but a stupid place to end. Gotta give her room to miss / chase you too once your SMV is in line. | /r/RPChristians | 13/08/18 02:36 AM |
| 4 | What has the church done to women?Without knowing more we are left to speculate, but here my take: the church does not do a good job promoting male strength and generally develops weak men. This lack of attractive alpha men in Denomination A was likely a major factor in what she did. She is attractive and knows it. She knows she has the SMV to get a highly attractive man. She looked around Denomination A and saw plenty of beta bucks options, but no one who gave her gina tingles. She either found more alpha guys in Denomination B… | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/18 08:53 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Duty Sex - Analyzing my mistakesGive it time. Sounds like you are on the right track in general and getting your body into shape. How is your style? Do you have an attractive profession / hobby / mission? If for some reason your wife left you tomorrow, do you have the game / looks / whatever to get laid within a week? If not she probably doesn’t see you as a sexually abundant person or feel much in the way of passive dread. | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you reconcile TRP with Christian values?Hey there, welcome. how can one believe in God if he built disloyalty, hypergamy, and greed (fixation on SMV, including wealth) into at least half of his creation? If I am not mistaken, one of the areas where Islam deviates from Christianity is that Islam does not have a doctrine of original sin. The Christian explanation of why God's creation has flaws (disloyalty, hypergamy, greed, etc) is because when mankind fell, every descendant of Adam has inherited a sinful fallen nature. Those negative … | /r/RPChristians | 10/08/18 07:41 AM |
| 4 | How do you remain or accept being Christian? And it turned into a ramble warningSo, tl;dr: how do you even believe in the new testament god in the first place? Nihilism or Theism. Take your pick. Theism it is. Okay, which religion is right? Simple. Humanity has a sin problem and Christianity alone provides a satisfactory answer to it. Every other faith fails to adequately solve this issue because every other faith is either inherently synergistic (we co-operate with God in our salvation) or humanistic (we save ourselves). Neither of these satisfy because if any of our salva… | /r/RPChristians | 10/08/18 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Introduction/AccountabilityIt’s called DOMS (delayed onset muscle soreness) and is totally normal. Leg day leads to the most soreness typically because 1) leg muscles are some of the largest in your body 2) they are often less trained than the rest of the body. The best thing you can do is keep lifting and working those muscles. As they develop and grow the post workout pain lessens substantially, often to the point of not noticing it. In the meantime, here are some ways to cope with DOMS. Eat plenty of protein Get full n… | /r/RPChristians | 09/08/18 04:47 PM |
| 3 | My testimony and RP-imonyGood stuff RC, thank you for sharing not only your story but your time with the men in this sub. | /r/RPChristians | 09/08/18 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Sex Addicted v. Sex Starved [MRP Draft]I feel you. I have a good half dozen or more posts in the works that simply need time. | /r/RPChristians | 09/08/18 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Introduction/AccountabilityWelcome. Your post is thoughtful and intelligently written, thank you for not victim puking a bunch of idiocy that looks like a 3rd grader wrote it. Lifts... Stick with the freaking program. I cannot stress this enough. 5x5 is where I started and while I've moved beyond it since, it will get you far along the path in short order. Here are a few tips that I wish I had known when I got started: Diet is everything. You can see gains in strength without controlling your diet, but you will never arri… | /r/RPChristians | 09/08/18 07:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you learn to truly let go of someone?6'5. 210lbs. 14% bodyfat. Bench: 235 DL:410 Squat: 315. Given your weight, height, and strength, you are probably a few BF% away from being a total lady magnet. Why are you even considering cashing in your chips for a either woman? If it isn't a "Hell yeah!" it's a "No" and the fact that you posted here in the first place means you know better. Now, how to get over a woman? Cut off 100% contact full cold turkey. Then let time do its thing. This method has never once failed me and I am better off… | /r/RPChristians | 09/08/18 07:01 AM |
| 3 | How do you learn to truly let go of someone?They say it's a sorry dog that won't wag its own tail :) I'm shamelessly stealing this. Never heard it before but I dig it. | /r/RPChristians | 09/08/18 06:55 AM |
| 1 | How do you learn to truly let go of someone?Sarah wound up not being a good wife I think you meant Rachel | /r/RPChristians | 09/08/18 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Forget about respecting your wife. Respect yourself.I just got back from a business trip where my boss made several self-deprecating comments about how his wife is actually the one in charge at home. My co-workers, of course, all chimed in with their agreement. The one lady among us doubled down and made a comment about how my wife's boss could beat him up. He agreed. I like my boss by and large but it was all I could do to not visibly cringe. | /r/RPChristians | 09/08/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Sex Addicted v. Sex Starved [MRP Draft]When I didn't need to bend to her will, she bent to mine - and she was happier for it. This one line is a ten ton hammer. If men in the church would embrace this, the entire world would shift. | /r/RPChristians | 09/08/18 06:42 AM |
| 5 | How do you reconcile TRP with Christian values?-MOD NOTE- Since the OPs question is more theoretical / theological in nature and not necessarily asking for advice for their own life situation, posting stats is not a requirement as they are not directly relevant or needed to answer the questions being asked. That said, I agree with you SIC- In general we need to re-examine how we enforce that rule | /r/RPChristians | 04/08/18 05:47 PM |
| 8 | The Proverbs 31 Woman In The Modern EraYou are so full of yourself and convinced you have it all figured out that you are blind to how pathetic and butthurt and whiney you come across. Just read how defensive your replies to this post have been; you can barely entertain the possibility that you have something to do with your predicament. Hell, maybe you’re right. Maybe all your hardware is 100% correct. But your software sucks and you won’t get anything done until you needs install something better. | /r/RPChristians | 03/08/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | A Christian understanding of attraction and the role it plays in marriageI was going to reply to you on that other thread but u/deep_strength did such a nice job here I am just going to second this post. | /r/RPChristians | 03/08/18 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Are you losing the things that made her want you in the first place?You’re missing the point brother. It’s not about what you do it’s about who you are.If who you are has fundamentally shifted (alpha to beta for example) you ought not be surprised when she starts treating you like a different person. It is all too common for interesting fun strong guys to become weak boring guys as their marriages go on. For a man’s own sake this is important to avoid. | /r/RPChristians | 02/08/18 08:04 PM |
| 2 | IntroductionSounds like the perfect place to start. Have you used the myFitnessPal app? If not, give it a try. I haven’t found an easier way to track it all, but it will make it very simple. Also, I’d recommend commuting to regular field reports or OYS reports like they do on MRP, that way you know your results or lack there of will be a matter of public record. Talk about motivating! | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Tell GF about porn relapse?Agreed. | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/18 11:22 PM |
| 14 | Tell GF about porn relapse?Don't. Just don't. Do you think it's wise to tell her? No. If she asks directly talk about it, otherwise it is between you, God, your pastor / accountability guys. Is communicating here worth burdening her with the knowledge? It isn't. Edit: Unless you have a full blown out of control addiction, then next her for her own health until you figure out why you suck so bad at self-control. | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/18 08:49 PM |
| 2 | IntroductionHey dude, quick response because I am about to head off to work but here goes: First of all, you are on the cusp of great things: you are tall (can't change that one, so you are blessed). your lifts are solid, if you dropped weight you'd probably look pretty awesome without doing much more than maintenance you have a high income in a stable field which automatically opens a whole world of opportunities that simply cost money you don't have any meaningful debt. That is a huge roadblock for many. … | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/18 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveFirst, it's important to note that I am not a father yet. Despite this, I have thought about this topic at length as I hope to have daughters some day and want to navigate this part of their upbringing with wisdom. If I do end up with daughters and they turn out anything like their mom, they will be lookers too and will likely have a lot of opportunity for unwise behavior. So in other words: I share your concern though at this point only theoretically. what do you recommend in the way of also tr… | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/18 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveCurious, was this in the south? I have found that in the PNW where I grew up, the homeschoolers are normally extremely, almost embarrassingly, more successful than their public or private school peers. Sure, they have an awkwardness to overcome when the enter the "real world" but once they adjust they tend to thrive. | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveIronically enough, this can play into the whole "bad boy that mom doesn't want me to date" thing and actually help attract young women. | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveAnyone ever been in a hispanic evangelical/pentecostal church? I haven't, but I am not surprised to hear that they promote women taking care of themselves. In several Latin American countries it is common culturally for it to be viewed as the women's job to keep their husband from straying. I believe it was Chile that I read that it is fairly common for young women to wear revealing clothes around their husbands in public, more to keep his eyes on her than to attract other men. Never visited the… | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 11:28 PM |
| 7 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveOne other final one that I have personally seen and heard many guys mention indirectly is the threat of the nuclear rejection in churches. Guys aren't let down easy these days if a girl rejects them. It is often nuclear and every girl in the church sees the rejection. Obviously this is the opposite of pre-selection, and other women that may have considered this guy that was rejected by one of them no longer consider him a viable date, even in the event his SMV is high enoug to secure a date with… | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveYeah. I've visited a couple times and that was enough for me. I generally advise people get out of cities like that, but if I had to stay for some reason I would probably approach the SMP this way: 1) Find a megachurch/parachurch organization that has all the usual bells and whistles of attractional ministry. These ministries tend to attract fairly high SMV women compared to other ministries. This "gateway" effect between culture and church comes with dangers, but can be promising. 2) Get involv… | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractivePrecisely. | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveBear in mind that increasing SMV is not a linear function. Moving from a 1 to a 5 is easier than moving from a 5 to a 7, which is easier than moving from a 7 to an 8. Going from 8 to 9 takes astronomical effort and in some cases would likely include surgery or something. Unless a woman has unusually unattractive facial features, most young women can get to a 7 with proper diet, exercise, and grooming. Further, many women who should be 7’s are 5’s because of poor dress, unhealthy living, or bad h… | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 10:44 PM |
| 3 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveMy personal experience and time as a college admin has probably made me jaded though, because when we would go out recruiting many girls stated their after high school plan was to get married so they didn't have to get a job. So if I see an attractive girl getting married young nowadays I suspect she's using the guy as a free ride. I actually think I'd prefer a society where young attractive women skipped college (and the CC) in favor of getting married young and starting a family. Getting a "fr… | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveIf the Church had the monopoly on strong, manly men, even non-Christian women would be falling over themselves to date Christian men. A very important point I wish the men in church worldwide would wake up to. I disagree with /u/OsmiumZulu that it depends on how a woman sees Jesus. It doesn't manner if she sees Jesus as some wimpy dude carrying lambs. Her hypergamy will always be attracted to strong, masculine men. The point I am making is that strong masculine men do not worship or live their l… | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveYour assumptions are too broad here. Yes, they are. This would be correct, IF it were a closed market. However, it's not a closed market because a Christian woman can just walk out of the Church and see an attractive non-Christian man and think to herself, "well, maybe he'll come to Christ if I missionary date him." Correct. Christian women aren't operating in a truly closed system. That said, I believe the stigmas associated with dating non-Christians are still strong enough in most conservativ… | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveHypergamy operates within the bounds of a given sexual marketplace. Jesus is not engaged in the SMP and thus does not distort it. Not sure if that answers your question. Did you mean, "What effect does being a Christian have on a woman's hypergamy?" | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveA lot of them just stop attending church in their 20's when they hit their peak attractiveness I think answering "Why?" this is explains a lot. A young pretty woman grows up in church, her beauty growing with each passing year. The young men in church take notice of her and attempt to "nice" their way into her heart. Those young men serving her every whim makes sense to her. After all, her father worships and serves her mother the same way. In other words, I think a large part of the reason why … | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 07:27 PM |
| 4 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveThat article is... fascinating. It is to our great shame that a secular man has a better handle on gender dynamics than most pastors, even in the conservative wings of the church. Thanks for linking it. | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 07:05 PM |
| 7 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveThis. Simply allowing depictions of "sissy Jesus" to dominate Christian art has served to erode masculinity within the church to a degree that I think would shock us. | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 07:01 PM |
| 5 | Theory: Why The Average Christian Woman Is UnattractiveI think there may be something to what you are saying, but it depends on how the woman views Jesus. If she views Jesus primarily as some queer looking guy who walks around carrying lambs, her view of men who submit to queer Jesus will rightly be diminished in terms of their "alpha" status. On the other hand, if her theological head is on straight and she recognizes that Jesus is a sin conquering king who reigns over the world from the throne room of heaven, is bringing the nations into submissio… | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with anger against feminism and the downfall of modern society?Fight back. | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Church DisciplineAs we've moved around, my wife and I have intentionally attended reformed churches that practice church discipline. That said, there have been very few instances of church discipline that we've seen move beyond the "confront with witnesses" stage. Only two come to mind. Both instances were men, but I do not doubt that the pastors would have taken the same steps with women if the genders were reversed. I do think there is an inequity though. "Male" sins are much more prominently discussed than th… | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 03:29 AM |
| 5 | Church Discipline“If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. - Matthew 18:15-17 The church is to be informed of the si… | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Unrealistic expectationsMy wife is a registered dietician and deals with this issue with her clients on the daily basis. She and I both workout regularly and have a good handle on our fitness. Energy balance is the chief factor in weight gain and loss. Are there other influences? Certainly. But many of those (such as the stress, hormonal issues, and microbial issues you mentioned) are very much within our control to manage. Most people don’t want to hear that though. They want things to be out of their control so that … | /r/RPChristians | 27/07/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Unrealistic expectationsIf she is going to the gym and still gaining wait she is doing it wrong and you should help her fix her approach. Unless she has some relatively rare hormonal issues or something like that, her issue is energy balance (calories in vs calories spent). Becoming overweight is a very common issue because not understanding physiology, being lazy, and over eating are all very common. It isn’t like there is some unknown magic that just happens to us; there are mechanisms involved that can be understood… | /r/RPChristians | 27/07/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Unrealistic expectationsThis | /r/RPChristians | 27/07/18 05:44 PM |
| 5 | The "Men Prefer" ControversyTypically they are found deeply embedded in small conservative churches / Christian communities. They come with their own baggage (sexual reservations, naivety, or other similar hang ups), but welcome to fallen humanity. The good news is that these girls often have men in their life (fathers, brothers, pastors, etc) who want them to find and marry a solid man they can be proud to endorse. Thus, a good strategy can be to befriend and win over the older and influential men in the church and someti… | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/18 10:51 PM |
| 2 | The "Men Prefer" Controversy“For in much wisdom is much vexation, and he who increases knowledge increases sorrow.” Ecclesiastes 1:18 ESV It can be hard to see the truth plainly when others cannot see what is right in front of them at all. I can attest firsthand though that not all is lost and that wife worthy women, while rare, can still be found. Now go grab a handful of red pills and pass them out. | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/18 10:42 PM |
| 4 | I am attempting to "jump start" my wives sexual creativityMod note: Rule 2 people. It’s there for a reason. Now... Repeat after me: ”Desire cannot be negotiated”” This is a time proven red pill axiom for a reason. While you aren’t directly trying to talk her into desiring you more, you are using a gimmick to try and spark up your wife’s sexual desire. Consider this: “Hey hon, I know I don’t make your panties wet. So how about you dwell on someone who does get your last boner up, project my face onto them, and cultivate a fantasy where you get plowed by… | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | The "Men Prefer" ControversyThanks for sharing | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/18 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Trying to create a “Look”Read this: https://www.joshuakennon.com/mental-model-signaling-theory/ A few of my interests include: Church Growing a beard (fairly new) Marketing Video and board games Sports (my favorite to play is ultimate frisbee) I have a few watches that I like too ...there is a notable lack of lifting heavy objects on this list... | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/18 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Paradox of MarriageFor the single guys, if you are having issues with this already, next and move on. | /r/RPChristians | 24/07/18 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Paradox of Marriageno means of enforcing consequences in the face of the other party rejecting said leadership. This is why dread is so important. Even non-sexual dread. Remember, it is textbook RP / biology that women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment / relationship. If your woman is not following your leadership or disrespecting you, you can withdraw your attention (aka: commitment) from the relationship and focus on other things. If that doesn't feel like a loss to her, you ha… | /r/RPChristians | 24/07/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Ditching the "Honey Do" ListIf you have enough free time doing unproductive stuff that your wife feels like she can give you chores to do, you're doing it wrong. | /r/RPChristians | 24/07/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Embarrassed and unsureDon't overthink the wet dream thing. That's your body working as intended. God's law even addresses this to an extent: “If a man has an emission of semen, he shall bathe his whole body in water and be unclean until the evening. And every garment and every skin on which the semen comes shall be washed with water and be unclean until the evening. If a man lies with a woman and has an emission of semen, both of them shall bathe themselves in water and be unclean until the evening." - Leviticus 15:1… | /r/RPChristians | 24/07/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with anger against feminism and the downfall of modern society?“Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger” - Ephesians 4:26 Anger is fuel. Expend it on useful things then sleep. Rinse, repeat. | /r/RPChristians | 19/07/18 10:43 PM |
| 5 | Wish I didn’t say anything at all...The advice already offered here is solid. I hope you have found some solace and things to consider for future events. That said, this post is off topic for this sub and probably belongs over at r/truechristian. Going to leave it alone so others can interact as they choose, but too many off topic posts will eventually dilute the focus of a sub. | /r/RPChristians | 19/07/18 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Obedience to him is not an economy, but...Good stuff, thanks for sharing. As for the fantasy and desire for a one night stand itself, I am fairly certain that most men are more tempted to know that they could have extramarital sex than actually having it. This seems especially true of men who were virgins upon marriage. In other words, those nagging doubts and thoughts wondering “do I have what it takes to seduce a woman other than my wife”, “do I have what it takes to be Chad?”, or “Is my wife truly my only option?” manifest in this fa… | /r/RPChristians | 19/07/18 01:40 AM |
| 4 | Obedience to him is not an economy, but...Pft, It does if you’re gangsta Karma Farma’ | /r/RPChristians | 19/07/18 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Biblical textual analysis of why Adam had headship before the fallOh I have plenty of comments on that quote, but I am far more interested in the theology behind your objections. Do you have an issue with my example of headship posted above or not? | /r/RPChristians | 13/07/18 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Biblical textual analysis of why Adam had headship before the fallWe've discussed this at length already, but I strongly believe you are conflating being "responsible" for a problem with being the "cause" of it. If you have a kid and they smash the neighbor's window, you aren't the cause of the problem, but you are responsible for it because, like it or not, they are under your dominion. The same exact concept applies to your wife. I just really don't see why this concept is so repulsive or difficult for you, it's pretty basic. u/Red-Curious, u/rocknrollchuck,… | /r/RPChristians | 13/07/18 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Biblical textual analysis of why Adam had headship before the fallI think we need to be careful of reading too far into the story Amen. Too often otherwise careful exegetes will eisegesis the stuffing out of the first couple chapters of Genesis, importing all kinds of moralizing into it. | /r/RPChristians | 13/07/18 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Small IntroWelcome. Thanks for introducing yourself and including your stats. still removing unholy music Care to expand on that? How to keep strong faith? Know your theology. To their detriment, many people downplay the importance of an intellectual understanding of scripture and elevate feeling their faith. Experiencing Christ's love is vital, but feelings are subjective and often change. God's truth is concrete and does not change. Anchor your faith in that and you will be able to hold fast. Where to st… | /r/RPChristians | 13/07/18 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Biblical textual analysis of why Adam had headship before the fallI know we’ve discussed this before and I’m behind in responding to some comment threads, but to be clear the idea of covenant Headship far predates Doug Wilson and can be found in the writings of the puritans, reformers, and early church fathers. Just a point of clarification, carry on. | /r/RPChristians | 13/07/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | TheRedPill is FeministI used to feel almost identically. The big question though is when you “when it happens” what is the “it” that we are to be anticipating? Each of the three major eschatological camps will answer that question differently and that answer greatly informs what we are to be focusing on during the course of our lives. Your comment above that sparked my question largely assumes pre-millennialism / tribulation as a given, whereas I think there is a strong biblical case to be made that much of the end t… | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | should I call it quits with this girlRead the title: answer yes. Didn't read anything else here and don't need to. | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/18 07:27 AM |
| 0 | TheRedPill is FeministCurious, have you looked into postmillenial eschatology / preterism? | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/18 07:13 AM |
| 0 | RP Christians Sidebar "Handbook" (Download Links)Now THIS is a solid community contribution that adds real value. Well done and thank you for taking the time to do this. | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/18 07:11 AM |
| 1 | [NSFW] Sexual Techniques, Strategies, and GamesNoted. If I can find some time to do some writing I'll see what I can cook up on the matter. | /r/RPChristians | 10/07/18 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Sex god method... RPC Perspective?I am of the persuasion that we need to be clear in discerning the different categories of these “derogatory” words. Obscenity is different than cursing which is different than profanity Profane: adjective characterized by irreverence or contempt for God or sacred principles or things; irreligious So yelling out, “Jesus Christ!” when someone cuts you off in traffic, or saying, “Holy s***” could be examples of profanity; treating Holy things as common or contemptible. Curse noun the expression of … | /r/RPChristians | 09/07/18 06:32 PM |
| 2 | There are no women watchingSo if we, men, all solely blame women for feminism, which is what I am suggesting, would that be considered "men burdened with providing the solution"? If so, then we agree (and can we please stop these word games already?) We do agree. It has taken a stupid amount of time and essay writing to convince you of that though, which is why these “word games” are important. You have a tendency toward friendly fire. Rather than shoot first, determine if they are enemies later, try discerning your audie… | /r/RPChristians | 05/07/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | There are no women watchingEven in Dalrock’s post you linked, men are the ones burdened with providing the solution (in his case slut shaming). How are you not getting this? Edit: Also, you are conflating the burden of solution with causing the situation. You don’t seem to understand that woman can be responsible for the sin of feminism while men are the only ones capable of solving it. Saying, “Hey men, do your part to fix the mess women made” is different than saying, “You made this mess now fix it.” Edit edit: If you s… | /r/RPChristians | 05/07/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | There are no women watchingGreat post. Too bad it isn’t related to anything I just posted as is typical of your responses. Care to try and address what I actually wrote? | /r/RPChristians | 05/07/18 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Understanding The Outliers?100%. For once I think I am in full agreement with you lol. Really though, I think you’ve done a good job describing a difficult thing to put to words. | /r/RPChristians | 05/07/18 03:28 AM |
| 6 | Understanding The Outliers?What brought you to the RP end of the internet in the first place? From the sounds of it, your wife is content with the status quo but you felt something missing (a fairly normative experience) and wanted more frequent (and likely higher quality) sex. How hot is your wife in terms of SMV? I get that complete impartiality is impossible, but take a swing. My experience has been that women who are more attractive tend do exhibit more of the typical AWALT behaviors because they perceive (rightly or … | /r/RPChristians | 05/07/18 12:14 AM |
| 4 | What if all you ever did was fail in life.So you are a stick figure who wonders why women aren’t interested in him. It’s like you wonder why you suck as a lifeguard but don’t do the whole “swimming” thing. Go read the side bar. Learn why lifting is essential. Then read more until it finally sinks in that reality doesn’t bend around your preferences. I am locking comments down so no one wastes any more time on someone so disinterested in helping themselves. | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | I’m fairly new to redpill, but with my Christian beliefs I don’t fully trust redpill.Well, yeah. Many of the "secular game techniques" are targeted toward increasing promiscuity in women who are already down to have sex outside of marriage. That's not Christian women. AWALT man. Sure, many women, especially devout Christian women, have much higher moral barriers to overcome before acting on their biological impulses, but nonetheless will be tempted and act on that temptation if presented with an opportunity to engage in sexual activity with a high status man. This is just part o… | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/18 07:25 AM |
| 3 | What if all you ever did was fail in life.9.9% body fat...run every day have a 6 pack You said in your other post you were 5'5" too. So what do you weigh and how much do you bench / squat / deadlift? | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/18 06:57 AM |
| 1 | There are no women watchingSo your solution is for pastors (men) to start telling wives to start listening to their husbands (men). You’re absolutely right. Stop and think about that though. Where does the initiative lie? Men (pastors) have to act. Women have to respond true, but imagine they did and started looking to their husbands (men) for leadership. Would that be enough? No. The husbands then have to lead. This is the crux of the issue. Yes. Women must repent. They will not do so without men taking initiative from t… | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/18 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Are Christian events a bad date idea...why?I’ve read plenty of TRP, this is far below even that advise. I’m not even talking about the ethical concerns, this advise isn’t even effective for getting laid at all. | /r/RPChristians | 03/07/18 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Are Christian events a bad date idea...why?Uh, lots could be said but... "you need to get her out as fast as you can to keep the momentum going" Yup, let's just project desperate rapey vibes because reasons. "Don't take her out to parties, or other guys will try to sleep with her, hit on her, or get drunk and spill all of your secrets" ...said the low SMV beta who is so mentally self defeated that Chad already has him running scared. "You need to have a sexual edge, otherwise you will get friend zoned" ...would you want to eventually may… | /r/RPChristians | 03/07/18 01:18 AM |
| 2 | There are no women watchingIf there's one thing pastors should be yelling at men for, it's for having feminist and chivalric sympathies. That is literally the point I was making. Thanks? Sure you can make it easier for her by making her wet, which is as good as papering over the cracks. This has nothing at all to do with my post... Her repentance is the real solution. Again, that is the exact point I was making. pastors should blame weakfeminist men Feminist men are weak... which was my very point... It has nothing to do … | /r/RPChristians | 03/07/18 01:10 AM |
| 3 | There are no women watchingFound some time to respond. You’ve brought up several matters, each independent of another enough to warrant separate responses. Issue #1 - The Headship of Christ I want to address this issue as an aside, independent of Redpill, feminism, man-hating, etc. In response to my question: Do you believe Christ volunteered to take responsibility for dealing with his people’s sin? You quoted Luke 22 then stated: He was obeying His Father’s will... if you are implying Christ is responsible for His people… | /r/RPChristians | 02/07/18 10:54 PM |
| 2 | There are no women watchingI don’t have time today to write much, but here are two quick questions: 1) Do you believe Christ volunteered to take responsibility for dealing with his people’s sin? 2) Could the current matriarchy mode of churchianity be possible if men didn’t allow it to exist? | /r/RPChristians | 02/07/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Preachers your listen toNo doubt he is well regarded for many good reasons. That said, I think he is rather highly over-rated and the things he seems to have garnered the most fame from are areas of tacit compromise (gender roles in the church, homosexuality, race, and marriage). | /r/RPChristians | 25/06/18 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Preachers your listen toDr. James R. White is incredible in the area of Apologetics. He does some sermons, but a ton of his work is debating interfaith issues. | /r/RPChristians | 25/06/18 03:56 AM |
| 6 | Preachers your listen toExcept he basically allows his wife to be an "unofficial" pastorette in his church. Kind of a major turn off and undermines his credibility to be honest. | /r/RPChristians | 25/06/18 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Preachers your listen toI would largely agree. There is much I appreciate about Matt Chandler, but he is rather soft on social and gender issues. | /r/RPChristians | 25/06/18 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Aaaquad introduction, stats, and brief RP journey 6.18.2018Do you even lif-- wait, what? Someone actually started a Field Report with their stats? Well done sir | /r/RPChristians | 23/06/18 03:43 AM |
| -1 | New SBC President JD Greear Urges Evangelical Men to Apologize to Hurt Christian Women for 'Toxic Church Culture'Agreed. Vague statements serve no purpose. It's not specific and groveling enough to appease the SJWs and not precise enough to actually point out real sins. No one is made happy. | /r/RPChristians | 23/06/18 03:40 AM |
| -1 | New SBC President JD Greear Urges Evangelical Men to Apologize to Hurt Christian Women for 'Toxic Church Culture'Unfortunately I do think we will see some sort of "we're sorry for being white, please forgive us" in the future of the SBC. It seems like manufacturing guilt is very "in" right now. | /r/RPChristians | 23/06/18 03:38 AM |
| 2 | 203 - Lifting and Diet (Redux)Thanks for the advice, it is very helpful. As far as eating more I have been aiming for around 3,000 calories (about 1g pro / lbs bw, 2g carb / lbs bw, 0.4g fat / lbs bw) and have realized I truly wasn’t eating enough before. Any favorite high carb / high protein meals or snacks? | /r/RPChristians | 22/06/18 07:42 PM |
| 2 | 203 - Lifting and Diet (Redux)Awesome update! Thanks for writing this up. Curious, at what point do you recommend switching from strength building to hypertrophy? The idea that hypertrophic training at low weight is not very beneficial makes sense, but I’ve yet to see any unambiguous guidance as to how heavy is heavy enough once you’ve trained up your strength. Before my injury I was heavily focused on strength gains and hadn’t made the switch yet. Now that I am released to lift again I am focused on getting back to where I … | /r/RPChristians | 21/06/18 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Pre-Marital SexSex =\= marriage, sex + covenant = marriage. Don’t have more time to elaborate, but just consider the stories of Tamar, Dina, and Samson and the prostitute to see that each instance involves sex, but no covenant and thus no marriage. | /r/RPChristians | 19/06/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | [Theory] Evangedating (AKA: Missional Dating)I think this is a bit off topic actually. No one here is suggesting a Christian marry a “foreign woman” (non-believer) like Solomon did. What is being suggested is more of a Ruth / Rahab situation where a “foreign woman” joins God’s people and then marries. What I am specifically challenging is the idea that going on dates with unbelievers is always to be avoided. | /r/RPChristians | 18/06/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | [Theory] Evangedating (AKA: Missional Dating)Right, but then again you also never know the condition of the heart of a born and raised church girl either. People are all flawed that way, and any marital decision will be an act of faith. It isn’t a matter of, “this is risky” and “X isn’t” but a weighing of which risk to take. Granted, this method typically bears more risk. Also, yes, women take on the frame of the man they are attracted to / committed to (assuming the man has a stronger frame). But we have to see that as a design feature, n… | /r/RPChristians | 18/06/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | [Theory] Evangedating (AKA: Missional Dating)No disagreement here. I’d say this strategy is inherently very risky and that few men ought attempt it. | /r/RPChristians | 18/06/18 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Was hit hard with some realizations, need inputTo suggest interchangeability of function does not imply interchangeability of person. My wife is unique. I find her, as a person, to be incredibly compelling. That said, the functions she performs in our marriage, apart from sex, could be outsourced (even while remaining married I might add). Think about it. A man who needs help cooking or cleaning can hire a maid or chef. A man who needs intimate companionship can find it friends. There is an entire world of people and market of services to he… | /r/RPChristians | 18/06/18 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Bad day at workI keep hard work stuff to myself unless it directly impacts her (paycheck issues, job loss, location transfers, etc) Bring up bad days at work with her accomplishes nothing and isn’t solution oriented. Worse, whether you intended to or not, it burdens her with “weight” that is not hers to bear, but mine. She cannot help but try to help, which unless she actually can, is wasted effort on her part. If you are serious about OYS, then OYS; don’t shift part of the burden to her and expect a carefree … | /r/RPChristians | 17/06/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Suitable Mates in ChurchUh, large lips and big butts (favorable hip to waist ratio) are consistently shown in studies to be attractive qualities across times and cultures. There is a reason the instagram model type is popular; it exemplifies qualities that have broad sexual appeal. Our ancestors tended to be more into that body types (strong indicators of fertility) than you are suggesting. “The powers that be” don’t have to push beauty propaganda to get us to find that body type attractive. If anything, TPTB are pushi… | /r/RPChristians | 17/06/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Suitable Mates in ChurchI’m curious, how do you define sigma? | /r/RPChristians | 17/06/18 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Was hit hard with some realizations, need inputWhat u/Red-Curious posted is spot on. And no, obviously not. Is gas more important than oil in an engine? You need both or it doesn’t work. Sexual attraction to your wife, your sexual outlet, is paramount. Her having genuine faith is paramount. One without the other is a recipe for future disaster. | /r/RPChristians | 17/06/18 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Was hit hard with some realizations, need inputYour descriptions don’t seem to indicate you are that sexually attracted to her, so why pursue this further? If you are only going to get sex from a future wife, then finding a wife who can scratch that itch well is worthwhile | /r/RPChristians | 16/06/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Was hit hard with some realizations, need inputIf it’s not a “Hell yes!” It’s a no | /r/RPChristians | 16/06/18 06:26 PM |
| 2 | EC on TRP explains why making sex your god failsAh sosuave. So much good old content there. I remember first coming across that site back in highschool. Reading Pook and Señor Fingers Weapons Of Mass Seduction had significant impact on my life and introducing me to the "RP" before there was such a thing. | /r/RPChristians | 16/06/18 05:06 AM |
| 1 | EC on TRP explains why making sex your god failsRight (to a point). Hot women will sleep with physically unattractive men if the guy is alpha enough / runs really right game (rsdtyler for example). It's not even that rare of a phenomenon and each of us can probably think of at least some example of this in our own lives. That said, have a top 10-20% physical appearance is like playing The Game(tm) with cheat codes. The amount of effort to get 90% of the way there with women is dramatically reduced for the extremely attractive male. A 6'7" ath… | /r/RPChristians | 16/06/18 05:02 AM |
| 1 | EC on TRP explains why making sex your god fails100%. Thought similar things reading that earlier today. | /r/RPChristians | 15/06/18 05:51 AM |
| 1 | [Theory] Evangedating (AKA: Missional Dating)Agreed all around. I think the majority of Christian men should avoid this strategy. I just wouldn’t be dogmatic about saying every Christian man should avoid it. RP is all about adding tools to the belt. Doesn’t mean every tool is worth using or always safe to use. | /r/RPChristians | 15/06/18 05:43 AM |
| 3 | RPC approach to dealing with Body Dysmorphia and other psychological insecurities?Dude, do you think Jason Statham, The Rock, Von Diesel, or Bruce Willis get knocked down a peg due to their lack of hair? No way. I have met women who, to quote one, find them “yummy” and get all worked up just thinking about them. I am losing my hair. I just cut it shorter than I ever have, and have been getting awesome feedback because I love the way I look and own it. The few nay sayers? I just ignore them or thank them for their opinion and move on. Trust me. No one gives even a hundredth of… | /r/RPChristians | 15/06/18 01:21 AM |
| 3 | [Theory] Evangedating (AKA: Missional Dating)So don’t marry her if she doesn’t become a Christian? Date is the key term here. No one is suggesting you get hitched or go exclusive with some pagan thot. That said, God’s people intermarried with foreign converts throughout scripture, including members of the messianic line (ex: Ruth and Rahab). Edit: Additionally, taking the gods of the women is the weakest beta frame ever. | /r/RPChristians | 14/06/18 05:28 PM |
| 3 | [Theory] Evangedating (AKA: Missional Dating)The key is to get to her before she has had those wild party years. I have little doubt that my wife would have been caught up in the mess and walked a very different path if she had already gone to college before we met. Fortunately she had delayed doing so for a few reasons and by and large avoided the CC. | /r/RPChristians | 14/06/18 03:47 PM |
| 2 | [Theory] Evangedating (AKA: Missional Dating)Fair enough. Updated the post. | /r/RPChristians | 14/06/18 03:42 PM |
| 3 | [Theory] Evangedating (AKA: Missional Dating)No doubt. The trouble is the can be part. I’ve known and heard of many men who marry such a woman and the woman, while a great wife in many respects, is a terrible lover who can’t get out of their head about sex being just too carnal. But your point remains for those who willing to assume that risk. I personally wasn’t. I can make do, go without, or outsource, just about any domestic widely duty apart from sex, so I placed a high premium on the sexual / “lover” aspect while looking for a wife. N… | /r/RPChristians | 14/06/18 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Suitable Mates in ChurchSolid stats brother. Keep up the good work! Check out this article over at The Family Alpha. It addresses having standards and (spoiler) concludes they are well worth maintaining. Anyhow, I digress. Regarding physical appearance inside and outside the church My wife and I have moved several times in the past several years. On top of that, we've done a lot of vacation related travel both domestically and abroad. We've come to find that certain areas (especially those that tend to be either conser… | /r/RPChristians | 14/06/18 08:12 AM |
| 7 | 27/m virgin, want to lose itShe was bouncing her head on my cock in no time Curious, what boundaries do you hold to? Is it just PiV penetration or is there more to it than that? | /r/RPChristians | 07/06/18 07:32 PM |
| 4 | I need advice, good experienced Christian masculine advice.You wouldn’t be posting here if unless somewhere you knew that this girl is trouble based on the red flags described. I would next. If it’s not a “Hell yeah!”, it’s a no. | /r/RPChristians | 07/06/18 03:18 PM |
| 2 | What is the problem with porn?Well, it’s an interesting theory, but I think it is sorely lacking. I think the author of the article’s attempts to sanitize the “scandal” of the book is naive at best. The author suggests that Song 2:6, “His left hand is under my head, and his right hand embraces me!” refers to the Shepherd she is betrothed to, not Solomon. Even if that were the case we run into issues. First of all, the language there is erotic in nature. Think about the position being described. Further, in the same section w… | /r/RPChristians | 07/06/18 01:25 AM |
| 1 | What is the problem with porn?I am not disagreeing with you of what you've written, though I think it is more complex than that. The timeline in SoS is a matter of debate. For example, despite all the vivid description of sexual activity earlier in the book, at the very end in SoS 8:8-9 we read the woman's brothers say: "We have a little sister, and she has no breasts. What shall we do for our sister on the day when she is spoken for? If she is a wall, we will build on her a battlement of silver, but if she is a door, we wil… | /r/RPChristians | 06/06/18 12:59 AM |
| 3 | May her breasts satisfy you always...Part of me wishes that God had ordained a system much like the "French Model" where a man has his wife, and he has his mistress. What if he did with the OT patriarchs? After all, what is a concubine? Not suggesting that polygamy is the standard, but I think this question gets glossed over too quickly and without critical examination. I get what you are saying. My wife is ridiculously attractive and fantastic in bed. In fact, the only complaint I can level against her sexually is that she doesn't… | /r/RPChristians | 05/06/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | What is the problem with porn?Please use biblical principles and logic to justify your answer. Curious, at what point in the SoS do you see them being married? I've heard several different answers on the matter and am curious what yours would be. | /r/RPChristians | 05/06/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Expressing our Flaws With Strength and HumilitySomeone made a post here recently about breaking bones (!!!) and forcing himself to joke about it and how much women liked him for it. (I thought it was ridiculous) Hey Whit, that was my post and I think you missed what I was saying there. I didn't force myself to joke about it, but rather I truly found elements of the experience humorous. All hardship comes with attendant silver-lining. What we focus on is a choice. The point of my post is that the strong choice is to focus on the positives. I'… | /r/RPChristians | 05/06/18 09:51 PM |
| 7 | [NSFW] Sexual Techniques, Strategies, and GamesHey Whitified, I think I get what you are getting at. I don't disagree that this sort of thing can be awful spergy, but I'll take what chance I can to help out the random lurker who is otherwise left with turning to the useless counter-productive content found out there in Churchianity. | /r/RPChristians | 05/06/18 09:44 PM |
| 7 | [NSFW] Sexual Techniques, Strategies, and GamesLet's see... Sex on a mountaintop Go hiking. Get naked. Get frisky. 'Nuff said. Road trip teasing I drive when we road trip. Sometimes when she gets horny she starts fondling me and teasing me. This tends to end up with me pulling off to some secluded road and screwing like teenagers in the back seat. Sometimes I initiate by touching her while driving. Post workout pump I'm sure I'm not the only guy who gets horny after a heavy lifting session and wants to go full cave man. She loves it when I a… | /r/RPChristians | 05/06/18 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Expectations towards / tasks for a wifeJesus loves his church conditioned on His own righteous obedience imputed to his people. This is far from “unconditional” love. More precise would be that Jesus loves his church without the condition of our obedience or good works. At the same time, he doesn’t bend an inch in his expectations for the church. If anything, his expectations rise for his people. After all, judgement begins at the house of the Lord (1 Peter 4:17). So no, we ought not drop our expectations upon marriage. Does that mea… | /r/RPChristians | 17/05/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on "Intended for Pleasure" by Ed Wheat?Yeah, you won't get Christian sex ed from that book. I am struggling to think of one that I'd actually recommend. Thing is, most Christians have a very limited view of what women are sexually capable of that my fear is that she will likely adopt a similar limited belief if she reads too much in that area. I can't say I'd give the church high marks when it comes to figuring out how the body works sexually. Sadly I found secular sources much more enlightening and filtered what I learned there to m… | /r/RPChristians | 15/05/18 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Screening for a Wife: Methods (Part II)Good stuff by and large. • A woman who is not a flake • A woman who is in touch with her own sensuality; she's not a baby anymore These two stood out to me. A year or so after graduating college I went on a few dates with one of the token "Hot Girls" from my high school. She was one of those smoking hot all american girls that the majority of my peers would have given their left nut to be seen with. There was mutual attraction, but she was so ridiculously flaky with everyone in her life that I d… | /r/RPChristians | 15/05/18 08:33 PM |
| 8 | Screening for a Wife: Methods (Part II)Presumptive questioning is all about assuming a behavior or belief within the question, rather than asking the question directly. It is an investigative technique commonly employed in journalism and criminal interrogation. Not, "Are you on drugs?" but "What drugs are you on?" Not, "Did you steal the bike?" but "What were you going to do with the bikes you stole?" Not, "Did you hit him?" but "Help me understand why you hit him?" Not, "Have you ever read my private messages?" but "When you read my… | /r/RPChristians | 15/05/18 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Screening for a Wife: Methods (Part II)Agreed 100% | /r/RPChristians | 15/05/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on "Intended for Pleasure" by Ed Wheat?Some dislike him (for various reasons) but I found "Reforming Marriage" by Douglas Wilson to be helpful. I wouldn't agree with some of it, but Wilson does a fair job of defining appropriate gender roles and the book is well suited for men and women. Now granted, it's been many years since I've read it so my recollection of the contents may be a bit less than reliable. | /r/RPChristians | 15/05/18 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Should Christian singles implement kino or should they wait until marriage for kino?"Great one another with a holy kiss." - Romans 16:16 Compared to the Biblical times i'd say our culture is physically frigid to the point of being entirely autistic, but even those with real deal autism seem to understand that physical touch can be a totally normal part of human interaction. | /r/RPChristians | 14/05/18 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on "Intended for Pleasure" by Ed Wheat?Avoid this book. My wife and I were given a copy when we got engaged. Not only is the author significantly stunted in his understanding of sexual dynamics (i.e., what behaviors actually arouse women) but even his recommendations on the "mechanics" of sex reveal that the author himself likely has an extraordinarily undesirable sex life. I read it, kept my wife away from it, and have often done the exact opposite of what the author recommends to great success. Do not bother with this book unless y… | /r/RPChristians | 14/05/18 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Status Update - A couple dates. Advice and Questions. (Singles)Fear Of Missing Out | /r/RPChristians | 22/04/18 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Status Update - A couple dates. Advice and Questions. (Singles)Good FR, thanks for sharing. I especially liked the part about you having her join you at the other coffee shop. Frame held. As far as ideal way to end the date, it really depends. If the person turns out not to be a fit for you, leaving things open ended with no definite future plans is ideal, IMO. That way she can be a part of your social network without dedicating much more in the way of resources. As for a date that you’d like to see again, I would typically go into the date having already m… | /r/RPChristians | 21/04/18 10:43 PM |
| 1 | What parts of “Game” should a RP Christian utilize? Which ones should we not utilize?Good verse | /r/RPChristians | 20/04/18 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Screening for a Wife: The Foundation (Part I)Is God real? Yeah? That’s a theological claim and concrete. Sure, some theology is theoretical, but upstream it has to be based in objective truth. | /r/RPChristians | 20/04/18 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Screening for a Wife: The Foundation (Part I)Because: 1) it’s super attainable. 2) you’ll feel better 3) you’ll make love better 4) you’ll live longer 5) you’ll attract higher quality women 6) you’ll build abundance far more easily 7) discipline in diet and exercise is spiritually beneficial (patience and self control are all but required to attain good physical health and are both fruits of the spirits) 8) gluttony is a sin despite how little it is preached against 9) you’ll bless your future wife with an attractive body. Yes, physical be… | /r/RPChristians | 20/04/18 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Screening for a Wife: The Foundation (Part I)Agreed, but screening for worldview is not necessarily screening for exact agreement. There should be some non-negotiable things, but not everything will be. I will be addressing this in somewhat more detail in the next post, but we are less concerned about what someone thinks and more concerned about how they think; less which belief she holds and more why she holds it. Women adopt the frame of a strong man, this is made easier if she thinks well. True. I have an older post on the sidebar addre… | /r/RPChristians | 19/04/18 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Screening for a Wife: The Foundation (Part I)Whoops, should have been Paedobaptism** This video should give a solid overview of both sides. | /r/RPChristians | 18/04/18 02:56 AM |
| 2 | Devotions with your spouseMy wife and I do the "ACTS" model of family worship. Normally I select a passage of scripture to go over with her. Perhaps it is a whole book or chapter, sometimes just a verse or two, whatever I feel is needed or interesting at the time. Next we go through the following: Adoration: What causes you to worship God? Confession: What sin do you need to confess? Thanksgiving: What do you want to thank God for? Supplication: What do you want to ask God for? After discussing each bullet point I pray f… | /r/RPChristians | 17/04/18 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Screening for a Wife: The Foundation (Part I)u/macmeeler I hope this is of some use to you and helps scratch the itch for now. | /r/RPChristians | 17/04/18 09:58 PM |
| 3 | I need this, famEh, it’s all good. I can take a shot ;) | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/18 04:12 AM |
| 9 | I need this, famHaha I love it! In seriousness, I have been unusually busy lately and I don’t want to rush to post sub-par content. Good push and motivation though, good to know there is a want for more. | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/18 04:10 AM |
| 1 | For singles: When to talk/ask about spirituality and beliefs? - First date, or second date, etc.?First date, fifth date, what does it matter? You shouldn’t be in a hurry. This sort of stuff should be coming up organically in conversation. No need to be autistic about it and force the conversation. Besides, people are constantly signaling their beliefs and leaving “tells” in their interactions with you. Learn to read between the lines and think presuppositionally. All that said, do whatever the heck you want. If you find being blunt, going Rambo, and putting people back on their heels amusin… | /r/RPChristians | 08/04/18 12:59 AM |
| 4 | What Do I Do? My Wife Is Openly Unattracted To Me + Interested In Other Men / Past RelationshipsWrong. One in the hand is worth two in the bush. If OP goes hard on self improvement and she can see the progress, she may feel some FOMO and start fearing the loss of “what could be” No guarantee, but not a write off even in that case | /r/RPChristians | 08/04/18 12:47 AM |
| 4 | What Do I Do? My Wife Is Openly Unattracted To Me + Interested In Other Men / Past RelationshipsBro, do you even lift? What is your: Weight? Height? BF%? Bench? Squat? Deadlift? | /r/RPChristians | 08/04/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | 1. “How does God feel about it?”, or Feminine morality in dystopiaAs someone who has strong libertarian leanings I think I get what you are saying. I don't think this post is being given the fair consideration it deserves, especially given the increasingly oppressive political situation rising up around the developed world. Conceptually speaking, there is a whole framework of economic, moral, and logical assumptions (good ones, by and large) that you are presupposing, but your audience is not necessarily familiar with. Here are some scattered thoughts on the p… | /r/RPChristians | 04/04/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Open thread ideaBJJ seems to be the RP gold standard, so maybe that. Honestly I haven’t looked too deeply into any one form yet and am pretty open minded. From what I’ve heard the most important factor is often the quality of instruction available. What would you recommend? | /r/RPChristians | 24/03/18 06:06 AM |
| 2 | Open thread ideaHaving not practiced martial arts much myself I cannot speak to the spiritual component, but from my limited knowledge it doesn't seem like lofty theological truth claims are being made by those who teach or practice it. For a slightly off-topic example, it's one thing to be concerned about certain traditional hindu yoga styles to teach that the kundalini snake spirit wraps itself up your spine and activates your chakras, and another thing entirely to equate stretching with hindu-influenced sata… | /r/RPChristians | 23/03/18 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Pastor injects Feminism at Wedding CeremonyThis whole thread is a good thread. Would read again. Well done gents. Keep up the good work. | /r/RPChristians | 23/03/18 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Update to an updateWell you shouldn’t do this with the intent on her changing. It should be for your own sake and reasons, otherwise it effectively amounts to a covert contract. You should “move on” to better more productive stuff because you want to, not because it might get the girl interested in you. | /r/RPChristians | 22/03/18 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Update to an updateI’d just say SMV encompasses spiritual maturity / faith too. It’s holistic. | /r/RPChristians | 22/03/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Update to an updateYes, you are probably over estimating your SMV, and yes it is hard to improve it. That’s why it is rare and only the upper end of men achieve it. Difficult things to attain and scarce, and scarcity drives up value. Also, it sounds like you are too available to her. Withdrawing attention and becoming busy with other things (aka your mission) is very powerful. Again, scarcity drives up value. Here is a way to think about it: if she had a chance to land a top tier guy (super rich, ridiculously hand… | /r/RPChristians | 22/03/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Update to an updateThe question is: is your SMV high enough to warrant a woman behaving like that? If not, your energy should be focused on improving yourself. I think Christian men tend to overestimate SMV, so try and take a step back and really evaluate it. Then create a road map to execute and do the work to improve. O think you will pleasantly surprised at how differently women behave toward and around you. | /r/RPChristians | 22/03/18 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Update to an updateA girl who I was interested in was intent on studying abroad for a year. I told her that I had no interest in waiting around for her to get back or in having a LDR. She changed her plans, didn’t go abroad, and we’ve been married for half a decade now. She has told me many times that she had known I was a “once in a lifetime catch” and wasn’t going to squander the opportunity. | /r/RPChristians | 22/03/18 04:42 AM |
| 4 | Is Sex Outside of Marriage a Sin? An Official Stance.there are certain topics which need to be discussed in the raw form. It is the need of the day, both for RP culture and Christian culture. I couldn't agree more. I encourage you to post about them so we can get some discussion going. | /r/RPChristians | 21/03/18 06:06 PM |
| 9 | Is Sex Outside of Marriage a Sin? An Official Stance.To be clear, the discussion of premarital sex is not off limits. What isn’t going to fly is someone posting, “Bro, just pump and dump her” or other encouragement to have sex outside of marriage. As to your other point, there was an entire thread about monogamy / polygamy awhile back that you may be interested in. If nothing else you will find that there is an openness to discussing what the Bible really says about certain sexual topics. | /r/RPChristians | 21/03/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Open thread ideaJust got done taking a cold shower when I saw this. I'm really interested in the general notion, I mean, who wouldn't want to have super powers like Win Hof? That said, it has almost become a meme in the manosphere that by taking cold showers you will become some sort of mighty spartan warrior king and I think it's important to look at contradictory data. | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Since men are the prize in a marriage, is a dowry a blue pill idea? I’m curious to know since dowry’s are in the Bible, was that an example of the cultural shift towards hypergamy?Ha, can't win every time. Good catch. | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/18 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Red Pilled Christian MusicGreat thread, thanks for starting it. So first of all, that 5 minutes to write a Christian worship song video is equal parts hilarious and sad. Contemporary worship music by and large is trash. Old hymns are great. The lyrical content is stout, meaty, and convicting. By far my favorite songs sung in church are the great hymns. Lyrical content, in my opinion, is of first importance. That said, I think there needs to be something said about the "timbre" or tone of the music. Keith Green has many f… | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Open thread ideaFor activities I enjoy snowboarding, backpacking, and travel. Going to be taking some sailing classes later this year with the wife, which I am pretty stoked about. I've also been getting into shooting more seriously the past couple years. I'd like to try my hand at 3-Gun at some point. Also, big fan of good cigars, scotch, whiskey, and dark beers. | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Open thread ideaCold showers Recently listened to this podcast episode. Pretty interesting stuff. https://www.muscleforlife.com/benefits-of-cold-showers/ | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Open thread ideaI don't, but I'd love to. I am still recovering from a shoulder injury so it won't really be in the cards for awhile. | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/18 06:08 PM |
| 5 | Since men are the prize in a marriage, is a dowry a blue pill idea? I’m curious to know since dowry’s are in the Bible, was that an example of the cultural shift towards hypergamy?Great question. I haven't considered it before. As I understand it, a dowry / bride price was the price a man paid to another man to marry his daughter. The dowry itself was a monetary sum of considerable value. Jacob worked for seven years for each of Laban's daughters since he did not have wealth of his own; fourteen years of labor is a massive price to pay. Labor In part, the money was paid to off-set the loss of labor in the man's household when his daughter left to marry. After all, in thos… | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/18 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Update to an updateThat she does want to move forward, but due to transitions in both our lives soon, she wants to wait She isn't as attracted to you as you think she is. Women will crawl over broken glass to try and lock down a guy they see as a stud. Another possibility, beyond what u/rocknrollchuck has already suggested, is that she has another "fish on the line" (or two) and wants to wait to see if those pan out before going to the next step with you. You are plan B (or C, or D) and she gains a lot of security… | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/18 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Pursuing a Godly Woman - Advice NeededTo be clear, I wouldn’t say God never makes his will explicitly known, it just isn’t common in my experience and I’ve seen people do boneheaded things and pass up good opportunities because they were too cowardly to act without explicit divine approval. | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/18 01:00 AM |
| 4 | Pursuing a Godly Woman - Advice NeededIt doesn’t work like that. God isn’t going to hit you with some sort of special revelation or speak to you from a cloud. It would be nice if it were that easy. God lays out pretty loose criteria for a wife in scripture: Is she Female? Is she Christian? Is she hot enough to you that you have an urgent desire to ride her pussy into the sunset on the horizon? (...or at least hot enough that you’d want to scratch your sexual itch with her) No? Then next. Yes? Then she is eligible. There is no “the o… | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/18 12:44 AM |
| 6 | Pursuing a Godly Woman - Advice NeededTime for my usual copy pasta I see... Do you even lift bro? What’re your stats? Height / Weight? Body fat %? Bench / Squat / Deadlift? Yes, this is important. You say you don’t want to put her on a pedestal, yet you all but said she is above you and would be justified in nexting you. So which is it? Are you the prize or is she? If you enter a relationship with this sort of self deprecating attitude, eventually she will follow your lead and deprecate you too. Also, has she given you any IOIs? Is … | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/18 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Open thread ideaI see no reason not to give it a whirl. If it sucks we can always kick it to the curb. | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/18 12:31 AM |
| 1 | What are your positions on...The Bible does not present us (men or women) with a dress code. There are some guidelines given: Don’t cross dress (Deut 22:5) Don’t dress like adherents to false religions / pagan priestesses (1 Tim 2) Don’t flash your wealth and status by your clothes but let your faith and good character be the most attached part of you. (1 Peter 3) None of the passages give us any indicator of what constitutes “how much skin is showing” or “what amount of makeup / jewelry / hair style” is acceptable. This is… | /r/RPChristians | 16/03/18 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Update/New Struggles/Seeking guidanceHey man, glad to see you posted here again with an update. That said, it still isn’t clear what your goals are and what progress you’ve made toward meeting them. It’s been roughly 2.5 months since your previous post. Objectively speaking, what is different? Are you still around 20% BF? Have your lifts (especially your lower body lifts) improves any? Have you made progress towards finding a better job? If so, what exactly does that look like? (Ex. You started a training program, applied to five j… | /r/RPChristians | 16/03/18 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Update/New Struggles/Seeking guidancePrior post for those too lazy to check: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/7nojcm/the_rp_is_tearing_me_apart_dont_know_what_to_do/?st=JEUCHCXE&sh=9ea0b799 | /r/RPChristians | 16/03/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | The Church converting to paganism“Thou Shalt Not Steal” pretty much destroys the Christian viability of anything that falls under the umbrella of Marxism. There is a world of difference between voluntary communalism and the coercive power of the state taking people’s stuff at the end of a gun. | /r/RPChristians | 16/03/18 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Douglas Wilson: Sexual devotion as a resemblance of Christ and the churchYou think Doug is working for the FI yet he is constantly offending and drawing fire from feminist. Plus you admit to being unfamiliar with his work other than commentary about him. Okay. | /r/RPChristians | 14/03/18 09:44 AM |
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