| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | Girls wanting commitment | Outer Game | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 08:15 PM |
| 5 | Messages | Fundamentals | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Cringe chat | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 05:25 PM | |
| 2 | Second date | Fundamentals | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Would you go to a date like that? | Fundamentals | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Why did she ghost? | Fundamentals | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | After how many dates? | Fundamentals | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Hookup in London | Fundamentals | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing something wrong? | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 01:34 PM | |
| 1 | third date planning | Fundamentals | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Was it a sex occasion? | Comprehensive | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 01:10 AM |
| 0 | BPD | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 12:42 AM | |
| 0 | Love bombing | Fundamentals | Molteni- | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 06:50 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 18 | Woman said I’m a loser because of my jobSounds like another asshole | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | BPDNo, I wouldn't ghost. I'll wait her to ghost me lol. Obviously, without trusting her. I don't want to be blackmailed, stalked or other crazy things a pwBPD would do | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 01:56 PM |
| 2 | more successful online than in person?He's a fucking machine lol | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Talk things through or pull away?I don't think so, even older ladies end up in relationship with narcs or sociopaths. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing something wrong?I always try to have fun and it is the main focus during dates. However, considering my poor logistics (always lots of people at my place) I usually take girls to the beach at night to watch the stars together, others I kiss and escalate in the car. Beyond that. Thanks, yours is a very valuable comment. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing something wrong?Alright... I'm losing my motivation :( | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing something wrong?And how do I know...? I mean, I have an inflated ego but I always try not showing it off so I don't think it is an issue. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing something wrong?I understand. So I should stop going to so many dates (my dates are always so long) | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing something wrong?Yeah, because I'm not able to seduce them completely (?) | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing something wrong?The dates went pretty well, good convo, good kino, I see from their eyes how they feel and they all felt well: Third date with the first girl was a bit boring as I was really tired but she insisted on wanting to see me. The third one wanted to feel desired and got out of a long relationship 1 month before our date. It went well, I didn't feel compatible but still decent kino and convo. With third girl I kissed and touched her on the first date so I suppose it went well (considering her being so … | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 01:45 PM |
| 2 | they said that asking a women for kiss is stupid but guess what it workedYeah you're right. After having asked for a kiss and got it I usually politely ask if she wanna have sex with me. Most of the guy forgot how to be a gentleman that's why they don't succeed. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 09:44 AM |
| -4 | Advice for a 37 year old virginOh yeah, I didn't figure it out | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Hookup in LondonNah, I think she would have been in. I can tell because I asked her name (to say thank you) and then went back to grab a drinking straw and she stopped doing what she was doing thinking I wanted to talk to her. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Hookup in LondonI chit chatted with a girl who works at Starbucks but didn't ask her out/number (little regret). But probably I would have made it. I'm an average looking guy and definetely not rich. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Hookup in LondonI chit chatted with a girl who works at Starbucks but didn't ask her out/number (little regret) | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 02:00 PM |
| -3 | Hookup in LondonSorry | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Hookup in LondonI'll consider that | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 12:01 PM |
| 0 | Hookup in LondonI'll make lots of chicks happy in these days | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Hookup in LondonVery clever | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 11:54 AM |
| -4 | Hookup in LondonWhat if I have not a place to invite them to? | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 11:51 AM |
| 2 | cold approach in the bus stopStop faking arguments, this is a serious sub. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Love bombingIr's different. Love bombing is almost uncomofrtable | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Love bombingHAHAHA yes, when you realise it you can take advantage of love bombers but usually it's the contrary | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Love bombingHahahaha, you're a wise man. Do you ever love bomb? | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Love bombing"Love bombing" refers to behavior patterns where, at the beginning of the relationship, a partner showers the other with over-the-top attention and affection. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 07:42 PM |
| -1 | If girls let you try a drink from their glass, is that in any way a good sign?Depends on what drink it is. If she offered you a Cosmopolitan she doesn't see your masculinity, work on that. On the other hand if it is a Negroni, that's a good sign (but probably she's not a she) | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Easily bored by everyone I meetTell me more about that DM me | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Girls wanting commitmentMoreover, she is crossing some boundaries by sending too many messages and seeking attention lol. This reminds me the beginning of my story with pwBPD. Some similarities but, fortunately, crucial differences. However, still too much. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Girls wanting commitmentI don't think you can presume my intentions by a single word. I'm open to LTR but one thing is fucking in the first dates, another is commiting in the first 2 hours and 15 seconds. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Girls wanting commitmentYeah, I'm learning that. Gave a wonderful evening (no kissing, great and soft kino, she enjoyed a lot and me too) to a girl last week and she was upset because I've not contacted her for 3 days lol. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Girls wanting commitmentI have a dejavu | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Girls wanting commitmentShe's moving too fast. I won't abandon her just after sex, I need time to know if I want her. I'm not a love bomber psycho. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Girls wanting commitmentMhhh, I got used to dramas but her early commitment and me feeling no emotions makes me feel a bit like a monster | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Girls wanting commitmentI've already had experience with a pwBPD. She isn't a pwBPD | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 12:00 PM |
| 6 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)Not having fear of rejection skill | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 11:27 PM |
| 23 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)It seems like someone hadn't had his feelings valued enough during childhood. I smell scent of narcissism here | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 11:24 PM |
| 30 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...(Part 2)Yeah, I used to have like 0 dates a year, I was a coward and the two relationship I had were fucking casualities and, as a consequence, fulfilling only during the honeymoon phase. Got into the game less than two months ago and in the last 2 weeks I had 7 dates with 4 different girls. I haven't had any hookup yet but I consider these weeks a success. Moreover, I feel like I'm acquiring crucial soft skills for my future career. This community is amazing and really helpful for people like me. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 11:20 PM |
| 6 | Girls wanting commitmentIt would have been cool if she had been old and rich | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 11:12 PM |
| 5 | Girls wanting commitmentWhy not? I just want to have fun lol. My life is pretty balanced and I have really solid goals, I have fun with friends but also by dating girls. I don't see any problems with sex on the first date: if it happens, it happens and it means that we both enjoyed the evening and got very comfortable with each other. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | BPDBelieve me, I don't want to hurt anyone. And I doubt she would be hurt by a fuck because she's a really promiscous girl. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Girls wanting commitmentYeah, first time lol. I'm undecided: 1) She has some issues 2) She has never been in a relationship and don't know at all how to calibrate herself Probably the second (19F-19M) I asked because I was curious about the community opinions lol | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Cringe chatYou were right, the date went very well | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | BPDRisk what? | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | BPDAnd Jodi probably had ASPD's traits. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | BPDShe's diagnosed, I know what does it mean. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | BPDThanks, that might be useful | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 08:20 AM |
| 1 | BPDNice advice | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 01:37 AM |
| -1 | BPDI've already got used to that fire bro, I know the dangers and that's why I don't have any trust. I just want to fuck with her hahaha | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 01:24 AM |
| 0 | BPDI don't know man, I just find her madness really sexy and want to have sex with her | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 01:17 AM |
| 1 | BPDCasually answered to a few stories and got shy answers in return. The last one was a few days ago when I answered "fuck me eyes" to a gif of her. She answered back "Come onn! That's not true" and I said "yes" as I didn't want the conversation to go further | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 01:09 AM |
| -1 | BPDdevalued me favorite person (idealized me) | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | BPDYeah I suppose I'm not dark nor FP anymore but she's been a bit unresponsive to my latest messages | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | BPDThat's the whole thing | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 12:55 AM |
| 0 | BPDShe's just mentally ill lol | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | BPDDo you know what BPD is? | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 12:51 AM |
| 3 | BPDI'm a male trying to fuck a crazy girl | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Second dateThere are two possible scenarios (date went well) depending on the girl's personality: 1) She contacts me after the date 2) She waits for me to contact her (she's insecure/wants to feel desired/believes that the man should get in touch with the girl) I suppose just waiting one day and then reaching her out is the best choice as in case number two occurs she will question your interest if you don't contact for too long. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Second dateI did that, she has never contacted me and seemed to be even colder with me. The date went very well (she proposed me to have a stroll with her and her friend from another country to showing her the city during the date but then retired that in chat) | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Cringe chatYeah, it worked. Have a date with her tomorrow evening. Repected her, chatted a bit, called her and arranged a date for tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 4 | Seduction methods doesn't work hereI've really improved since I started to learn the game. Tested on: Russian, Sud American and Philippines (one girl each) and 3 from Southern Europe (since I've joined the game) | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Cringe chatYeah, she is | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Cringe chatYou're right. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Cringe chatI've sold her a school book | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Cringe chatA very good answer | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Cringe chatNah, she doesn't seem to be very clever (At least from the chat we had, I don't know her at all so I don't judge). Probably, I'll write an "okay" and then wait for her to reach out. I don't like chatting tbh | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Cringe chatOf course, I saw her for like 15 seconds and she seemed shy | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | MessagesI decided to wait 3/4 days and then send her a message and propose another date. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | MessagesYou're right, not only texts are boring as fuck but also a waste of time. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | MessagesEmotional connection is what I aim to achieve so... | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | MessagesYeah, sometimes I do. By far better | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Would you go to a date like that?That's unfortunate. I'm not looking for a LTR but always open to it. However, she broke up after 2 years not so long ago. She said she fucked a lot during her holidays lol and now "I'll stop and start my new life here". However, she is "not looking for a relationship for at least 2 years" and that's why she "is talking to several guys). | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 01:06 AM |
| 2 | MessagesI'm having lots of fun, that's sure. However, I want things to go further than simple kisses. Also because I'm going to depart for 10 days next week and I want her to be emotionally connected to me before going away. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 12:46 AM |
| 5 | Would you go to a date like that?As a consequence, I politely refuse and suggest a real date | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Are there women who pretend to like you for the sake of attention? And if so, do you call them out on it?Yeah, they are but being a good flirter does not qualify her as a person with bpd. Google the main traits | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Are there women who pretend to like you for the sake of attention? And if so, do you call them out on it?If you just want to fuck, it's easy with a BPD. One of their main traits is promiscuity. If you want a LTR, well... Yeah, not advisable. But maybe she's only an attention-seeker, up to you to find out | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Are there women who pretend to like you for the sake of attention? And if so, do you call them out on it?Did you see any red flag beyond what you describe? I've had similar experience just to find out that she has BPD | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Are there women who pretend to like you for the sake of attention? And if so, do you call them out on it?Are you sure she hasn't BPD? | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | third date planningCool :)! | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 05:48 PM |
| 2 | third date planningThanks for the confidence boost message! | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 05:08 PM |
| 2 | third date planningYou're right! Sorry but I just got into the game and I was a shy inept before. I have to get rid of that mindset | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 04:08 PM |
| 2 | third date planningI'm by far less smart than I thought... How to ask for it? | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Why did she ghost?It's the first one. Beyond that, I've had a story with a BPD girl and it did not end well | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Why did she ghost?You're so fucking right. Thanks | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Was it a sex occasion?Don't want to. She said "a kiss can be something but also nothing" | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Was it a sex occasion?Yeah, now I catch it! I've joined the game recently so I have lot of things to learn. Despite that, I see lots of little accomplishments that make me happy :) | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Was it a sex occasion?She's some traumas. Her father was a narcisisst and very manipulative. I feel as she fears abandonment. In fact, she told me that when she get too close to someone she push him away, maybe that's the reason why she's a virgin (20F) | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Was it a sex occasion?Understandable. Unfortunately I'm not loooking for a ltr but I like her in some way | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Am I Undateable/Unf**kable?Weight being a rollercoaster is a much deeper sign. The fact that you mention it in your rant... Maybe you could try one or two session with a therapist. It worked well for me! | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | What happened?The rest of the date went pretty well but then I use her calling me "judgemental" as an excuse to give her a sort of silent treatment, at least in the ride towards home. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 11:31 PM |
| 4 | I almost lost my two year long relationship due to red pill theoryBeing red-pilled is totally no-sense. You can pursuit emotional power on others but agreeing with RP ideology is totally illogical lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 09:47 PM |
| 7 | I had my heart broken and I want revenge. I'm asking for help on how to do thatSomething similar happened to me. She revealed me she has BPD. I suggest you to move on: it is like losing someone, you are in the "angry phase". You'll get over it | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:49 PM |
| -1 | My ex girlfriend (untreated BPD woman) made me redpilled.Similar story man | /r/ExRedPill | 18/08/22 01:37 PM |
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